LGBTQ+ Friendly

The Sanctuary (Tabu Swingers Sanctuary)

Lansing, MI

Alternative Lifestyle Lounge

Club Tabu, operating its social nights under the name "The Sanctuary," is an adults-only alternative lifestyle lounge located within Fantasies Unlimited, an adult retail store at 3208 S. Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd. in Lansing, Michigan. Despite carrying "swingers" in its social-media name, the venue's own site describes it as rooted in the LGBTQ+ community and states plainly that "the club is not structured as a traditional swingers venue," with its primary audience being gay, bi, trans, and gender-diverse guests, though it says it welcomes respectful guests of other identities. The space centers on a large, deliberately dark and winding maze of pathways and walls, along with private booths, a changing area with lockers, and common social areas. The atmosphere is described as sex-positive and kink-aware, with an emphasis on privacy, discretion, and guest-controlled pacing of interaction; a 2022 news investigation into the venue also referenced a glory-hole setup and a television area used for adult video viewing. Entry requires being 18+ with valid ID, and membership dues are collected per event night rather than as an ongoing membership. Patrons enter through the Fantasies Unlimited retail storefront and must tell the store clerk they are attending Club Tabu/The Sanctuary. House rules prohibit cameras and phone/recording devices inside the event space, restrict sexual activity to designated private areas, and ban loitering in parking lots or common areas; illegal drugs and disrespectful, non-consensual, or aggressive behavior result in immediate removal.

Chameleons Newport

Newport, Wales

On-Premise Club

Chameleons Newport is the only swingers club in South Wales — a Friday-night takeover of The Greenhouse health club building at 24 Church Street, where the 21-seater jacuzzi, dry sauna, steam room, and multi-level play areas transform into a lifestyle venue from 8 pm to 3:30 am every week. The building has operated for over 20 years and runs as a health and sauna club the rest of the week; on Fridays, Chameleons takes over with private cabins, dark rooms, glory holes, communal play rooms, and a cafe bar where you can buy soft drinks and snacks. Alcohol is strictly BYOB — bring your own bottles but don't overdo it, and no drinks are allowed near the jacuzzi. Membership is a one-off lifetime fee: £25 for couples, free for single ladies, and £80 for single men (though single male entry is never guaranteed and depends on the couple-to-single-lady ratio on the night). If you already hold a Darlaston membership, it's valid at Newport too. The club requires two forms of ID plus a recent utility bill — stricter than the Darlaston branch — and the minimum age is 21. Entrance fees apply on top of membership but aren't published online; call 01633 212 906 during Friday hours or 0121 568 6117 out of hours (routes to Darlaston). All emails go to chameleonsclub@gmail.com — specify that you're asking about Newport. Unlike its sister venue in Darlaston which runs six days a week with themed events, Newport keeps it simple: one Friday session, no rotating themes, open to couples and singles of all genders. The dress code is relaxed — towels (provided) or shorts for men, towels or "dress as sexy as you dare" for women. Towels and secure lockers are included, condoms are available from machines in the changing rooms, and smoking is outdoor-terrace only. With a 4.6/5 rating on CityMaps and reviewers consistently praising the welcoming atmosphere for first-timers, the club benefits from having no direct competition in the region — though some reviews note the building could use more investment.

The Warehouse

Caldwell, ID

Social Club

The Warehouse — known to regulars as TW — is Treasure Valley's only private lifestyle social club catering to both the kink and swinger communities. Operated by AOK Collective Inc, a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit, the club relocated to its current Caldwell location, off the 10th Avenue exit, in April 2026. In keeping with its private, members-only model, the venue address is never posted publicly; it is shared exclusively via confirmation email with vetted members after they complete the online membership and vetting process. The space runs across multiple levels. The main floor holds a social area and kitchen with complimentary finger foods; an enclosed breezeway is fitted with couches, a dance floor, and a staffed Rendezvous Bar — BYOB, with an optional $20-per-couple bar service where the bartender stores and pours your drinks — and a live DJ who takes requests throughout the night. Upstairs are two VIP cabana rooms (the Playboy Bunny Room with three cabanas and the City Loft Room with four) alongside a large open play area with four queen beds. The lower level contains a stripper pole room and a sex-positive room with five open play queen beds. A dedicated dungeon — outfitted with dual crosses, two fire stations, two impact benches, and a massage table — is active on Debauchery Nights and closed on Pineapple Nights. The club operates three Saturdays per month, 8pm to 2am (7:30pm for VIP and Platinum members). Events alternate between two formats: Debauchery Nights blend kink and swinger play with a fully operational dungeon and optional scenes led by service tops; Pineapple Nights are swinger-focused with a wristband system signaling voyeur, social, or play intentions. Annual membership is $20 per person; per-event entry is a tiered donation of $30 per person if paid by 10pm the night before, or $40 at the door. An optional Platinum membership ($350 per couple or single-plus-one per year) adds early entry, discounted tickets, long-term alcohol storage, and a Rendezvous Bar upgrade. Attendance runs 150 to 200-plus on Pineapple Nights and 250-plus on Debauchery Nights, with an age range spanning 18 to 75.

Members-only BDSM/lifestyle community center

Inversion MKE is a membership-based kink and BDSM community center operating at 615 S 89th St on Milwaukee's west side. The venue occupies the same commercial space as the former Club EASSEL, which operated for years as Milwaukee's BDSM and lifestyle community center. Inversion MKE, LLC obtained a three-year Special Use Permit from the Milwaukee Board of Zoning Appeals on 10 October 2024 (Case BZZA-24-00260, vote 5–0), classifying the space for zoning purposes as an indoor recreation facility. Permit conditions include a blanket prohibition on alcohol on premises at any time, adequate event staffing requirements, and no outdoor advertising beyond permitted signage. The club's community life is organized primarily through FetLife under the handle @InversionMKE, with a parallel Instagram presence at @inversionmke, reflecting its roots in established kink-community networks rather than mainstream nightlife promotion. The venue operates on a structured membership model, offering individual and couple/pair tiers. First-time guests must complete a paid orientation before attending regular events — a practice that emphasizes consent culture, community vetting, and safety briefing over open walk-in access. Memberships are non-refundable and auto-renew on monthly or annual cycles. The space positions itself as a community hub for Milwaukee's kink scene, carrying forward the regional network that had gathered around Club EASSEL at the same address, though the two operations are legally and organizationally distinct. Events run on a recurring weekly schedule: Friday and Saturday evenings are the primary play-party nights, with a shorter Tuesday slot reserved for members and sponsored guests. No alcohol is permitted on the premises at any time — a hard condition of the BOZA permit — making this a dry venue. Signage is limited by the zoning conditions, keeping the venue's street-level footprint deliberately low-key. New members are encouraged to connect through the club's FetLife and Instagram pages for current event listings and orientation scheduling.

Vancouver Velvet Club

Maple Ridge, British Columbia

On-Premise Club

Vancouver Velvet Club is a private, invitation-only lifestyle house party club operating in the greater Vancouver, British Columbia area. Serving experienced and novice couples as well as single women — and on select nights, a tightly vetted pool of single men — it operates deliberately under the radar, maintaining no social media presence of any kind and disclosing its address only after a guest secures a confirmed spot on the guest list. The club positions itself as a controlled environment for discreet adults who keep their lifestyle activities entirely separate from their everyday lives. The venue is a seven-bedroom luxury house with the entire property open for play. Large open play rooms are furnished with queen-size beds and massage tables; a dance floor doubles as an additional play area; and a connected bathroom suite includes a four-person hot tub and stand-up showers. A sex swing and a spanking bench are part of the fixtures on offer. A full buffet — hot food, fruit, and pastry — runs throughout every party, and complimentary massages are provided all evening for both men and women. A cloakroom with individually numbered cubicles handles clothing and valuables, and condoms, lube, and individual hand towels are supplied in all play areas and bathrooms. The house operates a strict open-door policy throughout; all play takes place with doors open, with rare exceptions at the host's personal discretion. Street clothes are not permitted past the registration desk — most women arrive in a coat over lingerie and change on entry. Phones must be left in individual locker cubicles; anyone circulating with a phone is escorted out by security, and all photography and video recording are banned everywhere in the venue. Parties run most Saturdays (8:30 pm to approximately 1 am) for couples, single women, and a small number of pre-selected single men, and most Fridays (8:30 pm to midnight) as Naughty Girl Fantasy nights centred on female-centric fantasy experiences with vetted single men; select Fridays are designated bisexual celebration nights open to bi couples and bi singles of all genders. There are no walk-ins: prospective guests reach out via the website contact page or directly at VancouverVelvet@gmail.com, receive a PDF email invitation with full party details, and secure their place on the guest list with an eTransfer donation, after which the house address is released. Guests check in at the registration desk by email address. Overnight bedrooms are available for a small additional donation after parties wind down at 1 am, with checkout by 11 am. Alcohol is not served; BYOB in labelled bottles is permitted. Cannabis use is welcome outdoors at the back of the house.

Sensual Pleasures Lifestyle Club (SPLC)

Gatlinburg, TN

On-Premise Club

Sensual Pleasures Lifestyle Club (SPLC) is a private, members-only lifestyle club serving the swinger and fetish community of East Tennessee, describing itself as located in the heart of East Tennessee and the Smoky Mountains. Founded in 2021, the club has grown to a membership of more than 1,000 people who take part in its regular events and activities. The venue operates as a full-service lifestyle club, offering a dinner buffet with appetizers, desserts, and unlimited non-alcoholic beverages included; it is BYOB for alcohol, with complimentary mixers provided. Amenities described on the clubs site include intimate lounges, play spaces, and private rooms for socializing and play, and the property also functions as a bed-and-breakfast, with overnight accommodations and a complimentary continental breakfast available by reservation only. Entry is by private membership, arranged by contacting the club directly to begin an application; no street address is published, and one is provided to approved members. The event calendar runs weekly to biweekly theme nights and entertainment, including drag and burlesque shows, stand-up comedy, karaoke, casino nights, BDSM theme nights, and a recurring night welcoming bi couples, singles, and crossdressers/trans guests, with most events running from 8pm to 2am. No public admission pricing is listed on the site.

The Phoenix Ottawa

Ottawa, Ontario

On-Premise Club

The Phoenix Ottawa is a private members' erotic social club occupying a discreet industrial space near the Hunt Club Road and Prince of Wales Drive area in Ottawa, Ontario. The precise address is not made public and is shared only after a vetting process — prospective members email info@thephoenixottawa.com to begin. The club welcomes adults aged 18 and over regardless of gender, identity, or sexuality, and operates with an explicitly LGBTQ2A+ and kink-friendly ethos. Alongside weekly programming, the venue is available to rent for private parties. The space is built around two fully equipped BDSM dungeons, each fitted with a spanking bench, suspension point, X-cross, and sex chair, among other apparatus. Two social lounge rooms provide space for conversation and mingling, while the play areas extend to a private pink-decorated bedroom and a double-bedded open room designed for exhibitionists and voyeurs. Additional amenities include a milking table and a dedicated aftercare room. Members store belongings in on-site lockers, and the club supplies condoms, lubricant, water, and light snacks at every event. Free parking is available on-site. Alcohol and cannabis are not sold; members may bring their own, with the understanding that visible intoxication can result in removal and that all tobacco and cannabis must be consumed outdoors. Events run across five nights a week. Misbehave Monday (every Monday, 7pm–11pm) is open to all members at $30 for men and $15 for women, non-binary, and gender-non-conforming guests. Bound to Please, a BDSM and kink night, takes place every Friday (8pm–1am) at $30 per person, also open to the full membership. Swinger Saturday runs on the 1st and 3rd Saturdays (8pm–1am, $30 per person), limited to couples and single women. The 2nd and 4th Saturdays host Men'z & Friend'z — an inclusive evening for bi, gay, and queer men and those identifying as men, trans, non-binary, or fluid (8pm–1am; $25 members, $35 non-members). Fifth Saturdays bring Her Playground, a hotwife and cuckolding night (8pm–1am; $60 per couple, $50 single men, $25 single women). Membership is purchased in person after vetting: couples pay $80 per year; single men $100 per year; single women, non-binary, and GNC individuals $40 per year.

Avarus Swingerclub

Berlin, Berlin

On-Premise Club

Avarus is widely regarded as one of the most beautiful swingers clubs in Berlin, hidden away on the 5th floor of an apartment building in the Wedding district. Step inside and you'll find an elegant world of premium wellness — Finnish sauna, Roman steam bath, a 36,000-litre love pool, and an experience shower — seamlessly blended with stylish play areas and intimate social spaces. Every visit is all-inclusive: entry covers all drinks and a hot & cold buffet, so there's nothing to think about but enjoying the evening. The event calendar keeps things fresh with couples-only Saturdays, Orgasm Nights, Bi-Parties, Darkroom Parties, and BDSM nights in the adjacent Menagerie venue. The signature "Chocolate Sunday" — featuring edible liquid chocolate in the steam bath — is an experience you won't find anywhere else. Staff speaks English and the club warmly welcomes international guests alongside its loyal local crowd. The house philosophy says it all: everything is allowed, nothing is mandatory. LGBTQ+ friendly. Couples and newbie friendly.

Club M4 (Menage a Quatre)

Mississauga, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Club M4 — short for Ménage à Quatre — is an on-premise lifestyle and swingers club at 1989A Dundas Street East in Mississauga, Ontario, roughly twenty kilometres west of downtown Toronto. Founded in 2008, the venue operated for eleven years on Lakeshore Boulevard West before relocating in 2019 to its current ground-floor Mississauga location. It operates as a private members club — a requirement under Ontario law following the 2005 Supreme Court of Canada ruling that legalized consensual swinging in private club settings — and runs both afternoon and evening sessions seven days a week, 365 days a year. The 10,000-square-foot space is fully licensed by the Alcohol and Gaming Commission of Ontario (AGCO) and includes two bars, a large dance floor, a lounge area, and roughly 5,000 square feet of dedicated play space. A 196-locker changing facility with showers and vanity areas serves guests entering the back — condoms are distributed free throughout the play areas, and towels are provided by locker-room attendants. A rentable VIP Red Room (king-size bed, private play equipment, complimentary non-alcoholic drinks; $100 Mon–Thu, $150 Fri–Sun) adds a private option for members who want it. The club also runs a companion online social network, menageaquatre.com, where members can connect between visits. Door prices for couples are $50 CAD Sunday through Friday and Saturday afternoons, rising to $70 CAD on Saturday evenings; single women enter free at every session, while single men pay $110 CAD and are welcome all nights except Saturday evenings and New Year's Eve. A basic annual membership ($60 CAD per single or couple) is required of every guest and is purchased in person at the first visit; a VIP couples membership ($649 CAD/year, currently available at a promotional $349) covers unlimited admission including special events. A monthly Young Swingers Society (YSS) event on the last Saturday of each month offers a themed night aimed at couples in their 20s and 30s at $30 CAD per couple. Every first-time visitor receives a guided tour of the premises before being admitted to the main floor.

Birdhaus

Toronto, Ontario

Birdhaus is a BDSM, kink, and alternative arts event space tucked behind the big pink building at 1233R Queen Street West in Toronto's Parkdale neighbourhood. Co-owned by Miranda and Tifereth — veteran producers and performers in both the local and international alternative arts scenes — the venue opened in 2021 in the Entertainment District before relocating to Liberty Village and then expanding to its current home in 2024. The space carries roughly a century of building history and has been transformed into what the owners describe as an intimate venue for the city's avant-garde. The 2024 expansion brought a licensed bar and cocktail program alongside a significantly broader events calendar. The venue operates as a multi-use space: in-house produced events share the calendar with third-party producers including Sex Positive World, Bound Together, and BIPOC Babes. A dedicated rope education program — described on the site as inclusive, creative, comprehensive — is led by Tifereth and a team of resident educators, covering everything from beginner bondage to aerial partials and self-suspension. Weekly Tinker Tuesday sessions (Tuesdays, 19:00–23:00) serve as open rope practice jams, while structured classes and workshops run throughout the month. Private tuition is also available through individual instructors. Flagship evening events include Voyeur, a monthly cabaret and BDSM play party running 21:00–03:00 with per-person tickets priced at $50–$100 CAD, and Sweat, a leather and latex fetish party running roughly 21:30–02:30 at $30–$45 CAD per person. The calendar also features Smutty Storytelling open-mic nights, film screenings, community socials, and themed one-off events. All events are 19+ and ticketed in advance through the Birdhaus website — walk-ins are not accepted. Dress code for play parties requires fetish attire and prohibits street wear including T-shirts, jeans, and runners.

Club Safe Word is a members-only lifestyle club serving San Diego's swinging and non-monogamous community, welcoming individuals and couples of all genders and orientations. Rather than operating from a single standing venue, the club runs as an event-based membership community, holding its gatherings at rented spaces that change from event to event -- an approach reflected in a 2026 event listing tagged as a new location for the San Diego area. Programming is split into two tiers: non-play meet and greet socials designed to help newcomers get acquainted with the community, and separate, more explicit private events for members exploring further. New members are encouraged, though not required, to attend a meet-and-greet before a private event, regardless of prior experience. The club's ethos centers on consent and discretion, with members expected to remain respectful and civil and to report any consent violations to the event host or directly to club management. Site membership is optional and separate from event admission, with tiers priced from $11.49 per month (auto-renewing) up to $80.47 for a full year. Admission to individual events is ticketed per person and varies by event, with single women typically admitted free and couples and single men paying a door price that changes from gathering to gathering. Contact for the club is handled by email at info@clubsafeword.com; the club has not published a formal dress code or check-in procedure.

Bournemouth Swingers Club

Bournemouth, Dorset

Club

Bournemouth Swingers Club is the south coast's busiest and most inclusive lifestyle venue, tucked inside the Saunabar building on Commercial Road in Bournemouth's Triangle district. Since opening in March 2025, the club has quickly built a loyal following by combining spa-grade facilities — jacuzzi, sauna, steam room, and massage room — with a thoughtfully designed play space featuring a swing room, St Andrew's Cross, horse bench, cinema room, and multiple private playrooms stocked with everything guests might need. The weekly programme offers something for every curiosity level. Wednesday Socials provide a low-key cocktail bar atmosphere perfect for newcomers, while Saturday nights rotate between three distinct events: XCITE brings themed costume parties for couples and limited singles, XCHANGE turns the evening into a flirty interactive games night, and XPLORE opens the doors to everyone with no guest limits or ratios. A monthly Spectrum night on the first Friday is dedicated to trans guests, allies, and admirers — one of the only events of its kind on the south coast. Run by Lucas and Carol with a hands-on team in BSC uniforms, the club is built on a foundation of enthusiastic consent, radical inclusivity, and zero-pressure exploration. The fully licensed bar means no BYOB hassle, and a clever locker-key tab system keeps the evening seamless. With a maximum of 60 guests on party nights, the intimate setting fosters genuine connections in a space where every boundary is respected and every body is celebrated.

Private Residence

Braven Manor is a long-running, community-oriented kink and lifestyle venue operating from a private home in North Burnaby, just outside Vancouver. Since 2008, the space has served as an intimate alternative to commercial clubs, offering a fully equipped dungeon, themed play rooms, and flexible event programming that spans BDSM, swinging, fetish play, and group encounters — all at an accessible price point of $30 per person. The house features a dedicated dungeon with suspension frame, bondage table, cage, and spanking benches, plus a garage play space, whipping room with St Andrew's Cross, a medical room with a fucking machine, a school room, and multiple private lockable bedrooms. Supplies including condoms, lube, gloves, cleaning products, towels, and unlimited soft drinks are all included with admission. A Sybian is available during events at an additional $20/session, and the space can be rented privately for couples or small groups at hourly rates. Run as a non-profit by operator Seann Lyncaster, the venue hosts rotating events on its own calendar system — from gangbangs and BDSM play parties to swinger nights and private bookings. Membership signup is free, the atmosphere is pansexual and LGBTQ+ welcoming, and newcomers receive an orientation tour on arrival. The BYOB format keeps costs low, and a house safeword system underscores the consent-first culture that defines the space.

Intimate Times Lifestyle Club

Edmonton, Alberta

On-Premise Club

Intimate Times Lifestyle Club bills itself as Edmonton's premier private adult social club, operating from a standalone venue in the city's west end at 17207 107 Ave NW. The club runs as an on-premise couples lifestyle space with an explicit consent-first philosophy — visitors sign a confidentiality waiver on entry, and management frames the environment as one built around respect, trust, and open communication. The club is openly LGBTQIA+ supportive and kink/BDSM friendly, with dedicated theme nights including Kink and Fetish Night alongside Sundress Saturday, Bare as You Dare, and Girls' Night Out evenings. The main floor is set up in the style of a nightclub with the feel of a house party: a dance floor, a staffed DJ booth with music starting around 22:00, a free pool table, a quieter fireplace lounge, and a fully licensed cash bar. BYOB is not permitted under Alberta's liquor licence. Complimentary snacks — chips, nuts, pretzels, and desserts — are included with cover, and an on-site ATM is available. Staff-led tours of the venue run from 21:00 to 23:00; the communal open play area opens at 23:00 and remains available until 02:45. There are no private rooms — all play occurs in the open communal space. The club runs every Friday and Saturday, 21:00 to 03:00, with last admission at 01:00. Cover is tiered: during the earlybird window (21:00-22:00), member couples pay CAD $40 and non-member couples $50; singles pay $20 (member) or $25 (non-member). After 22:00, rates rise to $50/$60 for couples and $25/$30 for singles. Annual membership — mandatory from the second visit — costs $130 for couples and $65 for singles; a one-night weekend couple membership is available at $40 plus the member cover rate. Memberships expire after one year and are non-transferable. A prior invitation is required for all first-time visitors. Government-issued photo ID is mandatory at the door; minimum age is 21.

Young Couples Party (YCP)

Chicago, IL

Event Organizer

Young Couples Party (YCP) is a members-only lifestyle club serving the Chicago suburbs, built specifically around a younger demographic: membership and event attendance are capped to ages 21-42, with the founders explicitly designing the club so that couples in their twenties aren't the only young faces in a room of much older swingers. Membership is open to couples and single women - no single men are admitted under any circumstances - and organizers say attendees run roughly 95% couples to 5% single females, with racial demographics that broadly mirror the Chicagoland area. The club runs two main venues: a recurring twice-monthly party at a private country estate in Chicago's western suburbs featuring 16 beds across 8 bedrooms, an indoor pool, a hot tub, and a dance floor (8pm-2am), plus outdoor pool parties in summer; and an annual (sometimes twice-yearly) full hotel takeover. In total, YCP runs over 30 in-person events and roughly 150 virtual events per year, including HIIT and yoga classes, trivia nights, and quarterly educator-led seminars. A signature feature is a structured speed-dating segment at each in-person event, where couples and single women rotate through 3-minute conversations at numbered stations to break the ice.

KNetic Club

Calgary, Alberta

On-Premise Club

KNetic Club bills itself as "Calgary's largest fully licensed Lifestyle Swingers Club" — LGBTQ-owned and pitched as ultra-inclusive, welcoming singles, couples, and throuples across two Calgary venues (KNetic South and KNetic North). It runs as an event-driven private club rather than a daily-open venue: a free member profile must be created and approved before attending, and the calendar mixes high-energy themed parties (Unicorn Night, Spicy Stampede Social, Cowboy Boots & Daisy Dukes), play-focused nights, a "Real Talk" relationships discussion series, partner workshops, and a regular Newbie Night for first-timers. Single men can't attend couples nights alone — the classic couples-protective convention — while single women are welcomed and discounted on select nights. The roughly 3,400 sq ft South venue pairs a main dance floor (DJ, stripper pole) with an upstairs lounge of pool and darts, a furnished playroom, gender-neutral washrooms, and a "FLEX" bar where members can buy drinks or bring their own. The KNetic name spans a small multi-brand network: alongside the couples-and-singles flagship, it operates KNetic Men (a gay/bi/queer men's cruise club) and KNetic Women (a queer women's club), each with its own community, plus it rents the venue to third-party kink organizer K-E-A-N for shibari and BDSM education nights. Founded on a "Love Always Wins" ethos and described as Calgary's only fully LGBTQ-owned lifestyle club, that breadth is why some visitors read it as "a queer club" — but the flagship's own marketing is explicit: "a safe space for 18+ singles, couples, and more." Entry is event-ticketed and varies by night (commonly from ~$10–$15 CAD, with Premium-member and single-women discounts on select events), and an optional paid Premium membership ($10/mo–$95/yr) unlocks door discounts and social features but not admission. Fully licensed (City of Calgary, Alberta Health Services, Calgary Fire, AGLC), the club is well regarded — reportedly around 4.7★ on one review aggregator — and was active as of mid-2026.

Power Exchange

San Francisco, CA

On-Premise Club

Planted in San Francisco's Tenderloin since 1996, Power Exchange has earned its reputation as the Bay Area's most unapologetically raw pansexual sex club, drawing in adventurous adults of every gender and orientation two blocks from Union Square. The venue spans three floors at 220 Jones Street: a main floor with a dance floor, stripper poles, open play space, and a voyeur balcony above; a basement dungeon level of small semi-private rooms with chain-separated alcoves suited to BDSM and group scenes; and a third floor typically reserved for couples, with special events opening all three levels. Coat check, lockers (bring your own lock), and an ATM sit in the lobby for the cash-only door. The weekly rhythm runs Wednesday through Sunday from 9 pm, with Thursdays and Sundays closing at 3 am and Fridays and Saturdays pushing to 4 am. Recurring themed nights — Wicked Wednesday, First Friday Fuck Fest, and Saturday flagship events like No Strings and Underneath — keep the calendar busy year-round. Entry is tiered by attire rather than gender: non-member singles in male attire pay $60-$80 depending on the night, couples pay $50-$70, and singles in female attire pay $20; members receive a $20 discount across the board. Active-duty military and veterans receive 50% off every visit. The crowd is broad — regulars, curious newcomers, kinksters, and swingers sharing a space that makes no apologies for its gritty Tenderloin address. The vibe is high-energy and exhibitionist rather than lounge-like, and the club is consent-driven with all play areas semi-public and viewable by passing guests. No alcohol is served or permitted on-site; the club is entirely dry. Parking is available one block away at the California Parking Garage at 175 Turk Street, which stays open until 4 am on Fridays and Saturdays for Power Exchange patrons.

Club Giggity

Philadelphia, PA

Club Giggity is a traveling lifestyle-events company — a subsidiary of The Forever Young Experience — rather than a fixed-address club, producing 'upscale events for sexy sophisticated couples & singles' across the Northeast. Its own site describes a roster that runs the gamut from 'small intimate house parties, on premise clubs, lifestyle meet & greets, hotel & resort takeovers and private affairs,' with events deliberately built for 'every alternative lifestyle including swingers, LGBT, the BDSM/Fetish community and anyone interested in an adult party experience like no other.' The operators tout 'over 20 years of professional DJ, promotion, marketing, graphic design, site procurement and event planning in NY, Miami, Philly & Atlantic City,' and the company promotes, hosts and DJs events throughout PA, NJ, NY, MD, DE and CT. The crowd is pitched as broad and unpretentious: 'From Doctors to lawyers, nurses to teachers and everyone in between,' spanning 'different races, heights and weights,' with parties framed as 'no pressure affairs open to all ages over 21' that 'do not discriminate based on age, race, religion, physical appearance, or lifestyle level of play.' Newcomers are eased in via low-pressure meet & greets 'designed for socializing without pressure,' and the site stresses going 'at your own flow' — whether that means observing or full partner exchanges — with open communication between partners encouraged throughout. Swinging is described as 'a lifestyle open to couples and singles alike'; single women are welcomed, while single men are admitted to 'certain nights at clubs and certain parties.' Because Club Giggity is an event producer, the experience changes with the venue — from a club night to a multi-day resort takeover — and it offers an all-inclusive production service (planning, DJ & lighting, web graphics & promotion, social-media promotion, personalized favors, clothing & posters), plus optional add-ons such as massage therapists, photographers, adult toy & lingerie vendors, body painters and BDSM/fetish services. The site maintains a live Takeover Schedule and an Events calendar, and has run flagship trips such as a Hedonism resort 'Hedo Invasion,' confirming the operation is active and booking forward-dated events.

SOP Lifestyle Productions

Vancouver, British Columbia

Event Organizer

SOP Lifestyle Productions — where the acronym stands for Swinger, Open, Poly — is a Vancouver, British Columbia-based event production company founded and run by Ying Ying Lee. Rather than operating a fixed venue, SOP produces lifestyle-oriented hotel takeovers, cruises, resort trips, and curated travel experiences for the open-minded adult community. The organisation welcomes singles, couples, and people of all genders, ages, and backgrounds; its attendee demographic typically spans the mid-20s to mid-60s, with the majority in their 30s to 50s, and draws participants from across Canada and the United States. SOP's flagship offering is the Winter Lifestyle Takeover (WLT), which began in 2010 and shifted to its current full-hotel-takeover format in 2012. It now runs annually in November at the 4-star Delta Whistler Village Suites in Whistler, BC, drawing around 350 attendees across a Friday-to-Monday weekend. The hotel pool deck, indoor and outdoor hot tubs, and a dedicated top-floor Play Floor stocked with theme rooms and playrooms form the centrepiece. A Spring Lifestyle Takeover (SLT) serves as a companion event, most recently held at the Mount Royal Hotel in Banff, AB. SOP also organises a Europe Lifestyle Takeover, a Tropical Lifestyle Takeover, group cruises on Virgin Voyages, and pop-up travel adventures. All takeovers are BYOB and follow a structured weekend rhythm: a Meet + Greet on the first evening, a dance party on the second night, and a cocktail party on the final night, alongside daytime seminars, workshops, and demonstrations. Ticketing operates via a tiered pricing structure with hotel packages bundling accommodation and a weekend pass. Payment may be made by e-transfer (Canada), Zelle (US), cheque, or credit card (5% service fee); weekend-pass-only options are available for local attendees. Hotel rooms must be booked through SOP directly rather than via the hotel. Advance booking is strongly advised, as events routinely sell out.

Cinema L'Amour

Montreal, Quebec

Adult Cinema

Cinema L'Amour is a family-owned adult movie theatre on Boulevard Saint-Laurent in Montreal's Plateau-Mont-Royal neighbourhood — and one of North America's last continuously operating adult cinemas. The building opened in 1914 as Le Globe, a Beaux-Arts neighbourhood house that screened Yiddish films and hosted vaudeville for Montreal's then-thriving Jewish community along The Main. After operating as The Hollywood from 1932, it turned erotic in 1969 as The Pussycat, and took its current name on July 31, 1981, when distributor Ivan Koltai purchased it and applied the Cinema L'Amour brand from his Hull, Quebec operation. Now in its third generation under Devyn Koltai, the cinema has preserved the original horseshoe balcony, ornate plasterwork, Ionic columns, and classical ornamentation largely intact from its first century — making it not only one of the oldest continuously operating adult venues in Canada but one of the most architecturally notable. The main hall runs a rotating programme of adult films continuously from open to close, projected on a single large screen across an orchestra-level seating area of approximately 375 active seats. The lobby is lined with vintage pornographic poster art from a personal archive spanning the venue's entire run, many available for purchase. On the upper balcony, a couples-only VIP lounge — installed to mark the cinema's 20th anniversary under its current name — spans three viewing levels with two private booths, comfortable sofas, and ambient lighting looking out over the main screen below. Beyond adult programming, the cinema has hosted POP Montreal performances, fashion shows, film festivals, and music video shoots, including Charlotte Cardin's Daddy, cementing its dual role as both an adult venue and a genuine Montreal cultural institution. The venue is open every day from 11am to 11pm, with no advance booking required. General admission is CAD $17.00 for visitors 18 and over, or CAD $16.00 for seniors 65 and over; the VIP couples balcony is an additional CAD $55 per couple. Weekly promotions give couples free entry on Mondays and Tuesdays all day and Thursdays after 6pm. Wednesdays bring two new film presentations alongside a standing Trans Night welcoming the transgender and LGBTQ+ community every week. Fridays are dedicated to voyeurs, exhibitionists, and swingers; Saturdays carry a general party-night billing. An in-venue and online shop sells branded merchandise, vintage posters, and DVDs.

Club Triple XTC

Regina, Saskatchewan

Event Organiser

Founded in 2012 by a Regina couple who had searched for lifestyle clubs across Saskatchewan and found none, Club Triple XTC began as a hot-tub party of around thirty guests in their home. Those gatherings grew steadily to over a hundred attendees and eventually became a formally incorporated Saskatchewan company. Today the club draws members from Regina, Saskatoon, and across the province, positioning itself as Saskatchewan's only registered lifestyle club for consenting adults of all gender identities and sexual orientations. Rather than a fixed venue, the club runs three distinct event formats. Sociables Drink Nights are social-only evenings at a local public lounge — low-key and non-sexual, designed for members to meet and mingle. Private Hot Tub Parties echo the club's origins, gathering a smaller crowd for an intimate evening with BYOB drinks and snacks. The flagship Hotel Theme Parties book entire floors of one of Regina's hotels: themed play rooms coexist with a designated social area, exotic dance performances (with tip-based lap dances after the main show), a staffed BYOB bar area where guests label their own bottles, and communal food. Condoms and disinfectant wipes are freely available in all play areas, and security personnel are present throughout. Attendance at hotel events regularly exceeds 150. All events require pre-approved membership and advance ticket purchase — no walk-ins. A hostess checks government-issued photo ID against a printed ticket list at the door, where all guests sign a Conditions of Attendance document and receive individually numbered wristbands. Phones must be surrendered to secure storage on arrival and will be confiscated if carried inside; cameras and recording devices are banned outright. Single men are admitted only on a restricted basis — applicants must already be known in the Saskatchewan lifestyle community or formally sponsored by an existing member. Light BDSM play is permitted; extreme kink is explicitly prohibited. The minimum age is 19.

H&H Social Club (Heaven & Hell)

Manchester, NH

Social Club

H&H Social Club — Heaven & Hell — is a New Hampshire-based lifestyle event organization and luxury adult travel community that has built a loyal following across the Granite State and beyond. Unlike a brick-and-mortar club, H&H operates as a roving collective: its events take place at rented nightlife venues, hotel ballrooms, chartered boats, and all-inclusive resort takeovers rather than a fixed address, which keeps the vibe fresh and the crowd — drawn from New Hampshire, Massachusetts, and the broader New England lifestyle scene — pleasantly varied. The format ranges from low-key bar Meet & Greets where newcomers can size things up in a no-pressure, clothed environment, to large-scale, on-premise hotel takeovers that run full weekends with DJs, themed nightly parties, and dedicated play spaces. The event calendar spans several recurring signatures. Luminescence is a private sunset booze cruise on Boston Harbor — an electric-jungle-themed adults-only boat party with a full bar and live DJ; the adjacent Freaky Friday Meet & Greet the night before gives attendees a chance to connect before boarding. The annual Bacchanalia series is a full resort takeover at a clothing-optional property in Mexico (Hidden Beach Resort Au Naturel, Riviera Maya for 2026), running five nights of themed evenings — Burlesque, Luau, All That Glitters Is Gold, Down the Rabbit Hole, and an Intergalactic Glow night — with gourmet dining and premium drinks. A Winter Wonderland hotel-floor takeover rounds out the domestic calendar, while Virgin Alaska Cruise group trips and a Barcelona–Ibiza experience extend the travel programme internationally. Membership is optional — most events sell tickets to the public — but the paid membership site unlocks early booking, a full event calendar, and H&H Rewards points. All events are primarily open to couples and single women; a limited number of single men are accepted at select events. Attendees must be 21 or older. Event locations are disclosed only on tickets and the members site, preserving discretion. Reach the club by call, text, or WhatsApp at 603-550-9676, or follow @heavenandhellsocialclub on Instagram.

Ignite Club

Heathrow, London

On-Premise Club

Ignite Club is London's largest lifestyle club — a genuine dual-identity venue that runs as Kestrels Spa by day and Club Ignite by night, set on Bath Road in Longford right next to Heathrow's Terminal 5. The January 2025 rebrand of the former AbFab/Kestrels (and before that Kestrel Hydro Spa) keeps the same sprawling 422 Bath Road building but gives it a fresh identity under new operator Caroline Towers. The headline feature is a large heated nude swimming pool — reportedly the only one at any UK lifestyle club — alongside three hot tubs, a sauna and steam room, a porn cinema with comfy seating, what the operators call the largest dark room in London, a dungeon, grope boxes, nine play rooms (three private plus three with viewing windows downstairs, two two-way-mirror "sheds" and one private room upstairs, all lockable from the inside), a dedicated couples-only play room, plus a licensed bar and disco. There's off-road parking for around 30 cars with an ANPR system. Daytime Silks & Skins spa days run Mon/Wed/Thu/Fri/Sun 11am–6pm (Mon/Wed extend to 10pm as clothing-optional, Sunday runs to 8pm) with a strict naturist dress code in the wet areas — robes, towels, or nothing, and footwear required everywhere. Thursday and Sunday days allow lingerie as an alternative ("Silks & Skins"). Evening swingers parties run Friday and Saturday 9pm–2am (last entry 11:30pm) as "AbFabulous Fridays" and "Sensational Saturdays", with smart-casual enforced: collared shirts and smart shoes for men, sexy attire for women — no towels upstairs, no trainers, no leisurewear. Once a month one Saturday is exclusively couples and single ladies with no single men admitted at all. Themed nights rotate through Wicked Vixens, Asian Darkside, Latex & Leather, Mocha Nights, Half-Off Fridays, and an NYE 'Oscars' Ball. Pricing: Mon/Wed/Sun spa £40 couples / £17 ladies / £43 gents, Thu/Fri spa £35 / £15 / £40, Fri/Sat parties £35 / £15 / £50 (single gents must pre-book with £10 deposit, no walk-ins). Ignite is a private members' club — individual membership is £25 per person per year (no couples membership, everyone applies separately), or first-timers can buy a £10 day/night pass and upgrade for £15 extra. Two forms of ID are required at first visit (one photo, one proof of address — UK driving licence covers both) and you'll complete an online application in advance. Phones are collected at reception, bagged with a numbered tag, and stored under CCTV — no photography or filming anywhere in the venue. Consent is heavily emphasised: "don't touch anyone unless you're clearly invited to." Play is welcome throughout the building except in the pool, hot tubs, steam room, and outdoor smoking area. One complimentary towel per guest (extras £2.50). Worth knowing: despite the naturist spa format, this is NOT a British Naturism affiliated venue — play is permitted in playrooms throughout the day, which distinguishes it sharply from mainstream UK naturist spas like Clover Spa.

Club L (Le Club L)

Montreal, Quebec

On-Premise Club

Club L is a members-only lifestyle and swinging club occupying more than 7,200 square feet across two floors of a converted Caisse Populaire Desjardins building on Rue Jean-Talon Est in Montreal's Rosemont-La Petite-Patrie neighbourhood. Founded by the couple Mateo Lapointe and Andree, who have practised open relationships since 2003, the venue positions itself as one of Quebec's premier couple-centred libertine spaces — high-end, consent-focused, and deliberately discreet from the street. The ground floor operates as a full restaurant-lounge with small round tables, a central bar, and a chef preparing plated meals that are included in the entry price. A DJ plays on Friday and Saturday nights, and all sexual activity is confined to the second floor — keeping the main floor comfortable for socialising, dining, and meeting at any pace. The second floor opens around 22:30 and holds nine themed private rooms plus a large open communal play area. Rooms are equipped with individual sinks, adjustable mood lighting, and personalised sound controls; there are showers, towels, and full bathroom toiletries on the same floor. Suspension anchors for Shibari and swing chairs are available in the communal space, and on-floor security monitors (vigiles) are present throughout the playroom level at all times. Friday and Saturday nights run 19:00-03:00 and are reserved for couples, single women (femmes libres), and pre-sponsored male escorts (hommes accompagnateurs) whose sponsors must register them in advance — unaccompanied men are not admitted. Select Thursday evenings run 19:00-23:00 as social-only events open to all adults 18 and over, with the second floor closed and no membership required. A valid membership is mandatory for all Friday and Saturday visits: CAD $35 per person for one month, or CAD $75 per person annually. Entry fees vary by event from CAD $45 to $80 per person (plus tax), covering one meal per person. First-time visitors must arrive by 23:00 to complete a mandatory guided tour of the second floor. Payment is accepted in cash or physical debit card only; online reservations carry a non-refundable CAD $5 per person deposit credited at the door.

Society of Bastet

Dartmouth, Nova Scotia

BDSM/Kink Club

The Society of Bastet is a volunteer-run, non-profit alternative lifestyles organization based in Dartmouth, Nova Scotia, serving the kink and BDSM community across Atlantic Canada. Operating out of Suite 5 at 327 Windmill Road — tucked behind blacked-out windows — the society operates a community play space with weekly programming for practitioners of impact play, rope bondage, fire play, latex, electrical play, foot fetishism, domination and submission, and more. The clubhouse features a dungeon equipped with a St. Andrew's cross, a spanking bench, an impact toys wall, and a wax play area. A separate medical room — complete with an examination table, lab coats, gloves, and a biohazard sharps container — supports fire play, massage, and play piercing. A Dungeon Monitor is on duty during every session with a first-aid kit, and a Sheriff role handles escalated concerns. Hospital-grade disinfectant and single-use items are standard; members are required to clean all equipment after use. The society explicitly describes itself as a BDSM and kink club, not a sex club: penetration is not permitted, and all physical contact must be through a clothing barrier. Alcohol and drugs are strictly prohibited on the premises. Weekly Saturday night play parties form the backbone of the schedule, with an orientation session on the first Saturday of each month for newcomers. Annual membership is CA$30 per person (or CA$50 for two years); membership is optional and guests are welcome at all events when signed in by a member. All attendees must be 19 or older. The Society also runs the School of Kink, an ongoing program of classes, peer tutoring, and demonstrations covering safe technique across a wide range of kinks.

Hacienda

Brooklyn, NY

On-Premise Club

Rooted in Bushwick since 2009, Hacienda operates across multiple townhouses in Brooklyn's most creative neighborhood, functioning as both a members-only sex-positive club and an intentional living community. The flagship venue features multiple floors with distinct play areas, social lounges, a hot tub, indoor and outdoor spaces, and room for DJs and live performances. The crowd skews late twenties and thirties, draws a notably gender-balanced mix of couples, singles, and non-monogamous folk, and sets a tone that members describe as intimate rather than nightclub-loud. Access runs entirely through a referral-based membership system. Applicants must be vouched for by an existing member, watch a mandatory consent-policy video, and pay $40/quarter or $120/year; individual event tickets run $45–$85. Three event tiers exist: public themed nights, private members-only play parties, and educational workshops. First-time guests must complete an in-person orientation before their first play party. Play parties feature multiple socializing and play zones, themed decor, DJ sets, and a full meal served around 2am. Trained volunteers called Guardians — identifiable by light-up armbands — circulate throughout every event and do not participate in play. The consent policy is opt-in: all touch requires explicit verbal agreement. Phones and recording devices are not permitted in play areas.

Killing Kittens

London, Greater London

Event Organizer

Founded in London in 2005 by Emma Sayle, Killing Kittens has spent two decades building what it bills as the world's most exclusive and hedonistic parties — a female-empowerment brand "fully focused on the pursuit of female pleasure for girls in control who know what they want." From those London beginnings it has grown into a global movement spanning more than 22 cities across 10 countries, with over 250,000 people having attended its events, yet London remains its home turf. Parties there are staged in a rotating cast of "exclusive and luxurious venues in London, with stunning decor, state-of-the-art sound systems, and a carefully curated atmosphere." Locations are kept secret and revealed only to confirmed guests, part of the discretion the brand stakes its reputation on. The KK model is strictly members-and-invitation-only: "The only way to gain exclusive access to KK parties is by becoming a KK member or receiving an invite from one." Full "Kitten" membership is reserved for women, trans and non-binary people, who lead the room; Guest membership lets others attend alongside a Full member or buy tickets to designated Singles events, and solo men are otherwise excluded. The brand's long-standing golden rule puts women firmly in charge — the women make the first move, and men may never approach a woman they don't know. Consent sits at the centre of everything, with guidelines emailed before every event covering "greetings through aftercare" and trained staff on hand throughout; masks are traditionally kept on until 11pm, when play begins. Beyond the flagship nights, KK runs a calendar of themed events — Masquerade Balls, Kinky Cabaret, Hedonism nights and seasonal Halloween parties among them — plus workshops and a members' community that continues online through the WAX app. Tickets are priced by who's attending, roughly from around £50–£75 for single women up to £200-plus for couples, keeping the crowd skewed toward women and couples. The brand leans hard on stated values of gender equity, body positivity, consent and inclusivity, welcoming "all genders and sexualities to come and play" while pledging zero tolerance for racism, ableism, sexism, fatphobia or transphobia. Confidentiality is absolute — guest information and event details are never shared — and the whole experience is designed to feel luxurious, safe and free of judgement.

Club Bacchus

Dundee, Scotland

On-Premise Club

Club Bacchus occupies a discreet licensed venue at 11–15 Princes Street in the centre of Dundee — Tayside's only dedicated lifestyle club, self-billed as "Scotland's premier private members' club" and "Tayside's most stylish and discreet adult lifestyle venue." The address has a long history as an alternative-lifestyle space; Bacchus is the direct successor to Club Kudos, which had been running the building as a gay/bi/BDSM/swinger venue since around 2019 (Kudos signed up 160+ members in its first weeks per the Dundee Courier, and held a 4.3/5 Google rating across 20 reviews before the rebrand). Bacchus took the lease on and broadened the programme — the same west-of-city-centre warren of rooms, the same sauna and steam room downstairs, the same focus on serving the swinging, BDSM, kink, gay and LGBTQ+ communities under one roof, but now run as a single brand by an owner the FabSwingers reviewers consistently refer to by first name: Heather. The venue sprawls across two floors. Downstairs holds a large entertainment lounge and a smaller quiet lounge, a sauna and steam room, full shower facilities, glory holes, a working kitchen serving hot and cold drinks and snacks, and a separate indoor smoking area. Upstairs is a warren of five dedicated kink rooms and three themed playrooms, including a Fem Dom dungeon and a 1-on-1 Mistress session room available by separate booking during dungeon events. The programme runs on a tight monthly rhythm: Friday nights typically 8pm–late, Saturday afternoons (3–8pm) for Hosted Kink Events with novices welcome, and Saturday nights 8pm–late for Swingers Nights, "Open to All" parties, PJ Game Parties, TV/CD & Admirers evenings, and the recurring Men Only Sauna and "No Lights, No Towels (Men Only)" formats. The sauna itself runs Tuesday through Sunday. Entry is event-priced rather than membership-based — a £2.50 non-members daily fee is bundled into every Swingers Night ticket, which sits at £25 for couples, £32.50 for single men, £12.50 for single women, and £20 for women arriving dressed in themed attire. Towels, lockers and condoms are included. The club is BYOB throughout; mixers, soft drinks and snacks are complimentary, and guests are asked not to drink before using the sauna. Kink nights run strictly alcohol-free, and dungeon nights sometimes carry their own separate ticketing for 1-on-1 Mistress sessions. Dress code splits cleanly by floor — downstairs is smart casual or elegant clubwear, upstairs is lingerie, towel or less. The PJ Game Party runs a colour-coded pyjama system to signal preferences (blue for seeking male, pink for seeking female, yellow male-male, red female-female, mix & match for both). The crowd is mixed in every sense — couples, singles, kinksters, queer guests, first-timers — and Heather is widely credited in reviews for personally walking newcomers around the venue before the night gets going.

Illuminaughty Denver

Denver, CO

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Denver launched in early 2025, selling out its first play party in the Mile High City, and now runs as a curated, application-only private members club for ethically non-monogamous couples and singles in their 20s, 30s, and 40s. Part of a national network spanning dozens of U.S. cities, it hosts a mix of Tease Cocktail Mixers at restaurants and bars alongside private play parties held at rented residences - anything from single-family houses to executive high-rises and country estates, each staffed with private security and dressed with intentional lighting, music, and decor. Membership is free but vetted: applicants are screened for fitness, self-awareness, and respectfulness, and once approved gain access to buy tickets and receive invites via the mobile app. Most private parties draw 40 to 80 members and run 8pm to 2am (or 2pm to midnight for All Day Soirees), with a strict arrival window, a consent-and-safety briefing before play begins, and a formal or themed dress code - cocktail attire or lingerie for women, suits for men, though some nights go casual (Neon, Pajama). No models, performers, or influencers are booked; every attendee is a vetted member.

The Loft Club

Ronkonkoma, NY

The Loft Club billed itself as Long Island's only premier upscale lifestyle club, operating out of an industrial-style space at 142-1 Remington Boulevard in Ronkonkoma. Operated under the umbrella of the Naughty Neighbors group — active on the Long Island lifestyle scene since 2015 — the club combined a social lounge experience with on-premise play, drawing couples and vetted single guests in roughly equal measure. The Naughty Neighbors' ethos of zero-pressure, no-expectation socialising carried directly into the club nights, where newcomers were actively welcomed and regulars kept the atmosphere more house-party than nightclub. The venue featured three lounge areas, a dedicated dance floor with a DJ, upgraded lighting, and six dedicated playrooms. A stripper pole anchored the main party room and the club ran a BYOB policy, supplying mixers, sodas and water at the bar. Admission was tiered: $30 for single ladies, $70 for couples, and $80 for single men, with single-male attendance capped and subject to pre-approval. Events were listed on the SwingLifeStyle (SLS) calendar. As of mid-2026, The Loft Club was actively relocating to a new and larger location, with the Naughty Neighbors group targeting its annual Halloween party as the opening milestone. The theloftclub2.com site was live but showing a Launching Soon holding page, directing all enquiries through email and text-only contact channels.

Shrine Austin

Austin, TX

Event Organizer

Shrine is a monthly BDSM, fetish, and alternative-lifestyle party held on a Sunday evening at colette Austin, a 7,000–9,000 sq ft swingers club at 13800 Dragline Dr. Run by a coalition of Austin-area kink organizations, Shrine bills itself as a sex-positive space that blends a dungeon and nightclub atmosphere, welcoming swingers, kinksters, voyeurs, LGBTQIA+ attendees, and polyamorous folks alike. The venue supplies multiple beds, St. Andrew's crosses, spanking benches, hard points, wrestling mats, stripper poles, a non-alcoholic beverage bar, small lockers, and a smoking-permitted outdoor social area, plus a massage table set aside for fire and medical play. Doors run 6:30pm to 1am (2am on Memorial Day and Labor Day weekends), with check-in closing an hour before close. Entry requires a valid state or federal ID (18+), a free temporary colette-club membership, and a signed waiver; cover is $25 at the door or discounted online. There's no fixed dress code — fetish wear and leather are encouraged, and nudity is fine once inside — but attendees must be street-legal en route, and new attendees take a walkthrough with a Front of House Tour Guide before diving in. House rules lean heavily toward consent and safety: the event safe word is RED, all scenes require enthusiastic consent, and Dungeon Monitors in colored vests patrol to enforce boundaries. The party is explicitly dry — no alcohol or drugs are permitted anywhere on the premises — and phones, cameras, and recording devices are banned inside the club except in designated photography areas.

Club Princeton

Columbus, OH

On-Premise Club

Club Princeton occupies a sprawling 21,000-square-foot converted warehouse in the Franklinton area of Columbus, Ohio — an industrial exterior that gives little away before you step inside. Open since the early 2000s, it has grown into what regular visitors call the most upscale lifestyle club in the Midwest. The ground floor centres on a 2,500-square-foot dance area with live DJs, a stage, and dance cages; there is also VIP table seating, a full bar setup serving free mixers, soft drinks, and snacks nightly. BYOB is the policy — no alcohol is sold on site — and lockers are available for storing your own bottles. Upstairs, the play floors open into a warren of themed spaces: a VIP lounge with a fireplace, the Stairway to Heaven lounge, a doctor's examination room, a jail-cell playroom, a room with a Sybian massage table, two open group rooms, and twelve private rooms — each made up with clean white sheets and white towels, with staff cycling through to change linens between uses. Thursday nights carry a bi and fetish theme starting at 10 PM; Friday and Saturday nights are open to the broader lifestyle crowd. Single men are restricted to public areas and require female accompaniment to access play spaces. Membership is mandatory before entry — required by Ohio licensing law — though short-term single-event passes are available at the door alongside paid-up couples memberships. Door fees are separate from membership. The club is consistently praised for its professional, welcoming staff, thorough first-timer tours, and strict no-photography policy throughout the venue. Free fenced parking and on-site security round out the offering.

Members-only BDSM/lifestyle community center (brand sunset — venue continues at the same address as Inversion MKE)

Club EASSEL ran for about four years as Milwaukee's self-described "BDSM/Lifestyle Community Center" — a sex-positive, body-positive, kink-inclusive members space built out of a suite inside a multi-tenant 1950s flex/industrial building at 615 S 89th Street, on the western edge of Milwaukee proper at the West Allis border. The club shared the building with a mechanical contractor, a junk-removal franchise and a construction firm — daytime industrial tenants who closed up by the time EASSEL's doors opened. The brand name is a stylised respelling of "easel" — the artist's stand — and that framing recurred in the club's own copy: "fun and exciting ways to explore your sexuality in a safe and sex-positive environment" and "explore your art in a body positive space." Eassel LLC was registered in Wisconsin on 11 December 2020 with Kathryn S. Huntington listed as registered agent; the club opened to the public not long after. EASSEL ran an unusual format for the US lifestyle scene — kink/BDSM-forward rather than swing-forward, members-only and application-based but unusually transparent for the niche (LLC on public record, BBB profile under "Adult Entertainment" with an A+ rating, Facebook and Instagram both maintained). It sat outside the standard swinger directories — not on SDC, Kasidie, SwingLifestyle or SwingersHelp — and lived instead on FetLife, Instagram, a Wisconsin Facebook lifestyle group, and a handful of community-centre listings (including a Madison sex-positive therapist's referral page). Programming ran Tuesday 7:30–10:30pm and Friday/Saturday 8pm–2am, with a regular Karaoke Night anchoring the weekly cadence and BDSM munches and play parties filling the rest. The Church of Ecstasy lifestyle aggregator rated it the highest-scoring Milwaukee venue at 4.2/5. The only public-facing peer in the city was The Key Social Club — a 21+ swinger-leaning social — and the two operated as complements rather than competitors. In the second half of 2024 the EASSEL name sunset and the venue rebranded as Inversion MKE. The change is documented in the City of Milwaukee Board of Zoning Appeals agenda for 12 September 2024, which lists "Inversion MKE, LLC" applying for a special use permit at 615 S 89th Street, and was confirmed in an r/milwaukee thread by a regular who clarified that "EASSEL did not close, just renamed to Inversion a few months ago. The management changed. It's now one of the best run establishments I know of. Everyone is super nice and there is a great culture of safety and consent." The clubeassel.com domain went offline shortly after, displaying a developer placeholder dated 2025. The Instagram, Facebook and FetLife accounts remain visible but inactive under the old name. The Club EASSEL brand is closed; the venue itself continues, under new ownership and a new identity, at the same address.

The Upper Level at The Diplomat Health Club

Grand Rapids, MI

On-Premise Club

The Upper Level sits above The Diplomat Health Club, a Grand Rapids sauna and bathhouse that has operated at 2324 Division Avenue South since 1980. While the club below is a private gay men's bathhouse, the Upper Level rooms are explicitly gender-fluid - the FAQ confirms guest ID is checked only to verify age, not gender or orientation - making it a distinct alternative-adult-stay option for swingers and couples of all genders passing through Michigan. Three overnight rooms are available: the Master Suite ($159), the Retro Room ($129), and the Loft Room ($119), each priced for one guest with a $39 upcharge to add a second person and a flat $20 cleaning fee per stay. Unlike the club's day rooms and lockers, which are first-come-first-served, the Upper Level rooms are the only accommodations that can be reserved ahead of time, booked directly by email, with day-pass access to the club's amenities bundled into the room rate. Check-in runs from 3pm with check-out by 11am the next day. Guests must be 21 or older and present a valid credit card matching their state or federal photo ID. Nudity is permitted inside a rented room but not in the shared common areas, and each room is limited to one or two occupants, with a single additional guest allowed up from the main club floor for the $39 fee.

BiZarre Events

London, London

BDSM Club

BiZarre Events is one of London's boldest and most unapologetically extreme fetish party producers, founded in April 2012 by Nina and Aidan BiZarre — two lifelong practitioners who created the events they wished existed. Operating as a private members club across rotating London venues disclosed only to confirmed guests, BiZarre isn't a nightclub with a kink corner — it's a play-first, immersive experience where fetish, kink, and sexual exploration take centre stage. Their lineup includes the long-running Bi-Kink Club for bisexual and pansexual fetishists, Club Labrys — a women-only safe space launched in 2019 — and the notorious PisSoir nights. Events run monthly on Saturdays, typically 9 PM to 3 AM, at purpose-fitted venues including world-renowned BDSM dungeons equipped with St. Andrew's crosses, bondage beds, suspension frames, and dedicated play spaces. Admission includes complimentary drinks, coat check, towels, showers, and supplies — an unusually all-inclusive package for the London fetish scene. The strict dress code is enforced at the door, and professional floor stewards ensure consent is always upheld. BiZarre explicitly welcomes everyone — straight, bi, gay, lesbian, trans, gender-fluid, crossdressers, singles, couples, and poly groups — making it one of the most genuinely pan-sexual events in London. Featured in Time Out London and Kinky Compass's Top 15 Kink Events, BiZarre has earned a devoted following over 14 years with consistently positive reviews praising the friendly atmosphere, professional staff, and immersive play-focused environment. Annual membership is £30, with per-event pricing from £25 for couples to £50 for non-member singles.

colette Austin

Austin, TX

Set in a sprawling, purpose-built space in North Austin's Wells Branch area, colette Austin bills itself as the newest of the colette family's "party palaces" — a private, membership-only, on-premise social club for couples, single men, and single women exploring the swinging, polyamorous, or open-relationship lifestyle. The venue spans over 8,000 square feet, with a main-level lounge and dance floor lit by high-tech sound and lighting, a second-floor lounge with its own "sexy vibe," lockers, valet parking, and a strictly non-smoking policy throughout. The club runs Wednesday through Saturday nights, with single men welcome every open night except Saturday, which is reserved for couples and single women only. Membership is required and issued on the spot at the door, a dress code modeled on "upscale restaurant or nightclub" attire is enforced, and photos are restricted to designated photo-op areas only. Alcohol isn't sold on-site — colette Austin is BYOB, with free mixers, ice, and set-ups provided, and outside coolers checked at the bar. The club also hosts birthday and special-occasion parties.

On-Premise Club

Cheers is Hamburg's cosy alternative to the big swinger clubs — a 150 m² frivolous bar on Straßburger Straße in Dulsberg, one minute's walk from the U1 Straßburger Straße station, that has been drawing a loyal crowd of couples and singles since March 2008. Owners Gert and Janine turned a hobby into a profession and it shows: the space holds just 40 people across a stylish bar and lounge with sofas, a table-dance pole, a darkroom, a separate smoking room with play area, a Kuschelecke (cuddling corner), and shower facilities. There's no dress code on weekdays — come straight from work in whatever you're wearing — while weekends call for groomed or erotic attire. Ladies always enter free. The weekly highlight is Thursday's Erotic Dart Night, where the special rules guarantee almost everyone loses their clothes before the game is over — small prizes for winners, playful forfeits for losers, and a natural icebreaker that brings strangers together. Tuesday is Stammtisch (regulars' night with a higher single-male ratio), Friday and Saturday run late until 3 am as full party nights, and the first Saturday of each month is couples-only. Newcomer sampler evenings on the 1st, 3rd, and 5th Sundays give first-timers a pressure-free introduction with the owners personally making sure nobody is left standing alone. Admission is a €30 minimum spend at the bar (€25 with JOYclub discount); single men pay the same but entry is never guaranteed and depends on the ratio. With a 4.9/5 rating across 685+ JOYclub reviews, 1,600 fans, and over 627,000 recorded visitor check-ins, Cheers has the numbers to back up 18 years of word-of-mouth reputation. The motto — "Alles kann, nichts muss" (everything is possible, nothing is mandatory) — sets the tone, and 94% of reviewers rate the experience as good or very good. No prostitution, no cameras, and a crew described by regulars as "cultivated, nice, and funny." The bar can also be rented for private events on closed days.

Ohana's Social Club

Columbus, OH

Social Club

Tucked into Columbus's South Side on S High Street, Ohana's Social Club has carved out a reputation as one of central Ohio's most welcoming lifestyle venues. The club occupies a multi-level building that members describe as a laid-back, sexy house party — a phrase the club itself now uses to capture the vibe. The main floor holds an open bar area with a pool table, dance floor, kitchen, a lounge with a stripper pole, and an open loft play space with sofas and a swing. Upstairs, five fully private rooms, one semi-private room, and the Kink Korner group room round out the play areas. Ohana's runs three regular party nights a week. Wednesdays open at 7 PM through midnight; Fridays and Saturdays kick off at 8:30 PM, running until 2 AM and 3 AM respectively. Events are ticketed online through ohanas.club, and single males — admitted on a strict ratio — are strongly advised to pre-register. Membership is required for all attendees: annual dues run $60 for couples and single males, $40 for single females; weekly passes start at $25 for couples. A government-issued photo ID is checked at every visit. The venue is BYOB — no alcohol is sold on site, but the club supplies soda, mixers, ice, cups, and light snacks. The atmosphere skews inclusive and body-positive; reviewers consistently highlight the pressure-free, judgment-free tone. All new members are screened against the national sex offender registry, and a zero-tolerance consent policy is posted first in the house rules.

Caligula New York

Astoria, NY

Swingers Club

Caligula New York bills itself as ''an on-premise swinger club experience like no other,'' and the venue lives that pitch from a discreet address in Astoria, Queens — just minutes from Manhattan by car or subway and a short ride from the city''s major highways. Created by people in the Lifestyle for the Lifestyle, the private, upscale social club draws couples, single ladies and a curated mix of single gentlemen into an atmosphere the owners describe as sensual, sophisticated and no-pressure, with ample legal street parking outside and the exact address shared only after a reservation is made. Programming runs Thursday through Sunday: Thursday''s ''One Night Stand'' swinger fling, Friday''s ''In Fridays We Trust'' / Nymphomania parties, themed Saturday socials such as ''Welcome to the Jungle,'' and the Sinful Sunday Night Swinger Social. Couples and single ladies are welcome on every night, while single gentlemen are admitted only on select, designated nights and must be accompanied by a lady at couples-only events. First-timers must RSVP in advance through the website or by calling (516) 301-7800, and admission prices vary by event and promoter. Inside, a BYOB bar with mixers, dancefloor and light buffet feed the social side, while private and semi-private playrooms — some reserved exclusively for couples — handle the rest. Weekends are strictly ''Dress to Impress'' with ladies in sexy, stylish attire and gentlemen classy and well-presented; mid-week events soften to ''casual but neat,'' and themed nights reward those who lean in.

Trapeze Fort Lauderdale

Tamarac, FL

On-Premise Club

Trapeze Fort Lauderdale sits in an unremarkable strip mall on State Road 7 in Tamarac — about 10 miles northwest of downtown Fort Lauderdale — sharing a parking lot with a liquor store and a check-cashing shop. The club is South Florida's longest-running on-premise lifestyle venue, open since the mid-1990s, and celebrated its 30th anniversary in May 2026. Its 9,000 square feet split between a dimly lit main lounge with a sunken dance floor, a central stripper pole, bar-top seating, and three full-service BYOB bars; the resident DJ leans heavily Latin, and the music levels stay just low enough for conversation at the edges. A rotating weekly dinner buffet — carving station, mains like Tuscan-style pork roast or grilled grouper, desserts including creme brulee — gives way to a breakfast spread in the early hours. The playroom area sits behind wooden doors at the back and is clothing-free; street attire is checked in attended lockers with towels provided at no charge. Inside is a maze of vinyl-covered platforms and leather couches, a dividing window room visible from both sides, six private rooms, and an open group area. Couples and single women may attend all five operating nights (Wed–Sun, 8pm to 3–4am); single men are welcome Wed–Fri and Sun but barred on Saturdays. The crowd skews 40s–60s with a strong Latin representation from across South Florida. Themed events rotate weekly — Unicorn Night, Wet Looks, Linen & Lace — with costume contests and seasonal parties. Pricing requires both a membership and a nightly user fee. A Discord community allows members to coordinate before arriving and unlock a $20 discount per event. New members complete registration at self-service kiosks on arrival and may join a guided facility tour any evening before 9pm.

616

Grand Rapids, MI

Rotating hotel takeover event organizer - no fixed venue

Club 616 is a members-only lifestyle club serving West Michigan, running themed hotel-takeover events in Kalamazoo, Grand Rapids, and Newaygo. Current hosts took over in January 2012, building on a group dating to the 1990s. Membership welcomes couples, single ladies, and sponsored single gentlemen; the club calls itself BDSM, kink, and LGBTQ+ friendly. Joining requires an application, photo ID, and signed consent forms. Signature parties - Red Carpet NYE, Halloween, and a spring weekend - bring a dance floor, DJ, dance pole, light show, a pool party, and a VIP room with bench swings, a St. Andrew's cross, and a ladies-only bed. A recent Halloween filled a 182-room hotel, dress shifting by zone: lobby street clothes, g-strings/pasties minimum poolside, none in the VIP room. Entry is 21-and-up, reservation-only, ID checked at registration. Consent policy bars unwanted touching; cameras banned at events.

Wicked Fun Club

Terryville, CT

On-Premise Club

Wicked Fun Club is Connecticut's only dedicated on-premise swinger destination, a private members-only lifestyle club that owners Steve and Jodi Gagne designed to feel nothing like a nightclub — no dance floor, no bar, just sultry lighting and a spacious lounge where couples and singles can actually hear each other talk. Spanning over 3,000 square feet, the venue hosts 16 to 40 guests per event and includes a social lounge, an open play area, and four dedicated playrooms outfitted with a Tantra chair, a sex swing, and ample group space. Complimentary towels and lockers are provided; the club is strictly BYOB with mixers, chilled storage, snacks, and bottled water supplied by the house. Events run Friday and Saturday nights: Fridays welcome couples, single ladies, and vetted single men, while Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only. Themed nights — murder mystery parties, Western dress-up evenings, Newbie Nights — give the 200-strong membership fresh reasons to return. Membership is tiered by category and required before attending; event entry donations run $80 per couple, $20 per single lady, and $100 per single man. Hosts Steve and Jodi are on hand at every event, personally welcoming newcomers, leading venue walkthroughs, and keeping the atmosphere pressure-free. Reviewers compare the vibe to an open-minded house party rather than a late-night club — warm, clean, and less cliquey than larger regional venues. The original Terryville location was ordered closed by Plymouth zoning authorities in spring 2025; the club has since relocated to a new undisclosed Central Connecticut venue and continues to operate.

BDSM Club

The Lifestyle Lounge in Eccles, Greater Manchester is one of the UK's longest-running lifestyle clubs — over 40 years of history, formerly Adam and Eve's, fully rebranded in 2025 to welcome couples, LGBTQ+, kink, and fetish guests across four themed floors. Facilities include a hot tub, jacuzzi, sauna, swing room, private rooms, pool table, and lockers. BYOB (up to 4 cans or a half-bottle). Dress code: bright, kinky, as wild as you dare. Featured on Channel 5's "Adults: 24 Hour Sex, Up All Night." Membership required; capacity 80.

Club Eden is a roaming private-members lifestyle club based in Greater Vancouver, British Columbia, operating since 2006. Female-owned and operated, the club holds events at pre-approved venues throughout the Lower Mainland rather than at a fixed premises — the exact address for each event is disclosed only to approved members via their e-ticket after booking. The club caters to single women, couples, and their guests, emphasising a no-pressure environment in which attendance carries no obligation to participate beyond whatever each member personally chooses. Because Eden rotates between venues, the physical layout shifts by event, though the format for on-premise dance parties is consistent: a main-floor nightclub zone with a resident DJ spinning top 40 and house music, themed decor, and a social area for dancing and mingling. Larger on-premise events additionally feature dedicated play floors above the main room, encompassing private playrooms with closing doors and room-status signs, semi-private curtained rooms, a dungeon playroom, a large open group-play area on the top floor, and open play benches throughout. Complimentary safety supplies and medical-grade cleanser are stocked in each play space. A staff concierge — designated the Queen of Consent — is stationed at play-area entrances from approximately 10 pm onward. The event calendar covers several formats: social Meet and Greets, Pre-Party Potlucks preceding dance nights, regular On-Premise Dance Parties (typically 100–250 attendees), five annual Famous Five signature events tied to Valentine's Day, a summer beach party, Halloween, Christmas, and New Year's Eve (each drawing around 400 members), multi-day Edenstock camp-outs (50–120 attendees over 2–3 days), adult travel events, and Sexy Seminars. A free membership application — reviewed within 48 hours — is required before any tickets can be purchased; a $5 membership fee is bundled into each event's ticket price. Advance registration is mandatory; no walk-ins are accepted. First-time attendees must present government-issued photo ID at the door and sign hard copies of the membership agreement, privacy waiver, and liability waiver.

AfterDark Events

San Francisco, CA

Event Organizer (Pop-Up Play Parties)

AfterDark is a POC, femme, queer, neurodivergent, and disabled led org producing curated kink and alt-sex events across the SF Bay Area. Founded 2021 with 10+ years of ethical organizing, running signature parties like SPANK! Pop-ups at Stopgap in SoMa, 100-200 attendees. Each party has zones for socializing, dancing, kink play, and aftercare. Safer-sex supplies, food (vegan/GF/DF), and non-alcoholic drinks provided. Drug/alcohol-free, no phones, no photography, ID required. Consent-centered: dungeon monitors, house safeword, no breath play or open flame.

KC Book Club

Liberty, MO

On-Premise Club

KC Book Club is a by-invitation-only lifestyle house party set on five acres of secluded land just north of Liberty, Missouri — a quiet, rural setting that ensures complete privacy for its guests. Owned and personally run by Eddie, the venue is a custom-built entertaining space that has earned a reputation as one of the Midwest most recognized lifestyle destinations, drawing regulars and curious newcomers alike from as far as Nebraska, Iowa, Oklahoma, and Arkansas. The club has been featured on national lifestyle podcasts, and its welcoming, consent-forward atmosphere keeps the crowd firmly in living-room-party territory rather than nightclub territory. Saturday nights are the club's exclusive rhythm, and the format is BYOE — guests bring their own drinks and snacks, while the house provides soft drinks, hors d'oeuvres, ice, soda mixers, and bottled water. Inside, a large social area and a dance floor (complete with stripper pole) set the tone for mingling before the evening deepens. Private play rooms and dedicated kink and lifestyle spaces are available on site, and the venue also features a pool, hot tub, and showers. When the weather cooperates, the five acres open up for clothing-optional volleyball, swimming, and sunbathing. The club is kink-friendly, swinger-friendly, and welcoming to the genuinely curious — but it is strictly couples and single women only; single men are not admitted. Access is by invitation only, and the BYOE policy keeps the vibe communal and intimate. The location near Liberty Triangle puts guests within easy reach of hotels, restaurants, and retail for before or after the party.

on-premise swingers club

Sitting along the busy commercial strip of Admiral Wilson Boulevard in Pennsauken, New Jersey — just across the Delaware River from Philadelphia — Venus operates under the banner of SwingersUSA/CouplesClubUSA and has built a following as one of South Jersey's most established on-premise lifestyle clubs. The venue draws a crowd of both newcomers and regulars, billing itself as a no-pressure environment that is welcoming to couples and single ladies exploring the swinger lifestyle. The club runs parties every Friday and Saturday night from 9pm to 4am. Saturday evenings include a pre-party Tantra workshop from 8 to 9pm before the main event begins. The club provides an appetizer buffet as part of the evening, and operates on a BYOB basis with mixers supplied by the venue. A DJ provides entertainment throughout the night. Attendance is typically strong, with the club reporting averages of 105 to 130 couples per party. Venus describes itself as South Jersey's most popular on-premise lifestyle club. Its location on Admiral Wilson Boulevard places it convenient to major highway routes connecting the Philadelphia metro region and southern New Jersey.

Big Mamas Haus

Crimmitschau, Saxony

BDSM & Fetish Event Venue

BMH Event-Club — formerly known as Big Mama's Haus — is a sprawling BDSM, fetish, and swinger event location in the heart of Germany, housed in a converted warehouse in Crimmitschau's industrial quarter. Founded in 2006 by Irmgard Pruka (the original "Big Mama"), the venue combines two worlds under one roof: a ground floor with spacious swinger lounges, sauna, and a cinema room, and an upper floor featuring 11 exclusive SM playrooms with serious equipment — rotating cross, slave elevator, pillory, ball cage, prison cell, and two medieval torture chambers — plus a stylish bar and event space. Rather than opening every weekend like a traditional club, BMH operates as a curated event venue — hosting 2–4 themed productions per month from independent organizers and its own team. Events range from latex passion nights and BDSM play parties to Gorean fantasy workshops and grand slave auctions. Entry typically runs 50–85 EUR per person and almost always includes a full buffet and drinks. An adjacent warehouse and 6,000 sqm outdoor grounds handle the mega-events, with overnight rooms available from 30 EUR. Cash only. Rated 4.8/5 on JoyClub from over 250 reviews with nearly 270,000 total visitors, BMH draws guests from across Germany and Europe. Reviewers consistently praise the cleanliness, friendly staff, excellent food, and the care that's gone into making every room unique. The house motto says it all: "We are everything, just not boring."

colette Houston

Houston, TX

On-Premise Club

Tucked into a strip-mall suite off Cypress Creek Parkway in northwest Houston, colette occupies over 7,000 square feet of upscale, purpose-built lifestyle club space. The front half runs as a polished nightclub: high-tech lighting, a DJ-driven dance floor, and a staffed bar area where mixers, setups, and sodas are provided — though no alcohol is sold, so members bring their own. Lockers line the entry area so guests can stow valuables, and security is a constant presence. The crowd skews professional, ranging from their twenties to sixties, and first-timers consistently note how relaxed and low-pressure the atmosphere feels. Past the main lounge, the back section opens into the play areas: a theatre-style room for group viewing, a voyeur room, and a warren of private rooms, plus a shower. A separate rentable VIP room — fitted with a round bed and lounge seating — accommodates private parties of up to twenty. The club runs four nights a week: Wednesday and Thursday (9pm–2am) and Friday and Saturday (9pm–4am), with a full calendar of themed events — lingerie nights, fetish nights, and seasonal parties — announced on the ticketing calendar and available for advance purchase to skip the door queue. Single men are admitted Wednesday through Friday; Saturday is strictly couples and single ladies only. Door rates are tiered accordingly: couples pay $40–$70 depending on the night, single ladies $10–$20, and single men $100–$120. All admissions require a current membership, which starts at a $30 trial (one night) up to a $200 annual pass or multi-year VIP that folds in door fees and early-access perks valid at all four colette locations.

The Night Game

Houston, TX

on-premise nightclub

Billed as the largest and most luxurious private member lifestyle club in Texas, The Night Game sits off FM 1960 in north Houston and pulls off a rare double act: upscale enough to enforce a date-night dress code, yet relaxed enough to welcome everyone from curious first-timers to seasoned regulars. The vibe leans high-class-meets-cozy — think polished nightclub energy on the main floor and something warmer in the back. The crowd skews broad, reflecting the club's openly inclusive philosophy: swinging, BDSM, polyamory, LGBTQ+ and everything in between are all explicitly welcomed. The main floor centres on a 1,200 sq ft dance floor fitted with a dance cage, two dance poles and a shadow box for silhouette shows, all driven by resident professional DJs. Complimentary drink set-ups and full waitstaff keep the social side humming, and a covered patio offers breathing room between dances. Beyond the dancefloor, fully-stocked private playrooms are staffed with dedicated security and cleaning personnel — playroom doors are required to stay closed during play, and single unaccompanied men must be invited in by a couple or partner before entering. A Selfie Station in the main hall lets guests snap photos with mutual consent while keeping cameras out of private areas entirely. Entry requires valid photo ID and adherence to a firm dress code: cocktail and clubwear for ladies, collared or solid fashion shirts and clean shoes for men — no logo tees, athletic gear, cargo shorts or flip-flops will get you through the door. The club is strictly BYOB (no alcohol sold or served), has a zero-tolerance drugs policy, and operates under Harris County regulations requiring nipples and genitals to be covered in all common areas. Reservations are available online, pricing adjusts for holiday and special-event nights, and the club actively encourages guests with non-binary gender identities to contact them directly about pricing and access.

XCLUSIV Lifestyle (XL)

Houston, TX

Lifestyle Resort

Tucked into north Houston near the 77073 zip code, XCLUSIV Lifestyle (XL) is the area's upscale, members-only lifestyle event centre for open-minded adults drawn from across Texas and Louisiana. The venue runs Thursday through Sunday with Friday and Saturday nights going until 5AM and Sunday wrapping at 3AM, pulling in regulars from Houston, Dallas, Austin, San Antonio, Beaumont, and New Orleans. Membership is required but can be obtained at the door with a valid government-issued photo ID; all guests must be 21 or older. XL is fully cashless and BYOB with on-site mixers available. A live DJ, VIP sections, a dance floor, intimate lounge, showers, and a suite of themed playrooms fill out the space. Dress code is upscale and sexy, with a strict prohibited-items list covering shorts, sneakers, tank tops, and caps. Saturday single-gent entry is limited and requires advance RSVP. The club offers private event hire, affiliate travel packages to Desire and Temptation resorts, and maintains a FetLife community presence. Security cameras cover all public spaces while private areas are excluded. Photography and video require express written approval from management. Consent is core to the culture — non-consensual behaviour results in immediate removal without refund.

Friends Night Out (FNO)

Aurora, IL

Event Organizer

Friends Night Out (FNO) runs its parties out of a rented two-level space in Aurora, Illinois known to members as "The Barn" — 2,030 square feet on Jericho Road near I-88 and Orchard Road, styled like a warm pub with conversation couches, chairs and cocktail tables rather than a purpose-built club. It's a licensed, zoned business the group leases for select gatherings, with swinger activity upstairs treated much like private activity in a hotel room; the venue owner supports the lifestyle community and welcomes guests of all orientations and identities. The space holds up to 100 guests, with parking for roughly 50 cars, two restrooms, exterior security cameras and intruder-alert systems. FNO bills itself less as a sex club and more as a friendship club — "we believe in fostering friendships in and out of the bedroom" — and leadership runs games and activities designed to get couples talking rather than just pairing off. Regular parties are capped at 75–100 people to keep the house-party feel intact, with occasional hotel takeovers scaling up to around 300. All events are BYOB with mixers supplied, appetizers are provided, and themed dress is encouraged but optional — guests not in costume are simply asked to "dress to impress." Access runs through paid membership: attending is a donation that doubles as an FNO membership fee, entry requires a prior ticket order number, and the street address isn't released until checkout. New members are marked with a green wristband so regulars can welcome them. FNO does not supply condoms or lubricant for health and liability reasons, so guests bring their own; wipes are provided in the play area, and neither of the two bathrooms has a shower.

Twist SF

San Francisco, CA

On-Premise Club

Tucked behind an unmarked door on Bay Street in San Francisco's storied North Beach neighborhood, Twist occupies a purpose-built lifestyle space that sets itself apart from the residence-party circuit. Guests enter through a sultry red-lit staircase into a coat check and sign-in area, then move through a compact BYOB bar — stocked with mixers, soft drinks, and light snacks — and into two front lounge areas furnished with couches, bar-top tables, and a small playroom anchored by a circular bed. Steps up from the bar sits the dedicated dance floor, ringed by low seating and outfitted with multiple dance poles and a VIP booth, giving the room an intimate nightclub feel in moody red and purple neon. Past a beaded curtain and a locker room with roughly 90 lockers (two towels per locker), a staff member marks the transition into the play areas, where full clothing is not permitted. Two open mat-covered rooms branch off left and right — one with a long couch and a tucked-away private alcove, the other a longer serpentine layout — plus a third private VIP room with a closable door. Additional bathrooms and a remodeled shower serve the back of the venue. Friday and Saturday nights run 10 PM to 4 AM; a Wednesday couples-only erotic yoga session (7:30–9:30 PM) offers a no-pressure introduction to the space. Saturdays are strictly couples and single ladies — no advance notice needed for either. Fridays follow the same rule for walk-ins, but Twist invites a limited number of single men by email application only. Single men are also welcome during Her Fantasy Party (HFP), held one to two Sundays per month (10 PM–3 AM), where couples set the tone and men attend by invitation-style selection. The crowd spans a wide age range and is notably diverse, and reviewers consistently single out the venue's culture of explicit verbal consent as one of its most distinguishing qualities.

Eyz Wide Shut

Tampa, FL

On-Premise Club

Spread across more than 12,000 square feet in two adjoining buildings on East Adamo Drive, Eyz Wide Shut is Tampa's only dedicated on-premise lifestyle nightclub. Eyz Wide Shut II houses the nightclub proper — a full liquor bar (cash only), a nightly complimentary buffet, a dance floor with a brass pole, a game room with pool and air hockey, a covered outdoor smoking patio, and an erotic-art museum stocked with imported pieces. Next door, Eyz Wide Shut I holds ten themed private suites — Dungeon, Cleopatra, Seaside, Harem, Wild West among them — plus three group rooms (including a large dungeon, a Hedonism room, and Lovers Lane) and a one-way-glass voyeur room. The club opens Thursday through Sunday; Fridays and Saturdays run 7 pm to 3 am with playrooms unlocking at 11 pm and staying open until 5 am. Thursdays and Sundays keep shorter hours. Membership is required for playroom access and can be purchased at the door alongside a valid, scannable government-issued photo ID — no digital copies accepted. A dress code is enforced on Fridays and Saturdays: sexy clubwear or business casual, no hats, no athletic wear, no open-toe shoes for men. Security is thorough: every guest passes through a metal detector, pockets are emptied, and bags are searched. Phones are permitted in the nightclub but must be surrendered before entering the playroom building — no cameras, smart watches, or recording devices of any kind are allowed on the play side, with violations resulting in a lifetime ban. Group rooms are reserved for couples and single females; single males may enter only by invitation to a private suite, with the exception of Pride nights and the group dungeon.

TABOTA Monster Bash

Niagara Falls, Ontario

Event Organizer

TABOTA Monster Bash is an annual Halloween-themed swinger lifestyle hotel takeover event held each October in Niagara Falls, Ontario, produced by TABOTA Events — a Canadian lifestyle company that has been running adult events since 2007. The Bash traces its lineage from a Northbound Leather Friday-night pre-party in downtown Toronto, through a club-format O Zone event, before expanding into a full-weekend hotel takeover. For the duration of the event, TABOTA books the entire property of an upscale hotel and indoor waterpark complex located minutes from the Falls — the venue name is not published, consistent with the organizers' discretion-first approach — ensuring the property is accessible to registered guests only. The event is open to couples and single women; single men are not admitted, and attendance is restricted to guests aged 19 and over. The venue is a tropical-themed resort with a clothing-optional indoor waterpark, heated pools and hot tubs, a Poolside VooDoo Lounge serving bistro-style snacks, and award-winning gourmet dining in an enclosed courtyard garden. Dedicated lifestyle spaces include a Penthouse Play Area, a Kinky Playroom, and an outdoor Kink Garden; on the main Saturday night the DJ runs until 2am, playrooms stay open until 4am, and the pools and hot tubs operate clothing-optional until 3am. Programming begins Thursday with an Interactive Escape Room and themed dance for early-arrival guests. Friday brings a Meet and Greet, a theme dance, and access to the play areas. Saturday is the anchor day: a daytime pool party with a live band, XXX-rated pumpkin carving, a Pirates and Wenches treasure hunt, sexual tarot readings, professional body painting, wax play and shibari rope-bondage demos, a pole dance workshop, a Lick or Trick room crawl, and the Carnival of Sinz — a carnivalesque set of risque games including Cock Toss, Naked Axe Throwing, and X-Rated Beer Pong. The evening builds through a Dinner Murder Mystery on Bourbon Street and Black Tape Body Artistry before culminating in the Halloween Gala, the main costume-contest dance party. The 2026 event runs October 23-25, with a Thursday early-arrival upgrade available. All bookings are made in advance through TabotaEvents.com; the event consistently sells out. A pass-only package (full weekend event access, no room) is $169 per person plus 13% HST; a pass-and-room package covering two nights of accommodation plus all event access is $439 per person plus 13% HST. A courtyard pool-view room upgrade adds $69 per person per night, and the Thursday early-arrival night adds $99 per person per night. Guests in accommodation packages are required to pay a mandatory $100 per person weekend party credit in cash at check-in, redeemable anywhere in the hotel for food and drinks. Photography and camera use are prohibited throughout the event.

Caliente Club & Resorts

Land O' Lakes, FL

Lifestyle Resort

Set on a gated, palm-fringed property in Land O' Lakes just north of Tampa, Caliente Club & Resorts bills itself as the most luxurious, adults-only, clothing-optional experience around, welcoming both newcomers curious about going nude and seasoned regulars alike. The grounds center on five pools, including a quarter-acre lagoon pool with a waterfall and two islands, plus a hot tub, sports and fitness facilities, and the on-site Retreat Spa offering wraps, facials, manicures, pedicures, and hydrotherapy. Guests stay in condominiums, casitas, or hotel rooms and can dine at a full-service restaurant with an executive chef or go casual at the sports bar. The resort runs on a members-only model: because it operates clothing-optional in the U.S., visitors must hold a Daily or Annual/Vacation Club membership to enter, and everyone 21 and older must present valid government ID at the gate. Attire is optional almost everywhere except the gym, and cameras are barred for unauthorized guests - photos require a security staff member present. A private security team is on-site 24/7, cash is not accepted for purchases (credit cards or a prepaid Cash Card only), and free Wi-Fi covers the main clubhouse and poolside areas. Entertainment runs nightly, with a full nightclub, piano bar, and DJ sets, and Saturday nights built around a rotating theme, from body paint to leather and lace. Single males may attend but only via in-person day passes purchased at the gate (available 8am-11pm, capacity-limited), while couples and single females can book online in advance; day passes are open-dated and do not expire.

Monde Osé

Unverified

Montreal, Quebec

Event Organizer

Monde Osé is a Montreal-based lifestyle brand and event organizer founded on August 5, 2005, by a Montrealer known publicly as Frank, whose search with his wife for upscale, open-minded sensual entertainment in the city found nothing that met their expectations. The name derives from the French "osé," meaning "daring" — a word the brand treats as both identity and mandate, pledging to challenge social norms around sexuality and self-expression. The first gathering drew 110 invited guests to Joy Nightspot, a small Montreal nightclub, structured as a private couples-and-ladies-only party. Monthly events followed, growing by word of mouth into an erotic performance-arts brand whose stated philosophy rests on three words: Respect, Acceptance, and Love. Monde Osé's principal events have been two annual balls. The Bal Érotique, launched in 2006 as a first-anniversary celebration, ran for thirteen editions through 2018: the inaugural edition drew 450 guests and numbers climbed to more than 1,500 by the peak years. The final edition — Moonlight Masquerade — was held on August 25, 2018, at Bain Mathieu, 2915 Ontario Street East, and was deliberately retired by founder Frank, who announced in August 2018 that he was moving on to other pursuits. The continuing flagship is the Bal Burlesque, a spring event led by performer and artistic director Lexxi Brown (also known as Foxy Lexxi); its most recent confirmed edition took place on March 4, 2023, at Cabaret Lion d'Or, 1676 rue Ontario est, in Montreal's Le Village neighbourhood. Events run from 9 pm to 3 am and combine live burlesque headliners, pole dancers, contortionists, and aerial artists with a soundtrack of deep house, techno, soul, and funk curated by guest DJs. Each event is built around a distinct theme deployed through décor, lighting, performance, and dress code. Access to Monde Osé events is membership-first: prospective attendees are encouraged to apply for pre-approval through the website's membership section, where applications are reviewed against unstated criteria. Non-members who arrive without prior approval are screened on-site, with entry based on what the brand describes as "attractiveness, style and sophistication," and a slight ticket premium at the door. For the 2023 Bal Burlesque, pre-sale tickets started at $55 CAD (until December 22, 2022), rising through early-bird ($65), regular ($80), and day-of ($95) tiers; VIP packages at $400 included a reserved table for the evening, bottle service, and line skip — all VIP guests were still required to hold a separate event ticket. Dress code is strictly enforced: no athletic wear, running shoes, or baseball caps; the expected standard is sexy or daring, with themed costuming actively encouraged. Guests must be at least 18 years old.

Club Indianapolis

Indianapolis, IN

Bath House

Club Indianapolis is a private gay and bisexual men's bathhouse and gym in downtown Indianapolis, located at 620 N. Capitol Ave., five blocks north of the Indiana Statehouse and a short distance from the city's Mass Avenue gay nightlife district. It operates as part of the Club Saunas network, with founding owner Jack Campbell credited on the club's own site with opposing the anti-gay Save Our Children campaign in the 1970s and supporting the founding of the Metropolitan Community Church and the Gay Games. The club is open 24 hours a day, year-round, and admits members 18 and older. The facility combines a circuit-style gym with bathhouse and social amenities: a full range of cardio and strength equipment, a dry cedar sauna, a steam room, a whirlpool, a seasonal heated outdoor pool, private dressing rooms, lockers, showers, a video lounge, a small retail counter, free Wi-Fi and ample free on-site parking. Club Indianapolis also functions as a community health resource — the Marion County Health Department runs free HIV/STD testing on-site every Wednesday, Friday and Sunday, with condoms and safe-sex information available to members and non-members alike. Entry requires purchasing a membership with a valid government or military photo ID; anonymous admission is not permitted. A one-time-visit membership costs $12 (free for men 18–24 on weekdays), while a six-month membership is $40. Once a membership is active, guests pay separately to rent a locker ($15–22, depending on day and time) or a private dressing room ($28–36), with weekend pricing running from 4pm Friday through 8am Monday. The club is strictly alcohol- and drug-free with a zero-tolerance policy, prohibits cameras and camera phones throughout, allows only small drawstring or toiletry bags, and does not offer in-and-out privileges once a rental period begins; all sales are final.

Club Eden OKC

Oklahoma City, OK

Private members-only lifestyle nightclub

Club Eden OKC is the Oklahoma City outpost of Chris and Crissy Vee's Eden Clubs chain — the third location alongside the 14,000 sq ft DFW flagship and the San Antonio sister venue. It runs out of a 9,000 sq ft footprint inside the Days Inn by Wyndham Oklahoma City Fairground complex at 2801 NW 39th Street, on the western edge of the NW 39th Street Enclave — OKC's historic LGBT district that runs east toward 39th and Penn (where the original gay bars like Tramps, Angles, The Copa and Habana/District Hotel sit). Eden isn't a gay bar; it's a private members-only lifestyle nightclub for couples in open relationships, with explicit LGBT framing and singles-welcoming pricing. The unique upside of the OKC location is the lodging — four King Suites and one Double Suite, couples-only, run as "Eden Suites" in the same Days Inn building for $110–$140 a night. You can rent a room, walk thirty feet, and you're on the dance floor. OKC runs on a weekend-only schedule — doors Friday 9pm to 3am, Saturday 9pm to 4am, with Thursdays held back for private parties. The annual flagship is "The Eden Sh!t Show" (10th annual in 2026 ran July 30 – August 2 across four days), the one stretch of the year that breaks the Fri/Sat rule. The weekly programme mirrors the chain — Fridays rotate by week of month between Play More Party, Sybian/Swingles, Fetish Friday, Poly Glamorous and Let's GLOW Crazy; Saturdays each carry their own themed party (Bad Ass Bitches & Bikers, Sexy Cowgirls & Outlaws, Lifestyle Barbie, Naughty School Girl Summer Vacation, Daisy Dukes & Boots and the rest). The venue itself is a single 9,000 sq ft hall — large dance floor with a stripper pole, advanced sound and lighting, music videos on the walls, smoking patio, lockers, play rooms with BDSM furniture, and what reviewers and directories alike call a "spacious orgy room." There's no dedicated dungeon equivalent to the DFW sister club's Infliction Hall; OKC keeps the kink integrated into the main play floor. The alcohol policy is the chain's strictest. Unlike the Texas locations' BYOB-with-setups model, OKC checks bottles at the door and bans alcohol containers inside the club — Oklahoma liquor compliance pushes drinking to the adjacent Eden Suite room or to the parking lot. Inside, a modern concession stand handles sodas, juices and packaged snacks. Pricing is tiered three ways — by night, by gender, and by membership level. Friday door runs $45/$60 couples (VIP / daily), $25 single women, $150 single men. Saturday climbs to $65/$85 couples, $25 single women, $175 single men. Annual memberships ladder from $250 Couples VIP or Female Platinum at the entry, through $3,000 Couples Platinum, up to $5,000 Couples Platinum Plus and $6,500 Male Platinum — all cross-honoured at the DFW and San Antonio sister venues. OKC is also unusually accessible for first-timers: no advance online application required (unlike DFW), just show up with a valid ID and the front desk walks new guests through the rules, consent and tour in person. Reviewer sentiment runs bimodal — 4.3/5 across 35 Google reviews, with 26 five-stars praising the cleanliness, the staff's detailed orientation and the "electric, yet warm and welcoming" atmosphere, plus a smaller cluster of one-star complaints about an aggressive security guard, summer AC struggles, and a sense that cover charges can be applied arbitrarily.

Dark Odyssey

Berkeley, CA

Event Organizer

Dark Odyssey is a roving event organization founded in 2003 by Greg, a former Black Rose board chairman, to fuse sexuality, spirituality, education, and play under one roof. Rather than operating a fixed venue, it commandeers hotels and private rural retreats for four distinct annual events: Winter Fire, a luxury hotel takeover in Baltimore running a full President's Day weekend; Fusion, a six-day summer camp in Northern Maryland on a 200-acre private facility with 40 cabins and 400 beds; Summer Camp, a Labor Day week-long gathering at the same Northern Maryland retreat; and Surrender, a pre-Halloween hotel convention in the San Jose Bay Area. Sold-out attendance at Winter Fire has reached 1,400 people. Each event follows the same architecture: days packed with 80-plus workshops spanning BDSM technique, polyamory, Tantra, sacred sexuality, and spiritual practice, taught by national educators; nights given over to fully equipped dungeons, the Sex-O-Rama open playspace (supplied with beds, lube, condoms, and gloves around the clock), and themed parties running until 2–3am. The rural camp events add outdoor suspension rigs, a tennis-court playspace with weather-resistant equipment, a Pavilion for mixers and open play, and a Temple space for ritual and sacred play. Fire spin jams, drumming circles, a Kinky State Fair, and a Saturday night show round out the program. The community self-describes as a melting pot of kinksters, queers, swingers, spiritualists, Pagans, polyamorists, and cross-dressers — pansexual, omnisexual, and explicitly welcoming to all gender identities. Attendee-created ION events let the community add its own workshops and parties to each schedule. A dedicated Incident Response Team (IRT) staffs a help desk at every event to handle consent matters in private.

Club 3X

Cocoa, FL

On-Premise Club

Club3X bills itself as Brevard County's only lifestyle-friendly nightlife venue, tucked into a storefront unit on King Street in Cocoa where the door sits off Florida Avenue near Willard Street. It's a members-only, clothing-optional, on-premise club with a nightclub-meets-house-party feel. The main level centers on a spinning dance pole and bar seating, a free pool table, and a fetish-themed fun area, plus semi-private nooks, two locking private rooms downstairs and two more upstairs, and a loft with beds, seating and a shower room overlooking the main floor — about 2,245 square feet of party space in total. A recently updated dungeon and kink area adds a suspension point, spanking benches, a wax table, a Saint Andrew's Cross and an aftercare corner, with a rope/dungeon master on site some Saturdays. The crowd skews casual and averages older than the big-city Florida clubs, drawn mostly from the Space Coast, and regulars are known for pulling newcomers into conversation.

Club Rendezvous (Club R)

Calgary, Alberta

On-Premise Club

Club Rendezvous — known to members simply as Club R — is Alberta's longest-running lifestyle club, welcoming Calgary's open-minded community since 1983. Under Ryan and Alicia Goeseels' ownership since 2012, it has grown into a fully licensed, AGLC-compliant venue that holds a 4.7-star Google rating across more than 180 reviews. The club spans two floors in a northeast Calgary building with a free parking lot right out front. Downstairs is the social heart of the night: a large dance floor with a stripper pole, a DJ booth spinning dance and house sets, a well-stocked licensed bar with a kitchen area for mixing your own drinks, plus a long community table and lounge booths lining the room for easy mingling between sets. Upstairs opens into the play area — an airy, open-concept space furnished with mattresses, beds, couches and a sex swing, where curtains pull closed around the beds whenever you want a more private, semi-secluded moment. The space is known for being spotlessly clean and is wheelchair accessible, with accessible seating, a lift and an accessible restroom. Club R is open every Friday and Saturday from 9 PM to 3 AM, with workshops and social events on select weeknights (roughly 7–11 PM). Rather than generic theme nights, it runs curated Club R Signature Events™, each built around a distinct energy and flow. Long-running favourites include First Time Friday for newcomers (meet, play, explore); Unicorn Friday, where single ladies get in free all night with a paid membership; the Saturday Lingerie Dance Party; the always-popular Little Black Dress "Midnight Seduction"; Taboo Friday; and dedicated Newbie & Member Appreciation nights. Entry is membership-based and capacity-controlled to protect the room's quality and balance: memberships start at $9.95 for a week and scale to $100 for the year (CAD), with event admission around $60 per couple and $30 per single. Couples and single women are the priority crowd, while single men are admitted in limited, screened numbers each event. The "dress to impress" code is genuinely enforced — upscale, sexy and theme-appropriate, with no tank tops, sideways hats, workout wear or sweatpants, work boots, exposed chains or man bags. Just as importantly, Club R runs on a consent-first culture where respect, privacy and enthusiastic consent are non-negotiable, backed by clear house rules and etiquette that underpin its Safe Space Alliance recognition. The team is famously warm with first-timers, and the club welcomes all bodies, genders, orientations and experience levels (18+) — part of why a community of roughly 5,100 keeps coming back. Members can also visit Club R's sister location in Edmonton, extending the same vetted, inclusive lifestyle experience across Alberta.

Vixxxins Lifestyle Club

Phoenix, AZ

Off-Premise Club

Vixxxins Lifestyle Club is a members-only lifestyle and kink club based in Phoenix, Arizona, founded and run by "Madame Vixxxin," who says she has been active in the lifestyle for more than 25 years. Rather than operating from one fixed venue, the club rotates events across rented warehouses, private homes and hotels across the Phoenix valley, with exact addresses disclosed only to approved members. Membership is stated to be open to all body types, ages 21 and over, genders and orientations. Warehouse "Gala" events typically draw around 200 guests and house parties around 100, within a stated range of 50-350. Entry requires photo ID and a sex-offender database check for every member, with uniformed security on-site. Cameras are banned in play areas and phone use is restricted to designated zones. Membership runs on monthly subscriptions — Basic $25, VIP $50, Upper Echelon VIP $75 — covering club access rather than per-event tickets. A strict dress code is enforced (fetish wear, lingerie, tuxedos; no jeans, athletic wear or plain streetwear), and most events are BYOB.

Desires Houston

Closed

Houston, TX

On-Premise Club

Desires Houston sat along State Highway 249 in north Houston, tucked into a commercial suite at 14207 SH-249 S, Unit 23. The club positioned itself as a private members-only lifestyle venue catering to open-minded adults, drawing couples and singles from across Texas, Louisiana, and beyond. Reviewers noted a thorough renovation under new management that redid every room, lifting the space into what regulars described as an upscale atmosphere without losing a social, welcoming feel. The club opened Fridays and Saturdays from 10 PM to 5 AM and Sundays from 9 PM to 3 AM, with the rest of the week dark. Entry required membership, purchasable online in advance; walk-in membership was not advertised. The crowd was consistently described as diverse, with the venue operating under an explicit No Means No consent policy emphasising comfort for newcomers and regulars alike. Amenities included a dance floor, private playrooms, live DJ, hookah service, and BYOB arrangements. The venue accepted credit cards and cryptocurrency and was listed as wheelchair accessible. A July 2025 Yelp reviewer reported the owner confirmed permanent closure; prospective visitors should verify current status before travelling.

CKJ Studio (Club Kink Jax)

Jacksonville, FL

BDSM Club

CKJ Studio, also known as Club Kink Jax, occupies a 5,300-square-foot space at 6221 Samuel Wells Drive, Suite 1500, in Jacksonville, Florida. Billed as "Northeast Florida's Premier Membership Lifestyle Club," it welcomes couples, singles, and polyamorous guests across the kink, BDSM, swinger, nudist, and LGBT communities, with a stated ethos of "Safe, Sane, and Consensual." The building holds lounges, themed play rooms, dungeon spaces, a VIP area called La Intima, showers and locker rooms, an outdoor smoking patio, and free on-site parking. The club runs on a fixed weekly rhythm: Wednesday (7pm-12am), Friday (7pm-2am), and Saturday (7pm-2am), each opening with a 7-9pm social hour before shifting into members-only hours. Newcomers must complete a paid, appointment-only orientation, capped at 12 people per session, before applying for membership; walk-ins are not accepted. Membership tiers include a per-person Trial ($69, not available to single men), Annual ($149 plus $25 per visit), and Annual VIP ($599, unlimited visits and events). Dress code runs from street-legal attire outside to business-casual, dressy, or fetish wear inside, loosening toward lingerie or optional clothing after 9pm.

Krewe of Swingtown (KOS)

Houston, TX

On-Premise Club

Founded in 2005 as the only lifestyle-oriented Mardi Gras Krewe in the country, the Krewe of Swingtown has grown into one of Texas's most-attended adult social organizations over its 20-year history. Based in Houston, the KOS operates as a roaming event collective rather than a fixed venue, taking over campgrounds, ranch venues, and private spaces across Texas for weekend-long parties that blend festival energy with an inclusive swinger ethos. Flagship events like the annual Guadalupe River Trip draw 1,000-plus attendees to New Braunfels, complete with theme nights, naughty contests, adult games, and a weekend lineup that never formally stops. What sets KOS apart is its low-pressure culture. The group welcomes full-swap and soft-swap couples, single women, and bi and straight attendees alike; single men may attend only when accompanied by a female date or sponsored by a participating couple. Membership unlocks the private booking portal and priority registration windows, though events can also be purchased individually. The KOS calendar spans the full year: Mardi Gras house parties in Galveston (January-February), the Summer Vibes Party at Linnett Ranch in Henderson TX (June), the Guadalupe River Trip near New Braunfels (June), the Texas Renaissance Festival Conquest with Clan SOB (October-December), and New Year's Eve and Christmas parties to bookend the calendar. The group stays active on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, and X year-round.

The Suite Life Platinum

Sacramento, CA

Lifestyle Resort

The Suite Life Platinum bills itself as Northern California's ultra-private lifestyle sanctuary, serving the Sacramento area from a location shared only with vetted members. The club traces its roots back roughly thirteen years, when it launched under the name Massage and Play Socials before evolving into its current form. Today it occupies a private venue designed to deliver the buzz of a nightclub alongside the intimacy of a house party — a balance the organizers lean into deliberately, with professional sound, club lighting, laser effects, and a Bluetooth-compatible system that lets members add their own tracks to the mix. The space divides into two distinct zones. The lounge and dance hall handle the social side, giving members room to mingle and move before anything else happens. The play zone runs separately and includes a voyeur/exhibitionist room, a private room, and a couples-only group room. On busier nights the team brings in a live DJ. Outside, a dedicated smoking area and ample free parking round out the practical side of the operation. Membership is by application and pre-screening only, with no walk-ins and no public admittance. Events maintain a roughly even male-to-female ratio, and a limited number of pre-screened single men are permitted at certain events. For those who want to go deeper into the lifestyle travel circuit, the site also curates partner events — from resort takeovers in Cancun and Hedonism II in Jamaica to adults-only cruises — all bookable through the member portal at thesuitelifeplatinum.com.

Club Sapphire

Tukwila, WA

On-Premise Club

Club Sapphire is a private, membership-based lifestyle club at 14220 Interurban Ave S Suite A-110 in Tukwila, Washington, positioned centrally between Seattle, Bellevue and SeaTac Airport. Established for well over a decade, it caters to consensual, non-monogamous couples exploring the swinging lifestyle while also welcoming single women, a limited number of single men, and LGBTQ+ members. The club positions itself as a social space first rather than a straightforward sex club, with a membership base of adults 21 and up, ranging from their twenties to their seventies. The venue spans roughly 10,000 square feet, with a dance floor and resident DJ, social lounges, and a range of playrooms from larger group spaces to more private two-person rooms, including a dedicated voyeur room. A light buffet of appetizers runs throughout the evening alongside free soda, coffee, tea and water, and guests have access to a co-ed locker room, co-ed showers with four shower heads, and fresh towels; parking is free on site. The dress code favors dressed-up, sexy attire — designer jeans, dresses, lingerie or costumes for themed nights — while baggy sweats, dirty clothing, casual wear and baseball hats are turned away at the door. Parties run Wednesday and Thursday from 7pm to midnight and Friday and Saturday from 8pm to 2am. Entry requires both a current membership (from $30 for a one-week pass) and a separate per-event fee that varies by night and by couples/male/female category; all new members complete a brief, free orientation on party nights. Single men must secure a confirmed ticket in advance, cannot attend as walk-ins, and must complete a dedicated New Single Male Orientation before their first visit. House rules require verbal consent before any touching, ban illegal drugs, weapons and intoxicated entry, require condom use (condoms provided), and prohibit photography or cell phone use in social areas and playrooms.

Joyride

London, London

Event Organizer

A queer, sex-positive event series in London blending rave culture, art and sexual expression. The dancefloor is a liberatory space embodying freedom, pleasure and experimentation, with a genre-blurring mix from uplifting house to techno.

NSFW (New Society for Wellness)

New York, NY

On-Premise Club

Founded in 2018 by Daniel Saynt — the self-described 'Chief Conspirator' — NSFW (New Society for Wellness) began as an intimate gathering in lower Manhattan and grew into one of New York's most talked-about members-only sex clubs. The current clubhouse, a 4,000 sq ft space in Chelsea near Penn Station, replaced earlier venues in Brooklyn and lower Manhattan and opened in August 2025. Entry is past a velvet rope and front-desk check-in, with arrivals capped at 60 members per event. The crowd — drawn heavily from entertainment, fashion, and media, averaging around 28 years old and running roughly 60 percent female — sets a tone one attendee described as 'civilized debauchery.' All guests dress in all-black to put everyone on an equal playing field. The weekly rhythm runs to PlayDates every Saturday (21:00–02:00) and Netflix & Chill Sundays (18:00–22:00), with workshops Tuesdays and Thursdays (18:00–21:00) covering pleasure education, rope play, and BDSM. A monthly Send Noobs introductory session walks prospective members through the community's consent framework before they set foot in the Clubhouse. The space features plush communal areas, a sex swing, shibari play zones, walls of floggers and paddles, and private by-reservation rooms. Membership requires a vetted profile granted at roughly a 30% acceptance rate, evaluated across 14 criteria. Tiers range from Pay-Per-Play ($29/month or $169/year plus per-event passes) to Unlimited Solo ($250/month) and Unlimited Couples ($350/month) plans. An online community of 7,500+ member profiles, an NSFW Magazine, and sex-education resources extend the experience beyond the physical Clubhouse.

Illuminaughty Austin

Austin, TX

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Austin is the Texas capital's chapter of Illuminaughty, a multi-city lifestyle event brand that hosted its first private Austin party in 2024. Rather than operating a fixed clubhouse, the chapter runs invitation-only cocktail mixers and play parties for a curated community of couples, single women, non-binary members, and a limited number of vetted single men, generally in their 20s to 40s. Membership is free but application-based: prospective members submit photos and a bio for staff review, and approval is required before anyone can purchase tickets or receive event invitations. Events take over rented private residences around the Austin area rather than a single dedicated venue — past parties have used a multi-play-room house in the heart of Austin and a six-bedroom, three-story home in Central East Austin, each redressed with theme-specific music, lighting, and decor. Every party includes multiple designated play spaces, massage tables, and a coat storage area, with private security checking IDs and monitoring the event. Parties are BYOB, with mixers, champagne flutes, cups, and non-alcoholic drinks supplied by the organizers. Austin parties typically run Saturday nights from 8pm to 2am, with a fixed arrival window (usually 8:00–9:30pm) after which doors close for a mandatory opening talk on rules and consent; latecomers are not admitted without prior arrangement. Dress codes are theme-specific and enforced (examples include masquerade formalwear and 1960s Summer of Love attire). For privacy and security, the venue address is not published in advance — it is emailed only to confirmed ticket holders on the morning of the event. Ticket refunds have historically been offered up to 5 days before an event, minus a non-refundable credit-card processing fee of about 5%.

Wicked Grounds

Closed

San Francisco, CA

BDSM Club

Wicked Grounds was a kink-friendly cafe, boutique, and education space located at 289 8th St in San Francisco's SoMa neighborhood, operating from September 2009 until the permanent closure of its brick-and-mortar location at the end of June 2023. Founded by Ryan Galiotto and Rose White and later owned by Mir Bilodeau (Miriam Green), it combined a coffeehouse and fetish boutique with an upstairs workshop space. Citing roughly $80,000 in debt and reduced foot traffic post-pandemic, the owner closed the physical venue in June 2023 and pivoted to an online-only model, now operating as Wicked Grounds Annex.

The Velvet Rope

Portland, OR

The Velvet Rope (TVR) is Portland's longest-running on-premises social and lifestyle club, tucked away in a quiet, unassuming building on SE Cesar E. Chavez Boulevard. Spanning roughly 10,000 square feet across two floors, the 21-and-over venue bills itself as a sex-positive, judgment-free space where individuals, couples and polycules of all identities and experience levels can connect, play or simply soak up the vibe. New guests are walked through the club on a guided tour and signed in at the front desk; the crowd is a mix of long-time regulars and lifestyle newcomers, and the staff lean heavily on a consent-first culture backed by clear house rules. The club runs Friday and Saturday nights from 8 p.m. to 3 a.m. and Sundays from 8 p.m. to 2 a.m., with a rotating calendar of themed parties — Newbie Night, Savage Saturdays, Sex in the Sundae, plus kink nights, rope demos, speed dating and glow parties. Entry is members-first: a couples membership runs $70 for six months or $110 for a year, single ladies $40/$60, and single men $95/$135, with reduced door fees, special member-only events and a fast-track member line as perks. Non-members can buy a one-night pass at the door (couples $50–$80, single ladies $10–$20, single men $55–$90 depending on the night), and a government-issued ID is required at every visit. Two full bars operate inside, so guests must be 21+; per OLCC rules, no marijuana in any form is allowed on the property. Inside, the space is built for both play and comfort: a large dance floor with a live DJ, pole stations and a dance cage; social lounges with pool tables and stage performances; multiple open and private play areas including a couples-only room and a caged sex swing; hardpoints for rope suspension and other kink exploration; indoor and outdoor hot tubs with adjacent showers stocked with free towels, body wash and shampoo; and lockers on both levels (BYO lock or buy one at the desk). Dress code is enforced — clubwear or business-casual on regular nights, theme-appropriate attire on kink, glow and formal events — with no sweats, flip-flops or gym wear. Knives, needles, tasers, guns (real or replica), candles and unapproved electro gear are barred from the playrooms, and the venue maintains hard limits on scat, watersports, fire, blood, breath and wax play. Three free parking lots sit nearby, credit and debit cards are accepted at the desk, and an ATM is right next door.

Center for Sex Positive Culture (CSPC)

Seattle, WA

Community Center

The Center for Sex Positive Culture (CSPC) is a volunteer-run, 501(c)(7) nonprofit membership organization based in Seattle, Washington, founded in 1999. It describes its mission as creating spaces to celebrate, develop, and explore sexuality and sensuality among a diverse community, with programming spanning kink and BDSM, swinging, polyamory, and queer-centered events. CSPC's original venue on 15th Ave in Interbay closed in 2016, and after a change in leadership in 2017, the organization resumed in-person events in January 2018. Events are now held on a per-event rental basis at Gallery Erato, 309 1st Ave S in Seattle's Pioneer Square, the permanent home of CSPC's sister organization, the Pan Eros Foundation. The main floor holds play stations, a coat closet, and gender-neutral restrooms, and is reachable via a portable wheelchair ramp; the basement level is stairs-only and excluded from essential group activities. Members bring their own padlocks for basement lockers, and the organization provides safer-sex supplies, clean linens, and a water-filling station. Alcohol and drugs are prohibited entirely, including outside beverages brought in. Access requires membership, priced on a sliding scale from $5 to $20 per month (or $100 to $220 annually) across Reduced, Standard, and Supporter tiers, and prospective members must complete a New Member Orientation before buying a ticket. Recurring in-person parties include Fresh Meet, LaQueer, Myself!, Femmes on Top, All In!, Sense & Sensuality, and The Grind, each priced at $30 with a sliding scale available. Tickets are sold online only, at least six hours before an event with no door sales, and valid photo ID is required of every attendee; masking has been recommended but not required since February 2024.

Shameless Grounds - ENM Night

St. Louis, MO

Off-Premise Club

Shameless Grounds is a sex-positive cafe in the Benton Park neighborhood of south St. Louis, Missouri, operating since 2011. On the fourth Friday of most months it hosts ENM Night, a ticketed social mixer for people practicing or curious about Ethical Non-Monogamy -- swingers, polyamorous folks, and those in open marriages are all welcome. The regular coffeeshop space converts into an evening social scene with a full bar, drink specials, food, curated music, and icebreaker games to help guests mingle; most months the crowd spreads onto the patio. Because the cafe holds a City of St. Louis liquor license, no nudity or sexual activity is permitted on-site -- this is a flirtatious meet-and-greet, not a play party. ENM Night runs 6-10pm, with $10-per-person tickets sold in advance via the cafe's Square site. Dress code is upscale casual or sexy. House rules emphasize consent -- "no means no" -- and guests who become visibly intoxicated are cut off and asked to leave.

VooDoo Leatherworks

Colorado Springs, CO

Social Club

VooDoo Leatherworks is a members-only private social club and community center in Colorado Springs dedicated to BDSM, kink, and fetish education. Describing itself as the first and longest-running BDSM club in the city, the volunteer-led organization operates on the lower level of a building at 2422 Busch Avenue, with a private entrance and parking lot accessible from Race Street. The club also functions as an art gallery and studio for fetish and boudoir artists, and hosts larger regional gatherings such as the Southwest Master/slave Contest & Leather Run Weekend and the High Elevation Colorado Kink (HECK) conference. The centerpiece is a fully stocked dungeon covering more than 3,000 square feet, with 15 play stations and suspension hard-points, alongside a separate social lounge for conversation away from active scenes. As a private membership club, Voodoo does not hold a liquor license and does not sell alcohol; most events are alcohol-free, though members 21 and over may bring their own drinks to select events such as the monthly Fusion Party, with volunteer bartenders providing controlled pour service purely for safety monitoring. The space is also available for private rentals, nonprofit fundraisers, and for-profit gatherings Tuesday through Friday, and is closed Sundays and Mondays for cleaning, maintenance, and volunteer training. Access requires membership, which begins with a New Member Orientation held several times a month; first-year membership costs $25, with $15 annual renewals. Regular programming includes a monthly Members Leather Dungeon Party (third Saturdays, with a discount for wearing leather), a Members Fusion Party (fourth Fridays), a Tastings party introducing newcomers to different BDSM experiences (first Saturdays), twice-monthly PEAK educational classes, and a Poly/ENM discussion group. Door entry runs $25 for members plus $10 per sponsored guest. House rules require all activity to be consensual, guests to remain with their sponsoring member, and anyone setting up a scene to check in with the on-duty Dungeon Monitor first; all attendees must be 18 or older.

Carolina Friends

Charlotte, NC

Event Organizer

One of the longest-running lifestyle organizations in the Southeast, Carolina Friends traces its roots to 1991, when eight Charlotte-area couples pooled resources to throw a discreet monthly hotel party for roughly thirty pairs. Three decades and more than 40,000 couples on the roster later, the club now operates as a full hotel-takeover outfit, booking entire hotels exclusively for members in both the Charlotte metro and the Triad region around Greensboro and Winston-Salem. Charlotte events regularly draw 400-plus couples; Triad nights typically pull 150 or more. Each takeover follows a familiar rhythm: a live DJ and dance floor anchor the social side, while a full buffet, BYOB bar with provided mixers and bartender service, co-ed showers, towels, and lockers keep the logistics covered. Private activity areas, group rooms, and a voyeur/exhibition space make up the play options, and a late-night breakfast gathering caps the evening. During warmer months, pool parties are added to the rotation. Events run Friday and Saturday nights, generally 8 pm to 2 am, and most carry themed dress codes -- upscale and sexy for women, smart casual for men. Admission is couples-focused: single females are always welcome, single males are accepted at most events but capped to maintain balance. A free online profile with your legal name is required before you can purchase event tickets or the optional membership ($13.68/month), which unlocks private chat, passkey photos, and the AutoDate matchmaking feature on the member platform. The club has no public social-media presence; communication flows through the member site and listings on SLS, SDC, and Kasidie.

Illuminaughty Phoenix

Phoenix, AZ

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Phoenix is the local chapter of a multi-city private membership brand that has hosted curated swinger parties and cocktail mixers in the Phoenix and Scottsdale area since 2023. Rather than operating from a fixed clubhouse, it runs as an event organizer: each party is held at a different private venue, such as a member's home, a rented high-rise apartment, or an occasional mansion, with the address released only to approved ticket holders on the day of the event. Private parties typically draw 40 to 80 members, with occasional mansion takeovers hosting 150 or more. Rooms are set up for a range of experiences, from massage tables to group-play spaces and some light kink equipment, though the atmosphere leans social rather than kink-focused. Events are BYOB, with mixers, non-alcoholic drinks, towels, condoms and lube supplied by the organizers, and private security is present at every party. Membership is free but requires a photo application reviewed and approved by staff before tickets can be purchased. Night parties generally run 8pm to 2am with an 8-9:30pm arrival window; All Day Soirees run 2pm to midnight with a 2-3:30pm window, and late arrivals are turned away. Couples and single women attend freely, while single men need a capped "Single Man" ticket. Every event opens with a consent and safety briefing, and dress follows a themed code.

Fusion Parties

Manchester, NH

Mobile/roving — various NH venues; no fixed premises

Fusion Parties Social Club is a private members community based in Manchester, New Hampshire, built around connection, exploration, and upscale adult experiences for open-minded couples and individuals. Rather than operating a fixed venue, the organizers rent out different locations for each event, favouring mansions, penthouses, and pool-equipped estates across New Hampshire. Events typically run monthly or bi-monthly, with tickets sold through SimpleTix; the exact address is shared with ticket holders only in the week of the event. A Fusion Parties night centres on a distinct theme — past editions have included Masquerade Penthouse, Glitz & Glam, Glow Hard, and Cupid’s NightCap — with a DJ, live performances (LED displays, fire acts, or themed dance routines), and complimentary appetisers. The club runs BYOB with bartenders on site mixing cocktails from house-provided mixers; no alcohol is sold. Playrooms and a dance pole feature at house-party events, while the Eden resort-takeover format switches to a full cash bar and multi-night itinerary. Fusion Parties collaborates closely with Mindbender Parties and H&H Social Club, forming a New England lifestyle network. Listed on SDC, events draw hundreds of guests, making Fusion one of the largest lifestyle event operations in New Hampshire.

Tokyo Valentino Lifestyle Club

Atlanta, GA

On-Premise Club

Tokyo Valentino Lifestyle Club is a large-scale, 24-hour adult entertainment venue on Cheshire Bridge Road in Atlanta, Georgia, operated as the on-premise play-club arm of the Tokyo Valentino adult retail chain (established 1995). Rather than a private, home-style swingers club, it is a commercial multi-floor venue attached to a retail adult store, open to the public on a pay-per-visit basis with no membership requirement. The facility spans three floors and includes eight Amsterdam-style video booths, open and private play rooms, dark rooms, shower and locker facilities, massage rooms, private bedrooms with leather day beds, and a second-floor LED dance floor with a DJ booth. Amenities also include free Wi-Fi, free lockers, and a non-alcoholic bar; towels, locks, shower shoes, lube, and condoms are available for purchase. Private bedrooms rent for $30/hour (Deluxe Master Suite $50/hour), discounted to half price weekdays 10am-6pm. The club operates 24/7 except for a weekly 8-hour closure every Wednesday from 2am to 10am for deep cleaning. Admission is pay-per-visit on a tiered schedule by day and time (roughly $15-$45, with a separate lower rate posted for women on peak weekend nights); a paid cover charge buys eight hours inside. The venue does not serve alcohol but permits BYOB, and posted house rules prohibit drugs, prostitution, and recording devices, and require a casual-but-clean or "sexy elegant" dress code.

Lifestyle Playground

Denver, CO

Event Organizer

Lifestyle Playground is a private lifestyle event organization based in Colorado, hosting events in Denver, Colorado Springs, and Thornton rather than operating from a single venue. The group runs a range of gatherings from casual coffee meetups to full hotel takeovers with themed rooms, alongside workshops on sexual wellness. Its community is inclusive of ENM, polyamory, swinging, LGBTQ+, and BDSM members, and access requires a membership application.

The Crucible

Washington, DC

BDSM Club

Tucked into a residential stretch of Northeast DC near the Rhode Island Avenue Metro, The Crucible has operated as Washington's only private kink and alternate-lifestyles club since founder Frazier Botsford — known to regulars as Uncle Frazier — began building it in 1997. Organised as a 501(c)(7) non-profit private social club, the venue at 412 V Street NE holds a full dungeon fitted with bondage crosses, spanking benches, ropes, whips and handcuffs along the walls, plus a dedicated medical play area for piercing, needle and blood play, and a smaller private room for more intimate scenes. Dungeon Monitors trained by the Black Rose are on the floor at all events, and the crowd — spanning kinksters, lifestylers and curious newcomers of all orientations and genders — consistently draws praise for its warm, family-like atmosphere. The event calendar runs most Friday and Saturday nights, with 18-and-over play nights on Fridays (no alcohol) and 21-and-over nights with a full bar on Saturdays. Recurring themed nights include Black & Kinky (second Friday, POC-focused), QINK (third Friday), Sinfully Naughty (first Saturday), and Risqué EDM dance party (second Saturday). Black Rose holds weekly education at the venue every Tuesday and its monthly Gateway meeting on the first Thursday. The first Friday of every month is Dungeon 101 — doors open at 7:30pm and the structured presentation begins at 8pm, followed by an open exploratorium. No membership required for this event. Members may bring up to three guests. Annual membership is $40/person, purchased online; all applicants are screened against the DOJ sex-offender registry.

Club Encounters

Phoenix, AZ

On-Premise Club

Club Encounters is a long-running, on-premises social club for the swingers lifestyle on West Clarendon Avenue in west Phoenix. The venue operates with no membership and no reservation required, positioning itself as a walk-in destination for couples and singles seeking a club atmosphere without a membership commitment. The main floor holds a lighted dance floor with a live DJ, two video lounges, and a pool table, alongside a juice-and-snack bar for refreshments; no alcohol is served or permitted on site. A secluded, mirror-walled jacuzzi room includes its own shower room and lockers, and a smoking patio sits out back. Six themed playrooms occupy the upper floor, one furnished with a swing. Reviewers describe a clean, well-kept space with a friendly, low-pressure atmosphere, though the crowd mix shifts by night, with single men more heavily represented on quieter evenings. The club is open seven nights a week: Sunday through Thursday from 8pm to 4am, a midday "Nooner" session on Fridays from noon to 7pm, and extended hours on Friday and Saturday nights until 5am. Mondays run a free-entry couples night before midnight. Cover charges scale by night and gender: couples pay $25–35, single men a flat $40, and single women $5–15, with a $10 discount for single men who show military ID before 10pm. Entry is 18 and over, no membership or reservation required, cash at the door.

Hush Lounge AZ

Phoenix, AZ

On-Premise Club

Hush Lounge AZ is a private, members-only lifestyle club in Phoenix, Arizona, operating under a private-club charter that keeps it closed to the general public; membership requires an approved online application prior to purchasing event tickets. The club is built around couples and single women, with a limited number of single men admitted based on the couples-to-single-men ratio in attendance, and reservations are encouraged. The recently remodeled venue includes more than seven specialty rooms — among them a VIP Cabana Lounge, an 'Under the Stars' room, a Chandelier VIP Lounge, and an Orb Room — alongside open main-floor lounge and dance-floor areas. Because Arizona private-club regulations prohibit on-site alcohol sales, Hush operates BYOB for members and runs a cash-only bar for non-alcoholic drinks; condoms and fresh towels are provided. The club operates Thursday through Saturday nights: Thursday 8pm-1am, Friday 8pm-2am, and Saturday 8pm-3am (closing times may shift for special events). Recurring themed nights include a Wednesday Red Light Special, a Thursday lifestyle spotlight, Friday TFIF, and a Saturday house DJ with dance floor. Ticket transfers require 24-hour notice and become void once an event has passed.

Fallout RVA

Richmond, VA

alternative nightclub / fetish & kink club

Fallout has anchored Richmond's Shockoe Bottom since November 2007, earning its place as the city's longest-running goth, industrial, and fetish nightclub. Owner Jackie Bishop describes it as 'queer, a little bit kinky — basically a space for everybody that's just trying to find a place to belong.' The result is part nightclub, part community centre, part sanctuary at 117 N. 18th Street. The calendar runs seven nights a week: vinyl goth/EBM nights (Metal Beat), leather-and-latex fetish dance parties, drag showcases, rope-bondage socials, burlesque, goth karaoke, queer dance-therapy classes, and polyamory munches all coexist under one roof. Fridays and Saturdays extend to 2am. Some nights are members-only; others require a one-night pass via DM or Fetlife. A formal membership programme underlies the club's identity. Applications are in-person only — 21+, valid ID, dress code, and a member sponsor required; committee reviews take roughly two weeks. Members get free or discounted entry and may bring two guests. Non-members attend open events (18+) at cover charges typically $5–$15. Photography is banned outright; Virginia ABC law prohibits full nudity.

The Sanctuary SLC

Salt Lake City, UT

Off-Premise Club

The Sanctuary SLC is a members-only spiritual fellowship, organized as a church, serving the ethical non-monogamy community in downtown Salt Lake City, Utah. Rather than presenting itself as a conventional swingers club, it frames its gatherings around a stated Statement of Faith and Doctrinal Pillars -- including "The Divine Within," "Interconnectedness and Oneness," and "Embracing Diversity and Inclusivity" -- and describes its mission as serving underrepresented groups within the ethical non-monogamy space, including poly people, swingers, and non-binary members. According to a 2026 profile in Salt Lake City Weekly, the club was founded in 2025 by James Swensen after he and his wife were introduced to ethical non-monogamy, and it reports thousands of members. The club occupies a restored historic building on West Market Street in downtown Salt Lake City, describing its interior as designed with "comfort, beauty, and sensuality in mind." Its stated culture centers on four core values: intentional connection and community, personal growth and spiritual exploration, consent and mutual respect, and authentic communication and vulnerability. Alongside regular gatherings, it runs workshops aimed at helping members work through shame and stigma around non-monogamy. Entry is restricted to approved members: The Sanctuary states it does not accept walk-ins or same-day admission, and prospective members must complete an application before attending. Regular gatherings are held Friday and Saturday evenings, both beginning at 8:00 PM, though no closing time is published. Membership runs on tiered pricing, from a $30 one-time weeknight pass up to $200-a-month Platinum access, with annual options also offered. The organization states it does not sell, provide, or distribute alcohol itself and charges no fee for the provision of alcohol, consistent with a bring-your-own-bottle model.

Arouse Vegas

Las Vegas, NV

Private Event Series

Arouse Vegas operates as a members-only adult lifestyle club in Las Vegas, billing itself as 'Private Las Vegas Special Events.' The exact venue is an upscale building disclosed only to ticketed members; arriving guests text or call from the lobby and are escorted up — a deliberate layer of discretion that sets the tone for the whole operation. On-premise play is permitted under Nevada law, and the club situates itself on the more curated end of the Vegas lifestyle spectrum, requiring a photo-and-essay application from anyone wishing to join. Membership is open to couples, single ladies, and single men, though single ladies occupy a place of particular emphasis in the club's community standards — stalking or harassment of solo female guests carries the threat of membership suspension. The application process requires 2–6 high-resolution photos (lingerie and smart-casual shots preferred; heavy filters and cartoon overlays explicitly discouraged) plus a written 'About us' introduction. Accepted applicants are notified by email. Social networking integration runs through the Modern Lifestyle platform, with Arouse Vegas cross-listed on SDC, Kasidie, and SwingLifeStyle for member discovery. Event details, ticketing, and the venue address all sit behind the member login — walk-in access or public-facing schedules are not offered.

Risque Vegas Estate

Las Vegas, NV

Risque Estate is a private, members-only lifestyle venue set within a residential property in the Paradise neighborhood of Las Vegas, just minutes from the Strip. Established in 2014, the estate operates as an on-premise swingers club hosting clothing-optional parties Wednesday through Sunday, welcoming couples, singles, and LGBTQ guests aged 21 and over in a BYOB format with snacks and mixers provided. The grounds center on a resort-style heated pool kept at 90 degrees year-round, surrounded by spacious poolside cabanas and block-walled areas for nude sunbathing. Inside, guests find multiple private playrooms, a large group room, a game room with a cheetah-felt pool table, a dance floor with a stripper pole, and a custom Harley-Davidson fitted with a built-in Sybian. Risque Estate emphasizes discretion with secure off-street parking and a membership structure included in the door donation. The estate provides lockers, clean showers, and ample cooler space, while guests are asked to bring their own towels, locks, and beverages. The venue regularly hosts themed events listed through its website and social channels.

Mindbender Parties

Boston, MA

Event Organizer

Mindbender Parties is New England's most traveled adult lifestyle event series, the brainchild of Mizzy Bender — a self-described 41-year-old female entrepreneur who launched the operation with her partner Spencer and has since grown it into one of the region's most recognizable swinger brands. Events rotate across partner venues: most frequently Platforms Dance Club at 165 Poe St, Providence, RI, a proper nightclub with a full bar, dance floor, and purpose-built dungeon. The Electricity Social Club (ESC) in Providence's Olneyville neighborhood hosts BYOB multi-room events with seven themed playrooms; summer months bring a private Long Island property with an eight-person hot tub, outdoor shower, and fire pit — location released to guests after payment. The calendar runs year-round under recurring titles — Candyland, Back to School, Boo (eighth annual run), Naughty in Neon, Shamrocks & Shenanigans, Nuttin for XXXmas, and more — on a roughly monthly rhythm, with occasional multi-day hotel-takeover weekends. Pricing is tiered: couples typically pay $70–$80, single ladies $20–$30, and single males $110–$120. Tickets are advance-purchase only via the website. Every event is professionally produced under the Mindbender Productions banner — DJ, lighting, full staging — with onsite security whose priority is guest safety and comfort. Mizzy's Boutique, a traveling pop-up adult retail shop, vends at every event alongside sponsors One Condoms, Spunk Lube, Naughty Indulgence, and SDC. Play spaces include open group areas, private rooms, and dungeon setups. The Instagram presence (76K followers) and the companion podcast Mornings with Mizzy reflect a community-building mission well beyond the door — educational content, judgment-free conversation, and a genuine inclusive ethos baked into the Mindbender brand.

Saints & Sinners AC

Closed

Atlantic City, NJ

Event Organizer

Saints & Sinners AC anchors the Diving Horse entertainment complex at 18 S. Dr. Martin Luther King Blvd, a sprawling 55,000-square-foot multi-use building in Atlantic City. Guests enter discreetly from the back of the Diving Horse complex rather than the main boulevard-facing door — a deliberate design choice that sets the tone for the whole experience. Inside, four floors hold an impressive inventory of spaces: 15 open, air-conditioned play rooms, additional private and semi-private rooms, 11 showers, 2 BYOB bars stocked with mixers, 2 dance floors fitted with stripper poles, an outdoor heated pool, an outdoor deck, and a food buffet that runs through the night. Erotic movies play throughout the venue to set the mood. The club pitches itself as a new-age, modern lifestyle destination rather than a classic swinger haunt, and the crowd — primarily couples in their late twenties to late forties — dresses to match. Women tend toward fitted dresses; men wear button-up shirts and jeans. Saturday theme nights are a recurring feature, with prizes and costumed dress codes announced in advance. The adjacent Diving Horse Inn (30 rooms, many with jacuzzi tubs and balconies overlooking the deck and pool) lets members extend the evening without leaving the building, while the neighboring Diving Horse Cabaret and Luxx Lounge nightclub round out the complex. Doors open Fridays and Saturdays from 9 pm, with Fridays running to 3 am and Saturdays to 4-5 am. The club is closed Sunday through Thursday.

On-Premise Club

Sitting on Q Street in the heart of South Omaha, R-Place built its reputation as Nebraska's only dedicated on-premise lifestyle club - a privately owned, 4,000-square-foot, three-level building converted into what owners called an elegant upscale classy venue. The main floor centres on a full dance floor with professional DJ booth, state-of-the-art lighting and a sound system, ringed by lounge-style seating and five TVs (including a 60-inch screen). Three leather-furnished living-room social areas give couples and groups a place to mix before venturing further, and the club runs as a strict BYOB bottle club with mixers and soft drinks provided at no charge. The play spaces span two additional levels. Four private bedrooms and four bathrooms (three with showers) handle couples seeking privacy, while the basement Dungeon - billed as The Playroom - offers group beds, two electric-hoist sex swings, restraints, a glory hole wall, and a professional massage table, plus a Sybian machine. Outside, a large patio enclosed by a six-foot privacy fence leads to a covered 20-by-19-foot sky room with a twelve-foot propane fire pit, seating around thirty people through the colder Nebraska months. The door policy is guest-list only: prospective attendees email in advance to be added, and walk-ins are not accepted. Hours run Friday and Saturday, 8 pm to 2 am. Saturday nights are theme-party nights. Admission is $40 per couple per night, $25 for a single woman, and $45 for a single man. Towels, lockers, and condom supplies are on hand; smoking is allowed in a designated indoor area. Single males and single females are both welcome alongside couples.

Dominium Vita

London, London

On-Premise Club

An inclusive and luxurious private members club for the sensually intelligent, where deviancy is an art form. Crafting immersive events, decadent retreats and curated encounters for those who crave beauty, depth and uninhibited connection.

FuseX Social Club

Atlanta, GA

Social Club

FuseX Social Club is an application-gated, members-only lifestyle organization founded in Beverly Hills, California, in 2016. Rather than operating a fixed clubhouse, it runs a rotating calendar of private events across a network it describes as spanning more than twenty U.S. metro areas, including Atlanta, Georgia, plus additional chapters abroad. It caters to swingers, hotwife and cuckold couples, kink and BDSM practitioners, and polyamorous singles and couples. Because FuseX has no permanent venue, its Atlanta-area gatherings take the form of hotel takeovers, private-residence parties, and rented mansion events; addresses are disclosed only to approved members, typically shortly before each event. The club describes evenings built around socializing and dancing before any sexual activity, treats participation - including for voyeurs who attend only to observe - as optional, and enforces an explicit consent standard and a no-photography rule. Events are BYOB, with lidded cups required at house and mansion parties. Entry requires a formal application, an interview, and a criminal background check; the club states it excludes applicants with convictions for domestic violence, intimate partner violence, or sexual offenses. Minimum annual income thresholds apply for prospective members (combined income of $225,000 for couples, $115,828 for single men, and $45,630 for single women, waived for enrolled students), alongside several paid membership tiers with dues that vary by level; single women can qualify for a complimentary top-tier membership.

Illuminaughty Portland

Portland, OR

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Portland is the local chapter of a national members-only lifestyle events network, hosting curated cocktail mixers and private play parties for couples and singles since 2023. Rather than operating out of a fixed clubhouse, the group rents out private residences around the Portland metro for each event — past parties have used a hillside home in the Goose Hollow Hills with skyline views, while cocktail mixers have taken place at bars and restaurants in neighborhoods like SE Buckman. The community skews toward couples and singles in their 20s, 30s and early 40s, and membership is free but requires an application; organizers describe the vetting process as intentional curation meant to keep the group welcoming, low-pressure and free of hired performers or influencers. Events fall into two main formats. Tease Cocktail Mixers are lower-key social gatherings held in a reserved area of a local bar or restaurant, typically running a couple of hours and used as a low-commitment way to meet other members before attending a party. Private parties, such as the recurring City Nights events, are held overnight at rented houses or upscale properties featuring multiple play spaces, massage tables, mood lighting and music, and sometimes amenities like a hot tub; venues are rated on the site using a sliding "Venue Vibe" and capacity scale, with most parties drawing roughly 30 to 100-plus members. Parties are BYOB, with mixers, non-alcoholic drinks, cups and champagne flutes supplied by the hosts, and the group's own security staff checks tickets and IDs at the door. Parties generally run Saturday nights from about 8pm to 2am with a strict arrival window (doors close roughly 90 minutes after opening for a mandatory rules-and-consent orientation), while mixers run shorter early-evening slots. Admission is ticketed and restricted to couples, single women, non-binary attendees, and a limited, gender-balanced number of vetted single men; the exact address of each rented venue is withheld until the morning of the event and sent only to confirmed ticket holders. Dress codes are enforced per event, generally cocktail attire or suits for larger parties and classy-casual for mixers, and refunds are typically available up to a matter of days before an event, minus a processing fee.

Baltimore Playhouse

Baltimore, MD

BDSM Club

Occupying a sprawling 12,000-square-foot industrial space off Washington Boulevard in South Baltimore, Baltimore Playhouse has been Charm City's premier kink destination since 1997. The current location — opened in October 2014 after a fire ended the community's previous home — is self-described as the largest known BDSM play space in the United States, a claim that lands credibly the moment you step past the coat check and through the black curtain into the main floor. A capped attendance of 250 per event keeps the energy intimate despite the scale, and Dungeon Monitors patrol throughout, making it as safe as it is sprawling. Organized as a 501(c)(7) non-profit social club, the Playhouse runs on a contributorship model: a $30 annual fee unlocks access to a calendar that fills roughly a year in advance with play parties, educational sessions, and specialty nights hosted by outside groups. For those new to public dungeons, the monthly Kink: First Contact open house — held on the first Friday of most months — requires no contributorship, just an RSVP, and walks newcomers through SSC and RACK basics before opening stations for hands-on exploration until around 11pm. The Playhouse is an NCSF Coalition Partner, and its consent-first culture shows: a formal Consent Incident Report form lives on the website, and safe words (Yellow/Red) are posted and enforced. The space itself accommodates everything from medical and needle play (confined to designated medical areas) to impact, bondage, and group scenes, with cleaning stations and Chux pads distributed throughout. There is no bar — the Playhouse is completely alcohol-free and drug-free, with permanent bans for violations — and there is no walk-in option; names must be on the RSVP list. Regular event entry runs $20-$25, with snacks and soft drinks available from an on-site snack bar.

The Art Cinema

Hartford, CT

Housed in a 1919-built Art Deco movie palace at 255 Franklin Avenue in Hartford's South End, The Art Cinema is one of North America's last surviving adult theaters of its kind. Originally opened as The Rialto, it passed through Warner Bros. hands before settling into adult fare. Family-operated for over forty years — now by Ernest Grecula Jr. — it was fully renovated and reopened in December 2020. The single-screen auditorium seats 601 across a main floor and a couples-exclusive VIP Balcony, with continuous video features running throughout the day. The Couples Exclusive VIP Balcony is the venue's signature draw — a self-contained upper tier reserved strictly for mixed-gender couples, actively enforced by staff. Single men are permitted on the main floor but barred from all couples-designated areas. The theater runs a rotating schedule of themed adult parties. Weekly specials keep things lively: the Monday Couples Special brings M/F admission to $10 all day; Trans Thursday offers free entry for trans women. Standard admission is $25 for single men, $25 for M/F couples, and $10 for single women. Cash only. The vibe is voyeuristic and unhurried — seated, darkened, anonymous. A Diamond Rewards program gives a free fifth visit after four paid admissions. The FetLife group (fetlife.com/groups/190544) serves as the primary community hub for party announcements and event news.

Club Eden DFW

Euless, TX

Private members-only lifestyle nightclub

Club Eden DFW is the flagship of a small Texas/Oklahoma chain of private members-only lifestyle nightclubs, run out of a 14,000 sq ft suite at 11050 S Pipeline Road in Euless — a half-hour west of downtown Dallas, in the industrial spine between DFW Airport and Arlington. The club is owned and operated by Chris Vee — a former stand-up comedian who built a long second career as "The Swingers Comedian" — and his wife Crissy. Chris took over the venue in around 2013 when it ran as Players DFW NightClub, rebranded it to Club Eden in 2015, and has since expanded the chain to a second location in San Antonio and a third in Oklahoma City, all sharing a single members portal at members.edenclubs.com. Couples in open relationships are the primary audience; the marketing language extends explicitly to the LGBT lifestyle as well. The house tagline is "Where couples come to play," and the club is careful to note publicly that it "does not provide adult entertainment" — the legal framing required to keep the on-premise side of the operation working. The venue itself is the size of a small commercial nightclub. The main floor runs a large dance floor with multiple stripper poles, shadow boxes, a cage, and big TV displays cycling music videos; live bands and DJs trade nights, with the music skewing urban and high-energy. Four semi-private and four private play rooms sit just off the dance floor, along with a dedicated BDSM room equipped with a St. Andrew's Cross, spanking bench and bondage frame. Pool tables, a photo booth, VIP couch lounges and a large VIP party area for 20-plus people fill out the social space. A full kitchen serves food throughout the night, and the patio out back carries an above-ground pool, two hot tubs, fire pits and the smoking area. The chain is BYOB at its Texas locations — no liquor licence, no in-house bar service, just ice and mixers behind a setup counter; OKC runs differently with a full bar. Next door at Suite #100 sits Infliction Hall, the chain's BDSM-focused sister venue under the same ownership; Club Eden members get free cover for Infliction Hall events for a year. Pricing is tiered three ways — by night, by gender, and by membership level. Daily door (which includes a one-night membership) runs $35 Wednesday through $95 Saturday for couples, $15–$35 for single women, and a deliberately steep $60–$200 for single men. The annual ladder runs from $250 a year for Couples VIP or Female Platinum up to $6,500 a year for Male Platinum, with Couples Platinum and Platinum Plus tiers between ($3,000 and $5,000). Single men admitted on a couple's ticket must arrive, stay and depart with that couple — a strict couples-led gate the club enforces explicitly. Hours run Wednesday through Saturday only, opening at 9pm and pushing later as the week progresses (Wed close 1am, Thu 2am, Fri 3am, Sat 4am). The weekly programme is unusually structured — Wednesday is "Play More Party" night; Thursdays rotate "Karaoke Thursday" with "All Kinks Thursday" (rope, impact, edge play, dom/sub, CD/trans, pet play, leather); Fridays rotate Topless / Sybian / G-String / Poly Glamorous over four-week cycles; Saturdays each carry their own themed party (Bad Ass Bitches & Bikers, Sexy Cowgirls & Outlaws with a live country band, Lifestyle Barbie, Risque Rave, Toga Glow and dozens more). The crowd reads about 4.4/5 across Google's 171 reviews and the Chamber of Commerce's 143, with the consistent praise notes being clean facilities, friendly staff and the chain's drama-free, consent-forward house culture.

Sultry Sarah's Social Club

St. Louis, MO

Social Club

Sultry Sarah's Social Club is a membership-based lifestyle social club serving the St. Louis, Missouri area, operating since 2017 under the tagline "Where Consent Meets Connection." Rather than running from a single fixed clubhouse, the group holds its flagship parties at a rented downtown venue and supplements them with separate off-premise mixers, and describes itself as welcoming to every gender and sexual orientation. The flagship event, the Sultry Soirée, is held at 1428 North Broadway in downtown St. Louis, a stand-alone location with its own private, security-patrolled parking lot. Guests navigate consent through a color-coded wristband system — green, yellow, red, and a rainbow band for bisexual or all-gender play — that can be swapped throughout the night. Personal photography is banned throughout the venue, and phones must stay out of play areas. Soirées run roughly 8pm to 2am on Saturdays. Entry is membership-gated rather than a simple door fee: minimum dues start at $20 a month and rise through several tiers to an optional $1,000 lifetime membership. Where tickets are sold on top of membership, listed admission is $75 for single men, $60 per couple, and $25 for single women. All attendees must be 21 or older, show photo ID, and sign a membership waiver at the door.

Top Floor Club

New York, NY

Off-Premise Club

Top Floor is a curated, consent-forward erotic community and play party that unfolds across three interconnected penthouse suites in New York City's Lower East Side. The venue spans multiple suites with a dance floor, bars, a serenity room staffed by a licensed on-site medic, and sweeping 100-foot outdoor balconies running front to back. Hosts and trained Guardians, connected by radio, circulate throughout the night; there are no VIP sections, and the crowd — drawn from a carefully vetted member base — skews toward those who take consent as seriously as pleasure. Entry is by application only: prospective members submit a form, locate a hidden word embedded in the community rules, and complete a 30-minute vibe-check Zoom before being accepted. Members gain access to WhatsApp groups, monthly Signature Weekend events, kink-forward MARKED nights, and BI-SENSUAL gatherings open to vetted non-members. Membership starts at a sliding-scale quarterly contribution (Standard tier: $180); event tickets are purchased separately. The safety framework is unusually rigorous: all attendees — whether or not they plan to play — must submit verified STI results within three months (HIV-1/2, syphilis, gonorrhea, chlamydia) via a HIPAA-compliant portal. Condoms are required for penetration unless partners are fluid-bonded. An independent Consent Director reviews all incident reports, with a third-party auditor conducting quarterly integrity checks.

Reel One Indy

Indianapolis, IN

Lifestyle Resort

Reel One sits on the western edge of downtown Indianapolis at 3428 W. Washington St., a members-only on-premise lifestyle club that describes itself as the only female-owned swingers club in the Indianapolis and Central Indiana area. According to the club's own site, it has operated legally at the same location since 1992, making it the longest-running club of its kind in Indiana, and spans three floors and more than 16,000 square feet. The venue includes a bar area (BYOB, no alcohol sold or served), a dance floor with a stripper pole and DJ, a lounge with balconies for public play, a themed "doctor's office" playroom, showers and locker rooms, a pool room, and a large movie/theater room downstairs. Upstairs holds a maze of hallways and roughly a dozen additional playrooms, including one with mirrored ceilings and walls and another furnished with a swing. Entry requires membership or guest status (guests are permitted for their first two visits before membership is required), and all attendees must be 21 or older with valid, non-expired photo ID. The club is open Friday and Saturday nights only, and Saturday overnight stays are offered at no additional cost, with couples and single females given priority for rooms; single men are not permitted overnight rooms on the top floor. No cell phones, smart watches, or recording devices of any kind are allowed inside — phones must go in a locker or be left in a vehicle. A single male member may bring a couple or one guest, but not more than one single male friend. Illegal drugs, weapons, and prostitution are strictly prohibited, and management reserves the right to deny entry or eject anyone at its discretion.

Richmond Rondezvouz

Richmond, VA

Event Organizer

Richmond Rondezvouz for Swingers is a Richmond, Virginia-based adult lifestyle group that organizes private parties rather than operating out of a fixed clubhouse. Run by a host couple and cross-listed on the SwingLifestyle platform under the handle swingcouple96, the group holds swinger parties at rotating private residences at least twice a month, along with occasional bi-oriented gatherings and peep-show style events. The group describes itself as welcoming to all attendees. Host locations typically include a private home with a heated pool, hot tub, large deck and covered patio, and a dedicated play area; one recurring venue also has a fenced backyard, an outdoor shower and a port-a-potty for guests who wish to camp overnight. Food and non-alcoholic drinks are supplied by the hosts, while alcohol is strictly BYOB; showers, towels, soap and wipes are provided on site for cleanup after play. Attendance is by confirmed RSVP only — prospective guests email the organizers with the names of everyone attending, and the party address is released only after confirmation; no one is admitted who is not on the guest list, and all attendees must be 21 or older. Admission is cash-only ($50 for couples and single men, $10 for single women), with a $20 late-registration fee for RSVPs submitted after the same-day cutoff. A dress code bars hats, hoodies, tank tops, sportswear and work boots at regular parties (dedicated pool parties are clothing-optional), and house rules ban photography without consent, prohibit illegal drugs and any pay-for-play activity, and require single men to approach the male half of a couple first rather than the female half alone.

FuseX Social Club - South Dakota Chapter

Unverified

Sioux Falls, SD

Social Club

FuseX Social Club is a private, approval-only lifestyle organization operating its South Dakota chapter from Sioux Falls with no fixed address — events rotate among confidential venues including hotel takeovers, luxury house parties, and invitation-only mansion events. The SD chapter runs approximately three hosted events per year locally; many Sioux Falls members also attend the larger Minneapolis chapter. Every applicant undergoes a formal interview, a national criminal background check, and must sign binding NDA and non-liability agreements before event details are shared. The membership skews toward working professionals — lawyers, physicians, executives — with income requirements (couples: $225,000+ combined; single males: $115,828+). Lifestyle interests span swinging, cuckolding, hotwifing, BDSM, polyamory, and voyeurism. In a conservative-state context, the club positions itself as the discreet alternative; members frequently travel to Minneapolis for higher-attendance events. At events, the format is social first: couples mingle and dance before play areas open, and participation is always voluntary. Dress code is enforced. Membership tiers range from $2,900 to $25,000/year plus per-event costs; single women receive free Platinum membership. Approximately one in four applications is approved.

Choice Social Club

Providence, RI

On-Premise Club

Choice Social Club is New England's flagship on-premise lifestyle club, occupying 8,000 square feet behind a red door in a Providence industrial neighborhood on Porter Street. Inside the contrast is sharp: warm-toned lounges furnished in leather, a dance floor with a video wall and stripper pole, a BYOB bar, and a backyard patio that opens for summer events. The building's 14 themed playrooms include a voyeur chamber with a one-way window, a schoolhouse room, a massage room, a blacklight room, a glory hole room, and a group room with an L-shaped multi-bed layout. A dedicated BDSM corner houses St. Andrew's crosses and sawhorse equipment. Staff change sheets between uses throughout the night. Membership and pricing have two layers. Annual memberships run $45 for couples ($250 premium), $40-65 for single women, and a $100 introductory rate for single men, who face a 3-4 month waitlist given strict ratio management. Per-event admission adds $90 for couples, $100 for single men, and $5 for single women. First-timers receive a complimentary trial membership. Events run Saturdays 9 pm to 2 am with themed nights rotating through the calendar; a Ropes class runs on the third Thursday at 7 pm. The BYOB system works by handing bottles to staff at check-in labelled with your membership number and requesting drinks at the bar all night with the club supplying mixers and ice. Playroom etiquette follows a plastic-chain signal system: chain on the door means open to observation or polite requests to join; door open and unchained means people may ask; curtain or door closed means full privacy. The crowd runs approximately 90% couples with an average age of 35-45, and the single-male quota is actively controlled to keep the balance couples-focused. The club has operated under Red Door Operations, LLC since 2009; a COVID closure prompted a 2021 GoFundMe by owner Jim Knaus that raised over $5,000 before reopening.

Electricity Social Club

Providence, RI

On-premise lifestyle / swinger club

Electricity Social Club occupies a loft-style space inside Atlantic Mill, a historic industrial complex in the Olneyville neighborhood of Providence, at 122 Manton Avenue — Right Tower, 2nd Floor. From the outside the building reads as a plain old factory, with no signage pointing to what's inside. The interior opens into a spacious loft-fitted club with a dance floor, a stripper pole, a full sound and light system, a BYOB bar stocked with mixers, lockers, and a dedicated smoking lounge. It is an on-premise, members-only lifestyle venue and one of the most talked-about lifestyle clubs in New England. The club runs Friday and Saturday nights from 9 pm to 2 am, with specialty events — including a bi- and pansexual-friendly Bi Voltage night — on the calendar. All guests must hold an annual membership (available at the door) and pay a per-party entry fee; valid photo ID is required at every visit. The crowd skews toward couples and single men, with reviewers placing the typical age range in the forties to fifties, though visitors span their twenties to late sixties. The atmosphere is described as laid-back and friendly, with action picking up after 11 pm. The play areas cover a wide range of preferences: a large main group room with couches ringing a dance floor and stripper pole; a small dungeon stocked with a rack, sawhorse, and floggers; a side room with beds and fresh linens; exhibitionist beds in a hallway where a velvet rope signals openness to company; and approximately ten fully private, attendant-managed playrooms. The club is BYOB — bring your own alcohol, free mixers provided — and is cash-only at the door. ESC describes itself as on-premise and welcoming to LGBTQ, pansexual, and bi-friendly guests.

Club Eros

Unverified

Cleveland, OH

On-Premise Club

Club Eros occupies a sprawling 15,000-square-foot industrial-chic space tucked behind gated access on E. 33rd Street in Cleveland's St. Clair–Hamilton corridor — the only female-owned adult lifestyle club in the Midwest, run by owner Jenny, who has been hosting events for over 15 years. The main floor delivers a full nightclub experience: a DJ booth with professional sound and light show, a full-service BYOA bar with complimentary juices, sodas, and premium energy drinks, a pool table, intimate lounge seating, and a complimentary buffet on Saturday nights. A couples-only lounge with its own play area provides a quieter retreat, and a movie theater area rounds out the social zones before guests head deeper into the club. The play wing spans 20 rooms: voyeur and exhibition rooms, a kink and bondage room, a dedicated pleasure-swing room, couples glory-hole rooms, private rooms, and a first-timers tour led by staff on arrival. Membership is required — one-night passes run $20 for couples; quarterly memberships are $35 for couples or single males and $25 for single ladies. Standard Saturday door fees are $69 for couples and $20 for single ladies; single males must qualify through CockFest or Club Cougar intake events, or attend daytime Tryst sessions. Eros stands apart on scale, polish, and inclusivity: its member base spans couples and singles across straight, gay, bi, and queer identities; attendance on a typical Saturday runs 60–100 with themed nights drawing up to 250. The all-inclusive door fee covers linens, wipes, condoms, buffet, and soft-drink mixers. Doors open at 9 PM on Saturdays with events running to 3 AM, and the large gated lot with on-site security makes parking straightforward.

Richmond Sauna

Richmond, ME

Bath House

Tucked into the woods off Dingley Road in Richmond, Maine, the Richmond Sauna has been welcoming a diverse mix of guests since 1976. Founded by Richard Jarvi — a Finnish-heritage engineer who built the concrete block bathhouse by hand, crafting his own wood stoves from scrap metal — the property has evolved from a pure Finnish sauna tradition into a clothing-optional retreat that pairs authentic wood-fired heat with a heated indoor pool, a large outdoor hot tub, and a sunning lawn available seasonally from May through November. Management has passed to founder's son Donald in recent years, and a 2025 TripAdvisor reviewer noted the new ownership has made "dramatic changes, all for the better," with updated rooms and a noticeably cleaner property. The schedule runs Wednesday through Sunday, with evening sauna and hot tub access from 6pm to 10pm year-round, and daytime pool and lawn access Tuesday through Sunday from 10am to 4pm during the warmer season. Guests choose between a community sauna at $40 per person or a semi-private sauna at $50; advance reservations are recommended for semi-private rooms. The 1800s colonial house on the property offers six guest rooms — including an efficiency apartment with a private entrance and kitchenette — with sauna access included in the overnight rate. Rooms are equipped with A/C and WiFi. The vibe is firmly clothing-optional rather than nudist in the traditional sense: reviewers describe it as laid-back and welcoming, with a loyal crowd of regulars alongside curious newcomers. The property functions as a neutral meeting ground for open-minded couples visiting the area, with the atmosphere more rustic Maine retreat than polished resort. Its location just over 20 minutes from Augusta and 40 minutes from Portland makes it one of the most accessible clothing-optional destinations in New England.

On-Premise Club

Sitting on Zion Street in Hartford's West End, Leisure Time Club has been the cornerstone of New England's lifestyle scene since the early 1980s — now in its 44th year of continuous operation and widely cited as the longest-running swingers club in the United States. The venue spans three floors, opening each Saturday at 9 pm to a crowd of couples and single women who come for a reliably welcoming, no-pressure atmosphere. Downstairs, a live-DJ dance floor fitted with a stripper pole, professional sound and lighting anchors the social side of the evening; a large lounge area and a fully attended BYOB bar keep the conversational energy flowing between trips upstairs. The upper floors hold five themed recreation rooms — including a private room, a beginners' room, a voyeur room, and open-group spaces — alongside BDSM apparatus, a Tantra chair, two group showers, and towels-and-lockers facilities. Repeat visitors consistently praise the owners for personally welcoming newcomers and making introductions across the room. The atmosphere skews intimate rather than cavernous, with regulars and first-timers mixing easily from their mid-twenties to early sixties. Beyond the weekly Saturday night, Leisure Time runs a monthly Friday-evening Ladies Social, a women-only party for ladies who want to connect, dance and let go. The club draws from across Connecticut and within an hour's drive of Massachusetts, New York, and Rhode Island, giving it a regional catchment that keeps the crowd refreshingly varied. Single males are not admitted at any event. The venue is entirely smoke-free.

Entourage Vegas Spa and Health Club

Las Vegas, NV

Bath House

3-paragraph narrative pending review

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Colorado Springs is a pre-launch chapter of the Illuminaughty lifestyle network, a members-only community for couples and singles in their 20s-40s. As of mid-2026, no events have yet been held in Colorado Springs — the brand's own site states it is still building its local membership base and will schedule its first party once enough members have signed up. There is no fixed venue: consistent with Illuminaughty's model elsewhere, future events would be hosted at private residences rather than a dedicated clubhouse. Once launched, programming is expected to follow the format used in other Illuminaughty cities: Tease Cocktail Mixers at bars with a reserved private area, and private house parties with themed decor and on-site security, typically drawing 40-80 attendees. Membership is free but requires an application and photo-based approval; approved members get event access through the Illuminaughty mobile app. Because no parties have been scheduled in Colorado Springs, prospective members should apply and RSVP through the official site to be notified once the first event is announced.

VIP Bliss

Miami Beach, FL

On-Premise Club

VIP Bliss (also listed as bLiSS Club, VIPBLISS.com) is a screened electronic dance music lifestyle organization based in Miami Beach, Florida, running events across South Florida including Fort Lauderdale, West Palm Beach, Tampa, and Orlando. Founded in 2003, it describes itself as the longest-running monthly screened EDM lifestyle party organization in the country, built around a membership of fit, adventurous couples and singles who enjoy upscale nightlife paired with dance music. Rather than operating a fixed clubhouse, VIP Bliss functions as a traveling event brand, taking over nightclubs and hotel pool decks across the region for its parties. Membership is free to request but fully screened before any event access is granted: applicants submit a legal name, a public screen name, their city and state, a description of what they're looking for, and four to six photos, with couples asked to include at least one photo together. Applications are reviewed daily, and hourly on event days, with silence treated as non-acceptance; VIP Bliss reserves the right to select its members and deactivate accounts at any time. The organization markets itself to a younger, millennial-skewing crowd and states it is not currently recruiting Baby Boomer or Gen X applicants. Once approved, members get access to themed erotic parties, pool parties, and domestic and international group vacations, with tickets sold through an affiliated ticketing platform. Membership categories include Couple, Female, FF Couple, Male, and Throuple/FMF, but single-male attendance is the most restricted: the organization has, at times, paused new male applications and pulled single-male tickets from specific events while keeping registration open for single women and couples. Chargebacks on event tickets are treated as a policy violation, triggering account deactivation until the fee and a processing charge are repaid.

Saunabar Bournemouth

Bournemouth, Dorset

Bath House

Saunabar sits at 140 Commercial Road in the Triangle, Bournemouth's LGBTQ+ quarter, and bills itself as the busiest gay sauna on the south-west coast. By day it runs as a men's spa: a dry sauna, steam room and jacuzzi, hot showers and private rest areas, plus a cosy lounge with a pool table and a fully licensed bar serving drinks alongside tea and coffee. On-site massage is available by appointment, and a single all-day admission covers the run of the place until closing. The same address takes on a second life after hours. On selected Friday and Saturday evenings Saunabar stays open for themed programming that broadens well beyond the daytime men-only door, and it doubles as the home of Bournemouth Swingers Club, whose couples-and-singles nights and inclusive socials run from the same rooms. Across the two identities the calendar covers trans nights, fetish evenings, naked sessions and all-welcome mixers, so depending on the day the venue reads as a quiet gay sauna or a full LGBTQ+ and swingers events space.

The X Club

Mississauga, Ontario

On-Premise Club

The X Club is a membership-based lifestyle nightclub at 1625 Sismet Road in Mississauga's industrial west end, billing itself as Canada's largest and most elegant venue of its kind. The club has operated for over nineteen years, drawing couples, single women, and pre-screened single men from across the Greater Toronto Area. All guests must be 21 or older; the club describes its typical crowd as ranging from 25 to 60, with the majority in their mid-thirties. A host team greets and tours first-timers, and a Newbie Night runs on the first Friday of each month — no annual membership required that night — offering a guided walkthrough and meet-and-greet with other newcomers. The venue houses two distinct environments under one roof. The main X Club floor is a full-production nightclub with resident DJs spinning Top 40, house, and techno, a full bar, lounge seating, and bottle service spanning Grey Goose to Dom Pérignon. The Mermaid Lounge — which operates under the @xclubmermaid social media brand — offers a spa-styled counterpart with plush seating, a specialty cocktail bar, a Himalayan dry sauna, a steam room, a glass group shower, and a year-round clothing-optional indoor pool. The play space divides into two sections: seven private themed rooms and a kink room (clothing optional, open to all), and an open play area with beds, couches, and an orgy room requiring guests to change into underwear, lingerie, towels, or go nude. Lockers with locks, showers, and towel service are included with all memberships. Regular hours are Friday and Saturday, 9 PM to 3 AM, with the front door closing at 2 AM. Saturdays are reserved exclusively for couples and single women. Single men are welcome on Fridays only, capped at fifteen per night, and are barred from the open play area on standard Fridays; this restriction is lifted on Freaky Friday (last Friday of each month). The calendar also includes weekday and Sunday events, sold-out themed Super Parties for New Year's Eve, Halloween, and St. Patrick's Day, and dedicated LGBTQIA2S+ programming including Pride nights and T-girl events. A monthly off-site social called The X Munch is held the last Thursday of each month at Capone's Cocktail Lounge. Photography, videography, and recording are prohibited throughout the venue except in a designated photo booth area; consent is mandatory throughout.

Clubhouse 2050

Indianapolis, IN

On-Premise Club

Sitting just east of downtown Indianapolis on E Michigan Street — about two miles from city center — ClubHouse 2050 is Indiana's longest-running lifestyle members-only club, housed in a building with an eclectic past (members note it was once a funeral home, which only adds to its mystique). The ground floor is laid out like a social club: a sports bar, dance floor, card room, and game room all feed into a play area with curtained semi-private spaces. Upstairs, private and semi-private rooms are available for couples and groups, outfitted with fresh linens and stocked with convenience baskets. What sets ClubHouse 2050 apart is the breadth of its membership. Less than half of the crowd are full swingers; the rest are voyeurs, exhibitionists, BDSM and FetLife regulars, and vanilla couples who enjoy a flirtatious, no-judgment atmosphere. The club runs weekly events every Friday and Saturday (8pm–2am), leaning into themed nights that vary by the interests of those who show up. It is BYOB with no bar tab, and the flat $50 Saturday entry and roughly $30 Friday fee make it one of the most affordable on-premise clubs in the region. Paid members also unlock a full online community: photo sharing, direct messaging, and live video chat. The club partners with a sister venue, ClubhousePandora.com near Anderson Casino, and curates a calendar of lifestyle travel events for members seeking experiences beyond Indianapolis.

Valentines in Niagara (VIN)

Niagara Falls, Ontario

Event Organizer

Valentines in Niagara (VIN) is an annual lifestyle convention staged in Niagara Falls, Ontario every February, organized by Tabota Events and running continuously since 2007. It operates as a complete hotel takeover of a luxury resort with an enclosed indoor tropical waterpark — the entire property reserved exclusively for attendees — drawing more than 200 couples per year from across Canada and the United States. The event bills itself as Canada's largest swingers lifestyle convention and sells out every year without exception. The host venue is an upscale resort minutes from the falls, with an indoor waterpark featuring a pool, two hot tubs, and poolside lounging, plus award-winning gourmet dining and bistro-style snacks served in a courtyard setting. The weekend runs to more than 20 programmed activities: 60- to 90-minute seminars and workshops — some informational, some with demonstrations, some fully hands-on — on topics including tantric sex, erotic photography, and intimacy skills. Afternoon events include body painting, pole dancing, and a couples speed dating session. Evening entertainment in the Oak Room has featured comedians, burlesque performers, and a hypnotist. Two themed dances anchor the nights: Friday's Red & White Your Hearts Delight party unfolds inside the waterpark itself, and Saturday's Mardi Gras night is the weekend's wildest evening. A vendor marketplace runs throughout, and two dedicated play spaces operate both nights — the Penthouse Playroom for open couples' exploration, and a Kinky Play Area equipped for bondage and sensation play. Pool parties are clothing-optional throughout. The core weekend runs Friday through Saturday, with an optional Thursday night pre-party available as an add-on. Pricing for 2027 in Canadian dollars, excluding HST: an event pass for a couple is CAD $398; pass with two nights in a standard room is CAD $968; poolside or wing-room upgrades add CAD $298; the Thursday pre-party is an additional CAD $229. A mandatory cash-only party credit of $100 per person is collected at check-in and is redeemable for food and drink anywhere in the hotel. Credit card payments carry a 6% surcharge. The event is open to couples and unaccompanied women only — single men are not admitted. Minimum age is 19. Advance booking through tabotaevents.com is required; event-only passes are available for guests staying off-site.

CJ's at The Townhouse

Glasgow, Scotland

On-Premise Club

Tucked into a quiet corner of Kelvindale on Glasgow's leafy west side, CJ's at The Townhouse has built a reputation as one of Scotland's most welcoming swingers clubs. The venue spans two floors of a discreet townhouse on Ashburton Road, with a trio of stripper-pole-lined lounges, a self-service bar and a buffet downstairs, and a warren of eight themed playrooms upstairs. Owner CJ personally walks first-timers through the space, and the crowd — a friendly mix of regulars and newcomers, often spanning their late twenties to early sixties — sets a tone that's more living-room than nightclub. Parties run on a tight rhythm: Friday nights (8pm–midnight) are couples and single ladies only; Saturdays (9pm–2am) open the door to a limited number of single men; and once a month, a Wednesday afternoon party (noon–3pm) welcomes everyone. There are also dedicated gay and bi-male nights run under the @cjs4gay banner. Entry is by prior booking only — no walk-ins, no admittance after 11pm — and photo ID (passport, driving licence or utility bill) is required at the door. Dress code is strictly enforced: a sexy little number for the ladies, smart casual or sexy attire for the gents. The playrooms cover everything from a cinema lounge and an open group room to a fully equipped dungeon, a medical-themed private room, a voyeur room, and a couples-and-single-females-only room with a love swing. Phones are off in public areas and cameras are banned outright, which keeps the vibe relaxed and discreet. The "party contribution" at the door covers a buffet plus tea, coffee and soft drinks; alcohol is BYOB with no corkage. Towels and condoms are provided, there's a separate indoor smoking area, and an on-site wardrobe and makeover service is on hand for anyone who wants to dress up before they head in.

On-Premise Club

Casa No.1 is a Mediterranean-styled villa tucked away on Blankenauer Strasse in Chemnitz — 500 square metres of indoor space spread across four levels plus a sprawling 5,000 m² outdoor area with a swimming pool, lounge seating for 150, and even yachts repurposed for open-air play. Owned and run by the Ranft family since at least 2011, the club has quietly built one of the strongest reputations in eastern Germany: 4.9 out of 5 stars across 831 reviews on JOYclub, with more than 458,000 recorded visitor check-ins and 1,816 fans on the platform. Everything is all-inclusive — admission covers the full bar, a gourmet buffet with themed dishes, sauna, towels, and parking (including RV spots). The club operates two regular nights: Wednesday's "Afterwork 2.0" from 5 pm to midnight (ladies free, couples from €60) and Saturday themed parties from 8 pm to 3 am (couples from €90, single men from €100). Each Saturday brings a different theme — from 80s retro nights and Schlagerparty XXL to Caribbean pool events and the annual Oktoberfest. Facilities span a dance floor with live DJs, a massage lounge, glory holes, a fully equipped BDSM area, private and group play rooms, and a cosy sauna for cooler evenings. Gentlemen who arrive without clubwear can rent suit pants and a shirt for €10 including professional cleaning. First-timers get a genuine welcome through the "First Time 4 Free" programme, and the club's motto — "Everything is possible, nothing is mandatory" — sets the tone for a consent-first atmosphere. JOYclub members receive a €10 discount on standard admission. Directions are simple: A4 Exit 70 Chemnitz-Glösa, then 2 km on the B107 toward Chemnitz — look for the colourful chimney. Large on-site parking means no circling the block, and Bus Line 22 (Hochhausfurt stop) covers the 3 km from the Hauptbahnhof if you'd rather not drive.

Lux Velvet

Ottawa, Ontario

Roving Events / Pop-Up

Lux Velvet is an Ottawa-based sex-positive party collective founded in December 2018 by Nicole Murphy and Alexandria Nuttal — two queer women who set out to build a non-monogamous community where women, LGBTQ+ people, and those new to open relationships could gather without the unsafe or exclusionary atmospheres they had encountered at established adult venues. Female-owned and operated, the collective welcomes swingers, polyamorous individuals and couples, people in open relationships, and the broadly curious, organized around consent, vetting, and discretion. Rather than occupying a fixed club space, Lux Velvet rotates through hotels, private bars, breweries, and private venues across Ottawa; the membership skews toward the 25–45 age range, though all adults 19+ are eligible to attend. The collective runs two distinct event formats. Public Mixers and themed Dance Parties — held approximately every other month at rotating Ottawa venues — are open to anyone 19+ and deliberately social in tone: music is kept at conversational volume and past editions have included art nights with professional nude models, game nights, and themed dance parties, as well as collaborations with other Ottawa sex-positive venues. Members-only play parties are a separate, invite-only tier hosted at vetted private venues, with location details shared only with ticketed members. Founders Nicole and Alexandria are present at every event and are available to members throughout the evening. The collective has partnered with adult wellness brands including Lelo, Liberator, and ScreamingO. Mixer tickets are priced at approximately C$15–C$20 in advance and C$20–C$25 at the door, with a discounted member rate; members-only play-party tickets are priced separately, typically C$45–C$65+ per event. Annual membership costs C$65 plus tax and requires attending a Mixer first, then completing a no-cost 30-minute video vetting call with one of the founders. Members sign a legally binding consent-and-confidentiality waiver, photography and recording devices are prohibited at all events, and a one-strike policy applies to all rule violations. Accessibility varies by host venue and is disclosed on each individual event listing.

The Playground RI

Providence, RI

Private House Party

The Playground RI is a weekly lifestyle house party run out of a converted three-family home in Providence's Oakland Avenue Historic District, operated by hosts Eddy and Viv Badd of BBadd Entertainment. Spread across four floors and roughly 4,000 square feet, the venue mixes themed social spaces with dedicated play areas: the ground floor opens with a meet-and-greet lounge alongside a Wild West room, a Pirate room, and a kink-themed Red Room. The second floor holds a dance floor with a stripper pole and four more playrooms. The third floor is towel-and-robe only, with two private rooms, a glory hole, and an open group play area; the dungeon is fully equipped with two sex swings, a massage table, a Sybian, and a doctor's office with two exam tables. Saturday nights (8 pm-2 am) are the main weekly event, open to couples, single women, and a limited number of single men (21+), with the host managing ratios carefully. Friday Fusion nights run the same hours but tilt toward BDSM and kink and are open to all genders. The hosts personally tour first-timers through the space, answer questions, and make guests feel at home; reviewers consistently describe the atmosphere as friendly and community-driven rather than nightclub-cold. All parties are BYOB, with ice, refrigerators, snacks, sodas, and water provided at no charge. Every room is stocked with condoms, lube, and clean sheets. Lockers are available on the third floor. The venue is 420-friendly outdoors. Attendance is RSVP-only — no walk-ins; the full address is shared only upon booking confirmation.

Swingers Club

Tucked away in a quiet industrial pocket of northeast Calgary, the Calgary Adult Playground Club has operated as one of the city's most private and long-running lifestyle communities since 2006. Known simply as CAPC or "The Studio," the 1,400 sq ft venue is deliberately unmarked from the outside — no signage, no music audible from the street, just a discreet entrance that members know to look for. Inside, it's a different world entirely. The ground floor combines a dance floor with disco lighting, a BYOB bar area stocked with mixers, ice, and glassware, and comfortable lounge seating. Upstairs, a dedicated play room carries a sensual dungeon atmosphere equipped with a Saint Andrew's Cross, bondage furniture, and safe sex supplies placed throughout. Regular events include Fetish Fridays and Swinger Saturdays starting at 9pm, plus occasional themed nights — rope bondage workshops, educational sessions, and exclusive CAPC Elite events for select members. Membership is invitation-only, either through referral from a current member or an interview with the owners. The community spans ages 21 to 60+, welcoming couples, single females, and those across the full spectrum of orientations and relationship styles: swinging, polyamory, kink, BDSM, and LGBTQ+. Single males are welcome at all events except Saturday nights, where entry requires a female partner or couple. The club's founding philosophy — safe, sane, and consensual with zero pressure — has made it a trusted space for Calgary's alternative lifestyle community for nearly two decades.

The Pleasure Garden Club

Philadelphia, PA

On-Premise Club

Tucked behind The Purple Orchid at the far end of a Passyunk Avenue strip mall in Philadelphia's Elmwood/Eastwick neighborhood, The Pleasure Garden Club has been one of the city's premier on-premise lifestyle destinations since opening in September 2006. The venue sits behind a gated private parking lot — well-lit and hidden from street view — and a pat-down security check at the door ensures no phones make it inside. With capacity for roughly 300 guests, the space centers on a large dance floor anchored by a stripper pole on a raised platform, flanked by two BYOB juice bars with complimentary mixers, a group shower with towel service, and a bank of lockers (bring your own padlock). Membership is bundled with entry via TicketLeap. Playrooms range from curtained private rooms and an open play pit to a dedicated gangbang room and two Sybian rooms (available for a $20 deposit). A side room off the main dance floor houses a permanent BDSM setup — St. Andrew's cross, a cage, a spiked wood throne with manacles, and suspension rigs — making it a genuine dual-use swinger/kink space. Overflow back rooms unlock on busier nights when the main areas fill up. Fridays (9 pm–2 am) welcome couples, single ladies, and single men; the first Friday of each month is PLEASUREcation, a kink-forward mixed party with dark/rock/EDM music and programming such as rope bondage demos. Saturdays (9 pm–3 am) are couples and single ladies only, with themed nights running the gamut from Mardi Gras to glow and sheer-wear parties.

Camelot Social Club

Charlotte, NC

Event Organizer

Camelot Social Club is a Charlotte, North Carolina lifestyle organization built around monthly hotel-takeover parties rather than a fixed clubhouse. Founded to bring the swinging lifestyle "back stronger than ever" to the Charlotte area, the group holds affordable, safe, and controlled parties where couples and like-minded singles can dress as sexy as they want and socialize freely. Events rotate through area hotels and venues — recent parties have included takeovers at properties like the Comfort Inn in Kings Mountain, NC — with themed nights such as the "Erotic Summer Luau," a tropical-attire party pairing a room block with an evening of lifestyle socializing. The club's long-term goal is to establish a permanent, on-premises venue that members can call home; in the meantime, it relies on turnout and word-of-mouth at its monthly events to build toward that goal. Entry to events requires a signed liability waiver on file for every attendee, completed once via an online SmartWaiver form before a person's first party, and tickets are typically sold in advance online. Camelot Social Club maintains an active web presence with a running events calendar, a news/updates section, and a links/deals page for partner venues and discounts. The organization is reachable by email and Instagram rather than a listed phone line, and communicates event logistics — including hotel booking links and room blocks — directly through individual event pages on its site.

On-Premise Club

London's only queer rave blending techno, house and afrobeats, bringing together different LGBTQ+ communities under one roof. Also a sexual wellness brand and community platform with curated playspaces for all genders and sexualities.

Club AntiChrist

London, London

BDSM Club

Club AntiChrist has been running since 2004 and is widely credited as Europe's largest alternative fetish night. Held quarterly at Scala in King's Cross — a multi-floor Victorian venue steps from St Pancras — each event transforms the entire building into a sprawling playground for goth, metal, and kink communities. Three dancefloors run simultaneously: The Hole (all genres of metal), the Hellfire Room (goth, industrial, and post-punk), and the Foyer (80s and New Romantic), while the Theatre of Sin stages live bands, burlesque, aerial acts, and cabaret throughout the night. The BDSM dungeon — equipped by Benchmarxxx with St Andrew's Crosses, spanking benches, a cage, and a swing — is staffed by trained monitors who enforce a rigorous consent policy; anyone who touches without asking is ejected and permanently barred. A separate monitored dark playroom offers more privacy for couples and groups, with free condoms provided. Out in the rear garden courtyard, hot food is served all night alongside tarot readings and a Munch Space for kink community newcomers. Cameras are strictly banned throughout to protect guest privacy. The dress code is more accessible than comparable London fetish nights — a band t-shirt and combat boots meet the minimum standard, while full latex and elaborate fetishwear are enthusiastically worn. Tickets are per-event at around £30–48 advance or £40 cash on the door, with no couples pricing or solo-male restriction. Time Out consistently recommends it, and Cultured Vultures called it 'probably the best night out I've ever had in London.' The kink community's consensus is clear: Club AntiChrist is the most inclusive and least intimidating of the major UK fetish nights.

Club 2020

Malsch, Baden-Württemberg

On-Premise Club

Club 2020 arrived on the Baden-Württemberg lifestyle scene in September 2020 with a single mission: to build a genuinely design-forward lifestyle club for the Karlsruhe region. Nestled in the discreet industrial outskirts of Malsch — just 20 km south of Karlsruhe — it quickly earned JoyClub's highest distinction award and a near-perfect 4.7-star Google rating. The two-floor venue is immediately striking, with an interior that is deliberately beautiful and thematically rich, creating what the owners describe as an "exclusive atmosphere with a feel-good factor." The crowd is active and image-conscious — young and young-at-heart, in the club's own words — and the professional, charming staff earn consistent five-star praise for making every guest feel genuinely at home. The ground floor is the social heart: a dance floor with resident DJ, a full cocktail bar, and a first-class buffet restaurant that reviewers routinely single out as uncommonly good for a venue of this kind. Upstairs, six distinctly themed Räume der Lust (Rooms of Desire) offer a range of experiences — from the baroque Versailles Room for elegant intimate encounters, to the lockable Maritime Room, a private Couples Room, the large Caligula Group Room featuring a Czech Wall and glory holes, the Marquis de Sade BDSM Room for alternative play, and an SM area. A sauna and full hygiene facilities round out the amenities. The club operates under a clear consent-first philosophy: everything is possible, nothing is mandatory. Club 2020 runs on an event-driven model — most nights are organised by promoters through JoyClub, Germany's leading lifestyle platform, where pre-registering earns a meaningful discount off door prices. Fridays and Saturdays are the core nights (8 PM to 2 or 3 AM); occasional Thursday and Sunday events broaden the calendar. Entry prices vary by event and guest type: couples pay roughly €79–€99 on core nights, single women €25–€35, and single men at a premium. The themed event calendar is richly varied — Couples & Ladies Nights, BDSM takeovers, Queer Balls, Vegas Nights, neon glow parties, and seasonal celebrations running approximately weekly from April through November. Dress code is strictly elegant to fetish-formal; sneakers and flip-flops are turned away at the door.

IntimatePartiesGroup (IPG)

New York, NY

Event Organizer

IntimatePartiesGroup (IPG) is a Northeast-based lifestyle event production outfit run by couple-hosts Maddy and Joe, drawing on a roster of experienced DJs, performers, comics, and venue operators whose sensibility blends Brazilian, Latin, Caribbean, and American swinger culture. Rather than maintaining a fixed club, IPG takes over entire hotels -- typically in Scranton, PA, conveniently off Highway 81 -- for full two-day weekends, regularly drawing 150-200 couples per event. Hotel room blocks are negotiated at roughly $119-139 per night with a two-night minimum, and the hotel staff are described as extremely lifestyle friendly. The all-day format means guests checking in Friday afternoon have access to the heated indoor pool and surrounding amenities well before the night main events begin. Each event weekend follows a structured rhythm. Friday evening opens with naughty trivia (6:30-7:45 PM), a meet-and-greet, then a DJ dance party running to midnight, followed by a pool party until 2-3 AM. Saturday layers on afternoon speed dating, kink demos, poolside games, and Swingo (a bingo variant), before a pre-party gathering at 6 PM and a main event -- typically a comedy show or costumed contest -- at 8:45 PM sharp, with themed playrooms and a potluck after-party floor-crawl from midnight onward, closing with a pool-and-desserts wind-down at 4 AM. The crowd skews friendly and repeating; reviews consistently flag the hosts personal floor presence and the unusually respectful atmosphere among attendees. Preference bracelets issued at check-in (green: full swap; yellow: soft swap; purple: tame; red: bisexual) take the guesswork out of navigation. IPG also co-hosts at external venues, including a recurring bi/lingerie night at The Kink Lair, and an annual Pride Fest kink/fetish hotel takeover.

Insomnia Hedonistic Nightclub

Berlin, Berlin

On-Premise Club

Insomnia is a hedonistic lifestyle nightclub in Berlin combining swinger, fetish, and BDSM elements across themed party nights. The venue welcomes free spirits of all orientations with international DJs, performance stages, and a consent-focused community atmosphere.

Illuminaughty Albuquerque

Unverified

Albuquerque, NM

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Albuquerque is the local New Mexico chapter of Illuminaughty, a membership-based lifestyle events network with chapters in more than 40 U.S. cities. As of mid-2026, the Albuquerque chapter is still in a pre-launch, member-recruitment phase: its own site states the group "is preparing to launch exclusive lifestyle cocktail mixers and private swinger parties" and that organizers "just need a few more members signed up" before scheduling a first local event. There is no fixed clubhouse -- as in other Illuminaughty markets, parties would be held at private venues disclosed only to ticket holders once a schedule exists. Network-wide, Illuminaughty runs two event formats: Tease Cocktail Mixers held in reserved sections of bars and restaurants, and private parties hosted in rented or member-owned homes, apartments, or estates that are decorated and staffed for the night. Standard parties feature a themed dress code, a private security team, a set arrival window followed by a group consent-and-rules talk, and multiple play spaces that can include a group room and light bondage or kink equipment, though advanced BDSM such as heavy impact, breath, fire, or blood play is not permitted. These are documented network practices published on Illuminaughty's national site; Albuquerque-specific venues and setups are not yet public, since no local party has been announced or hosted. Membership is free but requires an application with photos, and approval isn't guaranteed; once approved, members receive event invitations for whichever region they follow, including Albuquerque. Network events are typically open to couples, single women, and a small, gender-balanced number of vetted single men -- roughly two to four per event -- with solo men lacking a Single Man ticket turned away by security. Parties are BYOB, with mixers and non-alcoholic drinks provided; phones and cameras are banned once the consent talk begins, and late arrivals outside the posted window aren't admitted.

Mission Control SF (Kinky Salon)

Oakland, CA

BDSM Club

Mission Control is a members-only, volunteer-run sex-positive community rooted in the San Francisco Bay Area. Founded around 2000 by Polly Whittaker — the London transplant better known as Polly Superstar — the organization spent its first fourteen years at 2519 Mission Street before rising rents forced an eviction in late 2013. It re-established itself and now operates out of venues in Oakland, hosting a rotating calendar of themed parties and workshops under its 501(c)(7) nonprofit charter. The event lineup spans a wide spectrum: Pink is the house party where the core community gathers; Threshold is the BDSM-focused night; Velvet centres queer women, trans folks, and genderqueers; SOUL is exclusively for people of colour; Peek celebrates exhibitionism and voyeurism; and Eropunk is a sober play party for introverts. All events are BYOB. Entry requires individual membership (couples applications declined). Alliance membership at $20/month or $200/year unlocks free entry to most parties. The PAL system — every guest must arrive and leave with a trusted accountability partner — underpins the consent culture.

Oasis Aqualounge

Toronto, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Oasis Aqualounge is a water-themed, clothing-optional adult spa and social club occupying a 9,000-square-foot restored 19th-century mansion at 231 Mutual Street in downtown Toronto. Open since 2010 to all guests aged 19 and over, the club does not describe itself as a swinger club — it positions as a body-positive, consent-forward venue drawing a broad community: monogamous couples, polyamorous individuals, kink enthusiasts, and guests who want spa facilities in a sex-positive setting without expectation of partner activity. Admission covers a day membership, locker access, and towel service; no separate ongoing membership is required. The crowd typically spans the mid-thirties to mid-fifties, and the venue has been recognised four times as one of Canada's fastest-growing businesses (2019, 2020, 2024, and 2025). The centrepiece is a year-round outdoor heated pool — maintained near 100°F in winter — set within a private courtyard flanked by a hot tub and a dry sauna. Two licensed bars serve alcohol and soft drinks across the property, with poolside patio seating for guests moving between the spa and social areas. Play areas span four floors and include a dungeon equipped with a swing and a St. Andrew's Cross, plus a private room on the fourth floor that any guest can reserve in one-hour increments at no extra charge. Staff known as Aquaflirt hosts circulate throughout, offering tours for first-time visitors and facilitating introductions. A colour-coded silicone wristband system near the entrance lets guests signal their openness to interaction. Oasis is open 1pm to 3am, 362 days a year (last admission 2am; closed Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, and one Monday in December for maintenance). Fridays and Saturdays are reserved for women and couples only; solo men may attend Sunday through Thursday. Approximately once a month — typically the fourth Monday — the club runs Sapphic Aquatica, an event exclusively for women and trans guests. Door prices include HST: solo women pay CAD $15 (Sun–Thu) or $25 (Fri–Sat); couples pay $100 or $115 respectively; solo men pay $100 on eligible weekdays. No outside drinks are permitted. Walk-ins are welcome most nights, though high-demand events may require advance booking via the online ticket calendar.

Sea Mountain Spa Las Vegas

Las Vegas, NV

Bath House

Sea Mountain Spa Las Vegas is a members-only, clothing-optional lifestyles day-and-night club minutes from the Strip, operating out of a private compound on South Eastern Avenue. The property centres on heated nude pools and an oversized whirlpool surrounded by designer daybeds, floating cabanas, and sun-drenched tanning gardens. Indoors, the Dharma Club — an on-premises lifestyles lounge with a dance pole, DJ booth, and lingerie-and-less dress code — runs around the clock, making it Las Vegas's only 24-hour on-premises couples lifestyle venue. Admission is restricted to couples and single women; single men are never permitted. A six-month membership ($20 per person) must be purchased on the first visit, and all guests must be 21-plus. Day retreats run 10 a.m.–5 p.m.; evening packages extend from 2 p.m. to 1–3 a.m. depending on the night, with late-night add-ons available. All-day passes include complimentary soft drinks, snacks, and lunch. The venue is BYOB for alcohol — none is sold on-site — and 420-cannabis-friendly. The all-female staff cultivates a no-attitude, non-body-shaming atmosphere, and reviewers consistently note a relaxed, pressure-free vibe with a friendly crowd spanning twenties through sixties. Pool and whirlpool areas are clothes-free year-round (towels, sarongs, and robes are provided), while evenings shift to a provocative lingerie-and-less code inside the Dharma Club.

Illuminaughty Seattle

Seattle, WA

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Seattle is the local chapter of Illuminaughty, a national curated lifestyle brand that has hosted private swinger parties and cocktail mixers since 2022. Rather than operating from a fixed clubhouse, it runs monthly events for the Seattle and Tacoma area, drawing an ethically non-monogamous crowd of couples and singles roughly in their 20s, 30s and 40s. Attendance is restricted to approved members: applicants submit photos and a written application, and there is no membership fee, though not everyone is accepted. Events fall into two formats. Tease Cocktail Mixers are held in reserved sections of local bars or restaurants as a low-key way for members to meet. Private parties — the core of the brand — take place at rented private residences ranging from houses to high-rise apartments to larger estates, decorated and lit to set an intentional mood, typically hosting 40 to 80 members with professional security on site. Rooms are set up for a range of experiences, from massage tables and group-play spaces to light bondage or kink setups, though kink is described as a secondary element rather than the main focus. Most night parties run from around 8pm to 2am, with an arrival window (roughly 8:00–9:30pm) after which doors close for a mandatory opening talk on consent and house rules; latecomers are turned away. Parties are BYOB, with mixers and non-alcoholic drinks supplied, and towels, wipes, condoms, lube and massage oil provided. Each event has a set dress theme that members are expected to follow. Tickets and the private venue address are released only to approved, logged-in ticket holders, with the exact location shared on the day of the event.

X Club Winnipeg

Closed

Winnipeg, Manitoba

Sex Club

X Club Winnipeg was one of Canada's largest lifestyle and sex-positive social clubs, occupying a converted three-storey building at 457 Notre Dame Ave in downtown Winnipeg, Manitoba. The venue operated as an all-inclusive, body-positive space welcoming couples, singles, and LGBTQ2S+ guests of all orientations and gender identities. The club permanently closed on May 24, 2026, after repeated unsuccessful applications for a liquor license from Manitoba's Liquor, Gaming and Cannabis Authority left the business financially unviable. Spanning over 10,000 square feet across three floors, X Club offered 35 lockable private rooms — from single lockers to themed fantasy suites and a private hot tub suite — alongside a dry sauna, large steam room, communal showers, and a sex-free social lounge. A basement dungeon housed sex swings, a kink cage, glory holes, and a gay and bi-oriented porn lounge. The venue hosted themed event nights including Seductive Saturdays and fantasy-themed Fridays, and operated on a continuous schedule from Wednesday at 9 AM through Monday at 3 AM, closing only on Tuesdays. Entry was structured as a room or locker rental rather than a traditional door charge, and no alcohol was ever sold on the premises.

Stopgap

San Francisco, CA

Event Organizer

Opened in April 2024 inside the SoMa building that once housed the SF Citadel, Stopgap is a turnkey kink venue that bridges San Francisco's leather history with its present-day scene. The fully accessible ground floor holds social areas, lockers, two bathrooms, and open play spaces fitted with hardpoints, while a staircase descends to a 3,100-square-foot basement dungeon stocked with equipment recovered from the Citadel's collection alongside newer pieces -- crosses, benches, tables, bondage chairs, cages, and at least 20 suspension hardpoints with floor mats for rope work. The venue is run by the AfterDark Events team, a POC, femme, queer, neurodivergent, and disabled-led organisation, and doubles as a rental space for third-party producers. Stopgap's own flagship is House Party, an inclusive open-play night held on the first Friday of every month, alongside weekly open-dungeon sessions, the Wrapt rope jam on fourth Mondays, Society of Janus play parties on second Saturdays, and rotating themed events such as Board Games & Bondage.

On-premise lifestyle club

Kat's Fantasies is a long-running adult lifestyle club operating out of an upscale venue in South Surrey, British Columbia, self-described as Vancouver's hardcore swingclub. The club has been active since approximately 2007 and operates by screened membership only — no walk-ins — with free membership granted after a short application process including a photo submission. The guest mix trends toward couples and single women in the 35–50 age range and screened single men aged 19–55, with attendance ranging from roughly 20 to 75 per event depending on the night. The venue features a dance floor, DJ booth, pool table, two private rooms, and a large open orgy room equipped with a sex swing and a signature wall of porn. Two no-play socializing lounges allow guests to meet and mix without pressure. Massage tables and oils are available, and overnight accommodation is offered on-site: private queen rooms at CAD $60 per couple and open beds at CAD $40 per couple. The club operates on a BYOB basis; complimentary coffee, tea, filtered water, and light snacks are provided along with condoms and lube. The events calendar runs across several formats: Greedy Girl (one to two Saturdays monthly, 8PM–1AM); Fuck Me Friday (one to two Fridays monthly, 8PM–midnight); Bi Night (monthly Friday or Saturday, 8PM–midnight or 1AM); Cougars & Cubs (monthly Friday, 8PM–midnight); Hump Day Happy Hour (Wednesday, 7–11PM, October–May); and Sunday Afternoon Delight (Sunday, 2–6PM, October–May). Donation pricing varies by event — for flagship nights, couples pay CAD $50 advance or $70 at door; single men pay $60 advance or $80 at door; single ladies pay $20. Midweek and Sunday events are lower. Guests must arrive within a set check-in window and may not re-enter after leaving.

Night Spa Halifax

Halifax, Nova Scotia

Bath House / Sex Club

Night Spa is Halifax's only mixed-gender, private-members, clothing-optional venue at 2199 Gottingen Street in the city's north end. Queer owned and operated, it grew out of a gay bathhouse that occupied the same space from 2003, relaunching under its current identity in August 2022 with over 5,000 active members. The venue bills itself as Atlantic Canada's Adult Playground and is aimed at people already experienced in alternative or kink lifestyles — newcomers are explicitly advised to attend other community events before applying. The space includes a hot tub (four-person limit, no-play zone), a dry sauna, showers, social areas, 15 private rooms, and a darkroom with a sling, spanking bench, open play area, and glory holes including a gender-neutral Portal floor-level anonymous-encounter space with a whiteboard for communicating limits. Disinfectant stations and community barrier-protection supplies are available throughout. Regular members-only programming runs Tuesday nights (Naked Rockband Game Night, 8 pm-midnight), Fridays (mixed-gender themed party, 10 pm-3 am), Saturdays (meet-and-greet 8-10 pm, open play to 3 am), and Sundays (Masc-i-nee, a masculine-focused bathhouse-style night, 4-8 pm). Special events include a monthly TNG night (ages 19-35), quarterly Femmes and Themmes nights, a Couple's Only Swingers Night on long weekends, and a monthly Night's Paw event for pups, furs, and handlers. Membership application is free and takes 5-7 days; no walk-in or same-day entry.

Cedar Creek Resort

Leesville, SC

Lifestyle Resort

Cedar Creek Resort has been South Carolina's go-to clothing-optional getaway since 1989 — 43 wooded acres along Black Creek, about ten minutes south of I-20 between Columbia and Augusta. The property packs in an indoor pool (heated for major event weekends), an outdoor pool, indoor and outdoor hot tubs, nearly half a mile of natural lazy-river creek for tubing, a sand volleyball court, corn hole, petanque, horseshoes, hiking trails through the woods, and a creek-side dock for sunbathing. The clubhouse has a full bar, a pool table, dart board, and hosts DJ dances every Saturday night and karaoke most Fridays year-round. Overnight options run from a cabin with queen bed and full bath to five huts with AC, primitive tent sites near the clubhouse, powered tent sites, and full-hookup RV lots that handle rigs up to 85 feet on 20/30/50 amp service — Passport America and Escapees members get 50% off RV sites outside festival weeks. Day visitors pay $35 off-season or $67 in prime season (April–September plus holiday weekends), and a $25 provisional annual membership is required for all non-members. Single women receive 50% off across the board; student and military couples under 26 get 20% off. Anyone staying past 1 am pays a $21 night fee. The vibe is relaxed and clothing-optional — nudity is welcome but never mandatory, and house rules keep it community-pool appropriate in public areas. Themed parties rotate weekly (Naughty Nautical, Bunny Party, Body Jewelry & Boots, Shakespeare Night) with Nudestock as the big annual summer festival and prime holiday weekends for New Year's, Halloween, Valentine's, and St. Patrick's. The crowd is genuinely diverse in age, shape, and background, and repeat visitors consistently praise the welcoming atmosphere even if the rustic setting won't be mistaken for a luxury resort. Dogs are allowed, the grounds have free WiFi and laundry, and the front office closes at 6 pm (8 pm on event nights).

Vault 139

London, London

Bath House

London's busiest gay cruise bar, located in a buzzing basement near Warren Street in W1. Open 7 days a week with themed nights including nude, underwear and clothed events in a clean, safe and welcoming setting that draws a diverse crowd.

TJ's Lasting Impressions

Newport, PA

on-premise lifestyle club

Billed as the largest and most luxurious lifestyle club in Central Pennsylvania, TJ's Lasting Impressions sits on 2620 Susquehanna Trail in Newport, about 25 miles northwest of Harrisburg. The 16,000-square-foot venue reads more upscale supper club than dungeon: a soaring dance floor anchored by a mirrored stage and 10-foot brass pole, a full BYOB bar where bartenders pour from your labeled bottle with free mixers, and a proper sit-down restaurant serving Angus steak, grilled chicken, Chicken Parmesan, and Shrimp & Chips — all included in the door price. Late-night desserts and finger food run until 3 am. Pennsylvania's largest Roman-style hot tub, seating 80, is the social centrepiece. The playspace runs to 12 themed party rooms and a large open group room, plus an observation room. For those who want to extend the stay, nine hotel-standard VIP rooms check in at 3 pm ($110/night) and check out at 11 am; party rooms can also be held for overnight use from $70 after the club closes at 3 am. Events are Saturday-only, 8 pm–3 am, and advance reservation through the club's website is required. Membership is mandatory but easy: a one-time trial runs $15, and the annual rate is $50 for couples, $25 for single ladies, and $50 for single men. Event fees mirror that structure. A cash discount is available. First-timers can download the membership form online to speed up check-in; valid photo ID is required at the door for all guests 21 and up.

Cats 2.0 Swingerclub

München, Bavaria

On-Premise Club

Cats 2.0 is Munich's oldest swinger club — a legacy that stretches back through its earlier incarnations as Karibik and the original Cats before relaunching at Paul-Gerhardt-Allee 44 in March 2022 under owner Sven Drummer. The 500 m² space holds up to 150 guests across six separate rooms including lockable couples' suites, a fully equipped BDSM area, a whirlpool, massage room, dance floor with top DJs on weekends, and a bar serving branded drinks and cocktails. Admission is all-inclusive: cold and warm buffet, every drink on the menu, towels, condoms, shower products, and locker access are all covered in the door price. Cash only. The club runs six nights a week with a different flavour each evening — Monday's "Schnupper Montag" is designed for first-timers at the lowest price point (couples €50, ladies €15), Tuesday is "Hot & Active," Wednesday welcomes a higher single-male ratio with "Herrenüberschuss," Thursday adds massage sessions with Kim, Friday brings "Sway and Play" and college-themed nights, and Saturday peaks with "Dark Experience" parties and headline DJs. Standard weekend pricing sits at €75–80 for couples, €120 for single men, and €25 for ladies, with JOYclub members saving €10 across the board. The club closes Sundays. With 3,080 JOYclub fans, nearly a million recorded visitor check-ins, and a 4.5/5 rating across 905+ reviews, Cats 2.0 has the numbers to back up its self-proclaimed "Big City Club" status. House rules are firm but sensible: towels between bodies and mattresses, no food or drinks in play areas, no street shoes, and no towel-only dress — this isn't an FKK club. Security is on-site nightly, and the motto "Everything is possible, nothing is mandatory" sets a clear consent-first tone.

Tabu Social Club

Catonsville, MD

on-premise lifestyle club

Tucked into a commercial strip in Catonsville just west of Baltimore, Tabu Social Club has operated since 2004 as the region's flagship on-premise lifestyle venue — Black-owned and women-owned, drawing couples and single ladies from across the Baltimore-DC corridor. The space splits cleanly into two distinct zones: upstairs, a nightclub-style lounge with a raised dance floor, plush sunken seating, two dance poles, an elevated dance cage, and a dedicated ladies-only dance stage, all driven by resident DJ Kutt on Saturdays and rotating DJs on Fridays. The tone reads more upscale martini bar than basement party — well-lit, clean, and deliberately social before it's anything else. Descend to the lower level and the energy shifts: Vicki's VIP Lounge houses 11 sexually themed private suites — a doctor room, a love-voodoo room with a waterfall, a floating-bed mirrored room, a BDSM room, an oriental room, a gang-bang room, and two glass-window voyeur rooms — plus one open group area. Suite assignments are managed by a lounge attendant, and time limits apply when demand is high. Showers, towels, lockers, and five refrigerated coolers for BYOB beverages round out the amenities. The weekly rhythm is Fridays 9 pm–2 am and Saturdays 9 pm–3 am, with themed nights cycling through the calendar — newbie nights, pride parties, blackout events, and passport parties. Membership is open to couples and single females only; single males require a six-month-active-member sponsor. The crowd skews mature and dressed-up, with regular and new faces finding the no-pressure ethos — staff walk first-timers through the layout and etiquette on arrival — the club's most consistently praised quality.

On-Premise Club

Chameleons in Darlaston is one of the UK's most established swingers clubs — over 25 years in the business, open 363 days a year (every day except Tuesday), across a three-floor sauna-based venue just off Junction 9 of the M6. The ground floor holds reception, a bar and lounge, a dance floor, two large jacuzzis, singles changing, and showers. Upstairs you'll find a TV lounge, couples changing, a steam room, main shower area, ladies' powder room, and a mix of private and communal play rooms including a couples-only section. The top floor adds a sauna box, more showers, extra play rooms, and lockable rooms for privacy. Ten on-site hotel rooms are available for overnight stays — five en-suites including one superior room with its own entrance. Each night has its own character: Monday is Bi-Night (strictly bisexual and bi-friendly, TVs welcome, 2 pm–midnight), Wednesday through Friday runs from 11 am, Thursday adds Nude Night from 6 pm (strictly no clothing or towels), Friday and Saturday stay open until 3 am, and Saturday switches to couples and single ladies only after 7:30 pm. The club is BYOB — bring your bottles and the bar will refrigerate and serve them back to you. Food is served during sessions and gets genuine praise (the lamb shank in particular). Lifetime membership is a one-off fee: £25 for couples, £10 for single ladies, £80 for single men, with entrance on top ranging from £12 to £40 depending on the night and gender. Single men can enquire Tuesday through Friday and Sunday, but membership isn't guaranteed and depends on the ratio of couples to single ladies. ID is mandatory — one form for couples and single ladies, two forms for single men. The club has an 8,900-strong Facebook following, 1,400+ Instagram followers, 200+ FabSwingers reviews rated "Fabulous," and runs a second venue in Newport (24 Church Street). Free on-site parking, a dedicated taxi service through Link Up Cabs (0121 568 8989), and bus links from Walsall, Wolverhampton, and Birmingham make getting there straightforward.

On-Premise Club

atlantisEVOLUTION is a nightclub-themed swingers and lifestyle club in Burslem, Stoke-on-Trent, voted the No. 1 nightclub-themed swingers club in the UK. Run by beloved hosts Cat and Tag for over 15 years, it spans two floors with dance areas, multiple play rooms, kasbahs, a cosy lounge, and an outside courtyard. The club operates as BYOB with a customer cooler fridge and sells soft drinks and mixers. Fridays are open to all including single males, while Saturdays are couples and single females only. Special events include PlaY Xtra (free 1st Wednesday), EVOLUTIONfetish (4th Sunday, non-swinging), Greedy Girls, Hot Wives, and newbie-friendly PoP My Cherry nights. Rated 4.7/5 across 40+ reviews, consistently praised for its welcoming, no-pressure atmosphere and attentive staff.

On-Premise Club

Club Alchemy is one of the UK's most ambitious lifestyle venues — a purpose-built adult club in Northwich, Cheshire, that hosts immersive themed events roughly two to three Saturdays a month. The venue features over 30 playrooms across multiple levels, including an Amsterdam Street section, a Live Porn Room, and a 1,500 square foot steam complex. Regular event nights span everything from Temptation and Fuckalicious to the upscale Dark Velvet and the exclusive Club Flesh, hosted in partnership with Torture Garden. The facilities are comprehensive: a full bar, dance floor, sauna, hot tub, dungeon, dark room, private rooms, and over 200 individual lockers. Entry is per-event with tickets purchased online — couples from £35, single ladies from £15. Single males are accepted in very limited numbers at £45, typically by prior email arrangement, and a VIP room is available for groups at an additional £30. Club Alchemy has earned a loyal following across the northwest England lifestyle scene for its production values and the breadth of its themed programming. The venue is 18+ and non-membership — each event is open to newcomers and regulars alike, with a strong emphasis on consent, inclusivity, and a welcoming atmosphere for couples and LGBTQ+ guests.

The Vanilla Alternative

Tempsford, Bedfordshire

On-Premise Club

The Vanilla Alternative is a private members lifestyle venue based at The Anchor Lodge Hotel in Tempsford, Bedfordshire. Featuring a classy nightclub feel with bar and dance floor areas, the venue hosts themed nights, festival weekends, and offers on-site hotel accommodation in a welcoming, non-judgmental environment.

Prestige Club Escapes

Franklin Park, IL

On-Premise Club

Prestige Club Escapes is a private, members-only lifestyle hotel brand for adult couples, operating three distinct Chicago-area suite destinations: AMBIANCE in Franklin Park, AURA in Midlothian, and AXIS in Chicago. AMBIANCE, the original property, sits three miles south of O'Hare on Mannheim Road and is styled as a polished, long-running classic with rooms tailored to returning members. AURA, the newest and most upscale of the three, is located on Cicero Avenue near Midway Airport and leans into an ultra-modern aesthetic with penthouse suites and premium finishes. AXIS, closest to downtown Chicago on Pulaski Road, rounds out the trio with bold, high-design rooms and suites. Across all three locations, every room and suite includes a king-size bed, flat-panel TV with adult video channels, tilt-position cushions, a Tantra chair, mood/vibe lighting, and a rainfall showerhead; select rooms and suites add hot tubs, spa tubs, and steam showers. Stays are booked in flexible blocks, from a 4-hour visit up to a full overnight, rather than fixed nightly rates. Access to all three properties requires active Prestige Club membership; there is no walk-in or public-facing option. Reservations are not mandatory but are strongly recommended, and rooms are held for one hour past the stated arrival time.

On-Premise Club

Manchester's swingers playground, located on Sutherland Street. A full-service venue offering themed nights and events throughout the week for couples and singles, with a welcoming and safe environment open from afternoons through to the early hours.

Nightshade Halifax

Halifax, Nova Scotia

Event Organizer

Nightshade is a series of kinky themed costume parties held periodically in Halifax, Nova Scotia, drawing on more than a decade of history since its launch in February 2013. Run by organiser Chris Awesome, the events sit deliberately at the threshold between mainstream nightlife and the alternative lifestyle scene — approachable enough for curious first-timers, while incorporating genuine BDSM and fetish elements. Thousands of attendees spanning newcomers, lifestyle veterans, and the simply curious have passed through its doors, and the series has become a fixture of Halifax's alternative community calendar. Nightshade is not a fixed-venue club but a roving event series that takes over the 3rd-floor ballroom of the Best Western Plus Chocolate Lake Hotel (250 St Margarets Bay Rd, Halifax NS) for the night. Each party carries a distinct theme — past and upcoming events include Wasteland, Kinky Colours, Dark Masquerade, and Kinky Halloween — with resident DJs Gyrrrl on Decks and DJ Mike G spinning pop, rock, and top-40 sets across the dance floor. A dungeon corner is a consistent feature: heavy-duty bondage furniture staffed by Dungeon Masters and Monitors who can instruct guests and maintain safety. Body painting stations appear at select events. The hotel bar is cash-only and hotel-operated, with domestic beer and well shots at $7 CAD, premium spirits and imported beers at $8, and soft drinks at $4. Events run roughly 9pm-1am on Saturday nights (approximately four to six times a year), and advance tickets are $25 plus tax — many events sell out weeks ahead. At-the-door tickets, when available, are $32 plus tax. Valid government-issued photo ID confirming age 19+ is required at the door. Personal cameras and recording devices are prohibited; credentialed event photographers may attend by prior arrangement. Coat check is $3. The Kinky Colours event is part of the Halifax Pride Festival calendar, and hotel room blocks at negotiated group rates are offered for each event. A volunteer program is available for those who want to attend but need help covering the cost.

The Naughty Pineapple

Leicester, Leicestershire

On-Premise Club

One of the smaller clubs in Leicester that's friendly, modern, classy, and above all very clean. Features a hot tub, regular themed events, and dedicated Newbie Day Thursdays for those new to the scene, with a welcoming LGBTQ-friendly community.

The Sublime Society

London, London

On-Premise Club

The Sublime Society is an exclusive hedonistic soiree and sensual salon based in London's West End, where fantasy and desire merge in an intimate, romantic setting draped in silk and secrecy. Founded by international burlesque artists, it celebrates sensuality as an art form through live performances, interactive installations, and curated cocktails in upscale Mayfair venues.

Afterdark Edinburgh

Edinburgh, Scotland

On-Premise Lifestyle Club

AfterDark is Edinburgh's premier private members swinging and kink club, originally known as "After Eight" before rebranding and moving to its current larger premises in October 2022. Located in a converted warehouse unit at Bankhead Workspace in Edinburgh's Sighthill area, the venue delivers an unexpectedly polished experience behind its industrial exterior. The spacious social lounge serves as the central hub, with atmospheric lighting setting the tone for the evening. Surrounding it are 9 dedicated play spaces of varying sizes — from intimate private rooms with doors to open play areas — plus a cinema room, dungeon/BDSM area, and a glory hole. Lockers are provided at the entrance (phones must be stored here), and changing rooms with showers and mirrors are available. Towels, condoms, and lubricant are provided throughout. AfterDark operates BYOB — bring your own alcohol and enjoy it in the lounge. Soft drinks are available for purchase via tokens bought at reception. The club runs a varied weekly schedule: Wednesday midweek sessions (8 PM–1 AM), Friday and Saturday main nights (9 PM–3 AM), and rotating Thursday events including TV/CD/Bi & Admirers nights, quiz nights, and rope classes. Themed events rotate regularly — lingerie nights, UV parties, wrestling themes, couples-only evenings, and seasonal celebrations. First-timers are welcomed with a guided tour from staff covering the layout, rules, and etiquette. Many guests attend simply to socialise without participating in play, and the club's 4.6-star Google rating (33 reviews) reflects the consistently welcoming atmosphere. Membership is £20/year (arranged on first visit), with entry fees of £35 for couples and £40 for single males on weekends. Dress code is smart casual — no sportswear, team clothing, joggers, or hats permitted.

DJ's Island

Beaver Falls, PA

DJ's Island has anchored the Pittsburgh-area lifestyle scene since 2002, drawing couples from across the tri-state region to its 8,500-square-foot venue on Big Beaver Boulevard in Beaver Falls, PA. Owned and operated by Jim and Debbie, who scoured the region's best clubs before building their own, the venue greets members at a reservation desk before a host couple walks first-timers through the space — a pattern that sets a no-pressure, consent-forward tone from the moment you arrive. The main room pairs a five-sided open bar with a full-size dance floor fitted with two poles and a dance cage, surrounded by posh leather seating and backlit walls that keep the atmosphere somewhere between upscale nightclub and comfortable living room. The play facilities span an open room with two king-size beds, ten private rooms each with a complete private bath, and a 20-person hot tub with an open shower area. Every Friday and Saturday night entry covers a full dinner buffet: hors d'oeuvres and the salad bar appear at 7:30 pm, a sit-down dinner runs from 8 pm to 11:30 pm, and late-night finger sandwiches carry the crowd through to close at 2 am. The club seats 200-plus in the dining area, and the kitchen turns out a rotating menu of appetizers, grilled entrees, and nightly specials. DJ's Island runs as a private membership association — annual membership is $50, and no one enters without a reservation and a valid membership card. Doors open at 7 pm and lock at 11 pm; new members are encouraged to arrive between 7 and 8 pm for their exclusive tour. The BYOB bar is fully staffed with a professional bartender and a complete mixer selection, and a full crew — doorman, waitresses, cleaning staff, and DJ — keeps the evening running smoothly.

Illuminaughty LA

Los Angeles, CA

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty LA is the Los Angeles chapter of a national members-only lifestyle events brand rather than a single fixed clubhouse — it organizes private, invitation-only parties and cocktail mixers for non-monogamous couples and singles at rotating venues around the city. The Los Angeles chapter has been running since 2022, drawing couples and singles roughly 21 to 49 to private homes and rented estates in neighborhoods including Hollywood, Beverly Hills, and Bel Air. Membership is free but application-based: prospective members submit photos and a bio and are individually vetted before being approved to buy event tickets. Parties take place in privately owned or rented residences — anything from a cozy single-family house to a high-rise apartment or a sprawling estate — dressed with curated music, lighting, and decor, and staffed by private security who check IDs and tickets at the door. Multiple rooms are set up for different kinds of play, including massage tables and group-play spaces, and some venues include light bondage equipment, though kink is not the focus and advanced practices such as heavy impact, breath, fire, or blood play are not allowed. Most Los Angeles private parties host 40 to 80 members, with occasional larger mansion parties or destination retreats drawing 150 or more. Events split into Tease Cocktail Mixers, held in a reserved area of a bar or restaurant, and private play parties, which typically run 8pm to 2am (or 2pm to midnight for all-day soirees) behind a strict arrival window; doors close once it ends and late arrivals aren't admitted without prior arrangement. Parties are BYOB, with mixers, snacks, towels, condoms, and lube provided; dress code follows each event's theme, usually cocktail attire or suits, and repeated non-compliance can lead to membership cancellation. Photos and video are banned once the pre-party consent talk begins, the exact venue address is released only to ticket holders on the day of the event, and single men are capped and gender-balanced against single-women ticket sales.

Body Shop Pittsburgh

McKees Rocks, PA

Club

Tucked into an industrial pocket of McKees Rocks just minutes from downtown Pittsburgh, The Shop Social Lounge — better known in the lifestyle community as Body Shop Pittsburgh — occupies more than 15,000 square feet of reimagined space on McKee Street. The venue layers nightclub energy with a deliberate sense of community: a dance floor anchored by a vintage-car DJ booth and stripper pole, a heated outdoor patio, and a string of themed play rooms and dungeon spaces designed for guests at every comfort level. Friday and Saturday nights rotate through a calendar of themed events — Latin Heat, Lingerie Night, kink-focused Freaky Fridays with on-site STI testing, and BDSM education workshops. The club draws a notably younger and more LGBTQ+-forward crowd than most Pennsylvania lifestyle venues, and the inclusive ethos is structural: gender-neutral pricing, a vetted online membership process, and Safer Space Monitors present at every event keep the culture of enthusiastic consent woven into the room rather than posted on a wall. Membership begins with a free online application and photo verification; event tickets are purchased separately. The BYOB format — no liquor license, guests bring their own — keeps the atmosphere relaxed and the pricing accessible, with individual memberships starting at $29/month and couple tickets typically around $96 per event. Co-founded by Gelsomino Esplandiu and John Ross, the club holds a 4.8-star Google rating and a reputation for hands-on ownership and consistent cleanliness.

MW Euphoria (Midwest Euphoria)

Shakopee, MN

Event Organizer / Rotating Hotel & Venue Takeovers

MW Euphoria, also known as Midwest Euphoria, is a Shakopee, Minnesota–based lifestyle event organizer and membership community that bills itself on its own site as "The Midwest's Leading Lifestyle Party." Rather than operating a single fixed clubhouse, it runs as an adult social-networking and ticketing platform on the Modern Lifestyle network, organizing recurring hotel-takeover parties for its membership alongside affiliated cruises and resort getaways for couples and singles in the swinging/lifestyle community. Because the model is built around renting entire hotel properties rather than keeping one venue, the specific hotel changes from event to event; past parties have taken over properties such as the Baymont by Wyndham in Shakopee. Street addresses for individual events are withheld from the public and shown only to logged-in, vetted members. On-premise play is permitted, and the structure functions more like a private membership network than a walk-in nightclub. Joining requires a free profile with photos and a short write-up; membership categories include Couple, Female, FF Couple, Male, MM Couple, and Other/GNC. House rules call for enthusiastic consent before touching, require couples to arrive and depart together, ban cameras and recording devices outright, and enforce a zero-tolerance policy on drugs and prostitution. Single ladies are described as highly respected, with harassment or stalking grounds for suspension. Pricing and schedule are event-specific rather than fixed weekly hours.

FuseX Social Club - North Dakota Chapter

Fargo, ND

Social Club

FuseX Social Club's North Dakota Chapter serves the Fargo and Bismarck markets as part of a national private members' organization founded in Beverly Hills in 2016 and now operating across 23 states. The chapter has no permanent brick-and-mortar venue — consistent with FuseX's model nationwide — instead hosting events at rotating private locations including hotel takeovers, luxury house parties, and Level 1 and Level 2 mansion parties in the Fargo area and, for larger gatherings, in nearby Minneapolis. Larger signature events lean toward themed masquerade parties and curated cocktail dinners with choreographed erotic theatre performed by professional hosts who mingle with members during the evening. The club positions itself as an upscale, approval-only alternative to public lifestyle apps and open swingers venues. Membership is selective — only 1 in 4 applications is accepted — and every prospective member passes a criminal background check, a personal interview, and signs a lifetime confidentiality agreement. Events are BYOB, and event locations are disclosed to confirmed members roughly 30 days in advance via private inbox and phone. Fargo is explicitly listed as a host city on the application event-locations roster alongside Minneapolis. The lifestyle interests catered to span swinging, BDSM and kink, cuckolding, hotwifing, voyeurism and exhibitionism, polyamory, and interracial play. Membership tiers range from a Platinum tier ($3,500/year, couples and single men) through a Circle tier ($18,000/year) and an All Access Elite tier ($25,000/year); single women receive complimentary Platinum membership. Per-event costs are separately priced. Consent is strictly enforced: no means no, always ask before touching, only yes means yes.

Black Diamonds Swinger Club

Unverified

Alexandria, VA

Event Organizer

Black Diamonds Swinger Club is a sex-positive lifestyle community rooted in Alexandria, Virginia, and operating across the broader DMV region — Washington DC, Maryland, and Northern Virginia. Founded as a space primarily targeted towards those of African American descent and other people of color, it occupies a rare and intentional niche in the DMV lifestyle scene, centering Black and POC attendees within a safe, consensual, and sane environment. The club's promotional partner is DNAKinks LLC, and its events are coordinated via a centralized Linktree that links out to ticketing, social media, and booking channels. Unlike a fixed brick-and-mortar venue, Black Diamonds operates as an event-based club, hosting parties at rotating or private locations across the DMV rather than from a single permanent address. This pop-up model keeps the community tight-knit and screened. The Instagram account (@blackdiamonds6219) maintains over 24,000 followers, while the Facebook page has accumulated more than 4,100 likes from the Alexandria and wider DC metro community. All booking and event discovery is handled through the Linktree hub (linktr.ee/BlackDiamondsSwingerClub) and associated social channels, with no walk-in or permanent physical storefront publicly listed.

on-site club, private venue

Incognito sits in Catoosa, Oklahoma — just east of Tulsa along the I-44 corridor — operating as a fully on-site lifestyle club in a privately owned venue. The club is the Oklahoma arm of LS-Adventures, the operator behind Arkansas River Valley Couples (ARVC) in Fort Smith, Arkansas, giving it roots in an established multi-venue lifestyle network that spans the state line. Access is by prior arrangement only — no walk-ins. Prospective attendees connect via lifestyle platforms like SwingTowns before arriving. The private-venue format and lack of a public website underscore a deliberate emphasis on discretion that is characteristic of the LS-Adventures brand. The club welcomes swingers, fetish enthusiasts, and LGBTQ guests alike, positioning itself as inclusive across the full spectrum of the lifestyle community. Its on-site status means play happens within the venue itself, distinguishing it from ARVC's off-premise model across the border in Arkansas.

PolyUrban Studios

Carmichael, CA

PolyUrban Studios is a home-based adult lifestyle space on North Avenue in Carmichael, California, run by owner Rey Bonilla and open to singles, couples, and polycules of all orientations. The venue operates as a donation-funded club with lockers, showers, a hot tub, beds, a sling, play benches, a massage table, a rimming chair, gloryholes, and an outdoor play area with a separate shower. Towels, condoms, and lube are provided, and fetish wear is welcomed. The weekly calendar runs seven days: Sunday through Thursday the doors open at 11:30 a.m. and close at 10 p.m., while Friday and Saturday sessions run from 2 p.m. to 2 a.m. Themed parties rotate through the week — Sunday gloryhole and gangbang sessions, Monday-through-Thursday afternoon playdates, a Wednesday evening afterparty, a Thursday couples night, Freaky Friday parties, and Saturday dance nights with a DJ and a full bar on select evenings. Membership contributions start at $25 per person, $40 for couples, and $60 for triads, with a $10 happy-hour rate between noon and 1 p.m. The atmosphere is explicitly pressure-free: no participation is required, and the posted house rules lead with No means no — ask for consent. Cameras and recording devices are banned, smoking is permitted outside only, and the doorman reserves the right to refuse entry. Guests must be 18 or older, and drugs and prostitution are strictly prohibited. Contact is by text or voicemail at (916) 410-6550.

Alaska Club Kink (ACK)

Anchorage, AK

BDSM/Kink Community Club

Alaska Club Kink (ACK) is Anchorage's one-of-a-kind kink and comedy community club — the rare venue that pairs BDSM education with open-mic nights, karaoke, and stand-up comedy under one roof. Founded by Surge Kulikov after the closure of ACAL in 2019, ACK operates out of subSpace, a 2,000+ sq ft LGBTQIA2S+-friendly, veteran-owned event space at 2217 E. Tudor Road, Suite 3. The club is built around an education-first philosophy. Monthly Kink 101 classes welcome complete beginners, a companion educational website (alaskakinkeducation.com) provides a public library of kink resources, and Dungeon Monitors are present at all events to ensure safe, consensual play. The weekly schedule is packed: Mystery Munches every Thursday (7:30–9:30 PM at The Raven Bar, open to the public), Tuesday Rope Jams and board game nights at subSpace, Friday Open Dungeon (7–10 PM, $20 drop-in), and monthly themed play parties on Saturdays (7 PM–1 AM, $40 general / free for All Access members). Play parties are potluck-style — the club provides finger foods, desserts, and non-alcoholic drinks, and attendees can bring dishes to share. The venue is fully dry: no alcohol is served or permitted, which removes consent complications and makes the space accessible to those in recovery. The 1,000 sq ft open dungeon floor is equipped with a large suspension frame, St. Andrew's crosses, bondage horse, massage tables, and more — all available for member use. Membership is free to join online (processed within a few days), with a paid "All Access Pass" tier that waives event fees, eliminates equipment rental deposits, and grants 50% off play parties. Comedy, theater, and public events are also hosted at subSpace separately from the kink programming, normalizing the space within the broader Anchorage community. In a state where alternative lifestyle spaces are rare, ACK is the community hub.

Mile High Club Chalet (MHCC)

Denver, CO

Social Club

Mile High Club Chalet is not a swingers club in the traditional sense — it is a network of private, kink-friendly rental suites scattered across Denver, Glendale and Centennial, available by the time slot for couples or small groups who bring their own company. Founded in 2019 by Denver-area realtor Teresa Grasmick, MHCC grew out of a single Airbnb repurposed for daytime trysts and now spans four properties in quiet residential neighbourhoods, each tastefully furnished and stocked with condoms, towels, mouthwash and a riding crop, with a sex sling and dishwasher-safe toys available on request. Booking runs through the website or by phone (720-799-6654), with three daytime slots available Sunday through Saturday from 9 am to 10 pm, plus overnight "moonlight" sessions. Same-day reservations are accepted by phone. Access is keyless: guests text on the day of their appointment for a one-time door code, and a cleaning crew turns each unit over in roughly fifteen minutes between visits. Packages range from a single visit at $120 to a five-visit bundle at $400. The model is strictly BYOP — bring your own partner. MHCC does not facilitate introductions, provide companionship or operate communal play areas; it simply offers a discreet, well-equipped space and gets out of the way.

PLUR Productions / Studio PLUR

Vancouver, British Columbia

Event Organizer

PLUR Productions is Vancouver's longest-running sex-positive and alternative-fetish event production company, operating under the guiding philosophy of Peace, Love, Unity, and Respect. Founded by ScottyHotty (Scott BreitKreuz) and tracing its roots to Club8X6 — formerly Vancouver's only privately licensed members-only sex venue — PLUR has grown into an independent producer serving the city's fetish, kink, BDSM, swinger, burner, rave, and LGBTQ+ communities. The company celebrated its 12th annual Mad Hatter's Player Ball in May 2026 and operates as a private membership club in which the door fee for any event constitutes a day membership, consistent with the Supreme Court of Canada's recognition of consensual adult activity in private clubs. Events take place across rotating venues: large-format ticketed parties at licensed nightclubs including The Penthouse, warehouse-style PLURHAUS nights at private locations, the VANTANIOR techno series at a Railtown venue equipped with a Funktion-One sound system, and seasonal PLUR Mansion house parties. All events feature clearly marked sex-on-premise (SOP) play areas alongside social lounge zones, DJ music, stage performances, and a licensed full bar at ticketed venues. Complimentary towels, condoms, lubricants, and lockers are provided with entry. Running parallel to these events is Studio PLUR, a privately bookable dungeon and social space with a 40-guest maximum — outfitted with a St. Andrew's cross, three styled benches, a rope-suspension rig, a floor cage, a corner bar with fridge, pro-audio sound, and a walk-in rainfall shower. Tickets for public events are sold in advance via Eventbrite; per-person pricing ranges from $35 to $40 CAD with no differential between genders or attendance types. Site memberships are available at $30 CAD for six months or $40 CAD for one year, though the door fee alone grants day membership. All guests must be 19 or older. Before entry, PLUR's Cupid consent hosts walk each guest through the club's Top Ten Rules of Consent and issue a consent stamp. Open photography and video recording — including mobile phone use — are prohibited throughout all venues. The recurring iCandy Meet and Mingle, held every second Friday, provides first-timers with a venue tour, a lifestyle presentation, and conversation with experienced PLUR attendees.

Entre Nous 2

Closed

Montreal-Nord, Quebec

Entre Nous 2 — later rebranded as Le Complexe Libertin Obsession — was a lifestyle and libertine complex that operated at 6500 Boulevard Henri-Bourassa Est in Montreal-Nord, Quebec, from February 2017 until it permanently closed in June 2020 after the COVID-19 lockdown forced the business into bankruptcy. The club opened as the successor to Entre 2 Plaisirs, which had operated for 14 years at 3333 rue Belanger in Villeray-Saint-Michel-Parc-Extension, and relocated to a new building near the Autoroute 25 interchange whose frosted-glass exterior and minimal signage gave no indication of the 24,600-square-foot venue within. Its promoters billed it at opening as the largest swinger club in the world. The venue was organized around a wet social circuit — indoor heated pool, spa, dry sauna, and communal showers — designed to ease introductions before members moved into the main complex. A billiard room, dining room, and discotheque sat alongside a dark room, glory holes, a fantasy room, a dedicated couples room, and 26 private rooms rentable in three-hour or twelve-hour blocks; massage suites came in standard, mirrored, and suite configurations. In 2019 the owners annexed an adjacent commercial unit as a full nightclub, pushing the total footprint past 40,000 square feet; monthly themed events sometimes drew between 500 and 1,000 attendees. Annual membership was required of all guests. Per-visit admission was free for women; men paid $40 on weekdays and $60 on weekends; couples paid $20 on weekdays and $50 on weekends (all CAD, as of 2017-2020 operation). The club ran around the clock, seven days a week, with a Tuesday bi night and a Wednesday couples night open to unaccompanied men and women. Public areas were dry; BYOB was restricted to private rooms under the original 2017 operating rules. The venue declared bankruptcy within three weeks of the March 2020 lockdown and vacated the premises in early June 2020. Visitors should not attempt to visit this address.

The Ecclesia

Glasgow, Scotland

On-Premise Club

Based in the heart of Merchant City in Glasgow, The Ecclesia strives to build a safe kink environment which overlaps with swinging. Born from the closure of Glasgow's historic dungeon, they exist to fill the void left by clubs shutting down across Scotland, providing a fantastic space that offers something for everyone.

Event Organizer

A multi-genre, queer, sex-positive rave with activism at its core. POC and sex worker-led, centring historically marginalised communities with play spaces, workshops and performances across genres including Dancehall, Afrobeats, House and UKG.

colette Dallas

Dallas, TX

On-Premise Club

colette Dallas is the chain's high-energy Texas flagship — a private, members-only on-premise lifestyle club spanning 8,000+ square feet across two floors in northwest Dallas, near Love Field. The aesthetic is modern warehouse meets nightclub: a dance floor anchored by stripper poles and a stage, high-tech lighting and sound, and a curated upscale crowd that takes the dress code seriously. The Dallas Observer ranked colette first in its "Best Swingers Clubs Dallas" feature, and SwingerLifestyle.com puts it at #2 across all of Texas — the most prominent on-premise lifestyle venue in Dallas–Fort Worth. Play spaces are tiered three ways: semi-private rooms with sheer curtains, fully private rooms with blackout curtains, and a centerpiece group play room with a round bed and spectator seating. There's also an in-club movie theater showing adult films, a quieter second-floor lounge, and a VIP room rentable for private parties of up to 30 ($500–$1,000) — a perk Texas reviewers consistently call best in the state. The bar is BYOB — no liquor license, but free mixers, ice, and setups are provided, plus a beverage cooler for member use. Newbie Night runs every Wednesday with the membership fee waived for first-timers; staff give every newcomer a guided tour on arrival. colette is a national chain founded by John and Jackie Melfi (who also run the OpenLove101 lifestyle blog and podcast). The Dallas location opened in 2012 and connects into a 250,000+ member network across five cities — Dallas, Austin, Houston, New Orleans, and San Antonio. One membership works at all of them. Single men are welcome Wednesday through Friday; Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only. Recurring themed nights include Pantiless Fridays, Thirty Dollar Thursday, and rotating fetish, lingerie, and costume parties — and i.Candy Parties hosts large monthly events at the venue throughout the year.

Jo & David's Swingers Parties

Chamcook, New Brunswick

Event Organizer

Jo and David's is a private house-party operation run by Jo (Joanne, Canadian) and David (British), a couple who hosted lifestyle and swingers events in the UK and Spain from 1999 to 2019 before relocating to New Brunswick in 2020 and continuing parties in Canada. Their home in Chamcook — a small community just outside Saint Andrews on the shores of Passamaquoddy Bay — is the sole venue. Having hosted over 600 swingers events across two continents, Jo and David operate explicitly as private hosts rather than a club: attendance requires creating a profile on the website, applying to the guestlist, and receiving approval before booking. Average attendance runs around 60 people per event. The house spans 3,600 square feet across three floors. The basement holds a 600-square-foot self-service bar with seating for 20-plus, a large-screen TV, a changing room with individual lockers, over 50 bath towels on shelves, and a playroom with a king-size bed. The main floor contains the kitchen and dining area — a designated safe zone where no sexual activity is permitted — a finger buffet served from 6 pm, a lounge seating up to ten that doubles as an exhibitionist playroom, and a playroom with two queen beds. The top floor has two further playrooms and a bathroom. Outside there is a fire pit, a smoking shack, a back deck, off-road parking, and a seasonal hot tub. Over 200 towels are distributed throughout the house, and condoms are stocked in baskets in every playroom and at the bar. All drinks — spirits, beer, wine, soft drinks, and hot beverages — are provided free, funded by party sponsors. Parties run on Saturdays from 6 pm to approximately 1 am. Two events typically alternate each month: a Greedy Girls party (open to women seeking male or female attention, with men in a supporting role) and a Couples and Singles party (open to mixed-sex couples plus single ladies and a limited number of single men). The 2026 contribution rates are CA$80 per couple (married, engaged, or cohabiting), CA$125 per couple (attending together for the event only), CA$40 for single ladies, and CA$75 for single men. Entry is by advance booking only — no walk-ins. Single men must pay within one hour of booking or the reservation is cancelled. No cameras or recording devices are permitted anywhere on the property.

Orlando Swingers Club

Orlando, FL

Event Organizer

Orlando Swingers Club has been running lifestyle parties since April 20, 2000, and now operates as a mobile event host rather than a single fixed venue, staging its gatherings at rented clubs, resorts, and hotels around the Orlando area — most recently based out of 727 Conley St, with a move to the 32801 zip underway (unconfirmed). Party themes rotate through swingers nights, gang bangs, meet-and-greets, orgy and group-sex events, and BDSM sessions, alongside recurring BBC/BWC/BCC theme parties, giving the calendar a broader spread than a typical single-room club. The operation doubles as a lifestyle travel agency and promoter, cross-promoting other hosts' parties for free in exchange for an invite, and runs an affiliated adult store alongside the event side of the business.

The Menagerie

Brighton, East Sussex

Event Organizer

The Menagerie is a private event series in Brighton for the ethically non-monogamous and kink communities, centred on connection, consent, and curiosity. Welcoming all genders and sexualities, it offers sensual socials open to everyone and curated play parties for vetted guests in a queer-positive, body-positive, judgement-free space.

The Red Chair

Birmingham, AL

On-Premise Club

The Red Chair (TRC) is a BDSM and alternative-lifestyle education, social, and advocacy organization serving Central Alabama, based in Birmingham. Founded in November 1997, it describes itself as Alabama's oldest organization of its kind and operates as a 501(c) nonprofit and Coalition Partner of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF). TRC welcomes all sexual orientations and consensual relationship styles, with a mission centered on education, discussion groups, and social events for the BDSM and kink community rather than nightly on-premise play parties. The organization is run by an elected Board of Directors and maintains a dedicated Consent Team, established in 2019, to field concerns and recommend membership action when needed. TRC operated its own roughly 3,500-square-foot clubhouse and dungeon from 2001 to 2005, giving it up after the landlord raised the rent sharply; since then it has held gatherings at rented spaces and members homes rather than a fixed public address. Members in good standing can privately book TRC's current playspace for parties or play sessions, with a Manager on Duty required on-site to oversee any dungeon activity. A long-running subgroup, ALAFF, runs a low-key newcomer-friendly social a couple of times a month. Membership is by invitation: prospective members attend a public munch, open to anyone 19 or older, and complete an orientation before being invited to private, members-only events. Private space rentals cost $200 for a four-hour block, with a fifth hour split between setup and cleanup, and can be canceled up to 48 hours ahead for a full refund. A house safeword, Red, lets attendees end a scene at any time, with dungeon monitors and the Manager on Duty responsible for enforcing it.

Townhouse

Birkenhead, Merseyside

On-Premise Club

An established lifestyle venue on the Wirral hosting events for the swinging, BDSM and LGBTQ+ community for over 20 years. Known for setting the bar high with quality events and a welcoming atmosphere for brief encounters and lasting connections.

Eros Events

Redmond, WA

Event Organizer

Eros Events is a private, members-only, on-premise lifestyle group based in Redmond, Washington, operating continuously since early 2003 under its original name, Redmond Ranch. The club describes itself as an inclusive community that welcomes members regardless of race, gender, gender identity, or sexuality, and builds its culture around explicit, enthusiastic consent. Parties are held at a home-like retreat center set on several acres, combining a heated indoor pool and hot tub (swimwear optional) with a DJ-driven dance floor and brass pole, a voyeur room, and semi-private and open group play areas. Two detached cabins supplement the main house — a cozy, semi-private cabin with a loft and king beds, and a larger cabin used for bigger groups and light BDSM play. The property has recently been refreshed with a new roof, paint, carpet, and a renovated pool and hot tub. Evening parties run on Saturday nights roughly once a month (with occasional Fridays), 8pm to midnight with newcomer orientation at 7pm, while swim parties happen on Sundays one to two times a month from 1 to 5pm with orientation at noon. Entry requires annual membership ($30 per person, or $10 for a single-party pass) plus a per-party charge of $70 per couple or $40 per person, with identical rates for all singles since 2023; cash only. First-timers must complete an orientation and show valid state ID, and alcohol, marijuana, phones, and cameras are all prohibited on the property.

The SPOTT Night Club

Unverified

Kansas City, MO

On-Premise Club

Tucked just off Interstate 70 at 2111 Television Place, The SPOTT Night Club has held its ground as Kansas City's flagship lifestyle and swingers venue for over fifteen years. The facility spans more than 8,000 square feet of indoor and outdoor party and play space. Inside, a 625-square-foot dance floor anchors the main hall, flanked by five dance poles, ten Las Vegas-style VIP booths, LED-lit glass bar-height tables, and an upper balcony that overlooks the action below. A 15x25-foot HD projection screen and Peavey surround sound fill the room, while a live DJ/VJ spins requests. On an average Saturday the crowd tops 300 guests — couples, single females, and a capped number of single men — and reviewers consistently describe the vibe as warm, polite, and pressure-free. The SPOTT runs every Saturday from 8:30 pm to 5:00 am with a different theme each week. The venue is strictly 21+ with no exceptions. Admission is tiered: couples pay $30 in advance or $40 at the door; single females $15/$20; single males $40 in advance, $50 at the door before 10:30 pm or $75 after. No printed ticket required — a valid ID at check-in suffices. No re-entry after 12:30 am. Play spaces include three private colour-themed lounges (Red, Blue, Green), a small open lounge, and a large group lounge with a voyeur viewing area. Outdoors, the WETTSPOTT area offers a 16x32-foot heated pool, an eight-person hot tub, five cushioned gazebos, and fire tables — open from St Patrick's Day to Halloween. Fully BYOB; complimentary Coke and Pepsi products provided, coolers welcome.

Lavish Lifestyle Events

Hauppauge, NY

Event Organizer

Lavish Lifestyle Events is an off-premise lifestyle event company run by Cynthia and Ron, the couple who operated Club Manor -- Long Island's premier off-premise swingers club -- for over a decade before closing it in September 2015 and pivoting to a travelling event format. The operation has since been fully rebranded as Lavish Lifestyle Events, expanding from its Long Island base to South Florida, with events now targeted across Palm Beach, Broward, and Dade counties at rotating private venues. All events are RSVP-only with no walk-in admittance. An online form collects names, email, and phone number; couples must list both partners. A discount applies to early RSVPs but expires at noon on the day of each event. Event dates are announced via the website and a newsletter, and the schedule rotates -- prospective guests are encouraged to check back regularly as upcoming parties are revealed on a rolling basis. Both couples and singles are welcome. The tone throughout is upscale and low-drama: themed soirees with crafted cocktails, curated music, and a no-nonsense social atmosphere. Cynthia and Ron position the brand on nearly two decades of community-building credibility from the Club Manor years. Personal information collected at RSVP is kept strictly confidential per the site's privacy policy and never shared with outside parties.

Probe Ottawa

Ottawa, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Probe Ottawa is a queer-owned and operated private members club occupying the 3rd and 4th floors of 41 York St in Ottawa's Byward Market district. Founded through the vision of Miel Nannini, the club describes its core values as "exploration, community, inclusivity and accessibility," positioning itself as a multi-purpose community hub for consensual kink and adult connection rather than a conventional lifestyle venue. It operates as a private members-only space under Ontario law and maintains an active presence on Facebook, FetLife, and Instagram. The venue spans approximately 3,200 square feet across two floors with distinct characters. The 4th floor holds an open dungeon space with a custom suspension frame, a loft, and a kitchen, and serves as the main check-in point reached via an in-building elevator. The 3rd floor offers a series of more intimate rooms suited to smaller groups and private play. Showers, cleaning supplies, and fresh linens are provided throughout; members are responsible for changing sheets after each use. Probe works alongside an on-site accessibility coordinator and the entire venue is elevator-accessible and wheelchair accessible. The space is scent-free, and the programming reflects that commitment to access: a recurring "Soft and Low Play Party" format is designed specifically for attendees with sensory processing disorders or chemical sensitivities, featuring whisper-only guidelines, dim lighting, no music, and complimentary ear plugs. Probe operates only when events are scheduled — any day of the week between 8am and 2am — rather than on a fixed weekly calendar. Programming is broad: regular offerings include play parties, rope hangouts, impact labs, kink workshops, educational classes, community socials (including aromantic/asexual and queer-specific groups), trivia nights, and kinky life drawing. Most play parties require a current Probe membership; memberships run CAD $40 for three months or $120 for a year, with a $10 temporary 24-hour membership available at the door. Event tickets are typically offered on a sliding scale — Supported ($15), Sustain ($20), Standard ($25), Generous ($30), and Benevolent ($35) — so that pricing is not a barrier. The entry door locks by midnight at the latest, and new members attending their first play party must arrive within the first two hours of the event. No alcohol is sold on site and BYOB is not permitted; non-alcoholic drinks and snacks are provided at play parties.

Bristol Gardens Health Spa

Brighton, East Sussex

Bath House

Bristol Gardens Health Spa has been Brighton's best-kept open secret since 1985, when the founding family transformed a Grade II listed Regency lodge in Kemptown into something genuinely unlike anywhere else on the south coast. The 7,000 sq ft three-floor venue channels the spirit of the ancient Roman baths — steam, heat, water, and warm communal spaces — without the formality. From the moment you pass through the changing rooms, clothes stay behind and the outside world seems to follow. The wet area is the heart of BGHS: three fully-tiled hot tubs running at 39–40°C, a custom-built jacuzzi with hydro-massage jets, two pine-clad saunas at 60°C, and two mosaic-tiled steam rooms fragrant with eucalyptus oil. A 4.8-metre pool with Doric columns and underwater lighting adds a touch of the theatrical. Upstairs, leather sofas in the refreshment lounge give way to a library, a TV room, and eight private rest rooms for couples seeking a quieter retreat. Qualified therapists offer aromatherapy, Reiki, Shiatsu, and sports massage seven days a week. The venue draws a genuinely mixed crowd — predominantly gay and bisexual men during weekday and daytime sessions, with Saturday and Sunday evenings from 5:30pm reserved exclusively for mixed-gender couples. Rules are firmly enforced: no phones, no cameras, no alcohol, and no unwanted advances — staff are known for their warm but strict approach to maintaining a respectful atmosphere. Whether you're a curious first-timer or a returning regular, BGHS rewards those who embrace its naturist ethos with one of the most relaxing and uninhibited social spaces in England.

Entre Nous DC

Closed

Washington, DC

Entre Nous has been Washington DC's premier members-only lifestyle event since 2000 — a roving off-premise social club for couples and single women. Rather than occupying a fixed address, events rotate through discreet DC nightclub venues, typically running 9 or 10PM to 3AM. The crowd leans young, with the average guest in the 30–35 range and single women making up roughly 20 percent of attendees on any given night. Events are nightclub in format: live DJs spinning 80s remixes, Euro-dance, R&B, and drum and bass anchor a proper dance floor, while a fully stocked bar and lounge fill the space. Themed parties and seasonal specials keep regulars returning; new guests are encouraged to arrive early to meet the hosts and get oriented. As a strictly off-premise event — no sex, no illegal nudity, full DC ABRA compliance — Entre Nous operates openly inside licensed nightclub venues. That structural choice defines the atmosphere: guests dress up, dance, drink, and connect. Single men are not admitted under any circumstances, no exceptions, ever.

Described as Denver's finest lifestyle club, Sugar Lounge is an open-minded venue hosting a wide range of events in a safe, clean, and friendly environment.

Mon Chalet

Aurora, CO

Lifestyle Resort

Sitting behind an iron gate on East Colfax Avenue in Aurora — fifteen minutes from Denver International Airport — Mon Chalet is a 22-room adults-only fantasy motel that has been catering to lifestyle couples since the 1960s. Every suite wraps a king-sized bed in floor-to-ceiling mirrors and pipes twelve exclusive adult channels through a 4K TV; tiers run from Basic rooms with fireplaces and bubble lights up to Deluxe suites outfitted with in-room whirlpools, steam showers, the ceiling-hung 'Swing,' and the resort's signature sculptured 'Love Machine.' The decor leans unabashedly retro — think mirrored canopies, holographic glass panels etched with nudes, and moody LED lighting — but the rooms are well-maintained and unapologetically over the top. The main social hub is a heated, fully enclosed clothing-optional pool area housing a medium-sized pool, two hot tubs, and poolside lounging. Guests who book a suite have all-hours access; couples and single women can also purchase a standalone pool pass (daytime 11 am-4 pm for all; evenings 5 pm-5 am for couples and single women only — single men need a room at night). A colour-coded wristband system signals each guest's interests at a glance, keeping approaches low-pressure and consent front and centre. Reservations are made by phone only — no online booking engine — and a valid photo ID (driver's licence, passport, or state-issued ID) is required at check-in. Matinee stays run noon to 4 pm; overnight check-in is 6 pm with an 11 am check-out. Alcohol is permitted in the pool area in cans or plastic only — no glass. Cameras and phones are banned from the pool, and the gated property keeps the vibe secure and discreet despite the gritty stretch of Colfax outside.

Shadows Private Club 2.0

Hyattsville, MD

private members club

Tucked into a light-industrial pocket of Hyattsville just minutes from the DC line, Shadows Private Club has built its reputation as the DMV go-to lifestyle destination for couples and singles who want something more curated than a bar and more honest than a hook-up app. Since opening in February 2017, the club has grown to a membership base of over 20,000 and anchors its identity on three pillars: a no-pressure atmosphere, a genuinely selective admission process, and a party schedule that gives members something to come back for every week. The vibe leans sophisticated rather than seedy — think masquerade masks, purple lighting, a resident DJ spinning R&B, Hip-Hop, Latin and Afrobeats, and a crowd that owner William Lorenzo describes as 21-and-up adults who value discretion and a good time in equal measure. The weekly programme runs Wednesday through Sunday. Wednesday, Thursday, and Sunday are general-admission nights running 9 pm to 3 am, while Friday and Saturday stretch to 5 am — an hour or two later than most competitors in the metro area. Saturday is the headline night: couples and single ladies are welcome on all nights, but single men are capped at ten admissions on Saturdays, with a correspondingly higher door price. Themed events rotate through the calendar and include Shadow Play parties, Glow Parties, Costume Nights, Queen of Spades evenings, and Wet T-Shirt Competitions. Entry is members-only — same-day applications are accepted online or at the door. Everyone must be 21-plus with a valid government-issued ID; no ID means no entry, no exceptions. The club is BYOB, with complimentary mixers provided free of charge; complimentary finger food is served every Friday and Saturday night. Phones and recording devices of any kind are prohibited inside — strictly enforced to protect member privacy.

Illuminaughty (San Francisco)

San Francisco, CA

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty is not a fixed-address club but a roving, invitation-only party series that has been lighting up the Bay Area since early 2024. Events land in private residences — member-owned homes, upscale rental estates, even multi-thousand-square-foot Victorian mansions — with the exact address released only to ticket holders on the day of the event. Capacity ranges from intimate 40-person gatherings in single-family houses to 150-plus blowout mansion parties, and each one is themed: past concepts have included Great Gatsby, Neon, Masquerade, and Jungle, with outfit inspiration posted on the event page beforehand. Membership is free but selective. Applicants submit four clear photos, a bio, and essay-style answers on consent and intentions; approval typically comes within three days, and rejections arrive as silence. The crowd skews young — mostly late twenties to early forties — and events are open to couples, single women, non-binary guests, and a small, carefully balanced number of single men. Parties are BYOB, with mixers, water, snacks, and champagne flutes provided. Protection is stocked in every play area. Doors open for an arrival window (typically 8:00–9:30 pm for night parties), after which no one is admitted. A mandatory consent talk kicks off the evening before any play begins; phones are forbidden once it starts. Multiple bedrooms are staged for open-door play, and rooms may include massage tables, group-play beds, or light BDSM equipment. Private security staffs every event, and a coat-check area is provided.

Hoochies Swingers Lounge sits on Oak Street in the South Park pocket of Downtown Los Angeles, positioning it as one of the few fixed-address lifestyle clubs in the DTLA core. The venue bills itself as the only swingers club in the city to offer both male and female entertainment under one roof, run professionally and welcoming all orientations, backed by a schedule of weekly activities and events. Music is a consistent feature across nights, with guests noting a mix of genres and an upbeat social atmosphere. The lounge runs a weeknight-heavy calendar: doors open Sunday through Thursday at 9 pm and close at 2 am, with a slightly later 10 pm start on Fridays. Reviewers on Yelp describe the staff as friendly and the amenities as solid, while at least one note flagged strong potential tempered by room for operational improvement. Contact is available by phone at (323) 421-4003. No dedicated website was found; the club maintains an active Instagram presence for nightly event announcements.

The Pendulum Society

Langley, British Columbia

On-Premise Club

The Pendulum Society is a members-only lifestyle and kink club operating out of a private 5,600-square-foot mansion in the Milner area of Langley, British Columbia — roughly 49 kilometres southeast of downtown Vancouver in Metro Vancouver's Fraser Valley fringe. The club describes itself as 19+ all inclusive and welcomes people of all genders and sexual orientations across a range of relationship structures, from couples to singles. Events span two categories: larger themed lifestyle parties and kink-focused nights, alongside lower-key social evenings such as a recurring Cuddle Puddle Movie Night. The venue — referred to in club communications as the Langley Mansion — accommodates a substantial guest capacity across multiple spaces. Confirmed amenities include a saltwater inground pool (opened for seasonal use in 2025), a dungeon described by attendees as well-equipped with a fantastic variety of gear, and semi-private playrooms. The club also rents the space for photo and video shoots and private play dates between scheduled events. Dress codes lean themed rather than strict: attire matching the night's theme is encouraged but not mandatory, with business casual or club wear cited as acceptable alternatives. Heels are permitted though stairs are noted. Events run most Fridays and Saturdays, with occasional Thursday orientations. Per-event RSVP pricing ranges from $15 for low-key evenings such as movie nights and New Member Orientations to $35-$45 for main lifestyle and kink events. New single male members must attend a New Member Orientation before accessing the larger events; all other members may RSVP directly. Contact is via thependulumsociety@gmail.com or phone at 1-604-375-4309.

Club Love Ltd

Bristol, Bristol

On-Premise Club

Club Love is a truly unique queer-owned, sex-positive party for underground clubbers in the kink and fetish community, based in Bristol Temple Meads' historic Ash Pits. Featuring curated DJs playing house, disco, and tech house, it's an inclusive space where dancers, lovers, and artists come together for radical self-expression with a dedicated queer-led wellbeing team.

Ohio Swings

New Carlisle, OH

On-Premise Club

Set on sixteen acres of country land outside New Carlisle, Ohio Swings bills itself not as a club but as a private house party for couples and singles 21 and over exploring their sexual limits. The property sits well back from the road behind two brick pillars marked with the letter "E," reached by a long private lane, and offers the full run of amenities you'd expect from a dedicated swingers venue: eight private play rooms, two shower rooms (one single, one four-person), roughly thirty-two lockers, and ample on-site parking. Doors open every Wednesday, Friday and Saturday from 8pm to midnight, with guests welcome to stay until 10am - first-come, first-served overnight room use kicks in after 3am so play space stays available earlier in the night. Entry runs on a sliding cash donation that rises through the week: Wednesday is $20 for couples and $30 for single men, Friday climbs to $30/$40, and Saturday tops out at $40/$50, with single women admitted free every night. There's no yearly membership - guests simply donate on the nights they visit, which the club says covers food, drinks, cleaning and laundry costs. Special theme nights and larger annual events, including a Fourth of July blowout and a Halloween bash, are posted separately on the events page. The house is BYOB - no alcohol is sold on-site, though mixers and setups are supplied - and condoms are provided in the play areas. Dress code asks only that guests arrive clean and out of work or exercise clothes; dressing to any theme is optional but encouraged. Cell phones must stay in the car, and cameras or recording devices of any kind are banned throughout the property, underscoring the discretion the club promises guests along with a strict no-drugs, no-prostitution policy.

Play Champagne (The Champagne Club)

Columbus, OH

Event Organizer

Play Champagne is one of the Midwest’s largest lifestyle event organizers, operating as a traveling party producer rather than a fixed-address club. Founded and still run by owners Melissa and Eric, the operation specializes in complete hotel takeovers — booking every guestroom, the convention space, restaurant, and bar — at full-service Hilton-brand hotels across Ohio, Michigan, Indiana, and Illinois, with regular Las Vegas editions and annual trips to Hedonism II in Jamaica. Flagship venues have included the Embassy Suites in Blue Ash (Cincinnati), Livonia MI, Indianapolis, Glenview IL, and Las Vegas. Typical weekends draw 1,200–1,600 attendees and span two nights, with a Friday check-in at 3 pm and checkout Monday morning. The programming is unusually dense for a hotel event: a five-story atrium main stage with award-winning lifestyle DJs, professional sound, lighting, and laser rigs; a 24-hour indoor pool (topless optional); a vendor showcase; meet-and-greet karaoke; drag shows; live bands; and a 360-degree video photo booth. Educational content includes couples sensory, Kama Sutra, and NURU massage classes, plus BDSM demonstrations, all with separate sign-up slots. Play areas include group and semi-private themed playrooms (typically in dedicated ballrooms), a Porn Play Escape group room, and an expanded Impact room for impact play opening nightly from around 11 pm. The famous top-floor afterparty runs from 1 am to dawn. Complimentary drinks are served nightly during a comp-bar window, and a full hot breakfast buffet with omelet station is included each morning. The crowd skews inclusive and body-positive, spanning roughly ages 28–55, and Play Champagne explicitly welcomes all body types and demographics. The vibe is upscale nightclub rather than underground party: VIP table service with reserved front-and-center seating is available, and off-duty police officers are stationed throughout the hotel. Dress code is dress-to-impress rather than enforced, though themed costume participation is strongly encouraged. The whole-hotel BYOB policy means guests bring their own alcohol to guest rooms and carry it in a covered tumbler into event spaces; a hotel cash bar is also on site.