Event Organizers

616

Grand Rapids, MI

ENM/CNM Social Club (hotel takeover events)

616 describes itself as “an ENM/CNM social club in West Michigan” that holds themed hotel-takeover events several times a year in Kalamazoo, Grand Rapids, and Newaygo at various venues. Membership is required to attend. Its About page says the club started in the 1990s and that the current hosts took over in January 2012. Events include a hotel pool and hot tub, a DJ with a dance floor, dance pole, and light show, and a hosted VIP after-party room with the club's own equipment, including custom bench swings, a St. Andrew's cross, and a ladies-only bed. Active members are also invited to the club's private social media group for smaller events such as camping trips, bar nights, and ladies-only meet-ups. New members apply with a photo of themselves and their ID and sign rules and consent forms; the club says it replies within 72 hours and that dues are included in event prices. Couples, single ladies, and sponsored single gentlemen are welcome, and all events are strictly 21 and up with ID checked at registration. Dress is street clothing in the hotel lobby, restaurant, and parking lot, with g-strings and pasties the minimum in the pool atrium. Cameras and camera phones are banned in the event area, and breaking the written consent policy can mean expulsion or revoked membership.

AfterDark Events

San Francisco, CA

Event Organizer (Pop-Up Play Parties)

AfterDark Events describes itself as “a POC, femme, queer, neurodivergent, and disabled led group” that organizes kink and alternative-sexuality events around the San Francisco Bay Area. It runs pop-up parties, most often at Stopgap in SoMa and at Paradox, along with workshops and jams, and says its parties typically draw 100 to 200 people. Parties are usually themed and have distinct areas for socializing, dancing, kink and aftercare. At Stopgap the ground floor has social areas and an accessible play space, and the basement dungeon holds crosses, spanking benches, bondage furniture and cages. Condoms, lube, paper towels and clean linens are supplied, food and drinks are provided, and spaces are open, with no private rooms. Guests must be 18 or older with valid ID. Single men are welcome without a date, and the club says people can come with a partner, with friends or alone. Tickets are sold through Forbidden Tickets, and the exact address goes to ticket holders. Parties are drug and alcohol free, phones stay out of sight, and photography is not allowed. Dress is open, from formal to fetish wear, and house rules require consent that is “voluntary, informed, and enthusiastic” and ban breath play and open flame.

Big Mamas Haus

Crimmitschau, Saxony

BDSM & Fetish Event Venue

Big Mamas Haus — trading publicly as BMH Event Club — occupies a purpose-built property at Harthauer Weg 6 on the fringe of Crimmitschau, a small industrial town in the Westsachsen district of Saxony. The club has been in operation for roughly two decades, celebrating its 20th anniversary in September 2026, and in that time has built a regional reputation as one of Saxony's more established adult event venues, drawing guests from across Germany and neighbouring European countries. The house tagline, 'Der feine Unterschied' — the fine difference — signals a self-conscious positioning above the generic party venue, with a programme that spans BDSM, fetish, swinging, and mixed erotic events rather than a single discipline. The property combines a generous outdoor area of approximately 6,000 square metres with dedicated indoor facilities that include a cinema room, sauna, lounge areas, an SM and fetish play zone covering more than 300 square metres, and overnight accommodation for guests who wish to stay. Hygiene infrastructure is thorough: condoms are stocked throughout the venue, and designated disposal points for used items are provided across the play areas. The club is affiliated with JOYclub, the German adult community platform, and maintains active listings on specialist fetish event directories. Admission for most events includes the bulk of drinks — hard spirits and cocktails are excluded — alongside a buffet that ranges from finger food to a full hot-and-cold spread depending on the occasion. Parking is plentiful and suited to larger vehicles. The club operates no fixed weekly schedule, opening exclusively for ticketed events published in its online calendar. Evening start times typically fall between 18:00 and 20:00, and the programme includes occasional afternoon sessions. Recurring formats encompass open play parties, female-dominance evenings, medical-fetish themed nights, intensive BDSM events billed as Hardliner nights, and smaller exclusive gatherings with capped attendance. All admission is event-specific and priced per occasion; the venue accepts cash only and does not process card payments. Entry is restricted to guests aged 18 and over.

Birdhaus

Toronto, Ontario

Events Venue

Birdhaus uses the tagline “Toronto's Exclusive Events Venue For The Alt Community.” It lists its address as 1233R Queen Street West, and its About page says the venue has a 100-year history and has been “transformed into an intimate space for the city’s avant-garde.” According to the site, it launched in the Entertainment District, moved to a larger space in Liberty Village, and added a larger space just off Queen Street in 2024 along with a cocktail program. The club's rope education page describes a shibari program it calls “inclusive. Creative. Comprehensive.” The calendar includes Tinker Tuesday, a practice night where no specific skills are taught, classes such as Zero to Suspension, and Your First Rope Class paired with a Rope Singles Mixer and Social Jam. Other events include Parenting and Sexual Wellness and a bi-monthly social for people who practice or are curious about modern witchcraft and paganism, which lists a signature cocktail bar upstairs and a reflection space downstairs. All events are 19+ for entry, and tickets are bought per event through the site's event pages. The first rope class needs no prior knowledge or partner, and loaner rope is available. The witchcraft social, for instance, says respectful conduct is “expected and mandatory” and that it is not a kink event.

BiZarre Events

London, London

Event Production Company

BiZarre Events describes itself as “London's extraordinary nightlife event design and production company”, behind alternative play parties that its site says have run “since 2012”. It operates as a private members club, with a paid membership required to attend, and holds its parties at a venue in North East London; venue instructions are emailed to guests for each event. Its BiKINK night, which its page says runs every month, sits alongside separate nights listed as PisSoir, Club Labrys (an alt club for women) and Savage Dreams (an alt club for couples). The downstairs has a reception area with leather sofas, a staffed cloakroom, a bar, a fridge for guests' own drinks and a private smoking area, while upstairs is a large play space with many bespoke pieces of equipment. The club's venues have unisex showers with toiletries and towels provided, and there is parking outside. It says bus stops and a 24-hour tube line are nearby, and that events are limited to around 80 guests and usually sell out. Entry is by ticket reservation, with booking opening about a month before each event, and admission is paid at the door by cash or card. Events are open to singles, couples and poly-groups of any configuration and any sexuality or gender identity, with discounted tickets for students, couples, poly-groups and people on low incomes. Free beer, wine and soft drinks are included and guests may also bring their own. There is no fixed dress code, but guests are expected to arrive with a look appropriate to the event, and the crew will ask them to meet this. Phones are checked into the cloakroom, photography and recording are banned, as are smart glasses, and illegal drugs lead to expulsion and a ban. The club calls its events “female empowered safe-spaces” and says they have SIA licensed door supervisors.

Black Diamonds Swinger Club

Unverified

Alexandria, VA

Event Organizer

Black Diamonds Swinger Club is a sex-positive lifestyle community rooted in Alexandria, Virginia, and operating across the broader DMV region — Washington DC, Maryland, and Northern Virginia. Founded as a space primarily targeted towards those of African American descent and other people of color, it occupies a rare and intentional niche in the DMV lifestyle scene, centering Black and POC attendees within a safe, consensual, and sane environment. The club's promotional partner is DNAKinks LLC, and its events are coordinated via a centralized Linktree that links out to ticketing, social media, and booking channels. Unlike a fixed brick-and-mortar venue, Black Diamonds operates as an event-based club, hosting parties at rotating or private locations across the DMV rather than from a single permanent address. This pop-up model keeps the community tight-knit and screened. The Instagram account (@blackdiamonds6219) maintains over 24,000 followers, while the Facebook page has accumulated more than 4,100 likes from the Alexandria and wider DC metro community. All booking and event discovery is handled through the Linktree hub (linktr.ee/BlackDiamondsSwingerClub) and associated social channels, with no walk-in or permanent physical storefront publicly listed.

Camelot Social Club

Charlotte, NC

Event Organizer

Camelot Social Club, a lifestyle events organizer serving the Charlotte area, says it was formed “to provide a safe and fun lifestyle community for all people.” It does not run a clubhouse: it intends to hold monthly parties, and its stated long-term goal is “a permanent on premises club.” Its events include hotel takeovers. The club’s hotel takeovers can be themed, with costume or dress-up attire, and a room block is offered at the host hotel so guests can stay on site. The club has also run a casual pre-party gathering at a local bar the night before a takeover. Every attendee must have a signed waiver on file, signed once before their first event. Tickets are sold per couple and paid through PayPal, with an e-ticket emailed. The club says its parties are held “in a safe and controlled environment” where guests can “dress as sexy as you want.”

Event Organizer

Carolina Friends describes itself as “a community built on friendship, trust, respect and memories”. It is an event host running full hotel takeovers throughout the Triad, and its About page says it has been connecting people in the lifestyle since 1991, when it began with eight Charlotte-area couples. Depending on the event, the club lists live DJs and dancing, private couples' activity areas, member hosted social rooms, clothing-optional pool parties, late night breakfast and themed entertainment. It opened a permanent home called The Estate in 2001 and, after losing it in 2012, kept hosting events at new venues across North Carolina. The club is for couples, single females and single gents, and single men may attend most events but are limited by venue and attendance. Guests must be 21 with an approved free profile under their legal names, show a state or federal ID and wear a wristband; a purchased membership adds perks such as private chat but not event admission. Overly intoxicated guests are asked to go back to their room or leave, and returning could mean an indefinite ban. Dressing to the event theme is encouraged but not required, and house rules bar touching without asking, phones and photography outside designated areas, weapons, drugs and smoking inside venues.

Club Chameleon

Flint, MI

House Party

Club Chameleon describes itself as “a Swinger Club located in Flint, Michigan” that holds lifestyle house parties. Its site says the hosts have been in the lifestyle for 25 years and run a “fairly new club.” The club tries to hold a theme party at least once a month, and its Friday “Reverse Harem” nights are for women who like more men and men who don’t mind sharing. The house is described as having 3 1/2 floors, with two bars, a dance floor with a stripper pole, three private playrooms, a “Peekaboo” room whose fourth wall is a sheer curtain, a billiards room and a separate TV area. One playroom holds a St. Andrew’s cross with paddles and floggers. An enclosed, heated patio has an eight-person hot tub open all year, a theme bar and a bonfire area, and the club serves buffet-style appetizers and runs icebreaker activities. Newcomers text the club for vetting and the address, which is not posted online, and signing up on the website does not put anyone on the door list. Single male places are limited under a strict Single Male Expectations policy shared on request. Parties are BYOB and BYOC, with water, ice, sodas and juice provided; smoking and 420 are allowed, illegal drugs are not. Costumes at theme parties are optional, and guests can ask about overnight accommodations.

Club Giggity

Philadelphia, PA

Lifestyle Event Planner

Club Giggity uses the tagline “It's not just an event....It's an experience.” It is a lifestyle event planner, a subsidiary of The Forever Young Experience, whose pages list no fixed venue. Its owner/operators say they have over 20 years of DJ, promotion and event planning experience in New York, Miami, Philadelphia and Atlantic City. Events range from house parties and on-premise clubs to lifestyle meet and greets, private affairs and hotel and resort takeovers. Meet and greets are mostly held at hotel bars where guests can book a room, while a takeover uses an entire hotel for a themed weekend. A resident DJ provides music and lighting, and optional extras include massage therapists, photographers, vendors, body painters and BDSM/fetish services. Events are open to guests over 21, and the club says it does not discriminate based on age, race, religion, physical appearance or level of play. It welcomes swingers, LGBT guests and the BDSM/fetish community. Most parties are geared towards couples and single women, with single men welcome only on certain nights and at certain parties. Meet and greets are pitched at first timers, play at on-premise clubs is BYOB, and a paid membership program discounts takeover passes.

Club Iniquity

Houghton Lake, MI

Hotel Takeover Events

Club Iniquity says “We host regular parties for people of all levels of the lifestyle.” It holds two-day “COMPLETE” hotel takeovers at a lakefront resort in Houghton Lake, Michigan, all billed as official SLS events, and its home page says it was founded in 2017. The takeover covers beachside rooms, a waterpark and hot tub with a clothing-optional pool party, a dance floor with a DJ, Fantasy Rooms for group play and voyeurism, Steve's Den of Iniquity with St. Andrew's Crosses and spanking benches, the Velvet Lounge with massage tables, and a social lounge. Events include a welcome presentation, discussion sessions, a room-decorating contest with a room crawl, and a ladies-only pajama party aimed at newcomers. Guests book hotel rooms through the club's website only, with a two-night stay required. Couples sign a behavior and discretion waiver; single men need approval, at 1 per 20 couples, and a paid SLS profile at least a year old. Events are clothing optional in party areas, with appropriate dress expected in public hotel areas. Photography and video are not allowed in takeover areas, and any consent violation means removal and a permanent ban.

House Party

Club Ménage is a home-based lifestyle venue in the Silver Springs neighbourhood of NW Calgary, run by Matthew since 2010. Bi-weekly parties historically drew 20 to 50 guests to a roughly 1,300-square-foot dedicated play space built into the residence, with a mingling area, kitchen, and four themed playrooms. Neighbours complained starting in 2015, and the City of Calgary issued a stop order in 2019, arguing the property was operating as an unpermitted "Social Organization" in a residential zone under the city's Land Use Bylaw. Matthew challenged the order on Charter grounds (freedom of conscience and peaceful assembly).

private house party

Club Moist is a private lifestyle house-party series run out of the organizers' personal home in the Manchester, New Hampshire area. The events draw between 20 and 30 screened couples and guests per night, keeping the crowd intimate and intentionally matched — typical age range spans the early thirties to early fifties, with a strong emphasis on couples compatibility over sheer numbers. The hosts pride themselves on a modern, clean home atmosphere that feels nothing like a commercial venue: there's dancing and mood lighting in the main social space, a hot tub open under the stars, snacks and shared mixers, and a genuinely welcoming vibe that regulars describe in their SLS certifications as safe, social, and easy to mingle at. The play layout spans three distinct zones. The main floor holds an open-plan play area with several beds and a sex swing; a lower-level Exploration Den offers a more contained and private environment, including a closeable private bedroom; and the outdoor Island Time pavilion extends the action outside when weather allows. The pink-sheet beds are women-only until 10:30pm, after which the full floor opens to all. Hot tub play is encouraged (with a 6-person cap and a no-sex-in-the-water rule given neighbor sightlines), and discreet outdoor fun in the pavilion area is welcomed. Events are invitation-only and coordinated via SLS (profile: funlaughz). Once invited, an Evite with the confirmed attendee list is sent ahead of the party. Parties run from 8pm to 1am. The crowd skews straight and bi-female: single men are not admitted. Newcomers to the lifestyle are actively encouraged to arrive early, and the hosts make a point of walking first-timers through the space and the social flow of the evening.

monthly fetish event (not a fixed-address club)

Club Sin is Montreal's longest-running monthly fetish event, held on the first Friday of each month in the second-floor cabaret of Café Cléopâtre at 1230 boulevard Saint-Laurent, at the edge of the Quartier des Spectacles. The event is organized by Eric Paradis, who has been active in Montreal's fetish scene for more than 35 years and who also produces the annual Montreal Fetish Weekend each Labour Day weekend. Café Cléopâtre — the last surviving show bar from the Main's most notorious era, operating since at least 1976 — provides the venue and a large part of its historical charge as a space that has hosted vaudeville, burlesque, drag, and trans cabaret for well over a century. Club Sin occupies the upstairs cabaret, a room built around a performance stage and a cash-only bar. The event is billed as a night of shows, dance, and play. Paradis has described the crowd as people from different backgrounds and professions who arrive in costume to express their identities as sexual beings; vibe reporting from 2010 documents an audience in black leather and latex alongside staged fetish performances, and a 2024 Concordian piece situates Club Sin as a pillar of Montreal's kink community, which it notes increasingly intersects with queer culture. The median age reported in early coverage was around 30. Café Cléopâtre has long been recognized as a welcoming space for Montreal's LGBTQ+ and trans communities, a character that carries through to Club Sin's programming. The upstairs bar is cash only; an ATM is available on the ground floor, which continues to operate as a strip club on event nights. No published dress code rules are independently accessible, though fetish and kink attire is consistent with the event's established character and organizer framing. Club Sin is distinct in format and scale from the annual Montreal Fetish Weekend, though both share the same producer and have used the same venue.

Club Triple XTC

Regina, Saskatchewan

Event Organiser

Club Triple XTC says it provides “a fun safe environment for people to explore fantasies & pleasure” at private events it hosts several times a year for guests from across Saskatchewan and beyond. It runs three kinds of events at a local lounge, private houses and hotel suites; its About page says it began with a hot tub party at the organizers' home in 2012. Sociables meet-and-greet nights are held at a local lounge for anyone new and curious. Private hot tub parties are house parties that cater mostly to women and couples. Hotel theme events fill entire hotel floors with themed rooms, plus exotic dance performances. Its FAQ describes a designated social area where sexual activity does not occur, several play rooms, a pole, a bar area with a hired bartender, and security staff. Attending requires a free membership application that is screened for suitability, and the location is emailed once a guest is approved. Couples, triads and single women of any gender identity or orientation are welcome; only a few select single men are admitted, if known in the lifestyle community or sponsored by a member. Guests must be over 19, with photo ID checked at the door. Drinks are bring-your-own, phones and cameras are banned, and illegal drugs and extreme BDSM are not allowed.

Eden After Dark

Las Vegas, NV

Event Organizer

Eden After Dark describes itself as a “members-only swing lifestyle club headquartered in Las Vegas, NV.” It stages thematic parties mostly in Las Vegas and Southern California, with some events elsewhere in the country. Events are for approved members, whom it calls Keyholders, and are not open to the general public unless noted. Venues vary by event: hotels and hotel suites, partnerships with local lifestyle clubs that have a physical location, pool events, and public “vanilla” meetups or munches. The club also hosts ladies-only nights with no men on the premises. Anyone can apply to become a Keyholder, but approval is not guaranteed, and the minimum age is 21. Members are mainly male-female couples, and the club says it is committed to an alliance with the LGBTQ community. Invitations state the start time and when doors close, and there is no entry or re-entry after that. The club never sells alcohol; it provides packaged mixers, water and non-alcoholic drinks. Guests are expected to dress to impress unless the event is themed. Cameras, recording devices and cell phones are not allowed at events without written permission, new members receive an email on the basic rules of the lifestyle, and nobody is pressured to take part in adult activities.

Event Organizer

Escapades New England describes itself as a promoter of “events/parties in Providence, RI”, with occasional events elsewhere and two large-scale events each year. Its About page is headed “We Keep it Classy”, and the organizers say they enjoy “introducing newer couples to the scene” and want those couples to be less intimidated or scared than the organizers were at their own first event. The two large-scale events are the Midsummer Nights' Wet Dream Foam Party, held every year at the end of July and described on the site as a “Hedo-style party” and “The Largest Summer Event in New England”, and the Erotic Masquerade Ball, held every September or October. Questions and theme suggestions are invited by email. The site says “Only the Confidently Sexy Need Apply” and that “Confidence, class, and respect is key here!”. Entry for events is priced per couple and paid at the door, where it accepts cash or Venmo with a verified screen name. It lists SLS, SDC and SwingTowns as partners.

Fetish Week London

London, London

Multi-Day Fetish Event

Fetish Week London says its flagship event returns to “the UK’s capital” with a “fun-packed schedule of events over 8 full days.” Presented by Recon (T101), it uses Electrowerkz, a warehouse venue behind Angel tube, as its home base and is aimed at gay, bi, queer, trans and curious men; Recon says some of its events are men-only spaces open to all who identify as male. Official events include a fetish cabaret, a masterclass of demos and talks, a sports night with a Bator Haus and wrestling pit, a rubber gear night and a Sunday social quiz. The main event, Full Fetish, takes over the entire underground warehouse-style venue with a dedicated BDSM space, cruising maze, FF area, House, Pop and Techno dancefloors, a VIP room and a quieter zone for neurodivergent attendees. A hub adds a gear market, second-hand gear swap, DJs, panels, sober meet-ups and a bar. Tickets are sold through DICE. Participants must be at least 18, several events require ID, and most have an enforced dress code (leather, rubber, sports, skinhead, uniform, pup gear; naked is not gear). House rules: no means no, gear is not consent, controlled substances and weapons are banned, and personal photography is not allowed in play spaces; breaches can mean removal or a ban.

Friction Carolina

Durham, NC

Hotel Party Organizer

Friction Parties, a women-owned brand that says it was started by Lisa Friction over 20 years ago, describes its events as “complete hotel takeovers”. Its public calendar lists events in Durham/Raleigh and Greensboro, North Carolina, alongside other markets, and it does not publish exact locations: hotel names and event details appear only to registered members. The main party is in a hotel ballroom and is billed as an off-premise event with no sexual activity in the ballroom, with a private party floor of guest rooms for those who stay. The organizer lists area DJs, stripper poles, a dance cage, professional security, pre-meets for new members and late-night pizza at most events. Hotels hold liquor licenses, and outside alcohol is not allowed where drinks are sold unless an event is announced as BYOB. Registration is free, with no walk-ins, and the parties are for attractive couples and adventurous single females who meet the organizer’s HWP requirements; new single-female profiles are currently accepted only if sponsored or recommended by an established couple. Check-in closes at midnight, a wristband is required, couples must arrive and stay together, and guests wear a cover-up between their rooms and the ballroom. Dress is very sexy, well groomed and modern, with sneakers, t-shirts, sweats and baseball or knit hats refused. Cameras and recording devices are banned in the ballroom, and drugs, smoking, vaping, candles and fog machines are prohibited.

Friction Parties

Unverified

Washington, DC

Event Organizer

Friction Parties is a women-owned and operated event company founded more than 22 years ago by Lisa Friction, billed as the only nationally recognized hotel party brand in the United States. Operating across the East Coast — with events regularly held in the Washington DC/Maryland area, Philadelphia, New Jersey, North Carolina, and Ohio — Friction takes over entire hotels for the duration of each event, meaning every guest and room belongs exclusively to the lifestyle community. The organizing ethos is welcoming but selective: the crowd skews toward what organizers describe as attractive, well-groomed couples and single women, and all attendees are pre-screened before admission. Events run in two formats. Single-day events are typically held on Saturdays around themed holidays — Halloween, New Year’s Eve, Valentine’s Day, St. Patrick’s Day — with check-in from 2 PM and a ballroom dance party running from 9 PM to around 1:30 AM. Weekend two-day events add clothing-optional pool parties and afternoon activities. Ticket prices range from approximately $75–$150 per person; no refunds, only future-event credits. Membership on the platform lets members browse event attendee lists and connect with couples and single females year-round. Once the main dance party ends, the format shifts to an informal hall crawl on a designated party floor where room doors are propped open and guests host themed mini-parties until the early morning. The ballroom features a DJ, dance poles, cages, and themed décor matched to the night’s costume theme. Alcohol is available via full cash bar operated by the hotel; guests may not bring drinks from rooms to the party floor.

Friends Night Out (FNO)

Aurora, IL

Event Organizer

Friends Night Out describes itself as “a private, members-only lifestyle club” and says it is part of the Illinois ethical non-monogamy lifestyle community, with swinger, kink and social events. Its home venue is in Aurora, Illinois, where it also hosts a number of other clubs, and its event calendar has listed Friday socials, Saturday swinger events and Sunday FNO Sports afternoons. The club says it is “not a permanent swinger or lifestyle club” and rents the space for select gatherings. The venue, which the club calls THE BARN, is a two-level space on Jericho Road near I-88 and Orchard Road, styled like “a warm, cozy pub” and holding up to 100 guests. The club names its play space the WildRumpus Room, and the venue has a DJ booth, sound, video and lighting systems, parking for about 50 cars and two restrooms. Membership is required, and couples who have attended an FNO event at the TSIN Barn are already members. Single men must be invited personally, and guests can request an escort to their vehicle. The upstairs play room is open to couples, with single guests escorted. Some events need advance tickets with no door sales. All events are BYOB with mixers provided, and many have optional themes; guests not in theme are asked to dress to impress.

HOWL Worldwide

London, London

Event Promoter

HOWL Worldwide says it “was born as a queer, sex-positive rave” and has grown into “a cultural institution, booking global headliners and hosting events and workshops internationally.” Its About page says it began in 2019 with the ambition to bring different parts of the LGBTQ+ community and create a space of sexual freedom, and that during the pandemic it evolved into a sexual wellness brand. The brand hosts events rather than running premises of its own, and its event listings are placed in London. The brand describes its work as sex products, queer nightlife and worldwide media. Its CBD lube is designed to work for all genders and sexualities, and it says it is “leading the way in global sex education and music media,” supported by partnerships with Universal Music. Its S3X Education series covers topics many people shy away from, alongside a stated mission to “dismantle shame.” On the nightlife side it hosts ticketed events and workshops. Tickets for each event are listed on the brand’s website, with several entry-time options and a discounted ticket type for trans, global majority and unwaged guests. An email sign-up offers first access to tickets and lineup announcements.

Hungry Cat Promotions

Belfast, Northern Ireland

Event Organizer

Hungry Cat Promotions describes itself as “a provocative movement” rather than just an events company, hosting adult entertainment and networking events, with its listed event in Belfast. Its pages describe events at “carefully selected atmospheric locations”, and an event page lists only the city, with the location released 24 hours before. Events are built around entertainment rather than on-site sex: the club says sex-positive means “erotic entertainment, provocative prizes, and bold outfits” rather than sexual activity on-site. Formats range from cabaret nights to dance events, and a listed dress-down event lets guests wear lingerie of their choice while keeping genitals covered. Single men, single women and couples of all sexualities are invited. The site states 18+, though age limits vary by event and some events may be 21+. Each ticket admits one person. Many events require ID verification and screening, and at least one event is limited to meet-verified Swingable members, with ticket purchase unlocked by an approved email address. A valid ticket and ID are needed at entry. Consent rules apply: ask before physical contact or photography, and harassment, discrimination, drug dealing or sharing content without consent mean removal and a permanent ban.

Illuminaughty (San Francisco)

San Francisco, CA

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty (San Francisco) describes itself as “a private members club for swingers, ENM couples, and sex positive singles”. It hosts events every month in the Bay Area, with cocktail mixers and play parties, for couples and singles aged 21 to 49, and its San Francisco page says it launched its first swinger party in early 2024. Membership costs nothing but requires an application, and not everyone is approved. Parties are held at member-owned or rented private residences, from single-family houses to high-rise apartments and country estates. Multiple rooms are set up for various experiences, which can include massage tables, a large bed for group play and spaces with BDSM and kink toys, though advanced BDSM play is not allowed. Most events admit couples, single women, non-binary members and a small number of single men, and security checks tickets and that everyone is at least 21. Approved members can buy tickets, and the address goes to ticket holders on the day of the event. Parties are BYOB, doors close after the arrival window, and an opening talk covers consent and rules. Each party has a dress theme, and consent violations, photos after the opening talk, illegal substances or money exchange for acts mean removal and cancelled membership.