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Lifestyle Club Statistics

According to Find Lifestyle Clubs' database of 444 tracked venues, there are 401 verified active lifestyle clubs across the US, UK, Germany, and Canada — 203 of them in the United States across 46 states. 64% of clubs with verified bar data operate BYOB, and 9% of clubs with stated policies are couples-only.

Clubs by Country

USA

245 tracked · 203 active

United Kingdom

76 tracked · 76 active

Germany

66 tracked · 66 active

Canada

57 tracked · 56 active

US Clubs by State (Top 15)

CA

28 clubs

TX

20 clubs

FL

18 clubs

NY

13 clubs

TN

10 clubs

MI

9 clubs

CO

9 clubs

OH

8 clubs

AZ

8 clubs

NV

8 clubs

MO

8 clubs

IL

8 clubs

PA

8 clubs

NJ

7 clubs

MA

6 clubs

Counts include active and recently closed venues we track in each state.

How Common Is Each Amenity?

Share of clubs with each amenity, among the 373 venues with verified amenity data:

Dance floor

43% (161 clubs)

Private play rooms

26% (97 clubs)

Lockers

26% (97 clubs)

Showers

23% (86 clubs)

Hot tub / jacuzzi

22% (83 clubs)

Dungeon / BDSM area

21% (79 clubs)

DJ

20% (75 clubs)

Pool

20% (74 clubs)

Buffet / food

18% (67 clubs)

Smoking area / patio

15% (55 clubs)

Stripper pole

13% (50 clubs)

Voyeur / viewing area

6% (21 clubs)

BYOB vs Licensed Bars

Of 200 clubs with verified bar policies, 64% operate BYOB (127 venues) while 57 hold liquor licenses. The split is largely regulatory: in most US jurisdictions, a venue permitting on-premise sexual activity cannot hold a liquor license, so clubs let guests bring their own alcohol and provide mixers, ice, and setups instead. Licensed bars are far more common among European venues and US clubs where play happens off-site.

Singles Access Policies

Of the 159 clubs with a verified singles policy:

Admit single men (at least some nights)

41%

Restrict single men (vetting, ratios, select nights)

50%

Couples-only

9%

Policies classified from each club's own stated rules; ambiguous policies are excluded rather than guessed.

Venue Types

On-Premise Club

187 venues

Event Organizer

52 venues

Lifestyle Resort

22 venues

Social Club

15 venues

BDSM Club

11 venues

Bath House

10 venues

Off-Premise Club

10 venues

On-Premise Lifestyle Club

3 venues

Closures

Our database currently records 18 verified club closures, including venues that rebranded or were replaced by successor clubs at the same address. See the full closed clubs registry for what happened to each.

Methodology

Statistics are computed directly from Find Lifestyle Clubs' venue database — 444individually tracked lifestyle venues across four countries. Records are maintained by an editorial verification pipeline that reads each club's own website, pricing pages, and public records. Percentages are always calculated against the subset of clubs with verified data for that field (sample sizes stated inline), never against the full directory. This page recomputes automatically as the database is updated. Cite as: Find Lifestyle Clubs, 2026.

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