BYOB

Swingers Circle

Las Vegas, NV

On-Premise Club

Swingers Circle is a boutique hotel suite lifestyle party held weekly on Thursday nights in Las Vegas, operating on Las Vegas Boulevard near major Strip hotels. The event is restricted to couples and single women, with a maximum of 12 couples per session, making it one of the more intimate recurring play parties in the city. Guests are encouraged to arrive by 9:30 PM; BYOB is permitted and soft drinks, water, and snacks are provided.

Friction Parties

Washington, DC

Event Organizer

Friction Parties is a women-owned lifestyle hotel takeover event organizer operating in Washington DC, Philadelphia, and other cities nationwide. Membership is screening-based, requiring all attendees to meet appearance and hygiene standards, with new single women accepted only by referral from established couple members. Monthly themed events are BYOB, and the organization also coordinates lifestyle travel and cruise packages.

Friction Carolina

Durham, NC

Event Organizer

Friction Carolina is a women-owned lifestyle hotel takeover event organizer operating in Raleigh and other cities across the country. Membership is screening-based, requiring all attendees to meet appearance and hygiene standards, with new single women accepted only by referral from established couple members. Monthly themed events run on a BYOB basis, and the organization also coordinates lifestyle travel and cruise packages.

Tokyo Valentino Lifestyle Club

Atlanta, GA

On-Premise Club

Tokyo Valentino Lifestyle Club is a 24-hour adult lifestyle and play venue on Cheshire Bridge Road in Atlanta, Georgia, closing only briefly on Wednesday mornings for cleaning. The facility spans three floors and includes eight Amsterdam-style booths, open and private playrooms, dark rooms, shower facilities, massage rooms, private bedrooms, and an LED dance floor. No membership is required; admission is pay-per-visit, and the venue operates on a BYOB basis.

Ohana's Social Club

Columbus, OH

Social Club

Ohana's Social Club is a private members-only lifestyle club in Columbus, Ohio, operating in a multi-level house-party-style venue. The space includes a dance floor, open bar, pool table, lounge with stripper pole, five private rooms, and a semi-private play area; BYOB is permitted with mixers and light snacks provided. Couples are welcome at all events, with limited membership available to single women and single men.

Eros Knoxville

Knoxville, TN

On-Premise Club

Eros Knoxville is a private members-only lifestyle club in Knoxville, Tennessee. The club operates on a BYOB policy with no alcohol sold on-site, and all new members are required to complete an orientation tour by 11 PM on their first visit. Regular themed events run Friday nights, with early-arrival discounts for couples and complimentary entry for women before 10 PM.

Sensual Pleasures Lifestyle Club (SPLC)

Gatlinburg, TN

On-Premise Club

Sensual Pleasures Lifestyle Club (SPLC) is a private members-only lifestyle club serving the East Tennessee and Smoky Mountains area. The venue hosts events on Friday and Saturday nights from 8 PM to 2 AM, offering a full dinner buffet, BYOB with complimentary mixers, themed parties, educational workshops, and live entertainment. Overnight bed and breakfast accommodations are available by reservation, and the club dedicates Friday evenings to a bisexual, singles, and crossdresser/trans-inclusive night.

Wicked Fun Club

Terryville, CT

On-Premise Club

Wicked Fun Club is a membership-based lifestyle club in Terryville, Connecticut spanning over 3,000 square feet with four playrooms, a social lounge, and amenities including a tantra chair and sex swing. The club operates on a BYOB basis with mixers provided, and complimentary lockers and towels are included. Saturday nights are exclusively for couples and single women; single men are welcome on Fridays only.

616

Grand Rapids, MI

Event Organizer

Club 616 is West Michigan's premier upscale lifestyle event organizer, bringing together a vibrant community of open-minded adults across Grand Rapids and Kalamazoo. Known for meticulously themed parties — from Retro Pin Up elegance to all-night signature events — every Club 616 gathering is a carefully curated experience where sophistication meets sensuality. With over 14,000 Instagram followers and a loyal membership spanning SLS (BNJALLNIGHT), Kasidie, SDC, FetLife, and SwingTowns, Club 616 has earned its reputation as the gold standard for lifestyle events in West Michigan. Events are hosted at upscale hotel venues and feature a strictly enforced dress code — because looking the part is part of the experience. Newcomers are warmly welcomed with a newbie-friendly atmosphere, while limited single male tickets keep the guest ratio balanced and comfortable for couples. Single women are always embraced. LGBTQ+ inclusive. 21+ only.

Swingers Club

Caligula New York has been Astoria's open secret since at least 2016 — a 4,000 sq ft lifestyle club tucked into a Queens side street, built by enthusiasts for the community rather than for profit. Freshly renovated and reopened in February 2026, the space feels intentionally crafted: a proper dance floor with a resident DJ, lounge seating, a BYOB bar stocked with complimentary mixers, and a six-person erotic shower that has become something of a signature. Free street parking right outside and a max capacity of 350 mean the logistics rarely get in the way of a good night. Four nights a week — Thursday through Sunday from 9pm — the club runs a rotating weekly programme. Thursdays bring "One Night Stand," Fridays run themed "In Fridays We Trust" nights, Saturdays pull in larger productions like Major League Swingers events, and Sundays wind down with the "Sinful Sunday Swinger Social." Multiple private playrooms sit alongside open play areas, giving guests the choice of full privacy or a more social scene depending on the vibe of the evening. First-time visitors must book in advance, and the dress code is enforced at the door — no work boots, high-tops, or baseball caps. The club honours memberships from a wide network of lifestyle venues including SLS, SDC, Kasidie, Club Amante's, Miami Velvet, and Trapeze Atlanta, making it a natural stop for lifestyle travellers passing through New York. The crowd skews younger than many comparable clubs, the atmosphere is friendly rather than predatory, and the BYOB policy keeps the cost of a night out genuinely reasonable by New York standards.

BiZarre Events

London, London

BDSM Club

BiZarre Events is one of London's boldest and most unapologetically extreme fetish party producers, founded in April 2012 by Nina and Aidan BiZarre — two lifelong practitioners who created the events they wished existed. Operating as a private members club across rotating London venues disclosed only to confirmed guests, BiZarre isn't a nightclub with a kink corner — it's a play-first, immersive experience where fetish, kink, and sexual exploration take centre stage. Their lineup includes the long-running Bi-Kink Club for bisexual and pansexual fetishists, Club Labrys — a women-only safe space launched in 2019 — and the notorious PisSoir nights. Events run monthly on Saturdays, typically 9 PM to 3 AM, at purpose-fitted venues including world-renowned BDSM dungeons equipped with St. Andrew's crosses, bondage beds, suspension frames, and dedicated play spaces. Admission includes complimentary drinks, coat check, towels, showers, and supplies — an unusually all-inclusive package for the London fetish scene. The strict dress code is enforced at the door, and professional floor stewards ensure consent is always upheld. BiZarre explicitly welcomes everyone — straight, bi, gay, lesbian, trans, gender-fluid, crossdressers, singles, couples, and poly groups — making it one of the most genuinely pan-sexual events in London. Featured in Time Out London and Kinky Compass's Top 15 Kink Events, BiZarre has earned a devoted following over 14 years with consistently positive reviews praising the friendly atmosphere, professional staff, and immersive play-focused environment. Annual membership is £30, with per-event pricing from £25 for couples to £50 for non-member singles.

Hush Lounge AZ

Phoenix, AZ

On-Premise Club

Hush Lounge AZ is a private members-only lifestyle club in Phoenix, Arizona, open Thursday through Saturday. The venue features over seven specialty rooms plus main floor lounge areas, a DJ on Saturdays, and complimentary condoms and fresh towels; no alcohol is sold or served, but members may bring their own. Couples are the primary clientele, with single men admitted selectively based on event attendance.

On-Premise Club

Checkmate NYC is one of Manhattan's longest-running lifestyle clubs — nearly three decades at 227 East 56th Street, a lower-level space in Midtown East that owner Danny C. (who previously ran Le Trapeze) has shaped into a velvet-rope experience since taking over in 2018. The venue features floor-to-ceiling mirrors, an LED and mirrored dance floor, a pole-dancing stage, plush lounge seating, and multiple themed playrooms — Cinema, Dark, Neon, Mirrored, private and open — where entry is in robes or nude only. Music runs Latin, hip-hop, and dance-pop through a live DJ. It's BYOB with a bartender on staff, complimentary mixers, and a robe-and-towel service included in admission. No alcohol is sold. The club is strictly couples and single women — single men are never admitted under any circumstances. Getting in requires an application with a full-body photo, G-rated headshot, and a description of your personality and interests; the club explicitly selects for "fit, young, attractive couples ages 23 to 40ish" and not everyone is approved. Once accepted, you still need an active membership and RSVP for every visit — no walk-ins. Thursday's After Work Party runs 9 pm to 2 am at a reduced rate, while Friday and Saturday go 10 pm to 4 am at $220 per couple. Single women enter free with approval. Dress code is non-negotiable: suits and ties for men, dresses and heels for women. No sneakers, t-shirts, shorts, hats, or flip-flops. Reviewers are polarised — Yelp sits at 3.5/5 with a split between five-star and one-star ratings, while Google averages 4.0/5 across 80 reviews. Fans praise the clean space, attractive crowd that delivers on the promise, friendly staff, and a dance floor more active than most lifestyle clubs. Critics call it overpriced, note that the smaller venue (roughly 20–50 couples on a given night) limits connections, and find the photo-vetting process elitist. Time Out described it as one of Midtown East's most exclusive haunts. A Miami expansion is planned for 2026. Phones must be put away at all times inside, and couples are required to arrive together and remain in the same room throughout the night.

Private Residence

Braven Manor is a long-running, community-oriented kink and lifestyle venue operating from a private home in North Burnaby, just outside Vancouver. Since 2008, the space has served as an intimate alternative to commercial clubs, offering a fully equipped dungeon, themed play rooms, and flexible event programming that spans BDSM, swinging, fetish play, and group encounters — all at an accessible price point of $30 per person. The house features a dedicated dungeon with suspension frame, bondage table, cage, and spanking benches, plus a garage play space, whipping room with St Andrew's Cross, a medical room with a fucking machine, a school room, and multiple private lockable bedrooms. Supplies including condoms, lube, gloves, cleaning products, towels, and unlimited soft drinks are all included with admission. A Sybian is available during events, and the space can be rented privately for couples or small groups at hourly rates. Run as a non-profit by operator Seann Lyncaster, the venue hosts rotating events on its own calendar system — from gangbangs and BDSM play parties to swinger nights and private bookings. Membership signup is free, the atmosphere is pansexual and LGBTQ+ welcoming, and newcomers receive an orientation tour on arrival. The BYOB format keeps costs low, and a house safeword system underscores the consent-first culture that defines the space.

Wicked Manor

Dallas, TX

On-Premise Club

Wicked Manor — formerly PlayhouseDFW — is a members-only lifestyle venue tucked about ten miles southwest of downtown Dallas, where a discreet exterior opens into roughly 7,000 square feet of low-lit, modern playground. Event nights pulse with nightclub sound, candle-warm lighting, and the relaxed no-pressure energy the house treats as a hard rule. Inside you'll find a BYOB bar (free mixers and ice), a pool, a dance floor with live DJ, dedicated exhibitionism and voyeur rooms, a group room with stage, and a wing of private locking retreats. Free lockers handle the practical stuff, and the dress code is enforced: cocktail or sexier, no shorts, sandals, hats, or logo tees. Membership is photo-vetted and not everyone is accepted — couples and single women are always welcome, and a curated group of pre-approved single males attends Fridays only. Events run every Friday and Saturday: Friday is Hot Wife Friday (hotwife-themed, couples plus select singles), while Saturday evenings are couples and single females only. Advance tickets required; no walk-in entry at any time.

colette Austin

Austin, TX

colette Austin is Austin's definitive upscale lifestyle club — a private, members-only on-premise venue occupying 9,000 square feet across two levels in the Wells Branch district of north Austin. Step through the unmarked commercial exterior and the interior reads like a proper nightclub: a professional dance floor backed by state-of-the-art sound, dual balconies overlooking the bar and lounge below, plush sectional seating throughout, and a mood set by programmable lighting that shifts with each themed night. The club is BYOB with setups and ice provided — no liquor license, so bring your own and let the bar handle the rest. Play spaces are tiered by privacy: semi-private rooms with sheer curtains for voyeur-friendly encounters, fully private rooms with blackout curtains, a large open group area, a movie theater lounge, and a separate kink zone — all stocked with free condoms and cleaning supplies, all staffed by a team reviewers consistently call Grade A. Newcomers get a full guided tour on arrival and a standing Newbie Night every Wednesday designed for first-timers: come curious, ask questions, dance, watch, do nothing at all if that's what you prefer. The crowd skews couples with professionals in the mix, and the dress code is enforced — collared shirts and slacks for men, cocktail dress to lingerie for women, fetish and leather always welcome. colette is a national chain founded by John and Jackie Melfi (who also run the OpenLove101 lifestyle blog). The Austin location opened January 2018 and connects into a membership network of 250,000+ members spanning five cities. One membership works at all locations. Fridays rotate between Hotwife Nights and Pantiless Fridays; Saturdays bring themed events from Sabado Seduction to Cowboys & Corsets. Single men are welcome Wednesday through Friday; Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only. colette Austin is the only permanent upscale on-premise lifestyle club in Austin, and it's built to feel that way.

On-Premise Lifestyle Club

Tucked away in Calgary's southeast industrial quarter, Adore Social Club is the city's premier on-premise lifestyle venue — a polished, members-only retreat where nightclub energy meets sensual freedom. Built on the bones of the former Moonlight Magic space (which it thoroughly renovated under new ownership), Adore has quickly become the most talked-about destination in the Alberta lifestyle community. Spread across 3,100 square feet on two levels, the club delivers a dual experience: downstairs, a full-scale nightclub complete with a starlit dance floor, professional DJ booth, stripper pole, and comfortable booth seating sets the social tone; upstairs, a lounge with pool table and darts transitions into a tastefully designed play area with four king beds, a sex swing, hand and ankle cuffs, semi-private alcoves, and a dedicated BDSM beginner area with a St. Andrew's Cross and spanking bench. Complimentary appetizers — cheese boards, charcuterie, fondue, and themed snacks — grace every event. The club operates BYOB with labeled lockers for storage, and supplies mixers, ice, water, and glassware at no charge. All first-time attendees receive a guided tour from hosts covering the layout, house rules, and etiquette — making it a genuinely welcoming environment for newcomers. The venue's health inspection rating of 98/100 reflects the ownership's commitment to cleanliness and care. Membership is by application only, with screening based on effort and presentation rather than demographics. Single males are welcome but must be vouched for by a member couple and attend their first event with that couple. Regular events run Friday and Saturday, with occasional Wednesday and Sunday specials. Dress code is "Dress to Impress", with themed nights rotating throughout the year.

Trapeze Club Atlanta

Atlanta, GA

On-Premise Club

Trapeze Club Atlanta is an on-premise adult lifestyle club located in Atlanta, Georgia, operating Wednesday through Sunday from 8 PM with a BYOB policy. The venue features playrooms, themed events, a cigar lounge, and upscale dining with rotating weekly menus and a carving station. Single males are welcome most nights; Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only.

Trapeze Fort Lauderdale

Fort Lauderdale, FL

On-Premise Club

Trapeze Fort Lauderdale is an on-premise adult lifestyle club located in Tamarac, Florida, operating Wednesday through Sunday from 8 PM with BYOB policy. The venue features playrooms, themed events, a cigar lounge, and an upscale dining experience with rotating weekly menus. Single males are welcome most nights; Saturday is reserved for couples and single women only.

BDSM Club

The Lifestyle Lounge in Eccles, Greater Manchester is one of the UK's longest-running lifestyle clubs — over 40 years of history, formerly Adam and Eve's, fully rebranded in 2025 to welcome couples, LGBTQ+, kink, and fetish guests across four themed floors. Facilities include a hot tub, jacuzzi, sauna, swing room, private rooms, pool table, and lockers. BYOB (up to 4 cans or a half-bottle). Dress code: bright, kinky, as wild as you dare. Featured on Channel 5's "Adults: 24 Hour Sex, Up All Night." Membership required; capacity 80.

The Red Rooster

Las Vegas, NV

On-Premise Club

The Red Rooster is a Las Vegas adult lifestyle nightclub that has operated since 1982, making it one of the longest-running venues of its type in the city. The club is open to both couples and singles, operates on a BYOB policy, and runs Wednesday through Sunday nights. Live entertainment is featured regularly, and no reservations are required for general entry.

CKJ Studio (Club Kink Jax)

Jacksonville, FL

BDSM Club

CKJ Studio has been Jacksonville's original alternative lifestyle club since 2014 — a private, non-profit social organization and Northeast Florida's premier members-only venue for the kink, BDSM, fetish, swinger, and LGBTQ+ communities. The space spans two distinct sections: the main Club Kink Jax area with a full dungeon (St. Andrew's cross and spanking bench), a lush Moroccan-themed lounge, a medical examination room, and Sybian stations; and the expansive La Intima VIP Lounge, which adds a dance floor, voyeur area, king-sized play beds, a private locker room, and showers — every play space stocked with condoms, cleaning supplies, and fresh linens. Far from a "Ken and Barbie" scene, CKJ draws a genuinely diverse crowd across ages, body types, orientations, and experience levels — rated 4.7 stars by over a hundred members. One first-timer memorably described it as "an adult Disney World where people embrace exactly who they are." Each open night begins with a 7–9 PM social hour welcoming newcomers before members-only play opens at 9 PM. The programming calendar is consistently varied: Wild Wednesdays, Fetish Fridays, monthly Kinky Bingo nights, a monthly Shibari Experience in the on-site Kinbaku Cardinale Dojo, occasional burlesque shows by Pink Pussycat Productions, and — every October — the three-day Jax Fet Fest Expo, a regional kink convention drawing attendees from across the Southeast with 40+ workshops, a vendor floor, and themed dungeon parties open to the public. Getting in starts with a pre-paid orientation ($20 via Eventbrite, offered at 7, 8, and 9 PM on open nights) — a 30–45 minute session covering consent culture, house rules, and a full venue tour before any membership can be activated. Trial membership ($69/person, one visit, couples and single females only), Annual membership ($149/person plus $25 per visit), and VIP membership ($599/person, unlimited visits with full La Intima access) are the three tiers. Single males must enter at the Annual tier. Every event is 21+ with no walk-ins, a strict no-phones-in-play-areas rule, and a consent-first culture maintained by on-site monitors.

Choice Social Club

Providence, RI

On-Premise Club

Choice Social Club is New England's flagship on-premise lifestyle club — 8,000 square feet behind a famous red door on Porter Street in Providence, with 14 themed playrooms spread across the building: a voyeur chamber with a one-way window, a schoolhouse room, a massage room, a blacklight room, a glory hole room, a group room with an L-shaped multi-bed layout, and a dedicated BDSM area with St. Andrew's crosses. The dance floor has a video wall and stripper pole, the lounge is done in leather furniture with warm tones and low lighting, and a backyard patio opens up for summer events. Staff actively change sheets between uses and keep the space clean throughout the night — a detail reviewers consistently call out. The club is BYOB with a clever system: you hand your bottles to staff at check-in, they label everything with your membership number, and the bartender mixes your drinks all night using the club's provided mixers and ice. Membership runs $45/year for couples ($250 premium), $40–65 for single women, and $100 introductory for single men with a 3–4 month waitlist. Event admission on top is $90 for couples, $100 for single men, and $5 for single women (sometimes free with early arrival). Your first visit includes a complimentary trial membership. Themed Saturday nights run 9 pm to 2 am — everything from costume parties to summer BBQ events. The crowd skews about 90% couples with an average age of 35–45, and the single-male ratio is tightly managed to keep it couples-focused. Playroom etiquette uses a signal system: a plastic chain on the door means open to observation or requests, an open door without a chain means ask politely, and closed curtains or doors mean full privacy. Cell phones and cameras are strictly prohibited inside. Operated by Jim Knaus through Red Door Operations, LLC since 2009, Choice holds a federal trademark and has weathered a full-year COVID closure — a 2021 GoFundMe raised over $5,000 from 56 donors to help reopen.

Chameleons Newport

Newport, Wales

On-Premise Club

Chameleons Newport is the only swingers club in South Wales — a Friday-night takeover of The Greenhouse health club building at 24 Church Street, where the 21-seater jacuzzi, dry sauna, steam room, and multi-level play areas transform into a lifestyle venue from 8 pm to 3:30 am every week. The building has operated for over 20 years and runs as a health and sauna club the rest of the week; on Fridays, Chameleons takes over with private cabins, dark rooms, glory holes, communal play rooms, and a cafe bar where you can buy soft drinks and snacks. Alcohol is strictly BYOB — bring your own bottles but don't overdo it, and no drinks are allowed near the jacuzzi. Membership is a one-off lifetime fee: £25 for couples, free for single ladies, and £80 for single men (though single male entry is never guaranteed and depends on the couple-to-single-lady ratio on the night). If you already hold a Darlaston membership, it's valid at Newport too. The club requires two forms of ID plus a recent utility bill — stricter than the Darlaston branch — and the minimum age is 21. Entrance fees apply on top of membership but aren't published online; call 01633 212 906 during Friday hours or 0121 568 6117 out of hours (routes to Darlaston). All emails go to chameleonsclub@gmail.com — specify that you're asking about Newport. Unlike its sister venue in Darlaston which runs six days a week with themed events, Newport keeps it simple: one Friday session, no rotating themes, open to couples and singles of all genders. The dress code is relaxed — towels (provided) or shorts for men, towels or "dress as sexy as you dare" for women. Towels and secure lockers are included, condoms are available from machines in the changing rooms, and smoking is outdoor-terrace only. With a 4.6/5 rating on CityMaps and reviewers consistently praising the welcoming atmosphere for first-timers, the club benefits from having no direct competition in the region — though some reviews note the building could use more investment.

Clubhouse 2050

Indianapolis, IN

On-Premise Club

ClubHouse 2050 is a members-only BYOB lifestyle club in Indianapolis, Indiana, with a sister venue, ClubHouse Pandora, near Anderson. The club operates Friday and Saturday nights from 8 PM to 2 AM and features a dance floor, sports bar, card room, game room, and private play areas. Saturday admission is a flat $50 fee; only paid members may attend on-premise events or access the online community.

Swingers Club

Tucked away in a quiet industrial pocket of northeast Calgary, the Calgary Adult Playground Club has operated as one of the city's most private and long-running lifestyle communities since 2006. Known simply as CAPC or "The Studio," the 1,400 sq ft venue is deliberately unmarked from the outside — no signage, no music audible from the street, just a discreet entrance that members know to look for. Inside, it's a different world entirely. The ground floor combines a dance floor with disco lighting, a BYOB bar area stocked with mixers, ice, and glassware, and comfortable lounge seating. Upstairs, a dedicated play room carries a sensual dungeon atmosphere equipped with a Saint Andrew's Cross, bondage furniture, and safe sex supplies placed throughout. Regular events include Fetish Fridays and Swinger Saturdays starting at 9pm, plus occasional themed nights — rope bondage workshops, educational sessions, and exclusive CAPC Elite events for select members. Membership is invitation-only, either through referral from a current member or an interview with the owners. The community spans ages 21 to 60+, welcoming couples, single females, and those across the full spectrum of orientations and relationship styles: swinging, polyamory, kink, BDSM, and LGBTQ+. Single males are welcome at all events except Saturday nights, where entry requires a female partner or couple. The club's founding philosophy — safe, sane, and consensual with zero pressure — has made it a trusted space for Calgary's alternative lifestyle community for nearly two decades.

The Pleasure Garden Club

Philadelphia, PA

On-Premise Club

The Pleasure Garden Club is a members-only lifestyle nightclub in Philadelphia accommodating over 300 guests. The venue features themed private fantasy rooms, a main dance floor, group shower, two BYOB juice bars with complimentary mixers, and free gated parking. Fridays admit couples, single ladies, and single men; Saturdays are restricted to couples and single ladies. An upscale dress code is enforced and cell phones must be left in vehicles.

Event Organizer

Camelot Social Club has been bringing Charlotte's lifestyle community together since 2019 — a monthly event organizer that takes over entire hotels and private venues for one-night parties that feel genuinely upscale without the velvet-rope attitude. Founded by Dan Camelot with a mission to be open to "all people, not just the Ken and Barbies of the world," the club draws straight, bi, gay, and trans-friendly members from across the Carolinas. Events are hosted at properties like Holiday Inn Express Gastonia and The Gold Club Charlotte, with buffet, live DJ, and pool access included in the night. Getting started requires a one-time signed waiver before your first event — after that, you're in the community. Single males need to be vetted by the team or an existing couple before attending. Hotel rooms at takeover venues are bookable separately (Friday from $109, Saturday from $125 + tax), making it easy to turn a Saturday party into a full weekend. Pricing for main events runs around $78 for couples and $94 for single males with prepayment required for the latter. The club hosts meet & greets at local spots like Leather & Lace Gastonia as a low-pressure intro — just mention "Pineapple" or "Camelot" at the door for free entry. With themed events year-round (Kentucky Derby nights, New Year's Eve, pool parties) and a stated long-term goal of establishing a permanent on-premises venue, Camelot is steadily building toward something bigger in the Charlotte market.

Red Room Nashville

Nashville, TN

On-Premise Club

Red Room Nashville is a members-only lifestyle club in Nashville, Tennessee, hosting weekly themed parties for screened adult members. The venue operates on a BYOB policy with complimentary mixers provided, features a large LED dance floor with a professional DJ, private rooms, and VIP seating. Membership is tiered and requires a 24-hour approval process; walk-ins are not accepted.

CJ's at The Townhouse

Glasgow, Scotland

On-Premise Club

Tucked into a quiet corner of Kelvindale on Glasgow's leafy west side, CJ's at The Townhouse has built a reputation as one of Scotland's most welcoming swingers clubs. The venue spans two floors of a discreet townhouse on Ashburton Road, with a trio of stripper-pole-lined lounges, a self-service bar and a buffet downstairs, and a warren of eight themed playrooms upstairs. Owner CJ personally walks first-timers through the space, and the crowd — a friendly mix of regulars and newcomers, often spanning their late twenties to early sixties — sets a tone that's more living-room than nightclub. Parties run on a tight rhythm: Friday nights (8pm–midnight) are couples and single ladies only; Saturdays (9pm–2am) open the door to a limited number of single men; and once a month, a Wednesday afternoon party (noon–3pm) welcomes everyone. There are also dedicated gay and bi-male nights run under the @cjs4gay banner. Entry is by prior booking only — no walk-ins, no admittance after 11pm — and photo ID (passport, driving licence or utility bill) is required at the door. Dress code is strictly enforced: a sexy little number for the ladies, smart casual or sexy attire for the gents. The playrooms cover everything from a cinema lounge and an open group room to a fully equipped dungeon, a medical-themed private room, a voyeur room, and a couples-and-single-females-only room with a love swing. Phones are off in public areas and cameras are banned outright, which keeps the vibe relaxed and discreet. The "party contribution" at the door covers a buffet plus tea, coffee and soft drinks; alcohol is BYOB with no corkage. Towels and condoms are provided, there's a separate indoor smoking area, and an on-site wardrobe and makeover service is on hand for anyone who wants to dress up before they head in.

CC House Party

Country Club Hills, IL

On-Premise Club

CC House Party is the most talked-about lifestyle house party in metropolitan Chicago — an 8,000-square-foot private facility in Country Club Hills that fills with 60 to 100 couples every Saturday night. Two floors of play rooms, a dance floor with a pole and state-of-the-art sound and lighting, open and private party rooms, voyeur and exhibition spaces, massage table, bondage equipment, and a group shower give the space a genuinely upscale feel that earns its spotless 5-out-of-5 cleanliness rating on Kasidie. Eight co-ed bathrooms, towels, and a full dinner buffet are all included in admission — bring your own bottles and the mixers are on the house. Doors open at 8 pm and close hard at 11 pm — no late entry. The vibe tilts heavily toward couples and single women; single men are currently not being approved for membership. Getting in requires an online application through the Modern Lifestyle platform, a community profile with a posed couple photo, and ID verification at the door on your first visit. Membership runs $66.59 for six months (non-recurring), with event tickets purchased separately per party. Credit card charges appear discreetly as "ML Ticketing." Beyond the weekly Saturday parties, CC House Party organises travel events — lifestyle cruises, resort takeovers, and the annual Naughty N'awlins hotel takeover in New Orleans. The club's address stays private by design (you receive it after approval), and the whole operation leans into discretion: no public social media, no walk-ins, no exceptions. Listed on Kasidie (Club #2052), SLS, and Playdar (Club #502), with a phone line at (219) 689-8273 for questions.

On-Premise Club

Chameleons in Darlaston is one of the UK's most established swingers clubs — over 25 years in the business, open 363 days a year (every day except Tuesday), across a three-floor sauna-based venue just off Junction 9 of the M6. The ground floor holds reception, a bar and lounge, a dance floor, two large jacuzzis, singles changing, and showers. Upstairs you'll find a TV lounge, couples changing, a steam room, main shower area, ladies' powder room, and a mix of private and communal play rooms including a couples-only section. The top floor adds a sauna box, more showers, extra play rooms, and lockable rooms for privacy. Ten on-site hotel rooms are available for overnight stays — five en-suites including one superior room with its own entrance. Each night has its own character: Monday is Bi-Night (strictly bisexual and bi-friendly, TVs welcome, 2 pm–midnight), Wednesday through Friday runs from 11 am, Thursday adds Nude Night from 6 pm (strictly no clothing or towels), Friday and Saturday stay open until 3 am, and Saturday switches to couples and single ladies only after 7:30 pm. The club is BYOB — bring your bottles and the bar will refrigerate and serve them back to you. Food is served during sessions and gets genuine praise (the lamb shank in particular). Lifetime membership is a one-off fee: £25 for couples, £10 for single ladies, £80 for single men, with entrance on top ranging from £12 to £40 depending on the night and gender. Single men can enquire Tuesday through Friday and Sunday, but membership isn't guaranteed and depends on the ratio of couples to single ladies. ID is mandatory — one form for couples and single ladies, two forms for single men. The club has an 8,900-strong Facebook following, 1,400+ Instagram followers, 200+ FabSwingers reviews rated "Fabulous," and runs a second venue in Newport (24 Church Street). Free on-site parking, a dedicated taxi service through Link Up Cabs (0121 568 8989), and bus links from Walsall, Wolverhampton, and Birmingham make getting there straightforward.

On-Premise Club

atlantisEVOLUTION is a nightclub-themed swingers and lifestyle club in Burslem, Stoke-on-Trent, voted the No. 1 nightclub-themed swingers club in the UK. Run by beloved hosts Cat and Tag for over 15 years, it spans two floors with dance areas, multiple play rooms, kasbahs, a cosy lounge, and an outside courtyard. The club operates as BYOB with a customer cooler fridge and sells soft drinks and mixers. Fridays are open to all including single males, while Saturdays are couples and single females only. Special events include PlaY Xtra (free 1st Wednesday), EVOLUTIONfetish (4th Sunday, non-swinging), Greedy Girls, Hot Wives, and newbie-friendly PoP My Cherry nights. Rated 4.7/5 across 40+ reviews, consistently praised for its welcoming, no-pressure atmosphere and attentive staff.

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The Sterling is an adult lifestyle party venue serving the greater Boston area, operating out of Waltham, Massachusetts and drawing members from across Massachusetts, Rhode Island, New Hampshire, and Maine. Events run Friday and Saturday evenings in a BYOB lounge setting, with admission limited to couples and single women; single men are admitted only at occasional Ladies' Choice events. Attendance requires being placed on an invite list, with both partners participating in a phone screening.

Afterdark Edinburgh

Edinburgh, Scotland

On-Premise Lifestyle Club

AfterDark is Edinburgh's premier private members swinging and kink club, originally known as "After Eight" before rebranding and moving to its current larger premises in October 2022. Located in a converted warehouse unit at Bankhead Workspace in Edinburgh's Sighthill area, the venue delivers an unexpectedly polished experience behind its industrial exterior. The spacious social lounge serves as the central hub, with atmospheric lighting setting the tone for the evening. Surrounding it are 9 dedicated play spaces of varying sizes — from intimate private rooms with doors to open play areas — plus a cinema room, dungeon/BDSM area, and a glory hole. Lockers are provided at the entrance (phones must be stored here), and changing rooms with showers and mirrors are available. Towels, condoms, and lubricant are provided throughout. AfterDark operates BYOB — bring your own alcohol and enjoy it in the lounge. Soft drinks are available for purchase via tokens bought at reception. The club runs a varied weekly schedule: Wednesday midweek sessions (8 PM–1 AM), Friday and Saturday main nights (9 PM–3 AM), and rotating Thursday events including TV/CD/Bi & Admirers nights, quiz nights, and rope classes. Themed events rotate regularly — lingerie nights, UV parties, wrestling themes, couples-only evenings, and seasonal celebrations. First-timers are welcomed with a guided tour from staff covering the layout, rules, and etiquette. Many guests attend simply to socialise without participating in play, and the club's 4.6-star Google rating (33 reviews) reflects the consistently welcoming atmosphere. Membership is £20/year (arranged on first visit), with entry fees of £35 for couples and £40 for single males on weekends. Dress code is smart casual — no sportswear, team clothing, joggers, or hats permitted.

Our Place 4 Fun

London, London

On-Premise Club

London's friendliest members-only swingers club featuring multiple themed play spaces, a dungeon, lounge bar and a no-pressure atmosphere. Hosting weekly events like Frisky Fridays and Butterfly Club nights with real energy and sexy vibes for all experience levels.

Body Shop Pittsburgh

McKees Rocks, PA

Club

The Shop Social Lounge — known in the lifestyle community as Body Shop Pittsburgh — is a consent-forward, members-only social club for adventurous adults in McKees Rocks, just minutes from downtown Pittsburgh. Spanning over 15,000 square feet, the venue blends nightlife energy with intentional connection, offering themed play rooms, a full dungeon, a dance floor with a pole and vintage car DJ booth, a heated outdoor patio, and cozy lounge spaces designed for every comfort level. Friday and Saturday nights come alive with rotating themed events — from Latin Heat and Lingerie Night to kink-focused Freaky Fridays with on-site STI testing and BDSM education workshops. The club is radically inclusive, welcoming all genders, orientations, and relationship structures, with gender-neutral pricing and a strong LGBTQ+ presence that sets it apart from most lifestyle venues. Safer Space Monitors patrol every event, and the culture of enthusiastic consent is woven into everything from the application process to the playroom doors. Co-founded by Gelsomino Esplandiu and John Ross, the club has earned a devoted community and a 4.8-star Google rating through its commitment to cleanliness, safety, and a zero-pressure atmosphere. Membership starts with a free online application including photo verification, and the BYOB format keeps the vibe relaxed and personal. Whether you are a curious newcomer or an experienced explorer, The Shop meets you exactly where you are — no judgment, no expectations, just real connection on your own terms.

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Carolina Friends is the oldest lifestyle club in the Carolinas — founded in 1991 by eight Charlotte couples looking to host private parties in a welcoming, judgment-free atmosphere. Over three-and-a-half decades the club grew to add more than 40,000 couples to its roster, built its own dedicated facility called The Estate in 2000, and expanded to serve both the Charlotte metro and the Triad (Winston-Salem and Greensboro). In 2012 The Estate was lost to political pressure, and in 2016 new ownership stepped in to keep the club alive rather than let it dissolve. Today Carolina Friends runs full hotel takeovers every Friday and Saturday night — entire hotels reserved exclusively for members, giving events the privacy and scale you can't get at a smaller venue. Charlotte parties regularly draw 400+ couples; Triad events typically see 150+. Each event includes a live DJ and dance floor, a full buffet, BYOB with bartender and free mixers, co-ed showers, towels and lockers, and seasonal pool access. A late-night breakfast gathering caps off each evening. Private activity areas, group rooms, and a voyeur/exhibition space round out the play areas. Membership is $13.68/month and requires a free profile with your legal name before purchase — names are kept strictly private and used only for check-in. Event admission is sold separately and priced per event. Single females are always welcome; single males are admitted at most events but are limited based on attendance balance. The club has no public social media — communication happens through the member platform (private chat, AutoDate, passkey photos) and the three major lifestyle directories: SLS Club #8112, SDC, and Kasidie Club #277.

colette Dallas

Dallas, TX

On-Premise Club

colette Dallas is the chain's high-energy Texas flagship — a private, members-only on-premise lifestyle club spanning 8,000+ square feet across two floors in northwest Dallas, near Love Field. The aesthetic is modern warehouse meets nightclub: a dance floor anchored by stripper poles and a stage, high-tech lighting and sound, and a curated upscale crowd that takes the dress code seriously. The Dallas Observer ranked colette first in its "Best Swingers Clubs Dallas" feature, and SwingerLifestyle.com puts it at #2 across all of Texas — the most prominent on-premise lifestyle venue in Dallas–Fort Worth. Play spaces are tiered three ways: semi-private rooms with sheer curtains, fully private rooms with blackout curtains, and a centerpiece group play room with a round bed and spectator seating. There's also an in-club movie theater showing adult films, a quieter second-floor lounge, and a VIP room rentable for private parties of up to 30 ($500–$1,000) — a perk Texas reviewers consistently call best in the state. The bar is BYOB — no liquor license, but free mixers, ice, and setups are provided, plus a beverage cooler for member use. Newbie Night runs every Wednesday with the membership fee waived for first-timers; staff give every newcomer a guided tour on arrival. colette is a national chain founded by John and Jackie Melfi (who also run the OpenLove101 lifestyle blog and podcast). The Dallas location opened in 2012 and connects into a 250,000+ member network across five cities — Dallas, Austin, Houston, New Orleans, and San Antonio. One membership works at all of them. Single men are welcome Wednesday through Friday; Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only. Recurring themed nights include Pantiless Fridays, Thirty Dollar Thursday, and rotating fetish, lingerie, and costume parties — and i.Candy Parties hosts large monthly events at the venue throughout the year.

Steel Cliffe

Sheffield, South Yorkshire

On-Premise Club

A welcoming swingers venue in Sheffield offering much more than just a place to play -- a space where like-minded individuals can connect, unwind and enjoy an inclusive atmosphere. Features eight distinct playrooms including a BDSM area, with a BYOB policy.

On-Premise Club

Club 101 has earned its place as Dayton's oldest on-premise lifestyle club through nearly three decades of building one of Ohio's warmest swinger communities. Step inside and you'll find a genuinely no-pressure atmosphere where couples, kinksters, BDSM enthusiasts, and alternative lifestylers are equally at home — whether it's your first visit or your hundredth. The club's DJ is a genuine point of pride, spinning what regulars call the best dance floor set of any lifestyle venue in the region, and the relaxed BYOB setup (cooler storage on-site, complimentary snacks and sodas) keeps the energy social and affordable. The layout is purpose-built for exploration at your own pace. Beyond the main room's dance floor, stripper pole, and pool table, Club 101 offers an impressive range of play spaces: five private rooms, two semi-private rooms with exhibitionist windows, a large group room, a mirrored group room, and a dedicated BDSM room with massage table. Showers, lockers, and on-site private parking round out the practical side — and first-time visitors are warmly invited to take a guided tour before committing to stay. Open Wednesday through Saturday (Saturdays run until 3am), the club requires a modest annual membership — $55 for couples, $65 for single men, $25 for single women — plus a variable door fee by night. The themed event calendar runs year-round: Leather & Lace nights, glow parties, fetish evenings, pole dancing nights, and more. Club 101 also partners with Shameless Care to give members free access to STI education, a sign that this community takes sexual health as seriously as the good times. Cash only; 21+ strictly enforced.

Friends Night Out (FNO)

Aurora, IL

Event Organizer

Friends Night Out is a lifestyle event organizer based in Aurora, Illinois, hosting themed BYOB events at the TSIN Barn venue. Events are open to couples, throuples, and single women; single men are permitted at select events with access restrictions to certain areas. Themed dress is encouraged but not required, and event tickets are non-refundable.

Play Champagne (The Champagne Club)

Columbus, OH

Event Organizer

Play Champagne is a lifestyle hotel takeover event organizer based in Columbus, Ohio, hosting multi-day weekend events at full-hotel takeovers across several Midwest cities including Indianapolis, Lexington, Chicago, and Detroit. Events feature convention-scale playrooms, topless-optional pool parties, couples classes, BDSM demonstrations, and a whole-hotel BYOB policy. Weekend packages run from Friday afternoon through Sunday morning and include complimentary breakfast.