BYOB

Friction Carolina

Durham, NC

Event Organizer

Friction Carolina is a women-owned lifestyle hotel takeover event organizer operating in Raleigh and other cities across the country. Membership is screening-based, requiring all attendees to meet appearance and hygiene standards, with new single women accepted only by referral from established couple members. Monthly themed events run on a BYOB basis, and the organization also coordinates lifestyle travel and cruise packages.

Friction Parties

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Washington (primary), also Philadelphia, Baltimore, Raleigh NC, NJ, OH, Multi-state (PA, DC, MD, VA, NC, NJ, OH)

Event Organizer

Friction Parties is a women-owned and operated event company founded more than 22 years ago by Lisa Friction, billed as the only nationally recognized hotel party brand in the United States. Operating across the East Coast — with events regularly held in the Washington DC/Maryland area, Philadelphia, New Jersey, North Carolina, and Ohio — Friction takes over entire hotels for the duration of each event, meaning every guest and room belongs exclusively to the lifestyle community. The organizing ethos is welcoming but selective: the crowd skews toward what organizers describe as attractive, well-groomed couples and single women, and all attendees are pre-screened before admission. Events run in two formats. Single-day events are typically held on Saturdays around themed holidays — Halloween, New Year’s Eve, Valentine’s Day, St. Patrick’s Day — with check-in from 2 PM and a ballroom dance party running from 9 PM to around 1:30 AM. Weekend two-day events add clothing-optional pool parties and afternoon activities. Ticket prices range from approximately $75–$150 per person; no refunds, only future-event credits. Membership on the platform lets members browse event attendee lists and connect with couples and single females year-round. Once the main dance party ends, the format shifts to an informal hall crawl on a designated party floor where room doors are propped open and guests host themed mini-parties until the early morning. The ballroom features a DJ, dance poles, cages, and themed décor matched to the night’s costume theme. Alcohol is available via full cash bar operated by the hotel; guests may not bring drinks from rooms to the party floor.

Tokyo Valentino Lifestyle Club

Atlanta, GA

On-Premise Club

Tokyo Valentino Lifestyle Club is a 24-hour adult lifestyle and play venue on Cheshire Bridge Road in Atlanta, Georgia, closing only briefly on Wednesday mornings for cleaning. The facility spans three floors and includes eight Amsterdam-style booths, open and private playrooms, dark rooms, shower facilities, massage rooms, private bedrooms, and an LED dance floor. No membership is required; admission is pay-per-visit, and the venue operates on a BYOB basis.

Eros Knoxville

Knoxville, TN

On-Premise Club

Eros Knoxville is a private members-only lifestyle club in Knoxville, Tennessee. The club operates on a BYOB policy with no alcohol sold on-site, and all new members are required to complete an orientation tour by 11 PM on their first visit. Regular themed events run Friday nights, with early-arrival discounts for couples and complimentary entry for women before 10 PM.

Ohana's Social Club

Columbus, OH

Social Club

Tucked into Columbus's South Side on S High Street, Ohana's Social Club has carved out a reputation as one of central Ohio's most welcoming lifestyle venues. The club occupies a multi-level building that members describe as a laid-back, sexy house party — a phrase the club itself now uses to capture the vibe. The main floor holds an open bar area with a pool table, dance floor, kitchen, a lounge with a stripper pole, and an open loft play space with sofas and a swing. Upstairs, five fully private rooms, one semi-private room, and the Kink Korner group room round out the play areas. Ohana's runs three regular party nights a week. Wednesdays open at 7 PM through midnight; Fridays and Saturdays kick off at 8:30 PM, running until 2 AM and 3 AM respectively. Events are ticketed online through ohanas.club, and single males — admitted on a strict ratio — are strongly advised to pre-register. Membership is required for all attendees: annual dues run $60 for couples and single males, $40 for single females; weekly passes start at $25 for couples. A government-issued photo ID is checked at every visit. The venue is BYOB — no alcohol is sold on site, but the club supplies soda, mixers, ice, cups, and light snacks. The atmosphere skews inclusive and body-positive; reviewers consistently highlight the pressure-free, judgment-free tone. All new members are screened against the national sex offender registry, and a zero-tolerance consent policy is posted first in the house rules.

KNetic Club

Calgary, Alberta

On-Premise Club

KNetic Club bills itself as "Calgary's largest fully licensed Lifestyle Swingers Club" — LGBTQ-owned and pitched as ultra-inclusive, welcoming singles, couples, and throuples across two Calgary venues (KNetic South and KNetic North). It runs as an event-driven private club rather than a daily-open venue: a free member profile must be created and approved before attending, and the calendar mixes high-energy themed parties (Unicorn Night, Spicy Stampede Social, Cowboy Boots & Daisy Dukes), play-focused nights, a "Real Talk" relationships discussion series, partner workshops, and a regular Newbie Night for first-timers. Single men can't attend couples nights alone — the classic couples-protective convention — while single women are welcomed and discounted on select nights. The roughly 3,400 sq ft South venue pairs a main dance floor (DJ, stripper pole) with an upstairs lounge of pool and darts, a furnished playroom, gender-neutral washrooms, and a "FLEX" bar where members can buy drinks or bring their own. The KNetic name spans a small multi-brand network: alongside the couples-and-singles flagship, it operates KNetic Men (a gay/bi/queer men's cruise club) and KNetic Women (a queer women's club), each with its own community, plus it rents the venue to third-party kink organizer K-E-A-N for shibari and BDSM education nights. Founded on a "Love Always Wins" ethos and described as Calgary's only fully LGBTQ-owned lifestyle club, that breadth is why some visitors read it as "a queer club" — but the flagship's own marketing is explicit: "a safe space for 18+ singles, couples, and more." Entry is event-ticketed and varies by night (commonly from ~$10–$15 CAD, with Premium-member and single-women discounts on select events), and an optional paid Premium membership ($10/mo–$95/yr) unlocks door discounts and social features but not admission. Fully licensed (City of Calgary, Alberta Health Services, Calgary Fire, AGLC), the club is well regarded — reportedly around 4.7★ on one review aggregator — and was active as of mid-2026.

Sensual Pleasures Lifestyle Club (SPLC)

Gatlinburg, TN

On-Premise Club

Sensual Pleasures Lifestyle Club (SPLC) is a private members-only lifestyle club serving the East Tennessee and Smoky Mountains area. The venue hosts events on Friday and Saturday nights from 8 PM to 2 AM, offering a full dinner buffet, BYOB with complimentary mixers, themed parties, educational workshops, and live entertainment. Overnight bed and breakfast accommodations are available by reservation, and the club dedicates Friday evenings to a bisexual, singles, and crossdresser/trans-inclusive night.

616

Grand Rapids, MI

Event Organizer

Club 616 is West Michigan's premier upscale lifestyle event organizer, bringing together a vibrant community of open-minded adults across Grand Rapids and Kalamazoo. Known for meticulously themed parties — from Retro Pin Up elegance to all-night signature events — every Club 616 gathering is a carefully curated experience where sophistication meets sensuality. With over 14,000 Instagram followers and a loyal membership spanning SLS (BNJALLNIGHT), Kasidie, SDC, FetLife, and SwingTowns, Club 616 has earned its reputation as the gold standard for lifestyle events in West Michigan. Events are hosted at upscale hotel venues and feature a strictly enforced dress code — because looking the part is part of the experience. Newcomers are warmly welcomed with a newbie-friendly atmosphere, while limited single male tickets keep the guest ratio balanced and comfortable for couples. Single women are always embraced. LGBTQ+ inclusive. 21+ only.

Krewe of Swingtown (KOS)

Houston, TX

On-Premise Club

Founded in 2005 as the only lifestyle-oriented Mardi Gras Krewe in the country, the Krewe of Swingtown has grown into one of Texas's most-attended adult social organizations over its 20-year history. Based in Houston, the KOS operates as a roaming event collective rather than a fixed venue, taking over campgrounds, ranch venues, and private spaces across Texas for weekend-long parties that blend festival energy with an inclusive swinger ethos. Flagship events like the annual Guadalupe River Trip draw 1,000-plus attendees to New Braunfels, complete with theme nights, naughty contests, adult games, and a weekend lineup that never formally stops. What sets KOS apart is its low-pressure culture. The group welcomes full-swap and soft-swap couples, single women, and bi and straight attendees alike; single men may attend only when accompanied by a female date or sponsored by a participating couple. Membership unlocks the private booking portal and priority registration windows, though events can also be purchased individually. The KOS calendar spans the full year: Mardi Gras house parties in Galveston (January-February), the Summer Vibes Party at Linnett Ranch in Henderson TX (June), the Guadalupe River Trip near New Braunfels (June), the Texas Renaissance Festival Conquest with Clan SOB (October-December), and New Year's Eve and Christmas parties to bookend the calendar. The group stays active on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, and X year-round.

colette Houston

Houston, TX

On-Premise Club

Tucked into a strip-mall suite off Cypress Creek Parkway in northwest Houston, colette occupies over 7,000 square feet of upscale, purpose-built lifestyle club space. The front half runs as a polished nightclub: high-tech lighting, a DJ-driven dance floor, and a staffed bar area where mixers, setups, and sodas are provided — though no alcohol is sold, so members bring their own. Lockers line the entry area so guests can stow valuables, and security is a constant presence. The crowd skews professional, ranging from their twenties to sixties, and first-timers consistently note how relaxed and low-pressure the atmosphere feels. Past the main lounge, the back section opens into the play areas: a theatre-style room for group viewing, a voyeur room, and a warren of private rooms, plus a shower. A separate rentable VIP room — fitted with a round bed and lounge seating — accommodates private parties of up to twenty. The club runs four nights a week: Wednesday and Thursday (9pm–2am) and Friday and Saturday (9pm–4am), with a full calendar of themed events — lingerie nights, fetish nights, and seasonal parties — announced on the ticketing calendar and available for advance purchase to skip the door queue. Single men are admitted Wednesday through Friday; Saturday is strictly couples and single ladies only. Door rates are tiered accordingly: couples pay $40–$70 depending on the night, single ladies $10–$20, and single men $100–$120. All admissions require a current membership, which starts at a $30 trial (one night) up to a $200 annual pass or multi-year VIP that folds in door fees and early-access perks valid at all four colette locations.

BiZarre Events

London, London

BDSM Club

BiZarre Events is one of London's boldest and most unapologetically extreme fetish party producers, founded in April 2012 by Nina and Aidan BiZarre — two lifelong practitioners who created the events they wished existed. Operating as a private members club across rotating London venues disclosed only to confirmed guests, BiZarre isn't a nightclub with a kink corner — it's a play-first, immersive experience where fetish, kink, and sexual exploration take centre stage. Their lineup includes the long-running Bi-Kink Club for bisexual and pansexual fetishists, Club Labrys — a women-only safe space launched in 2019 — and the notorious PisSoir nights. Events run monthly on Saturdays, typically 9 PM to 3 AM, at purpose-fitted venues including world-renowned BDSM dungeons equipped with St. Andrew's crosses, bondage beds, suspension frames, and dedicated play spaces. Admission includes complimentary drinks, coat check, towels, showers, and supplies — an unusually all-inclusive package for the London fetish scene. The strict dress code is enforced at the door, and professional floor stewards ensure consent is always upheld. BiZarre explicitly welcomes everyone — straight, bi, gay, lesbian, trans, gender-fluid, crossdressers, singles, couples, and poly groups — making it one of the most genuinely pan-sexual events in London. Featured in Time Out London and Kinky Compass's Top 15 Kink Events, BiZarre has earned a devoted following over 14 years with consistently positive reviews praising the friendly atmosphere, professional staff, and immersive play-focused environment. Annual membership is £30, with per-event pricing from £25 for couples to £50 for non-member singles.

The Night Game

Houston, TX

on-premise nightclub

Billed as the largest and most luxurious private member lifestyle club in Texas, The Night Game sits off FM 1960 in north Houston and pulls off a rare double act: upscale enough to enforce a date-night dress code, yet relaxed enough to welcome everyone from curious first-timers to seasoned regulars. The vibe leans high-class-meets-cozy — think polished nightclub energy on the main floor and something warmer in the back. The crowd skews broad, reflecting the club's openly inclusive philosophy: swinging, BDSM, polyamory, LGBTQ+ and everything in between are all explicitly welcomed. The main floor centres on a 1,200 sq ft dance floor fitted with a dance cage, two dance poles and a shadow box for silhouette shows, all driven by resident professional DJs. Complimentary drink set-ups and full waitstaff keep the social side humming, and a covered patio offers breathing room between dances. Beyond the dancefloor, fully-stocked private playrooms are staffed with dedicated security and cleaning personnel — playroom doors are required to stay closed during play, and single unaccompanied men must be invited in by a couple or partner before entering. A Selfie Station in the main hall lets guests snap photos with mutual consent while keeping cameras out of private areas entirely. Entry requires valid photo ID and adherence to a firm dress code: cocktail and clubwear for ladies, collared or solid fashion shirts and clean shoes for men — no logo tees, athletic gear, cargo shorts or flip-flops will get you through the door. The club is strictly BYOB (no alcohol sold or served), has a zero-tolerance drugs policy, and operates under Harris County regulations requiring nipples and genitals to be covered in all common areas. Reservations are available online, pricing adjusts for holiday and special-event nights, and the club actively encourages guests with non-binary gender identities to contact them directly about pricing and access.

Hush Lounge AZ

Phoenix, AZ

On-Premise Club

Hush Lounge AZ is a private members-only lifestyle club in Phoenix, Arizona, open Thursday through Saturday. The venue features over seven specialty rooms plus main floor lounge areas, a DJ on Saturdays, and complimentary condoms and fresh towels; no alcohol is sold or served, but members may bring their own. Couples are the primary clientele, with single men admitted selectively based on event attendance.

Hacienda

Brooklyn, NY

On-Premise Club

Rooted in Bushwick since 2009, Hacienda operates across multiple townhouses in Brooklyn's most creative neighborhood, functioning as both a members-only sex-positive club and an intentional living community. The flagship venue features multiple floors with distinct play areas, social lounges, a hot tub, indoor and outdoor spaces, and room for DJs and live performances. The crowd skews late twenties and thirties, draws a notably gender-balanced mix of couples, singles, and non-monogamous folk, and sets a tone that members describe as intimate rather than nightclub-loud. Access runs entirely through a referral-based membership system. Applicants must be vouched for by an existing member, watch a mandatory consent-policy video, and pay $40/quarter or $120/year; individual event tickets run $45–$85. Three event tiers exist: public themed nights, private members-only play parties, and educational workshops. First-time guests must complete an in-person orientation before their first play party. Play parties feature multiple socializing and play zones, themed decor, DJ sets, and a full meal served around 2am. Trained volunteers called Guardians — identifiable by light-up armbands — circulate throughout every event and do not participate in play. The consent policy is opt-in: all touch requires explicit verbal agreement. Phones and recording devices are not permitted in play areas.

Swingers Circle

Las Vegas, NV

On-Premise Club

Swingers Circle is Las Vegas's longest-running weekly lifestyle party, operating since 2010. Rather than a fixed venue, every Thursday night the hosts book a full hotel suite or penthouse at a major Strip property — guests receive the specific hotel name and suite number by text or call within a few hours of the 9 pm start. Capacity is strictly capped at 12 couples (plus unpartnered women), and a party minimum of five couples is required before the event proceeds. The crowd spans ages 21 to 65, mixing visiting tourists with locals and newcomers with veterans. The evening centres on an interactive ice-breaker called the Game: after a social hour, hosts run a sex-trivia challenge pitting the genders against each other — wrong answers cost an article of clothing. Lighting is kept very low throughout, candlelit in the play areas, keeping the atmosphere relaxed even for first-timers. Participation in the Game is not optional, though playing with any other guest always is. Once the Game wraps, play moves to the designated playroom where essentials are provided. Admission is ticketed online only via Eventbrite, with sales closing at 8:30 pm or once the 12-couple cap is reached — whichever comes first. The event is BYOB; the hosts supply soft drinks, bottled water and light snacks at no extra charge. Dress code is club wear (no sneakers, T-shirts or tank tops). Single men are never permitted; the party is exclusively for couples and unpartnered women. Valet and self-parking are available at the host hotel.

The Loft Club

Ronkonkoma, NY

The Loft Club billed itself as Long Island's only premier upscale lifestyle club, operating out of an industrial-style space at 142-1 Remington Boulevard in Ronkonkoma. Operated under the umbrella of the Naughty Neighbors group — active on the Long Island lifestyle scene since 2015 — the club combined a social lounge experience with on-premise play, drawing couples and vetted single guests in roughly equal measure. The Naughty Neighbors' ethos of zero-pressure, no-expectation socialising carried directly into the club nights, where newcomers were actively welcomed and regulars kept the atmosphere more house-party than nightclub. The venue featured three lounge areas, a dedicated dance floor with a DJ, upgraded lighting, and six dedicated playrooms. A stripper pole anchored the main party room and the club ran a BYOB policy, supplying mixers, sodas and water at the bar. Admission was tiered: $30 for single ladies, $70 for couples, and $80 for single men, with single-male attendance capped and subject to pre-approval. Events were listed on the SwingLifeStyle (SLS) calendar. As of mid-2026, The Loft Club was actively relocating to a new and larger location, with the Naughty Neighbors group targeting its annual Halloween party as the opening milestone. The theloftclub2.com site was live but showing a Launching Soon holding page, directing all enquiries through email and text-only contact channels.

KC Book Club

Liberty, MO

On-Premise Club

KC Book Club is a by-invitation-only lifestyle house party set on five acres of secluded land just north of Liberty, Missouri — a quiet, rural setting that ensures complete privacy for its guests. Owned and personally run by Eddie, the venue is a custom-built entertaining space that has earned a reputation as one of the Midwest most recognized lifestyle destinations, drawing regulars and curious newcomers alike from as far as Nebraska, Iowa, Oklahoma, and Arkansas. The club has been featured on national lifestyle podcasts, and its welcoming, consent-forward atmosphere keeps the crowd firmly in living-room-party territory rather than nightclub territory. Saturday nights are the club's exclusive rhythm, and the format is BYOE — guests bring their own drinks and snacks, while the house provides soft drinks, hors d'oeuvres, ice, soda mixers, and bottled water. Inside, a large social area and a dance floor (complete with stripper pole) set the tone for mingling before the evening deepens. Private play rooms and dedicated kink and lifestyle spaces are available on site, and the venue also features a pool, hot tub, and showers. When the weather cooperates, the five acres open up for clothing-optional volleyball, swimming, and sunbathing. The club is kink-friendly, swinger-friendly, and welcoming to the genuinely curious — but it is strictly couples and single women only; single men are not admitted. Access is by invitation only, and the BYOE policy keeps the vibe communal and intimate. The location near Liberty Triangle puts guests within easy reach of hotels, restaurants, and retail for before or after the party.

Private Residence

Braven Manor is a long-running, community-oriented kink and lifestyle venue operating from a private home in North Burnaby, just outside Vancouver. Since 2008, the space has served as an intimate alternative to commercial clubs, offering a fully equipped dungeon, themed play rooms, and flexible event programming that spans BDSM, swinging, fetish play, and group encounters — all at an accessible price point of $30 per person. The house features a dedicated dungeon with suspension frame, bondage table, cage, and spanking benches, plus a garage play space, whipping room with St Andrew's Cross, a medical room with a fucking machine, a school room, and multiple private lockable bedrooms. Supplies including condoms, lube, gloves, cleaning products, towels, and unlimited soft drinks are all included with admission. A Sybian is available during events, and the space can be rented privately for couples or small groups at hourly rates. Run as a non-profit by operator Seann Lyncaster, the venue hosts rotating events on its own calendar system — from gangbangs and BDSM play parties to swinger nights and private bookings. Membership signup is free, the atmosphere is pansexual and LGBTQ+ welcoming, and newcomers receive an orientation tour on arrival. The BYOB format keeps costs low, and a house safeword system underscores the consent-first culture that defines the space.

Club Giggity

Philadelphia, PA

Club Giggity is a traveling lifestyle-events company — a subsidiary of The Forever Young Experience — rather than a fixed-address club, producing 'upscale events for sexy sophisticated couples & singles' across the Northeast. Its own site describes a roster that runs the gamut from 'small intimate house parties, on premise clubs, lifestyle meet & greets, hotel & resort takeovers and private affairs,' with events deliberately built for 'every alternative lifestyle including swingers, LGBT, the BDSM/Fetish community and anyone interested in an adult party experience like no other.' The operators tout 'over 20 years of professional DJ, promotion, marketing, graphic design, site procurement and event planning in NY, Miami, Philly & Atlantic City,' and the company promotes, hosts and DJs events throughout PA, NJ, NY, MD, DE and CT. The crowd is pitched as broad and unpretentious: 'From Doctors to lawyers, nurses to teachers and everyone in between,' spanning 'different races, heights and weights,' with parties framed as 'no pressure affairs open to all ages over 21' that 'do not discriminate based on age, race, religion, physical appearance, or lifestyle level of play.' Newcomers are eased in via low-pressure meet & greets 'designed for socializing without pressure,' and the site stresses going 'at your own flow' — whether that means observing or full partner exchanges — with open communication between partners encouraged throughout. Swinging is described as 'a lifestyle open to couples and singles alike'; single women are welcomed, while single men are admitted to 'certain nights at clubs and certain parties.' Because Club Giggity is an event producer, the experience changes with the venue — from a club night to a multi-day resort takeover — and it offers an all-inclusive production service (planning, DJ & lighting, web graphics & promotion, social-media promotion, personalized favors, clothing & posters), plus optional add-ons such as massage therapists, photographers, adult toy & lingerie vendors, body painters and BDSM/fetish services. The site maintains a live Takeover Schedule and an Events calendar, and has run flagship trips such as a Hedonism resort 'Hedo Invasion,' confirming the operation is active and booking forward-dated events.

Genesis Club bills itself as the largest, most elite private club in the mid-South for open-minded couples and singles aged 21 and over. Set in a low-key commercial stretch of southeast Memphis at 5367 Knight Arnold Road, it pitches itself as a relaxed, no-pressure nightclub-style space rather than a hard-edged play venue — somewhere the curious can meet, chat, flirt and dance with other adults without being hounded. Staff are on hand to give first-timers a tour and make introductions. The single main floor is built around a dance floor with state-of-the-art lighting and a live DJ, with a pool table and darts off to the side and a set of upstairs rooms set aside for sitting and comfort. Free snack food is laid on, and the club leans on security cameras and attentive staff to keep the atmosphere safe and laid-back. Doors run on a tight weekend rhythm: parties land on Friday and Saturday nights from 8pm to 2am, with the club closed the rest of the week. Note that Genesis Club's web presence has gone quiet: the genesisclubmemphis.com address listed across local directories is no longer serving content, and the older club-genesis.com domain now forwards to an unrelated online dating platform. Prospective visitors are best off confirming current hours, entry terms and whether the venue is still operating by phone before making the trip.

Scarlet Ranch

Littleton, CO

On-Premise Club

Set on five acres of park-like grounds in Littleton's south Denver suburbs, Scarlet Ranch has operated since 2003 as an upscale lifestyle club, occupying a roughly 24,000-square-foot modern mountain lodge known as Squirrel Creek Lodge. Soaring split-log ceilings, river-rock bars and rustic touches lend a Swiss-chalet warmth; the main floor holds two bars, high-top tables, leather lounges, a billiard room and shuffleboard, opening onto a large dance floor with a raised DJ booth and a stage. Downstairs are the play spaces: a group area of four queen beds, six curtained private alcoves and voyeuristic showers. Open Wednesday through Sunday with themed events nearly every night and major weekly parties, the Ranch draws a well-dressed, upscale crowd averaging about 37, spanning late-20s to 60s. It welcomes couples and single women, with select single men admitted. Amenities include hot tubs, the on-site Oreads steakhouse, a praised Sunday brunch, BYOB bar service, and outdoor cabanas, a fire-pit teepee and seasonal pool-style parties.

Caligula New York

Astoria, NY

Swingers Club

Caligula New York bills itself as ''an on-premise swinger club experience like no other,'' and the venue lives that pitch from a discreet address in Astoria, Queens — just minutes from Manhattan by car or subway and a short ride from the city''s major highways. Created by people in the Lifestyle for the Lifestyle, the private, upscale social club draws couples, single ladies and a curated mix of single gentlemen into an atmosphere the owners describe as sensual, sophisticated and no-pressure, with ample legal street parking outside and the exact address shared only after a reservation is made. Programming runs Thursday through Sunday: Thursday''s ''One Night Stand'' swinger fling, Friday''s ''In Fridays We Trust'' / Nymphomania parties, themed Saturday socials such as ''Welcome to the Jungle,'' and the Sinful Sunday Night Swinger Social. Couples and single ladies are welcome on every night, while single gentlemen are admitted only on select, designated nights and must be accompanied by a lady at couples-only events. First-timers must RSVP in advance through the website or by calling (516) 301-7800, and admission prices vary by event and promoter. Inside, a BYOB bar with mixers, dancefloor and light buffet feed the social side, while private and semi-private playrooms — some reserved exclusively for couples — handle the rest. Weekends are strictly ''Dress to Impress'' with ladies in sexy, stylish attire and gentlemen classy and well-presented; mid-week events soften to ''casual but neat,'' and themed nights reward those who lean in.

Checkmate NYC

New York, NY

On-Premise Club

Tucked into the lower level of a Midtown East building just off Third Avenue, Checkmate has been New York City's premier couples lifestyle club since opening its doors in 1995. Under the ownership of Venezuelan-American nightlife entrepreneur Danny C. since 2018 — who previously ran Le Trapeze NYC and has partnered with SNCTM New York and Les Chandelles Paris — the club bills itself as the velvet rope of lifestyle clubs in America. The space blends classic elegance with moody modern design, housing an LED and video dance floor, a live DJ, a foreplay lounge, cinema playrooms, a dark room, a neon blue-lit playroom, and mirrored open-play rooms with distinct musical ambiances in each. The crowd is prescreened by design: Checkmate targets fit, attractive couples and single women who dress to impress. Every applicant must submit a full-body photo with their membership application and be approved before receiving an invitation — the only key in the door. Thursday nights run 21:00-02:00 as a relaxed after-work party with reduced entry for members and free admission for single women; Fridays and Saturdays run 22:00-04:00 with full weekend energy and themed nights. Single men are categorically not admitted, ever. The club is BYOB — no alcohol is sold, but staff tag and serve your bottle from the attended bar with complimentary mixers. Towel and robe service, attended private lockers, and private security are standard on every night. The dress code is strict: suits and dress shirts for men; high heels and formal or sexy attire for women — no sneakers, t-shirts, shorts, hats, or sandals. Cellphones must be stowed in lockers at all times, keeping the atmosphere discreet and intimate.

On-Premise Club

Set in the heart of Downtown Los Angeles where the 10, 5, and 110 freeways converge, Tentaciones brings Latin nightlife and the lifestyle scene together at 1450 Oak Street. Founded for adventurous couples and select singles aged 21 and over, the club bills itself as LA's premier Latin-rooted on-premise sanctuary — where reggaeton, cumbia, bachata, and dembow score a night built around chemistry, elegance, and uninhibited connection. The crowd draws from across Southern California, from San Diego to Santa Barbara. Tentaciones runs primarily on Fridays and Saturdays, with occasional midweek events for special occasions. Entry is curated: prospective guests are encouraged to reach out in advance to expedite approval. A full gourmet buffet — entrées, fruits, desserts — and frozen mocktails, juices, and water are included in the entry price. No alcohol is sold on-site, making it fully BYOB. Phones are locked away at entry; lockers keep them stored while guests stay fully present. Towels, wipes, and condoms are provided throughout; play areas are disinfected before and after each party. The dress code is strict: upscale clubwear for men, no shorts or athletic wear; for women, the bolder the better. A zero-tolerance consent policy is actively enforced, and staff reserve the right to revoke access at any time. Whether new to the scene or experienced, the vibe is rooted in Latin energy, respect, and sensuality with style.

The Korral

Spring Grove, PA

On-Premise Club

Set on a private rural property in York County, Pennsylvania — and sharing its grounds with Kim's Krypt Haunted Mill — The Korral has grown into one of the most-decorated lifestyle clubs on the East Coast, twice named ASN LS Magazine's top Adult Entertainment Venue (2022 and 2023). The complex spans a large main building housing a stage-and-pole dance floor, full-service bar, dining room, pool tables, air hockey, locker rooms with showers, a selfie room, the Pyretta Blayze in-house store, and a warren of 18 themed playrooms kept stocked with fresh towels and sanitizing supplies. Outside, a heated saltwater pool with a wide deck and Tiki Hut runs from Memorial Day through September, flanked by two hot tubs set into a grotto. Parties run Friday and Saturday from 7 pm to 2 am (8 pm-3 am on New Year's Eve), and the crowd skews a broad 30-55 in median age. The dedicated BDSM hallway, a glory hole, and an open group room sit alongside more intimate themed suites, while a CCTV room and house-wide phone policy keep the atmosphere relaxed and discreet. Monthly Kink Nights shift the dance floor into an educational play space — one discipline per session, with a demo and opt-in tastings — followed by a Sunday munch. The Korral also hosts two annual Kink Intensives alongside a packed calendar of costumed theme nights. For those who want to extend the evening, eight private stay rooms (king bed, chaise, keyed entry) book out for the full weekend — Friday check-in, Sunday checkout — while 20-plus after-party rooms open at 2 am for single- or two-night stays. All rooms are first-come, first-served with a non-refundable deposit.

Wicked Fun Club

Terryville, CT

On-Premise Club

Wicked Fun Club is Connecticut's only dedicated on-premise swinger destination, a private members-only lifestyle club that owners Steve and Jodi Gagne designed to feel nothing like a nightclub — no dance floor, no bar, just sultry lighting and a spacious lounge where couples and singles can actually hear each other talk. Spanning over 3,000 square feet, the venue hosts 16 to 40 guests per event and includes a social lounge, an open play area, and four dedicated playrooms outfitted with a Tantra chair, a sex swing, and ample group space. Complimentary towels and lockers are provided; the club is strictly BYOB with mixers, chilled storage, snacks, and bottled water supplied by the house. Events run Friday and Saturday nights: Fridays welcome couples, single ladies, and vetted single men, while Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only. Themed nights — murder mystery parties, Western dress-up evenings, Newbie Nights — give the 200-strong membership fresh reasons to return. Membership is tiered by category and required before attending; event entry donations run $80 per couple, $20 per single lady, and $100 per single man. Hosts Steve and Jodi are on hand at every event, personally welcoming newcomers, leading venue walkthroughs, and keeping the atmosphere pressure-free. Reviewers compare the vibe to an open-minded house party rather than a late-night club — warm, clean, and less cliquey than larger regional venues. The original Terryville location was ordered closed by Plymouth zoning authorities in spring 2025; the club has since relocated to a new undisclosed Central Connecticut venue and continues to operate.

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Sitting along the busy commercial strip of Admiral Wilson Boulevard in Pennsauken, New Jersey — just across the Delaware River from Philadelphia — Venus operates under the banner of SwingersUSA/CouplesClubUSA and has built a following as one of South Jersey's most established on-premise lifestyle clubs. The venue draws a crowd of both newcomers and regulars, billing itself as a no-pressure environment that is welcoming to couples and single ladies exploring the swinger lifestyle. The club runs parties every Friday and Saturday night from 9pm to 4am. Saturday evenings include a pre-party Tantra workshop from 8 to 9pm before the main event begins. The club provides an appetizer buffet as part of the evening, and operates on a BYOB basis with mixers supplied by the venue. A DJ provides entertainment throughout the night. Attendance is typically strong, with the club reporting averages of 105 to 130 couples per party. Venus describes itself as South Jersey's most popular on-premise lifestyle club. Its location on Admiral Wilson Boulevard places it convenient to major highway routes connecting the Philadelphia metro region and southern New Jersey.

Wicked Manor

Dallas, TX

On-Premise Club

Wicked Manor — formerly PlayhouseDFW — is a members-only lifestyle venue tucked about ten miles southwest of downtown Dallas, where a discreet exterior opens into roughly 7,000 square feet of low-lit, modern playground. Event nights pulse with nightclub sound, candle-warm lighting, and the relaxed no-pressure energy the house treats as a hard rule. Inside you'll find a BYOB bar (free mixers and ice), a pool, a dance floor with live DJ, dedicated exhibitionism and voyeur rooms, a group room with stage, and a wing of private locking retreats. Free lockers handle the practical stuff, and the dress code is enforced: cocktail or sexier, no shorts, sandals, hats, or logo tees. Membership is photo-vetted and not everyone is accepted — couples and single women are always welcome, and a curated group of pre-approved single males attends Fridays only. Events run every Friday and Saturday: Friday is Hot Wife Friday (hotwife-themed, couples plus select singles), while Saturday evenings are couples and single females only. Advance tickets required; no walk-in entry at any time.

Fusion Parties

Manchester, NH

Mobile/roving — various NH venues; no fixed premises

Fusion Parties Social Club is a private members community based in Manchester, New Hampshire, built around connection, exploration, and upscale adult experiences for open-minded couples and individuals. Rather than operating a fixed venue, the organizers rent out different locations for each event, favouring mansions, penthouses, and pool-equipped estates across New Hampshire. Events typically run monthly or bi-monthly, with tickets sold through SimpleTix; the exact address is shared with ticket holders only in the week of the event. A Fusion Parties night centres on a distinct theme — past editions have included Masquerade Penthouse, Glitz & Glam, Glow Hard, and Cupid’s NightCap — with a DJ, live performances (LED displays, fire acts, or themed dance routines), and complimentary appetisers. The club runs BYOB with bartenders on site mixing cocktails from house-provided mixers; no alcohol is sold. Playrooms and a dance pole feature at house-party events, while the Eden resort-takeover format switches to a full cash bar and multi-night itinerary. Fusion Parties collaborates closely with Mindbender Parties and H&H Social Club, forming a New England lifestyle network. Listed on SDC, events draw hundreds of guests, making Fusion one of the largest lifestyle event operations in New Hampshire.

colette Austin

Austin, TX

colette Austin is Austin's definitive upscale lifestyle club — a private, members-only on-premise venue occupying 9,000 square feet across two levels in the Wells Branch district of north Austin. Step through the unmarked commercial exterior and the interior reads like a proper nightclub: a professional dance floor backed by state-of-the-art sound, dual balconies overlooking the bar and lounge below, plush sectional seating throughout, and a mood set by programmable lighting that shifts with each themed night. The club is BYOB with setups and ice provided — no liquor license, so bring your own and let the bar handle the rest. Play spaces are tiered by privacy: semi-private rooms with sheer curtains for voyeur-friendly encounters, fully private rooms with blackout curtains, a large open group area, a movie theater lounge, and a separate kink zone — all stocked with free condoms and cleaning supplies, all staffed by a team reviewers consistently call Grade A. Newcomers get a full guided tour on arrival and a standing Newbie Night every Wednesday designed for first-timers: come curious, ask questions, dance, watch, do nothing at all if that's what you prefer. The crowd skews couples with professionals in the mix, and the dress code is enforced — collared shirts and slacks for men, cocktail dress to lingerie for women, fetish and leather always welcome. colette is a national chain founded by John and Jackie Melfi (who also run the OpenLove101 lifestyle blog). The Austin location opened January 2018 and connects into a membership network of 250,000+ members spanning five cities. One membership works at all locations. Fridays rotate between Hotwife Nights and Pantiless Fridays; Saturdays bring themed events from Sabado Seduction to Cowboys & Corsets. Single men are welcome Wednesday through Friday; Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only. colette Austin is the only permanent upscale on-premise lifestyle club in Austin, and it's built to feel that way.

Club Bacchus

Dundee, Scotland

On-Premise Club

Club Bacchus occupies a discreet licensed venue at 11–15 Princes Street in the centre of Dundee — Tayside's only dedicated lifestyle club, self-billed as "Scotland's premier private members' club" and "Tayside's most stylish and discreet adult lifestyle venue." The address has a long history as an alternative-lifestyle space; Bacchus is the direct successor to Club Kudos, which had been running the building as a gay/bi/BDSM/swinger venue since around 2019 (Kudos signed up 160+ members in its first weeks per the Dundee Courier, and held a 4.3/5 Google rating across 20 reviews before the rebrand). Bacchus took the lease on and broadened the programme — the same west-of-city-centre warren of rooms, the same sauna and steam room downstairs, the same focus on serving the swinging, BDSM, kink, gay and LGBTQ+ communities under one roof, but now run as a single brand by an owner the FabSwingers reviewers consistently refer to by first name: Heather. The venue sprawls across two floors. Downstairs holds a large entertainment lounge and a smaller quiet lounge, a sauna and steam room, full shower facilities, glory holes, a working kitchen serving hot and cold drinks and snacks, and a separate indoor smoking area. Upstairs is a warren of five dedicated kink rooms and three themed playrooms, including a Fem Dom dungeon and a 1-on-1 Mistress session room available by separate booking during dungeon events. The programme runs on a tight monthly rhythm: Friday nights typically 8pm–late, Saturday afternoons (3–8pm) for Hosted Kink Events with novices welcome, and Saturday nights 8pm–late for Swingers Nights, "Open to All" parties, PJ Game Parties, TV/CD & Admirers evenings, and the recurring Men Only Sauna and "No Lights, No Towels (Men Only)" formats. The sauna itself runs Tuesday through Sunday. Entry is event-priced rather than membership-based — a £2.50 non-members daily fee is bundled into every Swingers Night ticket, which sits at £25 for couples, £32.50 for single men, £12.50 for single women, and £20 for women arriving dressed in themed attire. Towels, lockers and condoms are included. The club is BYOB throughout; mixers, soft drinks and snacks are complimentary, and guests are asked not to drink before using the sauna. Kink nights run strictly alcohol-free, and dungeon nights sometimes carry their own separate ticketing for 1-on-1 Mistress sessions. Dress code splits cleanly by floor — downstairs is smart casual or elegant clubwear, upstairs is lingerie, towel or less. The PJ Game Party runs a colour-coded pyjama system to signal preferences (blue for seeking male, pink for seeking female, yellow male-male, red female-female, mix & match for both). The crowd is mixed in every sense — couples, singles, kinksters, queer guests, first-timers — and Heather is widely credited in reviews for personally walking newcomers around the venue before the night gets going.

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Tucked away in Calgary's southeast industrial quarter, Adore Social Club is the city's premier on-premise lifestyle venue — a polished, members-only retreat where nightclub energy meets sensual freedom. Built on the bones of the former Moonlight Magic space (which it thoroughly renovated under new ownership), Adore has quickly become the most talked-about destination in the Alberta lifestyle community. Spread across 3,100 square feet on two levels, the club delivers a dual experience: downstairs, a full-scale nightclub complete with a starlit dance floor, professional DJ booth, stripper pole, and comfortable booth seating sets the social tone; upstairs, a lounge with pool table and darts transitions into a tastefully designed play area with four king beds, a sex swing, hand and ankle cuffs, semi-private alcoves, and a dedicated BDSM beginner area with a St. Andrew's Cross and spanking bench. Complimentary appetizers — cheese boards, charcuterie, fondue, and themed snacks — grace every event. The club operates BYOB with labeled lockers for storage, and supplies mixers, ice, water, and glassware at no charge. All first-time attendees receive a guided tour from hosts covering the layout, house rules, and etiquette — making it a genuinely welcoming environment for newcomers. The venue's health inspection rating of 98/100 reflects the ownership's commitment to cleanliness and care. Membership is by application only, with screening based on effort and presentation rather than demographics. Single males are welcome but must be vouched for by a member couple and attend their first event with that couple. Regular events run Friday and Saturday, with occasional Wednesday and Sunday specials. Dress code is "Dress to Impress", with themed nights rotating throughout the year.

Club Princeton

Columbus, OH

On-Premise Club

Club Princeton occupies a sprawling 21,000-square-foot converted warehouse in the Franklinton area of Columbus, Ohio — an industrial exterior that gives little away before you step inside. Open since the early 2000s, it has grown into what regular visitors call the most upscale lifestyle club in the Midwest. The ground floor centres on a 2,500-square-foot dance area with live DJs, a stage, and dance cages; there is also VIP table seating, a full bar setup serving free mixers, soft drinks, and snacks nightly. BYOB is the policy — no alcohol is sold on site — and lockers are available for storing your own bottles. Upstairs, the play floors open into a warren of themed spaces: a VIP lounge with a fireplace, the Stairway to Heaven lounge, a doctor's examination room, a jail-cell playroom, a room with a Sybian massage table, two open group rooms, and twelve private rooms — each made up with clean white sheets and white towels, with staff cycling through to change linens between uses. Thursday nights carry a bi and fetish theme starting at 10 PM; Friday and Saturday nights are open to the broader lifestyle crowd. Single men are restricted to public areas and require female accompaniment to access play spaces. Membership is mandatory before entry — required by Ohio licensing law — though short-term single-event passes are available at the door alongside paid-up couples memberships. Door fees are separate from membership. The club is consistently praised for its professional, welcoming staff, thorough first-timer tours, and strict no-photography policy throughout the venue. Free fenced parking and on-site security round out the offering.

Club Chameleon

Flint, MI

House Party

Club Chameleon is not a commercial swingers club in the usual sense. It is a private 3.5-floor house party run out of a personal residence at 2315 W Reid Rd in the Grand Blanc/Flint corner of southeast Michigan, hosted by a couple named Sheila and Rich — empty-nesters with around 25 years of combined lifestyle experience between them. They ran a long tour of commercial clubs in Vegas, Phoenix, Tampa, Savannah and Atlanta before deciding to build their own version at home; the venue has been operating monthly since Halloween 2020. Address is never published — every party operates RSVP-only, and Sheila clears guests by text at 912-571-9424 (a 912 number from her Savannah days that followed her north). The tagline written across the front page is "Where YOU can BE who YOU want to BE." The house itself is the venue. 3.5 floors of party space, two house-run bars (Sheila pours Tequila, Fireball, Jell-O shots and "Georgia Snowballs" at "Tequila Sheila's Bar" near the dance floor and jukebox; the patio "Theme Bar" sits next to an 8-person hot tub on a 2,200 sq ft enclosed, covered, heated patio that works year-round), a dance floor with a stripper pole, three private playrooms, a "Peekaboo" voyeur room (three solid walls and one sheer curtain that opens and closes), and a BDSM/group play room kitted out with a St. Andrew's cross, paddles and floggers. There's a billiards room, a large outdoor lounge, and a bonfire pit with seating wrapped around it. The upper floor holds four private bedrooms and four bathrooms for overnight guests, with outdoor camping (limited electricity) for anyone who'd rather sleep out. Adult Jenga, cornhole, beer pong, foosball and drinking games stay on the patio for warm nights. Buffet-style heavy themed appetizers — fajitas and walking tacos turn up regularly in the blog photos — keep the energy up. Parties run monthly on Saturdays, typically 9pm to around 3am, with the occasional mid-week social ("Hump Day Game Night" format, 6pm, free entry, bring a snack to share) for the regulars. Every party has a theme (Glow, Playboy Bunny, Tie-Dye, Pineapples R Us, Pimps & Hoes, PJs & Lingerie, Medical Mayhem, Rednecks/Hillbillies, Oktoberfest, Neon Nights), with best-dressed prizes; themed dress is encouraged but not required, and clothing is optional in the jacuzzi area. All parties are BYOB and BYOC; the house is smoking and 420 friendly throughout. Singles policy is the only formal gate — couples and single women welcome without restriction, and single men admitted under a vetted "Single Male Expectations" policy that Sheila shares only on request. The whole operation is deliberately small and word-of-mouth. About 1,155 likes on the public Facebook page (facebook.com/ChameleonMI), 55 members in the linked Swing Lifestyle community group, no Instagram, no Twitter, no ticketing platform — just Sheila's text line and an explicit policy that the address only goes out after she's approved the guest.

Dark Odyssey

Berkeley, CA

Event Organizer

Dark Odyssey is a roving event organization founded in 2003 by Greg, a former Black Rose board chairman, to fuse sexuality, spirituality, education, and play under one roof. Rather than operating a fixed venue, it commandeers hotels and private rural retreats for four distinct annual events: Winter Fire, a luxury hotel takeover in Baltimore running a full President's Day weekend; Fusion, a six-day summer camp in Northern Maryland on a 200-acre private facility with 40 cabins and 400 beds; Summer Camp, a Labor Day week-long gathering at the same Northern Maryland retreat; and Surrender, a pre-Halloween hotel convention in the San Jose Bay Area. Sold-out attendance at Winter Fire has reached 1,400 people. Each event follows the same architecture: days packed with 80-plus workshops spanning BDSM technique, polyamory, Tantra, sacred sexuality, and spiritual practice, taught by national educators; nights given over to fully equipped dungeons, the Sex-O-Rama open playspace (supplied with beds, lube, condoms, and gloves around the clock), and themed parties running until 2–3am. The rural camp events add outdoor suspension rigs, a tennis-court playspace with weather-resistant equipment, a Pavilion for mixers and open play, and a Temple space for ritual and sacred play. Fire spin jams, drumming circles, a Kinky State Fair, and a Saturday night show round out the program. The community self-describes as a melting pot of kinksters, queers, swingers, spiritualists, Pagans, polyamorists, and cross-dressers — pansexual, omnisexual, and explicitly welcoming to all gender identities. Attendee-created ION events let the community add its own workshops and parties to each schedule. A dedicated Incident Response Team (IRT) staffs a help desk at every event to handle consent matters in private.

Desires Houston

closed

Houston, TX

On-Premise Club

Desires Houston sat along State Highway 249 in north Houston, tucked into a commercial suite at 14207 SH-249 S, Unit 23. The club positioned itself as a private members-only lifestyle venue catering to open-minded adults, drawing couples and singles from across Texas, Louisiana, and beyond. Reviewers noted a thorough renovation under new management that redid every room, lifting the space into what regulars described as an upscale atmosphere without losing a social, welcoming feel. The club opened Fridays and Saturdays from 10 PM to 5 AM and Sundays from 9 PM to 3 AM, with the rest of the week dark. Entry required membership, purchasable online in advance; walk-in membership was not advertised. The crowd was consistently described as diverse, with the venue operating under an explicit No Means No consent policy emphasising comfort for newcomers and regulars alike. Amenities included a dance floor, private playrooms, live DJ, hookah service, and BYOB arrangements. The venue accepted credit cards and cryptocurrency and was listed as wheelchair accessible. A July 2025 Yelp reviewer reported the owner confirmed permanent closure; prospective visitors should verify current status before travelling.

Trapeze Club Atlanta

Atlanta, GA

On-Premise Club

Trapeze Club Atlanta is an on-premise adult lifestyle club located in Atlanta, Georgia, operating Wednesday through Sunday from 8 PM with a BYOB policy. The venue features playrooms, themed events, a cigar lounge, and upscale dining with rotating weekly menus and a carving station. Single males are welcome most nights; Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only.

Trapeze Fort Lauderdale

Tamarac, FL

On-Premise Club

Trapeze Fort Lauderdale sits in an unremarkable strip mall on State Road 7 in Tamarac — about 10 miles northwest of downtown Fort Lauderdale — sharing a parking lot with a liquor store and a check-cashing shop. The club is South Florida's longest-running on-premise lifestyle venue, open since the mid-1990s, and celebrated its 30th anniversary in May 2026. Its 9,000 square feet split between a dimly lit main lounge with a sunken dance floor, a central stripper pole, bar-top seating, and three full-service BYOB bars; the resident DJ leans heavily Latin, and the music levels stay just low enough for conversation at the edges. A rotating weekly dinner buffet — carving station, mains like Tuscan-style pork roast or grilled grouper, desserts including creme brulee — gives way to a breakfast spread in the early hours. The playroom area sits behind wooden doors at the back and is clothing-free; street attire is checked in attended lockers with towels provided at no charge. Inside is a maze of vinyl-covered platforms and leather couches, a dividing window room visible from both sides, six private rooms, and an open group area. Couples and single women may attend all five operating nights (Wed–Sun, 8pm to 3–4am); single men are welcome Wed–Fri and Sun but barred on Saturdays. The crowd skews 40s–60s with a strong Latin representation from across South Florida. Themed events rotate weekly — Unicorn Night, Wet Looks, Linen & Lace — with costume contests and seasonal parties. Pricing requires both a membership and a nightly user fee. A Discord community allows members to coordinate before arriving and unlock a $20 discount per event. New members complete registration at self-service kiosks on arrival and may join a guided facility tour any evening before 9pm.

BDSM Club

The Lifestyle Lounge in Eccles, Greater Manchester is one of the UK's longest-running lifestyle clubs — over 40 years of history, formerly Adam and Eve's, fully rebranded in 2025 to welcome couples, LGBTQ+, kink, and fetish guests across four themed floors. Facilities include a hot tub, jacuzzi, sauna, swing room, private rooms, pool table, and lockers. BYOB (up to 4 cans or a half-bottle). Dress code: bright, kinky, as wild as you dare. Featured on Channel 5's "Adults: 24 Hour Sex, Up All Night." Membership required; capacity 80.

Twist SF

San Francisco, CA

On-Premise Club

Tucked behind an unmarked door on Bay Street in San Francisco's storied North Beach neighborhood, Twist occupies a purpose-built lifestyle space that sets itself apart from the residence-party circuit. Guests enter through a sultry red-lit staircase into a coat check and sign-in area, then move through a compact BYOB bar — stocked with mixers, soft drinks, and light snacks — and into two front lounge areas furnished with couches, bar-top tables, and a small playroom anchored by a circular bed. Steps up from the bar sits the dedicated dance floor, ringed by low seating and outfitted with multiple dance poles and a VIP booth, giving the room an intimate nightclub feel in moody red and purple neon. Past a beaded curtain and a locker room with roughly 90 lockers (two towels per locker), a staff member marks the transition into the play areas, where full clothing is not permitted. Two open mat-covered rooms branch off left and right — one with a long couch and a tucked-away private alcove, the other a longer serpentine layout — plus a third private VIP room with a closable door. Additional bathrooms and a remodeled shower serve the back of the venue. Friday and Saturday nights run 10 PM to 4 AM; a Wednesday couples-only erotic yoga session (7:30–9:30 PM) offers a no-pressure introduction to the space. Saturdays are strictly couples and single ladies — no advance notice needed for either. Fridays follow the same rule for walk-ins, but Twist invites a limited number of single men by email application only. Single men are also welcome during Her Fantasy Party (HFP), held one to two Sundays per month (10 PM–3 AM), where couples set the tone and men attend by invitation-style selection. The crowd spans a wide age range and is notably diverse, and reviewers consistently single out the venue's culture of explicit verbal consent as one of its most distinguishing qualities.

The Red Rooster

Las Vegas, NV

On-Premise Club

Seven miles east of the Strip in the residential Whitney neighborhood, The Red Rooster occupies a sprawling stand-alone house at 6405 Greyhound Ave — the only such structure on the block — that has grown from its original 800-square-foot footprint in 1983 to over 12,000 square feet of on-premise lifestyle space. Founded by husband and wife Mike and Chris Borchers as an informal house party, it is the longest-running swingers club in Las Vegas. The main floor wraps around a central dance floor lit by a disco ball, with lounge seating, a pool table (free), two staffed BYOB check-in bars, an indoor pool and hot tub, and a large open group playroom. An outdoor patio with heaters serves as the designated smoking area. Upstairs is a couples-only zone — open Fridays and Saturdays only — guarded by a bouncer who requires guests to be in a towel or less to pass. That floor holds multiple private rooms, each with lockable doors, available to any couple. The group room downstairs is open to all guests for play or voyeurism; beds are reserved for participants. Lockers are provided near both the front bar and the indoor pool, with a $10 deposit for a rental lock. The club runs Wednesday and Thursday 9pm–2am, Friday and Saturday 9pm–3am, and Sunday 8pm–2am, closed Monday and Tuesday. Entry is by cash donation at the door — no reservations required. Suggested donations: couples $40; single women $10 Wed–Sat; single men $80 Wed–Thurs, $100 Fri–Sat. All guests must be 25 or older; photo ID is checked at the door. The venue is strictly BYOB — no alcohol is sold — with complimentary mixers, sodas, and water available at both bars. Food is served on weekend evenings. Theme nights and holiday parties are a regular fixture.

Le Trapeze

closed

New York, NY

For more than three decades, Le Trapeze was New York City's most enduring couples-only sex club, occupying a distinctive space at 17 East 27th Street, between Madison and Fifth Avenues in Midtown Manhattan. The club was lodged inside the Prince George Hotel — a 1903 NYC landmark — specifically within what had been the hotel's Madison Pub, a Shakespearean English-style bar. That heritage gave the interior an incongruous warmth: stained glass windows, exposed brick, wood-beam ceilings, and wagon-wheel chandeliers imported from Europe, all of it radiating country-pub atmosphere. A nondescript exterior door carried only the name — nothing more — and a buzz-controlled entry led members into pleasantly dim, rose-tinted rooms. The layout spread across two floors. The ground level held a dance floor ringed by couches, a free soft-drink bar (alcohol BYOB, no corkage), and a buffet included with entry. A corridor off the bar led to four private rooms with locks, plus an attendant locker room with showers and towels. Beyond the lockers, a small flight of stairs opened into a mat room — a raised mezzanine-like platform with a wrought-iron barrier and wall-to-wall mattresses. At the base of the spiral staircase was the large orgy room, its mirrored ceiling amplifying everything. The second floor held roughly five open semi-private rooms for couples plus two enclosed rooms fitted with sex benches for voyeurs and exhibitionists. A manager gave first-timers a personal walkthrough of the entire space. Admission was open to couples and single women; single men were not permitted. Membership could be purchased at the door. The one explicit rule staff and regulars alike enforced was first-names only and no means no; couples who arrived together were required to leave together. The crowd spanned a wide range of ages, and the atmosphere was reliably described as more raw than glamorous — a place that survived vice squads, the AIDS epidemic, and multiple recessions before New York's real estate market finally shut it down in mid-2016.

Risque Vegas Estate

Las Vegas, NV

Risque Estate is a private, members-only lifestyle venue set within a residential property in the Paradise neighborhood of Las Vegas, just minutes from the Strip. Established in 2014, the estate operates as an on-premise swingers club hosting clothing-optional parties Wednesday through Sunday, welcoming couples, singles, and LGBTQ guests aged 21 and over in a BYOB format with snacks and mixers provided. The grounds center on a resort-style heated pool kept at 90 degrees year-round, surrounded by spacious poolside cabanas and block-walled areas for nude sunbathing. Inside, guests find multiple private playrooms, a large group room, a game room with a cheetah-felt pool table, a dance floor with a stripper pole, and a custom Harley-Davidson fitted with a built-in Sybian. Risque Estate emphasizes discretion with secure off-street parking and a membership structure included in the door donation. The estate provides lockers, clean showers, and ample cooler space, while guests are asked to bring their own towels, locks, and beverages. The venue regularly hosts themed events listed through its website and social channels.

Saints & Sinners AC

closed

Atlantic City, NJ

Event Organizer

Saints & Sinners AC anchors the Diving Horse entertainment complex at 18 S. Dr. Martin Luther King Blvd, a sprawling 55,000-square-foot multi-use building in Atlantic City. Guests enter discreetly from the back of the Diving Horse complex rather than the main boulevard-facing door — a deliberate design choice that sets the tone for the whole experience. Inside, four floors hold an impressive inventory of spaces: 15 open, air-conditioned play rooms, additional private and semi-private rooms, 11 showers, 2 BYOB bars stocked with mixers, 2 dance floors fitted with stripper poles, an outdoor heated pool, an outdoor deck, and a food buffet that runs through the night. Erotic movies play throughout the venue to set the mood. The club pitches itself as a new-age, modern lifestyle destination rather than a classic swinger haunt, and the crowd — primarily couples in their late twenties to late forties — dresses to match. Women tend toward fitted dresses; men wear button-up shirts and jeans. Saturday theme nights are a recurring feature, with prizes and costumed dress codes announced in advance. The adjacent Diving Horse Inn (30 rooms, many with jacuzzi tubs and balconies overlooking the deck and pool) lets members extend the evening without leaving the building, while the neighboring Diving Horse Cabaret and Luxx Lounge nightclub round out the complex. Doors open Fridays and Saturdays from 9 pm, with Fridays running to 3 am and Saturdays to 4-5 am. The club is closed Sunday through Thursday.

On-Premise Club

Sitting on Q Street in the heart of South Omaha, R-Place built its reputation as Nebraska's only dedicated on-premise lifestyle club - a privately owned, 4,000-square-foot, three-level building converted into what owners called an elegant upscale classy venue. The main floor centres on a full dance floor with professional DJ booth, state-of-the-art lighting and a sound system, ringed by lounge-style seating and five TVs (including a 60-inch screen). Three leather-furnished living-room social areas give couples and groups a place to mix before venturing further, and the club runs as a strict BYOB bottle club with mixers and soft drinks provided at no charge. The play spaces span two additional levels. Four private bedrooms and four bathrooms (three with showers) handle couples seeking privacy, while the basement Dungeon - billed as The Playroom - offers group beds, two electric-hoist sex swings, restraints, a glory hole wall, and a professional massage table, plus a Sybian machine. Outside, a large patio enclosed by a six-foot privacy fence leads to a covered 20-by-19-foot sky room with a twelve-foot propane fire pit, seating around thirty people through the colder Nebraska months. The door policy is guest-list only: prospective attendees email in advance to be added, and walk-ins are not accepted. Hours run Friday and Saturday, 8 pm to 2 am. Saturday nights are theme-party nights. Admission is $40 per couple per night, $25 for a single woman, and $45 for a single man. Towels, lockers, and condom supplies are on hand; smoking is allowed in a designated indoor area. Single males and single females are both welcome alongside couples.

Club Labyrinth NYC

New York, NY

On-Premise Club

Club Labyrinth occupies a private midtown Manhattan building near the corner of East 31st Street and Park Avenue South — close to Grand Central, Herald Square, and Union Square — with street parking and subway access that make it one of the more accessible adult venues in the city. The space runs across multiple levels and roughly 1,500 sq ft, dividing into a front-of-house room with the front desk, coat check, seating areas, and a refreshment bar, a second room with BDSM furniture, couches, and a bed, and a third dedicated play room lined with beds and a projector screen showing adult video. There is also a dedicated Blackout Room for the truly adventurous and a Voyeur Room — both name-checked on the Friday Debauchery night — plus a designated smoking space and private bathrooms for changing. Labyrinth runs four nights a week: Anything Goes Wednesdays (9pm–2am, couples and singles, BDSM-friendly), Orgy Thursdays (9pm–3am, group-play focus), Debauchery Fridays (9pm–4am, the club's signature night), and Swinging Kink Saturdays (9pm–4am, the busiest evening). Pricing varies by night: Wednesdays run $40 couples / $80 single men / free for ladies until midnight; Fridays scale to $60–$80 couples and $100–$120 single men depending on arrival time. Membership is compulsory — annual ($40), six-month ($30), or one-week ($20) — and must be purchased before attending; every tenth visit is free. The crowd skews toward adventurous adults in their 20s, 30s, and 40s, and the club draws a mix of couples and single attendees in a no-pressure environment where watching is as welcome as participating. Complimentary condoms, lube, and towels are provided; the venue is BYOB with a $20 bottle surcharge and a one-bottle-per-membership cap, with complimentary mixers, soda, and water at the bar. All events are on-premise with no re-entry.

XCLUSIV Lifestyle (XL)

Houston, TX

Lifestyle Resort

Tucked into north Houston near the 77073 zip code, XCLUSIV Lifestyle (XL) is the area's upscale, members-only lifestyle event centre for open-minded adults drawn from across Texas and Louisiana. The venue runs Thursday through Sunday with Friday and Saturday nights going until 5AM and Sunday wrapping at 3AM, pulling in regulars from Houston, Dallas, Austin, San Antonio, Beaumont, and New Orleans. Membership is required but can be obtained at the door with a valid government-issued photo ID; all guests must be 21 or older. XL is fully cashless and BYOB with on-site mixers available. A live DJ, VIP sections, a dance floor, intimate lounge, showers, and a suite of themed playrooms fill out the space. Dress code is upscale and sexy, with a strict prohibited-items list covering shorts, sneakers, tank tops, and caps. Saturday single-gent entry is limited and requires advance RSVP. The club offers private event hire, affiliate travel packages to Desire and Temptation resorts, and maintains a FetLife community presence. Security cameras cover all public spaces while private areas are excluded. Photography and video require express written approval from management. Consent is core to the culture — non-consensual behaviour results in immediate removal without refund.

CKJ Studio (Club Kink Jax)

Jacksonville, FL

BDSM Club

CKJ Studio has been Jacksonville's original alternative lifestyle club since 2014 — a private, non-profit social organization and Northeast Florida's premier members-only venue for the kink, BDSM, fetish, swinger, and LGBTQ+ communities. The space spans two distinct sections: the main Club Kink Jax area with a full dungeon (St. Andrew's cross and spanking bench), a lush Moroccan-themed lounge, a medical examination room, and Sybian stations; and the expansive La Intima VIP Lounge, which adds a dance floor, voyeur area, king-sized play beds, a private locker room, and showers — every play space stocked with condoms, cleaning supplies, and fresh linens. Far from a "Ken and Barbie" scene, CKJ draws a genuinely diverse crowd across ages, body types, orientations, and experience levels — rated 4.7 stars by over a hundred members. One first-timer memorably described it as "an adult Disney World where people embrace exactly who they are." Each open night begins with a 7–9 PM social hour welcoming newcomers before members-only play opens at 9 PM. The programming calendar is consistently varied: Wild Wednesdays, Fetish Fridays, monthly Kinky Bingo nights, a monthly Shibari Experience in the on-site Kinbaku Cardinale Dojo, occasional burlesque shows by Pink Pussycat Productions, and — every October — the three-day Jax Fet Fest Expo, a regional kink convention drawing attendees from across the Southeast with 40+ workshops, a vendor floor, and themed dungeon parties open to the public. Getting in starts with a pre-paid orientation ($20 via Eventbrite, offered at 7, 8, and 9 PM on open nights) — a 30–45 minute session covering consent culture, house rules, and a full venue tour before any membership can be activated. Trial membership ($69/person, one visit, couples and single females only), Annual membership ($149/person plus $25 per visit), and VIP membership ($599/person, unlimited visits with full La Intima access) are the three tiers. Single males must enter at the Annual tier. Every event is 21+ with no walk-ins, a strict no-phones-in-play-areas rule, and a consent-first culture maintained by on-site monitors.

on-premise

DB Socials holds a singular distinction in New England: it is the region's longest-running on-premise lifestyle party, operating continuously since June 1999 — first out of Bridgewater, then quietly relocating to its current private location in Grafton, a suburb in Worcester County about an hour west of Boston. Host Barry has run every event since inception, and the format has stayed deliberately unchanged across more than two decades: small, intimate gatherings for full-swap couples and single women, designed to feel nothing like a commercial nightclub. Events run bi-monthly, opening at 7PM with a floating close around 11PM-midnight. There is no door charge; in lieu of a fee, guests are asked to bring food or snacks to share, along with their own beverage — alcohol is welcome, though intoxication is not. Music plays throughout and adult movies provide ambient backdrop, but the atmosphere is casual and relaxed. The emphasis is on a small, intimate group setting rather than a large-scale venue experience. First-timers are welcome, but entry requires a brief phone call first — Barry needs to hear a woman's voice before directions to the private address are given out. That one rule says a great deal about DB Socials: a community built on trust and continuity, self-selecting for people who take the courtesy call seriously. Events are fully non-smoking throughout.

Karizma Social Club

Glen Gardner, NJ

Social Club

Tucked into the rolling countryside of Hunterdon County, Karizma Social Club has established itself as New Jersey's premier on-premise lifestyle destination. The facility spans 7,800 square feet of interior space — part of an 11,500 sq ft building set on 4 acres — housing a full-service BYOB bar (mixers provided, barkeepers on hand), a DJ-driven dance floor active on Saturday nights, a game area with pool table, air hockey, darts, and arcade games, plus several lounge areas and a mix of open, semi-private, and private play rooms. A covered outdoor area handles smokers, and a free paved parking lot serves the property. Hotel discounts and a paid shuttle service to and from the Hampton Inn — within 5 miles — round out the practical amenities. The schedule runs on a consistent rhythm: Saturdays year-round (8pm–5am, bar until 3am) and the 1st and 3rd Fridays of each month (9pm–3am). Approved single gentlemen are permitted on the 3rd Saturday only, and in limited numbers. New members receive a mandatory orientation tour of the club before their first event. In over four and a half years of operation, the club reports having closed unexpectedly only a handful of times. Karizma draws members from across New Jersey, New York, and Pennsylvania, positioning itself as an upscale nightclub-style experience rather than a casual house party. The minimum age is 24. Membership is for couples (male/female) or singles, with annual and monthly dues options; all fees are paid in person — no online payments accepted. The exact address is released only after membership approval.

Club Dalliance

Columbia, SC

On-Premise Club

Club Dalliance is a private members-only lifestyle nightclub at 911A First Avenue South in Columbia, South Carolina, tucked into an industrial park just off I-77 and Bluff Road — close enough to the interstate that GPS regulars know to type in "1100 First Ave South" instead, because the venue's own address sometimes refuses to register. Self-billed as "The Sexiest Night Club in South Carolina" under the tagline "It's A Lifestyle," the club runs as a dance-and-social venue rather than a sauna or play-room sprawl — 3,000 square feet of upscale nightclub on a single floor, with a 16'-by-20' dance floor at the centre, a full light show and smoke machine, a stripper pole, a cage, and a "Shadow Box" performance stage that reviewers in the South Carolina lifestyle community consistently single out as the club's signature feature ("one of the highlights of the club with amazing sexual acts displayed there"). Resident DJ Wilmar plays current hits and classics, takes requests, and runs the night's rhythm. A "Birthday Dance" at 11pm is the club's recurring marquee moment — guests are expected to be in the room by then. The schedule is twice a month, on the 2nd and 4th Saturday, 9pm–2am ("sometimes later if the feeling is right"). Door is 21+ with a valid photo ID — no exceptions — and entry is cash-only. Pricing tiers heavily favour the audience the club is built around: $50 for couples, $10 for single women, $90 for single men, with a one-time $10 annual membership purchased at the door on first visit. Single men are admitted only when escorted by a couple or a single female (one single male per couple maximum), which keeps the floor at the gender balance the regulars expect. The club is BYOB throughout — no liquor sold, no licence — but Dalliance lays on complimentary sodas, bottled water, ice, snacks and appetizers, so the only thing guests carry in is their bottle. Smoking is outdoor-only. Phones go off in the public areas (the regulars on TikTok call it a "no-phone party"). Dress code is enforced firmly enough that it appears on every page of the welcome material — "Dress to Impress," sexy for ladies, nice shirt, shoes and pants for men, never flip-flops, never sagging, never sleeveless. Themed parties run on top of the base format with their own codes — recent calendars include the White Party (summer kickoff), Neon Glow, Cinco de Mayo, Men's Shirt Party and a Pajama-coded social. The venue also runs a free intimate photography room: the in-house photographer Don shoots private sessions, and guests bring their own SD card to take the photos home before the lights come up. SDC.com lists the club at 4 out of 5 stars across 8 reviews. No pool, no hot tub, no sauna, no showers, no lockers — this is a dance-and-social club, end of story, and the regular crowd treats the floor as the play.

FuseX Social Club - South Dakota Chapter

unverified

Sioux Falls, South Dakota

Social Club

FuseX Social Club is a private, approval-only lifestyle organization operating its South Dakota chapter from Sioux Falls with no fixed address — events rotate among confidential venues including hotel takeovers, luxury house parties, and invitation-only mansion events. The SD chapter runs approximately three hosted events per year locally; many Sioux Falls members also attend the larger Minneapolis chapter. Every applicant undergoes a formal interview, a national criminal background check, and must sign binding NDA and non-liability agreements before event details are shared. The membership skews toward working professionals — lawyers, physicians, executives — with income requirements (couples: $225,000+ combined; single males: $115,828+). Lifestyle interests span swinging, cuckolding, hotwifing, BDSM, polyamory, and voyeurism. In a conservative-state context, the club positions itself as the discreet alternative; members frequently travel to Minneapolis for higher-attendance events. At events, the format is social first: couples mingle and dance before play areas open, and participation is always voluntary. Dress code is enforced. Membership tiers range from $2,900 to $25,000/year plus per-event costs; single women receive free Platinum membership. Approximately one in four applications is approved.

Choice Social Club

Providence, RI

On-Premise Club

Choice Social Club is New England's flagship on-premise lifestyle club, occupying 8,000 square feet behind a red door in a Providence industrial neighborhood on Porter Street. Inside the contrast is sharp: warm-toned lounges furnished in leather, a dance floor with a video wall and stripper pole, a BYOB bar, and a backyard patio that opens for summer events. The building's 14 themed playrooms include a voyeur chamber with a one-way window, a schoolhouse room, a massage room, a blacklight room, a glory hole room, and a group room with an L-shaped multi-bed layout. A dedicated BDSM corner houses St. Andrew's crosses and sawhorse equipment. Staff change sheets between uses throughout the night. Membership and pricing have two layers. Annual memberships run $45 for couples ($250 premium), $40-65 for single women, and a $100 introductory rate for single men, who face a 3-4 month waitlist given strict ratio management. Per-event admission adds $90 for couples, $100 for single men, and $5 for single women. First-timers receive a complimentary trial membership. Events run Saturdays 9 pm to 2 am with themed nights rotating through the calendar; a Ropes class runs on the third Thursday at 7 pm. The BYOB system works by handing bottles to staff at check-in labelled with your membership number and requesting drinks at the bar all night with the club supplying mixers and ice. Playroom etiquette follows a plastic-chain signal system: chain on the door means open to observation or polite requests to join; door open and unchained means people may ask; curtain or door closed means full privacy. The crowd runs approximately 90% couples with an average age of 35-45, and the single-male quota is actively controlled to keep the balance couples-focused. The club has operated under Red Door Operations, LLC since 2009; a COVID closure prompted a 2021 GoFundMe by owner Jim Knaus that raised over $5,000 before reopening.

Chameleons Newport

Newport, Wales

On-Premise Club

Chameleons Newport is the only swingers club in South Wales — a Friday-night takeover of The Greenhouse health club building at 24 Church Street, where the 21-seater jacuzzi, dry sauna, steam room, and multi-level play areas transform into a lifestyle venue from 8 pm to 3:30 am every week. The building has operated for over 20 years and runs as a health and sauna club the rest of the week; on Fridays, Chameleons takes over with private cabins, dark rooms, glory holes, communal play rooms, and a cafe bar where you can buy soft drinks and snacks. Alcohol is strictly BYOB — bring your own bottles but don't overdo it, and no drinks are allowed near the jacuzzi. Membership is a one-off lifetime fee: £25 for couples, free for single ladies, and £80 for single men (though single male entry is never guaranteed and depends on the couple-to-single-lady ratio on the night). If you already hold a Darlaston membership, it's valid at Newport too. The club requires two forms of ID plus a recent utility bill — stricter than the Darlaston branch — and the minimum age is 21. Entrance fees apply on top of membership but aren't published online; call 01633 212 906 during Friday hours or 0121 568 6117 out of hours (routes to Darlaston). All emails go to chameleonsclub@gmail.com — specify that you're asking about Newport. Unlike its sister venue in Darlaston which runs six days a week with themed events, Newport keeps it simple: one Friday session, no rotating themes, open to couples and singles of all genders. The dress code is relaxed — towels (provided) or shorts for men, towels or "dress as sexy as you dare" for women. Towels and secure lockers are included, condoms are available from machines in the changing rooms, and smoking is outdoor-terrace only. With a 4.6/5 rating on CityMaps and reviewers consistently praising the welcoming atmosphere for first-timers, the club benefits from having no direct competition in the region — though some reviews note the building could use more investment.

Electricity Social Club

Providence, RI

On-premise lifestyle / swinger club

Electricity Social Club occupies a loft-style space inside Atlantic Mill, a historic industrial complex in the Olneyville neighborhood of Providence, at 122 Manton Avenue — Right Tower, 2nd Floor. From the outside the building reads as a plain old factory, with no signage pointing to what's inside. The interior opens into a spacious loft-fitted club with a dance floor, a stripper pole, a full sound and light system, a BYOB bar stocked with mixers, lockers, and a dedicated smoking lounge. It is an on-premise, members-only lifestyle venue and one of the most talked-about lifestyle clubs in New England. The club runs Friday and Saturday nights from 9 pm to 2 am, with specialty events — including a bi- and pansexual-friendly Bi Voltage night — on the calendar. All guests must hold an annual membership (available at the door) and pay a per-party entry fee; valid photo ID is required at every visit. The crowd skews toward couples and single men, with reviewers placing the typical age range in the forties to fifties, though visitors span their twenties to late sixties. The atmosphere is described as laid-back and friendly, with action picking up after 11 pm. The play areas cover a wide range of preferences: a large main group room with couches ringing a dance floor and stripper pole; a small dungeon stocked with a rack, sawhorse, and floggers; a side room with beds and fresh linens; exhibitionist beds in a hallway where a velvet rope signals openness to company; and approximately ten fully private, attendant-managed playrooms. The club is BYOB — bring your own alcohol, free mixers provided — and is cash-only at the door. ESC describes itself as on-premise and welcoming to LGBTQ, pansexual, and bi-friendly guests.

The Riverside Club

Gallipolis Ferry, WV

On-Premise Club

Set along Huntington Road in the small Mason County community of Gallipolis Ferry, The Riverside Club bills itself as West Virginia's #1 lifestyle club — a members-only, on-premise venue open to couples, single women, and a select number of single men. The space includes a dance floor, a stripper cage, a BYOB self-serve bar, multiple private playrooms, lockers (bring your own lock), and a hot tub. Complimentary soft drinks and food are included with entry, keeping the vibe more house-party than nightclub. Parties run every Saturday night from 9pm to 3am, with recurring themed nights — Blacklight Party, Red Dress Night, and Fishnet Night among them — plus annual events like the Christmas Party and New Year's Eve celebration. Membership costs $50 per year for couples, single men, and single ladies alike. New members register and verify online, then confirm their ID and pay on the first visit. All guests must be 21 or older. The crowd spans a wide range of ages and backgrounds, and first-timers consistently describe the owners, staff, and regulars as exceptionally welcoming. Single ladies are treated as honored guests; the rules explicitly flag that stalking or harassment of single women can result in permanent membership suspension. Smoking is permitted outside only, and the club asks all guests to keep voices down outdoors out of respect for the neighborhood.

Club FA (Freedom Acres)

closed

San Bernardino, CA

On-Premise Club

Club FA, also known as Freedom Acres, was one of Southern California's largest on-premise swinger clubs — roughly 13,000 square feet on Devore Road in San Bernardino, at the north edge of the Inland Empire. The main floor paired a dance area and raised pole stage with a second, more intimate lounge floor, plus a pool table, scattered tables for eating and mingling, and TVs throughout playing adult films. A buffet was set out nightly, with coffee and donuts on Sunday mornings. About 6,000 square feet was given to play: a maze of cubbies, themed rooms, lofts and group areas ranging from semi-private to fully open. Club FA was a private membership association closed to the public — entry required an accepted membership plus the door fee each visit, and couples had to attend together. Members were 21-plus. Single men were admitted only on Wednesday and Sunday parties, never Friday or Saturday; single women could attend any night. Nights ran late and themed: Friday to 4am, Saturday to 6am, Sunday to 10pm with a DJ and dancing, typically drawing 120-160+ couples and 250-300+ for marquee events like New Year's, Halloween and the Freedom Acres Anniversary. Drinks were BYOB across two bars (beer/wine and mixed drinks). Dress leaned upscale-casual — collared shirts for men, with t-shirts, flip-flops, sweats and thug attire turned away.

Club Eros

unverified

Cleveland, OH

On-Premise Club

Club Eros occupies a sprawling 15,000-square-foot industrial-chic space tucked behind gated access on E. 33rd Street in Cleveland's St. Clair–Hamilton corridor — the only female-owned adult lifestyle club in the Midwest, run by owner Jenny, who has been hosting events for over 15 years. The main floor delivers a full nightclub experience: a DJ booth with professional sound and light show, a full-service BYOA bar with complimentary juices, sodas, and premium energy drinks, a pool table, intimate lounge seating, and a complimentary buffet on Saturday nights. A couples-only lounge with its own play area provides a quieter retreat, and a movie theater area rounds out the social zones before guests head deeper into the club. The play wing spans 20 rooms: voyeur and exhibition rooms, a kink and bondage room, a dedicated pleasure-swing room, couples glory-hole rooms, private rooms, and a first-timers tour led by staff on arrival. Membership is required — one-night passes run $20 for couples; quarterly memberships are $35 for couples or single males and $25 for single ladies. Standard Saturday door fees are $69 for couples and $20 for single ladies; single males must qualify through CockFest or Club Cougar intake events, or attend daytime Tryst sessions. Eros stands apart on scale, polish, and inclusivity: its member base spans couples and singles across straight, gay, bi, and queer identities; attendance on a typical Saturday runs 60–100 with themed nights drawing up to 250. The all-inclusive door fee covers linens, wipes, condoms, buffet, and soft-drink mixers. Doors open at 9 PM on Saturdays with events running to 3 AM, and the large gated lot with on-site security makes parking straightforward.

Club Escape

Cleveland, OH

On-Premise Club

Club Escape sits on Lakeside Avenue East about five minutes east of downtown Cleveland, tucked into a converted building near the Flats with parking monitored by an attendant. Under couple ownership, the club has repositioned itself as one of Ohio leading on-premises lifestyle venues, drawing a mix of couples and singles all 21 and over. The venue footprint includes eight private themed playrooms, two large open group areas, a group shower room, an erotic black-light lounge, two massage tables, male and female glory holes, and a pool table. The club is BYOB: no alcohol is sold on site, but complimentary soft drinks and mixers are provided alongside a free buffet each night. DJs spin Top 40 and throwback tracks Wednesday through Saturday. The schedule runs three nights a week: Wednesdays (7:30pm-midnight) carry the lowest entry prices; Fridays and Saturdays (8pm-2am) are the main events, with themed parties ranging from BDSM education nights to glow parties. Couples pay $45-65 cash on weekends, single females $10-30, and single males $55-80.

On-Premise Club

Sitting on Zion Street in Hartford's West End, Leisure Time Club has been the cornerstone of New England's lifestyle scene since the early 1980s — now in its 44th year of continuous operation and widely cited as the longest-running swingers club in the United States. The venue spans three floors, opening each Saturday at 9 pm to a crowd of couples and single women who come for a reliably welcoming, no-pressure atmosphere. Downstairs, a live-DJ dance floor fitted with a stripper pole, professional sound and lighting anchors the social side of the evening; a large lounge area and a fully attended BYOB bar keep the conversational energy flowing between trips upstairs. The upper floors hold five themed recreation rooms — including a private room, a beginners' room, a voyeur room, and open-group spaces — alongside BDSM apparatus, a Tantra chair, two group showers, and towels-and-lockers facilities. Repeat visitors consistently praise the owners for personally welcoming newcomers and making introductions across the room. The atmosphere skews intimate rather than cavernous, with regulars and first-timers mixing easily from their mid-twenties to early sixties. Beyond the weekly Saturday night, Leisure Time runs a monthly Friday-evening Ladies Social, a women-only party for ladies who want to connect, dance and let go. The club draws from across Connecticut and within an hour's drive of Massachusetts, New York, and Rhode Island, giving it a regional catchment that keeps the crowd refreshingly varied. Single males are not admitted at any event. The venue is entirely smoke-free.

Clubhouse 2050

Indianapolis, IN

On-Premise Club

Sitting just east of downtown Indianapolis on E Michigan Street — about two miles from city center — ClubHouse 2050 is Indiana's longest-running lifestyle members-only club, housed in a building with an eclectic past (members note it was once a funeral home, which only adds to its mystique). The ground floor is laid out like a social club: a sports bar, dance floor, card room, and game room all feed into a play area with curtained semi-private spaces. Upstairs, private and semi-private rooms are available for couples and groups, outfitted with fresh linens and stocked with convenience baskets. What sets ClubHouse 2050 apart is the breadth of its membership. Less than half of the crowd are full swingers; the rest are voyeurs, exhibitionists, BDSM and FetLife regulars, and vanilla couples who enjoy a flirtatious, no-judgment atmosphere. The club runs weekly events every Friday and Saturday (8pm–2am), leaning into themed nights that vary by the interests of those who show up. It is BYOB with no bar tab, and the flat $50 Saturday entry and roughly $30 Friday fee make it one of the most affordable on-premise clubs in the region. Paid members also unlock a full online community: photo sharing, direct messaging, and live video chat. The club partners with a sister venue, ClubhousePandora.com near Anderson Casino, and curates a calendar of lifestyle travel events for members seeking experiences beyond Indianapolis.

The Playground RI

Providence, RI

Private House Party

The Playground RI is a weekly lifestyle house party run out of a converted three-family home in Providence's Oakland Avenue Historic District, operated by hosts Eddy and Viv Badd of BBadd Entertainment. Spread across four floors and roughly 4,000 square feet, the venue mixes themed social spaces with dedicated play areas: the ground floor opens with a meet-and-greet lounge alongside a Wild West room, a Pirate room, and a kink-themed Red Room. The second floor holds a dance floor with a stripper pole and four more playrooms. The third floor is towel-and-robe only, with two private rooms, a glory hole, and an open group play area; the dungeon is fully equipped with two sex swings, a massage table, a Sybian, and a doctor's office with two exam tables. Saturday nights (8 pm-2 am) are the main weekly event, open to couples, single women, and a limited number of single men (21+), with the host managing ratios carefully. Friday Fusion nights run the same hours but tilt toward BDSM and kink and are open to all genders. The hosts personally tour first-timers through the space, answer questions, and make guests feel at home; reviewers consistently describe the atmosphere as friendly and community-driven rather than nightclub-cold. All parties are BYOB, with ice, refrigerators, snacks, sodas, and water provided at no charge. Every room is stocked with condoms, lube, and clean sheets. Lockers are available on the third floor. The venue is 420-friendly outdoors. Attendance is RSVP-only — no walk-ins; the full address is shared only upon booking confirmation.

Swingers Club

Tucked away in a quiet industrial pocket of northeast Calgary, the Calgary Adult Playground Club has operated as one of the city's most private and long-running lifestyle communities since 2006. Known simply as CAPC or "The Studio," the 1,400 sq ft venue is deliberately unmarked from the outside — no signage, no music audible from the street, just a discreet entrance that members know to look for. Inside, it's a different world entirely. The ground floor combines a dance floor with disco lighting, a BYOB bar area stocked with mixers, ice, and glassware, and comfortable lounge seating. Upstairs, a dedicated play room carries a sensual dungeon atmosphere equipped with a Saint Andrew's Cross, bondage furniture, and safe sex supplies placed throughout. Regular events include Fetish Fridays and Swinger Saturdays starting at 9pm, plus occasional themed nights — rope bondage workshops, educational sessions, and exclusive CAPC Elite events for select members. Membership is invitation-only, either through referral from a current member or an interview with the owners. The community spans ages 21 to 60+, welcoming couples, single females, and those across the full spectrum of orientations and relationship styles: swinging, polyamory, kink, BDSM, and LGBTQ+. Single males are welcome at all events except Saturday nights, where entry requires a female partner or couple. The club's founding philosophy — safe, sane, and consensual with zero pressure — has made it a trusted space for Calgary's alternative lifestyle community for nearly two decades.

The Pleasure Garden Club

Philadelphia, PA

On-Premise Club

Tucked behind The Purple Orchid at the far end of a Passyunk Avenue strip mall in Philadelphia's Elmwood/Eastwick neighborhood, The Pleasure Garden Club has been one of the city's premier on-premise lifestyle destinations since opening in September 2006. The venue sits behind a gated private parking lot — well-lit and hidden from street view — and a pat-down security check at the door ensures no phones make it inside. With capacity for roughly 300 guests, the space centers on a large dance floor anchored by a stripper pole on a raised platform, flanked by two BYOB juice bars with complimentary mixers, a group shower with towel service, and a bank of lockers (bring your own padlock). Membership is bundled with entry via TicketLeap. Playrooms range from curtained private rooms and an open play pit to a dedicated gangbang room and two Sybian rooms (available for a $20 deposit). A side room off the main dance floor houses a permanent BDSM setup — St. Andrew's cross, a cage, a spiked wood throne with manacles, and suspension rigs — making it a genuine dual-use swinger/kink space. Overflow back rooms unlock on busier nights when the main areas fill up. Fridays (9 pm–2 am) welcome couples, single ladies, and single men; the first Friday of each month is PLEASUREcation, a kink-forward mixed party with dark/rock/EDM music and programming such as rope bondage demos. Saturdays (9 pm–3 am) are couples and single ladies only, with themed nights running the gamut from Mardi Gras to glow and sheer-wear parties.

Event Organizer

Camelot Social Club has been bringing Charlotte's lifestyle community together since 2019 — a monthly event organizer that takes over entire hotels and private venues for one-night parties that feel genuinely upscale without the velvet-rope attitude. Founded by Dan Camelot with a mission to be open to "all people, not just the Ken and Barbies of the world," the club draws straight, bi, gay, and trans-friendly members from across the Carolinas. Events are hosted at properties like Holiday Inn Express Gastonia and The Gold Club Charlotte, with buffet, live DJ, and pool access included in the night. Getting started requires a one-time signed waiver before your first event — after that, you're in the community. Single males need to be vetted by the team or an existing couple before attending. Hotel rooms at takeover venues are bookable separately (Friday from $109, Saturday from $125 + tax), making it easy to turn a Saturday party into a full weekend. Pricing for main events runs around $78 for couples and $94 for single males with prepayment required for the latter. The club hosts meet & greets at local spots like Leather & Lace Gastonia as a low-pressure intro — just mention "Pineapple" or "Camelot" at the door for free entry. With themed events year-round (Kentucky Derby nights, New Year's Eve, pool parties) and a stated long-term goal of establishing a permanent on-premises venue, Camelot is steadily building toward something bigger in the Charlotte market.

Red Room Nashville

Nashville, TN

On-Premise Club

Red Room Nashville is a members-only lifestyle club in Nashville, Tennessee, hosting weekly themed parties for screened adult members. The venue operates on a BYOB policy with complimentary mixers provided, features a large LED dance floor with a professional DJ, private rooms, and VIP seating. Membership is tiered and requires a 24-hour approval process; walk-ins are not accepted.

IntimatePartiesGroup (IPG)

New York, NY

Event Organizer

IntimatePartiesGroup (IPG) is a Northeast-based lifestyle event production outfit run by couple-hosts Maddy and Joe, drawing on a roster of experienced DJs, performers, comics, and venue operators whose sensibility blends Brazilian, Latin, Caribbean, and American swinger culture. Rather than maintaining a fixed club, IPG takes over entire hotels -- typically in Scranton, PA, conveniently off Highway 81 -- for full two-day weekends, regularly drawing 150-200 couples per event. Hotel room blocks are negotiated at roughly $119-139 per night with a two-night minimum, and the hotel staff are described as extremely lifestyle friendly. The all-day format means guests checking in Friday afternoon have access to the heated indoor pool and surrounding amenities well before the night main events begin. Each event weekend follows a structured rhythm. Friday evening opens with naughty trivia (6:30-7:45 PM), a meet-and-greet, then a DJ dance party running to midnight, followed by a pool party until 2-3 AM. Saturday layers on afternoon speed dating, kink demos, poolside games, and Swingo (a bingo variant), before a pre-party gathering at 6 PM and a main event -- typically a comedy show or costumed contest -- at 8:45 PM sharp, with themed playrooms and a potluck after-party floor-crawl from midnight onward, closing with a pool-and-desserts wind-down at 4 AM. The crowd skews friendly and repeating; reviews consistently flag the hosts personal floor presence and the unusually respectful atmosphere among attendees. Preference bracelets issued at check-in (green: full swap; yellow: soft swap; purple: tame; red: bisexual) take the guesswork out of navigation. IPG also co-hosts at external venues, including a recurring bi/lingerie night at The Kink Lair, and an annual Pride Fest kink/fetish hotel takeover.

Mission Control SF (Kinky Salon)

Oakland, CA

BDSM Club

Mission Control is a members-only, volunteer-run sex-positive community rooted in the San Francisco Bay Area. Founded around 2000 by Polly Whittaker — the London transplant better known as Polly Superstar — the organization spent its first fourteen years at 2519 Mission Street before rising rents forced an eviction in late 2013. It re-established itself and now operates out of venues in Oakland, hosting a rotating calendar of themed parties and workshops under its 501(c)(7) nonprofit charter. The event lineup spans a wide spectrum: Pink is the house party where the core community gathers; Threshold is the BDSM-focused night; Velvet centres queer women, trans folks, and genderqueers; SOUL is exclusively for people of colour; Peek celebrates exhibitionism and voyeurism; and Eropunk is a sober play party for introverts. All events are BYOB. Entry requires individual membership (couples applications declined). Alliance membership at $20/month or $200/year unlocks free entry to most parties. The PAL system — every guest must arrive and leave with a trusted accountability partner — underpins the consent culture.

Sea Mountain Spa Las Vegas

Las Vegas, NV

Bath House

Sea Mountain Spa Las Vegas is a members-only, clothing-optional lifestyles day-and-night club minutes from the Strip, operating out of a private compound on South Eastern Avenue. The property centres on heated nude pools and an oversized whirlpool surrounded by designer daybeds, floating cabanas, and sun-drenched tanning gardens. Indoors, the Dharma Club — an on-premises lifestyles lounge with a dance pole, DJ booth, and lingerie-and-less dress code — runs around the clock, making it Las Vegas's only 24-hour on-premises couples lifestyle venue. Admission is restricted to couples and single women; single men are never permitted. A six-month membership ($20 per person) must be purchased on the first visit, and all guests must be 21-plus. Day retreats run 10 a.m.–5 p.m.; evening packages extend from 2 p.m. to 1–3 a.m. depending on the night, with late-night add-ons available. All-day passes include complimentary soft drinks, snacks, and lunch. The venue is BYOB for alcohol — none is sold on-site — and 420-cannabis-friendly. The all-female staff cultivates a no-attitude, non-body-shaming atmosphere, and reviewers consistently note a relaxed, pressure-free vibe with a friendly crowd spanning twenties through sixties. Pool and whirlpool areas are clothes-free year-round (towels, sarongs, and robes are provided), while evenings shift to a provocative lingerie-and-less code inside the Dharma Club.

The Badd Kitty Club operated out of a large private venue at 3491 Route 20 in the town of Sheridan, Chautauqua County — about 45 miles southwest of Buffalo near the Fredonia/Dunkirk exit. Billing itself as western New York's premier women-run, on-premise lifestyle club, it catered exclusively to couples and single women; membership was free to apply for, with event access and website login granted only after vetting. The club described itself as a private, members-only setting for couples and singles to explore their passions without inhibition. At its peak the club hosted several events per month, drawing gatherings of around 50 people at a time. Owner Raquel Spears argued it was a legitimate private business and a responsible neighbour; reports noted guests paying approximately $150 per head, with the club estimating close to $300,000 in annual economic impact. The venue shared its building with a daytime pawn shop, operated evenings with no exterior signage, and admitted only pre-screened members — BYOB throughout, with no bar licence. The physical venue was destroyed in a fire on July 11, 2022. As of late 2024 the burned-out shell remained standing, with the Town of Sheridan filing a state Supreme Court lawsuit against the property owner seeking demolition and site remediation. The club website (baddkittyclub.com) remains reachable but returns sparse content; no verified evidence of a new operating location has been found.

CJ's at The Townhouse

Glasgow, Scotland

On-Premise Club

Tucked into a quiet corner of Kelvindale on Glasgow's leafy west side, CJ's at The Townhouse has built a reputation as one of Scotland's most welcoming swingers clubs. The venue spans two floors of a discreet townhouse on Ashburton Road, with a trio of stripper-pole-lined lounges, a self-service bar and a buffet downstairs, and a warren of eight themed playrooms upstairs. Owner CJ personally walks first-timers through the space, and the crowd — a friendly mix of regulars and newcomers, often spanning their late twenties to early sixties — sets a tone that's more living-room than nightclub. Parties run on a tight rhythm: Friday nights (8pm–midnight) are couples and single ladies only; Saturdays (9pm–2am) open the door to a limited number of single men; and once a month, a Wednesday afternoon party (noon–3pm) welcomes everyone. There are also dedicated gay and bi-male nights run under the @cjs4gay banner. Entry is by prior booking only — no walk-ins, no admittance after 11pm — and photo ID (passport, driving licence or utility bill) is required at the door. Dress code is strictly enforced: a sexy little number for the ladies, smart casual or sexy attire for the gents. The playrooms cover everything from a cinema lounge and an open group room to a fully equipped dungeon, a medical-themed private room, a voyeur room, and a couples-and-single-females-only room with a love swing. Phones are off in public areas and cameras are banned outright, which keeps the vibe relaxed and discreet. The "party contribution" at the door covers a buffet plus tea, coffee and soft drinks; alcohol is BYOB with no corkage. Towels and condoms are provided, there's a separate indoor smoking area, and an on-site wardrobe and makeover service is on hand for anyone who wants to dress up before they head in.

CC House Party

Country Club Hills, IL

On-Premise Club

CC House Party is the most talked-about lifestyle house party in metropolitan Chicago — an 8,000-square-foot private facility in Country Club Hills that fills with 60 to 100 couples every Saturday night. Two floors of play rooms, a dance floor with a pole and state-of-the-art sound and lighting, open and private party rooms, voyeur and exhibition spaces, massage table, bondage equipment, and a group shower give the space a genuinely upscale feel that earns its spotless 5-out-of-5 cleanliness rating on Kasidie. Eight co-ed bathrooms, towels, and a full dinner buffet are all included in admission — bring your own bottles and the mixers are on the house. Doors open at 8 pm and close hard at 11 pm — no late entry. The vibe tilts heavily toward couples and single women; single men are currently not being approved for membership. Getting in requires an online application through the Modern Lifestyle platform, a community profile with a posed couple photo, and ID verification at the door on your first visit. Membership runs $66.59 for six months (non-recurring), with event tickets purchased separately per party. Credit card charges appear discreetly as "ML Ticketing." Beyond the weekly Saturday parties, CC House Party organises travel events — lifestyle cruises, resort takeovers, and the annual Naughty N'awlins hotel takeover in New Orleans. The club's address stays private by design (you receive it after approval), and the whole operation leans into discretion: no public social media, no walk-ins, no exceptions. Listed on Kasidie (Club #2052), SLS, and Playdar (Club #502), with a phone line at (219) 689-8273 for questions.

TJ's Lasting Impressions

Newport, PA

on-premise lifestyle club

Billed as the largest and most luxurious lifestyle club in Central Pennsylvania, TJ's Lasting Impressions sits on 2620 Susquehanna Trail in Newport, about 25 miles northwest of Harrisburg. The 16,000-square-foot venue reads more upscale supper club than dungeon: a soaring dance floor anchored by a mirrored stage and 10-foot brass pole, a full BYOB bar where bartenders pour from your labeled bottle with free mixers, and a proper sit-down restaurant serving Angus steak, grilled chicken, Chicken Parmesan, and Shrimp & Chips — all included in the door price. Late-night desserts and finger food run until 3 am. Pennsylvania's largest Roman-style hot tub, seating 80, is the social centrepiece. The playspace runs to 12 themed party rooms and a large open group room, plus an observation room. For those who want to extend the stay, nine hotel-standard VIP rooms check in at 3 pm ($110/night) and check out at 11 am; party rooms can also be held for overnight use from $70 after the club closes at 3 am. Events are Saturday-only, 8 pm–3 am, and advance reservation through the club's website is required. Membership is mandatory but easy: a one-time trial runs $15, and the annual rate is $50 for couples, $25 for single ladies, and $50 for single men. Event fees mirror that structure. A cash discount is available. First-timers can download the membership form online to speed up check-in; valid photo ID is required at the door for all guests 21 and up.

Tabu Social Club

Catonsville, MD

on-premise lifestyle club

Tucked into a commercial strip in Catonsville just west of Baltimore, Tabu Social Club has operated since 2004 as the region's flagship on-premise lifestyle venue — Black-owned and women-owned, drawing couples and single ladies from across the Baltimore-DC corridor. The space splits cleanly into two distinct zones: upstairs, a nightclub-style lounge with a raised dance floor, plush sunken seating, two dance poles, an elevated dance cage, and a dedicated ladies-only dance stage, all driven by resident DJ Kutt on Saturdays and rotating DJs on Fridays. The tone reads more upscale martini bar than basement party — well-lit, clean, and deliberately social before it's anything else. Descend to the lower level and the energy shifts: Vicki's VIP Lounge houses 11 sexually themed private suites — a doctor room, a love-voodoo room with a waterfall, a floating-bed mirrored room, a BDSM room, an oriental room, a gang-bang room, and two glass-window voyeur rooms — plus one open group area. Suite assignments are managed by a lounge attendant, and time limits apply when demand is high. Showers, towels, lockers, and five refrigerated coolers for BYOB beverages round out the amenities. The weekly rhythm is Fridays 9 pm–2 am and Saturdays 9 pm–3 am, with themed nights cycling through the calendar — newbie nights, pride parties, blackout events, and passport parties. Membership is open to couples and single females only; single males require a six-month-active-member sponsor. The crowd skews mature and dressed-up, with regular and new faces finding the no-pressure ethos — staff walk first-timers through the layout and etiquette on arrival — the club's most consistently praised quality.

On-Premise Club

Chameleons in Darlaston is one of the UK's most established swingers clubs — over 25 years in the business, open 363 days a year (every day except Tuesday), across a three-floor sauna-based venue just off Junction 9 of the M6. The ground floor holds reception, a bar and lounge, a dance floor, two large jacuzzis, singles changing, and showers. Upstairs you'll find a TV lounge, couples changing, a steam room, main shower area, ladies' powder room, and a mix of private and communal play rooms including a couples-only section. The top floor adds a sauna box, more showers, extra play rooms, and lockable rooms for privacy. Ten on-site hotel rooms are available for overnight stays — five en-suites including one superior room with its own entrance. Each night has its own character: Monday is Bi-Night (strictly bisexual and bi-friendly, TVs welcome, 2 pm–midnight), Wednesday through Friday runs from 11 am, Thursday adds Nude Night from 6 pm (strictly no clothing or towels), Friday and Saturday stay open until 3 am, and Saturday switches to couples and single ladies only after 7:30 pm. The club is BYOB — bring your bottles and the bar will refrigerate and serve them back to you. Food is served during sessions and gets genuine praise (the lamb shank in particular). Lifetime membership is a one-off fee: £25 for couples, £10 for single ladies, £80 for single men, with entrance on top ranging from £12 to £40 depending on the night and gender. Single men can enquire Tuesday through Friday and Sunday, but membership isn't guaranteed and depends on the ratio of couples to single ladies. ID is mandatory — one form for couples and single ladies, two forms for single men. The club has an 8,900-strong Facebook following, 1,400+ Instagram followers, 200+ FabSwingers reviews rated "Fabulous," and runs a second venue in Newport (24 Church Street). Free on-site parking, a dedicated taxi service through Link Up Cabs (0121 568 8989), and bus links from Walsall, Wolverhampton, and Birmingham make getting there straightforward.

On-Premise Club

atlantisEVOLUTION is a nightclub-themed swingers and lifestyle club in Burslem, Stoke-on-Trent, voted the No. 1 nightclub-themed swingers club in the UK. Run by beloved hosts Cat and Tag for over 15 years, it spans two floors with dance areas, multiple play rooms, kasbahs, a cosy lounge, and an outside courtyard. The club operates as BYOB with a customer cooler fridge and sells soft drinks and mixers. Fridays are open to all including single males, while Saturdays are couples and single females only. Special events include PlaY Xtra (free 1st Wednesday), EVOLUTIONfetish (4th Sunday, non-swinging), Greedy Girls, Hot Wives, and newbie-friendly PoP My Cherry nights. Rated 4.7/5 across 40+ reviews, consistently praised for its welcoming, no-pressure atmosphere and attentive staff.

Club Choices

closed

Houston, TX

On-Premise Club

Club Choices — branded interchangeably as Club Choices Houston and Choices Swingers Club — operated for years out of an unmarked warehouse on Star Lane, a quiet industrial side street tucked just north of the Galleria. The building itself is a roughly 9,000-square-foot, three-level Class C industrial shell with no street signage; the kind of place you could drive past a hundred times without noticing. Inside, the club ran a hard split between the floors: ground level was full nightclub — dance floor, stripper poles, stages, chains hanging from the ceiling, a live DJ rotating between Top 40 and classics, and a BYOB setup bar pouring free sodas, water and mixers. The upper floor flipped the script entirely — hot tub, showers, a swing, lockers, a massage table, a small video room, fetish toys, and a row of VIP suites for couples and groups. A small on-site adult boutique stocked by SoftTouchSecrets.com sold lingerie, condoms and the usual range of toys for anyone who wanted to take a piece of the night home. The club ran Thursday through Saturday, with the occasional Wednesday daytime RSVP play session and rare Sunday slots. Thursdays opened the door at 9pm and pushed to 2am; Fridays and Saturdays ran until 5am with last entry at 1:30. Door pricing was tiered the standard on-premise way — single men paid the most ($40 Thursday, $60 weekend), couples sat in the middle ($30/$40), single women paid the least and got in free before 11pm. Membership was a $10 one-time fee bought on arrival. Dress code was enforced firmly enough that it appeared on every page of the site: "Dress to Impress" — sexy for women, nice shirt, shoes and pants for men, never sportswear and never shorts. The crowd, by all accounts, skewed older and quieter than a typical Houston nightclub. One Yelp review captured the tone: "Not what you think — it's not a strip bar and there's not sex everywhere. It is very classy and refined. Women are very respected." The club closed at 5/5 stars across 12 Yelp reviews. By March 2026 the doors were shut. There was no announcement — no press release, no closure post on Instagram, no farewell event. The clubchoiceshouston.com domain went dark first (Hostinger suspended the hosting account, the standard sign of unpaid bills), Yelp updated the listing to CLOSED in March, and the building re-tenanted to Lane 58, a hookah bar that took its Yelp listing live in May 2026. The Star Lane address has a long history of running through nightlife tenants — StarLane Industry Afterhours, Club 5806 / Rendevu, VIA After Hours (closed November 2025), and Richmond Studios (a daytime photography/event tenant from 2018) all cycled through the same building. None of the two dormant Instagram accounts (@clubchoiceshouston, @clubchoicess) have posted since well before closure, and the @bacchusnightclub_ confusion that occasionally surfaces online is a different venue in Bishop's Stortford, England. The legacy Wix site at choiceslifestyle.wixsite.com/choices is the only piece of the operation still publicly readable — a frozen snapshot of pricing, hours and rules from when the lights were on.

The Pendulum Club South

Houston, TX

On-Premise Club

Sitting just off Airport Boulevard near Hobby Airport, The Pendulum Club South opened in 2018 as one of Houston's only women-owned and operated lifestyle venues. Billed as the 'hip and young at heart' sibling in TPC's three-location network, it trades the original Hempstead brothel-replica aesthetic for a mid-town contemporary vibe — a compact, deliberately intimate space that caps capacity to guarantee a lively atmosphere even on quieter nights. Tours are offered to first-timers who arrive before 10:30 PM, and the staff-led walkthrough is a signature touch from the women who run all three clubs. The layout unfolds from a main dance floor with a full bar setup (BYOB — cups, ice, and mixers provided free) into a separate select-area lounge ringed by booth seating and a private dance stage, where exhibitionists can perform for their partners. Beyond that lies the back area: four private rooms, a veiled bed, a group bed surrounded by couches, and an adjacent room with its own private space. Admission is couples, single women, and a limited number of single men on Friday nights only; single men must exit by 2 AM and access to the front playrooms is restricted. A $10 nightly membership fee is collected at the door on top of the cover charge. The club runs Friday and Saturday nights from 9 PM to 3 AM, with doors closing at 2 AM — no admittance after that. Membership registration is required before your first visit and a government-issued photo ID must be presented at entry. A colour-coded wristband system lets guests signal their interests and comfort levels without a word being exchanged. Dress code is enforced: smart-casual or better for men (collared shirt, dress slacks, clean footwear), sexy and classy for women. No cameras, phones, or recording devices anywhere inside the venue.

The Sterling

Newton, MA

On-Premise Club

Sterling bills itself as a BYOB neighborhood lounge in Boston Metro-West corridor — a low-key, residential-scale club where couples can meet, socialize, and play on-premise without the noise of a larger nightclub. Holding the distinction of being New England's second-oldest swing club and a NASCA International member, Sterling has built a reputation for discretion and longevity over flash. The venue has no dance floor, no pool, no hot tub, and no private rooms — the emphasis is firmly on the social side, with self-serve BYOB and no smoking inside. The schedule centers on Saturday evenings with parties most weeks; the space is also available most other afternoons and evenings for members' use, giving it the feel of a private club. Admission is by membership only — prospective members must complete an interview before attending — and out-of-area NASCA-I affiliate cards are honored for visitors from other regions. Membership is restricted to couples and single women; single men are not invited to club events. The club serves Greater Boston, northern Rhode Island, southern New Hampshire, and southern Maine.

Afterdark Edinburgh

Edinburgh, Scotland

On-Premise Lifestyle Club

AfterDark is Edinburgh's premier private members swinging and kink club, originally known as "After Eight" before rebranding and moving to its current larger premises in October 2022. Located in a converted warehouse unit at Bankhead Workspace in Edinburgh's Sighthill area, the venue delivers an unexpectedly polished experience behind its industrial exterior. The spacious social lounge serves as the central hub, with atmospheric lighting setting the tone for the evening. Surrounding it are 9 dedicated play spaces of varying sizes — from intimate private rooms with doors to open play areas — plus a cinema room, dungeon/BDSM area, and a glory hole. Lockers are provided at the entrance (phones must be stored here), and changing rooms with showers and mirrors are available. Towels, condoms, and lubricant are provided throughout. AfterDark operates BYOB — bring your own alcohol and enjoy it in the lounge. Soft drinks are available for purchase via tokens bought at reception. The club runs a varied weekly schedule: Wednesday midweek sessions (8 PM–1 AM), Friday and Saturday main nights (9 PM–3 AM), and rotating Thursday events including TV/CD/Bi & Admirers nights, quiz nights, and rope classes. Themed events rotate regularly — lingerie nights, UV parties, wrestling themes, couples-only evenings, and seasonal celebrations. First-timers are welcomed with a guided tour from staff covering the layout, rules, and etiquette. Many guests attend simply to socialise without participating in play, and the club's 4.6-star Google rating (33 reviews) reflects the consistently welcoming atmosphere. Membership is £20/year (arranged on first visit), with entry fees of £35 for couples and £40 for single males on weekends. Dress code is smart casual — no sportswear, team clothing, joggers, or hats permitted.

Our Place 4 Fun

London, London

On-Premise Club

London's friendliest members-only swingers club featuring multiple themed play spaces, a dungeon, lounge bar and a no-pressure atmosphere. Hosting weekly events like Frisky Fridays and Butterfly Club nights with real energy and sexy vibes for all experience levels.

DJ's Island

Beaver Falls, PA

DJ's Island has anchored the Pittsburgh-area lifestyle scene since 2002, drawing couples from across the tri-state region to its 8,500-square-foot venue on Big Beaver Boulevard in Beaver Falls, PA. Owned and operated by Jim and Debbie, who scoured the region's best clubs before building their own, the venue greets members at a reservation desk before a host couple walks first-timers through the space — a pattern that sets a no-pressure, consent-forward tone from the moment you arrive. The main room pairs a five-sided open bar with a full-size dance floor fitted with two poles and a dance cage, surrounded by posh leather seating and backlit walls that keep the atmosphere somewhere between upscale nightclub and comfortable living room. The play facilities span an open room with two king-size beds, ten private rooms each with a complete private bath, and a 20-person hot tub with an open shower area. Every Friday and Saturday night entry covers a full dinner buffet: hors d'oeuvres and the salad bar appear at 7:30 pm, a sit-down dinner runs from 8 pm to 11:30 pm, and late-night finger sandwiches carry the crowd through to close at 2 am. The club seats 200-plus in the dining area, and the kitchen turns out a rotating menu of appetizers, grilled entrees, and nightly specials. DJ's Island runs as a private membership association — annual membership is $50, and no one enters without a reservation and a valid membership card. Doors open at 7 pm and lock at 11 pm; new members are encouraged to arrive between 7 and 8 pm for their exclusive tour. The BYOB bar is fully staffed with a professional bartender and a complete mixer selection, and a full crew — doorman, waitresses, cleaning staff, and DJ — keeps the evening running smoothly.

Miami Velvet

Miami, FL

On-Premise Club

Set in a hulking commercial warehouse just off the Palmetto Expressway near Miami International Airport, Miami Velvet bills itself as Florida’s largest private adult lifestyle nightclub — and with 20,000 square feet of dance floors, lounges, and play corridors spread across a single industrial level, the footprint earns the claim. The main room greets guests with red velvet booths, erotic art lining the walls, stripper poles rising from the dance floor, and a Vegas-grade LED and sound rig that keeps the Latin heat constant well past 2 am. The crowd skews younger than most lifestyle clubs in the country, averaging around 33 years old, with a bilingual, conspicuously good-looking mix of Miamians and international visitors from across Latin America, Europe, and beyond. The club opens Friday and Saturday nights only: doors at 22:00, closing at 04:00 Fridays and 05:00 Saturdays. Fridays admit couples, single ladies, and single men; Saturdays are restricted to couples and single women only. Membership is mandatory — no exceptions — and must be arranged before or on arrival; first-time tourist couples from out of state have the membership fee waived on standard nights. Entry fees run $110 per couple on Fridays and $135 on Saturdays; single ladies enter free Fridays or at $25 Saturdays; single men pay a substantial premium and are barred entirely on Saturdays. Dress code is enforced at the door: sexy and upscale for women, smart club wear for men — no shorts, tank tops, sandals, or caps. The club is fully BYOB — no liquor is sold on-premise — with bottles checked in via a numbered wristband system and standard mixers provided at no charge. Lockers and towels are included in the entry price. Two distinct play zones branch off the main corridor: a clothing-permitted area lined with 15+ private locking rooms and a multi-bed group playroom, and a clothing-optional zone accessible from the locker room with steam-room-adjacent open lounges designed for exhibitionistic encounters. Stripper poles, a pool room, and a rotating calendar of themed party nights round out the programming.

Club Z

unverified

Columbus, OH

private residential home

Billed as the Ultimate Interracial Lifestyle Club in Central Ohio, Club Z has carved out a singular niche in Columbus's lifestyle scene by centering racial diversity and interracial connection at its core. Operated by Angela and Edwin from a private residential location in the greater Columbus area, the club deliberately keeps its address off public listings — members receive it only after their application clears a mandatory telephone interview. That screening process sets the tone: this is not a walk-in venue. The atmosphere is described consistently as sensual, inviting, and intimate, closer in feel to an upscale house party than a commercial nightclub. Membership is open to couples, single females, and select single males sponsored as guests of member couples — a policy that keeps the guest list curated and the ratio balanced. The club operates on a BYOB basis and runs monthly Saturday-night parties capped at 35 to 40 guests, a deliberately small number that reinforces the private-party atmosphere. Prospective members must be 21 or older and present a valid photo ID. The club carries a NASCA International affiliation. Club Z's identity is built around discretion and a no-pressure philosophy: members socialise and play at their own level of comfort. The intimate scale — unlike the large commercial clubs in Columbus — is a deliberate differentiator. Contact runs through 614-361-5900 and ClubZZebra@aol.com; the club's website at clubzzebra.com does not currently resolve.

Body Shop Pittsburgh

McKees Rocks, PA

Club

Tucked into an industrial pocket of McKees Rocks just minutes from downtown Pittsburgh, The Shop Social Lounge — better known in the lifestyle community as Body Shop Pittsburgh — occupies more than 15,000 square feet of reimagined space on McKee Street. The venue layers nightclub energy with a deliberate sense of community: a dance floor anchored by a vintage-car DJ booth and stripper pole, a heated outdoor patio, and a string of themed play rooms and dungeon spaces designed for guests at every comfort level. Friday and Saturday nights rotate through a calendar of themed events — Latin Heat, Lingerie Night, kink-focused Freaky Fridays with on-site STI testing, and BDSM education workshops. The club draws a notably younger and more LGBTQ+-forward crowd than most Pennsylvania lifestyle venues, and the inclusive ethos is structural: gender-neutral pricing, a vetted online membership process, and Safer Space Monitors present at every event keep the culture of enthusiastic consent woven into the room rather than posted on a wall. Membership begins with a free online application and photo verification; event tickets are purchased separately. The BYOB format — no liquor license, guests bring their own — keeps the atmosphere relaxed and the pricing accessible, with individual memberships starting at $29/month and couple tickets typically around $96 per event. Co-founded by Gelsomino Esplandiu and John Ross, the club holds a 4.8-star Google rating and a reputation for hands-on ownership and consistent cleanliness.

FuseX Social Club - North Dakota Chapter

Fargo, ND

Social Club

FuseX Social Club's North Dakota Chapter serves the Fargo and Bismarck markets as part of a national private members' organization founded in Beverly Hills in 2016 and now operating across 23 states. The chapter has no permanent brick-and-mortar venue — consistent with FuseX's model nationwide — instead hosting events at rotating private locations including hotel takeovers, luxury house parties, and Level 1 and Level 2 mansion parties in the Fargo area and, for larger gatherings, in nearby Minneapolis. Larger signature events lean toward themed masquerade parties and curated cocktail dinners with choreographed erotic theatre performed by professional hosts who mingle with members during the evening. The club positions itself as an upscale, approval-only alternative to public lifestyle apps and open swingers venues. Membership is selective — only 1 in 4 applications is accepted — and every prospective member passes a criminal background check, a personal interview, and signs a lifetime confidentiality agreement. Events are BYOB, and event locations are disclosed to confirmed members roughly 30 days in advance via private inbox and phone. Fargo is explicitly listed as a host city on the application event-locations roster alongside Minneapolis. The lifestyle interests catered to span swinging, BDSM and kink, cuckolding, hotwifing, voyeurism and exhibitionism, polyamory, and interracial play. Membership tiers range from a Platinum tier ($3,500/year, couples and single men) through a Circle tier ($18,000/year) and an All Access Elite tier ($25,000/year); single women receive complimentary Platinum membership. Per-event costs are separately priced. Consent is strictly enforced: no means no, always ask before touching, only yes means yes.

Event Organizer

Carolina Friends is the oldest lifestyle club in the Carolinas — founded in 1991 by eight Charlotte couples looking to host private parties in a welcoming, judgment-free atmosphere. Over three-and-a-half decades the club grew to add more than 40,000 couples to its roster, built its own dedicated facility called The Estate in 2000, and expanded to serve both the Charlotte metro and the Triad (Winston-Salem and Greensboro). In 2012 The Estate was lost to political pressure, and in 2016 new ownership stepped in to keep the club alive rather than let it dissolve. Today Carolina Friends runs full hotel takeovers every Friday and Saturday night — entire hotels reserved exclusively for members, giving events the privacy and scale you can't get at a smaller venue. Charlotte parties regularly draw 400+ couples; Triad events typically see 150+. Each event includes a live DJ and dance floor, a full buffet, BYOB with bartender and free mixers, co-ed showers, towels and lockers, and seasonal pool access. A late-night breakfast gathering caps off each evening. Private activity areas, group rooms, and a voyeur/exhibition space round out the play areas. Membership is $13.68/month and requires a free profile with your legal name before purchase — names are kept strictly private and used only for check-in. Event admission is sold separately and priced per event. Single females are always welcome; single males are admitted at most events but are limited based on attendance balance. The club has no public social media — communication happens through the member platform (private chat, AutoDate, passkey photos) and the three major lifestyle directories: SLS Club #8112, SDC, and Kasidie Club #277.

Club Hedonism

closed

Pompano Beach, FL

Club Hedonism was, for decades, the oldest and longest-running swingers club in South Florida — a private, members-only, BYOB on-premise lifestyle nightclub tucked into a low-slung commercial strip at 1000 E Sample Rd in Pompano Beach. It kept a deliberately discreet, no-smoking, members-only door and ran Wednesday through Saturday from the evening into the early-morning hours, drawing a couples-and-singles crowd to its bar, lounge, dancefloor, locker room, and on-premise playrooms. During the COVID pandemic the venue was rebranded and remodeled under new management, reopening as Defy Lifestyle Club ("Club Defy"). The club's own Facebook announced it had "taken this opportunity during the Covid Pandemic to Rebrand and make some upgrades to one of South Florida's most historic lifestyle clubs," and the original clubhedonism.com address now greets visitors with "The oldest Swingers Club in South Florida has a NEW LOOK!" before forwarding them to the Defy site. As Defy, the same address still operates as South Florida's premier lifestyle club: a bar/lounge/dancefloor up front, a locker room, and a large open group playroom with beds plus several private playrooms off the main floor — including a multi-person shower in the play area. It remains BYOB (bartenders mix your own alcohol with provided mixers; tip the bartender), open Wednesday–Saturday roughly 9pm–4am, with couples, single women, and (on select nights) single men admitted. The Club Hedonism name is effectively retired; anyone searching for it today is pointed to Defy Lifestyle Club at the identical Pompano Beach location.

colette Dallas

Dallas, TX

On-Premise Club

colette Dallas is the chain's high-energy Texas flagship — a private, members-only on-premise lifestyle club spanning 8,000+ square feet across two floors in northwest Dallas, near Love Field. The aesthetic is modern warehouse meets nightclub: a dance floor anchored by stripper poles and a stage, high-tech lighting and sound, and a curated upscale crowd that takes the dress code seriously. The Dallas Observer ranked colette first in its "Best Swingers Clubs Dallas" feature, and SwingerLifestyle.com puts it at #2 across all of Texas — the most prominent on-premise lifestyle venue in Dallas–Fort Worth. Play spaces are tiered three ways: semi-private rooms with sheer curtains, fully private rooms with blackout curtains, and a centerpiece group play room with a round bed and spectator seating. There's also an in-club movie theater showing adult films, a quieter second-floor lounge, and a VIP room rentable for private parties of up to 30 ($500–$1,000) — a perk Texas reviewers consistently call best in the state. The bar is BYOB — no liquor license, but free mixers, ice, and setups are provided, plus a beverage cooler for member use. Newbie Night runs every Wednesday with the membership fee waived for first-timers; staff give every newcomer a guided tour on arrival. colette is a national chain founded by John and Jackie Melfi (who also run the OpenLove101 lifestyle blog and podcast). The Dallas location opened in 2012 and connects into a 250,000+ member network across five cities — Dallas, Austin, Houston, New Orleans, and San Antonio. One membership works at all of them. Single men are welcome Wednesday through Friday; Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only. Recurring themed nights include Pantiless Fridays, Thirty Dollar Thursday, and rotating fetish, lingerie, and costume parties — and i.Candy Parties hosts large monthly events at the venue throughout the year.

The Cottage Social Club

Orrtanna, PA

Social Club

Tucked into the rural Adams County countryside near Orrtanna, Pennsylvania — just a short drive from Historic Gettysburg — The Cottage has been running as an on-premise lifestyle club since 1981, making it one of the longest-established members-only swinger venues in the mid-Atlantic. The property at 1534 Old Route 30 has grown into a sprawling multi-room complex with a live-DJ dance floor, mirrored stage with stripper pole, two pool tables, a full BYOB bar with mixers provided, and a large hot tub area with towels supplied. The club runs themed parties including Cottage Invasion and DIVA Rouge events, with finger foods and soups on Fridays and a full hot-food and salad bar on Saturdays. The playspace includes a large group room, observation room, six single-play rooms, a BDSM room, and twelve private party rooms. Overnight stays span multiple VIP room categories, from a VIP Suite with king bed, private bathroom, balcony, and kitchen access, down through standard Club Rooms assigned after the party ends. Showers are on site; checkout is 11 AM. Membership tiers run from a $10 one-night temporary pass through annual rates to Gold ($450 couples, $600 single men) and Platinum ($900/$1,200, two years). Friday door fees are $51 for couples; Saturdays $71. Single women pay $15 both nights. The average member age is 30-55.

Steel Cliffe

Sheffield, South Yorkshire

On-Premise Club

A welcoming swingers venue in Sheffield offering much more than just a place to play -- a space where like-minded individuals can connect, unwind and enjoy an inclusive atmosphere. Features eight distinct playrooms including a BDSM area, with a BYOB policy.

On-Premise Club (closed)

Club Discretions ran for nearly a quarter of a century behind an unmarked door at 3304 North 27th Avenue, sandwiched between Thomas and Osborn in the industrial flats of west Phoenix. The club had no street signage — "look for the BLUE lights on the west side of 27th Ave," the website used to read, and that was the only landmark you got. Founded around 2000 by John "Dutch" Van Brunschot and formally incorporated in Arizona in 2003 as Discretions Adult Social Club, the venue was one of a small group of Phoenix lifestyle clubs that survived the city's landmark 1998 anti-swingers ordinance — the one that declared sex clubs "inimical to the health, safety, general welfare and morals of the inhabitants of the city of Phoenix" and was later copied as a template by Las Vegas and Indianapolis. Discretions fought it in federal court alongside Club Chameleon, Guys & Dolls and Encounters, kept its doors open by boarding up its open viewing windows and converting public play areas (including the famously-named "Mass Hysteria" theme room) into private ones, and weathered a 2002 Phoenix PD raid in which staff and managers were briefly arrested. After all of it, the club just kept opening. For the next twenty-plus years it was Phoenix's busiest swingers social club, open seven nights a week — Sun–Thu 8pm to 3am, Fri–Sat to 5am, "363 days a year" by the club's own count. The vibe was unpretentious and a touch retro. A mirrored main stage with a brass stripper pole sat in the centre of the floor, with a separate stripper cage holding two more poles off to the side. Adult films played in the background throughout the building. A non-alcoholic juice-and-soda bar served free snacks and cheap drinks (Arizona state law banned alcohol sales on lifestyle premises, so guests poured their own from a house-issued red cup). Pool table, video games, a resident DJ taking requests, free condoms in every room. Upstairs sat the club's real anchor — nine private, semi-private and voyeur bedrooms, two B&D love swings, a "hideaway loft bed with a view," and what Discretions self-billed as the "LARGEST orgy room" in Arizona. It was a fully on-premises, full-swap club, marketed to all ages from 18 to 80, with a published etiquette guide ("Look Presentable, Ask Questions, Introduce Yourself…") and no formal dress code. By 2023 membership ran $25 per person per year, with a flat door fee of $10 Sun–Thu and $35 Fri–Sat; single women came free once they paid the yearly dues. Discretions did not so much close as go on hiatus. Sometime in 2023 the homepage gained a quiet banner — "Here's to many years of fun and memories, thank you for your loyal patronage. While there are currently priorities to deal with, if it is feasible Club Discretions may return in a bigger, better and more grand fashion than ever." The "Club Discretions 2.0" return never came. The clubdiscretions.com domain expired around December 2024 and now points to a parking page; the Yelp listing was flagged CLOSED at its April 2026 update. The building at 3304 N 27th Ave was taken over in 2024 by Hush Lounge AZ, a newer-generation private members-only lifestyle club that continues the address's long history as a Phoenix lifestyle venue. Of the original 1990s clubs that fought the Phoenix ordinance alongside Discretions, only Club Encounters — one block south on West Clarendon Avenue, opened 1996 — remains in continuous operation.

The SPOTT Night Club

unverified

Kansas City, MO

On-Premise Club

Tucked just off Interstate 70 at 2111 Television Place, The SPOTT Night Club has held its ground as Kansas City's flagship lifestyle and swingers venue for over fifteen years. The facility spans more than 8,000 square feet of indoor and outdoor party and play space. Inside, a 625-square-foot dance floor anchors the main hall, flanked by five dance poles, ten Las Vegas-style VIP booths, LED-lit glass bar-height tables, and an upper balcony that overlooks the action below. A 15x25-foot HD projection screen and Peavey surround sound fill the room, while a live DJ/VJ spins requests. On an average Saturday the crowd tops 300 guests — couples, single females, and a capped number of single men — and reviewers consistently describe the vibe as warm, polite, and pressure-free. The SPOTT runs every Saturday from 8:30 pm to 5:00 am with a different theme each week. The venue is strictly 21+ with no exceptions. Admission is tiered: couples pay $30 in advance or $40 at the door; single females $15/$20; single males $40 in advance, $50 at the door before 10:30 pm or $75 after. No printed ticket required — a valid ID at check-in suffices. No re-entry after 12:30 am. Play spaces include three private colour-themed lounges (Red, Blue, Green), a small open lounge, and a large group lounge with a voyeur viewing area. Outdoors, the WETTSPOTT area offers a 16x32-foot heated pool, an eight-person hot tub, five cushioned gazebos, and fire tables — open from St Patrick's Day to Halloween. Fully BYOB; complimentary Coke and Pepsi products provided, coolers welcome.

Lavish Lifestyle Events

Hauppauge, NY

Event Organizer

Lavish Lifestyle Events is an off-premise lifestyle event company run by Cynthia and Ron, the couple who operated Club Manor -- Long Island's premier off-premise swingers club -- for over a decade before closing it in September 2015 and pivoting to a travelling event format. The operation has since been fully rebranded as Lavish Lifestyle Events, expanding from its Long Island base to South Florida, with events now targeted across Palm Beach, Broward, and Dade counties at rotating private venues. All events are RSVP-only with no walk-in admittance. An online form collects names, email, and phone number; couples must list both partners. A discount applies to early RSVPs but expires at noon on the day of each event. Event dates are announced via the website and a newsletter, and the schedule rotates -- prospective guests are encouraged to check back regularly as upcoming parties are revealed on a rolling basis. Both couples and singles are welcome. The tone throughout is upscale and low-drama: themed soirees with crafted cocktails, curated music, and a no-nonsense social atmosphere. Cynthia and Ron position the brand on nearly two decades of community-building credibility from the Club Manor years. Personal information collected at RSVP is kept strictly confidential per the site's privacy policy and never shared with outside parties.

Set in a standalone two-story building on Atlantic Avenue — away from the casino corridor but squarely in the thick of Atlantic City's off-Strip scene — RolePlay Lounge billed itself as New Jersey's number-one erotic couples playground and, for much of the 2010s, was one of only two venues in the city openly offering on-premise lifestyle experiences. The building spanned over 5,000 square feet across two distinct floors. Downstairs was the nightclub: dance music, rotating spotlights, pole dancing, and a full social scene oriented around drinking and mingling. The upper floor was the play space — a collection of modern playrooms and open stages, stocked with a constant supply of dry-cleaned linen and towels, where the tone shifted from nightclub to something considerably more uninhibited. The crowd, per the club's own manager, ran roughly 22 to 52 years old — a mix that read, on a Saturday night, like any upscale small club except for the video screens and the open-door rooms on the second floor. The venue positioned itself deliberately against the 'grimy swingers club' image, marketing an upscale experience and describing itself as zero-pressure. Couples dominated the guest list; single women were admitted free, and a limited number of single men were permitted on Fridays only. Membership was required for entry, and the fee was $100 per couple, covering that membership along with entry for the night. RolePlay operated Fridays (10 pm–3 am) and Saturdays (9 pm–4 am), with parking between Boston and Providence Avenues. It was BYOB — the bar brought no alcohol license — and guests were expected to bring their own bottle. The club accepted Discover, Mastercard, and Visa at the door.

Club 101

Dayton, OH

On-Premise Club

Club 101 has been Dayton's oldest on-premise members-only lifestyle club for roughly 25 years, anchored at 101 Avondale Drive in a discreet building with private parking. The layout centres on a large open main room with a dance floor, DJ booth, pool table, and adult movie lounge with couches — the club takes evident pride in its DJ show, billing it as the best of any area lifestyle venue. Off the social floor, the space branches into five private rooms sized for one or two couples, two semi-private rooms with windows designed for optional exhibitionism, one large open group room, a slightly smaller group room with a mirrored wall, and a massage table room with BDSM possibilities. Showers, lockers, and a cooler for BYOB drinks round out the practical amenities, with free snacks and soda on hand throughout the night. The crowd skews toward mature, consenting adults — beginners and veterans alike — and the no-pressure ethos is reinforced at every level, from signage to staff. The club is active on Swingtowns, SDC, SLS, SZC, and Fetlife, and maintains a lively theme-party calendar (past events include a Denim & Diamonds Glowy Party and Pasties & Panties nights). In a public-health gesture, management partners with Shameless Care to offer members a free STI education course and supplies.

Friends Night Out (FNO)

Aurora, IL

Event Organizer

Friends Night Out is a lifestyle event organizer based in Aurora, Illinois, hosting themed BYOB events at the TSIN Barn venue. Events are open to couples, throuples, and single women; single men are permitted at select events with access restrictions to certain areas. Themed dress is encouraged but not required, and event tickets are non-refundable.

Shadows Private Club 2.0

Hyattsville, MD

private members club

Tucked into a light-industrial pocket of Hyattsville just minutes from the DC line, Shadows Private Club has built its reputation as the DMV go-to lifestyle destination for couples and singles who want something more curated than a bar and more honest than a hook-up app. Since opening in February 2017, the club has grown to a membership base of over 20,000 and anchors its identity on three pillars: a no-pressure atmosphere, a genuinely selective admission process, and a party schedule that gives members something to come back for every week. The vibe leans sophisticated rather than seedy — think masquerade masks, purple lighting, a resident DJ spinning R&B, Hip-Hop, Latin and Afrobeats, and a crowd that owner William Lorenzo describes as 21-and-up adults who value discretion and a good time in equal measure. The weekly programme runs Wednesday through Sunday. Wednesday, Thursday, and Sunday are general-admission nights running 9 pm to 3 am, while Friday and Saturday stretch to 5 am — an hour or two later than most competitors in the metro area. Saturday is the headline night: couples and single ladies are welcome on all nights, but single men are capped at ten admissions on Saturdays, with a correspondingly higher door price. Themed events rotate through the calendar and include Shadow Play parties, Glow Parties, Costume Nights, Queen of Spades evenings, and Wet T-Shirt Competitions. Entry is members-only — same-day applications are accepted online or at the door. Everyone must be 21-plus with a valid government-issued ID; no ID means no entry, no exceptions. The club is BYOB, with complimentary mixers provided free of charge; complimentary finger food is served every Friday and Saturday night. Phones and recording devices of any kind are prohibited inside — strictly enforced to protect member privacy.

Saints & Sinners Philly

Philadelphia, PA

On-Premise Club

Saints & Sinners Philly operates two locations across the city - the original spot tucked behind an unmarked building on Emery Street in Port Richmond, entered through a back door and sitting in the shadow of I-95, and a second venue on Frankford Avenue in Northeast Philadelphia. The Emery Street location spans 6,000 sq ft across three floors: upstairs is the nightclub proper with a bar, dance floor, stripper pole, flat-screen TVs, and a food buffet; downstairs is a warren of private, semi-private, open, and group play areas with a full bar, lockers, and showers. The Frankford Avenue outpost has a 45-foot main bar, multiple bottle bars, a dance floor, pool tables, and VIP seating. The weekly calendar runs Friday and Saturday 9pm-3am, last entry 1am. Fridays go under the Fishnet Fridays banner. Monthly Newbie Nights welcome first-timers and regulars, and Kinky Karaoke Nights invite guests to bring their own bottles. Wed-Fri the door is open to couples, single ladies, and screened single men; Saturdays are couples and single women only. The crowd is diverse in age and experience with a vibe that leans more party-house than clinical sex club. Free parking sits across the street at Emery and right out front at Frankford.

Club Eden DFW

Euless, TX

Private members-only lifestyle nightclub

Club Eden DFW is the flagship of a small Texas/Oklahoma chain of private members-only lifestyle nightclubs, run out of a 14,000 sq ft suite at 11050 S Pipeline Road in Euless — a half-hour west of downtown Dallas, in the industrial spine between DFW Airport and Arlington. The club is owned and operated by Chris Vee — a former stand-up comedian who built a long second career as "The Swingers Comedian" — and his wife Crissy. Chris took over the venue in around 2013 when it ran as Players DFW NightClub, rebranded it to Club Eden in 2015, and has since expanded the chain to a second location in San Antonio and a third in Oklahoma City, all sharing a single members portal at members.edenclubs.com. Couples in open relationships are the primary audience; the marketing language extends explicitly to the LGBT lifestyle as well. The house tagline is "Where couples come to play," and the club is careful to note publicly that it "does not provide adult entertainment" — the legal framing required to keep the on-premise side of the operation working. The venue itself is the size of a small commercial nightclub. The main floor runs a large dance floor with multiple stripper poles, shadow boxes, a cage, and big TV displays cycling music videos; live bands and DJs trade nights, with the music skewing urban and high-energy. Four semi-private and four private play rooms sit just off the dance floor, along with a dedicated BDSM room equipped with a St. Andrew's Cross, spanking bench and bondage frame. Pool tables, a photo booth, VIP couch lounges and a large VIP party area for 20-plus people fill out the social space. A full kitchen serves food throughout the night, and the patio out back carries an above-ground pool, two hot tubs, fire pits and the smoking area. The chain is BYOB at its Texas locations — no liquor licence, no in-house bar service, just ice and mixers behind a setup counter; OKC runs differently with a full bar. Next door at Suite #100 sits Infliction Hall, the chain's BDSM-focused sister venue under the same ownership; Club Eden members get free cover for Infliction Hall events for a year. Pricing is tiered three ways — by night, by gender, and by membership level. Daily door (which includes a one-night membership) runs $35 Wednesday through $95 Saturday for couples, $15–$35 for single women, and a deliberately steep $60–$200 for single men. The annual ladder runs from $250 a year for Couples VIP or Female Platinum up to $6,500 a year for Male Platinum, with Couples Platinum and Platinum Plus tiers between ($3,000 and $5,000). Single men admitted on a couple's ticket must arrive, stay and depart with that couple — a strict couples-led gate the club enforces explicitly. Hours run Wednesday through Saturday only, opening at 9pm and pushing later as the week progresses (Wed close 1am, Thu 2am, Fri 3am, Sat 4am). The weekly programme is unusually structured — Wednesday is "Play More Party" night; Thursdays rotate "Karaoke Thursday" with "All Kinks Thursday" (rope, impact, edge play, dom/sub, CD/trans, pet play, leather); Fridays rotate Topless / Sybian / G-String / Poly Glamorous over four-week cycles; Saturdays each carry their own themed party (Bad Ass Bitches & Bikers, Sexy Cowgirls & Outlaws with a live country band, Lifestyle Barbie, Risque Rave, Toga Glow and dozens more). The crowd reads about 4.4/5 across Google's 171 reviews and the Chamber of Commerce's 143, with the consistent praise notes being clean facilities, friendly staff and the chain's drama-free, consent-forward house culture.

Play Champagne (The Champagne Club)

Columbus, OH

Event Organizer

Play Champagne is one of the Midwest’s largest lifestyle event organizers, operating as a traveling party producer rather than a fixed-address club. Founded and still run by owners Melissa and Eric, the operation specializes in complete hotel takeovers — booking every guestroom, the convention space, restaurant, and bar — at full-service Hilton-brand hotels across Ohio, Michigan, Indiana, and Illinois, with regular Las Vegas editions and annual trips to Hedonism II in Jamaica. Flagship venues have included the Embassy Suites in Blue Ash (Cincinnati), Livonia MI, Indianapolis, Glenview IL, and Las Vegas. Typical weekends draw 1,200–1,600 attendees and span two nights, with a Friday check-in at 3 pm and checkout Monday morning. The programming is unusually dense for a hotel event: a five-story atrium main stage with award-winning lifestyle DJs, professional sound, lighting, and laser rigs; a 24-hour indoor pool (topless optional); a vendor showcase; meet-and-greet karaoke; drag shows; live bands; and a 360-degree video photo booth. Educational content includes couples sensory, Kama Sutra, and NURU massage classes, plus BDSM demonstrations, all with separate sign-up slots. Play areas include group and semi-private themed playrooms (typically in dedicated ballrooms), a Porn Play Escape group room, and an expanded Impact room for impact play opening nightly from around 11 pm. The famous top-floor afterparty runs from 1 am to dawn. Complimentary drinks are served nightly during a comp-bar window, and a full hot breakfast buffet with omelet station is included each morning. The crowd skews inclusive and body-positive, spanning roughly ages 28–55, and Play Champagne explicitly welcomes all body types and demographics. The vibe is upscale nightclub rather than underground party: VIP table service with reserved front-and-center seating is available, and off-duty police officers are stationed throughout the hotel. Dress code is dress-to-impress rather than enforced, though themed costume participation is strongly encouraged. The whole-hotel BYOB policy means guests bring their own alcohol to guest rooms and carry it in a covered tumbler into event spaces; a hotel cash bar is also on site.

The Pendulum Club (Hempstead Location)

Houston, TX

On-Premise Club

Sitting inside a strip center on Hempstead Road in northwest Houston, The Pendulum Club's original location transports visitors into what the owners describe as a replica of a mid-19th-century luxurious brothel — warm, plush, and immediately enveloping. The club is women-owned and operated, founded in 2015 by Josie and Shannon, and has grown into the anchor of a three-venue Houston-area chain. Despite a deliberately compact footprint, the space packs in 10 play areas, a figure the owners note exceeds most venues twice its size, and has earned a reputation as the busiest lifestyle club in Houston. The play layout moves from a main dance floor and self-serve BYOB bar area — the club provides ice, cups, juices, and sodas at no charge — into a select lounge with a separate dance stage, then deeper into private rooms, veiled beds, a group bed area ringed by couches, and a couples-only front section with two private rooms and two semi-private veiled beds. On arrival, guests receive a color-coded wristband that signals their interests, the club's own system for easing the social dynamic. Tours are offered to first-timers who arrive before 10:30 p.m., and the crowd on most nights is reportedly more than a third newcomers. The club opens Wednesday through Thursday from 9 p.m. to 2 a.m. (doors close at 1 a.m.) and Friday through Saturday from 9 p.m. to 3 a.m. (doors close at 2 a.m.). Single men are welcome Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday nights at this location only; on Fridays, single men are restricted to the back area unless invited by a couple. It is strictly 21-and-over, entirely non-smoking and non-vapor, and BYOB — no alcohol is sold or served on premises.