Best Lifestyle Clubs in California
23 clubs21 active
As of 2026, California is home to 23 lifestyle clubs across 11 cities. The highest concentration is in Los Angeles (5), San Francisco (5), San Diego (4). The state features 7 on-premise clubs, 2 resorts, 7 event organizers. Among these, 18 welcome newcomers, and 12 are LGBTQ+ friendly, and 10 allow BYOB. 21 venues are currently verified as active.
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Club Labyrinth LA (Hollywood)
Hollywood, CA
On-Premise Club
Kink-friendlyByobOn-premiseMembers-only+2
Closed
Den of Iniquity
Los Angeles, CA
CONFLICT — A: bdsmDungeonKink-friendlyProfessional-domination+20
Closed
Club FA (Freedom Acres)
San Bernardino, CA
On-Premise Club
UpscaleDress-to-impressCouples-focusedMulti-room+9
Closed
The Passion Palace
San Diego, CA
Couples-onlySingles-women-welcomeOn-premiseMembers-only+10
Closed
Wicked Grounds
San Francisco, CA
BDSM Club
Kink-educationLgbtq-friendlyQueer-ownedCommunity-driven+4