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Kink Friendly Lifestyle Clubs in California
4 clubs
As of 2026, California has 4 kink friendly lifestyle clubs. They're spread across 3 cities, led by San Francisco (2), Carmichael (1), Indio (1).
PolyUrban Studios
Carmichael, CA
PolyamoryNon-monogamyKink-friendlyLgbtq-inclusive+9
Sinners Den
Indio, CA
On-Premise Club
Kink-friendlyDungeonNewbie-friendlyInclusive+7
AfterDark Events
San Francisco, CA
Event Organizer (Pop-Up Play Parties)
18-plusSingles-welcomingThemed-partiesTrans-friendly+1
Stopgap
San Francisco, CA
Kink Venue
18-plusMonthly-eventsNo-phonesSingles-welcoming+1
Closed venues
4No longer operating — kept for reference and venue history.
Closed
Club Labyrinth LA (Hollywood)
Hollywood, CA
On-Premise Club
Kink-friendlyByobOn-premiseMembers-only+2
Closed
Den of Iniquity
Los Angeles, CA
CONFLICT — A: bdsmDungeonKink-friendlyProfessional-domination+20
Closed
Club FA (Freedom Acres)
San Bernardino, CA
On-Premise Club
UpscaleDress-to-impressCouples-focusedMulti-room+9
Closed
Wicked Grounds
San Francisco, CA
BDSM Club
Kink-educationLgbtq-friendlyQueer-ownedCommunity-driven+4
Frequently Asked Questions
There are 4 kink friendly lifestyle clubs in California across 3 cities.
Kink Friendly Lifestyle Clubs in California can be found in Carmichael, Indio, San Francisco.