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Power Exchange

San Francisco, CA

On-Premise Club

Power Exchange is a pansexual adult nightclub in San Francisco that has operated since 1996, offering BDSM, kink, and alternative lifestyle events in a private setting. The venue is open Thursday through Sunday nights and emphasizes a safe, inclusive, and discreet environment. It accepts cash payment with an ATM available on-site.

Friction Parties

Washington, DC

Event Organizer

Friction Parties is a women-owned lifestyle hotel takeover event organizer operating in Washington DC, Philadelphia, and other cities nationwide. Membership is screening-based, requiring all attendees to meet appearance and hygiene standards, with new single women accepted only by referral from established couple members. Monthly themed events are BYOB, and the organization also coordinates lifestyle travel and cruise packages.

Friction Carolina

Durham, NC

Event Organizer

Friction Carolina is a women-owned lifestyle hotel takeover event organizer operating in Raleigh and other cities across the country. Membership is screening-based, requiring all attendees to meet appearance and hygiene standards, with new single women accepted only by referral from established couple members. Monthly themed events run on a BYOB basis, and the organization also coordinates lifestyle travel and cruise packages.

On-Premise Club

Club Avantgarde is Saxony's largest swinger club — a sprawling 900-square-metre, two-floor venue in Plauen that has been welcoming guests since the 1990s. Reopened at Pentecost 2023 under the motto "anspruchsvoll anders" (sophisticated and different), the club is the passion project of owner Alfred Hollfelder, whose revival has earned coverage from MDR television and regional press. Twelve lovingly detailed themed rooms create the heart of the experience: Egyptian bath (whirlpool "like Cleopatra and Caesar"), Titanic cabin, Jungle, Pirate, SM dungeon, Prison cell with love swing, Indian, Oriental, Chinese, Exhibitionist, Dark & Feel, and a massage room. A winding "Kuschelbar" (snuggle bar) with glittering curtains anchors the social space, while a dedicated wellness area houses a sauna and the Pharaoh-themed whirlpool. A DJ and dance floor keep the energy up through Friday and Saturday evenings. Entry is all-inclusive — covering a generous buffet and drinks — making it a full evening without hidden costs. An attached boutique guesthouse offers themed overnight rooms with optional breakfast, turning the visit into a weekend retreat. With a 4.9 out of 5 rating on Google from 37 reviews, Club Avantgarde is consistently praised for its warm staff, the craftsmanship of its themed rooms, and its relaxed atmosphere. MDR ran a segment headlined "Saxony's largest swinger club reopens," and Freie Presse sent a reporter for a full-night visit in 2026. Free parking is available on-site, JoyClub member discounts apply, and cash is the accepted payment method.

Society of Bastet

Dartmouth, Nova Scotia

On-Premise Club

Society of Bastet is a private lifestyle club in Dartmouth, Nova Scotia welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa

Kissimmee, FL

Lifestyle Resort

15 min from Disney World. Former Ramada Inn. 'For Swingers, by Swingers.' Complimentary dinner buffet + omelet bar.

Eyz Wide Shut

Tampa, FL

On-Premise Club

Eyz Wide Shut is an adult lifestyle nightclub and play venue located in Tampa, Florida, open Thursday through Sunday with a 21-and-older admission requirement. The club features a full bar, dance floor, and ten private themed rooms, with three group rooms reserved for couples and single women; single males may access group spaces only by female invitation. A dress code is enforced, and all rooms are stocked with fresh linens.

Oasis Estate Resort

Houston, TX

Lifestyle Resort

Oasis Estate Resort is a lifestyle resort and spa set on a 10-acre property in Houston, Texas. The venue offers all-inclusive weekend experiences combining spa services, formal dining, poolside parties, and adult social events in a gated estate setting. Prospective guests must apply for membership and receive approval before attending events.

Eros Knoxville

Knoxville, TN

On-Premise Club

Eros Knoxville is a private members-only lifestyle club in Knoxville, Tennessee. The club operates on a BYOB policy with no alcohol sold on-site, and all new members are required to complete an orientation tour by 11 PM on their first visit. Regular themed events run Friday nights, with early-arrival discounts for couples and complimentary entry for women before 10 PM.

Sensual Pleasures Lifestyle Club (SPLC)

Gatlinburg, TN

On-Premise Club

Sensual Pleasures Lifestyle Club (SPLC) is a private members-only lifestyle club serving the East Tennessee and Smoky Mountains area. The venue hosts events on Friday and Saturday nights from 8 PM to 2 AM, offering a full dinner buffet, BYOB with complimentary mixers, themed parties, educational workshops, and live entertainment. Overnight bed and breakfast accommodations are available by reservation, and the club dedicates Friday evenings to a bisexual, singles, and crossdresser/trans-inclusive night.

LUXX Parties (Arizona Events)

Scottsdale, AZ

Lifestyle Resort

LUXX Parties is a Scottsdale-based lifestyle event company that organizes multi-day resort takeovers and themed parties for open-minded couples and single women. Events are held at destinations including Temptation Resort in Cancun and hotel venues in Scottsdale and Lake Havasu City, Arizona. Programming includes pool parties, themed nights, DJ performances, room crawls, and mixers; attendance requires account creation and membership.

On-Premise Club

A welcoming and well-managed swingers club in Rochdale near Manchester, offering a safe and friendly environment. Features include a BDSM dungeon, massage facilities, and regular themed nights, with many guests simply coming to socialise.

HUNTER

London, London

On-Premise Club

London's ultimate leather and fetish night, held monthly at Electrowerkz. Award-winning party concept featuring themed zones and dress codes celebrating alternative fashion and lifestyle expression within a passionate community.

Wicked Fun Club

Terryville, CT

On-Premise Club

Wicked Fun Club is a membership-based lifestyle club in Terryville, Connecticut spanning over 3,000 square feet with four playrooms, a social lounge, and amenities including a tantra chair and sex swing. The club operates on a BYOB basis with mixers provided, and complimentary lockers and towels are included. Saturday nights are exclusively for couples and single women; single men are welcome on Fridays only.

Krewe of Swingtown (KOS)

Houston, TX

On-Premise Club

Krewe of Swingtown is a Houston-based lifestyle social group founded in 2005 as the country's only swinger-oriented Mardi Gras krewe. The group hosts events across Texas year-round — from house parties and river trips to holiday celebrations — with some events drawing over 1,000 attendees. Open to couples and single women.

Avarus Swingerclub

Berlin, Berlin

On-Premise Club

Avarus is widely regarded as one of the most beautiful swingers clubs in Berlin, hidden away on the 5th floor of an apartment building in the Wedding district. Step inside and you'll find an elegant world of premium wellness — Finnish sauna, Roman steam bath, a 36,000-litre love pool, and an experience shower — seamlessly blended with stylish play areas and intimate social spaces. Every visit is all-inclusive: entry covers all drinks and a hot & cold buffet, so there's nothing to think about but enjoying the evening. The event calendar keeps things fresh with couples-only Saturdays, Orgasm Nights, Bi-Parties, Darkroom Parties, and BDSM nights in the adjacent Menagerie venue. The signature "Chocolate Sunday" — featuring edible liquid chocolate in the steam bath — is an experience you won't find anywhere else. Staff speaks English and the club warmly welcomes international guests alongside its loyal local crowd. The house philosophy says it all: everything is allowed, nothing is mandatory. LGBTQ+ friendly. Couples and newbie friendly.

616

Grand Rapids, MI

Event Organizer

Club 616 is West Michigan's premier upscale lifestyle event organizer, bringing together a vibrant community of open-minded adults across Grand Rapids and Kalamazoo. Known for meticulously themed parties — from Retro Pin Up elegance to all-night signature events — every Club 616 gathering is a carefully curated experience where sophistication meets sensuality. With over 14,000 Instagram followers and a loyal membership spanning SLS (BNJALLNIGHT), Kasidie, SDC, FetLife, and SwingTowns, Club 616 has earned its reputation as the gold standard for lifestyle events in West Michigan. Events are hosted at upscale hotel venues and feature a strictly enforced dress code — because looking the part is part of the experience. Newcomers are warmly welcomed with a newbie-friendly atmosphere, while limited single male tickets keep the guest ratio balanced and comfortable for couples. Single women are always embraced. LGBTQ+ inclusive. 21+ only.

Swingers Club

Caligula New York has been Astoria's open secret since at least 2016 — a 4,000 sq ft lifestyle club tucked into a Queens side street, built by enthusiasts for the community rather than for profit. Freshly renovated and reopened in February 2026, the space feels intentionally crafted: a proper dance floor with a resident DJ, lounge seating, a BYOB bar stocked with complimentary mixers, and a six-person erotic shower that has become something of a signature. Free street parking right outside and a max capacity of 350 mean the logistics rarely get in the way of a good night. Four nights a week — Thursday through Sunday from 9pm — the club runs a rotating weekly programme. Thursdays bring "One Night Stand," Fridays run themed "In Fridays We Trust" nights, Saturdays pull in larger productions like Major League Swingers events, and Sundays wind down with the "Sinful Sunday Swinger Social." Multiple private playrooms sit alongside open play areas, giving guests the choice of full privacy or a more social scene depending on the vibe of the evening. First-time visitors must book in advance, and the dress code is enforced at the door — no work boots, high-tops, or baseball caps. The club honours memberships from a wide network of lifestyle venues including SLS, SDC, Kasidie, Club Amante's, Miami Velvet, and Trapeze Atlanta, making it a natural stop for lifestyle travellers passing through New York. The crowd skews younger than many comparable clubs, the atmosphere is friendly rather than predatory, and the BYOB policy keeps the cost of a night out genuinely reasonable by New York standards.

BiZarre Events

London, London

BDSM Club

BiZarre Events is one of London's boldest and most unapologetically extreme fetish party producers, founded in April 2012 by Nina and Aidan BiZarre — two lifelong practitioners who created the events they wished existed. Operating as a private members club across rotating London venues disclosed only to confirmed guests, BiZarre isn't a nightclub with a kink corner — it's a play-first, immersive experience where fetish, kink, and sexual exploration take centre stage. Their lineup includes the long-running Bi-Kink Club for bisexual and pansexual fetishists, Club Labrys — a women-only safe space launched in 2019 — and the notorious PisSoir nights. Events run monthly on Saturdays, typically 9 PM to 3 AM, at purpose-fitted venues including world-renowned BDSM dungeons equipped with St. Andrew's crosses, bondage beds, suspension frames, and dedicated play spaces. Admission includes complimentary drinks, coat check, towels, showers, and supplies — an unusually all-inclusive package for the London fetish scene. The strict dress code is enforced at the door, and professional floor stewards ensure consent is always upheld. BiZarre explicitly welcomes everyone — straight, bi, gay, lesbian, trans, gender-fluid, crossdressers, singles, couples, and poly groups — making it one of the most genuinely pan-sexual events in London. Featured in Time Out London and Kinky Compass's Top 15 Kink Events, BiZarre has earned a devoted following over 14 years with consistently positive reviews praising the friendly atmosphere, professional staff, and immersive play-focused environment. Annual membership is £30, with per-event pricing from £25 for couples to £50 for non-member singles.

Club Sapphire

Tukwila, WA

On-Premise Club

Club Sapphire is a private swingers lifestyle club in Tukwila, Washington, offering approximately 10,000 square feet of party space with a dance floor and DJ, buffet appetizers, lockers, showers, and multiple playrooms. Annual membership is required, and the club enforces a couples-first policy with exceptions for singles after five attended events. Sexy or themed attire is required; casual wear is not permitted.

Bliss Cruise

Fort Lauderdale, FL

Cruise

Bliss Cruise is the original and largest adults-only, clothing-optional lifestyle cruise experience, chartering full ships from Celebrity Cruises and Royal Caribbean for voyages built around freedom, connection, and adventure. Since launching in 2015, the Fort Lauderdale-based company has grown from intimate sailings to filling vessels carrying up to 6,000 guests, with their November 2026 Wonder of the Seas charter already sold out — a testament to the passionate community they have cultivated. Each sailing is a carefully curated blend of luxury cruising and lifestyle exploration. By day, guests enjoy clothing-optional pool decks, workshops on intimacy and communication, and meet-and-greet events designed to spark connections across every comfort level. By night, the ship transforms with elaborate themed parties — from Glow Night and Fetish Night to formal galas and foam parties — plus multiple playrooms including couples-only spaces, a fetish dungeon, and open-air play areas, all governed by a culture of enthusiastic consent and mutual respect. With Caribbean itineraries departing Fort Lauderdale, Miami, Tampa, and soon New Orleans, Bliss offers 4- to 7-night voyages calling at ports like Cozumel, Jamaica, Aruba, and St. Maarten, often featuring signature clothing-optional beach takeovers. Cabins range from cozy interiors to sprawling penthouse suites, and a dedicated mobile app helps guests connect before and during the voyage. Whether you are lifestyle veterans or curious newcomers, Bliss delivers a professionally run, judgment-free environment where couples can explore at their own pace.

The Swinger's Grotto is a private lifestyle club in Burlington, NJ welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

Lacey's PlayHouse is an upscale, hosted lifestyle party venue near Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. The venue offers a safe, judgment-free environment for couples and open-minded adults in an intimate, curated setting.

Club Safe Word is a private lifestyle club in San Diego, CA welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

Club Giggity is dedicated to creating a new standard for adult lifestyle parties across the Mid-Atlantic and Northeast. The BYOB venue hosts curated events with a focus on inclusivity, quality, and an elevated party experience.

Center for Sex Positive Culture (CSPC)

Seattle, WA

Community Center

The Center for Sex Positive Culture is Seattle's longest-running sex-positive organisation — a volunteer-run 501(c)(7) nonprofit founded in 1999 that has registered more than 10,000 members over its quarter-century history. Originally known as The Wet Spot, CSPC lost its permanent Interbay building in 2017 and nearly folded, but a new generation of leadership rebuilt operations at Gallery Erato in Pioneer Square (309 1st Ave S), where the club now hosts a rotating calendar of themed parties, workshops, and discussion groups covering BDSM, swinging, polyamory, and kink across all orientations and relationship styles. Events run on a regular monthly rotation: Fresh Meet for newcomers looking to connect, Myself! for exhibitionism and voyeurism, The Grind as a goth-industrial dance-plus-dungeon night, Sense & Sensuality for guided sensory exploration, and LaQueer — a quarterly party by and for the LGBTQIA+ community. Every event requires a membership ($10/month or $100/year) and advance online ticket purchase ($25–45 sliding scale; no door sales, no refunds). New members must complete an orientation session before their first party. All play areas are open — there are no private rooms — and trained volunteer Monitors and Event Coordinators are on the floor at every gathering. CSPC's non-discrimination agreement is among the most explicit in the lifestyle world: all genders, orientations, play styles, relationship structures, races, religions, abilities, and body types are welcomed, and biased remarks of any kind result in immediate removal. The venue is wheelchair-accessible on the main floor (basement is stairs-only), bathrooms are gender-neutral, and sliding-scale pricing keeps events within reach. Its educational sister organisation, Pan-Eros Foundation, produces the Seattle Erotic Arts Festival out of the same Gallery Erato space.

Private Residence

Braven Manor is a long-running, community-oriented kink and lifestyle venue operating from a private home in North Burnaby, just outside Vancouver. Since 2008, the space has served as an intimate alternative to commercial clubs, offering a fully equipped dungeon, themed play rooms, and flexible event programming that spans BDSM, swinging, fetish play, and group encounters — all at an accessible price point of $30 per person. The house features a dedicated dungeon with suspension frame, bondage table, cage, and spanking benches, plus a garage play space, whipping room with St Andrew's Cross, a medical room with a fucking machine, a school room, and multiple private lockable bedrooms. Supplies including condoms, lube, gloves, cleaning products, towels, and unlimited soft drinks are all included with admission. A Sybian is available during events, and the space can be rented privately for couples or small groups at hourly rates. Run as a non-profit by operator Seann Lyncaster, the venue hosts rotating events on its own calendar system — from gangbangs and BDSM play parties to swinger nights and private bookings. Membership signup is free, the atmosphere is pansexual and LGBTQ+ welcoming, and newcomers receive an orientation tour on arrival. The BYOB format keeps costs low, and a house safeword system underscores the consent-first culture that defines the space.

Ignite Club

Heathrow, London

On-Premise Club

Ignite Club is London's largest lifestyle club — a genuine dual-identity venue that runs as Kestrels Spa by day and Club Ignite by night, set on Bath Road in Longford right next to Heathrow's Terminal 5. The January 2025 rebrand of the former AbFab/Kestrels (and before that Kestrel Hydro Spa) keeps the same sprawling 422 Bath Road building but gives it a fresh identity under new operator Caroline Towers. The headline feature is a large heated nude swimming pool — reportedly the only one at any UK lifestyle club — alongside three hot tubs, a sauna and steam room, a porn cinema with comfy seating, what the operators call the largest dark room in London, a dungeon, grope boxes, nine play rooms (three private plus three with viewing windows downstairs, two two-way-mirror "sheds" and one private room upstairs, all lockable from the inside), a dedicated couples-only play room, plus a licensed bar and disco. There's off-road parking for around 30 cars with an ANPR system. Daytime Silks & Skins spa days run Mon/Wed/Thu/Fri/Sun 11am–6pm (Mon/Wed extend to 10pm as clothing-optional, Sunday runs to 8pm) with a strict naturist dress code in the wet areas — robes, towels, or nothing, and footwear required everywhere. Thursday and Sunday days allow lingerie as an alternative ("Silks & Skins"). Evening swingers parties run Friday and Saturday 9pm–2am (last entry 11:30pm) as "AbFabulous Fridays" and "Sensational Saturdays", with smart-casual enforced: collared shirts and smart shoes for men, sexy attire for women — no towels upstairs, no trainers, no leisurewear. Once a month one Saturday is exclusively couples and single ladies with no single men admitted at all. Themed nights rotate through Wicked Vixens, Asian Darkside, Latex & Leather, Mocha Nights, Half-Off Fridays, and an NYE 'Oscars' Ball. Pricing: Mon/Wed/Sun spa £40 couples / £17 ladies / £43 gents, Thu/Fri spa £35 / £15 / £40, Fri/Sat parties £35 / £15 / £50 (single gents must pre-book with £10 deposit, no walk-ins). Ignite is a private members' club — individual membership is £25 per person per year (no couples membership, everyone applies separately), or first-timers can buy a £10 day/night pass and upgrade for £15 extra. Two forms of ID are required at first visit (one photo, one proof of address — UK driving licence covers both) and you'll complete an online application in advance. Phones are collected at reception, bagged with a numbered tag, and stored under CCTV — no photography or filming anywhere in the venue. Consent is heavily emphasised: "don't touch anyone unless you're clearly invited to." Play is welcome throughout the building except in the pool, hot tubs, steam room, and outdoor smoking area. One complimentary towel per guest (extras £2.50). Worth knowing: despite the naturist spa format, this is NOT a British Naturism affiliated venue — play is permitted in playrooms throughout the day, which distinguishes it sharply from mainstream UK naturist spas like Clover Spa.

Club E'Lan, founded in 1994, was one of New England's premier swing clubs based in Wakefield, Massachusetts. The long-running venue served the lifestyle community for decades, though current operational status should be verified.

colette Austin

Austin, TX

colette Austin is Austin's definitive upscale lifestyle club — a private, members-only on-premise venue occupying 9,000 square feet across two levels in the Wells Branch district of north Austin. Step through the unmarked commercial exterior and the interior reads like a proper nightclub: a professional dance floor backed by state-of-the-art sound, dual balconies overlooking the bar and lounge below, plush sectional seating throughout, and a mood set by programmable lighting that shifts with each themed night. The club is BYOB with setups and ice provided — no liquor license, so bring your own and let the bar handle the rest. Play spaces are tiered by privacy: semi-private rooms with sheer curtains for voyeur-friendly encounters, fully private rooms with blackout curtains, a large open group area, a movie theater lounge, and a separate kink zone — all stocked with free condoms and cleaning supplies, all staffed by a team reviewers consistently call Grade A. Newcomers get a full guided tour on arrival and a standing Newbie Night every Wednesday designed for first-timers: come curious, ask questions, dance, watch, do nothing at all if that's what you prefer. The crowd skews couples with professionals in the mix, and the dress code is enforced — collared shirts and slacks for men, cocktail dress to lingerie for women, fetish and leather always welcome. colette is a national chain founded by John and Jackie Melfi (who also run the OpenLove101 lifestyle blog). The Austin location opened January 2018 and connects into a membership network of 250,000+ members spanning five cities. One membership works at all locations. Fridays rotate between Hotwife Nights and Pantiless Fridays; Saturdays bring themed events from Sabado Seduction to Cowboys & Corsets. Single men are welcome Wednesday through Friday; Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only. colette Austin is the only permanent upscale on-premise lifestyle club in Austin, and it's built to feel that way.

On-Premise Lifestyle Club

Tucked away in Calgary's southeast industrial quarter, Adore Social Club is the city's premier on-premise lifestyle venue — a polished, members-only retreat where nightclub energy meets sensual freedom. Built on the bones of the former Moonlight Magic space (which it thoroughly renovated under new ownership), Adore has quickly become the most talked-about destination in the Alberta lifestyle community. Spread across 3,100 square feet on two levels, the club delivers a dual experience: downstairs, a full-scale nightclub complete with a starlit dance floor, professional DJ booth, stripper pole, and comfortable booth seating sets the social tone; upstairs, a lounge with pool table and darts transitions into a tastefully designed play area with four king beds, a sex swing, hand and ankle cuffs, semi-private alcoves, and a dedicated BDSM beginner area with a St. Andrew's Cross and spanking bench. Complimentary appetizers — cheese boards, charcuterie, fondue, and themed snacks — grace every event. The club operates BYOB with labeled lockers for storage, and supplies mixers, ice, water, and glassware at no charge. All first-time attendees receive a guided tour from hosts covering the layout, house rules, and etiquette — making it a genuinely welcoming environment for newcomers. The venue's health inspection rating of 98/100 reflects the ownership's commitment to cleanliness and care. Membership is by application only, with screening based on effort and presentation rather than demographics. Single males are welcome but must be vouched for by a member couple and attend their first event with that couple. Regular events run Friday and Saturday, with occasional Wednesday and Sunday specials. Dress code is "Dress to Impress", with themed nights rotating throughout the year.

On-Premise Club

Club Princeton is a private members' lifestyle club located at 425 South Princeton Avenue in Columbus, Ohio. The venue requires membership login for event details and access. Contact the club directly at 614-275-9861 for information.

Illuminaughty Denver

Denver, CO

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Denver is a consent-focused private lifestyle event series operating in Denver, Colorado, part of a national network spanning over 40 U.S. cities. The organization hosts monthly events ranging from casual cocktail mixers to private play parties, targeting couples and singles in their 20s, 30s, and beyond. Membership is application-based and a mobile app is available for members.

Dark Odyssey

Washington, DC

Event Organizer

Dark Odyssey is an event organization producing immersive multi-day lifestyle and kink festivals across the US. Flagship events include Winter Fire (luxury hotel takeover in Baltimore), Fusion (summer sex + kink + spirit festival in Northern Maryland), Summer Camp (Labor Day weekend camp experience), and Surrender (Bay Area/San Jose). Festivals bring together kinksters, queers, swingers, and spiritualists for intensive weekends of exploration, education, and play.

The Suite Life Platinum

Sacramento, CA

Lifestyle Resort

The Suite Life Platinum is a private members-only lifestyle club in Sacramento, California, offering exclusive adult-oriented events including themed parties, masquerade nights, and burlesque shows. The club is open to both singles and couples and also coordinates lifestyle travel packages to destination resorts and cruises. Membership is required for attendance.

Rooftop Resort

Hollywood, FL

Nudist Resort

Rooftop Resort is a clothing-optional nudist hotel in Hollywood, Florida, positioned between Fort Lauderdale and Miami and marketed as the only fully clothing-optional hotel in South Florida. The property includes a private heated sky pool with ocean and Intracoastal views, a tiki bar, an indoor lounge, and event hosting. Day and night passes are available alongside overnight accommodations.

Scarlet Ranch

Littleton, CO

On-Premise Club

Scarlet Ranch is a large private lifestyle organization in the Denver, Colorado area, operating out of a 36,000 square foot facility called Squirrel Creek Lodge since 2003. The venue hosts over 100 themed events per year with attendance ranging from 200 to 2,200 guests, and a capacity of up to 2,500. Amenities include three bars (BYOB), a fine dining restaurant, dance stages, and an outdoor tipi with fire pit; events run Wednesday through Sunday.

Pandora's Resort

Crossville, TN

Lifestyle Resort

Pandora's Resort is a clothing-optional lifestyle resort in Crossville, Tennessee, featuring renovated cabins, chalets, RV sites, a heated pool, hot tub, and on-premise play spaces. The resort hosts themed weekend parties with a nightclub, cafe, and tiki bar, with all amenities open 24/7.

Playful Friends is a lifestyle social group in Deptford, NJ that organizes events and gatherings at various venues. The group connects open-minded adults through curated social experiences.

Shrine Austin

Austin, TX

Event Organizer

Shrine is a lifestyle event series in Austin, Texas, hosting themed parties and social gatherings for open-minded adults.

BDSM Club

The Crucible is Washington DC's only private kink club, operating as a non-profit 501(c)(7) for nearly two decades. The venue features a full dungeon space and hosts events for the Black Rose community and the broader BDSM scene.

Naughty Revival

Minneapolis, MN

Lifestyle Resort

Naughty Revival is a Minneapolis-area lifestyle event organizer that runs two-night hotel takeover experiences for adult couples and open-minded singles. The events are ticketed and periodic rather than held at a fixed venue. The organization also lists travel and resort partnership opportunities for members.

BDSM Club

The Lifestyle Lounge in Eccles, Greater Manchester is one of the UK's longest-running lifestyle clubs — over 40 years of history, formerly Adam and Eve's, fully rebranded in 2025 to welcome couples, LGBTQ+, kink, and fetish guests across four themed floors. Facilities include a hot tub, jacuzzi, sauna, swing room, private rooms, pool table, and lockers. BYOB (up to 4 cans or a half-bottle). Dress code: bright, kinky, as wild as you dare. Featured on Channel 5's "Adults: 24 Hour Sex, Up All Night." Membership required; capacity 80.

Club Moist is a well-regarded lifestyle house party venue in the Philadelphia area, offering plenty of playroom areas in an intimate setting. Events cater to couples seeking a private, comfortable atmosphere.

Big Mamas Haus

Crimmitschau, Saxony

BDSM & Fetish Event Venue

BMH Event-Club — formerly known as Big Mama's Haus — is a sprawling BDSM, fetish, and swinger event location in the heart of Germany, housed in a converted warehouse in Crimmitschau's industrial quarter. Founded in 2006 by Irmgard Pruka (the original "Big Mama"), the venue combines two worlds under one roof: a ground floor with spacious swinger lounges, sauna, and a cinema room, and an upper floor featuring 11 exclusive SM playrooms with serious equipment — rotating cross, slave elevator, pillory, ball cage, prison cell, and two medieval torture chambers — plus a stylish bar and event space. Rather than opening every weekend like a traditional club, BMH operates as a curated event venue — hosting 2–4 themed productions per month from independent organizers and its own team. Events range from latex passion nights and BDSM play parties to Gorean fantasy workshops and grand slave auctions. Entry typically runs 50–85 EUR per person and almost always includes a full buffet and drinks. An adjacent warehouse and 6,000 sqm outdoor grounds handle the mega-events, with overnight rooms available from 30 EUR. Cash only. Rated 4.8/5 on JoyClub from over 250 reviews with nearly 270,000 total visitors, BMH draws guests from across Germany and Europe. Reviewers consistently praise the cleanliness, friendly staff, excellent food, and the care that's gone into making every room unique. The house motto says it all: "We are everything, just not boring."

Venus Club is a lifestyle venue in Pennsauken, New Jersey, serving couples and open-minded adults from the greater Philadelphia area. The venue offers a BYOB policy, kink-friendly atmosphere, and regular themed events in a welcoming setting.

Mindbender Parties

Boston, MA

Event Organizer

Mindbender Parties is an East Coast event organizer hosting lifestyle parties primarily in the Providence, Rhode Island area. Events feature DJs, dancing, a play area, and a welcoming atmosphere for newcomers. Dedicated security staff are present at every event to ensure guest safety and comfort.

Saints & Sinners AC

Atlantic City, NJ

Event Organizer

Saints & Sinners is an on-premise lifestyle club with two locations in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, featuring playrooms, lounge areas, common areas, and dance floors. Regular weekend events include Fishnet Fridays, Newbie Nights, and Kinky Karaoke, typically running 9 PM to 3 AM. Annual membership costs $50 for couples, $20 for single women, and $100 for single men.

Silk Lifestyle

Miami, FL

Social Club

Silk Lifestyle is a premium lifestyle events company in Miami, Florida, hosting invitation-only gatherings themed around house music and social mingling at upscale Miami Beach venues. Events are priced per couple, and applicants undergo a 24-to-48-hour review process before approval. The organization markets itself as Miami's most exclusive lifestyle community and offers referral incentives for members.

On-Premise Club

R-Place is a private lifestyle club in Omaha, NE welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

Baltimore Playhouse

Baltimore, MD

BDSM Club

Baltimore Playhouse is Charm City's premier kink and BDSM community space — a sprawling 12,000 square foot non-profit venue that holds the title of the largest known play space of its kind in the United States. With multiple play rooms, dungeon equipment, and a designated medical play area, the Playhouse is purpose-built for exploration in a safe, consent-first environment. The venue operates as a completely dry, drug-free space with trained Dungeon Monitors overseeing every event. The vibe is welcoming and unpretentious — after the lobby curtain, you can wear anything or nothing at all. A snack bar keeps everyone fueled, and the strict no-photography policy means guests can truly let go and be themselves. First-timers are especially welcome through the monthly "Kink: First Contact" night — a free open house with guided Q&A sessions and hands-on demonstration stations, no membership required. As an NCSF Coalition Partner with roots stretching back to 1997, Baltimore Playhouse has earned a perfect 5.0/5 rating on Yelp, with reviewers calling it "the most inclusive place on the planet." LGBTQ+ inclusive. All orientations and identities embraced. 19+ only.

Described as the largest, most active swingers group in Hawaii. Events feature an afternoon women-only session followed by an evening mixed session for women and couples. Operates via private locations on Oahu.

Auberge La Passion

Drummondville, Quebec

On-Premise Club

Auberge La Passion is a private swingers club (club libertin) in Drummondville, Quebec, founded in 2014 by Luc and Chantal. Rated 4.8/5 on Google with 36+ reviews, it is consistently praised for exceptional cleanliness, respectful atmosphere, and welcoming hosts. The venue features a nightclub with dance floor, billiard room, spa, themed playrooms with soft BDSM options, a mirror room, and a licensed bar. Fridays are meet-and-greet nights open to all including limited single men, while Saturdays are couples and single women only with themed events (lingerie, leather & latex, corset, fluo, masquerade, and more). Overnight suites available in the main building and adjacent Le Petit Hotel annex. First-timers receive a guided tour and full orientation.

The Upper Level at The Diplomat Health Club

Grand Rapids, MI

On-Premise Club

The Upper Level at The Diplomat Health Club is an alternative adult stay in Grand Rapids, Michigan, offering overnight rooms for all genders. Accommodations include a Master Suite, Retro Room, and Loft Room, with day-pass access included in room pricing. Guests must be 21 or older with valid ID and credit card.

CKJ Studio (Club Kink Jax)

Jacksonville, FL

BDSM Club

CKJ Studio has been Jacksonville's original alternative lifestyle club since 2014 — a private, non-profit social organization and Northeast Florida's premier members-only venue for the kink, BDSM, fetish, swinger, and LGBTQ+ communities. The space spans two distinct sections: the main Club Kink Jax area with a full dungeon (St. Andrew's cross and spanking bench), a lush Moroccan-themed lounge, a medical examination room, and Sybian stations; and the expansive La Intima VIP Lounge, which adds a dance floor, voyeur area, king-sized play beds, a private locker room, and showers — every play space stocked with condoms, cleaning supplies, and fresh linens. Far from a "Ken and Barbie" scene, CKJ draws a genuinely diverse crowd across ages, body types, orientations, and experience levels — rated 4.7 stars by over a hundred members. One first-timer memorably described it as "an adult Disney World where people embrace exactly who they are." Each open night begins with a 7–9 PM social hour welcoming newcomers before members-only play opens at 9 PM. The programming calendar is consistently varied: Wild Wednesdays, Fetish Fridays, monthly Kinky Bingo nights, a monthly Shibari Experience in the on-site Kinbaku Cardinale Dojo, occasional burlesque shows by Pink Pussycat Productions, and — every October — the three-day Jax Fet Fest Expo, a regional kink convention drawing attendees from across the Southeast with 40+ workshops, a vendor floor, and themed dungeon parties open to the public. Getting in starts with a pre-paid orientation ($20 via Eventbrite, offered at 7, 8, and 9 PM on open nights) — a 30–45 minute session covering consent culture, house rules, and a full venue tour before any membership can be activated. Trial membership ($69/person, one visit, couples and single females only), Annual membership ($149/person plus $25 per visit), and VIP membership ($599/person, unlimited visits with full La Intima access) are the three tiers. Single males must enter at the Annual tier. Every event is 21+ with no walk-ins, a strict no-phones-in-play-areas rule, and a consent-first culture maintained by on-site monitors.

Forbidden Omaha

Omaha, NE

Off-Premise Club

Forbidden Omaha is a theme-centric lifestyle club and Nebraska's self-described premier lifestyle venue. The club hosts meet-and-greets and special events in a welcoming environment for open-minded adults, currently operating under new ownership with hours from 9 PM to 2 AM.

Menages Club

Nashville, TN

On-Premise Club

Menages Club was a lifestyle club located in Nashville, Tennessee, operating at a fixed venue with tiered entry pricing. The club is currently listed as closed.

The Sanctuary SLC

Salt Lake City, UT

Off-Premise Club

The Sanctuary SLC is an invitation-only private lifestyle club located in a restored historic building in downtown Salt Lake City, Utah. The club hosts curated exclusive events, intimate gatherings, and immersive workshops focused on connection and personal exploration. Membership is limited and by invitation only, with an application process available through the club's website.

DB Socials is a private lifestyle club in Grafton, MA welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

Karizma Social Club

Glen Gardner, NJ

Social Club

Karizma Social Club is a members-only lifestyle club in Glen Gardner, New Jersey, open every Saturday and the first and third Fridays of each month. Membership is application-based for couples, single women, and single gentlemen, with single men permitted to attend only on the third Saturday. All membership and entry fees are paid in person; the club does not accept online payments.

Club Dalliance

Columbia, SC

On-Premise Club

Club Dalliance is an on-premise lifestyle club located in Columbia, South Carolina, open on Saturday nights from 9pm to 2am.

Choice Social Club

Providence, RI

On-Premise Club

Choice Social Club is New England's flagship on-premise lifestyle club — 8,000 square feet behind a famous red door on Porter Street in Providence, with 14 themed playrooms spread across the building: a voyeur chamber with a one-way window, a schoolhouse room, a massage room, a blacklight room, a glory hole room, a group room with an L-shaped multi-bed layout, and a dedicated BDSM area with St. Andrew's crosses. The dance floor has a video wall and stripper pole, the lounge is done in leather furniture with warm tones and low lighting, and a backyard patio opens up for summer events. Staff actively change sheets between uses and keep the space clean throughout the night — a detail reviewers consistently call out. The club is BYOB with a clever system: you hand your bottles to staff at check-in, they label everything with your membership number, and the bartender mixes your drinks all night using the club's provided mixers and ice. Membership runs $45/year for couples ($250 premium), $40–65 for single women, and $100 introductory for single men with a 3–4 month waitlist. Event admission on top is $90 for couples, $100 for single men, and $5 for single women (sometimes free with early arrival). Your first visit includes a complimentary trial membership. Themed Saturday nights run 9 pm to 2 am — everything from costume parties to summer BBQ events. The crowd skews about 90% couples with an average age of 35–45, and the single-male ratio is tightly managed to keep it couples-focused. Playroom etiquette uses a signal system: a plastic chain on the door means open to observation or requests, an open door without a chain means ask politely, and closed curtains or doors mean full privacy. Cell phones and cameras are strictly prohibited inside. Operated by Jim Knaus through Red Door Operations, LLC since 2009, Choice holds a federal trademark and has weathered a full-year COVID closure — a 2021 GoFundMe raised over $5,000 from 56 donors to help reopen.

FuseX Social Club - South Dakota Chapter

Sioux Falls, SD

Social Club

FuseX Social Club - South Dakota Chapter is a social club in Sioux Falls, SD for lifestyle-minded adults seeking to connect through casual meetups and social events. A welcoming environment for those new to the community.

On-Premise Club

TNT's Playground is a private lifestyle club in South Amboy, NJ welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

Club Iniquity

Gaylord, MI

On-Premise Club

Club Iniquity is a lifestyle hotel takeover event organizer based in Gaylord, Michigan, established in 2017 and describing itself as the Great Lakes region's premier swinger's club. Events are all-inclusive weekend packages covering hotel accommodations, full party admission, workshops, and meet-and-greets, plus breakfast and late-night snacks. The club emphasizes consent, inclusivity for all experience levels, and a limited capacity to maintain a personal atmosphere.

Electricity Social Club

Providence, RI

Event Organizer

Electricity Social Club is a members-only lifestyle venue housed in a historic industrial loft at 122 Manton Avenue in Providence, Rhode Island. The BYOB club features a dance floor, multiple playrooms, a dungeon, and a smoking lounge, open Friday and Saturday from 9 PM to 2 AM and Sundays from 8 PM to 1 AM. Annual memberships start at $40 for singles and $60 for couples.

Dominium Vita

London, London

On-Premise Club

An inclusive and luxurious private members club for the sensually intelligent, where deviancy is an art form. Crafting immersive events, decadent retreats and curated encounters for those who crave beauty, depth and uninhibited connection.

The Riverside Club

Gallipolis Ferry, WV

On-Premise Club

The Riverside Club is a private membership-based lifestyle club in Gallipolis Ferry, West Virginia, hosting monthly themed events. Events run from 8pm to 2am on Saturdays and include themes such as Leather and Lace, Safari Night, and Country and Western. Membership registration and RSVP are handled through the club website.

On-Premise Club

Club FA (Freedom Acres) is a private lifestyle club in San Bernardino, CA welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

Club Eros

Cleveland, OH

On-Premise Club

Club Eros is a private members-only lifestyle club in Cleveland, Ohio, describing itself as the largest and most established adult entertainment club in the Midwest with over 20 years of operation. The venue hosts themed Saturday night events running 9pm to 3am, with tickets available for select gatherings. Membership packages are available through the website.

Richmond Sauna

Richmond, ME

Bath House

Richmond Sauna is a clothing-optional bed-and-breakfast and wellness retreat located in Richmond, Maine, operating as a healing community since 1976. The historic 1800s property offers six guest rooms, Finnish-style wood-fired saunas, an outdoor hot tub, and a seasonal heated swimming pool. Community sauna sessions run Wednesday through Sunday evenings, and the venue welcomes guests from diverse lifestyle communities.

Club Escape is a private lifestyle club in Cleveland, OH welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

On-Premise Club

Leisure Time Club is an on-premise lifestyle club located in Hartford, Connecticut, which identifies itself as the longest-running swingers club in the United States. The club operates a membership program and maintains a regular event calendar. The venue emphasizes a welcoming and health-conscious environment for its members.

Fetish Week London

London, London

BDSM Club

The UK's biggest all-male fetish week, organised by Recon and held annually in London each July. Eight days of diverse parties, social events, workshops and experiences for guys into leather, rubber, uniform and fetish gear.

On-Premise Club

Casa No.1 is a Mediterranean-styled villa tucked away on Blankenauer Strasse in Chemnitz — 500 square metres of indoor space spread across four levels plus a sprawling 5,000 m² outdoor area with a swimming pool, lounge seating for 150, and even yachts repurposed for open-air play. Owned and run by the Ranft family since at least 2011, the club has quietly built one of the strongest reputations in eastern Germany: 4.9 out of 5 stars across 831 reviews on JOYclub, with more than 458,000 recorded visitor check-ins and 1,816 fans on the platform. Everything is all-inclusive — admission covers the full bar, a gourmet buffet with themed dishes, sauna, towels, and parking (including RV spots). The club operates two regular nights: Wednesday's "Afterwork 2.0" from 5 pm to midnight (ladies free, couples from €60) and Saturday themed parties from 8 pm to 3 am (couples from €90, single men from €100). Each Saturday brings a different theme — from 80s retro nights and Schlagerparty XXL to Caribbean pool events and the annual Oktoberfest. Facilities span a dance floor with live DJs, a massage lounge, glory holes, a fully equipped BDSM area, private and group play rooms, and a cosy sauna for cooler evenings. Gentlemen who arrive without clubwear can rent suit pants and a shirt for €10 including professional cleaning. First-timers get a genuine welcome through the "First Time 4 Free" programme, and the club's motto — "Everything is possible, nothing is mandatory" — sets the tone for a consent-first atmosphere. JOYclub members receive a €10 discount on standard admission. Directions are simple: A4 Exit 70 Chemnitz-Glösa, then 2 km on the B107 toward Chemnitz — look for the colourful chimney. Large on-site parking means no circling the block, and Bus Line 22 (Hochhausfurt stop) covers the 3 km from the Hauptbahnhof if you'd rather not drive.

The Playground RI

Providence, RI

On-Premise Club

The Playground is a weekly lifestyle venue in Providence, Rhode Island, offering a safe, fun environment for open-minded adults. The space is operated by BBadd Entertainment and hosts regular events for couples and singles in the lifestyle.

Swingers Club

Tucked away in a quiet industrial pocket of northeast Calgary, the Calgary Adult Playground Club has operated as one of the city's most private and long-running lifestyle communities since 2006. Known simply as CAPC or "The Studio," the 1,400 sq ft venue is deliberately unmarked from the outside — no signage, no music audible from the street, just a discreet entrance that members know to look for. Inside, it's a different world entirely. The ground floor combines a dance floor with disco lighting, a BYOB bar area stocked with mixers, ice, and glassware, and comfortable lounge seating. Upstairs, a dedicated play room carries a sensual dungeon atmosphere equipped with a Saint Andrew's Cross, bondage furniture, and safe sex supplies placed throughout. Regular events include Fetish Fridays and Swinger Saturdays starting at 9pm, plus occasional themed nights — rope bondage workshops, educational sessions, and exclusive CAPC Elite events for select members. Membership is invitation-only, either through referral from a current member or an interview with the owners. The community spans ages 21 to 60+, welcoming couples, single females, and those across the full spectrum of orientations and relationship styles: swinging, polyamory, kink, BDSM, and LGBTQ+. Single males are welcome at all events except Saturday nights, where entry requires a female partner or couple. The club's founding philosophy — safe, sane, and consensual with zero pressure — has made it a trusted space for Calgary's alternative lifestyle community for nearly two decades.

The Korral

Spring Grove, PA

On-Premise Club

The Korral is a members-only on-premise lifestyle club on a private property in Spring Grove, Pennsylvania, featuring a seasonal pool, hot tubs, playrooms with fresh linens, a dance floor, bar, and overnight private stay rooms. Monthly kink nights include educational demonstrations, and themed seasonal events run throughout the year. Single men must be sponsored by a current member couple and may only attend their first visit with their sponsor.

The Pleasure Garden Club

Philadelphia, PA

On-Premise Club

The Pleasure Garden Club is a members-only lifestyle nightclub in Philadelphia accommodating over 300 guests. The venue features themed private fantasy rooms, a main dance floor, group shower, two BYOB juice bars with complimentary mixers, and free gated parking. Fridays admit couples, single ladies, and single men; Saturdays are restricted to couples and single ladies. An upscale dress code is enforced and cell phones must be left in vehicles.

Club 2020

Malsch, Baden-Württemberg

On-Premise Club

Club 2020 arrived on the Baden-Württemberg lifestyle scene in September 2020 with a single mission: to build a genuinely design-forward lifestyle club for the Karlsruhe region. Nestled in the discreet industrial outskirts of Malsch — just 20 km south of Karlsruhe — it quickly earned JoyClub's highest distinction award and a near-perfect 4.7-star Google rating. The two-floor venue is immediately striking, with an interior that is deliberately beautiful and thematically rich, creating what the owners describe as an "exclusive atmosphere with a feel-good factor." The crowd is active and image-conscious — young and young-at-heart, in the club's own words — and the professional, charming staff earn consistent five-star praise for making every guest feel genuinely at home. The ground floor is the social heart: a dance floor with resident DJ, a full cocktail bar, and a first-class buffet restaurant that reviewers routinely single out as uncommonly good for a venue of this kind. Upstairs, six distinctly themed Räume der Lust (Rooms of Desire) offer a range of experiences — from the baroque Versailles Room for elegant intimate encounters, to the lockable Maritime Room, a private Couples Room, the large Caligula Group Room featuring a Czech Wall and glory holes, the Marquis de Sade BDSM Room for alternative play, and an SM area. A sauna and full hygiene facilities round out the amenities. The club operates under a clear consent-first philosophy: everything is possible, nothing is mandatory. Club 2020 runs on an event-driven model — most nights are organised by promoters through JoyClub, Germany's leading lifestyle platform, where pre-registering earns a meaningful discount off door prices. Fridays and Saturdays are the core nights (8 PM to 2 or 3 AM); occasional Thursday and Sunday events broaden the calendar. Entry prices vary by event and guest type: couples pay roughly €79–€99 on core nights, single women €25–€35, and single men at a premium. The themed event calendar is richly varied — Couples & Ladies Nights, BDSM takeovers, Queer Balls, Vegas Nights, neon glow parties, and seasonal celebrations running approximately weekly from April through November. Dress code is strictly elegant to fetish-formal; sneakers and flip-flops are turned away at the door.

Club AntiChrist

London, London

BDSM Club

Club AntiChrist has been running since 2004 and is widely credited as Europe's largest alternative fetish night. Held quarterly at Scala in King's Cross — a multi-floor Victorian venue steps from St Pancras — each event transforms the entire building into a sprawling playground for goth, metal, and kink communities. Three dancefloors run simultaneously: The Hole (all genres of metal), the Hellfire Room (goth, industrial, and post-punk), and the Foyer (80s and New Romantic), while the Theatre of Sin stages live bands, burlesque, aerial acts, and cabaret throughout the night. The BDSM dungeon — equipped by Benchmarxxx with St Andrew's Crosses, spanking benches, a cage, and a swing — is staffed by trained monitors who enforce a rigorous consent policy; anyone who touches without asking is ejected and permanently barred. A separate monitored dark playroom offers more privacy for couples and groups, with free condoms provided. Out in the rear garden courtyard, hot food is served all night alongside tarot readings and a Munch Space for kink community newcomers. Cameras are strictly banned throughout to protect guest privacy. The dress code is more accessible than comparable London fetish nights — a band t-shirt and combat boots meet the minimum standard, while full latex and elaborate fetishwear are enthusiastically worn. Tickets are per-event at around £30–48 advance or £40 cash on the door, with no couples pricing or solo-male restriction. Time Out consistently recommends it, and Cultured Vultures called it 'probably the best night out I've ever had in London.' The kink community's consensus is clear: Club AntiChrist is the most inclusive and least intimidating of the major UK fetish nights.

Red Room Nashville

Nashville, TN

On-Premise Club

Red Room Nashville is a members-only lifestyle club in Nashville, Tennessee, hosting weekly themed parties for screened adult members. The venue operates on a BYOB policy with complimentary mixers provided, features a large LED dance floor with a professional DJ, private rooms, and VIP seating. Membership is tiered and requires a 24-hour approval process; walk-ins are not accepted.

On-Premise Club

Michigan Fun Times is a private lifestyle club in Detroit, MI welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

Illuminaughty Albuquerque

Albuquerque, NM

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Albuquerque is a membership-based lifestyle event organizer that hosts exclusive cocktail mixers and private swinger parties in Albuquerque, New Mexico. It operates as part of the national Illuminaughty network, which runs events across more than 40 U.S. cities. Attendance requires an approved membership application, and members gain access to a referral program and a dedicated mobile app.

Oasis Aqualounge

Toronto, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Oasis Aqualounge is a clothing-optional, water-themed private members club for adults 19 and over, located in a restored 19th-century mansion in downtown Toronto. The venue features a year-round heated outdoor pool, hot tub, sauna, two bars, and play areas spanning four floors. Solo men are admitted Sunday through Thursday; Fridays and Saturdays are reserved for women and couples only.

Club 3X

Cocoa, FL

On-Premise Club

Tucked into Cocoa Village since 2016, Club 3X has built its reputation as the Space Coast's only on-premise lifestyle venue — and wears that identity with real pride. The 2,245-square-foot, two-floor space blends proper nightclub energy (thumping music, dance floor with spinning pole, pool table, bar seating) with the warm ease of a house party where regulars already know each other by name. The vibe is intentionally low-pressure: no judgment, genuine consent culture, and staff who welcome first-timers with a personal tour before they decide to stay. Club 3X has also planted itself firmly as Brevard County's LGBTQ+ safe space — Thursday is dedicated Pride Night, and the community is explicitly bi-curious and queer-friendly every night of the week. Beyond the social floor, the club layers in an impressive range of play spaces for a venue this size. Downstairs sits a dedicated BDSM dungeon stocked with a St. Andrew's Cross, spanking bench, suspension points, and a Sybian — joined by a Motor Bunny on Saturdays — plus two semi-private playrooms. Upstairs, the loft opens into a lounge, a shower room, a private lockable room for couples, and a larger group room with beds. A Dungeon Master staff member oversees the fetish spaces every Saturday. The club is clothing-optional all four nights, with bar service on-site and food from the sister lounge next door. Four themed nights give the week a clear rhythm: Wednesday's Hump Day is intimate and low-key; Thursday becomes Pride Night, explicitly welcoming the LGBTQ+ community and bi-curious guests. Fantasy Friday opens to couples seeking singles of any gender, voyeurs, exhibitionists, and nudists — with free pizza making a regular appearance. Sexy Saturday is the flagship: biggest crowd, best music, full fetish room with a Dungeon Master on duty. Entry is donation-based for couples (roughly $40–$45 suggested) and single women (~$10); single men pay $60 on Fridays and $80 on Saturdays. Membership is 18+ and required — sign up online or at the door on your first visit.

Lifestyle Playground

Denver, CO

Event Organizer

Lifestyle Playground is a private lifestyle event organization based in Colorado, hosting events in Denver, Colorado Springs, and Thornton. The group offers a range of gatherings from casual coffee meetups to full hotel takeovers with themed rooms, as well as workshops on sexual wellness. The community is inclusive of ENM, polyamory, swinging, LGBTQ+, and BDSM members, and access requires a membership application.

X Club Winnipeg

Winnipeg, Manitoba

Event Organizer

X Club Winnipeg is an adult lifestyle and social club spanning over 10,000 square feet across three floors at its Winnipeg, Manitoba location. The facility includes multiple play rooms, a hot tub room, sauna, steam room, and a range of locker and private room rentals priced per visit. Annual membership is available for couples and solo members and provides room reservations, event discounts, and reduced room rates.

The Badd Kitty Club is a women-run house party venue in Buffalo, New York, catering exclusively to couples and single women. The intimate setting offers a welcoming, female-empowered atmosphere for lifestyle events.

Club NV

Muncie, IN

Off-Premise Club

Club NV is an adult lifestyle club in Muncie, Indiana, open Saturday nights with themed events weekly. Membership and entry fees are handled at the door on arrival. The club hosts regular meet-and-greet discount nights alongside themed costume parties.

Syracuse Social Club

Syracuse, NY

Syracuse Social Club is a social club in Syracuse, NY for lifestyle-minded adults seeking to connect through casual meetups and social events. A welcoming environment for those new to the community.

Club Tempted

Louisville, KY

Lifestyle Resort

Club Tempted is a members-only private lifestyle nightclub in Louisville, Kentucky. Membership is offered in four tiers — Onyx, Crystal, Ruby, and Diamond — each providing different levels of access and complimentary event entry. The club also coordinates lifestyle travel experiences including cruises and resort getaways to destinations such as Cancun and Puerto Morelos.

Hawaii Swingers (hawaiiswingers.net)

Hilo, HI

Lifestyle Resort

Hawaii Swingers is a lifestyle platform serving the Hawaiian Islands with an events calendar, club directory, and community forums. The site maintains updated listings of parties, meet-and-greets, and hotel takeovers throughout Hawaii.

Online lifestyle community serving Hawaii. Listed in third-party directories but limited publicly available details.

Long Island's Naughty Neighbors

Hauppauge, NY

Long Island's Naughty Neighbors is a welcoming lifestyle group in Hauppauge, New York, running since 2015. The group offers no-pressure social meetups for newcomers and experienced couples alike, with a friendly approach to the lifestyle community.

CJ's at The Townhouse

Glasgow, Scotland

On-Premise Club

Tucked into a quiet corner of Kelvindale on Glasgow's leafy west side, CJ's at The Townhouse has built a reputation as one of Scotland's most welcoming swingers clubs. The venue spans two floors of a discreet townhouse on Ashburton Road, with a trio of stripper-pole-lined lounges, a self-service bar and a buffet downstairs, and a warren of eight themed playrooms upstairs. Owner CJ personally walks first-timers through the space, and the crowd — a friendly mix of regulars and newcomers, often spanning their late twenties to early sixties — sets a tone that's more living-room than nightclub. Parties run on a tight rhythm: Friday nights (8pm–midnight) are couples and single ladies only; Saturdays (9pm–2am) open the door to a limited number of single men; and once a month, a Wednesday afternoon party (noon–3pm) welcomes everyone. There are also dedicated gay and bi-male nights run under the @cjs4gay banner. Entry is by prior booking only — no walk-ins, no admittance after 11pm — and photo ID (passport, driving licence or utility bill) is required at the door. Dress code is strictly enforced: a sexy little number for the ladies, smart casual or sexy attire for the gents. The playrooms cover everything from a cinema lounge and an open group room to a fully equipped dungeon, a medical-themed private room, a voyeur room, and a couples-and-single-females-only room with a love swing. Phones are off in public areas and cameras are banned outright, which keeps the vibe relaxed and discreet. The "party contribution" at the door covers a buffet plus tea, coffee and soft drinks; alcohol is BYOB with no corkage. Towels and condoms are provided, there's a separate indoor smoking area, and an on-site wardrobe and makeover service is on hand for anyone who wants to dress up before they head in.

CC House Party

Country Club Hills, IL

On-Premise Club

CC House Party is the most talked-about lifestyle house party in metropolitan Chicago — an 8,000-square-foot private facility in Country Club Hills that fills with 60 to 100 couples every Saturday night. Two floors of play rooms, a dance floor with a pole and state-of-the-art sound and lighting, open and private party rooms, voyeur and exhibition spaces, massage table, bondage equipment, and a group shower give the space a genuinely upscale feel that earns its spotless 5-out-of-5 cleanliness rating on Kasidie. Eight co-ed bathrooms, towels, and a full dinner buffet are all included in admission — bring your own bottles and the mixers are on the house. Doors open at 8 pm and close hard at 11 pm — no late entry. The vibe tilts heavily toward couples and single women; single men are currently not being approved for membership. Getting in requires an online application through the Modern Lifestyle platform, a community profile with a posed couple photo, and ID verification at the door on your first visit. Membership runs $66.59 for six months (non-recurring), with event tickets purchased separately per party. Credit card charges appear discreetly as "ML Ticketing." Beyond the weekly Saturday parties, CC House Party organises travel events — lifestyle cruises, resort takeovers, and the annual Naughty N'awlins hotel takeover in New Orleans. The club's address stays private by design (you receive it after approval), and the whole operation leans into discretion: no public social media, no walk-ins, no exceptions. Listed on Kasidie (Club #2052), SLS, and Playdar (Club #502), with a phone line at (219) 689-8273 for questions.

VooDoo Leatherworks

Colorado Springs, CO

Social Club

VooDoo Leatherworks is a private members-only social club and community center for Colorado Springs' BDSM and alternative lifestyle community. The venue features over 3,000 square feet of play space with 15 play stations, suspension hard points, and regular dungeon parties, alongside educational classes, art shows, and community events. The organization is volunteer-led, 18+, and explicitly inclusive of LGBTQAI+ and ethically non-monogamous members; the space is also available for private and nonprofit event rentals.

Cats 2.0 Swingerclub

München, Bavaria

On-Premise Club

Cats 2.0 is Munich's oldest swinger club — a legacy that stretches back through its earlier incarnations as Karibik and the original Cats before relaunching at Paul-Gerhardt-Allee 44 in March 2022 under owner Sven Drummer. The 500 m² space holds up to 150 guests across six separate rooms including lockable couples' suites, a fully equipped BDSM area, a whirlpool, massage room, dance floor with top DJs on weekends, and a bar serving branded drinks and cocktails. Admission is all-inclusive: cold and warm buffet, every drink on the menu, towels, condoms, shower products, and locker access are all covered in the door price. Cash only. The club runs six nights a week with a different flavour each evening — Monday's "Schnupper Montag" is designed for first-timers at the lowest price point (couples €50, ladies €15), Tuesday is "Hot & Active," Wednesday welcomes a higher single-male ratio with "Herrenüberschuss," Thursday adds massage sessions with Kim, Friday brings "Sway and Play" and college-themed nights, and Saturday peaks with "Dark Experience" parties and headline DJs. Standard weekend pricing sits at €75–80 for couples, €120 for single men, and €25 for ladies, with JOYclub members saving €10 across the board. The club closes Sundays. With 3,080 JOYclub fans, nearly a million recorded visitor check-ins, and a 4.5/5 rating across 905+ reviews, Cats 2.0 has the numbers to back up its self-proclaimed "Big City Club" status. House rules are firm but sensible: towels between bodies and mattresses, no food or drinks in play areas, no street shoes, and no towel-only dress — this isn't an FKK club. Security is on-site nightly, and the motto "Everything is possible, nothing is mandatory" sets a clear consent-first tone.

Largest, most luxurious lifestyle club in Central PA. Sit-down meal service unique. 80-person Roman hot tub.

Est. 2004. Baltimore's premier on-premise lifestyle club. Black-owned and Women-owned. Changed local scene.

On-Premise Club

Chameleons in Darlaston is one of the UK's most established swingers clubs — over 25 years in the business, open 363 days a year (every day except Tuesday), across a three-floor sauna-based venue just off Junction 9 of the M6. The ground floor holds reception, a bar and lounge, a dance floor, two large jacuzzis, singles changing, and showers. Upstairs you'll find a TV lounge, couples changing, a steam room, main shower area, ladies' powder room, and a mix of private and communal play rooms including a couples-only section. The top floor adds a sauna box, more showers, extra play rooms, and lockable rooms for privacy. Ten on-site hotel rooms are available for overnight stays — five en-suites including one superior room with its own entrance. Each night has its own character: Monday is Bi-Night (strictly bisexual and bi-friendly, TVs welcome, 2 pm–midnight), Wednesday through Friday runs from 11 am, Thursday adds Nude Night from 6 pm (strictly no clothing or towels), Friday and Saturday stay open until 3 am, and Saturday switches to couples and single ladies only after 7:30 pm. The club is BYOB — bring your bottles and the bar will refrigerate and serve them back to you. Food is served during sessions and gets genuine praise (the lamb shank in particular). Lifetime membership is a one-off fee: £25 for couples, £10 for single ladies, £80 for single men, with entrance on top ranging from £12 to £40 depending on the night and gender. Single men can enquire Tuesday through Friday and Sunday, but membership isn't guaranteed and depends on the ratio of couples to single ladies. ID is mandatory — one form for couples and single ladies, two forms for single men. The club has an 8,900-strong Facebook following, 1,400+ Instagram followers, 200+ FabSwingers reviews rated "Fabulous," and runs a second venue in Newport (24 Church Street). Free on-site parking, a dedicated taxi service through Link Up Cabs (0121 568 8989), and bus links from Walsall, Wolverhampton, and Birmingham make getting there straightforward.

On-Premise Club

atlantisEVOLUTION is a nightclub-themed swingers and lifestyle club in Burslem, Stoke-on-Trent, voted the No. 1 nightclub-themed swingers club in the UK. Run by beloved hosts Cat and Tag for over 15 years, it spans two floors with dance areas, multiple play rooms, kasbahs, a cosy lounge, and an outside courtyard. The club operates as BYOB with a customer cooler fridge and sells soft drinks and mixers. Fridays are open to all including single males, while Saturdays are couples and single females only. Special events include PlaY Xtra (free 1st Wednesday), EVOLUTIONfetish (4th Sunday, non-swinging), Greedy Girls, Hot Wives, and newbie-friendly PoP My Cherry nights. Rated 4.7/5 across 40+ reviews, consistently praised for its welcoming, no-pressure atmosphere and attentive staff.

The Phoenix Ottawa

Ottawa, Ontario

On-Premise Club

The Phoenix is a private erotic social club in Ottawa offering weekly events including play nights on Mondays, BDSM/kink nights on Fridays, Swinger Saturdays, and inclusive bi/queer nights. The venue welcomes couples, singles, and all gender identities, and is also available for private party rentals.

The Foothills Club

Anderson, SC

On-Premise Club

The Foothills Club is a private membership-based lifestyle club in Anderson, South Carolina, catering to adults 21 and older. The venue hosts monthly themed events with ballroom dancing, an open bar, and finger food, and welcomes couples and singles in the lifestyle. A money-back guarantee is offered for first-time members, and lifetime membership is available.

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Club Alchemy is one of the UK's most ambitious lifestyle venues — a purpose-built adult club in Northwich, Cheshire, that hosts immersive themed events roughly two to three Saturdays a month. The venue features over 30 playrooms across multiple levels, including an Amsterdam Street section, a Live Porn Room, and a 1,500 square foot steam complex. Regular event nights span everything from Temptation and Fuckalicious to the upscale Dark Velvet and the exclusive Club Flesh, hosted in partnership with Torture Garden. The facilities are comprehensive: a full bar, dance floor, sauna, hot tub, dungeon, dark room, private rooms, and over 200 individual lockers. Entry is per-event with tickets purchased online — couples from £35, single ladies from £15. Single males are accepted in very limited numbers at £45, typically by prior email arrangement, and a VIP room is available for groups at an additional £30. Club Alchemy has earned a loyal following across the northwest England lifestyle scene for its production values and the breadth of its themed programming. The venue is 18+ and non-membership — each event is open to newcomers and regulars alike, with a strong emphasis on consent, inclusivity, and a welcoming atmosphere for couples and LGBTQ+ guests.

Club Chameleon

Flint, MI

On-Premise Club

Club Chameleon hosts swingers house parties in the Flint, Michigan area across a 3.5-floor venue with two bars, a dance floor, multiple playrooms, a hot tub, and a bonfire pit. Themed events include food, drinks, and prizes in a no-pressure BYOB environment welcoming to newcomers. Overnight accommodations are available.

Xtasia

West Bromwich, West Midlands

The UK's longest-running swingers club, established in the 1980s and located in West Bromwich. Features a nightclub, bar, themed playrooms, dungeon, hot tub, cinema, and on-site hotel — voted the number one swingers club in the UK.

Lifestyle Playtime

DeKalb, IL

On-Premise Club

Lifestyle Playtime is a private lifestyle club in DeKalb, IL welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

The Attic Experience

Derby, Derbyshire

On-Premise Club

A fully licensed, inclusive space in Derby created by swingers, for swingers, with over 40 themed rooms including a dungeon, disco room, and Harry Potter-themed space. A safe, judgment-free environment welcoming all orientations and experience levels.

Little Rock's primary lifestyle club operating through hotel events. Strong emphasis on consent, privacy, and respect. Does not release guest information. On-premise play is allowed.

One of Salt Lake City's longest-running lifestyle venues, established in 1995. Welcomes couples, females, and select single males.

A Knoxville-based lifestyle group hosting hotel events, typically at the Clarion Inn. Offers food, dancing, and play areas.

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The Sterling is an adult lifestyle party venue serving the greater Boston area, operating out of Waltham, Massachusetts and drawing members from across Massachusetts, Rhode Island, New Hampshire, and Maine. Events run Friday and Saturday evenings in a BYOB lounge setting, with admission limited to couples and single women; single men are admitted only at occasional Ladies' Choice events. Attendance requires being placed on an invite list, with both partners participating in a phone screening.

A private members-only social club in Memphis with a large dance floor, live DJ, and a massive 102-inch projector screen. Saturday nights only.

The Meeting Place

Decatur, MI

On-Premise Club

The Meeting Place is one of Michigan's oldest on-premise lifestyle clubs, located near Kalamazoo. The venue hosts parties on Saturdays and select third Fridays with a BYOB and 420-friendly policy. Couples must call together on the day of the event to receive the rules, fees, and address.

Afterdark Edinburgh

Edinburgh, Scotland

On-Premise Lifestyle Club

AfterDark is Edinburgh's premier private members swinging and kink club, originally known as "After Eight" before rebranding and moving to its current larger premises in October 2022. Located in a converted warehouse unit at Bankhead Workspace in Edinburgh's Sighthill area, the venue delivers an unexpectedly polished experience behind its industrial exterior. The spacious social lounge serves as the central hub, with atmospheric lighting setting the tone for the evening. Surrounding it are 9 dedicated play spaces of varying sizes — from intimate private rooms with doors to open play areas — plus a cinema room, dungeon/BDSM area, and a glory hole. Lockers are provided at the entrance (phones must be stored here), and changing rooms with showers and mirrors are available. Towels, condoms, and lubricant are provided throughout. AfterDark operates BYOB — bring your own alcohol and enjoy it in the lounge. Soft drinks are available for purchase via tokens bought at reception. The club runs a varied weekly schedule: Wednesday midweek sessions (8 PM–1 AM), Friday and Saturday main nights (9 PM–3 AM), and rotating Thursday events including TV/CD/Bi & Admirers nights, quiz nights, and rope classes. Themed events rotate regularly — lingerie nights, UV parties, wrestling themes, couples-only evenings, and seasonal celebrations. First-timers are welcomed with a guided tour from staff covering the layout, rules, and etiquette. Many guests attend simply to socialise without participating in play, and the club's 4.6-star Google rating (33 reviews) reflects the consistently welcoming atmosphere. Membership is £20/year (arranged on first visit), with entry fees of £35 for couples and £40 for single males on weekends. Dress code is smart casual — no sportswear, team clothing, joggers, or hats permitted.

Our Place 4 Fun

London, London

On-Premise Club

London's friendliest members-only swingers club featuring multiple themed play spaces, a dungeon, lounge bar and a no-pressure atmosphere. Hosting weekly events like Frisky Fridays and Butterfly Club nights with real energy and sexy vibes for all experience levels.

Hanke Panke Lifestyle Club is a private lifestyle club in San Diego, CA welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

DJ's Island

Beaver Falls, PA

DJ's Island is a lifestyle venue featuring a full nightclub atmosphere with buffet dining included. The venue offers accessibility features and a vibrant party environment for lifestyle enthusiasts.

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Miami Velvet is a private adult lifestyle nightclub in Miami, Florida, spanning 20,000 square feet and claiming the title of Florida's largest on-premise swingers club. The club hosts events on Friday and Saturday nights plus monthly themed parties, and draws a membership base from across South Florida and internationally. A couples membership is waived for first-time visitors, though entry fees still apply, and a dress code is enforced.

Chateau Royal

Bad Honnef, North Rhine-Westphalia

On-Premise Club

Chateau Royal is a couples-only club set in a historic 1903 villa deep in the forested Siebengebirge hills outside Bad Honnef — 870 square metres across three levels with capacity for 120 couples, making it one of the largest and highest-rated Pärchenclubs in North Rhine-Westphalia. Owner Stephan personally greets every guest at the door and gives first-timers a guided tour of the themed rooms, BDSM area with cage, waterbed room, cinema room, fireplace lounge, sauna, and covered outdoor terrace with its own cocktail bar. Two indoor bars serve drinks and cocktails all night, and the buffet — consistently described in reviews as restaurant-quality — is replenished late into the evening. Everything is included in admission: all food, all drinks, towels, and condoms. Cash only at the door, €10 key deposit for lockers. The club opens Fridays at 7 pm (until 3 am, couples €110, single women €40) and Saturdays at 7:30 pm (until 4 am, couples €120, single women €40), with JOYclub members saving roughly €10. Single men are not admitted — this is a strict couples-and-women-only policy, with the sole exception being Trio evenings on the last Friday of each month where one pre-vetted man may attend with a couple. Themed events rotate weekly: FKK naturist parties, Jung & Wild for younger guests, U50 nights, Ladies Night, Königinnen der Nacht, Schamloses Treiben, and masked Venetian galas, each with its own enforced dress code. Saturdays regularly hit waitlist status, so advance registration is strongly recommended. Dress code is strictly enforced — erotic clubwear, leather, latex, lingerie, and heels for women; fitted black clubwear, leather, mesh, or bondage pants for men. No jeans, street clothes, printed t-shirts, flip-flops, or dirty shoes under any circumstances. Phones and cameras are completely prohibited inside. The club holds a 4.9/5 rating across 3,509 JOYclub reviews with 7,909 fans and over a million profile visits, plus 4.7/5 on Google from 120 reviews — #1 of 7 clubs in Bad Honnef. Free parking with overflow shuttle and valet service, tucked into the valley near the colourful landmark chimney. The 10-year anniversary celebration runs May 23–25, 2026, including a Rhine boat cruise.

Body Shop Pittsburgh

McKees Rocks, PA

Club

The Shop Social Lounge — known in the lifestyle community as Body Shop Pittsburgh — is a consent-forward, members-only social club for adventurous adults in McKees Rocks, just minutes from downtown Pittsburgh. Spanning over 15,000 square feet, the venue blends nightlife energy with intentional connection, offering themed play rooms, a full dungeon, a dance floor with a pole and vintage car DJ booth, a heated outdoor patio, and cozy lounge spaces designed for every comfort level. Friday and Saturday nights come alive with rotating themed events — from Latin Heat and Lingerie Night to kink-focused Freaky Fridays with on-site STI testing and BDSM education workshops. The club is radically inclusive, welcoming all genders, orientations, and relationship structures, with gender-neutral pricing and a strong LGBTQ+ presence that sets it apart from most lifestyle venues. Safer Space Monitors patrol every event, and the culture of enthusiastic consent is woven into everything from the application process to the playroom doors. Co-founded by Gelsomino Esplandiu and John Ross, the club has earned a devoted community and a 4.8-star Google rating through its commitment to cleanliness, safety, and a zero-pressure atmosphere. Membership starts with a free online application including photo verification, and the BYOB format keeps the vibe relaxed and personal. Whether you are a curious newcomer or an experienced explorer, The Shop meets you exactly where you are — no judgment, no expectations, just real connection on your own terms.

Missouri Lifestyles Club is a private lifestyle club in Sedalia, MO welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

SNCTM

Beverly Hills, CA

On-Premise Club

SNCTM is an ultra-exclusive private members club founded in Beverly Hills in 2013 and now headquartered in New York, hosting events internationally. Evenings are structured as curated theatrical experiences — beginning as refined salons and progressing into immersive performances where guests may observe or participate. Membership is tiered (Aurum, Dominus, Deus), recording devices are strictly prohibited, and all attendees agree to confidentiality requirements.

The 1836 Club

Little Rock, AR

On-Premise Club

The 1836 Club is a private lifestyle club in Little Rock, AR welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

Club Red Door

Gastonia, NC

On-Premise Club

Club Red Door is a private adult lifestyle club located in Gastonia, North Carolina, near Charlotte off I-85. The venue features five themed rooms including a theater and dungeon space, with BYOB beer and wine permitted and doors open Friday and Saturday nights. Couples and single women are welcome; single men require prior approval via message.

MW Euphoria (Midwest Euphoria)

Shakopee, MN

Lifestyle Resort

MW Euphoria is a Midwest-based lifestyle event organizer and membership community billing itself as "The Midwest's Leading Lifestyle Party." The organization hosts and promotes hotel takeover parties and travel experiences including cruises and resort packages at clothing-optional adult destinations. Events are couples-focused and access requires a paid membership through their online platform.

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Jay-Dees is a purpose-built, stylish swingers club on a secluded property on the Bedfordshire/Cambridgeshire border, near the A1. Facilities include a disco with pole, cinema and playrooms, dungeon area with original beams, hot tub, and sauna in a safe, no-pressure environment where guests can meet and mingle.

Pulse Lounge

Memphis, TN

Pulse Lounge is a private lifestyle club in Memphis, TN welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

Black Diamonds Swinger Club

Alexandria, VA

Event Organizer

Black Diamonds Swinger Club is one of the DMV area's most prominent lifestyle event organizers, creating a welcoming and celebratory space specifically for African American and POC communities and their admirers. Based in Alexandria, Virginia, Black Diamonds hosts rotating events across the greater Washington DC metropolitan area — from hotel takeovers in Northern Virginia to private venue parties — with an emphasis on safe, consensual, and sex-positive experiences for all attendees. Rather than operating a fixed venue, Black Diamonds curates themed gatherings at carefully selected locations disclosed only to vetted guests. Their events draw a diverse crowd of couples, singles, and groups looking for an inclusive atmosphere rooted in respect, consent, and genuine connection. A thorough vetting process via online forms ensures everyone shares the same values and expectations before attending. With over 24,000 Instagram followers and an active presence across multiple platforms, Black Diamonds has built a loyal community in one of the country's most vibrant lifestyle scenes. New guests can connect through their Linktree, explore upcoming events via shared Google and Apple calendars, and reach out directly through social media. Payment is handled through CashApp and Venmo, keeping the process simple and discreet.

FuseX Social Club - North Dakota Chapter

Fargo, ND

Social Club

FuseX Social Club - North Dakota Chapter is a social club in Fargo, ND for lifestyle-minded adults seeking to connect through casual meetups and social events. A welcoming environment for those new to the community.

A lifestyle club in the Tulsa metro area (Catoosa/Locust Grove) catering to swingers, fetish, and LGBT communities. Associated with LS-Adventures, also home to ARVC in Ft. Smith.

PolyUrban Studios is a pressure-free lifestyle space in Carmichael, California, welcoming club members of all orientations. The venue offers lockers, private rooms, a lounge, and a kink-friendly atmosphere for socializing and connection in a BYOB setting.

Alaska Club Kink (ACK)

Anchorage, AK

BDSM/Kink Community Club

Alaska Club Kink (ACK) is Anchorage's one-of-a-kind kink and comedy community club — the rare venue that pairs BDSM education with open-mic nights, karaoke, and stand-up comedy under one roof. Founded by Surge Kulikov after the closure of ACAL in 2019, ACK operates out of subSpace, a 2,000+ sq ft LGBTQIA2S+-friendly, veteran-owned event space at 2217 E. Tudor Road, Suite 3. The club is built around an education-first philosophy. Monthly Kink 101 classes welcome complete beginners, a companion educational website (alaskakinkeducation.com) provides a public library of kink resources, and Dungeon Monitors are present at all events to ensure safe, consensual play. The weekly schedule is packed: Mystery Munches every Thursday (7:30–9:30 PM at The Raven Bar, open to the public), Tuesday Rope Jams and board game nights at subSpace, Friday Open Dungeon (7–10 PM, $20 drop-in), and monthly themed play parties on Saturdays (7 PM–1 AM, $40 general / free for All Access members). Play parties are potluck-style — the club provides finger foods, desserts, and non-alcoholic drinks, and attendees can bring dishes to share. The venue is fully dry: no alcohol is served or permitted, which removes consent complications and makes the space accessible to those in recovery. The 1,000 sq ft open dungeon floor is equipped with a large suspension frame, St. Andrew's crosses, bondage horse, massage tables, and more — all available for member use. Membership is free to join online (processed within a few days), with a paid "All Access Pass" tier that waives event fees, eliminates equipment rental deposits, and grants 50% off play parties. Comedy, theater, and public events are also hosted at subSpace separately from the kink programming, normalizing the space within the broader Anchorage community. In a state where alternative lifestyle spaces are rare, ACK is the community hub.

Tulsa's lifestyle club, run by the original owners of Green Door Tulsa. Averages 100-200 people per party. Open to the public with no membership required. Single females always welcome.

Mile High Club Chalet (MHCC)

Glendale, CO

Social Club

Mile High Club Chalet is a private adult retreat operating across four locations in the Denver metro area, including Centennial, Denver, and Glendale. The space is designed for personal use by two or more people and explicitly is not a social club or a place to meet others. Access is digital and reservation-based, with membership packages ranging from single visits to multi-visit plans.

Opened 1974. South Florida's famous elegant private members-only BYOB lifestyle nightclub. Behind unmarked black door.

PLUR Productions / Studio PLUR

Vancouver, British Columbia

Event Organizer

PLUR Productions is a sex-positive event production company based in Vancouver, British Columbia, serving the LGBTQ+, swinger, kink, and burner communities under the ethos of peace, love, unity, and respect. Monthly themed events and bi-monthly meet-and-mingle nights are held at various venues, with clearly marked play areas, on-site consent staff called Cupids, and complimentary safer-sex supplies provided. Membership is required for entry; the club is open to all orientations and gender identities at identical admission rates for adults 19 and older.

YKW (You Know Where)

Fayetteville, NC

Lifestyle Resort

YKW (You Know Where) is a well-known lifestyle club in the Fayetteville, North Carolina area with over 40,000 registered members. The club is currently rebuilding at a new 27,000-square-foot location targeting a summer 2026 reopening, with hotel takeover events held in the interim.

A new lifestyle club in rural Acadia Parish that faced significant local opposition. The parish passed an ordinance to restrict the club's activities.

The Ecclesia

Glasgow, Scotland

On-Premise Club

Based in the heart of Merchant City in Glasgow, The Ecclesia strives to build a safe kink environment which overlaps with swinging. Born from the closure of Glasgow's historic dungeon, they exist to fill the void left by clubs shutting down across Scotland, providing a fantastic space that offers something for everyone.

Previously voted #1 Lifestyle Club in Texas. Located near downtown Dallas with an old speakeasy vibe.

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Within Temptation is a swingers and fetish club in Torquay, Devon, celebrating freedom and exploration as more than just a club but a community. Facilities include a licensed bar, heated indoor pool, sauna, dungeon, gloryholes, orgy bed, pole lounge, and private rooms, with full disabled access to the lower grounds.

Monkey Business

Wickford, Essex

On-Premise Club

Monkey Business is a private members-only lifestyle party organisation in Wickford, Essex, inviting guests to step out of the vanilla and into a life full of erotic excitement. Events range from intimate gatherings to lavish parties with a bar, hot tub, heated pool, and newly refurbished social and play rooms.

colette Dallas

Dallas, TX

On-Premise Club

colette Dallas is the chain's high-energy Texas flagship — a private, members-only on-premise lifestyle club spanning 8,000+ square feet across two floors in northwest Dallas, near Love Field. The aesthetic is modern warehouse meets nightclub: a dance floor anchored by stripper poles and a stage, high-tech lighting and sound, and a curated upscale crowd that takes the dress code seriously. The Dallas Observer ranked colette first in its "Best Swingers Clubs Dallas" feature, and SwingerLifestyle.com puts it at #2 across all of Texas — the most prominent on-premise lifestyle venue in Dallas–Fort Worth. Play spaces are tiered three ways: semi-private rooms with sheer curtains, fully private rooms with blackout curtains, and a centerpiece group play room with a round bed and spectator seating. There's also an in-club movie theater showing adult films, a quieter second-floor lounge, and a VIP room rentable for private parties of up to 30 ($500–$1,000) — a perk Texas reviewers consistently call best in the state. The bar is BYOB — no liquor license, but free mixers, ice, and setups are provided, plus a beverage cooler for member use. Newbie Night runs every Wednesday with the membership fee waived for first-timers; staff give every newcomer a guided tour on arrival. colette is a national chain founded by John and Jackie Melfi (who also run the OpenLove101 lifestyle blog and podcast). The Dallas location opened in 2012 and connects into a 250,000+ member network across five cities — Dallas, Austin, Houston, New Orleans, and San Antonio. One membership works at all of them. Single men are welcome Wednesday through Friday; Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only. Recurring themed nights include Pantiless Fridays, Thirty Dollar Thursday, and rotating fetish, lingerie, and costume parties — and i.Candy Parties hosts large monthly events at the venue throughout the year.

Vault72

Plymouth, Devon

Off-Premise Club

Vault72 is Plymouth's premier alternative, LGBTQ+ friendly bar with a passion for kink, celebrating diversity and liberated alternative lifestyles. Founded by a group sharing a common interest in alternative and kink lifestyles, it offers swingers, kink, and social events in a safe, welcoming environment with a social bar area and well-equipped dungeon.

Sinn-Ergy Events

Alexandria, VA

Event Organizer

Sinn-Ergy Events is a members-only lifestyle event organizer based in the Washington, D.C. area. The organization hosts curated private parties and social events, with access requiring an application and approval process. Prospective members must apply, and existing members periodically re-apply to maintain their standing.

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Orlando Swingers Club is an adult lifestyle club in Orlando, Florida offering themed parties, VIP memberships, and meet-and-greet sessions. The club is open to all lifestyles including LGBTQ+ members, and single women receive complimentary admission. Annual membership tiers are available for both singles and couples at varying price points.

Minglers Social Club

Daytona Beach, FL

Social Club

Minglers Social Club is a BYOB lifestyle club in Daytona Beach, Florida, open Fridays from 8 PM to 2 AM and Saturdays from 8 PM to 4 AM. The venue hosts themed events weekly including karaoke nights and costume parties. Guests must be 21 and over with valid ID.

Illuminaughty Colorado Springs

Colorado Springs, CO

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Colorado Springs is a consent-focused lifestyle event series serving Colorado Springs, part of the Illuminaughty national network present in over 40 U.S. cities. The organization hosts curated swinger lifestyle events and maintains a membership-based community with structured rules and etiquette guidelines. Members can access a referral program and a dedicated mobile app.

Private, referral-only lifestyle party series in the Scottsdale area. Events vary by venue and theme, always offering a steamy, erotic vibe in a safe and respectful environment.

Tennessee Temptations

Johnson City, TN

Lifestyle Resort

Tennessee Temptations is a couples-focused lifestyle membership and ticketing platform based in Johnson City, Tennessee. The organization hosts private events and coordinates travel experiences including adult resort getaways and lifestyle cruises. Members can create profiles, purchase event tickets, and connect with others in the community through the online platform.

The Hellfire Club

Sunbury-on-Thames, Surrey

On-Premise Club

The Hellfire Club is a well-established lifestyle club in Sunbury-on-Thames, London, hosting swingers, fetish, and BDSM parties for discerning couples and limited singles since 2008. Facilities include 9 lockable playrooms, one of London's largest dungeons, a schoolhouse, grope maze, and elegant wood-paneled lounge areas with Chesterfield seating.

Mitch's Place

Jacksonville, FL

On-Premise Club

Mitch's Place is a private house party venue in Jacksonville, Florida hosting weekly Saturday night swinger parties from 9 PM to 2 AM. The space includes a bar area, dance floor with a stripper pole, outdoor covered patio with a fire pit, and an enclosed hot tub maintained at 102 degrees. Entry is limited to couples and single women; BYOB is the format with setups, ice, and snacks provided.

The Red Chair

Birmingham, AL

On-Premise Club

The Red Chair is a nonprofit BDSM and alternative lifestyle club and educational organization based in Birmingham, Alabama, serving the Central Alabama community. Established as Alabama's oldest organization of its kind, it operates as a 501(c) nonprofit and hosts educational seminars, classes, group discussions, and regular events. The club is inclusive of all sexual orientations and consensual relationship styles, and is a coalition partner of the National Coalition of Sexual Freedom.

The Idaho White Rose

Post Falls, ID

On-Premise Club

The Idaho White Rose is a house party-style swingers club located in Post Falls, Idaho, between Spokane and Coeur d'Alene. Monthly themed events run Saturday evenings from 8 PM to 1 AM, with past themes including Pajama Party, Leather and Lace, and Hawaiian Party. Membership is required for RSVP access, and the venue address is not published publicly — attendees must contact the club directly.

Club Labyrinth LA (Hollywood)

Hollywood, CA

On-Premise Club

Club Labyrinth LA is an on-premise swingers and kink club set in a private Hollywood building, welcoming couples, single women, and single men. The venue offers group playrooms, semi-private areas, lounge spaces, and a refreshment bar; condoms, lubricant, and towels are provided. The club operates BYOB with a one-bottle limit and, as of early 2025, is temporarily closed while relocating to a new location.

The Cottage Social Club

Orrtanna, PA

Social Club

The Cottage Social Club is a members-only lifestyle club situated on a rural property in Orrtanna, Pennsylvania. The club offers Gold and Platinum membership tiers and maintains a dress code, single men policy, and in-person venue tours for prospective members.

Townhouse

Birkenhead, Merseyside

On-Premise Club

An established lifestyle venue on the Wirral hosting events for the swinging, BDSM and LGBTQ+ community for over 20 years. Known for setting the bar high with quality events and a welcoming atmosphere for brief encounters and lasting connections.

On-Premise Lifestyle Club

Angel of Love in Roth, Bavaria, is one of Germany's largest and most established lifestyle clubs, operating since the early 2000s in a sprawling 1,000–2,000 sqm venue near Nuremberg. Under new ownership since Spring 2025 (Jasmin & Markus Herrmann), the club has been freshly renovated and continues to operate from its original address at Gildestraße 15 in Roth. The venue features 13 individually themed rooms — including African-inspired, Egyptian, mirror, and dark-room areas — plus a dedicated dungeon/BDSM zone with St. Andrew's crosses, slings, a gynecological chair, and a suspension frame (Galgen). Additional facilities include a sauna, solarium, adult cinema, glory hole area, massage area, and a large dance floor. The on-site bar and kitchen serve drinks and food throughout the evening. Events run Thursday through Saturday with varying atmospheres: Thursday is more relaxed and affordable, Friday is intermediate, and Saturday is the flagship night with the strictest dress code and highest admission. Special events include Dark Intimacy (gothic atmosphere), Die Nacht der O (D/s and BDSM-themed), and Herrenüberschuss nights. The club has a strong community presence on JoyClub with a 4.9/5 rating from over 1,860 reviews and more than 5,000 followers, making it one of the most highly rated clubs in the German lifestyle scene. A dedicated first-visit (Erstbesuch) page on their website helps newcomers understand what to expect — the house philosophy is "Alles ist möglich, nichts ist Pflicht" (Everything is possible, nothing is required). Dress code is strictly enforced on Fridays and Saturdays: lingerie, erotic wear, or evening attire required; jeans and sneakers are not permitted. Changing facilities are available on-site. Single women pay the lowest entry; couples pay a moderate fee; single men pay a premium. All adults 18+ are welcome.

Lavish Lifestyle Events

Hauppauge, NY

Event Organizer

Lavish Lifestyle Events (formerly Club Manor) is an upscale lifestyle event company run by the same team behind Long Island's premier off-premise swingers club. The group hosts RSVP-only themed parties at private venues in South Florida and New York, emphasizing crafted cocktails, curated music, and a drama-free atmosphere for couples and singles.

The SPOTT Night Club

Kansas City, MO

On-Premise Club

The SPOTT Night Club is an after-hours nightclub in Kansas City, Missouri, operating at 2111 Television Place. The venue is open Saturday nights until 5 AM and positions itself as the only late-night after-hours party spot in the city. It offers a dance floor, DJ, and full bar service.

RolePlay Lounge is a private lifestyle club in Atlantic City, NJ welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

My Secret House Party Club

Mesa, AZ

Off-Premise Club

My Secret House Party Club is an invitation-only private lifestyle event space in Mesa, Arizona, operating since 2006. Events are held in a private home setting and are open to couples and single women, with some events including single men. The host personally vets all guests and the format emphasizes discretion, consent, and a no-pressure environment.

Hacienda

Brooklyn, NY

On-Premise Club

Hacienda is a members-only lifestyle community in Brooklyn, New York, hosting themed play parties and workshops across NYC. The venue emphasizes consent, community, and curated experiences at a private villa space. Membership includes access to exclusive events, workshop discounts, and a sex-positive social network.

Penthouse Playrooms is an exclusive members-only swingers and fetish club in Dunstable, Bedfordshire, inspired by the hedonistic spirit of Studio 54. The luxurious venue features 12 communal play areas, 8 private lockable rooms, a BDSM dungeon, Jacuzzi, wet room, and a huge dancefloor accommodating over 300 guests.

On-Premise Club

Club 101 has earned its place as Dayton's oldest on-premise lifestyle club through nearly three decades of building one of Ohio's warmest swinger communities. Step inside and you'll find a genuinely no-pressure atmosphere where couples, kinksters, BDSM enthusiasts, and alternative lifestylers are equally at home — whether it's your first visit or your hundredth. The club's DJ is a genuine point of pride, spinning what regulars call the best dance floor set of any lifestyle venue in the region, and the relaxed BYOB setup (cooler storage on-site, complimentary snacks and sodas) keeps the energy social and affordable. The layout is purpose-built for exploration at your own pace. Beyond the main room's dance floor, stripper pole, and pool table, Club 101 offers an impressive range of play spaces: five private rooms, two semi-private rooms with exhibitionist windows, a large group room, a mirrored group room, and a dedicated BDSM room with massage table. Showers, lockers, and on-site private parking round out the practical side — and first-time visitors are warmly invited to take a guided tour before committing to stay. Open Wednesday through Saturday (Saturdays run until 3am), the club requires a modest annual membership — $55 for couples, $65 for single men, $25 for single women — plus a variable door fee by night. The themed event calendar runs year-round: Leather & Lace nights, glow parties, fetish evenings, pole dancing nights, and more. Club 101 also partners with Shameless Care to give members free access to STI education, a sign that this community takes sexual health as seriously as the good times. Cash only; 21+ strictly enforced.

The Loft Club is a lifestyle venue on Long Island, New York, currently in the process of relocating to a larger space. Associated with the Naughty Neighbors group, the club offers regular weekend events for couples and open-minded adults.

Sea Mountain Inn Nude Resort & Spa

Desert Hot Springs, CA

Lifestyle Resort

Sea Mountain Inn is an adults-only clothing-optional lifestyle resort and spa in Desert Hot Springs, California, approximately ten minutes from Palm Springs International Airport. The property features 24-hour heated mineral water pools, whirlpools, a cedar sauna, spa and massage services, on-site dining, and guest rooms. The resort is open year-round and hosts regular themed lifestyle events for couples and singles.

Mon Chalet

Aurora, CO

Lifestyle Resort

Mon Chalet is an adult lifestyle resort in Aurora, Colorado, catering to couples and the swinger community. The property offers themed suites with amenities such as decorative fireplaces, swings, whirlpools, and a clothing-optional heated indoor pool and hot tub. Day swimming passes are available for non-overnight guests, and an online introductions section facilitates connections between guests.

Friends Night Out (FNO)

Aurora, IL

Event Organizer

Friends Night Out is a lifestyle event organizer based in Aurora, Illinois, hosting themed BYOB events at the TSIN Barn venue. Events are open to couples, throuples, and single women; single men are permitted at select events with access restrictions to certain areas. Themed dress is encouraged but not required, and event tickets are non-refundable.

On-Premise Club

Club Release is a private lifestyle club in Country Club Hills, IL welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

The Sanctuary (Tabu Swingers Sanctuary) is a private lifestyle club in Lansing, MI welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

Night Pleasures is a private lifestyle club in Lombard, IL welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

Infliction Hall

Euless, TX

On-Premise Club

Infliction Hall is a BDSM and adult lifestyle club in the Dallas-Fort Worth area of Texas, offering VIP and Platinum membership tiers. The venue hosts regular themed events including rope play nights, educational workshops in partnership with organizations such as the Texas Rope Group, and costume parties. Events typically run from 8 PM to 3 AM on weekends.

Sinners Den

Indio, CA

On-Premise Club

Sinners Den is an on-premise adult lifestyle club in Indio, California, featuring more than 15 play rooms, a fully equipped bondage dungeon, a heated saltwater pool, poolside cabanas, and a dance floor with pole dancing. The club is open Saturdays from 9 PM to 2 AM and welcomes adults 18 and over of all backgrounds and experience levels. On-site amenities include showers, towels, food, and drinks.

Shadows Private Club 2.0 is rated the number one lifestyle club in the DC Metro area, open more nights than most venues from Wednesday through Sunday. The club features themed parties, play areas, and a BYOB policy in a vibrant, inclusive atmosphere.

Fusion Parties

Manchester, NH

Fusion Parties is a lifestyle event organizer based in New Hampshire, hosting large house parties attended by hundreds of guests. The group collaborates with Mindbender Parties and H&H Social Club, creating a network of lifestyle events across New England.

Club Eden OKC

Oklahoma City, OK

Club Eden OKC is a lifestyle venue in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, part of the Club Eden chain of adult social clubs.

Saints & Sinners Philly

Philadelphia, PA

On-Premise Club

Saints & Sinners Philly is an on-premise lifestyle club with two locations in Philadelphia, offering playrooms, lounge areas, common areas, and a dance floor. Regular events include Fishnet Fridays, Newbie Nights, and Kinky Karaoke, typically running 9 PM to 3 AM on weekends. The club operates through the roleplayphilly.com platform and is affiliated with the Modern Lifestyle network.

Wicked Grounds

San Francisco, CA

BDSM Club

Wicked Grounds Annex is a San Francisco Bay Area organization focused on BDSM and kink education, offering monthly live classes, multi-week intensive courses, one-on-one coaching, and online video instruction. Led by instructor Miriam Green, the curriculum covers topics from negotiation basics to advanced techniques for practitioners at all experience levels. All programming is restricted to adults 18 and over.

Thad's

San Diego, CA

On-Premise Club

Thad's is a private social club in San Diego that has operated since 1973, making it one of the longest-running lifestyle clubs in Southern California. The club hosts couples-focused events Thursday through Saturday and on select Sundays, with entry by invitation — prospective guests call a hostess to confirm availability. Themed events throughout the year include Ladies Night, Mardi Gras, and Valentine's Day gatherings.

Club SINZ

Salisbury, MA

Event Organizer

Club SINZ is a couples-focused adult nightclub and social club in Salisbury, Massachusetts, billing itself as New England's premier couples experience. The venue combines a physical nightclub with an online social network (SINZ.NET) where members can connect with other New England couples before attending in-person events. Annual membership to the online platform is available separately from club admission.

The Art Cinema is an adult lifestyle venue in Hartford, Connecticut. Contact the venue directly for event schedule and details.

On-Premise Club

Couples Playhouse In Paradise is an on-premise lifestyle club in Naperville, Illinois, catering to couples in the greater Chicago area.

AfterDark Events

San Francisco, CA

Event Organizer (Pop-Up Play Parties)

AfterDark Events is a progressive, consent-forward kink and alternative-sexuality event organizer producing themed pop-up play parties, rope jams, speed dating events, and community gatherings across the San Francisco Bay Area. Founded in 2021 as the evolution of over a decade of ethical kink organizing, AfterDark is led by a POC, femme, queer, neurodivergent, and disabled team — and that inclusive ethos defines every event. Rather than operating a permanent venue, AfterDark hosts events primarily at Stopgap (San Francisco's premier kink club in SoMa) and Paradox SF (a queer/POC/disabled-owned space on Mission Street). Events feature distinct zones for socializing, dancing, kink play, and aftercare, equipped with St. Andrew's crosses, spanking benches, bondage beds, suspension hardpoints, cages, and a dedicated "fuck room." Food, water, coffee, condoms, lube, and earplugs are all provided. What makes AfterDark unique is its intentional, curated approach. Each event series has a distinct identity: SPANK! is the Bay Area's oldest running public kink party; RED is exclusively for queer women, non-binary, and trans folx; AURA centers dominant women and those who serve them; Element is for ages 18–39; Legacy for 40+; and Obsidian is the flagship all-genders blacklight play party. All events are strictly alcohol and drug free — attendees engage with clear heads and full intentionality. Safety is paramount: color-coded wristbands signal approachability (yellow = open, red = do not approach), dungeon monitors are always on duty, phones must be stored out of sight, and COVID vaccination plus same-day testing are required. Tickets are sold individually through Forbidden Tickets and Plura, with tiered pricing typically ranging from $25 (financial access) to $75 (day-of), and events regularly sell out.

Club Eden DFW

Euless, TX

Club Eden DFW is a members-only private social lounge in Euless, Texas, serving couples and singles in open relationships as well as the LGBT lifestyle community. The venue operates Wednesday through Saturday with hours running to 4 AM and features VIP party areas and private rooms. Access requires a paid membership through their online platform.

Michigan Swing Place

Lansing, MI

Lifestyle Resort

Michigan Swing Place hosts hotel takeover events in the Lansing, Michigan area. Events provide a comfortable, judgment-free environment for lifestyle couples and singles to socialize and explore. Bookings are handled online.

Club EASSEL is a private lifestyle club in Milwaukee, WI welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

Club4Play is a lifestyle travel club based in New England, organizing annual pool parties and hotel takeovers that rank among the largest in the region. Events feature poolside socials, play spaces, and a vibrant community atmosphere.

H&H Social Club (Heaven & Hell)

Portsmouth, NH

Social Club

H&H Social Club (Heaven and Hell) is a lifestyle event and travel club based in Manchester, New Hampshire. The organization hosts lifestyle-oriented social events and organizes adult travel experiences for its members.

Illuminaughty Austin

Austin, TX

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Austin is a private, invitation-only lifestyle event organization serving the Austin, Texas area as part of a multi-city network. The organization hosts adult social events for couples and singles aged 21 to 49 who apply through a membership screening process. Members access event details and RSVP through a dedicated mobile app.

Northaven Resort

Brooklyn, MI

Lifestyle Resort

Northaven Resort is a lifestyle-friendly resort in Brooklyn, Michigan, offering a private retreat for open-minded adults.

The Slippery Pineapple

Springfield, MO

On-Premise Club

The Slippery Pineapple is a lifestyle party club in Springfield, Missouri. The venue hosts regular events throughout the year and promotes itself as a social space for meeting other adults and dancing. It is a relatively new establishment with an active social media presence on Facebook, TikTok, and X.

Summer's Home for Wayward Swingers

Dallas, TX

A Dallas-based lifestyle events organization hosting parties at their Design District venue and luxury hotel locations. Prioritizes discretion and privacy.

Group in Keller TX

Keller, TX

On-Premise Club

Group in Keller TX is a lifestyle event organization based in North Texas that describes itself as the longest continuously running lifestyle group in the region. The group hosts hotel floor takeover parties at all-suites properties in Dallas and Plano, featuring DJ music and dancing on Friday and Saturday nights from 9 PM to 2 AM. Events include themed and LGBTQ+-inclusive nights, and attendance requires a membership.

Route 69

Weston-super-Mare, Somerset

On-Premise Club

Route 69 is the South West's friendliest adult club, a small and welcoming swingers venue in the heart of Weston-super-Mare with over ten years of history. The fully licensed venue features three lockable playrooms and a dungeon complete with swing, St Andrew's Cross, and stocks in a relaxed, no-pressure atmosphere.

Club Love Ltd

Bristol, Bristol

On-Premise Club

Club Love is a truly unique queer-owned, sex-positive party for underground clubbers in the kink and fetish community, based in Bristol Temple Meads' historic Ash Pits. Featuring curated DJs playing house, disco, and tech house, it's an inclusive space where dancers, lovers, and artists come together for radical self-expression with a dedicated queer-led wellbeing team.

The Pendulum Club (Hempstead Location)

Hempstead, TX

On-Premise Club

The Pendulum Club's original Hempstead location is a women-owned lifestyle venue styled after a 19th-century brothel, featuring 10 play areas in an intimate setting. The non-smoking BYOB club caters to couples, single women, and select single men, with ice, cups, and mixers provided. Part of a three-location chain across Houston.

An off-premise, members-only, invitation-only lifestyle club in Birmingham. Event locations kept private and revealed only to attending members. Described as a nice, quaint club with a great setting for socializing.

Ohio Swings

New Carlisle, OH

On-Premise Club

Ohio Swings is an adult lifestyle club located in New Carlisle, Ohio, hosting themed overnight events that typically run from 8pm to 10am. The event calendar includes recurring themes such as Fetish Friday, karaoke nights, LGBTQ-inclusive events, and cannabis-friendly gatherings. Online membership is available separately from event attendance.

The Warehouse

Meridian, ID

Social Club

The Warehouse is a members-only kink and swinger social club operating in the Boise, Idaho area, registered as a 501(c)(3) nonprofit. It hosts themed events including Debauchery Nights for mixed kink and swinger play and Pineapple Nights focused on swinging, with a wristband color system indicating attendee preferences. The club is BYOB, requires member vetting before attendance, and features equipment including suspension rigs, an impact bench, and a fire and wax room.

VIP Bliss

Miami Beach, FL

On-Premise Club

VIP Bliss is a screened lifestyle event organization based in Florida, hosting private parties across Miami, Fort Lauderdale, West Palm Beach, Tampa, and Orlando. Attendance requires an application and vetting process, and events are accessible only to approved members through a private online portal. The organization emphasizes exclusivity and privacy in its event model.

Swinger Club

Claudia's Dreamlight has been Nürnberg's definitive swinger club for over two decades, run by Claudia Schneider — a fixture in the Bavarian lifestyle scene since the early 1990s. Spread across roughly 1,100 square metres on two floors, the club manages to feel simultaneously grand and intimate: the ground floor houses a fully staffed bar, a generous hot-and-cold buffet, a dance floor with a pole, and a sauna, while the upper level unfolds into nine distinct themed rooms — mirror, jungle, rose garden, orgy, Egyptian, baroque, blue, a cuddle corner, and a Czech wall — plus an 80 m² BDSM area with a medical chair and specialty furniture. A sister space, Je t'aime, opens on Saturday evenings for couples seeking a quieter setting. Everything is all-inclusive: the entry fee covers unlimited drinks (alcoholic and non-alcoholic), a buffet with vegetarian and vegan options, towels, bathrobes, condoms, and hygiene supplies — a genuinely premium experience by European swinger club standards. Rated 4.9 out of 5 across nearly 5,000 Joyclub reviews and 4.8 on Google, regulars call it "the best club far and wide" — consistently clean, beautifully themed, and professionally run. Staff walk newcomers through the space on arrival, a red wristband signals a no-approach preference, and voyeurism is explicitly permitted, making Dreamlight one of the more welcoming entry points in Germany's swinger scene for curious first-timers. The club opens Wednesdays 10:00–17:00 for relaxed daytime "Good Morning" sessions, Fridays 18:00–01:00, and Saturdays 20:00–03:00 for themed evenings. Entry for couples ranges from €60 on Wednesdays to €100 on Saturdays; single women €20–30; single men €110–130 — all all-inclusive. A Joyclub profile unlocks a ~€10 discount per ticket and the full event calendar, where rotating themed nights include Sauna Party, Darkroom Shadows, Couples & Ladies Night, and the monthly First Friday with LED accessories. Free parking on site; U2 U-Bahn to Ziegelstein terminus, then a short walk. Cash only — no card payments.

The Fantasy Lounge

Kansas City, MO

Off-Premise Club

The Fantasy Lounge is a private members' social club in Kansas City featuring vetted guests, an upscale atmosphere, and themed social events throughout the year. Events are ticketed with advance RSVP available online.

Club Ambassador

Eisenberg, Thuringia

On-Premise Club

Club Ambassador is a well-established lifestyle destination in Eisenberg, Thuringia, conveniently situated near the A9/A4 Hermsdorf interchange — making it easily accessible from across Saxony, Saxony-Anhalt, and eastern Germany. The venue reopened in June 2025 as 'Ambassador 3.0' under new hosts Karin and Hans, following a renovation that added a separate annex building and a dedicated Folterkeller dungeon. The main building spans 500 square metres across three floors, with six distinctly themed rooms: the Roman Empire room, Black & White Atelier, Thai room, Baroque room, SM area, and a sauna with rain shower. Outdoor facilities include a swimming pool, hot tub, and sun loungers set on a generous 500 square metre wellness terrace. Inside, guests enjoy full bar service, a hearty buffet, and a dance floor with music. The club runs five days a week: a Wednesday breakfast party, a relaxed Thursday evening at accessible entry pricing, Friday and Saturday nights until 3 am, and a Sunday brunch. Saturday all-inclusive packages covering drinks, buffet, and toiletries are available for those who want the full experience. With a JoyClub rating of 4.8 out of 5 from 195 reviews and 4.5 on Google from 35 reviews, Club Ambassador is consistently praised for its friendly staff, clean facilities, and warm social atmosphere. A dress code is enforced — guests change from street clothes on arrival — and the club's philosophy of 'anything goes, nothing is required' ensures a respectful, consent-first environment. Parking including motorhome spaces is available on site.