Couples Only

Allures Lifestyle describes itself as “an upscale, sex-positive lifestyle community where like-minded couples come together”. Its rules page calls it an adult lifestyle club in the Sacramento Area where on-premise play is allowed, hosting hotel theme dances, Friday-evening Fantasy Fridays and Meet & Greets. Events are designed primarily for couples aged 21 or older, with single attendance limited to Club Allures members. Hotel theme dances have a large dance floor, a go-go stage, a stripper pole and a cash bar, and select events offer reserved VIP tables and cabanas. The Play Suite, staffed by Allures personnel, has a large multi bed play area and, at some events, a sex swing, a St Andrews double sided cross and a positional sex horse. Fantasy Fridays change locations and may lack a play suite, and Meet & Greets typically do not include on-premise play. Hotel parties list only RSVPs made on the club's website, and men may enter play areas only escorted by a woman, or face removal without refund and a ban from future events. California law bars outside alcohol from the event room, so guests buy from the full bar except at BYOB events. Pasties are required in the dance and social areas, lingerie or less is asked in the Play Suite, and cameras, drugs and prostitution are banned.

Genesis Club describes itself on Instagram as “a private, discreet lifestyle club in Memphis, dedicated to community for ethical non-monogamy in all its forms”, and is listed at 5367 Knight Arnold Road. Its former website, which no longer loads and whose newest readable copy dates from 2020, described a private club for couples and singles aged 21 and over, with a live DJ, dancing and a “no pressure atmosphere”. It was BYOB, with drink setups, ice and snacks supplied, and offered new visitors a tour and a membership form on the first visit with valid ID. That site also set a dress code of contemporary cocktail, lounge or night club attire, banned cameras and controlled substances, kept the upstairs area for couples only, and stated that “No means no”.

Club Love Ltd

Bristol, Bristol

On-Premise Club

Club Love Ltd is a queer-owned, sex-positive members club rooted in Bristol's underground kink and fetish scene. Founded and run by a queer team, it describes itself as a space where underground clubbing, queer liberation, and uninhibited self-expression collide. Events are held at The Loco Klub, a venue occupying the Victorian former Ash Pits beneath Bristol Temple Meads at Clock Tower Yard, BS1 6QH — a network of sprawling brick tunnels and raw industrial architecture that gives the nights a distinctly immersive, subterranean character. Annual membership is mandatory for main events and is subject to a safeguarding screening process; the team evaluates each application to confirm that prospective members understand the club's guidelines and ethos before approving access. Membership costs £38 plus VAT, paid in person at an event. The club operates three recurring event strands. The flagship Club Love nights run roughly monthly on Fridays or Saturdays, from 22:00 to 04:00, and are open to all approved members and their guests. The venue is configured with a main dance floor — music is curated by DJs spanning house, disco, tech house and breaks, with an emphasis on LGBTQI+ artists — alongside dedicated play spaces that include a fully rigged dungeon. Climax Clique is a separate strand for FLINTA attendees (Femme, Lesbian, Intersex, Non-binary, Trans, Agender), running quarterly. Cottage, the third strand, is a cruising space and play party for cis and trans men and non-binary people aligned with gay male culture. A queer-led wellbeing team, trained by Bristol Drugs Project and Bristol Nights, staffs every event, and a traffic light safeword system (green, amber, red) operates across all shared play spaces. Condoms, dams, lube and safer-sex supplies are provided; solo entry into play spaces is not permitted, and staff assess sobriety and consent at the entrance to those areas. Dress code is strictly enforced: leather, PVC, latex, rubber, mesh, harnesses, drag, and fetish or kink-coded attire are the standard; everyday streetwear, denim, tracksuits and plain T-shirts are not admitted. A no-phones policy is absolute — devices must remain out of sight at all times, with immediate ejection and a permanent ban the consequence of any photography or recording. All events are 20-plus with valid photographic ID required. Tickets for each event are purchased separately via Headfirst Bristol; membership applications close at 5 pm the day before each event, and each member may bring one guest who must enter alongside them.

Private Lifestyle Club

Club Safe Word describes itself as “a members-only community for adult lifestyle minded individuals” of all genders and orientations, and calls itself San Diego’s private lifestyle club. It hosts meet and greets and private events, and its San Diego calendar lists karaoke and comedy evenings, costume parties and rope practice sessions, some of them co-hosted or run by other community groups. The club publishes no street address. The club says its meet and greets, which are non-play events, help validate new members, and it recommends that members attend at least one before joining private events, whatever their experience. Joining starts with a free profile and an approval process that asks for photos, one of which must clearly show the face and may be kept private. A paid membership adds site features and event discounts but does not include event admission. Its rules ask for an enthusiastic yes and treat any gray area as a no, and they bar drugs and prostitution and, unless an event says otherwise, cameras and recording devices. Overly intoxicated guests are asked to leave or denied entry, couples are asked to arrive and depart together, and breaking club or event rules can mean removal from an event or from the club.

Jo & David's Swingers Parties

Chamcook, New Brunswick

House Party

Jo & David's Swingers Parties says “These parties are genuine house parties” and that it is not a swingers club. The hosts hold them in their own home in Chamcook for guests on a guestlist. Parties are usually on Saturdays, as Greedy Girls nights, Couples and Singles parties or Couples Only parties. The 3,600-square-foot house has three levels. The bottom floor has a self-service bar with seating for 20-plus, lockers and a playroom that serves as a darkroom at some events. The main floor has a kitchen and dining area that is a no-sex safe zone, a lounge that doubles as an exhibitionist playroom, and a playroom with two queen beds; upstairs are two more playrooms. Outside are a fire pit, a smoking area and a hot tub that closes in snow or ice, with off-road parking. Only guests with a verified profile on the website can book, and the hosts can refuse or remove guests. Couples and Singles parties admit a limited, equal number of single ladies and single men, Greedy Girls parties admit more single men, and Couples Only parties exclude singles. Guests must be 18, or 19 for the bar and alcohol; drinks and a buffet are provided. Dress is “clubwear or sexier” or nudity, cameras and camera phones are banned, and “No always means NO.”

Le Boudoir Club

London, London

On-Premise Club

Le Boudoir describes itself as “a 21 years and up, ENM members only club”, an adult lifestyle social club in London for the lifestyle and LGBTQ+ communities. Its events run on Thursdays, Fridays and Saturdays, including themed nights and a hosted newbie hour on the first Saturday of each month. The club uses a number of venues, the most used within a few minutes of Liverpool Street and Tower Bridge. Its event pages for the Le Boudoir venue describe three floors: a licensed cocktail bar, a vaulted fetish room with play cubicles, a swing, a spanking bench, a St Andrew’s Cross and restraints, three large private rooms, a loft play space and an open-plan group room. Lockers and a cloakroom are usually available, and private lockable playrooms suit guests who prefer not to be engaged by others. Everyone must be pre-registered and approved, which is free but not guaranteed, and nobody can join at the club. Tickets are bought through the site, and the address is included in the ticket confirmation email. Photo ID is checked at the front desk. Thursday and Friday nights include single men, with numbers capped on Fridays, while Saturdays are predominantly for couples and single women. Outside alcohol and drugs are not allowed, recording devices are banned, and the club may refuse entry to anyone who looks unkempt or ignores the dress code.

Night Pleasures is a Chicago-area lifestyle club run by hosts Lloyd and Sharon out of a Lombard, IL mailing address, though the parties themselves are held off-premise at rotating partner venues rather than a fixed clubhouse. According to the club's own listing, events have been hosted at two locations: Couples Choice in Chicago and Private Affairs in Dekalb, giving members access to established on-premise spaces -- Private Affairs alone offers roughly 5,000 square feet with a bar, DJ and dance floor, social area, shower rooms, themed back playrooms and a jacuzzi. Night Pleasures bills itself as a club "of true lifestylers" catering to couples who want to be at "the very pinnacle of this lifestyle," and it is strictly couples-only, with no single men or single women admitted under its own banner. The schedule runs on a two-tier rhythm: Saturday parties are described as charged, high-energy affairs for more experienced lifestylers, while Sunday parties are pitched as more relaxed and better suited to couples new to the scene. Entry is by interview -- prospective members are asked to call ahead to be screened before attending -- which keeps the group curated rather than open to walk-ins.

Prestige Club Escapes

Franklin Park, IL

Private Club for Adult Couples

Prestige Club Escapes describes itself as “a private club that caters strictly to couples,” offering rooms and suites for adult couples at three Chicago-area properties: Ambiance in Franklin Park, Aura in Midlothian and Axis in Chicago. It operates around the clock with 24/7 check-in options, and stays are booked in blocks from four hours up to overnight. Every room and suite at all three properties has a king-size bed, tilt-position cushions, a tantra chair, a vibe lighting system, bed-surround mirrors, a fireplace, a rainfall shower head and a flat-panel TV with adult video channels, and select rooms and suites add hot tubs, spa tubs and steam showers. Aura, which the club says has “ultra modern design,” also offers penthouse suites. Only members and their one original guest may stay, and both must be 21 or older; single-person reservations and rentals are not accepted, and visitors, parties, children and pets are not allowed. Applicants upload a driver’s license, state ID or passport, and the club reviews each application, including public records, and may deny it. Reservations are recommended but not required. Guests are asked to keep noise, music and TV at a reasonable volume, and the club may remove guests and end a membership for violations.

Purple Mamba Club

West Bridgford, Nottinghamshire

On-Premise Club

Purple Mamba Club describes itself as a “Private Members Club for Liberated Adults”. It is a club at the rear of 3-5 Radcliffe Road in West Bridgford, Nottingham, and it opens Thursday to Sunday. The club says it is aimed primarily at couples, accepts single women and single men as members, and is managed by a female staff leader. The venue has a fully stocked licensed members bar, which also serves non-alcoholic drinks and coffees, and private rooms that run “from the romantic to kink focused”. Lockers and a reception security box hold phones and cameras, and condoms are free. The calendar mixes themed parties run by hosts with kink nights, plus workshops for newcomer couples, single women and single men. Membership is required for club events. Applications are made in person with photo ID, not online, and not everyone is accepted; new members serve a 48-hour probationary period. Single men face very limited places and an interview. Entry is for over-21s, large groups are refused, and singles are limited on Friday and Saturday nights. Management can refuse entry for work wear, dirty or casual clothing. House rules include consent at all times, no cameras or recording devices without permission, no smoking or vaping, and confidentiality.

Rio's Naturist Spa

London, London

Naturist Health Spa

Rio's describes itself as “a purpose built spa open 7 days a week”, a naturist health spa on Kentish Town Road in London for adults aged 21 and over. It works on a pay-as-you-use basis with no membership, which the club explains by saying that so many visitors come to central London that a membership would not be fair. Its own site says it has been established for over 20 years and has had a complete refurbishment. The facilities include three steam rooms, two sauna cabins, three large Jacuzzis and a plunge pool. Beyond the wet areas there is a relaxation area where guests can enjoy teas, coffees and soft drinks, which the club describes as “a place to meet new friends”, along with a television lounge, a host of relaxation rooms and an outdoor garden for sunbathing in the summer months that also serves as the smoking area. The spa opens at midday every day, running through the night into the early morning from Thursday to Saturday and closing earlier on the other evenings. Entry is mixed, except on Saturday evenings, when admission is strictly mixed couples only. The club says daytime is calm and a good time for nervous first-timers, while evenings get busier and livelier. Guests must be 21 or over, and the entry page tells anyone under 21 to leave.

Samantha's Place

Unverified

London, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Samantha's Place appears to have permanently closed, most likely in late 2016 or early 2017. The club's website has not been updated since November 2016, its last posted event was November 12, 2016, and a structured audit by swingersontario.com in April 2021 listed it among clubs presumed closed. Founded in 2000 by a London-area couple known to members as Samantha and Greg, it billed itself as Southwestern Ontario's longest-running lifestyle club and for most of its life the only such club west of the GTA. The founders sold to Skye and Todd, a younger London couple who had been regular attendees, with the handover taking place around 2016. Both ownerships maintained the same format and pricing structure through to the final events. Samantha's Place ran as a strictly off-premise club, meaning no sexual activity or genital nudity was permitted at events — a policy stated prominently on the site and central to its identity as a venue for meeting, dancing, and flirting rather than a play space. Monthly themed Saturday nights were held at a private licensed venue in east London, just east of the Highbury and Dundas intersection; the specific address was disclosed to registered guests by email only, never listed publicly. Doors opened at 9:30 pm with an early-bird discount window until 9:45 pm, and guests were asked to arrive by 11 pm. The crowd spanned the late twenties to early fifties, with a core demographic in the 30–45 range, and first-timers made up at least a quarter of any given evening. Themes were encouraged but not required — Halloween drew near-total compliance, other themes considerably less so — and the general dress expectation was smart-casual to sexy. Music was top-40 with a seasoning of eighties and nineties tracks. A licensed bar operated at upscale-bar prices, door prizes sponsored by adult retailers including the Stag Shop and Love Shop were drawn around 11:30 pm, and occasional sponsored demonstrations — rope work, wax play, lap dancing — added variety to certain events.

The Green Door

Las Vegas, NV

On-Premise Club

The Green Door describes itself as “a safe place where consenting adults can live out their wildest fantasies”. The club operates in Las Vegas, Nevada, on East Sahara Avenue, in a facility of more than 12,000 square feet, and says it was founded in 1998. Its tour page names a game room, the GD Flick Room, a Chill & Relax Spa, a Shadow Box Room, a Blue Room, The Dungeon and couples areas. Guests must be 18 or older, and no reservation or invitation is required; passes or memberships are bought at the club's cashier cage on the night. Singles may not enter the Couples Only areas, and may enter the couples-plus-one area only when invited and escorted by its host. The dress code is “dress to impress”, with extra rules for single men. No alcohol is served or allowed, no food or beverages are permitted, smoking is permitted, and cameras and recording devices are banned.

The Playhouse is a lifestyle social club serving the Central Okanagan, conceived in Kelowna, British Columbia by an operator using the pseudonym Paulina Austin. The concept emerged publicly in 2018, when Austin sought investors for a permanent brick-and-mortar venue and gauged community interest through an anonymous survey. Finding that roughly 75 per cent of respondents were supportive, she pressed ahead despite the failure to secure funding, pivoting in May 2019 to a pop-up party format that would allow the club to operate while the permanent space remained aspirational. The original venue vision was relatively ambitious for a mid-sized BC city: Austin envisioned separate social and intimate wings under one roof, with a fully licensed bar and lounge, a dance floor, a dance pole, themed rooms, and by-the-hour private spaces. The pop-up model that replaced it is deliberately stripped back — events are held at undisclosed locations in the Central Okanagan, capped at 25 couples per gathering, and run with an emphasis on discretion and low pressure. Condoms are provided, and a dedicated private room is set aside for first-timers or shy attendees who want to attend without feeling obligated to participate in anything beyond socialising. Admission to pop-up events is $30 CAD per couple, and attendance is restricted to couples only — singles are not admitted. All guests must sign a waiver on arrival. Austin has described the philosophy in plain terms: everything is allowed, but nothing has to happen. The club positions itself as a transparent, above-board alternative to what Austin characterises as Kelowna's existing but largely hidden underground swinging scene, having confirmed with the city and local law enforcement that its operations are lawful. The club maintains a presence on Instagram as @playhouse_swingers_club_.

Torture Garden

London, London

Club Night / Event Brand

Torture Garden describes itself as “a community, a family” for anyone who wants to explore their fetish alter ego. It is a London fetish and body art club night rather than a venue: the club says it has no permanent space and moves between London venues such as Electrowerkz, Ministry of Sound and Scala, and holds parties only on listed dates. It began in October 1990, and its monthly London events draw between 1,000 and 2,500 people. Events are multi-roomed, and the club says it currently runs three to six rooms. Named spaces include a Club Arena for dance music, a Ballroom, a Dungeon playroom and a couples room; facilities vary by venue. Fully licensed bars and a coat and bag cloakroom are provided. Tickets are bought in advance through the club’s website and shown in the Dice app, and the club says 95% of parties sell out. The club welcomes all genders and sexualities, and the couples room admits only couples, with no groups. A head-to-toe fetish dress code applies to everyone and is checked at the door and again inside; guests out of dress code are asked to leave without a refund. Guests complete a consent form before attending, photography including selfies is banned, and touching anyone without permission means removal and a ban.

Variations and Dreams is a lifestyle social club based in Cambridge, Ontario, drawing couples from across the greater Waterloo Region. The club maintains a deliberately low profile — no public website is listed on lifestyle directories, and the street address is not publicly advertised. Contact is made directly by phone at (519) 570-9739. Gatherings take the form of theme-oriented get-togethers and dances held on a regular basis, with the atmosphere characterized as friendly and welcoming. The club is reported to admit couples only, with a minimum age of 25. Operating format — whether events are hosted on-premise or at private locations — has not been publicly confirmed; prospective guests should contact the club directly for current event details and access information.

Winnipeg Couples Social Club

Unverified

Winnipeg, Manitoba

Social Club

Winnipeg Couples Social Club (WCSC) is a Manitoba-based lifestyle community for couples who are in or interested in the swinging lifestyle. Founded as Prairie Swing Club in October 1999 and rebranded under its current name in March 2001, the club draws members from Winnipeg and an unusually wide regional catchment spanning Saskatchewan, northwestern Ontario, Minnesota, and North Dakota. With over 100 couple memberships and a volunteer executive, the club operates as a community-run organisation rather than a commercial venue. It holds membership in NASCA International and carries the EOLO (Equal Opportunity Lifestyle Organization) designation, affirming that membership is open to couples of all races and nationalities. As a non-venue club, WCSC does not maintain a permanent physical space. Social life centres on two categories of events: off-site functions — coffee nights, bar nights, and socials held at rotating Winnipeg locations — where no nudity, sexual contact, or drugs are permitted, and sexy clothing is welcome but BYOB is not; and on-site parties held in member homes or at a private club venue, which involve adult activity governed by the host's own rules. Typical off-site attendance runs 35–50 couples; private on-site gatherings attract 10–20 couples. Past events have included a New Year's Bash, a Valentine's social, and a Mardi Gras party. A standing weekly coffee night reportedly runs every Thursday evening from 7:30 to 9:00 p.m. at a centrally located Winnipeg cafe. Annual membership costs $10.00 CAD per couple, and grants access to a password-protected private website with member profiles, photos, and club announcements. Prospective members must contact the club by email; Winnipeg-area applicants are met in person, while out-of-towners are screened by telephone. Event attendance costs $25.00 CAD per couple. Cameras and recording devices are prohibited at all club functions without exception — members wishing to be photographed must request a management-taken photo, delivered digitally. The club primary rule: No means No, enforced with one warning, then expulsion.