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Kink Friendly Lifestyle Clubs in California
15 clubs
As of 2026, California has 15 kink friendly lifestyle clubs. They're spread across 11 cities, led by San Francisco (4), Los Angeles (2), Berkeley (1).
Dark Odyssey
Berkeley, CA
Event Organizer
Kink-friendlyLgbtq-friendlyInclusivePansexual+10
SNCTM
Beverly Hills, CA
On-Premise Club
MasqueradeBlack-tieTheatricalErotic-theater+9
PolyUrban Studios
Carmichael, CA
PolyamoryNon-monogamyKink-friendlyLgbtq-inclusive+9
Closed
Club Labyrinth LA (Hollywood)
Hollywood, CA
On-Premise Club
Kink-friendlyByobOn-premiseMembers-only+2
Sinners Den
Indio, CA
On-Premise Club
Kink-friendlyDungeonNewbie-friendlyInclusive+7
Closed
Den of Iniquity
Los Angeles, CA
CONFLICT — A: bdsmDungeonKink-friendlyProfessional-domination+20
Illuminaughty LA
Los Angeles, CA
Event Organizer
UpscaleCuratedConsent-forwardWelcoming+10
Mission Control SF (Kinky Salon)
Oakland, CA
BDSM Club
Sex-positiveConsent-cultureThemed-partiesQueer-friendly+11
Allures Lifestyle
Sacramento, CA
Event Organizer (Hotel Takeover Parties)
UpscaleUltra-loungeNightclub-vibeDance-party+10
Closed
Club FA (Freedom Acres)
San Bernardino, CA
On-Premise Club
UpscaleDress-to-impressCouples-focusedMulti-room+9
Thad's
San Diego, CA
On-Premise Club
BYOBOn-premiseCouples-focusedSingle-friendly+9
AfterDark Events
San Francisco, CA
Event Organizer (Pop-Up Play Parties)
KinkBdsmInclusiveQueer-friendly+10
Power Exchange
San Francisco, CA
On-Premise Club
PansexualLgbtq-friendlyBdsmKink-friendly+10
Stopgap
San Francisco, CA
Event Organizer
BdsmKinkDungeonRope+11
Closed
Wicked Grounds
San Francisco, CA
BDSM Club
Kink-educationLgbtq-friendlyQueer-ownedCommunity-driven+4