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Illuminaughty Albuquerque

UNCERTAIN

Albuquerque, NM

Private Event Series / Curated Parties

Illuminaughty Albuquerque is a membership-based lifestyle event organizer that hosts exclusive cocktail mixers and private swinger parties in Albuquerque, New Mexico. It operates as part of the national Illuminaughty network, which runs events across more than 40 U.S. cities. Attendance requires an approved membership application, and members gain access to a referral program and a dedicated mobile app.

On-premise Club

Est. 2004. Baltimore's premier on-premise lifestyle club. Black-owned and Women-owned. Changed local scene.

On-premise Club

The Riverside Club is a private membership-based lifestyle club in Gallipolis Ferry, West Virginia, hosting monthly themed events. Events run from 8pm to 2am on Saturdays and include themes such as Leather and Lace, Safari Night, and Country and Western. Membership registration and RSVP are handled through the club website.

Event Organizer

Mindbender Parties is an East Coast event organizer hosting lifestyle parties primarily in the Providence, Rhode Island area. Events feature DJs, dancing, a play area, and a welcoming atmosphere for newcomers. Dedicated security staff are present at every event to ensure guest safety and comfort.

The Art Cinema

Hartford, CT

Adult Theater

The Art Cinema is an adult lifestyle venue in Hartford, Connecticut. Contact the venue directly for event schedule and details.

On-premise Club + Lodging

Eyz Wide Shut is an adult lifestyle nightclub and play venue located in Tampa, Florida, open Thursday through Sunday with a 21-and-older admission requirement. The club features a full bar, dance floor, and ten private themed rooms, with three group rooms reserved for couples and single women; single males may access group spaces only by female invitation. A dress code is enforced, and all rooms are stocked with fresh linens.

On-Premise Lifestyle Club

Described as the largest, most luxurious adult playground in Houston. Known for immaculate cleanliness and attention to detail. Featured in a full documentary on YouTube.

Power Exchange

San Francisco, CA

On-premise Pansexual Sex Club

Power Exchange is a pansexual adult nightclub in San Francisco that has operated since 1996, offering BDSM, kink, and alternative lifestyle events in a private setting. The venue is open Thursday through Sunday nights and emphasizes a safe, inclusive, and discreet environment. It accepts cash payment with an ATM available on-site.

Members-Only Sex-Positive Community / Event Organizer (501c7)

Mission Control SF, also known as Kinky Salon, is a sex-positive community organization based in San Francisco operating as a 501(c)(7) nonprofit. The club fosters a consent-culture environment centered on creative expression, education, and adult social events. Membership is required to access event information and attend gatherings.

On-premise Club

Trapeze Club Atlanta is an on-premise adult lifestyle club located in Atlanta, Georgia, operating Wednesday through Sunday from 8 PM with a BYOB policy. The venue features playrooms, themed events, a cigar lounge, and upscale dining with rotating weekly menus and a carving station. Single males are welcome most nights; Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only.

Stopgap

San Francisco, CA

Kink Venue / Play Space

Stopgap is a kink venue and event organizer in San Francisco occupying a building with historical significance as the former home of the SF Citadel. The space includes a fully accessible first floor with social and play areas, plus a 3,100 square-foot basement equipped with BDSM equipment including crosses, benches, and suspension rigging. Monthly House Party events are held on the first Friday of each month.

Tokyo Valentino Lifestyle Club

Atlanta, GA

Adult Superstore + Play Spaces

Tokyo Valentino Lifestyle Club is a 24-hour adult lifestyle and play venue on Cheshire Bridge Road in Atlanta, Georgia, closing only briefly on Wednesday mornings for cleaning. The facility spans three floors and includes eight Amsterdam-style booths, open and private playrooms, dark rooms, shower facilities, massage rooms, private bedrooms, and an LED dance floor. No membership is required; admission is pay-per-visit, and the venue operates on a BYOB basis.

On-premise Club

L'Orage is one of Montreal's oldest lifestyle clubs, founded in 1989 by Jean-Paul Labaye. The club gained national prominence through a landmark 2005 Supreme Court of Canada ruling — R. v. Labaye — which set the legal standard defining consensual adult clubs across the country. It operates as an on-premise members' venue in Montreal.

Off-Premise Event Organizer

Has been hosting exclusive off-premise lifestyle events in Denver for 11+ years. Focuses on providing a social network to meet others in a fun, flirty atmosphere without pressure.

On-premise Club

Complexe Luxuria is a libertin (swingers) club in Montreal hosting themed events on Friday and Saturday nights. The venue features a dance floor, social areas, and regular themed costume parties. Events are ticketed and include seasonal celebrations and guest appearances.

Illuminaughty Austin

Austin, TX

Private Invitation-Only Lifestyle Events

Illuminaughty Austin is a private, invitation-only lifestyle event organization serving the Austin, Texas area as part of a multi-city network. The organization hosts adult social events for couples and singles aged 21 to 49 who apply through a membership screening process. Members access event details and RSVP through a dedicated mobile app.

Club M4 (Menage a Quatre)

Mississauga, Ontario

On-premise Club

Club M4 is an adult lifestyle and swingers club in Mississauga, Ontario, operating across over 10,000 square feet with a fully licensed bar, dance floor, lounge, and multiple private play areas. The club is open 365 days a year with afternoon and evening sessions daily, including themed parties and Young Swingers Society events. Membership is available alongside per-event ticketing; couples, single women, and young swingers are welcome.

On-Premise Private Members-Only Nightclub

Club Tempted is a members-only private lifestyle nightclub in Louisville, Kentucky. Membership is offered in four tiers — Onyx, Crystal, Ruby, and Diamond — each providing different levels of access and complimentary event entry. The club also coordinates lifestyle travel experiences including cruises and resort getaways to destinations such as Cancun and Puerto Morelos.

Colette Houston

Houston, TX

On-Premise Private Social Club

Colette Houston is an on-premise private social club in Houston, Texas, operating as part of the Colette Clubs chain. The venue offers a European-style adult lifestyle experience for couples and is presented as an upscale alternative to other Houston area clubs. Membership is required for access.

On-Premise Lifestyle Club

The Pendulum Club South is a women-owned lifestyle venue in Houston with a contemporary mid-town vibe attracting a younger crowd. Like the other Pendulum locations, it features 10 play areas and is BYOB with complimentary ice, cups, and mixers. Open to couples, single women, and select single men on designated nights.

On-premise Club

The X Club is a lifestyle nightclub in Mississauga, Ontario, operating Friday and Saturday nights from 9 PM to 3 AM. The venue offers a dance floor, VIP bottle service, and multiple themed areas, with Saturdays reserved exclusively for couples and single women. Members must be 21 or older; a Newbie Night runs on the first Friday of each month with no membership required.

Clothing-optional Resort

15 min from Disney World. Former Ramada Inn. 'For Swingers, by Swingers.' Complimentary dinner buffet + omelet bar.

On-premise Club

Probe is a private members' lifestyle club in Ottawa's Byward Market, welcoming individuals of all genders and orientations. The venue focuses on consensual exploration and community building in an inclusive, judgment-free environment. Weekly events and themed nights are featured throughout the year.

On-Premise Private Members Lounge

The Fantasy Lounge is a private members' social club in Kansas City featuring vetted guests, an upscale atmosphere, and themed social events throughout the year. Events are ticketed with advance RSVP available online.

Sensual Pleasures Lifestyle Club (SPLC)

Gatlinburg, TN

On-Premise Private Members-Only Club

Sensual Pleasures Lifestyle Club (SPLC) is a private members-only lifestyle club serving the East Tennessee and Smoky Mountains area. The venue hosts events on Friday and Saturday nights from 8 PM to 2 AM, offering a full dinner buffet, BYOB with complimentary mixers, themed parties, educational workshops, and live entertainment. Overnight bed and breakfast accommodations are available by reservation, and the club dedicates Friday evenings to a bisexual, singles, and crossdresser/trans-inclusive night.

Richmond Sauna

Richmond, ME

Clothing-optional B&B/Sauna

Richmond Sauna is a clothing-optional bed-and-breakfast and wellness retreat located in Richmond, Maine, operating as a healing community since 1976. The historic 1800s property offers six guest rooms, Finnish-style wood-fired saunas, an outdoor hot tub, and a seasonal heated swimming pool. Community sauna sessions run Wednesday through Sunday evenings, and the venue welcomes guests from diverse lifestyle communities.

On-Premise Private Couples Club

Previously voted #1 Lifestyle Club in Texas. Located near downtown Dallas with an old speakeasy vibe.

Alternative Lifestyle Community Center / Kink & Comedy Club

Alaska Club Kink is a community-focused kink and social club in Anchorage offering weekly events including Mystery Munch dinners, movie nights, game nights, rope jams, and workshops, plus a Friday open-mic comedy and karaoke night. Membership sign-up is free.

On-Premise Club / House Party Style

The Red Rooster is a Las Vegas adult lifestyle nightclub that has operated since 1982, making it one of the longest-running venues of its type in the city. The club is open to both couples and singles, operates on a BYOB policy, and runs Wednesday through Sunday nights. Live entertainment is featured regularly, and no reservations are required for general entry.

The Green Door

Las Vegas, NV

On-Premise Club / Adult Health Spa

The Green Door is an adults-only social and lifestyle club in Las Vegas, Nevada. The venue operates Wednesday through Sunday from 8 PM, offers membership programs, and hosts regular events. Tours are available for prospective members.

Hotel Event-Based Lifestyle Group

A Knoxville-based lifestyle group hosting hotel events, typically at the Clarion Inn. Offers food, dancing, and play areas.

Lifestyle Event Venue / Lounge

Described as Denver's finest lifestyle club, Sugar Lounge is an open-minded venue hosting a wide range of events in a safe, clean, and friendly environment.

Monde Ose

Toronto, Ontario

Event Organizer

Monde Osé is a Montreal-based lifestyle brand and event organizer producing theatrical erotic entertainment events, most notably the Royal Burlesque Ball held at venues such as Théâtre Rialto. Events feature local and international burlesque performers in an upscale, glamour-focused setting with a mandatory dress code and explicit consent guidelines for attendees. The organization also offers membership programs and a curated online community in both English and French.

On-premise Club

Club L is a lifestyle and swinging club in Montreal, Quebec, occupying over 7,200 square feet across multiple floors of a converted former credit union building. The venue includes a restaurant-lounge with chef-prepared meals, nine themed private bedrooms, and common play areas; a membership subscription is required for entry. Fridays and Saturdays are reserved for couples, single women, and accompanied men; Thursdays are open to all adults 18 and over.

Kink/BDSM Club

DC's only private kink club. Non-profit 501(c)7. Nearly two decades. Hosts Black Rose events.

On-Premise Private Event Venue / Hotel Events

A Dallas-based lifestyle events organization hosting parties at their Design District venue and luxury hotel locations. Prioritizes discretion and privacy.

Club Labyrinth NYC

New York, NY

On-premise Club

Club Labyrinth is a members-only swingers club in Midtown Manhattan, open Wednesday through Saturday. The venue features a group playroom, semi-private areas, voyeur room, blackout room, video lounge, and a BYOB bar with complimentary non-alcoholic beverages. Couples must arrive and leave together; single males require photo verification or sponsorship by a member couple.

On-Premise Pool Party / House Party

Established in 2014, Risque Vegas Estate hosts clothing-optional pool and lifestyle parties with a heated pool and casual atmosphere.

Top Floor Club

New York, NY

Curated Play Party

Top Floor is an invitation-only erotic play party community based in New York City, operating from a two-floor penthouse with monitored play suites, a phone-free dance floor, and a dedicated aftercare lounge. Events include the Signature Weekend, MARKED (kink-focused), and BI SENSUAL gatherings, each staffed by trained consent guardians. STI testing within three months is required for all members, and a consent orientation is conducted at each event.

On-Premise Private Members Club

Memphis's established lifestyle club offering a nightclub atmosphere with a live DJ, dance floor, games, and upstairs play rooms. Open Saturday nights only.

On-Premise Private Social Club

Austin's Colette location offering the same upscale lifestyle experience as other Colette clubs.

On-Premise Private Members Club

Club Eden OKC is a lifestyle venue in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, part of the Club Eden chain of adult social clubs.

On-Premise Lifestyle Nightclub

Club Choices was a private members-only lifestyle nightclub in Houston, Texas, spanning over 9,000 square feet across three levels. The venue offered VIP suites, private play spaces, and a full nightclub atmosphere. The club is currently closed.

On-Premise Private Members-Only Lifestyle Lodge

Eros Knoxville is a private members-only lifestyle club in Knoxville, Tennessee. The club operates on a BYOB policy with no alcohol sold on-site, and all new members are required to complete an orientation tour by 11 PM on their first visit. Regular themed events run Friday nights, with early-arrival discounts for couples and complimentary entry for women before 10 PM.

Event Organizer

The Pendulum Society is a members-only adult lifestyle and kink club based in the Vancouver, British Columbia area, open to adults 19 and older. The venue features themed parties, semi-private playrooms, a saltwater inground pool, and a dungeon space with equipment, and also offers private event rentals and photo or video shoot bookings. All events are consent-based and inclusive of all genders and sexual orientations; sexual activity is never guaranteed.

Events + Studio Rental

PLUR Productions is a sex-positive event production company based in Vancouver, British Columbia, serving the LGBTQ+, swinger, kink, and burner communities under the ethos of peace, love, unity, and respect. Monthly themed events and bi-monthly meet-and-mingle nights are held at various venues, with clearly marked play areas, on-site consent staff called Cupids, and complimentary safer-sex supplies provided. Membership is required for entry; the club is open to all orientations and gender identities at identical admission rates for adults 19 and older.

BDSM/Alternative Lifestyle Social Club & Advocacy Organization

The Red Chair is a nonprofit BDSM and alternative lifestyle club and educational organization based in Birmingham, Alabama, serving the Central Alabama community. Established as Alabama's oldest organization of its kind, it operates as a 501(c) nonprofit and hosts educational seminars, classes, group discussions, and regular events. The club is inclusive of all sexual orientations and consensual relationship styles, and is a coalition partner of the National Coalition of Sexual Freedom.

On-Premise Private House Party

Whispers Las Vegas is a private couples-only lifestyle venue operating near the Las Vegas Strip. The club runs Thursday through Saturday nights and requires all attendees to sign a non-disclosure agreement; single men are not admitted. The property features an outdoor pool area and hosts monthly themed events, with access available through online membership via platforms such as Kasidie and SDC.

On-Premise Private Social Club

San Antonio's premier lifestyle club operating since 1999. Provides a discreet, welcoming place for lifestyle couples and single ladies. Instagram now shows as "colette San Antonio," suggesting a rebrand or affiliation.

On-premise Club

KNetic Club is a lifestyle and adult social club with two Calgary, Alberta locations — KNetic South and KNetic North — billing itself as Calgary's largest and most inclusive lifestyle club. The club offers a full social lounge with food service, educational workshops including shibari and kink instruction, a recurring discussion series on relationships, and regular themed parties and mix-and-mingle events. A free member profile is required before attending any event; separate men-only and women-only events are also available.

Adult Lifestyle Resort / Hotel with Pool

Mon Chalet is an adult lifestyle resort in Aurora, Colorado, catering to couples and the swinger community. The property offers themed suites with amenities such as decorative fireplaces, swings, whirlpools, and a clothing-optional heated indoor pool and hot tub. Day swimming passes are available for non-overnight guests, and an online introductions section facilitates connections between guests.

Private Play Space / Hourly Rental

Mile High Club Chalet is a private adult retreat operating across four locations in the Denver metro area, including Centennial, Denver, and Glendale. The space is designed for personal use by two or more people and explicitly is not a social club or a place to meet others. Access is digital and reservation-based, with membership packages ranging from single visits to multi-visit plans.

Illuminaughty Denver

Denver, CO

Private Event Series / Curated Parties

Illuminaughty Denver is a consent-focused private lifestyle event series operating in Denver, Colorado, part of a national network spanning over 40 U.S. cities. The organization hosts monthly events ranging from casual cocktail mixers to private play parties, targeting couples and singles in their 20s, 30s, and beyond. Membership is application-based and a mobile app is available for members.

On-premise Bathhouse/Club

X Club Winnipeg is an adult lifestyle and social club spanning over 10,000 square feet across three floors at its Winnipeg, Manitoba location. The facility includes multiple play rooms, a hot tub room, sauna, steam room, and a range of locker and private room rentals priced per visit. Annual membership is available for couples and solo members and provides room reservations, event discounts, and reduced room rates.

Event Organizer (Hotel/House)

Club Triple XTC is a private adult lifestyle event organizer based in Regina, Saskatchewan, hosting sociable meet-and-greet nights, residential hot tub parties, and hotel penthouse theme events several times a year. Events welcome all gender identities and sexual orientations, with hot tub parties primarily catering to women and couples and hotel events accommodating 150 or more guests across multiple themed rooms. A free membership application with a screening process is required before attending any event.

Lifestyle Playground

Denver, CO

Private Event Series / Hotel Takeovers

Lifestyle Playground is a private lifestyle event organization based in Colorado, hosting events in Denver, Colorado Springs, and Thornton. The group offers a range of gatherings from casual coffee meetups to full hotel takeovers with themed rooms, as well as workshops on sexual wellness. The community is inclusive of ENM, polyamory, swinging, LGBTQ+, and BDSM members, and access requires a membership application.

Entourage Vegas Spa and Health Club

UNCERTAIN

Las Vegas, NV

Gay Men's Bathhouse / Spa

Formerly Apollo Health Club, serving the LGBTQ+ community since 1994. The only gay bathhouse in Las Vegas with an indoor pool. Colorfully lit private space for men to enjoy the company of other men.

Arouse Vegas

Las Vegas, NV

On-Premise Private Event Series

Arouse Vegas is a members-only lifestyle club and private event series based in Las Vegas, Nevada. The organization hosts monthly themed events at local venues, welcoming both couples and singles, and also coordinates lifestyle travel packages including cruises and resort takeovers. Membership is required for event access, with free profile creation and paid membership tiers available.

On-premise Club

Night Spa Halifax is a queer-owned and operated, members-only clothing-optional adult club located on Gottingen Street in Halifax, Nova Scotia. The venue offers a hot tub, sauna, showers, open play spaces, and 15 private rooms, with regular sessions on Tuesday, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday evenings. Membership requires an application, and the club enforces a zero-tolerance policy on consent violations; it is not recommended for lifestyle newcomers.

On-premise Club

The Korral is a members-only on-premise lifestyle club on a private property in Spring Grove, Pennsylvania, featuring a seasonal pool, hot tubs, playrooms with fresh linens, a dance floor, bar, and overnight private stay rooms. Monthly kink nights include educational demonstrations, and themed seasonal events run throughout the year. Single men must be sponsored by a current member couple and may only attend their first visit with their sponsor.

BDSM/Kink Community Center & Private Social Club

VooDoo Leatherworks is a private members-only social club and community center for Colorado Springs' BDSM and alternative lifestyle community. The venue features over 3,000 square feet of play space with 15 play stations, suspension hard points, and regular dungeon parties, alongside educational classes, art shows, and community events. The organization is volunteer-led, 18+, and explicitly inclusive of LGBTQAI+ and ethically non-monogamous members; the space is also available for private and nonprofit event rentals.

On-Premise Nightclub / Social Club

Club Encounters is an adult social club in Phoenix, Arizona, open to both couples and singles with no membership or reservation required. The venue includes a lighted dance floor with DJ, two video lounges, a jacuzzi room with showers and lockers, six private playrooms, and a juice and snack bar. Events run nightly from 8 PM, with special couple-focused promotions including free entry on Monday nights for couples through midnight.

On-Premise Lifestyle Club

Tulsa's lifestyle club, run by the original owners of Green Door Tulsa. Averages 100-200 people per party. Open to the public with no membership required. Single females always welcome.

Body Shop Pittsburgh

McKees Rocks, PA

On-premise Club

Body Shop Pittsburgh, operating as The Shop Social Lounge, is a members-only lifestyle social club in McKees Rocks, Pennsylvania, built around a consent-first philosophy and open to all genders, sexual orientations, and relationship structures. Events follow rotating monthly themes and are hosted by on-site staff. Membership requires an approved application including a face photo.

On-Premise Private Members Club

Hush Lounge AZ is a private members-only lifestyle club in Phoenix, Arizona, open Thursday through Saturday. The venue features over seven specialty rooms plus main floor lounge areas, a DJ on Saturdays, and complimentary condoms and fresh towels; no alcohol is sold or served, but members may bring their own. Couples are the primary clientele, with single men admitted selectively based on event attendance.

Illuminaughty (San Francisco)

San Francisco, CA

Curated Private Members Club / Event Organizer

Illuminaughty San Francisco is the Bay Area chapter of the national Illuminaughty members-only lifestyle event network, which has operated across more than 40 U.S. cities since 2022. Events are held at private venues and require an approved membership application to attend. Members receive access to a mobile app, a referral program, and regional and national event calendars.

Colette Dallas

Dallas, TX

On-Premise Private Social Club

Colette Dallas is an on-premise couples lifestyle club in Dallas, Texas, operating as part of the Colette Clubs chain. The venue describes itself as the only European-style erotic couples club in the Dallas area. Membership is required for entry.

Illuminaughty Phoenix

Phoenix, AZ

Private Event Series / Curated Parties

Illuminaughty Phoenix is an upscale curated swinger lifestyle event series operating in Phoenix and Scottsdale, Arizona, active since 2023. The organization hosts members-only events for couples and singles, with an emphasis on sophisticated, consent-focused experiences. Membership requires a formal application, and members have access to an events calendar, referral programs, and community resources.

The Sanctuary SLC

Salt Lake City, UT

Private Lifestyle Club / Fellowship

The Sanctuary SLC is an invitation-only private lifestyle club located in a restored historic building in downtown Salt Lake City, Utah. The club hosts curated exclusive events, intimate gatherings, and immersive workshops focused on connection and personal exploration. Membership is limited and by invitation only, with an application process available through the club's website.

Club Rendezvous (Club R)

Calgary, Alberta

On-premise Club

Club Rendezvous (Club R) is a members-only lifestyle and swinger club in Calgary, Alberta, widely regarded as Canada's longest-running private lifestyle club and Alberta's largest. The venue offers themed rooms, private play areas, a lounge, and regular Friday and Saturday events running from 9 PM to 3 AM, including themed nights and educational workshops. Membership is required for entry, and the club is open to couples, select singles, and ENM and polyamorous individuals.

Sex-positive Community

Hacienda is a members-only lifestyle community in Brooklyn, New York, hosting themed play parties and workshops across NYC. The venue emphasizes consent, community, and curated experiences at a private villa space. Membership includes access to exclusive events, workshop discounts, and a sex-positive social network.

Goth/Fetish Nightclub

Fallout RVA is an alternative nightclub located at 117 N 18th Street in Richmond, Virginia, focused on goth, industrial, drag, and electronic music communities. The venue hosts a rotating calendar of events including drag shows, DJ nights, karaoke, movie nights, and community socials, with most events open to guests 18 or 21 and older. It operates Sunday through Thursday until midnight and Friday through Saturday until 2am.

CKJ Studio (Club Kink Jax)

Jacksonville, FL

On-premise Lifestyle/Fetish

CKJ Studio (Club Kink Jax) is a private members-only lifestyle club in Jacksonville, Florida, serving the kink, fetish, BDSM, swinger, LGBTQ+, and polyamorous communities with a strict 21-and-older requirement. The venue hosts themed nights, workshops, educational sessions, burlesque performances, and shibari experiences on Wednesdays, Fridays, and Saturdays. The club also organizes the annual Fet-Fest Expo, a regional lifestyle convention.

Colette New Orleans

New Orleans, LA

On-Premise Private Social Club

Colette New Orleans is an on-premise erotic couples club offering a European swinging experience in New Orleans. The venue is primarily couples-focused, with single guests admitted on select evenings only. Colette is one of the few established on-premise lifestyle clubs in the New Orleans area.

Nude Resort / Lifestyle Day & Night Club

Sea Mountain Spa is a clothing-optional nude resort and lifestyle club located minutes from the Las Vegas Strip and airport. The venue is open to couples and women only; single men are not permitted. Amenities include outdoor nude pools, hot tubs, cabanas, massage services, complimentary beverages and snacks, and a 24-hour dance lounge called the Dharma Club.

Clothing-optional Resort

Caliente Club and Resorts is a clothing-optional adults-only resort in Tampa, Florida offering condominiums, casitas, and hotel rooms for multi-night stays. The property features two pools with bars, two restaurants, a full nightclub with DJ service until 3 AM, a spa, and sports facilities. New guests are required to attend a one-hour membership introduction before qualifying for promotional rates.

Boutique Hotel Suite Party

Swingers Circle is a boutique hotel suite lifestyle party held weekly on Thursday nights in Las Vegas, operating on Las Vegas Boulevard near major Strip hotels. The event is restricted to couples and single women, with a maximum of 12 couples per session, making it one of the more intimate recurring play parties in the city. Guests are encouraged to arrive by 9:30 PM; BYOB is permitted and soft drinks, water, and snacks are provided.

On-premise Club

The Phoenix is a private erotic social club in Ottawa offering weekly events including play nights on Mondays, BDSM/kink nights on Fridays, Swinger Saturdays, and inclusive bi/queer nights. The venue welcomes couples, singles, and all gender identities, and is also available for private party rentals.

Shrine Austin

Austin, TX

Monthly BDSM/Kink Play Party

Shrine is a lifestyle event series in Austin, Texas, hosting themed parties and social gatherings for open-minded adults.

Event Organizer / Hotel Takeover

Intimate Parties Group (IPG) is a lifestyle event organizer based in New York, hosting hotel takeover events primarily across the Northeast including New York, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, and New England. Events accommodate 150 to 200 couples, feature themed rooms, dance floors with DJs, indoor heated pools, and finger food, with a strict BYOB policy. Attendance is limited to couples and unescorted women aged 21 and older; a no-photography policy is enforced.

The Warehouse

Meridian, ID

Private Kink & Lifestyle Social Club

The Warehouse is a members-only kink and swinger social club operating in the Boise, Idaho area, registered as a 501(c)(3) nonprofit. It hosts themed events including Debauchery Nights for mixed kink and swinger play and Pineapple Nights focused on swinging, with a wristband color system indicating attendee preferences. The club is BYOB, requires member vetting before attendance, and features equipment including suspension rigs, an impact bench, and a fire and wax room.

Illuminaughty Colorado Springs

UNCERTAIN

Colorado Springs, CO

Private Event Series / Curated Parties

Illuminaughty Colorado Springs is a consent-focused lifestyle event series serving Colorado Springs, part of the Illuminaughty national network present in over 40 U.S. cities. The organization hosts curated swinger lifestyle events and maintains a membership-based community with structured rules and etiquette guidelines. Members can access a referral program and a dedicated mobile app.

On-premise Club

NYX Lounge is an upscale on-premise lifestyle club in Oakville, Ontario, serving the Greater Toronto area. The venue features two play areas, a dance floor, and bottle service, open Friday and Saturday nights from 9 PM to 2 AM. Membership is required; couples, single women, and single men are welcome with varying entry fees.

Lifestyle Event Organization (not a fixed club)

Krewe of Swingtown is a Houston-based lifestyle social group founded in 2005 as the country's only swinger-oriented Mardi Gras krewe. The group hosts events across Texas year-round — from house parties and river trips to holiday celebrations — with some events drawing over 1,000 attendees. Open to couples and single women.

Hotel Event-Based Lifestyle Club

Little Rock's primary lifestyle club operating through hotel events. Strong emphasis on consent, privacy, and respect. Does not release guest information. On-premise play is allowed.

On-Premise Private Lifestyle Club

Desires Houston is an upscale lifestyle lounge located in northwest Houston, Texas, catering to open-minded adults in the swinger and alternative lifestyle communities. The venue hosts regular themed parties and draws members from across Texas, Louisiana, and surrounding states. Membership is required and the club also offers affiliated travel packages to adult resorts and cruises.

On-Premise Private Members Club

A private members-only social club in Memphis with a large dance floor, live DJ, and a massive 102-inch projector screen. Saturday nights only.

Private Party Group / Event Organizer

Described as the largest, most active swingers group in Hawaii. Events feature an afternoon women-only session followed by an evening mixed session for women and couples. Operates via private locations on Oahu.

On-premise Club

On-Premise Private Event Center

XCLUSIV Lifestyle (XL) is a members-only upscale lifestyle event center in the Houston, Texas area. The venue hosts themed parties including holiday and seasonal events, and draws couples and singles from Houston, Dallas, Austin, San Antonio, and New Orleans. Membership is required for venue access, and the club also partners with adult-oriented cruise lines and resort destinations.

On-Premise Private Members Club

Club Eden DFW is a members-only private social lounge in Euless, Texas, serving couples and singles in open relationships as well as the LGBT lifestyle community. The venue operates Wednesday through Saturday with hours running to 4 AM and features VIP party areas and private rooms. Access requires a paid membership through their online platform.

Hotel Takeover

SOP Lifestyle Productions is a Canadian-based event production company specializing in lifestyle hotel takeovers, group cruises, and international travel experiences for the swinger and open community. Signature events include seasonal takeovers in Whistler and abroad, Virgin Voyages group sailings, and curated pop-up adventures in destinations such as Iceland. The organization welcomes singles, couples, and all experience levels, with a strong emphasis on enthusiastic and continuous consent.

Baltimore Playhouse

Baltimore, MD

On-premise Kink Club

Baltimore Playhouse is a non-profit BDSM and kink community space in Baltimore, Maryland, operating since 1997 and spanning 12,000 square feet — one of the largest known play spaces of its kind in the United States. The venue is alcohol- and drug-free, requires RSVP, and has a capacity of 250 per event. Educational programming for newcomers, annual contributorships, and NCSF affiliation are central to its community model.

On-Premise Private Members-Only Club

Wicked Manor is a members-only lifestyle party venue in Dallas, Texas, operating in a 7,000-square-foot facility with a capacity of approximately 100 members. The venue features a BYOB nightclub, exhibitionism and voyeurism rooms, private retreat spaces, a pool, and free locker facilities. Events run on the first Friday and Saturday of the month; couples and single women are admitted while single males are admitted selectively on Fridays only, and a dress code is enforced.

BDSM/Kink Club (Non-profit)

On-premise Club

Largest swingers club in Quebec. Up to 400 capacity. Connected to Obsession Night Club.

NSFW (New Society for Wellness)

New York, NY

Members-only Club

NSFW (New Society for Wellness) is a members-only lifestyle club and community organization founded in New York City, with additional clubhouses in Miami, Los Angeles, Chicago, Philadelphia, and Paris. Membership tiers range from basic access to full clubhouse privileges, and the organization hosts curated events, workshops, and publishes a lifestyle magazine. An active online community and Discord server complement the in-person programming.

On-Premise Private Club

Menages Club was a lifestyle club located in Nashville, Tennessee, operating at a fixed venue with tiered entry pricing. The club is currently listed as closed.

On-Premise Private Lifestyle Club

Forbidden Omaha is a theme-centric lifestyle club and Nebraska's self-described premier lifestyle venue. The club hosts meet-and-greets and special events in a welcoming environment for open-minded adults, currently operating under new ownership with hours from 9 PM to 2 AM.

Vixxxins Lifestyle Club

Phoenix, AZ

Private Members Club / Event Series

Vixxxins Lifestyle Club is a private members-only lifestyle and kink event organization based in the Phoenix, Arizona area. The club hosts themed underground galas, upscale house parties, exclusive dinners, and meet-and-greets at varied venues including private residences and event spaces. The organization also offers educational content through its "Madame's Memoirs" series and personal event planning services.

On-premise Private Swingers Party

Twist is a private on-premise swingers party in San Francisco's North Beach neighborhood at 387 Bay Street. The BYOB venue features a dance floor with poles, lounge areas, and multiple play rooms, open Friday and Saturday from 10 PM to 4 AM. Saturdays are strictly couples-only; Fridays admit limited single men by application.

Social Club / Play Space

An inviting pressure-free space to socialize with like-minded club members of all orientations.

On-premise Club

Trapeze Fort Lauderdale is an on-premise adult lifestyle club located in Tamarac, Florida, operating Wednesday through Sunday from 8 PM with BYOB policy. The venue features playrooms, themed events, a cigar lounge, and an upscale dining experience with rotating weekly menus. Single males are welcome most nights; Saturday is reserved for couples and single women only.

On-premise Club

Miami Velvet is a private adult lifestyle nightclub in Miami, Florida, spanning 20,000 square feet and claiming the title of Florida's largest on-premise swingers club. The club hosts events on Friday and Saturday nights plus monthly themed parties, and draws a membership base from across South Florida and internationally. A couples membership is waived for first-time visitors, though entry fees still apply, and a dress code is enforced.

Clothing-optional Resort

Cedar Creek Resort is an adult-only clothing-optional resort near Leesville, South Carolina, open year-round. Amenities include indoor and outdoor pools, hot tubs, a lazy river, hiking trails, and recreational sports, with DJ entertainment most weekends. Accommodations range from RV sites and tent areas to cabins and rental units.

On-Premise Lifestyle Club

The Pendulum Club's original Hempstead location is a women-owned lifestyle venue styled after a 19th-century brothel, featuring 10 play areas in an intimate setting. The non-smoking BYOB club caters to couples, single women, and select single men, with ice, cups, and mixers provided. Part of a three-location chain across Houston.

Lifestyle Resort & Spa

Oasis Estate Resort is a lifestyle resort and spa set on a 10-acre property in Houston, Texas. The venue offers all-inclusive weekend experiences combining spa services, formal dining, poolside parties, and adult social events in a gated estate setting. Prospective guests must apply for membership and receive approval before attending events.

On-premise Spa/Club

Oasis Aqualounge is a clothing-optional, water-themed private members club for adults 19 and over, located in a restored 19th-century mansion in downtown Toronto. The venue features a year-round heated outdoor pool, hot tub, sauna, two bars, and play areas spanning four floors. Solo men are admitted Sunday through Thursday; Fridays and Saturdays are reserved for women and couples only.

Infliction Hall

Euless, TX

BDSM Dungeon / Fetish Club

Infliction Hall is a BDSM and adult lifestyle club in the Dallas-Fort Worth area of Texas, offering VIP and Platinum membership tiers. The venue hosts regular themed events including rope play nights, educational workshops in partnership with organizations such as the Texas Rope Group, and costume parties. Events typically run from 8 PM to 3 AM on weekends.

Hotel Takeover Events

Group in Keller TX is a lifestyle event organization based in North Texas that describes itself as the longest continuously running lifestyle group in the region. The group hosts hotel floor takeover parties at all-suites properties in Dallas and Plano, featuring DJ music and dancing on Friday and Saturday nights from 9 PM to 2 AM. Events include themed and LGBTQ+-inclusive nights, and attendance requires a membership.

On-Premise Private Club

A new lifestyle club in rural Acadia Parish that faced significant local opposition. The parish passed an ordinance to restrict the club's activities.

On-Premise Private Members-Only Club

Red Room Nashville is a members-only lifestyle club in Nashville, Tennessee, hosting weekly themed parties for screened adult members. The venue operates on a BYOB policy with complimentary mixers provided, features a large LED dance floor with a professional DJ, private rooms, and VIP seating. Membership is tiered and requires a 24-hour approval process; walk-ins are not accepted.

Lifestyle-Friendly Clothing-Optional Resort & Nightclub

Pandora's Resort is a clothing-optional lifestyle resort in Crossville, Tennessee, featuring renovated cabins, chalets, RV sites, a heated pool, hot tub, and on-premise play spaces. The resort hosts themed weekend parties with a nightclub, café, and tiki bar, with all amenities open 24/7.

On-Premise Monthly Private Party

Tennessee Temptations is a couples-focused lifestyle membership and ticketing platform based in Johnson City, Tennessee. The organization hosts private events and coordinates travel experiences including adult resort getaways and lifestyle cruises. Members can create profiles, purchase event tickets, and connect with others in the community through the online platform.

On-Premise Lifestyle Nightclub

An upscale nightclub on the Mississippi Gulf Coast for swinging couples and select singles. Serves the Gulf Coast region including nearby Louisiana and Alabama communities. One of the few lifestyle clubs with a full licensed bar.

Private Lifestyle Club

A lifestyle club in the Tulsa metro area (Catoosa/Locust Grove) catering to swingers, fetish, and LGBT communities. Associated with LS-Adventures, also home to ARVC in Ft. Smith.

Scarlet Ranch

Littleton, CO

On-Premise Lifestyle Club / Ranch Venue

Scarlet Ranch is a large private lifestyle organization in the Denver, Colorado area, operating out of a 36,000 square foot facility called Squirrel Creek Lodge since 2003. The venue hosts over 100 themed events per year with attendance ranging from 200 to 2,200 guests, and a capacity of up to 2,500. Amenities include three bars (BYOB), a fine dining restaurant, dance stages, and an outdoor tipi with fire pit; events run Wednesday through Sunday.

On-Premise House Party

The Idaho White Rose is a house party-style swingers club located in Post Falls, Idaho, between Spokane and Coeur d'Alene. Monthly themed events run Saturday evenings from 8 PM to 1 AM, with past themes including Pajama Party, Leather and Lace, and Hawaiian Party. Membership is required for RSVP access, and the venue address is not published publicly — attendees must contact the club directly.

Event Organizer - Kink & Alt-Sex Parties

AfterDark is a San Francisco Bay Area event organizer serving kink and alternative sexuality communities, with events held across San Francisco and Oakland. The organization produces adult lifestyle gatherings for those interested in kink and alt-sex experiences.

On-premise Club

Club Sapphire is a private swingers lifestyle club in Tukwila, Washington, offering approximately 10,000 square feet of party space with a dance floor and DJ, buffet appetizers, lockers, showers, and multiple playrooms. Annual membership is required, and the club enforces a couples-first policy with exceptions for singles after five attended events. Sexy or themed attire is required; casual wear is not permitted.

Event Organizer (private facility)

Eros Events is a private membership lifestyle group based in Redmond, Washington, in operation since 2003. The organization hosts socially oriented lifestyle events at a private facility, welcoming members regardless of race, gender, or sexuality, and requires new members to attend an orientation before their first event. The club maintains a strict no-alcohol and no-marijuana policy to support clear consent, and eliminated gender-based pricing in 2023.