Upscale

The X Club

Mississauga, Ontario

On-Premise Club

The X Club is a lifestyle nightclub in Mississauga, Ontario, operating Friday and Saturday nights from 9 PM to 3 AM. The venue offers a dance floor, VIP bottle service, and multiple themed areas, with Saturdays reserved exclusively for couples and single women. Members must be 21 or older; a Newbie Night runs on the first Friday of each month with no membership required.

NYX Lounge

Oakville, Ontario

On-Premise Club

NYX Lounge is an upscale on-premise lifestyle club in Oakville, Ontario, serving the Greater Toronto area. The venue features two play areas, a dance floor, and bottle service, open Friday and Saturday nights from 9 PM to 2 AM. Membership is required; couples, single women, and single men are welcome with varying entry fees.

Eyz Wide Shut

Tampa, FL

On-Premise Club

Eyz Wide Shut is an adult lifestyle nightclub and play venue located in Tampa, Florida, open Thursday through Sunday with a 21-and-older admission requirement. The club features a full bar, dance floor, and ten private themed rooms, with three group rooms reserved for couples and single women; single males may access group spaces only by female invitation. A dress code is enforced, and all rooms are stocked with fresh linens.

Oasis Estate Resort

Houston, TX

Lifestyle Resort

Oasis Estate Resort is a lifestyle resort and spa set on a 10-acre property in Houston, Texas. The venue offers all-inclusive weekend experiences combining spa services, formal dining, poolside parties, and adult social events in a gated estate setting. Prospective guests must apply for membership and receive approval before attending events.

Avarus Swingerclub

Berlin, Berlin

On-Premise Club

Avarus is widely regarded as one of the most beautiful swingers clubs in Berlin, hidden away on the 5th floor of an apartment building in the Wedding district. Step inside and you'll find an elegant world of premium wellness — Finnish sauna, Roman steam bath, a 36,000-litre love pool, and an experience shower — seamlessly blended with stylish play areas and intimate social spaces. Every visit is all-inclusive: entry covers all drinks and a hot & cold buffet, so there's nothing to think about but enjoying the evening. The event calendar keeps things fresh with couples-only Saturdays, Orgasm Nights, Bi-Parties, Darkroom Parties, and BDSM nights in the adjacent Menagerie venue. The signature "Chocolate Sunday" — featuring edible liquid chocolate in the steam bath — is an experience you won't find anywhere else. Staff speaks English and the club warmly welcomes international guests alongside its loyal local crowd. The house philosophy says it all: everything is allowed, nothing is mandatory. LGBTQ+ friendly. Couples and newbie friendly.

616

Grand Rapids, MI

Event Organizer

Club 616 is West Michigan's premier upscale lifestyle event organizer, bringing together a vibrant community of open-minded adults across Grand Rapids and Kalamazoo. Known for meticulously themed parties — from Retro Pin Up elegance to all-night signature events — every Club 616 gathering is a carefully curated experience where sophistication meets sensuality. With over 14,000 Instagram followers and a loyal membership spanning SLS (BNJALLNIGHT), Kasidie, SDC, FetLife, and SwingTowns, Club 616 has earned its reputation as the gold standard for lifestyle events in West Michigan. Events are hosted at upscale hotel venues and feature a strictly enforced dress code — because looking the part is part of the experience. Newcomers are warmly welcomed with a newbie-friendly atmosphere, while limited single male tickets keep the guest ratio balanced and comfortable for couples. Single women are always embraced. LGBTQ+ inclusive. 21+ only.

Bliss Cruise

Fort Lauderdale, FL

Cruise

Bliss Cruise is the original and largest adults-only, clothing-optional lifestyle cruise experience, chartering full ships from Celebrity Cruises and Royal Caribbean for voyages built around freedom, connection, and adventure. Since launching in 2015, the Fort Lauderdale-based company has grown from intimate sailings to filling vessels carrying up to 6,000 guests, with their November 2026 Wonder of the Seas charter already sold out — a testament to the passionate community they have cultivated. Each sailing is a carefully curated blend of luxury cruising and lifestyle exploration. By day, guests enjoy clothing-optional pool decks, workshops on intimacy and communication, and meet-and-greet events designed to spark connections across every comfort level. By night, the ship transforms with elaborate themed parties — from Glow Night and Fetish Night to formal galas and foam parties — plus multiple playrooms including couples-only spaces, a fetish dungeon, and open-air play areas, all governed by a culture of enthusiastic consent and mutual respect. With Caribbean itineraries departing Fort Lauderdale, Miami, Tampa, and soon New Orleans, Bliss offers 4- to 7-night voyages calling at ports like Cozumel, Jamaica, Aruba, and St. Maarten, often featuring signature clothing-optional beach takeovers. Cabins range from cozy interiors to sprawling penthouse suites, and a dedicated mobile app helps guests connect before and during the voyage. Whether you are lifestyle veterans or curious newcomers, Bliss delivers a professionally run, judgment-free environment where couples can explore at their own pace.

Caliente Club & Resorts

Land O' Lakes, FL

Lifestyle Resort

Caliente Club & Resorts is the largest and most well-appointed lifestyle resort in the United States — a 125-acre adults-only estate set in the subtropical landscape of Land O' Lakes, Florida, about 25 miles north of Tampa. Originally founded in 1987 as Joie de Vivre, it was reimagined in the early 2000s into the clothing-optional destination it is today: lush, polished, and built around a culture of welcoming acceptance where nudity is simply the norm and comfort is the only dress code. The property revolves around five pools, led by a quarter-acre lagoon pool with a waterfall and twin islands that draws crowds for daytime pool parties and live poolside bands on weekends. Five bars — including tiki bars, a piano bar, and a sports bar — keep the social energy flowing across the grounds, while the fine-dining restaurant helmed by an executive chef gives evenings a genuinely upscale flavour. When the sun goes down, the main nightclub opens with resident DJ Ian spinning until 3am on Fridays and Saturdays, with rotating themed nights (body paint, leather and lace, iCandy EDM) pulling in the crowd. The Lounge — the resort's designated adults-only play space — operates on select evening hours Thursday through Sunday, while the outdoor conversation pools are known to take on a life of their own after dark. Accommodation spans hotel studios, one-bedroom casitas, and full condominiums, all with full kitchen facilities and a private porch. Day passes are available online for couples and single women; single men must purchase in-person at the gate with limited daily availability. The resort hosts a full calendar of annual events — from the Bare Dare 5K to elaborate Halloween and New Year's Eve parties — and maintains an active presence on SDC and SLS with regular event postings. Whether you're a first-timer easing into the lifestyle or a seasoned couple with a weekend tradition, Caliente sets the benchmark for what a domestic lifestyle resort can be.

On-Premise Club

Checkmate NYC is one of Manhattan's longest-running lifestyle clubs — nearly three decades at 227 East 56th Street, a lower-level space in Midtown East that owner Danny C. (who previously ran Le Trapeze) has shaped into a velvet-rope experience since taking over in 2018. The venue features floor-to-ceiling mirrors, an LED and mirrored dance floor, a pole-dancing stage, plush lounge seating, and multiple themed playrooms — Cinema, Dark, Neon, Mirrored, private and open — where entry is in robes or nude only. Music runs Latin, hip-hop, and dance-pop through a live DJ. It's BYOB with a bartender on staff, complimentary mixers, and a robe-and-towel service included in admission. No alcohol is sold. The club is strictly couples and single women — single men are never admitted under any circumstances. Getting in requires an application with a full-body photo, G-rated headshot, and a description of your personality and interests; the club explicitly selects for "fit, young, attractive couples ages 23 to 40ish" and not everyone is approved. Once accepted, you still need an active membership and RSVP for every visit — no walk-ins. Thursday's After Work Party runs 9 pm to 2 am at a reduced rate, while Friday and Saturday go 10 pm to 4 am at $220 per couple. Single women enter free with approval. Dress code is non-negotiable: suits and ties for men, dresses and heels for women. No sneakers, t-shirts, shorts, hats, or flip-flops. Reviewers are polarised — Yelp sits at 3.5/5 with a split between five-star and one-star ratings, while Google averages 4.0/5 across 80 reviews. Fans praise the clean space, attractive crowd that delivers on the promise, friendly staff, and a dance floor more active than most lifestyle clubs. Critics call it overpriced, note that the smaller venue (roughly 20–50 couples on a given night) limits connections, and find the photo-vetting process elitist. Time Out described it as one of Midtown East's most exclusive haunts. A Miami expansion is planned for 2026. Phones must be put away at all times inside, and couples are required to arrive together and remain in the same room throughout the night.

Wicked Manor

Dallas, TX

On-Premise Club

Wicked Manor — formerly PlayhouseDFW — is a members-only lifestyle venue tucked about ten miles southwest of downtown Dallas, where a discreet exterior opens into roughly 7,000 square feet of low-lit, modern playground. Event nights pulse with nightclub sound, candle-warm lighting, and the relaxed no-pressure energy the house treats as a hard rule. Inside you'll find a BYOB bar (free mixers and ice), a pool, a dance floor with live DJ, dedicated exhibitionism and voyeur rooms, a group room with stage, and a wing of private locking retreats. Free lockers handle the practical stuff, and the dress code is enforced: cocktail or sexier, no shorts, sandals, hats, or logo tees. Membership is photo-vetted and not everyone is accepted — couples and single women are always welcome, and a curated group of pre-approved single males attends Fridays only. Events run every Friday and Saturday: Friday is Hot Wife Friday (hotwife-themed, couples plus select singles), while Saturday evenings are couples and single females only. Advance tickets required; no walk-in entry at any time.

colette Austin

Austin, TX

colette Austin is Austin's definitive upscale lifestyle club — a private, members-only on-premise venue occupying 9,000 square feet across two levels in the Wells Branch district of north Austin. Step through the unmarked commercial exterior and the interior reads like a proper nightclub: a professional dance floor backed by state-of-the-art sound, dual balconies overlooking the bar and lounge below, plush sectional seating throughout, and a mood set by programmable lighting that shifts with each themed night. The club is BYOB with setups and ice provided — no liquor license, so bring your own and let the bar handle the rest. Play spaces are tiered by privacy: semi-private rooms with sheer curtains for voyeur-friendly encounters, fully private rooms with blackout curtains, a large open group area, a movie theater lounge, and a separate kink zone — all stocked with free condoms and cleaning supplies, all staffed by a team reviewers consistently call Grade A. Newcomers get a full guided tour on arrival and a standing Newbie Night every Wednesday designed for first-timers: come curious, ask questions, dance, watch, do nothing at all if that's what you prefer. The crowd skews couples with professionals in the mix, and the dress code is enforced — collared shirts and slacks for men, cocktail dress to lingerie for women, fetish and leather always welcome. colette is a national chain founded by John and Jackie Melfi (who also run the OpenLove101 lifestyle blog). The Austin location opened January 2018 and connects into a membership network of 250,000+ members spanning five cities. One membership works at all locations. Fridays rotate between Hotwife Nights and Pantiless Fridays; Saturdays bring themed events from Sabado Seduction to Cowboys & Corsets. Single men are welcome Wednesday through Friday; Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only. colette Austin is the only permanent upscale on-premise lifestyle club in Austin, and it's built to feel that way.

On-Premise Lifestyle Club

Tucked away in Calgary's southeast industrial quarter, Adore Social Club is the city's premier on-premise lifestyle venue — a polished, members-only retreat where nightclub energy meets sensual freedom. Built on the bones of the former Moonlight Magic space (which it thoroughly renovated under new ownership), Adore has quickly become the most talked-about destination in the Alberta lifestyle community. Spread across 3,100 square feet on two levels, the club delivers a dual experience: downstairs, a full-scale nightclub complete with a starlit dance floor, professional DJ booth, stripper pole, and comfortable booth seating sets the social tone; upstairs, a lounge with pool table and darts transitions into a tastefully designed play area with four king beds, a sex swing, hand and ankle cuffs, semi-private alcoves, and a dedicated BDSM beginner area with a St. Andrew's Cross and spanking bench. Complimentary appetizers — cheese boards, charcuterie, fondue, and themed snacks — grace every event. The club operates BYOB with labeled lockers for storage, and supplies mixers, ice, water, and glassware at no charge. All first-time attendees receive a guided tour from hosts covering the layout, house rules, and etiquette — making it a genuinely welcoming environment for newcomers. The venue's health inspection rating of 98/100 reflects the ownership's commitment to cleanliness and care. Membership is by application only, with screening based on effort and presentation rather than demographics. Single males are welcome but must be vouched for by a member couple and attend their first event with that couple. Regular events run Friday and Saturday, with occasional Wednesday and Sunday specials. Dress code is "Dress to Impress", with themed nights rotating throughout the year.

Desires Houston

Houston, TX

On-Premise Club

Desires Houston is an upscale lifestyle lounge located in northwest Houston, Texas, catering to open-minded adults in the swinger and alternative lifestyle communities. The venue hosts regular themed parties and draws members from across Texas, Louisiana, and surrounding states. Membership is required and the club also offers affiliated travel packages to adult resorts and cruises.

Club Paradise Lingen

Lingen, Lower Saxony

On-Premise Club

Club Paradise Lingen invites guests to "imagine entering a world where the boundaries of fantasy no longer matter," spanning 800 square meters of themed rooms, a BDSM room, wellness areas, and a bar. The club's tagline promises that "you arrive as a guest and leave as a friend," emphasizing a warm, community-minded atmosphere. Mutual respect and consent are core values — photography and video recording are strictly prohibited throughout the premises.

Scarlet Ranch

Littleton, CO

On-Premise Club

Scarlet Ranch is a large private lifestyle organization in the Denver, Colorado area, operating out of a 36,000 square foot facility called Squirrel Creek Lodge since 2003. The venue hosts over 100 themed events per year with attendance ranging from 200 to 2,200 guests, and a capacity of up to 2,500. Amenities include three bars (BYOB), a fine dining restaurant, dance stages, and an outdoor tipi with fire pit; events run Wednesday through Sunday.

Trapeze Club Atlanta

Atlanta, GA

On-Premise Club

Trapeze Club Atlanta is an on-premise adult lifestyle club located in Atlanta, Georgia, operating Wednesday through Sunday from 8 PM with a BYOB policy. The venue features playrooms, themed events, a cigar lounge, and upscale dining with rotating weekly menus and a carving station. Single males are welcome most nights; Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only.

Trapeze Fort Lauderdale

Fort Lauderdale, FL

On-Premise Club

Trapeze Fort Lauderdale is an on-premise adult lifestyle club located in Tamarac, Florida, operating Wednesday through Sunday from 8 PM with BYOB policy. The venue features playrooms, themed events, a cigar lounge, and an upscale dining experience with rotating weekly menus. Single males are welcome most nights; Saturday is reserved for couples and single women only.

Big Mamas Haus

Crimmitschau, Saxony

BDSM & Fetish Event Venue

BMH Event-Club — formerly known as Big Mama's Haus — is a sprawling BDSM, fetish, and swinger event location in the heart of Germany, housed in a converted warehouse in Crimmitschau's industrial quarter. Founded in 2006 by Irmgard Pruka (the original "Big Mama"), the venue combines two worlds under one roof: a ground floor with spacious swinger lounges, sauna, and a cinema room, and an upper floor featuring 11 exclusive SM playrooms with serious equipment — rotating cross, slave elevator, pillory, ball cage, prison cell, and two medieval torture chambers — plus a stylish bar and event space. Rather than opening every weekend like a traditional club, BMH operates as a curated event venue — hosting 2–4 themed productions per month from independent organizers and its own team. Events range from latex passion nights and BDSM play parties to Gorean fantasy workshops and grand slave auctions. Entry typically runs 50–85 EUR per person and almost always includes a full buffet and drinks. An adjacent warehouse and 6,000 sqm outdoor grounds handle the mega-events, with overnight rooms available from 30 EUR. Cash only. Rated 4.8/5 on JoyClub from over 250 reviews with nearly 270,000 total visitors, BMH draws guests from across Germany and Europe. Reviewers consistently praise the cleanliness, friendly staff, excellent food, and the care that's gone into making every room unique. The house motto says it all: "We are everything, just not boring."

Silk Lifestyle

Miami, FL

Social Club

Silk Lifestyle is a premium lifestyle events company in Miami, Florida, hosting invitation-only gatherings themed around house music and social mingling at upscale Miami Beach venues. Events are priced per couple, and applicants undergo a 24-to-48-hour review process before approval. The organization markets itself as Miami's most exclusive lifestyle community and offers referral incentives for members.

Event Organizer (Hotel Takeover Parties)

Allures Lifestyle is Sacramento's premier lifestyle event organizer — a pop-up operation that transforms hotel ballrooms into upscale, ultra-lounge style swinger parties with professional production values. Based in the greater Sacramento area and serving all of Northern California, Allures has hosted monthly hotel parties for over a decade, most notably at the DoubleTree by Hilton Sacramento grand ballroom. Events feature a full nightclub experience: state-of-the-art DJ with R&B, Hip Hop, Latin, Pop, and EDM; a dance floor with fog machines and mood lighting; dual projector screens; VIP tables seating eight; and draped VIP cabanas on the dance floor with sofas and loveseats. Adjacent to the party, the "Boom Boom Room" play suite offers multiple beds, a double-sided St. Andrew's Cross, multi-positional sex horse, and a sex swing. Overnight hotel rooms are available so guests can stay on-site. Their signature event is the NYE "Sex-abration," which has drawn up to 1,000 guests and made national news. Beyond local parties, Allures runs a robust travel program: clothing-optional resort takeovers in Costa Rica (Jaco) and Jamaica (Hedonism II), Bliss and Desire cruise takeovers, Vegas weekends, motorcycle runs through Gold Country, boating flotillas, and camping trips. Single males require a Club Allures membership and are admitted only at certain events. Couples and single females are welcome at all events. All events are 21+.

XCLUSIV Lifestyle (XL)

Houston, TX

Lifestyle Resort

XCLUSIV Lifestyle (XL) is a members-only upscale lifestyle event center in the Houston, Texas area. The venue hosts themed parties including holiday and seasonal events, and draws couples and singles from Houston, Dallas, Austin, San Antonio, and New Orleans. Membership is required for venue access, and the club also partners with adult-oriented cruise lines and resort destinations.

Club Rendezvous (Club R)

Calgary, Alberta

On-Premise Club

Club Rendezvous — known to members as Club R — has been Calgary's defining lifestyle destination since 1983, earning its reputation as Alberta's longest-running private members club. Now in its second chapter under new ownership since 2012, the club has evolved into a fully licensed, Safe Space Alliance-recognized venue that consistently earns a 4.7-star Google rating from hundreds of members who call it home. The two-floor venue in northeast Calgary delivers a complete night out: a dance floor with top-notch DJs and LED lighting downstairs, comfortable lounge booths, and a fully stocked licensed bar — then an open-concept upper play area with thoughtfully arranged private and semi-private spaces. Themed events run every Friday and Saturday from 9 PM to 3 AM, ranging from First Time Fridays and Lingerie Parties to Fetish Nights and the popular Little Black Dress event, with educational workshops and social events on weeknights too. Club R welcomes couples, single women, and a curated number of approved single men into a consent-first community where no-phones and no-pressure are non-negotiables. First-timers are treated with genuine warmth — the club runs dedicated newcomer nights and a step-by-step first-visit guide — while regulars keep coming back for the inclusive, upscale atmosphere that sets it apart from anything else in Alberta.

The Sanctuary SLC

Salt Lake City, UT

Off-Premise Club

The Sanctuary SLC is an invitation-only private lifestyle club located in a restored historic building in downtown Salt Lake City, Utah. The club hosts curated exclusive events, intimate gatherings, and immersive workshops focused on connection and personal exploration. Membership is limited and by invitation only, with an application process available through the club's website.

Club Dalliance

Columbia, SC

On-Premise Club

Club Dalliance is a private members-only lifestyle nightclub at 911A First Avenue South in Columbia, South Carolina, tucked into an industrial park just off I-77 and Bluff Road — close enough to the interstate that GPS regulars know to type in "1100 First Ave South" instead, because the venue's own address sometimes refuses to register. Self-billed as "The Sexiest Night Club in South Carolina" under the tagline "It's A Lifestyle," the club runs as a dance-and-social venue rather than a sauna or play-room sprawl — 3,000 square feet of upscale nightclub on a single floor, with a 16'-by-20' dance floor at the centre, a full light show and smoke machine, a stripper pole, a cage, and a "Shadow Box" performance stage that reviewers in the South Carolina lifestyle community consistently single out as the club's signature feature ("one of the highlights of the club with amazing sexual acts displayed there"). Resident DJ Wilmar plays current hits and classics, takes requests, and runs the night's rhythm. A "Birthday Dance" at 11pm is the club's recurring marquee moment — guests are expected to be in the room by then. The schedule is twice a month, on the 2nd and 4th Saturday, 9pm–2am ("sometimes later if the feeling is right"). Door is 21+ with a valid photo ID — no exceptions — and entry is cash-only. Pricing tiers heavily favour the audience the club is built around: $50 for couples, $10 for single women, $90 for single men, with a one-time $10 annual membership purchased at the door on first visit. Single men are admitted only when escorted by a couple or a single female (one single male per couple maximum), which keeps the floor at the gender balance the regulars expect. The club is BYOB throughout — no liquor sold, no licence — but Dalliance lays on complimentary sodas, bottled water, ice, snacks and appetizers, so the only thing guests carry in is their bottle. Smoking is outdoor-only. Phones go off in the public areas (the regulars on TikTok call it a "no-phone party"). Dress code is enforced firmly enough that it appears on every page of the welcome material — "Dress to Impress," sexy for ladies, nice shirt, shoes and pants for men, never flip-flops, never sagging, never sleeveless. Themed parties run on top of the base format with their own codes — recent calendars include the White Party (summer kickoff), Neon Glow, Cinco de Mayo, Men's Shirt Party and a Pajama-coded social. The venue also runs a free intimate photography room: the in-house photographer Don shoots private sessions, and guests bring their own SD card to take the photos home before the lights come up. SDC.com lists the club at 4 out of 5 stars across 8 reviews. No pool, no hot tub, no sauna, no showers, no lockers — this is a dance-and-social club, end of story, and the regular crowd treats the floor as the play.

Choice Social Club

Providence, RI

On-Premise Club

Choice Social Club is New England's flagship on-premise lifestyle club — 8,000 square feet behind a famous red door on Porter Street in Providence, with 14 themed playrooms spread across the building: a voyeur chamber with a one-way window, a schoolhouse room, a massage room, a blacklight room, a glory hole room, a group room with an L-shaped multi-bed layout, and a dedicated BDSM area with St. Andrew's crosses. The dance floor has a video wall and stripper pole, the lounge is done in leather furniture with warm tones and low lighting, and a backyard patio opens up for summer events. Staff actively change sheets between uses and keep the space clean throughout the night — a detail reviewers consistently call out. The club is BYOB with a clever system: you hand your bottles to staff at check-in, they label everything with your membership number, and the bartender mixes your drinks all night using the club's provided mixers and ice. Membership runs $45/year for couples ($250 premium), $40–65 for single women, and $100 introductory for single men with a 3–4 month waitlist. Event admission on top is $90 for couples, $100 for single men, and $5 for single women (sometimes free with early arrival). Your first visit includes a complimentary trial membership. Themed Saturday nights run 9 pm to 2 am — everything from costume parties to summer BBQ events. The crowd skews about 90% couples with an average age of 35–45, and the single-male ratio is tightly managed to keep it couples-focused. Playroom etiquette uses a signal system: a plastic chain on the door means open to observation or requests, an open door without a chain means ask politely, and closed curtains or doors mean full privacy. Cell phones and cameras are strictly prohibited inside. Operated by Jim Knaus through Red Door Operations, LLC since 2009, Choice holds a federal trademark and has weathered a full-year COVID closure — a 2021 GoFundMe raised over $5,000 from 56 donors to help reopen.

Dominium Vita

London, London

On-Premise Club

An inclusive and luxurious private members club for the sensually intelligent, where deviancy is an art form. Crafting immersive events, decadent retreats and curated encounters for those who crave beauty, depth and uninhibited connection.

The Korral

Spring Grove, PA

On-Premise Club

The Korral is a members-only on-premise lifestyle club on a private property in Spring Grove, Pennsylvania, featuring a seasonal pool, hot tubs, playrooms with fresh linens, a dance floor, bar, and overnight private stay rooms. Monthly kink nights include educational demonstrations, and themed seasonal events run throughout the year. Single men must be sponsored by a current member couple and may only attend their first visit with their sponsor.

The Pleasure Garden Club

Philadelphia, PA

On-Premise Club

The Pleasure Garden Club is a members-only lifestyle nightclub in Philadelphia accommodating over 300 guests. The venue features themed private fantasy rooms, a main dance floor, group shower, two BYOB juice bars with complimentary mixers, and free gated parking. Fridays admit couples, single ladies, and single men; Saturdays are restricted to couples and single ladies. An upscale dress code is enforced and cell phones must be left in vehicles.

Club 2020

Malsch, Baden-Württemberg

On-Premise Club

Club 2020 arrived on the Baden-Württemberg lifestyle scene in September 2020 with a single mission: to build a genuinely design-forward lifestyle club for the Karlsruhe region. Nestled in the discreet industrial outskirts of Malsch — just 20 km south of Karlsruhe — it quickly earned JoyClub's highest distinction award and a near-perfect 4.7-star Google rating. The two-floor venue is immediately striking, with an interior that is deliberately beautiful and thematically rich, creating what the owners describe as an "exclusive atmosphere with a feel-good factor." The crowd is active and image-conscious — young and young-at-heart, in the club's own words — and the professional, charming staff earn consistent five-star praise for making every guest feel genuinely at home. The ground floor is the social heart: a dance floor with resident DJ, a full cocktail bar, and a first-class buffet restaurant that reviewers routinely single out as uncommonly good for a venue of this kind. Upstairs, six distinctly themed Räume der Lust (Rooms of Desire) offer a range of experiences — from the baroque Versailles Room for elegant intimate encounters, to the lockable Maritime Room, a private Couples Room, the large Caligula Group Room featuring a Czech Wall and glory holes, the Marquis de Sade BDSM Room for alternative play, and an SM area. A sauna and full hygiene facilities round out the amenities. The club operates under a clear consent-first philosophy: everything is possible, nothing is mandatory. Club 2020 runs on an event-driven model — most nights are organised by promoters through JoyClub, Germany's leading lifestyle platform, where pre-registering earns a meaningful discount off door prices. Fridays and Saturdays are the core nights (8 PM to 2 or 3 AM); occasional Thursday and Sunday events broaden the calendar. Entry prices vary by event and guest type: couples pay roughly €79–€99 on core nights, single women €25–€35, and single men at a premium. The themed event calendar is richly varied — Couples & Ladies Nights, BDSM takeovers, Queer Balls, Vegas Nights, neon glow parties, and seasonal celebrations running approximately weekly from April through November. Dress code is strictly elegant to fetish-formal; sneakers and flip-flops are turned away at the door.

Red Room Nashville

Nashville, TN

On-Premise Club

Red Room Nashville is a members-only lifestyle club in Nashville, Tennessee, hosting weekly themed parties for screened adult members. The venue operates on a BYOB policy with complimentary mixers provided, features a large LED dance floor with a professional DJ, private rooms, and VIP seating. Membership is tiered and requires a 24-hour approval process; walk-ins are not accepted.

Lifestyle Playground

Denver, CO

Event Organizer

Lifestyle Playground is a private lifestyle event organization based in Colorado, hosting events in Denver, Colorado Springs, and Thornton. The group offers a range of gatherings from casual coffee meetups to full hotel takeovers with themed rooms, as well as workshops on sexual wellness. The community is inclusive of ENM, polyamory, swinging, LGBTQ+, and BDSM members, and access requires a membership application.

X Club Winnipeg

Winnipeg, Manitoba

Event Organizer

X Club Winnipeg is an adult lifestyle and social club spanning over 10,000 square feet across three floors at its Winnipeg, Manitoba location. The facility includes multiple play rooms, a hot tub room, sauna, steam room, and a range of locker and private room rentals priced per visit. Annual membership is available for couples and solo members and provides room reservations, event discounts, and reduced room rates.

Arouse Vegas

Las Vegas, NV

Private Event Series

Arouse Vegas is a private, members-only lifestyle event platform based in Las Vegas, Nevada. Rather than operating a fixed brick-and-mortar venue, Arouse Vegas hosts themed erotic parties at an upscale private venue called "The G Spot!" in Las Vegas, typically on Saturday nights from 8 PM to 2 AM. Membership is required to attend events and involves a vetted application process — applicants must submit photos and an essay, and acceptance is not guaranteed. Membership starts at $10/month but does not include event admission; tickets are purchased separately for each party. Events are open to couples, single females, and single males. The club enforces strict consent policies, a zero-tolerance stance on drugs and prostitution, and prohibits cameras or recording devices. Single women are especially welcomed and protected by anti-harassment policies. Beyond local events, Arouse Vegas coordinates lifestyle travel packages including cruises (Bliss Cruise, Desire Caribbean), resort stays (Temptation Cancun, Sea Mountain), and lifestyle conventions (Naughty N'awlins). The platform runs on the Modern Lifestyle network and integrates with SDC, Kasidie, and Swing Lifestyle.

CC House Party

Country Club Hills, IL

On-Premise Club

CC House Party is the most talked-about lifestyle house party in metropolitan Chicago — an 8,000-square-foot private facility in Country Club Hills that fills with 60 to 100 couples every Saturday night. Two floors of play rooms, a dance floor with a pole and state-of-the-art sound and lighting, open and private party rooms, voyeur and exhibition spaces, massage table, bondage equipment, and a group shower give the space a genuinely upscale feel that earns its spotless 5-out-of-5 cleanliness rating on Kasidie. Eight co-ed bathrooms, towels, and a full dinner buffet are all included in admission — bring your own bottles and the mixers are on the house. Doors open at 8 pm and close hard at 11 pm — no late entry. The vibe tilts heavily toward couples and single women; single men are currently not being approved for membership. Getting in requires an online application through the Modern Lifestyle platform, a community profile with a posed couple photo, and ID verification at the door on your first visit. Membership runs $66.59 for six months (non-recurring), with event tickets purchased separately per party. Credit card charges appear discreetly as "ML Ticketing." Beyond the weekly Saturday parties, CC House Party organises travel events — lifestyle cruises, resort takeovers, and the annual Naughty N'awlins hotel takeover in New Orleans. The club's address stays private by design (you receive it after approval), and the whole operation leans into discretion: no public social media, no walk-ins, no exceptions. Listed on Kasidie (Club #2052), SLS, and Playdar (Club #502), with a phone line at (219) 689-8273 for questions.

Club Choices

closed

Houston, TX

On-Premise Club (closed)

Club Choices — branded interchangeably as Club Choices Houston and Choices Swingers Club — operated for years out of an unmarked warehouse on Star Lane, a quiet industrial side street tucked just north of the Galleria. The building itself is a roughly 9,000-square-foot, three-level Class C industrial shell with no street signage; the kind of place you could drive past a hundred times without noticing. Inside, the club ran a hard split between the floors: ground level was full nightclub — dance floor, stripper poles, stages, chains hanging from the ceiling, a live DJ rotating between Top 40 and classics, and a BYOB setup bar pouring free sodas, water and mixers. The upper floor flipped the script entirely — hot tub, showers, a swing, lockers, a massage table, a small video room, fetish toys, and a row of VIP suites for couples and groups. A small on-site adult boutique stocked by SoftTouchSecrets.com sold lingerie, condoms and the usual range of toys for anyone who wanted to take a piece of the night home. The club ran Thursday through Saturday, with the occasional Wednesday daytime RSVP play session and rare Sunday slots. Thursdays opened the door at 9pm and pushed to 2am; Fridays and Saturdays ran until 5am with last entry at 1:30. Door pricing was tiered the standard on-premise way — single men paid the most ($40 Thursday, $60 weekend), couples sat in the middle ($30/$40), single women paid the least and got in free before 11pm. Membership was a $10 one-time fee bought on arrival. Dress code was enforced firmly enough that it appeared on every page of the site: "Dress to Impress" — sexy for women, nice shirt, shoes and pants for men, never sportswear and never shorts. The crowd, by all accounts, skewed older and quieter than a typical Houston nightclub. One Yelp review captured the tone: "Not what you think — it's not a strip bar and there's not sex everywhere. It is very classy and refined. Women are very respected." The club closed at 5/5 stars across 12 Yelp reviews. By March 2026 the doors were shut. There was no announcement — no press release, no closure post on Instagram, no farewell event. The clubchoiceshouston.com domain went dark first (Hostinger suspended the hosting account, the standard sign of unpaid bills), Yelp updated the listing to CLOSED in March, and the building re-tenanted to Lane 58, a hookah bar that took its Yelp listing live in May 2026. The Star Lane address has a long history of running through nightlife tenants — StarLane Industry Afterhours, Club 5806 / Rendevu, VIA After Hours (closed November 2025), and Richmond Studios (a daytime photography/event tenant from 2018) all cycled through the same building. None of the two dormant Instagram accounts (@clubchoiceshouston, @clubchoicess) have posted since well before closure, and the @bacchusnightclub_ confusion that occasionally surfaces online is a different venue in Bishop's Stortford, England. The legacy Wix site at choiceslifestyle.wixsite.com/choices is the only piece of the operation still publicly readable — a frozen snapshot of pricing, hours and rules from when the lights were on.

The Vanilla Alternative

Tempsford, Bedfordshire

On-Premise Club

The Vanilla Alternative is a private members lifestyle venue based at The Anchor Lodge Hotel in Tempsford, Bedfordshire. Featuring a classy nightclub feel with bar and dance floor areas, the venue hosts themed nights, festival weekends, and offers on-site hotel accommodation in a welcoming, non-judgmental environment.

The Sublime Society

London, London

On-Premise Club

The Sublime Society is an exclusive hedonistic soiree and sensual salon based in London's West End, where fantasy and desire merge in an intimate, romantic setting draped in silk and secrecy. Founded by international burlesque artists, it celebrates sensuality as an art form through live performances, interactive installations, and curated cocktails in upscale Mayfair venues.

On-Premise Club

Miami Velvet is a private adult lifestyle nightclub in Miami, Florida, spanning 20,000 square feet and claiming the title of Florida's largest on-premise swingers club. The club hosts events on Friday and Saturday nights plus monthly themed parties, and draws a membership base from across South Florida and internationally. A couples membership is waived for first-time visitors, though entry fees still apply, and a dress code is enforced.

Chateau Royal

Bad Honnef, North Rhine-Westphalia

On-Premise Club

Chateau Royal is a couples-only club set in a historic 1903 villa deep in the forested Siebengebirge hills outside Bad Honnef — 870 square metres across three levels with capacity for 120 couples, making it one of the largest and highest-rated Pärchenclubs in North Rhine-Westphalia. Owner Stephan personally greets every guest at the door and gives first-timers a guided tour of the themed rooms, BDSM area with cage, waterbed room, cinema room, fireplace lounge, sauna, and covered outdoor terrace with its own cocktail bar. Two indoor bars serve drinks and cocktails all night, and the buffet — consistently described in reviews as restaurant-quality — is replenished late into the evening. Everything is included in admission: all food, all drinks, towels, and condoms. Cash only at the door, €10 key deposit for lockers. The club opens Fridays at 7 pm (until 3 am, couples €110, single women €40) and Saturdays at 7:30 pm (until 4 am, couples €120, single women €40), with JOYclub members saving roughly €10. Single men are not admitted — this is a strict couples-and-women-only policy, with the sole exception being Trio evenings on the last Friday of each month where one pre-vetted man may attend with a couple. Themed events rotate weekly: FKK naturist parties, Jung & Wild for younger guests, U50 nights, Ladies Night, Königinnen der Nacht, Schamloses Treiben, and masked Venetian galas, each with its own enforced dress code. Saturdays regularly hit waitlist status, so advance registration is strongly recommended. Dress code is strictly enforced — erotic clubwear, leather, latex, lingerie, and heels for women; fitted black clubwear, leather, mesh, or bondage pants for men. No jeans, street clothes, printed t-shirts, flip-flops, or dirty shoes under any circumstances. Phones and cameras are completely prohibited inside. The club holds a 4.9/5 rating across 3,509 JOYclub reviews with 7,909 fans and over a million profile visits, plus 4.7/5 on Google from 120 reviews — #1 of 7 clubs in Bad Honnef. Free parking with overflow shuttle and valet service, tucked into the valley near the colourful landmark chimney. The 10-year anniversary celebration runs May 23–25, 2026, including a Rhine boat cruise.

Club Privata

Portland, OR

On-Premise Club

Club Privata is a members-only lifestyle nightclub in Portland, Oregon, spanning 8,000 square feet across three levels with two full bars, a dining area, a VIP suite, and private and semi-private play spaces. A live DJ, dance floor with cage, and strictly enforced dress code contribute to the upscale atmosphere. Bottle service and VIP suite reservations are available, and membership is required for entry.

colette Dallas

Dallas, TX

On-Premise Club

colette Dallas is the chain's high-energy Texas flagship — a private, members-only on-premise lifestyle club spanning 8,000+ square feet across two floors in northwest Dallas, near Love Field. The aesthetic is modern warehouse meets nightclub: a dance floor anchored by stripper poles and a stage, high-tech lighting and sound, and a curated upscale crowd that takes the dress code seriously. The Dallas Observer ranked colette first in its "Best Swingers Clubs Dallas" feature, and SwingerLifestyle.com puts it at #2 across all of Texas — the most prominent on-premise lifestyle venue in Dallas–Fort Worth. Play spaces are tiered three ways: semi-private rooms with sheer curtains, fully private rooms with blackout curtains, and a centerpiece group play room with a round bed and spectator seating. There's also an in-club movie theater showing adult films, a quieter second-floor lounge, and a VIP room rentable for private parties of up to 30 ($500–$1,000) — a perk Texas reviewers consistently call best in the state. The bar is BYOB — no liquor license, but free mixers, ice, and setups are provided, plus a beverage cooler for member use. Newbie Night runs every Wednesday with the membership fee waived for first-timers; staff give every newcomer a guided tour on arrival. colette is a national chain founded by John and Jackie Melfi (who also run the OpenLove101 lifestyle blog and podcast). The Dallas location opened in 2012 and connects into a 250,000+ member network across five cities — Dallas, Austin, Houston, New Orleans, and San Antonio. One membership works at all of them. Single men are welcome Wednesday through Friday; Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only. Recurring themed nights include Pantiless Fridays, Thirty Dollar Thursday, and rotating fetish, lingerie, and costume parties — and i.Candy Parties hosts large monthly events at the venue throughout the year.

On-Premise Lifestyle Club

Angel of Love in Roth, Bavaria, is one of Germany's largest and most established lifestyle clubs, operating since the early 2000s in a sprawling 1,000–2,000 sqm venue near Nuremberg. Under new ownership since Spring 2025 (Jasmin & Markus Herrmann), the club has been freshly renovated and continues to operate from its original address at Gildestraße 15 in Roth. The venue features 13 individually themed rooms — including African-inspired, Egyptian, mirror, and dark-room areas — plus a dedicated dungeon/BDSM zone with St. Andrew's crosses, slings, a gynecological chair, and a suspension frame (Galgen). Additional facilities include a sauna, solarium, adult cinema, glory hole area, massage area, and a large dance floor. The on-site bar and kitchen serve drinks and food throughout the evening. Events run Thursday through Saturday with varying atmospheres: Thursday is more relaxed and affordable, Friday is intermediate, and Saturday is the flagship night with the strictest dress code and highest admission. Special events include Dark Intimacy (gothic atmosphere), Die Nacht der O (D/s and BDSM-themed), and Herrenüberschuss nights. The club has a strong community presence on JoyClub with a 4.9/5 rating from over 1,860 reviews and more than 5,000 followers, making it one of the most highly rated clubs in the German lifestyle scene. A dedicated first-visit (Erstbesuch) page on their website helps newcomers understand what to expect — the house philosophy is "Alles ist möglich, nichts ist Pflicht" (Everything is possible, nothing is required). Dress code is strictly enforced on Fridays and Saturdays: lingerie, erotic wear, or evening attire required; jeans and sneakers are not permitted. Changing facilities are available on-site. Single women pay the lowest entry; couples pay a moderate fee; single men pay a premium. All adults 18+ are welcome.

My Secret House Party Club

Mesa, AZ

Off-Premise Club

My Secret House Party Club is an invitation-only private lifestyle event space in Mesa, Arizona, operating since 2006. Events are held in a private home setting and are open to couples and single women, with some events including single men. The host personally vets all guests and the format emphasizes discretion, consent, and a no-pressure environment.

Splash Takeovers

Fort Lauderdale, FL

Event Organizer

Splash Takeovers is a lifestyle event organizer based in Fort Lauderdale, Florida with over 15 years of experience producing couples-only hotel takeover events across the United States. Events feature clothing-optional pool parties, themed dance parties, fantasy rooms, educational seminars, and vendor exhibitions at convention hotels transformed into private venues. Upcoming 2026 events are scheduled in Texas, Atlanta, and Florida.

Play Champagne (The Champagne Club)

Columbus, OH

Event Organizer

Play Champagne is a lifestyle hotel takeover event organizer based in Columbus, Ohio, hosting multi-day weekend events at full-hotel takeovers across several Midwest cities including Indianapolis, Lexington, Chicago, and Detroit. Events feature convention-scale playrooms, topless-optional pool parties, couples classes, BDSM demonstrations, and a whole-hotel BYOB policy. Weekend packages run from Friday afternoon through Sunday morning and include complimentary breakfast.