11 clubs
Couples-only lifestyle clubs — no single males or single females admitted. Balanced, partner-focused venues for a more controlled atmosphere.
As of 2026, there are 11 couples only lifestyle clubs across the US, Canada, UK, Germany, Australia & New Zealand. They span 8 states and provinces, with the most in Ontario (2), London (2), IL (2), Manitoba (1), Greater London (1). 7 are currently verified as active.

Winnipeg, Manitoba
Social Club
Winnipeg Couples Social Club (WCSC) is a Manitoba-based lifestyle community for couples who are in or interested in the swinging lifestyle. Founded as Prairie Swing Club in October 1999 and rebranded under its current name in March 2001, the club draws members from Winnipeg and an unusually wide regional catchment spanning Saskatchewan, northwestern Ontario, Minnesota, and North Dakota. With over 100 couple memberships and a volunteer executive, the club operates as a community-run organisation rather than a commercial venue. It holds membership in NASCA International and carries the EOLO (Equal Opportunity Lifestyle Organization) designation, affirming that membership is open to couples of all races and nationalities. As a non-venue club, WCSC does not maintain a permanent physical space. Social life centres on two categories of events: off-site functions — coffee nights, bar nights, and socials held at rotating Winnipeg locations — where no nudity, sexual contact, or drugs are permitted, and sexy clothing is welcome but BYOB is not; and on-site parties held in member homes or at a private club venue, which involve adult activity governed by the host's own rules. Typical off-site attendance runs 35–50 couples; private on-site gatherings attract 10–20 couples. Past events have included a New Year's Bash, a Valentine's social, and a Mardi Gras party. A standing weekly coffee night reportedly runs every Thursday evening from 7:30 to 9:00 p.m. at a centrally located Winnipeg cafe. Annual membership costs $10.00 CAD per couple, and grants access to a password-protected private website with member profiles, photos, and club announcements. Prospective members must contact the club by email; Winnipeg-area applicants are met in person, while out-of-towners are screened by telephone. Event attendance costs $25.00 CAD per couple. Cameras and recording devices are prohibited at all club functions without exception — members wishing to be photographed must request a management-taken photo, delivered digitally. The club primary rule: No means No, enforced with one warning, then expulsion.

London, Greater London
BDSM Club
Fetish Week London (FWL) is the UK's largest annual gathering for gay, bi, queer, trans and curious men into gear and fetish, presented by Recon — the London fetish dating brand operated by T101 Ltd. Rather than a single fixed club, it is an eight-day, city-wide festival that in its own words returns 'to the UK's capital... with another fun-packed schedule of events over 8 full days.' The 2026 edition, running 5-12 July, marked the milestone 15th Anniversary and again made Electrowerkz — a warehouse venue at 7 Torrens Street, behind Angel tube in Islington (EC1V 1NQ) — its 'exclusive and kinky home base for the week.' The programme is built around a spine of official events alongside dozens of external parties hosted by London's fetish retailers and kink-friendly bars. Recurring headline nights include the invite-only Recon Members' Party, a film Screening, Fetish Cabaret, a Masterclass evening of educational demos, the Sports Cruise, Rubber Gear, the FWL Sunday Social, and the main event, Full Fetish, which 'takes over the entire underground warehouse-style venue' with a dedicated BDSM space, watersports and cruising maze, a fisting area, House/Pop/Techno dancefloors, a VIP room, and a newer quieter zone for neurodivergent kinksters. From Wednesday to Saturday a daytime FWL Hub and Gear Market runs at Electrowerkz, pairing fetish retailers and a second-hand gear swap-and-shop with DJs, extended educational demos, discussion panels and daily Sober Recovery meet-ups. Entry is strictly over-18 and photo ID is required at the door. Most events enforce a dress code, with the site's guide spanning leather, rubber, sports, skinhead, uniform/military and pup gear (suit and tie also counts) under two firm rules: 'naked is not gear,' and no nazi, far-right, fascist or extremist symbolism, on pain of refused entry. Tickets are sold in advance through DICE — Full Fetish, for example, is GBP 30 general / GBP 60 VIP — and a photographer or videographer records the events, with attendees free to opt out on the night without being denied entry. The week is community-minded rather than gamified, with sober support built into the schedule.

Fort Lauderdale, FL
Cruise
Celebrating a decade on the water, Bliss Cruise is a full-ship charter lifestyle experience that charters some of the world's largest vessels including Royal Caribbean's Wonder of the Seas and Celebrity Reflection out of Fort Lauderdale and Miami for week-long voyages to Caribbean ports such as Cozumel, Aruba, Curacao, and Grand Turk. Founded around 2015 and operating under Bliss Mgt, LLC, it has grown into what the company describes as the world's largest lifestyle cruise event, with sailings carrying upwards of 6,000 guests on the biggest charters. Every sailing is strictly couples-only and reserved for adults 21 and older, with an atmosphere deliberately built around curiosity without pressure. Onboard, the experience is layered across multiple venues running more than 400 events per charter. Clothing-optional pools and hot tubs open up when the ship is at sea, while after dark the schedule shifts to daily themed parties fueled by international DJs and burlesque and erotic performances. Multiple dedicated play areas cover different energies: a couples-only playroom, a fetish dungeon, an all-passengers open room, and an outdoor space. Days fill out with meet-and-greet mixers, immersive seminars, and clothing-optional signature excursions in port. The crowd spans newcomers to seasoned regulars, and reviewers consistently note that friendliness aboard runs high. Consent culture is baked into the program: every guest must sign an Acceptable Behavior Policy at the dock before boarding, and photography is banned in clothing-optional areas, playrooms, and during theme nights. A dedicated Bliss App handles event scheduling, couple-to-couple messaging, and preference matching, making it the only lifestyle charter with its own purpose-built mobile platform.
Cambridge, Ontario
Variations and Dreams is a lifestyle social club based in Cambridge, Ontario, drawing couples from across the greater Waterloo Region. The club maintains a deliberately low profile — no public website is listed on lifestyle directories, and the street address is not publicly advertised. Contact is made directly by phone at (519) 570-9739. Gatherings take the form of theme-oriented get-togethers and dances held on a regular basis, with the atmosphere characterized as friendly and welcoming. The club is reported to admit couples only, with a minimum age of 25. Operating format — whether events are hosted on-premise or at private locations — has not been publicly confirmed; prospective guests should contact the club directly for current event details and access information.

London, London
Fetish Club Night
Club AntiChrist launched in 2004 under promoter d.Void at Camden's Electric Ballroom, before being relaunched in 2007 by Missy with a full multi-room format that included five live bands and several dancefloors. Over the following years it moved through a string of London venues — Colosseum, Electrowerkz, Fire, and others — before settling at Scala, the 1920s-built former cinema at 275 Pentonville Road in King's Cross. Self-billed as ‘Goth Fetish Industrial Metal Mayhem,’ the night draws from overlapping worlds of metal, goth, industrial music, performance art, and fetish subculture. Queer-friendly and inclusive by design, it marked its 21st year in 2025 and is one of London's longest-running alternative events. Scala's multi-floor layout accommodates five distinct zones. Three dancefloors cover different sonic territories: The Hole runs metal, the Hellfire Room handles goth, post-punk, and dark electro, and The Foyer covers 80s and new romantic sounds and hosts a shibari corner. The Theatre of Sin stages live bands and continuous performances — fire acts, aerial work, burlesque, comedy, and cabaret — throughout the night. The Dungeon is a purpose-fitted BDSM play space equipped by Benchmarxxx with a St Andrew's Cross, spanking benches, a gynae chair, and a swing; experienced Dungeon Monitors wearing flashing lanyards supervise throughout and may halt unsafe play. A separate dark playroom offers more privacy for couples and groups. An outdoor garden provides a retreat, hot food is served on-site, and the building has gender-neutral toilets, a cloakroom, and ATMs. Events run roughly five to six times per year at Scala, typically themed — a birthday party each June, vampire balls in September, a ‘Not NYE’ party in early January, and occasional themed specials. Doors open at 9pm; last entry is at 2am and the venue runs until 6am. Advance tickets are sold via Dice.fm at approximately £36.50 per person (prices vary by tier and event); door entry is £40 cash. All attendees must be 18 or over and present original physical photo ID — driving licence, passport, or PASS hologram card; digital copies are refused. An enforced alternative dress code requires goth, punk, fetishwear, PVC, rubber, lace, cosplay, or similar; the stated minimum is ‘Alt-Comfortable: combats, band tee, boots.’ Street clothes, regular denim, white trainers, and standard suits are refused at the door.

Franklin Park, IL
On-Premise Club
Prestige Club Escapes is a private, members-only lifestyle hotel brand for adult couples, operating three distinct Chicago-area suite destinations: AMBIANCE in Franklin Park, AURA in Midlothian, and AXIS in Chicago. AMBIANCE, the original property, sits three miles south of O'Hare on Mannheim Road and is styled as a polished, long-running classic with rooms tailored to returning members. AURA, the newest and most upscale of the three, is located on Cicero Avenue near Midway Airport and leans into an ultra-modern aesthetic with penthouse suites and premium finishes. AXIS, closest to downtown Chicago on Pulaski Road, rounds out the trio with bold, high-design rooms and suites. Across all three locations, every room and suite includes a king-size bed, flat-panel TV with adult video channels, tilt-position cushions, a Tantra chair, mood/vibe lighting, and a rainfall showerhead; select rooms and suites add hot tubs, spa tubs, and steam showers. Stays are booked in flexible blocks, from a 4-hour visit up to a full overnight, rather than fixed nightly rates. Access to all three properties requires active Prestige Club membership; there is no walk-in or public-facing option. Reservations are not mandatory but are strongly recommended, and rooms are held for one hour past the stated arrival time.
Kelowna, British Columbia
The Playhouse is a lifestyle social club serving the Central Okanagan, conceived in Kelowna, British Columbia by an operator using the pseudonym Paulina Austin. The concept emerged publicly in 2018, when Austin sought investors for a permanent brick-and-mortar venue and gauged community interest through an anonymous survey. Finding that roughly 75 per cent of respondents were supportive, she pressed ahead despite the failure to secure funding, pivoting in May 2019 to a pop-up party format that would allow the club to operate while the permanent space remained aspirational. The original venue vision was relatively ambitious for a mid-sized BC city: Austin envisioned separate social and intimate wings under one roof, with a fully licensed bar and lounge, a dance floor, a dance pole, themed rooms, and by-the-hour private spaces. The pop-up model that replaced it is deliberately stripped back — events are held at undisclosed locations in the Central Okanagan, capped at 25 couples per gathering, and run with an emphasis on discretion and low pressure. Condoms are provided, and a dedicated private room is set aside for first-timers or shy attendees who want to attend without feeling obligated to participate in anything beyond socialising. Admission to pop-up events is $30 CAD per couple, and attendance is restricted to couples only — singles are not admitted. All guests must sign a waiver on arrival. Austin has described the philosophy in plain terms: everything is allowed, but nothing has to happen. The club positions itself as a transparent, above-board alternative to what Austin characterises as Kelowna's existing but largely hidden underground swinging scene, having confirmed with the city and local law enforcement that its operations are lawful. The club maintains a presence on Instagram as @playhouse_swingers_club_.
Lombard, IL
Night Pleasures is a Chicago-area lifestyle club run by hosts Lloyd and Sharon out of a Lombard, IL mailing address, though the parties themselves are held off-premise at rotating partner venues rather than a fixed clubhouse. According to the club's own listing, events have been hosted at two locations: Couples Choice in Chicago and Private Affairs in Dekalb, giving members access to established on-premise spaces -- Private Affairs alone offers roughly 5,000 square feet with a bar, DJ and dance floor, social area, shower rooms, themed back playrooms and a jacuzzi. Night Pleasures bills itself as a club "of true lifestylers" catering to couples who want to be at "the very pinnacle of this lifestyle," and it is strictly couples-only, with no single men or single women admitted under its own banner. The schedule runs on a two-tier rhythm: Saturday parties are described as charged, high-energy affairs for more experienced lifestylers, while Sunday parties are pitched as more relaxed and better suited to couples new to the scene. Entry is by interview -- prospective members are asked to call ahead to be screened before attending -- which keeps the group curated rather than open to walk-ins.

London, Ontario
On-Premise Club
Samantha's Place appears to have permanently closed, most likely in late 2016 or early 2017. The club's website has not been updated since November 2016, its last posted event was November 12, 2016, and a structured audit by swingersontario.com in April 2021 listed it among clubs presumed closed. Founded in 2000 by a London-area couple known to members as Samantha and Greg, it billed itself as Southwestern Ontario's longest-running lifestyle club and for most of its life the only such club west of the GTA. The founders sold to Skye and Todd, a younger London couple who had been regular attendees, with the handover taking place around 2016. Both ownerships maintained the same format and pricing structure through to the final events. Samantha's Place ran as a strictly off-premise club, meaning no sexual activity or genital nudity was permitted at events — a policy stated prominently on the site and central to its identity as a venue for meeting, dancing, and flirting rather than a play space. Monthly themed Saturday nights were held at a private licensed venue in east London, just east of the Highbury and Dundas intersection; the specific address was disclosed to registered guests by email only, never listed publicly. Doors opened at 9:30 pm with an early-bird discount window until 9:45 pm, and guests were asked to arrive by 11 pm. The crowd spanned the late twenties to early fifties, with a core demographic in the 30–45 range, and first-timers made up at least a quarter of any given evening. Themes were encouraged but not required — Halloween drew near-total compliance, other themes considerably less so — and the general dress expectation was smart-casual to sexy. Music was top-40 with a seasoning of eighties and nineties tracks. A licensed bar operated at upscale-bar prices, door prizes sponsored by adult retailers including the Stag Shop and Love Shop were drawn around 11:30 pm, and occasional sponsored demonstrations — rope work, wax play, lap dancing — added variety to certain events.

Bristol, Bristol
On-Premise Club
Club Love Ltd is a queer-owned, sex-positive members club rooted in Bristol's underground kink and fetish scene. Founded and run by a queer team, it describes itself as a space where underground clubbing, queer liberation, and uninhibited self-expression collide. Events are held at The Loco Klub, a venue occupying the Victorian former Ash Pits beneath Bristol Temple Meads at Clock Tower Yard, BS1 6QH — a network of sprawling brick tunnels and raw industrial architecture that gives the nights a distinctly immersive, subterranean character. Annual membership is mandatory for main events and is subject to a safeguarding screening process; the team evaluates each application to confirm that prospective members understand the club's guidelines and ethos before approving access. Membership costs £38 plus VAT, paid in person at an event. The club operates three recurring event strands. The flagship Club Love nights run roughly monthly on Fridays or Saturdays, from 22:00 to 04:00, and are open to all approved members and their guests. The venue is configured with a main dance floor — music is curated by DJs spanning house, disco, tech house and breaks, with an emphasis on LGBTQI+ artists — alongside dedicated play spaces that include a fully rigged dungeon. Climax Clique is a separate strand for FLINTA attendees (Femme, Lesbian, Intersex, Non-binary, Trans, Agender), running quarterly. Cottage, the third strand, is a cruising space and play party for cis and trans men and non-binary people aligned with gay male culture. A queer-led wellbeing team, trained by Bristol Drugs Project and Bristol Nights, staffs every event, and a traffic light safeword system (green, amber, red) operates across all shared play spaces. Condoms, dams, lube and safer-sex supplies are provided; solo entry into play spaces is not permitted, and staff assess sobriety and consent at the entrance to those areas. Dress code is strictly enforced: leather, PVC, latex, rubber, mesh, harnesses, drag, and fetish or kink-coded attire are the standard; everyday streetwear, denim, tracksuits and plain T-shirts are not admitted. A no-phones policy is absolute — devices must remain out of sight at all times, with immediate ejection and a permanent ban the consequence of any photography or recording. All events are 20-plus with valid photographic ID required. Tickets for each event are purchased separately via Headfirst Bristol; membership applications close at 5 pm the day before each event, and each member may bring one guest who must enter alongside them.

London, London
Event Organizer
RIOT Party UK is a queer, sex-positive rave collective founded in London in 2023 by Maedb Joy and co-organiser Alex, both of whose backgrounds span music promotion and community activism. Conceived as a deliberate response to the lack of diversity in kink and lifestyle nightlife, RIOT explicitly centres QTIPOC communities, sex workers, and the wider LGBTQ+ crowd — placing them at the centre of the DJ lineups, performer rosters, and room culture rather than treating them as add-on constituencies. The collective operates as a roving promoter without a permanent premises, running monthly events primarily in London and with additional dates in Manchester and Bristol. RIOT's primary London home is Electrowerkz, an industrial multi-room venue at 7 Torrens Street in Islington's Angel area, selected in part for its fully ground-floor, step-free layout. Each party is divided into distinct zones: a multi-genre dancefloor anchored by live DJ sets (Dancehall, Afrobeats, House, UK Garage, Baile Funk, and Strip Hop feature regularly), a cabaret and performance stage, a queer independent marketplace with food vendors, workshop and exhibition spaces, and a fully equipped monitored playroom with BDSM apparatus, shibari-friendly setup, and cleaning supplies provided. Changing rooms, cloakrooms, and an accessible restroom are on-site at every event. A safeguarding team in bright LED armbands circulates throughout; all guests are encouraged to approach them with concerns. London parties typically run on Sunday afternoons and evenings — doors open around 4 pm and close several hours later, with the event running until midnight; special collaborations have run on other days. Tickets are sold in advance through Dice and OutSavvy, typically in the £15–25 range with a Low Income tier available; there are no walk-in purchases. Entry is 18+ and requires physical photo ID — no screenshots or photocopies accepted. Fetishwear or expressive alternative fashion is mandatory at the door across all genders; everyday clubwear, jeans, and items mocking fetish or queer culture are refused, and an outfit pre-approval service is available by email at least 48 hours before the event. Photography and video are banned throughout the venue, camera lenses are covered on arrival, and phones are prohibited in the playroom. No solo play or loitering in play areas is permitted; enthusiastic consent is required before any engagement.