Upscale

Avarus Swingerclub

Berlin, Berlin

On-Premise Club

Avarus is widely regarded as one of the most beautiful swingers clubs in Berlin, hidden away on the 5th floor of an apartment building in the Wedding district. Step inside and you'll find an elegant world of premium wellness — Finnish sauna, Roman steam bath, a love pool serviced by a 36,000-litre-per-hour filtration system, and an experience shower — seamlessly blended with stylish play areas and intimate social spaces. Every visit is all-inclusive: entry covers all drinks and a hot & cold buffet, so there's nothing to think about but enjoying the evening. The event calendar keeps things fresh with couples-only Saturdays, Orgasm Nights, Bi-Parties, Darkroom Parties, and BDSM nights in the adjacent Menagerie venue. The signature "Chocolate Sunday" — featuring edible liquid chocolate in the steam bath — is an experience you won't find anywhere else. Staff speaks English and the club warmly welcomes international guests alongside its loyal local crowd. The house philosophy says it all: everything is allowed, nothing is mandatory. LGBTQ+ friendly. Couples and newbie friendly.

CCK

Unverified

Auckland, Auckland

On-Premise Club

CCK occupies a discreet, unmarked address at 246C Hobson Street in Auckland's CBD and markets itself as the city's first upscale adult lounge bar and lifestyle venue, with an emphasis on sophistication, consent, and an international aesthetic. The venue operates four nights a week — Wednesday through Saturday — with doors opening at 8:30pm and last entry accepted until 1am. The social and play spaces centre on a full-service licensed bar and dance floor set to Euro house music, with five designated play areas equipped with a St Andrew's cross, a lover's swing, an erotic dancing cage, a grope tent, a dark room, and a static pole. Complimentary condoms, lubricant, towels, and body lotion are provided; locker and shower facilities are on site; and a five-stage Aura Air UV purification system reflects a stated emphasis on cleanliness. Gated courtyard parking is complimentary during visits. Couples and single women are admitted Wednesday through Saturday. Single men are admitted on Wednesdays and at designated specialty events only, with advance booking compulsory. Earlybird online pricing starts at NZD $70 per couple on Wednesdays and NZD $100 on Thursday through Saturday, with regular online rates at NZD $100 and NZD $130 respectively; after-midnight walk-in pricing rises to NZD $160. Single women pay NZD $35-$85 depending on night and booking timing. No membership is required. A rotating calendar of specialty nights includes Pendulum (bi-couples and singles), Young NZ Swingers (ages 18-35), 45 Plus Roast Club, CCK Hotwifing, and SKIRTS ladies-only events. Dress standards are strictly enforced — T-shirts, shorts, jandals, and trainers are prohibited — and first-time visitors receive a guided tour of the venue.

Chateau Royal

Bad Honnef, North Rhine-Westphalia

On-Premise Club

Chateau Royal sits in the forested Siebengebirge hills above the Rhine, tucked into the edge of Bad Honnef roughly halfway between Bonn and Cologne. The club presents itself as the largest and most popular pure couples club in North Rhine-Westphalia — a claim supported by the numbers: 870 square metres spread across three levels, capacity for 120 couples, and a packed calendar of themed nights running back-to-back year-round. The club admits couples and single women only — single men are welcome exclusively on specifically promoted trio evenings — with cash-only admission and a refundable €10 key deposit for locker access; phones, cameras and other recording devices are barred throughout. Around 100 free parking spaces are available, split between an on-site lot and a nearby forest overflow lot served by a shuttle.

Club Paradise Lingen

Lingen, Lower Saxony

On-Premise Club

Club Paradise is a lifestyle swinger club occupying roughly 800 square metres at Friedrich-Ebert-Straße 115a in Lingen, a town in the Emsland district of Lower Saxony near the Dutch border. The club presents itself as the only swinger club in the Emsland region — a claim repeated in local press coverage — and its stated ethos, ‘you arrive as a guest and leave as a friend,’ anchors an atmosphere oriented toward sociability as much as play. A Dutch-language companion site (club-paradise-lingen.nl) runs alongside the primary German domain, reflecting cross-border clientele from the Netherlands. The venue is arranged across multiple levels and a basement. A bar and lounge area serves as the social centrepiece; a dedicated couples’ floor holds private lockable rooms alongside themed shared spaces; a basement BDSM room is described as equipped for kink in a ‘safe and stylish environment.’ A buffet dining area is kept structurally separate from play spaces by house rule. Changing rooms with secure lockers, disinfection stations throughout the facility, and a designated outdoor smoking terrace handle the practical side. On certain event nights a DJ, dance floor, and a foam area feature in the programme; the site also references a summer garden. The club operates on an event calendar rather than fixed nightly hours. Fridays run 20:00–02:00, Saturdays 20:00–03:00. Monthly additions include a BDSM Sunday (first Sunday, 14:00–21:00), a wellness afternoon (second Sunday, 13:00–19:00), a Hotwife evening on the second Wednesday (18:00–23:00), and a Frivolous Wednesday with sauna on the fourth Wednesday (18:00–23:00). Pricing is tiered by gender and event type: on a standard Friday women pay €20, couples €45, and single men €55; Saturday rates rise to €45 for women and €110 for both couples and single men. Hotwife nights admit women free, with men at €80 and couples at €35. The admission price covers all drinks and the full buffet. Cash only — no card payments are accepted.

Club Privata

Portland, OR

On-Premise Club

Club Privata says it provides “an Adult experience in a non-judgemental setting.” It is an on-premise, members-only, 21-and-over lifestyle nightclub in Portland, open Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights. The venue covers 8,000 square feet over three levels, with two full bars, a dining area, a live DJ, a dance floor with a cage and a VIP suite on the third floor. More than 20 beds are spread across a couples-only lounge on the first floor, rooms with doors that close on the second, and a second couples-only lounge with three private rooms on the third, which stays closed on Thursdays. Lockers on all three floors and a coat check come at no cost, showers with towels are on the first floor, and recurring nights include a monthly couples and single women event and a twice-monthly Newbie's Night. Most events require an active membership, a signed waiver, valid ID at every visit and a nightly door fee; members' guests may attend once before joining. Single men and single women are welcome, though single men pay higher fees and the monthly couples and single women night excludes them. Outside liquor is not allowed because the bars sell beer, wine and spirits. The club's dress code will be strictly enforced, and it bans cell phones, photography, vapes, marijuana and weapons; rule breakers are removed without refund.

Club Rendezvous (Club R)

Calgary, Alberta

On-Premise Club

Club Rendezvous — known to members simply as Club R — is Alberta's longest-running lifestyle club, welcoming Calgary's open-minded community since 1983. Under Ryan and Alicia's ownership since 2012, it has grown into a fully licensed, AGLC-compliant venue that holds a 4.7-star Google rating across more than 180 reviews. The club spans two floors in a northeast Calgary building with a free parking lot right out front. Downstairs is the social heart of the night: a large dance floor with a stripper pole, a DJ booth spinning dance and house sets, a well-stocked licensed bar with a kitchen area for mixing your own drinks, plus a long community table and lounge booths lining the room for easy mingling between sets. Upstairs opens into the play area — an airy, open-concept space furnished with mattresses, beds, couches and a sex swing, where curtains pull closed around the beds whenever you want a more private, semi-secluded moment. The space is known for being spotlessly clean and is wheelchair accessible, with accessible seating, a lift and an accessible restroom. Club R is open every Friday and Saturday from 9 PM to 3 AM, with workshops and social events on select weeknights (roughly 7–11 PM). Rather than generic theme nights, it runs curated Club R Signature Events™, each built around a distinct energy and flow. Long-running favourites include First Time Friday for newcomers (meet, play, explore); Unicorn Friday, where single ladies get in free all night with a paid membership; the Saturday Lingerie Dance Party; the always-popular Little Black Dress "Midnight Seduction"; Taboo Friday; and dedicated Newbie & Member Appreciation nights. Entry is membership-based and capacity-controlled to protect the room's quality and balance: memberships start at $9.95 for a week and scale to $100 for the year (CAD), with event admission around $60 per couple and $30 per single. Couples and single women are the priority crowd, while single men are admitted in limited, screened numbers each event. The "dress to impress" code is genuinely enforced — upscale, sexy and theme-appropriate, with no tank tops, sideways hats, workout wear or sweatpants, work boots, exposed chains or man bags. Just as importantly, Club R runs on a consent-first culture where respect, privacy and enthusiastic consent are non-negotiable, backed by clear house rules and etiquette that underpin its Safe Space Alliance recognition. The team is famously warm with first-timers, and the club welcomes all bodies, genders, orientations and experience levels (18+) — part of why a community of roughly 5,100 keeps coming back. Members can also visit Club R's sister location in Edmonton, extending the same vetted, inclusive lifestyle experience across Alberta.

Club Z

Unverified

Columbus, OH

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Billed as the Ultimate Interracial Lifestyle Club in Central Ohio, Club Z has carved out a singular niche in Columbus's lifestyle scene by centering racial diversity and interracial connection at its core. Operated by Angela and Edwin from a private residential location in the greater Columbus area, the club deliberately keeps its address off public listings — members receive it only after their application clears a mandatory telephone interview. That screening process sets the tone: this is not a walk-in venue. The atmosphere is described consistently as sensual, inviting, and intimate, closer in feel to an upscale house party than a commercial nightclub. Membership is open to couples, single females, and select single males sponsored as guests of member couples — a policy that keeps the guest list curated and the ratio balanced. The club operates on a BYOB basis and runs monthly Saturday-night parties capped at 35 to 40 guests, a deliberately small number that reinforces the private-party atmosphere. Prospective members must be 21 or older and present a valid photo ID. The club carries a NASCA International affiliation. Club Z's identity is built around discretion and a no-pressure philosophy: members socialise and play at their own level of comfort. The intimate scale — unlike the large commercial clubs in Columbus — is a deliberate differentiator. Contact runs through 614-361-5900 and ClubZZebra@aol.com; the club's website at clubzzebra.com does not currently resolve.

colette Austin

Austin, TX

On-Premise Club

colette Austin describes itself as “a private membership only on-premise social club” for couples, single men and women who are active in or curious about the swinging, polyamorous or open-relationship lifestyles. It is a 21-and-over club that opens Wednesday through Saturday nights, with special nights posted on its events list. The club's feature list names a dance floor with high-tech lighting, a DJ mixing dance music and party favorites, a lounge, a second-floor lounge with a “sexy vibe,” lockers and valet parking, and the venue is non-smoking. Birthday and special-occasion parties get a reserved area with balloons and mixers. Couples, single men and single women are admitted, but single men come Wednesday through Friday only; Saturday is for couples and single women. Membership is applied for in person with ID and reviewed by staff. No alcohol is sold, but guests may bring their own, with set-ups and ice available. Guests are asked to dress “as though you were going out to an upscale restaurant or nightclub,” with fetish, leather and gothic wear welcome, and a strict dress policy for single men. Photos are limited to designated photo-op areas, and anyone behaving inappropriately is asked to leave.

On-Premise Club

Dragons Pleasure Lounge is a private lifestyle club based in Caddens, Western Sydney, New South Wales, operating on a strictly invitation-only, application-vetted model. It is not a conventional nightclub or open-door venue: prospective guests submit an application through the club's website and are contacted only if approved. The venue's street address is withheld from all public platforms and released exclusively to approved applicants. The club occupies a private residence configured for intimate entertaining. Amenities include a ten-seat outdoor spa, four bedrooms dressed in silk, a gas fireplace, a dedicated playroom, a pool table, and plush suede lounge seating. The aesthetic favours candlelight and warm, low-key tones rather than nightclub lighting. Across all events, the club's stated operating principles are respect, privacy, safety, consent, and discretion. The event calendar runs to four signature themed nights per year: The Masquerade (velvet, feathers, and gilded masks), Suits and Silk (tailored dress paired with lingerie under amber light), Under the Stars (outdoor spa gathering with champagne and candlelight), and a fourth curated event completing the annual calendar. Entry is by prior application only; ticket pricing is not publicly stated. No singles admission policy appears in any publicly accessible source — confirm directly with the venue.

Eros Knoxville

Knoxville, TN

On-Premise Club

Eros Knoxville describes itself as “an upscale, private, members only social club” in downtown Knoxville, reached through a courtyard on the bottom floor, where it says to look for the upside-down pineapple in the window. It is a BYOB club that does not sell alcohol, and it says guests may bring a favorite cup with a lid. Its events run on Friday and Saturday nights and carry new themes, with bartenders supplying mixers. Lockers are provided first come, first served, and members supply their own locks. The club also lists a Ruby Room for 10 to 15 people, a private booth for up to six and reserved lounge seating for four, and its rules ask guests who enter a play area without playing to whisper or stay quiet. Everyone who enters must be an approved member, and membership can be submitted and approved at the door. Guests must be 21 or older, show a valid ID such as a passport or driver’s license, and not be on the Tennessee Sexual Offender and Violent Offender Register, and new members complete a mandatory tour on their first visit. The club says its dress code is strictly enforced, sexy but classy, and that cameras and recording devices, drugs and prostitution are not permitted. It asks guests to respect no and to ask consent before touching, and it turns away or removes guests who are overly intoxicated.

Fantasies Lifestyle Club

Unverified

Branch, LA

Fantasies Lifestyle Club sits along Branch Highway in the rural Mowata and Branch communities of Acadia Parish, a stretch of farmland southwest of Crowley where a swingers venue is about the last thing neighbors expected to see rise from the cane fields. Co-owned by Crowley residents Jasen Bourque and Jessica Boullion, the club is pitched as an upscale, invite-only social space for couples, polyamorous groups, single women, and select single men aged 21 and up, with private and open play areas, a dance floor, and showers stocked with towels and toiletries. Its own house style leans dressy rather than club-casual: patrons are asked to arrive "dressed to impress," with no basketball shorts or work clothes, and to stay fully covered on the way in and out. The club's arrival triggered one of the most contentious local government fights Acadia Parish has seen in years. Construction was vandalized in October, with plumbing torn out at a cost owners put in the tens of thousands of dollars, and packed police jury meetings followed as Branch and Mowata residents voiced fears about the effect on their quiet farming community. The parish police jury responded in January 2025 with a 7-0 ordinance vote (one member absent) that licenses and heavily restricts "sexually oriented businesses," banning alcohol, public nudity, and sexual intercourse on premises, requiring lights-on monitoring of guests, and keeping semi-nude staff at least six feet from patrons. The club's attorney, Douglas Brown, has said the ordinance is designed to run Fantasies out of the parish and that a lawsuit will follow once it is enforced.

Fun4Two

Moordrecht, South Holland

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Fun4Two is a long-established lifestyle club housed in a protected 1851 Dutch farmhouse at Middelweg 18 in Moordrecht, South Holland, roughly 25 minutes by car from Rotterdam and within easy reach of The Hague, Utrecht, and Amsterdam. Operating continuously since January 1996, it runs as an all-inclusive venue — one entry price covers unlimited food from the buffet restaurant, unlimited drinks including beer, wine, and spirits, use of all wellness facilities, towels, and lockers — a model that sets it apart from most comparable venues across the Netherlands. The converted farmhouse spreads across several connected sections. A self-service buffet restaurant, a main dance floor with a resident DJ, and a lounge bar anchor the social areas. A wellness wing contains a heated indoor pool, sauna, jacuzzi, and bubble bath. The play spaces include a tantra temple, an orgy loft, a group playroom, a Dutch Village area fitted with BDSM-equipped themed cottages, a glory hole room, and a dedicated BDSM dungeon suite. On-site accommodation — apartments, small cottages, and a traditional Dutch caravan known as a pipowagen — is available at additional cost for those who want to stay after the party ends. The venue opens Friday evenings from 21:00 to 03:00, Saturdays from 21:00 to 04:00, and on selected Sundays from 16:00 to 23:00. Member pricing for a couple runs €124 on Fridays, €159 on Saturdays, and €109 on Sundays; first-time visitors pay an additional €20 one-time registration fee that grants full member rates on all future visits. Single women are welcome at all sessions at reduced rates (€62–€80); single men are excluded from regular events except at dedicated Hardcore Night events (approximately four per year, capped at 75 tickets) and on the third Friday of each month, when a couple may bring one additional guest. Saturday visits require advance reservation via the website. Guests arrive in smart or stylish clothing and must change into lingerie or sexy attire by 23:30 on Fridays and Saturdays, or by 19:00 on Sundays. Mobile phones are prohibited in all public areas, and free enclosed private parking is available on-site.

FuseX Social Club - South Dakota Chapter

Unverified

Sioux Falls, SD

Social Club

FuseX Social Club is a private, approval-only lifestyle organization operating its South Dakota chapter from Sioux Falls with no fixed address — events rotate among confidential venues including hotel takeovers, luxury house parties, and invitation-only mansion events. The SD chapter runs approximately three hosted events per year locally; many Sioux Falls members also attend the larger Minneapolis chapter. Every applicant undergoes a formal interview, a national criminal background check, and must sign binding NDA and non-liability agreements before event details are shared. The membership skews toward working professionals — lawyers, physicians, executives — with income requirements (couples: $225,000+ combined; single males: $115,828+). Lifestyle interests span swinging, cuckolding, hotwifing, BDSM, polyamory, and voyeurism. In a conservative-state context, the club positions itself as the discreet alternative; members frequently travel to Minneapolis for higher-attendance events. At events, the format is social first: couples mingle and dance before play areas open, and participation is always voluntary. Dress code is enforced. Membership tiers range from $2,900 to $25,000/year plus per-event costs; single women receive free Platinum membership. Approximately one in four applications is approved.

On-Premise Club

Happy Hedonist is a lifestyle club that has catered to swingers, voyeurs, and exhibitionists in the Greater Toronto Area since the early 1990s. Operating as an upscale on-premise swinger club, it built a following as one of the largest lifestyle venues in southern Ontario, welcoming couples and select single players through a community that blended online engagement — chat rooms, contact ads, and message boards — with weekly on-site parties. The club's home was Jeanie's, a licensed venue at 5977 Dixie Road in Mississauga, where it occupied more than 10,000 square feet across two levels. The space featured two bars, a licensed smoking patio, and a seasonal outdoor play area included in general admission at no extra charge. Staff were noted for welcoming newcomers with guided walk-throughs, and the club consistently emphasised making first-timers feel comfortable alongside experienced regulars. Weekly parties ran on Fridays (doors at 9:30 pm) and Saturdays (doors at 9:00 pm). The club announced a move to an undisclosed larger location, but no confirmed new address has been publicly identified. As of August 2026, the original Dixie Road premises have been taken over by unrelated businesses, and the club's website is non-functional.

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Location One is a couples and swinger club (Pärchenclub) in Menden, a town in the Märkisches Sauerland region of North Rhine-Westphalia, located at Werler Straße 37 within approximately 10 kilometres of the nearest motorway. Operating under the slogan 'Swingen mit Charme und Stil' — swinging with charm and style — the club positions itself at the premium end of the regional scene, with particular emphasis on cuisine, interior design, and attentive hosting. First-time visitors are welcomed with an optional guided tour of the venue. The premises span more than 900 square metres across three floors, organised around nine individually styled rooms that include two private séparées, a fully equipped SM/BDSM room, and two love swings. Social spaces include a full bar stocked with branded spirits, a cocktail bar operating on Saturday evenings, and a champagne bar open from 23:00 to 01:00. A hot-and-cold buffet — freshly prepared meats, seafood, salads, and house-made sauces — is included with admission. A whirlpool, sauna, massage area, pole dance stage, and a heated covered outdoor smoking terrace complete the facilities. Fresh towels and toiletries are provided on every floor. Video-monitored parking sits discreetly behind the building, with three dedicated pitches with electrical hookups available for campervans. The club opens Friday and Saturday from 20:00 to 04:00, with admission beginning at 19:00. Friday evenings run as an open swinger night with couples, single women, and a limited number of single men admitted; Saturday evenings are oriented toward couples and trios. Pre-registration is required before each visit and can be made by phone, WhatsApp, or the club's contact form. Entry prices vary by event and are posted on the events page; cash is the only accepted payment method. A loyalty stamp card rewards regulars: nine stamps earn free entry on any subsequent standard evening, New Year's Eve excluded.

Monkey Business

Wickford, Essex

Members Club (Roaming Events)

Monkey Business is a private lifestyle members club based in Wickford, Essex, operating since 2019 under the pillars of luxury, discretion, and community. Founded and run as a curated invitation-only operation, it is open to those aged 25 and over. Its home venue is a private villa in Essex whose address is never publicly listed — ticketed members receive the location approximately two hours before each event begins. The villa is equipped with a heated swimming pool, hot tub, sun loungers, and a BBQ for outdoor socialising, alongside a cocktail lounge and multiple dedicated play spaces: a dungeon and red room, a dark room, a cinema room, a glory hole and dark orgy room, and a range of private and social areas. The event calendar carries a strong themed character — leather-and-lingerie nights, 80s neon socials, Tantric Dine evenings with a private chef and four-course meal, Hotwife parties, and Ladies Only Days sit alongside lunchtime afternoon sessions. The club periodically stages events at external venues in Essex and Kent in addition to its home villa. Events are ticketed individually with no fixed weekly timetable; evening parties typically run 20:30 to 02:00, while daytime sessions run from around midday. Annual membership costs £50, is restricted to those aged 25 and over, and entitles holders to reduced entry. A first visit is permitted without membership at selected newbie and daytime events. Single males must hold registered membership and pre-book directly with the organisers before each event — walk-ins are not accepted. Dress code is event-specific and published alongside each listing.

Obsession Swing Lounge

Unverified

Ottawa, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Obsession Swing Lounge is a members-only adult lifestyle and swinger club at 1575 St. Laurent Boulevard in Ottawa, Ontario. Billing itself as the city's premier on-premise swinger venue, it holds a provincial liquor licence and requires couples and select singles to register as annual members before attending their first event. The interior centres on an upscale lounge with a resident DJ — guests are encouraged to make requests — designed for dancing and socialising before moving to the dedicated play areas. A full kitchen delivers appetizers, main courses, and desserts until 1:30am, and drinks are served from the licensed bar. The main lounge and patio are strictly social zones; all sexual contact is confined to the separate designated play areas. The venue is entirely smoke-free, and the dress code holds women to a seductive standard and men to a dapper, club-appropriate appearance. The weekly schedule divides along membership type: Friday nights open the doors to all categories — couples, single men, and single women; Saturdays are restricted to couples and single women, with the limited exception that a single male member may attend only if accompanied by and remaining with a host couple all evening. Annual membership is CAD $50 for couples and single men, and CAD $30 for single women; nightly entry is CAD $40 per couple or single man, while single women enter free. Advance registration is mandatory — no walk-in admission is indicated. House rules ban photos and video during regular hours without explicit management consent and subject approval, prohibit drugs outright, and run a three-complaint escalation system for single men.

Ottawa Sex Club is a private, members-only lifestyle venue in Ottawa, Ontario, serving couples and select additional guests. The club does not publish a physical address; prospective members join through the club website at ottawasexclub.com and receive venue details after their application is reviewed. Events are curated rather than walk-in, with access controlled through pre-screening and member vetting. The venue centres on a social lounge area and a suite of private, bookable playrooms described by the club as luxurious. A fully stocked bar is available on-site. A VIP membership tier is offered, providing access to all events, priority invitations, and private room reservations above standard membership level. The club runs two dedicated event nights per month, billed as curated evenings for couples and invited guests. Singles may be admitted selectively — primarily as pre-screened guests invited by member couples. Specific event times, dress code requirements, and door pricing are not published in publicly accessible sources; members receive this information through the membership portal.

Our Secret Spot

Sydney, New South Wales

On-Premise Club

Our Secret Spot (OSS) occupies three floors of a venue on Parramatta Road in Annandale, roughly five kilometres west of the Sydney CBD. Co-founded by Jess and Lawrence, the club positions itself explicitly as female-focused and consent-first, drawing a crowd that typically clusters in the thirties and forties, with guests spanning the early twenties to early sixties. The stated ethos — Respectful, Safe, Sexy — shapes everything from the strict consent culture to the staff-guided walk offered to every first-time visitor. The social floor centres on a hand-crafted wooden BYO bar with free mixers (glass decanted to plastic at entry), Chesterfield lounge seating, a ruby-red pool table, and a disco-lit dance floor with a DJ deck. Play spaces spread across the upper levels: three private rooms, a one-way-mirror voyeur room, a large four-bedded open group room, a fully equipped dungeon, and an open shower space. A library-themed VIP room — lockable, with customisable music — rents by the hour. Lockers, condoms, dams, lube, and towels are included in the ticket price; all mobile phones are surrendered at reception on arrival. Parties run on Friday and Saturday nights from 20:30 until 03:00; Thursday Thirsty Thursday sessions and occasional Sunday afternoon matinees are advertised on the venue calendar but are not confirmed as standing hours. Entry is by advance ticket with tiered pricing for guest couples, members, and single women; single men are admitted in limited numbers by prior approved application only. The dress code is strictly enforced — cocktail attire or smart separates for women, collared shirt with trousers or chinos and dress shoes for men — and couples must arrive and depart together.

Parenclub Showboat

Zaandijk, Noord-Holland

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Showboat is a swingers club housed aboard a moored vessel on the Lagedijk waterway in Zaandijk, Noord-Holland, roughly fifteen kilometres north of Amsterdam. The boat setting is the venue's defining feature, attracting visitors from across the wider Amsterdam region on a seven-day schedule that spans both daytime and late-night sessions. It operates as an all-inclusive club on most days, with entry covering food and drink. The upper deck forms the social core of the venue, combining a bar, a buffet of warm and cold dishes, a dance floor, and lounge seating fitted out in polished wood, copper accents, and deep-red upholstery. The lower deck is devoted to play, housing a BDSM room, a jacuzzi, a sauna, a Turkish steam bath, and several erotically themed rooms. Dress code — tight boxer shorts for men, lingerie for women — applies throughout the venue; first-timers are permitted to start the evening in street clothes at the bar. Secure clothing lockers and shower facilities are available. Themed Friday evenings rotate across SM/Fetish Play parties, Gangbang nights, and Bi Fabulous events, the latter restricted to women and bisexual men with heterosexual single men excluded. The club is open daily. Weekday daytime sessions run Monday and Tuesday 12:00–17:30 (couples €40, women/T-girls €15, men €92.50) and Thursday 13:00–21:30 (couples €72.50, women/T-girls €35, men €120). Wednesday extends to 23:30 with tiered pricing: couples €92.50 full day, dropping to €60 after 19:00. Fridays run 13:00–02:30 at €110 per couple, or from 21:00 on the first Friday of each month. Saturdays are evening-only, 21:00–04:30, with couples at €92.50. Sunday afternoons (15:00–21:30) admit couples and women free of charge against a minimum bar spend of €35 and €20 respectively. Single men may attend every session but must hold a prior reservation; walk-ins are turned away without exception. No admittance is given after 02:00.

Pulse Lounge

Memphis, TN

Private Membership Nightclub

Pulse Lounge describes itself as “a private, upscale lifestyle venue for open-minded couples and singles” in Memphis, by membership only, and calls itself an upscale private membership nightclub. The club says it is not open to the public, and the exact address is shared with approved members only. Every event is themed, from casual mixers to elaborate celebrations, with music and conversation, and some events may be couples-only or have ratio rules disclosed in advance. The club lists lounge areas and private rooms and is BYOB, with ice, mixers and non-alcoholic beverages provided at no additional cost. Members must be 21 or older; the club verifies age and identity and reviews each profile, with most decisions returned within 48 hours, and payment is collected at the door on arrival. Its NDA page sets confidentiality terms, phones are not allowed on the floor, photography is prohibited in all member spaces, and the club says consent is absolute. Women are shown thigh-high boots, corsets and mini-skirts, and men must wear collared shirts and dress shoes, with t-shirts, shorts, sneakers and sportswear refused.

Red Room Nashville

Nashville, TN

Members-Only Event Host

Red Room Nashville describes itself as “an exclusive, members-only forum” that holds private in-person events. It hosts weekly themed events at a partner host venue, and its rules mention Saturday events and a Newbie Night on Fridays. The host venue offers “an amazing area to socialize, dance, have more private small group interactions, or lounge together in larger groups.” Features include a professional DJ and large LED dance floor, VIP and reserved tables with soft seating, a ladies-only dressing suite, lounge areas and private rooms. A designated Couples Play Area is two in, two out, and full nudity is limited to the back play areas; topless is allowed in the main bar and dance-floor area. Couples, single women and single men are admitted, but single men wear a wristband and stay in the bar-side area unless a couple or group invites them elsewhere. Everyone must be an approved member (24-hour approval wait) before buying a ticket, and there are no walk-ins. Guests bring their own drinks, with mixers provided. Dress should suit “an upscale restaurant, high-end nightclub, or special date night,” and management can refuse entry over attire. Rules include asking before touching, keeping activity above the waist in the main area and phones on the table or put away.

Risque Vegas Estate

Las Vegas, NV

Risque Estate is a private, members-only lifestyle venue set within a residential property in the Paradise neighborhood of Las Vegas, just minutes from the Strip. Established in 2014, the estate operates as an on-premise swingers club hosting clothing-optional parties Wednesday through Sunday, welcoming couples, singles, and LGBTQ guests aged 21 and over in a BYOB format with snacks and mixers provided. The grounds center on a resort-style heated pool kept at 90 degrees year-round, surrounded by spacious poolside cabanas and block-walled areas for nude sunbathing. Inside, guests find multiple private playrooms, a large group room, a game room with a cheetah-felt pool table, a dance floor with a stripper pole, and a custom Harley-Davidson fitted with a built-in Sybian. Risque Estate emphasizes discretion with secure off-street parking and a membership structure included in the door donation. The estate provides lockers, clean showers, and ample cooler space, while guests are asked to bring their own towels, locks, and beverages. The venue regularly hosts themed events listed through its website and social channels.

Samantha's Place

Unverified

London, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Samantha's Place appears to have permanently closed, most likely in late 2016 or early 2017. The club's website has not been updated since November 2016, its last posted event was November 12, 2016, and a structured audit by swingersontario.com in April 2021 listed it among clubs presumed closed. Founded in 2000 by a London-area couple known to members as Samantha and Greg, it billed itself as Southwestern Ontario's longest-running lifestyle club and for most of its life the only such club west of the GTA. The founders sold to Skye and Todd, a younger London couple who had been regular attendees, with the handover taking place around 2016. Both ownerships maintained the same format and pricing structure through to the final events. Samantha's Place ran as a strictly off-premise club, meaning no sexual activity or genital nudity was permitted at events — a policy stated prominently on the site and central to its identity as a venue for meeting, dancing, and flirting rather than a play space. Monthly themed Saturday nights were held at a private licensed venue in east London, just east of the Highbury and Dundas intersection; the specific address was disclosed to registered guests by email only, never listed publicly. Doors opened at 9:30 pm with an early-bird discount window until 9:45 pm, and guests were asked to arrive by 11 pm. The crowd spanned the late twenties to early fifties, with a core demographic in the 30–45 range, and first-timers made up at least a quarter of any given evening. Themes were encouraged but not required — Halloween drew near-total compliance, other themes considerably less so — and the general dress expectation was smart-casual to sexy. Music was top-40 with a seasoning of eighties and nineties tracks. A licensed bar operated at upscale-bar prices, door prizes sponsored by adult retailers including the Stag Shop and Love Shop were drawn around 11:30 pm, and occasional sponsored demonstrations — rope work, wax play, lap dancing — added variety to certain events.