Best Lifestyle Clubs in California
22 clubs20 active
As of 2026, California is home to 22 lifestyle clubs across 10 cities. The highest concentration is in Los Angeles (5), San Francisco (5), San Diego (4). The state features 4 on-premise clubs, 3 event organizers and 2 resorts. Listings mark 10 as newbie-friendly, 9 as LGBTQ+ friendly and 9 as BYOB. 20 are listed as active.
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Club Labyrinth LA (Hollywood)
Hollywood, CA
On-Premise Club
Kink-friendlyByobOn-premiseMembers-only+2
Closed
Den of Iniquity
Los Angeles, CA
CONFLICT — A: bdsmDungeonKink-friendlyProfessional-domination+20
Closed
Club FA (Freedom Acres)
San Bernardino, CA
On-Premise Club
UpscaleDress-to-impressCouples-focusedMulti-room+9
Closed
The Passion Palace
San Diego, CA
Couples-onlySingles-women-welcomeOn-premiseMembers-only+10
Closed
Wicked Grounds
San Francisco, CA
BDSM Club
Kink-educationLgbtq-friendlyQueer-ownedCommunity-driven+4
Frequently Asked Questions
There are 22 lifestyle clubs listed in California across 10 cities. This includes 4 on-premise clubs, 3 event organizers and 2 resorts.
Lifestyle clubs in California can be found in Berkeley, Carmichael, Desert Hot Springs, Indio, Los Angeles, Oakland, Sacramento, San Diego, and 2 more cities.
Yes, 10 lifestyle clubs in California are listed as newbie-friendly.
Yes, 9 lifestyle clubs in California are listed as LGBTQ+ friendly.