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The Sanctuary (Tabu Swingers Sanctuary)

Lansing, MI

Alternative Lifestyle Lounge

Club Tabu, operating its social nights under the name "The Sanctuary," is an adults-only alternative lifestyle lounge located within Fantasies Unlimited, an adult retail store at 3208 S. Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd. in Lansing, Michigan. Despite carrying "swingers" in its social-media name, the venue's own site describes it as rooted in the LGBTQ+ community and states plainly that "the club is not structured as a traditional swingers venue," with its primary audience being gay, bi, trans, and gender-diverse guests, though it says it welcomes respectful guests of other identities. The space centers on a large, deliberately dark and winding maze of pathways and walls, along with private booths, a changing area with lockers, and common social areas. The atmosphere is described as sex-positive and kink-aware, with an emphasis on privacy, discretion, and guest-controlled pacing of interaction; a 2022 news investigation into the venue also referenced a glory-hole setup and a television area used for adult video viewing. Entry requires being 18+ with valid ID, and membership dues are collected per event night rather than as an ongoing membership. Patrons enter through the Fantasies Unlimited retail storefront and must tell the store clerk they are attending Club Tabu/The Sanctuary. House rules prohibit cameras and phone/recording devices inside the event space, restrict sexual activity to designated private areas, and ban loitering in parking lots or common areas; illegal drugs and disrespectful, non-consensual, or aggressive behavior result in immediate removal.

monthly fetish event (not a fixed-address club)

Club Sin is Montreal's longest-running monthly fetish event, held on the first Friday of each month in the second-floor cabaret of Café Cléopâtre at 1230 boulevard Saint-Laurent, at the edge of the Quartier des Spectacles. The event is organized by Eric Paradis, who has been active in Montreal's fetish scene for more than 35 years and who also produces the annual Montreal Fetish Weekend each Labour Day weekend. Café Cléopâtre — the last surviving show bar from the Main's most notorious era, operating since at least 1976 — provides the venue and a large part of its historical charge as a space that has hosted vaudeville, burlesque, drag, and trans cabaret for well over a century. Club Sin occupies the upstairs cabaret, a room built around a performance stage and a cash-only bar. The event is billed as a night of shows, dance, and play. Paradis has described the crowd as people from different backgrounds and professions who arrive in costume to express their identities as sexual beings; vibe reporting from 2010 documents an audience in black leather and latex alongside staged fetish performances, and a 2024 Concordian piece situates Club Sin as a pillar of Montreal's kink community, which it notes increasingly intersects with queer culture. The median age reported in early coverage was around 30. Café Cléopâtre has long been recognized as a welcoming space for Montreal's LGBTQ+ and trans communities, a character that carries through to Club Sin's programming. The upstairs bar is cash only; an ATM is available on the ground floor, which continues to operate as a strip club on event nights. No published dress code rules are independently accessible, though fetish and kink attire is consistent with the event's established character and organizer framing. Club Sin is distinct in format and scale from the annual Montreal Fetish Weekend, though both share the same producer and have used the same venue.

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Eden After Dark is an upscale, members-only swinger event brand based in Las Vegas and operating across the American Southwest since 2020. Rather than running a fixed club, it works as a roaming organiser — hosting curated, themed lifestyle parties in penthouse suites, high-end hotels, partner lifestyle clubs, and nightclub takeovers. Membership is by application: approved guests become "Keyholders," and events are not open to the general public. The brand markets itself to sophisticated male–female couples (its stated core demographic is couples aged 28–38) while also welcoming approved singles and the kink and LGBTQ+ communities. Events are pitched as "seriously sensual soirees," with care given to atmosphere, visuals, themes, and performances, and the exact location is shared only with invited guests. A recurring flagship is the Fetish & Glam Ball, staged at Gipsy Nightclub in Las Vegas — recent editions include a Kinktober night in October 2025 and an AVN-week edition in January 2026. The dress code is "dress to impress": no gym wear, sagging pants, ball caps, political attire, or open-toed shoes/flip-flops. The organiser never sells alcohol, instead providing mixers, water, and non-alcoholic drinks, so events are effectively BYOB, and everything is consent-first with no pressure to take part in adult activities. To attend, prospective guests apply as Keyholders at edenafterdark.com; admission prices vary by event and are disclosed on the invitation, and tickets for public-facing events are sold through Eventbrite. Inquiries go to a text-only line (1-844-722-7632) or Admin@EdenAfterDark.com. New members receive an onboarding email covering lifestyle etiquette, and ladies-only or ladies-priority nights run periodically to balance attendance. Beyond Las Vegas, the brand advertises events in San Diego, Los Angeles, and Temecula, California, though Las Vegas remains its consistently confirmed base of operations.

The Warehouse

Caldwell, ID

Social Club

The Warehouse — known to regulars as TW — is Treasure Valley's only private lifestyle social club catering to both the kink and swinger communities. Operated by AOK Collective Inc, a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit, the club relocated to its current Caldwell location, off the 10th Avenue exit, in April 2026. In keeping with its private, members-only model, the venue address is never posted publicly; it is shared exclusively via confirmation email with vetted members after they complete the online membership and vetting process. The space runs across multiple levels. The main floor holds a social area and kitchen with complimentary finger foods; an enclosed breezeway is fitted with couches, a dance floor, and a staffed Rendezvous Bar — BYOB, with an optional $20-per-couple bar service where the bartender stores and pours your drinks — and a live DJ who takes requests throughout the night. Upstairs are two VIP cabana rooms (the Playboy Bunny Room with three cabanas and the City Loft Room with four) alongside a large open play area with four queen beds. The lower level contains a stripper pole room and a sex-positive room with five open play queen beds. A dedicated dungeon — outfitted with dual crosses, two fire stations, two impact benches, and a massage table — is active on Debauchery Nights and closed on Pineapple Nights. The club operates three Saturdays per month, 8pm to 2am (7:30pm for VIP and Platinum members). Events alternate between two formats: Debauchery Nights blend kink and swinger play with a fully operational dungeon and optional scenes led by service tops; Pineapple Nights are swinger-focused with a wristband system signaling voyeur, social, or play intentions. Annual membership is $20 per person; per-event entry is a tiered donation of $30 per person if paid by 10pm the night before, or $40 at the door. An optional Platinum membership ($350 per couple or single-plus-one per year) adds early entry, discounted tickets, long-term alcohol storage, and a Rendezvous Bar upgrade. Attendance runs 150 to 200-plus on Pineapple Nights and 250-plus on Debauchery Nights, with an age range spanning 18 to 75.

Sweet Desires Club is an off-premise, invitation-only lifestyle club serving the Birmingham, Alabama area, founded in 2010 and run by owners Donna and Drew. Rather than operating out of a fixed venue, the club arranges space for its gatherings and shares the exact location only with confirmed members ahead of each event, a common model among Alabama's off-premise swinger clubs. The club caters to couples, single women, and a limited number of single men, and admits only adults 21 and older. Events run BYOB, with the club supplying drink mixers and a snack buffet, and a DJ providing music for socializing and dancing. Visitors who toured the space with owners Donna and Drew described a quaint, low-key setting geared toward conversation and mingling rather than a high-energy nightclub atmosphere, with hotel accommodations noted as being close by for out-of-town guests. New attendees join by requesting to be added to the club's mailing list; approved contacts then receive the event location and details by email ahead of each gathering. Entry is by invitation only, with no walk-in access, and events are generally held on a monthly basis.

Purple Mamba Club

West Bridgford, Nottinghamshire

On-Premise Club

Purple Mamba Club is a private members club for adults in West Bridgford, Nottingham, set behind 3-5 Radcliffe Road near Trent Bridge with a discreet rear entrance away from the main road. Operating under its own description as the Midlands' most intimate, exclusive club for liberated adults, it draws a membership predominantly of couples alongside a limited number of single ladies and gentlemen. New applicants are vetted in person with valid photo ID — membership cannot be obtained online — and a 48-hour probationary period follows before full membership is confirmed. The venue runs to a fully licensed members bar, multiple lounge areas fitted with plush furnishings and ambient lighting, a dancefloor, and a selection of private rooms ranging from a romantic bedroom and a boudoir-style space to a well-equipped dungeon. First-time visitors are met at the door by staff and taken on a guided tour before being free to explore. The club holds a 4.7-star average on Google from over 40 reviews, with visitors describing an intimate atmosphere, warm hosting, and a well-presented, respectful crowd. A broad events calendar runs alongside regular house party nights — Play Space sessions on Thursdays, lifestyle workshops for newcomer couples and single ladies, heavy play parties, and ticketed themed nights including Lace, Leather and Latex, Hotwife Soiree, and Sunday Sinners. The club opens Thursday through Sunday: Thursdays 20:00–00:00, Fridays 20:00–02:00, Saturdays 20:00–02:00, and Sundays 18:00–00:00. Annual membership is £40 per rolling year for couples and singles, with a reduced rate of £20 for students and MOD90 card holders. Entry tickets for specific event nights are purchased online and are non-refundable; advance booking is strongly advised on Fridays and Saturdays as capacity is capped. New members must apply in person; single-gent applications are currently limited and require a Sunday-evening interview. Dress code is enforced: plain shirts or suits for gents on Fridays and Saturdays, smart and sexy attire for ladies throughout. All guests must be 21 or older.

HUNTER

London, London

On-Premise Club

HUNTER is a monthly gay leather and fetish night established in 2023, held at Electrowerkz — a nineteenth-century warehouse at 7 Torrens Street in Angel, Islington (EC1V 1NQ). Founded by LeatherDaddy Brew Hunter and co-promoter DJ Scott Steele, the event was named Best Party Concept at the X-Awards 2026 (Darklands, Antwerp) and maintains an uncompromisingly male-to-male and hardcore-play focus. The venue is divided into a progression of dedicated zones. The Foreplay Bar serves as the main DJ stage and hosts the opening Foreplay Happy Hour from 20:00; the Cigar Yard, an outdoor smoking area, opens with the doors. Brew's Bar offers a premium drinks selection on a card-only basis. The Dark Zone and Rawhide Cruising Alley form the play core, supplemented by Cottaging Toilets and a Masters Circle centre-stage platform where Doms and Daddies present and work with their submissives in full view. A Punish.Men.T Corner rounds out the dungeon architecture. The KinXX Gallery rotates monthly fetish art installations and doubles as the venue for Fetish Academy workshops. A Berlin Porno Kino screens across the night, and a professional bootblack service is on hand for boot and gear shining. Full changing facilities and bag storage are provided. The night runs on the third Friday of each month, 20:00 to 03:00, with last entry at 01:30. Brew Hunter hosts a Meat & Greet from 20:30; DJ Steele takes the decks at 21:00; Fetish Academy workshop sessions begin at 21:15; and the hardcore zones formally open at 22:00. The event is strictly 18+ and male-focused. Dress code is enforced at the cloakroom exit and covers leather (boots, harnesses, vests, chaps, motorcycle jackets), rubber, neoprene, and skin or scally-themed fetish wear, as well as K9 gear presented with a handler. Police and military uniforms — real or replica — all sportswear, streetwear, denim, and near-naked appearances are prohibited. Advance tickets are available but do not guarantee entry: the dress code check at the cloakroom gate is final.

Complexe Luxuria

Montreal, Quebec

On-Premise Club

Complexe Luxuria is a members-only libertine club occupying two floors at 8820 Boulevard Saint-Laurent in Montreal's Ahuntsic-Cartierville district. Operating under a fully private club model — both a membership card and a per-night admission fee are required — it opened in 2021 and has established itself as one of Montreal's larger dedicated lifestyle venues. The typical crowd spans ages 21 to 55, with a noticeable lean toward locals in their twenties and thirties; the club positions itself as equally accessible to first-timers and regulars, welcoming couples, single women, and, under controlled conditions, single men. The ground floor functions as a nightclub: two full bars, a main dancefloor with a large disco ball, a small stage used for theatrical themed events (occasionally fitted with a hot tub), six VIP booths with the largest seating up to ten, three separate changing rooms with lockers, and LED ambient lighting throughout. An on-site kitchen serves dinner by advance reservation until 9 pm. The second-floor Luxure section holds more than 20 rooms: a couples room, fantasy rooms, a glass-walled stripper-pole room overlooking the dancefloor below, a swing room, a tantra chair, massage tables, glory holes, a BDSM area with a St. Andrews Cross, and three lockable themed private rooms available by paid reservation. A resident DJ plays every evening. The club opens Fridays from 9 pm to 3 am and Saturdays from 6 pm to 3 am, with occasional Thursday events. Couples pay 40 CAD on Thursdays and Fridays and 60 CAD on Saturdays; Saturday admission requires advance reservation. Single women enter free on all nights with a 25 CAD annual membership. Single men are admitted Thursdays and Fridays with a cap of ten per night on Fridays (75 CAD Thursdays, 100 CAD Fridays), and on Saturdays by chaperone arrangement or certified group membership at 100 CAD (maximum five). Couple memberships run from 40 CAD per month to 125 CAD per year. Photo ID is mandatory at every visit and mobile phones must be stored in a locker immediately after entry.

Members-only BDSM/lifestyle community center

Inversion MKE is a membership-based kink and BDSM community center operating at 615 S 89th St on Milwaukee's west side. The venue occupies the same commercial space as the former Club EASSEL, which operated for years as Milwaukee's BDSM and lifestyle community center. Inversion MKE, LLC obtained a three-year Special Use Permit from the Milwaukee Board of Zoning Appeals on 10 October 2024 (Case BZZA-24-00260, vote 5–0), classifying the space for zoning purposes as an indoor recreation facility. Permit conditions include a blanket prohibition on alcohol on premises at any time, adequate event staffing requirements, and no outdoor advertising beyond permitted signage. The club's community life is organized primarily through FetLife under the handle @InversionMKE, with a parallel Instagram presence at @inversionmke, reflecting its roots in established kink-community networks rather than mainstream nightlife promotion. The venue operates on a structured membership model, offering individual and couple/pair tiers. First-time guests must complete a paid orientation before attending regular events — a practice that emphasizes consent culture, community vetting, and safety briefing over open walk-in access. Memberships are non-refundable and auto-renew on monthly or annual cycles. The space positions itself as a community hub for Milwaukee's kink scene, carrying forward the regional network that had gathered around Club EASSEL at the same address, though the two operations are legally and organizationally distinct. Events run on a recurring weekly schedule: Friday and Saturday evenings are the primary play-party nights, with a shorter Tuesday slot reserved for members and sponsored guests. No alcohol is permitted on the premises at any time — a hard condition of the BOZA permit — making this a dry venue. Signage is limited by the zoning conditions, keeping the venue's street-level footprint deliberately low-key. New members are encouraged to connect through the club's FetLife and Instagram pages for current event listings and orientation scheduling.

Club Paradise

Amsterdam, North Holland

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Club Paradise occupies an intentionally inconspicuous address on Schaafstraat in Amsterdam-Noord — an industrial pocket north of the IJ waterway — and operates as one of the city's established lifestyle clubs for couples and singles. The venue markets itself as 'de mooiste parenclub van Amsterdam' (Amsterdam's finest couples club) and has built its reputation on upscale facilities, a rotating programme of themed events, and an atmosphere that positions itself as sensual rather than hectic. First-time visitors are offered a guided walkthrough of the space on arrival. The interior is spacious and atmospheric, anchored by a dance floor, a full bar serving cocktails and snacks, and large U-shaped sofas that allow groups to gather comfortably. Dedicated facilities include a heated swimming pool, sauna and Turkish steam bath, a darkroom, a kinky cage, multiple private lockable rooms, open erotic areas and relaxation spaces. A rooftop smoking area is reached by three flights of stairs. Secure lockers hold street clothes and valuables, and condoms are distributed throughout the erotic areas. The crowd tends to dress deliberately — lingerie and provocative attire for women, boxers or similarly revealing clothing for men — and the overall aesthetic is high-effort. Makeup artists and massage services appear at select special events. The venue runs Friday through Sunday. Friday brings the recurring After Three afternoon party, opening at 15:00 and running to 03:00. Saturday nights (20:00–03:00) host themed Couples Paradise events, restricted to couples and single women; entry is €100 per couple and €50 for a single woman, with single men barred from Saturday admission. Sundays (15:00–23:00) run Afterglow in Paradise sessions — open to couples, single women and single men — with the third Sunday of each month reserved for a dedicated BDSM edition. Entry on Saturdays includes a hot and cold buffet; Fridays and Sundays include finger food. Prices may vary on special-event nights as noted on event flyers. Payment is by debit card or cash only; credit cards are not accepted.

On-Premise Club

R3tro Club was a lifestyle venue at 33 Midland Road in Walsall, West Midlands, billing itself as 'The Midlands Premier Adult Venue' and a club 'for the liberated generation.' The premises at WS1 3QQ have been in use since at least August 2009, when the club relocated from an earlier site. Its current operating status is unconfirmed: the registered company R3TRO CLUB LIMITED was dissolved in August 2013, the club's own domain has since been taken over by an unrelated gambling affiliate, and the most recent independently verifiable third-party reviews date from January 2019. The venue was purpose-built for the lifestyle scene, with eight private playrooms alongside communal play areas, a jacuzzi with side seating, a games area with pool table and sofas, a separate chill-out room, changing rooms with private lockers, a double unisex shower area, a smoking area, and a refreshment zone. The policy was bring-your-own-drink, with soft drinks and snacks available on site. Third-party reviewers from 2012 through 2019 consistently described the interior as clean and well-maintained, with the exterior drawing occasional comments about its appearance. The atmosphere was described across multiple sources as warm and inclusive, with the club particularly noted for welcoming trans guests through its recurring Taboo Unleashed nights. Other events included greedy girls parties and fetish evenings.

Sensual Pleasures Lifestyle Club (SPLC)

Gatlinburg, TN

On-Premise Club

Sensual Pleasures Lifestyle Club (SPLC) is a private, members-only lifestyle club serving the swinger and fetish community of East Tennessee, describing itself as located in the heart of East Tennessee and the Smoky Mountains. Founded in 2021, the club has grown to a membership of more than 1,000 people who take part in its regular events and activities. The venue operates as a full-service lifestyle club, offering a dinner buffet with appetizers, desserts, and unlimited non-alcoholic beverages included; it is BYOB for alcohol, with complimentary mixers provided. Amenities described on the clubs site include intimate lounges, play spaces, and private rooms for socializing and play, and the property also functions as a bed-and-breakfast, with overnight accommodations and a complimentary continental breakfast available by reservation only. Entry is by private membership, arranged by contacting the club directly to begin an application; no street address is published, and one is provided to approved members. The event calendar runs weekly to biweekly theme nights and entertainment, including drag and burlesque shows, stand-up comedy, karaoke, casino nights, BDSM theme nights, and a recurring night welcoming bi couples, singles, and crossdressers/trans guests, with most events running from 8pm to 2am. No public admission pricing is listed on the site.

Parenclub Showboat

Zaandijk, Noord-Holland

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Showboat is a swingers club housed aboard a moored vessel on the Lagedijk waterway in Zaandijk, Noord-Holland, roughly fifteen kilometres north of Amsterdam. The boat setting is the venue's defining feature, attracting visitors from across the wider Amsterdam region on a seven-day schedule that spans both daytime and late-night sessions. It operates as an all-inclusive club on most days, with entry covering food and drink. The upper deck forms the social core of the venue, combining a bar, a buffet of warm and cold dishes, a dance floor, and lounge seating fitted out in polished wood, copper accents, and deep-red upholstery. The lower deck is devoted to play, housing a BDSM room, a jacuzzi, a sauna, a Turkish steam bath, and several erotically themed rooms. Dress code — tight boxer shorts for men, lingerie for women — applies throughout the venue; first-timers are permitted to start the evening in street clothes at the bar. Secure clothing lockers and shower facilities are available. Themed Friday evenings rotate across SM/Fetish Play parties, Gangbang nights, and Bi Fabulous events, the latter restricted to women and bisexual men with heterosexual single men excluded. The club is open daily. Weekday daytime sessions run Monday and Tuesday 12:00–17:30 (couples €40, women/T-girls €15, men €92.50) and Thursday 13:00–21:30 (couples €72.50, women/T-girls €35, men €120). Wednesday extends to 23:30 with tiered pricing: couples €92.50 full day, dropping to €60 after 19:00. Fridays run 13:00–02:30 at €110 per couple, or from 21:00 on the first Friday of each month. Saturdays are evening-only, 21:00–04:30, with couples at €92.50. Sunday afternoons (15:00–21:30) admit couples and women free of charge against a minimum bar spend of €35 and €20 respectively. Single men may attend every session but must hold a prior reservation; walk-ins are turned away without exception. No admittance is given after 02:00.

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Club Organza occupies a standalone venue at Laan van Duuring 1 on the edge of Breukelen, a small town in Utrecht province roughly midway between Amsterdam and Utrecht. Operating as an erotic discotheque rather than a conventional parenclub, it has built a following across the Netherlands as both a lifestyle destination and an after-party club — a dual identity that makes it unusual in the Dutch swinger scene. The venue is spacious, easily reached by car, offers free on-site parking, and carries wheelchair-accessible entrances and facilities. Inside, a large main dance floor anchored by resident and guest DJs — working across club, trance, and hard trance — sits alongside multiple erotic rooms that give the venue its lifestyle character. Earplugs are available for purchase at the bar, and all drinks run through a reusable paycard; any balance is refundable when the card is returned, and cards remain valid for two years after the last visit. Metal detectors are standard at the door. Parties run on Fridays and Saturdays, with a programme that mixes in-house events and third-party nights under names such as Kinky Paradise, I Love Kinky, and Secret Underground Sensual Fetish. The club's signature event is the Morning Mission, held every Sunday from 06:00 — an after-party that draws visitors from across the country. Entry starts at €15; tickets are required for most events and should be booked in advance. Dress codes are strict and vary per event — specifics are published in the club's online agenda. Solo male visitors are refused entry to the Morning Mission without exception; that event is restricted to couples and single women. Guests celebrating a birthday within the preceding week receive complimentary Morning Mission entry on presentation of ID.

The Phoenix Ottawa

Ottawa, Ontario

On-Premise Club

The Phoenix Ottawa is a private members' erotic social club occupying a discreet industrial space near the Hunt Club Road and Prince of Wales Drive area in Ottawa, Ontario. The precise address is not made public and is shared only after a vetting process — prospective members email info@thephoenixottawa.com to begin. The club welcomes adults aged 18 and over regardless of gender, identity, or sexuality, and operates with an explicitly LGBTQ2A+ and kink-friendly ethos. Alongside weekly programming, the venue is available to rent for private parties. The space is built around two fully equipped BDSM dungeons, each fitted with a spanking bench, suspension point, X-cross, and sex chair, among other apparatus. Two social lounge rooms provide space for conversation and mingling, while the play areas extend to a private pink-decorated bedroom and a double-bedded open room designed for exhibitionists and voyeurs. Additional amenities include a milking table and a dedicated aftercare room. Members store belongings in on-site lockers, and the club supplies condoms, lubricant, water, and light snacks at every event. Free parking is available on-site. Alcohol and cannabis are not sold; members may bring their own, with the understanding that visible intoxication can result in removal and that all tobacco and cannabis must be consumed outdoors. Events run across five nights a week. Misbehave Monday (every Monday, 7pm–11pm) is open to all members at $30 for men and $15 for women, non-binary, and gender-non-conforming guests. Bound to Please, a BDSM and kink night, takes place every Friday (8pm–1am) at $30 per person, also open to the full membership. Swinger Saturday runs on the 1st and 3rd Saturdays (8pm–1am, $30 per person), limited to couples and single women. The 2nd and 4th Saturdays host Men'z & Friend'z — an inclusive evening for bi, gay, and queer men and those identifying as men, trans, non-binary, or fluid (8pm–1am; $25 members, $35 non-members). Fifth Saturdays bring Her Playground, a hotwife and cuckolding night (8pm–1am; $60 per couple, $50 single men, $25 single women). Membership is purchased in person after vetting: couples pay $80 per year; single men $100 per year; single women, non-binary, and GNC individuals $40 per year.

Afterdark Edinburgh

Edinburgh, Scotland

On-Premise Lifestyle Club

AfterDark is Edinburgh's largest private members adult lifestyle club, established in 2022 and operating from a converted warehouse unit at Bankhead Workspace in the Sighthill area — previously known as After Eight at a smaller venue before rebranding and relocating to its current premises. The spacious social lounge serves as the central hub, with atmospheric lighting setting the tone for the evening. Surrounding it are dedicated play spaces of varying sizes — from intimate private rooms with doors to open play areas — plus a dungeon and BDSM area and a glory hole. Lockers are provided at the entrance for phones and belongings, and changing rooms with showers and mirrors are available. Towels, condoms, and lubricant are provided throughout. Afterdark operates BYOB for alcohol; soft drinks and snacks are available via a token system at the venue. The club runs a varied weekly schedule: Wednesday midweek sessions (8pm–1am) at reduced entry prices, Friday and Saturday main nights (9pm–3am), and select Thursday evenings (bi-weekly) featuring TV/CD/Bi & Admirers nights, quiz nights, and rope classes. Themed events rotate regularly — lingerie nights, UV parties, wrestling themes, couples-only evenings, and seasonal celebrations. Standard entry is £10 for single females, £20 for TV guests, £35 for couples, and £40 for single males; Wednesday prices are reduced across all tiers. Annual membership is £20 flat rate (singles or couples), arranged on the first visit. First-timers receive a guided tour from staff; many guests attend simply to socialise without participating in play.

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Sitting in the Victorian terraced streets of Burslem in Stoke-on-Trent's historic Potteries heartland, atlantisEVOLUTION has spent 15-plus years building its reputation as the Midlands' most recognised nightclub-themed swingers club. The venue occupies Evolution House on William Clowes Street on a private-membership basis, drawing couples and singles from across the North West and Midlands with a formula that layers nightclub production values - themed decor, resident DJs, and a multi-room layout - onto an adult lifestyle club format. Owners Cat and Tag are the constant faces behind the bar and at the door, backed by a small team whose warmth reviewers return to again and again; the venue holds a 4.6-star rating across more than 60 independent reviews. The weekly calendar divides sessions by attendance type. Fridays (9pm-2am) are open to all - couples, single males, and single females - while Saturdays (9pm-2am) are reserved for couples and single females only. Once a month on a Wednesday evening the club stages a special themed night, and the fourth Sunday of each month (3pm-8pm) becomes the dedicated EVOLUTIONfetish session. The club also runs Newbies Nights (branded Pop My Cherry), occasional orgy-party events, and sporadic hot-wife-themed evenings. Themed costume nights are a signature touch - past runs have included an all-white marquee party - but dressing up is always optional, never compulsory. Entry requires a one-off lifetime membership (20 GBP per couple or single female), taken out at the door on a first visit by presenting photo ID - a driving licence, utility bill, or bank statement. Nightly admission thereafter is 20 GBP per couple, 10 GBP for single females, and 30 GBP for single men. Soft drinks and mixers are available on-site for 2.50 GBP. The venue is compact but delivers what reviewers describe as a decent range of areas for people with different tastes - private areas and open - spread across two floors, with play spaces upstairs. Age minimum is 18 with no upper limit. The club holds a Food Standards Agency hygiene rating of Good and is partnered with Spice Lanzarote for lifestyle travel events.

The Edmonton O Society (EOS) is an unincorporated, non-profit society serving Edmonton, Alberta’s erotic BDSM community. Members and guests gather twice monthly in a casual, non-judgmental setting to share company, conversation, and mutual learning about consensual erotic expression. Membership is open to adults of all genders, orientations, and relationship structures — singles and couples alike — who approach the community in good faith and with a genuine interest in BDSM. The organization anchors itself to the National Leather Association’s foundational credo: Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Beyond the regular social evenings, the EOS runs a programme of workshops covering safety and health practices, skill development, and hands-on sessions such as toy-building. Paying members also gain access to an in-house lending library stocked with books, DVDs, tapes, and other instructional materials spanning the full range of BDSM and alternative lifestyle topics, as well as discounted admission to workshop events. The EOS is explicit that it is not a swinger club, dating service, escort agency, or voyeuristic venue — its purpose is education and community-building within a consensual adult context. Events are held in private or semi-private settings rather than a fixed commercial space; venue details are shared with verified members, consistent with the privacy norms of community-run BDSM societies.

Club Enigma is a private adult social club tucked into the Burnt Lake Industrial Park on the outskirts of Red Deer, Alberta — discreet from the street, lively within. Open since at least 2017, it has grown into a community fixture on Alberta lifestyle scene, running weekly Friday and Saturday nights plus a multi-day annual camping event now in its eighth year. Entry is by membership and pre-screening only; the vetted crowd spans the late twenties through the sixties, with couples, single women, and a select number of single men all welcome. The main floor opens into a generous communal space arranged around a long central table, a dance floor rigged with a pole and strobe lighting, a pool table, and a bar area where the house policy is strictly BYOB — bartenders are on hand to mix your drinks, and the club supplies pop, ice, water, coffee, and a popcorn machine. Member-made erotic artwork lines the walls and gives the room an industrial-intimate character that feels earned rather than dressed. Saturday nights close with a midnight lunch; music leans toward classic rock but requests are fielded. Upstairs, the play area holds two beds, three chaise lounges, a couch, a massage table, and a sex swing, with curtained semi-private nooks along the perimeter. The Dungeon is a separate dedicated space equipped with a glory hole, a BDSM cross, and a fuck bench. Lubes, condoms, and cleaning supplies are provided throughout. Membership and ticketing run through the NU Lifestyle platform; the regular door rate is $40 CAD per person on both nights.

Birdhaus

Toronto, Ontario

Birdhaus is a BDSM, kink, and alternative arts event space tucked behind the big pink building at 1233R Queen Street West in Toronto's Parkdale neighbourhood. Co-owned by Miranda and Tifereth — veteran producers and performers in both the local and international alternative arts scenes — the venue opened in 2021 in the Entertainment District before relocating to Liberty Village and then expanding to its current home in 2024. The space carries roughly a century of building history and has been transformed into what the owners describe as an intimate venue for the city's avant-garde. The 2024 expansion brought a licensed bar and cocktail program alongside a significantly broader events calendar. The venue operates as a multi-use space: in-house produced events share the calendar with third-party producers including Sex Positive World, Bound Together, and BIPOC Babes. A dedicated rope education program — described on the site as inclusive, creative, comprehensive — is led by Tifereth and a team of resident educators, covering everything from beginner bondage to aerial partials and self-suspension. Weekly Tinker Tuesday sessions (Tuesdays, 19:00–23:00) serve as open rope practice jams, while structured classes and workshops run throughout the month. Private tuition is also available through individual instructors. Flagship evening events include Voyeur, a monthly cabaret and BDSM play party running 21:00–03:00 with per-person tickets priced at $50–$100 CAD, and Sweat, a leather and latex fetish party running roughly 21:30–02:30 at $30–$45 CAD per person. The calendar also features Smutty Storytelling open-mic nights, film screenings, community socials, and themed one-off events. All events are 19+ and ticketed in advance through the Birdhaus website — walk-ins are not accepted. Dress code for play parties requires fetish attire and prohibits street wear including T-shirts, jeans, and runners.

Club Luxoria

Wagenborgen, Groningen

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Club Luxoria is a swingers club that opened in October 2024 on the rural outskirts of Wagenborgen, a small village in the Groningen province of the northeastern Netherlands. The venue occupies a property built in the style of a rustic farmhouse, and is operated entirely by women — owner Ivonne and her daughter manage day-to-day operations without paid entertainment staff. The emphasis is on unhurried social contact and genuine hospitality rather than performance or spectacle. The interior spans multiple floors and an outdoor area, with eleven themed rooms that include a darkroom, a BDSM space, a water room, a sling room, and a massage room, alongside a sauna and several jacuzzis. Outside, there is additional seating, a bed, and a sling on a terrace. Toilets and showers are available on every floor. Admission is all-inclusive: a running buffet covers soup, warm snacks, fruit and desserts, and the bar serves both alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks. Condoms, lubricant, wipes, and disinfectant are stocked in every room; towels are distributed throughout. Lockers are issued at entry with a refundable ten-euro deposit. Campervan overnight stays can be arranged with advance notice. The club runs on a fixed schedule: Fridays and Saturdays from 19:00 to 02:00, the second and fourth Sundays of each month from 14:00 to 21:00, and the first Thursday of each month from 14:00 to 21:00. Additional themed evenings and men-only nights appear on the club’s online calendar. Entry is all-inclusive and priced at €90 per couple, €80 for single men, and €30 for women and T-girls, plus a refundable ten-euro locker deposit. Solo men must register in advance through the online event calendar and receive a confirmation code; places are limited and two unexcused absences may result in access restrictions. The minimum age is 18; ID may be requested. Phone use is not permitted inside the club, and photography and filming are strictly forbidden throughout.

Lifestyle & Swingers Club Eroroma

Zwinderen, Drenthe

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Eroroma is a lifestyle and swingers club set on a rural property in Zwinderen, a small village in the province of Drenthe roughly midway between Hoogeveen and Emmen. Founded in 2006 by Jan van Duyvenbode as an erotic massage salon, the venue expanded into couples events as regional demand grew, and in 2026 marks its twentieth year of operation. The club has built a loyal following across the northern Netherlands and describes itself as the number one lifestyle and swingers club of the north. Its clientele spans the 40–60 age bracket and ranges from seasoned regulars to first-timers, with floor staff on hand to orient newcomers to the space. The venue's centrepiece is a Roman bathhouse — widely noted as unique among northern Netherlands swinger clubs — built around a large indoor pool and an indoor jacuzzi accommodating around twenty people. The outdoor grounds add a second jacuzzi, loungers, and lounge seating, plus a heated terrace with fire pit and garden. Inside, the club spans two areas: a ground-floor bar with an extensive selection of drinks, a restaurant-style space serving a hot and cold buffet, and a dance floor where resident DJs play house and electronic sets on event nights. A dedicated play wing houses multiple massage rooms, private bed alcoves with curtains, an SM/BDSM room with suspension facilities, a darkroom, and lounge areas. Towels, condoms, and water are included; secure lockers are provided. Free on-site parking accommodates both cars and campervans. Eroroma operates on an event-based calendar rather than fixed nightly hours. Zwoele Woensdag (Sultry Wednesday) afternoon sessions run 14:00–22:00, open to couples, single women, and T-girls at €100 per couple and €30 for single women. Saturday evening events run 21:00–03:00 across a rotating roster of themed nights — Pleasure 4 All, Ero Kinky Party, XO BDSM Party, SeXfactor, and standard couple evenings — with couples entry ranging from €100 to €130 depending on format. All tickets are all-inclusive: drinks, the hot and cold buffet, towels, and condoms are covered in the entry price. A sexy outfit is mandatory and enforced at the door; on themed nights latex, leather, or PVC is required. Changing facilities are available on arrival. Single men are admitted only on designated nights by advance reservation; capacity is strictly limited. Most standard couple evenings and Secret Pleasure nights do not admit unaccompanied men.

On-Premise Club

Devious Adelaide is a quarterly BDSM and kink event series in Adelaide, South Australia, run by Nick (he/him) and Pixie-Sky (they/them), who describe themselves as "lovers, teachers, performers and Adelaide event creators." Events are held at a hired boutique venue at 57 Manton St in Hindmarsh, immediately west of the city centre, and are positioned explicitly as kink parties rather than sex parties. The organisers describe the space as safe and deliberately inclusive — queer-friendly by stated design, open under the tagline "18+. Queer AF!" — with a welcoming stance toward both newcomers and experienced kinksters. The Hindmarsh venue is fitted out with a curated range of play equipment including suspension frames, a wax play area, a medical zone, and a dedicated pup play space, alongside a dance floor serviced by resident DJ Kev. Free parking is available on surrounding streets. All tickets are sold in advance through the Devious Adelaide Humanitix host page — no door sales are offered — and doors close at 10pm. Refunds are available up to seven days before each event. Parties run on Saturday nights from 8pm to 1am ACST/ACDT and follow a consistent "D" naming pattern: past editions include DESIRE, DEBAUCHERY, DEVOUR and DEPRAVITY. Ticket prices are tiered by release window. Each party is preceded by a complimentary one-hour skills workshop from 7pm to 8pm — covering topics such as consent negotiation and scene planning — for which a separate free ticket must be reserved in advance as spots are limited.

Hungry Cat Promotions

Belfast, Northern Ireland

Event Organizer

Hungry Cat Promotions is Northern Ireland’s most prominent lifestyle events promoter, running a rolling programme of themed adult nights across Belfast and the wider Greater Belfast area since its incorporation in November 2021. Founded by Jaime Willis and Irina Andrejeva, the company positions itself as a "provocative movement" for swingers, kinksters, free spirits, and open-minded adults of all relationship configurations and orientations — everyone 18 and over is welcome. Rather than operating a fixed club premises, Hungry Cat hires venues across the Belfast area for each event, giving every night its own atmosphere and location. Events run under inventive themed banners — Depravity, PJ Party, Naughty Noughties, and Origin Newbies, the last of these designed specifically as a screened entry point for first-timers, staged in Newtownabbey. Each night combines local cabaret performances, themed décor, party games with prizes, and social networking. The company is explicit on one point: sex-positive means embracing erotic entertainment, provocative prizes, and bold outfits rather than on-site sexual activity. Attendees are required to pass an identity verification and screening step before most events, with personal data encrypted and not publicly shared. Between events, the community connects via a Swingable platform page. The consent framework is detailed and enforced: ask before any physical contact or photography, intoxication does not imply consent, and zero-tolerance rules cover harassment, assault, discrimination, drug dealing, and non-consensual content-sharing. Breaches lead to immediate removal and a permanent ban from future events. Safety concerns can be reported to event staff or by email to safety@hungrycat.events, with an anonymous online reporting form also available.

KinkZone

Canberra, Australian Capital Territory

On-Premise Club

KinkZone describes itself as Canberra's only purpose-built alternative lifestyle studio, operating from a discreet unit in the light-industrial suburb of Fyshwick, roughly 2–3 km east-southeast of the city centre. The venue serves both the kink and swinging communities under one roof, running separate event formats to accommodate different experience levels and identities — from beginner-friendly introductory nights through to invitation-only BDSM parties. After a hiatus that ran from 2020 to 2024, the club returned under new management and has since built a calendar of more than a dozen recurring event formats. The custom-designed interior centres on a large open-plan area with substantial seating and space for dancing, along with intimate nooks and dedicated playrooms for private or group activity. All tickets include entry, use of the cloakroom, light refreshments, non-alcoholic beverages (soft drinks, tea, coffee), condoms, lubricant, and access to shower facilities. Alcohol is not provided or sold; BYO is permitted. The first floor is reached only by stairs — there is no lift — though a ground-floor accessible toilet is available, the main event spaces have 96 cm-wide doors at their narrowest, accessible showers are on-site, and no fluorescent lighting is used during events. Smoking and vaping are confined to a designated outdoor courtyard. All attendance requires completing a vetting process before a first event; new contacts are added to the system each Monday, with an initial reply typically within five days. From July 2026, standard event tickets are priced at A$69; KZ Swing is A$120 per couple, A$100 for single men, and A$60 for single women; specialty nights including Rainbow Haven, Rope, and FemDomme are A$60; and the Under 30s event is A$45. Booking fees apply on top of all ticket prices. Optional memberships — Silver at A$250 per year or Gold at A$525 per year — provide reserved spaces, free events, booking-fee waivers, and discounted tickets, though membership is not required to attend.

Private Residence

Braven Manor is a long-running, community-oriented kink and lifestyle venue operating from a private home in North Burnaby, just outside Vancouver. Since 2008, the space has served as an intimate alternative to commercial clubs, offering a fully equipped dungeon, themed play rooms, and flexible event programming that spans BDSM, swinging, fetish play, and group encounters — all at an accessible price point of $30 per person. The house features a dedicated dungeon with suspension frame, bondage table, cage, and spanking benches, plus a garage play space, whipping room with St Andrew's Cross, a medical room with a fucking machine, a school room, and multiple private lockable bedrooms. Supplies including condoms, lube, gloves, cleaning products, towels, and unlimited soft drinks are all included with admission. A Sybian is available during events at an additional $20/session, and the space can be rented privately for couples or small groups at hourly rates. Run as a non-profit by operator Seann Lyncaster, the venue hosts rotating events on its own calendar system — from gangbangs and BDSM play parties to swinger nights and private bookings. Membership signup is free, the atmosphere is pansexual and LGBTQ+ welcoming, and newcomers receive an orientation tour on arrival. The BYOB format keeps costs low, and a house safeword system underscores the consent-first culture that defines the space.

Intimate Times Lifestyle Club

Edmonton, Alberta

On-Premise Club

Intimate Times Lifestyle Club bills itself as Edmonton's premier private adult social club, operating from a standalone venue in the city's west end at 17207 107 Ave NW. The club runs as an on-premise couples lifestyle space with an explicit consent-first philosophy — visitors sign a confidentiality waiver on entry, and management frames the environment as one built around respect, trust, and open communication. The club is openly LGBTQIA+ supportive and kink/BDSM friendly, with dedicated theme nights including Kink and Fetish Night alongside Sundress Saturday, Bare as You Dare, and Girls' Night Out evenings. The main floor is set up in the style of a nightclub with the feel of a house party: a dance floor, a staffed DJ booth with music starting around 22:00, a free pool table, a quieter fireplace lounge, and a fully licensed cash bar. BYOB is not permitted under Alberta's liquor licence. Complimentary snacks — chips, nuts, pretzels, and desserts — are included with cover, and an on-site ATM is available. Staff-led tours of the venue run from 21:00 to 23:00; the communal open play area opens at 23:00 and remains available until 02:45. There are no private rooms — all play occurs in the open communal space. The club runs every Friday and Saturday, 21:00 to 03:00, with last admission at 01:00. Cover is tiered: during the earlybird window (21:00-22:00), member couples pay CAD $40 and non-member couples $50; singles pay $20 (member) or $25 (non-member). After 22:00, rates rise to $50/$60 for couples and $25/$30 for singles. Annual membership — mandatory from the second visit — costs $130 for couples and $65 for singles; a one-night weekend couple membership is available at $40 plus the member cover rate. Memberships expire after one year and are non-transferable. A prior invitation is required for all first-time visitors. Government-issued photo ID is mandatory at the door; minimum age is 21.

The Idaho White Rose

Post Falls, ID

On-Premise Club

The Idaho White Rose is a private, house-party-style swingers club operating between Coeur d'Alene, Idaho, and Spokane, Washington — about 14 minutes from Coeur d'Alene and 35 minutes from Spokane. It bills itself as "The Inland Northwest's Premier #1, Lifestyle Hot Spot" and, like most lifestyle clubs, centers on couples while also welcoming single females and a limited number of single males (referred to on-site as "Unicorns"). All attendees must be 21 or older, and the address is not published online — it is provided only after RSVP. The venue includes free secluded parking, a dance floor with a pole-dancing stage, a sitting area, a changing area with restroom (no lockers — guests are advised to bring their own lock), bathrooms with showers, and a large covered outdoor hot tub that is drained and cleaned after every party. Play space consists of six private rooms that can be closed for privacy or left open, one private room with glass French doors for couples who enjoy exhibitionism, one large group room, and one large couples-only room, along with TVs playing erotic video throughout. Secured refrigerators are available for storing personal drinks, and soda and mixers are supplied, though the club does not provide alcohol. The club runs at least two parties plus a Meet and Greet each month, with events starting at 8:00 PM; first-timers can attend a free, no-obligation New Member Orientation at the same start time and are free to leave without paying if it isn't for them. Entry is cash only at the door, with tiered pricing by membership status — for example, Gold Member couples pay $50 versus $85 for non-member couples, and Gold Member single women pay $25 versus $95 for a Gold Member single man. Photo ID is required for admission, and dress code calls for a collared shirt and slacks for men (no rips or tears) and the sexiest outfit guests have for women, with a suggestion to bring a second outfit to change into partway through the night.

Nobby's Treff

Bremen, Bremen

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Nobby's Treff has held its address at Doventorsteinweg 55 in Bremen's Bahnhofsvorstadt district since opening on 12 October 2001, making it one of the city's longest-running lifestyle venues and, by its own account, the first of its kind in Bremen. The club sits a short walk from Bremen Hauptbahnhof, occupying an unassuming commercial block in this mixed inner-city neighbourhood. Its guiding ethos is distilled in the German tagline printed across all its communications — 'alles kann, nichts muß' (everything is possible, nothing is required) — and regulars credit that philosophy with sustaining the relaxed, non-pressured atmosphere that has kept people coming back for more than two decades. The interior is divided across three distinct areas. A bar forms the social core of the venue, providing a comfortable starting point for the evening. An adjoining lounge contains a sex swing and a lockable, enclosed play hut — a semi-private space-within-a-space that suits couples who want a degree of separation from the open areas. The main playroom is furnished and equipped for group play. A sealed, separate smoking section keeps the main rooms clear. Complimentary towels and hygiene products are provided to all guests, and condoms are available on site at reasonable prices. The management actively maintains a balanced ratio of couples to single men, and the crowd at any given session tends to span a wide age range, drawn together by the venue's reputation for a measured, sociable mood. The club runs on Fridays and Saturdays from 21:00 to 04:00, and adds midweek sessions on the first and third Wednesday of each month from 20:00 to 01:00. Once a month, on the first Friday, a dedicated darkroom evening is held. Entry for couples is €20 and includes the first round of drinks; single men pay €25 with one drink included; single women pay bar prices only with no door charge. All payments are cash only — no card transactions. The dress code is a firm requirement: smart-casual through to overtly sexy attire is welcomed, but sportswear, joggers and baggy sweatshirts are turned away at the door. Men are expected in a shirt and dress trousers or equivalent. The venue can also be privately hired on its regular closed days.

Club Risqué

Dunedin, Otago

On-Premise Club

Club Risqué occupies the top floor of 1 Liverpool Street in central Dunedin, operating as an on-premise adult lifestyle venue for swinging, kink, and BDSM interests. Per its own about page, the club welcomes couples, single women, single men (by approved RSVP), and trans and non-binary individuals exploring open-relationship dynamics or power exchange. The venue is arranged into a licensed cocktail lounge with a tab-based bar system, multiple private play areas, a BDSM dungeon, and secure numbered lockers issued on a bracelet-key system. Safe sex supplies — condoms in multiple sizes, dental dams, gloves, and lube — are provided and distributed throughout. Third-party listings additionally reference an orgy room, a grope cage, and on-site showers; these have not been confirmed from the club's own published content. Mobile phones are collected at the door on arrival and held by staff for retrieval on request; cameras and all recording devices are banned outright. The club runs a named-event programme rather than fixed nightly hours. Regular fixtures include Risqué Saturday, Frisky Friday, Dunedin Sex Party nights, and the age-capped Young Swingers (18–35); the kink-focused Sub Space events carry a mandatory leather/latex/all-black dress code. All events run 21:00–03:00. Advance tickets are priced at NZD $100 per couple, $50 for single women, and $100 for single men; door prices rise to $125, $75, and $125 respectively. Single men require an approved RSVP before purchasing a ticket. Event bookings and RSVP coordination are handled via the club website, Fetlife, and Kiwi Swingers.

Power Exchange

San Francisco, CA

On-Premise Club

Planted in San Francisco's Tenderloin since 1996, Power Exchange has earned its reputation as the Bay Area's most unapologetically raw pansexual sex club, drawing in adventurous adults of every gender and orientation two blocks from Union Square. The venue spans three floors at 220 Jones Street: a main floor with a dance floor, stripper poles, open play space, and a voyeur balcony above; a basement dungeon level of small semi-private rooms with chain-separated alcoves suited to BDSM and group scenes; and a third floor typically reserved for couples, with special events opening all three levels. Coat check, lockers (bring your own lock), and an ATM sit in the lobby for the cash-only door. The weekly rhythm runs Wednesday through Sunday from 9 pm, with Thursdays and Sundays closing at 3 am and Fridays and Saturdays pushing to 4 am. Recurring themed nights — Wicked Wednesday, First Friday Fuck Fest, and Saturday flagship events like No Strings and Underneath — keep the calendar busy year-round. Entry is tiered by attire rather than gender: non-member singles in male attire pay $60-$80 depending on the night, couples pay $50-$70, and singles in female attire pay $20; members receive a $20 discount across the board. Active-duty military and veterans receive 50% off every visit. The crowd is broad — regulars, curious newcomers, kinksters, and swingers sharing a space that makes no apologies for its gritty Tenderloin address. The vibe is high-energy and exhibitionist rather than lounge-like, and the club is consent-driven with all play areas semi-public and viewable by passing guests. No alcohol is served or permitted on-site; the club is entirely dry. Parking is available one block away at the California Parking Garage at 175 Turk Street, which stays open until 4 am on Fridays and Saturdays for Power Exchange patrons.

Club Giggity

Philadelphia, PA

Club Giggity is a traveling lifestyle-events company — a subsidiary of The Forever Young Experience — rather than a fixed-address club, producing 'upscale events for sexy sophisticated couples & singles' across the Northeast. Its own site describes a roster that runs the gamut from 'small intimate house parties, on premise clubs, lifestyle meet & greets, hotel & resort takeovers and private affairs,' with events deliberately built for 'every alternative lifestyle including swingers, LGBT, the BDSM/Fetish community and anyone interested in an adult party experience like no other.' The operators tout 'over 20 years of professional DJ, promotion, marketing, graphic design, site procurement and event planning in NY, Miami, Philly & Atlantic City,' and the company promotes, hosts and DJs events throughout PA, NJ, NY, MD, DE and CT. The crowd is pitched as broad and unpretentious: 'From Doctors to lawyers, nurses to teachers and everyone in between,' spanning 'different races, heights and weights,' with parties framed as 'no pressure affairs open to all ages over 21' that 'do not discriminate based on age, race, religion, physical appearance, or lifestyle level of play.' Newcomers are eased in via low-pressure meet & greets 'designed for socializing without pressure,' and the site stresses going 'at your own flow' — whether that means observing or full partner exchanges — with open communication between partners encouraged throughout. Swinging is described as 'a lifestyle open to couples and singles alike'; single women are welcomed, while single men are admitted to 'certain nights at clubs and certain parties.' Because Club Giggity is an event producer, the experience changes with the venue — from a club night to a multi-day resort takeover — and it offers an all-inclusive production service (planning, DJ & lighting, web graphics & promotion, social-media promotion, personalized favors, clothing & posters), plus optional add-ons such as massage therapists, photographers, adult toy & lingerie vendors, body painters and BDSM/fetish services. The site maintains a live Takeover Schedule and an Events calendar, and has run flagship trips such as a Hedonism resort 'Hedo Invasion,' confirming the operation is active and booking forward-dated events.

The New Gatehouse

Kearsley, Greater Manchester

On-Premise Club

The New Gatehouse — operating under the banner of GH Events — occupies a converted former pub on the A666 Bolton Road in Kearsley, a short distance from Bolton in Greater Manchester. The venue trades on its identity as an explicitly inclusive lifestyle and fetish club, describing itself as an LGBTQ+ safe space where guests are welcome regardless of age, ethnicity, sexual orientation, or body size. There are no membership fees, and the fully licensed bar means drink is available on-site throughout all sessions. The programming at The New Gatehouse is unusually broad for a venue of its type. Rather than a single weekly party format, the club runs distinct themed sessions every day from Monday through Saturday, catering to overlapping communities across the fetish, trans, bisexual, and BDSM scenes. The building's conversion from a pub gives it a relaxed social atmosphere — the club itself emphasises that first-timers should arrive prepared to sit, chat, and observe before anything else, and that experienced staff are available to answer questions. Staff walk new visitors around the venue on arrival and go through the rules in person. The weekly schedule runs as follows: Monday is Bonkers Bingo (noon–6pm); Tuesday is a Tgirls and Men Only day (10am–4pm); Wednesday is Tgirls and Admirers (11am–midnight, with Tgirls admitted from 10am); Thursday splits into a Bisexual Day (10am–4pm) followed by a BDSM Event (4pm–midnight); Friday is Fetish Fridays (noon–1am); Saturday opens with Tgirls and Admirers (noon–7pm) before transitioning into the Seductive Party Night (7pm–1am); Sundays are closed to the public and reserved for private hire. The venue is also available for private bookings on request.

Auberge La Passion

Drummondville, Quebec

On-Premise Club

Auberge La Passion is a licensed private club échangiste at 2655 rue St-Pierre in Drummondville, Quebec, roughly 100 kilometres east of Montreal. Founded by Luc and Chantal, the club opened on 5 April 2014 after its owners navigated municipal and court processes to obtain what they describe as the region's first official club échangiste permit. The venue holds all required operating licences. The property divides between the main club building and an adjacent annex, Le Petit Hôtel, which together offer 13 overnight suites available to members from C$80/night. Inside the main building, the social floor runs through a dance floor, a billiard lounge, and a licensed bar; a keypad-controlled interior door separates this area from the play section, which comprises themed rooms with large beds configured for private or group use, a soft BDSM space, a mirrored room, and individual rooms with doors or privacy chains. Showers, towels, and condoms are provided throughout. Suites within the main club building prohibit alcohol; those in Le Petit Hôtel permit it. First-time visitors receive a guided walk-through on arrival. Parties run every Friday and Saturday from 20:00 to 03:00. Friday evenings admit couples alongside a limited number of pre-screened single men (reservation required); bar access on Fridays is free for members, with playroom access at C$50/couple. Saturday nights are reserved for couples and single women — single men are not admitted on Saturdays. Saturday admission is C$70/couple. Single women enter free at all times. Annual membership is mandatory for all attendees at C$90 per unit (couple, single woman, or single man) and the card must be presented at every visit. Dress code is strictly enforced: business-casual or city wear for men (sportswear, cargo pants, caps, and athletic footwear refused), and dressed-up or sexy attire encouraged for women.

SOP Lifestyle Productions

Vancouver, British Columbia

Event Organizer

SOP Lifestyle Productions — where the acronym stands for Swinger, Open, Poly — is a Vancouver, British Columbia-based event production company founded and run by Ying Ying Lee. Rather than operating a fixed venue, SOP produces lifestyle-oriented hotel takeovers, cruises, resort trips, and curated travel experiences for the open-minded adult community. The organisation welcomes singles, couples, and people of all genders, ages, and backgrounds; its attendee demographic typically spans the mid-20s to mid-60s, with the majority in their 30s to 50s, and draws participants from across Canada and the United States. SOP's flagship offering is the Winter Lifestyle Takeover (WLT), which began in 2010 and shifted to its current full-hotel-takeover format in 2012. It now runs annually in November at the 4-star Delta Whistler Village Suites in Whistler, BC, drawing around 350 attendees across a Friday-to-Monday weekend. The hotel pool deck, indoor and outdoor hot tubs, and a dedicated top-floor Play Floor stocked with theme rooms and playrooms form the centrepiece. A Spring Lifestyle Takeover (SLT) serves as a companion event, most recently held at the Mount Royal Hotel in Banff, AB. SOP also organises a Europe Lifestyle Takeover, a Tropical Lifestyle Takeover, group cruises on Virgin Voyages, and pop-up travel adventures. All takeovers are BYOB and follow a structured weekend rhythm: a Meet + Greet on the first evening, a dance party on the second night, and a cocktail party on the final night, alongside daytime seminars, workshops, and demonstrations. Ticketing operates via a tiered pricing structure with hotel packages bundling accommodation and a weekend pass. Payment may be made by e-transfer (Canada), Zelle (US), cheque, or credit card (5% service fee); weekend-pass-only options are available for local attendees. Hotel rooms must be booked through SOP directly rather than via the hotel. Advance booking is strongly advised, as events routinely sell out.

The Chilli Club

Unverified

Auckland, Auckland

On-Premise Club

The Chilli Club has operated from 3122 Great North Road in New Lynn, Auckland for over fifteen years, making it one of the city's longest-running adult lifestyle venues. The space functions under two linked identities: The Chilli Club hosts swinger parties and alternative lifestyle events, while CHOKE — the Chilli House of Kink Events — serves Auckland's kink and BDSM community with workshops, play parties, photography events and professional performances. Both arms share the same licensed premises, address and contact email. The play space spans approximately 200 square metres and is fitted accordingly: a fully licensed bar, multiple play areas with large-screen TVs, a stripper pole with full-length mirrors, a sex swing and a shower area. The space is also available for private hire — from intimate gatherings to BDSM workshops — with a non-refundable $100 deposit required to confirm a booking and the balance settled on the night. All attendees must be 18 or older and may be asked to present ID. Phones, cameras and all recording devices — including smart glasses such as Ray-Ban Meta — must be powered off and stored before entry. The venue's designated safe word is 'RED', and the consent framework explicitly endorses SSC, RACK and PRICK principles. Blood play, needles, breath play and scat are prohibited outright; violations may result in immediate removal and a permanent ban with no refund of entry fees.

Club Labyrinth NYC

New York, NY

On-Premise Club

Club Labyrinth occupies a private midtown Manhattan building near the corner of East 31st Street and Park Avenue South — close to Grand Central, Herald Square, and Union Square — with street parking and subway access that make it one of the more accessible adult venues in the city. The space runs across multiple levels and roughly 1,500 sq ft, dividing into a front-of-house room with the front desk, coat check, seating areas, and a refreshment bar, a second room with BDSM furniture, couches, and a bed, and a third dedicated play room lined with beds and a projector screen showing adult video. There is also a dedicated Blackout Room for the truly adventurous and a Voyeur Room — both name-checked on the Friday Debauchery night — plus a designated smoking space and private bathrooms for changing. Labyrinth runs four nights a week: Anything Goes Wednesdays (9pm–2am, couples and singles, BDSM-friendly), Orgy Thursdays (9pm–3am, group-play focus), Debauchery Fridays (9pm–4am, the club's signature night), and Swinging Kink Saturdays (9pm–4am, the busiest evening). Pricing varies by night: Wednesdays run $40 couples / $80 single men / free for ladies until midnight; Fridays scale to $60–$80 couples and $100–$120 single men depending on arrival time. Membership is compulsory — annual ($40), six-month ($30), or one-week ($20) — and must be purchased before attending; every tenth visit is free. The crowd skews toward adventurous adults in their 20s, 30s, and 40s, and the club draws a mix of couples and single attendees in a no-pressure environment where watching is as welcome as participating. Complimentary condoms, lube, and towels are provided; the venue is BYOB with a $20 bottle surcharge and a one-bottle-per-membership cap, with complimentary mixers, soda, and water at the bar. All events are on-premise with no re-entry.

The Hellfire Club

Sunbury-on-Thames, Surrey

On-Premise Club

The Hellfire Club has hosted alternative-lifestyle parties from a discreet address on Harris Way in Sunbury-on-Thames since 2008, roughly ten miles west of central London with, in the club's words, 'excellent travel links and secure free parking' — a lit, CCTV-covered lot for around 60 cars directly outside. Owner Peter Crosby hosts personally, and the crowd is described on the club's own listing as 'an eclectic mix of intelligent, cultured and fun individuals with an average age in the mid thirties.' The venue spreads over two floors that regulars nickname the 'heavenly upper floor and the devilish lower floor': a wood-panelled lounge with Chesterfield chairs, a fireplace and a large orangery over a natural-wood dance floor with a pole, opening onto 'numerous exotically themed playrooms and a dungeon, combined with an excellent DJ booth, audio and lighting system.' Programming covers the full breadth of the scene — swingers and couples nights through fetish, BDSM and shibari — under a rotating banner of themed parties. Two run weekly: Secret Sunday every Sunday and the midweek Brief Encounter every Wednesday. Friday and Saturday nights carry the bigger events, among them Ladies Night, Bad Girls, The Dungeon, SWISH, and AllBarNone (an 'every genre' night on the fourth Saturday), alongside periodic couples-only weekenders and seasonal specials such as the Naughty 90's Weekend and the Xmas Ball. Entry is 21-plus with photo ID requested from anyone who looks under 25, single men are admitted in limited numbers, and booking is done in advance through each party's Eventbrite ticket-and-deposit page rather than on the door — early-bird couples entry starts from around £10. The facilities lean theatrical: a DJ booth with a full audio and lighting rig, a cinema/live-streaming room, glory holes, a 'classroom,' a terrace garden and a courtyard garden, and — a house signature — a full-size vehicle tucked into the dogging leg of the dungeon. Unlike BYOB clubs, Hellfire runs its own bar, with a happy hour taking 50% off all drinks for the first hour of every party; Skyn condoms are sold on site and safe sex is encouraged. Mobile phones are barred from all public areas except reception, the Terrace Garden and the Courtyard Garden, which keeps the mood relaxed and discreet. The building is multi-floor with ramps but no lift between levels, though staff will help visitors who need assistance between the upstairs and downstairs spaces.

Club L (Le Club L)

Montreal, Quebec

On-Premise Club

Club L is a members-only lifestyle and swinging club occupying more than 7,200 square feet across two floors of a converted Caisse Populaire Desjardins building on Rue Jean-Talon Est in Montreal's Rosemont-La Petite-Patrie neighbourhood. Founded by the couple Mateo Lapointe and Andree, who have practised open relationships since 2003, the venue positions itself as one of Quebec's premier couple-centred libertine spaces — high-end, consent-focused, and deliberately discreet from the street. The ground floor operates as a full restaurant-lounge with small round tables, a central bar, and a chef preparing plated meals that are included in the entry price. A DJ plays on Friday and Saturday nights, and all sexual activity is confined to the second floor — keeping the main floor comfortable for socialising, dining, and meeting at any pace. The second floor opens around 22:30 and holds nine themed private rooms plus a large open communal play area. Rooms are equipped with individual sinks, adjustable mood lighting, and personalised sound controls; there are showers, towels, and full bathroom toiletries on the same floor. Suspension anchors for Shibari and swing chairs are available in the communal space, and on-floor security monitors (vigiles) are present throughout the playroom level at all times. Friday and Saturday nights run 19:00-03:00 and are reserved for couples, single women (femmes libres), and pre-sponsored male escorts (hommes accompagnateurs) whose sponsors must register them in advance — unaccompanied men are not admitted. Select Thursday evenings run 19:00-23:00 as social-only events open to all adults 18 and over, with the second floor closed and no membership required. A valid membership is mandatory for all Friday and Saturday visits: CAD $35 per person for one month, or CAD $75 per person annually. Entry fees vary by event from CAD $45 to $80 per person (plus tax), covering one meal per person. First-time visitors must arrive by 23:00 to complete a mandatory guided tour of the second floor. Payment is accepted in cash or physical debit card only; online reservations carry a non-refundable CAD $5 per person deposit credited at the door.

Club 2020

Malsch, Baden-Württemberg

On-Premise Club

Club 2020 occupies a purpose-fitted venue on Daimlerstrasse in Malsch, a small industrial town just south of Karlsruhe in Baden-Württemberg. Opened in 2020 and operated by Stiefel GmbH, the club positions itself as the modern way to swing and has developed a following as one of the more design-conscious lifestyle destinations in the upper Rhine valley. Entry is by pre-registration only via JoyClub.de or WhatsApp, with no walk-ins accepted. Admission is tiered: couples pay €69–99, single women €25–35, and single men €75–119, and the dress code is strictly enforced at the door. The house principle — Alles kann, nichts muss (anything goes, nothing is required) — sets the tone: free condoms and towels are provided, smoking and illegal drugs are prohibited, and prostitution is strictly forbidden. JoyClub members receive a €10 discount, and the venue is also available for private rental.

Society of Bastet

Dartmouth, Nova Scotia

BDSM/Kink Club

The Society of Bastet is a volunteer-run, non-profit alternative lifestyles organization based in Dartmouth, Nova Scotia, serving the kink and BDSM community across Atlantic Canada. Operating out of Suite 5 at 327 Windmill Road — tucked behind blacked-out windows — the society operates a community play space with weekly programming for practitioners of impact play, rope bondage, fire play, latex, electrical play, foot fetishism, domination and submission, and more. The clubhouse features a dungeon equipped with a St. Andrew's cross, a spanking bench, an impact toys wall, and a wax play area. A separate medical room — complete with an examination table, lab coats, gloves, and a biohazard sharps container — supports fire play, massage, and play piercing. A Dungeon Monitor is on duty during every session with a first-aid kit, and a Sheriff role handles escalated concerns. Hospital-grade disinfectant and single-use items are standard; members are required to clean all equipment after use. The society explicitly describes itself as a BDSM and kink club, not a sex club: penetration is not permitted, and all physical contact must be through a clothing barrier. Alcohol and drugs are strictly prohibited on the premises. Weekly Saturday night play parties form the backbone of the schedule, with an orientation session on the first Saturday of each month for newcomers. Annual membership is CA$30 per person (or CA$50 for two years); membership is optional and guests are welcome at all events when signed in by a member. All attendees must be 19 or older. The Society also runs the School of Kink, an ongoing program of classes, peer tutoring, and demonstrations covering safe technique across a wide range of kinks.

Hacienda

Brooklyn, NY

On-Premise Club

Rooted in Bushwick since 2009, Hacienda operates across multiple townhouses in Brooklyn's most creative neighborhood, functioning as both a members-only sex-positive club and an intentional living community. The flagship venue features multiple floors with distinct play areas, social lounges, a hot tub, indoor and outdoor spaces, and room for DJs and live performances. The crowd skews late twenties and thirties, draws a notably gender-balanced mix of couples, singles, and non-monogamous folk, and sets a tone that members describe as intimate rather than nightclub-loud. Access runs entirely through a referral-based membership system. Applicants must be vouched for by an existing member, watch a mandatory consent-policy video, and pay $40/quarter or $120/year; individual event tickets run $45–$85. Three event tiers exist: public themed nights, private members-only play parties, and educational workshops. First-time guests must complete an in-person orientation before their first play party. Play parties feature multiple socializing and play zones, themed decor, DJ sets, and a full meal served around 2am. Trained volunteers called Guardians — identifiable by light-up armbands — circulate throughout every event and do not participate in play. The consent policy is opt-in: all touch requires explicit verbal agreement. Phones and recording devices are not permitted in play areas.

Kasteel Waterloo

Unverified

Beesel, Limburg

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Kasteel Waterloo is a long-established lifestyle and swingers club set within a 1922 art-nouveau villa on the edge of Beesel, a small municipality in the Dutch province of Limburg positioned roughly midway between Venlo and Roermond. The estate's history stretches back to the eighteenth century, and the club has operated on the grounds since the early 1980s, attracting a regular crowd that draws noticeably from across the Dutch–German–Belgian border region, with visitors typically ranging from their mid-twenties to their early fifties. The villa's ground floor holds a bar, a dance floor fitted with a pole, a cold-buffet dining area, and a covered outdoor terrace with a separate smoking section. The upper floor is given over to the play spaces: a sauna, a BDSM room, a film room, and several themed erotic rooms, all stocked with complimentary towels and condoms. Personal lockers and free on-site parking are included. A DJ performs on selected evenings, with the music generally oriented toward 1970s–1990s hits, keeping the atmosphere sociable rather than club-loud. The venue opens on Friday evenings and on a rotating selection of Saturdays, with Fridays running roughly 20:00–03:00 and Saturdays 21:00–04:00 (exact times vary by event; the online agenda is the authoritative source). Pricing follows an all-inclusive model — unlimited drinks, the buffet, condoms, towels, and locker access are all covered by the door price. Couples typically pay €40–€110 depending on the theme night; single women pay €20–€55; single men pay €105 on nights when they are admitted. Friday is the nude-party night, open to all categories; Saturdays cycle through themed events — Couples & Bi-Ladies nights (single men excluded), Nymf Parties, Erotic Stars evenings, and Black & Leather parties — each with its own dress requirements. Advance reservations are required for all events.

The Wheel 687

Newcastle West, New South Wales

On-Premise Club

The Wheel (formerly Club 687) is a private, appointment-only adult venue at 9 Steel Street in Newcastle West, New South Wales, serving the local lifestyle, kink, and conscious-sexuality communities. The facility houses six named play rooms and the Dungeon of Eden — a dedicated BDSM kink suite with bondage equipment — alongside four-poster beds, a four-person spa, stripper poles, and workshop areas. The venue is unlicensed and operates on a bring-your-own-alcohol basis throughout. Programming includes swingers nights, kink events, and Conscious Erotic Play Parties that open with a mandatory consent-and-boundaries workshop before play areas become accessible. The venue also hosts somatic sexologists, tantric teachers, sex therapists, and sex coaches as resident or visiting practitioners, and leases space to external event organisers. A separate bi-monthly event series, NCS (Nova Couples and Singles), draws couples and singles from the Newcastle area by invitation. All attendance is by prior appointment or ticketed booking through TryBooking; the booking model is structured so guests do not encounter other customers. A sister walk-in property, Discreet (discreet.net.au), operates at a separate address.

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Parenclub Devils & Angels, an all-inclusive lifestyle and swingers club at Maaseikerweg 24 in Susteren, Limburg, has been temporarily closed since approximately May 2026. As of September 2026 the club's website carries the notice 'Wegens omstandigheden is de club tijdelijk gesloten' (due to circumstances, the club is temporarily closed) with no reopening date given. Verify current status before visiting. The club operated on a single all-inclusive admission price covering entry, beverages, and full facility access — no separate bar tab. The venue featured a bar and buffet restaurant, dance floor, and discrete car parking with campervan bays for overnight stays. Inside, a series of themed play rooms included a disco room, a TV room, a Thai massage room, a room with a floating bed, a black room, and further group play spaces. Complimentary condoms were provided throughout, and guided tours of the space were available for first-time visitors. Regular programming ran Wednesday afternoons (15:00–21:00, MILF-themed format) and Friday and Saturday evenings (21:00–03:00), with occasional Thursday daytime sessions. Admission for couples was approximately €50–75; single men in the €85–130 range; single women at a lower rate or free depending on the night. On the last Friday of each month a drempelvrees avond (newcomers' evening) welcomed first-time visitors, with regular clothes permitted until 22:30 before the provocative dress code took effect. Advance reservation was recommended for Saturday evenings.

Parenclub Ultimate Dream

Beek en Donk, Noord-Brabant

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Parenclub Ultimate Dream occupies a venue at Willemstraat 9B in Beek en Donk, a small Noord-Brabant municipality positioned roughly midway between Helmond and Eindhoven. The club draws couples and single women from the broader Brabant region — Den Bosch, Eindhoven, and Helmond are all within easy reach — and operates both lifestyle and kink programming: regular swinger nights run alongside dedicated BDSM evenings and fetish events, including an occasional X-Treme Fetish party. Multiple independent listings describe an interior combining a lounge, dance floor, bar, and buffet-style restaurant with two whirlpools and private rooms for couples seeking seclusion. Entry is all-inclusive: drinks, food, condoms, towels, and locker use are covered by the door price, a model confirmed consistently across sources. Staff welcome first-time visitors with a personal introduction and tour before the evening begins, contributing to a reputation for approachability. Confirmed hours are Saturday 20:00–02:00; Friday 19:00–01:00 appears in several directory listings but has not been verified against primary sources — check the event calendar before visiting. Couple entry was listed at €110 and single-woman entry at €55 for a Saturday event in May 2025; earlier third-party listings show lower figures and current pricing should be confirmed directly with the club. A stamp card rewards repeat visitors with complimentary entry after ten paid visits. From 22:30 a dress code applies: lingerie for women, underwear or boxers for men, with standard evening attire accepted on arrival before that threshold. Standard nights admit couples and single women only; single men may attend exclusively on themed evenings that explicitly permit their entry.

Illuminaughty Denver

Denver, CO

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Denver launched in early 2025, selling out its first play party in the Mile High City, and now runs as a curated, application-only private members club for ethically non-monogamous couples and singles in their 20s, 30s, and 40s. Part of a national network spanning dozens of U.S. cities, it hosts a mix of Tease Cocktail Mixers at restaurants and bars alongside private play parties held at rented residences — anything from single-family houses to executive high-rises and country estates, each staffed with private security and dressed with intentional lighting, music, and decor. Membership is free but vetted: applicants are screened for fitness, self-awareness, and respectfulness, and once approved gain access to buy tickets and receive invites via the mobile app. Most private parties draw 40 to 80 members and run 8pm to 2am (or 2pm to midnight for All Day Soirees), with a strict arrival window, a consent-and-safety briefing before play begins, and a formal or themed dress code — cocktail attire or lingerie for women, suits for men, though some nights go casual (Neon, Pajama). No models, performers, or influencers are booked; every attendee is a vetted member.

Sameplace

Amsterdam, Noord-Holland

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Sameplace is an erotic café and adult lifestyle venue at Nassaukade 120 on the western fringe of Amsterdam's Westerpark neighbourhood, a short tram ride from the city centre. Open since the mid-1990s, it markets itself as Amsterdam's premier female-friendly erotic café and draws a genuinely mixed crowd — straight couples, gay men, single women, and on most nights single men as well. The premises run across two floors plus a basement. A U-shaped bar with booth seating anchors the ground floor; upstairs, a dance floor operates with a resident DJ on busier evenings. The basement holds the harder-edged spaces: a dungeon fitted with a sex swing and a sex chair, BDSM equipment, and a dark room. A changing room with lockers and towels is available. The programme of themed nights is central to the club's identity: regular rotation includes BDSM Pure evenings, fetish-dress nights with enforced dress code, a Shamelessly Naked party, a T&T night, bisexual and trans nights, costume parties, and a monthly fistfuck event on the fourth Sunday. One evening each week is reserved for gay men only. Staff meet guests at the door and walk newcomers through the space; a strict consent policy is actively enforced — visitors report that a firm refusal from any patron is respected without negotiation. The venue is open Tuesday through Thursday from 21:00 to 02:00, Friday and Saturday from 21:00 to 03:00, and Sunday in two sessions: 15:00–21:00 (couples only) and 22:00–03:00; the club is closed on Mondays. Entry is via a doorbell; there is no street queue. Entry fees vary by event and themed night. The venue is cash-only — no card payments are accepted. Dress codes are enforced on fetish and specialist nights; casual attire is acceptable on standard evenings. Nudity is permitted throughout the venue.

The Lifestyle Lounge

Unverified

Eccles, Greater Manchester

BDSM Club

The Lifestyle Lounge sits on Liverpool Road in Eccles, a short distance from the Manchester city boundary, in a building that has housed one of Greater Manchester's most tenacious adult social clubs for over four decades. Originally trading as Adam and Eve's — widely described as one of the UK's oldest swingers bars — the venue was taken over by owner Kerry Voellner, who oversaw a full rebrand and renovation programme completed in April 2025. The result is a members-only club that explicitly courts couples, single women, LGBTQ+ guests, and those with an interest in kink, fetish, and BDSM, while retaining the community-social-club atmosphere that the site has carried since the 1980s. The club gained national attention when it featured in the Channel 5 documentary Adults: 24 Hour Sex, Up All Night. The venue occupies four themed floors fitted out for both social and play use. Amenities include a hot tub, jacuzzi, sauna, swing room, a dungeon, a bondage table, private rooms, a pool table, and individual lockers. Capacity is capped at approximately 80 members. The atmosphere is deliberately low-key and sober: the venue holds no alcohol licence, so guests bring their own within strict limits — up to four cans or a half-bottle per person. Phones are surrendered at the reception desk on arrival to protect members' identities, and are not permitted in any public area of the club. The club opens Wednesday and Thursday from 21:00 to 02:00, and Friday and Saturday from 20:00 to 03:00. Membership is required to attend, and the dress code is described as bright, kinky, and as bold as guests dare. A zero-tolerance drugs policy is in force, and the club is a participant in the Code Red safety network — a shared-exclusion arrangement spanning multiple venues across the North of England under which a ban at one member club applies automatically to all others.

Shrine Austin

Austin, TX

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Shrine is a monthly BDSM, fetish, and alternative-lifestyle party held on a Sunday evening at colette Austin, a 7,000–9,000 sq ft swingers club at 13800 Dragline Dr. Run by a coalition of Austin-area kink organizations, Shrine bills itself as a sex-positive space that blends a dungeon and nightclub atmosphere, welcoming swingers, kinksters, voyeurs, LGBTQIA+ attendees, and polyamorous folks alike. The venue supplies multiple beds, St. Andrew's crosses, spanking benches, hard points, wrestling mats, stripper poles, a non-alcoholic beverage bar, small lockers, and a smoking-permitted outdoor social area, plus a massage table set aside for fire and medical play. Doors run 6:30pm to 1am (2am on Memorial Day and Labor Day weekends), with check-in closing an hour before close. Entry requires a valid state or federal ID (18+), a free temporary colette-club membership, and a signed waiver; cover is $25 at the door or discounted online. There's no fixed dress code — fetish wear and leather are encouraged, and nudity is fine once inside — but attendees must be street-legal en route, and new attendees take a walkthrough with a Front of House Tour Guide before diving in. House rules lean heavily toward consent and safety: the event safe word is RED, all scenes require enthusiastic consent, and Dungeon Monitors in colored vests patrol to enforce boundaries. The party is explicitly dry — no alcohol or drugs are permitted anywhere on the premises — and phones, cameras, and recording devices are banned inside the club except in designated photography areas.

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Encounterz is a fully council-approved adult lifestyle venue set inside a heritage building at 86 Brisbane Street in the heart of Ipswich's CBD, Queensland. The club describes itself as a welcoming space for open-minded adults — including those interested in the swinging lifestyle and those who simply want to socialise in a relaxed setting — and makes clear from the outset that attendance carries no guarantee of interaction with other guests. The venue occupies a heritage building whose interior is divided into a bar room, a pool room, and multiple playrooms. Access to playrooms follows a door-and-blind convention: a closed door with blinds drawn signals full privacy; a closed door with open blinds invites watching from outside; and an open door indicates that guests may request entry. The club operates on a BYO policy — mixers, ice, and cups are supplied — with alcohol service stopping at 10 PM. Towels, condoms, and lubricant are provided throughout; shower facilities and a smoking area are on site; and lockers can be rented by the night ($5), month ($20), or year ($60). Themed events, which have included rope bondage, wax play, and electroplay demonstrations run in partnership with Open Door QLD, appear regularly on the calendar alongside standard social sessions. Doors open every Friday and Saturday from 6:30 PM to midnight. Entry is priced by membership status and guest type: couples pay $85 (non-member) or $75 (member), single males $90 (non-member) or $75 (member), and single females $40 (non-member) or $30 (member). Annual membership is $40 per couple, $50 for single males, and $30 for single females, and includes a loyalty card granting every fifth visit at half price. Single men must book in advance — reservations are used to manage gender ratios, and pre-purchased tickets take priority over walk-ins. Card payments attract a $1 surcharge. The dress code is enforced at the door: men must wear a collared shirt and closed shoes (no sneakers), and women must arrive in evening wear; the venue's stated policy is 'NO EFFORT NO ENTRY.'

Club Princeton

Columbus, OH

On-Premise Club

Club Princeton occupies a sprawling 21,000-square-foot converted warehouse in the Franklinton area of Columbus, Ohio — an industrial exterior that gives little away before you step inside. Open since the early 2000s, it has grown into what regular visitors call the most upscale lifestyle club in the Midwest. The ground floor centres on a 2,500-square-foot dance area with live DJs, a stage, and dance cages; there is also VIP table seating, a full bar setup serving free mixers, soft drinks, and snacks nightly. BYOB is the policy — no alcohol is sold on site — and lockers are available for storing your own bottles. Upstairs, the play floors open into a warren of themed spaces: a VIP lounge with a fireplace, the Stairway to Heaven lounge, a doctor's examination room, a jail-cell playroom, a room with a Sybian massage table, two open group rooms, and twelve private rooms — each made up with clean white sheets and white towels, with staff cycling through to change linens between uses. Thursday nights carry a bi and fetish theme starting at 10 PM; Friday and Saturday nights are open to the broader lifestyle crowd. Single men are restricted to public areas and require female accompaniment to access play spaces. Membership is mandatory before entry — required by Ohio licensing law — though short-term single-event passes are available at the door alongside paid-up couples memberships. Door fees are separate from membership. The club is consistently praised for its professional, welcoming staff, thorough first-timer tours, and strict no-photography policy throughout the venue. Free fenced parking and on-site security round out the offering.

Fun4Two

Moordrecht, South Holland

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Fun4Two is a long-established lifestyle club housed in a protected 1851 Dutch farmhouse at Middelweg 18 in Moordrecht, South Holland, roughly 25 minutes by car from Rotterdam and within easy reach of The Hague, Utrecht, and Amsterdam. Operating continuously since January 1996, it runs as an all-inclusive venue — one entry price covers unlimited food from the buffet restaurant, unlimited drinks including beer, wine, and spirits, use of all wellness facilities, towels, and lockers — a model that sets it apart from most comparable venues across the Netherlands. The converted farmhouse spreads across several connected sections. A self-service buffet restaurant, a main dance floor with a resident DJ, and a lounge bar anchor the social areas. A wellness wing contains a heated indoor pool, sauna, jacuzzi, and bubble bath. The play spaces include a tantra temple, an orgy loft, a group playroom, a Dutch Village area fitted with BDSM-equipped themed cottages, a glory hole room, and a dedicated BDSM dungeon suite. On-site accommodation — apartments, small cottages, and a traditional Dutch caravan known as a pipowagen — is available at additional cost for those who want to stay after the party ends. The venue opens Friday evenings from 21:00 to 03:00, Saturdays from 21:00 to 04:00, and on selected Sundays from 16:00 to 23:00. Member pricing for a couple runs €124 on Fridays, €159 on Saturdays, and €109 on Sundays; first-time visitors pay an additional €20 one-time registration fee that grants full member rates on all future visits. Single women are welcome at all sessions at reduced rates (€62–€80); single men are excluded from regular events except at dedicated Hardcore Night events (approximately four per year, capped at 75 tickets) and on the third Friday of each month, when a couple may bring one additional guest. Saturday visits require advance reservation via the website. Guests arrive in smart or stylish clothing and must change into lingerie or sexy attire by 23:30 on Fridays and Saturdays, or by 19:00 on Sundays. Mobile phones are prohibited in all public areas, and free enclosed private parking is available on-site.

The Rabbit Hole Adelaide

Adelaide, South Australia

On-Premise Club

The Rabbit Hole Adelaide is a private members lifestyle club set in a converted private residence roughly ten minutes north-east of the Adelaide CBD. Catering to open-minded adults interested in consensual non-monogamy, swinging, and alternative relationship dynamics, the club is built around a philosophy of consent, safety, and sophistication. Run by a couple known as Wendee and Andrew, the venue is deliberately curated and selective: prospective members must submit an application questionnaire and a recent full-body photograph before gaining access, and membership, though free, is granted entirely at the hosts' discretion. The venue is spread across two floors. Downstairs is the social zone — a lounge equipped with a pool table and pole-dance poles where guests mingle and settle in. Upstairs holds the play floor, comprising an open dungeon, an open room, two closed private rooms, and a curtained room. Every play space is stocked with condoms (regular, large and X-large), dams, lubricant, wipes, and clean sheets and towels; a one-hour limit is suggested for closed rooms to keep access moving. Soft drinks, water, tea, coffee, and nibbles are provided; guests bring their own alcohol, stored in a large commercial refrigerator on site. A change room is available for those who prefer to arrive in street clothes and transition into lingerie or fetish attire on site. Phones are surrendered to lockers at arrival and are not permitted back in the venue — cameras and any form of recording are prohibited throughout. The calendar spans a varied programme of themed nights, primarily on Saturdays, with doors opening at 8:30 pm and closing at 9:30 pm — late admission is not offered. Regular open parties run through to around 2:00 am; Newbie Nights, restricted to couples and plus-ones with soft-swinging guidelines in the shared spaces, are the recommended entry point for first-timers. The programme also includes Meet and Greet social evenings with no play, Girls Nights for female-identifying guests, LGBTQI+ Rainbow Parties, and kink and fetish events. Membership is free and non-transferable but is a prerequisite for all events; single men must first attend a mandatory Information Night — a 2.5-hour facility tour and orientation session — before their application is reviewed, and even after approval are restricted to designated events.

colette Austin

Austin, TX

Set in a sprawling, purpose-built space in North Austin's Wells Branch area, colette Austin bills itself as the newest of the colette family's "party palaces" — a private, membership-only, on-premise social club for couples, single men, and single women exploring the swinging, polyamorous, or open-relationship lifestyle. The venue spans over 8,000 square feet, with a main-level lounge and dance floor lit by high-tech sound and lighting, a second-floor lounge with its own "sexy vibe," lockers, valet parking, and a strictly non-smoking policy throughout. The club runs Wednesday through Saturday nights, with single men welcome every open night except Saturday, which is reserved for couples and single women only. Membership is required and issued on the spot at the door, a dress code modeled on "upscale restaurant or nightclub" attire is enforced, and photos are restricted to designated photo-op areas only. Alcohol isn't sold on-site — colette Austin is BYOB, with free mixers, ice, and set-ups provided, and outside coolers checked at the bar. The club also hosts birthday and special-occasion parties.

Parenclub Mystique

Rucphen, Noord-Brabant

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Parenclub Mystique has anchored the Noord-Brabant swinger scene since May 2001, when owner Frank van Loon opened this discreet venue on the Zundertseweg in Rucphen, a rural municipality several kilometres from Roosendaal. Over more than 25 years of operation, the club has built a large membership base and established itself among the more prominent lifestyle venues in the southern Netherlands, consistently described across Dutch directories as stylish and refined. It holds an SDC (Swingers Date Club) affiliation and markets itself as a sfeervol, stijlvol en luxe — convivial, stylish, and luxurious — evening out. The venue spans multiple levels, with a basement housing 150 lockers across four dressing rooms, and the main floor opening onto a spacious bar and dance area with a resident DJ, a champagne bar, a dedicated smoking lounge, and a 40-seat restaurant serving a hot-and-cold lava-grill buffet — all included in the entrance fee. An outdoor swimming pool, an XL whirlpool, and a luxury sauna round out the leisure facilities, while multiple themed play rooms occupy the upper floors alongside dedicated shower areas. The atmosphere is consistently described as welcoming and stylish, shaped by the easy sociability for which Brabant is known; free parking is available on site. The club opens six days a week, closed on Tuesdays. Mondays and Thursdays open at 14:00, Wednesdays at 18:00; Friday evenings at 20:00, Saturdays at 19:00, and Sundays at 16:00. Single men are admitted on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays only; Friday through Sunday is reserved for couples and single women. Entry for couples is €75 on weekday afternoons, rising to €110 on Fridays and Sundays and €130 on Saturdays; single women pay €20–€50 depending on the evening; single men pay around €100. All prices are all-inclusive, covering unlimited bar service and the buffet. Around six newcomer trial evenings are held each year, and the weekly calendar features bi evenings, transgender nights, BDSM sessions, and themed special events.

Pleasure2gether

Sittard, Limburg

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Pleasure2gether sits on Leyenbroekerweg in Sittard, in the southern Dutch province of Limburg, and bills itself as ‘Limburgs sfeervolste parenclub’ — Limburg’s most atmospheric couples club. Run by Hans and Hester, the venue welcomes couples (heterosexual and bisexual alike), single men, and single women, with a minimum entry age of 21. Ample parking is available on site. The facilities lean toward comfort rather than clinical club décor: a bar stocked with beverages and running current music, large relaxation areas, a dedicated smoking room, an infrared sauna, a hot tub (bubbelbad), and massage services offered with a range of oils including body-to-body options. A varied buffet accompanies Friday and Saturday evening parties. The tone is intentionally homey — more lounge than nightclub — and the crowd spans a broad mix of regulars and newcomers. Programming follows a rotating schedule published weekly on the club’s own website. Regular fixtures include erotic parties on Friday and Saturday evenings (20:00–01:00), massage and themed evenings on Wednesdays (18:00–22:00), and men’s afternoon parties on Mondays (13:00–17:00). Periodic fixtures include a dedicated MILF evening on the second Friday of the month and a BDSM evening on the third Tuesday (20:00–01:00). Entry is all-inclusive, covering access to all facilities; payment is cash only.

House of K

Wellington, Wellington

On-Premise Club

House of K is an adults-only lifestyle venue in Whitby, Porirua, on the northern fringe of the Wellington region. Running since approximately late 2023, it offers two distinct event formats from a private residential property: exclusive sex and swinging parties — where swinging is the main draw, with designated kink zones — and dedicated kink events where rope play, wax play, and BDSM scenes are central. The organizers describe the venue as an adult playground oriented around consent and community rather than volume. All prospective guests must complete a pre-event vetting process, submitting face photos and a written introduction before gaining approval; the crowd typically spans couples, single women, and a strictly capped number of single men, with most attendees in their mid-thirties. The house is configured with seven designated play areas, while the kitchen, dining room, and lounge are kept as play-free social spaces throughout every event. The kink infrastructure is substantial: three St Andrews Crosses, a caged BDSM dungeon occupying a discreet section of the building, rope suspension points, a stripper pole, massage tables, male and female glory holes, an expanding shared toy collection, and on-site showers and lockers. A private room is available for more intimate encounters, and an outdoor fire pit provides a social anchor between sessions. Themed events — including UV glow nights, a birthday extravaganza, and a Christmas party — rotate through the calendar, with each party capped at 65 paid guests on a monthly Saturday evening schedule. Entry for sex and swinging events is NZ$50 for single women and NZ$100 for couples or single men; single male spots are capped at seven per swinging event, reserved for experienced players already known to the community. Swinging events carry an age range of 21 to 50; kink events are open without a stated upper age limit, though no unknown single males are admitted. Ticket prices cover non-latex condoms, lubricant, snacks, and non-alcoholic beverages; alcohol is bring-your-own and the venue operates without a licence. The dress code rules out shorts and plain t-shirts except as part of a costume, and drugs and body paint are not permitted. A traffic-light safe-word system governs consent throughout, couples must arrive and depart together, and the venue does not offer refunds, transfers, or deferrals.

Ohana's Social Club

Columbus, OH

Social Club

Tucked into Columbus's South Side on S High Street, Ohana's Social Club has carved out a reputation as one of central Ohio's most welcoming lifestyle venues. The club occupies a multi-level building that members describe as a laid-back, sexy house party — a phrase the club itself now uses to capture the vibe. The main floor holds an open bar area with a pool table, dance floor, kitchen, a lounge with a stripper pole, and an open loft play space with sofas and a swing. Upstairs, five fully private rooms, one semi-private room, and the Kink Korner group room round out the play areas. Ohana's runs three regular party nights a week. Wednesdays open at 7 PM through midnight; Fridays and Saturdays kick off at 8:30 PM, running until 2 AM and 3 AM respectively. Events are ticketed online through ohanas.club, and single males — admitted on a strict ratio — are strongly advised to pre-register. Membership is required for all attendees: annual dues run $60 for couples and single males, $40 for single females; weekly passes start at $25 for couples. A government-issued photo ID is checked at every visit. The venue is BYOB — no alcohol is sold on site, but the club supplies soda, mixers, ice, cups, and light snacks. The atmosphere skews inclusive and body-positive; reviewers consistently highlight the pressure-free, judgment-free tone. All new members are screened against the national sex offender registry, and a zero-tolerance consent policy is posted first in the house rules.

Fetish Week London

London, Greater London

BDSM Club

Fetish Week London (FWL) is the UK's largest annual gathering for gay, bi, queer, trans and curious men into gear and fetish, presented by Recon — the London fetish dating brand operated by T101 Ltd. Rather than a single fixed club, it is an eight-day, city-wide festival that in its own words returns 'to the UK's capital... with another fun-packed schedule of events over 8 full days.' The 2026 edition, running 5-12 July, marked the milestone 15th Anniversary and again made Electrowerkz — a warehouse venue at 7 Torrens Street, behind Angel tube in Islington (EC1V 1NQ) — its 'exclusive and kinky home base for the week.' The programme is built around a spine of official events alongside dozens of external parties hosted by London's fetish retailers and kink-friendly bars. Recurring headline nights include the invite-only Recon Members' Party, a film Screening, Fetish Cabaret, a Masterclass evening of educational demos, the Sports Cruise, Rubber Gear, the FWL Sunday Social, and the main event, Full Fetish, which 'takes over the entire underground warehouse-style venue' with a dedicated BDSM space, watersports and cruising maze, a fisting area, House/Pop/Techno dancefloors, a VIP room, and a newer quieter zone for neurodivergent kinksters. From Wednesday to Saturday a daytime FWL Hub and Gear Market runs at Electrowerkz, pairing fetish retailers and a second-hand gear swap-and-shop with DJs, extended educational demos, discussion panels and daily Sober Recovery meet-ups. Entry is strictly over-18 and photo ID is required at the door. Most events enforce a dress code, with the site's guide spanning leather, rubber, sports, skinhead, uniform/military and pup gear (suit and tie also counts) under two firm rules: 'naked is not gear,' and no nazi, far-right, fascist or extremist symbolism, on pain of refused entry. Tickets are sold in advance through DICE — Full Fetish, for example, is GBP 30 general / GBP 60 VIP — and a photographer or videographer records the events, with attendees free to opt out on the night without being denied entry. The week is community-minded rather than gamified, with sober support built into the schedule.

Our Secret Spot

Sydney, New South Wales

On-Premise Club

Our Secret Spot (OSS) occupies three floors of a venue on Parramatta Road in Annandale, roughly five kilometres west of the Sydney CBD. Co-founded by Jess Cattelly and Lawrence Jay, the club positions itself explicitly as female-focused and consent-first, drawing a crowd that typically clusters in the thirties and forties, with guests spanning the early twenties to early sixties. The stated ethos — Respectful, Safe, Sexy — shapes everything from the strict consent culture to the staff-guided walk offered to every first-time visitor. The social floor centres on a hand-crafted wooden BYO bar with free mixers (glass decanted to plastic at entry), Chesterfield lounge seating, a ruby-red pool table, and a disco-lit dance floor with a DJ deck. Play spaces spread across the upper levels: three private rooms, a one-way-mirror voyeur room, a large four-bedded open group room, a fully equipped dungeon, and an open shower space. A library-themed VIP room — lockable, with customisable music — rents by the hour. Lockers, condoms, dams, lube, and towels are included in the ticket price; all mobile phones are surrendered at reception on arrival. Parties run on Friday and Saturday nights from 20:30 until 03:00; Thursday Thirsty Thursday sessions and occasional Sunday afternoon matinees are advertised on the venue calendar but are not confirmed as standing hours. Entry is by advance ticket with tiered pricing for guest couples, members, and single women; single men are admitted in limited numbers by prior approved application only. The dress code is strictly enforced — cocktail attire or smart separates for women, collared shirt with trousers or chinos and dress shoes for men — and couples must arrive and depart together.

Shed 16

Seaford, Victoria

On-Premise Club

Shed 16 is an adults-only lifestyle and swinger venue occupying a purpose-built space at 2/16 Cumberland Drive in Seaford, a bayside suburb on Melbourne's south-eastern fringe roughly 40 kilometres from the CBD. The club operates as a sex-on-premises venue with an explicit commitment to LGBTIQA+ inclusion, framing its mission around a safe, sex-positive environment that welcomes people of all genders, backgrounds, and levels of experience. The ethos is deliberately no-pressure: attendance carries no expectation of participation, and first-timers are actively accommodated through a gradual introduction to the space. The venue spans two floors. The ground floor anchors each session with a fully licensed bar and café, two spas, a dry sauna, a steam room, large open shower facilities, secure lockers, and free internet stations. The upper level is dedicated to play, hosting private lockable rooms, open group areas, a bondage and kink dungeon, sling rooms, a suckatorium, voyeur rooms, and a porn lounge. An outdoor courtyard serves as the smoking and vaping area. Dress expectations shift between floors: the ground level permits casual attire for the first two hours, while upstairs requires towel, underwear, lingerie, or nude. Condoms are provided throughout. Four weekly sessions run Tuesday through Saturday. TABOO (Tuesday, 7 pm–1 am) prices couples at AUD $35, single ladies at $15, and pre-booked single men at $60. DESIRES (Thursday, noon–6:30 pm) carries the same couple and ladies rates, with single men at $60 (or $50 before 1 pm). SHARED SECRETS (Friday, 8 pm–2 am) admits couples at $70 and single ladies at $25; single men are not admitted. CLUB EROTIQUE (Saturday, 8 pm–2 am) prices couples at $60, single ladies at $20, and pre-booked single men at $150. Entry is cash only at the door, with an on-site ATM; EFTPOS is accepted at the bar. A $10 surcharge applies on public holidays.

On-Premise Club

Club Nine is an invite-only adult lifestyle venue operating in Melbourne's inner east, near Kew, positioning itself as an intimate alternative to the city's larger clubs. Attendance at each event is capped at around 20 guests and limited to adults aged 20–45 who have cleared a personal application process — recent photographs and a short written introduction — before receiving an invitation. Couples and single women are considered on a rolling basis; single men face a more selective review. The venue address is disclosed to confirmed bookings only. The venue occupies a multi-level residential property. A ground-floor lounge serves as the social space and the only area where food and drinks are consumed; upstairs rooms include a Master Suite, the Midnight Chamber, and a fully equipped BDSM Play Room. All phones and recording devices are surrendered at the door and held securely for the duration of the event. Alcohol is BYO — no glassware is permitted anywhere in the venue, and only light-coloured drinks are allowed. The house supplies condoms, lubricants, single-use disposable towels, complimentary soft drinks, and bottled water. Events run on an almost-weekly schedule across several formats: Exclusive Circles for couples and single ladies only, MFM Evenings with vetted single men admitted at a 1:1 ratio against attending ladies, and a rotating calendar of themed and kink-oriented nights. Full event details and dates are distributed by email to approved members only — no public calendar exists. Entry prices vary by event: AUD $100–$150 per couple, free to $50 for single women, and $250–$300 for single men. Pre-booking is mandatory; no walk-ins or door sales are accepted. Cancellations made at least three days in advance receive a refund minus a 10% processing fee, or a six-month event credit in lieu; cancellations within three days are non-refundable.

Pineapples Lifestyle Bar

South Melbourne, Victoria

On-Premise Club

Pineapples Lifestyle Bar occupies a two-storey building at 427 City Rd in South Melbourne's Montague Precinct, between York and Ferrars streets. Opened in August 2025 after the City of Port Phillip approved the venue 5–3 in June 2024 following a VCAT challenge by local residents, it holds a sex-on-premises permit and accommodates up to 200 patrons. It operates as a licensed adult lifestyle bar welcoming couples, solo women, and a restricted cohort of vetted solo men, positioning itself as a consent-focused environment for adult social exploration within the swinger, queer, LGBTQ+, and kink communities. The ground floor contains a licensed full-service bar and a performance stage used for live music, DJ sets, comedy, cabaret, and burlesque, with the format rotating by night. The upper floor is reserved for intimate activity and houses open play areas, private lockable rooms, bathrooms, unisex showers, and a VIP section. Refresh stations supply towels, condoms, lubricant, massage oil, and sanitary items throughout. Guests receive colour-coded wristbands indicating couple, solo-female, solo-male, or prefer-not-to-be-approached status; a black wristband signals a wish to decline physical advances. Volunteer consent angels circulate the floor to support guests. Complimentary all-night parking is available in front of the venue from 6 pm, and lockers are provided on an AUD$20 security deposit or credit-card/ID-hold basis. The club operates three nights per week: Thursdays 7 pm–midnight, Fridays 8 pm–2 am, and Saturdays 8 pm–2 am. Tickets must be purchased online in advance — walk-ins are never admitted. All first-time visitors must submit a membership application and complete a phone vetting call before any ticket purchase; solo males face an additional written questionnaire and in-person interview, and operate under a one-strike permanent-removal policy. Standard nights begin at AUD$20. Valid government-issued photo ID is required at the door. Phones and cameras must be secured in on-site lockers before entering the upper floor. The arrival dress code is smart-casual; upper-floor access requires dressing to lingerie, underwear, a provided towel, or bare skin. No outside alcohol is permitted, and a zero-tolerance drugs policy applies.

Taboo22

Loganholme, Queensland

On-Premise Club

Taboo22 occupies a low-profile commercial unit at 5/6 Cairns Street in Loganholme, roughly 25 kilometres south of Brisbane's CBD, and bills itself as Queensland's friendliest swingers club. The venue is fully council-approved and operates with a structured consent framework displayed prominently throughout. The floorplan is more generously fitted out than the exterior suggests: eight or more individually themed bedrooms, two pole-dance floors, a four-person spa, a massage room, a BYO bar with mixers provided by the house, and lounge areas. The club runs regular BDSM-themed nights alongside its standard programming, giving it a kink-inclusive appeal beyond vanilla lifestyle events. Doors open Friday and Saturday nights from 7:30 pm to 2:00 am. Standard entry is $80 for couples, $90 for single males, and $35 for single ladies — who attend free on their first visit. BDSM nights carry a $5 premium across all categories. Bookings are essential; single males must call ahead to reserve. Smart casual is enforced at the door.

Club 103

Belmont, Western Australia

On-Premise Club

Club 103 is a lifestyle and swingers club occupying a two-storey building at 103 Abernethy Road in Belmont, Western Australia, a short drive from Perth's CBD, Crown Casino, and the city's airports. The venue pitches itself as a space that bridges the longstanding Perth swingers scene with the broader kinkster community, and its stated aim is to feel 'more like a house party with friends, rather than a cold modernistic building.' It welcomes members regardless of gender or sexual orientation, and onsite parking is available. The club's two floors are fitted out with a range of dedicated spaces: a Dungeon Room (available for private hire), a Secretarial Room, a Group Room, an Exhibitionist Voyeur Room, and a Private Room, along with an outdoor area. Common areas include a dance floor with a spinning pole, a social lounge with a pool table, and two showers. Soft drinks and snacks are available from vending machines; there is no bar, and the venue operates strictly BYO for alcohol. Professional dungeon staff, referred to as 'Kinkmeisters', are on hand Thursday through Saturday. Sessions run most days of the week, with daytime openings Monday, Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday (roughly noon to 3pm) and evening sessions Wednesday through Friday from around 8–8:30pm to 2am; Saturday evenings run 8:30pm to 2am, with Tuesday and Sunday closed. All times are noted as variable. The dress code is smart casual at minimum, with hosts reserving the right to refuse entry for non-compliance. The club operates a traffic-light consent system (green/amber/red) and prohibits touching anyone without expressed permission. No alcohol is sold or served on the premises; intoxicated persons and illicit substances are not permitted.

The Korral

Spring Grove, PA

On-Premise Club

Set on a private rural property in York County, Pennsylvania — and sharing its grounds with Kim's Krypt Haunted Mill — The Korral has grown into one of the most-decorated lifestyle clubs on the East Coast, twice named ASN LS Magazine's top Adult Entertainment Venue (2022 and 2023). The complex spans a large main building housing a stage-and-pole dance floor, full-service bar, dining room, pool tables, air hockey, locker rooms with showers, a selfie room, the Pyretta Blayze in-house store, and a warren of 18 themed playrooms kept stocked with fresh towels and sanitizing supplies. Outside, a heated saltwater pool with a wide deck and Tiki Hut runs from Memorial Day through September, flanked by two hot tubs set into a grotto. Parties run Friday and Saturday from 7 pm to 2 am (8 pm-3 am on New Year's Eve), and the crowd skews a broad 30-55 in median age. The dedicated BDSM hallway, a glory hole, and an open group room sit alongside more intimate themed suites, while a CCTV room and house-wide phone policy keep the atmosphere relaxed and discreet. Monthly Kink Nights shift the dance floor into an educational play space — one discipline per session, with a demo and opt-in tastings — followed by a Sunday munch. The Korral also hosts two annual Kink Intensives alongside a packed calendar of costumed theme nights. For those who want to extend the evening, eight private stay rooms (king bed, chaise, keyed entry) book out for the full weekend — Friday check-in, Sunday checkout — while 20-plus after-party rooms open at 2 am for single- or two-night stays. All rooms are first-come, first-served with a non-refundable deposit.

616

Grand Rapids, MI

Rotating hotel takeover event organizer - no fixed venue

Club 616 is a members-only lifestyle club serving West Michigan, running themed hotel-takeover events in Kalamazoo, Grand Rapids, and Newaygo. Current hosts took over in January 2012, building on a group dating to the 1990s. Membership welcomes couples, single ladies, and sponsored single gentlemen; the club calls itself BDSM, kink, and LGBTQ+ friendly, and joining requires an application, photo ID, and signed consent forms. Signature parties — Red Carpet NYE, Halloween, and a spring weekend — bring a dance floor, DJ, dance pole, light show, a pool party, and a VIP room with bench swings, a St. Andrew's cross, and a ladies-only bed. A recent Halloween filled a 182-room hotel, with dress shifting by zone: street clothes in the lobby, g-strings/pasties minimum poolside, and no dress code in the VIP room. Entry is 21-and-up, reservation-only, with ID checked at registration; a strict consent policy bars unwanted touching, and cameras are banned at events.

CKJ Studio (Club Kink Jax)

Jacksonville, FL

BDSM Club

CKJ Studio, also known as Club Kink Jax, occupies a 5,300-square-foot space at 6221 Samuel Wells Drive, Suite 1500, in Jacksonville, Florida. Billed as "Northeast Florida's Premier Membership Lifestyle Club," it welcomes couples, singles, and polyamorous guests across the kink, BDSM, swinger, nudist, and LGBT communities, with a stated ethos of "Safe, Sane, and Consensual." The building holds lounges, themed play rooms, dungeon spaces, a VIP area called La Intima, showers and locker rooms, an outdoor smoking patio, and free on-site parking. The club runs on a fixed weekly rhythm: Wednesday (7pm–12am), Friday (7pm–2am), and Saturday (7pm–2am), each opening with a 7–9pm social hour before shifting into members-only hours. Newcomers must complete a paid, appointment-only orientation, capped at 12 people per session, before applying for membership; walk-ins are not accepted. Membership tiers include a per-person Trial ($69, not available to single men), Annual ($149 plus $25 per visit), and Annual VIP ($599, unlimited visits and events). Dress code runs from street-legal attire outside to business-casual, dressy, or fetish wear inside, loosening toward lingerie or optional clothing after 9pm.

Naughty Revival

Minneapolis, MN

Lifestyle Resort

Naughty Revival is a 21-and-over lifestyle and kink event based in the Minneapolis–St. Paul metro area that operates as a periodic hotel takeover rather than a fixed venue: organizers reserve an entire hotel for a private, ticketed weekend roughly once a year. The event traces back to Kinque Social Society, founded in June 2018, which reorganized under the Naughty Revival name for its first event at the Sheraton Bloomington in November 2021, followed by two-night hotel takeovers at the Sheraton Minneapolis West in Minnetonka in subsequent years. Its next takeover is scheduled for December 4–6, 2026, at a hotel disclosed only by email to ticket and room holders. Each takeover converts the reserved hotel into a self-contained event space, with a ballroom dungeon and a pool dungeon outfitted with more than 60 pieces of equipment, four performance stages, classroom space for educational programming, a vendor marketplace, dining areas, and a dedicated swingers' suite, alongside the hotel's own pool, hot tub, sauna and racquetball courts. Outside the on-site bar, restaurants and VIP dining area, clothing is optional throughout the event space, with kink and fetish wear encouraged but street clothes also welcome. Attendance runs upward of 900 guests per event, and both couples and singles of any gender are explicitly welcomed. Doors open at 3:00 PM Friday (1:00 PM for VIP ticket holders), with the event and hotel checkout running through 1:00 PM Sunday. Entry requires a pre-purchased ticket and photo ID for mandatory 21+ verification; general admission runs $165 and VIP $525 per person, with an Ultra VIP two-person suite package at $3,450, and hotel rooms booked and priced separately from admission. House rules ban phones, cameras and recording devices anywhere outside private rooms or a designated phone room, enforce a consent-based stoplight safe-word system, and prohibit illegal drugs and firearms; alcohol is sold at the hotel and venue bars rather than brought in, and smoking is restricted to an area at least 25 feet from any entrance.

Club Eden is a roaming private-members lifestyle club based in Greater Vancouver, British Columbia, operating since 2006. Female-owned and operated, the club holds events at pre-approved venues throughout the Lower Mainland rather than at a fixed premises — the exact address for each event is disclosed only to approved members via their e-ticket after booking. The club caters to single women, couples, and their guests, emphasising a no-pressure environment in which attendance carries no obligation to participate beyond whatever each member personally chooses. Because Eden rotates between venues, the physical layout shifts by event, though the format for on-premise dance parties is consistent: a main-floor nightclub zone with a resident DJ spinning top 40 and house music, themed decor, and a social area for dancing and mingling. Larger on-premise events additionally feature dedicated play floors above the main room, encompassing private playrooms with closing doors and room-status signs, semi-private curtained rooms, a dungeon playroom, a large open group-play area on the top floor, and open play benches throughout. Complimentary safety supplies and medical-grade cleanser are stocked in each play space. A staff concierge — designated the Queen of Consent — is stationed at play-area entrances from approximately 10 pm onward. The event calendar covers several formats: social Meet and Greets, Pre-Party Potlucks preceding dance nights, regular On-Premise Dance Parties (typically 100–250 attendees), five annual Famous Five signature events tied to Valentine's Day, a summer beach party, Halloween, Christmas, and New Year's Eve (each drawing around 400 members), multi-day Edenstock camp-outs (50–120 attendees over 2–3 days), adult travel events, and Sexy Seminars. A free membership application — reviewed within 48 hours — is required before any tickets can be purchased; a $5 membership fee is bundled into each event's ticket price. Advance registration is mandatory; no walk-ins are accepted. First-time attendees must present government-issued photo ID at the door and sign hard copies of the membership agreement, privacy waiver, and liability waiver.

Asthoria Swingdreams

Neumünster, Schleswig-Holstein

On-Premise Club

Asthoria Swingdreams occupies the corner of Fehmarnstraße and Wrangelstraße in the Wittorf district of Neumünster, roughly midway between Hamburg and Kiel in Schleswig-Holstein. The club is legally structured as a registered association — Verein zur Förderung kommunikativer Freizeitgestaltung e.V. — rather than a commercial venue, and its stated motto, „familiär, unkompliziert, niveauvoll“ (intimate, uncomplicated, refined), reflects that orientation: the emphasis is on a sociable, close-knit atmosphere within a deliberately modest capacity of around 50 guests across approximately 300 square metres. The floor plan divides the space into clearly distinct zones: a bar with a dance floor and pole-dancing apparatus, lounge seating, a buffet area, shower facilities, a wellness area with sauna and massage space, a darkroom, a jungle-themed play room, and a purpose-fitted SM/BDSM studio equipped with a St. Andrew’s Cross. The event calendar has featured recurring themed nights including the Rubensparty, a body-positive evening, and the Dark Night. The club opens on Tuesdays and Wednesdays from 15:00 to 23:00, on Fridays and Saturdays from 19:00 to 03:00, and on the second and fourth Sunday of each month from 15:00 to 22:00. Entry pricing is tiered by gender and day: single women pay €10 on all open nights; couples pay €30 on Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Sundays, and €50 on Fridays and Saturdays; single men pay €65 on Sundays, €70 on Tuesdays and Wednesdays, and €75 on Fridays and Saturdays. A dress code is enforced at entry.

AfterDark Events

San Francisco, CA

Event Organizer (Pop-Up Play Parties)

AfterDark is a POC, femme, queer, neurodivergent, and disabled led org producing curated kink and alt-sex events across the SF Bay Area. Founded 2021 with 10+ years of ethical organizing, running signature parties like SPANK! Pop-ups at Stopgap in SoMa, 100-200 attendees. Each party has zones for socializing, dancing, kink play, and aftercare. Safer-sex supplies, food (vegan/GF/DF), and non-alcoholic drinks provided. Drug/alcohol-free, no phones, no photography, ID required. Consent-centered: dungeon monitors, house safeword, no breath play or open flame.

KC Book Club

Liberty, MO

On-Premise Club

KC Book Club is a by-invitation-only lifestyle house party set on five acres of secluded land just north of Liberty, Missouri — a quiet, rural setting that ensures complete privacy for its guests. Owned and personally run by Eddie, the venue is a custom-built entertaining space that has earned a reputation as one of the Midwest most recognized lifestyle destinations, drawing regulars and curious newcomers alike from as far as Nebraska, Iowa, Oklahoma, and Arkansas. The club has been featured on national lifestyle podcasts, and its welcoming, consent-forward atmosphere keeps the crowd firmly in living-room-party territory rather than nightclub territory. Saturday nights are the club's exclusive rhythm, and the format is BYOE — guests bring their own drinks and snacks, while the house provides soft drinks, hors d'oeuvres, ice, soda mixers, and bottled water. Inside, a large social area and a dance floor (complete with stripper pole) set the tone for mingling before the evening deepens. Private play rooms and dedicated kink and lifestyle spaces are available on site, and the venue also features a pool, hot tub, and showers. When the weather cooperates, the five acres open up for clothing-optional volleyball, swimming, and sunbathing. The club is kink-friendly, swinger-friendly, and welcoming to the genuinely curious — but it is strictly couples and single women only; single men are not admitted. Access is by invitation only, and the BYOE policy keeps the vibe communal and intimate. The location near Liberty Triangle puts guests within easy reach of hotels, restaurants, and retail for before or after the party.

Pärchenclub Schiedel

Kamenz, Saxony

On-Premise Club

Club Schiedel sits on a former farmstead in the Schiedel district of Kamenz, a small Saxony town in eastern Germany roughly equidistant between Dresden and Bautzen. Operated since 2012 by Siro and Reinhard Bartels through Pärchenclub Schiedel & Hotel UG, it has grown into one of the larger lifestyle destinations in the region — a self-contained rural retreat combining a full-scale swingers club with hotel rooms, holiday rooms, and extensive grounds. Its approach along quiet roads threading through forest and farmland on the edge of the Upper Lusatian hills and lake landscape gives the property a secluded and unhurried character that sets it apart from urban venues of comparable scope. The interior club area is finished in natural stone, timber, and tropical planting — a design the venue describes as a blend of eroticism, tropical flair, and rustic warmth. The amenity list is substantial: a darkroom, a dedicated SM room, themed playrooms including mirrored and group-activity rooms, a small adult cinema, five indoor bars, and a wellness section with hot tub and sauna. A warm-and-cold buffet runs through the evening during events. The broader grounds encompass an outdoor swimming pool, an outdoor bar with lounge beds, and a spread of lakeside holiday cabins alongside hotel rooms in the main building. The club averages 4.4 stars across more than 130 visitor reviews, with consistent praise for staff friendliness and quality of service. Events are anchored to Friday and Saturday evenings, with doors opening at 20:00 on both nights. Wednesdays function primarily as a hotel check-in and accommodation day for overnight guests. The club maintains a Swinger-Paten scheme — a companion system in which staff or designated regulars walk first-time visitors through the space and help them find their footing at their own pace.

KNetic Club

Calgary, Alberta

On-Premise Club

KNetic Club bills itself as "Calgary's largest fully licensed Lifestyle Swingers Club" — LGBTQ-owned and pitched as ultra-inclusive, welcoming singles, couples, and throuples across two Calgary venues (KNetic South and KNetic North). It runs as an event-driven private club rather than a daily-open venue: a free member profile must be created and approved before attending, and the calendar mixes high-energy themed parties (Unicorn Night, Spicy Stampede Social, Cowboy Boots & Daisy Dukes), play-focused nights, a "Real Talk" relationships discussion series, partner workshops, and a regular Newbie Night for first-timers. Single men can't attend couples nights alone — the classic couples-protective convention — while single women are welcomed and discounted on select nights. The roughly 3,400 sq ft South venue pairs a main dance floor (DJ, stripper pole) with an upstairs lounge of pool and darts, a furnished playroom, gender-neutral washrooms, and a "FLEX" bar where members can buy drinks or bring their own. The KNetic name spans a small multi-brand network: alongside the couples-and-singles flagship, it operates KNetic Men (a gay/bi/queer men's cruise club) and KNetic Women (a queer women's club), each with its own community, plus it rents the venue to third-party kink organizer K-E-A-N for shibari and BDSM education nights. Founded on a "Love Always Wins" ethos and described as Calgary's only fully LGBTQ-owned lifestyle club, that breadth is why some visitors read it as "a queer club" — but the flagship's own marketing is explicit: "a safe space for 18+ singles, couples, and more." Entry is event-ticketed and varies by night (commonly from ~$10–$15 CAD, with Premium-member and single-women discounts on select events), and an optional paid Premium membership ($10/mo–$95/yr) unlocks door discounts and social features but not admission. Fully licensed (City of Calgary, Alberta Health Services, Calgary Fire, AGLC), the club is well regarded — reportedly around 4.7★ on one review aggregator — and was active as of mid-2026.

FuseX Social Club

Atlanta, GA

Social Club

FuseX Social Club is an application-gated, members-only lifestyle organization founded in Beverly Hills, California, in 2016. Rather than operating a fixed clubhouse, it runs a rotating calendar of private events across a network it describes as spanning more than twenty U.S. metro areas, including Atlanta, Georgia, plus additional chapters abroad. It caters to swingers, hotwife and cuckold couples, kink and BDSM practitioners, and polyamorous singles and couples. Because FuseX has no permanent venue, its Atlanta-area gatherings take the form of hotel takeovers, private-residence parties, and rented mansion events; addresses are disclosed only to approved members, typically shortly before each event. The club describes evenings built around socializing and dancing before any sexual activity, treats participation - including for voyeurs who attend only to observe - as optional, and enforces an explicit consent standard and a no-photography rule. Events are BYOB, with lidded cups required at house and mansion parties. Entry requires a formal application, an interview, and a criminal background check; the club states it excludes applicants with convictions for domestic violence, intimate partner violence, or sexual offenses. Minimum annual income thresholds apply for prospective members (combined income of $225,000 for couples, $115,828 for single men, and $45,630 for single women, waived for enrolled students), alongside several paid membership tiers with dues that vary by level; single women can qualify for a complimentary top-tier membership.

Why Not Swingerclub

Hamburg, Hamburg

On-Premise Club

Swingertreff Why Not e.V. is a registered lifestyle club operating out of a two-storey house in Hamburg's Bramfeld district. Located on Bramfelder Chaussee in the city's northeast, the venue spans roughly 340 square metres and accommodates up to 120 guests per session, with parking available on site. It is structured as a non-profit registered association (eingetragener Verein), a less common arrangement among German lifestyle venues. Across its two floors, the club offers a wellness area with sauna and massage space, an SM/BDSM section, and a shared social area where an all-inclusive buffet and drinks service are covered by the entry fee. The club has positioned itself as accessible to first-timers, running dedicated beginner evenings alongside its regular programme. It holds a 4.8 out of 5 rating on JOYclub, where it appears among Hamburg's top-listed venues of its kind.

The Night Game

Houston, TX

on-premise nightclub

Billed as the largest and most luxurious private member lifestyle club in Texas, The Night Game sits off FM 1960 in north Houston and pulls off a rare double act: upscale enough to enforce a date-night dress code, yet relaxed enough to welcome everyone from curious first-timers to seasoned regulars. The vibe leans high-class-meets-cozy — think polished nightclub energy on the main floor and something warmer in the back. The crowd skews broad, reflecting the club's openly inclusive philosophy: swinging, BDSM, polyamory, LGBTQ+ and everything in between are all explicitly welcomed. The main floor centres on a 1,200 sq ft dance floor fitted with a dance cage, two dance poles and a shadow box for silhouette shows, all driven by resident professional DJs. Complimentary drink set-ups and full waitstaff keep the social side humming, and a covered patio offers breathing room between dances. Beyond the dancefloor, fully-stocked private playrooms are staffed with dedicated security and cleaning personnel — playroom doors are required to stay closed during play, and single unaccompanied men must be invited in by a couple or partner before entering. A Selfie Station in the main hall lets guests snap photos with mutual consent while keeping cameras out of private areas entirely. Entry requires valid photo ID and adherence to a firm dress code: cocktail and clubwear for ladies, collared or solid fashion shirts and clean shoes for men — no logo tees, athletic gear, cargo shorts or flip-flops will get you through the door. The club is strictly BYOB (no alcohol sold or served), has a zero-tolerance drugs policy, and operates under Harris County regulations requiring nipples and genitals to be covered in all common areas. Reservations are available online, pricing adjusts for holiday and special-event nights, and the club actively encourages guests with non-binary gender identities to contact them directly about pricing and access.

Syracuse Social Club / Syracuse Speak Easy

Syracuse, NY

Syracuse Speak Easy, also known as the Syracuse Social Club, is a private lifestyle social group serving the swingers community in the greater Syracuse, New York area. Rather than operating from a fixed clubhouse, it runs its parties out of a rotating venue it refers to only as the "Syracuse Upscale Hotel," with access details shared with registered members ahead of each event. The group's site footer carries a copyright range of 2009-2026, suggesting a long operating history under this or a related branding, though no dedicated About or history page confirms founding details. Parties center on a themed Saturday-night format built around a live DJ and dance floor, with decor, games and contests keyed to each month's theme -- recent examples include a Halloween "Nightmare on Speakeasy Street" night with a costume contest, a western-themed "Country Night," a "Speakeasy Christmas," and a New Year's Eve "Casino Royale" night with blackjack, poker and roulette tables. The club also cross-promotes destination travel add-ons -- couples-focused lifestyle cruises and resort takeovers with partners such as Bliss Cruise, Desire Cruises and Temptation Cruises -- alongside its local hotel parties, operating on a shared "Modern Lifestyle" events platform. Access is membership-based: prospective attendees create a profile on the club's website, selecting a category of couple, single female, or single male, and submit at least one verification photo (up to six, taken within the past two years) along with a short lifestyle background. Despite single men being a listed registration category, third-party reporting and the structure of the club's own registration form indicate single men are not admitted to actual parties -- couples and single women are welcomed at the door. Saturday parties typically run from around 20:30 to 04:00; specific ticket pricing is not published and is handled through the member login and event system.

Allures Lifestyle

Sacramento, CA

Event Organizer (Hotel Takeover Parties)

Allures Lifestyle is Sacramento's longest-running lifestyle event organizer — a pop-up operation that descends on the DoubleTree by Hilton Sacramento's grand ballroom and transforms it into what the group bills as Northern California's premier swinger dance-play party. Operating under the tagline "the force of irresistible attraction," Allures has run monthly hotel parties for over a decade and draws couples from across the greater Sacramento area and beyond. The setup reads more nightclub than back-room affair: romantic candlelight, fog machines, sensual mood lighting, and two large projector screens broadcasting music videos accompany a state-of-the-art DJ spinning Old School, R&B, Hip Hop, Latin, Pop, EDM, and Classic Rock. The main ballroom floor centers on a full dance floor with a stripper pole and go-go stage, flanked by reserved VIP round tables (seating eight each) and 10-by-7-foot draped VIP cabanas — each fitted with a sofa, loveseat, and coffee table — right on the dance floor. Adjacent to the ballroom, the "Boom Boom Room" play suite provides multiple beds, a double-sided St. Andrew's Cross, a multi-positional sex horse, and a sex swing, staffed by Allures personnel throughout the evening. Guests in the play suite are asked to be in lingerie or less; voyeurs are welcome but may be asked to vacate if space is needed. Overnight sleeping rooms — standard rooms through two-bedroom suites — can be reserved in the Allures hotel block, placing guests on dedicated Allures floors and including a goodie bag at check-in. The event calendar runs to monthly themed hotel dances plus more intimate "Fantasy Fridays" at rotating venues, casual Meet & Greets at nightclubs and lifestyle bars, and an ambitious roster of destination programming: a clothing-optional takeover in Jaco, Costa Rica, Hedonism II Jamaica dates, Bliss and Desire cruise ship charters, Vegas weekends, Gold Country motorcycle runs, boating flotillas, and camping trips. The signature event is the annual New Year's Eve "SEXabration Ball," which drew national news coverage in January 2020 after nearly 1,000 guests filled the DoubleTree. All hotel events are 21+; a full cash bar is on-site.

Silk Lifestyle

Miami, FL

Social Club

Silk Lifestyle is an invite-only lifestyle events group based in Miami that throws themed play parties in rented private mansions rather than a fixed clubhouse. Past nights include a cyberpunk party at a Hollywood, Florida mansion headlined by DJ Markus Schulz, a Celtic-occult "Emerald Covenant," and an annual New Year's Eve mansion takeover in Fort Lauderdale. Entry runs through an online application, not walk-up admission: event pages state attendance is "by application approval" with "no door sales, no outsiders," and every applicant is vetted. Tickets are priced separately by category -- couples, throuples, single women, and a capped number of single men. Nights lean all-inclusive: open bar, chef-prepared bites, DJ sets, photo booths, massage therapists, and themed play rooms, with some adding fire dancers or a heated pool. Phones stay in designated areas, and photography is barred inside play spaces.

Eyz Wide Shut

Tampa, FL

On-Premise Club

Spread across more than 12,000 square feet in two adjoining buildings on East Adamo Drive, Eyz Wide Shut is Tampa's only dedicated on-premise lifestyle nightclub. Eyz Wide Shut II houses the nightclub proper — a full liquor bar (cash only), a nightly complimentary buffet, a dance floor with a brass pole, a game room with pool and air hockey, a covered outdoor smoking patio, and an erotic-art museum stocked with imported pieces. Next door, Eyz Wide Shut I holds ten themed private suites — Dungeon, Cleopatra, Seaside, Harem, Wild West among them — plus three group rooms (including a large dungeon, a Hedonism room, and Lovers Lane) and a one-way-glass voyeur room. The club opens Thursday through Sunday; Fridays and Saturdays run 7 pm to 3 am with playrooms unlocking at 11 pm and staying open until 5 am. Thursdays and Sundays keep shorter hours. Membership is required for playroom access and can be purchased at the door alongside a valid, scannable government-issued photo ID — no digital copies accepted. A dress code is enforced on Fridays and Saturdays: sexy clubwear or business casual, no hats, no athletic wear, no open-toe shoes for men. Security is thorough: every guest passes through a metal detector, pockets are emptied, and bags are searched. Phones are permitted in the nightclub but must be surrendered before entering the playroom building — no cameras, smart watches, or recording devices of any kind are allowed on the play side, with violations resulting in a lifetime ban. Group rooms are reserved for couples and single females; single males may enter only by invitation to a private suite, with the exception of Pride nights and the group dungeon.

TABOTA Monster Bash

Niagara Falls, Ontario

Event Organizer

TABOTA Monster Bash is an annual Halloween-themed swinger lifestyle hotel takeover event held each October in Niagara Falls, Ontario, produced by TABOTA Events — a Canadian lifestyle company that has been running adult events since 2007. The Bash traces its lineage from a Northbound Leather Friday-night pre-party in downtown Toronto, through a club-format O Zone event, before expanding into a full-weekend hotel takeover. For the duration of the event, TABOTA books the entire property of an upscale hotel and indoor waterpark complex located minutes from the Falls — the venue name is not published, consistent with the organizers' discretion-first approach — ensuring the property is accessible to registered guests only. The event is open to couples and single women; single men are not admitted, and attendance is restricted to guests aged 19 and over. The venue is a tropical-themed resort with a clothing-optional indoor waterpark, heated pools and hot tubs, a Poolside VooDoo Lounge serving bistro-style snacks, and award-winning gourmet dining in an enclosed courtyard garden. Dedicated lifestyle spaces include a Penthouse Play Area, a Kinky Playroom, and an outdoor Kink Garden; on the main Saturday night the DJ runs until 2am, playrooms stay open until 4am, and the pools and hot tubs operate clothing-optional until 3am. Programming begins Thursday with an Interactive Escape Room and themed dance for early-arrival guests. Friday brings a Meet and Greet, a theme dance, and access to the play areas. Saturday is the anchor day: a daytime pool party with a live band, XXX-rated pumpkin carving, a Pirates and Wenches treasure hunt, sexual tarot readings, professional body painting, wax play and shibari rope-bondage demos, a pole dance workshop, a Lick or Trick room crawl, and the Carnival of Sinz — a carnivalesque set of risque games including Cock Toss, Naked Axe Throwing, and X-Rated Beer Pong. The evening builds through a Dinner Murder Mystery on Bourbon Street and Black Tape Body Artistry before culminating in the Halloween Gala, the main costume-contest dance party. The 2026 event runs October 23-25, with a Thursday early-arrival upgrade available. All bookings are made in advance through TabotaEvents.com; the event consistently sells out. A pass-only package (full weekend event access, no room) is $169 per person plus 13% HST; a pass-and-room package covering two nights of accommodation plus all event access is $439 per person plus 13% HST. A courtyard pool-view room upgrade adds $69 per person per night, and the Thursday early-arrival night adds $99 per person per night. Guests in accommodation packages are required to pay a mandatory $100 per person weekend party credit in cash at check-in, redeemable anywhere in the hotel for food and drinks. Photography and camera use are prohibited throughout the event.

Scarlet Ranch

Littleton, CO

On-Premise Club

Set on five acres of park-like grounds in Littleton's south Denver suburbs, Scarlet Ranch has operated since 2003 as an upscale lifestyle club, occupying a roughly 24,000-square-foot modern mountain lodge known as Squirrel Creek Lodge. Soaring split-log ceilings, river-rock bars and rustic touches lend a Swiss-chalet warmth. The main floor holds two bars, high-top tables, leather lounges, a billiard room and shuffleboard, opening onto a large dance floor with a raised DJ booth and a stage. Downstairs are the play spaces: a group area of four queen beds, six curtained private alcoves and voyeuristic showers. Open Wednesday through Sunday with themed events nearly every night and major weekly parties, the Ranch draws a well-dressed, upscale crowd averaging about 37, spanning late-20s to 60s. It welcomes couples and single women, with select single men admitted. Amenities include hot tubs, the on-site Oreads steakhouse, a praised Sunday brunch, BYOB bar service, and outdoor cabanas, a fire-pit teepee and seasonal pool-style parties.

Lifestyle Playtime

Unverified

DeKalb, IL

Event Group / Hotel Takeover Organizer (no fixed venue)

Lifestyle Playtime is a Chicago-area lifestyle group based in DeKalb, IL that runs low-pressure monthly meet-and-greets alongside larger hotel takeover parties, rather than operating out of a single fixed venue. The format keeps overhead low and lets the group rotate between DeKalb and the wider Chicago suburbs depending on the event. Entry is vetted: single men must apply through the group's "Distinguished Gentlemen" screening process before attending, and all guests sign a liability waiver and show photo ID at check-in. Attendees wear an event wristband, and couples are expected to arrive and leave together, with house rules enforced by volunteer hosts rather than paid staff.

Club Eden OKC

Oklahoma City, OK

Private members-only lifestyle nightclub

Club Eden OKC is the Oklahoma City outpost of Chris and Crissy Vee's Eden Clubs chain — the third location alongside the 14,000 sq ft DFW flagship and the San Antonio sister venue. It runs out of a 9,000 sq ft footprint inside the Days Inn by Wyndham Oklahoma City Fairground complex at 2801 NW 39th Street, on the western edge of the NW 39th Street Enclave — OKC's historic LGBT district that runs east toward 39th and Penn (where the original gay bars like Tramps, Angles, The Copa and Habana/District Hotel sit). Eden isn't a gay bar; it's a private members-only lifestyle nightclub for couples in open relationships, with explicit LGBT framing and singles-welcoming pricing. The unique upside of the OKC location is the lodging — four King Suites and one Double Suite, couples-only, run as "Eden Suites" in the same Days Inn building for $110–$140 a night. You can rent a room, walk thirty feet, and you're on the dance floor. OKC runs on a weekend-only schedule — doors Friday 9pm to 3am, Saturday 9pm to 4am, with Thursdays held back for private parties. The annual flagship is "The Eden Sh!t Show" (10th annual in 2026 ran July 30 – August 2 across four days), the one stretch of the year that breaks the Fri/Sat rule. The weekly programme mirrors the chain — Fridays rotate by week of month between Play More Party, Sybian/Swingles, Fetish Friday, Poly Glamorous and Let's GLOW Crazy; Saturdays each carry their own themed party (Bad Ass Bitches & Bikers, Sexy Cowgirls & Outlaws, Lifestyle Barbie, Naughty School Girl Summer Vacation, Daisy Dukes & Boots and the rest). The venue itself is a single 9,000 sq ft hall — large dance floor with a stripper pole, advanced sound and lighting, music videos on the walls, smoking patio, lockers, play rooms with BDSM furniture, and what reviewers and directories alike call a "spacious orgy room." There's no dedicated dungeon equivalent to the DFW sister club's Infliction Hall; OKC keeps the kink integrated into the main play floor. The alcohol policy is the chain's strictest. Unlike the Texas locations' BYOB-with-setups model, OKC checks bottles at the door and bans alcohol containers inside the club — Oklahoma liquor compliance pushes drinking to the adjacent Eden Suite room or to the parking lot. Inside, a modern concession stand handles sodas, juices and packaged snacks. Pricing is tiered three ways — by night, by gender, and by membership level. Friday door runs $45/$60 couples (VIP / daily), $25 single women, $150 single men. Saturday climbs to $65/$85 couples, $25 single women, $175 single men. Annual memberships ladder from $250 Couples VIP or Female Platinum at the entry, through $3,000 Couples Platinum, up to $5,000 Couples Platinum Plus and $6,500 Male Platinum — all cross-honoured at the DFW and San Antonio sister venues. OKC is also unusually accessible for first-timers: no advance online application required (unlike DFW), just show up with a valid ID and the front desk walks new guests through the rules, consent and tour in person. Reviewer sentiment runs bimodal — 4.3/5 across 35 Google reviews, with 26 five-stars praising the cleanliness, the staff's detailed orientation and the "electric, yet warm and welcoming" atmosphere, plus a smaller cluster of one-star complaints about an aggressive security guard, summer AC struggles, and a sense that cover charges can be applied arbitrarily.

Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa

Kissimmee, FL

Lifestyle Resort

Sprawled across five acres of converted motel buildings on East Irlo Bronson Memorial Highway — minutes from Disney World — Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa is central Florida's flagship lifestyle destination. The members-only, clothing-optional property holds around 148 individually owned condo-hotel units arranged around a courtyard pool, two hot tubs, a poolside tiki bar and the Club Secret nightclub, which pumps EDM across a two-bar dance floor with a full light-and-sound rig most nights of the week. The main draw is an 8,000-square-foot playroom complex: five windowed private rooms with beds and couches, a large central group-play area, a curtained section with a screening lounge, and a staffed dungeon (Club Swinkster) equipped with spanking benches, bondage gear and intro classes for the curious. Playrooms are nude-or-towel only; phones and smartwatches are banned inside. Lockers ($8–$10/night, towels included) sit at the entrance beside a communal shower area. Daytime life revolves around the clothing-optional pool, where DJs spin from late morning onward. A complimentary dinner buffet runs nightly (7:30–10:30 pm), followed by a late-night omelet bar (11:30 pm–3 am) and a breakfast buffet each morning. The crowd spans twenties to sixties, skewing around 40 on weekends, with a mix of couples, single women and single men. Nightly entry fees apply on top of membership — even for hotel guests — and the property is secured by 24-hour on-site security.

Club Chameleon

Flint, MI

House Party

Club Chameleon is a swingers house-party venue operating in the Flint, Michigan area, run by a self-described "empty nester" couple with 25 years in the lifestyle. The venue spans three and a half floors, with two bars, a dance floor, three private playrooms, a curtained "Peekaboo" room, a dedicated billiards room, and a St. Andrew's cross room stocked with paddles and floggers for sensual play. Outside, an enclosed, heated patio holds an eight-person hot tub open year-round, a second theme bar, a stripper pole, and a bonfire pit with seating. The club leans heavily into theme parties, held roughly once a month, complete with costume contests, prizes, and raffles, alongside icebreaker activities like cornhole, beer pong, foosball, and adult Jenga. Food is served buffet-style, usually tied to the party theme, while all parties are BYOB and BYOC (bring your own cup), and the venue is smoking- and 420-friendly. The organizers position Club Chameleon as newbie-friendly, promoting a "safe, non-pushy, no expectations" atmosphere, with a strict Single Male Expectations Policy available on request; overnight accommodations can reportedly be arranged for guests traveling long distances or planning to drink.

Dark Odyssey

Berkeley, CA

Event Organizer

Dark Odyssey is a roving event organization founded in 2003 by Greg, a former Black Rose board chairman, to fuse sexuality, spirituality, education, and play under one roof. Rather than operating a fixed venue, it commandeers hotels and private rural retreats for four distinct annual events: Winter Fire, a luxury hotel takeover in Baltimore running a full President's Day weekend; Fusion, a six-day summer camp in Northern Maryland on a 200-acre private facility with 40 cabins and 400 beds; Summer Camp, a Labor Day week-long gathering at the same Northern Maryland retreat; and Surrender, a pre-Halloween hotel convention in the San Jose Bay Area. Sold-out attendance at Winter Fire has reached 1,400 people. Each event follows the same architecture: days packed with 80-plus workshops spanning BDSM technique, polyamory, Tantra, sacred sexuality, and spiritual practice, taught by national educators; nights given over to fully equipped dungeons, the Sex-O-Rama open playspace (supplied with beds, lube, condoms, and gloves around the clock), and themed parties running until 2–3am. The rural camp events add outdoor suspension rigs, a tennis-court playspace with weather-resistant equipment, a Pavilion for mixers and open play, and a Temple space for ritual and sacred play. Fire spin jams, drumming circles, a Kinky State Fair, and a Saturday night show round out the program. The community self-describes as a melting pot of kinksters, queers, swingers, spiritualists, Pagans, polyamorists, and cross-dressers — pansexual, omnisexual, and explicitly welcoming to all gender identities. Attendee-created ION events let the community add its own workshops and parties to each schedule. A dedicated Incident Response Team (IRT) staffs a help desk at every event to handle consent matters in private.

Club 3X

Cocoa, FL

On-Premise Club

Club3X bills itself as Brevard County's only lifestyle-friendly nightlife venue, tucked into a storefront unit on King Street in Cocoa where the door sits off Florida Avenue near Willard Street. It's a members-only, clothing-optional, on-premise club with a nightclub-meets-house-party feel. The main level centers on a spinning dance pole and bar seating, a free pool table, and a fetish-themed fun area, plus semi-private nooks, two locking private rooms downstairs and two more upstairs, and a loft with beds, seating and a shower room overlooking the main floor — about 2,245 square feet of party space in total. A recently updated dungeon and kink area adds a suspension point, spanking benches, a wax table, a Saint Andrew's Cross and an aftercare corner, with a rope/dungeon master on site some Saturdays. The crowd skews casual and averages older than the big-city Florida clubs, drawn mostly from the Space Coast, and regulars are known for pulling newcomers into conversation.

Vixxxins Lifestyle Club

Phoenix, AZ

Off-Premise Club

Vixxxins Lifestyle Club is a members-only lifestyle and kink club based in Phoenix, Arizona, founded and run by "Madame Vixxxin," who says she has been active in the lifestyle for more than 25 years. Rather than operating from one fixed venue, the club rotates events across rented warehouses, private homes and hotels across the Phoenix valley, with exact addresses disclosed only to approved members. Membership is stated to be open to all body types, ages 21 and over, genders and orientations. Warehouse "Gala" events typically draw around 200 guests and house parties around 100, within a stated range of 50-350. Entry requires photo ID and a sex-offender database check for every member, with uniformed security on-site. Cameras are banned in play areas and phone use is restricted to designated zones. Membership runs on monthly subscriptions — Basic $25, VIP $50, Upper Echelon VIP $75 — covering club access rather than per-event tickets. A strict dress code is enforced (fetish wear, lingerie, tuxedos; no jeans, athletic wear or plain streetwear), and most events are BYOB.

Infliction Hall

Euless, TX

On-Premise Club

Infliction Hall is a 9,000-square-foot BDSM dungeon and kink club in Euless, Texas, occupying Suite 100 at 11050 S Pipeline Rd — the same building as swinger nightclub Club Eden DFW, which sits next door in Suite 200. Run on the Modern Lifestyle members platform, it bills itself as a club for erotic, open-minded BDSM people where on-premise play is allowed, and local press notes it welcomes couples and singles of all orientations and genders. The venue pairs a large dungeon space and top-tier scene equipment with a sound and light system, couch lounge, tables and pub seating, a smoking patio, lockers, and a large parking lot. It operates BYOB, with $10 drink bands covering set-ups, ice, and unlimited fountain drinks, and $5 locker rental at the door; reservable booths and high tables run $20–25 a night and often sell out. Beyond parties, the hall hosts educational classes and demos and books collar ceremonies, weddings, and poly ceremonies. Regular hours are Wednesday 8 pm–midnight, Thursday 8 pm–1 am, Friday 9 pm–2 am, and Saturday 9 pm–3 am. The calendar fills nearly every open night with themed programming — rope group meetups, impact and electro-play education, littles and pet-play parties, newbie orientation nights, Dom/sub and open-play events. Door pricing varies by event: recent midweek nights ran $20–25, while Saturdays reached $40 for non-members with $15 early-bird entry before 10 pm. VIP membership ($125 for one year) discounts entry, and Platinum ($568 annually) includes free admission to all events. Dress code is nice casual, with fetish wear recommended.

Group in Keller TX

Keller, TX

Rotating hotel venues (hotel floor takeover parties), no fixed clubhouse

Group in Keller TX is a Dallas-Fort Worth area lifestyle (swinger) social group that bills itself as the longest continuously running lifestyle group in north Texas. Rather than operating a fixed clubhouse, the group runs recurring hotel floor takeover parties at all-suites hotel properties in Dallas and Plano, moving between venues rather than a permanent home base. Events center on DJ music and dancing, held on Saturday nights from 9 PM to 2 AM, with a cash bar, dance floor, and private/suite rooms available depending on the specific hotel venue booked for that takeover. Themed nights, including LGBTQ+-inclusive events, are part of the regular rotation. Attendance requires membership: prospective members apply online under one of several categories — couple, single female, FF couple, or single male — before gaining access to event details and booking. Admission policy toward single men has been described inconsistently across sources and may vary by specific themed event rather than following one fixed rule.

NSFW (New Society for Wellness)

New York, NY

On-Premise Club

Founded in 2018 by Daniel Saynt — the self-described 'Chief Conspirator' — NSFW (New Society for Wellness) began as an intimate gathering in lower Manhattan and grew into one of New York's most talked-about members-only sex clubs. The current clubhouse, a 4,000 sq ft space in Chelsea near Penn Station, replaced earlier venues in Brooklyn and lower Manhattan and opened in August 2025. Entry is past a velvet rope and front-desk check-in, with arrivals capped at 60 members per event. The crowd — drawn heavily from entertainment, fashion, and media, averaging around 28 years old and running roughly 60 percent female — sets a tone one attendee described as 'civilized debauchery.' All guests dress in all-black to put everyone on an equal playing field. The weekly rhythm runs to PlayDates every Saturday (21:00–02:00) and Netflix & Chill Sundays (18:00–22:00), with workshops Tuesdays and Thursdays (18:00–21:00) covering pleasure education, rope play, and BDSM. A monthly Send Noobs introductory session walks prospective members through the community's consent framework before they set foot in the Clubhouse. The space features plush communal areas, a sex swing, shibari play zones, walls of floggers and paddles, and private by-reservation rooms. Membership requires a vetted profile granted at roughly a 30% acceptance rate, evaluated across 14 criteria. Tiers range from Pay-Per-Play ($29/month or $169/year plus per-event passes) to Unlimited Solo ($250/month) and Unlimited Couples ($350/month) plans. An online community of 7,500+ member profiles, an NSFW Magazine, and sex-education resources extend the experience beyond the physical Clubhouse.

The Velvet Rope

Portland, OR

The Velvet Rope (TVR) is Portland's longest-running on-premises social and lifestyle club, tucked away in a quiet, unassuming building on SE Cesar E. Chavez Boulevard. Spanning roughly 10,000 square feet across two floors, the 21-and-over venue bills itself as a sex-positive, judgment-free space where individuals, couples and polycules of all identities and experience levels can connect, play or simply soak up the vibe. New guests are walked through the club on a guided tour and signed in at the front desk; the crowd is a mix of long-time regulars and lifestyle newcomers, and the staff lean heavily on a consent-first culture backed by clear house rules. The club runs Friday and Saturday nights from 8 p.m. to 3 a.m. and Sundays from 8 p.m. to 2 a.m., with a rotating calendar of themed parties — Newbie Night, Savage Saturdays, Sex in the Sundae, plus kink nights, rope demos, speed dating and glow parties. Entry is members-first: a couples membership runs $70 for six months or $110 for a year, single ladies $40/$60, and single men $95/$135, with reduced door fees, special member-only events and a fast-track member line as perks. Non-members can buy a one-night pass at the door (couples $50–$80, single ladies $10–$20, single men $55–$90 depending on the night), and a government-issued ID is required at every visit. Two full bars operate inside, so guests must be 21+; per OLCC rules, no marijuana in any form is allowed on the property. Inside, the space is built for both play and comfort: a large dance floor with a live DJ, pole stations and a dance cage; social lounges with pool tables and stage performances; multiple open and private play areas including a couples-only room and a caged sex swing; hardpoints for rope suspension and other kink exploration; indoor and outdoor hot tubs with adjacent showers stocked with free towels, body wash and shampoo; and lockers on both levels (BYO lock or buy one at the desk). Dress code is enforced — clubwear or business-casual on regular nights, theme-appropriate attire on kink, glow and formal events — with no sweats, flip-flops or gym wear. Knives, needles, tasers, guns (real or replica), candles and unapproved electro gear are barred from the playrooms, and the venue maintains hard limits on scat, watersports, fire, blood, breath and wax play. Three free parking lots sit nearby, credit and debit cards are accepted at the desk, and an ATM is right next door.

Pandora's Resort

Crossville, TN

Lifestyle Resort

Pandora's Resort is a private, membership-based clothing-optional lifestyle resort and nightclub at 80 Timberline Rd in Crossville, Tennessee. The property operates under new ownership as of 2026, having rebranded from its previous name, Pandora's Forest, following a renovation and re-opening. The grounds function as both a campground and a social club: guests can stay in rental cabins, chalets, or RV and tent sites, all served by a renovated bathhouse with outdoor showers. Shared amenities include a heated seasonal pool, a year-round hot tub, a sun deck, a poolside cafe, and a tiki bar. A dedicated on-premise play space, the "Red Room," houses a dungeon-style playroom, a stripper pole, and separate male and female gloryholes. Clothing is optional throughout the property, though bathing suit bottoms are required in the pool and clothing is not permitted in the hot tub. Entry is membership-based, with tiered pricing handled through the resort's online portal, and themed parties are held most weekends; specific party hours are not published. All guests must register at the office with a valid photo ID and a signed acknowledgment of the house rules, with standard check-in at 3pm and check-out at 11am. The resort is BYOB, and sexual activity is restricted to the Red Room, cabins, chalets, or private RVs and campers rather than the pool, hot tub, or other common areas.

Center for Sex Positive Culture (CSPC)

Seattle, WA

Community Center

The Center for Sex Positive Culture (CSPC) is a volunteer-run, 501(c)(7) nonprofit membership organization based in Seattle, Washington, founded in 1999. It describes its mission as creating spaces to celebrate, develop, and explore sexuality and sensuality among a diverse community, with programming spanning kink and BDSM, swinging, polyamory, and queer-centered events. CSPC's original venue on 15th Ave in Interbay closed in 2016, and after a change in leadership in 2017, the organization resumed in-person events in January 2018. Events are now held on a per-event rental basis at Gallery Erato, 309 1st Ave S in Seattle's Pioneer Square, the permanent home of CSPC's sister organization, the Pan Eros Foundation. The main floor holds play stations, a coat closet, and gender-neutral restrooms, and is reachable via a portable wheelchair ramp; the basement level is stairs-only and excluded from essential group activities. Members bring their own padlocks for basement lockers, and the organization provides safer-sex supplies, clean linens, and a water-filling station. Alcohol and drugs are prohibited entirely, including outside beverages brought in. Access requires membership, priced on a sliding scale from $5 to $20 per month (or $100 to $220 annually) across Reduced, Standard, and Supporter tiers, and prospective members must complete a New Member Orientation before buying a ticket. Recurring in-person parties include Fresh Meet, LaQueer, Myself!, Femmes on Top, All In!, Sense & Sensuality, and The Grind, each priced at $30 with a sliding scale available. Tickets are sold online only, at least six hours before an event with no door sales, and valid photo ID is required of every attendee; masking has been recommended but not required since February 2024.

Eros Knoxville

Knoxville, TN

On-Premise Club

Eros Knoxville is a private, members-only lifestyle club tucked into a bottom-floor space reached through a courtyard at 815 South Central Street in downtown Knoxville, Tennessee — look for the upside-down pineapple in the window. Billed on its own site as East Tennessee's most upscale and diverse lifestyle club, it operates as a BYOB venue that does not sell alcohol, welcoming guests to bring their own drinks in a cup with a lid. The club runs as a live-DJ nightclub with a dance floor, drawing an open-minded, mixed crowd of couples and singles. Membership is required for entry and is verified against the Tennessee Sexual Offender and Violent Offender Registry; all guests must be 21 or older. Lockers are available on a first-come, first-served basis for each event (members supply their own locks), and private rental spaces are offered, including the Ruby Room (10-15 people), a private booth seating up to six, and reserved lounge seating for four. Smoking is permitted outside only, and the venue enforces a strict, staff-adjudicated dress code — sexy-but-classy attire for women, with men barred from shorts, tank tops, flip-flops, sunglasses, cargo pants, sweatpants, and printed t-shirts (dress jeans permitted). Event fees run higher on Saturdays than Fridays: couples pay $40 on Fridays and $60 on Saturdays, single females $20/$25, and single men $50/$70. Fridays are designated Ladies Night, with all single women admitted free and couples at half price before 10pm. New members must complete a mandatory orientation tour by 11pm on their first visit. House rules prohibit cameras or recording devices anywhere on the premises, enforce a strict no-means-no consent standard, and carry a zero-tolerance policy on drugs and prostitution; single women are afforded particular protection, with harassment or stalking grounds for suspension of a member couple's account.

VooDoo Leatherworks

Colorado Springs, CO

Social Club

VooDoo Leatherworks is a members-only private social club and community center in Colorado Springs dedicated to BDSM, kink, and fetish education. Describing itself as the first and longest-running BDSM club in the city, the volunteer-led organization operates on the lower level of a building at 2422 Busch Avenue, with a private entrance and parking lot accessible from Race Street. The club also functions as an art gallery and studio for fetish and boudoir artists, and hosts larger regional gatherings such as the Southwest Master/slave Contest & Leather Run Weekend and the High Elevation Colorado Kink (HECK) conference. The centerpiece is a fully stocked dungeon covering more than 3,000 square feet, with 15 play stations and suspension hard-points, alongside a separate social lounge for conversation away from active scenes. As a private membership club, Voodoo does not hold a liquor license and does not sell alcohol; most events are alcohol-free, though members 21 and over may bring their own drinks to select events such as the monthly Fusion Party, with volunteer bartenders providing controlled pour service purely for safety monitoring. The space is also available for private rentals, nonprofit fundraisers, and for-profit gatherings Tuesday through Friday, and is closed Sundays and Mondays for cleaning, maintenance, and volunteer training. Access requires membership, which begins with a New Member Orientation held several times a month; first-year membership costs $25, with $15 annual renewals. Regular programming includes a monthly Members Leather Dungeon Party (third Saturdays, with a discount for wearing leather), a Members Fusion Party (fourth Fridays), a Tastings party introducing newcomers to different BDSM experiences (first Saturdays), twice-monthly PEAK educational classes, and a Poly/ENM discussion group. Door entry runs $25 for members plus $10 per sponsored guest. House rules require all activity to be consensual, guests to remain with their sponsoring member, and anyone setting up a scene to check in with the on-duty Dungeon Monitor first; all attendees must be 18 or older.

Illuminaughty Phoenix

Phoenix, AZ

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Phoenix is the local chapter of a multi-city private membership brand that has hosted curated swinger parties and cocktail mixers in the Phoenix and Scottsdale area since 2023. Rather than operating from a fixed clubhouse, it runs as an event organizer: each party is held at a different private venue, such as a member's home, a rented high-rise apartment, or an occasional mansion, with the address released only to approved ticket holders on the day of the event. Private parties typically draw 40 to 80 members, with occasional mansion takeovers hosting 150 or more. Rooms are set up for a range of experiences, from massage tables to group-play spaces and some light kink equipment, though the atmosphere leans social rather than kink-focused. Events are BYOB, with mixers, non-alcoholic drinks, towels, condoms and lube supplied by the organizers, and private security is present at every party. Membership is free but requires a photo application reviewed and approved by staff before tickets can be purchased. Night parties generally run 8pm to 2am with an 8-9:30pm arrival window; All Day Soirees run 2pm to midnight with a 2-3:30pm window, and late arrivals are turned away. Couples and single women attend freely, while single men need a capped "Single Man" ticket. Every event opens with a consent and safety briefing, and dress follows a themed code.

Bliss Cruise

Fort Lauderdale, FL

Cruise

Celebrating a decade on the water, Bliss Cruise is a full-ship charter lifestyle experience that charters some of the world's largest vessels including Royal Caribbean's Wonder of the Seas and Celebrity Reflection out of Fort Lauderdale and Miami for week-long voyages to Caribbean ports such as Cozumel, Aruba, Curacao, and Grand Turk. Founded around 2015 and operating under Bliss Mgt, LLC, it has grown into what the company describes as the world's largest lifestyle cruise event, with sailings carrying upwards of 6,000 guests on the biggest charters. Every sailing is strictly couples-only and reserved for adults 21 and older, with an atmosphere deliberately built around curiosity without pressure. Onboard, the experience is layered across multiple venues running more than 400 events per charter. Clothing-optional pools and hot tubs open up when the ship is at sea, while after dark the schedule shifts to daily themed parties fueled by international DJs and burlesque and erotic performances. Multiple dedicated play areas cover different energies: a couples-only playroom, a fetish dungeon, an all-passengers open room, and an outdoor space. Days fill out with meet-and-greet mixers, immersive seminars, and clothing-optional signature excursions in port. The crowd spans newcomers to seasoned regulars, and reviewers consistently note that friendliness aboard runs high. Consent culture is baked into the program: every guest must sign an Acceptable Behavior Policy at the dock before boarding, and photography is banned in clothing-optional areas, playrooms, and during theme nights. A dedicated Bliss App handles event scheduling, couple-to-couple messaging, and preference matching, making it the only lifestyle charter with its own purpose-built mobile platform.

Fusion Parties

Manchester, NH

Mobile/roving — various NH venues; no fixed premises

Fusion Parties Social Club is a private members community based in Manchester, New Hampshire, built around connection, exploration, and upscale adult experiences for open-minded couples and individuals. Rather than operating a fixed venue, the organizers rent out different locations for each event, favouring mansions, penthouses, and pool-equipped estates across New Hampshire. Events typically run monthly or bi-monthly, with tickets sold through SimpleTix; the exact address is shared with ticket holders only in the week of the event. A Fusion Parties night centres on a distinct theme — past editions have included Masquerade Penthouse, Glitz & Glam, Glow Hard, and Cupid’s NightCap — with a DJ, live performances (LED displays, fire acts, or themed dance routines), and complimentary appetisers. The club runs BYOB with bartenders on site mixing cocktails from house-provided mixers; no alcohol is sold. Playrooms and a dance pole feature at house-party events, while the Eden resort-takeover format switches to a full cash bar and multi-night itinerary. Fusion Parties collaborates closely with Mindbender Parties and H&H Social Club, forming a New England lifestyle network. Listed on SDC, events draw hundreds of guests, making Fusion one of the largest lifestyle event operations in New Hampshire.

Tokyo Valentino Lifestyle Club

Atlanta, GA

On-Premise Club

Tokyo Valentino Lifestyle Club is a large-scale, 24-hour adult entertainment venue on Cheshire Bridge Road in Atlanta, Georgia, operated as the on-premise play-club arm of the Tokyo Valentino adult retail chain (established 1995). Rather than a private, home-style swingers club, it is a commercial multi-floor venue attached to a retail adult store, open to the public on a pay-per-visit basis with no membership requirement. The facility spans three floors and includes eight Amsterdam-style video booths, open and private play rooms, dark rooms, shower and locker facilities, massage rooms, private bedrooms with leather day beds, and a second-floor LED dance floor with a DJ booth. Amenities also include free Wi-Fi, free lockers, and a non-alcoholic bar; towels, locks, shower shoes, lube, and condoms are available for purchase. Private bedrooms rent for $30/hour (Deluxe Master Suite $50/hour), discounted to half price weekdays 10am-6pm. The club operates 24/7 except for a weekly 8-hour closure every Wednesday from 2am to 10am for deep cleaning. Admission is pay-per-visit on a tiered schedule by day and time (roughly $15-$45, with a separate lower rate posted for women on peak weekend nights); a paid cover charge buys eight hours inside. The venue does not serve alcohol but permits BYOB, and posted house rules prohibit drugs, prostitution, and recording devices, and require a casual-but-clean or "sexy elegant" dress code.

The Crucible

Washington, DC

BDSM Club

Tucked into a residential stretch of Northeast DC near the Rhode Island Avenue Metro, The Crucible has operated as Washington's only private kink and alternate-lifestyles club since founder Frazier Botsford — known to regulars as Uncle Frazier — began building it in 1997. Organised as a 501(c)(7) non-profit private social club, the venue at 412 V Street NE holds a full dungeon fitted with bondage crosses, spanking benches, ropes, whips and handcuffs along the walls, plus a dedicated medical play area for piercing, needle and blood play, and a smaller private room for more intimate scenes. Dungeon Monitors trained by the Black Rose are on the floor at all events, and the crowd — spanning kinksters, lifestylers and curious newcomers of all orientations and genders — consistently draws praise for its warm, family-like atmosphere. The event calendar runs most Friday and Saturday nights, with 18-and-over play nights on Fridays (no alcohol) and 21-and-over nights with a full bar on Saturdays. Recurring themed nights include Black & Kinky (second Friday, POC-focused), QINK (third Friday), Sinfully Naughty (first Saturday), and Risqué EDM dance party (second Saturday). Black Rose holds weekly education at the venue every Tuesday and its monthly Gateway meeting on the first Thursday. The first Friday of every month is Dungeon 101 — doors open at 7:30pm and the structured presentation begins at 8pm, followed by an open exploratorium. No membership required for this event. Members may bring up to three guests. Annual membership is $40/person, purchased online; all applicants are screened against the DOJ sex-offender registry.

Splash Takeovers

Fort Lauderdale, FL

Hotel Takeover

Splash Takeovers is a traveling, couples-only lifestyle convention brand based in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, operating as Splash Takeovers Florida LLC. Rather than running a fixed clubhouse, it produces weekend-long hotel takeovers in three cities, each under its own banner: CouplesXcape in Fort Lauderdale — the brand's original September flagship — EROTICON in Atlanta, and Xcapades in the Houston area. The brand is owned by Richard and Danielle, a couple with more than twenty years of lifestyle-event experience who ran an on-premise weekend club and bed-and-breakfast for over a decade before acquiring Splash Takeovers, and event listings report attendance consistently topping 1,000 guests. Each event is a complete buyout of a four-star convention hotel: every room is purchased, only registered guests are allowed on property, and the hotel's name is disclosed only after a paid reservation. Days center on clothing-optional pool parties with DJs, games, and giveaways — the pool and convention areas are the only clothing-optional zones — while nights shift to themed dance parties in the Studio 69 Ballroom, fantasy-themed playrooms furnished through a partnership with Liberator, a dedicated dungeon for kink and BDSM play, and late-night hospitality suites. Seminars, meet-and-greets, and an adult vendor marketplace run throughout the weekend, and the host hotels are full-service properties with on-site restaurants and licensed bars; outside drinks are not permitted in public areas. Events run Thursday through Sunday, with arrival from 1:30 pm Thursday and checkout at 11 am Sunday. Packages are priced per couple and bundle the room with admission to everything; at the September 2025 Fort Lauderdale event, three-night packages ranged from $1,050 for a standard queen room to $2,200 for a one-bedroom king suite, with extra nights at $195 and payment plans available. Day passes, also priced per couple, go on sale 30 days before each event, and nothing is sold at the door. The optional Deep Divers premium membership ($149.99 for one year) adds online community access but not event admission. Upcoming dates include EROTICON in Atlanta August 6–9, 2026, CouplesXcape in Florida September 10–13, 2026, and Xcapades in Texas June 3–6, 2027.

Hush Lounge AZ

Phoenix, AZ

On-Premise Club

Hush Lounge AZ is a private, members-only lifestyle club in Phoenix, Arizona, operating under a private-club charter that keeps it closed to the general public; membership requires an approved online application prior to purchasing event tickets. The club is built around couples and single women, with a limited number of single men admitted based on the couples-to-single-men ratio in attendance, and reservations are encouraged. The recently remodeled venue includes more than seven specialty rooms — among them a VIP Cabana Lounge, an 'Under the Stars' room, a Chandelier VIP Lounge, and an Orb Room — alongside open main-floor lounge and dance-floor areas. Because Arizona private-club regulations prohibit on-site alcohol sales, Hush operates BYOB for members and runs a cash-only bar for non-alcoholic drinks; condoms and fresh towels are provided. The club operates Thursday through Saturday nights: Thursday 8pm-1am, Friday 8pm-2am, and Saturday 8pm-3am (closing times may shift for special events). Recurring themed nights include a Wednesday Red Light Special, a Thursday lifestyle spotlight, Friday TFIF, and a Saturday house DJ with dance floor. Ticket transfers require 24-hour notice and become void once an event has passed.

Fallout RVA

Richmond, VA

alternative nightclub / fetish & kink club

Fallout has anchored Richmond's Shockoe Bottom since November 2007, earning its place as the city's longest-running goth, industrial, and fetish nightclub. Owner Jackie Bishop describes it as 'queer, a little bit kinky — basically a space for everybody that's just trying to find a place to belong.' The result is part nightclub, part community centre, part sanctuary at 117 N. 18th Street. The calendar runs seven nights a week: vinyl goth/EBM nights (Metal Beat), leather-and-latex fetish dance parties, drag showcases, rope-bondage socials, burlesque, goth karaoke, queer dance-therapy classes, and polyamory munches all coexist under one roof. Fridays and Saturdays extend to 2am. Some nights are members-only; others require a one-night pass via DM or Fetlife. A formal membership programme underlies the club's identity. Applications are in-person only — 21+, valid ID, dress code, and a member sponsor required; committee reviews take roughly two weeks. Members get free or discounted entry and may bring two guests. Non-members attend open events (18+) at cover charges typically $5–$15. Photography is banned outright; Virginia ABC law prohibits full nudity.

Mindbender Parties

Boston, MA

Event Organizer

Mindbender Parties is New England's most traveled adult lifestyle event series, the brainchild of Mizzy Bender — a self-described 41-year-old female entrepreneur who launched the operation with her partner Spencer and has since grown it into one of the region's most recognizable swinger brands. Events rotate across partner venues: most frequently Platforms Dance Club at 165 Poe St, Providence, RI, a proper nightclub with a full bar, dance floor, and purpose-built dungeon. The Electricity Social Club (ESC) in Providence's Olneyville neighborhood hosts BYOB multi-room events with seven themed playrooms; summer months bring a private Long Island property with an eight-person hot tub, outdoor shower, and fire pit — location released to guests after payment. The calendar runs year-round under recurring titles — Candyland, Back to School, Boo (eighth annual run), Naughty in Neon, Shamrocks & Shenanigans, Nuttin for XXXmas, and more — on a roughly monthly rhythm, with occasional multi-day hotel-takeover weekends. Pricing is tiered: couples typically pay $70–$80, single ladies $20–$30, and single males $110–$120. Tickets are advance-purchase only via the website. Every event is professionally produced under the Mindbender Productions banner — DJ, lighting, full staging — with onsite security whose priority is guest safety and comfort. Mizzy's Boutique, a traveling pop-up adult retail shop, vends at every event alongside sponsors One Condoms, Spunk Lube, Naughty Indulgence, and SDC. Play spaces include open group areas, private rooms, and dungeon setups. The Instagram presence (76K followers) and the companion podcast Mornings with Mizzy reflect a community-building mission well beyond the door — educational content, judgment-free conversation, and a genuine inclusive ethos baked into the Mindbender brand.

Dominium Vita

London, London

Members Club (Roaming)

Dominium Vita is a London-based private members society founded by Em Carter and Richard Burton, who built a community modelled on the culture of Ancient Rome — the club's name evoking complete ownership of one's life, its events referencing the opulent feasts and uninhibited pleasures of Roman society. The club has no fixed play premises: its registered address is a third-floor office on Paul Street in Shoreditch, but all events rotate across undisclosed private properties and hotels in London, with exact locations disclosed only to confirmed ticket-holders. Occasional events are also staged in Ibiza. The event calendar runs across several formats. Domus Luxuria nights are the main recurring play events. Carpe Noctem is the club's most theatrical production — described by the organisers as a night of dark theatrics and hedonism spread across five immersive spaces. Hidden Deviance gatherings convene in luxury private residences, opening with a social salon before dedicated playrooms. Monthly members socials at bars keep the wider community connected between play events, and a workshop strand has included sessions at the Mandrake Salon in Fitzrovia. BDSM apparatus is available at play events, with professional dominants on hand to guide unfamiliar guests. Entry is by membership only: applications are assessed personally by the founders against undisclosed criteria, and acceptance is not guaranteed. Tickets to events are sold on a first-come, first-served basis to approved members. The club welcomes singles, couples, and all genders; LGBTQ+ inclusive. Spectating is explicitly welcomed and participation is never required. A strict one-strike policy on consent violations applies — any breach results in immediate removal and permanent membership revocation.

Baltimore Playhouse

Baltimore, MD

BDSM Club

Occupying a sprawling 12,000-square-foot industrial space off Washington Boulevard in South Baltimore, Baltimore Playhouse has been Charm City's premier kink destination since 1997. The current location — opened in October 2014 after a fire ended the community's previous home — is self-described as the largest known BDSM play space in the United States, a claim that lands credibly the moment you step past the coat check and through the black curtain into the main floor. A capped attendance of 250 per event keeps the energy intimate despite the scale, and Dungeon Monitors patrol throughout, making it as safe as it is sprawling. Organized as a 501(c)(7) non-profit social club, the Playhouse runs on a contributorship model: a $30 annual fee unlocks access to a calendar that fills roughly a year in advance with play parties, educational sessions, and specialty nights hosted by outside groups. For those new to public dungeons, the monthly Kink: First Contact open house — held on the first Friday of most months — requires no contributorship, just an RSVP, and walks newcomers through SSC and RACK basics before opening stations for hands-on exploration until around 11pm. The Playhouse is an NCSF Coalition Partner, and its consent-first culture shows: a formal Consent Incident Report form lives on the website, and safe words (Yellow/Red) are posted and enforced. The space itself accommodates everything from medical and needle play (confined to designated medical areas) to impact, bondage, and group scenes, with cleaning stations and Chux pads distributed throughout. There is no bar — the Playhouse is completely alcohol-free and drug-free, with permanent bans for violations — and there is no walk-in option; names must be on the RSVP list. Regular event entry runs $20-$25, with snacks and soft drinks available from an on-site snack bar.

Rainbow Group Hawaii is a swingers group based in Honolulu, Hawaii, on the island of Oahu, described in third-party directory listings as the largest, most active swingers group in the state. The group does not operate from a fixed venue or maintain a public website; it runs through rotating private locations, and prospective members contact organizers directly by phone or email rather than through an open web presence. Events are structured in two parts: an afternoon session limited to women only, followed by an evening mixed session open to women and couples — a format designed to ease newcomers into the group before the mixed portion begins. Interested parties should contact the group directly by phone or email for venue location, screening, and entry requirements, as these are communicated privately to members rather than published.

Club Eden DFW

Euless, TX

Private members-only lifestyle nightclub

Club Eden DFW is the flagship of a small Texas/Oklahoma chain of private members-only lifestyle nightclubs, run out of a 14,000 sq ft suite at 11050 S Pipeline Road in Euless — a half-hour west of downtown Dallas, in the industrial spine between DFW Airport and Arlington. The club is owned and operated by Chris Vee — a former stand-up comedian who built a long second career as "The Swingers Comedian" — and his wife Crissy. Chris took over the venue in around 2013 when it ran as Players DFW NightClub, rebranded it to Club Eden in 2015, and has since expanded the chain to a second location in San Antonio and a third in Oklahoma City, all sharing a single members portal at members.edenclubs.com. Couples in open relationships are the primary audience; the marketing language extends explicitly to the LGBT lifestyle as well. The house tagline is "Where couples come to play," and the club is careful to note publicly that it "does not provide adult entertainment" — the legal framing required to keep the on-premise side of the operation working. The venue itself is the size of a small commercial nightclub. The main floor runs a large dance floor with multiple stripper poles, shadow boxes, a cage, and big TV displays cycling music videos; live bands and DJs trade nights, with the music skewing urban and high-energy. Four semi-private and four private play rooms sit just off the dance floor, along with a dedicated BDSM room equipped with a St. Andrew's Cross, spanking bench and bondage frame. Pool tables, a photo booth, VIP couch lounges and a large VIP party area for 20-plus people fill out the social space. A full kitchen serves food throughout the night, and the patio out back carries an above-ground pool, two hot tubs, fire pits and the smoking area. The chain is BYOB at its Texas locations — no liquor licence, no in-house bar service, just ice and mixers behind a setup counter; OKC runs differently with a full bar. Next door at Suite #100 sits Infliction Hall, the chain's BDSM-focused sister venue under the same ownership; Club Eden members get free cover for Infliction Hall events for a year. Pricing is tiered three ways — by night, by gender, and by membership level. Daily door (which includes a one-night membership) runs $35 Wednesday through $95 Saturday for couples, $15–$35 for single women, and a deliberately steep $60–$200 for single men. The annual ladder runs from $250 a year for Couples VIP or Female Platinum up to $6,500 a year for Male Platinum, with Couples Platinum and Platinum Plus tiers between ($3,000 and $5,000). Single men admitted on a couple's ticket must arrive, stay and depart with that couple — a strict couples-led gate the club enforces explicitly. Hours run Wednesday through Saturday only, opening at 9pm and pushing later as the week progresses (Wed close 1am, Thu 2am, Fri 3am, Sat 4am). The weekly programme is unusually structured — Wednesday is "Play More Party" night; Thursdays rotate "Karaoke Thursday" with "All Kinks Thursday" (rope, impact, edge play, dom/sub, CD/trans, pet play, leather); Fridays rotate Topless / Sybian / G-String / Poly Glamorous over four-week cycles; Saturdays each carry their own themed party (Bad Ass Bitches & Bikers, Sexy Cowgirls & Outlaws with a live country band, Lifestyle Barbie, Risque Rave, Toga Glow and dozens more). The crowd reads about 4.4/5 across Google's 171 reviews and the Chamber of Commerce's 143, with the consistent praise notes being clean facilities, friendly staff and the chain's drama-free, consent-forward house culture.

Off-Premise Club

Top Floor is a curated, consent-forward erotic community and play party that unfolds across three interconnected penthouse suites in New York City's Lower East Side. The venue spans multiple suites with a dance floor, bars, a serenity room staffed by a licensed on-site medic, and sweeping 100-foot outdoor balconies running front to back. Hosts and trained Guardians, connected by radio, circulate throughout the night; there are no VIP sections, and the crowd — drawn from a carefully vetted member base — skews toward those who take consent as seriously as pleasure. Entry is by application only: prospective members submit a form, locate a hidden word embedded in the community rules, and complete a 30-minute vibe-check Zoom before being accepted. Members gain access to WhatsApp groups, monthly Signature Weekend events, kink-forward MARKED nights, and BI-SENSUAL gatherings open to vetted non-members. Membership starts at a sliding-scale quarterly contribution (Standard tier: $180); event tickets are purchased separately. The safety framework is unusually rigorous: all attendees — whether or not they plan to play — must submit verified STI results within three months (HIV-1/2, syphilis, gonorrhea, chlamydia) via a HIPAA-compliant portal. Condoms are required for penetration unless partners are fluid-bonded. An independent Consent Director reviews all incident reports, with a third-party auditor conducting quarterly integrity checks.

Forbidden Omaha

Omaha, NE

On-Premise Club

Forbidden Omaha is a members-only lifestyle club operating from a private, upscale 3,000-square-foot property in Omaha, Nebraska. Billed as "Nebraska's Premier Lifestyle Club," it describes itself as a theme-centric, community-oriented space for open-minded couples and singles rather than a walk-in venue, and has operated under new ownership since December 2021. The club draws a mixed crowd spanning roughly age 21 to their 70s, and welcomes newcomers alongside longtime lifestyle participants, including those interested in BDSM, provided they remain respectful of others who are not. The venue does not hold a liquor license and runs BYOB, with ice provided on-site; there is no public bar. House policy sets a 45-minute play-time limit per private room to keep spaces available, and an open floor policy permits play in communal areas — on couches, benches and seating — after 11pm, alongside an open-door/curtain culture for guests who enjoy watching or being watched. Photography is prohibited on the open floor to protect member privacy, and the club maintains an on-site gallery of approved images rather than public photos of parties in progress. Parties run every Saturday night, with entry from 9pm and hours extending to 2:30am (seasonally adjusted, e.g. summer hours to 2am); no entry is permitted after 11pm. The club is closed to the general public and requires prior approval — first-time guests must register an account and submit links to social media or lifestyle-site profiles (Facebook, Instagram, Fetlife, etc.) for verification before being cleared to purchase a pass and attend. Single men and single women are both admitted, subject to the same rules as everyone else. Passes and membership purchases are non-refundable and non-transferable, and must be completed by 6pm on the day of an event.

Reel One Indy

Indianapolis, IN

Lifestyle Resort

Reel One sits on the western edge of downtown Indianapolis at 3428 W. Washington St., a members-only on-premise lifestyle club that describes itself as the only female-owned swingers club in the Indianapolis and Central Indiana area. According to the club's own site, it has operated legally at the same location since 1992, making it the longest-running club of its kind in Indiana, and spans three floors and more than 16,000 square feet. The venue includes a bar area (BYOB, no alcohol sold or served), a dance floor with a stripper pole and DJ, a lounge with balconies for public play, a themed "doctor's office" playroom, showers and locker rooms, a pool room, and a large movie/theater room downstairs. Upstairs holds a maze of hallways and roughly a dozen additional playrooms, including one with mirrored ceilings and walls and another furnished with a swing. Entry requires membership or guest status (guests are permitted for their first two visits before membership is required), and all attendees must be 21 or older with valid, non-expired photo ID. The club is open Friday and Saturday nights only, and Saturday overnight stays are offered at no additional cost, with couples and single females given priority for rooms; single men are not permitted overnight rooms on the top floor. No cell phones, smart watches, or recording devices of any kind are allowed inside — phones must go in a locker or be left in a vehicle. A single male member may bring a couple or one guest, but not more than one single male friend. Illegal drugs, weapons, and prostitution are strictly prohibited, and management reserves the right to deny entry or eject anyone at its discretion.

Karizma Social Club

Glen Gardner, NJ

Social Club

Tucked into the rolling countryside of Hunterdon County, Karizma Social Club has established itself as New Jersey's premier on-premise lifestyle destination. The facility spans 7,800 square feet of interior space — part of an 11,500 sq ft building set on 4 acres — housing a full-service BYOB bar (mixers provided, barkeepers on hand), a DJ-driven dance floor active on Saturday nights, a game area with pool table, air hockey, darts, and arcade games, plus several lounge areas and a mix of open, semi-private, and private play rooms. A covered outdoor area handles smokers, and a free paved parking lot serves the property. Hotel discounts and a paid shuttle service to and from the Hampton Inn — within 5 miles — round out the practical amenities. The schedule runs on a consistent rhythm: Saturdays year-round (8pm–5am, bar until 3am) and the 1st and 3rd Fridays of each month (9pm–3am). Approved single gentlemen are permitted on the 3rd Saturday only, and in limited numbers. New members receive a mandatory orientation tour of the club before their first event. In over four and a half years of operation, the club reports having closed unexpectedly only a handful of times. Karizma draws members from across New Jersey, New York, and Pennsylvania, positioning itself as an upscale nightclub-style experience rather than a casual house party. The minimum age is 24. Membership is for couples (male/female) or singles, with annual and monthly dues options; all fees are paid in person — no online payments accepted. The exact address is released only after membership approval.

FuseX Social Club - South Dakota Chapter

Unverified

Sioux Falls, SD

Social Club

FuseX Social Club is a private, approval-only lifestyle organization operating its South Dakota chapter from Sioux Falls with no fixed address — events rotate among confidential venues including hotel takeovers, luxury house parties, and invitation-only mansion events. The SD chapter runs approximately three hosted events per year locally; many Sioux Falls members also attend the larger Minneapolis chapter. Every applicant undergoes a formal interview, a national criminal background check, and must sign binding NDA and non-liability agreements before event details are shared. The membership skews toward working professionals — lawyers, physicians, executives — with income requirements (couples: $225,000+ combined; single males: $115,828+). Lifestyle interests span swinging, cuckolding, hotwifing, BDSM, polyamory, and voyeurism. In a conservative-state context, the club positions itself as the discreet alternative; members frequently travel to Minneapolis for higher-attendance events. At events, the format is social first: couples mingle and dance before play areas open, and participation is always voluntary. Dress code is enforced. Membership tiers range from $2,900 to $25,000/year plus per-event costs; single women receive free Platinum membership. Approximately one in four applications is approved.

Choice Social Club

Providence, RI

On-Premise Club

Choice Social Club is New England's flagship on-premise lifestyle club, occupying 8,000 square feet behind a red door in a Providence industrial neighborhood on Porter Street. Inside the contrast is sharp: warm-toned lounges furnished in leather, a dance floor with a video wall and stripper pole, a BYOB bar, and a backyard patio that opens for summer events. The building's 14 themed playrooms include a voyeur chamber with a one-way window, a schoolhouse room, a massage room, a blacklight room, a glory hole room, and a group room with an L-shaped multi-bed layout. A dedicated BDSM corner houses St. Andrew's crosses and sawhorse equipment. Staff change sheets between uses throughout the night. Membership and pricing have two layers. Annual memberships run $45 for couples ($250 premium), $40-65 for single women, and a $100 introductory rate for single men, who face a 3-4 month waitlist given strict ratio management. Per-event admission adds $90 for couples, $100 for single men, and $5 for single women. First-timers receive a complimentary trial membership. Events run Saturdays 9 pm to 2 am with themed nights rotating through the calendar; a Ropes class runs on the third Thursday at 7 pm. The BYOB system works by handing bottles to staff at check-in labelled with your membership number and requesting drinks at the bar all night with the club supplying mixers and ice. Playroom etiquette follows a plastic-chain signal system: chain on the door means open to observation or polite requests to join; door open and unchained means people may ask; curtain or door closed means full privacy. The crowd runs approximately 90% couples with an average age of 35-45, and the single-male quota is actively controlled to keep the balance couples-focused. The club has operated under Red Door Operations, LLC since 2009; a COVID closure prompted a 2021 GoFundMe by owner Jim Knaus that raised over $5,000 before reopening.

On-Premise Club

TNT's Playground is a members-only lifestyle party venue in South Amboy, New Jersey, drawing couples and singles from across the tri-state area for high-energy parties in what regulars call the friendliest environment in the region. The club markets itself equally to first-timers and experienced participants, making inclusivity its primary calling card. Directory listings dating to 2019 describe a reliably packed house with strong post-event word of mouth. The venue operates under the domain tatstitsnsmoke.com — a tongue-in-cheek name that regulars associate with the irreverent, no-pressure vibe rather than any other business. Verified structural details — street address, party schedule, pricing, playroom layout, and entry requirements — are not documented in publicly accessible sources at time of research. The website was inaccessible and the club does not appear in major lifestyle directories such as SDC, SLS, or Kasidie.

Club Iniquity

Houghton Lake, MI

On-Premise Club

Club Iniquity bills itself as "The Great Lake's Premier Swinger's Club," though it isn't a fixed venue in the traditional sense — it's a Michigan-based lifestyle community that takes over an entire lakefront resort in Houghton Lake for two-day "Complete Hotel Takeover" parties several times a year. Founded in 2017 as an alternative to the long drive downstate, the club has grown from a local meetup into what it calls one of the most respected lifestyle communities in the Midwest, pulling guests from Michigan, Wisconsin, Indiana, Illinois, Ohio and beyond. Each takeover includes beachside rooms, a clothing-optional pool and hot tub area, and a full slate of themed playrooms — recent events have featured a Group Fantasy Playroom, a Kink Fantasy Playroom, and "Steve's Den of Iniquity," a dedicated BDSM space. Weekends follow a set rhythm: a Friday welcome reception and potluck family feast, an orientation-style welcome presentation from hosts Jeff and Jenn, and a clothing-optional pool party running late into the night. Saturdays bring "Exploring the Lifestyle" discussion sessions (on topics like communication, consent, rope safety, and the emotional side of non-monogamy), a group dinner at the hotel restaurant, a themed room-decorating contest and room crawl, and a dance party with DJ Sexy Jeff running to midnight. Packages are all-inclusive — accommodations, party admission, workshops, breakfast and late-night snacks are bundled into one price, with no add-on fees. The club markets itself as drama-free and judgment-free, welcoming newcomers and seasoned swingers alike, with a strict "no means no" policy and rules against photography in shared party spaces. Single men are admitted only by prior approval, capped at roughly a 1:20 ratio against couples, and must hold a paid SLS (SwingLifestyle) profile at least a year old. All events are designated official SLS events, and all hotel bookings must go through the Club Iniquity website rather than the hotel directly, keeping the guest list within its vetted community.

Electricity Social Club

Providence, RI

On-premise lifestyle / swinger club

Electricity Social Club occupies a loft-style space inside Atlantic Mill, a historic industrial complex in the Olneyville neighborhood of Providence, at 122 Manton Avenue — Right Tower, 2nd Floor. From the outside the building reads as a plain old factory, with no signage pointing to what's inside. The interior opens into a spacious loft-fitted club with a dance floor, a stripper pole, a full sound and light system, a BYOB bar stocked with mixers, lockers, and a dedicated smoking lounge. It is an on-premise, members-only lifestyle venue and one of the most talked-about lifestyle clubs in New England. The club runs Friday and Saturday nights from 9 pm to 2 am, with specialty events — including a bi- and pansexual-friendly Bi Voltage night — on the calendar. All guests must hold an annual membership (available at the door) and pay a per-party entry fee; valid photo ID is required at every visit. The crowd skews toward couples and single men, with reviewers placing the typical age range in the forties to fifties, though visitors span their twenties to late sixties. The atmosphere is described as laid-back and friendly, with action picking up after 11 pm. The play areas cover a wide range of preferences: a large main group room with couches ringing a dance floor and stripper pole; a small dungeon stocked with a rack, sawhorse, and floggers; a side room with beds and fresh linens; exhibitionist beds in a hallway where a velvet rope signals openness to company; and approximately ten fully private, attendant-managed playrooms. The club is BYOB — bring your own alcohol, free mixers provided — and is cash-only at the door. ESC describes itself as on-premise and welcoming to LGBTQ, pansexual, and bi-friendly guests.

The Riverside Club

Gallipolis Ferry, WV

On-Premise Club

Set along Huntington Road in the small Mason County community of Gallipolis Ferry, The Riverside Club bills itself as West Virginia's #1 lifestyle club — a members-only, on-premise venue open to couples, single women, and a select number of single men. The space includes a dance floor, a stripper cage, a BYOB self-serve bar, multiple private playrooms, lockers (bring your own lock), and a hot tub. Complimentary soft drinks and food are included with entry, keeping the vibe more house-party than nightclub. Parties run every Saturday night from 9pm to 3am, with recurring themed nights — Blacklight Party, Red Dress Night, and Fishnet Night among them — plus annual events like the Christmas Party and New Year's Eve celebration. Membership costs $50 per year for couples, single men, and single ladies alike. New members register and verify online, then confirm their ID and pay on the first visit. All guests must be 21 or older. The crowd spans a wide range of ages and backgrounds, and first-timers consistently describe the owners, staff, and regulars as exceptionally welcoming. Single ladies are treated as honored guests; the rules explicitly flag that stalking or harassment of single women can result in permanent membership suspension. Smoking is permitted outside only, and the club asks all guests to keep voices down outdoors out of respect for the neighborhood.

Club Eros

Unverified

Cleveland, OH

On-Premise Club

Club Eros occupies a sprawling 15,000-square-foot industrial-chic space tucked behind gated access on E. 33rd Street in Cleveland's St. Clair–Hamilton corridor — the only female-owned adult lifestyle club in the Midwest, run by owner Jenny, who has been hosting events for over 15 years. The main floor delivers a full nightclub experience: a DJ booth with professional sound and light show, a full-service BYOA bar with complimentary juices, sodas, and premium energy drinks, a pool table, intimate lounge seating, and a complimentary buffet on Saturday nights. A couples-only lounge with its own play area provides a quieter retreat, and a movie theater area rounds out the social zones before guests head deeper into the club. The play wing spans 20 rooms: voyeur and exhibition rooms, a kink and bondage room, a dedicated pleasure-swing room, couples glory-hole rooms, private rooms, and a first-timers tour led by staff on arrival. Membership is required — one-night passes run $20 for couples; quarterly memberships are $35 for couples or single males and $25 for single ladies. Standard Saturday door fees are $69 for couples and $20 for single ladies; single males must qualify through CockFest or Club Cougar intake events, or attend daytime Tryst sessions. Eros stands apart on scale, polish, and inclusivity: its member base spans couples and singles across straight, gay, bi, and queer identities; attendance on a typical Saturday runs 60–100 with themed nights drawing up to 250. The all-inclusive door fee covers linens, wipes, condoms, buffet, and soft-drink mixers. Doors open at 9 PM on Saturdays with events running to 3 AM, and the large gated lot with on-site security makes parking straightforward.

On-Premise Club

Sitting on Zion Street in Hartford's West End, Leisure Time Club has been the cornerstone of New England's lifestyle scene since the early 1980s — now in its 44th year of continuous operation and widely cited as the longest-running swingers club in the United States. The venue spans three floors, opening each Saturday at 9 pm to a crowd of couples and single women who come for a reliably welcoming, no-pressure atmosphere. Downstairs, a live-DJ dance floor fitted with a stripper pole, professional sound and lighting anchors the social side of the evening; a large lounge area and a fully attended BYOB bar keep the conversational energy flowing between trips upstairs. The upper floors hold five themed recreation rooms — including a private room, a beginners' room, a voyeur room, and open-group spaces — alongside BDSM apparatus, a Tantra chair, two group showers, and towels-and-lockers facilities. Repeat visitors consistently praise the owners for personally welcoming newcomers and making introductions across the room. The atmosphere skews intimate rather than cavernous, with regulars and first-timers mixing easily from their mid-twenties to early sixties. Beyond the weekly Saturday night, Leisure Time runs a monthly Friday-evening Ladies Social, a women-only party for ladies who want to connect, dance and let go. The club draws from across Connecticut and within an hour's drive of Massachusetts, New York, and Rhode Island, giving it a regional catchment that keeps the crowd refreshingly varied. Single males are not admitted at any event. The venue is entirely smoke-free.

Thad's

San Diego, CA

On-Premise Club

Thad's is a long-running, invitation-only swingers club operating from a private residence at 3517 E St in San Diego's Mount Hope neighborhood. The club has operated since 1973, making it one of the longest-running lifestyle clubs in Southern California. There is no online booking or email sign-up — prospective guests call ahead the same evening to speak with a hostess and receive a same-night invitation. The venue operates as an on-premise facility rather than a purpose-built nightclub; one visitor account describes an unassuming, ranch-style house with an old-school, no-frills atmosphere and an active outdoor area. Inside, the layout includes private rooms, group play rooms, a couples-only area upstairs, a dance floor with two poles, a pool table, a swimming pool, a jacuzzi, fire pits, and free lockers. The club provides a self-service bar with cups and ice, but alcohol itself is BYOB. Parties run Wednesday through Saturday evenings, with guests calling ahead to reserve a same-night invitation. The dress code is strict: men must be completely nude and women may wear lingerie or revealing attire, but no street clothes, dresses, or T-shirts. Entry pricing is quoted only by phone and varies with recurring promotions, including an early-bird discount and periodic half-off specials. The upstairs area is reserved for couples and single women — single men are not permitted there under any circumstance — and the club asks single guests to be respectful rather than pushy toward couples or single women.

The X Club

Mississauga, Ontario

On-Premise Club

The X Club is a membership-based lifestyle nightclub at 1625 Sismet Road in Mississauga's industrial west end, billing itself as Canada's largest and most elegant venue of its kind. The club has operated for over nineteen years, drawing couples, single women, and pre-screened single men from across the Greater Toronto Area. All guests must be 21 or older; the club describes its typical crowd as ranging from 25 to 60, with the majority in their mid-thirties. A host team greets and tours first-timers, and a Newbie Night runs on the first Friday of each month — no annual membership required that night — offering a guided walkthrough and meet-and-greet with other newcomers. The venue houses two distinct environments under one roof. The main X Club floor is a full-production nightclub with resident DJs spinning Top 40, house, and techno, a full bar, lounge seating, and bottle service spanning Grey Goose to Dom Pérignon. The Mermaid Lounge — which operates under the @xclubmermaid social media brand — offers a spa-styled counterpart with plush seating, a specialty cocktail bar, a Himalayan dry sauna, a steam room, a glass group shower, and a year-round clothing-optional indoor pool. The play space divides into two sections: seven private themed rooms and a kink room (clothing optional, open to all), and an open play area with beds, couches, and an orgy room requiring guests to change into underwear, lingerie, towels, or go nude. Lockers with locks, showers, and towel service are included with all memberships. Regular hours are Friday and Saturday, 9 PM to 3 AM, with the front door closing at 2 AM. Saturdays are reserved exclusively for couples and single women. Single men are welcome on Fridays only, capped at fifteen per night, and are barred from the open play area on standard Fridays; this restriction is lifted on Freaky Friday (last Friday of each month). The calendar also includes weekday and Sunday events, sold-out themed Super Parties for New Year's Eve, Halloween, and St. Patrick's Day, and dedicated LGBTQIA2S+ programming including Pride nights and T-girl events. A monthly off-site social called The X Munch is held the last Thursday of each month at Capone's Cocktail Lounge. Photography, videography, and recording are prohibited throughout the venue except in a designated photo booth area; consent is mandatory throughout.

Clubhouse 2050

Indianapolis, IN

On-Premise Club

Sitting just east of downtown Indianapolis on E Michigan Street — about two miles from city center — ClubHouse 2050 is Indiana's longest-running lifestyle members-only club, housed in a building with an eclectic past (members note it was once a funeral home, which only adds to its mystique). The ground floor is laid out like a social club: a sports bar, dance floor, card room, and game room all feed into a play area with curtained semi-private spaces. Upstairs, private and semi-private rooms are available for couples and groups, outfitted with fresh linens and stocked with convenience baskets. What sets ClubHouse 2050 apart is the breadth of its membership. Less than half of the crowd are full swingers; the rest are voyeurs, exhibitionists, BDSM and FetLife regulars, and vanilla couples who enjoy a flirtatious, no-judgment atmosphere. The club runs weekly events every Friday and Saturday (8pm–2am), leaning into themed nights that vary by the interests of those who show up. It is BYOB with no bar tab, and the flat $50 Saturday entry and roughly $30 Friday fee make it one of the most affordable on-premise clubs in the region. Paid members also unlock a full online community: photo sharing, direct messaging, and live video chat. The club partners with a sister venue, ClubhousePandora.com near Anderson Casino, and curates a calendar of lifestyle travel events for members seeking experiences beyond Indianapolis.

Valentines in Niagara (VIN)

Niagara Falls, Ontario

Event Organizer

Valentines in Niagara (VIN) is an annual lifestyle convention staged in Niagara Falls, Ontario every February, organized by Tabota Events and running continuously since 2007. It operates as a complete hotel takeover of a luxury resort with an enclosed indoor tropical waterpark — the entire property reserved exclusively for attendees — drawing more than 200 couples per year from across Canada and the United States. The event bills itself as Canada's largest swingers lifestyle convention and sells out every year without exception. The host venue is an upscale resort minutes from the falls, with an indoor waterpark featuring a pool, two hot tubs, and poolside lounging, plus award-winning gourmet dining and bistro-style snacks served in a courtyard setting. The weekend runs to more than 20 programmed activities: 60- to 90-minute seminars and workshops — some informational, some with demonstrations, some fully hands-on — on topics including tantric sex, erotic photography, and intimacy skills. Afternoon events include body painting, pole dancing, and a couples speed dating session. Evening entertainment in the Oak Room has featured comedians, burlesque performers, and a hypnotist. Two themed dances anchor the nights: Friday's Red & White Your Hearts Delight party unfolds inside the waterpark itself, and Saturday's Mardi Gras night is the weekend's wildest evening. A vendor marketplace runs throughout, and two dedicated play spaces operate both nights — the Penthouse Playroom for open couples' exploration, and a Kinky Play Area equipped for bondage and sensation play. Pool parties are clothing-optional throughout. The core weekend runs Friday through Saturday, with an optional Thursday night pre-party available as an add-on. Pricing for 2027 in Canadian dollars, excluding HST: an event pass for a couple is CAD $398; pass with two nights in a standard room is CAD $968; poolside or wing-room upgrades add CAD $298; the Thursday pre-party is an additional CAD $229. A mandatory cash-only party credit of $100 per person is collected at check-in and is redeemable for food and drink anywhere in the hotel. Credit card payments carry a 6% surcharge. The event is open to couples and unaccompanied women only — single men are not admitted. Minimum age is 19. Advance booking through tabotaevents.com is required; event-only passes are available for guests staying off-site.

CJ's at The Townhouse

Glasgow, Scotland

On-Premise Club

Tucked into a quiet corner of Kelvindale on Glasgow's leafy west side, CJ's at The Townhouse has built a reputation as one of Scotland's most welcoming swingers clubs. The venue spans two floors of a discreet townhouse on Ashburton Road, with a trio of stripper-pole-lined lounges, a self-service bar and a buffet downstairs, and a warren of eight themed playrooms upstairs. Owner CJ personally walks first-timers through the space, and the crowd — a friendly mix of regulars and newcomers, often spanning their late twenties to early sixties — sets a tone that's more living-room than nightclub. Parties run on a tight rhythm: Friday nights (8pm–midnight) are couples and single ladies only; Saturdays (9pm–2am) open the door to a limited number of single men; and once a month, a Wednesday afternoon party (noon–3pm) welcomes everyone. There are also dedicated gay and bi-male nights run under the @cjs4gay banner. Entry is by prior booking only — no walk-ins, no admittance after 11pm — and photo ID (passport, driving licence or utility bill) is required at the door. Dress code is strictly enforced: a sexy little number for the ladies, smart casual or sexy attire for the gents. The playrooms cover everything from a cinema lounge and an open group room to a fully equipped dungeon, a medical-themed private room, a voyeur room, and a couples-and-single-females-only room with a love swing. Phones are off in public areas and cameras are banned outright, which keeps the vibe relaxed and discreet. The "party contribution" at the door covers a buffet plus tea, coffee and soft drinks; alcohol is BYOB with no corkage. Towels and condoms are provided, there's a separate indoor smoking area, and an on-site wardrobe and makeover service is on hand for anyone who wants to dress up before they head in.

Lux Velvet

Ottawa, Ontario

Roving Events / Pop-Up

Lux Velvet is an Ottawa-based sex-positive party collective founded in December 2018 by Nicole Murphy and Alexandria Nuttal — two queer women who set out to build a non-monogamous community where women, LGBTQ+ people, and those new to open relationships could gather without the unsafe or exclusionary atmospheres they had encountered at established adult venues. Female-owned and operated, the collective welcomes swingers, polyamorous individuals and couples, people in open relationships, and the broadly curious, organized around consent, vetting, and discretion. Rather than occupying a fixed club space, Lux Velvet rotates through hotels, private bars, breweries, and private venues across Ottawa; the membership skews toward the 25–45 age range, though all adults 19+ are eligible to attend. The collective runs two distinct event formats. Public Mixers and themed Dance Parties — held approximately every other month at rotating Ottawa venues — are open to anyone 19+ and deliberately social in tone: music is kept at conversational volume and past editions have included art nights with professional nude models, game nights, and themed dance parties, as well as collaborations with other Ottawa sex-positive venues. Members-only play parties are a separate, invite-only tier hosted at vetted private venues, with location details shared only with ticketed members. Founders Nicole and Alexandria are present at every event and are available to members throughout the evening. The collective has partnered with adult wellness brands including Lelo, Liberator, and ScreamingO. Mixer tickets are priced at approximately C$15–C$20 in advance and C$20–C$25 at the door, with a discounted member rate; members-only play-party tickets are priced separately, typically C$45–C$65+ per event. Annual membership costs C$65 plus tax and requires attending a Mixer first, then completing a no-cost 30-minute video vetting call with one of the founders. Members sign a legally binding consent-and-confidentiality waiver, photography and recording devices are prohibited at all events, and a one-strike policy applies to all rule violations. Accessibility varies by host venue and is disclosed on each individual event listing.

BiZarre Events

London, Greater London

BDSM Club

BiZarre Events is a London production company that has run some of the capital's most distinctive alternative play parties, in its own words 'proudly and passionately since 2012.' Founded by Nina and Aidan, it operates as a private members' club rather than a single fixed venue, staging a rotating family of themed nights built around 'Diversity and Inclusion for LGBTQ+ and our Allies.' The flagship BiKINK is pitched as a night 'explicitly for bisexual / LGBTQ+ males and females as well as Trans* or gender-fluid' players; alongside it run PisSoir (an 'ULTIMATE WATERSPORTS' night), Club Labrys (a sex- and body-positive night for women) and Savage Dreams (an alt club for couples). The crowd is described as 'unpretentious, friendly, non-judgemental, respectful and colourful,' welcoming singles, couples 'of any configuration' and poly-groups, and 'seasoned players as well as newbies to the scene.' Parties are held at a 'well-established, internationally famous, purpose-fitted and very luxurious play-space' in North East London, kept discreet and disclosed to members on booking. The organisers describe it as 'extremely well connected' by various bus stops and 'a nearby 24-hour tube / underground line running to and from Central London,' with 'ample available and free parking.' Downstairs holds an elegant reception, a free staffed cloakroom, a bar and an indoor smoking area; upstairs opens onto 'a large, furnished play space, fully equipped with many bespoke pieces.' Unisex shower facilities, toiletries and fresh towels are provided free, and once you are inside the organisers stress that 'EVERYTHING is COMPLETELY FREE.' Security is handled by 'SIA licenced door supervisors' with both female and male crew, in what the club frames explicitly as a 'FEMALE EMPOWERED SAFE-SPACE.' Entry is by prior booking through the club's ticketing system, with booking opening roughly a month before each party. A paid annual membership (£40 per person, valid twelve months) is required at first attendance 'because we are a PRIVATE MEMBERS CLUB,' and admission is charged per event — singles around £70, couples and poly-groups about £50 per person (M/F couples £25 each on a summer promo), paid 'AT THE DOOR in CASH or by CARD,' with student, couples and limited low-income concessions available. Drinks are unusually generous: the club provides 'a very generous amount of alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks for FREE (beer & wine as well as soft drinks),' and members may also BYOB, with glasses and a fridge provided. House rules are firm and consent-led — 'Always! Ask! First!,' never interrupt a scene, ''No' means 'No',' a '100% no-illegal-drugs policy,' and 'absolutely DO NOT allow photography or audio / visual recording of any kind,' with mobile phones banned inside and checked into the cloakroom. Dress code is creative rather than prescriptive: 'leave the everyday street clothes look outside' and be 'APPROPRIATELY DRESSED for the occasion.'

The Playground RI

Providence, RI

Private House Party

The Playground RI is a weekly lifestyle house party run out of a converted three-family home in Providence's Oakland Avenue Historic District, operated by hosts Eddy and Viv Badd of BBadd Entertainment. Spread across four floors and roughly 4,000 square feet, the venue mixes themed social spaces with dedicated play areas: the ground floor opens with a meet-and-greet lounge alongside a Wild West room, a Pirate room, and a kink-themed Red Room. The second floor holds a dance floor with a stripper pole and four more playrooms. The third floor is towel-and-robe only, with two private rooms, a glory hole, and an open group play area; the dungeon is fully equipped with two sex swings, a massage table, a Sybian, and a doctor's office with two exam tables. Saturday nights (8 pm-2 am) are the main weekly event, open to couples, single women, and a limited number of single men (21+), with the host managing ratios carefully. Friday Fusion nights run the same hours but tilt toward BDSM and kink and are open to all genders. The hosts personally tour first-timers through the space, answer questions, and make guests feel at home; reviewers consistently describe the atmosphere as friendly and community-driven rather than nightclub-cold. All parties are BYOB, with ice, refrigerators, snacks, sodas, and water provided at no charge. Every room is stocked with condoms, lube, and clean sheets. Lockers are available on the third floor. The venue is 420-friendly outdoors. Attendance is RSVP-only — no walk-ins; the full address is shared only upon booking confirmation.

The Pleasure Garden Club

Philadelphia, PA

On-Premise Club

Tucked behind The Purple Orchid at the far end of a Passyunk Avenue strip mall in Philadelphia's Elmwood/Eastwick neighborhood, The Pleasure Garden Club has been one of the city's premier on-premise lifestyle destinations since opening in September 2006. The venue sits behind a gated private parking lot — well-lit and hidden from street view — and a pat-down security check at the door ensures no phones make it inside. With capacity for roughly 300 guests, the space centers on a large dance floor anchored by a stripper pole on a raised platform, flanked by two BYOB juice bars with complimentary mixers, a group shower with towel service, and a bank of lockers (bring your own padlock). Membership is bundled with entry via TicketLeap. Playrooms range from curtained private rooms and an open play pit to a dedicated gangbang room and two Sybian rooms (available for a $20 deposit). A side room off the main dance floor houses a permanent BDSM setup — St. Andrew's cross, a cage, a spiked wood throne with manacles, and suspension rigs — making it a genuine dual-use swinger/kink space. Overflow back rooms unlock on busier nights when the main areas fill up. Fridays (9 pm–2 am) welcome couples, single ladies, and single men; the first Friday of each month is PLEASUREcation, a kink-forward mixed party with dark/rock/EDM music and programming such as rope bondage demos. Saturdays (9 pm–3 am) are couples and single ladies only, with themed nights running the gamut from Mardi Gras to glow and sheer-wear parties.

Le Boudoir Club

London, London

On-Premise Club

Le Boudoir is a members-only lifestyle and ENM (ethically non-monogamous) club operating on Old Castle Street in London’s E1, within walking distance of Aldgate East tube station and a short journey from Liverpool Street. Running since 2015 and hosting over 150 ticketed events a year, the venue requires advance online registration — applicants submit photographs for review, approval is not automatic, and no walk-ins are accepted under any circumstances. The minimum age is 21, with photo ID verified at the door on every night. The club occupies three floors. The ground level holds a fully licensed bar, a DJ booth, a dance pole, and a mezzanine terrace well-suited for socialising and people-watching. The upper floor runs a collection of private lockable rooms — including a mirrored cubby hole, a dark-academia-themed study room, and a large open group room — while the basement functions as a fully fitted dungeon equipped with a St Andrew’s Cross, cage, sex swings, glory holes, and curtained alcove beds. Bathrooms are available on every floor and lockers are provided. Phones are surrendered at check-in and held until the end of the evening; reviewers consistently credit this policy with maintaining a crowd — predominantly working professionals in their mid-thirties — that is polite, unhurried, and non-pushy. Events run on Thursdays and most Fridays and Saturdays. Thursday sessions typically run 19:00–23:30 and are themed around hotwife and couples events, with a limited number of single men admitted; Friday and Saturday parties run 21:30–03:00, with Saturdays reserved for couples and single women only. Entry is by pre-purchased ticket only, sold through the club’s website and Eventbrite; tickets are non-refundable and carry a £30 transfer fee. The bar is fully licensed — outside alcohol is not permitted — with cocktails priced around £15 and bottled water around £3. A £20 refundable cash deposit is collected at the door for locker use. Dress code is strictly enforced: smart-sexy attire is required, with formal dark trousers, collared shirts, and dress shoes for men, and lingerie or quality dresses with appropriate footwear for women; multiple categories of casualwear are explicitly prohibited at the door.

Red Room Nashville

Nashville, TN

On-Premise Club

Red Room Nashville is a members-only lifestyle club operating out of a discreet suburban venue near the city, reachable only after a screened membership application and a 24-hour approval wait. The main room centers on a professional-DJ dance floor with LED lighting, VIP and reserved seating with soft seating, a ladies-only dressing suite, and a BYOB bar stocked with complimentary mixers; from there, hallways lead back to communal play lounges and a run of private playrooms, some fitted with sex swings and BDSM equipment, that members can leave open for onlookers or close off for privacy. Events run on a weekly schedule with different nights themed for couples, single ladies, and limited single-male attendance, each requiring advance ticket purchase on top of membership; walk-ins are not accepted, and identification is checked at the door. Nudity is handled zone by zone: topless is allowed on the main dancefloor, but members must stay covered from the waist down there, while the back playroom areas are clothing-optional for anyone who wants to go further. Staff run a tight, consent-first floor: touching requires permission, sexual play in the main room must stay above the belt with anything further moved to a playroom, and single men are confined to designated bar seating unless invited elsewhere by a couple or group. The club supplies towels and cleanup wipes in the playrooms, and members describe the vibe as welcoming and judgment-free, with staff giving personal walkthroughs and mixed-age, mixed-body-type crowds turning out for the weekly parties.

IntimatePartiesGroup (IPG)

New York, NY

Event Organizer

IntimatePartiesGroup (IPG) is a Northeast-based lifestyle event production outfit run by couple-hosts Maddy and Joe, drawing on a roster of experienced DJs, performers, comics, and venue operators whose sensibility blends Brazilian, Latin, Caribbean, and American swinger culture. Rather than maintaining a fixed club, IPG takes over entire hotels -- typically in Scranton, PA, conveniently off Highway 81 -- for full two-day weekends, regularly drawing 150-200 couples per event. Hotel room blocks are negotiated at roughly $119-139 per night with a two-night minimum, and the hotel staff are described as extremely lifestyle friendly. The all-day format means guests checking in Friday afternoon have access to the heated indoor pool and surrounding amenities well before the night main events begin. Each event weekend follows a structured rhythm. Friday evening opens with naughty trivia (6:30-7:45 PM), a meet-and-greet, then a DJ dance party running to midnight, followed by a pool party until 2-3 AM. Saturday layers on afternoon speed dating, kink demos, poolside games, and Swingo (a bingo variant), before a pre-party gathering at 6 PM and a main event -- typically a comedy show or costumed contest -- at 8:45 PM sharp, with themed playrooms and a potluck after-party floor-crawl from midnight onward, closing with a pool-and-desserts wind-down at 4 AM. The crowd skews friendly and repeating; reviews consistently flag the hosts personal floor presence and the unusually respectful atmosphere among attendees. Preference bracelets issued at check-in (green: full swap; yellow: soft swap; purple: tame; red: bisexual) take the guesswork out of navigation. IPG also co-hosts at external venues, including a recurring bi/lingerie night at The Kink Lair, and an annual Pride Fest kink/fetish hotel takeover.

Club AntiChrist

London, London

Fetish Club Night

Club AntiChrist launched in 2004 under promoter d.Void at Camden's Electric Ballroom, before being relaunched in 2007 by Missy with a full multi-room format that included five live bands and several dancefloors. Over the following years it moved through a string of London venues — Colosseum, Electrowerkz, Fire, and others — before settling at Scala, the 1920s-built former cinema at 275 Pentonville Road in King's Cross. Self-billed as ‘Goth Fetish Industrial Metal Mayhem,’ the night draws from overlapping worlds of metal, goth, industrial music, performance art, and fetish subculture. Queer-friendly and inclusive by design, it marked its 21st year in 2025 and is one of London's longest-running alternative events. Scala's multi-floor layout accommodates five distinct zones. Three dancefloors cover different sonic territories: The Hole runs metal, the Hellfire Room handles goth, post-punk, and dark electro, and The Foyer covers 80s and new romantic sounds and hosts a shibari corner. The Theatre of Sin stages live bands and continuous performances — fire acts, aerial work, burlesque, comedy, and cabaret — throughout the night. The Dungeon is a purpose-fitted BDSM play space equipped by Benchmarxxx with a St Andrew's Cross, spanking benches, a gynae chair, and a swing; experienced Dungeon Monitors wearing flashing lanyards supervise throughout and may halt unsafe play. A separate dark playroom offers more privacy for couples and groups. An outdoor garden provides a retreat, hot food is served on-site, and the building has gender-neutral toilets, a cloakroom, and ATMs. Events run roughly five to six times per year at Scala, typically themed — a birthday party each June, vampire balls in September, a ‘Not NYE’ party in early January, and occasional themed specials. Doors open at 9pm; last entry is at 2am and the venue runs until 6am. Advance tickets are sold via Dice.fm at approximately £36.50 per person (prices vary by tier and event); door entry is £40 cash. All attendees must be 18 or over and present original physical photo ID — driving licence, passport, or PASS hologram card; digital copies are refused. An enforced alternative dress code requires goth, punk, fetishwear, PVC, rubber, lace, cosplay, or similar; the stated minimum is ‘Alt-Comfortable: combats, band tee, boots.’ Street clothes, regular denim, white trainers, and standard suits are refused at the door.

FuseX Social Club Portland

Portland, OR

Social Club

FuseX Social Club Portland is the Portland, Oregon landing page of FuseX Social Club, a members-only lifestyle brand for swinging, kink, hotwifing, cuckolding, and polyamory founded in Beverly Hills, California in 2016. Portland is one of roughly 23 U.S. metro pages the brand publishes nationwide, alongside pages for other major cities and for entire states such as Iowa and the Dakotas. There is no evidence of a dedicated Portland venue, local leadership, or independent event history: FuseX states that events take place at "mansions or extremely private hotels," with the exact location disclosed to approved members only shortly before each party. Contact information, social accounts, and the application process are shared nationally rather than run locally — the same toll-free number and application form appear on every city page, and the brand's Instagram and Facebook accounts are tied to its Southern California headquarters rather than to Portland. Membership is open primarily to couples and single women, with single men admitted only when sponsored and accompanied by an existing member in good standing. Prospective members submit an application, complete a phone interview, and undergo a background check before gaining access to current members and event details. The brand advertises tiered annual membership fees plus minimum household or individual income requirements for approval, though the published fee figures are inconsistent between the site's own pages; no Portland-specific pricing, address, or event calendar could be independently confirmed.

On-Premise Club

Michigan Fun Times (MFT) is a couples-oriented lifestyle social club serving the Detroit metro area, run by two operators as a small hotel-based group rather than from a fixed venue. The club does not publish a street address; its most recent recurring events (early-to-mid 2025) were held at a hotel in Southfield, MI, a Detroit suburb, with the specific location disclosed only after ticket purchase. Parties are structured as themed "Hotel Takeovers" (past editions have included Naughty Cupid, 24K Gold Magic St. Patty's, and Party Like a Playmate nights). The club is BYOB, with hotel common areas remaining clothed/"vanilla" while dedicated playrooms — stocked with a DJ, snacks, mixers, and kink equipment such as a Sybian and St. Andrew's Cross — host the after-hours activity, alongside an outdoor smoke tent. Membership is free but requires an approved online application (couple, single male, or single female) with photo verification before attending any event. A typical event runs Saturday 3:00 PM–2:00 AM, with entry pricing in 2025 consistently listed at $90 per couple, $35 per single female, and $110 per single male.

Mint Tease

London, London

Pop-Up Event Series

Mint Tease is the play-party arm of Mint Events London, a queer women's events brand founded in 2006 by Nicola Chubb. Known as the promiscuous wing of the long-running Mint brand, it operates as a roving East London pop-up rather than at a fixed address: a series of periodic erotic events staged in private, unlisted venues and designed exclusively for queer women, femmes, thems, non-binary guests, and bi and curious women. The format sits at a studied remove from the conventional sex-club aesthetic — events are curated around comfort, consent, and community as much as play, drawing a crowd spanning ages and experience levels, from first-timers to Mint regulars. Recent editions have taken over The Old Dispensary at 19a Leman Street, East London (E1 8EN), a multi-floor space a short walk from Aldgate East and Liverpool Street stations. Three floors carry a cocktail bar with DJ sets, a ground-floor social and performance area, private playrooms, an open playroom with antique furnishings and fireplaces, and a fully equipped BDSM dungeon with suspension apparatus. On-site dominatrices facilitate activities and offer orientations for newcomers; the atmosphere is described as relaxed and consent-centred. Mint Tease events run periodically through the year — there is no fixed weekly cadence. A daytime variant, Twilight Tease, holds afternoon sessions (typically 3 pm–8 pm) in smaller private venues. Standard events run roughly 8 pm–1 am. Tickets are sold in advance only through a verification process: prospective attendees complete an application form before purchase; returning verified guests receive access codes by email. Recent ticket prices have sat at £55 (early bird) to £60 (final release) plus booking fees. Entry closes strictly at 10 pm, with organisers recommending arrival before 9 pm. Government-issued photo ID is mandatory. The dress code enforces self-expression: leather, lace, lingerie, harnesses, corsets, and heels are the expectation; streetwear and light denim are turned away at the door.

Mission Control SF (Kinky Salon)

Oakland, CA

BDSM Club

Mission Control is a members-only, volunteer-run sex-positive community rooted in the San Francisco Bay Area. Founded around 2000 by Polly Whittaker — the London transplant better known as Polly Superstar — the organization spent its first fourteen years at 2519 Mission Street before rising rents forced an eviction in late 2013. It re-established itself and now operates out of venues in Oakland, hosting a rotating calendar of themed parties and workshops under its 501(c)(7) nonprofit charter. The event lineup spans a wide spectrum: Pink is the house party where the core community gathers; Threshold is the BDSM-focused night; Velvet centres queer women, trans folks, and genderqueers; SOUL is exclusively for people of colour; Peek celebrates exhibitionism and voyeurism; and Eropunk is a sober play party for introverts. All events are BYOB. Entry requires individual membership (couples applications declined). Alliance membership at $20/month or $200/year unlocks free entry to most parties. The PAL system — every guest must arrive and leave with a trusted accountability partner — underpins the consent culture.

The Sublime Society

London, London

Performance Night / Event Series

The Sublime Society is a monthly erotic performance event series staged at Dear Darling, a luxury bar and nightclub at 91 Jermyn Street in Mayfair's St. James's district, a short walk from Green Park station. Co-founded by burlesque artist Charlie Bouquett and House of Fatale founder Missy Fatale, it presents itself as an "exclusive hedonistic soirée" — a voyeur-forward sensual salon in which live burlesque, shibari suspension, fetish performance, and sapphic dominance play unfold in close proximity to a seated and standing audience. The project carries an explicitly FLINTA-centered artistic policy: all performers identify as femme, lesbian, intersex, non-binary, trans, or asexual, and the organisers have publicly committed to exclusively female-identifying performers for their London editions. Dear Darling occupies a double-level footprint. The main salon — called The Living Room — holds 50 seated and up to 160 standing guests among wood-panelled walls, plush sofas, velvet armchairs, green drapery, and low crystal-strung chandeliers. There is no raised stage: performers move through the room itself, and mirrored ceilings provide sightlines from multiple angles while a rigged shibari frame hosts rope suspension pieces. Below, reached only through what the venue calls Lady Darling's wardrobe — a concealed door — sits a basement nightclub with capacity for around 160, featuring avant-garde décor and a DJ booth; this space operates as the afterparty venue for Sublime Society ticket-holders from approximately 11pm. A curated cocktail menu runs throughout both levels. Events run roughly monthly on Friday evenings, with doors at 7:00–7:30pm and the performance programme concluding between 10:15pm and 11:30pm depending on format; the basement afterparty continues to 2:00am. A secondary format, The Sublime Society: SALON, runs shorter evenings (7:00–10:30pm) and layers a live podcast recording and a participatory BDSM impact-play workshop onto the shibari performance. Tickets are sold exclusively in advance via DesignMyNight; standard general admission sits between approximately £38 and £65 depending on the event, with couples packages at a 20% reduction and three-person packages at 30% off. A VIP tier adding reserved lounge seating and basement nightclub access runs £59–£80, and a Meet and Greet add-on (£20–£22) provides post-show access to the cast.

Oasis Aqualounge

Toronto, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Oasis Aqualounge is a water-themed, clothing-optional adult spa and social club occupying a 9,000-square-foot restored 19th-century mansion at 231 Mutual Street in downtown Toronto. Open since 2010 to all guests aged 19 and over, the club does not describe itself as a swinger club — it positions as a body-positive, consent-forward venue drawing a broad community: monogamous couples, polyamorous individuals, kink enthusiasts, and guests who want spa facilities in a sex-positive setting without expectation of partner activity. Admission covers a day membership, locker access, and towel service; no separate ongoing membership is required. The crowd typically spans the mid-thirties to mid-fifties, and the venue has been recognised four times as one of Canada's fastest-growing businesses (2019, 2020, 2024, and 2025). The centrepiece is a year-round outdoor heated pool — maintained near 100°F in winter — set within a private courtyard flanked by a hot tub and a dry sauna. Two licensed bars serve alcohol and soft drinks across the property, with poolside patio seating for guests moving between the spa and social areas. Play areas span four floors and include a dungeon equipped with a swing and a St. Andrew's Cross, plus a private room on the fourth floor that any guest can reserve in one-hour increments at no extra charge. Staff known as Aquaflirt hosts circulate throughout, offering tours for first-time visitors and facilitating introductions. A colour-coded silicone wristband system near the entrance lets guests signal their openness to interaction. Oasis is open 1pm to 3am, 362 days a year (last admission 2am; closed Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, and one Monday in December for maintenance). Fridays and Saturdays are reserved for women and couples only; solo men may attend Sunday through Thursday. Approximately once a month — typically the fourth Monday — the club runs Sapphic Aquatica, an event exclusively for women and trans guests. Door prices include HST: solo women pay CAD $15 (Sun–Thu) or $25 (Fri–Sat); couples pay $100 or $115 respectively; solo men pay $100 on eligible weekdays. No outside drinks are permitted. Walk-ins are welcome most nights, though high-demand events may require advance booking via the online ticket calendar.

Club Bacchus

Dundee, Scotland

On-Premise Club

Club Bacchus occupies a discreet address on Princes Street in Dundee — about five minutes from the bus station and fifteen minutes on foot from Dundee Station — billing itself as Tayside's most stylish and discreet adult lifestyle venue.

Illuminaughty Seattle

Seattle, WA

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Seattle is the local chapter of Illuminaughty, a national curated lifestyle brand that has hosted private swinger parties and cocktail mixers since 2022. Rather than operating from a fixed clubhouse, it runs monthly events for the Seattle and Tacoma area, drawing an ethically non-monogamous crowd of couples and singles roughly in their 20s, 30s and 40s. Attendance is restricted to approved members: applicants submit photos and a written application, and there is no membership fee, though not everyone is accepted. Events fall into two formats. Tease Cocktail Mixers are held in reserved sections of local bars or restaurants as a low-key way for members to meet. Private parties — the core of the brand — take place at rented private residences ranging from houses to high-rise apartments to larger estates, decorated and lit to set an intentional mood, typically hosting 40 to 80 members with professional security on site. Rooms are set up for a range of experiences, from massage tables and group-play spaces to light bondage or kink setups, though kink is described as a secondary element rather than the main focus. Most night parties run from around 8pm to 2am, with an arrival window (roughly 8:00–9:30pm) after which doors close for a mandatory opening talk on consent and house rules; latecomers are turned away. Parties are BYOB, with mixers and non-alcoholic drinks supplied, and towels, wipes, condoms, lube and massage oil provided. Each event has a set dress theme that members are expected to follow. Tickets and the private venue address are released only to approved, logged-in ticket holders, with the exact location shared on the day of the event.

Stopgap

San Francisco, CA

Event Organizer

Opened in April 2024 inside the SoMa building that once housed the SF Citadel, Stopgap is a turnkey kink venue that bridges San Francisco's leather history with its present-day scene. The fully accessible ground floor holds social areas, lockers, two bathrooms, and open play spaces fitted with hardpoints, while a staircase descends to a 3,100-square-foot basement dungeon stocked with equipment recovered from the Citadel's collection alongside newer pieces -- crosses, benches, tables, bondage chairs, cages, and at least 20 suspension hardpoints with floor mats for rope work. The venue is run by the AfterDark Events team, a POC, femme, queer, neurodivergent, and disabled-led organisation, and doubles as a rental space for third-party producers. Stopgap's own flagship is House Party, an inclusive open-play night held on the first Friday of every month, alongside weekly open-dungeon sessions, the Wrapt rope jam on fourth Mondays, Society of Janus play parties on second Saturdays, and rotating themed events such as Board Games & Bondage.

Partners Swingers Club

Bury, Greater Manchester

On-Premise Club

Set on a residential backstreet roughly a mile from Bury town centre in Greater Manchester, Partners has built a reputation as one of the North West's most-visited adult lifestyle clubs. The venue pitches itself as 'the UK's Premier Swingers Club,' having claimed the number one spot in the North West in both 2018 and 2019, and draws visitors from well beyond the region. Management's stated aim is a warm, friendly environment — guests are encouraged to socialise at the bar first and explore at their own pace — and the tone skews inclusive and unhurried rather than nightclub-loud. The club is open six nights a week on a rotating event schedule. Thursday hosts an inclusive bisexual-friendly evening run in partnership with Biphoria; Sunday is the couples and single females night; and weekend themes change week to week. Once a month the dungeon and play spaces are handed over to Kage Club for a dedicated BDSM play event. Standard entry opens at 8pm and runs to 3am, with tiered pricing at the door: couples pay £30 (members £25), single females £10 (members £5), and single males £40 (members £35). The wet zone — a swimming pool, bubbling jacuzzi, traditional sauna, and cool plunge pool — is the headline draw, and the club claims these facilities are unmatched in the UK. Beyond the water, the floor plan runs to a bar lounge with a pool table, group rooms designed for shared enjoyment, private cabins, a couples-only room with an adjoining viewing area, and a fully equipped dungeon. Outside drinks are welcome in the bar and lounge area in a BYOB arrangement. House rules are strictly enforced: consent is the operating principle throughout ('NO means NO'), single males are reminded their attendance is a privilege, cameras and phones are banned in play areas, CCTV covers all public spaces, and smoking is restricted to an outdoor area.

Kink Community / Munch Group (No Fixed Venue)

Northern Lights Dungeon Society was one of the informal groups — alongside a similarly organized group known as Alaska Dark Realms — credited with anchoring Anchorage'"'"'s kink and alternative-lifestyle community for roughly two decades before 2015. Rather than running a fixed clubhouse or dungeon, it operated as a munch network: organizing coffee meet-ups and dinners where members of the local BDSM and kink scene could socialize outside the usual bar and nightclub circuit. With no venue of its own, the group met wherever space could be found, a pattern common across Alaska'"'"'s kink community during a period when purpose-built venues were scarce. That gap was later addressed by the Alaska Center for Alternative Lifestyles (ACAL), a members-only space that opened in downtown Anchorage in 2015 and operated for several years before closing around 2019; contemporaneous reporting names Northern Lights Dungeon Society and Alaska Dark Realms as part of the community ACAL was created to serve, though no source identifies ACAL — or any other current group — as a direct continuation of Northern Lights Dungeon Society itself. No website, FetLife group, Meetup listing, Discord server, or social media account operating under the Northern Lights Dungeon Society name could be independently verified as of mid-2026. Anchorage'"'"'s organized kink community today is more visibly served by separately branded groups, including Alaska Club Kink (a weekly Thursday-night munch) and the long-running Northern Exposure conference — neither of which is documented as a rename or continuation of Northern Lights Dungeon Society specifically. Its current operating status could not be confirmed.

Club Tempted

Louisville, KY

Lifestyle Resort

Club Tempted is a members-only private lifestyle club serving Louisville, Kentucky, run on the Modern Lifestyle club platform used by swinger and lifestyle venues across North America. The club does not publish a street address; location details are shared only with applicants who complete Tempted's online membership screening and registration process at clubtempted.com. The venue occupies more than 9,000 square feet across two floors, with a large dance floor, nine themed play rooms, dressing rooms, and lockers (locks provided) for members' belongings. Ticket holders can access a first-floor VIP lounge and second-floor VIP rooms, and the space seats roughly 325 guests. The bar is BYOB and self-serve, with mixers provided by the club at no charge, and smoking is permitted in an outdoor area only. Events run on Friday and Saturday nights, plus periodic special events, with access tiered across four membership levels — Onyx, Crystal, Ruby, and Diamond — priced from $250/year ($25/month) up to $1,000/year ($100/month); higher tiers carry lower ticket prices and larger special-event and VIP discounts. A $20 one-weekend pass and a $20 online-only annual membership (community access only, no event entry) are also available. Because the club is members-only, prospective guests must apply and pass Tempted's screening process before attending.

Hawaii Swingers (hawaiiswingers.net)

Unverified

Hilo, HI

Lifestyle Resort

Hawaii Swingers (hawaiiswingers.net) is an online lifestyle platform rather than a physical club, presenting itself as a hub for the swinger and non-monogamous community across the Hawaiian Islands. It has no fixed address or venue of its own — its identity is built around an events calendar, a directory of other Hawaii-based clubs and meetup groups, and community-oriented copy inviting couples and individuals to explore the lifestyle without judgment. The site functions as an affiliate landing page for the SwingLifeStyle (SLS) personals network and is also cross-listed on Swing Towns, rather than operating as an independent club or membership organization. In practice, the platform aggregates listings rather than hosting anything itself: it advertises parties, meet-and-greets, and hotel takeovers organized by third parties around the islands. "Membership" is a free account signup routed through an SLS affiliate link — there is no venue to enter, no cover charge, dress code, or check-in process. The site's own contact email has gone dark (removed as of 2026-06-30), and current activity levels of the advertised events calendar could not be independently verified beyond the platform's own promotional copy.

Night Spa Halifax

Halifax, Nova Scotia

Bath House / Sex Club

Night Spa is Halifax's only mixed-gender, private-members, clothing-optional venue at 2199 Gottingen Street in the city's north end. Queer owned and operated, it grew out of a gay bathhouse that occupied the same space from 2003, relaunching under its current identity in August 2022 with over 5,000 active members. The venue bills itself as Atlantic Canada's Adult Playground and is aimed at people already experienced in alternative or kink lifestyles — newcomers are explicitly advised to attend other community events before applying. The space includes a hot tub (four-person limit, no-play zone), a dry sauna, showers, social areas, 15 private rooms, and a darkroom with a sling, spanking bench, open play area, and glory holes including a gender-neutral Portal floor-level anonymous-encounter space with a whiteboard for communicating limits. Disinfectant stations and community barrier-protection supplies are available throughout. Regular members-only programming runs Tuesday nights (Naked Rockband Game Night, 8 pm-midnight), Fridays (mixed-gender themed party, 10 pm-3 am), Saturdays (meet-and-greet 8-10 pm, open play to 3 am), and Sundays (Masc-i-nee, a masculine-focused bathhouse-style night, 4-8 pm). Special events include a monthly TNG night (ages 19-35), quarterly Femmes and Themmes nights, a Couple's Only Swingers Night on long weekends, and a monthly Night's Paw event for pups, furs, and handlers. Membership application is free and takes 5-7 days; no walk-in or same-day entry.

Leisure with Pleasure

Unverified

Leicester, Leicestershire

On-Premise Club

Leisure with Pleasure — also traded as Club 29, Club 29 Swing Club, and Bond Street Retreat — occupies a discreet address at 29 New Bond Street in Leicester city centre. It bills itself as Leicester's only alternative sauna for the lifestyle-curious and the more adventurous, and has operated under various names at the same location for many years. The NHS has formally recognised the address as a sexual health outreach venue, with Leicester Sexual Health services running a monthly drop-in clinic there offering free condoms, STI testing, and advice. The venue spreads across three floors. Upper floors contain spa facilities — a hot tub, sauna, and steam room — alongside a cinema room, a dark fetish room equipped with a swing and cross, showers, and private rooms. Reviewers also describe playrooms, a dungeon area, and a disco-and-party room. The club maintains a strict drug-free policy, and multiple guests note that staff are approachable and willing to walk newcomers through the space. Reviewers are divided on atmosphere: several praise the clean, friendly environment, while others have criticised cramped conditions and dated décor. Google-listed hours indicate daytime sessions on Wednesday, Friday, and Sunday, though schedules and current entry fees could not be independently verified — the club's official website is not currently accessible.

Eureka Naturist Club

Fawkham, Kent

Nudist Resort

Eureka Naturist Club occupies 23 acres of landscaped grounds — including approximately six acres of historic Pennis Woods — near the village of Fawkham in the Kent North Downs, roughly 25 miles south-east of central London. Self-styled as ‘the UK’s premier naturist club’, it operates as a private members venue open 364 days a year (closed Christmas Day only), welcoming members and guests aged 21-plus whether nude, partially clothed, or fully dressed. The site is reached via Manor Lane; the club recommends the What Three Words reference guess.vine.scores over the postcode for locating the gate, and free parking for up to 75 vehicles is available on site. The seasonal centrepiece is a heated outdoor pool measuring 60 by 30 feet, complemented year-round by a wet area with two 8-person jacuzzis, a sauna, and a steam room. An outdoor bar and BBQ terrace, a balcony, and woodland and garden walks fill out the daytime offer. Evenings turn on a large licensed bar and a dance floor with seated capacity for 180; no outside drinks are permitted. On-site cabin accommodation is bookable through the website, and resident massage therapists operate on multiple days each week. Regular hours are Sunday to Wednesday 10am–10pm, Thursday 10am–11pm (Social Night from 6pm, free entry for members), Friday 10am–2am, and Saturday 10am–3am, with extended hours possible on hot evenings. The themed Friday and Saturday night calendar includes Traffic Light parties, fetish and leather-and-lace nights, and Cougars N Cubs evenings. Entry is tiered by membership grade, day, and arrival time: Silver members pay £15–£30 depending on gender and session; Gold membership (£1,100 per year for gents and couples, £400 for single ladies) covers unlimited free entry to all events. Non-members may visit with a £15 surcharge on top of the standard rate. A three-month trial period applies before full membership is confirmed.

CC House Party

Country Club Hills, IL

On-Premise Club

CC House Party has built a reputation as the most talked-about lifestyle house party in metropolitan Chicago, running an 8,000-square-foot on-premises club in the south suburb of Country Club Hills every Saturday night. The single-story private facility draws 60 to 100 couples per party. The layout spans open and private play rooms, a dance floor anchored by a stripper pole with club-grade lighting and sound, voyeur and exhibition spaces, a massage table and bondage equipment, and a group shower — giving the venue a genuinely upscale, well-maintained feel rather than a makeshift house-party vibe. A complimentary buffet dinner is served alongside a BYOB setup with mixers, and the crowd mixes and mingles on the open lounge floor before drifting toward the private rooms as the night goes on. Doors open at 7:30 PM, with a hard 11:00 PM arrival cutoff for new admission, and first-time guests complete a membership application and ID check before entry.

Angel of Love

Roth, Bavaria

On-Premise Lifestyle Club

Set in an industrial quarter on the southern edge of Roth bei Nürnberg — just off the B2 with direct access to the A9 and A6 motorways — Angel of Love has established itself as one of Bavaria's most prominent lifestyle destinations. The freshly renovated venue covers more than 2,000 square metres wrapped behind a discreet exterior, fitted out to a contemporary standard with premium audio, modern lighting, and a warmly styled interior that reads as upscale private event rather than nightclub. Jasmin and Markus Herrmann, who took over operations in early 2025 and draw on years of personal experience in the swinger community, describe the house philosophy as openness and tolerance without pressure — a space to explore freely among like-minded people, whether for a seasoned regular or a curious first-timer. Most events are booked through JoyClub, where the venue carries verified status.

Untamed Nights

Bournemouth, Dorset

Events Organiser

Established in 2022, Untamed Nights is Bournemouth's principal adult lifestyle events organiser, serving the local swinging and kink-positive community along the Dorset coast. The operation runs parties, socials, and community events under a single guiding ethos of 'Be yourself' — with an explicit commitment to inclusivity that extends to singles, couples, and trans and non-binary guests alike. After holding a fixed Bournemouth residency through 2024, the organisation relinquished that permanent venue in early 2025 and pivoted to a touring model, hand-picking venues across the UK for each event while keeping its home base in the BH2 postcode area of Bournemouth. The regular midweek anchor is The Social at UN, held each Wednesday evening (7:30pm–midnight) at 45 Poole Hill, Bournemouth BH2 5PW — a free-to-attend community gathering designed for newcomers and regulars alike, with the Loft Bar reserved as a social-only space. For party events, Untamed Nights uses private venues whose exact addresses are shared only after ticket purchase, with stated capacities ranging from 50 to 400 guests depending on the event. Programming stretches well beyond standard swing parties: the 2026 calendar includes the nine-part House of Hades series — an immersive sequence of gate events blending kink education, rope workshops, erotic storytelling, and a ticketed Halloween main event — as well as a women-only swing evening (Scissor Sisters) at The Alchemy in Bournemouth, and online educational workshops. A separate brand, Vunilla, handles mainstream DJ and live-act nights under the same umbrella. Social events are free to attend; paid party events run on a flat per-person tariff regardless of how a guest identifies — single men, single women, couples, and CD/TV/TS guests all pay the same rate. Recent party tickets have been priced at £25 for early release, rising to £28–£30 closer to the door. An optional annual membership costs £15 per person and delivers £5 off each subsequent event ticket, plus affiliate discounts and a VIP card; membership requires a verified profile on a swinging platform such as SpicyMatch. Photo ID is required for entry at every event without exception. Dress code is enforced across all events: smart presentation is expected and trainers, tracksuits, and baseball caps are explicitly prohibited. Venue locations for parties in the BH2 area are disclosed to ticket holders only after purchase.

The Foothills Club

Anderson, SC

On-Premise Club

The Foothills Club is a private, membership-only lifestyle club based in Anderson, South Carolina, near Exit 19A on I-85 (Clemson Boulevard). Founded in 1985 as informal house parties in Georgia, it moved through a string of hotel ballrooms in Spartanburg and Greenville before adding a second location in Clinton, SC in August 2011. That Clinton venue closed for good in May 2013 when its host hotel was sold for redevelopment, and the club's own history page still records it as "Clinton (RIP)." Since 2014 the club has operated exclusively out of Anderson, hosting a two-night party each month. Parties are held in a private hotel ballroom rather than a dedicated venue -- the club has changed host hotels several times over the decades and has occupied its current Anderson property since December 2021. Each ballroom is decorated to match a monthly theme, with a DJ, dance floor, lighted stripper pole and lounge area. The club frames itself as a nightclub-style meet-and-mingle rather than an on-site play space: sex and nudity are not permitted in the ballroom or any public area of the hotel, with couples expected to take things back to a private hotel room instead. Membership is open to couples and singles of any age, race, size or orientation, though single men are capped in number at each event. The typical two-night format pairs a Friday-night Meet and Greet karaoke party (around 8:30pm-1:30am) -- open to non-members on a BYOB basis with no cover charge -- with a members-only Saturday main event (from about 8pm) that includes a complimentary open bar (cut off around 11:45pm) plus the option to BYOB. Attending the main event requires a one-time lifetime membership purchased at the door; the club accepts cash only, with no credit cards, debit cards or checks. New members must be 21 or older, show a valid photo ID matching their registration form, and complete a short information sheet. Registration typically closes around 9:30pm. There is no strict dress code, though attendees are encouraged to dress to each month's theme.

Xtasia

West Bromwich, West Midlands

mixed

Established in the 1980s, Xtasia describes itself as the UK's longest-running swingers club, sitting behind an ironwork fence on High Street in West Bromwich. The complex has grown into a dual-venue operation: the main Xtasia Nightclub on one side and the adjacent Flirts Bar, Hotel and Cinema on the other, sharing the same gated grounds. A staff member walks first-timers around the entire site on arrival, and on a busy night the club draws well over 100 couples, with major events topping 300 guests. The Xtasia side centres on a large ground-floor dance arena with a fully licensed bar and themed playrooms and a dungeon spread across multiple levels. Flirts adds a cinema, bar, further playrooms, a boutique, a naturist sun deck, and hotel accommodation in double, dormitory, and quadruple rooms. The Flirts Spa is the newest addition — a swim spa with current-resistance jets, an eight-seat infrared sauna, an eight-seat steam room, a small gym, and communal locker facilities. In 2014 the club was voted the number-one swingers venue in the UK by the authors of Sex in the Cities. The main nightclub runs Friday and Saturday from 8pm to 3am (last entry 1am); the Flirts bar is open Monday to Thursday noon to midnight and noon to 8pm on Fridays and Saturdays. Membership is required for all events and must be arranged in advance online: couples pay a one-off lifetime fee of £20, single females £10 lifetime, and single males £40 per year. Single males must receive a written acceptance email before attending. Entry prices vary by event and are published in the online diary.

The Vanilla Alternative

Tempsford, Bedfordshire

On-Premise Club

The Vanilla Alternative is a private members' lifestyle venue set within The Anchor Lodge Hotel on the A1 Great North Road in Tempsford, Bedfordshire, roughly midway between Bedford and St Neots. Operated by The Anchor Inn Tempsford Limited, the club draws members from across England, with free on-site parking for up to 200 vehicles and on-site hotel accommodation available for event attendees. Membership is required before attending; applications are reviewed within 72 hours and carry an annual fee of £25. All guests must be aged 21 or over. The venue features a fully licensed bar and dance floor, multiple playrooms, a dungeon with a swing, and a large hot tub that member reviews consistently describe as the social centrepiece of each evening. More than 150 lockers and showers are available on-site, and condoms are provided throughout. The on-site hotel at The Anchor Lodge is bookable through the club's website, with check-in from 5pm and check-out by 11:30am; a shuttle bus service runs to and from nearby Premier Inn locations for those staying off-site. Staff offer welcome tours for first-timers and a consent culture is maintained throughout. The weekly programme runs on Fridays (Freedom Friday, 20:00–02:30) and Saturdays (Saturday Seduction, 20:00–03:00). Freedom Friday admits couples, single females, and — in a capped allocation to preserve gender ratios — single males who must pre-book; advance tickets are £35 per couple, £10 per single female, and £40 for single males. Saturday Seduction is couples and ladies only, with advance tickets at £45 per couple and £15 per single female; single males are not admitted on Saturdays. The calendar also includes a monthly Bi Night, Milf Club sessions, the Onyx interracial night, and an annual Festival of Fun weekender. The venue is fully licensed — no outside alcohol is permitted — and mobile phones and recording devices are not allowed inside. A smart-dress code applies on arrival; guests entering any play space must dress down to lingerie, underwear, robes, or less.

The Attic Experience

Derby, Derbyshire

On-Premise Club

The Attic Experience is a lifestyle and swingers club occupying Carrington House on Ascot Drive in the Allenton district of Derby, owned and operated by Ron Rothwell through Attic Media (Midlands) Limited. Built from the ground up by swingers, for swingers — in the club’s own words — it describes itself explicitly as a social and play space, not a nightclub, strip club, or brothel. No membership is required, the venue welcomes all orientations and experience levels, and newcomers are offered a guided tour of the premises by a staff member on arrival. Entry is cash only throughout, and guests must be 21 or over. The venue is notably large, encompassing a cinema lounge, a fully equipped dungeon with an enforced safe-word system (red/amber/green), a hot tub available on Friday and Saturday evenings, showers, separate locker rooms for single males and for couples and TV guests, a tea bar, a jail cell room, a turret, dark rooms, a glory-hole area, and a range of lockable private rooms. The club operates a BYOB policy throughout — no alcohol is sold on the premises. Mobile phones are banned in all public areas without exception, cameras are prohibited site-wide, and CCTV covers communal areas only, with toilets, showers, changing rooms, and private rooms explicitly excluded. The club runs daytime sessions Monday through Saturday (10am–5pm) alongside evening sessions on Wednesdays through Saturdays. Monday is reserved for TV and Admirers events. Evening sessions run Wednesday and Thursday until midnight, Friday until 1am, and Saturday until 2am, with smart casual dress required at all times and formal footwear for men on Friday and Saturday evenings. Daytime entry is free for couples and single ladies; single males pay £15. Evening entry is £20 for couples and TVs, £15 for single females, and £35 for single males. On Fridays and Saturdays, single males are admitted from 8pm only, last entry 11pm, and entry is not guaranteed. Themed party nights are held on the mid and late Saturdays of each month.

One of Salt Lake City's longest-running lifestyle venues, established in 1995. Welcomes couples, females, and select single males.

A Knoxville-based lifestyle group hosting hotel events, typically at the Clarion Inn. Offers food, dancing, and play areas. The club has no fixed venue — parties rotate among hotel locations, historically centered on the Clarion Inn & Suites near downtown Knoxville, though that hotel has since rebranded. Current operating status is unconfirmed: the club's own website has been offline and parked since mid-2024, with content frozen since 2017, so verify activity before visiting.

HU9 Swingers Club

Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire

On-Premise Club

HU9 Swingers Club sits on Witham, a road on the eastern edge of Hull city centre, taking its name from the HU9 postcode of its address at number 142. The venue operates as a private members-only club with a licensed capacity of around 600, and carries a 4.9-out-of-5 Google rating across 65 reviews — consistent with accounts of a regional following that extends beyond Hull to surrounding Yorkshire towns. The club has attracted local press coverage since at least 2020, including a YorkshireLive photo gallery inside the space. The building houses a licensed bar, multiple playrooms, a dungeon, a hot tub, and a sauna as its core amenities. Visitors consistently describe the atmosphere as welcoming and safe, with staff noted for attending to guests throughout sessions; the premises are wheelchair-accessible throughout, including parking, entrance, and restrooms. Once a year, on the August Bank Holiday Sunday, the venue hosts Swingfest — a 13-hour ticketed adult festival featuring a main stage with live tribute acts and DJ sets, inflatables, stilt walkers, fire breathers, food vendors, and a 360-photo booth alongside the indoor club facilities. Regular club nights run Thursday through Saturday — Thursday 20:00 to 01:00, Friday and Saturday 21:00 to 03:00. Admission on regular nights is restricted to members, with phones and cameras to be stored in lockers on entry; the annual Swingfest explicitly drops the membership requirement and is open to all adults. Entry pricing is not publicly listed; advance tickets for Swingfest 2026 were sold through Skiddle at £30–60 per person.

Nightshade Halifax

Halifax, Nova Scotia

Event Organizer

Nightshade is a series of kinky themed costume parties held periodically in Halifax, Nova Scotia, drawing on more than a decade of history since its launch in February 2013. Run by organiser Chris Awesome, the events sit deliberately at the threshold between mainstream nightlife and the alternative lifestyle scene — approachable enough for curious first-timers, while incorporating genuine BDSM and fetish elements. Thousands of attendees spanning newcomers, lifestyle veterans, and the simply curious have passed through its doors, and the series has become a fixture of Halifax's alternative community calendar. Nightshade is not a fixed-venue club but a roving event series that takes over the 3rd-floor ballroom of the Best Western Plus Chocolate Lake Hotel (250 St Margarets Bay Rd, Halifax NS) for the night. Each party carries a distinct theme — past and upcoming events include Wasteland, Kinky Colours, Dark Masquerade, and Kinky Halloween — with resident DJs Gyrrrl on Decks and DJ Mike G spinning pop, rock, and top-40 sets across the dance floor. A dungeon corner is a consistent feature: heavy-duty bondage furniture staffed by Dungeon Masters and Monitors who can instruct guests and maintain safety. Body painting stations appear at select events. The hotel bar is cash-only and hotel-operated, with domestic beer and well shots at $7 CAD, premium spirits and imported beers at $8, and soft drinks at $4. Events run roughly 9pm-1am on Saturday nights (approximately four to six times a year), and advance tickets are $25 plus tax — many events sell out weeks ahead. At-the-door tickets, when available, are $32 plus tax. Valid government-issued photo ID confirming age 19+ is required at the door. Personal cameras and recording devices are prohibited; credentialed event photographers may attend by prior arrangement. Coat check is $3. The Kinky Colours event is part of the Halifax Pride Festival calendar, and hotel room blocks at negotiated group rates are offered for each event. A volunteer program is available for those who want to attend but need help covering the cost.

The Naughty Pineapple

Leicester, Leicestershire

On-Premise Club

The Naughty Pineapple is a swingers club at 30 Bedford Street South, just outside Leicester city centre in Leicestershire. Run by an owner known to regulars as Vinny, the venue describes itself as one of the smaller clubs on the circuit — friendly, modern, and rigorously clean — with a consistent emphasis on welcoming first-timers and LGBTQ members. It sits a ten-minute walk from Leicester railway station, close to the Haymarket bus terminus, with taxi ranks around the corner on Belgrave Street and the NCP Lee Circle car park as the nearest off-street option. The club has recently undergone a full makeover and features a hot tub (water changed daily; no play permitted inside), a four-tier cinema room with a large-screen TV, changing rooms with free-to-use lockers, private playrooms, a sex swing, female glory holes, a grope box, a fetish dungeon, and a BDSM cross. A small cafe area serves cooked food and soft drinks. Condoms and lube are stocked in every playroom, and towels are available to borrow at £1 each. Photography equipment — including mobile phones — must be stored in a locker or kept to the cafe/social area; cameras and recording devices are strictly forbidden in play spaces. Dress ranges from smart-casual to nude (towels required when sitting nude for hygiene reasons). The club opens Thursday noon to midnight (last entry 22:30), Friday and Saturday 6pm to 2am (last entry midnight), and Sunday 3pm to 10pm. Membership is free on registration: guests supply a name and face photo and are immediately recognised as full members. Entry for couples or single men/TV/TS is £20 for members and £30 for non-members; single women pay £5 (members) or £10 (non-members). The venue operates a BYOB policy — no alcohol licence — with a £3 corkage charge if guests bring their own; soft drinks are sold on-site. Thursday is designated Newbie Day, tailored to first-timers and those with questions about the scene. Regular monthly themed events and periodic bi takeover nights run throughout the year. A strict no-drugs, no-violence rule carries a lifetime ban; guests showing signs of excessive intoxication may be asked to slow down or leave.

The Meeting Place

Decatur, MI

On-Premise Club

Just off the beaten path near Kalamazoo, The Meeting Place has quietly held the title of Michigan's oldest sex club for more than 37 years. The venue is a sprawling 6,000-square-foot space built for a full night out — a DJ-lit dance floor with a stripper pole, a large hot tub, an outdoor firepit ringed by a 12-foot privacy fence, and 12 separate play rooms with more than 35 beds between them. A complimentary buffet and soft drinks keep the energy up through the night, and the club is BYOB, cigarette-friendly, and 420-friendly throughout. Parties run every Saturday night plus a themed event on the third Friday of each month, generally 8pm to noon the next day, with extended hours during BASH weekends. Entry is address-on-request only: new members call ahead, get walked through the rules and fees by phone, and receive directions to the club — no address is posted publicly. Couples must call and attend together, and single men must call to reserve a spot before every visit, since space for single males is limited and interview-gated. House culture leans toward a relaxed, consent-first vibe: no cell phones anywhere on site, no BDSM play, and street clothes are barred from the play and bedroom areas once inside. A private room and a dedicated "orgy room" for content creation are both available to rent for the night. The club also promotes sexual-health resources and keeps an active FetLife presence for its community.

Swingers Club

CAPC — the Calgary Adult Playground Club — operates out of a discreet, unmarked building tucked into a secluded corner of northeast Calgary. The venue, known to members as The Studio, offers no outward hints of what lies inside: no music bleeds through the walls, no signage marks the entrance. Admission is by member invitation or an owner interview only — walk-ins aren't accepted, and valid ID is required at the door. Saturday events are restricted to couples and single females; single men must attend with a female companion. The exact address is disclosed only to confirmed members. First-visit entry runs $40 per person or $80 per couple; annual membership at the same rates is purchased on the second visit. The club is BYOB with no liquor licence, supplying non-alcoholic drinks, ice, glasses, and snacks, and enforces a dress code — no baseball caps, tracksuits, ripped jeans, or athletic shoes — along with a cleanliness requirement.

Illuminaughty LA

Los Angeles, CA

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty LA is the Los Angeles chapter of a national members-only lifestyle events brand rather than a single fixed clubhouse — it organizes private, invitation-only parties and cocktail mixers for non-monogamous couples and singles at rotating venues around the city. The Los Angeles chapter has been running since 2022, drawing couples and singles roughly 21 to 49 to private homes and rented estates in neighborhoods including Hollywood, Beverly Hills, and Bel Air. Membership is free but application-based: prospective members submit photos and a bio and are individually vetted before being approved to buy event tickets. Parties take place in privately owned or rented residences — anything from a cozy single-family house to a high-rise apartment or a sprawling estate — dressed with curated music, lighting, and decor, and staffed by private security who check IDs and tickets at the door. Multiple rooms are set up for different kinds of play, including massage tables and group-play spaces, and some venues include light bondage equipment, though kink is not the focus and advanced practices such as heavy impact, breath, fire, or blood play are not allowed. Most Los Angeles private parties host 40 to 80 members, with occasional larger mansion parties or destination retreats drawing 150 or more. Events split into Tease Cocktail Mixers, held in a reserved area of a bar or restaurant, and private play parties, which typically run 8pm to 2am (or 2pm to midnight for all-day soirees) behind a strict arrival window; doors close once it ends and late arrivals aren't admitted without prior arrangement. Parties are BYOB, with mixers, snacks, towels, condoms, and lube provided; dress code follows each event's theme, usually cocktail attire or suits, and repeated non-compliance can lead to membership cancellation. Photos and video are banned once the pre-party consent talk begins, the exact venue address is released only to ticket holders on the day of the event, and single men are capped and gender-balanced against single-women ticket sales.

Body Shop Pittsburgh

McKees Rocks, PA

Club

Tucked into an industrial pocket of McKees Rocks just minutes from downtown Pittsburgh, The Shop Social Lounge — better known in the lifestyle community as Body Shop Pittsburgh — occupies more than 15,000 square feet of reimagined space on McKee Street. The venue layers nightclub energy with a deliberate sense of community: a dance floor anchored by a vintage-car DJ booth and stripper pole, a heated outdoor patio, and a string of themed play rooms and dungeon spaces designed for guests at every comfort level. Friday and Saturday nights rotate through a calendar of themed events — Latin Heat, Lingerie Night, kink-focused Freaky Fridays with on-site STI testing, and BDSM education workshops. The club draws a notably younger and more LGBTQ+-forward crowd than most Pennsylvania lifestyle venues, and the inclusive ethos is structural: gender-neutral pricing, a vetted online membership process, and Safer Space Monitors present at every event keep the culture of enthusiastic consent woven into the room rather than posted on a wall. Membership begins with a free online application and photo verification; event tickets are purchased separately. The BYOB format — no liquor license, guests bring their own — keeps the atmosphere relaxed and the pricing accessible, with individual memberships starting at $29/month and couple tickets typically around $96 per event. Co-founded by Gelsomino Esplandiu and John Ross, the club holds a 4.8-star Google rating and a reputation for hands-on ownership and consistent cleanliness.

Chameleons

Darlaston, West Midlands

On-Premise Club

Chameleons bills itself as the UK No.1 swingers club

SNCTM

Beverly Hills, CA

On-Premise Club

SNCTM is a private, invitation-only society built around black-tie masquerades and immersive erotic theater, organized around a stated principle of affirmative consent ("consent is sacred"). The club was founded in Beverly Hills, California in 2013; its own site now states it is "based in New York," and its public 2026 events calendar lists exclusively NYC Masquerade dates, though the brand continues to reference its Beverly Hills origin and press accounts describe at least one recent private gathering back on the West Coast. Rather than operating from a single fixed clubhouse, SNCTM stages its masquerades at rotating, undisclosed private venues, with the location shared only with approved guests shortly before the event. A typical evening opens with a cocktail-hour atmosphere before moving into choreographed erotic theater and more participatory scenes across multiple rooms. Devices are checked at the door and photography or recording is banned throughout; events are cashless with an open bar included, and a private hostess ("Courtier") and VIP table service are available for an added fee. Entry requires a vetted application. Approved guests can buy individual event tickets (roughly $500-$9,000), while single men must additionally hold at least the entry-level Aurum membership ($15,000 per year); higher tiers include Dominus ($35,000 per year) and Deus ($125,000 per year). Single women may attend without charge via a curated guest list, and couples submit one joint application. Dress is black tie -- cocktail attire or fine fetishwear for women, cocktail attire for men -- with masquerade masks required, and all guests must be 21 or older. House rules center on the club's published Rules of Consent, which require explicit, informed, and ongoing affirmative consent for every interaction, with security empowered to remove anyone who violates the policy.

Club Red Door

Gastonia, NC

On-Premise Club

Club Red Door is a private, members-only lifestyle club for adults 21 and older, located at 2330 Aberdeen Boulevard in Gastonia, North Carolina, just off I-85 outside Charlotte. The club markets itself to the swinger community through listings on SwingLifeStyle and Swingers Date Club (SDC), and it hosts weekend parties for couples, single women, and single men who have been pre-approved for entry. The building totals roughly 4,000 square feet across two levels: an upstairs area with a large dance floor and shadow box, and a downstairs level containing five themed rooms, including a theater and a dungeon space. Free lockers and locks are available for guests' belongings. The venue is smoke-free indoors, with a designated outdoor smoking area, and it is BYOB — light snacks, bottled water, and ice for drinks (though not for coolers) are provided, and hard liquor is not permitted. Parking is available on-site along with two overflow lots within walking distance, both served by a parking attendant. Club Red Door is open Friday from 9pm to 2am and Saturday from 8pm to 2am, with entry cut off at 11pm each night and a shift to a more revealing dress code after that point. The event calendar alternates weekly Friday meet-and-greet nights with themed Saturday parties. Admission requires a $10 annual membership donation plus a per-visit fee — $60 for couples, $20 for single women, and $80 for single men — along with a valid photo ID, a valid email address, and a signed liability waiver. Single men must request approval before every visit by messaging the club with a photo and details of their lifestyle experience, and first-time single male guests must attend a Friday party before they can attend on a Saturday; couples and single women may attend without prior approval.

Chameleons Newport

Newport, Wales

On-Premise Club

Chameleons Newport sits on Church Street in the centre of Newport, South Wales. Operating on Fridays only, the club draws couples and singles from across South Wales and into the West of England, and staff personally greet first-time visitors at the door. The house philosophy is explicit: members will never be pushed into anything they do not want to be involved in, and the space runs on a no-means-no culture enforced by management. The building spreads across three floors. Ground level holds the reception, a bar and main seating area, a dance floor, a singles changing room, showers, and two large Jacuzzis. The first floor adds a TV lounge, a couples changing room, a steam room, shower and powder room facilities, private and communal playrooms, a couples-only section, and a heated outdoor terrace for smokers. A sauna, additional showers, and further playrooms occupy the top floor. Membership is a one-time 25 GBP lifetime fee for couples; single ladies pay 10 GBP annually and single men 80 GBP annually. The minimum age is 21. Valid photo ID plus a recent utility bill is required from Newport applicants. Phones must stay in lockers throughout the venue and cameras anywhere inside lead to immediate membership revocation.

Club Privata

Portland, OR

On-Premise Club

Club Privata occupies a discreet, unmarked storefront at 824 SW 1st Ave in downtown Portland, Oregon — easy to walk past without noticing. Billing itself as an upscale "lifestyle club" rather than a sex club, it emphasizes community alongside play, and draws a crowd that skews toward an older demographic, roughly mid-30s to 40s, with plenty of members who come just to dance. The club is run by owners Holly R. and her husband Charles. The venue spans three floors and roughly 8,000 square feet, anchored by a hardwood dance floor lit in blues and magentas with a central go-go cage on a raised platform. The first floor holds the main bar, a locker area, and a room dedicated to flogging and impact play. The second floor adds another bar, a VIP room, private bedrooms, and a balcony overlooking the dance floor. The third floor houses a further bar and a spread of beds framed by drapes and antique mirrors. A late-night buffet is set up near the lockers and coat check, and the club runs two full-service bars rather than allowing outside alcohol. Club Privata is a members-only, 21-and-over venue open Thursday through Saturday nights (Thursday 8pm–2am with the third floor closed; Friday and Saturday 8pm–3am), with last entry roughly 90 minutes before close. Entry requires valid photo ID, a signed waiver, an active membership, and payment of a nightly door fee that varies by event and guest category; a strictly enforced upscale dress code applies club-wide. Single men are welcome but pay noticeably higher membership and door fees than couples or single women, and some theme nights offer discounted or free entry for single women. VIP bottle service areas and a private penthouse suite can be reserved separately.

FuseX Social Club - North Dakota Chapter

Fargo, ND

Social Club

FuseX Social Club's North Dakota Chapter serves the Fargo and Bismarck markets as part of a national private members' organization founded in Beverly Hills in 2016 and now operating across 23 states. The chapter has no permanent brick-and-mortar venue — consistent with FuseX's model nationwide — instead hosting events at rotating private locations including hotel takeovers, luxury house parties, and Level 1 and Level 2 mansion parties in the Fargo area and, for larger gatherings, in nearby Minneapolis. Larger signature events lean toward themed masquerade parties and curated cocktail dinners with choreographed erotic theatre performed by professional hosts who mingle with members during the evening. The club positions itself as an upscale, approval-only alternative to public lifestyle apps and open swingers venues. Membership is selective — only 1 in 4 applications is accepted — and every prospective member passes a criminal background check, a personal interview, and signs a lifetime confidentiality agreement. Events are BYOB, and event locations are disclosed to confirmed members roughly 30 days in advance via private inbox and phone. Fargo is explicitly listed as a host city on the application event-locations roster alongside Minneapolis. The lifestyle interests catered to span swinging, BDSM and kink, cuckolding, hotwifing, voyeurism and exhibitionism, polyamory, and interracial play. Membership tiers range from a Platinum tier ($3,500/year, couples and single men) through a Circle tier ($18,000/year) and an All Access Elite tier ($25,000/year); single women receive complimentary Platinum membership. Per-event costs are separately priced. Consent is strictly enforced: no means no, always ask before touching, only yes means yes.

Black Diamonds Swinger Club

Unverified

Alexandria, VA

Event Organizer

Black Diamonds Swinger Club is a sex-positive lifestyle community rooted in Alexandria, Virginia, and operating across the broader DMV region — Washington DC, Maryland, and Northern Virginia. Founded as a space primarily targeted towards those of African American descent and other people of color, it occupies a rare and intentional niche in the DMV lifestyle scene, centering Black and POC attendees within a safe, consensual, and sane environment. The club's promotional partner is DNAKinks LLC, and its events are coordinated via a centralized Linktree that links out to ticketing, social media, and booking channels. Unlike a fixed brick-and-mortar venue, Black Diamonds operates as an event-based club, hosting parties at rotating or private locations across the DMV rather than from a single permanent address. This pop-up model keeps the community tight-knit and screened. The Instagram account (@blackdiamonds6219) maintains over 24,000 followers, while the Facebook page has accumulated more than 4,100 likes from the Alexandria and wider DC metro community. All booking and event discovery is handled through the Linktree hub (linktr.ee/BlackDiamondsSwingerClub) and associated social channels, with no walk-in or permanent physical storefront publicly listed.

on-site club, private venue

Incognito sits in Catoosa, Oklahoma — just east of Tulsa along the I-44 corridor — operating as a fully on-site lifestyle club in a privately owned venue. The club is the Oklahoma arm of LS-Adventures, the operator behind Arkansas River Valley Couples (ARVC) in Fort Smith, Arkansas, giving it roots in an established multi-venue lifestyle network that spans the state line. Access is by prior arrangement only — no walk-ins. Prospective attendees connect via lifestyle platforms like SwingTowns before arriving. The private-venue format and lack of a public website underscore a deliberate emphasis on discretion that is characteristic of the LS-Adventures brand. The club welcomes swingers, fetish enthusiasts, and LGBTQ guests alike, positioning itself as inclusive across the full spectrum of the lifestyle community. Its on-site status means play happens within the venue itself, distinguishing it from ARVC's off-premise model across the border in Arkansas.

Chateau Royal

Bad Honnef, North Rhine-Westphalia

On-Premise Club

Chateau Royal sits in the forested Siebengebirge hills above the Rhine, tucked into the edge of Bad Honnef roughly halfway between Bonn and Cologne. The club presents itself as the largest and most popular pure couples club in North Rhine-Westphalia — a claim supported by the numbers: 870 square metres spread across three levels, capacity for 120 couples, and a packed calendar of themed nights running back-to-back year-round. The club admits couples and single women only — single men are welcome exclusively on specifically promoted trio evenings — with cash-only admission and a refundable €10 key deposit for locker access; phones, cameras and other recording devices are barred throughout. Around 100 free parking spaces are available, split between an on-site lot and a nearby forest overflow lot served by a shuttle.

The Green Door

Las Vegas, NV

On-Premise Club

Occupying 18,000 square feet inside the Commercial Center strip mall on East Sahara Avenue, The Green Door has been a Las Vegas fixture since owner Joey Cavaretta opened the doors in 1998. The two-storey venue sits beneath an emerald-green sign about ten minutes from the Strip and operates as an adults-only sex club rather than a traditional swingers club, drawing a broad, international mix of couples and singles from all walks of life. The ground floor and upper level hold a maze of open play areas and themed rooms -- a dungeon, a doctors office, a jacuzzi room, a shadow-box room, a blue room and a voyeur room among them -- many fitted with glass walls or chain-link doors that invite watching but limit access. A couples-only section upstairs contains five small doorless rooms bounded by roughly six-foot walls, plus a two-way mirror viewing area; a separate couples-plus-one zone requires an escort invitation from the hosting couple. Multiple non-alcoholic bars are scattered across both floors, a game room and a chill lounge offer decompression space, and the dimly black-lit interior keeps the atmosphere more anonymous than performative. No cameras or recording devices are permitted inside, towels are freely available, and an all-male staff patrols the premises to enforce consent and house rules.

PolyUrban Studios

Carmichael, CA

PolyUrban Studios is a home-based adult lifestyle space on North Avenue in Carmichael, California, run by owner Rey Bonilla and open to singles, couples, and polycules of all orientations. The venue operates as a donation-funded club with lockers, showers, a hot tub, beds, a sling, play benches, a massage table, a rimming chair, gloryholes, and an outdoor play area with a separate shower. Towels, condoms, and lube are provided, and fetish wear is welcomed. The weekly calendar runs seven days: Sunday through Thursday the doors open at 11:30 a.m. and close at 10 p.m., while Friday and Saturday sessions run from 2 p.m. to 2 a.m. Themed parties rotate through the week — Sunday gloryhole and gangbang sessions, Monday-through-Thursday afternoon playdates, a Wednesday evening afterparty, a Thursday couples night, Freaky Friday parties, and Saturday dance nights with a DJ and a full bar on select evenings. Membership contributions start at $25 per person, $40 for couples, and $60 for triads, with a $10 happy-hour rate between noon and 1 p.m. The atmosphere is explicitly pressure-free: no participation is required, and the posted house rules lead with No means no — ask for consent. Cameras and recording devices are banned, smoking is permitted outside only, and the doorman reserves the right to refuse entry. Guests must be 18 or older, and drugs and prostitution are strictly prohibited. Contact is by text or voicemail at (916) 410-6550.

Alaska Club Kink (ACK)

Anchorage, AK

BDSM/Kink Community Club

Alaska Club Kink (ACK) is Anchorage's one-of-a-kind kink and comedy community club — the rare venue that pairs BDSM education with open-mic nights, karaoke, and stand-up comedy under one roof. Founded by Surge Kulikov after the closure of ACAL in 2019, ACK operates out of subSpace, a 2,000+ sq ft LGBTQIA2S+-friendly, veteran-owned event space at 2217 E. Tudor Road, Suite 3. The club is built around an education-first philosophy. Monthly Kink 101 classes welcome complete beginners, a companion educational website (alaskakinkeducation.com) provides a public library of kink resources, and Dungeon Monitors are present at all events to ensure safe, consensual play. The weekly schedule is packed: Mystery Munches every Thursday (7:30–9:30 PM at The Raven Bar, open to the public), Tuesday Rope Jams and board game nights at subSpace, Friday Open Dungeon (7–10 PM, $20 drop-in), and monthly themed play parties on Saturdays (7 PM–1 AM, $40 general / free for All Access members). Play parties are potluck-style — the club provides finger foods, desserts, and non-alcoholic drinks, and attendees can bring dishes to share. The venue is fully dry: no alcohol is served or permitted, which removes consent complications and makes the space accessible to those in recovery. The 1,000 sq ft open dungeon floor is equipped with a large suspension frame, St. Andrew's crosses, bondage horse, massage tables, and more — all available for member use. Membership is free to join online (processed within a few days), with a paid "All Access Pass" tier that waives event fees, eliminates equipment rental deposits, and grants 50% off play parties. Comedy, theater, and public events are also hosted at subSpace separately from the kink programming, normalizing the space within the broader Anchorage community. In a state where alternative lifestyle spaces are rare, ACK is the community hub.

Syn in Tulsa

Unverified

Tulsa, OK

Syn in Tulsa is a female-focused lifestyle club founded in 2014 by Troy and Christy Hamilton and operates from a discreet suite at 5553 S Peoria Ave with the deliberate look of a regular office building. The entrance opens into a social area with bar-style seating, couches, a dance floor, a kitchen stocked with complimentary soda and water, unisex bathrooms, a selfie wall, cubby storage, and an outdoor smoking area. Behind that sits the main playroom with four beds, several couches, and a St Andrews cross, plus the Brat Realignment Center equipped with an obedience chair and spanking bench. Parties run Saturday nights only, doors at 8 pm and the party in full swing by 9 pm until 2 am. The venue operates a full-service bar and is not BYOL. Cover is $20 per couple, $40 for single males, and free for single women. All attendees must be 21+ and receive a bracelet at check-in. The club averages 100-200 guests per party with a wide range of ages, body types, and orientations. Owner Troy Hamilton built Syn around a safe place for women to fulfil their fantasies philosophy. Single males cannot enter the playrooms unless escorted by a couple or solo woman. A dedicated floor manager circulates the play areas. Solo women can arrange a staff escort from the parking lot. The club encourages regular STD testing and offers a $20 cover discount on presentation of a recent test receipt.

The Swirl Events

Seattle, WA

Event Organizer

The Swirl Events is a lifestyle and swingers events group serving the greater Seattle, Washington area, founded in 2021. A 2022 community profile described it as one of the Seattle area's first lifestyle groups owned and operated by people of color and allies, positioning itself as a culturally diverse, inclusive space within the regional non-monogamy and swinger scene. That same account placed the group's members-only venue in Kent, WA, describing a compact space with nine designated play spaces and a sex swing, alongside in-house programming such as karaoke nights, an erotic poetry open-mic, and kink-themed nights. Guests were encouraged to dress to impress rather than dress down, giving the space a glammed-up, party-first atmosphere alongside its play areas. Historically, parties ran on a biweekly Friday/Saturday schedule: Friday nights mixed members and non-members at a themed social before shifting to a members-only afterparty after midnight, while Saturdays ran as a members-only dance-and-play night. Membership was listed at $10 per month or $90 per year in a December 2025 snapshot of the group's own site. As of mid-2026 that site is no longer serving its normal content, so current hours, address, and pricing should be treated as historical until independently re-verified.

Mile High Club Chalet (MHCC)

Denver, CO

Social Club

Mile High Club Chalet is not a swingers club in the traditional sense — it is a network of private, kink-friendly rental suites scattered across Denver, Glendale and Centennial, available by the time slot for couples or small groups who bring their own company. Founded in 2019 by Denver-area realtor Teresa Grasmick, MHCC grew out of a single Airbnb repurposed for daytime trysts and now spans four properties in quiet residential neighbourhoods, each tastefully furnished and stocked with condoms, towels, mouthwash and a riding crop, with a sex sling and dishwasher-safe toys available on request. Booking runs through the website or by phone (720-799-6654), with three daytime slots available Sunday through Saturday from 9 am to 10 pm, plus overnight "moonlight" sessions. Same-day reservations are accepted by phone. Access is keyless: guests text on the day of their appointment for a one-time door code, and a cleaning crew turns each unit over in roughly fifteen minutes between visits. Packages range from a single visit at $120 to a five-visit bundle at $400. The model is strictly BYOP — bring your own partner. MHCC does not facilitate introductions, provide companionship or operate communal play areas; it simply offers a discreet, well-equipped space and gets out of the way.

PLUR Productions / Studio PLUR

Vancouver, British Columbia

Event Organizer

PLUR Productions is Vancouver's longest-running sex-positive and alternative-fetish event production company, operating under the guiding philosophy of Peace, Love, Unity, and Respect. Founded by ScottyHotty (Scott BreitKreuz) and tracing its roots to Club8X6 — formerly Vancouver's only privately licensed members-only sex venue — PLUR has grown into an independent producer serving the city's fetish, kink, BDSM, swinger, burner, rave, and LGBTQ+ communities. The company celebrated its 12th annual Mad Hatter's Player Ball in May 2026 and operates as a private membership club in which the door fee for any event constitutes a day membership, consistent with the Supreme Court of Canada's recognition of consensual adult activity in private clubs. Events take place across rotating venues: large-format ticketed parties at licensed nightclubs including The Penthouse, warehouse-style PLURHAUS nights at private locations, the VANTANIOR techno series at a Railtown venue equipped with a Funktion-One sound system, and seasonal PLUR Mansion house parties. All events feature clearly marked sex-on-premise (SOP) play areas alongside social lounge zones, DJ music, stage performances, and a licensed full bar at ticketed venues. Complimentary towels, condoms, lubricants, and lockers are provided with entry. Running parallel to these events is Studio PLUR, a privately bookable dungeon and social space with a 40-guest maximum — outfitted with a St. Andrew's cross, three styled benches, a rope-suspension rig, a floor cage, a corner bar with fridge, pro-audio sound, and a walk-in rainfall shower. Tickets for public events are sold in advance via Eventbrite; per-person pricing ranges from $35 to $40 CAD with no differential between genders or attendance types. Site memberships are available at $30 CAD for six months or $40 CAD for one year, though the door fee alone grants day membership. All guests must be 19 or older. Before entry, PLUR's Cupid consent hosts walk each guest through the club's Top Ten Rules of Consent and issue a consent stamp. Open photography and video recording — including mobile phone use — are prohibited throughout all venues. The recurring iCandy Meet and Mingle, held every second Friday, provides first-timers with a venue tour, a lifestyle presentation, and conversation with experienced PLUR attendees.

YKW (You Know Where)

Unverified

Fayetteville, NC

Swingers Club

YKW (You Know Where) is a long-running lifestyle/swingers club brand based in Fayetteville, North Carolina, that has had no operating venue since 2022. The address on file for its former club, 815 Shannon Dr, was vacated after the club lost its lease; as of mid-2026 the operators have not opened a replacement location, and the brand's public presence consists mainly of social-media updates rather than a functioning venue. Founded in 2005, YKW spent roughly its final decade at the Shannon Drive building, billing itself as North Carolina's first fully licensed, permitted and insured on-premise swingers club and citing more than 40,000 accumulated member sign-ups over its run. Per the club's own website, the closure was not a legal or licensing issue: the property's new landlord declined to renew YKW's lease past June 1, 2022, stating he did not want to be associated with "our type of business" after more than ten years as a tenant. YKW held a farewell party on May 21, 2022, and has been searching for a new home since. The operators say they dropped an earlier ground-up rebuild plan in favor of remodeling an existing, roughly 27,000-square-foot building, with permitting and buildout reportedly in progress. That shift moved the target reopening to "Summer 2026," but as of this writing the new address has not been made public, no reopening has been independently confirmed, and no source verifies any "hotel takeover" interim events — treat all of this as the operator's stated plan, not a confirmed current offering.

Club Ambassador

Eisenberg, Thuringia

On-Premise Club

Club Ambassador sits just off the A9 autobahn near the Hermsdorfer Kreuz interchange, where Thuringia, Saxony, and Saxony-Anhalt converge. Owned by Marcus Schuetze, the club occupies a three-storey property spanning roughly 600 square metres with six themed rooms. The house motto: everything is possible, nothing is mandatory. The club holds a 4.9 out of 5 rating on JoyClub. Five distinct event formats cycle across the week. Wednesday Breakfast Party (10:00-18:00) and Sunday Brunch (13:00-18:00) offer relaxed daytime entry. Thursday Come in and Find Out evening (17:00-22:00) charges just 10 EUR across all guest categories. Friday Hot Friday (19:00-03:00) and Saturday Swinger Evening (19:00-03:00); Saturday all-inclusive packages at 99 EUR for couples, 33 EUR for women, and 119 EUR for single men, with JoyClub-member discounts. The three floors house six themed rooms including a Thai room, an atelier, and a fully equipped SM area, alongside a lounge with bar and dance floor, a separate smoking room, a sauna, and an outdoor pool and whirlpool. A buffet provides in-house dining, and overnight accommodation with breakfast is available.

colette New Orleans

New Orleans, LA

On-Premise Club

colette New Orleans is a private, membership-only, on-premise social club at 822 Gravier St in downtown New Orleans, for couples, single men, and single women who are active in or curious about the swinging, polyamorous, or open-relationship lifestyle. It operates under the wider colette clubs brand, which also runs locations in Dallas, Houston, and Austin, and describes itself as an upscale, European-style swingers venue. The venue spans more than 6,000 square feet across two floors: a main level with a dance floor, DJ, and lounge seating, and a second-floor lounge. The space includes lockers, a beverage cooler, and a non-smoking policy throughout. Alcohol is not sold on-site — the club is BYOB, with free mixers, ice, and setups provided (plastic and styrofoam coolers are not permitted at the door). Members range roughly from their twenties to sixties and skew professional, with staff and security on hand. colette is open Wednesday and Thursday from 9pm to 2am and Friday and Saturday from 9pm to 4am, closed Sunday through Tuesday. Membership is required for entry in addition to nightly door fees, with a one-night trial ($30), 3-month ($100), and annual ($200) plan available. Door pricing runs roughly $30–70 for couples, $10–20 for single women, and $100–120 for single men; single men are not admitted on Saturdays, which are reserved for couples and single women. Dress code calls for upscale, dress-to-impress attire (fetish, leather, and gothic wear welcome), photos are limited to designated photo-op areas, and entry is restricted to guests 21 and older.

Club Saphir

Schkeuditz, Saxony

On-Premise Club

Club Saphir has held its place as the longest-running swinger and couples club across Saxony, Saxony-Anhalt and Thuringia since it opened in 2002. The venue sits in Dolzig, a quiet village in the Schkeuditz municipality just west of Leipzig, at Westringstrasse 200. Inside, more than 900 square metres spread across two floors, with three bars and 15 individually designed rooms. The room list covers Raum Amor for couples wanting a lockable retreat, the Ampelzimmer where a traffic-light system signals openness, a dedicated SM space, and the Lustoase — an 80-square-metre open play area. Communal infrastructure includes a sauna with whirlpool, a Wellness 4 Two zone, and indoor smoking lounges. Entry is fully all-inclusive, covering a hot-and-cold buffet and the complete drinks menu. Three nights anchor the calendar: an Afterwork 2.0 session on the first Wednesday of the month (17:00–00:00), Fridays (20:00–03:00), and Saturdays (20:00–04:00). Solo men must register in advance to maintain gender balance, and the house motto alles kann, nichts muss sets the tone — participation is never assumed.

colette Dallas

Dallas, TX

On-Premise Club

colette Dallas is the chain's high-energy Texas flagship — a private, members-only on-premise lifestyle club spanning 8,000+ square feet across two floors in northwest Dallas, near Love Field. The aesthetic is modern warehouse meets nightclub: a dance floor anchored by stripper poles and a stage, high-tech lighting and sound, and a curated upscale crowd that takes the dress code seriously. The Dallas Observer ranked colette first in its "Best Swingers Clubs Dallas" feature, and SwingerLifestyle.com puts it at #2 across all of Texas — the most prominent on-premise lifestyle venue in Dallas–Fort Worth. Play spaces are tiered three ways: semi-private rooms with sheer curtains, fully private rooms with blackout curtains, and a centerpiece group play room with a round bed and spectator seating. There's also an in-club movie theater showing adult films, a quieter second-floor lounge, and a VIP room rentable for private parties of up to 30 ($500–$1,000) — a perk Texas reviewers consistently call best in the state. The bar is BYOB — no liquor license, but free mixers, ice, and setups are provided, plus a beverage cooler for member use. Newbie Night runs every Wednesday with the membership fee waived for first-timers; staff give every newcomer a guided tour on arrival. colette is a national chain founded by John and Jackie Melfi (who also run the OpenLove101 lifestyle blog and podcast). The Dallas location opened in 2012 and connects into a 250,000+ member network across five cities — Dallas, Austin, Houston, New Orleans, and San Antonio. One membership works at all of them. Single men are welcome Wednesday through Friday; Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only. Recurring themed nights include Pantiless Fridays, Thirty Dollar Thursday, and rotating fetish, lingerie, and costume parties — and i.Candy Parties hosts large monthly events at the venue throughout the year.

EyS Nightclub

Unverified

Hamburg, Hamburg

On-Premise Club

EyS occupies the first floor of an unremarkable building on Bramfelder Strasse in Hamburg Barmbek-Nord. Owners Caiti and Chris have leaned hard into 1990s nightclub aesthetics: a non-smoking main bar room of around 60 square metres packed with sofas, seating nooks, and a bar, plus a larger smoking lounge of approximately 80 square metres. A mini-boutique near the entrance sells frivolous clothing, jewellery, and adult toys. The overall feel is of a neighbourhood bar that happens to have playrooms tucked behind it, rather than a sex venue that happens to have a bar. There is no formal entry fee — just a drink minimum (first drink €10–15, gender-priced) — and single men are admitted subject to gender balance on the night, with groups of more than two men not admitted.

Orlando Swingers Club

Orlando, FL

Event Organizer

Orlando Swingers Club has been running lifestyle parties since April 20, 2000, and now operates as a mobile event host rather than a single fixed venue, staging its gatherings at rented clubs, resorts, and hotels around the Orlando area — most recently based out of 727 Conley St, with a move to the 32801 zip underway (unconfirmed). Party themes rotate through swingers nights, gang bangs, meet-and-greets, orgy and group-sex events, and BDSM sessions, alongside recurring BBC/BWC/BCC theme parties, giving the calendar a broader spread than a typical single-room club. The operation doubles as a lifestyle travel agency and promoter, cross-promoting other hosts' parties for free in exchange for an invite, and runs an affiliated adult store alongside the event side of the business.

Minglers Social Club

Daytona Beach, FL

Social Club

Set inside 8,500 square feet on South Ridgewood Avenue, Minglers Social Club bills itself as Volusia County's largest private adult lifestyle club and Daytona's only members-only social club of its kind. The space is built to feel more upscale nightclub than back-room swap club: an exquisite dance floor with a state-of-the-art sound system and laser lighting, comfortable lounge seating and cosy couches, a pool table, and a magnificent juice bar for mixers since the club runs BYOB. Beyond the mingling floor sits a run of private and themed play-rooms with custom furniture, a dedicated fetish room stocked with amenities, public and private play areas, lockers, an outside lounge, and a separate outdoor smoking area. Entry is members-only - there's no walking in off the street without registering, and every guest must show photo ID at the door regardless of membership status. Single men are capped in number and must generally be sponsored by a couple, while couples and single ladies make up the bulk of the crowd; the club describes itself as accommodating all experience levels in a non-pressure, safe and sane DRAMA FREE environment. The dress code is strict 'Dress to Impress' - business casual to sexy dresses for ladies, collared or tailored shirts and dress pants for gents - with athletic wear, ball caps, cargo pants and backpacks explicitly barred, though guests are welcome to change into club attire on-site. House rules lean heavily on discretion and consent: no cell phones, cameras or recording devices anywhere on the premises, no drugs, no prostitution, and a 'no means no' policy enforced at every stage of an encounter. Groups of 30+ couples can book the whole venue for a private Thursday-night party with custom menu, theme and music, and the club also runs milestone packages for birthdays and anniversaries, complete with decorations, a themed cake and reserved seating.

Monkey Business

Wickford, Essex

Members Club (Roaming Events)

Monkey Business is a private lifestyle members club based in Wickford, Essex, operating since 2019 under the pillars of luxury, discretion, and community. Founded and run as a curated invitation-only operation, it is open to those aged 25 and over. Its home venue is a private villa in Essex whose address is never publicly listed — ticketed members receive the location approximately two hours before each event begins. The villa is equipped with a heated swimming pool, hot tub, sun loungers, and a BBQ for outdoor socialising, alongside a cocktail lounge and multiple dedicated play spaces: a dungeon and red room, a dark room, a cinema room, a glory hole and dark orgy room, and a range of private and social areas. The event calendar carries a strong themed character — leather-and-lingerie nights, 80s neon socials, Tantric Dine evenings with a private chef and four-course meal, Hotwife parties, and Ladies Only Days sit alongside lunchtime afternoon sessions. The club periodically stages events at external venues in Essex and Kent in addition to its home villa. Events are ticketed individually with no fixed weekly timetable; evening parties typically run 20:30 to 02:00, while daytime sessions run from around midday. Annual membership costs £50, is restricted to those aged 25 and over, and entitles holders to reduced entry. A first visit is permitted without membership at selected newbie and daytime events. Single males must hold registered membership and pre-book directly with the organisers before each event — walk-ins are not accepted. Dress code is event-specific and published alongside each listing.

The Red Chair

Birmingham, AL

On-Premise Club

The Red Chair (TRC) is a BDSM and alternative-lifestyle education, social, and advocacy organization serving Central Alabama, based in Birmingham. Founded in November 1997, it describes itself as Alabama's oldest organization of its kind and operates as a 501(c) nonprofit and Coalition Partner of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF). TRC welcomes all sexual orientations and consensual relationship styles, with a mission centered on education, discussion groups, and social events for the BDSM and kink community rather than nightly on-premise play parties. The organization is run by an elected Board of Directors and maintains a dedicated Consent Team, established in 2019, to field concerns and recommend membership action when needed. TRC operated its own roughly 3,500-square-foot clubhouse and dungeon from 2001 to 2005, giving it up after the landlord raised the rent sharply; since then it has held gatherings at rented spaces and members homes rather than a fixed public address. Members in good standing can privately book TRC's current playspace for parties or play sessions, with a Manager on Duty required on-site to oversee any dungeon activity. A long-running subgroup, ALAFF, runs a low-key newcomer-friendly social a couple of times a month. Membership is by invitation: prospective members attend a public munch, open to anyone 19 or older, and complete an orientation before being invited to private, members-only events. Private space rentals cost $200 for a four-hour block, with a fifth hour split between setup and cleanup, and can be canceled up to 48 hours ahead for a full refund. A house safeword, Red, lets attendees end a scene at any time, with dungeon monitors and the Manager on Duty responsible for enforcing it.

The Cottage Social Club

Orrtanna, PA

Social Club

Tucked into the rural Adams County countryside near Orrtanna, Pennsylvania — just a short drive from Historic Gettysburg — The Cottage has been running as an on-premise lifestyle club since 1981, making it one of the longest-established members-only swinger venues in the mid-Atlantic. The property at 1534 Old Route 30 has grown into a sprawling multi-room complex with a live-DJ dance floor, mirrored stage with stripper pole, two pool tables, a full BYOB bar with mixers provided, and a large hot tub area with towels supplied. The club runs themed parties including Cottage Invasion and DIVA Rouge events, with finger foods and soups on Fridays and a full hot-food and salad bar on Saturdays. The playspace includes a large group room, observation room, six single-play rooms, a BDSM room, and twelve private party rooms. Overnight stays span multiple VIP room categories, from a VIP Suite with king bed, private bathroom, balcony, and kitchen access, down through standard Club Rooms assigned after the party ends. Showers are on site; checkout is 11 AM. Membership tiers run from a $10 one-night temporary pass through annual rates to Gold ($450 couples, $600 single men) and Platinum ($900/$1,200, two years). Friday door fees are $51 for couples; Saturdays $71. Single women pay $15 both nights. The average member age is 30-55.

Eros Events

Redmond, WA

Event Organizer

Eros Events is a private, members-only, on-premise lifestyle group based in Redmond, Washington, operating continuously since early 2003 under its original name, Redmond Ranch. The club describes itself as an inclusive community that welcomes members regardless of race, gender, gender identity, or sexuality, and builds its culture around explicit, enthusiastic consent. Parties are held at a home-like retreat center set on several acres, combining a heated indoor pool and hot tub (swimwear optional) with a DJ-driven dance floor and brass pole, a voyeur room, and semi-private and open group play areas. Two detached cabins supplement the main house — a cozy, semi-private cabin with a loft and king beds, and a larger cabin used for bigger groups and light BDSM play. The property has recently been refreshed with a new roof, paint, carpet, and a renovated pool and hot tub. Evening parties run on Saturday nights roughly once a month (with occasional Fridays), 8pm to midnight with newcomer orientation at 7pm, while swim parties happen on Sundays one to two times a month from 1 to 5pm with orientation at noon. Entry requires annual membership ($30 per person, or $10 for a single-party pass) plus a per-party charge of $70 per couple or $40 per person, with identical rates for all singles since 2023; cash only. First-timers must complete an orientation and show valid state ID, and alcohol, marijuana, phones, and cameras are all prohibited on the property.

Probe Ottawa

Ottawa, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Probe Ottawa is a queer-owned and operated private members club occupying the 3rd and 4th floors of 41 York St in Ottawa's Byward Market district. Founded through the vision of Miel Nannini, the club describes its core values as "exploration, community, inclusivity and accessibility," positioning itself as a multi-purpose community hub for consensual kink and adult connection rather than a conventional lifestyle venue. It operates as a private members-only space under Ontario law and maintains an active presence on Facebook, FetLife, and Instagram. The venue spans approximately 3,200 square feet across two floors with distinct characters. The 4th floor holds an open dungeon space with a custom suspension frame, a loft, and a kitchen, and serves as the main check-in point reached via an in-building elevator. The 3rd floor offers a series of more intimate rooms suited to smaller groups and private play. Showers, cleaning supplies, and fresh linens are provided throughout; members are responsible for changing sheets after each use. Probe works alongside an on-site accessibility coordinator and the entire venue is elevator-accessible and wheelchair accessible. The space is scent-free, and the programming reflects that commitment to access: a recurring "Soft and Low Play Party" format is designed specifically for attendees with sensory processing disorders or chemical sensitivities, featuring whisper-only guidelines, dim lighting, no music, and complimentary ear plugs. Probe operates only when events are scheduled — any day of the week between 8am and 2am — rather than on a fixed weekly calendar. Programming is broad: regular offerings include play parties, rope hangouts, impact labs, kink workshops, educational classes, community socials (including aromantic/asexual and queer-specific groups), trivia nights, and kinky life drawing. Most play parties require a current Probe membership; memberships run CAD $40 for three months or $120 for a year, with a $10 temporary 24-hour membership available at the door. Event tickets are typically offered on a sliding scale — Supported ($15), Sustain ($20), Standard ($25), Generous ($30), and Benevolent ($35) — so that pricing is not a barrier. The entry door locks by midnight at the latest, and new members attending their first play party must arrive within the first two hours of the event. No alcohol is sold on site and BYOB is not permitted; non-alcoholic drinks and snacks are provided at play parties.

Club 101

Dayton, OH

On-Premise Club

Club 101 has been Dayton's oldest on-premise members-only lifestyle club for roughly 25 years, anchored at 101 Avondale Drive in a discreet building with private parking. The layout centres on a large open main room with a dance floor, DJ booth, pool table, and adult movie lounge with couches — the club takes evident pride in its DJ show, billing it as the best of any area lifestyle venue. Off the social floor, the space branches into five private rooms sized for one or two couples, two semi-private rooms with windows designed for optional exhibitionism, one large open group room, a slightly smaller group room with a mirrored wall, and a massage table room with BDSM possibilities. Showers, lockers, and a cooler for BYOB drinks round out the practical amenities, with free snacks and soda on hand throughout the night. The crowd skews toward mature, consenting adults — beginners and veterans alike — and the no-pressure ethos is reinforced at every level, from signage to staff. The club is active on Swingtowns, SDC, SLS, SZC, and Fetlife, and maintains a lively theme-party calendar (past events include a Denim & Diamonds Glowy Party and Pasties & Panties nights). In a public-health gesture, management partners with Shameless Care to offer members a free STI education course and supplies.

Described as Denver's finest lifestyle club, Sugar Lounge is an open-minded venue hosting a wide range of events in a safe, clean, and friendly environment.

Mon Chalet

Aurora, CO

Lifestyle Resort

Sitting behind an iron gate on East Colfax Avenue in Aurora — fifteen minutes from Denver International Airport — Mon Chalet is a 22-room adults-only fantasy motel that has been catering to lifestyle couples since the 1960s. Every suite wraps a king-sized bed in floor-to-ceiling mirrors and pipes twelve exclusive adult channels through a 4K TV; tiers run from Basic rooms with fireplaces and bubble lights up to Deluxe suites outfitted with in-room whirlpools, steam showers, the ceiling-hung 'Swing,' and the resort's signature sculptured 'Love Machine.' The decor leans unabashedly retro — think mirrored canopies, holographic glass panels etched with nudes, and moody LED lighting — but the rooms are well-maintained and unapologetically over the top. The main social hub is a heated, fully enclosed clothing-optional pool area housing a medium-sized pool, two hot tubs, and poolside lounging. Guests who book a suite have all-hours access; couples and single women can also purchase a standalone pool pass (daytime 11 am-4 pm for all; evenings 5 pm-5 am for couples and single women only — single men need a room at night). A colour-coded wristband system signals each guest's interests at a glance, keeping approaches low-pressure and consent front and centre. Reservations are made by phone only — no online booking engine — and a valid photo ID (driver's licence, passport, or state-issued ID) is required at check-in. Matinee stays run noon to 4 pm; overnight check-in is 6 pm with an 11 am check-out. Alcohol is permitted in the pool area in cans or plastic only — no glass. Cameras and phones are banned from the pool, and the gated property keeps the vibe secure and discreet despite the gritty stretch of Colfax outside.

Night Pleasures is a Chicago-area lifestyle club run by hosts Lloyd and Sharon out of a Lombard, IL mailing address, though the parties themselves are held off-premise at rotating partner venues rather than a fixed clubhouse. According to the club's own listing, events have been hosted at two locations: Couples Choice in Chicago and Private Affairs in Dekalb, giving members access to established on-premise spaces -- Private Affairs alone offers roughly 5,000 square feet with a bar, DJ and dance floor, social area, shower rooms, themed back playrooms and a jacuzzi. Night Pleasures bills itself as a club "of true lifestylers" catering to couples who want to be at "the very pinnacle of this lifestyle," and it is strictly couples-only, with no single men or single women admitted under its own banner. The schedule runs on a two-tier rhythm: Saturday parties are described as charged, high-energy affairs for more experienced lifestylers, while Sunday parties are pitched as more relaxed and better suited to couples new to the scene. Entry is by interview -- prospective members are asked to call ahead to be screened before attending -- which keeps the group curated rather than open to walk-ins.

Sinners Den

Indio, CA

On-Premise Club

Sinners Den is an on-premise adult lifestyle club in Indio, California, operating as a private, membership-based venue for the swinger and kink community. It welcomes adults 18 and older regardless of body type, ethnicity, or experience level. The street address is not published; confirmed members are sent the location directly before each event. The venue has 17 private bedrooms — five indoors and twelve poolside cabanas — arranged around an enclosed, heated saltwater pool with an adjoining fire pit and smoking area. A separate dungeon room holds a king-size bed, a spreader bar, four tie-down benches, and suspension pulleys, and a dance floor features a stripper pole and stage. The main area includes an all-glass shower with five showerheads, male and female glory holes, and two bars — one indoor, one poolside — serving only mixers, since the club does not sell or supply alcohol. Parties run Saturdays from 9 p.m. to 2 a.m., the only schedule currently published. Entry requires an approved membership application, filed online in advance (including a photo) or completed at an in-person sign-in table before entry. Minimum age is 18, or 21 to bring personal alcohol under the club's BYOB policy. Admission covers food, water, soda, mixers, towels, two sizes of condoms, lubricant, and on-site hostess and security staff; no membership fee or cover charge is published.

On-Premise Club

Club Play is a private members swingers club deliberately concealed off Back of Ribble Road in central Blackpool, Lancashire. To find it, look for Adams market on the corner of Ribble Road and Central Drive, follow the alleyway past the back of the Tesco Express, and watch for the lit Club Play sign halfway along — a wooden gate beneath it marks the entrance. Free lifetime membership is offered to all with no joining or ongoing fees, and the club positions itself as broadly inclusive, welcoming couples, single women, single men, and trans, crossdressing, and non-binary members. The online community counts over eleven thousand registered members. The venue is divided into two distinct zones. The play area includes The Stage, a Couples Orgy Room, a Burlesque Room, a Bi Orgy Room, a Voyeur Room, a Massage Spa Play Room, a Neon UV Room, a Cinema Room, a BDSM and Kink Room, The Dungeon, The Kink Room, and male and female glory holes, with The Snug serving as a quieter lounge space. The wet and social zone adds a pool and hot tub room, sauna, showers, and a dedicated TGirl changing room. Free condoms are provided throughout the club. The age range of attendees is wide — the club's own Q&A notes guests from their twenties into their seventies — and the atmosphere is explicitly non-pressured: no one is obliged to participate in anything, and newcomers are offered a guided tour of the building before 11pm. Regular sessions run Friday and Saturday nights, 8pm to 3am, with last entry at 1am. Selected Bank Holiday Sundays open from 2pm to 2am; specific dates are listed in the club's events section. Club Play is a BYOB venue — guests bring their own alcohol, which staff will serve back to them, while soft drinks are available to purchase at the bar (outside soft drinks are not permitted). Payment is cash only; no card payments are accepted. ID is not required unless a guest appears under 21. Lockers are available for clothing and valuables at the guest's own risk. BDSM and kink events operate under RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) and SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual) principles.

Saints & Sinners Philly

Philadelphia, PA

On-Premise Club

Saints & Sinners Philly operates two locations across the city - the original spot tucked behind an unmarked building on Emery Street in Port Richmond, entered through a back door and sitting in the shadow of I-95, and a second venue on Frankford Avenue in Northeast Philadelphia. The Emery Street location spans 6,000 sq ft across three floors: upstairs is the nightclub proper with a bar, dance floor, stripper pole, flat-screen TVs, and a food buffet; downstairs is a warren of private, semi-private, open, and group play areas with a full bar, lockers, and showers. The Frankford Avenue outpost has a 45-foot main bar, multiple bottle bars, a dance floor, pool tables, and VIP seating. The weekly calendar runs Friday and Saturday 9pm-3am, last entry 1am. Fridays go under the Fishnet Fridays banner. Monthly Newbie Nights welcome first-timers and regulars, and Kinky Karaoke Nights invite guests to bring their own bottles. Wed-Fri the door is open to couples, single ladies, and screened single men; Saturdays are couples and single women only. The crowd is diverse in age and experience with a vibe that leans more party-house than clinical sex club. Free parking sits across the street at Emery and right out front at Frankford.

Liberty Elite

Lutterworth, Leicestershire

On-Premise Club

Set on two private acres of Midlands countryside alongside the A5 near Lutterworth, Liberty Elite has operated as an "upmarket private members club" since 1999, serving both the swinging and fetish communities. Over £1.5 million has been invested in the purpose-built venue, which holds a licence for more than 300 guests and staff and a car park for over a hundred vehicles — scale that is offset by an interior designed to feel "cosy and intimate at all times." The A5 position, close to Junction 20 of the M1 and Junction 1 of the M6, makes it a natural hub for members arriving from across the Midlands. The property trades under the name Liberty's Hotel, signalling that on-site accommodation is part of the offer: en-suite, air-conditioned double rooms with king-size beds are bookable by phone at £75 on Sundays and £90 Monday through Saturday. Events run primarily on Fridays and Saturdays, with a calendar that spans in-house party brands — Dark Desires, Embargo, Secret House, The Hot Wife Club — alongside visiting promoter nights, over-40s swing parties, seasonal BBQs, and dedicated dungeon sessions for the fetish community. Single gentlemen are welcome on Fridays only; couples and single ladies attend across the broader programme. On a first visit, guests complete a short membership application form and present a driving licence at reception — no ID, no entry. Annual couples membership is £45; memberships run from 1 July to 30 June and are non-transferable. Existing members may bring guests once on a guest basis before those guests must take out their own membership. Entry prices vary per event and are published individually on the online calendar. The interior spans multiple bars, lounge areas, a snug, a dance floor with professional DJs, and a buffet, alongside six lockable playrooms and a custom-built Dungeon for fetish play. Outside, a sun-lounger terrace, private lawns, and a covered heated smoking area sit within the fully enclosed grounds. A heated Jacuzzi, changing rooms, and secure lockers — available for a refundable £20 deposit, each stocked with a fresh bath sheet — complete the amenities. The bar tab runs off the locker key and is settled on departure; no outside alcohol is permitted under the venue's liquor licence. Mobile phones must be switched off and stored in lockers at reception, cameras are banned throughout, and plastic glasses replace glass in all play areas. The club's stated commitment is a "clean, secure, non-judgemental, no pressure environment" for all members.

Couples Playhouse In Paradise

Naperville, IL

On-Premise Club

Set on three wooded acres in Chicago's western suburbs, Max and Eva's Couples Playhouse in Paradise has been a cornerstone of the Midwest lifestyle scene for over thirty years. The lodge-style private residence trades neon for cathedral ceilings and bonfire pits, with nine play rooms spread across multiple floors, a dance floor with a pole, two bar areas (strictly BYOB -- the hosts supply soda and a full buffet), and an outdoor spread that includes two pools, a hot tub, a sand volleyball court, and a large sun deck. Saturday nights are the marquee event: themed costume parties that draw couples and single women from across the region, with gates opening at eight and locking at ten-thirty sharp. Summer adds daytime Sunday sessions built around the pools and volleyball court. First-timers phone ahead for a joint screening call with both partners present, and the exact address is shared only after approval -- a layer of discretion the club has maintained since its founding in 1996. The vibe leans social-first: a big living room under the vaulted ceiling doubles as a decompression zone, and house rules emphasize consent, sobriety, and arriving-and-leaving-as-a-couple. Phones are banned on the play-room floor, no glass is allowed near the pool, and the hosts are quick to enforce boundaries -- creating a space that feels more backyard gathering among friends than anonymous nightclub.

The Pendulum Society

Langley, British Columbia

On-Premise Club

The Pendulum Society is a members-only lifestyle and kink club operating out of a private 5,600-square-foot mansion in the Milner area of Langley, British Columbia — roughly 49 kilometres southeast of downtown Vancouver in Metro Vancouver's Fraser Valley fringe. The club describes itself as 19+ all inclusive and welcomes people of all genders and sexual orientations across a range of relationship structures, from couples to singles. Events span two categories: larger themed lifestyle parties and kink-focused nights, alongside lower-key social evenings such as a recurring Cuddle Puddle Movie Night. The venue — referred to in club communications as the Langley Mansion — accommodates a substantial guest capacity across multiple spaces. Confirmed amenities include a saltwater inground pool (opened for seasonal use in 2025), a dungeon described by attendees as well-equipped with a fantastic variety of gear, and semi-private playrooms. The club also rents the space for photo and video shoots and private play dates between scheduled events. Dress codes lean themed rather than strict: attire matching the night's theme is encouraged but not mandatory, with business casual or club wear cited as acceptable alternatives. Heels are permitted though stairs are noted. Events run most Fridays and Saturdays, with occasional Thursday orientations. Per-event RSVP pricing ranges from $15 for low-key evenings such as movie nights and New Member Orientations to $35-$45 for main lifestyle and kink events. New single male members must attend a New Member Orientation before accessing the larger events; all other members may RSVP directly. Contact is via thependulumsociety@gmail.com or phone at 1-604-375-4309.

Curious Club

Barwell, Leicestershire

On-Premise Club

Curious Club is a private members' lifestyle venue occupying a discreet address at 3 Chapel Street in Barwell, Leicestershire — a small market town on the edge of the National Forest, roughly equidistant between Leicester and Coventry. Originally established in Nuneaton, the club relocated to its current Barwell premises in February 2026. It operates as a fully inclusive social space for adults interested in swinging, kink, BDSM, fetish, and alternative lifestyles, drawing members who identify across the full spectrum of gender and orientation: straight, bi, gay, lesbian, trans, CD/TV, poly, exhibitionists, voyeurs, and kinksters. Membership is required for entry, and all attendees must be 21 or over. The venue runs a fully licensed bar — no BYOB — with drinks served in standard measures up to doubles. Facilities include a hot tub, dedicated play spaces, intimate rooms, a fetish den, showers, and secure lockers. On arrival, members deposit a locker key that serves as a running tab for bar purchases, settled on departure; card payments are accepted for transactions over £5. First-time visitors are offered a guided tour by the team. The atmosphere is explicitly zero-judgement: participation in any activity is always optional, and members are equally welcome to socialise, observe, or simply relax. Special events and themed evenings — including nights such as Greedy Girls, which may carry adjusted entry ratios — are listed on the club calendar. The club opens Friday and Saturday evenings, 7:30pm to 2am. Door charges (separate from membership fees) are: couples £20, single ladies £15, single gents £35, CD/TV £20. Annual membership costs couples £20, single ladies £10, single gents £40, and CD/TV £20. Entry is subject to capacity, ratio management, and management discretion — it is never guaranteed. Persons appearing intoxicated or under the influence of drugs will be refused entry regardless of membership status.

Ohio Swings

New Carlisle, OH

On-Premise Club

Set on sixteen acres of country land outside New Carlisle, Ohio Swings bills itself not as a club but as a private house party for couples and singles 21 and over exploring their sexual limits. The property sits well back from the road behind two brick pillars marked with the letter "E," reached by a long private lane, and offers the full run of amenities you'd expect from a dedicated swingers venue: eight private play rooms, two shower rooms (one single, one four-person), roughly thirty-two lockers, and ample on-site parking. Doors open every Wednesday, Friday and Saturday from 8pm to midnight, with guests welcome to stay until 10am - first-come, first-served overnight room use kicks in after 3am so play space stays available earlier in the night. Entry runs on a sliding cash donation that rises through the week: Wednesday is $20 for couples and $30 for single men, Friday climbs to $30/$40, and Saturday tops out at $40/$50, with single women admitted free every night. There's no yearly membership - guests simply donate on the nights they visit, which the club says covers food, drinks, cleaning and laundry costs. Special theme nights and larger annual events, including a Fourth of July blowout and a Halloween bash, are posted separately on the events page. The house is BYOB - no alcohol is sold on-site, though mixers and setups are supplied - and condoms are provided in the play areas. Dress code asks only that guests arrive clean and out of work or exercise clothes; dressing to any theme is optional but encouraged. Cell phones must stay in the car, and cameras or recording devices of any kind are banned throughout the property, underscoring the discretion the club promises guests along with a strict no-drugs, no-prostitution policy.

Play Champagne (The Champagne Club)

Columbus, OH

Event Organizer

Play Champagne is one of the Midwest’s largest lifestyle event organizers, operating as a traveling party producer rather than a fixed-address club. Founded and still run by owners Melissa and Eric, the operation specializes in complete hotel takeovers — booking every guestroom, the convention space, restaurant, and bar — at full-service Hilton-brand hotels across Ohio, Michigan, Indiana, and Illinois, with regular Las Vegas editions and annual trips to Hedonism II in Jamaica. Flagship venues have included the Embassy Suites in Blue Ash (Cincinnati), Livonia MI, Indianapolis, Glenview IL, and Las Vegas. Typical weekends draw 1,200–1,600 attendees and span two nights, with a Friday check-in at 3 pm and checkout Monday morning. The programming is unusually dense for a hotel event: a five-story atrium main stage with award-winning lifestyle DJs, professional sound, lighting, and laser rigs; a 24-hour indoor pool (topless optional); a vendor showcase; meet-and-greet karaoke; drag shows; live bands; and a 360-degree video photo booth. Educational content includes couples sensory, Kama Sutra, and NURU massage classes, plus BDSM demonstrations, all with separate sign-up slots. Play areas include group and semi-private themed playrooms (typically in dedicated ballrooms), a Porn Play Escape group room, and an expanded Impact room for impact play opening nightly from around 11 pm. The famous top-floor afterparty runs from 1 am to dawn. Complimentary drinks are served nightly during a comp-bar window, and a full hot breakfast buffet with omelet station is included each morning. The crowd skews inclusive and body-positive, spanning roughly ages 28–55, and Play Champagne explicitly welcomes all body types and demographics. The vibe is upscale nightclub rather than underground party: VIP table service with reserved front-and-center seating is available, and off-duty police officers are stationed throughout the hotel. Dress code is dress-to-impress rather than enforced, though themed costume participation is strongly encouraged. The whole-hotel BYOB policy means guests bring their own alcohol to guest rooms and carry it in a covered tumbler into event spaces; a hotel cash bar is also on site.

Whispers Las Vegas

Las Vegas, NV

On-Premise Club

Whispers Las Vegas bills itself as Nevada's largest on-premise lifestyle party, operating from a classic 1970s Rat Pack-era entertainment property at 7455 S. Valley View Boulevard, roughly five minutes from the Strip. Originally built as a private party venue for casino owners and Vegas celebrities, the property was purchased in 2017, gutted, and extensively renovated into a purpose-built couples-and-solo-ladies-only swinger venue. Whispers runs a packed year-round calendar. During the summer season there are afternoon clothing-optional pool parties every Saturday and Sunday from noon to 6 PM, plus themed evening events Thursday through Saturday. Saturdays carry the biggest draw with rotating costume themes. The club is strictly couples and solo ladies; single men may attend only as a sponsored guest. Membership is free but every guest must sign a binding NDA and present valid photo ID (21+). Phones, cameras, and all recording devices are forbidden. Whispers is 100% volunteer-run, BYOB, and provides a buffet at select events.

Loft54

Unverified

Rheinstetten, Baden-Württemberg

Set in an industrial building on the southern outskirts of Rheinstetten, Loft54 opened in February 2023 as an Erolifestyle Club built around two pillars: upscale gastronomy and a well-equipped private play environment. Operated by Loft54 Gastronomie Betriebs GmbH under managing director Andreas Vater, the club describes itself as a space for couples and women of all ages, with openness and tolerance as its founding ethos. The venue divides into a social front-of-house and a purpose-built play wing. Private rooms include two areas reserved exclusively for couples, a dedicated SM suite, and an extravagant darkroom fitted with two glory holes and two Czech walls. Outdoors, a shared sauna and whirlpool extend the offering. Floor heating, full air conditioning, and a ventilation system run in every room; twelve showers and more than two hundred lockers handle throughput. Entry is by prior registration only, and consent is a stated house rule.

Ragazza Club

Rehlingen-Siersburg, Saarland

On-Premise Club

Ragazza Club occupies a 650-square-metre industrial unit on the quiet Dürrfeldslach estate on the edge of Rehlingen-Siersburg — reached from junction 7 of the A8, past the Aral station and the Aldi, then right into the street where the club takes the second-to-last building on the left. The interior spans two floors and ten play areas: a full-service bar and hot-and-cold buffet room sets a sociable, unhurried tone at ground level, with a cuddle corner, a dedicated couples' zone, a whirlpool, a sauna, a lockable private play room, a BDSM area, a darkroom, and three love swings fanning out across the two floors. Ample parking — including bays sized for campervans and motorhomes — reflects the fact that the Ragazza draws visitors from across the Saarland and has been described by Saarbrücker Zeitung as one of the largest swinger meeting points in the region. Owner Carina Kemmerling runs the club under a self-described 's3xpositive' philosophy: sex is treated as something natural and consensual, professional sex workers are explicitly prohibited, and the house tone leans firmly toward community rather than commerce. All entry is all-inclusive — drinks, the buffet, sauna and whirlpool access, hygiene supplies, condoms, and unlimited towels are folded into the admission price, and lockable lockers take care of valuables. First-time visitors are walked through a guided tour and orientation before the evening gets going; the team draws consistent praise in reviews for a family-like welcome, and the club offers private rental of the full venue for groups wanting the space to themselves. The club opens every day of the week. Monday-to-Thursday afternoon sessions (14:00–21:00) keep things quieter and are available for private hire, while the main weekend nights run Friday 16:00–02:00 and Saturday 16:00–03:00; Sunday follows the weekday pattern (14:00–21:00). Admission starts from €15 for women, €60 for men and couples, with LGBTQIA+ guests priced by their identified gender and same-sex couples at the couple rate. Pre-registration is recommended, though same-day entry is possible subject to capacity. The dress code runs smart-casual for men and erotic-leaning for women — lingerie, dresses, or heels; street shoes are not permitted inside the venue.

Refugium Swingerclub

Neumünster, Schleswig-Holstein

On-Premise Club

Refugium Swing & Dance sits on Krokamp 64 in the commercial outskirts of Neumünster, Schleswig-Holstein — an unglamorous address that gives nothing away about the modern lounge-bar world behind the door. Owner Marco Marien designed the club as a deliberate departure from red-velvet clichés: the palette runs to deep green and anthracite, the lighting is considered, and the 500-capacity interior divides into distinct zones that read more like a design-conscious nightclub than a backroom. At its centre is a dance floor anchored by an actual ceiling swing and a DJ booth; off to one side, a well-stocked bar and a separate English-style smoking room keep the social energy moving; scattered throughout are sofa lounge areas where guests talk, watch, and warm up at their own pace. The play rooms — two discreetly positioned and thematically designed spaces — sit well removed from the social areas, alongside a Séparée that doubles as an erotic cinema. Hygiene is taken visibly seriously: towels, disinfectant, condoms, mouthwash, and disposable toothbrushes are stationed throughout, and the venue's barrier-free showers and toilets make it fully accessible to wheelchair users. In warmer months, a 1,000-square-metre outdoor terrace opens up, adding a pool, whirlpool, TikiBar, BBQ station, and a second play area to the mix. The club runs regular themed evenings, seasonal parties, and — every four to six weeks — a free newcomer orientation session at 18:00, before normal doors, with no registration required. Admission is structured around an all-in price covering entry, buffet, premium beverages, and the wardrobe service: €50 in advance, €60 on the door; women enter at €25 and couples at €50. Solo male pricing is set separately and higher as a deliberate tool to keep the gender ratio balanced. Dress code is enforced at the entrance — men in dark long trousers (blue jeans excluded), a plain solid-colour shirt, and proper shoes; women in stylish rather than everyday attire. Once inside, phones and cameras are banned in public areas, and explicit consent is required for all contact; staff are trained to recognise genuine distress. Drugs, solicitation, and any harassment carry an immediate house ban.

Steel Cliffe

Sheffield, South Yorkshire

On-Premise Club

Steel Cliffe sits on Attercliffe Road in Sheffield's east end, five minutes from the city centre, and bills itself as Sheffield's only swingers venue. The purpose-fitted premises spans eight distinct playrooms — several of which can be locked for complete privacy — alongside a fully equipped BDSM play area, dedicated couples' rooms, group play spaces, and a spacious outdoor terrace used for socialising and smoking. The venue is within easy reach of the city centre with parking available in the surrounding area. Rather than fixed weekly nights, Steel Cliffe runs a rotating calendar of themed events — recent examples include Circus After Dark (marking the venue's first anniversary), Kink Nights, Fueled Up Fantasies, and Rum & Reggae nights — with doors typically opening at 8pm and closing anywhere between 1:30am and 3am depending on the event. Entry is tiered: single males pay £30, couples pay £25, and single women are admitted free of charge. A £5 locker deposit is collected at the door, refundable on departure or redeemable against soft drink purchases. The bar is BYOB for alcohol; soft drinks, tea, and coffee are available to purchase on site, though guests are asked not to bring their own non-alcoholic drinks. Consent sits at the centre of the house rules: the club's stated position is 'No means no,' and men are explicitly instructed never to touch a woman who is not their partner without clear, prior permission being requested and granted. A strict no-drugs policy is enforced — prescribed medications such as Viagra or Cialis are the noted exception — and anyone visibly intoxicated may be refused entry or cut off from further service. The dress code is deliberately open-ended, encouraging guests to 'wear whatever makes you feel comfortable and confident,' and the venue also takes bookings for private hire and custom events.

Swingerclub Feuer & Eis

Bruchsal, Baden-Württemberg

On-Premise Club

Feuer & Eis — Fire and Ice — occupies a discreet industrial-zone address on Industriestraße in Bruchsal, roughly midway between Karlsruhe and Heidelberg, and draws couples and singles from across Baden-Württemberg and beyond. The club operators describe it as "Spielwiesen" — playgrounds — for the wider Bruchsal and Karlsruhe region. Run by Sven Schirner, the venue spans 800 square metres across two fully air-conditioned floors and holds up to 250 guests. On JoyClub it carries a 4.8 out of 5 star rating from more than 3,100 reviews and counts over 10,000 followers — unusually strong social proof for a regional club. The ground floor centres on the signature Frivole Bar — a naughty bar lounge with a cage fixture at the counter — flanked by a dance floor and a large multi-person whirlpool. Up on the first floor, the play area fans out into a darkroom, a dedicated BDSM zone, a cinema room, lockable private rooms for couples, a couples-only area, and a glory-hole corner. Rounding out the offering is a sauna, an outdoor terrace with a pool, and full kitchen service: hot and cold meals are prepared fresh daily and included in the admission price, as are towels and condoms. DJ Rex handles in-house music on party nights, and shuttle service from the club and a partner hotel arrangement cater to guests travelling from further afield. The club weekly programme is dense and deliberately varied. Core party nights run Friday (20:00–02:00) and Saturday (20:00–04:00), but the club is open most evenings from Monday through Sunday. Entry prices scale by night and demographic: women pay €5–20, couples €18–75, and single men €28–115. Men typically require advance registration, while couples and women are admitted freely. Regular themed slots include Tropical Beach Parties, Wellness Sundays with massage, trans-friendly Sommernachtstraum evenings, Young People nights, Couples and Ladies glow-bracelet nights, and fortnightly Herrenüberschuss evenings that open extra capacity for solo male guests.

Swingerclub Passion

Stuhr, Lower Saxony

On-Premise Club

Club Passion sits in the Seckenhausen industrial estate on the southern fringe of Bremen, a short drive from the A1 autobahn at Industriestrasse 37. The club is owned and personally run by Jessica and Patrick Bosse, a couple with their own long-standing roots in the swinging community, and it shows in how the place operates: long-serving staff who are friends first and staff second set a tone the venue itself describes as a very special family-like atmosphere, one where even first-timers quickly find their footing rather than feeling lost in an anonymous crowd. More than 1.5 million visits, a JOYclub Recommendation badge, and a 4.8-star average across 3,288 reviews place it firmly among the most trusted venues in the Bremen catchment. The indoor footprint runs to roughly 270 square metres, maintained at a steady 22 degrees C year-round. The ground floor holds a well-stocked bar (Bacardi, Jim Beam, Malibu, Likor 43 among the brands), a comprehensive warm-and-cold buffet, and a dance floor with a pole and stage area. Playrooms cover the full range: a Caribbean-themed Blue Lagoon private room, a castle-themed Burgzimmer, a coded couples-only section, a sleeping area upstairs, and a dedicated BDSM corner fitted with a swing, spanking bench, and St. Andrew's cross. The wellness zone adds an eight-person whirlpool (water changed daily), a sauna, and shower stations stocked with toiletries throughout the venue. Come summer, a heated outdoor terrace opens with a pool, beach baskets, and a separate cocktail bar, an addition that sets the club apart from most urban indoor venues. Club Passion runs Fridays (19:00-02:00) and Saturdays (19:00-03:00) as its regular nights, with Tuesday afternoon sessions (15:00-23:00) and Sunday parties (14:00-21:00) rotating on alternating weeks. Door prices are all-inclusive - the fee covers the full buffet, alcoholic and soft drinks, condoms, and hygiene supplies, with nothing extra to spend inside. Friday admission runs EUR 20 for single women, EUR 60 for couples, and EUR 80 for single men; Saturday steps up to EUR 30, EUR 85, and EUR 90 respectively, with JOYclub members receiving a discount at every tier. Trans and cross-dressing guests are admitted at 50% of the solo male rate. Dress code is firmly enforced: sexy lingerie and heels for women, latex, leather, or dark underwear with quality sandals for men. First-time visitors can call ahead to arrange a complimentary 30-minute walk-through before doors open - no commitment required.

Joyride

Unverified

London, London

Event Organizer

Joyride is a London-based queer, sex-positive event series operating at the intersection of rave culture, art, and sexual expression. Founded in early 2023 by Irish sex educator MJ Fox and experiential event producer Lydia Fikan, the party draws together DJs, performers, sexuality practitioners, and artists around a shared ethos of joy, playfulness, and consent. Pitched at adults aged 21 and over, Joyride sold out its earliest events through word of mouth alone before securing a bi-weekly Sunday residency at Corsica Studios in Elephant and Castle — one of London's most established underground club spaces. The format centred on two spaces at Corsica Studios: a main dancefloor delivering a genre-fluid programme spanning house, techno, and everything in between, with a focus on queer and femme artists; and two purpose-built playrooms fitted with bespoke kink furniture and sex machines, one of them designed by interior designer Domhnall Nolan. A welfare team, identifiable by yellow bandanas and flashing armbands, circulated throughout every event. Phones and cameras were barred from the dancefloor and playrooms, with stickers placed over camera lenses on entry. Tickets were sold exclusively through Dice and only available in advance, with community and unwaged tickets available on request. Joyride's Corsica Studios residency came to an end in February 2026 when the venue announced its permanent closure; the final party, on 15 February 2026, marked the event's third birthday. As of mid-2026, no successor venue has been confirmed. The dress code required fetish or kink attire — latex, leather, PVC, mesh, lingerie, harnesses — and streetwear was refused entry. The entry age was strictly 21 and over. Prospective attendees should check joyriderave.com and the Dice promoter page for current event information.

Torture Garden

London, Greater London

Club Night / Event Brand

Torture Garden — known universally as TG — is Europe's largest fetish club night, founded in London in October 1990 by promoter and DJ Allen Pelling and art-and-film graduate David Wood. What began in a Shepherd's Bush pub has grown into what is widely described as the world's biggest fetish event network, with Time Out London calling it "legendary" and "a capital institution." The night has attracted figures ranging from Jean Paul Gaultier and Boy George to Dita Von Teese (who made her UK debut at TG) and Marilyn Manson, and it runs a fetish fashion label alongside the club events. TG's London home base is Scala, a converted former theatre on Pentonville Road in King's Cross. The venue spans several floors connected by multiple staircases — there is no lift — and is configured around a main Club Arena, an Eclectic Ballroom playing a rotating mix of burlesque, goth, electro swing, and post-punk sounds, and a dungeon playroom equipped by Benchmarxxx. Larger events also incorporate boudoir-style play rooms. The crowd is a genuinely mixed cross-section: show-offs, goths, industrial punks, burlesque performers, drag artists, and first-timers, drawn together by what journalists have consistently described as a "welcoming, liberating" atmosphere. Events are ticketed in advance only, with tiered entry-time slots (Early: 9pm–10:15pm; Peak: 10:15pm–2:30am; Late: 12am–2:30am) and last entry typically at 2:30am; doors open at 9pm and events run until 6am. Tickets typically range from approximately £33–£37, with a limited allocation of discounted tickets at £25 per event for those on lower incomes. ID is mandatory for all attendees regardless of age: physical, original photo ID only — passport, driving licence, national ID card, or a Validate/citizen card — no digital copies or phone screenshots accepted. The dress code is strict and non-negotiable: Fantasy Fetish, SM, Body Art, Drag, Rubber, Leather, and PVC are all welcome; street clothes, cotton t-shirts, and regular clubwear will result in refusal with no refund.

Vault 139

London, London

Cruise Bar

Vault 139 is a gay cruise bar occupying a basement space at 139–143 Whitfield Street in Fitzrovia, central London W1T 5EN, a short walk from Warren Street and Goodge Street tube stations. Billing itself as London's sexiest cruise bar, it operates seven days a week from 1pm to 1am and caters exclusively to men aged 18 and over, drawing a loyal clientele in what the venue describes as a no-frills, welcoming underground environment. The venue sits 20 steps below street level, giving it a genuinely subterranean character. Inside, facilities include a large dark room equipped with a sling, beds, and two barrels; several smaller private rooms each fitted with a bed; four gloryholes; a second smaller dark room; and a free changing room and cloakroom. Large bags and suitcases can be stored for £2. A fully licensed bar serves a range of alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks until 12:30am Monday to Saturday and midnight on Sundays; chilled tap water is free throughout. Free Wi-Fi is available, with login details at the bar. Mobile phones are restricted to the bar area, and photography is banned outright in all cruising spaces. Sessions run in two daily blocks — an afternoon cruise (1pm–7pm) and an evening session (7pm–1am) — with the evening theme rotating across the week: NKD (strictly naked, footwear permitted, harnesses allowed) on Mondays and Thursdays; standard Cruise (fully clothed) on Tuesdays and Fridays; Underwear (boxers, speedos, jockstraps, G-strings, harnesses — no shirts or trousers) on Wednesdays and Sundays; and All or Nothing (any dress code) on Saturday evenings and Sunday nights. General admission is £14 for non-members and £13 for members; admission includes a free first drink, free coat check, and free same-day re-entry. Discounted £5 entry is available to students and Blue Light or CAC card holders on Tuesdays, and to under-25s on Wednesdays and Sundays. Membership is free via the venue's app (iOS and Android), which provides a digital loyalty card offering one complimentary entry for every five paid visits.

HS Lifestyle Club

Hude, Lower Saxony

On-Premise Club

HS Lifestyle Club sits at Bremer Str. 24 in Hude/Sandersfeld, a small municipality between Bremen and Oldenburg in Lower Saxony. Known historically as Haus Sandersfeld, the venue has been in operation for more than seventeen years and is among the larger lifestyle clubs in northern Germany, accommodating up to 500 guests across roughly 2,000 square metres of indoor club space, a 4,000-square-metre garden, and a 1,000-square-metre beer garden. The club reports a five-heart quality rating from JOYclub per its own homepage, and states it is the first lifestyle venue in Germany to receive the DEHOGA environmental gold award, reflecting a commitment to regional food sourcing, fair wages for staff, and energy-efficient heating systems. The house motto — "Be exactly as you are" — frames a philosophy of discretion and atmosphere free of social expectation. The indoor layout guides guests from a changing area fitted with large mirrors and hair dryers through a disco dance floor and a 1970s-styled bar to a bistro serving a substantial buffet. Wellness facilities include a sauna and a heated whirlpool with pulsating massage jets. Deeper into the venue are a nudist area with a social fumble bar, voyeur rooms, a BDSM-equipped backroom, and additional themed playrooms. The scale and variety of spaces are substantial enough that the club warns first-time visitors they can easily lose their bearings while exploring. Events are scheduled individually rather than on a fixed weekly calendar; most start at 20:00 and run into the early morning hours, with occasional afternoon parties also programmed. Entry prices vary by event type, solo or couple attendance, and whether tickets are purchased in advance via JOYclub or at the door. Advance booking and pre-registration are strongly encouraged, and a prepayment policy is in place to reduce no-shows, with vouchers available for cancellations due to illness. Most admission packages cover the buffet, alcoholic and non-alcoholic beverages, sauna and whirlpool access, towels, shower gel, and condoms. The dress code is strict: jeans, sweaters, and plain underwear are not accepted; women are expected in lingerie, short dresses, or erotic attire, while men are directed toward a dress shirt with black trousers or leather, latex, or lace alternatives.

Vault72

Plymouth, Devon

Off-Premise Club

Vault72 occupies 72 Mutley Plain in Plymouth's Mutley neighbourhood, operating as the city's self-described premier alternative and LGBTQ+-friendly bar. The licensed venue accommodates up to 49 guests and pairs a fully stocked bar with a kink dungeon, giving it a dual identity that sets it apart from both a straight-social bar and a dedicated play venue. The crowd is Plymouth's alternative community — swingers, kink enthusiasts, LGBTQ+ regulars, and curious newcomers — who treat the space as a regular social base rather than an occasional destination. The doors are open Tuesday to Saturday from 7pm, with Thursday through Saturday running until 3am. Events rotate across the week: the Friday Swingers Social is a recurring fixture, and the calendar extends to leather socials, fetish nights, bi and gay evenings, pub nights with drink specials, and LGBTQ+-centred party series such as Pridemonium. Private hire is available on any day subject to prior arrangement, with packages starting from £5 per person and options for catering, decorations, and a Bluetooth surround-sound system. Because Vault72 holds a full on-licence, alcohol is served at the bar — no BYOB arrangement applies. The kink dungeon is the play-space anchor, while the bar and social areas keep things relaxed in the early part of the evening, allowing new arrivals to meet the regulars before things move further into the night. The team frames the venue explicitly as a safe, comfortable environment built around community, and the private-hire programme keeps the space active with one-off themed events throughout the week.

Club Culture Houze

Berlin, Berlin

On-Premise Club

Club Culture Houze is a long-running sex-party venue on Görlitzer Straße in Berlin's Kreuzberg district, a short walk from the U1 Görlitzer Bahnhof and U Schlesisches Tor stops. Operating since 1996 and currently managed by Veronika, it has built its identity around radical sexual inclusivity — hosting themed nights across the full spectrum of orientation and gender: gay men, trans and non-binary guests, bisexual and pansexual crowds, femdom circles, fetish communities, and mixed-orientation couples alike. The venue describes itself explicitly as a "Safer Space" and takes a firm stance against exclusionary or demeaning behaviour at every event. The club occupies two floors. The upper level holds a cosy loft fitted with comfortable couches, pillows, a massage table, and a long bar; the lower floor opens onto a larger play space with leather furniture, slings, cages, a darkroom, and a video room. Free condoms, lubricant, and gloves are available at the bar alongside mouthwash; paper towels and sanitising sprays are positioned throughout the play areas. A snack buffet is on offer during events, and a cloakroom handles clothing and valuables storage. The atmosphere is notably smaller and more intimate than typical Berlin mega-clubs — visitors regularly describe the staff as friendly and personally attentive. Private venue hire is available for parties, photoshoots, film productions, and group meetings. Events run every night of the week, with programming shifting nightly. Recurring highlights include Naked SEX on Mondays — a gay men's night with mandatory nudity, running 19:00–23:45 — and Friday Fist / Fist Factory on most Fridays (20:00–03:00), with a dress code of rubber, leather, or fetish attire. Midweek slots rotate through Trans & Friends, Poly/Pan Experience (Bi Plus Night), QueerBeet (FTM/MTF BDSM and sex party), FAKT! (femdom evening), and bear-focused, masked, and BDSM-for-beginners nights. Entry fees vary by event: a third-party visitor account reported approximately €13 admission plus a €7 mandatory drink spend on a standard night; the masked Fuck with Unknown event is priced at €20 including a first drink; Folsom-weekend specials reach €35 and above. All payments are cash only — card payments are not accepted.

The Freaky Rock

Geesthacht, Schleswig-Holstein

The Freaky Rock is a swinger lounge beside the Schleusenkanal in Geesthacht, a small Elbe-side town roughly 35 kilometres southeast of Hamburg. Operated by Tanja and Matthias Ullrich — who together bring more than twenty years of experience in the lifestyle sector — the venue has occupied its current address for over twelve years, making it one of the more long-established clubs in Schleswig-Holstein. The owners describe it as the 'somewhat different swinger club', with a strict no-professional-workers policy and a focus on an amateur, community-driven atmosphere. The interior spans approximately 400 square metres and can accommodate up to around 150 guests. Facilities include a bar and buffet, a dance floor fitted with a pole, dedicated changing rooms and showers, lockable couple rooms, open play areas, a wellness section with sauna and hot tub, BDSM equipment including a St. Andrew's cross, and an outdoor area with a separate enclosed smoking section. The club is explicitly LGBTQ+ inclusive and designated a transgender safe space, with gender-neutral restrooms on site. The entrance and car park are wheelchair-accessible. The Freaky Rock runs an event-driven weekly programme rather than fixed nightly hours, with times published ahead of each event via its JOYclub listing. A typical week covers a Tuesday evening party, a Friday Croque Night, a Saturday rock-themed evening centred on Rammstein and Onkelz, and a Sunday Genießer Brunch. Gay and bi-male nights also appear in the regular calendar. First-time visitors are offered an optional guided tour of the venue. Advance registration is mandatory — walk-ins are not accepted. The preferred booking route is via the club's JOYclub profile; guests without a profile may contact the venue by phone, WhatsApp, or email. All door payments are cash only.

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Location One is a couples and swinger club (Pärchenclub) in Menden, a town in the Märkisches Sauerland region of North Rhine-Westphalia, located at Werler Straße 37 within approximately 10 kilometres of the nearest motorway. Operating under the slogan 'Swingen mit Charme und Stil' — swinging with charm and style — the club positions itself at the premium end of the regional scene, with particular emphasis on cuisine, interior design, and attentive hosting. First-time visitors are welcomed with an optional guided tour of the venue. The premises span more than 900 square metres across three floors, organised around nine individually styled rooms that include two private séparées, a fully equipped SM/BDSM room, and two love swings. Social spaces include a full bar stocked with branded spirits, a cocktail bar operating on Saturday evenings, and a champagne bar open from 23:00 to 01:00. A hot-and-cold buffet — freshly prepared meats, seafood, salads, and house-made sauces — is included with admission. A whirlpool, sauna, massage area, pole dance stage, and a heated covered outdoor smoking terrace complete the facilities. Fresh towels and toiletries are provided on every floor. Video-monitored parking sits discreetly behind the building, with three dedicated pitches with electrical hookups available for campervans. The club opens Friday and Saturday from 20:00 to 04:00, with admission beginning at 19:00. Friday evenings run as an open swinger night with couples, single women, and a limited number of single men admitted; Saturday evenings are oriented toward couples and trios. Pre-registration is required before each visit and can be made by phone, WhatsApp, or the club's contact form. Entry prices vary by event and are posted on the events page; cash is the only accepted payment method. A loyalty stamp card rewards regulars: nine stamps earn free entry on any subsequent standard evening, New Year's Eve excluded.

PaaRee Swingertreff

Castrop-Rauxel, North Rhine-Westphalia

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PaaRee Swingertreff is a couples and lifestyle club at Hernerstraße 110 in Castrop-Rauxel, in the heart of the Ruhr region in North Rhine-Westphalia, run by Mandy and Frank Kuhles. The club brands itself as "der tolerante, frivole & aktive Swingertreff mit Niveau und Klasse" — a tolerant, spirited, and active swinger venue with refinement and class — and positions itself as a considered alternative to the larger, more impersonal mega-clubs of the region. The guiding motto is "Alles kann – nichts muss" (everything is possible, nothing is mandatory). Women, couples, single men, and trans guests across a range of orientations and relationship configurations are all welcomed, with mandatory advance registration by phone or JOYclub profile required for everyone. The venue describes itself as "der kleine und feine Swingertreff" — small and refined — and features multiple themed play rooms of varying sizes, including spaces for BDSM scenes and group encounters alongside smaller couples-oriented rooms. A large outdoor terrace, screened from public view, extends the available space in milder weather. The communal shower room is stocked with hair dryers and toiletries; complimentary lockers are provided throughout. A bar with branded alcoholic and non-alcoholic beverages and a food spread — including a fresh Saturday buffet, cooked meals on weekdays and Sundays, and snacks at other sessions — are included in the all-in entry price, as are condoms and towels. Cash is the only accepted payment method on site. The club runs events across four days each week. Friday evenings (19:00–01:00) host themed Active Swinger Nights; Saturdays (20:00–02:00) run the main weekly Saturday Night Swinger party; Sundays (15:00–20:00) offer the Sxx-Active Sunday session; and the second Thursday of each month (12:00–18:00) hosts a bi-friendly FKK afternoon. Pricing is all-inclusive and varies by event: on Fridays, women pay €15, couples €45, and single men €45; Saturday rates are €20 for women, €50 for couples, and €50 for men; other sessions are priced slightly lower. JOYclub Premium members receive a €5 reduction on any session. Strict house rules apply throughout: no mobile phones, no cannabis, erotic attire required, and a zero-tolerance consent policy is enforced — any violation results in immediate removal and a permanent ban.

Swingerclub AlbSwing

Sigmaringen, Baden-Württemberg

AlbSwing occupies a rural property on the Nollhof estate north of Sigmaringen, set in the rolling farmland of Baden-Württemberg’s Swabian Alb. The club brands itself as “Der Swingerclub der Schwäbischen Alb” — the lifestyle venue of the Alb region — and draws a clientele that reportedly travels from as far afield as Stuttgart and Lake Constance for its Saturday nights. It opened in its current form following a rebrand and partial renovation of the former Swingerclub Waldhaus, with married couple Emel and Torsten taking over operations on a five-year lease; both had previously worked as bartenders at the same venue before stepping up to run it themselves. The interior has been modernised and partly redesigned since the Waldhaus era, now comprising seven themed rooms arranged across the property. These include an Aladdin room, a mirrored room, a snuggle room, a lockable private room for couples who want complete seclusion, a lounge themed around a flying carpet, a BDSM/SM room equipped with a gynaecological chair, and a darkroom. A couples-only section accessible via a separate entrance adds an extra layer of privacy for pairs who prefer it. The social hub of the venue is a bar area fitted with sofas and high-top seating, where a buffet is laid out as part of the all-inclusive entry. Outside, an open play balcony extends the usable space in fine weather, while a heated smoking shelter handles the dedicated outdoor smoking area. The large car park accommodates motorhomes and caravans, and a number of guests reportedly make a night of it by overnighting on site. New visitors are offered an orientation walkthrough, and the atmosphere is shaped by the house principle of “alles erlaubt, nichts Pflicht” — everything permitted, nothing required. The regular programme runs every Saturday from 19:00 to 02:00; additional Friday and Sunday events are announced on short notice through JoyClub and the club’s WhatsApp channel. Advance registration by WhatsApp (+49 15259434935) or email (albswing@gmail.com) is recommended and earns a discounted rate: pre-registered couples pay €70, pre-registered solo women €15, and pre-registered solo men €100, against walk-in rates of €80, €20, and €110 respectively. All prices are all-inclusive — entry covers the buffet, drinks, and condoms. The dress code is erotic: women are expected to arrive in lingerie or a sexy dress; men in boxer or retro-style shorts paired with a shirt. Street shoes must be removed before entering the play areas, and mobile phones are not permitted anywhere in the venue — guests may leave their devices at the bar for emergency access. Cameras are banned entirely, drugs are prohibited, and entry is refused to anyone intoxicated or visibly unkempt. The minimum age is 18.

OASE Dresden

Dresden, Saxony

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On-Premise Club

Casa No.1 sits on Blankenauer Strasse in the Furth district of Chemnitz, Saxony, and operates on two nights a week — Wednesdays and Saturdays — a purposefully compact schedule that has helped it accumulate one of the strongest reputations in the region. Run by S. and B. Ranft, the club positions itself on “Stil, Qualität und erotisches Ambiente” and describes its own atmosphere as “familär, gepflegt & unanständig” — homely, well-kept, and uninhibited in equal measure. It holds a 4.9 out of 5 rating on JOYclub, where around 1,800 members have listed it as a favourite and more than 472,000 visits have been recorded. The property divides into 500 m² of indoor space spread across two floors and 5,000 m² of outdoor grounds styled with a Mediterranean theme. Inside, a bar stocked with branded drinks anchors a dance floor and lounge; a themed buffet of snacks and home-cooked dishes is available throughout the evening. Further in, a sauna, massage lounge, glory hole, and a dedicated BDSM section feed into multiple themed playrooms spread across both floors. The outdoor area includes a pool, seating for up to 150 guests, and overnight parking with spaces for motorhomes — all covered by the all-inclusive admission. Wednesday evenings run 17:00 to midnight; Saturday sessions open at 20:00 and close at 03:00. All entry is fully all-inclusive — drinks, buffet, sauna, parking, and hygiene supplies are covered in the cover charge. JOYclub members receive €10 off every ticket. A €10 refundable deposit secures a locker; men arriving without formal attire can hire trousers and a shirt on-site for €10. The themed-party calendar rotates through Discofox and soft FKK evenings, a DDR retro night, a Casa Oktoberfest, and a 1990s nostalgia party. The venue observes an annual summer closure, typically running mid-August to mid-September.

Big Mamas Haus

Crimmitschau, Saxony

BDSM & Fetish Event Venue

Big Mamas Haus — trading publicly as BMH Event Club — occupies a purpose-built property at Harthauer Weg 6 on the fringe of Crimmitschau, a small industrial town in the Westsachsen district of Saxony. The club has been in operation for roughly two decades, celebrating its 20th anniversary in September 2026, and in that time has built a regional reputation as one of Saxony's more established adult event venues, drawing guests from across Germany and neighbouring European countries. The house tagline, 'Der feine Unterschied' — the fine difference — signals a self-conscious positioning above the generic party venue, with a programme that spans BDSM, fetish, swinging, and mixed erotic events rather than a single discipline. The property combines a generous outdoor area of approximately 6,000 square metres with dedicated indoor facilities that include a cinema room, sauna, lounge areas, an SM and fetish play zone covering more than 300 square metres, and overnight accommodation for guests who wish to stay. Hygiene infrastructure is thorough: condoms are stocked throughout the venue, and designated disposal points for used items are provided across the play areas. The club is affiliated with JOYclub, the German adult community platform, and maintains active listings on specialist fetish event directories. Admission for most events includes the bulk of drinks — hard spirits and cocktails are excluded — alongside a buffet that ranges from finger food to a full hot-and-cold spread depending on the occasion. Parking is plentiful and suited to larger vehicles. The club operates no fixed weekly schedule, opening exclusively for ticketed events published in its online calendar. Evening start times typically fall between 18:00 and 20:00, and the programme includes occasional afternoon sessions. Recurring formats encompass open play parties, female-dominance evenings, medical-fetish themed nights, intensive BDSM events billed as Hardliner nights, and smaller exclusive gatherings with capped attendance. All admission is event-specific and priced per occasion; the venue accepts cash only and does not process card payments. Entry is restricted to guests aged 18 and over.

Club Paradise Lingen

Lingen, Lower Saxony

On-Premise Club

Club Paradise is a lifestyle swinger club occupying roughly 800 square metres at Friedrich-Ebert-Straße 115a in Lingen, a town in the Emsland district of Lower Saxony near the Dutch border. The club presents itself as the only swinger club in the Emsland region — a claim repeated in local press coverage — and its stated ethos, ‘you arrive as a guest and leave as a friend,’ anchors an atmosphere oriented toward sociability as much as play. A Dutch-language companion site (club-paradise-lingen.nl) runs alongside the primary German domain, reflecting cross-border clientele from the Netherlands. The venue is arranged across multiple levels and a basement. A bar and lounge area serves as the social centrepiece; a dedicated couples’ floor holds private lockable rooms alongside themed shared spaces; a basement BDSM room is described as equipped for kink in a ‘safe and stylish environment.’ A buffet dining area is kept structurally separate from play spaces by house rule. Changing rooms with secure lockers, disinfection stations throughout the facility, and a designated outdoor smoking terrace handle the practical side. On certain event nights a DJ, dance floor, and a foam area feature in the programme; the site also references a summer garden. The club operates on an event calendar rather than fixed nightly hours. Fridays run 20:00–02:00, Saturdays 20:00–03:00. Monthly additions include a BDSM Sunday (first Sunday, 14:00–21:00), a wellness afternoon (second Sunday, 13:00–19:00), a Hotwife evening on the second Wednesday (18:00–23:00), and a Frivolous Wednesday with sauna on the fourth Wednesday (18:00–23:00). Pricing is tiered by gender and event type: on a standard Friday women pay €20, couples €45, and single men €55; Saturday rates rise to €45 for women and €110 for both couples and single men. Hotwife nights admit women free, with men at €80 and couples at €35. The admission price covers all drinks and the full buffet. Cash only — no card payments are accepted.

KitKat Club

Berlin, Berlin

On-Premise Club

Founded in March 1994 by Austrian filmmaker Simon Thaur and his partner Kirsten Krueger, KitKatClub is one of Berlin's most internationally recognised sex-positive nightclubs. Operating since 2007 from an industrial building in Berlin-Mitte at Koepenicker Strasse 76, the club takes its name from the fictional venue in the musical Cabaret, a deliberate reference to the erotic freedoms of Weimar-era Berlin the founders set out to revive. Its founding principle, do what you want but stay in communication, underpins a sex-positive, queer-inclusive culture that has attracted a cosmopolitan international crowd over three decades. The multi-level venue centres on three dancefloors -- the Main Floor, the Dragon Floor, and the lower Prisma Bar -- supported by seven bars, a candy counter, and a salon chill-out area. A dedicated BDSM space and private rooms occupy the lower floors; outside, a semi-covered terrace holds a swimming pool and sauna. Ultraviolet lighting throughout illuminates fluorescent murals by Berlin artist Vigor Calma. Free cloakroom and changing facilities allow guests to arrive in street clothes and transform on site. The weekly flagship is CarneBall Bizarre on Saturdays, with a Come Together pre-party from 20:00 opening the pool and sauna before main doors at 23:00, running into Sunday morning. Fridays rotate among Fourplay, GEGEN, Mystic Rose, and PIEPSHOW; Wednesdays host Symbiotikka; Mondays run Electric Monday with the most relaxed dress code of the week. Sunday mornings bring the Nachspiel afterparty from 08:00. Entry is EUR15-25 by event, cash only; an ATM stands immediately outside. Photo ID proving age 18 or over is required. A fetish-forward dress code -- latex, leather, PVC, lingerie, elaborate costume -- is enforced across all nights; jeans, plain t-shirts, and standard streetwear are refused.

Insomnia Hedonistic Nightclub

Berlin, Berlin

On-Premise Club

Insomnia occupies a Gründerzeit ballroom built in 1911–12 on Alt Tempelhof in southern Berlin — a listed historic venue that has hosted the club's hedonistic party series since its founding in 1996, and permanently since 17 February 2006. The interior spans two dance floors, dedicated BDSM playrooms, a voyeur zone with performance stage, communal jacuzzi and showers, designer lounge furniture, and a cash bar; an awareness team is present at all events. Party nights run Tuesday through Saturday, with themed programming across swinger, fetish, BDSM, and queer-inclusive formats. International DJs anchor sets in techno, dark-wave, and gothic electronic genres. An on-site adult boutique offers last-minute essentials. The club markets explicitly to couples, singles of all genders, trios, and polyamorous communities, and operates a dedicated 'My First Time' page guiding newcomers through its etiquette and layout. Entry requires sexy, fetish, or elegant evening wear — erotic lingerie, BDSM attire, themed costumes, and daring outfits are encouraged; casual streetwear and trainers are refused at the door. The venue is cash-only and photo-prohibition-enforced: mobile phones must be checked to the cloakroom on entry, and photography is prohibited throughout. Age minimum is 18 with photo ID.

Avarus Swingerclub

Berlin, Berlin

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Avarus is widely regarded as one of the most beautiful swingers clubs in Berlin, hidden away on the 5th floor of an apartment building in the Wedding district. Step inside and you'll find an elegant world of premium wellness — Finnish sauna, Roman steam bath, a love pool serviced by a 36,000-litre-per-hour filtration system, and an experience shower — seamlessly blended with stylish play areas and intimate social spaces. Every visit is all-inclusive: entry covers all drinks and a hot & cold buffet, so there's nothing to think about but enjoying the evening. The event calendar keeps things fresh with couples-only Saturdays, Orgasm Nights, Bi-Parties, Darkroom Parties, and BDSM nights in the adjacent Menagerie venue. The signature "Chocolate Sunday" — featuring edible liquid chocolate in the steam bath — is an experience you won't find anywhere else. Staff speaks English and the club warmly welcomes international guests alongside its loyal local crowd. The house philosophy says it all: everything is allowed, nothing is mandatory. LGBTQ+ friendly. Couples and newbie friendly.

Club Equinoxe

Hamburg, Hamburg

On-Premise Club

Club Equinoxe occupies a converted former cinema on Eiffestrasse 584 in Hamburg's Hamm district, billing itself as northern Germany's largest swinger club. The venue spans roughly 1,000 square metres across three distinct areas, running parties every Friday and Saturday for couples, single women, and a managed quota of single men, set to weekly DJ sets and a rotating calendar of themed nights. The main room is a large discotheque with an elevated mezzanine lounge and dedicated dance floor, centred on a fully licensed cocktail bar. Beyond the dance floor the space extends into lockable changing rooms with individual lockers, shower facilities stocked with complimentary hygiene products, an SM play area, and a series of private separees. Towels and condoms are provided throughout. The dress code is applied without compromise at the entrance - sexy or formal-elegant attire is the baseline - and entry staff assess footwear as part of the check, with no negotiation on the door. All payments are cash only, at the door and at the bar. Doors open at 21:00 on both nights, closing at 03:00 on Fridays and 04:00 on Saturdays. The event calendar rotates through recurring formats including Never Bi Alone (a bi-inclusive Friday), cocktail-and-Latin evenings, dance-and-erotic parties, and the age-capped Young & Selected gatherings for guests up to 39. The minimum age throughout is 21. Single men must register online in advance, but a confirmed booking is not a guaranteed entry pass - final admission is decided at the door based on the prevailing gender balance - and no-shows are permanently banned from the booking system. Unsolicited touching is prohibited without exception, with violations resulting in immediate and permanent exclusion.

KOW2

Hamburg, Hamburg

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KOW2 — self-billed as "die älteste frivole Bar Hamburgs" (Hamburg's oldest frivolous bar) — occupies Luisenweg 119 in the Hamm district, a short distance east of Hamburg's city centre. Operated by Kay Lederer Unterhaltungsgastronomie, it runs as an erotic lifestyle bar for singles and couples of all genders and sexual orientations, with the stated aim of providing a welcoming atmosphere rather than the scale and anonymity of a large club. The house rules position consent as non-negotiable and make explicit that all guests are to be treated with equal respect regardless of gender or sexual orientation. The venue combines a bar and small dance floor with two dedicated playrooms equipped for BDSM and SM play — fittings include a glory hole and a gynaecological chair. Changing rooms and showers are located in the basement level. Hygiene supplies, towels, and complimentary snacks are provided free of charge, and free surface parking is available on-site. Payment is accepted by EC/debit card or cash. Regular opening nights run Thursday (20:00–03:00) and Friday and Saturday (20:00–04:00), with two monthly specials: the first Wednesday of each month (18:00–01:00, a mixed all-welcome event) and the last Sunday of each month (19:00–01:00, a dedicated BDSM Playnight). There is no admission charge, but minimum spend rules apply — €15 for women, €25 for couples, and a €30 mandatory first-drink purchase for solo men. The dress code specifies erotic or smart attire; printed T-shirts, shorts, sweatpants, and open-toed shoes on men are refused at the door. Photography and phone use are prohibited throughout the entire venue.

Claudia's Dreamlight

Nürnberg, Bavaria

Swinger Club

Claudia’s Dreamlight is a long-established swinger club in the Ziegelstein district of northern Nürnberg, Bavaria, operated by Claudia Schneider through her company Dreamlight GmbH. Schneider, who first opened a lifestyle venue in Amberg roughly three decades ago, has run the Nürnberg location for approximately twenty years, making it one of the city’s most enduring lifestyle venues. The club operates on an all-inclusive erotic party model — open to couples, single women, and single men — underpinned by a consent-first house philosophy: a no is a no, and courtesy between guests is enforced. The venue spans approximately 1,000 square metres across two floors. The ground level holds a fully staffed bar, lounge seating areas, a buffet counter, a dance floor with a pole, sauna, and showers. An upper floor of themed playrooms — including a mirror room, jungle room, Egyptian suite, baroque room, blue room, cuddle room, and an 80-square-metre BDSM area — opens on Friday and Saturday evenings once a threshold of roughly seventy advance Joyclub registrations is reached. All entry prices cover unlimited drinks (including alcohol and spirits), a hot-and-cold buffet, towels, bathrobes, condoms, and hygiene supplies. A seasonal outdoor garden with a smoking terrace rounds out the facilities. The club operates three sessions per week: Wednesday afternoons (10:00–17:00), Friday evenings (18:00–01:00), and Saturday nights (20:00–03:00). Door prices, quoted from the club’s own site, are €60/€90/€100 for couples, €20/€25/€30 for single women, and €110/€120/€130 for single men (Wednesday/Friday/Saturday). A €10 refundable locker-key deposit applies; payment is cash only. Joyclub members who pre-register for events receive a discounted rate. The dress code is strictly enforced: women in lingerie, clubwear, or fetish attire; men in fitted clubwear or fetish clothing — jeans and street clothes are refused at the door. Mobile phones and photography are prohibited throughout the premises.

Swingerclub Savannah

Zwochau, Saxony

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Swingerclub Savannah occupies a purpose-built venue in Zwochau, a small Saxon village roughly 20 kilometres north of Leipzig near Wiedemar, and operates under Savannah GmbH. The club has established a strong reputation across the eastern German lifestyle scene — regulars on review platforms describe it as 'der beste im Osten Deutschlands' — and draws up to 200 guests per night, with an average age squarely in the mid-to-late thirties. Free parking sits directly in front of the building, an on-site club hotel accommodates overnight stays, and the rural location lends the place the feel of a considered retreat rather than a city-centre nightclub. The 850 m² building is organised around a central bar and dance floor, flanked by self-service drink stations stocked with water, prosecco, and beer; cocktails and a broad selection of spirits are served from the bar, and the all-inclusive entry price covers everything except premium champagne and certain luxury labels. A buffet — spanning hot dishes, vegan options, and sweets — is continuously restocked until around 2 a.m. The wellness area adds a sauna, an indoor whirlpool, and an outdoor jacuzzi on a heated terrace, while a separate outdoor smoking area keeps the interior smoke-free throughout. Play spaces run to roughly twenty rooms in different configurations: lockable private rooms, a mirror room, a darkroom, a cinema room, a voyeur room, a massage area, an SM/BDSM zone fitted with a cage and a gynaecological chair, and open areas spread across large mattresses. Towels, lotions, and condoms are provided throughout. One golocal reviewer described the ambiance as 'betörendes Licht, leise Musik und angenehme Düfte' (enchanting light, soft music, pleasant scents), and staff run a rigorous cleaning rotation between uses. Regular party nights run Friday and Saturday, doors opening at 20:00 and running to 03:00. Entry is all-inclusive and priced accordingly: approximately €130–140 for couples, €120–130 for single men, and €49–55 for single women; JoyClub members receive a modest discount. Tickets are booked in advance through savannah-club.com, which also lists the schedule of themed evenings — including periodic Wellness Sunday sessions — held throughout the year. On arrival, the owners personally greet every first-time visitor and walk them through the full venue. The dress code is applied strictly at the door: men in black dress trousers, a dress shirt, and closed shoes; women in a little black dress, lingerie, or equivalently dressed-up attire.

Club Love Ltd

Bristol, Bristol

On-Premise Club

Club Love Ltd is a queer-owned, sex-positive members club rooted in Bristol's underground kink and fetish scene. Founded and run by a queer team, it describes itself as a space where underground clubbing, queer liberation, and uninhibited self-expression collide. Events are held at The Loco Klub, a venue occupying the Victorian former Ash Pits beneath Bristol Temple Meads at Clock Tower Yard, BS1 6QH — a network of sprawling brick tunnels and raw industrial architecture that gives the nights a distinctly immersive, subterranean character. Annual membership is mandatory for main events and is subject to a safeguarding screening process; the team evaluates each application to confirm that prospective members understand the club's guidelines and ethos before approving access. Membership costs £38 plus VAT, paid in person at an event. The club operates three recurring event strands. The flagship Club Love nights run roughly monthly on Fridays or Saturdays, from 22:00 to 04:00, and are open to all approved members and their guests. The venue is configured with a main dance floor — music is curated by DJs spanning house, disco, tech house and breaks, with an emphasis on LGBTQI+ artists — alongside dedicated play spaces that include a fully rigged dungeon. Climax Clique is a separate strand for FLINTA attendees (Femme, Lesbian, Intersex, Non-binary, Trans, Agender), running quarterly. Cottage, the third strand, is a cruising space and play party for cis and trans men and non-binary people aligned with gay male culture. A queer-led wellbeing team, trained by Bristol Drugs Project and Bristol Nights, staffs every event, and a traffic light safeword system (green, amber, red) operates across all shared play spaces. Condoms, dams, lube and safer-sex supplies are provided; solo entry into play spaces is not permitted, and staff assess sobriety and consent at the entrance to those areas. Dress code is strictly enforced: leather, PVC, latex, rubber, mesh, harnesses, drag, and fetish or kink-coded attire are the standard; everyday streetwear, denim, tracksuits and plain T-shirts are not admitted. A no-phones policy is absolute — devices must remain out of sight at all times, with immediate ejection and a permanent ban the consequence of any photography or recording. All events are 20-plus with valid photographic ID required. Tickets for each event are purchased separately via Headfirst Bristol; membership applications close at 5 pm the day before each event, and each member may bring one guest who must enter alongside them.

Secrets for Sharing

Totnes, Devon

On-Premise Club

Secrets for Sharing is a monthly lifestyle event held at a private country house set in the South Devon countryside near Littlehempston, on the outskirts of Totnes. Drawing couples and single women from across Devon, Cornwall and Somerset, it occupies a discreet rural setting whose exact address is released only to confirmed guests. The organisers' approach — no memberships, no sign-up formalities — positions it as an unusually low-barrier entry point into the South West's lifestyle scene, with an emphasis on warmth and genuine connection rather than club-night ceremony. The venue is well-equipped for a full evening and optional overnight stay. A wet area comprises a ten-seat sauna, six-seat hot tub, massage area and shower facilities with towels and lockers. Social spaces run to three chill-out lounges — one screening adult films — and a dance room with pole, while a heated covered outdoor deck provides a sheltered spot away from the main rooms. The play areas divide between a downstairs communal playroom and grope room fitted with a cage, and an upper level holding an XXX cinema room, a love-swing room and three privately lockable themed rooms, among them a 'Trailer Trash'-styled space. A licensed bar operates at below-pub prices throughout the evening, and a complimentary finger buffet is included in the entry price. Events run on the third Saturday of each month, doors opening at 20:00. Entry is £70 per couple and £35 for single women; single men are not admitted. No membership is required — guests reserve a place by phone or email and pay on arrival. An overnight stay at the property is available for those who wish to use it. The dress code calls for smart casual attire from the gentlemen and sexy, stylish dress from the ladies.

Ignite Club

West Drayton, London

On-Premise Club

Ignite Club occupies a converted commercial building at 422 Bath Road in Longford, immediately next door to the T5 Premier Inn on the edge of Heathrow Airport's perimeter — a location that draws a mixed clientele of international travellers and local regulars alike. Formerly operating under the name AbFab (and, earlier, Kestrels), the venue now runs as a private members' club with two distinct identities: a naturist day spa open most days of the week and a programmed swinger and lifestyle events venue on Friday and Saturday evenings. The social areas include a licensed bar, a lounge, and a dance floor. Wet facilities centre on a large heated pool alongside hot tubs, a sauna, a steam room, and showers, with lockers and on-site parking available. Play spaces encompass private cabin rooms, a couples-and-ladies-only room, a dark room, and a kink-equipped dungeon. The club presents itself as body-positive and consent-driven. LGBTQ+ programming is a regular fixture: Monday evenings host a clothing-optional bi-night and Wednesday evenings run clothing-optional sessions open to all members. Themed weekend parties — Flirt and Fling nights, Asian Darkside events, and seasonal BBQ evenings — supplement the standard Friday and Saturday schedule. The naturist spa operates Monday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, and Sunday from 11am. Evening parties run Fridays and Saturdays from 9pm to 2am, with last entry at 11:30pm. Standard evening admission is £40 per couple and £17 for solo women; solo men pay £50 plus a compulsory £10 deposit and must pre-book via a guest list that opens each Monday at 9am. Some Saturday nights are reserved for couples and single ladies only at £50 per couple, from which single men are excluded entirely. Annual membership costs £25 per person; new members must present two forms of ID on first visit. The club defines couples as male and female only.

On-Premise Club

Our Place 4 Fun — known to regulars as OP4F — is a members-only lifestyle and swingers club in London's N22 postcode, situated within easy reach of Alexandra Palace and Wood Green. Operating continuously for at least two decades, the venue bills itself as one of London's friendliest lifestyle clubs and welcomes couples, single women, and a limited number of single men aged 21 and over. All new attendees must register online before their first visit; membership is free, and entry on the night requires a separately purchased ticket. The playspace is compact and intimate — capacity sits at roughly 30 to 60 guests — and is laid out across multiple themed areas entered through a discreet buzzer-entry door. Inside there is a chill-out lounge, a pole-dance zone, a grope room, a dedicated dark room, a BDSM dungeon equipped with a St. Andrew's cross, large communal play beds, and glory holes. Practical amenities include a soft-drink bar, lockers, changing facilities, air conditioning, and a designated outdoor smoking space. Alcohol is strictly BYOB — spirits, wine, beer, and cider are permitted; pre-mixed drinks are not allowed and soft drinks must be purchased at the bar. Themed nights run across four evenings per week: Fridays host Frisky Friday Frolics (22:00–05:00), Saturdays run the Cloud 9 Sexy Saturday party (22:00–05:00), Tuesdays host the Greedy Girls Night (22:00–03:00), and Sundays hold Sunday Kinks (22:00–03:00); a monthly BDSM session takes place on select Thursdays. No walk-ins are permitted — entry requires a pre-booked ticket and prior online registration. Dress code is smart casual at minimum; lingerie, corsets, and fetish wear are strongly encouraged in play areas, and sportswear of any kind is prohibited.

RIOT Party UK

London, London

Event Organizer

RIOT Party UK is a queer, sex-positive rave collective founded in London in 2023 by Maedb Joy and co-organiser Alex, both of whose backgrounds span music promotion and community activism. Conceived as a deliberate response to the lack of diversity in kink and lifestyle nightlife, RIOT explicitly centres QTIPOC communities, sex workers, and the wider LGBTQ+ crowd — placing them at the centre of the DJ lineups, performer rosters, and room culture rather than treating them as add-on constituencies. The collective operates as a roving promoter without a permanent premises, running monthly events primarily in London and with additional dates in Manchester and Bristol. RIOT's primary London home is Electrowerkz, an industrial multi-room venue at 7 Torrens Street in Islington's Angel area, selected in part for its fully ground-floor, step-free layout. Each party is divided into distinct zones: a multi-genre dancefloor anchored by live DJ sets (Dancehall, Afrobeats, House, UK Garage, Baile Funk, and Strip Hop feature regularly), a cabaret and performance stage, a queer independent marketplace with food vendors, workshop and exhibition spaces, and a fully equipped monitored playroom with BDSM apparatus, shibari-friendly setup, and cleaning supplies provided. Changing rooms, cloakrooms, and an accessible restroom are on-site at every event. A safeguarding team in bright LED armbands circulates throughout; all guests are encouraged to approach them with concerns. London parties typically run on Sunday afternoons and evenings — doors open around 4 pm and close several hours later, with the event running until midnight; special collaborations have run on other days. Tickets are sold in advance through Dice and OutSavvy, typically in the £15–25 range with a Low Income tier available; there are no walk-in purchases. Entry is 18+ and requires physical photo ID — no screenshots or photocopies accepted. Fetishwear or expressive alternative fashion is mandatory at the door across all genders; everyday clubwear, jeans, and items mocking fetish or queer culture are refused, and an outfit pre-approval service is available by email at least 48 hours before the event. Photography and video are banned throughout the venue, camera lenses are covered on arrival, and phones are prohibited in the playroom. No solo play or loitering in play areas is permitted; enthusiastic consent is required before any engagement.

Within Temptation

Torquay, Devon

On-Premise Club

Within Temptation is a licensed swingers and kink club on Lower Union Lane, a side street in central Torquay, Devon. Holding a Sex Entertainment Venue Licence granted by Torbay Council in May 2024, the venue has operated at this site since 2021. It caters to couples, single women, and — on most events — single men in a consent-focused adult social environment that mixes swinging and BDSM/fetish interests under one roof. The space runs across two floors. Ground level holds a fully licensed bar with a VIP section and table service, a dance floor, a pole lounge, a beer garden, a heated indoor pool (10–14 person capacity), a sauna (6–8 person capacity), and a dungeon fitted with a St Andrews Cross, Tau Chair, O Tower, and play benches; a disabled toilet and full wheelchair access serve this level. The upstairs play floor holds six gloryholes, two private playrooms (one en-suite), an open group bed, a first-floor stage area, and a 12-person communal shower. Microfibre towels are complimentary, robes and fluffy towels are available for £1 each, lockers operate on a key-exchange basis, and condoms and lubricant are provided throughout. The main programme runs Friday and Saturday, 20:00 to 02:00, with last entry at 23:30 (midnight by arrangement). The calendar rotates weekly-themed nights: Newbie Night, Bi-Gasm (couples and women; single men by invitation only), Bare Bones kink parties (no single men), and Hotwife's Hunger (free entry for women verified via FabSwingers). Private hire is available on weekdays. From September 2026 membership is compulsory: annual passes cost £30 (women), £50 (couples), or £60 (single men); four-month passes cost £15, £25, or £30 respectively. Day passes, which include membership and entry, are £15 for women and £40 for couples or single men. Single men are admitted subject to a strict gender-ratio cap and are advised to arrive promptly at opening.

Route 69

Weston-super-Mare, Somerset

On-Premise Club

Route 69 occupies a basement space on the High Street in central Weston-super-Mare, Somerset — a long-running licensed lifestyle venue that bills itself as the South West's Friendliest Adult Club. The venue operates on a deliberately compact model, non-pushy in its approach, with staff who personally walk first-time visitors around the space before the evening gets under way. It welcomes straight and LGBT+ guests alike and pitches its atmosphere firmly on the social side of the spectrum. The venue is arranged around a lounge with a fully licensed bar, three lockable playrooms — one of which incorporates a gloryhole with a coverable viewing window — and a dungeon equipped with a St Andrew's Cross, a play swing, and stocks. Lockers are available on a key-swap system, and a heated, covered outdoor smoking area sits at the rear of the building. Towels, lube, wipes and condoms are stocked in every playroom; cock rings and wax candles are available at the bar. CCTV covers the social areas, though there are no showers on site. Themed nights — Greedy Girls evenings, BDSM nights, bi nights and monthly special parties — run through the calendar alongside regular weekly sessions. The club operates sessions on Fridays and Saturdays from 20:00 to 02:00, and Sundays from 14:00 to 22:00; last entry is two hours before closing in all cases. All entry requires advance booking through Eventbrite; the venue no longer accepts walk-ins or phone bookings. The minimum age is 25. Single-male attendance is permitted but numbers are capped per session, and early booking is advised. Entry pricing on Fridays and Saturdays is £35 for single men, £25 for couples, £15 for TS/TV guests, and £10 for single women; Sunday rates are exactly half.

Pandora Swingers Club

Leeds, West Yorkshire

Pandora occupies a converted former shoe warehouse at Unit 2 Ledgard Way in the Armley district of Leeds, roughly two miles west of the city centre. The club bills itself as the largest swingers venue in Northern England and operates on a members-only basis. It shares the Ledgard Way building with Steam Complex, a gay sauna whose daytime hours precede Pandora’s evening sessions — a scheduling arrangement confirmed by Leeds City Council when it approved extended operating hours following a planning application that attracted objections from local councillors and the then-MP Rachel Reeves. The venue makes use of a multi-floor warehouse footprint. A heated swimming pool (30°C), a ten-person jacuzzi (35°C), a twelve-person sauna, and a sprung dance floor sit alongside a bar serving soft drinks and mixers, with a BYOB drop-off area where staff secure members’ own alcohol behind the bar (the venue holds no alcohol licence). Play spaces extend across a dungeon, dark rooms, UV rooms, an orgy room, private rooms equipped with suspension beds, bondage walls, sex swings, glory holes, and a massage area. The car park outside is floodlit and holds sixty spaces. The weekly schedule runs Thursday to Sunday. Thursday hosts Biphoria, a bisexual and bi-male session running 11am to midnight with split admission: before 7pm, couples pay £25 and single men £17 (single women and trans guests £8); after 7pm the rates drop to £15 for couples and single men, £5 for single women and trans guests. Friday and Saturday are general open nights (8pm–2am); Sunday is a lower-key Relaxed Sunday (8pm–midnight). A monthly fetish night is held on the first Wednesday of the month. Annual membership costs £5 for single women and trans members, £10 for couples, and £40 for single men.

The Ecclesia

Glasgow, Scotland

On-Premise Club

The Ecclesia is a Glasgow city centre lifestyle and kink club combining swinging and BDSM/fetish communities under one roof. Founded in 2017 by event organisers with a background running alternative-lifestyle events across Scotland — including the Breaking Point annual event in Perth and club nights in Dundee — the venue opened in Glasgow in late 2019 following the closure of the city's long-running Sauchiehall Street dungeon. The club operates in the Hope Street and Merchant City area of the city centre on a near-community, non-profit basis. The venue spans nearly 3,000 sq ft across two connected spaces. A penthouse dungeon of around 500 sq ft across two rooms is equipped with a custom suspension murphy bed, suspension platforms, fetters wheels, bondage thrones, St Andrews crosses, cages, Sybian machines, fucking machines, and a rope tie platform. Social spaces are kept separate from the playrooms. Condoms, lubricant, and cleaning supplies are stocked throughout. A mandatory safety briefing precedes every event and a consent policy — with house safeword 'RED' — is enforced venue-wide. The event calendar includes Fun for All (FFA) mixed nights open to couples, singles, and groups (typically 8pm to midnight); Greedy Girls Gangbang nights; dedicated LGBT nights; ladies-only evenings; TV/CD admirer nights; kink workshops including rope education (typically 3pm to 8pm); and social speed-dating evenings with play-permitted afterparties. Private dungeon hire is available at £40 per hour or £200 for a full day. All tickets are sold in advance on a guestlist-only basis — the physical address is released only to confirmed attendees — and are non-refundable and non-transferable. Challenge 25 is enforced at the door.

On-Premise Club

Decadance is a three-floor swingers club at 122 Durham Street in Rochdale, Greater Manchester, that has been operating for over a decade — its fourteenth birthday falls in September 2026. The club runs on a no-membership, no-guestlist model and opens four nights a week. Self-described as female-run, it centres its ethos on consent, safety, and a relaxed social atmosphere. The venue spans three floors of a converted building. The ground floor holds a fully licensed bar, a pool table, toilets, and sauna; the first floor, reached by a steep staircase, contains the playrooms, shower facilities, and an outdoor balcony — the designated smoking area and the only space where mobile phones may be used. The basement is reached via a very steep curved staircase and houses the BDSM dungeon. Towels, lockers, and condoms are included in the entry price, as is pool-table use. Photography and recording are banned throughout the venue. The weekly schedule runs Monday Funday (13:00–18:00), Friday Night Madness (20:00–02:00), SeXXXy Saturday (20:00–02:00), and Spicy Sunday (15:00–22:00). The first Friday of each month hosts a dedicated newcomer night called Cherry Popper. No membership is required. Entry is £25 for single men (£20 on Sundays and Mondays), £15 for couples (£10 on Sundays and Mondays), £10 for trans guests, and always free for single women. A Challenge 25 ID policy is in operation; only passports and driving licences are accepted. Casual dress is permitted in the bar and social areas, but playroom access requires changing into underwear, a towel, fetish wear, or nudity — street clothes are not allowed upstairs. A zero-tolerance drugs policy results in a lifetime ban and referral to police.

Maxwell Manor

Chorley, Lancashire

On-Premise Club

Maxwell Manor occupies the converted shell of the former Potters Arms pub on Brooke Street in Chorley, Lancashire, a community local that served the town for more than thirty-five years before closing in September 2024. Opened in 2025 by Liana Rainford and Patrick Wolff, the venue operates as a members-only adult social club with an explicitly inclusive ethos — describing itself as a safe space open to straight, gay, bi, trans, queer, pansexual, kinky, asexual, and curious members alike. The original pub frontage has been bricked up; guests arrive discreetly through a rear entrance. The interior has been refurbished with themed sets and bespoke furnishings, and the venue holds a full premises licence for alcohol and entertainment. A licensed bar operates at every event, and on-site lockers store members belongings — phones must be deposited for the entire visit. The space doubles as a professional photography and videography studio available for separate hire. On-site parking is limited; paid car parks are available nearby, and several hotels are within easy reach for travelling members. The programme runs to 2am and covers ticketed club nights, play parties, and workshops. Recurring formats include singles nights, couples-only gatherings, all-female club nights, kink and fetish play parties, FemDom evenings, and dominance workshops. Attendance requires annual membership: £20 for single women, £25 for single men, and £35 for couples, with an additional charge for specialist event nights. Event tickets are non-refundable, must match the members name exactly, and dress codes vary per event as detailed on individual tickets.

Club Alchemy

Northwich, Cheshire

On-Premise Club

Club Alchemy is an adult lifestyle venue occupying Mallingham House on Winnington Lane, a discreet site on the outskirts of Northwich in Cheshire. It operates exclusively on an event-based model — no nightly trading — running a calendar of themed parties for couples, single ladies, and, on selected nights, a limited number of single men. The building encompasses multiple designated play spaces alongside a dungeon, a spa area with saunas and a jacuzzi, and an outdoor deck; wet areas are consistently cited as a highlight by attendees. A licensed bar operates on a fully cashless basis, with drinks frequently described by guests as well-priced. Reviewers characterise the overall feel as ‘huge but still intimate,’ crediting thoughtful layout and attentive floor staff. The club carries a strong LGBTQ+-inclusive identity, hosting dedicated Bi-Day and Bi Friday events alongside a rotating programme of specialist nights including Dark Velvet (an interracial night, trans-inclusive), Curve Nation (body-positive), U2-4-US2 (couples and single ladies only), and seasonal Temptations parties. Phones and cameras are prohibited throughout the venue, lockers are mandatory, and arrival is via a CCTV-monitored private car park. Events typically open at 8:30–9pm and run until 2:30–3am. Tickets are sold in advance online; pricing varies by event — single ladies from £15, couples from £35, and single men from approximately £45. Single male attendance is capped per event to maintain balance, and certain events exclude single men entirely. A zero-tolerance consent policy is enforced by visible on-site security and active floor staff throughout the night.

Quest Swingers Club

Leeds, West Yorkshire

Private members' society

Quest Swingers Club is a private members' society on Low Road in the Hunslet district of south Leeds, founded by couple Jo and Dave — who began hosting lifestyle parties from home in 1999 — and formally opened in November 2001. Now in its third decade, the club accommodates up to 200 guests per session and welcomes open-minded couples and singles aged 21 and over. Its programme spans mainstream swinging nights, dedicated bisexual evenings, events for T-Girls, cross-dressers and their admirers, fetish and kink sessions, and a calendar of themed costume parties, making it one of the more programmatically diverse clubs in West Yorkshire. The venue is arranged around a main social lounge, a licensed bar, the Red Room, and a Jacuzzi Lounge. The wet area houses an eight-person hot tub, hot-and-cold showers, a sauna, and a steam room; sexual activity in the hot tub is explicitly prohibited. Dungeon equipment is available on site, and member reviews cite a cinema room as a popular feature. Separate spacious changing facilities serve all genders and lockers are provided. An on-site car park screened from the road offers convenient private access. The layout is largely wheelchair-navigable: corridors are wide and an accessible restroom is available. Staff walk new visitors through the venue before each session, and every night opens as a social gathering, with anything further governed entirely by individual consent. Sessions run six days a week. Daytime sessions — Wednesday Afternoon Fun (11:00–18:00), Friday Afternoon Fun (11:00–18:00), and Funday Sunday (13:00–22:00) — are open to non-members and priced at £15 per couple, £10 for single females, and £25 for single males. Bi Tuesdays (11:00–23:00) and Thursday Afternoon (T-Girls, CDs & Admirers, 11:00–18:00) are also open to non-members at equivalent rates. The members-only Midweek Chill Night (Wednesday evenings, 19:00–23:00) is £20 per couple, £10 for single females, and £30 for single males. Alternate-Saturday M&N Party Nights (20:30–02:00) are members-only at around £30 per couple and £30–35 for single males. Membership costs £10 for couples, £5 for ladies, and £25 for single males. All visitors must present valid physical photo ID; digital copies are not accepted. Mobile phones, cameras, and recording devices must be switched off and kept out of sight throughout a visit.

Townhouse

Birkenhead, Merseyside

Swinger / Lifestyle Club

Townhouse is a licensed lifestyle venue at 9 Union Street in Tranmere, Birkenhead, on the Wirral peninsula across the Mersey from Liverpool. Founded in 2005 and taken over by co-owners Vicky and Jim in 2012, it operates under a Sexual Entertainment Venue licence granted by Wirral Council and serves the swinging, BDSM/fetish, and LGBTQ+ communities. With over 25,000 registered members and a staff of more than 60, it is one of the largest lifestyle venues in the North West of England, drawing regulars from across the UK, Ireland, and mainland Europe. The venue spans four floors: a ground-floor bar and dance floor with a pole sets a sociable tone before guests venture upstairs to eight playrooms. These include a dungeon fitted with a St Andrews cross, suspension points, bondage beds, cages, and rope; a medical-fantasy Klinik with an inspection chair and leg stirrups; a wet room housing a hot tub, steam room, and waterfall showers; two private rooms; and a group play area. Free condoms — including latex-free options — are provided throughout; towels can be hired at the door for £1. The venue partners with Sahir House for on-site HIV and STI testing. No CCTV operates in playrooms or changing rooms, and mobile phones are banned throughout the building except at reception under manager supervision. Events run from a calendar of more than 35 named formats: daytime MILF Monday sessions, midweek evening parties on Tuesdays and Thursdays, and main nights on Fridays and Saturdays with doors at 8pm and close at 2am. Specialist programming includes all-female Ruby Slippers parties, BDSM and rope nights, FemDom afternoons, pet-play events, and a monthly Queer Space Social for LGBTQ+ guests. Annual membership is £10 per person; all events are advance-ticket only with no walk-in entry. Photo ID is checked at the door alongside a biometric fingerprint scan. Dress code requires smart casual before 10:30pm; club attire upstairs is mandatory after that.

Shhh Newcastle Swingers Club

Newcastle upon Tyne, Tyne and Wear

On-Premise Club

Shhh Newcastle Swingers Club occupies a multi-storey premises at 85-89 Blandford Street in Newcastle city centre, roughly five minutes' walk from both Newcastle Central rail station and the Tyne and Wear Metro. Operating since 2018 and formerly trading as Shhh... by Base, the club underwent a full refurbishment in 2021 — installing a new jacuzzi, updating the playrooms, and adding a discreet rear entrance — and bills itself as the only venue of its kind in Newcastle upon Tyne. With a stated capacity of 200, the club places a strong emphasis on inclusivity: the space is LGBTQ+-welcoming and explicitly trans-friendly, with reduced or complimentary entry for trans guests on most nights. The venue spans two floors. Downstairs sits a fully licensed bar, a lounge, a dance floor, and spacious changing rooms with secure lockers; upstairs are the playrooms — including a cinema room, private zones, and a dungeon — alongside a sauna, steam room, jacuzzi, an internet room, and an outdoor seating area. First-time visitors receive a guided tour before being issued a membership card and locker key. Reviews describe a clean, no-pressure atmosphere with staff consistently praised for attentiveness to safety and comfort. Complimentary condoms (standard, king-size, and latex-free), lubricant, and dental dams are provided at reception and throughout the bar; the first towel is free and additional towels are £1 each. Overnight stays are available on party and fetish nights, with private or shared rooms at £15 per person and morning refreshments served between 9am and 11am. The club runs Wednesday through Sunday. Wednesday afternoons host a mixed swingers session (couples £20, singles £10); Thursday is a Flip Flop bisex night (couples £10, singles £5, trans guests free); Friday's #FetishFriday admits couples at £10, single women at £5, and single men at £20; Saturday's Swingers Circus is the main weekly event (couples and single men £25, women £10); and Sunday is a men-only play day. On Friday fetish and Saturday nights, guests may supplement the licensed bar with their own alcohol for a £2.50 corkage fee. Membership requires completing an application form and presenting valid photo ID: a driving licence showing the current address is preferred and sufficient alone, while a passport must be accompanied by a utility bill, council tax bill, or bank statement. Before 11pm the dress code is smart and glamorous; after 11pm, access to upstairs play areas requires appropriate attire — lingerie, a wrap, robe, or towel — and trainers, sportswear, and hoodies are prohibited throughout.

Fata-Morgana

Muiden, Noord-Holland

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Fata-Morgana is a couples-oriented lifestyle club set inside a three-storey converted farmhouse at Rijksweg 15 in Muiden, Noord-Holland, roughly ten minutes by car from Amsterdam along the A1 motorway — take junction 3 toward Muiden and Weesp. Free parking is available on site. The club operates on an all-inclusive model with no membership requirement: a single entry fee covers food, A-brand drinks including alcohol, towels, and condoms for the duration of the evening. The three floors of the farmhouse hold a wide spread of social and erotic spaces. The main level accommodates a dance floor with resident DJs, a restaurant serving an extended buffet, and a full bar; a sauna complex, whirlpool, and both indoor and outdoor swimming pools round out the leisure areas, with a VIP lounge with fireplace, covered terrace, sun lawn, and gardens providing quieter spaces for socialising. Upper floors house an open group loft, a darkroom, an SM room with equipment, massage rooms, and private lockable chambers. The club opens on Fridays from 21:00 to 03:00 at €150 per couple, and on Saturdays from 21:00 to 04:00 at €180 per couple. Solo women are admitted at half the couple rate. Single men are not permitted under any circumstances. Dress code is strictly enforced on entry and throughout: erotic, provocative, or club-wear is required; men are expected in boxers with an optional shirt; regular street clothing, swimwear, and sportswear are not permitted inside the building. Advance booking is recommended, particularly for Saturday evenings. Payment is accepted by cash, PIN, Visa, Mastercard, American Express, UnionPay, JCB, and Bancontact.