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The Sanctuary (Tabu Swingers Sanctuary)

Lansing, MI

Alternative Lifestyle Lounge

Club Tabu, operating its social nights under the name "The Sanctuary," is an adults-only alternative lifestyle lounge located within Fantasies Unlimited, an adult retail store at 3208 S. Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd. in Lansing, Michigan. Despite carrying "swingers" in its social-media name, the venue's own site describes it as rooted in the LGBTQ+ community and states plainly that "the club is not structured as a traditional swingers venue," with its primary audience being gay, bi, trans, and gender-diverse guests, though it says it welcomes respectful guests of other identities. The space centers on a large, deliberately dark and winding maze of pathways and walls, along with private booths, a changing area with lockers, and common social areas. The atmosphere is described as sex-positive and kink-aware, with an emphasis on privacy, discretion, and guest-controlled pacing of interaction; a 2022 news investigation into the venue also referenced a glory-hole setup and a television area used for adult video viewing. Entry requires being 18+ with valid ID, and membership dues are collected per event night rather than as an ongoing membership. Patrons enter through the Fantasies Unlimited retail storefront and must tell the store clerk they are attending Club Tabu/The Sanctuary. House rules prohibit cameras and phone/recording devices inside the event space, restrict sexual activity to designated private areas, and ban loitering in parking lots or common areas; illegal drugs and disrespectful, non-consensual, or aggressive behavior result in immediate removal.

Tentaciones LA

Los Angeles, CA

On-Premise Club

Tentaciones is a Latin-flavored lifestyle club in downtown Los Angeles, positioned near the convergence of the 10 and 110 freeways and drawing members from across Southern California — the club notes guests arriving from as far as San Diego and Santa Barbara. It markets itself as a curated, members-only space for couples and singles aged 21 and over, built around Latin music genres (reggaeton, dembow, cumbia, salsa, bachata, merengue, and punta) and an explicit community commitment to consent and respectful behavior. The venue centers on a large dance floor with Latin music curated by resident DJs, ringed by lounge zones with decorative light-up furniture. A section of private velvet-covered play areas is designated for sexual activity, with staff disinfecting the spaces before and after each use; fresh towels, wipes, and condoms are provided as standard, and restrooms are fitted with bidets and seat covers. A full buffet — entrées, fruit, and desserts — is included in the admission price, along with frozen mocktails, juices, and water; no alcohol is sold on the premises. Lockers are available so guests can change outfits during the night. A dedicated laundry bin system and ongoing staff cleaning keep hygiene standards consistent throughout the party. Parties run primarily on Friday and Saturday evenings, with occasional midweek dates for special events; the club's events calendar is the authoritative source for current scheduling and themes. Entry is not open to walk-ins — prospective guests complete an advance approval process through the website before being admitted. Dress code is enforced at the door: men must wear button-down shirts or upscale clubwear, with athletic wear, shorts, sandals, ripped jeans, and caps explicitly turned away; women are encouraged to wear provocative or elegant attire. Phones must be locked away on arrival; no calls, texts, or photos are permitted inside at any time.

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Eden After Dark is an upscale, members-only swinger event brand based in Las Vegas and operating across the American Southwest since 2020. Rather than running a fixed club, it works as a roaming organiser — hosting curated, themed lifestyle parties in penthouse suites, high-end hotels, partner lifestyle clubs, and nightclub takeovers. Membership is by application: approved guests become "Keyholders," and events are not open to the general public. The brand markets itself to sophisticated male–female couples (its stated core demographic is couples aged 28–38) while also welcoming approved singles and the kink and LGBTQ+ communities. Events are pitched as "seriously sensual soirees," with care given to atmosphere, visuals, themes, and performances, and the exact location is shared only with invited guests. A recurring flagship is the Fetish & Glam Ball, staged at Gipsy Nightclub in Las Vegas — recent editions include a Kinktober night in October 2025 and an AVN-week edition in January 2026. The dress code is "dress to impress": no gym wear, sagging pants, ball caps, political attire, or open-toed shoes/flip-flops. The organiser never sells alcohol, instead providing mixers, water, and non-alcoholic drinks, so events are effectively BYOB, and everything is consent-first with no pressure to take part in adult activities. To attend, prospective guests apply as Keyholders at edenafterdark.com; admission prices vary by event and are disclosed on the invitation, and tickets for public-facing events are sold through Eventbrite. Inquiries go to a text-only line (1-844-722-7632) or Admin@EdenAfterDark.com. New members receive an onboarding email covering lifestyle etiquette, and ladies-only or ladies-priority nights run periodically to balance attendance. Beyond Las Vegas, the brand advertises events in San Diego, Los Angeles, and Temecula, California, though Las Vegas remains its consistently confirmed base of operations.

The Warehouse

Caldwell, ID

Social Club

The Warehouse — known to regulars as TW — is Treasure Valley's only private lifestyle social club catering to both the kink and swinger communities. Operated by AOK Collective Inc, a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit, the club relocated to its current Caldwell location, off the 10th Avenue exit, in April 2026. In keeping with its private, members-only model, the venue address is never posted publicly; it is shared exclusively via confirmation email with vetted members after they complete the online membership and vetting process. The space runs across multiple levels. The main floor holds a social area and kitchen with complimentary finger foods; an enclosed breezeway is fitted with couches, a dance floor, and a staffed Rendezvous Bar — BYOB, with an optional $20-per-couple bar service where the bartender stores and pours your drinks — and a live DJ who takes requests throughout the night. Upstairs are two VIP cabana rooms (the Playboy Bunny Room with three cabanas and the City Loft Room with four) alongside a large open play area with four queen beds. The lower level contains a stripper pole room and a sex-positive room with five open play queen beds. A dedicated dungeon — outfitted with dual crosses, two fire stations, two impact benches, and a massage table — is active on Debauchery Nights and closed on Pineapple Nights. The club operates three Saturdays per month, 8pm to 2am (7:30pm for VIP and Platinum members). Events alternate between two formats: Debauchery Nights blend kink and swinger play with a fully operational dungeon and optional scenes led by service tops; Pineapple Nights are swinger-focused with a wristband system signaling voyeur, social, or play intentions. Annual membership is $20 per person; per-event entry is a tiered donation of $30 per person if paid by 10pm the night before, or $40 at the door. An optional Platinum membership ($350 per couple or single-plus-one per year) adds early entry, discounted tickets, long-term alcohol storage, and a Rendezvous Bar upgrade. Attendance runs 150 to 200-plus on Pineapple Nights and 250-plus on Debauchery Nights, with an age range spanning 18 to 75.

Liberty Rose

Bildstock, Saarland

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Liberty Rose is a private swingers club in Friedrichsthal-Bildstock, a small town in the Saarland region of southwestern Germany, reached via Neunkircher Strasse 10. Run by owner Tanja Neuberger, the club describes itself as a privater Erotiktreff — a private erotic meeting place — and is one of the longer-running venues of its kind in the region. The space covers roughly 200 square metres across two climate-controlled floors and holds up to 100 guests. Five distinct play areas include a gang-bang room, a darkroom, a cuddle nook, a couples-only section with a Czech wall feature, and a mirror room. Supporting facilities run to a licensed bar, sauna, shower area, massage bench, and a changing room with lockable lockers. First-time visitors are offered a guided walkthrough before settling in. Liberty Rose opens four days a week: Tuesdays (10:00–18:00, last entry 16:00) follow a relaxed daytime format; Wednesdays (09:00–midnight, last entry 22:00) are branded Naked Bi Day — towels are tolerated until 16:00, after which complete nudity is compulsory and all clothing, including mesh or transparent items, is forbidden; Fridays (18:00–02:00, last entry midnight) rotate through themed nights including wellness evenings; Saturdays (20:00–03:00, last entry midnight) host cocktail parties and seasonal events. Couple admission is €15–€20 midweek and €25–€30 at weekends, the lower figure applying when a visit is registered in advance by phone, email, or JoyClub. Single men pay €50–€55 midweek or €60–€65 at weekends; single women enter free on most sessions, or €5 on Friday–Saturday without advance registration. Multi-visit VIP cards are available at reduced per-entry rates, with the eleventh visit complimentary.

Purple Mamba Club

West Bridgford, Nottinghamshire

On-Premise Club

Purple Mamba Club is a private members club for adults in West Bridgford, Nottingham, set behind 3-5 Radcliffe Road near Trent Bridge with a discreet rear entrance away from the main road. Operating under its own description as the Midlands' most intimate, exclusive club for liberated adults, it draws a membership predominantly of couples alongside a limited number of single ladies and gentlemen. New applicants are vetted in person with valid photo ID — membership cannot be obtained online — and a 48-hour probationary period follows before full membership is confirmed. The venue runs to a fully licensed members bar, multiple lounge areas fitted with plush furnishings and ambient lighting, a dancefloor, and a selection of private rooms ranging from a romantic bedroom and a boudoir-style space to a well-equipped dungeon. First-time visitors are met at the door by staff and taken on a guided tour before being free to explore. The club holds a 4.7-star average on Google from over 40 reviews, with visitors describing an intimate atmosphere, warm hosting, and a well-presented, respectful crowd. A broad events calendar runs alongside regular house party nights — Play Space sessions on Thursdays, lifestyle workshops for newcomer couples and single ladies, heavy play parties, and ticketed themed nights including Lace, Leather and Latex, Hotwife Soiree, and Sunday Sinners. The club opens Thursday through Sunday: Thursdays 20:00–00:00, Fridays 20:00–02:00, Saturdays 20:00–02:00, and Sundays 18:00–00:00. Annual membership is £40 per rolling year for couples and singles, with a reduced rate of £20 for students and MOD90 card holders. Entry tickets for specific event nights are purchased online and are non-refundable; advance booking is strongly advised on Fridays and Saturdays as capacity is capped. New members must apply in person; single-gent applications are currently limited and require a Sunday-evening interview. Dress code is enforced: plain shirts or suits for gents on Fridays and Saturdays, smart and sexy attire for ladies throughout. All guests must be 21 or older.

HUNTER

London, London

On-Premise Club

HUNTER is a monthly gay leather and fetish night established in 2023, held at Electrowerkz — a nineteenth-century warehouse at 7 Torrens Street in Angel, Islington (EC1V 1NQ). Founded by LeatherDaddy Brew Hunter and co-promoter DJ Scott Steele, the event was named Best Party Concept at the X-Awards 2026 (Darklands, Antwerp) and maintains an uncompromisingly male-to-male and hardcore-play focus. The venue is divided into a progression of dedicated zones. The Foreplay Bar serves as the main DJ stage and hosts the opening Foreplay Happy Hour from 20:00; the Cigar Yard, an outdoor smoking area, opens with the doors. Brew's Bar offers a premium drinks selection on a card-only basis. The Dark Zone and Rawhide Cruising Alley form the play core, supplemented by Cottaging Toilets and a Masters Circle centre-stage platform where Doms and Daddies present and work with their submissives in full view. A Punish.Men.T Corner rounds out the dungeon architecture. The KinXX Gallery rotates monthly fetish art installations and doubles as the venue for Fetish Academy workshops. A Berlin Porno Kino screens across the night, and a professional bootblack service is on hand for boot and gear shining. Full changing facilities and bag storage are provided. The night runs on the third Friday of each month, 20:00 to 03:00, with last entry at 01:30. Brew Hunter hosts a Meat & Greet from 20:30; DJ Steele takes the decks at 21:00; Fetish Academy workshop sessions begin at 21:15; and the hardcore zones formally open at 22:00. The event is strictly 18+ and male-focused. Dress code is enforced at the cloakroom exit and covers leather (boots, harnesses, vests, chaps, motorcycle jackets), rubber, neoprene, and skin or scally-themed fetish wear, as well as K9 gear presented with a handler. Police and military uniforms — real or replica — all sportswear, streetwear, denim, and near-naked appearances are prohibited. Advance tickets are available but do not guarantee entry: the dress code check at the cloakroom gate is final.

Complexe Luxuria

Montreal, Quebec

On-Premise Club

Complexe Luxuria is a members-only libertine club occupying two floors at 8820 Boulevard Saint-Laurent in Montreal's Ahuntsic-Cartierville district. Operating under a fully private club model — both a membership card and a per-night admission fee are required — it opened in 2021 and has established itself as one of Montreal's larger dedicated lifestyle venues. The typical crowd spans ages 21 to 55, with a noticeable lean toward locals in their twenties and thirties; the club positions itself as equally accessible to first-timers and regulars, welcoming couples, single women, and, under controlled conditions, single men. The ground floor functions as a nightclub: two full bars, a main dancefloor with a large disco ball, a small stage used for theatrical themed events (occasionally fitted with a hot tub), six VIP booths with the largest seating up to ten, three separate changing rooms with lockers, and LED ambient lighting throughout. An on-site kitchen serves dinner by advance reservation until 9 pm. The second-floor Luxure section holds more than 20 rooms: a couples room, fantasy rooms, a glass-walled stripper-pole room overlooking the dancefloor below, a swing room, a tantra chair, massage tables, glory holes, a BDSM area with a St. Andrews Cross, and three lockable themed private rooms available by paid reservation. A resident DJ plays every evening. The club opens Fridays from 9 pm to 3 am and Saturdays from 6 pm to 3 am, with occasional Thursday events. Couples pay 40 CAD on Thursdays and Fridays and 60 CAD on Saturdays; Saturday admission requires advance reservation. Single women enter free on all nights with a 25 CAD annual membership. Single men are admitted Thursdays and Fridays with a cap of ten per night on Fridays (75 CAD Thursdays, 100 CAD Fridays), and on Saturdays by chaperone arrangement or certified group membership at 100 CAD (maximum five). Couple memberships run from 40 CAD per month to 125 CAD per year. Photo ID is mandatory at every visit and mobile phones must be stored in a locker immediately after entry.

Members-only BDSM/lifestyle community center

Inversion MKE is a membership-based kink and BDSM community center operating at 615 S 89th St on Milwaukee's west side. The venue occupies the same commercial space as the former Club EASSEL, which operated for years as Milwaukee's BDSM and lifestyle community center. Inversion MKE, LLC obtained a three-year Special Use Permit from the Milwaukee Board of Zoning Appeals on 10 October 2024 (Case BZZA-24-00260, vote 5–0), classifying the space for zoning purposes as an indoor recreation facility. Permit conditions include a blanket prohibition on alcohol on premises at any time, adequate event staffing requirements, and no outdoor advertising beyond permitted signage. The club's community life is organized primarily through FetLife under the handle @InversionMKE, with a parallel Instagram presence at @inversionmke, reflecting its roots in established kink-community networks rather than mainstream nightlife promotion. The venue operates on a structured membership model, offering individual and couple/pair tiers. First-time guests must complete a paid orientation before attending regular events — a practice that emphasizes consent culture, community vetting, and safety briefing over open walk-in access. Memberships are non-refundable and auto-renew on monthly or annual cycles. The space positions itself as a community hub for Milwaukee's kink scene, carrying forward the regional network that had gathered around Club EASSEL at the same address, though the two operations are legally and organizationally distinct. Events run on a recurring weekly schedule: Friday and Saturday evenings are the primary play-party nights, with a shorter Tuesday slot reserved for members and sponsored guests. No alcohol is permitted on the premises at any time — a hard condition of the BOZA permit — making this a dry venue. Signage is limited by the zoning conditions, keeping the venue's street-level footprint deliberately low-key. New members are encouraged to connect through the club's FetLife and Instagram pages for current event listings and orientation scheduling.

The Playgrounds SLE

Burton upon Trent, Derbyshire

Private house party events (not a fixed commercial club)

The Playgrounds SLE is a lifestyle events organisation founded in 2013 that has been running verified adult parties for over 12 years. Based in the Midlands, the group operates primarily out of a private residential venue called The Lifestyle Lodge — a large, secluded five-to-six-bedroom house in Staffordshire, situated near Burton upon Trent in South Derbyshire. Discreetly set away from neighbours, the property is run by a couple known to regulars as J and R, who personally host each event and are described consistently in guest reviews as warm, professional, and community-minded. The organisation bills itself explicitly as an LGBTQIA+ safe haven and operates as a non-profit, donating proceeds from charity collections to causes including Help for Heroes and Dementia UK. The Lifestyle Lodge accommodates up to 50 to 60 guests and features three themed playrooms — the Black and White Room, the Blue Room, and the Red Boudoir — alongside a bar area called the Backlash Bar, an open-fire lounge, a hot tub, a bathroom and shower, two toilets, and extensive garden space including a covered patio. In warmer months, a BBQ is added to the garden and outdoor socialising extends the party into the grounds. Soft drinks and mixer drinks are included in the ticket contribution; alcohol is strictly bring-your-own (BYOB). A buffet is provided. The venue runs themed events as well as its recurring TABU series — dedicated bi and trans nights — which have their own Telegram community group. Events typically run for six hours and regularly draw between 40 and 60 guests; a minimum of 30 attendees is maintained as policy. All events are strictly pre-paid, guest-list only — no walk-ins are accepted, and the full venue address is released only to confirmed ticket holders in the week before the event. Tickets are purchased by submitting a request form and paying via PayPal or a SumUp payment link; contributions are non-refundable and non-transferable. Entry requires photo ID matched to the name on the booking. Guests must be 25 or over. The organisation requires verification through lifestyle platforms such as Fab Swingers, SpicyMatch, Pineapple App, or Fetlife; a minimum of two recent meet verifications is expected, though couples, single ladies, and transgender guests new to the scene may attend with a face photo and brief background in lieu. A limited number of verified single men are admitted where specifically stated on the event listing. Dress code is smart and sexy; trainers, T-shirts, blue jeans, sportswear, and hoodies are all grounds for refusal of entry.

Vancouver Velvet Club

Maple Ridge, British Columbia

On-Premise Club

Vancouver Velvet Club is a private, invitation-only lifestyle house party club operating in the greater Vancouver, British Columbia area. Serving experienced and novice couples as well as single women — and on select nights, a tightly vetted pool of single men — it operates deliberately under the radar, maintaining no social media presence of any kind and disclosing its address only after a guest secures a confirmed spot on the guest list. The club positions itself as a controlled environment for discreet adults who keep their lifestyle activities entirely separate from their everyday lives. The venue is a seven-bedroom luxury house with the entire property open for play. Large open play rooms are furnished with queen-size beds and massage tables; a dance floor doubles as an additional play area; and a connected bathroom suite includes a four-person hot tub and stand-up showers. A sex swing and a spanking bench are part of the fixtures on offer. A full buffet — hot food, fruit, and pastry — runs throughout every party, and complimentary massages are provided all evening for both men and women. A cloakroom with individually numbered cubicles handles clothing and valuables, and condoms, lube, and individual hand towels are supplied in all play areas and bathrooms. The house operates a strict open-door policy throughout; all play takes place with doors open, with rare exceptions at the host's personal discretion. Street clothes are not permitted past the registration desk — most women arrive in a coat over lingerie and change on entry. Phones must be left in individual locker cubicles; anyone circulating with a phone is escorted out by security, and all photography and video recording are banned everywhere in the venue. Parties run most Saturdays (8:30 pm to approximately 1 am) for couples, single women, and a small number of pre-selected single men, and most Fridays (8:30 pm to midnight) as Naughty Girl Fantasy nights centred on female-centric fantasy experiences with vetted single men; select Fridays are designated bisexual celebration nights open to bi couples and bi singles of all genders. There are no walk-ins: prospective guests reach out via the website contact page or directly at VancouverVelvet@gmail.com, receive a PDF email invitation with full party details, and secure their place on the guest list with an eTransfer donation, after which the house address is released. Guests check in at the registration desk by email address. Overnight bedrooms are available for a small additional donation after parties wind down at 1 am, with checkout by 11 am. Alcohol is not served; BYOB in labelled bottles is permitted. Cannabis use is welcome outdoors at the back of the house.

Club Paradise

Amsterdam, North Holland

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Club Paradise occupies an intentionally inconspicuous address on Schaafstraat in Amsterdam-Noord — an industrial pocket north of the IJ waterway — and operates as one of the city's established lifestyle clubs for couples and singles. The venue markets itself as 'de mooiste parenclub van Amsterdam' (Amsterdam's finest couples club) and has built its reputation on upscale facilities, a rotating programme of themed events, and an atmosphere that positions itself as sensual rather than hectic. First-time visitors are offered a guided walkthrough of the space on arrival. The interior is spacious and atmospheric, anchored by a dance floor, a full bar serving cocktails and snacks, and large U-shaped sofas that allow groups to gather comfortably. Dedicated facilities include a heated swimming pool, sauna and Turkish steam bath, a darkroom, a kinky cage, multiple private lockable rooms, open erotic areas and relaxation spaces. A rooftop smoking area is reached by three flights of stairs. Secure lockers hold street clothes and valuables, and condoms are distributed throughout the erotic areas. The crowd tends to dress deliberately — lingerie and provocative attire for women, boxers or similarly revealing clothing for men — and the overall aesthetic is high-effort. Makeup artists and massage services appear at select special events. The venue runs Friday through Sunday. Friday brings the recurring After Three afternoon party, opening at 15:00 and running to 03:00. Saturday nights (20:00–03:00) host themed Couples Paradise events, restricted to couples and single women; entry is €100 per couple and €50 for a single woman, with single men barred from Saturday admission. Sundays (15:00–23:00) run Afterglow in Paradise sessions — open to couples, single women and single men — with the third Sunday of each month reserved for a dedicated BDSM edition. Entry on Saturdays includes a hot and cold buffet; Fridays and Sundays include finger food. Prices may vary on special-event nights as noted on event flyers. Payment is by debit card or cash only; credit cards are not accepted.

Parenclub Showboat

Zaandijk, Noord-Holland

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Showboat is a swingers club housed aboard a moored vessel on the Lagedijk waterway in Zaandijk, Noord-Holland, roughly fifteen kilometres north of Amsterdam. The boat setting is the venue's defining feature, attracting visitors from across the wider Amsterdam region on a seven-day schedule that spans both daytime and late-night sessions. It operates as an all-inclusive club on most days, with entry covering food and drink. The upper deck forms the social core of the venue, combining a bar, a buffet of warm and cold dishes, a dance floor, and lounge seating fitted out in polished wood, copper accents, and deep-red upholstery. The lower deck is devoted to play, housing a BDSM room, a jacuzzi, a sauna, a Turkish steam bath, and several erotically themed rooms. Dress code — tight boxer shorts for men, lingerie for women — applies throughout the venue; first-timers are permitted to start the evening in street clothes at the bar. Secure clothing lockers and shower facilities are available. Themed Friday evenings rotate across SM/Fetish Play parties, Gangbang nights, and Bi Fabulous events, the latter restricted to women and bisexual men with heterosexual single men excluded. The club is open daily. Weekday daytime sessions run Monday and Tuesday 12:00–17:30 (couples €40, women/T-girls €15, men €92.50) and Thursday 13:00–21:30 (couples €72.50, women/T-girls €35, men €120). Wednesday extends to 23:30 with tiered pricing: couples €92.50 full day, dropping to €60 after 19:00. Fridays run 13:00–02:30 at €110 per couple, or from 21:00 on the first Friday of each month. Saturdays are evening-only, 21:00–04:30, with couples at €92.50. Sunday afternoons (15:00–21:30) admit couples and women free of charge against a minimum bar spend of €35 and €20 respectively. Single men may attend every session but must hold a prior reservation; walk-ins are turned away without exception. No admittance is given after 02:00.

Villa Weizigt

Dordrecht, Zuid-Holland

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Villa Weizigt is a licensed seksclub and sauna club in Dordrecht, Zuid-Holland, operating as a gentlemen's club built around the principles of luxury, discretion, and relaxation. The venue has traded under its current licensing and ownership since approximately 2014, following renovation of the premises including installation of a new thatched roof. Staff communicate in Dutch and English. The communal facilities centre on a large heated indoor swimming pool enclosed by glass panels, flanked by shower facilities and a Finnish sauna. On arrival, guests receive complimentary bathrobes, slippers, and swimwear. The room inventory comprises 14 standard rooms, each with a double bed and private bathroom fitted with either a shower or a two-person jacuzzi, plus four VIP suites offering oversized three-to-four-person jacuzzis, flat-screen televisions, and separate seating areas. An outdoor garden terrace with multiple lounge sections, a designated smoking area, and seasonal BBQ facilities rounds out the premises. The club opens seven days a week: Monday through Thursday 14:00–02:00, Friday 14:00–03:00, Saturday 16:00–03:00, and Sunday 16:00–02:00. General entry is €60 per person, covering all-day access to communal facilities, an evening dinner, and unlimited non-alcoholic beverages plus beer and wine. Private room hire with an on-site companion is charged separately. Payment is accepted by cash, PIN, credit card, and VISA.

The Phoenix Ottawa

Ottawa, Ontario

On-Premise Club

The Phoenix Ottawa is a private members' erotic social club occupying a discreet industrial space near the Hunt Club Road and Prince of Wales Drive area in Ottawa, Ontario. The precise address is not made public and is shared only after a vetting process — prospective members email info@thephoenixottawa.com to begin. The club welcomes adults aged 18 and over regardless of gender, identity, or sexuality, and operates with an explicitly LGBTQ2A+ and kink-friendly ethos. Alongside weekly programming, the venue is available to rent for private parties. The space is built around two fully equipped BDSM dungeons, each fitted with a spanking bench, suspension point, X-cross, and sex chair, among other apparatus. Two social lounge rooms provide space for conversation and mingling, while the play areas extend to a private pink-decorated bedroom and a double-bedded open room designed for exhibitionists and voyeurs. Additional amenities include a milking table and a dedicated aftercare room. Members store belongings in on-site lockers, and the club supplies condoms, lubricant, water, and light snacks at every event. Free parking is available on-site. Alcohol and cannabis are not sold; members may bring their own, with the understanding that visible intoxication can result in removal and that all tobacco and cannabis must be consumed outdoors. Events run across five nights a week. Misbehave Monday (every Monday, 7pm–11pm) is open to all members at $30 for men and $15 for women, non-binary, and gender-non-conforming guests. Bound to Please, a BDSM and kink night, takes place every Friday (8pm–1am) at $30 per person, also open to the full membership. Swinger Saturday runs on the 1st and 3rd Saturdays (8pm–1am, $30 per person), limited to couples and single women. The 2nd and 4th Saturdays host Men'z & Friend'z — an inclusive evening for bi, gay, and queer men and those identifying as men, trans, non-binary, or fluid (8pm–1am; $25 members, $35 non-members). Fifth Saturdays bring Her Playground, a hotwife and cuckolding night (8pm–1am; $60 per couple, $50 single men, $25 single women). Membership is purchased in person after vetting: couples pay $80 per year; single men $100 per year; single women, non-binary, and GNC individuals $40 per year.

Afterdark Edinburgh

Edinburgh, Scotland

On-Premise Lifestyle Club

AfterDark is Edinburgh's largest private members adult lifestyle club, established in 2022 and operating from a converted warehouse unit at Bankhead Workspace in the Sighthill area — previously known as After Eight at a smaller venue before rebranding and relocating to its current premises. The spacious social lounge serves as the central hub, with atmospheric lighting setting the tone for the evening. Surrounding it are dedicated play spaces of varying sizes — from intimate private rooms with doors to open play areas — plus a dungeon and BDSM area and a glory hole. Lockers are provided at the entrance for phones and belongings, and changing rooms with showers and mirrors are available. Towels, condoms, and lubricant are provided throughout. Afterdark operates BYOB for alcohol; soft drinks and snacks are available via a token system at the venue. The club runs a varied weekly schedule: Wednesday midweek sessions (8pm–1am) at reduced entry prices, Friday and Saturday main nights (9pm–3am), and select Thursday evenings (bi-weekly) featuring TV/CD/Bi & Admirers nights, quiz nights, and rope classes. Themed events rotate regularly — lingerie nights, UV parties, wrestling themes, couples-only evenings, and seasonal celebrations. Standard entry is £10 for single females, £20 for TV guests, £35 for couples, and £40 for single males; Wednesday prices are reduced across all tiers. Annual membership is £20 flat rate (singles or couples), arranged on the first visit. First-timers receive a guided tour from staff; many guests attend simply to socialise without participating in play.

On-Premise Club

Sitting in the Victorian terraced streets of Burslem in Stoke-on-Trent's historic Potteries heartland, atlantisEVOLUTION has spent 15-plus years building its reputation as the Midlands' most recognised nightclub-themed swingers club. The venue occupies Evolution House on William Clowes Street on a private-membership basis, drawing couples and singles from across the North West and Midlands with a formula that layers nightclub production values - themed decor, resident DJs, and a multi-room layout - onto an adult lifestyle club format. Owners Cat and Tag are the constant faces behind the bar and at the door, backed by a small team whose warmth reviewers return to again and again; the venue holds a 4.6-star rating across more than 60 independent reviews. The weekly calendar divides sessions by attendance type. Fridays (9pm-2am) are open to all - couples, single males, and single females - while Saturdays (9pm-2am) are reserved for couples and single females only. Once a month on a Wednesday evening the club stages a special themed night, and the fourth Sunday of each month (3pm-8pm) becomes the dedicated EVOLUTIONfetish session. The club also runs Newbies Nights (branded Pop My Cherry), occasional orgy-party events, and sporadic hot-wife-themed evenings. Themed costume nights are a signature touch - past runs have included an all-white marquee party - but dressing up is always optional, never compulsory. Entry requires a one-off lifetime membership (20 GBP per couple or single female), taken out at the door on a first visit by presenting photo ID - a driving licence, utility bill, or bank statement. Nightly admission thereafter is 20 GBP per couple, 10 GBP for single females, and 30 GBP for single men. Soft drinks and mixers are available on-site for 2.50 GBP. The venue is compact but delivers what reviewers describe as a decent range of areas for people with different tastes - private areas and open - spread across two floors, with play spaces upstairs. Age minimum is 18 with no upper limit. The club holds a Food Standards Agency hygiene rating of Good and is partnered with Spice Lanzarote for lifestyle travel events.

Swingers Oase

Ammerzoden, Gelderland

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Swingers Oase is a small, intimate parenclub on the Haarstraat in Ammerzoden, a village in Gelderland roughly midway between Zaltbommel and Den Bosch. In operation for over a decade, it positions itself as an approachable alternative to the larger commercial venues in the nearby cities — somewhere guests can make contact easily in a setting the club describes as gezellig (convivial and homely). Open to couples, single women, and single men, the guiding philosophy is niets moet, alles mag (nothing required, everything permitted) between consenting adults, with mutual respect as the founding house rule. The venue is fitted with an eight-person jacuzzi, a two-person sauna, a bar and buffet, a dance floor with DJ music, a lounge area, a terrace, and a range of private and group playrooms. Entry is all-inclusive, covering food, beverages, and full use of all facilities. Current pricing varies by day and event type and is published on the club own agenda — always confirm before attending. The club runs a varied programme across several evenings each week. Themed nights — including Blacklovers evenings, Bi-Curious parties, and Hollandse events — rotate through the schedule, with reservations required for weekend nights. Single men must reserve in advance on all open evenings. On the fifth Friday of the month the Parenavond is reserved exclusively for couples and single women; single men are not admitted that evening.

Club M4 (Menage a Quatre)

Mississauga, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Club M4 — short for Ménage à Quatre — is an on-premise lifestyle and swingers club at 1989A Dundas Street East in Mississauga, Ontario, roughly twenty kilometres west of downtown Toronto. Founded in 2008, the venue operated for eleven years on Lakeshore Boulevard West before relocating in 2019 to its current ground-floor Mississauga location. It operates as a private members club — a requirement under Ontario law following the 2005 Supreme Court of Canada ruling that legalized consensual swinging in private club settings — and runs both afternoon and evening sessions seven days a week, 365 days a year. The 10,000-square-foot space is fully licensed by the Alcohol and Gaming Commission of Ontario (AGCO) and includes two bars, a large dance floor, a lounge area, and roughly 5,000 square feet of dedicated play space. A 196-locker changing facility with showers and vanity areas serves guests entering the back — condoms are distributed free throughout the play areas, and towels are provided by locker-room attendants. A rentable VIP Red Room (king-size bed, private play equipment, complimentary non-alcoholic drinks; $100 Mon–Thu, $150 Fri–Sun) adds a private option for members who want it. The club also runs a companion online social network, menageaquatre.com, where members can connect between visits. Door prices for couples are $50 CAD Sunday through Friday and Saturday afternoons, rising to $70 CAD on Saturday evenings; single women enter free at every session, while single men pay $110 CAD and are welcome all nights except Saturday evenings and New Year's Eve. A basic annual membership ($60 CAD per single or couple) is required of every guest and is purchased in person at the first visit; a VIP couples membership ($649 CAD/year, currently available at a promotional $349) covers unlimited admission including special events. A monthly Young Swingers Society (YSS) event on the last Saturday of each month offers a themed night aimed at couples in their 20s and 30s at $30 CAD per couple. Every first-time visitor receives a guided tour of the premises before being admitted to the main floor.

The Edmonton O Society (EOS) is an unincorporated, non-profit society serving Edmonton, Alberta’s erotic BDSM community. Members and guests gather twice monthly in a casual, non-judgmental setting to share company, conversation, and mutual learning about consensual erotic expression. Membership is open to adults of all genders, orientations, and relationship structures — singles and couples alike — who approach the community in good faith and with a genuine interest in BDSM. The organization anchors itself to the National Leather Association’s foundational credo: Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Beyond the regular social evenings, the EOS runs a programme of workshops covering safety and health practices, skill development, and hands-on sessions such as toy-building. Paying members also gain access to an in-house lending library stocked with books, DVDs, tapes, and other instructional materials spanning the full range of BDSM and alternative lifestyle topics, as well as discounted admission to workshop events. The EOS is explicit that it is not a swinger club, dating service, escort agency, or voyeuristic venue — its purpose is education and community-building within a consensual adult context. Events are held in private or semi-private settings rather than a fixed commercial space; venue details are shared with verified members, consistent with the privacy norms of community-run BDSM societies.

Birdhaus

Toronto, Ontario

Birdhaus is a BDSM, kink, and alternative arts event space tucked behind the big pink building at 1233R Queen Street West in Toronto's Parkdale neighbourhood. Co-owned by Miranda and Tifereth — veteran producers and performers in both the local and international alternative arts scenes — the venue opened in 2021 in the Entertainment District before relocating to Liberty Village and then expanding to its current home in 2024. The space carries roughly a century of building history and has been transformed into what the owners describe as an intimate venue for the city's avant-garde. The 2024 expansion brought a licensed bar and cocktail program alongside a significantly broader events calendar. The venue operates as a multi-use space: in-house produced events share the calendar with third-party producers including Sex Positive World, Bound Together, and BIPOC Babes. A dedicated rope education program — described on the site as inclusive, creative, comprehensive — is led by Tifereth and a team of resident educators, covering everything from beginner bondage to aerial partials and self-suspension. Weekly Tinker Tuesday sessions (Tuesdays, 19:00–23:00) serve as open rope practice jams, while structured classes and workshops run throughout the month. Private tuition is also available through individual instructors. Flagship evening events include Voyeur, a monthly cabaret and BDSM play party running 21:00–03:00 with per-person tickets priced at $50–$100 CAD, and Sweat, a leather and latex fetish party running roughly 21:30–02:30 at $30–$45 CAD per person. The calendar also features Smutty Storytelling open-mic nights, film screenings, community socials, and themed one-off events. All events are 19+ and ticketed in advance through the Birdhaus website — walk-ins are not accepted. Dress code for play parties requires fetish attire and prohibits street wear including T-shirts, jeans, and runners.

Killing Kittens

London, Greater London

Event Organizer

Founded in London in 2005 by Emma Sayle, Killing Kittens has spent two decades building what it bills as the world's most exclusive and hedonistic parties — a female-empowerment brand "fully focused on the pursuit of female pleasure for girls in control who know what they want." From those London beginnings it has grown into a global movement spanning more than 22 cities across 10 countries, with over 250,000 people having attended its events, yet London remains its home turf. Parties there are staged in a rotating cast of "exclusive and luxurious venues in London, with stunning decor, state-of-the-art sound systems, and a carefully curated atmosphere." Locations are kept secret and revealed only to confirmed guests, part of the discretion the brand stakes its reputation on. The KK model is strictly members-and-invitation-only: "The only way to gain exclusive access to KK parties is by becoming a KK member or receiving an invite from one." Full "Kitten" membership is reserved for women, trans and non-binary people, who lead the room; Guest membership lets others attend alongside a Full member or buy tickets to designated Singles events, and solo men are otherwise excluded. The brand's long-standing golden rule puts women firmly in charge — the women make the first move, and men may never approach a woman they don't know. Consent sits at the centre of everything, with guidelines emailed before every event covering "greetings through aftercare" and trained staff on hand throughout; masks are traditionally kept on until 11pm, when play begins. Beyond the flagship nights, KK runs a calendar of themed events — Masquerade Balls, Kinky Cabaret, Hedonism nights and seasonal Halloween parties among them — plus workshops and a members' community that continues online through the WAX app. Tickets are priced by who's attending, roughly from around £50–£75 for single women up to £200-plus for couples, keeping the crowd skewed toward women and couples. The brand leans hard on stated values of gender equity, body positivity, consent and inclusivity, welcoming "all genders and sexualities to come and play" while pledging zero tolerance for racism, ableism, sexism, fatphobia or transphobia. Confidentiality is absolute — guest information and event details are never shared — and the whole experience is designed to feel luxurious, safe and free of judgement.

Saunabar Bournemouth

Bournemouth, Dorset

Bath House

Saunabar sits at 140 Commercial Road in the Triangle, Bournemouth's LGBTQ+ quarter, and bills itself as the busiest gay sauna on the south-west coast. By day it runs as a men's spa: a dry sauna, steam room and jacuzzi, hot showers and private rest areas, plus a cosy lounge with a pool table and a fully licensed bar serving drinks alongside tea and coffee. On-site massage is available by appointment, and a single all-day admission covers the run of the place until closing. The same address takes on a second life after hours. On selected Friday and Saturday evenings Saunabar stays open for themed programming that broadens well beyond the daytime men-only door, and it doubles as the home of Bournemouth Swingers Club, whose couples-and-singles nights and inclusive socials run from the same rooms. Across the two identities the calendar covers trans nights, fetish evenings, naked sessions and all-welcome mixers, so depending on the day the venue reads as a quiet gay sauna or a full LGBTQ+ and swingers events space.

Club Safe Word is a members-only lifestyle club serving San Diego's swinging and non-monogamous community, welcoming individuals and couples of all genders and orientations. Rather than operating from a single standing venue, the club runs as an event-based membership community, holding its gatherings at rented spaces that change from event to event -- an approach reflected in a 2026 event listing tagged as a new location for the San Diego area. Programming is split into two tiers: non-play meet and greet socials designed to help newcomers get acquainted with the community, and separate, more explicit private events for members exploring further. New members are encouraged, though not required, to attend a meet-and-greet before a private event, regardless of prior experience. The club's ethos centers on consent and discretion, with members expected to remain respectful and civil and to report any consent violations to the event host or directly to club management. Site membership is optional and separate from event admission, with tiers priced from $11.49 per month (auto-renewing) up to $80.47 for a full year. Admission to individual events is ticketed per person and varies by event, with single women typically admitted free and couples and single men paying a door price that changes from gathering to gathering. Contact for the club is handled by email at info@clubsafeword.com; the club has not published a formal dress code or check-in procedure.

colette Houston

Houston, TX

On-Premise Club

Tucked into a strip-mall suite off Cypress Creek Parkway in northwest Houston, colette occupies over 7,000 square feet of upscale, purpose-built lifestyle club space. The front half runs as a polished nightclub: high-tech lighting, a DJ-driven dance floor, and a staffed bar area where mixers, setups, and sodas are provided — though no alcohol is sold, so members bring their own. Lockers line the entry area so guests can stow valuables, and security is a constant presence. The crowd skews professional, ranging from their twenties to sixties, and first-timers consistently note how relaxed and low-pressure the atmosphere feels. Past the main lounge, the back section opens into the play areas: a theatre-style room for group viewing, a voyeur room, and a warren of private rooms, plus a shower. A separate rentable VIP room — fitted with a round bed and lounge seating — accommodates private parties of up to twenty. The club runs four nights a week: Wednesday and Thursday (9pm–2am) and Friday and Saturday (9pm–4am), with a full calendar of themed events — lingerie nights, fetish nights, and seasonal parties — announced on the ticketing calendar and available for advance purchase to skip the door queue. Single men are admitted Wednesday through Friday; Saturday is strictly couples and single ladies only. Door rates are tiered accordingly: couples pay $40–$70 depending on the night, single ladies $10–$20, and single men $100–$120. All admissions require a current membership, which starts at a $30 trial (one night) up to a $200 annual pass or multi-year VIP that folds in door fees and early-access perks valid at all four colette locations.

Lifestyle & Swingers Club Eroroma

Zwinderen, Drenthe

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Eroroma is a lifestyle and swingers club set on a rural property in Zwinderen, a small village in the province of Drenthe roughly midway between Hoogeveen and Emmen. Founded in 2006 by Jan van Duyvenbode as an erotic massage salon, the venue expanded into couples events as regional demand grew, and in 2026 marks its twentieth year of operation. The club has built a loyal following across the northern Netherlands and describes itself as the number one lifestyle and swingers club of the north. Its clientele spans the 40–60 age bracket and ranges from seasoned regulars to first-timers, with floor staff on hand to orient newcomers to the space. The venue's centrepiece is a Roman bathhouse — widely noted as unique among northern Netherlands swinger clubs — built around a large indoor pool and an indoor jacuzzi accommodating around twenty people. The outdoor grounds add a second jacuzzi, loungers, and lounge seating, plus a heated terrace with fire pit and garden. Inside, the club spans two areas: a ground-floor bar with an extensive selection of drinks, a restaurant-style space serving a hot and cold buffet, and a dance floor where resident DJs play house and electronic sets on event nights. A dedicated play wing houses multiple massage rooms, private bed alcoves with curtains, an SM/BDSM room with suspension facilities, a darkroom, and lounge areas. Towels, condoms, and water are included; secure lockers are provided. Free on-site parking accommodates both cars and campervans. Eroroma operates on an event-based calendar rather than fixed nightly hours. Zwoele Woensdag (Sultry Wednesday) afternoon sessions run 14:00–22:00, open to couples, single women, and T-girls at €100 per couple and €30 for single women. Saturday evening events run 21:00–03:00 across a rotating roster of themed nights — Pleasure 4 All, Ero Kinky Party, XO BDSM Party, SeXfactor, and standard couple evenings — with couples entry ranging from €100 to €130 depending on format. All tickets are all-inclusive: drinks, the hot and cold buffet, towels, and condoms are covered in the entry price. A sexy outfit is mandatory and enforced at the door; on themed nights latex, leather, or PVC is required. Changing facilities are available on arrival. Single men are admitted only on designated nights by advance reservation; capacity is strictly limited. Most standard couple evenings and Secret Pleasure nights do not admit unaccompanied men.

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Devious Adelaide is a quarterly BDSM and kink event series in Adelaide, South Australia, run by Nick (he/him) and Pixie-Sky (they/them), who describe themselves as "lovers, teachers, performers and Adelaide event creators." Events are held at a hired boutique venue at 57 Manton St in Hindmarsh, immediately west of the city centre, and are positioned explicitly as kink parties rather than sex parties. The organisers describe the space as safe and deliberately inclusive — queer-friendly by stated design, open under the tagline "18+. Queer AF!" — with a welcoming stance toward both newcomers and experienced kinksters. The Hindmarsh venue is fitted out with a curated range of play equipment including suspension frames, a wax play area, a medical zone, and a dedicated pup play space, alongside a dance floor serviced by resident DJ Kev. Free parking is available on surrounding streets. All tickets are sold in advance through the Devious Adelaide Humanitix host page — no door sales are offered — and doors close at 10pm. Refunds are available up to seven days before each event. Parties run on Saturday nights from 8pm to 1am ACST/ACDT and follow a consistent "D" naming pattern: past editions include DESIRE, DEBAUCHERY, DEVOUR and DEPRAVITY. Ticket prices are tiered by release window. Each party is preceded by a complimentary one-hour skills workshop from 7pm to 8pm — covering topics such as consent negotiation and scene planning — for which a separate free ticket must be reserved in advance as spots are limited.

Hungry Cat Promotions

Belfast, Northern Ireland

Event Organizer

Hungry Cat Promotions is Northern Ireland’s most prominent lifestyle events promoter, running a rolling programme of themed adult nights across Belfast and the wider Greater Belfast area since its incorporation in November 2021. Founded by Jaime Willis and Irina Andrejeva, the company positions itself as a "provocative movement" for swingers, kinksters, free spirits, and open-minded adults of all relationship configurations and orientations — everyone 18 and over is welcome. Rather than operating a fixed club premises, Hungry Cat hires venues across the Belfast area for each event, giving every night its own atmosphere and location. Events run under inventive themed banners — Depravity, PJ Party, Naughty Noughties, and Origin Newbies, the last of these designed specifically as a screened entry point for first-timers, staged in Newtownabbey. Each night combines local cabaret performances, themed décor, party games with prizes, and social networking. The company is explicit on one point: sex-positive means embracing erotic entertainment, provocative prizes, and bold outfits rather than on-site sexual activity. Attendees are required to pass an identity verification and screening step before most events, with personal data encrypted and not publicly shared. Between events, the community connects via a Swingable platform page. The consent framework is detailed and enforced: ask before any physical contact or photography, intoxication does not imply consent, and zero-tolerance rules cover harassment, assault, discrimination, drug dealing, and non-consensual content-sharing. Breaches lead to immediate removal and a permanent ban from future events. Safety concerns can be reported to event staff or by email to safety@hungrycat.events, with an anonymous online reporting form also available.

KinkZone

Canberra, Australian Capital Territory

On-Premise Club

KinkZone describes itself as Canberra's only purpose-built alternative lifestyle studio, operating from a discreet unit in the light-industrial suburb of Fyshwick, roughly 2–3 km east-southeast of the city centre. The venue serves both the kink and swinging communities under one roof, running separate event formats to accommodate different experience levels and identities — from beginner-friendly introductory nights through to invitation-only BDSM parties. After a hiatus that ran from 2020 to 2024, the club returned under new management and has since built a calendar of more than a dozen recurring event formats. The custom-designed interior centres on a large open-plan area with substantial seating and space for dancing, along with intimate nooks and dedicated playrooms for private or group activity. All tickets include entry, use of the cloakroom, light refreshments, non-alcoholic beverages (soft drinks, tea, coffee), condoms, lubricant, and access to shower facilities. Alcohol is not provided or sold; BYO is permitted. The first floor is reached only by stairs — there is no lift — though a ground-floor accessible toilet is available, the main event spaces have 96 cm-wide doors at their narrowest, accessible showers are on-site, and no fluorescent lighting is used during events. Smoking and vaping are confined to a designated outdoor courtyard. All attendance requires completing a vetting process before a first event; new contacts are added to the system each Monday, with an initial reply typically within five days. From July 2026, standard event tickets are priced at A$69; KZ Swing is A$120 per couple, A$100 for single men, and A$60 for single women; specialty nights including Rainbow Haven, Rope, and FemDomme are A$60; and the Under 30s event is A$45. Booking fees apply on top of all ticket prices. Optional memberships — Silver at A$250 per year or Gold at A$525 per year — provide reserved spaces, free events, booking-fee waivers, and discounted tickets, though membership is not required to attend.

Hedonism NI

Belfast, Northern Ireland

On-Premise Club

Hedonism NI is a touring swingers social run across Northern Ireland rather than from a single fixed address. In the club's own words it is "an action packed swingers' party with a lively social scene for adults who enjoy meeting fellow open minded men and women at parties through-out Northern Ireland," and the site pitches the region's "premier" home for those "wishing to live a consensual non monogamist lifestyle" in "a safe no pressure yet fun" environment. The hosts, who go by Hotlips & Superstar, come "from a swinging background and with experience at hosting parties stretching back over 20 years," and their socials rotate through venues around the country, with recent 2026 parties landing in Bangor. Events are ticketed in advance through Eventbrite, and the venue address is deliberately withheld: house rule two states "The location must never be given out," and it is released only to verified ticket holders. Pricing for a recent End of Summer Social ran £10 for single ladies, £20 for single gents and £25 for couples. Doors work to a tight window: "Attendees must arrive between 9:30pm and 11pm," couples "MUST arrive and LEAVE as a couple," and "Closing time is 1am." The dress code is "cool and sexy" (clean, un-ripped jeans tolerated, no baseball caps), and consent is paramount, with the rules stressing "'NO THANKS, MEANS NO'" and "NO one is obligated to participate in any activities." Unlike a BYOB club, Hedonism NI runs a bar: "Alcohol is sold on the premises and therefore no one entering will be allowed to bring their own." Privacy is enforced hard, with no cameras or recording equipment ("They will be confiscated"), phones permitted only to swap numbers, and "No Facebook check-ins." Drugs and prostitution are banned outright, drunken behaviour is not tolerated, smoking is limited to the front entrance, and there is free on-street parking with a taxi rank outside. Prospective guests connect and verify through the club's Telegram, FabSwingers profile and mailing list, and follow party announcements across Facebook, Instagram, TikTok and X.

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Braven Manor is a long-running, community-oriented kink and lifestyle venue operating from a private home in North Burnaby, just outside Vancouver. Since 2008, the space has served as an intimate alternative to commercial clubs, offering a fully equipped dungeon, themed play rooms, and flexible event programming that spans BDSM, swinging, fetish play, and group encounters — all at an accessible price point of $30 per person. The house features a dedicated dungeon with suspension frame, bondage table, cage, and spanking benches, plus a garage play space, whipping room with St Andrew's Cross, a medical room with a fucking machine, a school room, and multiple private lockable bedrooms. Supplies including condoms, lube, gloves, cleaning products, towels, and unlimited soft drinks are all included with admission. A Sybian is available during events at an additional $20/session, and the space can be rented privately for couples or small groups at hourly rates. Run as a non-profit by operator Seann Lyncaster, the venue hosts rotating events on its own calendar system — from gangbangs and BDSM play parties to swinger nights and private bookings. Membership signup is free, the atmosphere is pansexual and LGBTQ+ welcoming, and newcomers receive an orientation tour on arrival. The BYOB format keeps costs low, and a house safeword system underscores the consent-first culture that defines the space.

Intimate Times Lifestyle Club

Edmonton, Alberta

On-Premise Club

Intimate Times Lifestyle Club bills itself as Edmonton's premier private adult social club, operating from a standalone venue in the city's west end at 17207 107 Ave NW. The club runs as an on-premise couples lifestyle space with an explicit consent-first philosophy — visitors sign a confidentiality waiver on entry, and management frames the environment as one built around respect, trust, and open communication. The club is openly LGBTQIA+ supportive and kink/BDSM friendly, with dedicated theme nights including Kink and Fetish Night alongside Sundress Saturday, Bare as You Dare, and Girls' Night Out evenings. The main floor is set up in the style of a nightclub with the feel of a house party: a dance floor, a staffed DJ booth with music starting around 22:00, a free pool table, a quieter fireplace lounge, and a fully licensed cash bar. BYOB is not permitted under Alberta's liquor licence. Complimentary snacks — chips, nuts, pretzels, and desserts — are included with cover, and an on-site ATM is available. Staff-led tours of the venue run from 21:00 to 23:00; the communal open play area opens at 23:00 and remains available until 02:45. There are no private rooms — all play occurs in the open communal space. The club runs every Friday and Saturday, 21:00 to 03:00, with last admission at 01:00. Cover is tiered: during the earlybird window (21:00-22:00), member couples pay CAD $40 and non-member couples $50; singles pay $20 (member) or $25 (non-member). After 22:00, rates rise to $50/$60 for couples and $25/$30 for singles. Annual membership — mandatory from the second visit — costs $130 for couples and $65 for singles; a one-night weekend couple membership is available at $40 plus the member cover rate. Memberships expire after one year and are non-transferable. A prior invitation is required for all first-time visitors. Government-issued photo ID is mandatory at the door; minimum age is 21.

The Idaho White Rose

Post Falls, ID

On-Premise Club

The Idaho White Rose is a private, house-party-style swingers club operating between Coeur d'Alene, Idaho, and Spokane, Washington — about 14 minutes from Coeur d'Alene and 35 minutes from Spokane. It bills itself as "The Inland Northwest's Premier #1, Lifestyle Hot Spot" and, like most lifestyle clubs, centers on couples while also welcoming single females and a limited number of single males (referred to on-site as "Unicorns"). All attendees must be 21 or older, and the address is not published online — it is provided only after RSVP. The venue includes free secluded parking, a dance floor with a pole-dancing stage, a sitting area, a changing area with restroom (no lockers — guests are advised to bring their own lock), bathrooms with showers, and a large covered outdoor hot tub that is drained and cleaned after every party. Play space consists of six private rooms that can be closed for privacy or left open, one private room with glass French doors for couples who enjoy exhibitionism, one large group room, and one large couples-only room, along with TVs playing erotic video throughout. Secured refrigerators are available for storing personal drinks, and soda and mixers are supplied, though the club does not provide alcohol. The club runs at least two parties plus a Meet and Greet each month, with events starting at 8:00 PM; first-timers can attend a free, no-obligation New Member Orientation at the same start time and are free to leave without paying if it isn't for them. Entry is cash only at the door, with tiered pricing by membership status — for example, Gold Member couples pay $50 versus $85 for non-member couples, and Gold Member single women pay $25 versus $95 for a Gold Member single man. Photo ID is required for admission, and dress code calls for a collared shirt and slacks for men (no rips or tears) and the sexiest outfit guests have for women, with a suggestion to bring a second outfit to change into partway through the night.

Nobby's Treff

Bremen, Bremen

Club

Nobby's Treff has held its address at Doventorsteinweg 55 in Bremen's Bahnhofsvorstadt district since opening on 12 October 2001, making it one of the city's longest-running lifestyle venues and, by its own account, the first of its kind in Bremen. The club sits a short walk from Bremen Hauptbahnhof, occupying an unassuming commercial block in this mixed inner-city neighbourhood. Its guiding ethos is distilled in the German tagline printed across all its communications — 'alles kann, nichts muß' (everything is possible, nothing is required) — and regulars credit that philosophy with sustaining the relaxed, non-pressured atmosphere that has kept people coming back for more than two decades. The interior is divided across three distinct areas. A bar forms the social core of the venue, providing a comfortable starting point for the evening. An adjoining lounge contains a sex swing and a lockable, enclosed play hut — a semi-private space-within-a-space that suits couples who want a degree of separation from the open areas. The main playroom is furnished and equipped for group play. A sealed, separate smoking section keeps the main rooms clear. Complimentary towels and hygiene products are provided to all guests, and condoms are available on site at reasonable prices. The management actively maintains a balanced ratio of couples to single men, and the crowd at any given session tends to span a wide age range, drawn together by the venue's reputation for a measured, sociable mood. The club runs on Fridays and Saturdays from 21:00 to 04:00, and adds midweek sessions on the first and third Wednesday of each month from 20:00 to 01:00. Once a month, on the first Friday, a dedicated darkroom evening is held. Entry for couples is €20 and includes the first round of drinks; single men pay €25 with one drink included; single women pay bar prices only with no door charge. All payments are cash only — no card transactions. The dress code is a firm requirement: smart-casual through to overtly sexy attire is welcomed, but sportswear, joggers and baggy sweatshirts are turned away at the door. Men are expected in a shirt and dress trousers or equivalent. The venue can also be privately hired on its regular closed days.

Rio's Naturist Spa

London, London

Nudist Resort

Rio's bills itself as "London's Leading Naturist Health Spa," a purpose-built basement retreat on Kentish Town Road that its own site says has been "established for over 20 years." The pitch is unambiguous: it is a spa "for liberated people aged 21+ where you can enjoy the company of likeminded adults," open seven days and six nights a week. The venue sits a one-minute walk from Kentish Town Underground (Northern line) — "two doors past the Abbey National building" — and represents what the operators describe as a "multi million pound investment." Behind the discreet frontage is a warren of wet and dry heat. The spa lists two steam rooms (three in total), two sauna cabins, three large Jacuzzis and a plunge pool. Around the heat, guests get a relaxation area with tea, coffee and soft drinks, a television lounge, "a host of relaxation rooms," and an outdoor garden the site advertises as being "for that all over tan." The underground complex was refurbished after a 2016 fire and is widely cited as around 20,000 sq ft of facilities. Rio's runs on a "pay as you use" basis — as the site puts it, "You don't have to be a member... or even be a regular visitor." Single admission is £34 and mixed couples £40. It opens daily at noon; Monday to Wednesday and Sunday it closes the same evening (last entry 8–10pm), while Thursday, Friday and Saturday it stays open all night until 7am. One firm house rule stands out: on Saturdays, admission between 6pm and midnight is strictly mixed couples only. Pay-and-display parking is available on weekdays, with free parking to the front and back of the building at weekends.

Club Risqué

Dunedin, Otago

On-Premise Club

Club Risqué occupies the top floor of 1 Liverpool Street in central Dunedin, operating as an on-premise adult lifestyle venue for swinging, kink, and BDSM interests. Per its own about page, the club welcomes couples, single women, single men (by approved RSVP), and trans and non-binary individuals exploring open-relationship dynamics or power exchange. The venue is arranged into a licensed cocktail lounge with a tab-based bar system, multiple private play areas, a BDSM dungeon, and secure numbered lockers issued on a bracelet-key system. Safe sex supplies — condoms in multiple sizes, dental dams, gloves, and lube — are provided and distributed throughout. Third-party listings additionally reference an orgy room, a grope cage, and on-site showers; these have not been confirmed from the club's own published content. Mobile phones are collected at the door on arrival and held by staff for retrieval on request; cameras and all recording devices are banned outright. The club runs a named-event programme rather than fixed nightly hours. Regular fixtures include Risqué Saturday, Frisky Friday, Dunedin Sex Party nights, and the age-capped Young Swingers (18–35); the kink-focused Sub Space events carry a mandatory leather/latex/all-black dress code. All events run 21:00–03:00. Advance tickets are priced at NZD $100 per couple, $50 for single women, and $100 for single men; door prices rise to $125, $75, and $125 respectively. Single men require an approved RSVP before purchasing a ticket. Event bookings and RSVP coordination are handled via the club website, Fetlife, and Kiwi Swingers.

Power Exchange

San Francisco, CA

On-Premise Club

Planted in San Francisco's Tenderloin since 1996, Power Exchange has earned its reputation as the Bay Area's most unapologetically raw pansexual sex club, drawing in adventurous adults of every gender and orientation two blocks from Union Square. The venue spans three floors at 220 Jones Street: a main floor with a dance floor, stripper poles, open play space, and a voyeur balcony above; a basement dungeon level of small semi-private rooms with chain-separated alcoves suited to BDSM and group scenes; and a third floor typically reserved for couples, with special events opening all three levels. Coat check, lockers (bring your own lock), and an ATM sit in the lobby for the cash-only door. The weekly rhythm runs Wednesday through Sunday from 9 pm, with Thursdays and Sundays closing at 3 am and Fridays and Saturdays pushing to 4 am. Recurring themed nights — Wicked Wednesday, First Friday Fuck Fest, and Saturday flagship events like No Strings and Underneath — keep the calendar busy year-round. Entry is tiered by attire rather than gender: non-member singles in male attire pay $60-$80 depending on the night, couples pay $50-$70, and singles in female attire pay $20; members receive a $20 discount across the board. Active-duty military and veterans receive 50% off every visit. The crowd is broad — regulars, curious newcomers, kinksters, and swingers sharing a space that makes no apologies for its gritty Tenderloin address. The vibe is high-energy and exhibitionist rather than lounge-like, and the club is consent-driven with all play areas semi-public and viewable by passing guests. No alcohol is served or permitted on-site; the club is entirely dry. Parking is available one block away at the California Parking Garage at 175 Turk Street, which stays open until 4 am on Fridays and Saturdays for Power Exchange patrons.

Club Giggity

Philadelphia, PA

Club Giggity is a traveling lifestyle-events company — a subsidiary of The Forever Young Experience — rather than a fixed-address club, producing 'upscale events for sexy sophisticated couples & singles' across the Northeast. Its own site describes a roster that runs the gamut from 'small intimate house parties, on premise clubs, lifestyle meet & greets, hotel & resort takeovers and private affairs,' with events deliberately built for 'every alternative lifestyle including swingers, LGBT, the BDSM/Fetish community and anyone interested in an adult party experience like no other.' The operators tout 'over 20 years of professional DJ, promotion, marketing, graphic design, site procurement and event planning in NY, Miami, Philly & Atlantic City,' and the company promotes, hosts and DJs events throughout PA, NJ, NY, MD, DE and CT. The crowd is pitched as broad and unpretentious: 'From Doctors to lawyers, nurses to teachers and everyone in between,' spanning 'different races, heights and weights,' with parties framed as 'no pressure affairs open to all ages over 21' that 'do not discriminate based on age, race, religion, physical appearance, or lifestyle level of play.' Newcomers are eased in via low-pressure meet & greets 'designed for socializing without pressure,' and the site stresses going 'at your own flow' — whether that means observing or full partner exchanges — with open communication between partners encouraged throughout. Swinging is described as 'a lifestyle open to couples and singles alike'; single women are welcomed, while single men are admitted to 'certain nights at clubs and certain parties.' Because Club Giggity is an event producer, the experience changes with the venue — from a club night to a multi-day resort takeover — and it offers an all-inclusive production service (planning, DJ & lighting, web graphics & promotion, social-media promotion, personalized favors, clothing & posters), plus optional add-ons such as massage therapists, photographers, adult toy & lingerie vendors, body painters and BDSM/fetish services. The site maintains a live Takeover Schedule and an Events calendar, and has run flagship trips such as a Hedonism resort 'Hedo Invasion,' confirming the operation is active and booking forward-dated events.

The New Gatehouse

Kearsley, Greater Manchester

On-Premise Club

The New Gatehouse — operating under the banner of GH Events — occupies a converted former pub on the A666 Bolton Road in Kearsley, a short distance from Bolton in Greater Manchester. The venue trades on its identity as an explicitly inclusive lifestyle and fetish club, describing itself as an LGBTQ+ safe space where guests are welcome regardless of age, ethnicity, sexual orientation, or body size. There are no membership fees, and the fully licensed bar means drink is available on-site throughout all sessions. The programming at The New Gatehouse is unusually broad for a venue of its type. Rather than a single weekly party format, the club runs distinct themed sessions every day from Monday through Saturday, catering to overlapping communities across the fetish, trans, bisexual, and BDSM scenes. The building's conversion from a pub gives it a relaxed social atmosphere — the club itself emphasises that first-timers should arrive prepared to sit, chat, and observe before anything else, and that experienced staff are available to answer questions. Staff walk new visitors around the venue on arrival and go through the rules in person. The weekly schedule runs as follows: Monday is Bonkers Bingo (noon–6pm); Tuesday is a Tgirls and Men Only day (10am–4pm); Wednesday is Tgirls and Admirers (11am–midnight, with Tgirls admitted from 10am); Thursday splits into a Bisexual Day (10am–4pm) followed by a BDSM Event (4pm–midnight); Friday is Fetish Fridays (noon–1am); Saturday opens with Tgirls and Admirers (noon–7pm) before transitioning into the Seductive Party Night (7pm–1am); Sundays are closed to the public and reserved for private hire. The venue is also available for private bookings on request.

Auberge La Passion

Drummondville, Quebec

On-Premise Club

Auberge La Passion is a licensed private club échangiste at 2655 rue St-Pierre in Drummondville, Quebec, roughly 100 kilometres east of Montreal. Founded by Luc and Chantal, the club opened on 5 April 2014 after its owners navigated municipal and court processes to obtain what they describe as the region's first official club échangiste permit. The venue holds all required operating licences. The property divides between the main club building and an adjacent annex, Le Petit Hôtel, which together offer 13 overnight suites available to members from C$80/night. Inside the main building, the social floor runs through a dance floor, a billiard lounge, and a licensed bar; a keypad-controlled interior door separates this area from the play section, which comprises themed rooms with large beds configured for private or group use, a soft BDSM space, a mirrored room, and individual rooms with doors or privacy chains. Showers, towels, and condoms are provided throughout. Suites within the main club building prohibit alcohol; those in Le Petit Hôtel permit it. First-time visitors receive a guided walk-through on arrival. Parties run every Friday and Saturday from 20:00 to 03:00. Friday evenings admit couples alongside a limited number of pre-screened single men (reservation required); bar access on Fridays is free for members, with playroom access at C$50/couple. Saturday nights are reserved for couples and single women — single men are not admitted on Saturdays. Saturday admission is C$70/couple. Single women enter free at all times. Annual membership is mandatory for all attendees at C$90 per unit (couple, single woman, or single man) and the card must be presented at every visit. Dress code is strictly enforced: business-casual or city wear for men (sportswear, cargo pants, caps, and athletic footwear refused), and dressed-up or sexy attire encouraged for women.

Club Joi

Los Angeles, CA

On-Premise Club

Club Joi is a members-only, on-premise lifestyle and swingers club in Los Angeles, California, open to couples and single women 21 and older. Founded in 2010, the club moved into its current 12,000-square-foot building in 2018. Membership must be applied for and approved online in advance — it cannot be purchased at the door — and the club's exact street address is disclosed only to approved, ticketed members. The venue has a nightclub-style layout with a large dance floor, two stripper poles, and DJ-driven music, along with lounge seating, a group play area members call the "PlayStation," and private and semi-private rooms with velvet-covered beds, including triple-bed rooms and separately themed blue, red, and dark rooms. An exhibitionist/voyeur arena and a shared shower are also on-site. The club does not sell alcohol — it operates BYOB, with guests marking their own containers — but offers a free buffet, unlimited soft drinks and frozen mocktails, valet parking, coat and bag check, and rental lockers. Condoms, wet wipes, and towels are provided free in every play room. On-premise parties run every Friday (9pm–3am) and Saturday, the busier night (9pm–5am), with occasional weekday events posted to the club's calendar. Couples pay roughly $55–75 at the door on Fridays and $80–100 on Saturdays, plus a required membership starting at $13.49 a month or about $96 a year; single women attend free with an active membership. Single men are not admitted to regular parties — they can attend only a separate, limited monthly "Ladies Fantasy Night" event under a distinct Hot Wife Community membership. Entry requires government-issued photo ID matching the member's profile, and an enforced dress code (a collared shirt for men; no shorts, sandals, or ripped clothing for anyone). Phones and cameras are banned throughout the venue, and the club maintains a no-refund ticket policy, with credit issued only for cancellations made 72+ hours in advance.

Genesis Club bills itself as the largest, most elite private club in the mid-South for open-minded couples and singles aged 21 and over. Set in a low-key commercial stretch of southeast Memphis at 5367 Knight Arnold Road, it pitches itself as a relaxed, no-pressure nightclub-style space rather than a hard-edged play venue — somewhere the curious can meet, chat, flirt and dance with other adults without being hounded. Staff are on hand to give first-timers a tour and make introductions. The single main floor is built around a dance floor with state-of-the-art lighting and a live DJ, with a pool table and darts off to the side and a set of upstairs rooms set aside for sitting and comfort. Free snack food is laid on, and the club leans on security cameras and attentive staff to keep the atmosphere safe and laid-back. Doors run on a tight weekend rhythm: parties land on Friday and Saturday nights from 8pm to 2am, with the club closed the rest of the week. Note that Genesis Club's web presence has gone quiet: the genesisclubmemphis.com address listed across local directories is no longer serving content, and the older club-genesis.com domain now forwards to an unrelated online dating platform. Prospective visitors are best off confirming current hours, entry terms and whether the venue is still operating by phone before making the trip.

Club de Rencontre La Rumeur

Quebec City, Quebec

Members Club

Club de Rencontre La Rumeur has been Quebec City's primary address for the lifestyle scene for more than three decades — its annual signature event, the Bar en Blanc gala, reached its 33rd edition in March 2026. The venue occupies a commercial unit in a light-industrial pocket of the western suburbs at 600 Rue des Canetons, a short drive from the city centre but well removed from the old-city tourist corridor. It describes itself as a club for "gens libérés" and draws couples and singles who come to socialize, dance or explore within a framework that places mutual respect at the centre of its stated rules. The space is divided into two functionally distinct sections. The front half is a licensed discotheque with a full cash bar, a dance floor and a rotating calendar of themed nights — decade evenings, candaulism nights, déshabillé parties and seasonal galas among them — that give regulars a consistent reason to return. Beyond it lies La Cachette ("the hiding place"), an alcohol-free zone housing the club's intimate facilities: a coat check, showers, bathroom, towels, a mirrored dance floor with a podium and pole flanked by high-top tables for spectators, couches, four private rooms (one fitted with four beds) and a lounge with a wall-mounted screen. Lockers with provided locks are available. Staff members escort first-time visitors through both sections before the evening gets under way. The club runs Thursday through Saturday. Thursdays (9 pm–1 am) are open-door nights requiring no membership, and La Cachette is accessible to all guests. Fridays (9 pm–3 am) welcome couples alongside singles of all genders; Saturdays (9 pm–3 am) restrict entry to couples and unaccompanied women, with single men excluded. Annual membership costs $90 for a couple or a single man; single women join at no charge. Per-event pricing starts at $20 per couple, $40 for single men, and ranges from free to $10 for single women depending on the night. A membership card is mandatory for special events, including the Bar en Blanc.

HOWL Worldwide

London, London

On-Premise Club

HOWL Worldwide is not a fixed-address swingers club but a queer, sex-positive brand that describes itself as building "the world's first PLEASURE ECOSYSTEM." Born out of a queer, all-genders festival in London in 2019, it has grown across three self-described pillars: Pleasure ("next-gen, problem solving sex products from bedroom to dance floor and beyond"), Nightlife ("HOWL was born as a queer, sex-positive rave" that has become "a cultural institution, booking global headliners and hosting events and workshops internationally"), and Media ("leading the way in global sex education and music media supported by major partnerships with Universal Music"). Rather than operating its own venue, HOWL is a roving events promoter that hires commercial London spaces for its parties, with a stated ethos of removing shame from sex and championing genuinely inclusive spaces. The nightlife side runs as ticketed events at rotating East and South London venues (past editions have used spaces such as the Colour Factory, Egg London and Number 90), typically long all-night techno raves alongside educational nights and workshops. The listed 2026-27 calendar includes a September Rave (12 Sep, £15), HOWLOWEEN 2026 (30 Oct, London, £15), HOWL x PRNCPTL (12 Dec, £15), HOWL Pride 2027 (3 Jul, London, £25) pitched as a multi-venue alternative to corporate pride, and a sold-out HOWL Maiden Voyage (8 Aug, South London, £38.50). There is no membership scheme, standing venue address or fixed opening hours; attendance is by individual event ticket. The rest of the operation is an e-commerce store (built on Shopify) selling the brand's own pleasure products: water-based CBD lube (£12), silicone CBD lube (£13), a Lube Sleeve (£14.99), keyring and bandana merch, and "HOWLERS" lube suppositories advertised as launching. Buyers get 15% off lubes with a ticket purchase and free UK shipping over £20. Contact is via the on-site form and support@howlworldwide.com; there is no published phone number. The brand is queer-founded and clearly active, with events dated into 2027.

SOP Lifestyle Productions

Vancouver, British Columbia

Event Organizer

SOP Lifestyle Productions — where the acronym stands for Swinger, Open, Poly — is a Vancouver, British Columbia-based event production company founded and run by Ying Ying Lee. Rather than operating a fixed venue, SOP produces lifestyle-oriented hotel takeovers, cruises, resort trips, and curated travel experiences for the open-minded adult community. The organisation welcomes singles, couples, and people of all genders, ages, and backgrounds; its attendee demographic typically spans the mid-20s to mid-60s, with the majority in their 30s to 50s, and draws participants from across Canada and the United States. SOP's flagship offering is the Winter Lifestyle Takeover (WLT), which began in 2010 and shifted to its current full-hotel-takeover format in 2012. It now runs annually in November at the 4-star Delta Whistler Village Suites in Whistler, BC, drawing around 350 attendees across a Friday-to-Monday weekend. The hotel pool deck, indoor and outdoor hot tubs, and a dedicated top-floor Play Floor stocked with theme rooms and playrooms form the centrepiece. A Spring Lifestyle Takeover (SLT) serves as a companion event, most recently held at the Mount Royal Hotel in Banff, AB. SOP also organises a Europe Lifestyle Takeover, a Tropical Lifestyle Takeover, group cruises on Virgin Voyages, and pop-up travel adventures. All takeovers are BYOB and follow a structured weekend rhythm: a Meet + Greet on the first evening, a dance party on the second night, and a cocktail party on the final night, alongside daytime seminars, workshops, and demonstrations. Ticketing operates via a tiered pricing structure with hotel packages bundling accommodation and a weekend pass. Payment may be made by e-transfer (Canada), Zelle (US), cheque, or credit card (5% service fee); weekend-pass-only options are available for local attendees. Hotel rooms must be booked through SOP directly rather than via the hotel. Advance booking is strongly advised, as events routinely sell out.

Cinema L'Amour

Montreal, Quebec

Adult Cinema

Cinema L'Amour is a family-owned adult movie theatre on Boulevard Saint-Laurent in Montreal's Plateau-Mont-Royal neighbourhood — and one of North America's last continuously operating adult cinemas. The building opened in 1914 as Le Globe, a Beaux-Arts neighbourhood house that screened Yiddish films and hosted vaudeville for Montreal's then-thriving Jewish community along The Main. After operating as The Hollywood from 1932, it turned erotic in 1969 as The Pussycat, and took its current name on July 31, 1981, when distributor Ivan Koltai purchased it and applied the Cinema L'Amour brand from his Hull, Quebec operation. Now in its third generation under Devyn Koltai, the cinema has preserved the original horseshoe balcony, ornate plasterwork, Ionic columns, and classical ornamentation largely intact from its first century — making it not only one of the oldest continuously operating adult venues in Canada but one of the most architecturally notable. The main hall runs a rotating programme of adult films continuously from open to close, projected on a single large screen across an orchestra-level seating area of approximately 375 active seats. The lobby is lined with vintage pornographic poster art from a personal archive spanning the venue's entire run, many available for purchase. On the upper balcony, a couples-only VIP lounge — installed to mark the cinema's 20th anniversary under its current name — spans three viewing levels with two private booths, comfortable sofas, and ambient lighting looking out over the main screen below. Beyond adult programming, the cinema has hosted POP Montreal performances, fashion shows, film festivals, and music video shoots, including Charlotte Cardin's Daddy, cementing its dual role as both an adult venue and a genuine Montreal cultural institution. The venue is open every day from 11am to 11pm, with no advance booking required. General admission is CAD $17.00 for visitors 18 and over, or CAD $16.00 for seniors 65 and over; the VIP couples balcony is an additional CAD $55 per couple. Weekly promotions give couples free entry on Mondays and Tuesdays all day and Thursdays after 6pm. Wednesdays bring two new film presentations alongside a standing Trans Night welcoming the transgender and LGBTQ+ community every week. Fridays are dedicated to voyeurs, exhibitionists, and swingers; Saturdays carry a general party-night billing. An in-venue and online shop sells branded merchandise, vintage posters, and DVDs.

Club Triple XTC

Regina, Saskatchewan

Event Organiser

Founded in 2012 by a Regina couple who had searched for lifestyle clubs across Saskatchewan and found none, Club Triple XTC began as a hot-tub party of around thirty guests in their home. Those gatherings grew steadily to over a hundred attendees and eventually became a formally incorporated Saskatchewan company. Today the club draws members from Regina, Saskatoon, and across the province, positioning itself as Saskatchewan's only registered lifestyle club for consenting adults of all gender identities and sexual orientations. Rather than a fixed venue, the club runs three distinct event formats. Sociables Drink Nights are social-only evenings at a local public lounge — low-key and non-sexual, designed for members to meet and mingle. Private Hot Tub Parties echo the club's origins, gathering a smaller crowd for an intimate evening with BYOB drinks and snacks. The flagship Hotel Theme Parties book entire floors of one of Regina's hotels: themed play rooms coexist with a designated social area, exotic dance performances (with tip-based lap dances after the main show), a staffed BYOB bar area where guests label their own bottles, and communal food. Condoms and disinfectant wipes are freely available in all play areas, and security personnel are present throughout. Attendance at hotel events regularly exceeds 150. All events require pre-approved membership and advance ticket purchase — no walk-ins. A hostess checks government-issued photo ID against a printed ticket list at the door, where all guests sign a Conditions of Attendance document and receive individually numbered wristbands. Phones must be surrendered to secure storage on arrival and will be confiscated if carried inside; cameras and recording devices are banned outright. Single men are admitted only on a restricted basis — applicants must already be known in the Saskatchewan lifestyle community or formally sponsored by an existing member. Light BDSM play is permitted; extreme kink is explicitly prohibited. The minimum age is 19.

H&H Social Club (Heaven & Hell)

Manchester, NH

Social Club

H&H Social Club — Heaven & Hell — is a New Hampshire-based lifestyle event organization and luxury adult travel community that has built a loyal following across the Granite State and beyond. Unlike a brick-and-mortar club, H&H operates as a roving collective: its events take place at rented nightlife venues, hotel ballrooms, chartered boats, and all-inclusive resort takeovers rather than a fixed address, which keeps the vibe fresh and the crowd — drawn from New Hampshire, Massachusetts, and the broader New England lifestyle scene — pleasantly varied. The format ranges from low-key bar Meet & Greets where newcomers can size things up in a no-pressure, clothed environment, to large-scale, on-premise hotel takeovers that run full weekends with DJs, themed nightly parties, and dedicated play spaces. The event calendar spans several recurring signatures. Luminescence is a private sunset booze cruise on Boston Harbor — an electric-jungle-themed adults-only boat party with a full bar and live DJ; the adjacent Freaky Friday Meet & Greet the night before gives attendees a chance to connect before boarding. The annual Bacchanalia series is a full resort takeover at a clothing-optional property in Mexico (Hidden Beach Resort Au Naturel, Riviera Maya for 2026), running five nights of themed evenings — Burlesque, Luau, All That Glitters Is Gold, Down the Rabbit Hole, and an Intergalactic Glow night — with gourmet dining and premium drinks. A Winter Wonderland hotel-floor takeover rounds out the domestic calendar, while Virgin Alaska Cruise group trips and a Barcelona–Ibiza experience extend the travel programme internationally. Membership is optional — most events sell tickets to the public — but the paid membership site unlocks early booking, a full event calendar, and H&H Rewards points. All events are primarily open to couples and single women; a limited number of single men are accepted at select events. Attendees must be 21 or older. Event locations are disclosed only on tickets and the members site, preserving discretion. Reach the club by call, text, or WhatsApp at 603-550-9676, or follow @heavenandhellsocialclub on Instagram.

Club Labyrinth NYC

New York, NY

On-Premise Club

Club Labyrinth occupies a private midtown Manhattan building near the corner of East 31st Street and Park Avenue South — close to Grand Central, Herald Square, and Union Square — with street parking and subway access that make it one of the more accessible adult venues in the city. The space runs across multiple levels and roughly 1,500 sq ft, dividing into a front-of-house room with the front desk, coat check, seating areas, and a refreshment bar, a second room with BDSM furniture, couches, and a bed, and a third dedicated play room lined with beds and a projector screen showing adult video. There is also a dedicated Blackout Room for the truly adventurous and a Voyeur Room — both name-checked on the Friday Debauchery night — plus a designated smoking space and private bathrooms for changing. Labyrinth runs four nights a week: Anything Goes Wednesdays (9pm–2am, couples and singles, BDSM-friendly), Orgy Thursdays (9pm–3am, group-play focus), Debauchery Fridays (9pm–4am, the club's signature night), and Swinging Kink Saturdays (9pm–4am, the busiest evening). Pricing varies by night: Wednesdays run $40 couples / $80 single men / free for ladies until midnight; Fridays scale to $60–$80 couples and $100–$120 single men depending on arrival time. Membership is compulsory — annual ($40), six-month ($30), or one-week ($20) — and must be purchased before attending; every tenth visit is free. The crowd skews toward adventurous adults in their 20s, 30s, and 40s, and the club draws a mix of couples and single attendees in a no-pressure environment where watching is as welcome as participating. Complimentary condoms, lube, and towels are provided; the venue is BYOB with a $20 bottle surcharge and a one-bottle-per-membership cap, with complimentary mixers, soda, and water at the bar. All events are on-premise with no re-entry.

The Hellfire Club

Sunbury-on-Thames, Surrey

On-Premise Club

The Hellfire Club has hosted alternative-lifestyle parties from a discreet address on Harris Way in Sunbury-on-Thames since 2008, roughly ten miles west of central London with, in the club's words, 'excellent travel links and secure free parking' — a lit, CCTV-covered lot for around 60 cars directly outside. Owner Peter Crosby hosts personally, and the crowd is described on the club's own listing as 'an eclectic mix of intelligent, cultured and fun individuals with an average age in the mid thirties.' The venue spreads over two floors that regulars nickname the 'heavenly upper floor and the devilish lower floor': a wood-panelled lounge with Chesterfield chairs, a fireplace and a large orangery over a natural-wood dance floor with a pole, opening onto 'numerous exotically themed playrooms and a dungeon, combined with an excellent DJ booth, audio and lighting system.' Programming covers the full breadth of the scene — swingers and couples nights through fetish, BDSM and shibari — under a rotating banner of themed parties. Two run weekly: Secret Sunday every Sunday and the midweek Brief Encounter every Wednesday. Friday and Saturday nights carry the bigger events, among them Ladies Night, Bad Girls, The Dungeon, SWISH, and AllBarNone (an 'every genre' night on the fourth Saturday), alongside periodic couples-only weekenders and seasonal specials such as the Naughty 90's Weekend and the Xmas Ball. Entry is 21-plus with photo ID requested from anyone who looks under 25, single men are admitted in limited numbers, and booking is done in advance through each party's Eventbrite ticket-and-deposit page rather than on the door — early-bird couples entry starts from around £10. The facilities lean theatrical: a DJ booth with a full audio and lighting rig, a cinema/live-streaming room, glory holes, a 'classroom,' a terrace garden and a courtyard garden, and — a house signature — a full-size vehicle tucked into the dogging leg of the dungeon. Unlike BYOB clubs, Hellfire runs its own bar, with a happy hour taking 50% off all drinks for the first hour of every party; Skyn condoms are sold on site and safe sex is encouraged. Mobile phones are barred from all public areas except reception, the Terrace Garden and the Courtyard Garden, which keeps the mood relaxed and discreet. The building is multi-floor with ramps but no lift between levels, though staff will help visitors who need assistance between the upstairs and downstairs spaces.

The Swinger's Grotto has been a fixture of South Jersey's lifestyle scene since its founding in 1999, operating out of Burlington, NJ under the stewardship of a trio of hosts — Scott, Tom, and Tony. The club runs on a monthly party format open to ladies and couples, in a relaxed, no-pressure atmosphere suited to both first-timers and experienced lifestyle participants alike. What has set the Grotto apart over the years is a deliberately personal touch: the hosts know their guests by name and treat everyone as part of a community rather than a paying crowd. Each party includes a spread of food, entertainment, and adult novelties — a consistent detail that regulars reference as part of the club's character. The club operates on a private-party model with no publicly listed street address or website, reachable only via phone (609-636-1756) or its PO Box — a setup typical of smaller lifestyle events in the South Jersey corridor.

Club ESP (Extra Sensual People)

Amherst, Nova Scotia

On-Premise Club

Club ESP — Extra Sensual People — holds the distinction of being the oldest swingers club in the Maritimes, having operated continuously since 1991 near the Nova Scotia–New Brunswick border outside Amherst, NS. Current director Dana took ownership in 2006, steering the club away from its early dance-hall format toward an intimate, pre-screened members clubhouse model. Membership is open to couples and single ladies only; every applicant speaks with Dana by phone before gaining access to events or the private members community — a screening process that keeps the guest list verified and the atmosphere pressure-free. The private 3,300-square-foot clubhouse includes a disco dance floor, comfortable conversation lounges, dedicated play areas, a sauna, an indoor Jacuzzi, and a seasonal outdoor hot tub. Dana guiding philosophy is roughly 80 percent social, 20 percent sexual — parties feature themes, icebreakers, mixer games, and name tags, and host couples are on hand to welcome newcomers. The membership demographic spans roughly ages 25 to 55, drawing couples from across Atlantic Canada, with some reportedly driving five or six hours to attend. Parties run twice monthly through summer and once monthly the rest of the year. Attendance requires advance registration via the website or by calling 1-888-732-0330; events are paid at check-in, with regular club parties priced at $129.95 CAD per couple ($64.95 CAD for single ladies) and social events at $29.95 CAD per couple. The club is BYOB, with HST added at checkout. Beyond the clubhouse, Club ESP organises ancillary social outings — campouts, hotel suite parties, and lifestyle travel cruises — and founded MASCA (Maritime Atlantic Swingers Club Association), a regional network of Atlantic Canadian lifestyle clubs.

Club L (Le Club L)

Montreal, Quebec

On-Premise Club

Club L is a members-only lifestyle and swinging club occupying more than 7,200 square feet across two floors of a converted Caisse Populaire Desjardins building on Rue Jean-Talon Est in Montreal's Rosemont-La Petite-Patrie neighbourhood. Founded by the couple Mateo Lapointe and Andree, who have practised open relationships since 2003, the venue positions itself as one of Quebec's premier couple-centred libertine spaces — high-end, consent-focused, and deliberately discreet from the street. The ground floor operates as a full restaurant-lounge with small round tables, a central bar, and a chef preparing plated meals that are included in the entry price. A DJ plays on Friday and Saturday nights, and all sexual activity is confined to the second floor — keeping the main floor comfortable for socialising, dining, and meeting at any pace. The second floor opens around 22:30 and holds nine themed private rooms plus a large open communal play area. Rooms are equipped with individual sinks, adjustable mood lighting, and personalised sound controls; there are showers, towels, and full bathroom toiletries on the same floor. Suspension anchors for Shibari and swing chairs are available in the communal space, and on-floor security monitors (vigiles) are present throughout the playroom level at all times. Friday and Saturday nights run 19:00-03:00 and are reserved for couples, single women (femmes libres), and pre-sponsored male escorts (hommes accompagnateurs) whose sponsors must register them in advance — unaccompanied men are not admitted. Select Thursday evenings run 19:00-23:00 as social-only events open to all adults 18 and over, with the second floor closed and no membership required. A valid membership is mandatory for all Friday and Saturday visits: CAD $35 per person for one month, or CAD $75 per person annually. Entry fees vary by event from CAD $45 to $80 per person (plus tax), covering one meal per person. First-time visitors must arrive by 23:00 to complete a mandatory guided tour of the second floor. Payment is accepted in cash or physical debit card only; online reservations carry a non-refundable CAD $5 per person deposit credited at the door.

Lifestyle Resort

Paradise Lakes Resort is a private, clothing-optional lifestyle resort in Lutz, Florida, on the Pasco County line north of Tampa — an area it bills as the "nudist capital" of the United States. Open for roughly four decades, it caters primarily to adult nudist couples in the lifestyle, pairing a full clothing-optional resort with an on-premise lifestyle (swinger) scene. Guests can come for the day or stay overnight in on-site hotel rooms. The grounds center on pools and a hot tub, with two dining spots and licensed bars — the Waters Edge Bar and the Key West restaurant — and Club Reveal, the resort's late-night nightclub. Themed weekends run roughly monthly, from leather-and-lace to costume and holiday parties, with indoor and outdoor DJs and indoor/outdoor play areas. It stays clothing-optional throughout, from the pools by day to the club after dark. Outside alcohol and food are not permitted, since the on-site bars are licensed. Entry works through a "daily membership" (day pass) or a longer membership; overnight guests also pay the daily fee at check-in. Day rates run about $40–$90 for couples and $15–$25 for single women, while single men pay a flat $175, and couple passes are reserved for committed couples who stay together. Annual and shorter memberships are available, from about $300 a month up to $2,000 a year for couples. Overnight booking is 21+. Reach the resort at (813) 949-9327 or reservations@paradiselakes.com.

Club 2020

Malsch, Baden-Württemberg

On-Premise Club

Club 2020 occupies a purpose-fitted venue on Daimlerstrasse in Malsch, a small industrial town just south of Karlsruhe in Baden-Württemberg. Opened in 2020 and operated by Stiefel GmbH, the club positions itself as the modern way to swing and has developed a following as one of the more design-conscious lifestyle destinations in the upper Rhine valley. Entry is by pre-registration only via JoyClub.de or WhatsApp, with no walk-ins accepted. Admission is tiered: couples pay €69–99, single women €25–35, and single men €75–119, and the dress code is strictly enforced at the door. The house principle — Alles kann, nichts muss (anything goes, nothing is required) — sets the tone: free condoms and towels are provided, smoking and illegal drugs are prohibited, and prostitution is strictly forbidden. JoyClub members receive a €10 discount, and the venue is also available for private rental.

Society of Bastet

Dartmouth, Nova Scotia

BDSM/Kink Club

The Society of Bastet is a volunteer-run, non-profit alternative lifestyles organization based in Dartmouth, Nova Scotia, serving the kink and BDSM community across Atlantic Canada. Operating out of Suite 5 at 327 Windmill Road — tucked behind blacked-out windows — the society operates a community play space with weekly programming for practitioners of impact play, rope bondage, fire play, latex, electrical play, foot fetishism, domination and submission, and more. The clubhouse features a dungeon equipped with a St. Andrew's cross, a spanking bench, an impact toys wall, and a wax play area. A separate medical room — complete with an examination table, lab coats, gloves, and a biohazard sharps container — supports fire play, massage, and play piercing. A Dungeon Monitor is on duty during every session with a first-aid kit, and a Sheriff role handles escalated concerns. Hospital-grade disinfectant and single-use items are standard; members are required to clean all equipment after use. The society explicitly describes itself as a BDSM and kink club, not a sex club: penetration is not permitted, and all physical contact must be through a clothing barrier. Alcohol and drugs are strictly prohibited on the premises. Weekly Saturday night play parties form the backbone of the schedule, with an orientation session on the first Saturday of each month for newcomers. Annual membership is CA$30 per person (or CA$50 for two years); membership is optional and guests are welcome at all events when signed in by a member. All attendees must be 19 or older. The Society also runs the School of Kink, an ongoing program of classes, peer tutoring, and demonstrations covering safe technique across a wide range of kinks.

Hacienda

Brooklyn, NY

On-Premise Club

Rooted in Bushwick since 2009, Hacienda operates across multiple townhouses in Brooklyn's most creative neighborhood, functioning as both a members-only sex-positive club and an intentional living community. The flagship venue features multiple floors with distinct play areas, social lounges, a hot tub, indoor and outdoor spaces, and room for DJs and live performances. The crowd skews late twenties and thirties, draws a notably gender-balanced mix of couples, singles, and non-monogamous folk, and sets a tone that members describe as intimate rather than nightclub-loud. Access runs entirely through a referral-based membership system. Applicants must be vouched for by an existing member, watch a mandatory consent-policy video, and pay $40/quarter or $120/year; individual event tickets run $45–$85. Three event tiers exist: public themed nights, private members-only play parties, and educational workshops. First-time guests must complete an in-person orientation before their first play party. Play parties feature multiple socializing and play zones, themed decor, DJ sets, and a full meal served around 2am. Trained volunteers called Guardians — identifiable by light-up armbands — circulate throughout every event and do not participate in play. The consent policy is opt-in: all touch requires explicit verbal agreement. Phones and recording devices are not permitted in play areas.

Friction Parties

Unverified

Washington, DC

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Friction Parties is a women-owned and operated event company founded more than 22 years ago by Lisa Friction, billed as the only nationally recognized hotel party brand in the United States. Operating across the East Coast — with events regularly held in the Washington DC/Maryland area, Philadelphia, New Jersey, North Carolina, and Ohio — Friction takes over entire hotels for the duration of each event, meaning every guest and room belongs exclusively to the lifestyle community. The organizing ethos is welcoming but selective: the crowd skews toward what organizers describe as attractive, well-groomed couples and single women, and all attendees are pre-screened before admission. Events run in two formats. Single-day events are typically held on Saturdays around themed holidays — Halloween, New Year’s Eve, Valentine’s Day, St. Patrick’s Day — with check-in from 2 PM and a ballroom dance party running from 9 PM to around 1:30 AM. Weekend two-day events add clothing-optional pool parties and afternoon activities. Ticket prices range from approximately $75–$150 per person; no refunds, only future-event credits. Membership on the platform lets members browse event attendee lists and connect with couples and single females year-round. Once the main dance party ends, the format shifts to an informal hall crawl on a designated party floor where room doors are propped open and guests host themed mini-parties until the early morning. The ballroom features a DJ, dance poles, cages, and themed décor matched to the night’s costume theme. Alcohol is available via full cash bar operated by the hotel; guests may not bring drinks from rooms to the party floor.

Winnipeg Couples Social Club

Unverified

Winnipeg, Manitoba

Social Club

Winnipeg Couples Social Club (WCSC) is a Manitoba-based lifestyle community for couples who are in or interested in the swinging lifestyle. Founded as Prairie Swing Club in October 1999 and rebranded under its current name in March 2001, the club draws members from Winnipeg and an unusually wide regional catchment spanning Saskatchewan, northwestern Ontario, Minnesota, and North Dakota. With over 100 couple memberships and a volunteer executive, the club operates as a community-run organisation rather than a commercial venue. It holds membership in NASCA International and carries the EOLO (Equal Opportunity Lifestyle Organization) designation, affirming that membership is open to couples of all races and nationalities. As a non-venue club, WCSC does not maintain a permanent physical space. Social life centres on two categories of events: off-site functions — coffee nights, bar nights, and socials held at rotating Winnipeg locations — where no nudity, sexual contact, or drugs are permitted, and sexy clothing is welcome but BYOB is not; and on-site parties held in member homes or at a private club venue, which involve adult activity governed by the host's own rules. Typical off-site attendance runs 35–50 couples; private on-site gatherings attract 10–20 couples. Past events have included a New Year's Bash, a Valentine's social, and a Mardi Gras party. A standing weekly coffee night reportedly runs every Thursday evening from 7:30 to 9:00 p.m. at a centrally located Winnipeg cafe. Annual membership costs $10.00 CAD per couple, and grants access to a password-protected private website with member profiles, photos, and club announcements. Prospective members must contact the club by email; Winnipeg-area applicants are met in person, while out-of-towners are screened by telephone. Event attendance costs $25.00 CAD per couple. Cameras and recording devices are prohibited at all club functions without exception — members wishing to be photographed must request a management-taken photo, delivered digitally. The club primary rule: No means No, enforced with one warning, then expulsion.

Swingers Circle

Las Vegas, NV

On-Premise Club

Swingers Circle is Las Vegas's longest-running weekly lifestyle party, operating since 2010. Rather than a fixed venue, every Thursday night the hosts book a full hotel suite or penthouse at a major Strip property — guests receive the specific hotel name and suite number by text or call within a few hours of the 9 pm start. Capacity is strictly capped at 12 couples (plus unpartnered women), and a party minimum of five couples is required before the event proceeds. The crowd spans ages 21 to 65, mixing visiting tourists with locals and newcomers with veterans. The evening centres on an interactive ice-breaker called the Game: after a social hour, hosts run a sex-trivia challenge pitting the genders against each other — wrong answers cost an article of clothing. Lighting is kept very low throughout, candlelit in the play areas, keeping the atmosphere relaxed even for first-timers. Participation in the Game is not optional, though playing with any other guest always is. Once the Game wraps, play moves to the designated playroom where essentials are provided. Admission is ticketed online only via Eventbrite, with sales closing at 8:30 pm or once the 12-couple cap is reached — whichever comes first. The event is BYOB; the hosts supply soft drinks, bottled water and light snacks at no extra charge. Dress code is club wear (no sneakers, T-shirts or tank tops). Single men are never permitted; the party is exclusively for couples and unpartnered women. Valet and self-parking are available at the host hotel.

Kasteel Waterloo

Unverified

Beesel, Limburg

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Kasteel Waterloo is a long-established lifestyle and swingers club set within a 1922 art-nouveau villa on the edge of Beesel, a small municipality in the Dutch province of Limburg positioned roughly midway between Venlo and Roermond. The estate's history stretches back to the eighteenth century, and the club has operated on the grounds since the early 1980s, attracting a regular crowd that draws noticeably from across the Dutch–German–Belgian border region, with visitors typically ranging from their mid-twenties to their early fifties. The villa's ground floor holds a bar, a dance floor fitted with a pole, a cold-buffet dining area, and a covered outdoor terrace with a separate smoking section. The upper floor is given over to the play spaces: a sauna, a BDSM room, a film room, and several themed erotic rooms, all stocked with complimentary towels and condoms. Personal lockers and free on-site parking are included. A DJ performs on selected evenings, with the music generally oriented toward 1970s–1990s hits, keeping the atmosphere sociable rather than club-loud. The venue opens on Friday evenings and on a rotating selection of Saturdays, with Fridays running roughly 20:00–03:00 and Saturdays 21:00–04:00 (exact times vary by event; the online agenda is the authoritative source). Pricing follows an all-inclusive model — unlimited drinks, the buffet, condoms, towels, and locker access are all covered by the door price. Couples typically pay €40–€110 depending on the theme night; single women pay €20–€55; single men pay €105 on nights when they are admitted. Friday is the nude-party night, open to all categories; Saturdays cycle through themed events — Couples & Bi-Ladies nights (single men excluded), Nymf Parties, Erotic Stars evenings, and Black & Leather parties — each with its own dress requirements. Advance reservations are required for all events.

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Parenclub Devils & Angels, an all-inclusive lifestyle and swingers club at Maaseikerweg 24 in Susteren, Limburg, has been temporarily closed since approximately May 2026. As of September 2026 the club's website carries the notice 'Wegens omstandigheden is de club tijdelijk gesloten' (due to circumstances, the club is temporarily closed) with no reopening date given. Verify current status before visiting. The club operated on a single all-inclusive admission price covering entry, beverages, and full facility access — no separate bar tab. The venue featured a bar and buffet restaurant, dance floor, and discrete car parking with campervan bays for overnight stays. Inside, a series of themed play rooms included a disco room, a TV room, a Thai massage room, a room with a floating bed, a black room, and further group play spaces. Complimentary condoms were provided throughout, and guided tours of the space were available for first-time visitors. Regular programming ran Wednesday afternoons (15:00–21:00, MILF-themed format) and Friday and Saturday evenings (21:00–03:00), with occasional Thursday daytime sessions. Admission for couples was approximately €50–75; single men in the €85–130 range; single women at a lower rate or free depending on the night. On the last Friday of each month a drempelvrees avond (newcomers' evening) welcomed first-time visitors, with regular clothes permitted until 22:30 before the provocative dress code took effect. Advance reservation was recommended for Saturday evenings.

Parenclub Ultimate Dream

Beek en Donk, Noord-Brabant

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Parenclub Ultimate Dream occupies a venue at Willemstraat 9B in Beek en Donk, a small Noord-Brabant municipality positioned roughly midway between Helmond and Eindhoven. The club draws couples and single women from the broader Brabant region — Den Bosch, Eindhoven, and Helmond are all within easy reach — and operates both lifestyle and kink programming: regular swinger nights run alongside dedicated BDSM evenings and fetish events, including an occasional X-Treme Fetish party. Multiple independent listings describe an interior combining a lounge, dance floor, bar, and buffet-style restaurant with two whirlpools and private rooms for couples seeking seclusion. Entry is all-inclusive: drinks, food, condoms, towels, and locker use are covered by the door price, a model confirmed consistently across sources. Staff welcome first-time visitors with a personal introduction and tour before the evening begins, contributing to a reputation for approachability. Confirmed hours are Saturday 20:00–02:00; Friday 19:00–01:00 appears in several directory listings but has not been verified against primary sources — check the event calendar before visiting. Couple entry was listed at €110 and single-woman entry at €55 for a Saturday event in May 2025; earlier third-party listings show lower figures and current pricing should be confirmed directly with the club. A stamp card rewards repeat visitors with complimentary entry after ten paid visits. From 22:30 a dress code applies: lingerie for women, underwear or boxers for men, with standard evening attire accepted on arrival before that threshold. Standard nights admit couples and single women only; single men may attend exclusively on themed evenings that explicitly permit their entry.

Illuminaughty Denver

Denver, CO

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Denver launched in early 2025, selling out its first play party in the Mile High City, and now runs as a curated, application-only private members club for ethically non-monogamous couples and singles in their 20s, 30s, and 40s. Part of a national network spanning dozens of U.S. cities, it hosts a mix of Tease Cocktail Mixers at restaurants and bars alongside private play parties held at rented residences — anything from single-family houses to executive high-rises and country estates, each staffed with private security and dressed with intentional lighting, music, and decor. Membership is free but vetted: applicants are screened for fitness, self-awareness, and respectfulness, and once approved gain access to buy tickets and receive invites via the mobile app. Most private parties draw 40 to 80 members and run 8pm to 2am (or 2pm to midnight for All Day Soirees), with a strict arrival window, a consent-and-safety briefing before play begins, and a formal or themed dress code — cocktail attire or lingerie for women, suits for men, though some nights go casual (Neon, Pajama). No models, performers, or influencers are booked; every attendee is a vetted member.

The Loft Club

Ronkonkoma, NY

The Loft Club billed itself as Long Island's only premier upscale lifestyle club, operating out of an industrial-style space at 142-1 Remington Boulevard in Ronkonkoma. Operated under the umbrella of the Naughty Neighbors group — active on the Long Island lifestyle scene since 2015 — the club combined a social lounge experience with on-premise play, drawing couples and vetted single guests in roughly equal measure. The Naughty Neighbors' ethos of zero-pressure, no-expectation socialising carried directly into the club nights, where newcomers were actively welcomed and regulars kept the atmosphere more house-party than nightclub. The venue featured three lounge areas, a dedicated dance floor with a DJ, upgraded lighting, and six dedicated playrooms. A stripper pole anchored the main party room and the club ran a BYOB policy, supplying mixers, sodas and water at the bar. Admission was tiered: $30 for single ladies, $70 for couples, and $80 for single men, with single-male attendance capped and subject to pre-approval. Events were listed on the SwingLifeStyle (SLS) calendar. As of mid-2026, The Loft Club was actively relocating to a new and larger location, with the Naughty Neighbors group targeting its annual Halloween party as the opening milestone. The theloftclub2.com site was live but showing a Launching Soon holding page, directing all enquiries through email and text-only contact channels.

Sameplace

Amsterdam, Noord-Holland

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Sameplace is an erotic café and adult lifestyle venue at Nassaukade 120 on the western fringe of Amsterdam's Westerpark neighbourhood, a short tram ride from the city centre. Open since the mid-1990s, it markets itself as Amsterdam's premier female-friendly erotic café and draws a genuinely mixed crowd — straight couples, gay men, single women, and on most nights single men as well. The premises run across two floors plus a basement. A U-shaped bar with booth seating anchors the ground floor; upstairs, a dance floor operates with a resident DJ on busier evenings. The basement holds the harder-edged spaces: a dungeon fitted with a sex swing and a sex chair, BDSM equipment, and a dark room. A changing room with lockers and towels is available. The programme of themed nights is central to the club's identity: regular rotation includes BDSM Pure evenings, fetish-dress nights with enforced dress code, a Shamelessly Naked party, a T&T night, bisexual and trans nights, costume parties, and a monthly fistfuck event on the fourth Sunday. One evening each week is reserved for gay men only. Staff meet guests at the door and walk newcomers through the space; a strict consent policy is actively enforced — visitors report that a firm refusal from any patron is respected without negotiation. The venue is open Tuesday through Thursday from 21:00 to 02:00, Friday and Saturday from 21:00 to 03:00, and Sunday in two sessions: 15:00–21:00 (couples only) and 22:00–03:00; the club is closed on Mondays. Entry is via a doorbell; there is no street queue. Entry fees vary by event and themed night. The venue is cash-only — no card payments are accepted. Dress codes are enforced on fetish and specialist nights; casual attire is acceptable on standard evenings. Nudity is permitted throughout the venue.

The Lifestyle Lounge

Unverified

Eccles, Greater Manchester

BDSM Club

The Lifestyle Lounge sits on Liverpool Road in Eccles, a short distance from the Manchester city boundary, in a building that has housed one of Greater Manchester's most tenacious adult social clubs for over four decades. Originally trading as Adam and Eve's — widely described as one of the UK's oldest swingers bars — the venue was taken over by owner Kerry Voellner, who oversaw a full rebrand and renovation programme completed in April 2025. The result is a members-only club that explicitly courts couples, single women, LGBTQ+ guests, and those with an interest in kink, fetish, and BDSM, while retaining the community-social-club atmosphere that the site has carried since the 1980s. The club gained national attention when it featured in the Channel 5 documentary Adults: 24 Hour Sex, Up All Night. The venue occupies four themed floors fitted out for both social and play use. Amenities include a hot tub, jacuzzi, sauna, swing room, a dungeon, a bondage table, private rooms, a pool table, and individual lockers. Capacity is capped at approximately 80 members. The atmosphere is deliberately low-key and sober: the venue holds no alcohol licence, so guests bring their own within strict limits — up to four cans or a half-bottle per person. Phones are surrendered at the reception desk on arrival to protect members' identities, and are not permitted in any public area of the club. The club opens Wednesday and Thursday from 21:00 to 02:00, and Friday and Saturday from 20:00 to 03:00. Membership is required to attend, and the dress code is described as bright, kinky, and as bold as guests dare. A zero-tolerance drugs policy is in force, and the club is a participant in the Code Red safety network — a shared-exclusion arrangement spanning multiple venues across the North of England under which a ban at one member club applies automatically to all others.

Shrine Austin

Austin, TX

Event Organizer

Shrine is a monthly BDSM, fetish, and alternative-lifestyle party held on a Sunday evening at colette Austin, a 7,000–9,000 sq ft swingers club at 13800 Dragline Dr. Run by a coalition of Austin-area kink organizations, Shrine bills itself as a sex-positive space that blends a dungeon and nightclub atmosphere, welcoming swingers, kinksters, voyeurs, LGBTQIA+ attendees, and polyamorous folks alike. The venue supplies multiple beds, St. Andrew's crosses, spanking benches, hard points, wrestling mats, stripper poles, a non-alcoholic beverage bar, small lockers, and a smoking-permitted outdoor social area, plus a massage table set aside for fire and medical play. Doors run 6:30pm to 1am (2am on Memorial Day and Labor Day weekends), with check-in closing an hour before close. Entry requires a valid state or federal ID (18+), a free temporary colette-club membership, and a signed waiver; cover is $25 at the door or discounted online. There's no fixed dress code — fetish wear and leather are encouraged, and nudity is fine once inside — but attendees must be street-legal en route, and new attendees take a walkthrough with a Front of House Tour Guide before diving in. House rules lean heavily toward consent and safety: the event safe word is RED, all scenes require enthusiastic consent, and Dungeon Monitors in colored vests patrol to enforce boundaries. The party is explicitly dry — no alcohol or drugs are permitted anywhere on the premises — and phones, cameras, and recording devices are banned inside the club except in designated photography areas.

Club Princeton

Columbus, OH

On-Premise Club

Club Princeton occupies a sprawling 21,000-square-foot converted warehouse in the Franklinton area of Columbus, Ohio — an industrial exterior that gives little away before you step inside. Open since the early 2000s, it has grown into what regular visitors call the most upscale lifestyle club in the Midwest. The ground floor centres on a 2,500-square-foot dance area with live DJs, a stage, and dance cages; there is also VIP table seating, a full bar setup serving free mixers, soft drinks, and snacks nightly. BYOB is the policy — no alcohol is sold on site — and lockers are available for storing your own bottles. Upstairs, the play floors open into a warren of themed spaces: a VIP lounge with a fireplace, the Stairway to Heaven lounge, a doctor's examination room, a jail-cell playroom, a room with a Sybian massage table, two open group rooms, and twelve private rooms — each made up with clean white sheets and white towels, with staff cycling through to change linens between uses. Thursday nights carry a bi and fetish theme starting at 10 PM; Friday and Saturday nights are open to the broader lifestyle crowd. Single men are restricted to public areas and require female accompaniment to access play spaces. Membership is mandatory before entry — required by Ohio licensing law — though short-term single-event passes are available at the door alongside paid-up couples memberships. Door fees are separate from membership. The club is consistently praised for its professional, welcoming staff, thorough first-timer tours, and strict no-photography policy throughout the venue. Free fenced parking and on-site security round out the offering.

Fun4Two

Moordrecht, South Holland

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Fun4Two is a long-established lifestyle club housed in a protected 1851 Dutch farmhouse at Middelweg 18 in Moordrecht, South Holland, roughly 25 minutes by car from Rotterdam and within easy reach of The Hague, Utrecht, and Amsterdam. Operating continuously since January 1996, it runs as an all-inclusive venue — one entry price covers unlimited food from the buffet restaurant, unlimited drinks including beer, wine, and spirits, use of all wellness facilities, towels, and lockers — a model that sets it apart from most comparable venues across the Netherlands. The converted farmhouse spreads across several connected sections. A self-service buffet restaurant, a main dance floor with a resident DJ, and a lounge bar anchor the social areas. A wellness wing contains a heated indoor pool, sauna, jacuzzi, and bubble bath. The play spaces include a tantra temple, an orgy loft, a group playroom, a Dutch Village area fitted with BDSM-equipped themed cottages, a glory hole room, and a dedicated BDSM dungeon suite. On-site accommodation — apartments, small cottages, and a traditional Dutch caravan known as a pipowagen — is available at additional cost for those who want to stay after the party ends. The venue opens Friday evenings from 21:00 to 03:00, Saturdays from 21:00 to 04:00, and on selected Sundays from 16:00 to 23:00. Member pricing for a couple runs €124 on Fridays, €159 on Saturdays, and €109 on Sundays; first-time visitors pay an additional €20 one-time registration fee that grants full member rates on all future visits. Single women are welcome at all sessions at reduced rates (€62–€80); single men are excluded from regular events except at dedicated Hardcore Night events (approximately four per year, capped at 75 tickets) and on the third Friday of each month, when a couple may bring one additional guest. Saturday visits require advance reservation via the website. Guests arrive in smart or stylish clothing and must change into lingerie or sexy attire by 23:30 on Fridays and Saturdays, or by 19:00 on Sundays. Mobile phones are prohibited in all public areas, and free enclosed private parking is available on-site.

Club Le Baron

Heerewaarden, Gelderland

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Club Le Baron, also trading as Parenclub Le Baron and Le Baron A2, occupies a stand-alone building at Heerewaardensestraat 40 in the small riverside village of Heerewaarden, on the Gelderland-Noord-Brabant border, immediately accessible from the A2 motorway. The location places it roughly twenty kilometres north of Den Bosch and within an hour of Utrecht, Eindhoven, and Arnhem. Free on-site parking is available. The club admits couples, single women, and single men, and frames its guiding principle as geen nonsens: no obligations to participate, no requirement to undress. It is open every day of the week, a schedule the owners present as a deliberate distinction from venues that operate weekends only. The social area contains a bar, a restaurant serving a complimentary hot and cold buffet, an outdoor terrace, a dance floor with a pole, a separate adult film room, and a dedicated smoking area. All visitors have free use of a jacuzzi, sauna, and multiple shower facilities. Lockers are provided for personal belongings, and condoms and towels are supplied. The play section consists of several lockable private rooms fitted with large beds, mirrored walls and ceilings, and viewing windows described on the venue site as gluuropeningen, allowing observation from the corridor outside. Staff are consistently described in visitor accounts as approachable and welcoming. The weekly schedule runs Monday through Thursday 11:00-01:00, Friday 11:00-03:00, Saturday 20:00-03:00, and Sunday 14:00-21:00. Entry for women and mixed couples is free, subject to a per-person minimum bar spend of 21 EUR; single men pay a flat 75 EUR entry fee with no consumption minimum attached. Under the published pricing policy, two men arriving together are not classified as a couple. The buffet, sauna, jacuzzi, and parking are included for every visitor. Themed special events are held periodically with separate pricing; reservations may be required for those nights. The venue currently requests cash payment, citing intermittent card-terminal failures.

Friction Carolina

Durham, NC

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Friction Carolina is the Raleigh-Durham chapter of Friction Parties, a hotel-takeover swingers event brand founded by Lisa Friction more than two decades ago and run as a women-owned and -operated business. Rather than operating a single fixed venue, Friction stages full hotel buyouts at upscale, mainstream hotel properties across North Carolina, alongside sister markets in the Philadelphia/New Jersey area, the Washington DC region, and Ohio. The company describes its events as complete hotel takeovers rather than floor or ballroom rentals, and positions itself as a nationally recognized hotel-party brand in the lifestyle scene. Because host properties are conventional hotels with their own liquor licenses, the ballroom runs on a cash bar and outside alcohol is barred from any area where the hotel sells drinks, unless a specific date is advertised as BYOB. Parties are built around a rented ballroom for the main event and a private party floor of guest rooms, with area DJs, a stripper pole and dance cage, a step-and-repeat photo backdrop, and security posted at check-in and on the private floors overnight. A late-night pizza run and after-parties on the guest-room floor extend the evening once the ballroom event winds down. Guests are asked to wear a robe or cover-up in hallways and other public hotel areas, and fog machines, candles, vaping, and smoking are all prohibited indoors under hotel fire code. Admission is screening-based and limited to couples and single women who meet the group's appearance standards; the site's own registration form offers only "Couple" and "Female" account types, and unaccompanied single men are not admitted under any circumstance. Site membership is free, and an event ticket purchase includes a temporary premium membership, with a paid "Platinum" membership sold separately for year-round profile browsing and messaging. Check-in cutoff varies by event — stated as 11pm on one official page and midnight on another — with no late entry, and purchases are non-refundable; cancellations and no-shows receive a 12-month event credit instead.

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Sauna Azzurra sits on Van Heemstraweg on the edge of Beuningen, a small Gelderland municipality a short drive west of Nijmegen. It operates as both a gay sauna and an erotic lifestyle venue, rotating between men-only days and days open to mixed-gender couples and singles. The building contains two Finnish saunas each sized for up to six people, a combined hammam and steam sauna, and a communal shower area with roughly eight hot tubs, two of which are bookable privately. Beyond the wet facilities there is a dedicated cruise circuit, dark rooms, open mattress areas, and lockable private cabins. A video lounge, a bar serving food, and an outdoor terrace with sun loungers complete the space, with free parking on site. Condoms are provided throughout; complimentary soup is offered on Sundays. Outside food and drink are not permitted. The programme divides the week by clientele type: Tuesdays, Fridays, and Sundays are men-only gay days; Mondays, Wednesdays, and Saturdays are open to mixed couples and singles; Thursdays are reserved for couples only. Exact opening and closing times should be confirmed directly with the venue before visiting, as third-party sources conflict. Admission prices, per a third-party source that may not reflect current tariffs, are €30 for a single man and €50 for a couple on gay days, and €46.50 for single visitors and €50 per couple on mixed days; a six-visit card is also available. Entry is strictly 18 and over; valid ID is required at the door.

The Rabbit Hole Adelaide

Adelaide, South Australia

On-Premise Club

The Rabbit Hole Adelaide is a private members lifestyle club set in a converted private residence roughly ten minutes north-east of the Adelaide CBD. Catering to open-minded adults interested in consensual non-monogamy, swinging, and alternative relationship dynamics, the club is built around a philosophy of consent, safety, and sophistication. Run by a couple known as Wendee and Andrew, the venue is deliberately curated and selective: prospective members must submit an application questionnaire and a recent full-body photograph before gaining access, and membership, though free, is granted entirely at the hosts' discretion. The venue is spread across two floors. Downstairs is the social zone — a lounge equipped with a pool table and pole-dance poles where guests mingle and settle in. Upstairs holds the play floor, comprising an open dungeon, an open room, two closed private rooms, and a curtained room. Every play space is stocked with condoms (regular, large and X-large), dams, lubricant, wipes, and clean sheets and towels; a one-hour limit is suggested for closed rooms to keep access moving. Soft drinks, water, tea, coffee, and nibbles are provided; guests bring their own alcohol, stored in a large commercial refrigerator on site. A change room is available for those who prefer to arrive in street clothes and transition into lingerie or fetish attire on site. Phones are surrendered to lockers at arrival and are not permitted back in the venue — cameras and any form of recording are prohibited throughout. The calendar spans a varied programme of themed nights, primarily on Saturdays, with doors opening at 8:30 pm and closing at 9:30 pm — late admission is not offered. Regular open parties run through to around 2:00 am; Newbie Nights, restricted to couples and plus-ones with soft-swinging guidelines in the shared spaces, are the recommended entry point for first-timers. The programme also includes Meet and Greet social evenings with no play, Girls Nights for female-identifying guests, LGBTQI+ Rainbow Parties, and kink and fetish events. Membership is free and non-transferable but is a prerequisite for all events; single men must first attend a mandatory Information Night — a 2.5-hour facility tour and orientation session — before their application is reviewed, and even after approval are restricted to designated events.

colette Austin

Austin, TX

Set in a sprawling, purpose-built space in North Austin's Wells Branch area, colette Austin bills itself as the newest of the colette family's "party palaces" — a private, membership-only, on-premise social club for couples, single men, and single women exploring the swinging, polyamorous, or open-relationship lifestyle. The venue spans over 8,000 square feet, with a main-level lounge and dance floor lit by high-tech sound and lighting, a second-floor lounge with its own "sexy vibe," lockers, valet parking, and a strictly non-smoking policy throughout. The club runs Wednesday through Saturday nights, with single men welcome every open night except Saturday, which is reserved for couples and single women only. Membership is required and issued on the spot at the door, a dress code modeled on "upscale restaurant or nightclub" attire is enforced, and photos are restricted to designated photo-op areas only. Alcohol isn't sold on-site — colette Austin is BYOB, with free mixers, ice, and set-ups provided, and outside coolers checked at the bar. The club also hosts birthday and special-occasion parties.

Parenclub Mystique

Rucphen, Noord-Brabant

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Parenclub Mystique has anchored the Noord-Brabant swinger scene since May 2001, when owner Frank van Loon opened this discreet venue on the Zundertseweg in Rucphen, a rural municipality several kilometres from Roosendaal. Over more than 25 years of operation, the club has built a large membership base and established itself among the more prominent lifestyle venues in the southern Netherlands, consistently described across Dutch directories as stylish and refined. It holds an SDC (Swingers Date Club) affiliation and markets itself as a sfeervol, stijlvol en luxe — convivial, stylish, and luxurious — evening out. The venue spans multiple levels, with a basement housing 150 lockers across four dressing rooms, and the main floor opening onto a spacious bar and dance area with a resident DJ, a champagne bar, a dedicated smoking lounge, and a 40-seat restaurant serving a hot-and-cold lava-grill buffet — all included in the entrance fee. An outdoor swimming pool, an XL whirlpool, and a luxury sauna round out the leisure facilities, while multiple themed play rooms occupy the upper floors alongside dedicated shower areas. The atmosphere is consistently described as welcoming and stylish, shaped by the easy sociability for which Brabant is known; free parking is available on site. The club opens six days a week, closed on Tuesdays. Mondays and Thursdays open at 14:00, Wednesdays at 18:00; Friday evenings at 20:00, Saturdays at 19:00, and Sundays at 16:00. Single men are admitted on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays only; Friday through Sunday is reserved for couples and single women. Entry for couples is €75 on weekday afternoons, rising to €110 on Fridays and Sundays and €130 on Saturdays; single women pay €20–€50 depending on the evening; single men pay around €100. All prices are all-inclusive, covering unlimited bar service and the buffet. Around six newcomer trial evenings are held each year, and the weekly calendar features bi evenings, transgender nights, BDSM sessions, and themed special events.

Lacey's PlayHouse is a swinger lifestyle venue operating near Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, hosted by Johnny and Lacey. The club runs out of a dedicated 1,300-square-foot space that the owners say comfortably accommodates up to 50 people, and it is also available to book privately for lifestyle group parties or more intimate couples' retreats. The site markets itself to both locals and vacationers, positioning the venue as a safe, judgment-free space for people already in the lifestyle as well as those just beginning to explore it. Inside, the layout centers on a party room used for socializing, dancing, games and refreshments, along with a hot tub and pool area. Parties are built around rotating themes, with a dress-to-the-theme or dress-to-impress expectation for attendees. Reviewers on the club's own testimonials page consistently describe the venue as clean and describe Johnny and Lacey as welcoming hosts who keep the atmosphere low-pressure, with guests noting a friendly crowd that includes both lifestyle newcomers and experienced regulars. Parties start at 8pm with no entry after 11pm. Attendance is by advance registration only: prospective guests text their names and desired party date to the club, wait for confirmation that space is available, and then submit a party donation via Venmo or Cash App. The club states it is a couples-and-single-females venue, parties are limited to adults 30 and over, couples must arrive and depart together, and there are no refunds for day-of cancellations. Parties are noted as often selling out in advance.

Fun4Two

Rydalmere, New South Wales

On-Premise Club

Fun4Two is a licensed swingers club at 5 Clyde Street in Rydalmere, an industrial pocket of western Sydney roughly five minutes from Parramatta and about 25 kilometres from the CBD. In operation since 2000 and run under the legal name Ma Property Developments Pty Ltd, the venue has built a long-running presence in the Sydney lifestyle scene. Admission is restricted to male-female couples and single women aged 18 and over; single men are not permitted under any circumstances. The premises houses multiple lounge rooms, a dance floor, pool tables, a bar, and a mix of private and communal play rooms. Dedicated change rooms with secure lockers are on-site; a refundable A$20 deposit secures a locker key at arrival, and mobile phones must be stored in that locker throughout the visit. On-site security includes uniformed guards and 24-hour CCTV coverage of common areas, and private and street parking are available. Entry includes complimentary canapés and soft drinks, and BYO alcohol is permitted. Condoms and lubricant are supplied throughout the venue. Events run every Saturday from 9 pm to 3 am, with entry by pre-purchased ticket only. Advance online pricing is A$150 per couple and A$50 for single women; door pricing is A$180 and A$80 respectively, with a A$20 refundable locker deposit added on arrival. A signed waiver is required for entry. Dress code on arrival is smart nightlife attire; after 11 pm and in play areas, lingerie is expected for women and underwear for men. Each Saturday has a distinct themed night — including recurring Newbie Nights designed for first-timers, and special events with named performers — with upcoming events listed on the club's website. A minor surcharge applies to card and EFTPOS payments.

House of K

Wellington, Wellington

On-Premise Club

House of K is an adults-only lifestyle venue in Whitby, Porirua, on the northern fringe of the Wellington region. Running since approximately late 2023, it offers two distinct event formats from a private residential property: exclusive sex and swinging parties — where swinging is the main draw, with designated kink zones — and dedicated kink events where rope play, wax play, and BDSM scenes are central. The organizers describe the venue as an adult playground oriented around consent and community rather than volume. All prospective guests must complete a pre-event vetting process, submitting face photos and a written introduction before gaining approval; the crowd typically spans couples, single women, and a strictly capped number of single men, with most attendees in their mid-thirties. The house is configured with seven designated play areas, while the kitchen, dining room, and lounge are kept as play-free social spaces throughout every event. The kink infrastructure is substantial: three St Andrews Crosses, a caged BDSM dungeon occupying a discreet section of the building, rope suspension points, a stripper pole, massage tables, male and female glory holes, an expanding shared toy collection, and on-site showers and lockers. A private room is available for more intimate encounters, and an outdoor fire pit provides a social anchor between sessions. Themed events — including UV glow nights, a birthday extravaganza, and a Christmas party — rotate through the calendar, with each party capped at 65 paid guests on a monthly Saturday evening schedule. Entry for sex and swinging events is NZ$50 for single women and NZ$100 for couples or single men; single male spots are capped at seven per swinging event, reserved for experienced players already known to the community. Swinging events carry an age range of 21 to 50; kink events are open without a stated upper age limit, though no unknown single males are admitted. Ticket prices cover non-latex condoms, lubricant, snacks, and non-alcoholic beverages; alcohol is bring-your-own and the venue operates without a licence. The dress code rules out shorts and plain t-shirts except as part of a costume, and drugs and body paint are not permitted. A traffic-light safe-word system governs consent throughout, couples must arrive and depart together, and the venue does not offer refunds, transfers, or deferrals.

Ohana's Social Club

Columbus, OH

Social Club

Tucked into Columbus's South Side on S High Street, Ohana's Social Club has carved out a reputation as one of central Ohio's most welcoming lifestyle venues. The club occupies a multi-level building that members describe as a laid-back, sexy house party — a phrase the club itself now uses to capture the vibe. The main floor holds an open bar area with a pool table, dance floor, kitchen, a lounge with a stripper pole, and an open loft play space with sofas and a swing. Upstairs, five fully private rooms, one semi-private room, and the Kink Korner group room round out the play areas. Ohana's runs three regular party nights a week. Wednesdays open at 7 PM through midnight; Fridays and Saturdays kick off at 8:30 PM, running until 2 AM and 3 AM respectively. Events are ticketed online through ohanas.club, and single males — admitted on a strict ratio — are strongly advised to pre-register. Membership is required for all attendees: annual dues run $60 for couples and single males, $40 for single females; weekly passes start at $25 for couples. A government-issued photo ID is checked at every visit. The venue is BYOB — no alcohol is sold on site, but the club supplies soda, mixers, ice, cups, and light snacks. The atmosphere skews inclusive and body-positive; reviewers consistently highlight the pressure-free, judgment-free tone. All new members are screened against the national sex offender registry, and a zero-tolerance consent policy is posted first in the house rules.

Fetish Week London

London, Greater London

BDSM Club

Fetish Week London (FWL) is the UK's largest annual gathering for gay, bi, queer, trans and curious men into gear and fetish, presented by Recon — the London fetish dating brand operated by T101 Ltd. Rather than a single fixed club, it is an eight-day, city-wide festival that in its own words returns 'to the UK's capital... with another fun-packed schedule of events over 8 full days.' The 2026 edition, running 5-12 July, marked the milestone 15th Anniversary and again made Electrowerkz — a warehouse venue at 7 Torrens Street, behind Angel tube in Islington (EC1V 1NQ) — its 'exclusive and kinky home base for the week.' The programme is built around a spine of official events alongside dozens of external parties hosted by London's fetish retailers and kink-friendly bars. Recurring headline nights include the invite-only Recon Members' Party, a film Screening, Fetish Cabaret, a Masterclass evening of educational demos, the Sports Cruise, Rubber Gear, the FWL Sunday Social, and the main event, Full Fetish, which 'takes over the entire underground warehouse-style venue' with a dedicated BDSM space, watersports and cruising maze, a fisting area, House/Pop/Techno dancefloors, a VIP room, and a newer quieter zone for neurodivergent kinksters. From Wednesday to Saturday a daytime FWL Hub and Gear Market runs at Electrowerkz, pairing fetish retailers and a second-hand gear swap-and-shop with DJs, extended educational demos, discussion panels and daily Sober Recovery meet-ups. Entry is strictly over-18 and photo ID is required at the door. Most events enforce a dress code, with the site's guide spanning leather, rubber, sports, skinhead, uniform/military and pup gear (suit and tie also counts) under two firm rules: 'naked is not gear,' and no nazi, far-right, fascist or extremist symbolism, on pain of refused entry. Tickets are sold in advance through DICE — Full Fetish, for example, is GBP 30 general / GBP 60 VIP — and a photographer or videographer records the events, with attendees free to opt out on the night without being denied entry. The week is community-minded rather than gamified, with sober support built into the schedule.

Our Secret Spot

Sydney, New South Wales

On-Premise Club

Our Secret Spot (OSS) occupies three floors of a venue on Parramatta Road in Annandale, roughly five kilometres west of the Sydney CBD. Co-founded by Jess Cattelly and Lawrence Jay, the club positions itself explicitly as female-focused and consent-first, drawing a crowd that typically clusters in the thirties and forties, with guests spanning the early twenties to early sixties. The stated ethos — Respectful, Safe, Sexy — shapes everything from the strict consent culture to the staff-guided walk offered to every first-time visitor. The social floor centres on a hand-crafted wooden BYO bar with free mixers (glass decanted to plastic at entry), Chesterfield lounge seating, a ruby-red pool table, and a disco-lit dance floor with a DJ deck. Play spaces spread across the upper levels: three private rooms, a one-way-mirror voyeur room, a large four-bedded open group room, a fully equipped dungeon, and an open shower space. A library-themed VIP room — lockable, with customisable music — rents by the hour. Lockers, condoms, dams, lube, and towels are included in the ticket price; all mobile phones are surrendered at reception on arrival. Parties run on Friday and Saturday nights from 20:30 until 03:00; Thursday Thirsty Thursday sessions and occasional Sunday afternoon matinees are advertised on the venue calendar but are not confirmed as standing hours. Entry is by advance ticket with tiered pricing for guest couples, members, and single women; single men are admitted in limited numbers by prior approved application only. The dress code is strictly enforced — cocktail attire or smart separates for women, collared shirt with trousers or chinos and dress shoes for men — and couples must arrive and depart together.

Katrina Private Home (KPH)

Vancouver, British Columbia

On-Premise Club

Katrina Private Home — also known as Katrina Bon, or KPH — is a legal, not-for-profit on-premises swingers social sex club operating on private property in Vancouver, British Columbia. The club is centrally located within short walking distance of a SkyTrain station and has ample street parking. Run entirely by volunteers, it describes itself as a boutique alternative to larger commercial venues, welcoming both curious beginners and experienced lifestyle participants under the motto 'Be Smart · Play Safe · We Do!' The space occupies a single floor with a residential layout: a kitchen, two bathrooms (one with a shower), a cosy lounge for socialising, and three open playrooms each fitted with multiple beds; one room includes a massage table. There are no doors between playrooms, creating an open communal atmosphere. No bar service or dance floor is provided — the focus is social and sexual interaction. Condoms are available throughout. Cell phone use is restricted to designated areas and cameras of any kind are strictly prohibited. Parties run every weekend, with biweekly Wednesday sessions also confirmed on the club's calendar for 2026–2027. All attendance is by advance reservation only via email; walk-ins are not accommodated. The club does not post pricing publicly and does not accept credit cards — a cash donation to cover operating costs is requested at the door. Membership is open to committed couples and single women; single men are not accepted. No alcohol is sold, served, or handled on the premises — guests may bring their own. The address is withheld from public listings and disclosed only to confirmed members.

Shed 16

Seaford, Victoria

On-Premise Club

Shed 16 is an adults-only lifestyle and swinger venue occupying a purpose-built space at 2/16 Cumberland Drive in Seaford, a bayside suburb on Melbourne's south-eastern fringe roughly 40 kilometres from the CBD. The club operates as a sex-on-premises venue with an explicit commitment to LGBTIQA+ inclusion, framing its mission around a safe, sex-positive environment that welcomes people of all genders, backgrounds, and levels of experience. The ethos is deliberately no-pressure: attendance carries no expectation of participation, and first-timers are actively accommodated through a gradual introduction to the space. The venue spans two floors. The ground floor anchors each session with a fully licensed bar and café, two spas, a dry sauna, a steam room, large open shower facilities, secure lockers, and free internet stations. The upper level is dedicated to play, hosting private lockable rooms, open group areas, a bondage and kink dungeon, sling rooms, a suckatorium, voyeur rooms, and a porn lounge. An outdoor courtyard serves as the smoking and vaping area. Dress expectations shift between floors: the ground level permits casual attire for the first two hours, while upstairs requires towel, underwear, lingerie, or nude. Condoms are provided throughout. Four weekly sessions run Tuesday through Saturday. TABOO (Tuesday, 7 pm–1 am) prices couples at AUD $35, single ladies at $15, and pre-booked single men at $60. DESIRES (Thursday, noon–6:30 pm) carries the same couple and ladies rates, with single men at $60 (or $50 before 1 pm). SHARED SECRETS (Friday, 8 pm–2 am) admits couples at $70 and single ladies at $25; single men are not admitted. CLUB EROTIQUE (Saturday, 8 pm–2 am) prices couples at $60, single ladies at $20, and pre-booked single men at $150. Entry is cash only at the door, with an on-site ATM; EFTPOS is accepted at the bar. A $10 surcharge applies on public holidays.

Caligula New York

Astoria, NY

Swingers Club

Caligula New York bills itself as ''an on-premise swinger club experience like no other,'' and the venue lives that pitch from a discreet address in Astoria, Queens — just minutes from Manhattan by car or subway and a short ride from the city''s major highways. Created by people in the Lifestyle for the Lifestyle, the private, upscale social club draws couples, single ladies and a curated mix of single gentlemen into an atmosphere the owners describe as sensual, sophisticated and no-pressure, with ample legal street parking outside and the exact address shared only after a reservation is made. Programming runs Thursday through Sunday: Thursday''s ''One Night Stand'' swinger fling, Friday''s ''In Fridays We Trust'' / Nymphomania parties, themed Saturday socials such as ''Welcome to the Jungle,'' and the Sinful Sunday Night Swinger Social. Couples and single ladies are welcome on every night, while single gentlemen are admitted only on select, designated nights and must be accompanied by a lady at couples-only events. First-timers must RSVP in advance through the website or by calling (516) 301-7800, and admission prices vary by event and promoter. Inside, a BYOB bar with mixers, dancefloor and light buffet feed the social side, while private and semi-private playrooms — some reserved exclusively for couples — handle the rest. Weekends are strictly ''Dress to Impress'' with ladies in sexy, stylish attire and gentlemen classy and well-presented; mid-week events soften to ''casual but neat,'' and themed nights reward those who lean in.

On-Premise Club

Club Nine is an invite-only adult lifestyle venue operating in Melbourne's inner east, near Kew, positioning itself as an intimate alternative to the city's larger clubs. Attendance at each event is capped at around 20 guests and limited to adults aged 20–45 who have cleared a personal application process — recent photographs and a short written introduction — before receiving an invitation. Couples and single women are considered on a rolling basis; single men face a more selective review. The venue address is disclosed to confirmed bookings only. The venue occupies a multi-level residential property. A ground-floor lounge serves as the social space and the only area where food and drinks are consumed; upstairs rooms include a Master Suite, the Midnight Chamber, and a fully equipped BDSM Play Room. All phones and recording devices are surrendered at the door and held securely for the duration of the event. Alcohol is BYO — no glassware is permitted anywhere in the venue, and only light-coloured drinks are allowed. The house supplies condoms, lubricants, single-use disposable towels, complimentary soft drinks, and bottled water. Events run on an almost-weekly schedule across several formats: Exclusive Circles for couples and single ladies only, MFM Evenings with vetted single men admitted at a 1:1 ratio against attending ladies, and a rotating calendar of themed and kink-oriented nights. Full event details and dates are distributed by email to approved members only — no public calendar exists. Entry prices vary by event: AUD $100–$150 per couple, free to $50 for single women, and $250–$300 for single men. Pre-booking is mandatory; no walk-ins or door sales are accepted. Cancellations made at least three days in advance receive a refund minus a 10% processing fee, or a six-month event credit in lieu; cancellations within three days are non-refundable.

Pineapples Lifestyle Bar

South Melbourne, Victoria

On-Premise Club

Pineapples Lifestyle Bar occupies a two-storey building at 427 City Rd in South Melbourne's Montague Precinct, between York and Ferrars streets. Opened in August 2025 after the City of Port Phillip approved the venue 5–3 in June 2024 following a VCAT challenge by local residents, it holds a sex-on-premises permit and accommodates up to 200 patrons. It operates as a licensed adult lifestyle bar welcoming couples, solo women, and a restricted cohort of vetted solo men, positioning itself as a consent-focused environment for adult social exploration within the swinger, queer, LGBTQ+, and kink communities. The ground floor contains a licensed full-service bar and a performance stage used for live music, DJ sets, comedy, cabaret, and burlesque, with the format rotating by night. The upper floor is reserved for intimate activity and houses open play areas, private lockable rooms, bathrooms, unisex showers, and a VIP section. Refresh stations supply towels, condoms, lubricant, massage oil, and sanitary items throughout. Guests receive colour-coded wristbands indicating couple, solo-female, solo-male, or prefer-not-to-be-approached status; a black wristband signals a wish to decline physical advances. Volunteer consent angels circulate the floor to support guests. Complimentary all-night parking is available in front of the venue from 6 pm, and lockers are provided on an AUD$20 security deposit or credit-card/ID-hold basis. The club operates three nights per week: Thursdays 7 pm–midnight, Fridays 8 pm–2 am, and Saturdays 8 pm–2 am. Tickets must be purchased online in advance — walk-ins are never admitted. All first-time visitors must submit a membership application and complete a phone vetting call before any ticket purchase; solo males face an additional written questionnaire and in-person interview, and operate under a one-strike permanent-removal policy. Standard nights begin at AUD$20. Valid government-issued photo ID is required at the door. Phones and cameras must be secured in on-site lockers before entering the upper floor. The arrival dress code is smart-casual; upper-floor access requires dressing to lingerie, underwear, a provided towel, or bare skin. No outside alcohol is permitted, and a zero-tolerance drugs policy applies.

Checkmate NYC

New York, NY

On-Premise Club

Tucked into the lower level of a Midtown East building just off Third Avenue, Checkmate has been New York City's premier couples lifestyle club since opening its doors in 1995. Under the ownership of Venezuelan-American nightlife entrepreneur Danny C. since 2018 — who previously ran Le Trapeze NYC and has partnered with SNCTM New York and Les Chandelles Paris — the club bills itself as the velvet rope of lifestyle clubs in America. The space blends classic elegance with moody modern design, housing an LED and video dance floor, a live DJ, a foreplay lounge, cinema playrooms, a dark room, a neon blue-lit playroom, and mirrored open-play rooms with distinct musical ambiances in each. The crowd is prescreened by design: Checkmate targets fit, attractive couples and single women who dress to impress. Every applicant must submit a full-body photo with their membership application and be approved before receiving an invitation — the only key in the door. Thursday nights run 21:00-02:00 as a relaxed after-work party with reduced entry for members and free admission for single women; Fridays and Saturdays run 22:00-04:00 with full weekend energy and themed nights. Single men are categorically not admitted, ever. The club is BYOB — no alcohol is sold, but staff tag and serve your bottle from the attended bar with complimentary mixers. Towel and robe service, attended private lockers, and private security are standard on every night. The dress code is strict: suits and dress shirts for men; high heels and formal or sexy attire for women — no sneakers, t-shirts, shorts, hats, or sandals. Cellphones must be stowed in lockers at all times, keeping the atmosphere discreet and intimate.

Taboo22

Loganholme, Queensland

On-Premise Club

Taboo22 occupies a low-profile commercial unit at 5/6 Cairns Street in Loganholme, roughly 25 kilometres south of Brisbane's CBD, and bills itself as Queensland's friendliest swingers club. The venue is fully council-approved and operates with a structured consent framework displayed prominently throughout. The floorplan is more generously fitted out than the exterior suggests: eight or more individually themed bedrooms, two pole-dance floors, a four-person spa, a massage room, a BYO bar with mixers provided by the house, and lounge areas. The club runs regular BDSM-themed nights alongside its standard programming, giving it a kink-inclusive appeal beyond vanilla lifestyle events. Doors open Friday and Saturday nights from 7:30 pm to 2:00 am. Standard entry is $80 for couples, $90 for single males, and $35 for single ladies — who attend free on their first visit. BDSM nights carry a $5 premium across all categories. Bookings are essential; single males must call ahead to reserve. Smart casual is enforced at the door.

On-Premise Club

Mike's Place is a licensed lifestyle club occupying a commercial unit at the Platinum Business Park on Maunder Street in Slacks Creek, roughly 20 kilometres south of Brisbane's CBD. Hosted by Ian and Lyn, the club has been recognised by RedHotPie — Australia's largest lifestyle platform — as the top swingers club in Queensland, and positions itself as an upmarket, inclusive venue for broad-minded couples and singles from across southeast Queensland. The atmosphere is described by management as warm and sociable rather than nightclub-loud, with no pressure to participate. The venue is fitted out with a bar, a lounge, multiple private playrooms, change rooms with individual lockers, and a large outdoor spa. Entry for couples covers all facilities, live entertainment, big-screen movies, hot and cold finger food served throughout the night, and complimentary tea, coffee, and soft-drink mixers. Alcohol is strictly bring-your-own: guests hand their bottles to bar staff on arrival and are served throughout the evening. Towels are provided and a condom and lubricant vending machine is available on site. According to the club's FAQ, Friday nights typically attract 50 to 90 attendees; Saturday nights run smaller, with around 20 to 40 couples. Doors open every Friday and Saturday from 8:00pm to 2:00am. Couples pay $80 and single women $30 on either night. Single men may attend Fridays only at $80, subject to a cap of no more than 50% of the night's total attendance; advance booking is required and a one-off annual membership of $100 must be arranged before a first visit. Saturday nights are reserved strictly for couples and single ladies. All guests must be 18 or over with photo ID; those who appear under 21 are expected to present it. A neat and smart-casual dress standard applies and shoes are mandatory. The phone line — 0431 846 883 — takes calls after 10:00am on Fridays and Saturdays.

Trapeze Fort Lauderdale

Tamarac, FL

On-Premise Club

Trapeze Fort Lauderdale sits in an unremarkable strip mall on State Road 7 in Tamarac — about 10 miles northwest of downtown Fort Lauderdale — sharing a parking lot with a liquor store and a check-cashing shop. The club is South Florida's longest-running on-premise lifestyle venue, open since the mid-1990s, and celebrated its 30th anniversary in May 2026. Its 9,000 square feet split between a dimly lit main lounge with a sunken dance floor, a central stripper pole, bar-top seating, and three full-service BYOB bars; the resident DJ leans heavily Latin, and the music levels stay just low enough for conversation at the edges. A rotating weekly dinner buffet — carving station, mains like Tuscan-style pork roast or grilled grouper, desserts including creme brulee — gives way to a breakfast spread in the early hours. The playroom area sits behind wooden doors at the back and is clothing-free; street attire is checked in attended lockers with towels provided at no charge. Inside is a maze of vinyl-covered platforms and leather couches, a dividing window room visible from both sides, six private rooms, and an open group area. Couples and single women may attend all five operating nights (Wed–Sun, 8pm to 3–4am); single men are welcome Wed–Fri and Sun but barred on Saturdays. The crowd skews 40s–60s with a strong Latin representation from across South Florida. Themed events rotate weekly — Unicorn Night, Wet Looks, Linen & Lace — with costume contests and seasonal parties. Pricing requires both a membership and a nightly user fee. A Discord community allows members to coordinate before arriving and unlock a $20 discount per event. New members complete registration at self-service kiosks on arrival and may join a guided facility tour any evening before 9pm.

Club 103

Belmont, Western Australia

On-Premise Club

Club 103 is a lifestyle and swingers club occupying a two-storey building at 103 Abernethy Road in Belmont, Western Australia, a short drive from Perth's CBD, Crown Casino, and the city's airports. The venue pitches itself as a space that bridges the longstanding Perth swingers scene with the broader kinkster community, and its stated aim is to feel 'more like a house party with friends, rather than a cold modernistic building.' It welcomes members regardless of gender or sexual orientation, and onsite parking is available. The club's two floors are fitted out with a range of dedicated spaces: a Dungeon Room (available for private hire), a Secretarial Room, a Group Room, an Exhibitionist Voyeur Room, and a Private Room, along with an outdoor area. Common areas include a dance floor with a spinning pole, a social lounge with a pool table, and two showers. Soft drinks and snacks are available from vending machines; there is no bar, and the venue operates strictly BYO for alcohol. Professional dungeon staff, referred to as 'Kinkmeisters', are on hand Thursday through Saturday. Sessions run most days of the week, with daytime openings Monday, Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday (roughly noon to 3pm) and evening sessions Wednesday through Friday from around 8–8:30pm to 2am; Saturday evenings run 8:30pm to 2am, with Tuesday and Sunday closed. All times are noted as variable. The dress code is smart casual at minimum, with hosts reserving the right to refuse entry for non-compliance. The club operates a traffic-light consent system (green/amber/red) and prohibits touching anyone without expressed permission. No alcohol is sold or served on the premises; intoxicated persons and illicit substances are not permitted.

On-Premise Club

Infusions is an invite-only lifestyle club operating from a purpose-built venue in Belmont, situated roughly ten minutes east of Perth's CBD. The club is one of the city's few dedicated swinger venues with its own permanent premises. Entry is strictly by arrangement — prospective guests contact the venue by phone or text to receive the address and an invitation, and hosts may request a face photo in advance to confirm suitability. There are no walk-ins. The space is laid out for socialising as much as play: a staffed bar area (operating on a BYO model), pool table, dance floor, and lounge seating form the social core of the venue. Three luxury playrooms branch off from this area, fitted with poles, sex swings, and erotic equipment. A separate exhibition room caters to those who prefer to be seen, and secure onsite parking is available. The overall atmosphere is described by the venue as social and pressure-free, with staff present throughout the evening. Nights run Wednesday through Sunday: a fortnightly Wednesday session runs 8pm–midnight; Thursday is 8pm–midnight; Friday and Saturday run from 8:30pm to 2am; and Sunday sessions are 5pm–9pm. Additional events are scheduled on public holiday long weekends. Saturday is designated for couples and a limited number of single men. Pricing is not publicly listed — interested guests are directed to contact the venue directly. A newsletter subscription carries a $20 discount on entry.

The Korral

Spring Grove, PA

On-Premise Club

Set on a private rural property in York County, Pennsylvania — and sharing its grounds with Kim's Krypt Haunted Mill — The Korral has grown into one of the most-decorated lifestyle clubs on the East Coast, twice named ASN LS Magazine's top Adult Entertainment Venue (2022 and 2023). The complex spans a large main building housing a stage-and-pole dance floor, full-service bar, dining room, pool tables, air hockey, locker rooms with showers, a selfie room, the Pyretta Blayze in-house store, and a warren of 18 themed playrooms kept stocked with fresh towels and sanitizing supplies. Outside, a heated saltwater pool with a wide deck and Tiki Hut runs from Memorial Day through September, flanked by two hot tubs set into a grotto. Parties run Friday and Saturday from 7 pm to 2 am (8 pm-3 am on New Year's Eve), and the crowd skews a broad 30-55 in median age. The dedicated BDSM hallway, a glory hole, and an open group room sit alongside more intimate themed suites, while a CCTV room and house-wide phone policy keep the atmosphere relaxed and discreet. Monthly Kink Nights shift the dance floor into an educational play space — one discipline per session, with a demo and opt-in tastings — followed by a Sunday munch. The Korral also hosts two annual Kink Intensives alongside a packed calendar of costumed theme nights. For those who want to extend the evening, eight private stay rooms (king bed, chaise, keyed entry) book out for the full weekend — Friday check-in, Sunday checkout — while 20-plus after-party rooms open at 2 am for single- or two-night stays. All rooms are first-come, first-served with a non-refundable deposit.

616

Grand Rapids, MI

Rotating hotel takeover event organizer - no fixed venue

Club 616 is a members-only lifestyle club serving West Michigan, running themed hotel-takeover events in Kalamazoo, Grand Rapids, and Newaygo. Current hosts took over in January 2012, building on a group dating to the 1990s. Membership welcomes couples, single ladies, and sponsored single gentlemen; the club calls itself BDSM, kink, and LGBTQ+ friendly, and joining requires an application, photo ID, and signed consent forms. Signature parties — Red Carpet NYE, Halloween, and a spring weekend — bring a dance floor, DJ, dance pole, light show, a pool party, and a VIP room with bench swings, a St. Andrew's cross, and a ladies-only bed. A recent Halloween filled a 182-room hotel, with dress shifting by zone: street clothes in the lobby, g-strings/pasties minimum poolside, and no dress code in the VIP room. Entry is 21-and-up, reservation-only, with ID checked at registration; a strict consent policy bars unwanted touching, and cameras are banned at events.

CCK

Unverified

Auckland, Auckland

On-Premise Club

CCK occupies a discreet, unmarked address at 246C Hobson Street in Auckland's CBD and markets itself as the city's first upscale adult lounge bar and lifestyle venue, with an emphasis on sophistication, consent, and an international aesthetic. The venue operates four nights a week — Wednesday through Saturday — with doors opening at 8:30pm and last entry accepted until 1am. The social and play spaces centre on a full-service licensed bar and dance floor set to Euro house music, with five designated play areas equipped with a St Andrew's cross, a lover's swing, an erotic dancing cage, a grope tent, a dark room, and a static pole. Complimentary condoms, lubricant, towels, and body lotion are provided; locker and shower facilities are on site; and a five-stage Aura Air UV purification system reflects a stated emphasis on cleanliness. Gated courtyard parking is complimentary during visits. Couples and single women are admitted Wednesday through Saturday. Single men are admitted on Wednesdays and at designated specialty events only, with advance booking compulsory. Earlybird online pricing starts at NZD $70 per couple on Wednesdays and NZD $100 on Thursday through Saturday, with regular online rates at NZD $100 and NZD $130 respectively; after-midnight walk-in pricing rises to NZD $160. Single women pay NZD $35-$85 depending on night and booking timing. No membership is required. A rotating calendar of specialty nights includes Pendulum (bi-couples and singles), Young NZ Swingers (ages 18-35), 45 Plus Roast Club, CCK Hotwifing, and SKIRTS ladies-only events. Dress standards are strictly enforced — T-shirts, shorts, jandals, and trainers are prohibited — and first-time visitors receive a guided tour of the venue.

CKJ Studio (Club Kink Jax)

Jacksonville, FL

BDSM Club

CKJ Studio, also known as Club Kink Jax, occupies a 5,300-square-foot space at 6221 Samuel Wells Drive, Suite 1500, in Jacksonville, Florida. Billed as "Northeast Florida's Premier Membership Lifestyle Club," it welcomes couples, singles, and polyamorous guests across the kink, BDSM, swinger, nudist, and LGBT communities, with a stated ethos of "Safe, Sane, and Consensual." The building holds lounges, themed play rooms, dungeon spaces, a VIP area called La Intima, showers and locker rooms, an outdoor smoking patio, and free on-site parking. The club runs on a fixed weekly rhythm: Wednesday (7pm–12am), Friday (7pm–2am), and Saturday (7pm–2am), each opening with a 7–9pm social hour before shifting into members-only hours. Newcomers must complete a paid, appointment-only orientation, capped at 12 people per session, before applying for membership; walk-ins are not accepted. Membership tiers include a per-person Trial ($69, not available to single men), Annual ($149 plus $25 per visit), and Annual VIP ($599, unlimited visits and events). Dress code runs from street-legal attire outside to business-casual, dressy, or fetish wear inside, loosening toward lingerie or optional clothing after 9pm.

Young Couples Party (YCP)

Chicago, IL

Event Organizer

Young Couples Party (YCP) is a members-only lifestyle club serving the Chicago suburbs, built specifically around a younger demographic: membership and event attendance are capped to ages 21-42, with the founders explicitly designing the club so that couples in their twenties aren't the only young faces in a room of much older swingers. Membership is open to couples and single women — no single men are admitted under any circumstances — and organizers say attendees run roughly 95% couples to 5% single females, with racial demographics that broadly mirror the Chicagoland area. The club runs two main venues: a recurring twice-monthly party at a private country estate in Chicago's western suburbs featuring 16 beds across 8 bedrooms, an indoor pool, a hot tub, and a dance floor (8pm–2am), plus outdoor pool parties in summer; and an annual (sometimes twice-yearly) full hotel takeover. In total, YCP runs over 30 in-person events and roughly 150 virtual events per year, including HIIT and yoga classes, trivia nights, and quarterly educator-led seminars. A signature feature is a structured speed-dating segment at each in-person event, where couples and single women rotate through 3-minute conversations at numbered stations to break the ice.

Cats 2.0 Swingerclub

München, Bavaria

On-Premise Club

Cats 2.0 Swingerclub occupies a venue at Paul-Gerhardt-Allee 44 in Munich's Pasing-Obermenzing district, roughly eight kilometres west of the city centre. The club bills itself as the largest swingers venue in Munich, welcoming couples, solo women, and solo men under the tagline 'Erotik stilvoll genießen' — erotic enjoyment done stylishly. It operates at an address previously occupied by the Karibik Swingerclub. The venue spans approximately 500 m² with a capacity of around 150 guests, including 60 in the dedicated play area, and features six private rooms alongside a bar, a food buffet, a dancefloor, and multiple playrooms. Changing facilities are provided on site and towels and condoms are available. Independent reviewers describe the space as clean and well-maintained; the atmosphere is characterised as relaxed rather than formal, with staff noted for being approachable and house rules across all events emphasising respectful conduct. Entry prices vary by day and guest type: couples pay from €50 on Mondays up to €80 on Saturdays; solo men from €100 to €120; and solo women from €15 to €25. The club is cash-only and JOYclub members receive a €10 discount. A Schnupper-Montag (newcomer Monday) is the recommended first visit for those new to the scene, with a dedicated first-visit guide at cats20.de. A dress code applies, with separate guidance published for couples, solo women, and solo men.

Wicked Fun Club

Terryville, CT

On-Premise Club

Wicked Fun Club is Connecticut's only dedicated on-premise swinger destination, a private members-only lifestyle club that owners Steve and Jodi Gagne designed to feel nothing like a nightclub — no dance floor, no bar, just sultry lighting and a spacious lounge where couples and singles can actually hear each other talk. Spanning over 3,000 square feet, the venue hosts 16 to 40 guests per event and includes a social lounge, an open play area, and four dedicated playrooms outfitted with a Tantra chair, a sex swing, and ample group space. Complimentary towels and lockers are provided; the club is strictly BYOB with mixers, chilled storage, snacks, and bottled water supplied by the house. Events run Friday and Saturday nights: Fridays welcome couples, single ladies, and vetted single men, while Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only. Themed nights — murder mystery parties, Western dress-up evenings, Newbie Nights — give the 200-strong membership fresh reasons to return. Membership is tiered by category and required before attending; event entry donations run $80 per couple, $20 per single lady, and $100 per single man. Hosts Steve and Jodi are on hand at every event, personally welcoming newcomers, leading venue walkthroughs, and keeping the atmosphere pressure-free. Reviewers compare the vibe to an open-minded house party rather than a late-night club — warm, clean, and less cliquey than larger regional venues. The original Terryville location was ordered closed by Plymouth zoning authorities in spring 2025; the club has since relocated to a new undisclosed Central Connecticut venue and continues to operate.

Club Eden is a roaming private-members lifestyle club based in Greater Vancouver, British Columbia, operating since 2006. Female-owned and operated, the club holds events at pre-approved venues throughout the Lower Mainland rather than at a fixed premises — the exact address for each event is disclosed only to approved members via their e-ticket after booking. The club caters to single women, couples, and their guests, emphasising a no-pressure environment in which attendance carries no obligation to participate beyond whatever each member personally chooses. Because Eden rotates between venues, the physical layout shifts by event, though the format for on-premise dance parties is consistent: a main-floor nightclub zone with a resident DJ spinning top 40 and house music, themed decor, and a social area for dancing and mingling. Larger on-premise events additionally feature dedicated play floors above the main room, encompassing private playrooms with closing doors and room-status signs, semi-private curtained rooms, a dungeon playroom, a large open group-play area on the top floor, and open play benches throughout. Complimentary safety supplies and medical-grade cleanser are stocked in each play space. A staff concierge — designated the Queen of Consent — is stationed at play-area entrances from approximately 10 pm onward. The event calendar covers several formats: social Meet and Greets, Pre-Party Potlucks preceding dance nights, regular On-Premise Dance Parties (typically 100–250 attendees), five annual Famous Five signature events tied to Valentine's Day, a summer beach party, Halloween, Christmas, and New Year's Eve (each drawing around 400 members), multi-day Edenstock camp-outs (50–120 attendees over 2–3 days), adult travel events, and Sexy Seminars. A free membership application — reviewed within 48 hours — is required before any tickets can be purchased; a $5 membership fee is bundled into each event's ticket price. Advance registration is mandatory; no walk-ins are accepted. First-time attendees must present government-issued photo ID at the door and sign hard copies of the membership agreement, privacy waiver, and liability waiver.

Asthoria Swingdreams

Neumünster, Schleswig-Holstein

On-Premise Club

Asthoria Swingdreams occupies the corner of Fehmarnstraße and Wrangelstraße in the Wittorf district of Neumünster, roughly midway between Hamburg and Kiel in Schleswig-Holstein. The club is legally structured as a registered association — Verein zur Förderung kommunikativer Freizeitgestaltung e.V. — rather than a commercial venue, and its stated motto, „familiär, unkompliziert, niveauvoll“ (intimate, uncomplicated, refined), reflects that orientation: the emphasis is on a sociable, close-knit atmosphere within a deliberately modest capacity of around 50 guests across approximately 300 square metres. The floor plan divides the space into clearly distinct zones: a bar with a dance floor and pole-dancing apparatus, lounge seating, a buffet area, shower facilities, a wellness area with sauna and massage space, a darkroom, a jungle-themed play room, and a purpose-fitted SM/BDSM studio equipped with a St. Andrew’s Cross. The event calendar has featured recurring themed nights including the Rubensparty, a body-positive evening, and the Dark Night. The club opens on Tuesdays and Wednesdays from 15:00 to 23:00, on Fridays and Saturdays from 19:00 to 03:00, and on the second and fourth Sunday of each month from 15:00 to 22:00. Entry pricing is tiered by gender and day: single women pay €10 on all open nights; couples pay €30 on Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Sundays, and €50 on Fridays and Saturdays; single men pay €65 on Sundays, €70 on Tuesdays and Wednesdays, and €75 on Fridays and Saturdays. A dress code is enforced at entry.

AfterDark Events

San Francisco, CA

Event Organizer (Pop-Up Play Parties)

AfterDark is a POC, femme, queer, neurodivergent, and disabled led org producing curated kink and alt-sex events across the SF Bay Area. Founded 2021 with 10+ years of ethical organizing, running signature parties like SPANK! Pop-ups at Stopgap in SoMa, 100-200 attendees. Each party has zones for socializing, dancing, kink play, and aftercare. Safer-sex supplies, food (vegan/GF/DF), and non-alcoholic drinks provided. Drug/alcohol-free, no phones, no photography, ID required. Consent-centered: dungeon monitors, house safeword, no breath play or open flame.

KC Book Club

Liberty, MO

On-Premise Club

KC Book Club is a by-invitation-only lifestyle house party set on five acres of secluded land just north of Liberty, Missouri — a quiet, rural setting that ensures complete privacy for its guests. Owned and personally run by Eddie, the venue is a custom-built entertaining space that has earned a reputation as one of the Midwest most recognized lifestyle destinations, drawing regulars and curious newcomers alike from as far as Nebraska, Iowa, Oklahoma, and Arkansas. The club has been featured on national lifestyle podcasts, and its welcoming, consent-forward atmosphere keeps the crowd firmly in living-room-party territory rather than nightclub territory. Saturday nights are the club's exclusive rhythm, and the format is BYOE — guests bring their own drinks and snacks, while the house provides soft drinks, hors d'oeuvres, ice, soda mixers, and bottled water. Inside, a large social area and a dance floor (complete with stripper pole) set the tone for mingling before the evening deepens. Private play rooms and dedicated kink and lifestyle spaces are available on site, and the venue also features a pool, hot tub, and showers. When the weather cooperates, the five acres open up for clothing-optional volleyball, swimming, and sunbathing. The club is kink-friendly, swinger-friendly, and welcoming to the genuinely curious — but it is strictly couples and single women only; single men are not admitted. Access is by invitation only, and the BYOE policy keeps the vibe communal and intimate. The location near Liberty Triangle puts guests within easy reach of hotels, restaurants, and retail for before or after the party.

on-premise swingers club

Sitting along the busy commercial strip of Admiral Wilson Boulevard in Pennsauken, New Jersey — just across the Delaware River from Philadelphia — Venus operates under the banner of SwingersUSA/CouplesClubUSA and has built a following as one of South Jersey's most established on-premise lifestyle clubs. The venue draws a crowd of both newcomers and regulars, billing itself as a no-pressure environment that is welcoming to couples and single ladies exploring the swinger lifestyle. The club runs parties every Friday and Saturday night from 9pm to 4am. Saturday evenings include a pre-party Tantra workshop from 8 to 9pm before the main event begins. The club provides an appetizer buffet as part of the evening, and operates on a BYOB basis with mixers supplied by the venue. A DJ provides entertainment throughout the night. Attendance is typically strong, with the club reporting averages of 105 to 130 couples per party. Venus describes itself as South Jersey's most popular on-premise lifestyle club. Its location on Admiral Wilson Boulevard places it convenient to major highway routes connecting the Philadelphia metro region and southern New Jersey.

Pärchenclub Schiedel

Kamenz, Saxony

On-Premise Club

Club Schiedel sits on a former farmstead in the Schiedel district of Kamenz, a small Saxony town in eastern Germany roughly equidistant between Dresden and Bautzen. Operated since 2012 by Siro and Reinhard Bartels through Pärchenclub Schiedel & Hotel UG, it has grown into one of the larger lifestyle destinations in the region — a self-contained rural retreat combining a full-scale swingers club with hotel rooms, holiday rooms, and extensive grounds. Its approach along quiet roads threading through forest and farmland on the edge of the Upper Lusatian hills and lake landscape gives the property a secluded and unhurried character that sets it apart from urban venues of comparable scope. The interior club area is finished in natural stone, timber, and tropical planting — a design the venue describes as a blend of eroticism, tropical flair, and rustic warmth. The amenity list is substantial: a darkroom, a dedicated SM room, themed playrooms including mirrored and group-activity rooms, a small adult cinema, five indoor bars, and a wellness section with hot tub and sauna. A warm-and-cold buffet runs through the evening during events. The broader grounds encompass an outdoor swimming pool, an outdoor bar with lounge beds, and a spread of lakeside holiday cabins alongside hotel rooms in the main building. The club averages 4.4 stars across more than 130 visitor reviews, with consistent praise for staff friendliness and quality of service. Events are anchored to Friday and Saturday evenings, with doors opening at 20:00 on both nights. Wednesdays function primarily as a hotel check-in and accommodation day for overnight guests. The club maintains a Swinger-Paten scheme — a companion system in which staff or designated regulars walk first-time visitors through the space and help them find their footing at their own pace.

KNetic Club

Calgary, Alberta

On-Premise Club

KNetic Club bills itself as "Calgary's largest fully licensed Lifestyle Swingers Club" — LGBTQ-owned and pitched as ultra-inclusive, welcoming singles, couples, and throuples across two Calgary venues (KNetic South and KNetic North). It runs as an event-driven private club rather than a daily-open venue: a free member profile must be created and approved before attending, and the calendar mixes high-energy themed parties (Unicorn Night, Spicy Stampede Social, Cowboy Boots & Daisy Dukes), play-focused nights, a "Real Talk" relationships discussion series, partner workshops, and a regular Newbie Night for first-timers. Single men can't attend couples nights alone — the classic couples-protective convention — while single women are welcomed and discounted on select nights. The roughly 3,400 sq ft South venue pairs a main dance floor (DJ, stripper pole) with an upstairs lounge of pool and darts, a furnished playroom, gender-neutral washrooms, and a "FLEX" bar where members can buy drinks or bring their own. The KNetic name spans a small multi-brand network: alongside the couples-and-singles flagship, it operates KNetic Men (a gay/bi/queer men's cruise club) and KNetic Women (a queer women's club), each with its own community, plus it rents the venue to third-party kink organizer K-E-A-N for shibari and BDSM education nights. Founded on a "Love Always Wins" ethos and described as Calgary's only fully LGBTQ-owned lifestyle club, that breadth is why some visitors read it as "a queer club" — but the flagship's own marketing is explicit: "a safe space for 18+ singles, couples, and more." Entry is event-ticketed and varies by night (commonly from ~$10–$15 CAD, with Premium-member and single-women discounts on select events), and an optional paid Premium membership ($10/mo–$95/yr) unlocks door discounts and social features but not admission. Fully licensed (City of Calgary, Alberta Health Services, Calgary Fire, AGLC), the club is well regarded — reportedly around 4.7★ on one review aggregator — and was active as of mid-2026.

Why Not Swingerclub

Hamburg, Hamburg

On-Premise Club

Swingertreff Why Not e.V. is a registered lifestyle club operating out of a two-storey house in Hamburg's Bramfeld district. Located on Bramfelder Chaussee in the city's northeast, the venue spans roughly 340 square metres and accommodates up to 120 guests per session, with parking available on site. It is structured as a non-profit registered association (eingetragener Verein), a less common arrangement among German lifestyle venues. Across its two floors, the club offers a wellness area with sauna and massage space, an SM/BDSM section, and a shared social area where an all-inclusive buffet and drinks service are covered by the entry fee. The club has positioned itself as accessible to first-timers, running dedicated beginner evenings alongside its regular programme. It holds a 4.8 out of 5 rating on JOYclub, where it appears among Hamburg's top-listed venues of its kind.

The Night Game

Houston, TX

on-premise nightclub

Billed as the largest and most luxurious private member lifestyle club in Texas, The Night Game sits off FM 1960 in north Houston and pulls off a rare double act: upscale enough to enforce a date-night dress code, yet relaxed enough to welcome everyone from curious first-timers to seasoned regulars. The vibe leans high-class-meets-cozy — think polished nightclub energy on the main floor and something warmer in the back. The crowd skews broad, reflecting the club's openly inclusive philosophy: swinging, BDSM, polyamory, LGBTQ+ and everything in between are all explicitly welcomed. The main floor centres on a 1,200 sq ft dance floor fitted with a dance cage, two dance poles and a shadow box for silhouette shows, all driven by resident professional DJs. Complimentary drink set-ups and full waitstaff keep the social side humming, and a covered patio offers breathing room between dances. Beyond the dancefloor, fully-stocked private playrooms are staffed with dedicated security and cleaning personnel — playroom doors are required to stay closed during play, and single unaccompanied men must be invited in by a couple or partner before entering. A Selfie Station in the main hall lets guests snap photos with mutual consent while keeping cameras out of private areas entirely. Entry requires valid photo ID and adherence to a firm dress code: cocktail and clubwear for ladies, collared or solid fashion shirts and clean shoes for men — no logo tees, athletic gear, cargo shorts or flip-flops will get you through the door. The club is strictly BYOB (no alcohol sold or served), has a zero-tolerance drugs policy, and operates under Harris County regulations requiring nipples and genitals to be covered in all common areas. Reservations are available online, pricing adjusts for holiday and special-event nights, and the club actively encourages guests with non-binary gender identities to contact them directly about pricing and access.

The Pendulum Club (Hempstead Location)

Houston, TX

On-Premise Club

Sitting inside a strip center on Hempstead Road in northwest Houston, The Pendulum Club's original location transports visitors into what the owners describe as a replica of a mid-19th-century luxurious brothel — warm, plush, and immediately enveloping. The club is women-owned and operated, founded in 2015 by Josie and Shannon, and has grown into the anchor of a three-venue Houston-area chain. Despite a deliberately compact footprint, the space packs in 10 play areas, a figure the owners note exceeds most venues twice its size, and has earned a reputation as the busiest lifestyle club in Houston. The play layout moves from a main dance floor and self-serve BYOB bar area — the club provides ice, cups, juices, and sodas at no charge — into a select lounge with a separate dance stage, then deeper into private rooms, veiled beds, a group bed area ringed by couches, and a couples-only front section with two private rooms and two semi-private veiled beds. On arrival, guests receive a color-coded wristband that signals their interests, the club's own system for easing the social dynamic. Tours are offered to first-timers who arrive before 10:30 p.m., and the crowd on most nights is reportedly more than a third newcomers. The club opens Wednesday through Thursday from 9 p.m. to 2 a.m. (doors close at 1 a.m.) and Friday through Saturday from 9 p.m. to 3 a.m. (doors close at 2 a.m.). Single men are welcome Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday nights at this location only; on Fridays, single men are restricted to the back area unless invited by a couple. It is strictly 21-and-over, entirely non-smoking and non-vapor, and BYOB — no alcohol is sold or served on premises.

XCLUSIV Lifestyle (XL)

Houston, TX

On-premise Club

Tucked into north Houston near the 77088 zip code, XCLUSIV Lifestyle (XL) is the area's upscale, members-only lifestyle event centre for open-minded adults — swingers, couples, approved singles, kinksters, LGBTQ+ guests, and the polyamorous and ethically non-monogamous community — drawn from across Texas and Louisiana. The venue runs Friday through Sunday with Friday and Saturday nights going until 5AM and Sunday wrapping at 3AM, pulling in regulars from Houston, Dallas, Austin, San Antonio, Beaumont, and New Orleans. Membership is required but can be obtained at the door with a valid government-issued photo ID; all guests must be 21 or older. XL is fully cashless and BYOB with on-site mixers available. A live DJ, VIP sections, a dance floor, intimate lounge, showers, and eight themed playrooms fill out the space. Dress code is upscale and sexy, with a strict prohibited-items list covering shorts, sneakers, tank tops, and caps. Saturday single-gent entry is limited and requires advance RSVP. The club offers private event hire, affiliate travel packages to Desire and Temptation resorts, and maintains a FetLife community presence. Security cameras cover all public spaces while private areas are excluded. Photography and video require express written approval from management. Consent is core to the culture — non-consensual behaviour results in immediate removal without refund.

Club Uninhibited

Jacksonville, FL

Club Uninhibited is a members-only swinger club operating out of a residential-style venue on Burlingame Drive West in Jacksonville, styled by its owners as a place that "can't be explained, only experienced." The venue emphasizes vetted entry and privacy, framing the space as built around comfort, safety, and non-judgment for both lifestyle veterans and newcomers. Access runs on a membership model — a standard membership is listed at $50 — with a formal application and a published rules document that prospective members must review and sign before attending. The club leans into an events-driven calendar rather than nightly open-door operation, hosting themed parties alongside recurring members-only nights.

Allures Lifestyle

Sacramento, CA

Event Organizer (Hotel Takeover Parties)

Allures Lifestyle is Sacramento's longest-running lifestyle event organizer — a pop-up operation that descends on the DoubleTree by Hilton Sacramento's grand ballroom and transforms it into what the group bills as Northern California's premier swinger dance-play party. Operating under the tagline "the force of irresistible attraction," Allures has run monthly hotel parties for over a decade and draws couples from across the greater Sacramento area and beyond. The setup reads more nightclub than back-room affair: romantic candlelight, fog machines, sensual mood lighting, and two large projector screens broadcasting music videos accompany a state-of-the-art DJ spinning Old School, R&B, Hip Hop, Latin, Pop, EDM, and Classic Rock. The main ballroom floor centers on a full dance floor with a stripper pole and go-go stage, flanked by reserved VIP round tables (seating eight each) and 10-by-7-foot draped VIP cabanas — each fitted with a sofa, loveseat, and coffee table — right on the dance floor. Adjacent to the ballroom, the "Boom Boom Room" play suite provides multiple beds, a double-sided St. Andrew's Cross, a multi-positional sex horse, and a sex swing, staffed by Allures personnel throughout the evening. Guests in the play suite are asked to be in lingerie or less; voyeurs are welcome but may be asked to vacate if space is needed. Overnight sleeping rooms — standard rooms through two-bedroom suites — can be reserved in the Allures hotel block, placing guests on dedicated Allures floors and including a goodie bag at check-in. The event calendar runs to monthly themed hotel dances plus more intimate "Fantasy Fridays" at rotating venues, casual Meet & Greets at nightclubs and lifestyle bars, and an ambitious roster of destination programming: a clothing-optional takeover in Jaco, Costa Rica, Hedonism II Jamaica dates, Bliss and Desire cruise ship charters, Vegas weekends, Gold Country motorcycle runs, boating flotillas, and camping trips. The signature event is the annual New Year's Eve "SEXabration Ball," which drew national news coverage in January 2020 after nearly 1,000 guests filled the DoubleTree. All hotel events are 21+; a full cash bar is on-site.

Friends Night Out (FNO)

Aurora, IL

Event Organizer

Friends Night Out (FNO) runs its parties out of a rented two-level space in Aurora, Illinois known to members as "The Barn" — 2,030 square feet on Jericho Road near I-88 and Orchard Road, styled like a warm pub with conversation couches, chairs and cocktail tables rather than a purpose-built club. It's a licensed, zoned business the group leases for select gatherings, with swinger activity upstairs treated much like private activity in a hotel room; the venue owner supports the lifestyle community and welcomes guests of all orientations and identities. The space holds up to 100 guests, with parking for roughly 50 cars, two restrooms, exterior security cameras and intruder-alert systems. FNO bills itself less as a sex club and more as a friendship club — "we believe in fostering friendships in and out of the bedroom" — and leadership runs games and activities designed to get couples talking rather than just pairing off. Regular parties are capped at 75–100 people to keep the house-party feel intact, with occasional hotel takeovers scaling up to around 300. All events are BYOB with mixers supplied, appetizers are provided, and themed dress is encouraged but optional — guests not in costume are simply asked to "dress to impress." Access runs through paid membership: attending is a donation that doubles as an FNO membership fee, entry requires a prior ticket order number, and the street address isn't released until checkout. New members are marked with a green wristband so regulars can welcome them. FNO does not supply condoms or lubricant for health and liability reasons, so guests bring their own; wipes are provided in the play area, and neither of the two bathrooms has a shower.

The Slippery Pineapple

Springfield, MO

On-Premise Club

The Slippery Pineapple is a lifestyle party club operating out of a private, undisclosed rented venue in Springfield, Missouri. Described by its owners as "the new Slippery Pineapple, a new lifestyle party club here in Springfield," it hosts recurring themed parties for the local swinger and open-minded adult community, with event details shared through its website and an affiliated Facebook group. Parties are held at an undisclosed rented location styled with "an upscale nightclub feel with professional sound and lighting and a live DJ." The venue is smoke-free but provides an outdoor patio for smokers, and on-site parking is available around the venue. The club describes its member base as ranging in age from about 18 to 60-plus and spanning "all races, sizes and demographics." Entry is RSVP-only: guests fill out an online RSVP form, after which the exact address and directions are emailed to them. The club runs on a prepaid ticket system for door and membership fees, with limited, first-come-first-served capacity. It is BYOB, with mixers and setups provided while supplies last, and the dress code is loosely enforced as "dress to impress," with costumes encouraged. Single men are admitted but screened, and weapons are prohibited at all events.

Twist SF

San Francisco, CA

On-Premise Club

Tucked behind an unmarked door on Bay Street in San Francisco's storied North Beach neighborhood, Twist occupies a purpose-built lifestyle space that sets itself apart from the residence-party circuit. Guests enter through a sultry red-lit staircase into a coat check and sign-in area, then move through a compact BYOB bar — stocked with mixers, soft drinks, and light snacks — and into two front lounge areas furnished with couches, bar-top tables, and a small playroom anchored by a circular bed. Steps up from the bar sits the dedicated dance floor, ringed by low seating and outfitted with multiple dance poles and a VIP booth, giving the room an intimate nightclub feel in moody red and purple neon. Past a beaded curtain and a locker room with roughly 90 lockers (two towels per locker), a staff member marks the transition into the play areas, where full clothing is not permitted. Two open mat-covered rooms branch off left and right — one with a long couch and a tucked-away private alcove, the other a longer serpentine layout — plus a third private VIP room with a closable door. Additional bathrooms and a remodeled shower serve the back of the venue. Friday and Saturday nights run 10 PM to 4 AM; a Wednesday couples-only erotic yoga session (7:30–9:30 PM) offers a no-pressure introduction to the space. Saturdays are strictly couples and single ladies — no advance notice needed for either. Fridays follow the same rule for walk-ins, but Twist invites a limited number of single men by email application only. Single men are also welcome during Her Fantasy Party (HFP), held one to two Sundays per month (10 PM–3 AM), where couples set the tone and men attend by invitation-style selection. The crowd spans a wide age range and is notably diverse, and reviewers consistently single out the venue's culture of explicit verbal consent as one of its most distinguishing qualities.

Eyz Wide Shut

Tampa, FL

On-Premise Club

Spread across more than 12,000 square feet in two adjoining buildings on East Adamo Drive, Eyz Wide Shut is Tampa's only dedicated on-premise lifestyle nightclub. Eyz Wide Shut II houses the nightclub proper — a full liquor bar (cash only), a nightly complimentary buffet, a dance floor with a brass pole, a game room with pool and air hockey, a covered outdoor smoking patio, and an erotic-art museum stocked with imported pieces. Next door, Eyz Wide Shut I holds ten themed private suites — Dungeon, Cleopatra, Seaside, Harem, Wild West among them — plus three group rooms (including a large dungeon, a Hedonism room, and Lovers Lane) and a one-way-glass voyeur room. The club opens Thursday through Sunday; Fridays and Saturdays run 7 pm to 3 am with playrooms unlocking at 11 pm and staying open until 5 am. Thursdays and Sundays keep shorter hours. Membership is required for playroom access and can be purchased at the door alongside a valid, scannable government-issued photo ID — no digital copies accepted. A dress code is enforced on Fridays and Saturdays: sexy clubwear or business casual, no hats, no athletic wear, no open-toe shoes for men. Security is thorough: every guest passes through a metal detector, pockets are emptied, and bags are searched. Phones are permitted in the nightclub but must be surrendered before entering the playroom building — no cameras, smart watches, or recording devices of any kind are allowed on the play side, with violations resulting in a lifetime ban. Group rooms are reserved for couples and single females; single males may enter only by invitation to a private suite, with the exception of Pride nights and the group dungeon.

TABOTA Monster Bash

Niagara Falls, Ontario

Event Organizer

TABOTA Monster Bash is an annual Halloween-themed swinger lifestyle hotel takeover event held each October in Niagara Falls, Ontario, produced by TABOTA Events — a Canadian lifestyle company that has been running adult events since 2007. The Bash traces its lineage from a Northbound Leather Friday-night pre-party in downtown Toronto, through a club-format O Zone event, before expanding into a full-weekend hotel takeover. For the duration of the event, TABOTA books the entire property of an upscale hotel and indoor waterpark complex located minutes from the Falls — the venue name is not published, consistent with the organizers' discretion-first approach — ensuring the property is accessible to registered guests only. The event is open to couples and single women; single men are not admitted, and attendance is restricted to guests aged 19 and over. The venue is a tropical-themed resort with a clothing-optional indoor waterpark, heated pools and hot tubs, a Poolside VooDoo Lounge serving bistro-style snacks, and award-winning gourmet dining in an enclosed courtyard garden. Dedicated lifestyle spaces include a Penthouse Play Area, a Kinky Playroom, and an outdoor Kink Garden; on the main Saturday night the DJ runs until 2am, playrooms stay open until 4am, and the pools and hot tubs operate clothing-optional until 3am. Programming begins Thursday with an Interactive Escape Room and themed dance for early-arrival guests. Friday brings a Meet and Greet, a theme dance, and access to the play areas. Saturday is the anchor day: a daytime pool party with a live band, XXX-rated pumpkin carving, a Pirates and Wenches treasure hunt, sexual tarot readings, professional body painting, wax play and shibari rope-bondage demos, a pole dance workshop, a Lick or Trick room crawl, and the Carnival of Sinz — a carnivalesque set of risque games including Cock Toss, Naked Axe Throwing, and X-Rated Beer Pong. The evening builds through a Dinner Murder Mystery on Bourbon Street and Black Tape Body Artistry before culminating in the Halloween Gala, the main costume-contest dance party. The 2026 event runs October 23-25, with a Thursday early-arrival upgrade available. All bookings are made in advance through TabotaEvents.com; the event consistently sells out. A pass-only package (full weekend event access, no room) is $169 per person plus 13% HST; a pass-and-room package covering two nights of accommodation plus all event access is $439 per person plus 13% HST. A courtyard pool-view room upgrade adds $69 per person per night, and the Thursday early-arrival night adds $99 per person per night. Guests in accommodation packages are required to pay a mandatory $100 per person weekend party credit in cash at check-in, redeemable anywhere in the hotel for food and drinks. Photography and camera use are prohibited throughout the event.

Scarlet Ranch

Littleton, CO

On-Premise Club

Set on five acres of park-like grounds in Littleton's south Denver suburbs, Scarlet Ranch has operated since 2003 as an upscale lifestyle club, occupying a roughly 24,000-square-foot modern mountain lodge known as Squirrel Creek Lodge. Soaring split-log ceilings, river-rock bars and rustic touches lend a Swiss-chalet warmth. The main floor holds two bars, high-top tables, leather lounges, a billiard room and shuffleboard, opening onto a large dance floor with a raised DJ booth and a stage. Downstairs are the play spaces: a group area of four queen beds, six curtained private alcoves and voyeuristic showers. Open Wednesday through Sunday with themed events nearly every night and major weekly parties, the Ranch draws a well-dressed, upscale crowd averaging about 37, spanning late-20s to 60s. It welcomes couples and single women, with select single men admitted. Amenities include hot tubs, the on-site Oreads steakhouse, a praised Sunday brunch, BYOB bar service, and outdoor cabanas, a fire-pit teepee and seasonal pool-style parties.

Caliente Club & Resorts

Land O' Lakes, FL

Lifestyle Resort

Set on a gated, palm-fringed property in Land O' Lakes just north of Tampa, Caliente Club & Resorts bills itself as the most luxurious, adults-only, clothing-optional experience around, welcoming both newcomers curious about going nude and seasoned regulars alike. The grounds center on five pools, including a quarter-acre lagoon pool with a waterfall and two islands, plus a hot tub, sports and fitness facilities, and the on-site Retreat Spa offering wraps, facials, manicures, pedicures, and hydrotherapy. Guests stay in condominiums, casitas, or hotel rooms and can dine at a full-service restaurant with an executive chef or go casual at the sports bar. The resort runs on a members-only model: because it operates clothing-optional in the U.S., visitors must hold a Daily or Annual/Vacation Club membership to enter, and everyone 21 and older must present valid government ID at the gate. Attire is optional almost everywhere except the gym, and cameras are barred for unauthorized guests - photos require a security staff member present. A private security team is on-site 24/7, cash is not accepted for purchases (credit cards or a prepaid Cash Card only), and free Wi-Fi covers the main clubhouse and poolside areas. Entertainment runs nightly, with a full nightclub, piano bar, and DJ sets, and Saturday nights built around a rotating theme, from body paint to leather and lace. Single males may attend but only via in-person day passes purchased at the gate (available 8am-11pm, capacity-limited), while couples and single females can book online in advance; day passes are open-dated and do not expire.

Michigan Swing Place

Lansing, MI

Lifestyle Resort

Michigan Swing Place is a Lansing, Michigan lifestyle group built around recurring hotel takeover weekends rather than a fixed clubhouse: instead of running a standing venue, the group rents out a hotel for each event and turns it into a private party space for a few days at a time. It describes itself as having been started to give the Lansing swing community a second home, says it works alongside the area's other established clubs rather than competing with them, and draws members from across the United States rather than purely locally. Each takeover includes standard hotel rooms and suites along with a limited number of jacuzzi suites, plus access to the hotel's pool, and the group frames the atmosphere as comfortable and welcoming for both regulars and newcomers. An organizing crew is on-site from Friday through Sunday during event weekends to run the party and handle check-in. Recurring themed nights, including a jersey-themed meet-and-greet, a pajama-themed bar party, and a Little Red Dress mixer, run alongside free, lower-key meet-and-greet socials. Entry is oriented toward couples and single women: admission runs $25 for single women, $60 for couples, and $70 for single men, though single men are admitted only after being vetted directly by the organizers in advance, with no walk-up entry for unvetted single men. Meet-and-greet socials are free, with guests covering their own bar tab. First-time attendees complete a check-in form, and the specific hotel location for each event is disclosed only to ticket-holders after purchase, with guests asked not to share it publicly.

Lifestyle Playtime

Unverified

DeKalb, IL

Event Group / Hotel Takeover Organizer (no fixed venue)

Lifestyle Playtime is a Chicago-area lifestyle group based in DeKalb, IL that runs low-pressure monthly meet-and-greets alongside larger hotel takeover parties, rather than operating out of a single fixed venue. The format keeps overhead low and lets the group rotate between DeKalb and the wider Chicago suburbs depending on the event. Entry is vetted: single men must apply through the group's "Distinguished Gentlemen" screening process before attending, and all guests sign a liability waiver and show photo ID at check-in. Attendees wear an event wristband, and couples are expected to arrive and leave together, with house rules enforced by volunteer hosts rather than paid staff.

Club Eden OKC

Oklahoma City, OK

Private members-only lifestyle nightclub

Club Eden OKC is the Oklahoma City outpost of Chris and Crissy Vee's Eden Clubs chain — the third location alongside the 14,000 sq ft DFW flagship and the San Antonio sister venue. It runs out of a 9,000 sq ft footprint inside the Days Inn by Wyndham Oklahoma City Fairground complex at 2801 NW 39th Street, on the western edge of the NW 39th Street Enclave — OKC's historic LGBT district that runs east toward 39th and Penn (where the original gay bars like Tramps, Angles, The Copa and Habana/District Hotel sit). Eden isn't a gay bar; it's a private members-only lifestyle nightclub for couples in open relationships, with explicit LGBT framing and singles-welcoming pricing. The unique upside of the OKC location is the lodging — four King Suites and one Double Suite, couples-only, run as "Eden Suites" in the same Days Inn building for $110–$140 a night. You can rent a room, walk thirty feet, and you're on the dance floor. OKC runs on a weekend-only schedule — doors Friday 9pm to 3am, Saturday 9pm to 4am, with Thursdays held back for private parties. The annual flagship is "The Eden Sh!t Show" (10th annual in 2026 ran July 30 – August 2 across four days), the one stretch of the year that breaks the Fri/Sat rule. The weekly programme mirrors the chain — Fridays rotate by week of month between Play More Party, Sybian/Swingles, Fetish Friday, Poly Glamorous and Let's GLOW Crazy; Saturdays each carry their own themed party (Bad Ass Bitches & Bikers, Sexy Cowgirls & Outlaws, Lifestyle Barbie, Naughty School Girl Summer Vacation, Daisy Dukes & Boots and the rest). The venue itself is a single 9,000 sq ft hall — large dance floor with a stripper pole, advanced sound and lighting, music videos on the walls, smoking patio, lockers, play rooms with BDSM furniture, and what reviewers and directories alike call a "spacious orgy room." There's no dedicated dungeon equivalent to the DFW sister club's Infliction Hall; OKC keeps the kink integrated into the main play floor. The alcohol policy is the chain's strictest. Unlike the Texas locations' BYOB-with-setups model, OKC checks bottles at the door and bans alcohol containers inside the club — Oklahoma liquor compliance pushes drinking to the adjacent Eden Suite room or to the parking lot. Inside, a modern concession stand handles sodas, juices and packaged snacks. Pricing is tiered three ways — by night, by gender, and by membership level. Friday door runs $45/$60 couples (VIP / daily), $25 single women, $150 single men. Saturday climbs to $65/$85 couples, $25 single women, $175 single men. Annual memberships ladder from $250 Couples VIP or Female Platinum at the entry, through $3,000 Couples Platinum, up to $5,000 Couples Platinum Plus and $6,500 Male Platinum — all cross-honoured at the DFW and San Antonio sister venues. OKC is also unusually accessible for first-timers: no advance online application required (unlike DFW), just show up with a valid ID and the front desk walks new guests through the rules, consent and tour in person. Reviewer sentiment runs bimodal — 4.3/5 across 35 Google reviews, with 26 five-stars praising the cleanliness, the staff's detailed orientation and the "electric, yet warm and welcoming" atmosphere, plus a smaller cluster of one-star complaints about an aggressive security guard, summer AC struggles, and a sense that cover charges can be applied arbitrarily.

Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa

Kissimmee, FL

Lifestyle Resort

Sprawled across five acres of converted motel buildings on East Irlo Bronson Memorial Highway — minutes from Disney World — Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa is central Florida's flagship lifestyle destination. The members-only, clothing-optional property holds around 148 individually owned condo-hotel units arranged around a courtyard pool, two hot tubs, a poolside tiki bar and the Club Secret nightclub, which pumps EDM across a two-bar dance floor with a full light-and-sound rig most nights of the week. The main draw is an 8,000-square-foot playroom complex: five windowed private rooms with beds and couches, a large central group-play area, a curtained section with a screening lounge, and a staffed dungeon (Club Swinkster) equipped with spanking benches, bondage gear and intro classes for the curious. Playrooms are nude-or-towel only; phones and smartwatches are banned inside. Lockers ($8–$10/night, towels included) sit at the entrance beside a communal shower area. Daytime life revolves around the clothing-optional pool, where DJs spin from late morning onward. A complimentary dinner buffet runs nightly (7:30–10:30 pm), followed by a late-night omelet bar (11:30 pm–3 am) and a breakfast buffet each morning. The crowd spans twenties to sixties, skewing around 40 on weekends, with a mix of couples, single women and single men. Nightly entry fees apply on top of membership — even for hotel guests — and the property is secured by 24-hour on-site security.

Club Chameleon

Flint, MI

House Party

Club Chameleon is a swingers house-party venue operating in the Flint, Michigan area, run by a self-described "empty nester" couple with 25 years in the lifestyle. The venue spans three and a half floors, with two bars, a dance floor, three private playrooms, a curtained "Peekaboo" room, a dedicated billiards room, and a St. Andrew's cross room stocked with paddles and floggers for sensual play. Outside, an enclosed, heated patio holds an eight-person hot tub open year-round, a second theme bar, a stripper pole, and a bonfire pit with seating. The club leans heavily into theme parties, held roughly once a month, complete with costume contests, prizes, and raffles, alongside icebreaker activities like cornhole, beer pong, foosball, and adult Jenga. Food is served buffet-style, usually tied to the party theme, while all parties are BYOB and BYOC (bring your own cup), and the venue is smoking- and 420-friendly. The organizers position Club Chameleon as newbie-friendly, promoting a "safe, non-pushy, no expectations" atmosphere, with a strict Single Male Expectations Policy available on request; overnight accommodations can reportedly be arranged for guests traveling long distances or planning to drink.

Rooftop Resort

Hollywood, FL

Nudist Resort

Perched a block from Hollywood Beach's boardwalk, Rooftop Resort bills itself as the only fully clothing-optional hotel in South Florida - nudity is welcome anywhere and everywhere on the property, not just poolside. The 32-room hotel centers on a heated rooftop sky pool and sun deck with panoramic Atlantic Ocean and Intracoastal views, covered by a retractable roof for rain-or-shine use, plus a tiki-style bar, a Scandinavian-style sauna, and a handful of equipped video playrooms for couples. Rooms range from Standard and Deluxe to themed Premier Suites (Purple Passion, Naughty Mermaid, Jeannie in a Bottle), all with 24/7 access to the pool, sauna, and playrooms. Day visitors can drop in daily from 10am to 5pm for pool and amenity access, while the resort's signature Saturday night event runs 9pm to 3am (last entry 1am) with a DJ, dance floor, BYOB setups, and separate group and couples-only playrooms. Weekend hotel stays bundle in event admission, the BYOB bar, and continental breakfast on Saturday and Sunday mornings. The crowd skews toward straight and bi-curious couples and single women, with single men admitted selectively and at a premium rate. Just minutes from clothing-optional Haulover Beach and close to Fort Lauderdale and Miami airports, the resort positions itself as a lifestyle/nudist getaway rather than a full-service resort - reviewers describe an unpretentious, dated-but-functional property where the draw is the rooftop scene and open sexual atmosphere rather than luxury finishes.

Dark Odyssey

Berkeley, CA

Event Organizer

Dark Odyssey is a roving event organization founded in 2003 by Greg, a former Black Rose board chairman, to fuse sexuality, spirituality, education, and play under one roof. Rather than operating a fixed venue, it commandeers hotels and private rural retreats for four distinct annual events: Winter Fire, a luxury hotel takeover in Baltimore running a full President's Day weekend; Fusion, a six-day summer camp in Northern Maryland on a 200-acre private facility with 40 cabins and 400 beds; Summer Camp, a Labor Day week-long gathering at the same Northern Maryland retreat; and Surrender, a pre-Halloween hotel convention in the San Jose Bay Area. Sold-out attendance at Winter Fire has reached 1,400 people. Each event follows the same architecture: days packed with 80-plus workshops spanning BDSM technique, polyamory, Tantra, sacred sexuality, and spiritual practice, taught by national educators; nights given over to fully equipped dungeons, the Sex-O-Rama open playspace (supplied with beds, lube, condoms, and gloves around the clock), and themed parties running until 2–3am. The rural camp events add outdoor suspension rigs, a tennis-court playspace with weather-resistant equipment, a Pavilion for mixers and open play, and a Temple space for ritual and sacred play. Fire spin jams, drumming circles, a Kinky State Fair, and a Saturday night show round out the program. The community self-describes as a melting pot of kinksters, queers, swingers, spiritualists, Pagans, polyamorists, and cross-dressers — pansexual, omnisexual, and explicitly welcoming to all gender identities. Attendee-created ION events let the community add its own workshops and parties to each schedule. A dedicated Incident Response Team (IRT) staffs a help desk at every event to handle consent matters in private.

Club Rendezvous (Club R)

Calgary, Alberta

On-Premise Club

Club Rendezvous — known to members simply as Club R — is Alberta's longest-running lifestyle club, welcoming Calgary's open-minded community since 1983. Under Ryan and Alicia's ownership since 2012, it has grown into a fully licensed, AGLC-compliant venue that holds a 4.7-star Google rating across more than 180 reviews. The club spans two floors in a northeast Calgary building with a free parking lot right out front. Downstairs is the social heart of the night: a large dance floor with a stripper pole, a DJ booth spinning dance and house sets, a well-stocked licensed bar with a kitchen area for mixing your own drinks, plus a long community table and lounge booths lining the room for easy mingling between sets. Upstairs opens into the play area — an airy, open-concept space furnished with mattresses, beds, couches and a sex swing, where curtains pull closed around the beds whenever you want a more private, semi-secluded moment. The space is known for being spotlessly clean and is wheelchair accessible, with accessible seating, a lift and an accessible restroom. Club R is open every Friday and Saturday from 9 PM to 3 AM, with workshops and social events on select weeknights (roughly 7–11 PM). Rather than generic theme nights, it runs curated Club R Signature Events™, each built around a distinct energy and flow. Long-running favourites include First Time Friday for newcomers (meet, play, explore); Unicorn Friday, where single ladies get in free all night with a paid membership; the Saturday Lingerie Dance Party; the always-popular Little Black Dress "Midnight Seduction"; Taboo Friday; and dedicated Newbie & Member Appreciation nights. Entry is membership-based and capacity-controlled to protect the room's quality and balance: memberships start at $9.95 for a week and scale to $100 for the year (CAD), with event admission around $60 per couple and $30 per single. Couples and single women are the priority crowd, while single men are admitted in limited, screened numbers each event. The "dress to impress" code is genuinely enforced — upscale, sexy and theme-appropriate, with no tank tops, sideways hats, workout wear or sweatpants, work boots, exposed chains or man bags. Just as importantly, Club R runs on a consent-first culture where respect, privacy and enthusiastic consent are non-negotiable, backed by clear house rules and etiquette that underpin its Safe Space Alliance recognition. The team is famously warm with first-timers, and the club welcomes all bodies, genders, orientations and experience levels (18+) — part of why a community of roughly 5,100 keeps coming back. Members can also visit Club R's sister location in Edmonton, extending the same vetted, inclusive lifestyle experience across Alberta.

Club 3X

Cocoa, FL

On-Premise Club

Club3X bills itself as Brevard County's only lifestyle-friendly nightlife venue, tucked into a storefront unit on King Street in Cocoa where the door sits off Florida Avenue near Willard Street. It's a members-only, clothing-optional, on-premise club with a nightclub-meets-house-party feel. The main level centers on a spinning dance pole and bar seating, a free pool table, and a fetish-themed fun area, plus semi-private nooks, two locking private rooms downstairs and two more upstairs, and a loft with beds, seating and a shower room overlooking the main floor — about 2,245 square feet of party space in total. A recently updated dungeon and kink area adds a suspension point, spanking benches, a wax table, a Saint Andrew's Cross and an aftercare corner, with a rope/dungeon master on site some Saturdays. The crowd skews casual and averages older than the big-city Florida clubs, drawn mostly from the Space Coast, and regulars are known for pulling newcomers into conversation.

Vixxxins Lifestyle Club

Phoenix, AZ

Off-Premise Club

Vixxxins Lifestyle Club is a members-only lifestyle and kink club based in Phoenix, Arizona, founded and run by "Madame Vixxxin," who says she has been active in the lifestyle for more than 25 years. Rather than operating from one fixed venue, the club rotates events across rented warehouses, private homes and hotels across the Phoenix valley, with exact addresses disclosed only to approved members. Membership is stated to be open to all body types, ages 21 and over, genders and orientations. Warehouse "Gala" events typically draw around 200 guests and house parties around 100, within a stated range of 50-350. Entry requires photo ID and a sex-offender database check for every member, with uniformed security on-site. Cameras are banned in play areas and phone use is restricted to designated zones. Membership runs on monthly subscriptions — Basic $25, VIP $50, Upper Echelon VIP $75 — covering club access rather than per-event tickets. A strict dress code is enforced (fetish wear, lingerie, tuxedos; no jeans, athletic wear or plain streetwear), and most events are BYOB.

Krewe of Swingtown (KOS)

Houston, TX

On-Premise Club

Founded in 2005 as the only lifestyle-oriented Mardi Gras Krewe in the country, the Krewe of Swingtown has grown into one of Texas's most-attended adult social organizations over its 20-year history. Based in Houston, the KOS operates as a roaming event collective rather than a fixed venue, taking over campgrounds, ranch venues, and private spaces across Texas for weekend-long parties that blend festival energy with an inclusive swinger ethos. Flagship events like the annual Guadalupe River Trip draw 1,000-plus attendees to New Braunfels, complete with theme nights, naughty contests, adult games, and a weekend lineup that never formally stops. What sets KOS apart is its low-pressure culture. The group welcomes full-swap and soft-swap couples, single women, and bi and straight attendees alike; single men may attend only when accompanied by a female date or sponsored by a participating couple. Membership unlocks the private booking portal and priority registration windows, though events can also be purchased individually. The KOS calendar spans the full year: Mardi Gras house parties in Galveston (January-February), the Summer Vibes Party at Linnett Ranch in Henderson TX (June), the Guadalupe River Trip near New Braunfels (June), the Texas Renaissance Festival Conquest with Clan SOB (October-December), and New Year's Eve and Christmas parties to bookend the calendar. The group stays active on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, and X year-round.

Club Sapphire

Tukwila, WA

On-Premise Club

Club Sapphire is a private, membership-based lifestyle club at 14220 Interurban Ave S Suite A-110 in Tukwila, Washington, positioned centrally between Seattle, Bellevue and SeaTac Airport. Established for well over a decade, it caters to consensual, non-monogamous couples exploring the swinging lifestyle while also welcoming single women, a limited number of single men, and LGBTQ+ members. The club positions itself as a social space first rather than a straightforward sex club, with a membership base of adults 21 and up, ranging from their twenties to their seventies. The venue spans roughly 10,000 square feet, with a dance floor and resident DJ, social lounges, and a range of playrooms from larger group spaces to more private two-person rooms, including a dedicated voyeur room. A light buffet of appetizers runs throughout the evening alongside free soda, coffee, tea and water, and guests have access to a co-ed locker room, co-ed showers with four shower heads, and fresh towels; parking is free on site. The dress code favors dressed-up, sexy attire — designer jeans, dresses, lingerie or costumes for themed nights — while baggy sweats, dirty clothing, casual wear and baseball hats are turned away at the door. Parties run Wednesday and Thursday from 7pm to midnight and Friday and Saturday from 8pm to 2am. Entry requires both a current membership (from $30 for a one-week pass) and a separate per-event fee that varies by night and by couples/male/female category; all new members complete a brief, free orientation on party nights. Single men must secure a confirmed ticket in advance, cannot attend as walk-ins, and must complete a dedicated New Single Male Orientation before their first visit. House rules require verbal consent before any touching, ban illegal drugs, weapons and intoxicated entry, require condom use (condoms provided), and prohibit photography or cell phone use in social areas and playrooms.

NSFW (New Society for Wellness)

New York, NY

On-Premise Club

Founded in 2018 by Daniel Saynt — the self-described 'Chief Conspirator' — NSFW (New Society for Wellness) began as an intimate gathering in lower Manhattan and grew into one of New York's most talked-about members-only sex clubs. The current clubhouse, a 4,000 sq ft space in Chelsea near Penn Station, replaced earlier venues in Brooklyn and lower Manhattan and opened in August 2025. Entry is past a velvet rope and front-desk check-in, with arrivals capped at 60 members per event. The crowd — drawn heavily from entertainment, fashion, and media, averaging around 28 years old and running roughly 60 percent female — sets a tone one attendee described as 'civilized debauchery.' All guests dress in all-black to put everyone on an equal playing field. The weekly rhythm runs to PlayDates every Saturday (21:00–02:00) and Netflix & Chill Sundays (18:00–22:00), with workshops Tuesdays and Thursdays (18:00–21:00) covering pleasure education, rope play, and BDSM. A monthly Send Noobs introductory session walks prospective members through the community's consent framework before they set foot in the Clubhouse. The space features plush communal areas, a sex swing, shibari play zones, walls of floggers and paddles, and private by-reservation rooms. Membership requires a vetted profile granted at roughly a 30% acceptance rate, evaluated across 14 criteria. Tiers range from Pay-Per-Play ($29/month or $169/year plus per-event passes) to Unlimited Solo ($250/month) and Unlimited Couples ($350/month) plans. An online community of 7,500+ member profiles, an NSFW Magazine, and sex-education resources extend the experience beyond the physical Clubhouse.

Illuminaughty Austin

Austin, TX

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Austin is the Texas capital's chapter of Illuminaughty, a multi-city lifestyle event brand that hosted its first private Austin party in 2024. Rather than operating a fixed clubhouse, the chapter runs invitation-only cocktail mixers and play parties for a curated community of couples, single women, non-binary members, and a limited number of vetted single men, generally in their 20s to 40s. Membership is free but application-based: prospective members submit photos and a bio for staff review, and approval is required before anyone can purchase tickets or receive event invitations. Events take over rented private residences around the Austin area rather than a single dedicated venue — past parties have used a multi-play-room house in the heart of Austin and a six-bedroom, three-story home in Central East Austin, each redressed with theme-specific music, lighting, and decor. Every party includes multiple designated play spaces, massage tables, and a coat storage area, with private security checking IDs and monitoring the event. Parties are BYOB, with mixers, champagne flutes, cups, and non-alcoholic drinks supplied by the organizers. Austin parties typically run Saturday nights from 8pm to 2am, with a fixed arrival window (usually 8:00–9:30pm) after which doors close for a mandatory opening talk on rules and consent; latecomers are not admitted without prior arrangement. Dress codes are theme-specific and enforced (examples include masquerade formalwear and 1960s Summer of Love attire). For privacy and security, the venue address is not published in advance — it is emailed only to confirmed ticket holders on the morning of the event. Ticket refunds have historically been offered up to 5 days before an event, minus a non-refundable credit-card processing fee of about 5%.

on-premise

DB Socials holds a singular distinction in New England: it is the region's longest-running on-premise lifestyle party, operating continuously since June 1999 — first out of Bridgewater, then quietly relocating to its current private location in Grafton, a suburb in Worcester County about an hour west of Boston. Host Barry has run every event since inception, and the format has stayed deliberately unchanged across more than two decades: small, intimate gatherings for full-swap couples and single women, designed to feel nothing like a commercial nightclub. Events run bi-monthly, opening at 7PM with a floating close around 11PM-midnight. There is no door charge; in lieu of a fee, guests are asked to bring food or snacks to share, along with their own beverage — alcohol is welcome, though intoxication is not. Music plays throughout and adult movies provide ambient backdrop, but the atmosphere is casual and relaxed. The emphasis is on a small, intimate group setting rather than a large-scale venue experience. First-timers are welcome, but entry requires a brief phone call first — Barry needs to hear a woman's voice before directions to the private address are given out. That one rule says a great deal about DB Socials: a community built on trust and continuity, self-selecting for people who take the courtesy call seriously. Events are fully non-smoking throughout.

The Velvet Rope

Portland, OR

The Velvet Rope (TVR) is Portland's longest-running on-premises social and lifestyle club, tucked away in a quiet, unassuming building on SE Cesar E. Chavez Boulevard. Spanning roughly 10,000 square feet across two floors, the 21-and-over venue bills itself as a sex-positive, judgment-free space where individuals, couples and polycules of all identities and experience levels can connect, play or simply soak up the vibe. New guests are walked through the club on a guided tour and signed in at the front desk; the crowd is a mix of long-time regulars and lifestyle newcomers, and the staff lean heavily on a consent-first culture backed by clear house rules. The club runs Friday and Saturday nights from 8 p.m. to 3 a.m. and Sundays from 8 p.m. to 2 a.m., with a rotating calendar of themed parties — Newbie Night, Savage Saturdays, Sex in the Sundae, plus kink nights, rope demos, speed dating and glow parties. Entry is members-first: a couples membership runs $70 for six months or $110 for a year, single ladies $40/$60, and single men $95/$135, with reduced door fees, special member-only events and a fast-track member line as perks. Non-members can buy a one-night pass at the door (couples $50–$80, single ladies $10–$20, single men $55–$90 depending on the night), and a government-issued ID is required at every visit. Two full bars operate inside, so guests must be 21+; per OLCC rules, no marijuana in any form is allowed on the property. Inside, the space is built for both play and comfort: a large dance floor with a live DJ, pole stations and a dance cage; social lounges with pool tables and stage performances; multiple open and private play areas including a couples-only room and a caged sex swing; hardpoints for rope suspension and other kink exploration; indoor and outdoor hot tubs with adjacent showers stocked with free towels, body wash and shampoo; and lockers on both levels (BYO lock or buy one at the desk). Dress code is enforced — clubwear or business-casual on regular nights, theme-appropriate attire on kink, glow and formal events — with no sweats, flip-flops or gym wear. Knives, needles, tasers, guns (real or replica), candles and unapproved electro gear are barred from the playrooms, and the venue maintains hard limits on scat, watersports, fire, blood, breath and wax play. Three free parking lots sit nearby, credit and debit cards are accepted at the desk, and an ATM is right next door.

Center for Sex Positive Culture (CSPC)

Seattle, WA

Community Center

The Center for Sex Positive Culture (CSPC) is a volunteer-run, 501(c)(7) nonprofit membership organization based in Seattle, Washington, founded in 1999. It describes its mission as creating spaces to celebrate, develop, and explore sexuality and sensuality among a diverse community, with programming spanning kink and BDSM, swinging, polyamory, and queer-centered events. CSPC's original venue on 15th Ave in Interbay closed in 2016, and after a change in leadership in 2017, the organization resumed in-person events in January 2018. Events are now held on a per-event rental basis at Gallery Erato, 309 1st Ave S in Seattle's Pioneer Square, the permanent home of CSPC's sister organization, the Pan Eros Foundation. The main floor holds play stations, a coat closet, and gender-neutral restrooms, and is reachable via a portable wheelchair ramp; the basement level is stairs-only and excluded from essential group activities. Members bring their own padlocks for basement lockers, and the organization provides safer-sex supplies, clean linens, and a water-filling station. Alcohol and drugs are prohibited entirely, including outside beverages brought in. Access requires membership, priced on a sliding scale from $5 to $20 per month (or $100 to $220 annually) across Reduced, Standard, and Supporter tiers, and prospective members must complete a New Member Orientation before buying a ticket. Recurring in-person parties include Fresh Meet, LaQueer, Myself!, Femmes on Top, All In!, Sense & Sensuality, and The Grind, each priced at $30 with a sliding scale available. Tickets are sold online only, at least six hours before an event with no door sales, and valid photo ID is required of every attendee; masking has been recommended but not required since February 2024.

Club NV

Muncie, IN

Off-Premise Club

Club NV is an on-premise lifestyle club in Muncie, Indiana, owned and operated by a lifestyle couple. The club is located at 400 S. Lincoln St., about 35 miles northeast of Indianapolis, and membership is open to anyone 21 or older who is in, or interested in, the lifestyle. The venue occupies 10,000 square feet with a DJ, dance floor, video screens and lockers, plus a fountain machine stocked with soda, cups, ice, coolers and snacks — all included with the entry fee. Outdoors there is a large fenced and partially covered patio with a fire pit for smoking, an outdoor pool table, and well-lit fenced parking. Club NV is open Saturday nights only, from 7pm, with no entry after midnight; the club closes at 3am, with no overnight stays permitted under state fire code. Annual membership costs $1 and is arranged on a member's first visit with photo ID and a signed membership agreement. Entry fees vary by event: regular Saturdays run $50 for couples, $70 for single men and $5 for single women, dropping to $30/$60/free at discounted meet-and-greet parties. The club is BYOB and does not sell alcohol.

Shameless Grounds - ENM Night

St. Louis, MO

Off-Premise Club

Shameless Grounds is a sex-positive cafe in the Benton Park neighborhood of south St. Louis, Missouri, operating since 2011. On the fourth Friday of most months it hosts ENM Night, a ticketed social mixer for people practicing or curious about Ethical Non-Monogamy -- swingers, polyamorous folks, and those in open marriages are all welcome. The regular coffeeshop space converts into an evening social scene with a full bar, drink specials, food, curated music, and icebreaker games to help guests mingle; most months the crowd spreads onto the patio. Because the cafe holds a City of St. Louis liquor license, no nudity or sexual activity is permitted on-site -- this is a flirtatious meet-and-greet, not a play party. ENM Night runs 6-10pm, with $10-per-person tickets sold in advance via the cafe's Square site. Dress code is upscale casual or sexy. House rules emphasize consent -- "no means no" -- and guests who become visibly intoxicated are cut off and asked to leave.

Eros Knoxville

Knoxville, TN

On-Premise Club

Eros Knoxville is a private, members-only lifestyle club tucked into a bottom-floor space reached through a courtyard at 815 South Central Street in downtown Knoxville, Tennessee — look for the upside-down pineapple in the window. Billed on its own site as East Tennessee's most upscale and diverse lifestyle club, it operates as a BYOB venue that does not sell alcohol, welcoming guests to bring their own drinks in a cup with a lid. The club runs as a live-DJ nightclub with a dance floor, drawing an open-minded, mixed crowd of couples and singles. Membership is required for entry and is verified against the Tennessee Sexual Offender and Violent Offender Registry; all guests must be 21 or older. Lockers are available on a first-come, first-served basis for each event (members supply their own locks), and private rental spaces are offered, including the Ruby Room (10-15 people), a private booth seating up to six, and reserved lounge seating for four. Smoking is permitted outside only, and the venue enforces a strict, staff-adjudicated dress code — sexy-but-classy attire for women, with men barred from shorts, tank tops, flip-flops, sunglasses, cargo pants, sweatpants, and printed t-shirts (dress jeans permitted). Event fees run higher on Saturdays than Fridays: couples pay $40 on Fridays and $60 on Saturdays, single females $20/$25, and single men $50/$70. Fridays are designated Ladies Night, with all single women admitted free and couples at half price before 10pm. New members must complete a mandatory orientation tour by 11pm on their first visit. House rules prohibit cameras or recording devices anywhere on the premises, enforce a strict no-means-no consent standard, and carry a zero-tolerance policy on drugs and prostitution; single women are afforded particular protection, with harassment or stalking grounds for suspension of a member couple's account.

VooDoo Leatherworks

Colorado Springs, CO

Social Club

VooDoo Leatherworks is a members-only private social club and community center in Colorado Springs dedicated to BDSM, kink, and fetish education. Describing itself as the first and longest-running BDSM club in the city, the volunteer-led organization operates on the lower level of a building at 2422 Busch Avenue, with a private entrance and parking lot accessible from Race Street. The club also functions as an art gallery and studio for fetish and boudoir artists, and hosts larger regional gatherings such as the Southwest Master/slave Contest & Leather Run Weekend and the High Elevation Colorado Kink (HECK) conference. The centerpiece is a fully stocked dungeon covering more than 3,000 square feet, with 15 play stations and suspension hard-points, alongside a separate social lounge for conversation away from active scenes. As a private membership club, Voodoo does not hold a liquor license and does not sell alcohol; most events are alcohol-free, though members 21 and over may bring their own drinks to select events such as the monthly Fusion Party, with volunteer bartenders providing controlled pour service purely for safety monitoring. The space is also available for private rentals, nonprofit fundraisers, and for-profit gatherings Tuesday through Friday, and is closed Sundays and Mondays for cleaning, maintenance, and volunteer training. Access requires membership, which begins with a New Member Orientation held several times a month; first-year membership costs $25, with $15 annual renewals. Regular programming includes a monthly Members Leather Dungeon Party (third Saturdays, with a discount for wearing leather), a Members Fusion Party (fourth Fridays), a Tastings party introducing newcomers to different BDSM experiences (first Saturdays), twice-monthly PEAK educational classes, and a Poly/ENM discussion group. Door entry runs $25 for members plus $10 per sponsored guest. House rules require all activity to be consensual, guests to remain with their sponsoring member, and anyone setting up a scene to check in with the on-duty Dungeon Monitor first; all attendees must be 18 or older.

Carolina Friends

Charlotte, NC

Event Organizer

One of the longest-running lifestyle organizations in the Southeast, Carolina Friends traces its roots to 1991, when eight Charlotte-area couples pooled resources to throw a discreet monthly hotel party for roughly thirty pairs. Three decades and more than 40,000 couples on the roster later, the club now operates as a full hotel-takeover outfit, booking entire hotels exclusively for members in both the Charlotte metro and the Triad region around Greensboro and Winston-Salem. Charlotte events regularly draw 400-plus couples; Triad nights typically pull 150 or more. Each takeover follows a familiar rhythm: a live DJ and dance floor anchor the social side, while a full buffet, BYOB bar with provided mixers and bartender service, co-ed showers, towels, and lockers keep the logistics covered. Private activity areas, group rooms, and a voyeur/exhibition space make up the play options, and a late-night breakfast gathering caps the evening. During warmer months, pool parties are added to the rotation. Events run Friday and Saturday nights, generally 8 pm to 2 am, and most carry themed dress codes -- upscale and sexy for women, smart casual for men. Admission is couples-focused: single females are always welcome, single males are accepted at most events but capped to maintain balance. A free online profile with your legal name is required before you can purchase event tickets or the optional membership ($13.68/month), which unlocks private chat, passkey photos, and the AutoDate matchmaking feature on the member platform. The club has no public social-media presence; communication flows through the member site and listings on SLS, SDC, and Kasidie.

Illuminaughty Phoenix

Phoenix, AZ

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Phoenix is the local chapter of a multi-city private membership brand that has hosted curated swinger parties and cocktail mixers in the Phoenix and Scottsdale area since 2023. Rather than operating from a fixed clubhouse, it runs as an event organizer: each party is held at a different private venue, such as a member's home, a rented high-rise apartment, or an occasional mansion, with the address released only to approved ticket holders on the day of the event. Private parties typically draw 40 to 80 members, with occasional mansion takeovers hosting 150 or more. Rooms are set up for a range of experiences, from massage tables to group-play spaces and some light kink equipment, though the atmosphere leans social rather than kink-focused. Events are BYOB, with mixers, non-alcoholic drinks, towels, condoms and lube supplied by the organizers, and private security is present at every party. Membership is free but requires a photo application reviewed and approved by staff before tickets can be purchased. Night parties generally run 8pm to 2am with an 8-9:30pm arrival window; All Day Soirees run 2pm to midnight with a 2-3:30pm window, and late arrivals are turned away. Couples and single women attend freely, while single men need a capped "Single Man" ticket. Every event opens with a consent and safety briefing, and dress follows a themed code.

Bliss Cruise

Fort Lauderdale, FL

Cruise

Celebrating a decade on the water, Bliss Cruise is a full-ship charter lifestyle experience that charters some of the world's largest vessels including Royal Caribbean's Wonder of the Seas and Celebrity Reflection out of Fort Lauderdale and Miami for week-long voyages to Caribbean ports such as Cozumel, Aruba, Curacao, and Grand Turk. Founded around 2015 and operating under Bliss Mgt, LLC, it has grown into what the company describes as the world's largest lifestyle cruise event, with sailings carrying upwards of 6,000 guests on the biggest charters. Every sailing is strictly couples-only and reserved for adults 21 and older, with an atmosphere deliberately built around curiosity without pressure. Onboard, the experience is layered across multiple venues running more than 400 events per charter. Clothing-optional pools and hot tubs open up when the ship is at sea, while after dark the schedule shifts to daily themed parties fueled by international DJs and burlesque and erotic performances. Multiple dedicated play areas cover different energies: a couples-only playroom, a fetish dungeon, an all-passengers open room, and an outdoor space. Days fill out with meet-and-greet mixers, immersive seminars, and clothing-optional signature excursions in port. The crowd spans newcomers to seasoned regulars, and reviewers consistently note that friendliness aboard runs high. Consent culture is baked into the program: every guest must sign an Acceptable Behavior Policy at the dock before boarding, and photography is banned in clothing-optional areas, playrooms, and during theme nights. A dedicated Bliss App handles event scheduling, couple-to-couple messaging, and preference matching, making it the only lifestyle charter with its own purpose-built mobile platform.

Fusion Parties

Manchester, NH

Mobile/roving — various NH venues; no fixed premises

Fusion Parties Social Club is a private members community based in Manchester, New Hampshire, built around connection, exploration, and upscale adult experiences for open-minded couples and individuals. Rather than operating a fixed venue, the organizers rent out different locations for each event, favouring mansions, penthouses, and pool-equipped estates across New Hampshire. Events typically run monthly or bi-monthly, with tickets sold through SimpleTix; the exact address is shared with ticket holders only in the week of the event. A Fusion Parties night centres on a distinct theme — past editions have included Masquerade Penthouse, Glitz & Glam, Glow Hard, and Cupid’s NightCap — with a DJ, live performances (LED displays, fire acts, or themed dance routines), and complimentary appetisers. The club runs BYOB with bartenders on site mixing cocktails from house-provided mixers; no alcohol is sold. Playrooms and a dance pole feature at house-party events, while the Eden resort-takeover format switches to a full cash bar and multi-night itinerary. Fusion Parties collaborates closely with Mindbender Parties and H&H Social Club, forming a New England lifestyle network. Listed on SDC, events draw hundreds of guests, making Fusion one of the largest lifestyle event operations in New Hampshire.

Lifestyle Playground

Denver, CO

Event Organizer

Lifestyle Playground is a private lifestyle event organization based in Colorado, hosting events in Denver, Colorado Springs, and Thornton rather than operating from a single venue. The group runs a range of gatherings from casual coffee meetups to full hotel takeovers with themed rooms, alongside workshops on sexual wellness. Its community is inclusive of ENM, polyamory, swinging, LGBTQ+, and BDSM members, and access requires a membership application.

The Crucible

Washington, DC

BDSM Club

Tucked into a residential stretch of Northeast DC near the Rhode Island Avenue Metro, The Crucible has operated as Washington's only private kink and alternate-lifestyles club since founder Frazier Botsford — known to regulars as Uncle Frazier — began building it in 1997. Organised as a 501(c)(7) non-profit private social club, the venue at 412 V Street NE holds a full dungeon fitted with bondage crosses, spanking benches, ropes, whips and handcuffs along the walls, plus a dedicated medical play area for piercing, needle and blood play, and a smaller private room for more intimate scenes. Dungeon Monitors trained by the Black Rose are on the floor at all events, and the crowd — spanning kinksters, lifestylers and curious newcomers of all orientations and genders — consistently draws praise for its warm, family-like atmosphere. The event calendar runs most Friday and Saturday nights, with 18-and-over play nights on Fridays (no alcohol) and 21-and-over nights with a full bar on Saturdays. Recurring themed nights include Black & Kinky (second Friday, POC-focused), QINK (third Friday), Sinfully Naughty (first Saturday), and Risqué EDM dance party (second Saturday). Black Rose holds weekly education at the venue every Tuesday and its monthly Gateway meeting on the first Thursday. The first Friday of every month is Dungeon 101 — doors open at 7:30pm and the structured presentation begins at 8pm, followed by an open exploratorium. No membership required for this event. Members may bring up to three guests. Annual membership is $40/person, purchased online; all applicants are screened against the DOJ sex-offender registry.

Club Encounters

Phoenix, AZ

On-Premise Club

Club Encounters is a long-running, on-premises social club for the swingers lifestyle on West Clarendon Avenue in west Phoenix. The venue operates with no membership and no reservation required, positioning itself as a walk-in destination for couples and singles seeking a club atmosphere without a membership commitment. The main floor holds a lighted dance floor with a live DJ, two video lounges, and a pool table, alongside a juice-and-snack bar for refreshments; no alcohol is served or permitted on site. A secluded, mirror-walled jacuzzi room includes its own shower room and lockers, and a smoking patio sits out back. Six themed playrooms occupy the upper floor, one furnished with a swing. Reviewers describe a clean, well-kept space with a friendly, low-pressure atmosphere, though the crowd mix shifts by night, with single men more heavily represented on quieter evenings. The club is open seven nights a week: Sunday through Thursday from 8pm to 4am, a midday "Nooner" session on Fridays from noon to 7pm, and extended hours on Friday and Saturday nights until 5am. Mondays run a free-entry couples night before midnight. Cover charges scale by night and gender: couples pay $25–35, single men a flat $40, and single women $5–15, with a $10 discount for single men who show military ID before 10pm. Entry is 18 and over, no membership or reservation required, cash at the door.

Hush Lounge AZ

Phoenix, AZ

On-Premise Club

Hush Lounge AZ is a private, members-only lifestyle club in Phoenix, Arizona, operating under a private-club charter that keeps it closed to the general public; membership requires an approved online application prior to purchasing event tickets. The club is built around couples and single women, with a limited number of single men admitted based on the couples-to-single-men ratio in attendance, and reservations are encouraged. The recently remodeled venue includes more than seven specialty rooms — among them a VIP Cabana Lounge, an 'Under the Stars' room, a Chandelier VIP Lounge, and an Orb Room — alongside open main-floor lounge and dance-floor areas. Because Arizona private-club regulations prohibit on-site alcohol sales, Hush operates BYOB for members and runs a cash-only bar for non-alcoholic drinks; condoms and fresh towels are provided. The club operates Thursday through Saturday nights: Thursday 8pm-1am, Friday 8pm-2am, and Saturday 8pm-3am (closing times may shift for special events). Recurring themed nights include a Wednesday Red Light Special, a Thursday lifestyle spotlight, Friday TFIF, and a Saturday house DJ with dance floor. Ticket transfers require 24-hour notice and become void once an event has passed.

Fallout RVA

Richmond, VA

alternative nightclub / fetish & kink club

Fallout has anchored Richmond's Shockoe Bottom since November 2007, earning its place as the city's longest-running goth, industrial, and fetish nightclub. Owner Jackie Bishop describes it as 'queer, a little bit kinky — basically a space for everybody that's just trying to find a place to belong.' The result is part nightclub, part community centre, part sanctuary at 117 N. 18th Street. The calendar runs seven nights a week: vinyl goth/EBM nights (Metal Beat), leather-and-latex fetish dance parties, drag showcases, rope-bondage socials, burlesque, goth karaoke, queer dance-therapy classes, and polyamory munches all coexist under one roof. Fridays and Saturdays extend to 2am. Some nights are members-only; others require a one-night pass via DM or Fetlife. A formal membership programme underlies the club's identity. Applications are in-person only — 21+, valid ID, dress code, and a member sponsor required; committee reviews take roughly two weeks. Members get free or discounted entry and may bring two guests. Non-members attend open events (18+) at cover charges typically $5–$15. Photography is banned outright; Virginia ABC law prohibits full nudity.

Arouse Vegas

Las Vegas, NV

Private Event Series

Arouse Vegas operates as a members-only adult lifestyle club in Las Vegas, billing itself as 'Private Las Vegas Special Events.' The exact venue is an upscale building disclosed only to ticketed members; arriving guests text or call from the lobby and are escorted up — a deliberate layer of discretion that sets the tone for the whole operation. On-premise play is permitted under Nevada law, and the club situates itself on the more curated end of the Vegas lifestyle spectrum, requiring a photo-and-essay application from anyone wishing to join. Membership is open to couples, single ladies, and single men, though single ladies occupy a place of particular emphasis in the club's community standards — stalking or harassment of solo female guests carries the threat of membership suspension. The application process requires 2–6 high-resolution photos (lingerie and smart-casual shots preferred; heavy filters and cartoon overlays explicitly discouraged) plus a written 'About us' introduction. Accepted applicants are notified by email. Social networking integration runs through the Modern Lifestyle platform, with Arouse Vegas cross-listed on SDC, Kasidie, and SwingLifeStyle for member discovery. Event details, ticketing, and the venue address all sit behind the member login — walk-in access or public-facing schedules are not offered.

The Red Rooster

Las Vegas, NV

On-Premise Club

Seven miles east of the Strip in the residential Whitney neighborhood, The Red Rooster occupies a sprawling stand-alone house at 6405 Greyhound Ave — the only such structure on the block — that has grown from its original 800-square-foot footprint in 1983 to over 12,000 square feet of on-premise lifestyle space. Founded by husband and wife Mike and Chris Borchers as an informal house party, it is the longest-running swingers club in Las Vegas. The main floor wraps around a central dance floor lit by a disco ball, with lounge seating, a pool table (free), two staffed BYOB check-in bars, an indoor pool and hot tub, and a large open group playroom. An outdoor patio with heaters serves as the designated smoking area. Upstairs is a couples-only zone — open Fridays and Saturdays only — guarded by a bouncer who requires guests to be in a towel or less to pass. That floor holds multiple private rooms, each with lockable doors, available to any couple. The group room downstairs is open to all guests for play or voyeurism; beds are reserved for participants. Lockers are provided near both the front bar and the indoor pool, with a $10 deposit for a rental lock. The club runs Wednesday and Thursday 9pm–2am, Friday and Saturday 9pm–3am, and Sunday 8pm–2am, closed Monday and Tuesday. Entry is by cash donation at the door — no reservations required. Suggested donations: couples $40; single women $10 Wed–Sat; single men $80 Wed–Thurs, $100 Fri–Sat. All guests must be 25 or older; photo ID is checked at the door. The venue is strictly BYOB — no alcohol is sold — with complimentary mixers, sodas, and water available at both bars. Food is served on weekend evenings. Theme nights and holiday parties are a regular fixture.

Risque Vegas Estate

Las Vegas, NV

Risque Estate is a private, members-only lifestyle venue set within a residential property in the Paradise neighborhood of Las Vegas, just minutes from the Strip. Established in 2014, the estate operates as an on-premise swingers club hosting clothing-optional parties Wednesday through Sunday, welcoming couples, singles, and LGBTQ guests aged 21 and over in a BYOB format with snacks and mixers provided. The grounds center on a resort-style heated pool kept at 90 degrees year-round, surrounded by spacious poolside cabanas and block-walled areas for nude sunbathing. Inside, guests find multiple private playrooms, a large group room, a game room with a cheetah-felt pool table, a dance floor with a stripper pole, and a custom Harley-Davidson fitted with a built-in Sybian. Risque Estate emphasizes discretion with secure off-street parking and a membership structure included in the door donation. The estate provides lockers, clean showers, and ample cooler space, while guests are asked to bring their own towels, locks, and beverages. The venue regularly hosts themed events listed through its website and social channels.

Mindbender Parties

Boston, MA

Event Organizer

Mindbender Parties is New England's most traveled adult lifestyle event series, the brainchild of Mizzy Bender — a self-described 41-year-old female entrepreneur who launched the operation with her partner Spencer and has since grown it into one of the region's most recognizable swinger brands. Events rotate across partner venues: most frequently Platforms Dance Club at 165 Poe St, Providence, RI, a proper nightclub with a full bar, dance floor, and purpose-built dungeon. The Electricity Social Club (ESC) in Providence's Olneyville neighborhood hosts BYOB multi-room events with seven themed playrooms; summer months bring a private Long Island property with an eight-person hot tub, outdoor shower, and fire pit — location released to guests after payment. The calendar runs year-round under recurring titles — Candyland, Back to School, Boo (eighth annual run), Naughty in Neon, Shamrocks & Shenanigans, Nuttin for XXXmas, and more — on a roughly monthly rhythm, with occasional multi-day hotel-takeover weekends. Pricing is tiered: couples typically pay $70–$80, single ladies $20–$30, and single males $110–$120. Tickets are advance-purchase only via the website. Every event is professionally produced under the Mindbender Productions banner — DJ, lighting, full staging — with onsite security whose priority is guest safety and comfort. Mizzy's Boutique, a traveling pop-up adult retail shop, vends at every event alongside sponsors One Condoms, Spunk Lube, Naughty Indulgence, and SDC. Play spaces include open group areas, private rooms, and dungeon setups. The Instagram presence (76K followers) and the companion podcast Mornings with Mizzy reflect a community-building mission well beyond the door — educational content, judgment-free conversation, and a genuine inclusive ethos baked into the Mindbender brand.

Dominium Vita

London, London

Members Club (Roaming)

Dominium Vita is a London-based private members society founded by Em Carter and Richard Burton, who built a community modelled on the culture of Ancient Rome — the club's name evoking complete ownership of one's life, its events referencing the opulent feasts and uninhibited pleasures of Roman society. The club has no fixed play premises: its registered address is a third-floor office on Paul Street in Shoreditch, but all events rotate across undisclosed private properties and hotels in London, with exact locations disclosed only to confirmed ticket-holders. Occasional events are also staged in Ibiza. The event calendar runs across several formats. Domus Luxuria nights are the main recurring play events. Carpe Noctem is the club's most theatrical production — described by the organisers as a night of dark theatrics and hedonism spread across five immersive spaces. Hidden Deviance gatherings convene in luxury private residences, opening with a social salon before dedicated playrooms. Monthly members socials at bars keep the wider community connected between play events, and a workshop strand has included sessions at the Mandrake Salon in Fitzrovia. BDSM apparatus is available at play events, with professional dominants on hand to guide unfamiliar guests. Entry is by membership only: applications are assessed personally by the founders against undisclosed criteria, and acceptance is not guaranteed. Tickets to events are sold on a first-come, first-served basis to approved members. The club welcomes singles, couples, and all genders; LGBTQ+ inclusive. Spectating is explicitly welcomed and participation is never required. A strict one-strike policy on consent violations applies — any breach results in immediate removal and permanent membership revocation.

Illuminaughty Portland

Portland, OR

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Portland is the local chapter of a national members-only lifestyle events network, hosting curated cocktail mixers and private play parties for couples and singles since 2023. Rather than operating out of a fixed clubhouse, the group rents out private residences around the Portland metro for each event — past parties have used a hillside home in the Goose Hollow Hills with skyline views, while cocktail mixers have taken place at bars and restaurants in neighborhoods like SE Buckman. The community skews toward couples and singles in their 20s, 30s and early 40s, and membership is free but requires an application; organizers describe the vetting process as intentional curation meant to keep the group welcoming, low-pressure and free of hired performers or influencers. Events fall into two main formats. Tease Cocktail Mixers are lower-key social gatherings held in a reserved area of a local bar or restaurant, typically running a couple of hours and used as a low-commitment way to meet other members before attending a party. Private parties, such as the recurring City Nights events, are held overnight at rented houses or upscale properties featuring multiple play spaces, massage tables, mood lighting and music, and sometimes amenities like a hot tub; venues are rated on the site using a sliding "Venue Vibe" and capacity scale, with most parties drawing roughly 30 to 100-plus members. Parties are BYOB, with mixers, non-alcoholic drinks, cups and champagne flutes supplied by the hosts, and the group's own security staff checks tickets and IDs at the door. Parties generally run Saturday nights from about 8pm to 2am with a strict arrival window (doors close roughly 90 minutes after opening for a mandatory rules-and-consent orientation), while mixers run shorter early-evening slots. Admission is ticketed and restricted to couples, single women, non-binary attendees, and a limited, gender-balanced number of vetted single men; the exact address of each rented venue is withheld until the morning of the event and sent only to confirmed ticket holders. Dress codes are enforced per event, generally cocktail attire or suits for larger parties and classy-casual for mixers, and refunds are typically available up to a matter of days before an event, minus a processing fee.

Baltimore Playhouse

Baltimore, MD

BDSM Club

Occupying a sprawling 12,000-square-foot industrial space off Washington Boulevard in South Baltimore, Baltimore Playhouse has been Charm City's premier kink destination since 1997. The current location — opened in October 2014 after a fire ended the community's previous home — is self-described as the largest known BDSM play space in the United States, a claim that lands credibly the moment you step past the coat check and through the black curtain into the main floor. A capped attendance of 250 per event keeps the energy intimate despite the scale, and Dungeon Monitors patrol throughout, making it as safe as it is sprawling. Organized as a 501(c)(7) non-profit social club, the Playhouse runs on a contributorship model: a $30 annual fee unlocks access to a calendar that fills roughly a year in advance with play parties, educational sessions, and specialty nights hosted by outside groups. For those new to public dungeons, the monthly Kink: First Contact open house — held on the first Friday of most months — requires no contributorship, just an RSVP, and walks newcomers through SSC and RACK basics before opening stations for hands-on exploration until around 11pm. The Playhouse is an NCSF Coalition Partner, and its consent-first culture shows: a formal Consent Incident Report form lives on the website, and safe words (Yellow/Red) are posted and enforced. The space itself accommodates everything from medical and needle play (confined to designated medical areas) to impact, bondage, and group scenes, with cleaning stations and Chux pads distributed throughout. There is no bar — the Playhouse is completely alcohol-free and drug-free, with permanent bans for violations — and there is no walk-in option; names must be on the RSVP list. Regular event entry runs $20-$25, with snacks and soft drinks available from an on-site snack bar.

Club Eden DFW

Euless, TX

Private members-only lifestyle nightclub

Club Eden DFW is the flagship of a small Texas/Oklahoma chain of private members-only lifestyle nightclubs, run out of a 14,000 sq ft suite at 11050 S Pipeline Road in Euless — a half-hour west of downtown Dallas, in the industrial spine between DFW Airport and Arlington. The club is owned and operated by Chris Vee — a former stand-up comedian who built a long second career as "The Swingers Comedian" — and his wife Crissy. Chris took over the venue in around 2013 when it ran as Players DFW NightClub, rebranded it to Club Eden in 2015, and has since expanded the chain to a second location in San Antonio and a third in Oklahoma City, all sharing a single members portal at members.edenclubs.com. Couples in open relationships are the primary audience; the marketing language extends explicitly to the LGBT lifestyle as well. The house tagline is "Where couples come to play," and the club is careful to note publicly that it "does not provide adult entertainment" — the legal framing required to keep the on-premise side of the operation working. The venue itself is the size of a small commercial nightclub. The main floor runs a large dance floor with multiple stripper poles, shadow boxes, a cage, and big TV displays cycling music videos; live bands and DJs trade nights, with the music skewing urban and high-energy. Four semi-private and four private play rooms sit just off the dance floor, along with a dedicated BDSM room equipped with a St. Andrew's Cross, spanking bench and bondage frame. Pool tables, a photo booth, VIP couch lounges and a large VIP party area for 20-plus people fill out the social space. A full kitchen serves food throughout the night, and the patio out back carries an above-ground pool, two hot tubs, fire pits and the smoking area. The chain is BYOB at its Texas locations — no liquor licence, no in-house bar service, just ice and mixers behind a setup counter; OKC runs differently with a full bar. Next door at Suite #100 sits Infliction Hall, the chain's BDSM-focused sister venue under the same ownership; Club Eden members get free cover for Infliction Hall events for a year. Pricing is tiered three ways — by night, by gender, and by membership level. Daily door (which includes a one-night membership) runs $35 Wednesday through $95 Saturday for couples, $15–$35 for single women, and a deliberately steep $60–$200 for single men. The annual ladder runs from $250 a year for Couples VIP or Female Platinum up to $6,500 a year for Male Platinum, with Couples Platinum and Platinum Plus tiers between ($3,000 and $5,000). Single men admitted on a couple's ticket must arrive, stay and depart with that couple — a strict couples-led gate the club enforces explicitly. Hours run Wednesday through Saturday only, opening at 9pm and pushing later as the week progresses (Wed close 1am, Thu 2am, Fri 3am, Sat 4am). The weekly programme is unusually structured — Wednesday is "Play More Party" night; Thursdays rotate "Karaoke Thursday" with "All Kinks Thursday" (rope, impact, edge play, dom/sub, CD/trans, pet play, leather); Fridays rotate Topless / Sybian / G-String / Poly Glamorous over four-week cycles; Saturdays each carry their own themed party (Bad Ass Bitches & Bikers, Sexy Cowgirls & Outlaws with a live country band, Lifestyle Barbie, Risque Rave, Toga Glow and dozens more). The crowd reads about 4.4/5 across Google's 171 reviews and the Chamber of Commerce's 143, with the consistent praise notes being clean facilities, friendly staff and the chain's drama-free, consent-forward house culture.

Sultry Sarah's Social Club

St. Louis, MO

Social Club

Sultry Sarah's Social Club is a membership-based lifestyle social club serving the St. Louis, Missouri area, operating since 2017 under the tagline "Where Consent Meets Connection." Rather than running from a single fixed clubhouse, the group holds its flagship parties at a rented downtown venue and supplements them with separate off-premise mixers, and describes itself as welcoming to every gender and sexual orientation. The flagship event, the Sultry Soirée, is held at 1428 North Broadway in downtown St. Louis, a stand-alone location with its own private, security-patrolled parking lot. Guests navigate consent through a color-coded wristband system — green, yellow, red, and a rainbow band for bisexual or all-gender play — that can be swapped throughout the night. Personal photography is banned throughout the venue, and phones must stay out of play areas. Soirées run roughly 8pm to 2am on Saturdays. Entry is membership-gated rather than a simple door fee: minimum dues start at $20 a month and rise through several tiers to an optional $1,000 lifetime membership. Where tickets are sold on top of membership, listed admission is $75 for single men, $60 per couple, and $25 for single women. All attendees must be 21 or older, show photo ID, and sign a membership waiver at the door.

Off-Premise Club

Top Floor is a curated, consent-forward erotic community and play party that unfolds across three interconnected penthouse suites in New York City's Lower East Side. The venue spans multiple suites with a dance floor, bars, a serenity room staffed by a licensed on-site medic, and sweeping 100-foot outdoor balconies running front to back. Hosts and trained Guardians, connected by radio, circulate throughout the night; there are no VIP sections, and the crowd — drawn from a carefully vetted member base — skews toward those who take consent as seriously as pleasure. Entry is by application only: prospective members submit a form, locate a hidden word embedded in the community rules, and complete a 30-minute vibe-check Zoom before being accepted. Members gain access to WhatsApp groups, monthly Signature Weekend events, kink-forward MARKED nights, and BI-SENSUAL gatherings open to vetted non-members. Membership starts at a sliding-scale quarterly contribution (Standard tier: $180); event tickets are purchased separately. The safety framework is unusually rigorous: all attendees — whether or not they plan to play — must submit verified STI results within three months (HIV-1/2, syphilis, gonorrhea, chlamydia) via a HIPAA-compliant portal. Condoms are required for penetration unless partners are fluid-bonded. An independent Consent Director reviews all incident reports, with a third-party auditor conducting quarterly integrity checks.

Forbidden Omaha

Omaha, NE

On-Premise Club

Forbidden Omaha is a members-only lifestyle club operating from a private, upscale 3,000-square-foot property in Omaha, Nebraska. Billed as "Nebraska's Premier Lifestyle Club," it describes itself as a theme-centric, community-oriented space for open-minded couples and singles rather than a walk-in venue, and has operated under new ownership since December 2021. The club draws a mixed crowd spanning roughly age 21 to their 70s, and welcomes newcomers alongside longtime lifestyle participants, including those interested in BDSM, provided they remain respectful of others who are not. The venue does not hold a liquor license and runs BYOB, with ice provided on-site; there is no public bar. House policy sets a 45-minute play-time limit per private room to keep spaces available, and an open floor policy permits play in communal areas — on couches, benches and seating — after 11pm, alongside an open-door/curtain culture for guests who enjoy watching or being watched. Photography is prohibited on the open floor to protect member privacy, and the club maintains an on-site gallery of approved images rather than public photos of parties in progress. Parties run every Saturday night, with entry from 9pm and hours extending to 2:30am (seasonally adjusted, e.g. summer hours to 2am); no entry is permitted after 11pm. The club is closed to the general public and requires prior approval — first-time guests must register an account and submit links to social media or lifestyle-site profiles (Facebook, Instagram, Fetlife, etc.) for verification before being cleared to purchase a pass and attend. Single men and single women are both admitted, subject to the same rules as everyone else. Passes and membership purchases are non-refundable and non-transferable, and must be completed by 6pm on the day of an event.

Lifeinstyle STL

St. Louis, MO

Event Organizer

Lifeinstyle STL is a St. Louis-based swinger and open-minded couples community founded in February 2016 by a couple who identify as Em and Lu. The group has no permanent clubhouse; it runs a rotating calendar of private parties at bars, restaurants and hotels around St. Louis, with larger takeover weekends staged farther afield at Lake of the Ozarks and other Midwest destinations. Membership is restricted to verified, approved accounts -- the group states that safety is its top priority and that it "carefully verifies all new members" and "never accepts fake profiles." Programming spans low-key monthly meet-and-greets at rotating St. Louis venues -- recent examples include a western-themed night at Shamrock's Pub downtown and a swimsuit party at Chapter 3 in Soulard -- up to full hotel takeovers built around themes such as a UV-lit Neon Glow party, Halloween, Valentine's and New Year's Eve. Its flagship event is National Swingers Weekend (NSW), a multi-night lakefront resort takeover at Lake of the Ozarks now in its seventh year, with daily pool parties, themed nights and DJs. The community also runs a blog, a "Swingz" podcast, a members' forum and chat, and its own branded lingerie and party-apparel shop. Attendance skews toward couples and single women; single men can attend only through a separate, more selective single-male account tied to specific events, and organizers note that first-timers typically make up 20-30% of guests at meet-and-greets. Entry to any party requires a pre-approved Lifeinstyle account, with approvals generally taking one to four days and granted at the administrator's discretion; door sales and on-site approvals are not permitted. Dress code defaults to cocktail attire unless a party carries its own theme. Some hotel takeovers, including the Neon Glow Party, are advertised as BYOB, and recent per-couple pricing has run from roughly $24.99-$28 for bar meet-and-greets (with single ladies often admitted free) up to about $79 per couple for hotel takeovers; tickets are non-refundable within 15 days of an event.

Karizma Social Club

Glen Gardner, NJ

Social Club

Tucked into the rolling countryside of Hunterdon County, Karizma Social Club has established itself as New Jersey's premier on-premise lifestyle destination. The facility spans 7,800 square feet of interior space — part of an 11,500 sq ft building set on 4 acres — housing a full-service BYOB bar (mixers provided, barkeepers on hand), a DJ-driven dance floor active on Saturday nights, a game area with pool table, air hockey, darts, and arcade games, plus several lounge areas and a mix of open, semi-private, and private play rooms. A covered outdoor area handles smokers, and a free paved parking lot serves the property. Hotel discounts and a paid shuttle service to and from the Hampton Inn — within 5 miles — round out the practical amenities. The schedule runs on a consistent rhythm: Saturdays year-round (8pm–5am, bar until 3am) and the 1st and 3rd Fridays of each month (9pm–3am). Approved single gentlemen are permitted on the 3rd Saturday only, and in limited numbers. New members receive a mandatory orientation tour of the club before their first event. In over four and a half years of operation, the club reports having closed unexpectedly only a handful of times. Karizma draws members from across New Jersey, New York, and Pennsylvania, positioning itself as an upscale nightclub-style experience rather than a casual house party. The minimum age is 24. Membership is for couples (male/female) or singles, with annual and monthly dues options; all fees are paid in person — no online payments accepted. The exact address is released only after membership approval.

Richmond Rondezvouz

Richmond, VA

Event Organizer

Richmond Rondezvouz for Swingers is a Richmond, Virginia-based adult lifestyle group that organizes private parties rather than operating out of a fixed clubhouse. Run by a host couple and cross-listed on the SwingLifestyle platform under the handle swingcouple96, the group holds swinger parties at rotating private residences at least twice a month, along with occasional bi-oriented gatherings and peep-show style events. The group describes itself as welcoming to all attendees. Host locations typically include a private home with a heated pool, hot tub, large deck and covered patio, and a dedicated play area; one recurring venue also has a fenced backyard, an outdoor shower and a port-a-potty for guests who wish to camp overnight. Food and non-alcoholic drinks are supplied by the hosts, while alcohol is strictly BYOB; showers, towels, soap and wipes are provided on site for cleanup after play. Attendance is by confirmed RSVP only — prospective guests email the organizers with the names of everyone attending, and the party address is released only after confirmation; no one is admitted who is not on the guest list, and all attendees must be 21 or older. Admission is cash-only ($50 for couples and single men, $10 for single women), with a $20 late-registration fee for RSVPs submitted after the same-day cutoff. A dress code bars hats, hoodies, tank tops, sportswear and work boots at regular parties (dedicated pool parties are clothing-optional), and house rules ban photography without consent, prohibit illegal drugs and any pay-for-play activity, and require single men to approach the male half of a couple first rather than the female half alone.

Club Dalliance

Columbia, SC

On-Premise Club

Club Dalliance is a private members-only lifestyle nightclub at 911A First Avenue South in Columbia, South Carolina, tucked into an industrial park just off I-77 and Bluff Road — close enough to the interstate that GPS regulars know to type in "1100 First Ave South" instead, because the venue's own address sometimes refuses to register. Self-billed as "The Sexiest Night Club in South Carolina" under the tagline "It's A Lifestyle," the club runs as a dance-and-social venue rather than a sauna or play-room sprawl — 3,000 square feet of upscale nightclub on a single floor, with a 16'-by-20' dance floor at the centre, a full light show and smoke machine, a stripper pole, a cage, and a "Shadow Box" performance stage that reviewers in the South Carolina lifestyle community consistently single out as the club's signature feature ("one of the highlights of the club with amazing sexual acts displayed there"). Resident DJ Wilmar plays current hits and classics, takes requests, and runs the night's rhythm. A "Birthday Dance" at 11pm is the club's recurring marquee moment — guests are expected to be in the room by then. The schedule is twice a month, on the 2nd and 4th Saturday, 9pm–2am ("sometimes later if the feeling is right"). Door is 21+ with a valid photo ID — no exceptions — and entry is cash-only. Pricing tiers heavily favour the audience the club is built around: $50 for couples, $10 for single women, $90 for single men, with a one-time $10 annual membership purchased at the door on first visit. Single men are admitted only when escorted by a couple or a single female (one single male per couple maximum), which keeps the floor at the gender balance the regulars expect. The club is BYOB throughout — no liquor sold, no licence — but Dalliance lays on complimentary sodas, bottled water, ice, snacks and appetizers, so the only thing guests carry in is their bottle. Smoking is outdoor-only. Phones go off in the public areas (the regulars on TikTok call it a "no-phone party"). Dress code is enforced firmly enough that it appears on every page of the welcome material — "Dress to Impress," sexy for ladies, nice shirt, shoes and pants for men, never flip-flops, never sagging, never sleeveless. Themed parties run on top of the base format with their own codes — recent calendars include the White Party (summer kickoff), Neon Glow, Cinco de Mayo, Men's Shirt Party and a Pajama-coded social. The venue also runs a free intimate photography room: the in-house photographer Don shoots private sessions, and guests bring their own SD card to take the photos home before the lights come up. SDC.com lists the club at 4 out of 5 stars across 8 reviews. No pool, no hot tub, no sauna, no showers, no lockers — this is a dance-and-social club, end of story, and the regular crowd treats the floor as the play.

FuseX Social Club - South Dakota Chapter

Unverified

Sioux Falls, SD

Social Club

FuseX Social Club is a private, approval-only lifestyle organization operating its South Dakota chapter from Sioux Falls with no fixed address — events rotate among confidential venues including hotel takeovers, luxury house parties, and invitation-only mansion events. The SD chapter runs approximately three hosted events per year locally; many Sioux Falls members also attend the larger Minneapolis chapter. Every applicant undergoes a formal interview, a national criminal background check, and must sign binding NDA and non-liability agreements before event details are shared. The membership skews toward working professionals — lawyers, physicians, executives — with income requirements (couples: $225,000+ combined; single males: $115,828+). Lifestyle interests span swinging, cuckolding, hotwifing, BDSM, polyamory, and voyeurism. In a conservative-state context, the club positions itself as the discreet alternative; members frequently travel to Minneapolis for higher-attendance events. At events, the format is social first: couples mingle and dance before play areas open, and participation is always voluntary. Dress code is enforced. Membership tiers range from $2,900 to $25,000/year plus per-event costs; single women receive free Platinum membership. Approximately one in four applications is approved.

Choice Social Club

Providence, RI

On-Premise Club

Choice Social Club is New England's flagship on-premise lifestyle club, occupying 8,000 square feet behind a red door in a Providence industrial neighborhood on Porter Street. Inside the contrast is sharp: warm-toned lounges furnished in leather, a dance floor with a video wall and stripper pole, a BYOB bar, and a backyard patio that opens for summer events. The building's 14 themed playrooms include a voyeur chamber with a one-way window, a schoolhouse room, a massage room, a blacklight room, a glory hole room, and a group room with an L-shaped multi-bed layout. A dedicated BDSM corner houses St. Andrew's crosses and sawhorse equipment. Staff change sheets between uses throughout the night. Membership and pricing have two layers. Annual memberships run $45 for couples ($250 premium), $40-65 for single women, and a $100 introductory rate for single men, who face a 3-4 month waitlist given strict ratio management. Per-event admission adds $90 for couples, $100 for single men, and $5 for single women. First-timers receive a complimentary trial membership. Events run Saturdays 9 pm to 2 am with themed nights rotating through the calendar; a Ropes class runs on the third Thursday at 7 pm. The BYOB system works by handing bottles to staff at check-in labelled with your membership number and requesting drinks at the bar all night with the club supplying mixers and ice. Playroom etiquette follows a plastic-chain signal system: chain on the door means open to observation or polite requests to join; door open and unchained means people may ask; curtain or door closed means full privacy. The crowd runs approximately 90% couples with an average age of 35-45, and the single-male quota is actively controlled to keep the balance couples-focused. The club has operated under Red Door Operations, LLC since 2009; a COVID closure prompted a 2021 GoFundMe by owner Jim Knaus that raised over $5,000 before reopening.

On-Premise Club

TNT's Playground is a members-only lifestyle party venue in South Amboy, New Jersey, drawing couples and singles from across the tri-state area for high-energy parties in what regulars call the friendliest environment in the region. The club markets itself equally to first-timers and experienced participants, making inclusivity its primary calling card. Directory listings dating to 2019 describe a reliably packed house with strong post-event word of mouth. The venue operates under the domain tatstitsnsmoke.com — a tongue-in-cheek name that regulars associate with the irreverent, no-pressure vibe rather than any other business. Verified structural details — street address, party schedule, pricing, playroom layout, and entry requirements — are not documented in publicly accessible sources at time of research. The website was inaccessible and the club does not appear in major lifestyle directories such as SDC, SLS, or Kasidie.

Club Iniquity

Houghton Lake, MI

On-Premise Club

Club Iniquity bills itself as "The Great Lake's Premier Swinger's Club," though it isn't a fixed venue in the traditional sense — it's a Michigan-based lifestyle community that takes over an entire lakefront resort in Houghton Lake for two-day "Complete Hotel Takeover" parties several times a year. Founded in 2017 as an alternative to the long drive downstate, the club has grown from a local meetup into what it calls one of the most respected lifestyle communities in the Midwest, pulling guests from Michigan, Wisconsin, Indiana, Illinois, Ohio and beyond. Each takeover includes beachside rooms, a clothing-optional pool and hot tub area, and a full slate of themed playrooms — recent events have featured a Group Fantasy Playroom, a Kink Fantasy Playroom, and "Steve's Den of Iniquity," a dedicated BDSM space. Weekends follow a set rhythm: a Friday welcome reception and potluck family feast, an orientation-style welcome presentation from hosts Jeff and Jenn, and a clothing-optional pool party running late into the night. Saturdays bring "Exploring the Lifestyle" discussion sessions (on topics like communication, consent, rope safety, and the emotional side of non-monogamy), a group dinner at the hotel restaurant, a themed room-decorating contest and room crawl, and a dance party with DJ Sexy Jeff running to midnight. Packages are all-inclusive — accommodations, party admission, workshops, breakfast and late-night snacks are bundled into one price, with no add-on fees. The club markets itself as drama-free and judgment-free, welcoming newcomers and seasoned swingers alike, with a strict "no means no" policy and rules against photography in shared party spaces. Single men are admitted only by prior approval, capped at roughly a 1:20 ratio against couples, and must hold a paid SLS (SwingLifestyle) profile at least a year old. All events are designated official SLS events, and all hotel bookings must go through the Club Iniquity website rather than the hotel directly, keeping the guest list within its vetted community.

Electricity Social Club

Providence, RI

On-premise lifestyle / swinger club

Electricity Social Club occupies a loft-style space inside Atlantic Mill, a historic industrial complex in the Olneyville neighborhood of Providence, at 122 Manton Avenue — Right Tower, 2nd Floor. From the outside the building reads as a plain old factory, with no signage pointing to what's inside. The interior opens into a spacious loft-fitted club with a dance floor, a stripper pole, a full sound and light system, a BYOB bar stocked with mixers, lockers, and a dedicated smoking lounge. It is an on-premise, members-only lifestyle venue and one of the most talked-about lifestyle clubs in New England. The club runs Friday and Saturday nights from 9 pm to 2 am, with specialty events — including a bi- and pansexual-friendly Bi Voltage night — on the calendar. All guests must hold an annual membership (available at the door) and pay a per-party entry fee; valid photo ID is required at every visit. The crowd skews toward couples and single men, with reviewers placing the typical age range in the forties to fifties, though visitors span their twenties to late sixties. The atmosphere is described as laid-back and friendly, with action picking up after 11 pm. The play areas cover a wide range of preferences: a large main group room with couches ringing a dance floor and stripper pole; a small dungeon stocked with a rack, sawhorse, and floggers; a side room with beds and fresh linens; exhibitionist beds in a hallway where a velvet rope signals openness to company; and approximately ten fully private, attendant-managed playrooms. The club is BYOB — bring your own alcohol, free mixers provided — and is cash-only at the door. ESC describes itself as on-premise and welcoming to LGBTQ, pansexual, and bi-friendly guests.

The Riverside Club

Gallipolis Ferry, WV

On-Premise Club

Set along Huntington Road in the small Mason County community of Gallipolis Ferry, The Riverside Club bills itself as West Virginia's #1 lifestyle club — a members-only, on-premise venue open to couples, single women, and a select number of single men. The space includes a dance floor, a stripper cage, a BYOB self-serve bar, multiple private playrooms, lockers (bring your own lock), and a hot tub. Complimentary soft drinks and food are included with entry, keeping the vibe more house-party than nightclub. Parties run every Saturday night from 9pm to 3am, with recurring themed nights — Blacklight Party, Red Dress Night, and Fishnet Night among them — plus annual events like the Christmas Party and New Year's Eve celebration. Membership costs $50 per year for couples, single men, and single ladies alike. New members register and verify online, then confirm their ID and pay on the first visit. All guests must be 21 or older. The crowd spans a wide range of ages and backgrounds, and first-timers consistently describe the owners, staff, and regulars as exceptionally welcoming. Single ladies are treated as honored guests; the rules explicitly flag that stalking or harassment of single women can result in permanent membership suspension. Smoking is permitted outside only, and the club asks all guests to keep voices down outdoors out of respect for the neighborhood.

Club Eros

Unverified

Cleveland, OH

On-Premise Club

Club Eros occupies a sprawling 15,000-square-foot industrial-chic space tucked behind gated access on E. 33rd Street in Cleveland's St. Clair–Hamilton corridor — the only female-owned adult lifestyle club in the Midwest, run by owner Jenny, who has been hosting events for over 15 years. The main floor delivers a full nightclub experience: a DJ booth with professional sound and light show, a full-service BYOA bar with complimentary juices, sodas, and premium energy drinks, a pool table, intimate lounge seating, and a complimentary buffet on Saturday nights. A couples-only lounge with its own play area provides a quieter retreat, and a movie theater area rounds out the social zones before guests head deeper into the club. The play wing spans 20 rooms: voyeur and exhibition rooms, a kink and bondage room, a dedicated pleasure-swing room, couples glory-hole rooms, private rooms, and a first-timers tour led by staff on arrival. Membership is required — one-night passes run $20 for couples; quarterly memberships are $35 for couples or single males and $25 for single ladies. Standard Saturday door fees are $69 for couples and $20 for single ladies; single males must qualify through CockFest or Club Cougar intake events, or attend daytime Tryst sessions. Eros stands apart on scale, polish, and inclusivity: its member base spans couples and singles across straight, gay, bi, and queer identities; attendance on a typical Saturday runs 60–100 with themed nights drawing up to 250. The all-inclusive door fee covers linens, wipes, condoms, buffet, and soft-drink mixers. Doors open at 9 PM on Saturdays with events running to 3 AM, and the large gated lot with on-site security makes parking straightforward.

Richmond Sauna

Richmond, ME

Bath House

Tucked into the woods off Dingley Road in Richmond, Maine, the Richmond Sauna has been welcoming a diverse mix of guests since 1976. Founded by Richard Jarvi — a Finnish-heritage engineer who built the concrete block bathhouse by hand, crafting his own wood stoves from scrap metal — the property has evolved from a pure Finnish sauna tradition into a clothing-optional retreat that pairs authentic wood-fired heat with a heated indoor pool, a large outdoor hot tub, and a sunning lawn available seasonally from May through November. Management has passed to founder's son Donald in recent years, and a 2025 TripAdvisor reviewer noted the new ownership has made "dramatic changes, all for the better," with updated rooms and a noticeably cleaner property. The schedule runs Wednesday through Sunday, with evening sauna and hot tub access from 6pm to 10pm year-round, and daytime pool and lawn access Tuesday through Sunday from 10am to 4pm during the warmer season. Guests choose between a community sauna at $40 per person or a semi-private sauna at $50; advance reservations are recommended for semi-private rooms. The 1800s colonial house on the property offers six guest rooms — including an efficiency apartment with a private entrance and kitchenette — with sauna access included in the overnight rate. Rooms are equipped with A/C and WiFi. The vibe is firmly clothing-optional rather than nudist in the traditional sense: reviewers describe it as laid-back and welcoming, with a loyal crowd of regulars alongside curious newcomers. The property functions as a neutral meeting ground for open-minded couples visiting the area, with the atmosphere more rustic Maine retreat than polished resort. Its location just over 20 minutes from Augusta and 40 minutes from Portland makes it one of the most accessible clothing-optional destinations in New England.

Club Escape

Cleveland, OH

On-Premise Club

Club Escape sits on Lakeside Avenue East about five minutes east of downtown Cleveland, tucked into a converted building near the Flats with parking monitored by an attendant. Under couple ownership, the club has repositioned itself as one of Ohio leading on-premises lifestyle venues, drawing a mix of couples and singles all 21 and over. The venue footprint includes eight private themed playrooms, two large open group areas, a group shower room, an erotic black-light lounge, two massage tables, male and female glory holes, and a pool table. The club is BYOB: no alcohol is sold on site, but complimentary soft drinks and mixers are provided alongside a free buffet each night. DJs spin Top 40 and throwback tracks Wednesday through Saturday. The schedule runs three nights a week: Wednesdays (7:30pm-midnight) carry the lowest entry prices; Fridays and Saturdays (8pm-2am) are the main events, with themed parties ranging from BDSM education nights to glow parties. Couples pay $45-65 cash on weekends, single females $10-30, and single males $55-80.

On-Premise Club

Sitting on Zion Street in Hartford's West End, Leisure Time Club has been the cornerstone of New England's lifestyle scene since the early 1980s — now in its 44th year of continuous operation and widely cited as the longest-running swingers club in the United States. The venue spans three floors, opening each Saturday at 9 pm to a crowd of couples and single women who come for a reliably welcoming, no-pressure atmosphere. Downstairs, a live-DJ dance floor fitted with a stripper pole, professional sound and lighting anchors the social side of the evening; a large lounge area and a fully attended BYOB bar keep the conversational energy flowing between trips upstairs. The upper floors hold five themed recreation rooms — including a private room, a beginners' room, a voyeur room, and open-group spaces — alongside BDSM apparatus, a Tantra chair, two group showers, and towels-and-lockers facilities. Repeat visitors consistently praise the owners for personally welcoming newcomers and making introductions across the room. The atmosphere skews intimate rather than cavernous, with regulars and first-timers mixing easily from their mid-twenties to early sixties. Beyond the weekly Saturday night, Leisure Time runs a monthly Friday-evening Ladies Social, a women-only party for ladies who want to connect, dance and let go. The club draws from across Connecticut and within an hour's drive of Massachusetts, New York, and Rhode Island, giving it a regional catchment that keeps the crowd refreshingly varied. Single males are not admitted at any event. The venue is entirely smoke-free.

Entourage Vegas Spa and Health Club

Las Vegas, NV

Bath House

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Tennessee Temptations

Johnson City, TN

Lifestyle Resort

Tennessee Temptations is a members-only private lifestyle party serving the Tri-Cities region of Northeast Tennessee, centered on Johnson City, rather than a walk-in club with a public storefront. Prospective guests must register for membership through the club's own ticketing site before attending, and the exact venue address is shared only with approved members; the club states plainly that it never advertises its events outside the lifestyle community. Parties are held roughly once a month, with hosts greeting guests on arrival and offering newcomers a tour of the space. The site runs on the shared Modern Lifestyle ticketing platform and also serves as a booking portal for affiliated adult travel brands, including Desire and Temptation resorts, Bliss Cruise, and Hedonism II, though those trips are third-party partner offerings rather than part of the Tennessee Temptations party itself. The party takes place in a private venue of more than 3,000 square feet, built around a large wooden dance floor with professional sound, lighting and a DJ. The main room seats 100-plus guests and includes a stripper pole, while a dedicated on-site playroom is equipped with a swing, a Sybian, and other equipment for couples and singles who want company while they play. A separate private playroom is available for guests who prefer to be left alone together. The event is BYOB, with complimentary non-alcoholic mixers and snacks provided, and out-of-town guests can arrange discounted hotel rooms and shuttle transportation between the host hotel and the party. Entry requires advance membership and is limited to guests 21 and older; couples must arrive and depart together. Single men and single women are given a glow band at check-in that must stay visible all night, and house etiquette only allows singles to approach other guests wearing a matching band color, while couples open to meeting singles wear their own designated blue or pink band. Cameras, camera phones, and voice recorders are banned throughout the venue, and touching another guest without asking consent first is not permitted under any circumstance. The playroom is reserved strictly for play rather than spectating, and entry requires full prior consent from everyone in a guest's own party, even when playing separately; singles may only enter with an inviting couple and must leave when that couple does. Additional house rules prohibit drugs, weapons, prostitution or soliciting, and promoting competing events, and violations can result in immediate expulsion or a permanent ban with no refund of membership fees.

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Colorado Springs is a pre-launch chapter of the Illuminaughty lifestyle network, a members-only community for couples and singles in their 20s-40s. As of mid-2026, no events have yet been held in Colorado Springs — the brand's own site states it is still building its local membership base and will schedule its first party once enough members have signed up. There is no fixed venue: consistent with Illuminaughty's model elsewhere, future events would be hosted at private residences rather than a dedicated clubhouse. Once launched, programming is expected to follow the format used in other Illuminaughty cities: Tease Cocktail Mixers at bars with a reserved private area, and private house parties with themed decor and on-site security, typically drawing 40-80 attendees. Membership is free but requires an application and photo-based approval; approved members get event access through the Illuminaughty mobile app. Because no parties have been scheduled in Colorado Springs, prospective members should apply and RSVP through the official site to be notified once the first event is announced.

Thad's

San Diego, CA

On-Premise Club

Thad's is a long-running, invitation-only swingers club operating from a private residence at 3517 E St in San Diego's Mount Hope neighborhood. The club has operated since 1973, making it one of the longest-running lifestyle clubs in Southern California. There is no online booking or email sign-up — prospective guests call ahead the same evening to speak with a hostess and receive a same-night invitation. The venue operates as an on-premise facility rather than a purpose-built nightclub; one visitor account describes an unassuming, ranch-style house with an old-school, no-frills atmosphere and an active outdoor area. Inside, the layout includes private rooms, group play rooms, a couples-only area upstairs, a dance floor with two poles, a pool table, a swimming pool, a jacuzzi, fire pits, and free lockers. The club provides a self-service bar with cups and ice, but alcohol itself is BYOB. Parties run Wednesday through Saturday evenings, with guests calling ahead to reserve a same-night invitation. The dress code is strict: men must be completely nude and women may wear lingerie or revealing attire, but no street clothes, dresses, or T-shirts. Entry pricing is quoted only by phone and varies with recurring promotions, including an early-bird discount and periodic half-off specials. The upstairs area is reserved for couples and single women — single men are not permitted there under any circumstance — and the club asks single guests to be respectful rather than pushy toward couples or single women.

Swinghearts

Unverified

Whittier, CA

Private Event Host

Swinghearts is a Southern California lifestyle couple — Chris (Swinghearts) and Tonia (MsSwinghearts) — who host swinger and lifestyle parties for couples and select singles in the greater Los Angeles area. The operation rotates through private locations, with addresses disclosed only to pre-screened attendees. The hosts describe their philosophy as drama-free and judgment-free under the motto "Play with the One you Love." Parties are oriented toward couples and select singles; single women have historically been welcomed and comped, while single men are admitted by pre-approval only. Past gatherings have featured themed formats, and confirmed amenities at the last documented event (May 2022, Whittier, CA) include a live DJ, BYOB with mixers provided, food and snacks, lockers, and multiple playrooms. Event announcements are made through the hosts' profiles on Kasidie, SDC, SLS, and Lifestyle Lounge (all under 'Swinghearts') and on Instagram at @swinghearts.cpl and @swinghearts.socal. All attendance is invitation-only with prior contact required. Prospective guests must text 562.230.3195 or email Swingheartz@yahoo.com and include a profile name and a photo to receive a response. The site carries a 'Former Party Host!' label; the last independently confirmed event dates to May 2022, and a June 2024 podcast interview is the most recent indication of continued engagement.

The X Club

Mississauga, Ontario

On-Premise Club

The X Club is a membership-based lifestyle nightclub at 1625 Sismet Road in Mississauga's industrial west end, billing itself as Canada's largest and most elegant venue of its kind. The club has operated for over nineteen years, drawing couples, single women, and pre-screened single men from across the Greater Toronto Area. All guests must be 21 or older; the club describes its typical crowd as ranging from 25 to 60, with the majority in their mid-thirties. A host team greets and tours first-timers, and a Newbie Night runs on the first Friday of each month — no annual membership required that night — offering a guided walkthrough and meet-and-greet with other newcomers. The venue houses two distinct environments under one roof. The main X Club floor is a full-production nightclub with resident DJs spinning Top 40, house, and techno, a full bar, lounge seating, and bottle service spanning Grey Goose to Dom Pérignon. The Mermaid Lounge — which operates under the @xclubmermaid social media brand — offers a spa-styled counterpart with plush seating, a specialty cocktail bar, a Himalayan dry sauna, a steam room, a glass group shower, and a year-round clothing-optional indoor pool. The play space divides into two sections: seven private themed rooms and a kink room (clothing optional, open to all), and an open play area with beds, couches, and an orgy room requiring guests to change into underwear, lingerie, towels, or go nude. Lockers with locks, showers, and towel service are included with all memberships. Regular hours are Friday and Saturday, 9 PM to 3 AM, with the front door closing at 2 AM. Saturdays are reserved exclusively for couples and single women. Single men are welcome on Fridays only, capped at fifteen per night, and are barred from the open play area on standard Fridays; this restriction is lifted on Freaky Friday (last Friday of each month). The calendar also includes weekday and Sunday events, sold-out themed Super Parties for New Year's Eve, Halloween, and St. Patrick's Day, and dedicated LGBTQIA2S+ programming including Pride nights and T-girl events. A monthly off-site social called The X Munch is held the last Thursday of each month at Capone's Cocktail Lounge. Photography, videography, and recording are prohibited throughout the venue except in a designated photo booth area; consent is mandatory throughout.

NYX Lounge

Oakville, Ontario

On-Premise Club

NYX Lounge is a members-only adult lifestyle and swinger club occupying a commercial unit at 407 Speers Road in Oakville, Ontario — a three-minute drive from the QEW and within easy reach of the GTA’s western corridor, drawing couples and singles from Mississauga, Burlington, Hamilton, and Toronto. The club positions itself as Ontario’s most upscale on-premise lifestyle venue, combining a full licensed nightclub floor with dedicated play spaces under one roof. The main floor centres on a large dance floor ringed by six high-definition screens, three dance poles, professional lighting, and a full club sound system. A staffed bar operates all night, with reserved bottle-service booths available in advance. An upstairs loft overlooks the dance floor below, doubling as a lounge and open-concept play space, while a back playroom off the main floor can run as an open group environment or a more private arrangement. Capacity is 325. Newcomers are paired with a host couple on arrival and given a guided tour. Weekly themed nights — recent examples include Flirty Friday, Latin Night, and Fantasy Friday — rotate through the calendar; the venue is also available for private weeknight rental. NYX runs every Friday and Saturday from 21:00 to 02:00. Membership is required: a Basic annual membership costs C$100 for couples or single men and C$40 for single ladies, with a C$80 one-night guest-pass option for couples. Nightly door fees apply on top — C$40 per couple, free for single ladies on standard nights (Halloween and New Year’s Eve excluded), and C$60 for single men with a valid Basic membership. Elite couples memberships bundle unlimited Friday and Saturday admission for C$500 (six months) or C$800 (one year), with New Year’s Eve and select themed Fridays partially excluded. A signed waiver and valid photo ID are required at entry; waivers can be completed in advance at nyxlounge.com/waiver.

Clubhouse 2050

Indianapolis, IN

On-Premise Club

Sitting just east of downtown Indianapolis on E Michigan Street — about two miles from city center — ClubHouse 2050 is Indiana's longest-running lifestyle members-only club, housed in a building with an eclectic past (members note it was once a funeral home, which only adds to its mystique). The ground floor is laid out like a social club: a sports bar, dance floor, card room, and game room all feed into a play area with curtained semi-private spaces. Upstairs, private and semi-private rooms are available for couples and groups, outfitted with fresh linens and stocked with convenience baskets. What sets ClubHouse 2050 apart is the breadth of its membership. Less than half of the crowd are full swingers; the rest are voyeurs, exhibitionists, BDSM and FetLife regulars, and vanilla couples who enjoy a flirtatious, no-judgment atmosphere. The club runs weekly events every Friday and Saturday (8pm–2am), leaning into themed nights that vary by the interests of those who show up. It is BYOB with no bar tab, and the flat $50 Saturday entry and roughly $30 Friday fee make it one of the most affordable on-premise clubs in the region. Paid members also unlock a full online community: photo sharing, direct messaging, and live video chat. The club partners with a sister venue, ClubhousePandora.com near Anderson Casino, and curates a calendar of lifestyle travel events for members seeking experiences beyond Indianapolis.

Sandy Bottoms Resort

Barrie, Ontario

Lifestyle Resort

Sandy Bottoms Resort is a clothing-optional couples retreat and lifestyle swingers destination set on over ten acres of private forested land in Central Ontario, approximately 230 kilometres from both Toronto and Ottawa. The property sits on its own private spring-fed lake bordered entirely by crown land, leaving no neighbouring cottages with sightlines to the grounds. The resort operates seasonally from late May through mid-October and is affiliated with TABOTA Events, a lifestyle events network. The sandy lakeside beach features lounge chairs, a floating daybed, and a covered dock; non-motorized watercraft — kayaks, canoes, paddleboards, a pedal boat, and a rowboat — are free for guest use. Inland amenities include a heated conversation pool, multiple hot tubs, a trampoline and diving platform, and The Dome, a 1,500-square-foot covered pavilion with a dance floor and stage hosting nightly DJ parties. A BYOB lounge with fireplace, self-catering communal kitchens, a Tiki Bar, beach campfire pit, on-site massage therapy, bikes, and hiking trails complete the property. Accommodation runs from deluxe en-suite rooms with an optional Jacuzzi upgrade and cedar villas with private wooded patios and BBQs, to a Garden Villa with a personal hot tub and outdoor shower, a two-bedroom Casita cabin with a full kitchenette and personal hot tub, cozy cabins with shared washrooms, and tent or RV camping sites. Themed weeks run from late May through mid-October, including Newbies and Nature, Full Moon Beach Bash, Kink Garden week, Oktoberfest, and Halloween Haunt. Regular nightly rates are $229 CAD (Cozy Cabins) and $369 CAD (Deluxe Rooms and Cedar Villas); promotional deals start from $119 CAD per night with a two-night minimum. Booking requires a free access code obtained by emailing the resort; only pre-registered guests are admitted. The resort is strictly couples and single women only — single men are not permitted.

Valentines in Niagara (VIN)

Niagara Falls, Ontario

Event Organizer

Valentines in Niagara (VIN) is an annual lifestyle convention staged in Niagara Falls, Ontario every February, organized by Tabota Events and running continuously since 2007. It operates as a complete hotel takeover of a luxury resort with an enclosed indoor tropical waterpark — the entire property reserved exclusively for attendees — drawing more than 200 couples per year from across Canada and the United States. The event bills itself as Canada's largest swingers lifestyle convention and sells out every year without exception. The host venue is an upscale resort minutes from the falls, with an indoor waterpark featuring a pool, two hot tubs, and poolside lounging, plus award-winning gourmet dining and bistro-style snacks served in a courtyard setting. The weekend runs to more than 20 programmed activities: 60- to 90-minute seminars and workshops — some informational, some with demonstrations, some fully hands-on — on topics including tantric sex, erotic photography, and intimacy skills. Afternoon events include body painting, pole dancing, and a couples speed dating session. Evening entertainment in the Oak Room has featured comedians, burlesque performers, and a hypnotist. Two themed dances anchor the nights: Friday's Red & White Your Hearts Delight party unfolds inside the waterpark itself, and Saturday's Mardi Gras night is the weekend's wildest evening. A vendor marketplace runs throughout, and two dedicated play spaces operate both nights — the Penthouse Playroom for open couples' exploration, and a Kinky Play Area equipped for bondage and sensation play. Pool parties are clothing-optional throughout. The core weekend runs Friday through Saturday, with an optional Thursday night pre-party available as an add-on. Pricing for 2027 in Canadian dollars, excluding HST: an event pass for a couple is CAD $398; pass with two nights in a standard room is CAD $968; poolside or wing-room upgrades add CAD $298; the Thursday pre-party is an additional CAD $229. A mandatory cash-only party credit of $100 per person is collected at check-in and is redeemable for food and drink anywhere in the hotel. Credit card payments carry a 6% surcharge. The event is open to couples and unaccompanied women only — single men are not admitted. Minimum age is 19. Advance booking through tabotaevents.com is required; event-only passes are available for guests staying off-site.

TABOTA Events

Toronto, Ontario

Event Organizer

TABOTA Events is a Toronto-based lifestyle event organizer that has run couples-focused takeovers and getaways across Canada since 2007. Rather than operating a single venue, TABOTA produces a rotating slate of ticketed events, including the Halloween-themed Monster Bash hotel takeover in Niagara Falls, the outdoor Teddy Bare Picnic clothing-optional camping weekend, the Valentines in Niagara convention, and the seasonal Sandy Bottoms Resort in Central Ontario. The company is run by the same team behind The O Zone, an established Toronto swingers club. Each TABOTA event takes over its venue entirely, whether a hotel, campground, or resort, creating an adults-only space with DJ-driven dance floors, themed lounges, clothing-optional pool areas, and dedicated play rooms staffed by event hosts. Photography and phone use are banned in event spaces, and organizers emphasize enthusiastic consent, on-site security, and guest privacy, with pseudonym use common among attendees. Events are couples-only (male-female or female-female pairs); single men are not admitted, though single women may attend select dates. Entry is 19+ and ticketed in advance. Monster Bash pricing, for example, runs from roughly $169 per person for weekend access up to $439 per person for a two-night hotel package, plus tax, with a mandatory per-person credit for food and drinks due at check-in. Tickets are sold through tabotaevents.com and its event-specific sites, and organizers note that events routinely sell out weeks in advance.

CJ's at The Townhouse

Glasgow, Scotland

On-Premise Club

Tucked into a quiet corner of Kelvindale on Glasgow's leafy west side, CJ's at The Townhouse has built a reputation as one of Scotland's most welcoming swingers clubs. The venue spans two floors of a discreet townhouse on Ashburton Road, with a trio of stripper-pole-lined lounges, a self-service bar and a buffet downstairs, and a warren of eight themed playrooms upstairs. Owner CJ personally walks first-timers through the space, and the crowd — a friendly mix of regulars and newcomers, often spanning their late twenties to early sixties — sets a tone that's more living-room than nightclub. Parties run on a tight rhythm: Friday nights (8pm–midnight) are couples and single ladies only; Saturdays (9pm–2am) open the door to a limited number of single men; and once a month, a Wednesday afternoon party (noon–3pm) welcomes everyone. There are also dedicated gay and bi-male nights run under the @cjs4gay banner. Entry is by prior booking only — no walk-ins, no admittance after 11pm — and photo ID (passport, driving licence or utility bill) is required at the door. Dress code is strictly enforced: a sexy little number for the ladies, smart casual or sexy attire for the gents. The playrooms cover everything from a cinema lounge and an open group room to a fully equipped dungeon, a medical-themed private room, a voyeur room, and a couples-and-single-females-only room with a love swing. Phones are off in public areas and cameras are banned outright, which keeps the vibe relaxed and discreet. The "party contribution" at the door covers a buffet plus tea, coffee and soft drinks; alcohol is BYOB with no corkage. Towels and condoms are provided, there's a separate indoor smoking area, and an on-site wardrobe and makeover service is on hand for anyone who wants to dress up before they head in.

BiZarre Events

London, Greater London

BDSM Club

BiZarre Events is a London production company that has run some of the capital's most distinctive alternative play parties, in its own words 'proudly and passionately since 2012.' Founded by Nina and Aidan, it operates as a private members' club rather than a single fixed venue, staging a rotating family of themed nights built around 'Diversity and Inclusion for LGBTQ+ and our Allies.' The flagship BiKINK is pitched as a night 'explicitly for bisexual / LGBTQ+ males and females as well as Trans* or gender-fluid' players; alongside it run PisSoir (an 'ULTIMATE WATERSPORTS' night), Club Labrys (a sex- and body-positive night for women) and Savage Dreams (an alt club for couples). The crowd is described as 'unpretentious, friendly, non-judgemental, respectful and colourful,' welcoming singles, couples 'of any configuration' and poly-groups, and 'seasoned players as well as newbies to the scene.' Parties are held at a 'well-established, internationally famous, purpose-fitted and very luxurious play-space' in North East London, kept discreet and disclosed to members on booking. The organisers describe it as 'extremely well connected' by various bus stops and 'a nearby 24-hour tube / underground line running to and from Central London,' with 'ample available and free parking.' Downstairs holds an elegant reception, a free staffed cloakroom, a bar and an indoor smoking area; upstairs opens onto 'a large, furnished play space, fully equipped with many bespoke pieces.' Unisex shower facilities, toiletries and fresh towels are provided free, and once you are inside the organisers stress that 'EVERYTHING is COMPLETELY FREE.' Security is handled by 'SIA licenced door supervisors' with both female and male crew, in what the club frames explicitly as a 'FEMALE EMPOWERED SAFE-SPACE.' Entry is by prior booking through the club's ticketing system, with booking opening roughly a month before each party. A paid annual membership (£40 per person, valid twelve months) is required at first attendance 'because we are a PRIVATE MEMBERS CLUB,' and admission is charged per event — singles around £70, couples and poly-groups about £50 per person (M/F couples £25 each on a summer promo), paid 'AT THE DOOR in CASH or by CARD,' with student, couples and limited low-income concessions available. Drinks are unusually generous: the club provides 'a very generous amount of alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks for FREE (beer & wine as well as soft drinks),' and members may also BYOB, with glasses and a fridge provided. House rules are firm and consent-led — 'Always! Ask! First!,' never interrupt a scene, ''No' means 'No',' a '100% no-illegal-drugs policy,' and 'absolutely DO NOT allow photography or audio / visual recording of any kind,' with mobile phones banned inside and checked into the cloakroom. Dress code is creative rather than prescriptive: 'leave the everyday street clothes look outside' and be 'APPROPRIATELY DRESSED for the occasion.'

The Playground RI

Providence, RI

Private House Party

The Playground RI is a weekly lifestyle house party run out of a converted three-family home in Providence's Oakland Avenue Historic District, operated by hosts Eddy and Viv Badd of BBadd Entertainment. Spread across four floors and roughly 4,000 square feet, the venue mixes themed social spaces with dedicated play areas: the ground floor opens with a meet-and-greet lounge alongside a Wild West room, a Pirate room, and a kink-themed Red Room. The second floor holds a dance floor with a stripper pole and four more playrooms. The third floor is towel-and-robe only, with two private rooms, a glory hole, and an open group play area; the dungeon is fully equipped with two sex swings, a massage table, a Sybian, and a doctor's office with two exam tables. Saturday nights (8 pm-2 am) are the main weekly event, open to couples, single women, and a limited number of single men (21+), with the host managing ratios carefully. Friday Fusion nights run the same hours but tilt toward BDSM and kink and are open to all genders. The hosts personally tour first-timers through the space, answer questions, and make guests feel at home; reviewers consistently describe the atmosphere as friendly and community-driven rather than nightclub-cold. All parties are BYOB, with ice, refrigerators, snacks, sodas, and water provided at no charge. Every room is stocked with condoms, lube, and clean sheets. Lockers are available on the third floor. The venue is 420-friendly outdoors. Attendance is RSVP-only — no walk-ins; the full address is shared only upon booking confirmation.

Escapades New England

Providence, RI

Event Organizer

Escapades New England is a Providence-based lifestyle event group that has built a loyal following across Rhode Island and Massachusetts since its founding. Rather than operating a fixed club, the organizers take over Platforms Dance Club — a nightclub at 165 Poe St in Providence — for recurring themed parties, blending a nightclub energy with on-site play spaces including an open play area and a dungeon setup within the venue. The calendar runs on two tiers: regular takeover parties throughout the year, priced at $60–80 per couple (never more), and two flagship annual events that draw attendees from across New England. The Annual Midsummer Nights’ Wet Dream Foam Party, held at the end of July, is billed as the largest summer lifestyle event in New England and described by the organizers as a ‘Hedo-style’ party. The Erotic Masquerade Ball follows every September or October. Events are listed and ticketed through the SLS, SDC, and SwingTowns platforms. The organizers emphasize a newcomer-friendly atmosphere, noting they actively work to make first-timers feel at ease — a philosophy shaped by their own experience attending their first party. The ethos is summed up on their site as ‘confidence, class, and respect.’ Payment is accepted as cash or Venmo at the door, and attendees must present a verified screen name from one of the partner lifestyle platforms.

The Pleasure Garden Club

Philadelphia, PA

On-Premise Club

Tucked behind The Purple Orchid at the far end of a Passyunk Avenue strip mall in Philadelphia's Elmwood/Eastwick neighborhood, The Pleasure Garden Club has been one of the city's premier on-premise lifestyle destinations since opening in September 2006. The venue sits behind a gated private parking lot — well-lit and hidden from street view — and a pat-down security check at the door ensures no phones make it inside. With capacity for roughly 300 guests, the space centers on a large dance floor anchored by a stripper pole on a raised platform, flanked by two BYOB juice bars with complimentary mixers, a group shower with towel service, and a bank of lockers (bring your own padlock). Membership is bundled with entry via TicketLeap. Playrooms range from curtained private rooms and an open play pit to a dedicated gangbang room and two Sybian rooms (available for a $20 deposit). A side room off the main dance floor houses a permanent BDSM setup — St. Andrew's cross, a cage, a spiked wood throne with manacles, and suspension rigs — making it a genuine dual-use swinger/kink space. Overflow back rooms unlock on busier nights when the main areas fill up. Fridays (9 pm–2 am) welcome couples, single ladies, and single men; the first Friday of each month is PLEASUREcation, a kink-forward mixed party with dark/rock/EDM music and programming such as rope bondage demos. Saturdays (9 pm–3 am) are couples and single ladies only, with themed nights running the gamut from Mardi Gras to glow and sheer-wear parties.

Le Boudoir Club

London, London

On-Premise Club

Le Boudoir is a members-only lifestyle and ENM (ethically non-monogamous) club operating on Old Castle Street in London’s E1, within walking distance of Aldgate East tube station and a short journey from Liverpool Street. Running since 2015 and hosting over 150 ticketed events a year, the venue requires advance online registration — applicants submit photographs for review, approval is not automatic, and no walk-ins are accepted under any circumstances. The minimum age is 21, with photo ID verified at the door on every night. The club occupies three floors. The ground level holds a fully licensed bar, a DJ booth, a dance pole, and a mezzanine terrace well-suited for socialising and people-watching. The upper floor runs a collection of private lockable rooms — including a mirrored cubby hole, a dark-academia-themed study room, and a large open group room — while the basement functions as a fully fitted dungeon equipped with a St Andrew’s Cross, cage, sex swings, glory holes, and curtained alcove beds. Bathrooms are available on every floor and lockers are provided. Phones are surrendered at check-in and held until the end of the evening; reviewers consistently credit this policy with maintaining a crowd — predominantly working professionals in their mid-thirties — that is polite, unhurried, and non-pushy. Events run on Thursdays and most Fridays and Saturdays. Thursday sessions typically run 19:00–23:30 and are themed around hotwife and couples events, with a limited number of single men admitted; Friday and Saturday parties run 21:30–03:00, with Saturdays reserved for couples and single women only. Entry is by pre-purchased ticket only, sold through the club’s website and Eventbrite; tickets are non-refundable and carry a £30 transfer fee. The bar is fully licensed — outside alcohol is not permitted — with cocktails priced around £15 and bottled water around £3. A £20 refundable cash deposit is collected at the door for locker use. Dress code is strictly enforced: smart-sexy attire is required, with formal dark trousers, collared shirts, and dress shoes for men, and lingerie or quality dresses with appropriate footwear for women; multiple categories of casualwear are explicitly prohibited at the door.

Camelot Social Club

Charlotte, NC

Event Organizer

Camelot Social Club is a Charlotte, North Carolina lifestyle organization built around monthly hotel-takeover parties rather than a fixed clubhouse. Founded to bring the swinging lifestyle "back stronger than ever" to the Charlotte area, the group holds affordable, safe, and controlled parties where couples and like-minded singles can dress as sexy as they want and socialize freely. Events rotate through area hotels and venues — recent parties have included takeovers at properties like the Comfort Inn in Kings Mountain, NC — with themed nights such as the "Erotic Summer Luau," a tropical-attire party pairing a room block with an evening of lifestyle socializing. The club's long-term goal is to establish a permanent, on-premises venue that members can call home; in the meantime, it relies on turnout and word-of-mouth at its monthly events to build toward that goal. Entry to events requires a signed liability waiver on file for every attendee, completed once via an online SmartWaiver form before a person's first party, and tickets are typically sold in advance online. Camelot Social Club maintains an active web presence with a running events calendar, a news/updates section, and a links/deals page for partner venues and discounts. The organization is reachable by email and Instagram rather than a listed phone line, and communicates event logistics — including hotel booking links and room blocks — directly through individual event pages on its site.

IntimatePartiesGroup (IPG)

New York, NY

Event Organizer

IntimatePartiesGroup (IPG) is a Northeast-based lifestyle event production outfit run by couple-hosts Maddy and Joe, drawing on a roster of experienced DJs, performers, comics, and venue operators whose sensibility blends Brazilian, Latin, Caribbean, and American swinger culture. Rather than maintaining a fixed club, IPG takes over entire hotels -- typically in Scranton, PA, conveniently off Highway 81 -- for full two-day weekends, regularly drawing 150-200 couples per event. Hotel room blocks are negotiated at roughly $119-139 per night with a two-night minimum, and the hotel staff are described as extremely lifestyle friendly. The all-day format means guests checking in Friday afternoon have access to the heated indoor pool and surrounding amenities well before the night main events begin. Each event weekend follows a structured rhythm. Friday evening opens with naughty trivia (6:30-7:45 PM), a meet-and-greet, then a DJ dance party running to midnight, followed by a pool party until 2-3 AM. Saturday layers on afternoon speed dating, kink demos, poolside games, and Swingo (a bingo variant), before a pre-party gathering at 6 PM and a main event -- typically a comedy show or costumed contest -- at 8:45 PM sharp, with themed playrooms and a potluck after-party floor-crawl from midnight onward, closing with a pool-and-desserts wind-down at 4 AM. The crowd skews friendly and repeating; reviews consistently flag the hosts personal floor presence and the unusually respectful atmosphere among attendees. Preference bracelets issued at check-in (green: full swap; yellow: soft swap; purple: tame; red: bisexual) take the guesswork out of navigation. IPG also co-hosts at external venues, including a recurring bi/lingerie night at The Kink Lair, and an annual Pride Fest kink/fetish hotel takeover.

Club AntiChrist

London, London

Fetish Club Night

Club AntiChrist launched in 2004 under promoter d.Void at Camden's Electric Ballroom, before being relaunched in 2007 by Missy with a full multi-room format that included five live bands and several dancefloors. Over the following years it moved through a string of London venues — Colosseum, Electrowerkz, Fire, and others — before settling at Scala, the 1920s-built former cinema at 275 Pentonville Road in King's Cross. Self-billed as ‘Goth Fetish Industrial Metal Mayhem,’ the night draws from overlapping worlds of metal, goth, industrial music, performance art, and fetish subculture. Queer-friendly and inclusive by design, it marked its 21st year in 2025 and is one of London's longest-running alternative events. Scala's multi-floor layout accommodates five distinct zones. Three dancefloors cover different sonic territories: The Hole runs metal, the Hellfire Room handles goth, post-punk, and dark electro, and The Foyer covers 80s and new romantic sounds and hosts a shibari corner. The Theatre of Sin stages live bands and continuous performances — fire acts, aerial work, burlesque, comedy, and cabaret — throughout the night. The Dungeon is a purpose-fitted BDSM play space equipped by Benchmarxxx with a St Andrew's Cross, spanking benches, a gynae chair, and a swing; experienced Dungeon Monitors wearing flashing lanyards supervise throughout and may halt unsafe play. A separate dark playroom offers more privacy for couples and groups. An outdoor garden provides a retreat, hot food is served on-site, and the building has gender-neutral toilets, a cloakroom, and ATMs. Events run roughly five to six times per year at Scala, typically themed — a birthday party each June, vampire balls in September, a ‘Not NYE’ party in early January, and occasional themed specials. Doors open at 9pm; last entry is at 2am and the venue runs until 6am. Advance tickets are sold via Dice.fm at approximately £36.50 per person (prices vary by tier and event); door entry is £40 cash. All attendees must be 18 or over and present original physical photo ID — driving licence, passport, or PASS hologram card; digital copies are refused. An enforced alternative dress code requires goth, punk, fetishwear, PVC, rubber, lace, cosplay, or similar; the stated minimum is ‘Alt-Comfortable: combats, band tee, boots.’ Street clothes, regular denim, white trainers, and standard suits are refused at the door.

On-Premise Club

Happy Hedonist is a lifestyle club that has catered to swingers, voyeurs, and exhibitionists in the Greater Toronto Area since the early 1990s. Operating as an upscale on-premise swinger club, it built a following as one of the largest lifestyle venues in southern Ontario, welcoming couples and select single players through a community that blended online engagement — chat rooms, contact ads, and message boards — with weekly on-site parties. The club's home was Jeanie's, a licensed venue at 5977 Dixie Road in Mississauga, where it occupied more than 10,000 square feet across two levels. The space featured two bars, a licensed smoking patio, and a seasonal outdoor play area included in general admission at no extra charge. Staff were noted for welcoming newcomers with guided walk-throughs, and the club consistently emphasised making first-timers feel comfortable alongside experienced regulars. Weekly parties ran on Fridays (doors at 9:30 pm) and Saturdays (doors at 9:00 pm). The club announced a move to an undisclosed larger location, but no confirmed new address has been publicly identified. As of August 2026, the original Dixie Road premises have been taken over by unrelated businesses, and the club's website is non-functional.

Mint Tease

London, London

Pop-Up Event Series

Mint Tease is the play-party arm of Mint Events London, a queer women's events brand founded in 2006 by Nicola Chubb. Known as the promiscuous wing of the long-running Mint brand, it operates as a roving East London pop-up rather than at a fixed address: a series of periodic erotic events staged in private, unlisted venues and designed exclusively for queer women, femmes, thems, non-binary guests, and bi and curious women. The format sits at a studied remove from the conventional sex-club aesthetic — events are curated around comfort, consent, and community as much as play, drawing a crowd spanning ages and experience levels, from first-timers to Mint regulars. Recent editions have taken over The Old Dispensary at 19a Leman Street, East London (E1 8EN), a multi-floor space a short walk from Aldgate East and Liverpool Street stations. Three floors carry a cocktail bar with DJ sets, a ground-floor social and performance area, private playrooms, an open playroom with antique furnishings and fireplaces, and a fully equipped BDSM dungeon with suspension apparatus. On-site dominatrices facilitate activities and offer orientations for newcomers; the atmosphere is described as relaxed and consent-centred. Mint Tease events run periodically through the year — there is no fixed weekly cadence. A daytime variant, Twilight Tease, holds afternoon sessions (typically 3 pm–8 pm) in smaller private venues. Standard events run roughly 8 pm–1 am. Tickets are sold in advance only through a verification process: prospective attendees complete an application form before purchase; returning verified guests receive access codes by email. Recent ticket prices have sat at £55 (early bird) to £60 (final release) plus booking fees. Entry closes strictly at 10 pm, with organisers recommending arrival before 9 pm. Government-issued photo ID is mandatory. The dress code enforces self-expression: leather, lace, lingerie, harnesses, corsets, and heels are the expectation; streetwear and light denim are turned away at the door.

Illuminaughty Albuquerque

Unverified

Albuquerque, NM

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Albuquerque is the local New Mexico chapter of Illuminaughty, a membership-based lifestyle events network with chapters in more than 40 U.S. cities. As of mid-2026, the Albuquerque chapter is still in a pre-launch, member-recruitment phase: its own site states the group "is preparing to launch exclusive lifestyle cocktail mixers and private swinger parties" and that organizers "just need a few more members signed up" before scheduling a first local event. There is no fixed clubhouse -- as in other Illuminaughty markets, parties would be held at private venues disclosed only to ticket holders once a schedule exists. Network-wide, Illuminaughty runs two event formats: Tease Cocktail Mixers held in reserved sections of bars and restaurants, and private parties hosted in rented or member-owned homes, apartments, or estates that are decorated and staffed for the night. Standard parties feature a themed dress code, a private security team, a set arrival window followed by a group consent-and-rules talk, and multiple play spaces that can include a group room and light bondage or kink equipment, though advanced BDSM such as heavy impact, breath, fire, or blood play is not permitted. These are documented network practices published on Illuminaughty's national site; Albuquerque-specific venues and setups are not yet public, since no local party has been announced or hosted. Membership is free but requires an application with photos, and approval isn't guaranteed; once approved, members receive event invitations for whichever region they follow, including Albuquerque. Network events are typically open to couples, single women, and a small, gender-balanced number of vetted single men -- roughly two to four per event -- with solo men lacking a Single Man ticket turned away by security. Parties are BYOB, with mixers and non-alcoholic drinks provided; phones and cameras are banned once the consent talk begins, and late arrivals outside the posted window aren't admitted.

Mission Control SF (Kinky Salon)

Oakland, CA

BDSM Club

Mission Control is a members-only, volunteer-run sex-positive community rooted in the San Francisco Bay Area. Founded around 2000 by Polly Whittaker — the London transplant better known as Polly Superstar — the organization spent its first fourteen years at 2519 Mission Street before rising rents forced an eviction in late 2013. It re-established itself and now operates out of venues in Oakland, hosting a rotating calendar of themed parties and workshops under its 501(c)(7) nonprofit charter. The event lineup spans a wide spectrum: Pink is the house party where the core community gathers; Threshold is the BDSM-focused night; Velvet centres queer women, trans folks, and genderqueers; SOUL is exclusively for people of colour; Peek celebrates exhibitionism and voyeurism; and Eropunk is a sober play party for introverts. All events are BYOB. Entry requires individual membership (couples applications declined). Alliance membership at $20/month or $200/year unlocks free entry to most parties. The PAL system — every guest must arrive and leave with a trusted accountability partner — underpins the consent culture.

The Sublime Society

London, London

Performance Night / Event Series

The Sublime Society is a monthly erotic performance event series staged at Dear Darling, a luxury bar and nightclub at 91 Jermyn Street in Mayfair's St. James's district, a short walk from Green Park station. Co-founded by burlesque artist Charlie Bouquett and House of Fatale founder Missy Fatale, it presents itself as an "exclusive hedonistic soirée" — a voyeur-forward sensual salon in which live burlesque, shibari suspension, fetish performance, and sapphic dominance play unfold in close proximity to a seated and standing audience. The project carries an explicitly FLINTA-centered artistic policy: all performers identify as femme, lesbian, intersex, non-binary, trans, or asexual, and the organisers have publicly committed to exclusively female-identifying performers for their London editions. Dear Darling occupies a double-level footprint. The main salon — called The Living Room — holds 50 seated and up to 160 standing guests among wood-panelled walls, plush sofas, velvet armchairs, green drapery, and low crystal-strung chandeliers. There is no raised stage: performers move through the room itself, and mirrored ceilings provide sightlines from multiple angles while a rigged shibari frame hosts rope suspension pieces. Below, reached only through what the venue calls Lady Darling's wardrobe — a concealed door — sits a basement nightclub with capacity for around 160, featuring avant-garde décor and a DJ booth; this space operates as the afterparty venue for Sublime Society ticket-holders from approximately 11pm. A curated cocktail menu runs throughout both levels. Events run roughly monthly on Friday evenings, with doors at 7:00–7:30pm and the performance programme concluding between 10:15pm and 11:30pm depending on format; the basement afterparty continues to 2:00am. A secondary format, The Sublime Society: SALON, runs shorter evenings (7:00–10:30pm) and layers a live podcast recording and a participatory BDSM impact-play workshop onto the shibari performance. Tickets are sold exclusively in advance via DesignMyNight; standard general admission sits between approximately £38 and £65 depending on the event, with couples packages at a 20% reduction and three-person packages at 30% off. A VIP tier adding reserved lounge seating and basement nightclub access runs £59–£80, and a Meet and Greet add-on (£20–£22) provides post-show access to the cast.

Oasis Aqualounge

Toronto, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Oasis Aqualounge is a water-themed, clothing-optional adult spa and social club occupying a 9,000-square-foot restored 19th-century mansion at 231 Mutual Street in downtown Toronto. Open since 2010 to all guests aged 19 and over, the club does not describe itself as a swinger club — it positions as a body-positive, consent-forward venue drawing a broad community: monogamous couples, polyamorous individuals, kink enthusiasts, and guests who want spa facilities in a sex-positive setting without expectation of partner activity. Admission covers a day membership, locker access, and towel service; no separate ongoing membership is required. The crowd typically spans the mid-thirties to mid-fifties, and the venue has been recognised four times as one of Canada's fastest-growing businesses (2019, 2020, 2024, and 2025). The centrepiece is a year-round outdoor heated pool — maintained near 100°F in winter — set within a private courtyard flanked by a hot tub and a dry sauna. Two licensed bars serve alcohol and soft drinks across the property, with poolside patio seating for guests moving between the spa and social areas. Play areas span four floors and include a dungeon equipped with a swing and a St. Andrew's Cross, plus a private room on the fourth floor that any guest can reserve in one-hour increments at no extra charge. Staff known as Aquaflirt hosts circulate throughout, offering tours for first-time visitors and facilitating introductions. A colour-coded silicone wristband system near the entrance lets guests signal their openness to interaction. Oasis is open 1pm to 3am, 362 days a year (last admission 2am; closed Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, and one Monday in December for maintenance). Fridays and Saturdays are reserved for women and couples only; solo men may attend Sunday through Thursday. Approximately once a month — typically the fourth Monday — the club runs Sapphic Aquatica, an event exclusively for women and trans guests. Door prices include HST: solo women pay CAD $15 (Sun–Thu) or $25 (Fri–Sat); couples pay $100 or $115 respectively; solo men pay $100 on eligible weekdays. No outside drinks are permitted. Walk-ins are welcome most nights, though high-demand events may require advance booking via the online ticket calendar.

Sea Mountain Spa Las Vegas

Las Vegas, NV

Bath House

Sea Mountain Spa Las Vegas is a members-only, clothing-optional lifestyles day-and-night club minutes from the Strip, operating out of a private compound on South Eastern Avenue. The property centres on heated nude pools and an oversized whirlpool surrounded by designer daybeds, floating cabanas, and sun-drenched tanning gardens. Indoors, the Dharma Club — an on-premises lifestyles lounge with a dance pole, DJ booth, and lingerie-and-less dress code — runs around the clock, making it Las Vegas's only 24-hour on-premises couples lifestyle venue. Admission is restricted to couples and single women; single men are never permitted. A six-month membership ($20 per person) must be purchased on the first visit, and all guests must be 21-plus. Day retreats run 10 a.m.–5 p.m.; evening packages extend from 2 p.m. to 1–3 a.m. depending on the night, with late-night add-ons available. All-day passes include complimentary soft drinks, snacks, and lunch. The venue is BYOB for alcohol — none is sold on-site — and 420-cannabis-friendly. The all-female staff cultivates a no-attitude, non-body-shaming atmosphere, and reviewers consistently note a relaxed, pressure-free vibe with a friendly crowd spanning twenties through sixties. Pool and whirlpool areas are clothes-free year-round (towels, sarongs, and robes are provided), while evenings shift to a provocative lingerie-and-less code inside the Dharma Club.

Club Bacchus

Dundee, Scotland

On-Premise Club

Club Bacchus occupies a discreet address on Princes Street in Dundee — about five minutes from the bus station and fifteen minutes on foot from Dundee Station — billing itself as Tayside's most stylish and discreet adult lifestyle venue.

Illuminaughty Seattle

Seattle, WA

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Seattle is the local chapter of Illuminaughty, a national curated lifestyle brand that has hosted private swinger parties and cocktail mixers since 2022. Rather than operating from a fixed clubhouse, it runs monthly events for the Seattle and Tacoma area, drawing an ethically non-monogamous crowd of couples and singles roughly in their 20s, 30s and 40s. Attendance is restricted to approved members: applicants submit photos and a written application, and there is no membership fee, though not everyone is accepted. Events fall into two formats. Tease Cocktail Mixers are held in reserved sections of local bars or restaurants as a low-key way for members to meet. Private parties — the core of the brand — take place at rented private residences ranging from houses to high-rise apartments to larger estates, decorated and lit to set an intentional mood, typically hosting 40 to 80 members with professional security on site. Rooms are set up for a range of experiences, from massage tables and group-play spaces to light bondage or kink setups, though kink is described as a secondary element rather than the main focus. Most night parties run from around 8pm to 2am, with an arrival window (roughly 8:00–9:30pm) after which doors close for a mandatory opening talk on consent and house rules; latecomers are turned away. Parties are BYOB, with mixers and non-alcoholic drinks supplied, and towels, wipes, condoms, lube and massage oil provided. Each event has a set dress theme that members are expected to follow. Tickets and the private venue address are released only to approved, logged-in ticket holders, with the exact location shared on the day of the event.

colette San Antonio

San Antonio, TX

colette San Antonio occupies 11431 Perrin Beitel Rd on the city's north side, operating as the rebranded successor to the long-running Texas Players Club — a lineage the club itself describes as a "storied 25-year legacy." It's a private, membership-only, on-premise social club for couples, single men, and single women exploring the swinging, polyamorous, or open-relationship lifestyle. The space is built around an upscale, non-smoking, nightclub-style layout with high-tech lighting, a dance floor, couch and hi-top table seating, and lockers. A resident DJ mixes dance music and party favorites while friendly staff and security keep the sexy-but-respectful vibe intact. The club runs Thursday through Saturday nights, with membership good across every colette location (San Antonio, Dallas, Houston, Austin, and New Orleans); single men are welcome most nights, but Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only. Dress code leans upscale-nightclub-meets-lifestyle — collared shirts and dress shoes for single men, sexy or semi-formal attire for women, with fetish, leather, and gothic looks welcomed and beachwear, flip-flops, jerseys, and workout gear turned away. As a BYOB venue, colette doesn't sell alcohol but supplies free mixers, ice, and setups, with premium mixers available for purchase; photos are restricted to designated photo-op areas to protect member privacy.

Stopgap

San Francisco, CA

Event Organizer

Opened in April 2024 inside the SoMa building that once housed the SF Citadel, Stopgap is a turnkey kink venue that bridges San Francisco's leather history with its present-day scene. The fully accessible ground floor holds social areas, lockers, two bathrooms, and open play spaces fitted with hardpoints, while a staircase descends to a 3,100-square-foot basement dungeon stocked with equipment recovered from the Citadel's collection alongside newer pieces -- crosses, benches, tables, bondage chairs, cages, and at least 20 suspension hardpoints with floor mats for rope work. The venue is run by the AfterDark Events team, a POC, femme, queer, neurodivergent, and disabled-led organisation, and doubles as a rental space for third-party producers. Stopgap's own flagship is House Party, an inclusive open-play night held on the first Friday of every month, alongside weekly open-dungeon sessions, the Wrapt rope jam on fourth Mondays, Society of Janus play parties on second Saturdays, and rotating themed events such as Board Games & Bondage.

Partners Swingers Club

Bury, Greater Manchester

On-Premise Club

Set on a residential backstreet roughly a mile from Bury town centre in Greater Manchester, Partners has built a reputation as one of the North West's most-visited adult lifestyle clubs. The venue pitches itself as 'the UK's Premier Swingers Club,' having claimed the number one spot in the North West in both 2018 and 2019, and draws visitors from well beyond the region. Management's stated aim is a warm, friendly environment — guests are encouraged to socialise at the bar first and explore at their own pace — and the tone skews inclusive and unhurried rather than nightclub-loud. The club is open six nights a week on a rotating event schedule. Thursday hosts an inclusive bisexual-friendly evening run in partnership with Biphoria; Sunday is the couples and single females night; and weekend themes change week to week. Once a month the dungeon and play spaces are handed over to Kage Club for a dedicated BDSM play event. Standard entry opens at 8pm and runs to 3am, with tiered pricing at the door: couples pay £30 (members £25), single females £10 (members £5), and single males £40 (members £35). The wet zone — a swimming pool, bubbling jacuzzi, traditional sauna, and cool plunge pool — is the headline draw, and the club claims these facilities are unmatched in the UK. Beyond the water, the floor plan runs to a bar lounge with a pool table, group rooms designed for shared enjoyment, private cabins, a couples-only room with an adjoining viewing area, and a fully equipped dungeon. Outside drinks are welcome in the bar and lounge area in a BYOB arrangement. House rules are strictly enforced: consent is the operating principle throughout ('NO means NO'), single males are reminded their attendance is a privilege, cameras and phones are banned in play areas, CCTV covers all public spaces, and smoking is restricted to an outdoor area.

Long Island's Naughty Neighbors

Long Island (region), NY

Long Island's Naughty Neighbors has been a fixture of the Long Island lifestyle scene since 2015, operating as an event-production group rather than a single fixed address. The organizers run three distinct formats across various Long Island venues: house parties, full club takeovers, and low-key meet-and-greets. The ethos from the start has been an emphatic zero-pressure atmosphere — the kind of community where a curious newcomer is as welcome as a ten-year veteran, and where the hosts are available beforehand for no-expectation drinks to walk first-timers through what to expect. For on-premise nights, the group has long been associated with The Loft Club Long Island — self-described as the only upscale on-premise lifestyle club on Long Island — which featured three lounges, a dance floor with upgraded lighting, and six playrooms. At time of writing, The Loft Club is in the process of relocating to a new and larger location, with the organizers eyeing their annual Halloween party as a target reopening milestone. Upcoming events, whether at the new venue or via club takeovers, are posted on the SLS calendar at sls.com as well as directly on the group's website. The crowd skews toward couples and single women; the group explicitly structures its admission policies around that pairing. Communication runs through email and text — the organizers stress text-only contact and ask that no one call the listed number. The group also cross-promotes with other Long Island lifestyle organizers, reflecting a collaborative, community-minded corner of the New York swinger scene.

On-premise lifestyle club

Kat's Fantasies is a long-running adult lifestyle club operating out of an upscale venue in South Surrey, British Columbia, self-described as Vancouver's hardcore swingclub. The club has been active since approximately 2007 and operates by screened membership only — no walk-ins — with free membership granted after a short application process including a photo submission. The guest mix trends toward couples and single women in the 35–50 age range and screened single men aged 19–55, with attendance ranging from roughly 20 to 75 per event depending on the night. The venue features a dance floor, DJ booth, pool table, two private rooms, and a large open orgy room equipped with a sex swing and a signature wall of porn. Two no-play socializing lounges allow guests to meet and mix without pressure. Massage tables and oils are available, and overnight accommodation is offered on-site: private queen rooms at CAD $60 per couple and open beds at CAD $40 per couple. The club operates on a BYOB basis; complimentary coffee, tea, filtered water, and light snacks are provided along with condoms and lube. The events calendar runs across several formats: Greedy Girl (one to two Saturdays monthly, 8PM–1AM); Fuck Me Friday (one to two Fridays monthly, 8PM–midnight); Bi Night (monthly Friday or Saturday, 8PM–midnight or 1AM); Cougars & Cubs (monthly Friday, 8PM–midnight); Hump Day Happy Hour (Wednesday, 7–11PM, October–May); and Sunday Afternoon Delight (Sunday, 2–6PM, October–May). Donation pricing varies by event — for flagship nights, couples pay CAD $50 advance or $70 at door; single men pay $60 advance or $80 at door; single ladies pay $20. Midweek and Sunday events are lower. Guests must arrive within a set check-in window and may not re-enter after leaving.

Leisure with Pleasure

Unverified

Leicester, Leicestershire

On-Premise Club

Leisure with Pleasure — also traded as Club 29, Club 29 Swing Club, and Bond Street Retreat — occupies a discreet address at 29 New Bond Street in Leicester city centre. It bills itself as Leicester's only alternative sauna for the lifestyle-curious and the more adventurous, and has operated under various names at the same location for many years. The NHS has formally recognised the address as a sexual health outreach venue, with Leicester Sexual Health services running a monthly drop-in clinic there offering free condoms, STI testing, and advice. The venue spreads across three floors. Upper floors contain spa facilities — a hot tub, sauna, and steam room — alongside a cinema room, a dark fetish room equipped with a swing and cross, showers, and private rooms. Reviewers also describe playrooms, a dungeon area, and a disco-and-party room. The club maintains a strict drug-free policy, and multiple guests note that staff are approachable and willing to walk newcomers through the space. Reviewers are divided on atmosphere: several praise the clean, friendly environment, while others have criticised cramped conditions and dated décor. Google-listed hours indicate daytime sessions on Wednesday, Friday, and Sunday, though schedules and current entry fees could not be independently verified — the club's official website is not currently accessible.

Cedar Creek Resort

Leesville, SC

Lifestyle Resort

Cedar Creek Resort has been South Carolina's go-to clothing-optional getaway since 1989 — 43 wooded acres along Black Creek, about ten minutes south of I-20 between Columbia and Augusta. The property packs in an indoor pool (heated for major event weekends), an outdoor pool, indoor and outdoor hot tubs, nearly half a mile of natural lazy-river creek for tubing, a sand volleyball court, corn hole, petanque, horseshoes, hiking trails through the woods, and a creek-side dock for sunbathing. The clubhouse has a full bar, a pool table, dart board, and hosts DJ dances every Saturday night and karaoke most Fridays year-round. Overnight options run from a cabin with queen bed and full bath to five huts with AC, primitive tent sites near the clubhouse, powered tent sites, and full-hookup RV lots that handle rigs up to 85 feet on 20/30/50 amp service — Passport America and Escapees members get 50% off RV sites outside festival weeks. Day visitors pay $35 off-season or $67 in prime season (April–September plus holiday weekends), and a $25 provisional annual membership is required for all non-members. Single women receive 50% off across the board; student and military couples under 26 get 20% off. Anyone staying past 1 am pays a $21 night fee. The vibe is relaxed and clothing-optional — nudity is welcome but never mandatory, and house rules keep it community-pool appropriate in public areas. Themed parties rotate weekly (Naughty Nautical, Bunny Party, Body Jewelry & Boots, Shakespeare Night) with Nudestock as the big annual summer festival and prime holiday weekends for New Year's, Halloween, Valentine's, and St. Patrick's. The crowd is genuinely diverse in age, shape, and background, and repeat visitors consistently praise the welcoming atmosphere even if the rustic setting won't be mistaken for a luxury resort. Dogs are allowed, the grounds have free WiFi and laundry, and the front office closes at 6 pm (8 pm on event nights).

Eureka Naturist Club

Fawkham, Kent

Nudist Resort

Eureka Naturist Club occupies 23 acres of landscaped grounds — including approximately six acres of historic Pennis Woods — near the village of Fawkham in the Kent North Downs, roughly 25 miles south-east of central London. Self-styled as ‘the UK’s premier naturist club’, it operates as a private members venue open 364 days a year (closed Christmas Day only), welcoming members and guests aged 21-plus whether nude, partially clothed, or fully dressed. The site is reached via Manor Lane; the club recommends the What Three Words reference guess.vine.scores over the postcode for locating the gate, and free parking for up to 75 vehicles is available on site. The seasonal centrepiece is a heated outdoor pool measuring 60 by 30 feet, complemented year-round by a wet area with two 8-person jacuzzis, a sauna, and a steam room. An outdoor bar and BBQ terrace, a balcony, and woodland and garden walks fill out the daytime offer. Evenings turn on a large licensed bar and a dance floor with seated capacity for 180; no outside drinks are permitted. On-site cabin accommodation is bookable through the website, and resident massage therapists operate on multiple days each week. Regular hours are Sunday to Wednesday 10am–10pm, Thursday 10am–11pm (Social Night from 6pm, free entry for members), Friday 10am–2am, and Saturday 10am–3am, with extended hours possible on hot evenings. The themed Friday and Saturday night calendar includes Traffic Light parties, fetish and leather-and-lace nights, and Cougars N Cubs evenings. Entry is tiered by membership grade, day, and arrival time: Silver members pay £15–£30 depending on gender and session; Gold membership (£1,100 per year for gents and couples, £400 for single ladies) covers unlimited free entry to all events. Non-members may visit with a £15 surcharge on top of the standard rate. A three-month trial period applies before full membership is confirmed.

TJ's Lasting Impressions

Newport, PA

on-premise lifestyle club

Billed as the largest and most luxurious lifestyle club in Central Pennsylvania, TJ's Lasting Impressions sits on 2620 Susquehanna Trail in Newport, about 25 miles northwest of Harrisburg. The 16,000-square-foot venue reads more upscale supper club than dungeon: a soaring dance floor anchored by a mirrored stage and 10-foot brass pole, a full BYOB bar where bartenders pour from your labeled bottle with free mixers, and a proper sit-down restaurant serving Angus steak, grilled chicken, Chicken Parmesan, and Shrimp & Chips — all included in the door price. Late-night desserts and finger food run until 3 am. Pennsylvania's largest Roman-style hot tub, seating 80, is the social centrepiece. The playspace runs to 12 themed party rooms and a large open group room, plus an observation room. For those who want to extend the stay, nine hotel-standard VIP rooms check in at 3 pm ($110/night) and check out at 11 am; party rooms can also be held for overnight use from $70 after the club closes at 3 am. Events are Saturday-only, 8 pm–3 am, and advance reservation through the club's website is required. Membership is mandatory but easy: a one-time trial runs $15, and the annual rate is $50 for couples, $25 for single ladies, and $50 for single men. Event fees mirror that structure. A cash discount is available. First-timers can download the membership form online to speed up check-in; valid photo ID is required at the door for all guests 21 and up.

Tabu Social Club

Catonsville, MD

on-premise lifestyle club

Tucked into a commercial strip in Catonsville just west of Baltimore, Tabu Social Club has operated since 2004 as the region's flagship on-premise lifestyle venue — Black-owned and women-owned, drawing couples and single ladies from across the Baltimore-DC corridor. The space splits cleanly into two distinct zones: upstairs, a nightclub-style lounge with a raised dance floor, plush sunken seating, two dance poles, an elevated dance cage, and a dedicated ladies-only dance stage, all driven by resident DJ Kutt on Saturdays and rotating DJs on Fridays. The tone reads more upscale martini bar than basement party — well-lit, clean, and deliberately social before it's anything else. Descend to the lower level and the energy shifts: Vicki's VIP Lounge houses 11 sexually themed private suites — a doctor room, a love-voodoo room with a waterfall, a floating-bed mirrored room, a BDSM room, an oriental room, a gang-bang room, and two glass-window voyeur rooms — plus one open group area. Suite assignments are managed by a lounge attendant, and time limits apply when demand is high. Showers, towels, lockers, and five refrigerated coolers for BYOB beverages round out the amenities. The weekly rhythm is Fridays 9 pm–2 am and Saturdays 9 pm–3 am, with themed nights cycling through the calendar — newbie nights, pride parties, blackout events, and passport parties. Membership is open to couples and single females only; single males require a six-month-active-member sponsor. The crowd skews mature and dressed-up, with regular and new faces finding the no-pressure ethos — staff walk first-timers through the layout and etiquette on arrival — the club's most consistently praised quality.

Angel of Love

Roth, Bavaria

On-Premise Lifestyle Club

Set in an industrial quarter on the southern edge of Roth bei Nürnberg — just off the B2 with direct access to the A9 and A6 motorways — Angel of Love has established itself as one of Bavaria's most prominent lifestyle destinations. The freshly renovated venue covers more than 2,000 square metres wrapped behind a discreet exterior, fitted out to a contemporary standard with premium audio, modern lighting, and a warmly styled interior that reads as upscale private event rather than nightclub. Jasmin and Markus Herrmann, who took over operations in early 2025 and draw on years of personal experience in the swinger community, describe the house philosophy as openness and tolerance without pressure — a space to explore freely among like-minded people, whether for a seasoned regular or a curious first-timer. Most events are booked through JoyClub, where the venue carries verified status.

L'Orage Club

Montreal, Quebec

On-Premise Club

L'Orage Club is a private, members-only on-premise swingers club located at 7700 12e Avenue in Montreal, Quebec. Founded in 1996 by Jean-Paul Labaye, it operates as an open-concept venue featuring a bar lounge, a discotheque with resident DJs, and two floors of open-plan play areas. The club holds a Quebec liquor licence and describes its format as European in style, with an emphasis on exhibitionism and voyeurism; there are no private or closed rooms. The club gained national legal significance after a 1998 police raid triggered criminal proceedings against founder Jean-Paul Labaye. The case proceeded through the courts for seven years, culminating in December 2005 when the Supreme Court of Canada ruled in Labaye's favour in R. v. Labaye, [2005] 3 SCR 728. The ruling established the legal standard — the harm-based test — by which consensual adult sexual activity in a semi-public venue is assessed under the Criminal Code of Canada, effectively providing a legal framework for the operation of such clubs across the country. L'Orage Club continues to operate as of 2026, running events Thursday through Sunday. It describes an international clientele drawn from Canada, the United States, and Europe, and describes itself as one of Canada's longest-continuously-operating clubs of its type. The website and all public communications are exclusively in French.

Untamed Nights

Bournemouth, Dorset

Events Organiser

Established in 2022, Untamed Nights is Bournemouth's principal adult lifestyle events organiser, serving the local swinging and kink-positive community along the Dorset coast. The operation runs parties, socials, and community events under a single guiding ethos of 'Be yourself' — with an explicit commitment to inclusivity that extends to singles, couples, and trans and non-binary guests alike. After holding a fixed Bournemouth residency through 2024, the organisation relinquished that permanent venue in early 2025 and pivoted to a touring model, hand-picking venues across the UK for each event while keeping its home base in the BH2 postcode area of Bournemouth. The regular midweek anchor is The Social at UN, held each Wednesday evening (7:30pm–midnight) at 45 Poole Hill, Bournemouth BH2 5PW — a free-to-attend community gathering designed for newcomers and regulars alike, with the Loft Bar reserved as a social-only space. For party events, Untamed Nights uses private venues whose exact addresses are shared only after ticket purchase, with stated capacities ranging from 50 to 400 guests depending on the event. Programming stretches well beyond standard swing parties: the 2026 calendar includes the nine-part House of Hades series — an immersive sequence of gate events blending kink education, rope workshops, erotic storytelling, and a ticketed Halloween main event — as well as a women-only swing evening (Scissor Sisters) at The Alchemy in Bournemouth, and online educational workshops. A separate brand, Vunilla, handles mainstream DJ and live-act nights under the same umbrella. Social events are free to attend; paid party events run on a flat per-person tariff regardless of how a guest identifies — single men, single women, couples, and CD/TV/TS guests all pay the same rate. Recent party tickets have been priced at £25 for early release, rising to £28–£30 closer to the door. An optional annual membership costs £15 per person and delivers £5 off each subsequent event ticket, plus affiliate discounts and a VIP card; membership requires a verified profile on a swinging platform such as SpicyMatch. Photo ID is required for entry at every event without exception. Dress code is enforced across all events: smart presentation is expected and trainers, tracksuits, and baseball caps are explicitly prohibited. Venue locations for parties in the BH2 area are disclosed to ticket holders only after purchase.

The Foothills Club

Anderson, SC

On-Premise Club

The Foothills Club is a private, membership-only lifestyle club based in Anderson, South Carolina, near Exit 19A on I-85 (Clemson Boulevard). Founded in 1985 as informal house parties in Georgia, it moved through a string of hotel ballrooms in Spartanburg and Greenville before adding a second location in Clinton, SC in August 2011. That Clinton venue closed for good in May 2013 when its host hotel was sold for redevelopment, and the club's own history page still records it as "Clinton (RIP)." Since 2014 the club has operated exclusively out of Anderson, hosting a two-night party each month. Parties are held in a private hotel ballroom rather than a dedicated venue -- the club has changed host hotels several times over the decades and has occupied its current Anderson property since December 2021. Each ballroom is decorated to match a monthly theme, with a DJ, dance floor, lighted stripper pole and lounge area. The club frames itself as a nightclub-style meet-and-mingle rather than an on-site play space: sex and nudity are not permitted in the ballroom or any public area of the hotel, with couples expected to take things back to a private hotel room instead. Membership is open to couples and singles of any age, race, size or orientation, though single men are capped in number at each event. The typical two-night format pairs a Friday-night Meet and Greet karaoke party (around 8:30pm-1:30am) -- open to non-members on a BYOB basis with no cover charge -- with a members-only Saturday main event (from about 8pm) that includes a complimentary open bar (cut off around 11:45pm) plus the option to BYOB. Attending the main event requires a one-time lifetime membership purchased at the door; the club accepts cash only, with no credit cards, debit cards or checks. New members must be 21 or older, show a valid photo ID matching their registration form, and complete a short information sheet. Registration typically closes around 9:30pm. There is no strict dress code, though attendees are encouraged to dress to each month's theme.

DORO Event- und Swingerclub

Hof an der Saale, Bavaria

On-Premise Club

DORO Event- und Swingerclub is a dedicated lifestyle club at St.-Lukas-Weg 29 in Hof an der Saale, a Bavarian city in the Upper Franconia district near the Czech and Thuringian borders. The venue operates under the tagline “Mit allen Sinnen genießen” (enjoy with all senses) and is run by Dorota Martin. It holds a 4.6-out-of-5 aggregate rating across 88 visitor reviews. The venue offers a range of purpose-built facilities including a heated outdoor pool, a whirlpool, a landscaped garden, a bar, a buffet, changing rooms, and multiple themed playrooms. Two named VIP spaces — the Oase and the Tortuga — provide more private settings, and a cinema room fitted with black padded leather armchairs adds a distinctive touch. A connecting hallway decorated in colourful curved lines, described in a 2020 press account as the Lustgasse, links the spaces throughout the club. Towel service is provided, and on-site parking is available. Reviewers praise the cleanliness and food quality, with one describing the experience as “einer der schöneren Clubs, die wir besucht haben — alles sehr sauber, und das Essen auch sehr lecker” (one of the nicer clubs we have visited — everything very clean, and the food also very tasty). Regular party nights run on Fridays from 20:30 and Saturdays from 20:00; the club is dark Sunday through Thursday. Special themed events have historically required advance registration. Entry pricing, dress code, and single-male admission terms are published at doro.club; prospective visitors are advised to check the site or call +49 9281 1441905 ahead of their visit.

The Pendulum Club South

Houston, TX

On-Premise Club

Sitting just off Airport Boulevard near Hobby Airport, The Pendulum Club South opened in 2018 as one of Houston's only women-owned and operated lifestyle venues. Billed as the 'hip and young at heart' sibling in TPC's three-location network, it trades the original Hempstead brothel-replica aesthetic for a mid-town contemporary vibe — a compact, deliberately intimate space that caps capacity to guarantee a lively atmosphere even on quieter nights. Tours are offered to first-timers who arrive before 10:30 PM, and the staff-led walkthrough is a signature touch from the women who run all three clubs. The layout unfolds from a main dance floor with a full bar setup (BYOB — cups, ice, and mixers provided free) into a separate select-area lounge ringed by booth seating and a private dance stage, where exhibitionists can perform for their partners. Beyond that lies the back area: four private rooms, a veiled bed, a group bed surrounded by couches, and an adjacent room with its own private space. Admission is couples, single women, and a limited number of single men on Friday nights only; single men must exit by 2 AM and access to the front playrooms is restricted. A $10 nightly membership fee is collected at the door on top of the cover charge. The club runs Friday and Saturday nights from 9 PM to 3 AM, with doors closing at 2 AM — no admittance after that. Membership registration is required before your first visit and a government-issued photo ID must be presented at entry. A colour-coded wristband system lets guests signal their interests and comfort levels without a word being exchanged. Dress code is enforced: smart-casual or better for men (collared shirt, dress slacks, clean footwear), sexy and classy for women. No cameras, phones, or recording devices anywhere inside the venue.

Xtasia

West Bromwich, West Midlands

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Established in the 1980s, Xtasia describes itself as the UK's longest-running swingers club, sitting behind an ironwork fence on High Street in West Bromwich. The complex has grown into a dual-venue operation: the main Xtasia Nightclub on one side and the adjacent Flirts Bar, Hotel and Cinema on the other, sharing the same gated grounds. A staff member walks first-timers around the entire site on arrival, and on a busy night the club draws well over 100 couples, with major events topping 300 guests. The Xtasia side centres on a large ground-floor dance arena with a fully licensed bar and themed playrooms and a dungeon spread across multiple levels. Flirts adds a cinema, bar, further playrooms, a boutique, a naturist sun deck, and hotel accommodation in double, dormitory, and quadruple rooms. The Flirts Spa is the newest addition — a swim spa with current-resistance jets, an eight-seat infrared sauna, an eight-seat steam room, a small gym, and communal locker facilities. In 2014 the club was voted the number-one swingers venue in the UK by the authors of Sex in the Cities. The main nightclub runs Friday and Saturday from 8pm to 3am (last entry 1am); the Flirts bar is open Monday to Thursday noon to midnight and noon to 8pm on Fridays and Saturdays. Membership is required for all events and must be arranged in advance online: couples pay a one-off lifetime fee of £20, single females £10 lifetime, and single males £40 per year. Single males must receive a written acceptance email before attending. Entry prices vary by event and are published in the online diary.

The Vanilla Alternative

Tempsford, Bedfordshire

On-Premise Club

The Vanilla Alternative is a private members' lifestyle venue set within The Anchor Lodge Hotel on the A1 Great North Road in Tempsford, Bedfordshire, roughly midway between Bedford and St Neots. Operated by The Anchor Inn Tempsford Limited, the club draws members from across England, with free on-site parking for up to 200 vehicles and on-site hotel accommodation available for event attendees. Membership is required before attending; applications are reviewed within 72 hours and carry an annual fee of £25. All guests must be aged 21 or over. The venue features a fully licensed bar and dance floor, multiple playrooms, a dungeon with a swing, and a large hot tub that member reviews consistently describe as the social centrepiece of each evening. More than 150 lockers and showers are available on-site, and condoms are provided throughout. The on-site hotel at The Anchor Lodge is bookable through the club's website, with check-in from 5pm and check-out by 11:30am; a shuttle bus service runs to and from nearby Premier Inn locations for those staying off-site. Staff offer welcome tours for first-timers and a consent culture is maintained throughout. The weekly programme runs on Fridays (Freedom Friday, 20:00–02:30) and Saturdays (Saturday Seduction, 20:00–03:00). Freedom Friday admits couples, single females, and — in a capped allocation to preserve gender ratios — single males who must pre-book; advance tickets are £35 per couple, £10 per single female, and £40 for single males. Saturday Seduction is couples and ladies only, with advance tickets at £45 per couple and £15 per single female; single males are not admitted on Saturdays. The calendar also includes a monthly Bi Night, Milf Club sessions, the Onyx interracial night, and an annual Festival of Fun weekender. The venue is fully licensed — no outside alcohol is permitted — and mobile phones and recording devices are not allowed inside. A smart-dress code applies on arrival; guests entering any play space must dress down to lingerie, underwear, robes, or less.

The Attic Experience

Derby, Derbyshire

On-Premise Club

The Attic Experience is a lifestyle and swingers club occupying Carrington House on Ascot Drive in the Allenton district of Derby, owned and operated by Ron Rothwell through Attic Media (Midlands) Limited. Built from the ground up by swingers, for swingers — in the club’s own words — it describes itself explicitly as a social and play space, not a nightclub, strip club, or brothel. No membership is required, the venue welcomes all orientations and experience levels, and newcomers are offered a guided tour of the premises by a staff member on arrival. Entry is cash only throughout, and guests must be 21 or over. The venue is notably large, encompassing a cinema lounge, a fully equipped dungeon with an enforced safe-word system (red/amber/green), a hot tub available on Friday and Saturday evenings, showers, separate locker rooms for single males and for couples and TV guests, a tea bar, a jail cell room, a turret, dark rooms, a glory-hole area, and a range of lockable private rooms. The club operates a BYOB policy throughout — no alcohol is sold on the premises. Mobile phones are banned in all public areas without exception, cameras are prohibited site-wide, and CCTV covers communal areas only, with toilets, showers, changing rooms, and private rooms explicitly excluded. The club runs daytime sessions Monday through Saturday (10am–5pm) alongside evening sessions on Wednesdays through Saturdays. Monday is reserved for TV and Admirers events. Evening sessions run Wednesday and Thursday until midnight, Friday until 1am, and Saturday until 2am, with smart casual dress required at all times and formal footwear for men on Friday and Saturday evenings. Daytime entry is free for couples and single ladies; single males pay £15. Evening entry is £20 for couples and TVs, £15 for single females, and £35 for single males. On Fridays and Saturdays, single males are admitted from 8pm only, last entry 11pm, and entry is not guaranteed. Themed party nights are held on the mid and late Saturdays of each month.

HU9 Swingers Club

Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire

On-Premise Club

HU9 Swingers Club sits on Witham, a road on the eastern edge of Hull city centre, taking its name from the HU9 postcode of its address at number 142. The venue operates as a private members-only club with a licensed capacity of around 600, and carries a 4.9-out-of-5 Google rating across 65 reviews — consistent with accounts of a regional following that extends beyond Hull to surrounding Yorkshire towns. The club has attracted local press coverage since at least 2020, including a YorkshireLive photo gallery inside the space. The building houses a licensed bar, multiple playrooms, a dungeon, a hot tub, and a sauna as its core amenities. Visitors consistently describe the atmosphere as welcoming and safe, with staff noted for attending to guests throughout sessions; the premises are wheelchair-accessible throughout, including parking, entrance, and restrooms. Once a year, on the August Bank Holiday Sunday, the venue hosts Swingfest — a 13-hour ticketed adult festival featuring a main stage with live tribute acts and DJ sets, inflatables, stilt walkers, fire breathers, food vendors, and a 360-photo booth alongside the indoor club facilities. Regular club nights run Thursday through Saturday — Thursday 20:00 to 01:00, Friday and Saturday 21:00 to 03:00. Admission on regular nights is restricted to members, with phones and cameras to be stored in lockers on entry; the annual Swingfest explicitly drops the membership requirement and is open to all adults. Entry pricing is not publicly listed; advance tickets for Swingfest 2026 were sold through Skiddle at £30–60 per person.

Nightshade Halifax

Halifax, Nova Scotia

Event Organizer

Nightshade is a series of kinky themed costume parties held periodically in Halifax, Nova Scotia, drawing on more than a decade of history since its launch in February 2013. Run by organiser Chris Awesome, the events sit deliberately at the threshold between mainstream nightlife and the alternative lifestyle scene — approachable enough for curious first-timers, while incorporating genuine BDSM and fetish elements. Thousands of attendees spanning newcomers, lifestyle veterans, and the simply curious have passed through its doors, and the series has become a fixture of Halifax's alternative community calendar. Nightshade is not a fixed-venue club but a roving event series that takes over the 3rd-floor ballroom of the Best Western Plus Chocolate Lake Hotel (250 St Margarets Bay Rd, Halifax NS) for the night. Each party carries a distinct theme — past and upcoming events include Wasteland, Kinky Colours, Dark Masquerade, and Kinky Halloween — with resident DJs Gyrrrl on Decks and DJ Mike G spinning pop, rock, and top-40 sets across the dance floor. A dungeon corner is a consistent feature: heavy-duty bondage furniture staffed by Dungeon Masters and Monitors who can instruct guests and maintain safety. Body painting stations appear at select events. The hotel bar is cash-only and hotel-operated, with domestic beer and well shots at $7 CAD, premium spirits and imported beers at $8, and soft drinks at $4. Events run roughly 9pm-1am on Saturday nights (approximately four to six times a year), and advance tickets are $25 plus tax — many events sell out weeks ahead. At-the-door tickets, when available, are $32 plus tax. Valid government-issued photo ID confirming age 19+ is required at the door. Personal cameras and recording devices are prohibited; credentialed event photographers may attend by prior arrangement. Coat check is $3. The Kinky Colours event is part of the Halifax Pride Festival calendar, and hotel room blocks at negotiated group rates are offered for each event. A volunteer program is available for those who want to attend but need help covering the cost.

The Naughty Pineapple

Leicester, Leicestershire

On-Premise Club

The Naughty Pineapple is a swingers club at 30 Bedford Street South, just outside Leicester city centre in Leicestershire. Run by an owner known to regulars as Vinny, the venue describes itself as one of the smaller clubs on the circuit — friendly, modern, and rigorously clean — with a consistent emphasis on welcoming first-timers and LGBTQ members. It sits a ten-minute walk from Leicester railway station, close to the Haymarket bus terminus, with taxi ranks around the corner on Belgrave Street and the NCP Lee Circle car park as the nearest off-street option. The club has recently undergone a full makeover and features a hot tub (water changed daily; no play permitted inside), a four-tier cinema room with a large-screen TV, changing rooms with free-to-use lockers, private playrooms, a sex swing, female glory holes, a grope box, a fetish dungeon, and a BDSM cross. A small cafe area serves cooked food and soft drinks. Condoms and lube are stocked in every playroom, and towels are available to borrow at £1 each. Photography equipment — including mobile phones — must be stored in a locker or kept to the cafe/social area; cameras and recording devices are strictly forbidden in play spaces. Dress ranges from smart-casual to nude (towels required when sitting nude for hygiene reasons). The club opens Thursday noon to midnight (last entry 22:30), Friday and Saturday 6pm to 2am (last entry midnight), and Sunday 3pm to 10pm. Membership is free on registration: guests supply a name and face photo and are immediately recognised as full members. Entry for couples or single men/TV/TS is £20 for members and £30 for non-members; single women pay £5 (members) or £10 (non-members). The venue operates a BYOB policy — no alcohol licence — with a £3 corkage charge if guests bring their own; soft drinks are sold on-site. Thursday is designated Newbie Day, tailored to first-timers and those with questions about the scene. Regular monthly themed events and periodic bi takeover nights run throughout the year. A strict no-drugs, no-violence rule carries a lifetime ban; guests showing signs of excessive intoxication may be asked to slow down or leave.

The Meeting Place

Decatur, MI

On-Premise Club

Just off the beaten path near Kalamazoo, The Meeting Place has quietly held the title of Michigan's oldest sex club for more than 37 years. The venue is a sprawling 6,000-square-foot space built for a full night out — a DJ-lit dance floor with a stripper pole, a large hot tub, an outdoor firepit ringed by a 12-foot privacy fence, and 12 separate play rooms with more than 35 beds between them. A complimentary buffet and soft drinks keep the energy up through the night, and the club is BYOB, cigarette-friendly, and 420-friendly throughout. Parties run every Saturday night plus a themed event on the third Friday of each month, generally 8pm to noon the next day, with extended hours during BASH weekends. Entry is address-on-request only: new members call ahead, get walked through the rules and fees by phone, and receive directions to the club — no address is posted publicly. Couples must call and attend together, and single men must call to reserve a spot before every visit, since space for single males is limited and interview-gated. House culture leans toward a relaxed, consent-first vibe: no cell phones anywhere on site, no BDSM play, and street clothes are barred from the play and bedroom areas once inside. A private room and a dedicated "orgy room" for content creation are both available to rent for the night. The club also promotes sexual-health resources and keeps an active FetLife presence for its community.

Bristol Gardens Health Spa

Brighton, East Sussex

Bath House

Bristol Gardens Health Spa has been running since April 1985 from a pair of adjoining Regency-era lodges on Bristol Gardens, one mile east of Brighton city centre and a short walk from the marina. Entry costs £27 for a single visitor or £52 for a joint booking (effective April 2026), with two standard towels included; no membership is required and walk-ins are welcome, though massage bookings are recommended in advance by phone. Weekend evenings from 17:30 are restricted to joint mixed-gender couples — single entry is not accepted during those hours.

Hanke Panke Lifestyle Club

Unverified

San Diego, CA

Hankie Pankie Lifestyle Club — also marketed as Embrace Lifestyle Events — has been one of San Diego's most approachable entries into the Southern California lifestyle scene since at least 2012. Rather than operating a fixed brick-and-mortar venue, the club brings its parties to a rotating roster of venues across Southern California, dressing each location with a distinct theme to keep the calendar feeling fresh. Each event layers food and mixers, curated music, and live entertainment into the mix, giving the night a social-club warmth rather than the anonymous feel of a conventional adult venue. The club has built a particular reputation for drawing in newcomers — hosting dedicated introductory events designed to walk first-timers through what to expect and help them find their feet before diving in. The crowd skews toward couples and single women, and the overall tone is described consistently as classy, elegant yet sexy: a setting where guests are expected to mingle and connect rather than arrive with a fixed agenda. The club is reachable via Facebook @hankiepankielifestyle and X @HankiePankieCA. A mailing address at 9528 Miramar Rd #1137 in San Diego is listed in lifestyle directories, consistent with the rotating-venue model.

Swingers Club

CAPC — the Calgary Adult Playground Club — operates out of a discreet, unmarked building tucked into a secluded corner of northeast Calgary. The venue, known to members as The Studio, offers no outward hints of what lies inside: no music bleeds through the walls, no signage marks the entrance. Admission is by member invitation or an owner interview only — walk-ins aren't accepted, and valid ID is required at the door. Saturday events are restricted to couples and single females; single men must attend with a female companion. The exact address is disclosed only to confirmed members. First-visit entry runs $40 per person or $80 per couple; annual membership at the same rates is purchased on the second visit. The club is BYOB with no liquor licence, supplying non-alcoholic drinks, ice, glasses, and snacks, and enforces a dress code — no baseball caps, tracksuits, ripped jeans, or athletic shoes — along with a cleanliness requirement.

DJ's Island

Beaver Falls, PA

DJ's Island has anchored the Pittsburgh-area lifestyle scene since 2002, drawing couples from across the tri-state region to its 8,500-square-foot venue on Big Beaver Boulevard in Beaver Falls, PA. Owned and operated by Jim and Debbie, who scoured the region's best clubs before building their own, the venue greets members at a reservation desk before a host couple walks first-timers through the space — a pattern that sets a no-pressure, consent-forward tone from the moment you arrive. The main room pairs a five-sided open bar with a full-size dance floor fitted with two poles and a dance cage, surrounded by posh leather seating and backlit walls that keep the atmosphere somewhere between upscale nightclub and comfortable living room. The play facilities span an open room with two king-size beds, ten private rooms each with a complete private bath, and a 20-person hot tub with an open shower area. Every Friday and Saturday night entry covers a full dinner buffet: hors d'oeuvres and the salad bar appear at 7:30 pm, a sit-down dinner runs from 8 pm to 11:30 pm, and late-night finger sandwiches carry the crowd through to close at 2 am. The club seats 200-plus in the dining area, and the kitchen turns out a rotating menu of appetizers, grilled entrees, and nightly specials. DJ's Island runs as a private membership association — annual membership is $50, and no one enters without a reservation and a valid membership card. Doors open at 7 pm and lock at 11 pm; new members are encouraged to arrive between 7 and 8 pm for their exclusive tour. The BYOB bar is fully staffed with a professional bartender and a complete mixer selection, and a full crew — doorman, waitresses, cleaning staff, and DJ — keeps the evening running smoothly.

Miami Velvet

Miami, FL

On-Premise Club

Set in a hulking commercial warehouse just off the Palmetto Expressway near Miami International Airport, Miami Velvet bills itself as Florida’s largest private adult lifestyle nightclub — and with 20,000 square feet of dance floors, lounges, and play corridors spread across a single industrial level, the footprint earns the claim. The main room greets guests with red velvet booths, erotic art lining the walls, stripper poles rising from the dance floor, and a Vegas-grade LED and sound rig that keeps the Latin heat constant well past 2 am. The crowd skews younger than most lifestyle clubs in the country, averaging around 33 years old, with a bilingual, conspicuously good-looking mix of Miamians and international visitors from across Latin America, Europe, and beyond. The club opens Friday and Saturday nights only: doors at 22:00, closing at 04:00 Fridays and 05:00 Saturdays. Fridays admit couples, single ladies, and single men; Saturdays are restricted to couples and single women only. Membership is mandatory — no exceptions — and must be arranged before or on arrival; first-time tourist couples from out of state have the membership fee waived on standard nights. Entry fees run $110 per couple on Fridays and $135 on Saturdays; single ladies enter free Fridays or at $25 Saturdays; single men pay a substantial premium and are barred entirely on Saturdays. Dress code is enforced at the door: sexy and upscale for women, smart club wear for men — no shorts, tank tops, sandals, or caps. The club is fully BYOB — no liquor is sold on-premise — with bottles checked in via a numbered wristband system and standard mixers provided at no charge. Lockers and towels are included in the entry price. Two distinct play zones branch off the main corridor: a clothing-permitted area lined with 15+ private locking rooms and a multi-bed group playroom, and a clothing-optional zone accessible from the locker room with steam-room-adjacent open lounges designed for exhibitionistic encounters. Stripper poles, a pool room, and a rotating calendar of themed party nights round out the programming.

Illuminaughty LA

Los Angeles, CA

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty LA is the Los Angeles chapter of a national members-only lifestyle events brand rather than a single fixed clubhouse — it organizes private, invitation-only parties and cocktail mixers for non-monogamous couples and singles at rotating venues around the city. The Los Angeles chapter has been running since 2022, drawing couples and singles roughly 21 to 49 to private homes and rented estates in neighborhoods including Hollywood, Beverly Hills, and Bel Air. Membership is free but application-based: prospective members submit photos and a bio and are individually vetted before being approved to buy event tickets. Parties take place in privately owned or rented residences — anything from a cozy single-family house to a high-rise apartment or a sprawling estate — dressed with curated music, lighting, and decor, and staffed by private security who check IDs and tickets at the door. Multiple rooms are set up for different kinds of play, including massage tables and group-play spaces, and some venues include light bondage equipment, though kink is not the focus and advanced practices such as heavy impact, breath, fire, or blood play are not allowed. Most Los Angeles private parties host 40 to 80 members, with occasional larger mansion parties or destination retreats drawing 150 or more. Events split into Tease Cocktail Mixers, held in a reserved area of a bar or restaurant, and private play parties, which typically run 8pm to 2am (or 2pm to midnight for all-day soirees) behind a strict arrival window; doors close once it ends and late arrivals aren't admitted without prior arrangement. Parties are BYOB, with mixers, snacks, towels, condoms, and lube provided; dress code follows each event's theme, usually cocktail attire or suits, and repeated non-compliance can lead to membership cancellation. Photos and video are banned once the pre-party consent talk begins, the exact venue address is released only to ticket holders on the day of the event, and single men are capped and gender-balanced against single-women ticket sales.

Club Z

Unverified

Columbus, OH

private residential home

Billed as the Ultimate Interracial Lifestyle Club in Central Ohio, Club Z has carved out a singular niche in Columbus's lifestyle scene by centering racial diversity and interracial connection at its core. Operated by Angela and Edwin from a private residential location in the greater Columbus area, the club deliberately keeps its address off public listings — members receive it only after their application clears a mandatory telephone interview. That screening process sets the tone: this is not a walk-in venue. The atmosphere is described consistently as sensual, inviting, and intimate, closer in feel to an upscale house party than a commercial nightclub. Membership is open to couples, single females, and select single males sponsored as guests of member couples — a policy that keeps the guest list curated and the ratio balanced. The club operates on a BYOB basis and runs monthly Saturday-night parties capped at 35 to 40 guests, a deliberately small number that reinforces the private-party atmosphere. Prospective members must be 21 or older and present a valid photo ID. The club carries a NASCA International affiliation. Club Z's identity is built around discretion and a no-pressure philosophy: members socialise and play at their own level of comfort. The intimate scale — unlike the large commercial clubs in Columbus — is a deliberate differentiator. Contact runs through 614-361-5900 and ClubZZebra@aol.com; the club's website at clubzzebra.com does not currently resolve.

Body Shop Pittsburgh

McKees Rocks, PA

Club

Tucked into an industrial pocket of McKees Rocks just minutes from downtown Pittsburgh, The Shop Social Lounge — better known in the lifestyle community as Body Shop Pittsburgh — occupies more than 15,000 square feet of reimagined space on McKee Street. The venue layers nightclub energy with a deliberate sense of community: a dance floor anchored by a vintage-car DJ booth and stripper pole, a heated outdoor patio, and a string of themed play rooms and dungeon spaces designed for guests at every comfort level. Friday and Saturday nights rotate through a calendar of themed events — Latin Heat, Lingerie Night, kink-focused Freaky Fridays with on-site STI testing, and BDSM education workshops. The club draws a notably younger and more LGBTQ+-forward crowd than most Pennsylvania lifestyle venues, and the inclusive ethos is structural: gender-neutral pricing, a vetted online membership process, and Safer Space Monitors present at every event keep the culture of enthusiastic consent woven into the room rather than posted on a wall. Membership begins with a free online application and photo verification; event tickets are purchased separately. The BYOB format — no liquor license, guests bring their own — keeps the atmosphere relaxed and the pricing accessible, with individual memberships starting at $29/month and couple tickets typically around $96 per event. Co-founded by Gelsomino Esplandiu and John Ross, the club holds a 4.8-star Google rating and a reputation for hands-on ownership and consistent cleanliness.

Chameleons

Darlaston, West Midlands

On-Premise Club

Chameleons bills itself as the UK No.1 swingers club

Sweets Entertainment is a lifestyle event promoter serving the Denver, Colorado metro area, organizing private parties for couples and singles in the swinger community rather than operating a fixed clubhouse. Guests must be 21 or older and are admitted only after being added to a guest list through a short advance application, rather than through walk-in entry. Rather than a single physical location, its private parties are held at a rotating slate of Denver-area nightclubs and lounges, each typically reserved exclusively for the event. In its own materials, the group describes its aim as creating a social network to party, dance, and engage in conversation in a sexy, non-pressure atmosphere, with sexy or dress-to-impress attire encouraged for both women and men. Past events have included mix-n-mingles, summer BBQs, themed evening parties, and occasional charity nights, with guest lists historically reaching into the hundreds. Because parties move between venues, schedule, pricing, and house rules are set per event rather than tied to one address, and are shared with guests only after they are approved to attend. No confirmed events, posts, or independent mentions of Sweets Entertainment could be found from the past two years, and its website is no longer reachable, so prospective guests should treat its current operating status as unconfirmed and verify directly before planning to attend.

Missouri Lifestyles Club

Sedalia, MO

Missouri Lifestyles Club (MLC) is an off-premises lifestyle club with a Sedalia, Missouri contact base; monthly parties are held in a resort hotel ballroom at the Lake of the Ozarks. MLC caters mainly to couples, admitting a limited number of escorted singles once vetted by organizers. Prospective guests contact the club by phone or email in advance; the venue address is shared only with approved attendees. Parties center on a large dance floor with a stripper pole, live DJ, and professional sound and lighting. The club is BYOB, supplying mixers, ice, and snacks; the host resort separately provides guests a pool, hot tub, fitness room, and restaurant. Parties typically run the second Saturday of each month, doors 6:30pm-12:30am, with a theme, contests, and door prizes each month. Entry requires valid ID showing 21+. Singles are normally admitted only with a date or sponsoring couple, except at singles-friendly events. Rules ban weapons, illegal drugs, and unconsented photography; there is no sex or nudity in the event space.

Chameleons Newport

Newport, Wales

On-Premise Club

Chameleons Newport sits on Church Street in the centre of Newport, South Wales. Operating on Fridays only, the club draws couples and singles from across South Wales and into the West of England, and staff personally greet first-time visitors at the door. The house philosophy is explicit: members will never be pushed into anything they do not want to be involved in, and the space runs on a no-means-no culture enforced by management. The building spreads across three floors. Ground level holds the reception, a bar and main seating area, a dance floor, a singles changing room, showers, and two large Jacuzzis. The first floor adds a TV lounge, a couples changing room, a steam room, shower and powder room facilities, private and communal playrooms, a couples-only section, and a heated outdoor terrace for smokers. A sauna, additional showers, and further playrooms occupy the top floor. Membership is a one-time 25 GBP lifetime fee for couples; single ladies pay 10 GBP annually and single men 80 GBP annually. The minimum age is 21. Valid photo ID plus a recent utility bill is required from Newport applicants. Phones must stay in lockers throughout the venue and cameras anywhere inside lead to immediate membership revocation.

Pulse Lounge

Memphis, TN

Pulse Lounge Memphis is a private, members-only lifestyle venue in Memphis, Tennessee, catering to open-minded couples and singles aged 21 and over. The club operates on an application-and-approval model rather than public walk-in access, with membership tiers set at $55 for couples, $20 for single women, and $75 for single men, alongside optional six- or twelve-month upgrades that add extended event access. The operator frames the venue around discretion, safety, and a curated, upscale social environment rather than a conventional nightclub feel. The space includes lounge areas and private rooms and is BYOB, with the venue supplying ice, mixers, and non-alcoholic beverages at no additional charge. Rather than a fixed weekly night, the club runs a rotating calendar of themed events — from casual mixers to more elaborate seasonal parties such as a Father's Day weekend gathering — with dress expectations that shift by occasion. Members reference an upside-down pineapple as a discreet, insider signal of lifestyle interest that is meaningless to outsiders. Entry requires signing a membership and non-disclosure agreement covering confidentiality (which survives termination of membership for at least five years), a strict no-photography and no-recording policy across all member spaces, and a consent-first code of conduct — violations of either result in immediate revocation of membership without refund. Dress code is enforced: women are expected in sexy club wear such as corsets, thigh-high boots, or mini-skirts (pajamas and beachwear are barred), while men must wear collared shirts and dress shoes, with t-shirts, shorts, sneakers, and sportswear all prohibited. Membership fees are collected discreetly at the door in cash or major credit/debit cards once an application has been reviewed and approved, typically within 48 hours; the venue's exact address is disclosed only to approved members.

Club Privata

Portland, OR

On-Premise Club

Club Privata occupies a discreet, unmarked storefront at 824 SW 1st Ave in downtown Portland, Oregon — easy to walk past without noticing. Billing itself as an upscale "lifestyle club" rather than a sex club, it emphasizes community alongside play, and draws a crowd that skews toward an older demographic, roughly mid-30s to 40s, with plenty of members who come just to dance. The club is run by owners Holly R. and her husband Charles. The venue spans three floors and roughly 8,000 square feet, anchored by a hardwood dance floor lit in blues and magentas with a central go-go cage on a raised platform. The first floor holds the main bar, a locker area, and a room dedicated to flogging and impact play. The second floor adds another bar, a VIP room, private bedrooms, and a balcony overlooking the dance floor. The third floor houses a further bar and a spread of beds framed by drapes and antique mirrors. A late-night buffet is set up near the lockers and coat check, and the club runs two full-service bars rather than allowing outside alcohol. Club Privata is a members-only, 21-and-over venue open Thursday through Saturday nights (Thursday 8pm–2am with the third floor closed; Friday and Saturday 8pm–3am), with last entry roughly 90 minutes before close. Entry requires valid photo ID, a signed waiver, an active membership, and payment of a nightly door fee that varies by event and guest category; a strictly enforced upscale dress code applies club-wide. Single men are welcome but pay noticeably higher membership and door fees than couples or single women, and some theme nights offer discounted or free entry for single women. VIP bottle service areas and a private penthouse suite can be reserved separately.

FuseX Social Club - North Dakota Chapter

Fargo, ND

Social Club

FuseX Social Club's North Dakota Chapter serves the Fargo and Bismarck markets as part of a national private members' organization founded in Beverly Hills in 2016 and now operating across 23 states. The chapter has no permanent brick-and-mortar venue — consistent with FuseX's model nationwide — instead hosting events at rotating private locations including hotel takeovers, luxury house parties, and Level 1 and Level 2 mansion parties in the Fargo area and, for larger gatherings, in nearby Minneapolis. Larger signature events lean toward themed masquerade parties and curated cocktail dinners with choreographed erotic theatre performed by professional hosts who mingle with members during the evening. The club positions itself as an upscale, approval-only alternative to public lifestyle apps and open swingers venues. Membership is selective — only 1 in 4 applications is accepted — and every prospective member passes a criminal background check, a personal interview, and signs a lifetime confidentiality agreement. Events are BYOB, and event locations are disclosed to confirmed members roughly 30 days in advance via private inbox and phone. Fargo is explicitly listed as a host city on the application event-locations roster alongside Minneapolis. The lifestyle interests catered to span swinging, BDSM and kink, cuckolding, hotwifing, voyeurism and exhibitionism, polyamory, and interracial play. Membership tiers range from a Platinum tier ($3,500/year, couples and single men) through a Circle tier ($18,000/year) and an All Access Elite tier ($25,000/year); single women receive complimentary Platinum membership. Per-event costs are separately priced. Consent is strictly enforced: no means no, always ask before touching, only yes means yes.

Black Diamonds Swinger Club

Unverified

Alexandria, VA

Event Organizer

Black Diamonds Swinger Club is a sex-positive lifestyle community rooted in Alexandria, Virginia, and operating across the broader DMV region — Washington DC, Maryland, and Northern Virginia. Founded as a space primarily targeted towards those of African American descent and other people of color, it occupies a rare and intentional niche in the DMV lifestyle scene, centering Black and POC attendees within a safe, consensual, and sane environment. The club's promotional partner is DNAKinks LLC, and its events are coordinated via a centralized Linktree that links out to ticketing, social media, and booking channels. Unlike a fixed brick-and-mortar venue, Black Diamonds operates as an event-based club, hosting parties at rotating or private locations across the DMV rather than from a single permanent address. This pop-up model keeps the community tight-knit and screened. The Instagram account (@blackdiamonds6219) maintains over 24,000 followers, while the Facebook page has accumulated more than 4,100 likes from the Alexandria and wider DC metro community. All booking and event discovery is handled through the Linktree hub (linktr.ee/BlackDiamondsSwingerClub) and associated social channels, with no walk-in or permanent physical storefront publicly listed.

The Green Door

Las Vegas, NV

On-Premise Club

Occupying 18,000 square feet inside the Commercial Center strip mall on East Sahara Avenue, The Green Door has been a Las Vegas fixture since owner Joey Cavaretta opened the doors in 1998. The two-storey venue sits beneath an emerald-green sign about ten minutes from the Strip and operates as an adults-only sex club rather than a traditional swingers club, drawing a broad, international mix of couples and singles from all walks of life. The ground floor and upper level hold a maze of open play areas and themed rooms -- a dungeon, a doctors office, a jacuzzi room, a shadow-box room, a blue room and a voyeur room among them -- many fitted with glass walls or chain-link doors that invite watching but limit access. A couples-only section upstairs contains five small doorless rooms bounded by roughly six-foot walls, plus a two-way mirror viewing area; a separate couples-plus-one zone requires an escort invitation from the hosting couple. Multiple non-alcoholic bars are scattered across both floors, a game room and a chill lounge offer decompression space, and the dimly black-lit interior keeps the atmosphere more anonymous than performative. No cameras or recording devices are permitted inside, towels are freely available, and an all-male staff patrols the premises to enforce consent and house rules.

PolyUrban Studios

Carmichael, CA

PolyUrban Studios is a home-based adult lifestyle space on North Avenue in Carmichael, California, run by owner Rey Bonilla and open to singles, couples, and polycules of all orientations. The venue operates as a donation-funded club with lockers, showers, a hot tub, beds, a sling, play benches, a massage table, a rimming chair, gloryholes, and an outdoor play area with a separate shower. Towels, condoms, and lube are provided, and fetish wear is welcomed. The weekly calendar runs seven days: Sunday through Thursday the doors open at 11:30 a.m. and close at 10 p.m., while Friday and Saturday sessions run from 2 p.m. to 2 a.m. Themed parties rotate through the week — Sunday gloryhole and gangbang sessions, Monday-through-Thursday afternoon playdates, a Wednesday evening afterparty, a Thursday couples night, Freaky Friday parties, and Saturday dance nights with a DJ and a full bar on select evenings. Membership contributions start at $25 per person, $40 for couples, and $60 for triads, with a $10 happy-hour rate between noon and 1 p.m. The atmosphere is explicitly pressure-free: no participation is required, and the posted house rules lead with No means no — ask for consent. Cameras and recording devices are banned, smoking is permitted outside only, and the doorman reserves the right to refuse entry. Guests must be 18 or older, and drugs and prostitution are strictly prohibited. Contact is by text or voicemail at (916) 410-6550.

Alaska Club Kink (ACK)

Anchorage, AK

BDSM/Kink Community Club

Alaska Club Kink (ACK) is Anchorage's one-of-a-kind kink and comedy community club — the rare venue that pairs BDSM education with open-mic nights, karaoke, and stand-up comedy under one roof. Founded by Surge Kulikov after the closure of ACAL in 2019, ACK operates out of subSpace, a 2,000+ sq ft LGBTQIA2S+-friendly, veteran-owned event space at 2217 E. Tudor Road, Suite 3. The club is built around an education-first philosophy. Monthly Kink 101 classes welcome complete beginners, a companion educational website (alaskakinkeducation.com) provides a public library of kink resources, and Dungeon Monitors are present at all events to ensure safe, consensual play. The weekly schedule is packed: Mystery Munches every Thursday (7:30–9:30 PM at The Raven Bar, open to the public), Tuesday Rope Jams and board game nights at subSpace, Friday Open Dungeon (7–10 PM, $20 drop-in), and monthly themed play parties on Saturdays (7 PM–1 AM, $40 general / free for All Access members). Play parties are potluck-style — the club provides finger foods, desserts, and non-alcoholic drinks, and attendees can bring dishes to share. The venue is fully dry: no alcohol is served or permitted, which removes consent complications and makes the space accessible to those in recovery. The 1,000 sq ft open dungeon floor is equipped with a large suspension frame, St. Andrew's crosses, bondage horse, massage tables, and more — all available for member use. Membership is free to join online (processed within a few days), with a paid "All Access Pass" tier that waives event fees, eliminates equipment rental deposits, and grants 50% off play parties. Comedy, theater, and public events are also hosted at subSpace separately from the kink programming, normalizing the space within the broader Anchorage community. In a state where alternative lifestyle spaces are rare, ACK is the community hub.

Syn in Tulsa

Unverified

Tulsa, OK

Syn in Tulsa is a female-focused lifestyle club founded in 2014 by Troy and Christy Hamilton and operates from a discreet suite at 5553 S Peoria Ave with the deliberate look of a regular office building. The entrance opens into a social area with bar-style seating, couches, a dance floor, a kitchen stocked with complimentary soda and water, unisex bathrooms, a selfie wall, cubby storage, and an outdoor smoking area. Behind that sits the main playroom with four beds, several couches, and a St Andrews cross, plus the Brat Realignment Center equipped with an obedience chair and spanking bench. Parties run Saturday nights only, doors at 8 pm and the party in full swing by 9 pm until 2 am. The venue operates a full-service bar and is not BYOL. Cover is $20 per couple, $40 for single males, and free for single women. All attendees must be 21+ and receive a bracelet at check-in. The club averages 100-200 guests per party with a wide range of ages, body types, and orientations. Owner Troy Hamilton built Syn around a safe place for women to fulfil their fantasies philosophy. Single males cannot enter the playrooms unless escorted by a couple or solo woman. A dedicated floor manager circulates the play areas. Solo women can arrange a staff escort from the parking lot. The club encourages regular STD testing and offers a $20 cover discount on presentation of a recent test receipt.

Mile High Club Chalet (MHCC)

Denver, CO

Social Club

Mile High Club Chalet is not a swingers club in the traditional sense — it is a network of private, kink-friendly rental suites scattered across Denver, Glendale and Centennial, available by the time slot for couples or small groups who bring their own company. Founded in 2019 by Denver-area realtor Teresa Grasmick, MHCC grew out of a single Airbnb repurposed for daytime trysts and now spans four properties in quiet residential neighbourhoods, each tastefully furnished and stocked with condoms, towels, mouthwash and a riding crop, with a sex sling and dishwasher-safe toys available on request. Booking runs through the website or by phone (720-799-6654), with three daytime slots available Sunday through Saturday from 9 am to 10 pm, plus overnight "moonlight" sessions. Same-day reservations are accepted by phone. Access is keyless: guests text on the day of their appointment for a one-time door code, and a cleaning crew turns each unit over in roughly fifteen minutes between visits. Packages range from a single visit at $120 to a five-visit bundle at $400. The model is strictly BYOP — bring your own partner. MHCC does not facilitate introductions, provide companionship or operate communal play areas; it simply offers a discreet, well-equipped space and gets out of the way.

PLUR Productions / Studio PLUR

Vancouver, British Columbia

Event Organizer

PLUR Productions is Vancouver's longest-running sex-positive and alternative-fetish event production company, operating under the guiding philosophy of Peace, Love, Unity, and Respect. Founded by ScottyHotty (Scott BreitKreuz) and tracing its roots to Club8X6 — formerly Vancouver's only privately licensed members-only sex venue — PLUR has grown into an independent producer serving the city's fetish, kink, BDSM, swinger, burner, rave, and LGBTQ+ communities. The company celebrated its 12th annual Mad Hatter's Player Ball in May 2026 and operates as a private membership club in which the door fee for any event constitutes a day membership, consistent with the Supreme Court of Canada's recognition of consensual adult activity in private clubs. Events take place across rotating venues: large-format ticketed parties at licensed nightclubs including The Penthouse, warehouse-style PLURHAUS nights at private locations, the VANTANIOR techno series at a Railtown venue equipped with a Funktion-One sound system, and seasonal PLUR Mansion house parties. All events feature clearly marked sex-on-premise (SOP) play areas alongside social lounge zones, DJ music, stage performances, and a licensed full bar at ticketed venues. Complimentary towels, condoms, lubricants, and lockers are provided with entry. Running parallel to these events is Studio PLUR, a privately bookable dungeon and social space with a 40-guest maximum — outfitted with a St. Andrew's cross, three styled benches, a rope-suspension rig, a floor cage, a corner bar with fridge, pro-audio sound, and a walk-in rainfall shower. Tickets for public events are sold in advance via Eventbrite; per-person pricing ranges from $35 to $40 CAD with no differential between genders or attendance types. Site memberships are available at $30 CAD for six months or $40 CAD for one year, though the door fee alone grants day membership. All guests must be 19 or older. Before entry, PLUR's Cupid consent hosts walk each guest through the club's Top Ten Rules of Consent and issue a consent stamp. Open photography and video recording — including mobile phone use — are prohibited throughout all venues. The recurring iCandy Meet and Mingle, held every second Friday, provides first-timers with a venue tour, a lifestyle presentation, and conversation with experienced PLUR attendees.

Jay-Dees

Colmworth, Bedfordshire

On-Premise Club

Jay-Dees is a private members' swingers club occupying a converted farm building at Berry Wood Farm on Little Staughton Road in Colmworth, a rural Bedfordshire village near the Cambridgeshire border. The venue spans approximately 5,500 square feet set within original agricultural buildings, their ship's-timber beams preserved throughout the interior, giving the space a distinctive rustic character. The club draws a membership from across Bedfordshire, Cambridgeshire and the wider Home Counties. The interior opens from a reception lounge into a nightclub-style space with a dance floor and pole stage, alongside a bar area where guests store their own drinks. A 30-plus-seat hot tub commands a central position in the venue but is reserved strictly for socialising — no play in the water is permitted. Eight private playrooms adjoin open-play areas fitted to cater to both exhibitionists and voyeurs, with doors adjustable to locked or open positions; other spaces include a St. Andrews crosses room and a couples-only section. The club runs a rotating calendar of themed events: bi nights, curvaceous-lady evenings, newcomer parties and occasional burlesque and steampunk nights. The atmosphere is consistently described by regulars as relaxed and welcoming, with free on-site camping for caravans and motorhomes. Friday and Saturday party nights run from approximately 8:30pm, with doors closing at 11pm; Saturday sessions run to 2:30am. Entry is tiered by night: couples pay £25–£40, single men £35–£50 (advance email booking required for single men), and single women £15 on Friday and Saturday. A complimentary buffet, tea and coffee are provided at the door. Alcohol is bring-your-own and stored behind the bar. Membership is mandatory and processed on first visit — photo ID and a current utility bill are required alongside a £20 membership fee; returning members present their card. Photography and recording devices are prohibited throughout the venue, and mobile phones must be stored on arrival.

YKW (You Know Where)

Unverified

Fayetteville, NC

Swingers Club

YKW (You Know Where) is a long-running lifestyle/swingers club brand based in Fayetteville, North Carolina, that has had no operating venue since 2022. The address on file for its former club, 815 Shannon Dr, was vacated after the club lost its lease; as of mid-2026 the operators have not opened a replacement location, and the brand's public presence consists mainly of social-media updates rather than a functioning venue. Founded in 2005, YKW spent roughly its final decade at the Shannon Drive building, billing itself as North Carolina's first fully licensed, permitted and insured on-premise swingers club and citing more than 40,000 accumulated member sign-ups over its run. Per the club's own website, the closure was not a legal or licensing issue: the property's new landlord declined to renew YKW's lease past June 1, 2022, stating he did not want to be associated with "our type of business" after more than ten years as a tenant. YKW held a farewell party on May 21, 2022, and has been searching for a new home since. The operators say they dropped an earlier ground-up rebuild plan in favor of remodeling an existing, roughly 27,000-square-foot building, with permitting and buildout reportedly in progress. That shift moved the target reopening to "Summer 2026," but as of this writing the new address has not been made public, no reopening has been independently confirmed, and no source verifies any "hotel takeover" interim events — treat all of this as the operator's stated plan, not a confirmed current offering.

Club Ambassador

Eisenberg, Thuringia

On-Premise Club

Club Ambassador sits just off the A9 autobahn near the Hermsdorfer Kreuz interchange, where Thuringia, Saxony, and Saxony-Anhalt converge. Owned by Marcus Schuetze, the club occupies a three-storey property spanning roughly 600 square metres with six themed rooms. The house motto: everything is possible, nothing is mandatory. The club holds a 4.9 out of 5 rating on JoyClub. Five distinct event formats cycle across the week. Wednesday Breakfast Party (10:00-18:00) and Sunday Brunch (13:00-18:00) offer relaxed daytime entry. Thursday Come in and Find Out evening (17:00-22:00) charges just 10 EUR across all guest categories. Friday Hot Friday (19:00-03:00) and Saturday Swinger Evening (19:00-03:00); Saturday all-inclusive packages at 99 EUR for couples, 33 EUR for women, and 119 EUR for single men, with JoyClub-member discounts. The three floors house six themed rooms including a Thai room, an atelier, and a fully equipped SM area, alongside a lounge with bar and dance floor, a separate smoking room, a sauna, and an outdoor pool and whirlpool. A buffet provides in-house dining, and overnight accommodation with breakfast is available.

colette New Orleans

New Orleans, LA

On-Premise Club

colette New Orleans is a private, membership-only, on-premise social club at 822 Gravier St in downtown New Orleans, for couples, single men, and single women who are active in or curious about the swinging, polyamorous, or open-relationship lifestyle. It operates under the wider colette clubs brand, which also runs locations in Dallas, Houston, and Austin, and describes itself as an upscale, European-style swingers venue. The venue spans more than 6,000 square feet across two floors: a main level with a dance floor, DJ, and lounge seating, and a second-floor lounge. The space includes lockers, a beverage cooler, and a non-smoking policy throughout. Alcohol is not sold on-site — the club is BYOB, with free mixers, ice, and setups provided (plastic and styrofoam coolers are not permitted at the door). Members range roughly from their twenties to sixties and skew professional, with staff and security on hand. colette is open Wednesday and Thursday from 9pm to 2am and Friday and Saturday from 9pm to 4am, closed Sunday through Tuesday. Membership is required for entry in addition to nightly door fees, with a one-night trial ($30), 3-month ($100), and annual ($200) plan available. Door pricing runs roughly $30–70 for couples, $10–20 for single women, and $100–120 for single men; single men are not admitted on Saturdays, which are reserved for couples and single women. Dress code calls for upscale, dress-to-impress attire (fetish, leather, and gothic wear welcome), photos are limited to designated photo-op areas, and entry is restricted to guests 21 and older.

colette Dallas

Dallas, TX

On-Premise Club

colette Dallas is the chain's high-energy Texas flagship — a private, members-only on-premise lifestyle club spanning 8,000+ square feet across two floors in northwest Dallas, near Love Field. The aesthetic is modern warehouse meets nightclub: a dance floor anchored by stripper poles and a stage, high-tech lighting and sound, and a curated upscale crowd that takes the dress code seriously. The Dallas Observer ranked colette first in its "Best Swingers Clubs Dallas" feature, and SwingerLifestyle.com puts it at #2 across all of Texas — the most prominent on-premise lifestyle venue in Dallas–Fort Worth. Play spaces are tiered three ways: semi-private rooms with sheer curtains, fully private rooms with blackout curtains, and a centerpiece group play room with a round bed and spectator seating. There's also an in-club movie theater showing adult films, a quieter second-floor lounge, and a VIP room rentable for private parties of up to 30 ($500–$1,000) — a perk Texas reviewers consistently call best in the state. The bar is BYOB — no liquor license, but free mixers, ice, and setups are provided, plus a beverage cooler for member use. Newbie Night runs every Wednesday with the membership fee waived for first-timers; staff give every newcomer a guided tour on arrival. colette is a national chain founded by John and Jackie Melfi (who also run the OpenLove101 lifestyle blog and podcast). The Dallas location opened in 2012 and connects into a 250,000+ member network across five cities — Dallas, Austin, Houston, New Orleans, and San Antonio. One membership works at all of them. Single men are welcome Wednesday through Friday; Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only. Recurring themed nights include Pantiless Fridays, Thirty Dollar Thursday, and rotating fetish, lingerie, and costume parties — and i.Candy Parties hosts large monthly events at the venue throughout the year.

Jo & David's Swingers Parties

Chamcook, New Brunswick

Event Organizer

Jo and David's is a private house-party operation run by Jo (Joanne, Canadian) and David (British), a couple who hosted lifestyle and swingers events in the UK and Spain from 1999 to 2019 before relocating to New Brunswick in 2020 and continuing parties in Canada. Their home in Chamcook — a small community just outside Saint Andrews on the shores of Passamaquoddy Bay — is the sole venue. Having hosted over 600 swingers events across two continents, Jo and David operate explicitly as private hosts rather than a club: attendance requires creating a profile on the website, applying to the guestlist, and receiving approval before booking. Average attendance runs around 60 people per event. The house spans 3,600 square feet across three floors. The basement holds a 600-square-foot self-service bar with seating for 20-plus, a large-screen TV, a changing room with individual lockers, over 50 bath towels on shelves, and a playroom with a king-size bed. The main floor contains the kitchen and dining area — a designated safe zone where no sexual activity is permitted — a finger buffet served from 6 pm, a lounge seating up to ten that doubles as an exhibitionist playroom, and a playroom with two queen beds. The top floor has two further playrooms and a bathroom. Outside there is a fire pit, a smoking shack, a back deck, off-road parking, and a seasonal hot tub. Over 200 towels are distributed throughout the house, and condoms are stocked in baskets in every playroom and at the bar. All drinks — spirits, beer, wine, soft drinks, and hot beverages — are provided free, funded by party sponsors. Parties run on Saturdays from 6 pm to approximately 1 am. Two events typically alternate each month: a Greedy Girls party (open to women seeking male or female attention, with men in a supporting role) and a Couples and Singles party (open to mixed-sex couples plus single ladies and a limited number of single men). The 2026 contribution rates are CA$80 per couple (married, engaged, or cohabiting), CA$125 per couple (attending together for the event only), CA$40 for single ladies, and CA$75 for single men. Entry is by advance booking only — no walk-ins. Single men must pay within one hour of booking or the reservation is cancelled. No cameras or recording devices are permitted anywhere on the property.

Orlando Swingers Club

Orlando, FL

Event Organizer

Orlando Swingers Club has been running lifestyle parties since April 20, 2000, and now operates as a mobile event host rather than a single fixed venue, staging its gatherings at rented clubs, resorts, and hotels around the Orlando area — most recently based out of 727 Conley St, with a move to the 32801 zip underway (unconfirmed). Party themes rotate through swingers nights, gang bangs, meet-and-greets, orgy and group-sex events, and BDSM sessions, alongside recurring BBC/BWC/BCC theme parties, giving the calendar a broader spread than a typical single-room club. The operation doubles as a lifestyle travel agency and promoter, cross-promoting other hosts' parties for free in exchange for an invite, and runs an affiliated adult store alongside the event side of the business.

Minglers Social Club

Daytona Beach, FL

Social Club

Set inside 8,500 square feet on South Ridgewood Avenue, Minglers Social Club bills itself as Volusia County's largest private adult lifestyle club and Daytona's only members-only social club of its kind. The space is built to feel more upscale nightclub than back-room swap club: an exquisite dance floor with a state-of-the-art sound system and laser lighting, comfortable lounge seating and cosy couches, a pool table, and a magnificent juice bar for mixers since the club runs BYOB. Beyond the mingling floor sits a run of private and themed play-rooms with custom furniture, a dedicated fetish room stocked with amenities, public and private play areas, lockers, an outside lounge, and a separate outdoor smoking area. Entry is members-only - there's no walking in off the street without registering, and every guest must show photo ID at the door regardless of membership status. Single men are capped in number and must generally be sponsored by a couple, while couples and single ladies make up the bulk of the crowd; the club describes itself as accommodating all experience levels in a non-pressure, safe and sane DRAMA FREE environment. The dress code is strict 'Dress to Impress' - business casual to sexy dresses for ladies, collared or tailored shirts and dress pants for gents - with athletic wear, ball caps, cargo pants and backpacks explicitly barred, though guests are welcome to change into club attire on-site. House rules lean heavily on discretion and consent: no cell phones, cameras or recording devices anywhere on the premises, no drugs, no prostitution, and a 'no means no' policy enforced at every stage of an encounter. Groups of 30+ couples can book the whole venue for a private Thursday-night party with custom menu, theme and music, and the club also runs milestone packages for birthdays and anniversaries, complete with decorations, a themed cake and reserved seating.

Monkey Business

Wickford, Essex

Members Club (Roaming Events)

Monkey Business is a private lifestyle members club based in Wickford, Essex, operating since 2019 under the pillars of luxury, discretion, and community. Founded and run as a curated invitation-only operation, it is open to those aged 25 and over. Its home venue is a private villa in Essex whose address is never publicly listed — ticketed members receive the location approximately two hours before each event begins. The villa is equipped with a heated swimming pool, hot tub, sun loungers, and a BBQ for outdoor socialising, alongside a cocktail lounge and multiple dedicated play spaces: a dungeon and red room, a dark room, a cinema room, a glory hole and dark orgy room, and a range of private and social areas. The event calendar carries a strong themed character — leather-and-lingerie nights, 80s neon socials, Tantric Dine evenings with a private chef and four-course meal, Hotwife parties, and Ladies Only Days sit alongside lunchtime afternoon sessions. The club periodically stages events at external venues in Essex and Kent in addition to its home villa. Events are ticketed individually with no fixed weekly timetable; evening parties typically run 20:30 to 02:00, while daytime sessions run from around midday. Annual membership costs £50, is restricted to those aged 25 and over, and entitles holders to reduced entry. A first visit is permitted without membership at selected newbie and daytime events. Single males must hold registered membership and pre-book directly with the organisers before each event — walk-ins are not accepted. Dress code is event-specific and published alongside each listing.

Golden Lions

Markgröningen, Baden-Württemberg

Golden Lions is a long-running lifestyle club in Markgröningen, a quiet Swabian town roughly 20 kilometres northwest of Stuttgart. The club has been operating since 1999 and underwent a comprehensive renovation in October 2023, relaunching — as the site puts it — as a modern venue for "Erotik mit Niveau und Stil" (eroticism with sophistication and style). A mixed crowd of couples and singles from the Stuttgart–Ludwigsburg conurbation makes the drive out, drawn by an atmosphere the club positions as an oasis for erotic moments away from daily life, with a clientele that reviewers consistently describe as friendly and the staff as welcoming. The space includes a bar, a dance floor, a buffet, multiple themed playrooms, three whirlpools (indoor and outdoor), a sauna, massage facilities, a garden area, and secured locker rooms, with ample parking front and rear — including space for campervans. Every entry ticket is all-inclusive: the door price covers full club access, the buffet, and all drinks at the bar. The event calendar runs the full week: Thursday mornings bring a "Fantastic Breakfast" brunch party (10:00–14:00); Wednesdays host BANG my Hotwife evenings (18:00–23:00); Fridays and Saturdays run standard couple-and-singles nights alongside dedicated couples-only evenings (20:00 to 02:00 or 03:00); and Sundays offer afternoon sessions (14:00–21:00). Themed events — White Night, Oktoberfest, foam parties, a Silvester Gala, CFNM nights, and explicit-format gangbang evenings — fill out the annual programme. Access is clearly tiered by guest type. Couples and solo women may arrive on the night without a reservation; solo men must pre-register on JOYclub and receive guest confirmation before being admitted, with JOYclub members also receiving a discount off the standard door price. Entry pricing is steeply differentiated by gender and event type, ranging from €5–40 for solo women to €45–130 for solo men, and €20–110 for couples. A complete ban on mobile phones and cameras is enforced throughout the premises, keeping the atmosphere relaxed and discreet. The dress code is erotic and frivolous for women — lingerie, latex, and minimal clothing are all encouraged — while men are expected in formal black-and-white attire or clubwear. Safe sex is described on the site as "selbstverständlich" (self-evident), and the no-means-no rule is taken seriously: any guest who ignores a refusal faces immediate expulsion.

Mitch's Place

Jacksonville, FL

On-Premise Club

Mitch's Place is a long-running on-premises house party tucked into a residential pocket of Jacksonville's Southside, identified only by its 32207 zip code until a caller books in. It's run personally by its owner, Mitch, who fields every inquiry himself by phone between 8am and 8pm. The venue occupies a 3-bedroom, 2-bathroom home converted for the lifestyle: a dedicated video room, a bar room, indoor lounge and sitting areas, and a dance floor with a stripper pole set the tone indoors, while an outdoor covered patio with a gas fire pit and a 102-degree enclosed hot tub extend the party outside. On the Fourth of July the party even doubles as a fireworks-viewing spot, visible right from the property. Parties run weekly on Saturdays from 9pm to 2am, with occasional extended hours for holidays. Attendance is restricted to couples and single females 21 and over — the site does not advertise open admission for single men — and new couples and singles are required to call ahead before their first visit, since the address itself is only shared over the phone. The party is BYOB, with a bartender on-site providing cups, ice, mixers, and snacks; towels are supplied for the hot tub, and no drugs are permitted.

The Red Chair

Birmingham, AL

On-Premise Club

The Red Chair (TRC) is a BDSM and alternative-lifestyle education, social, and advocacy organization serving Central Alabama, based in Birmingham. Founded in November 1997, it describes itself as Alabama's oldest organization of its kind and operates as a 501(c) nonprofit and Coalition Partner of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF). TRC welcomes all sexual orientations and consensual relationship styles, with a mission centered on education, discussion groups, and social events for the BDSM and kink community rather than nightly on-premise play parties. The organization is run by an elected Board of Directors and maintains a dedicated Consent Team, established in 2019, to field concerns and recommend membership action when needed. TRC operated its own roughly 3,500-square-foot clubhouse and dungeon from 2001 to 2005, giving it up after the landlord raised the rent sharply; since then it has held gatherings at rented spaces and members homes rather than a fixed public address. Members in good standing can privately book TRC's current playspace for parties or play sessions, with a Manager on Duty required on-site to oversee any dungeon activity. A long-running subgroup, ALAFF, runs a low-key newcomer-friendly social a couple of times a month. Membership is by invitation: prospective members attend a public munch, open to anyone 19 or older, and complete an orientation before being invited to private, members-only events. Private space rentals cost $200 for a four-hour block, with a fifth hour split between setup and cleanup, and can be canceled up to 48 hours ahead for a full refund. A house safeword, Red, lets attendees end a scene at any time, with dungeon monitors and the Manager on Duty responsible for enforcing it.

The Cottage Social Club

Orrtanna, PA

Social Club

Tucked into the rural Adams County countryside near Orrtanna, Pennsylvania — just a short drive from Historic Gettysburg — The Cottage has been running as an on-premise lifestyle club since 1981, making it one of the longest-established members-only swinger venues in the mid-Atlantic. The property at 1534 Old Route 30 has grown into a sprawling multi-room complex with a live-DJ dance floor, mirrored stage with stripper pole, two pool tables, a full BYOB bar with mixers provided, and a large hot tub area with towels supplied. The club runs themed parties including Cottage Invasion and DIVA Rouge events, with finger foods and soups on Fridays and a full hot-food and salad bar on Saturdays. The playspace includes a large group room, observation room, six single-play rooms, a BDSM room, and twelve private party rooms. Overnight stays span multiple VIP room categories, from a VIP Suite with king bed, private bathroom, balcony, and kitchen access, down through standard Club Rooms assigned after the party ends. Showers are on site; checkout is 11 AM. Membership tiers run from a $10 one-night temporary pass through annual rates to Gold ($450 couples, $600 single men) and Platinum ($900/$1,200, two years). Friday door fees are $51 for couples; Saturdays $71. Single women pay $15 both nights. The average member age is 30-55.

Eros Events

Redmond, WA

Event Organizer

Eros Events is a private, members-only, on-premise lifestyle group based in Redmond, Washington, operating continuously since early 2003 under its original name, Redmond Ranch. The club describes itself as an inclusive community that welcomes members regardless of race, gender, gender identity, or sexuality, and builds its culture around explicit, enthusiastic consent. Parties are held at a home-like retreat center set on several acres, combining a heated indoor pool and hot tub (swimwear optional) with a DJ-driven dance floor and brass pole, a voyeur room, and semi-private and open group play areas. Two detached cabins supplement the main house — a cozy, semi-private cabin with a loft and king beds, and a larger cabin used for bigger groups and light BDSM play. The property has recently been refreshed with a new roof, paint, carpet, and a renovated pool and hot tub. Evening parties run on Saturday nights roughly once a month (with occasional Fridays), 8pm to midnight with newcomer orientation at 7pm, while swim parties happen on Sundays one to two times a month from 1 to 5pm with orientation at noon. Entry requires annual membership ($30 per person, or $10 for a single-party pass) plus a per-party charge of $70 per couple or $40 per person, with identical rates for all singles since 2023; cash only. First-timers must complete an orientation and show valid state ID, and alcohol, marijuana, phones, and cameras are all prohibited on the property.

The SPOTT Night Club

Unverified

Kansas City, MO

On-Premise Club

Tucked just off Interstate 70 at 2111 Television Place, The SPOTT Night Club has held its ground as Kansas City's flagship lifestyle and swingers venue for over fifteen years. The facility spans more than 8,000 square feet of indoor and outdoor party and play space. Inside, a 625-square-foot dance floor anchors the main hall, flanked by five dance poles, ten Las Vegas-style VIP booths, LED-lit glass bar-height tables, and an upper balcony that overlooks the action below. A 15x25-foot HD projection screen and Peavey surround sound fill the room, while a live DJ/VJ spins requests. On an average Saturday the crowd tops 300 guests — couples, single females, and a capped number of single men — and reviewers consistently describe the vibe as warm, polite, and pressure-free. The SPOTT runs every Saturday from 8:30 pm to 5:00 am with a different theme each week. The venue is strictly 21+ with no exceptions. Admission is tiered: couples pay $30 in advance or $40 at the door; single females $15/$20; single males $40 in advance, $50 at the door before 10:30 pm or $75 after. No printed ticket required — a valid ID at check-in suffices. No re-entry after 12:30 am. Play spaces include three private colour-themed lounges (Red, Blue, Green), a small open lounge, and a large group lounge with a voyeur viewing area. Outdoors, the WETTSPOTT area offers a 16x32-foot heated pool, an eight-person hot tub, five cushioned gazebos, and fire tables — open from St Patrick's Day to Halloween. Fully BYOB; complimentary Coke and Pepsi products provided, coolers welcome.

Lavish Lifestyle Events

Hauppauge, NY

Event Organizer

Lavish Lifestyle Events is an off-premise lifestyle event company run by Cynthia and Ron, the couple who operated Club Manor -- Long Island's premier off-premise swingers club -- for over a decade before closing it in September 2015 and pivoting to a travelling event format. The operation has since been fully rebranded as Lavish Lifestyle Events, expanding from its Long Island base to South Florida, with events now targeted across Palm Beach, Broward, and Dade counties at rotating private venues. All events are RSVP-only with no walk-in admittance. An online form collects names, email, and phone number; couples must list both partners. A discount applies to early RSVPs but expires at noon on the day of each event. Event dates are announced via the website and a newsletter, and the schedule rotates -- prospective guests are encouraged to check back regularly as upcoming parties are revealed on a rolling basis. Both couples and singles are welcome. The tone throughout is upscale and low-drama: themed soirees with crafted cocktails, curated music, and a no-nonsense social atmosphere. Cynthia and Ron position the brand on nearly two decades of community-building credibility from the Club Manor years. Personal information collected at RSVP is kept strictly confidential per the site's privacy policy and never shared with outside parties.

Probe Ottawa

Ottawa, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Probe Ottawa is a queer-owned and operated private members club occupying the 3rd and 4th floors of 41 York St in Ottawa's Byward Market district. Founded through the vision of Miel Nannini, the club describes its core values as "exploration, community, inclusivity and accessibility," positioning itself as a multi-purpose community hub for consensual kink and adult connection rather than a conventional lifestyle venue. It operates as a private members-only space under Ontario law and maintains an active presence on Facebook, FetLife, and Instagram. The venue spans approximately 3,200 square feet across two floors with distinct characters. The 4th floor holds an open dungeon space with a custom suspension frame, a loft, and a kitchen, and serves as the main check-in point reached via an in-building elevator. The 3rd floor offers a series of more intimate rooms suited to smaller groups and private play. Showers, cleaning supplies, and fresh linens are provided throughout; members are responsible for changing sheets after each use. Probe works alongside an on-site accessibility coordinator and the entire venue is elevator-accessible and wheelchair accessible. The space is scent-free, and the programming reflects that commitment to access: a recurring "Soft and Low Play Party" format is designed specifically for attendees with sensory processing disorders or chemical sensitivities, featuring whisper-only guidelines, dim lighting, no music, and complimentary ear plugs. Probe operates only when events are scheduled — any day of the week between 8am and 2am — rather than on a fixed weekly calendar. Programming is broad: regular offerings include play parties, rope hangouts, impact labs, kink workshops, educational classes, community socials (including aromantic/asexual and queer-specific groups), trivia nights, and kinky life drawing. Most play parties require a current Probe membership; memberships run CAD $40 for three months or $120 for a year, with a $10 temporary 24-hour membership available at the door. Event tickets are typically offered on a sliding scale — Supported ($15), Sustain ($20), Standard ($25), Generous ($30), and Benevolent ($35) — so that pricing is not a barrier. The entry door locks by midnight at the latest, and new members attending their first play party must arrive within the first two hours of the event. No alcohol is sold on site and BYOB is not permitted; non-alcoholic drinks and snacks are provided at play parties.

My Secret House Party Club

Mesa, AZ

Off-Premise Club

My Secret House Party Club is a members-only lifestyle gathering run out of a private residence in Mesa, Arizona, serving the greater Phoenix Metropolitan area. Founded in 2006 by host Tanya, the club states it has run more than 600 events for over 25,000 guests, and markets itself as an "elite, invitation-only" scene for couples and single women, with select nights opened to single men. The venue is a private home rather than a commercial club: guests circulate between the kitchen, patio and pool rather than dedicated club rooms, and the property includes a game room (pool table, air hockey, arcade basketball), a resort-style pool with a slide and jacuzzi, a built-in gas barbecue, multiple lounge and entertainment areas, large-screen TVs, and a crossdresser's closet stocked with clothing from extra-small to XXL. Tanya hosts personally, and the club's own materials describe the setting as a "clean, upscale private home" with a "respectful, mature community," clear boundaries and a consent culture, summed up as "no pressure, no judgment, no drama." There is no walk-in ticketing: prospective guests join a private email list to receive event invitations and early notice of upcoming parties rather than booking directly online. Outside of scheduled parties, the same house is separately offered as a private rental by the hour ($100 for the first hour for up to two guests, $50 per additional guest, each further hour at half the initial rate), with a discreet on-site host present but not involved in guest activities.

Club 101

Dayton, OH

On-Premise Club

Club 101 has been Dayton's oldest on-premise members-only lifestyle club for roughly 25 years, anchored at 101 Avondale Drive in a discreet building with private parking. The layout centres on a large open main room with a dance floor, DJ booth, pool table, and adult movie lounge with couches — the club takes evident pride in its DJ show, billing it as the best of any area lifestyle venue. Off the social floor, the space branches into five private rooms sized for one or two couples, two semi-private rooms with windows designed for optional exhibitionism, one large open group room, a slightly smaller group room with a mirrored wall, and a massage table room with BDSM possibilities. Showers, lockers, and a cooler for BYOB drinks round out the practical amenities, with free snacks and soda on hand throughout the night. The crowd skews toward mature, consenting adults — beginners and veterans alike — and the no-pressure ethos is reinforced at every level, from signage to staff. The club is active on Swingtowns, SDC, SLS, SZC, and Fetlife, and maintains a lively theme-party calendar (past events include a Denim & Diamonds Glowy Party and Pasties & Panties nights). In a public-health gesture, management partners with Shameless Care to offer members a free STI education course and supplies.

Described as Denver's finest lifestyle club, Sugar Lounge is an open-minded venue hosting a wide range of events in a safe, clean, and friendly environment.

The Playhouse is a lifestyle social club serving the Central Okanagan, conceived in Kelowna, British Columbia by an operator using the pseudonym Paulina Austin. The concept emerged publicly in 2018, when Austin sought investors for a permanent brick-and-mortar venue and gauged community interest through an anonymous survey. Finding that roughly 75 per cent of respondents were supportive, she pressed ahead despite the failure to secure funding, pivoting in May 2019 to a pop-up party format that would allow the club to operate while the permanent space remained aspirational. The original venue vision was relatively ambitious for a mid-sized BC city: Austin envisioned separate social and intimate wings under one roof, with a fully licensed bar and lounge, a dance floor, a dance pole, themed rooms, and by-the-hour private spaces. The pop-up model that replaced it is deliberately stripped back — events are held at undisclosed locations in the Central Okanagan, capped at 25 couples per gathering, and run with an emphasis on discretion and low pressure. Condoms are provided, and a dedicated private room is set aside for first-timers or shy attendees who want to attend without feeling obligated to participate in anything beyond socialising. Admission to pop-up events is $30 CAD per couple, and attendance is restricted to couples only — singles are not admitted. All guests must sign a waiver on arrival. Austin has described the philosophy in plain terms: everything is allowed, but nothing has to happen. The club positions itself as a transparent, above-board alternative to what Austin characterises as Kelowna's existing but largely hidden underground swinging scene, having confirmed with the city and local law enforcement that its operations are lawful. The club maintains a presence on Instagram as @playhouse_swingers_club_.

Sea Mountain Inn Nude Resort & Spa

Desert Hot Springs, CA

Lifestyle Resort

Sea Mountain Inn Nude Resort & Spa sits on San Marcus Road in Desert Hot Springs, in the Coachella Valley near Palm Springs, and operates as a couples-and-single-women lifestyles resort and clothing-optional day spa. Also marketed online as Sea Mountain Lifestyles Resort, the property is an adults-only, 24-hour nude pool and lifestyles club with 15 private guest suites for overnight stays, plus separate day-visit and evening-spa access for guests not staying overnight. The grounds center on a 24-hour heated mineral-water pool and whirlpool, a nude cedar sauna, and the Taboo Gardens lounge, an alcohol-free 24-hour social and dance space stocked with complimentary soft drinks, coffee, tea and snacks. Guest suites include mineral-water waterfall showers, flat-screen TVs and a complimentary breakfast, and the resort also rents rooms and pool areas for private parties, group spa days and weddings. Regular guests skew couples and single women in their twenties through sixties, and the operators describe a deliberately low-pressure, body-positive culture aimed at both first-time nudists and longtime lifestylers. Day spas run late morning to early evening, and evening spas extend later on weekends and during special events, though exact times vary by season - check directly with the resort before visiting. Entry requires proof of age 21 or older and a paid annual membership signed on the first visit; the resort admits couples and single women only, with no unaccompanied single men. The resort also runs a recurring calendar of themed lifestyles and swingers parties throughout the year, several featuring outside vendors and multi-day programming on site.

Mon Chalet

Aurora, CO

Lifestyle Resort

Sitting behind an iron gate on East Colfax Avenue in Aurora — fifteen minutes from Denver International Airport — Mon Chalet is a 22-room adults-only fantasy motel that has been catering to lifestyle couples since the 1960s. Every suite wraps a king-sized bed in floor-to-ceiling mirrors and pipes twelve exclusive adult channels through a 4K TV; tiers run from Basic rooms with fireplaces and bubble lights up to Deluxe suites outfitted with in-room whirlpools, steam showers, the ceiling-hung 'Swing,' and the resort's signature sculptured 'Love Machine.' The decor leans unabashedly retro — think mirrored canopies, holographic glass panels etched with nudes, and moody LED lighting — but the rooms are well-maintained and unapologetically over the top. The main social hub is a heated, fully enclosed clothing-optional pool area housing a medium-sized pool, two hot tubs, and poolside lounging. Guests who book a suite have all-hours access; couples and single women can also purchase a standalone pool pass (daytime 11 am-4 pm for all; evenings 5 pm-5 am for couples and single women only — single men need a room at night). A colour-coded wristband system signals each guest's interests at a glance, keeping approaches low-pressure and consent front and centre. Reservations are made by phone only — no online booking engine — and a valid photo ID (driver's licence, passport, or state-issued ID) is required at check-in. Matinee stays run noon to 4 pm; overnight check-in is 6 pm with an 11 am check-out. Alcohol is permitted in the pool area in cans or plastic only — no glass. Cameras and phones are banned from the pool, and the gated property keeps the vibe secure and discreet despite the gritty stretch of Colfax outside.

Night Pleasures is a Chicago-area lifestyle club run by hosts Lloyd and Sharon out of a Lombard, IL mailing address, though the parties themselves are held off-premise at rotating partner venues rather than a fixed clubhouse. According to the club's own listing, events have been hosted at two locations: Couples Choice in Chicago and Private Affairs in Dekalb, giving members access to established on-premise spaces -- Private Affairs alone offers roughly 5,000 square feet with a bar, DJ and dance floor, social area, shower rooms, themed back playrooms and a jacuzzi. Night Pleasures bills itself as a club "of true lifestylers" catering to couples who want to be at "the very pinnacle of this lifestyle," and it is strictly couples-only, with no single men or single women admitted under its own banner. The schedule runs on a two-tier rhythm: Saturday parties are described as charged, high-energy affairs for more experienced lifestylers, while Sunday parties are pitched as more relaxed and better suited to couples new to the scene. Entry is by interview -- prospective members are asked to call ahead to be screened before attending -- which keeps the group curated rather than open to walk-ins.

Sinners Den

Indio, CA

On-Premise Club

Sinners Den is an on-premise adult lifestyle club in Indio, California, operating as a private, membership-based venue for the swinger and kink community. It welcomes adults 18 and older regardless of body type, ethnicity, or experience level. The street address is not published; confirmed members are sent the location directly before each event. The venue has 17 private bedrooms — five indoors and twelve poolside cabanas — arranged around an enclosed, heated saltwater pool with an adjoining fire pit and smoking area. A separate dungeon room holds a king-size bed, a spreader bar, four tie-down benches, and suspension pulleys, and a dance floor features a stripper pole and stage. The main area includes an all-glass shower with five showerheads, male and female glory holes, and two bars — one indoor, one poolside — serving only mixers, since the club does not sell or supply alcohol. Parties run Saturdays from 9 p.m. to 2 a.m., the only schedule currently published. Entry requires an approved membership application, filed online in advance (including a photo) or completed at an in-person sign-in table before entry. Minimum age is 18, or 21 to bring personal alcohol under the club's BYOB policy. Admission covers food, water, soda, mixers, towels, two sizes of condoms, lubricant, and on-site hostess and security staff; no membership fee or cover charge is published.

Shadows Private Club 2.0

Hyattsville, MD

private members club

Tucked into a light-industrial pocket of Hyattsville just minutes from the DC line, Shadows Private Club has built its reputation as the DMV go-to lifestyle destination for couples and singles who want something more curated than a bar and more honest than a hook-up app. Since opening in February 2017, the club has grown to a membership base of over 20,000 and anchors its identity on three pillars: a no-pressure atmosphere, a genuinely selective admission process, and a party schedule that gives members something to come back for every week. The vibe leans sophisticated rather than seedy — think masquerade masks, purple lighting, a resident DJ spinning R&B, Hip-Hop, Latin and Afrobeats, and a crowd that owner William Lorenzo describes as 21-and-up adults who value discretion and a good time in equal measure. The weekly programme runs Wednesday through Sunday. Wednesday, Thursday, and Sunday are general-admission nights running 9 pm to 3 am, while Friday and Saturday stretch to 5 am — an hour or two later than most competitors in the metro area. Saturday is the headline night: couples and single ladies are welcome on all nights, but single men are capped at ten admissions on Saturdays, with a correspondingly higher door price. Themed events rotate through the calendar and include Shadow Play parties, Glow Parties, Costume Nights, Queen of Spades evenings, and Wet T-Shirt Competitions. Entry is members-only — same-day applications are accepted online or at the door. Everyone must be 21-plus with a valid government-issued ID; no ID means no entry, no exceptions. The club is BYOB, with complimentary mixers provided free of charge; complimentary finger food is served every Friday and Saturday night. Phones and recording devices of any kind are prohibited inside — strictly enforced to protect member privacy.

Illuminaughty (San Francisco)

San Francisco, CA

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty is not a fixed-address club but a roving, invitation-only party series that has been lighting up the Bay Area since early 2024. Events land in private residences — member-owned homes, upscale rental estates, even multi-thousand-square-foot Victorian mansions — with the exact address released only to ticket holders on the day of the event. Capacity ranges from intimate 40-person gatherings in single-family houses to 150-plus blowout mansion parties, and each one is themed: past concepts have included Great Gatsby, Neon, Masquerade, and Jungle, with outfit inspiration posted on the event page beforehand. Membership is free but selective. Applicants submit four clear photos, a bio, and essay-style answers on consent and intentions; approval typically comes within three days, and rejections arrive as silence. The crowd skews young — mostly late twenties to early forties — and events are open to couples, single women, non-binary guests, and a small, carefully balanced number of single men. Parties are BYOB, with mixers, water, snacks, and champagne flutes provided. Protection is stocked in every play area. Doors open for an arrival window (typically 8:00–9:30 pm for night parties), after which no one is admitted. A mandatory consent talk kicks off the evening before any play begins; phones are forbidden once it starts. Multiple bedrooms are staged for open-door play, and rooms may include massage tables, group-play beds, or light BDSM equipment. Private security staffs every event, and a coat-check area is provided.

On-Premise Club

Club Play is a private members swingers club deliberately concealed off Back of Ribble Road in central Blackpool, Lancashire. To find it, look for Adams market on the corner of Ribble Road and Central Drive, follow the alleyway past the back of the Tesco Express, and watch for the lit Club Play sign halfway along — a wooden gate beneath it marks the entrance. Free lifetime membership is offered to all with no joining or ongoing fees, and the club positions itself as broadly inclusive, welcoming couples, single women, single men, and trans, crossdressing, and non-binary members. The online community counts over eleven thousand registered members. The venue is divided into two distinct zones. The play area includes The Stage, a Couples Orgy Room, a Burlesque Room, a Bi Orgy Room, a Voyeur Room, a Massage Spa Play Room, a Neon UV Room, a Cinema Room, a BDSM and Kink Room, The Dungeon, The Kink Room, and male and female glory holes, with The Snug serving as a quieter lounge space. The wet and social zone adds a pool and hot tub room, sauna, showers, and a dedicated TGirl changing room. Free condoms are provided throughout the club. The age range of attendees is wide — the club's own Q&A notes guests from their twenties into their seventies — and the atmosphere is explicitly non-pressured: no one is obliged to participate in anything, and newcomers are offered a guided tour of the building before 11pm. Regular sessions run Friday and Saturday nights, 8pm to 3am, with last entry at 1am. Selected Bank Holiday Sundays open from 2pm to 2am; specific dates are listed in the club's events section. Club Play is a BYOB venue — guests bring their own alcohol, which staff will serve back to them, while soft drinks are available to purchase at the bar (outside soft drinks are not permitted). Payment is cash only; no card payments are accepted. ID is not required unless a guest appears under 21. Lockers are available for clothing and valuables at the guest's own risk. BDSM and kink events operate under RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) and SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual) principles.

Saints & Sinners Philly

Philadelphia, PA

On-Premise Club

Saints & Sinners Philly operates two locations across the city - the original spot tucked behind an unmarked building on Emery Street in Port Richmond, entered through a back door and sitting in the shadow of I-95, and a second venue on Frankford Avenue in Northeast Philadelphia. The Emery Street location spans 6,000 sq ft across three floors: upstairs is the nightclub proper with a bar, dance floor, stripper pole, flat-screen TVs, and a food buffet; downstairs is a warren of private, semi-private, open, and group play areas with a full bar, lockers, and showers. The Frankford Avenue outpost has a 45-foot main bar, multiple bottle bars, a dance floor, pool tables, and VIP seating. The weekly calendar runs Friday and Saturday 9pm-3am, last entry 1am. Fridays go under the Fishnet Fridays banner. Monthly Newbie Nights welcome first-timers and regulars, and Kinky Karaoke Nights invite guests to bring their own bottles. Wed-Fri the door is open to couples, single ladies, and screened single men; Saturdays are couples and single women only. The crowd is diverse in age and experience with a vibe that leans more party-house than clinical sex club. Free parking sits across the street at Emery and right out front at Frankford.

Club SINZ

Salisbury, MA

Event Organizer

Perched on the second and third floors of Ten's Show Club on the North Shore of Massachusetts, Club SINZ has carved out a reputation as New England's premier couples lifestyle destination since its founding in 2004. The windowless, 4,000-plus square-foot ultra-lounge on Salisbury's North End Boulevard sits about an hour north of Boston, drawing a membership base that now numbers over 15,000 couples from across the region. The club's motto — La Passion Avant Tout, Passion Above All — is backed by multiple top-shelf bars, luxurious lounge seating, video screens, dance poles, a dance cage, and a pocket billiards table. Events run on a bi-weekly Saturday schedule, doors opening at 8:30 PM through 1:00 AM, with larger holiday parties drawing 300 to 500 guests. The club is strictly off-premise: no sexual activity is permitted on-site, keeping the atmosphere in meet-and-greet territory. Membership begins with a free Basic Membership application; Gold Members receive discounted cover charges and may bring a guest couple or single female for free. A members-only inner sanctum called SINZ Black — a custom-built invitation-only lounge with an eight-person circular bar and 300-year-old Chinese door decor — exists for the most loyal regulars. SINZ.NET, the club's private social network, allows prospective members to connect with thousands of New England couples before committing to their first visit.

Samantha's Place

Unverified

London, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Samantha's Place appears to have permanently closed, most likely in late 2016 or early 2017. The club's website has not been updated since November 2016, its last posted event was November 12, 2016, and a structured audit by swingersontario.com in April 2021 listed it among clubs presumed closed. Founded in 2000 by a London-area couple known to members as Samantha and Greg, it billed itself as Southwestern Ontario's longest-running lifestyle club and for most of its life the only such club west of the GTA. The founders sold to Skye and Todd, a younger London couple who had been regular attendees, with the handover taking place around 2016. Both ownerships maintained the same format and pricing structure through to the final events. Samantha's Place ran as a strictly off-premise club, meaning no sexual activity or genital nudity was permitted at events — a policy stated prominently on the site and central to its identity as a venue for meeting, dancing, and flirting rather than a play space. Monthly themed Saturday nights were held at a private licensed venue in east London, just east of the Highbury and Dundas intersection; the specific address was disclosed to registered guests by email only, never listed publicly. Doors opened at 9:30 pm with an early-bird discount window until 9:45 pm, and guests were asked to arrive by 11 pm. The crowd spanned the late twenties to early fifties, with a core demographic in the 30–45 range, and first-timers made up at least a quarter of any given evening. Themes were encouraged but not required — Halloween drew near-total compliance, other themes considerably less so — and the general dress expectation was smart-casual to sexy. Music was top-40 with a seasoning of eighties and nineties tracks. A licensed bar operated at upscale-bar prices, door prizes sponsored by adult retailers including the Stag Shop and Love Shop were drawn around 11:30 pm, and occasional sponsored demonstrations — rope work, wax play, lap dancing — added variety to certain events.

Couples Playhouse In Paradise

Naperville, IL

On-Premise Club

Set on three wooded acres in Chicago's western suburbs, Max and Eva's Couples Playhouse in Paradise has been a cornerstone of the Midwest lifestyle scene for over thirty years. The lodge-style private residence trades neon for cathedral ceilings and bonfire pits, with nine play rooms spread across multiple floors, a dance floor with a pole, two bar areas (strictly BYOB -- the hosts supply soda and a full buffet), and an outdoor spread that includes two pools, a hot tub, a sand volleyball court, and a large sun deck. Saturday nights are the marquee event: themed costume parties that draw couples and single women from across the region, with gates opening at eight and locking at ten-thirty sharp. Summer adds daytime Sunday sessions built around the pools and volleyball court. First-timers phone ahead for a joint screening call with both partners present, and the exact address is shared only after approval -- a layer of discretion the club has maintained since its founding in 1996. The vibe leans social-first: a big living room under the vaulted ceiling doubles as a decompression zone, and house rules emphasize consent, sobriety, and arriving-and-leaving-as-a-couple. Phones are banned on the play-room floor, no glass is allowed near the pool, and the hosts are quick to enforce boundaries -- creating a space that feels more backyard gathering among friends than anonymous nightclub.

Virginia Friends

Richmond, VA

Virginia Friends is a couples-and-single-ladies-only lifestyle club that has run monthly hotel-takeover socials in the Richmond area of central Virginia since 1993. Events rotate among Richmond-area hotels rather than sitting at one fixed address, with the specific property announced on each event page ahead of time; the club positions itself as roughly 2 to 3 hours from Washington DC, Maryland and North Carolina, drawing a regional rather than strictly local crowd. Each social opens with a newcomer's seminar in the hotel lounge that is mandatory for every first-time attendee, even experienced lifestyle couples, before the main dance gets underway. Dances typically draw 65 or more couples ranging from their mid-twenties to mid-sixties, with most between 30 and 50. Once the dance winds down, the party shifts to a reserved club floor open only to members and patrolled by headset-wearing security, where a hospitality suite, an adjoining group-play room known for its Sybian, and private member rooms take over; a separate "party floor" (commonly the hotel's fourth floor) hosts member-booked theme rooms for couples who purchase that ticket tier in advance. Entry requires an online membership and event ticket, typically released about four weeks before each social with a same-night cutoff around 9pm, plus a valid driver's license and each partner's real name on file — the club states it cannot admit anyone unwilling to register under their legal name, citing its private-club status. Wristbands and name tags issued at check-in must be worn to access the club floor. Dress runs from casual streetwear at early registration to costume or theme wear at the dance and lingerie-or-less upstairs, with "street legal" coverage required in hotel hallways and elevators. Drinks bought in the lounge must stay in the lounge under Virginia ABC rules, while the club floor itself is BYOB with mixers and snacks supplied by the club; hotel guest rooms, including a limited discounted block, are booked separately and directly with the property.