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Kink Friendly Lifestyle Clubs in California
11 clubs
As of 2026, California has 11 kink friendly lifestyle clubs. They're spread across 9 cities, led by San Francisco (3), Berkeley (1), Beverly Hills (1).
Dark Odyssey
Berkeley, CA
Event Organizer
Kink-friendlyLgbtq-friendlyInclusivePansexual+10
SNCTM
Beverly Hills, CA
On-Premise Club
MasqueradeBlack-tieTheatricalErotic-theater+9
PolyUrban Studios
Carmichael, CA
PolyamoryNon-monogamyKink-friendlyLgbtq-inclusive+9
Sinners Den
Indio, CA
On-Premise Club
Kink-friendlyDungeonNewbie-friendlyInclusive+7
Illuminaughty LA
Los Angeles, CA
Event Organizer
UpscaleCuratedConsent-forwardWelcoming+10
Mission Control SF (Kinky Salon)
Oakland, CA
BDSM Club
Sex-positiveConsent-cultureThemed-partiesQueer-friendly+11
Allures Lifestyle
Sacramento, CA
Event Organizer (Hotel Takeover Parties)
UpscaleUltra-loungeNightclub-vibeDance-party+10
Thad's
San Diego, CA
On-Premise Club
BYOBOn-premiseCouples-focusedSingle-friendly+9
AfterDark Events
San Francisco, CA
Event Organizer (Pop-Up Play Parties)
KinkBdsmInclusiveQueer-friendly+10
Power Exchange
San Francisco, CA
On-Premise Club
PansexualLgbtq-friendlyBdsmKink-friendly+10
Stopgap
San Francisco, CA
Event Organizer
BdsmKinkDungeonRope+11
Closed venues
4No longer operating — kept for reference and venue history.
Closed
Club Labyrinth LA (Hollywood)
Hollywood, CA
On-Premise Club
Kink-friendlyByobOn-premiseMembers-only+2
Closed
Den of Iniquity
Los Angeles, CA
CONFLICT — A: bdsmDungeonKink-friendlyProfessional-domination+20
Closed
Club FA (Freedom Acres)
San Bernardino, CA
On-Premise Club
UpscaleDress-to-impressCouples-focusedMulti-room+9
Closed
Wicked Grounds
San Francisco, CA
BDSM Club
Kink-educationLgbtq-friendlyQueer-ownedCommunity-driven+4