Lifestyle Glossary
Clear, respectful definitions of the terms used in the swinger, non-monogamy, and lifestyle club community. From hotwife to cuckolding to polyamory — what each term means and how it differs from the others.
Core Concepts
Swinging· also Swinger Lifestyle, Wife Swapping (older term)
A consensual non-monogamous practice where committed couples engage in sexual activities with other couples or singles, typically together at the same event or venue.
The Lifestyle· also Lifestyle (capitalized), In the Lifestyle
An umbrella term used by the swinger and consensual non-monogamy community to describe themselves. Always capitalized when written this way; covers everything from soft-swap swinging to hotwife dynamics to group play.
Open Relationship
A romantic partnership where both partners agree it is acceptable to have sexual or romantic connections outside the primary relationship. A broad umbrella that includes swinging, polyamory, hotwifing, and many other configurations.
Polyamory· also Poly, Polyamorous
The practice of having multiple ongoing romantic relationships at the same time, with the knowledge and consent of all partners. Distinct from swinging because polyamory centers emotional and romantic bonds, not just sex.
Dynamics
Hotwife· also Hotwifing, Hot Wife
A consensual relationship dynamic where a woman in a committed partnership has sexual encounters with other men with her primary partner's full knowledge, consent, and enthusiastic support.
Cuckolding· also Cuck, Cuckold
A consensual relationship dynamic where one partner — most commonly a husband — derives erotic satisfaction from their partner having sex with someone else, with their full knowledge and often their direct presence.