How many on-premise clubs lifestyle clubs are there?

There are 200 on-premise clubs clubs listed across 76 states, provinces, and regions in the US, Canada, UK, Germany, Australia & New Zealand.

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On-Premise Clubs

200 clubs

Fixed-location lifestyle clubs with private rooms, play areas, and themed spaces — the classic on-premise swinger club experience.

As of 2026, there are 200 on-premise clubs lifestyle clubs across the US, Canada, UK, Germany, Australia & New Zealand. They span 76 states and provinces, with the most in Ontario (11), TX (9), CA (7), New South Wales (6), FL (6). 180 are currently verified as active.

Tentaciones LA

Los Angeles, CA

On-Premise Club

Tentaciones is a Latin-flavored lifestyle club in downtown Los Angeles, positioned near the convergence of the 10 and 110 freeways and drawing members from across Southern California — the club notes guests arriving from as far as San Diego and Santa Barbara. It markets itself as a curated, members-only space for couples and singles aged 21 and over, built around Latin music genres (reggaeton, dembow, cumbia, salsa, bachata, merengue, and punta) and an explicit community commitment to consent and respectful behavior. The venue centers on a large dance floor with Latin music curated by resident DJs, ringed by lounge zones with decorative light-up furniture. A section of private velvet-covered play areas is designated for sexual activity, with staff disinfecting the spaces before and after each use; fresh towels, wipes, and condoms are provided as standard, and restrooms are fitted with bidets and seat covers. A full buffet — entrées, fruit, and desserts — is included in the admission price, along with frozen mocktails, juices, and water; no alcohol is sold on the premises. Lockers are available so guests can change outfits during the night. A dedicated laundry bin system and ongoing staff cleaning keep hygiene standards consistent throughout the party. Parties run primarily on Friday and Saturday evenings, with occasional midweek dates for special events; the club's events calendar is the authoritative source for current scheduling and themes. Entry is not open to walk-ins — prospective guests complete an advance approval process through the website before being admitted. Dress code is enforced at the door: men must wear button-down shirts or upscale clubwear, with athletic wear, shorts, sandals, ripped jeans, and caps explicitly turned away; women are encouraged to wear provocative or elegant attire. Phones must be locked away on arrival; no calls, texts, or photos are permitted inside at any time.

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Raptures Swingers Club

Sydney, New South Wales

On-Premise Club

Raptures Swingers Club occupies a discrete premises at 18 Ferndell St in South Granville, a mixed residential and light-industrial suburb roughly 20 kilometres west of Sydney's CBD. The venue has operated under council approval as a swingers club since at least 2006 and falls under Cumberland Council jurisdiction. It bills itself as a couples-and-singles venue. The play space is configured as an open-plan basement area furnished with beds, couches and a massage table rather than divided into separate private rooms, giving the venue a more communal character than club-style setups with enclosed booths. In 2020 the premises underwent a council-approved internal refurbishment (MOD2020/0380). A subsequent 2021 modification application (MOD2021/0335) sought approval to add alcohol service alongside further interior reconfiguration; prior to that application the venue appears to have operated without an on-site liquor licence.

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Stoke-on-Trent, Staffordshire

On-Premise Club

Sitting in the Victorian terraced streets of Burslem in Stoke-on-Trent's historic Potteries heartland, atlantisEVOLUTION has spent 15-plus years building its reputation as the Midlands' most recognised nightclub-themed swingers club. The venue occupies Evolution House on William Clowes Street on a private-membership basis, drawing couples and singles from across the North West and Midlands with a formula that layers nightclub production values - themed decor, resident DJs, and a multi-room layout - onto an adult lifestyle club format. Owners Cat and Tag are the constant faces behind the bar and at the door, backed by a small team whose warmth reviewers return to again and again; the venue holds a 4.6-star rating across more than 60 independent reviews. The weekly calendar divides sessions by attendance type. Fridays (9pm-2am) are open to all - couples, single males, and single females - while Saturdays (9pm-2am) are reserved for couples and single females only. Once a month on a Wednesday evening the club stages a special themed night, and the fourth Sunday of each month (3pm-8pm) becomes the dedicated EVOLUTIONfetish session. The club also runs Newbies Nights (branded Pop My Cherry), occasional orgy-party events, and sporadic hot-wife-themed evenings. Themed costume nights are a signature touch - past runs have included an all-white marquee party - but dressing up is always optional, never compulsory. Entry requires a one-off lifetime membership (20 GBP per couple or single female), taken out at the door on a first visit by presenting photo ID - a driving licence, utility bill, or bank statement. Nightly admission thereafter is 20 GBP per couple, 10 GBP for single females, and 30 GBP for single men. Soft drinks and mixers are available on-site for 2.50 GBP. The venue is compact but delivers what reviewers describe as a decent range of areas for people with different tastes - private areas and open - spread across two floors, with play spaces upstairs. Age minimum is 18 with no upper limit. The club holds a Food Standards Agency hygiene rating of Good and is partnered with Spice Lanzarote for lifestyle travel events.

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Club M4 (Menage a Quatre)

Mississauga, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Club M4 — short for Ménage à Quatre — is an on-premise lifestyle and swingers club at 1989A Dundas Street East in Mississauga, Ontario, roughly twenty kilometres west of downtown Toronto. Founded in 2008, the venue operated for eleven years on Lakeshore Boulevard West before relocating in 2019 to its current ground-floor Mississauga location. It operates as a private members club — a requirement under Ontario law following the 2005 Supreme Court of Canada ruling that legalized consensual swinging in private club settings — and runs both afternoon and evening sessions seven days a week, 365 days a year. The 10,000-square-foot space is fully licensed by the Alcohol and Gaming Commission of Ontario (AGCO) and includes two bars, a large dance floor, a lounge area, and roughly 5,000 square feet of dedicated play space. A 196-locker changing facility with showers and vanity areas serves guests entering the back — condoms are distributed free throughout the play areas, and towels are provided by locker-room attendants. A rentable VIP Red Room (king-size bed, private play equipment, complimentary non-alcoholic drinks; $100 Mon–Thu, $150 Fri–Sun) adds a private option for members who want it. The club also runs a companion online social network, menageaquatre.com, where members can connect between visits. Door prices for couples are $50 CAD Sunday through Friday and Saturday afternoons, rising to $70 CAD on Saturday evenings; single women enter free at every session, while single men pay $110 CAD and are welcome all nights except Saturday evenings and New Year's Eve. A basic annual membership ($60 CAD per single or couple) is required of every guest and is purchased in person at the first visit; a VIP couples membership ($649 CAD/year, currently available at a promotional $349) covers unlimited admission including special events. A monthly Young Swingers Society (YSS) event on the last Saturday of each month offers a themed night aimed at couples in their 20s and 30s at $30 CAD per couple. Every first-time visitor receives a guided tour of the premises before being admitted to the main floor.

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After Dark Swingers Club

Hamilton, Ontario

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colette Houston

Brooklyn, NY

On-Premise Club

Rooted in Bushwick since 2009, Hacienda operates across multiple townhouses in Brooklyn's most creative neighborhood, functioning as both a members-only sex-positive club and an intentional living community. The flagship venue features multiple floors with distinct play areas, social lounges, a hot tub, indoor and outdoor spaces, and room for DJs and live performances. The crowd skews late twenties and thirties, draws a notably gender-balanced mix of couples, singles, and non-monogamous folk, and sets a tone that members describe as intimate rather than nightclub-loud. Access runs entirely through a referral-based membership system. Applicants must be vouched for by an existing member, watch a mandatory consent-policy video, and pay $40/quarter or $120/year; individual event tickets run $45–$85. Three event tiers exist: public themed nights, private members-only play parties, and educational workshops. First-time guests must complete an in-person orientation before their first play party. Play parties feature multiple socializing and play zones, themed decor, DJ sets, and a full meal served around 2am. Trained volunteers called Guardians — identifiable by light-up armbands — circulate throughout every event and do not participate in play. The consent policy is opt-in: all touch requires explicit verbal agreement. Phones and recording devices are not permitted in play areas.

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Swingers Circle

Las Vegas, NV

On-Premise Club

Swingers Circle is Las Vegas's longest-running weekly lifestyle party, operating since 2010. Rather than a fixed venue, every Thursday night the hosts book a full hotel suite or penthouse at a major Strip property — guests receive the specific hotel name and suite number by text or call within a few hours of the 9 pm start. Capacity is strictly capped at 12 couples (plus unpartnered women), and a party minimum of five couples is required before the event proceeds. The crowd spans ages 21 to 65, mixing visiting tourists with locals and newcomers with veterans. The evening centres on an interactive ice-breaker called the Game: after a social hour, hosts run a sex-trivia challenge pitting the genders against each other — wrong answers cost an article of clothing. Lighting is kept very low throughout, candlelit in the play areas, keeping the atmosphere relaxed even for first-timers. Participation in the Game is not optional, though playing with any other guest always is. Once the Game wraps, play moves to the designated playroom where essentials are provided. Admission is ticketed online only via Eventbrite, with sales closing at 8:30 pm or once the 12-couple cap is reached — whichever comes first. The event is BYOB; the hosts supply soft drinks, bottled water and light snacks at no extra charge. Dress code is club wear (no sneakers, T-shirts or tank tops). Single men are never permitted; the party is exclusively for couples and unpartnered women. Valet and self-parking are available at the host hotel.

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Dragons Pleasure Lounge

Sydney, New South Wales

On-Premise Club

Dragons Pleasure Lounge is a private lifestyle club based in Caddens, Western Sydney, New South Wales, operating on a strictly invitation-only, application-vetted model. It is not a conventional nightclub or open-door venue: prospective guests submit an application through the club's website and are contacted only if approved. The venue's street address is withheld from all public platforms and released exclusively to approved applicants. The club occupies a private residence configured for intimate entertaining. Amenities include a ten-seat outdoor spa, four bedrooms dressed in silk, a gas fireplace, a dedicated playroom, a pool table, and plush suede lounge seating. The aesthetic favours candlelight and warm, low-key tones rather than nightclub lighting. Across all events, the club's stated operating principles are respect, privacy, safety, consent, and discretion. The event calendar runs to four signature themed nights per year: The Masquerade (velvet, feathers, and gilded masks), Suits and Silk (tailored dress paired with lingerie under amber light), Under the Stars (outdoor spa gathering with champagne and candlelight), and a fourth curated event completing the annual calendar. Entry is by prior application only; ticket pricing is not publicly stated. No singles admission policy appears in any publicly accessible source — confirm directly with the venue.

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The Wheel 687

Newcastle West, New South Wales

On-Premise Club

The Wheel (formerly Club 687) is a private, appointment-only adult venue at 9 Steel Street in Newcastle West, New South Wales, serving the local lifestyle, kink, and conscious-sexuality communities. The facility houses six named play rooms and the Dungeon of Eden — a dedicated BDSM kink suite with bondage equipment — alongside four-poster beds, a four-person spa, stripper poles, and workshop areas. The venue is unlicensed and operates on a bring-your-own-alcohol basis throughout. Programming includes swingers nights, kink events, and Conscious Erotic Play Parties that open with a mandatory consent-and-boundaries workshop before play areas become accessible. The venue also hosts somatic sexologists, tantric teachers, sex therapists, and sex coaches as resident or visiting practitioners, and leases space to external event organisers. A separate bi-monthly event series, NCS (Nova Couples and Singles), draws couples and singles from the Newcastle area by invitation. All attendance is by prior appointment or ticketed booking through TryBooking; the booking model is structured so guests do not encounter other customers. A sister walk-in property, Discreet (discreet.net.au), operates at a separate address.

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Wombats Swingers Club

Sydney, New South Wales

On-Premise Club

Encounterz Adult Lifestyle Venue

Ipswich, Queensland

On-Premise Club

Encounterz is a fully council-approved adult lifestyle venue set inside a heritage building at 86 Brisbane Street in the heart of Ipswich's CBD, Queensland. The club describes itself as a welcoming space for open-minded adults — including those interested in the swinging lifestyle and those who simply want to socialise in a relaxed setting — and makes clear from the outset that attendance carries no guarantee of interaction with other guests. The venue occupies a heritage building whose interior is divided into a bar room, a pool room, and multiple playrooms. Access to playrooms follows a door-and-blind convention: a closed door with blinds drawn signals full privacy; a closed door with open blinds invites watching from outside; and an open door indicates that guests may request entry. The club operates on a BYO policy — mixers, ice, and cups are supplied — with alcohol service stopping at 10 PM. Towels, condoms, and lubricant are provided throughout; shower facilities and a smoking area are on site; and lockers can be rented by the night ($5), month ($20), or year ($60). Themed events, which have included rope bondage, wax play, and electroplay demonstrations run in partnership with Open Door QLD, appear regularly on the calendar alongside standard social sessions. Doors open every Friday and Saturday from 6:30 PM to midnight. Entry is priced by membership status and guest type: couples pay $85 (non-member) or $75 (member), single males $90 (non-member) or $75 (member), and single females $40 (non-member) or $30 (member). Annual membership is $40 per couple, $50 for single males, and $30 for single females, and includes a loyalty card granting every fifth visit at half price. Single men must book in advance — reservations are used to manage gender ratios, and pre-purchased tickets take priority over walk-ins. Card payments attract a $1 surcharge. The dress code is enforced at the door: men must wear a collared shirt and closed shoes (no sneakers), and women must arrive in evening wear; the venue's stated policy is 'NO EFFORT NO ENTRY.'

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Club Princeton

Columbus, OH

On-Premise Club

Club Princeton occupies a sprawling 21,000-square-foot converted warehouse in the Franklinton area of Columbus, Ohio — an industrial exterior that gives little away before you step inside. Open since the early 2000s, it has grown into what regular visitors call the most upscale lifestyle club in the Midwest. The ground floor centres on a 2,500-square-foot dance area with live DJs, a stage, and dance cages; there is also VIP table seating, a full bar setup serving free mixers, soft drinks, and snacks nightly. BYOB is the policy — no alcohol is sold on site — and lockers are available for storing your own bottles. Upstairs, the play floors open into a warren of themed spaces: a VIP lounge with a fireplace, the Stairway to Heaven lounge, a doctor's examination room, a jail-cell playroom, a room with a Sybian massage table, two open group rooms, and twelve private rooms — each made up with clean white sheets and white towels, with staff cycling through to change linens between uses. Thursday nights carry a bi and fetish theme starting at 10 PM; Friday and Saturday nights are open to the broader lifestyle crowd. Single men are restricted to public areas and require female accompaniment to access play spaces. Membership is mandatory before entry — required by Ohio licensing law — though short-term single-event passes are available at the door alongside paid-up couples memberships. Door fees are separate from membership. The club is consistently praised for its professional, welcoming staff, thorough first-timer tours, and strict no-photography policy throughout the venue. Free fenced parking and on-site security round out the offering.

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The Upper Level at The Diplomat Health Club

Grand Rapids, MI

On-Premise Club

The Upper Level sits above The Diplomat Health Club, a Grand Rapids sauna and bathhouse that has operated at 2324 Division Avenue South since 1980. While the club below is a private gay men's bathhouse, the Upper Level rooms are explicitly gender-fluid - the FAQ confirms guest ID is checked only to verify age, not gender or orientation - making it a distinct alternative-adult-stay option for swingers and couples of all genders passing through Michigan. Three overnight rooms are available: the Master Suite ($159), the Retro Room ($129), and the Loft Room ($119), each priced for one guest with a $39 upcharge to add a second person and a flat $20 cleaning fee per stay. Unlike the club's day rooms and lockers, which are first-come-first-served, the Upper Level rooms are the only accommodations that can be reserved ahead of time, booked directly by email, with day-pass access to the club's amenities bundled into the room rate. Check-in runs from 3pm with check-out by 11am the next day. Guests must be 21 or older and present a valid credit card matching their state or federal photo ID. Nudity is permitted inside a rented room but not in the shared common areas, and each room is limited to one or two occupants, with a single additional guest allowed up from the main club floor for the $39 fee.

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The Rabbit Hole Adelaide

Adelaide, South Australia

On-Premise Club

The Rabbit Hole Adelaide is a private members lifestyle club set in a converted private residence roughly ten minutes north-east of the Adelaide CBD. Catering to open-minded adults interested in consensual non-monogamy, swinging, and alternative relationship dynamics, the club is built around a philosophy of consent, safety, and sophistication. Run by a couple known as Wendee and Andrew, the venue is deliberately curated and selective: prospective members must submit an application questionnaire and a recent full-body photograph before gaining access, and membership, though free, is granted entirely at the hosts' discretion. The venue is spread across two floors. Downstairs is the social zone — a lounge equipped with a pool table and pole-dance poles where guests mingle and settle in. Upstairs holds the play floor, comprising an open dungeon, an open room, two closed private rooms, and a curtained room. Every play space is stocked with condoms (regular, large and X-large), dams, lubricant, wipes, and clean sheets and towels; a one-hour limit is suggested for closed rooms to keep access moving. Soft drinks, water, tea, coffee, and nibbles are provided; guests bring their own alcohol, stored in a large commercial refrigerator on site. A change room is available for those who prefer to arrive in street clothes and transition into lingerie or fetish attire on site. Phones are surrendered to lockers at arrival and are not permitted back in the venue — cameras and any form of recording are prohibited throughout. The calendar spans a varied programme of themed nights, primarily on Saturdays, with doors opening at 8:30 pm and closing at 9:30 pm — late admission is not offered. Regular open parties run through to around 2:00 am; Newbie Nights, restricted to couples and plus-ones with soft-swinging guidelines in the shared spaces, are the recommended entry point for first-timers. The programme also includes Meet and Greet social evenings with no play, Girls Nights for female-identifying guests, LGBTQI+ Rainbow Parties, and kink and fetish events. Membership is free and non-transferable but is a prerequisite for all events; single men must first attend a mandatory Information Night — a 2.5-hour facility tour and orientation session — before their application is reviewed, and even after approval are restricted to designated events.

Seaford, Victoria

On-Premise Club

Shed 16 is an adults-only lifestyle and swinger venue occupying a purpose-built space at 2/16 Cumberland Drive in Seaford, a bayside suburb on Melbourne's south-eastern fringe roughly 40 kilometres from the CBD. The club operates as a sex-on-premises venue with an explicit commitment to LGBTIQA+ inclusion, framing its mission around a safe, sex-positive environment that welcomes people of all genders, backgrounds, and levels of experience. The ethos is deliberately no-pressure: attendance carries no expectation of participation, and first-timers are actively accommodated through a gradual introduction to the space. The venue spans two floors. The ground floor anchors each session with a fully licensed bar and café, two spas, a dry sauna, a steam room, large open shower facilities, secure lockers, and free internet stations. The upper level is dedicated to play, hosting private lockable rooms, open group areas, a bondage and kink dungeon, sling rooms, a suckatorium, voyeur rooms, and a porn lounge. An outdoor courtyard serves as the smoking and vaping area. Dress expectations shift between floors: the ground level permits casual attire for the first two hours, while upstairs requires towel, underwear, lingerie, or nude. Condoms are provided throughout. Four weekly sessions run Tuesday through Saturday. TABOO (Tuesday, 7 pm–1 am) prices couples at AUD $35, single ladies at $15, and pre-booked single men at $60. DESIRES (Thursday, noon–6:30 pm) carries the same couple and ladies rates, with single men at $60 (or $50 before 1 pm). SHARED SECRETS (Friday, 8 pm–2 am) admits couples at $70 and single ladies at $25; single men are not admitted. CLUB EROTIQUE (Saturday, 8 pm–2 am) prices couples at $60, single ladies at $20, and pre-booked single men at $150. Entry is cash only at the door, with an on-site ATM; EFTPOS is accepted at the bar. A $10 surcharge applies on public holidays.

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Club Nine

Melbourne, Victoria

On-Premise Club

Club Nine is an invite-only adult lifestyle venue operating in Melbourne's inner east, near Kew, positioning itself as an intimate alternative to the city's larger clubs. Attendance at each event is capped at around 20 guests and limited to adults aged 20–45 who have cleared a personal application process — recent photographs and a short written introduction — before receiving an invitation. Couples and single women are considered on a rolling basis; single men face a more selective review. The venue address is disclosed to confirmed bookings only. The venue occupies a multi-level residential property. A ground-floor lounge serves as the social space and the only area where food and drinks are consumed; upstairs rooms include a Master Suite, the Midnight Chamber, and a fully equipped BDSM Play Room. All phones and recording devices are surrendered at the door and held securely for the duration of the event. Alcohol is BYO — no glassware is permitted anywhere in the venue, and only light-coloured drinks are allowed. The house supplies condoms, lubricants, single-use disposable towels, complimentary soft drinks, and bottled water. Events run on an almost-weekly schedule across several formats: Exclusive Circles for couples and single ladies only, MFM Evenings with vetted single men admitted at a 1:1 ratio against attending ladies, and a rotating calendar of themed and kink-oriented nights. Full event details and dates are distributed by email to approved members only — no public calendar exists. Entry prices vary by event: AUD $100–$150 per couple, free to $50 for single women, and $250–$300 for single men. Pre-booking is mandatory; no walk-ins or door sales are accepted. Cancellations made at least three days in advance receive a refund minus a 10% processing fee, or a six-month event credit in lieu; cancellations within three days are non-refundable.

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Pineapples Lifestyle Bar

South Melbourne, Victoria

On-Premise Club

Pineapples Lifestyle Bar occupies a two-storey building at 427 City Rd in South Melbourne's Montague Precinct, between York and Ferrars streets. Opened in August 2025 after the City of Port Phillip approved the venue 5–3 in June 2024 following a VCAT challenge by local residents, it holds a sex-on-premises permit and accommodates up to 200 patrons. It operates as a licensed adult lifestyle bar welcoming couples, solo women, and a restricted cohort of vetted solo men, positioning itself as a consent-focused environment for adult social exploration within the swinger, queer, LGBTQ+, and kink communities. The ground floor contains a licensed full-service bar and a performance stage used for live music, DJ sets, comedy, cabaret, and burlesque, with the format rotating by night. The upper floor is reserved for intimate activity and houses open play areas, private lockable rooms, bathrooms, unisex showers, and a VIP section. Refresh stations supply towels, condoms, lubricant, massage oil, and sanitary items throughout. Guests receive colour-coded wristbands indicating couple, solo-female, solo-male, or prefer-not-to-be-approached status; a black wristband signals a wish to decline physical advances. Volunteer consent angels circulate the floor to support guests. Complimentary all-night parking is available in front of the venue from 6 pm, and lockers are provided on an AUD$20 security deposit or credit-card/ID-hold basis. The club operates three nights per week: Thursdays 7 pm–midnight, Fridays 8 pm–2 am, and Saturdays 8 pm–2 am. Tickets must be purchased online in advance — walk-ins are never admitted. All first-time visitors must submit a membership application and complete a phone vetting call before any ticket purchase; solo males face an additional written questionnaire and in-person interview, and operate under a one-strike permanent-removal policy. Standard nights begin at AUD$20. Valid government-issued photo ID is required at the door. Phones and cameras must be secured in on-site lockers before entering the upper floor. The arrival dress code is smart-casual; upper-floor access requires dressing to lingerie, underwear, a provided towel, or bare skin. No outside alcohol is permitted, and a zero-tolerance drugs policy applies.

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Checkmate NYC

New York, NY

On-Premise Club

Tucked into the lower level of a Midtown East building just off Third Avenue, Checkmate has been New York City's premier couples lifestyle club since opening its doors in 1995. Under the ownership of Venezuelan-American nightlife entrepreneur Danny C. since 2018 — who previously ran Le Trapeze NYC and has partnered with SNCTM New York and Les Chandelles Paris — the club bills itself as the velvet rope of lifestyle clubs in America. The space blends classic elegance with moody modern design, housing an LED and video dance floor, a live DJ, a foreplay lounge, cinema playrooms, a dark room, a neon blue-lit playroom, and mirrored open-play rooms with distinct musical ambiances in each. The crowd is prescreened by design: Checkmate targets fit, attractive couples and single women who dress to impress. Every applicant must submit a full-body photo with their membership application and be approved before receiving an invitation — the only key in the door. Thursday nights run 21:00-02:00 as a relaxed after-work party with reduced entry for members and free admission for single women; Fridays and Saturdays run 22:00-04:00 with full weekend energy and themed nights. Single men are categorically not admitted, ever. The club is BYOB — no alcohol is sold, but staff tag and serve your bottle from the attended bar with complimentary mixers. Towel and robe service, attended private lockers, and private security are standard on every night. The dress code is strict: suits and dress shirts for men; high heels and formal or sexy attire for women — no sneakers, t-shirts, shorts, hats, or sandals. Cellphones must be stowed in lockers at all times, keeping the atmosphere discreet and intimate.

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Taboo22

Loganholme, Queensland

On-Premise Club

Taboo22 occupies a low-profile commercial unit at 5/6 Cairns Street in Loganholme, roughly 25 kilometres south of Brisbane's CBD, and bills itself as Queensland's friendliest swingers club. The venue is fully council-approved and operates with a structured consent framework displayed prominently throughout. The floorplan is more generously fitted out than the exterior suggests: eight or more individually themed bedrooms, two pole-dance floors, a four-person spa, a massage room, a BYO bar with mixers provided by the house, and lounge areas. The club runs regular BDSM-themed nights alongside its standard programming, giving it a kink-inclusive appeal beyond vanilla lifestyle events. Doors open Friday and Saturday nights from 7:30 pm to 2:00 am. Standard entry is $80 for couples, $90 for single males, and $35 for single ladies — who attend free on their first visit. BDSM nights carry a $5 premium across all categories. Bookings are essential; single males must call ahead to reserve. Smart casual is enforced at the door.

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Mike's Place

Slacks Creek, Queensland

On-Premise Club

Mike's Place is a licensed lifestyle club occupying a commercial unit at the Platinum Business Park on Maunder Street in Slacks Creek, roughly 20 kilometres south of Brisbane's CBD. Hosted by Ian and Lyn, the club has been recognised by RedHotPie — Australia's largest lifestyle platform — as the top swingers club in Queensland, and positions itself as an upmarket, inclusive venue for broad-minded couples and singles from across southeast Queensland. The atmosphere is described by management as warm and sociable rather than nightclub-loud, with no pressure to participate. The venue is fitted out with a bar, a lounge, multiple private playrooms, change rooms with individual lockers, and a large outdoor spa. Entry for couples covers all facilities, live entertainment, big-screen movies, hot and cold finger food served throughout the night, and complimentary tea, coffee, and soft-drink mixers. Alcohol is strictly bring-your-own: guests hand their bottles to bar staff on arrival and are served throughout the evening. Towels are provided and a condom and lubricant vending machine is available on site. According to the club's FAQ, Friday nights typically attract 50 to 90 attendees; Saturday nights run smaller, with around 20 to 40 couples. Doors open every Friday and Saturday from 8:00pm to 2:00am. Couples pay $80 and single women $30 on either night. Single men may attend Fridays only at $80, subject to a cap of no more than 50% of the night's total attendance; advance booking is required and a one-off annual membership of $100 must be arranged before a first visit. Saturday nights are reserved strictly for couples and single ladies. All guests must be 18 or over with photo ID; those who appear under 21 are expected to present it. A neat and smart-casual dress standard applies and shoes are mandatory. The phone line — 0431 846 883 — takes calls after 10:00am on Fridays and Saturdays.

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Trapeze Fort Lauderdale

Tamarac, FL

On-Premise Club

Trapeze Fort Lauderdale sits in an unremarkable strip mall on State Road 7 in Tamarac — about 10 miles northwest of downtown Fort Lauderdale — sharing a parking lot with a liquor store and a check-cashing shop. The club is South Florida's longest-running on-premise lifestyle venue, open since the mid-1990s, and celebrated its 30th anniversary in May 2026. Its 9,000 square feet split between a dimly lit main lounge with a sunken dance floor, a central stripper pole, bar-top seating, and three full-service BYOB bars; the resident DJ leans heavily Latin, and the music levels stay just low enough for conversation at the edges. A rotating weekly dinner buffet — carving station, mains like Tuscan-style pork roast or grilled grouper, desserts including creme brulee — gives way to a breakfast spread in the early hours. The playroom area sits behind wooden doors at the back and is clothing-free; street attire is checked in attended lockers with towels provided at no charge. Inside is a maze of vinyl-covered platforms and leather couches, a dividing window room visible from both sides, six private rooms, and an open group area. Couples and single women may attend all five operating nights (Wed–Sun, 8pm to 3–4am); single men are welcome Wed–Fri and Sun but barred on Saturdays. The crowd skews 40s–60s with a strong Latin representation from across South Florida. Themed events rotate weekly — Unicorn Night, Wet Looks, Linen & Lace — with costume contests and seasonal parties. Pricing requires both a membership and a nightly user fee. A Discord community allows members to coordinate before arriving and unlock a $20 discount per event. New members complete registration at self-service kiosks on arrival and may join a guided facility tour any evening before 9pm.

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Club 103

Belmont, Western Australia

On-Premise Club

Club 103 is a lifestyle and swingers club occupying a two-storey building at 103 Abernethy Road in Belmont, Western Australia, a short drive from Perth's CBD, Crown Casino, and the city's airports. The venue pitches itself as a space that bridges the longstanding Perth swingers scene with the broader kinkster community, and its stated aim is to feel 'more like a house party with friends, rather than a cold modernistic building.' It welcomes members regardless of gender or sexual orientation, and onsite parking is available. The club's two floors are fitted out with a range of dedicated spaces: a Dungeon Room (available for private hire), a Secretarial Room, a Group Room, an Exhibitionist Voyeur Room, and a Private Room, along with an outdoor area. Common areas include a dance floor with a spinning pole, a social lounge with a pool table, and two showers. Soft drinks and snacks are available from vending machines; there is no bar, and the venue operates strictly BYO for alcohol. Professional dungeon staff, referred to as 'Kinkmeisters', are on hand Thursday through Saturday. Sessions run most days of the week, with daytime openings Monday, Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday (roughly noon to 3pm) and evening sessions Wednesday through Friday from around 8–8:30pm to 2am; Saturday evenings run 8:30pm to 2am, with Tuesday and Sunday closed. All times are noted as variable. The dress code is smart casual at minimum, with hosts reserving the right to refuse entry for non-compliance. The club operates a traffic-light consent system (green/amber/red) and prohibits touching anyone without expressed permission. No alcohol is sold or served on the premises; intoxicated persons and illicit substances are not permitted.

Newbie-friendlyLgbtq-friendlyInclusive

Infusions

Perth, Western Australia

On-Premise Club

Infusions is an invite-only lifestyle club operating from a purpose-built venue in Belmont, situated roughly ten minutes east of Perth's CBD. The club is one of the city's few dedicated swinger venues with its own permanent premises. Entry is strictly by arrangement — prospective guests contact the venue by phone or text to receive the address and an invitation, and hosts may request a face photo in advance to confirm suitability. There are no walk-ins. The space is laid out for socialising as much as play: a staffed bar area (operating on a BYO model), pool table, dance floor, and lounge seating form the social core of the venue. Three luxury playrooms branch off from this area, fitted with poles, sex swings, and erotic equipment. A separate exhibition room caters to those who prefer to be seen, and secure onsite parking is available. The overall atmosphere is described by the venue as social and pressure-free, with staff present throughout the evening. Nights run Wednesday through Sunday: a fortnightly Wednesday session runs 8pm–midnight; Thursday is 8pm–midnight; Friday and Saturday run from 8:30pm to 2am; and Sunday sessions are 5pm–9pm. Additional events are scheduled on public holiday long weekends. Saturday is designated for couples and a limited number of single men. Pricing is not publicly listed — interested guests are directed to contact the venue directly. A newsletter subscription carries a $20 discount on entry.

Invite-onlyNewbie-friendlyCouples-focused

The Korral

Spring Grove, PA

On-Premise Club

Set on a private rural property in York County, Pennsylvania — and sharing its grounds with Kim's Krypt Haunted Mill — The Korral has grown into one of the most-decorated lifestyle clubs on the East Coast, twice named ASN LS Magazine's top Adult Entertainment Venue (2022 and 2023). The complex spans a large main building housing a stage-and-pole dance floor, full-service bar, dining room, pool tables, air hockey, locker rooms with showers, a selfie room, the Pyretta Blayze in-house store, and a warren of 18 themed playrooms kept stocked with fresh towels and sanitizing supplies. Outside, a heated saltwater pool with a wide deck and Tiki Hut runs from Memorial Day through September, flanked by two hot tubs set into a grotto. Parties run Friday and Saturday from 7 pm to 2 am (8 pm-3 am on New Year's Eve), and the crowd skews a broad 30-55 in median age. The dedicated BDSM hallway, a glory hole, and an open group room sit alongside more intimate themed suites, while a CCTV room and house-wide phone policy keep the atmosphere relaxed and discreet. Monthly Kink Nights shift the dance floor into an educational play space — one discipline per session, with a demo and opt-in tastings — followed by a Sunday munch. The Korral also hosts two annual Kink Intensives alongside a packed calendar of costumed theme nights. For those who want to extend the evening, eight private stay rooms (king bed, chaise, keyed entry) book out for the full weekend — Friday check-in, Sunday checkout — while 20-plus after-party rooms open at 2 am for single- or two-night stays. All rooms are first-come, first-served with a non-refundable deposit.

UpscaleSex-positiveCouples-friendly

CCK lifestyle club in Auckland, Auckland

CCK

Unverified

Auckland, Auckland

On-Premise Club

CCK occupies a discreet, unmarked address at 246C Hobson Street in Auckland's CBD and markets itself as the city's first upscale adult lounge bar and lifestyle venue, with an emphasis on sophistication, consent, and an international aesthetic. The venue operates four nights a week — Wednesday through Saturday — with doors opening at 8:30pm and last entry accepted until 1am. The social and play spaces centre on a full-service licensed bar and dance floor set to Euro house music, with five designated play areas equipped with a St Andrew's cross, a lover's swing, an erotic dancing cage, a grope tent, a dark room, and a static pole. Complimentary condoms, lubricant, towels, and body lotion are provided; locker and shower facilities are on site; and a five-stage Aura Air UV purification system reflects a stated emphasis on cleanliness. Gated courtyard parking is complimentary during visits. Couples and single women are admitted Wednesday through Saturday. Single men are admitted on Wednesdays and at designated specialty events only, with advance booking compulsory. Earlybird online pricing starts at NZD $70 per couple on Wednesdays and NZD $100 on Thursday through Saturday, with regular online rates at NZD $100 and NZD $130 respectively; after-midnight walk-in pricing rises to NZD $160. Single women pay NZD $35-$85 depending on night and booking timing. No membership is required. A rotating calendar of specialty nights includes Pendulum (bi-couples and singles), Young NZ Swingers (ages 18-35), 45 Plus Roast Club, CCK Hotwifing, and SKIRTS ladies-only events. Dress standards are strictly enforced — T-shirts, shorts, jandals, and trainers are prohibited — and first-time visitors receive a guided tour of the venue.

UpscaleSophisticatedDiscreet

Cats 2.0 Swingerclub

München, Bavaria

On-Premise Club

Cats 2.0 Swingerclub occupies a venue at Paul-Gerhardt-Allee 44 in Munich's Pasing-Obermenzing district, roughly eight kilometres west of the city centre. The club bills itself as the largest swingers venue in Munich, welcoming couples, solo women, and solo men under the tagline 'Erotik stilvoll genießen' — erotic enjoyment done stylishly. It operates at an address previously occupied by the Karibik Swingerclub. The venue spans approximately 500 m² with a capacity of around 150 guests, including 60 in the dedicated play area, and features six private rooms alongside a bar, a food buffet, a dancefloor, and multiple playrooms. Changing facilities are provided on site and towels and condoms are available. Independent reviewers describe the space as clean and well-maintained; the atmosphere is characterised as relaxed rather than formal, with staff noted for being approachable and house rules across all events emphasising respectful conduct. Entry prices vary by day and guest type: couples pay from €50 on Mondays up to €80 on Saturdays; solo men from €100 to €120; and solo women from €15 to €25. The club is cash-only and JOYclub members receive a €10 discount. A Schnupper-Montag (newcomer Monday) is the recommended first visit for those new to the scene, with a dedicated first-visit guide at cats20.de. A dress code applies, with separate guidance published for couples, solo women, and solo men.

Couples-welcomeSolo-friendlyNewbie-friendly

Wicked Fun Club

Terryville, CT

On-Premise Club

Wicked Fun Club is Connecticut's only dedicated on-premise swinger destination, a private members-only lifestyle club that owners Steve and Jodi Gagne designed to feel nothing like a nightclub — no dance floor, no bar, just sultry lighting and a spacious lounge where couples and singles can actually hear each other talk. Spanning over 3,000 square feet, the venue hosts 16 to 40 guests per event and includes a social lounge, an open play area, and four dedicated playrooms outfitted with a Tantra chair, a sex swing, and ample group space. Complimentary towels and lockers are provided; the club is strictly BYOB with mixers, chilled storage, snacks, and bottled water supplied by the house. Events run Friday and Saturday nights: Fridays welcome couples, single ladies, and vetted single men, while Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only. Themed nights — murder mystery parties, Western dress-up evenings, Newbie Nights — give the 200-strong membership fresh reasons to return. Membership is tiered by category and required before attending; event entry donations run $80 per couple, $20 per single lady, and $100 per single man. Hosts Steve and Jodi are on hand at every event, personally welcoming newcomers, leading venue walkthroughs, and keeping the atmosphere pressure-free. Reviewers compare the vibe to an open-minded house party rather than a late-night club — warm, clean, and less cliquey than larger regional venues. The original Terryville location was ordered closed by Plymouth zoning authorities in spring 2025; the club has since relocated to a new undisclosed Central Connecticut venue and continues to operate.

Newbie-friendlyCouples-focusedIntimate

Asthoria Swingdreams

Neumünster, Schleswig-Holstein

On-Premise Club

Asthoria Swingdreams occupies the corner of Fehmarnstraße and Wrangelstraße in the Wittorf district of Neumünster, roughly midway between Hamburg and Kiel in Schleswig-Holstein. The club is legally structured as a registered association — Verein zur Förderung kommunikativer Freizeitgestaltung e.V. — rather than a commercial venue, and its stated motto, „familiär, unkompliziert, niveauvoll“ (intimate, uncomplicated, refined), reflects that orientation: the emphasis is on a sociable, close-knit atmosphere within a deliberately modest capacity of around 50 guests across approximately 300 square metres. The floor plan divides the space into clearly distinct zones: a bar with a dance floor and pole-dancing apparatus, lounge seating, a buffet area, shower facilities, a wellness area with sauna and massage space, a darkroom, a jungle-themed play room, and a purpose-fitted SM/BDSM studio equipped with a St. Andrew’s Cross. The event calendar has featured recurring themed nights including the Rubensparty, a body-positive evening, and the Dark Night. The club opens on Tuesdays and Wednesdays from 15:00 to 23:00, on Fridays and Saturdays from 19:00 to 03:00, and on the second and fourth Sunday of each month from 15:00 to 22:00. Entry pricing is tiered by gender and day: single women pay €10 on all open nights; couples pay €30 on Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Sundays, and €50 on Fridays and Saturdays; single men pay €65 on Sundays, €70 on Tuesdays and Wednesdays, and €75 on Fridays and Saturdays. A dress code is enforced at entry.

IntimateCommunity-orientedAssociation-run

KC Book Club

Liberty, MO

On-Premise Club

KC Book Club is a by-invitation-only lifestyle house party set on five acres of secluded land just north of Liberty, Missouri — a quiet, rural setting that ensures complete privacy for its guests. Owned and personally run by Eddie, the venue is a custom-built entertaining space that has earned a reputation as one of the Midwest most recognized lifestyle destinations, drawing regulars and curious newcomers alike from as far as Nebraska, Iowa, Oklahoma, and Arkansas. The club has been featured on national lifestyle podcasts, and its welcoming, consent-forward atmosphere keeps the crowd firmly in living-room-party territory rather than nightclub territory. Saturday nights are the club's exclusive rhythm, and the format is BYOE — guests bring their own drinks and snacks, while the house provides soft drinks, hors d'oeuvres, ice, soda mixers, and bottled water. Inside, a large social area and a dance floor (complete with stripper pole) set the tone for mingling before the evening deepens. Private play rooms and dedicated kink and lifestyle spaces are available on site, and the venue also features a pool, hot tub, and showers. When the weather cooperates, the five acres open up for clothing-optional volleyball, swimming, and sunbathing. The club is kink-friendly, swinger-friendly, and welcoming to the genuinely curious — but it is strictly couples and single women only; single men are not admitted. Access is by invitation only, and the BYOE policy keeps the vibe communal and intimate. The location near Liberty Triangle puts guests within easy reach of hotels, restaurants, and retail for before or after the party.

Swinger-friendlyKink-friendlyCouples

Venus Club

Unverified

Pennsauken, NJ

on-premise swingers club

Sitting along the busy commercial strip of Admiral Wilson Boulevard in Pennsauken, New Jersey — just across the Delaware River from Philadelphia — Venus operates under the banner of SwingersUSA/CouplesClubUSA and has built a following as one of South Jersey's most established on-premise lifestyle clubs. The venue draws a crowd of both newcomers and regulars, billing itself as a no-pressure environment that is welcoming to couples and single ladies exploring the swinger lifestyle. The club runs parties every Friday and Saturday night from 9pm to 4am. Saturday evenings include a pre-party Tantra workshop from 8 to 9pm before the main event begins. The club provides an appetizer buffet as part of the evening, and operates on a BYOB basis with mixers supplied by the venue. A DJ provides entertainment throughout the night. Attendance is typically strong, with the club reporting averages of 105 to 130 couples per party. Venus describes itself as South Jersey's most popular on-premise lifestyle club. Its location on Admiral Wilson Boulevard places it convenient to major highway routes connecting the Philadelphia metro region and southern New Jersey.

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Infinity Swingerparadies

Unverified

Rendsburg, Schleswig-Holstein

On-Premise Club

Infinity Swingerparadies occupies a unit on Helgoländer Straße in Rendsburg, a Schleswig-Holstein town spanning the Kiel Canal roughly midway between Hamburg and Flensburg. The club operates under the motto 'swingen unter Freunden' — swinging among friends — and positions itself as a smaller, community-minded venue rather than a large anonymous nightclub. Its own promotional text, preserved in third-party directories, describes the atmosphere as 'gemütlich und familiär' (cosy and family-like), with an emphasis on a personal and discreet environment. The interior is built around a set of individually themed rooms ('Mottozimmer') that the club describes as 'niveauvoll eingerichtet' — tastefully and well-appointed. The overall presentation is deliberately low-key and well-maintained. The venue is explicitly open to guests of any sexual orientation, and consent and mutual respect are presented as non-negotiable foundations of the house culture. Public directory listings indicate regular opening hours of Thursday 16:00–23:00 and Friday and Saturday 20:00–02:00, with the venue closed Sunday through Wednesday. Entry pricing has not been published on any independently verifiable source. A strict 'Nein heißt Nein' consent policy is cited in the club's own self-description, and discretion is emphasised throughout.

Lgbtq-friendlyInclusiveIntimate

Pärchenclub Schiedel

Kamenz, Saxony

On-Premise Club

Club Schiedel sits on a former farmstead in the Schiedel district of Kamenz, a small Saxony town in eastern Germany roughly equidistant between Dresden and Bautzen. Operated since 2012 by Siro and Reinhard Bartels through Pärchenclub Schiedel & Hotel UG, it has grown into one of the larger lifestyle destinations in the region — a self-contained rural retreat combining a full-scale swingers club with hotel rooms, holiday rooms, and extensive grounds. Its approach along quiet roads threading through forest and farmland on the edge of the Upper Lusatian hills and lake landscape gives the property a secluded and unhurried character that sets it apart from urban venues of comparable scope. The interior club area is finished in natural stone, timber, and tropical planting — a design the venue describes as a blend of eroticism, tropical flair, and rustic warmth. The amenity list is substantial: a darkroom, a dedicated SM room, themed playrooms including mirrored and group-activity rooms, a small adult cinema, five indoor bars, and a wellness section with hot tub and sauna. A warm-and-cold buffet runs through the evening during events. The broader grounds encompass an outdoor swimming pool, an outdoor bar with lounge beds, and a spread of lakeside holiday cabins alongside hotel rooms in the main building. The club averages 4.4 stars across more than 130 visitor reviews, with consistent praise for staff friendliness and quality of service. Events are anchored to Friday and Saturday evenings, with doors opening at 20:00 on both nights. Wednesdays function primarily as a hotel check-in and accommodation day for overnight guests. The club maintains a Swinger-Paten scheme — a companion system in which staff or designated regulars walk first-time visitors through the space and help them find their footing at their own pace.

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KNetic Club

Calgary, Alberta

On-Premise Club

KNetic Club bills itself as "Calgary's largest fully licensed Lifestyle Swingers Club" — LGBTQ-owned and pitched as ultra-inclusive, welcoming singles, couples, and throuples across two Calgary venues (KNetic South and KNetic North). It runs as an event-driven private club rather than a daily-open venue: a free member profile must be created and approved before attending, and the calendar mixes high-energy themed parties (Unicorn Night, Spicy Stampede Social, Cowboy Boots & Daisy Dukes), play-focused nights, a "Real Talk" relationships discussion series, partner workshops, and a regular Newbie Night for first-timers. Single men can't attend couples nights alone — the classic couples-protective convention — while single women are welcomed and discounted on select nights. The roughly 3,400 sq ft South venue pairs a main dance floor (DJ, stripper pole) with an upstairs lounge of pool and darts, a furnished playroom, gender-neutral washrooms, and a "FLEX" bar where members can buy drinks or bring their own. The KNetic name spans a small multi-brand network: alongside the couples-and-singles flagship, it operates KNetic Men (a gay/bi/queer men's cruise club) and KNetic Women (a queer women's club), each with its own community, plus it rents the venue to third-party kink organizer K-E-A-N for shibari and BDSM education nights. Founded on a "Love Always Wins" ethos and described as Calgary's only fully LGBTQ-owned lifestyle club, that breadth is why some visitors read it as "a queer club" — but the flagship's own marketing is explicit: "a safe space for 18+ singles, couples, and more." Entry is event-ticketed and varies by night (commonly from ~$10–$15 CAD, with Premium-member and single-women discounts on select events), and an optional paid Premium membership ($10/mo–$95/yr) unlocks door discounts and social features but not admission. Fully licensed (City of Calgary, Alberta Health Services, Calgary Fire, AGLC), the club is well regarded — reportedly around 4.7★ on one review aggregator — and was active as of mid-2026.

SwingersLgbtq-friendlyCouples-focused

Why Not Swingerclub

Hamburg, Hamburg

On-Premise Club

Swingertreff Why Not e.V. is a registered lifestyle club operating out of a two-storey house in Hamburg's Bramfeld district. Located on Bramfelder Chaussee in the city's northeast, the venue spans roughly 340 square metres and accommodates up to 120 guests per session, with parking available on site. It is structured as a non-profit registered association (eingetragener Verein), a less common arrangement among German lifestyle venues. Across its two floors, the club offers a wellness area with sauna and massage space, an SM/BDSM section, and a shared social area where an all-inclusive buffet and drinks service are covered by the entry fee. The club has positioned itself as accessible to first-timers, running dedicated beginner evenings alongside its regular programme. It holds a 4.8 out of 5 rating on JOYclub, where it appears among Hamburg's top-listed venues of its kind.

Newcomer-friendlyAll-inclusiveWellness-focused

The Night Game

On-Premise Club

Club Sapphire is a private, membership-based lifestyle club at 14220 Interurban Ave S Suite A-110 in Tukwila, Washington, positioned centrally between Seattle, Bellevue and SeaTac Airport. Established for well over a decade, it caters to consensual, non-monogamous couples exploring the swinging lifestyle while also welcoming single women, a limited number of single men, and LGBTQ+ members. The club positions itself as a social space first rather than a straightforward sex club, with a membership base of adults 21 and up, ranging from their twenties to their seventies. The venue spans roughly 10,000 square feet, with a dance floor and resident DJ, social lounges, and a range of playrooms from larger group spaces to more private two-person rooms, including a dedicated voyeur room. A light buffet of appetizers runs throughout the evening alongside free soda, coffee, tea and water, and guests have access to a co-ed locker room, co-ed showers with four shower heads, and fresh towels; parking is free on site. The dress code favors dressed-up, sexy attire — designer jeans, dresses, lingerie or costumes for themed nights — while baggy sweats, dirty clothing, casual wear and baseball hats are turned away at the door. Parties run Wednesday and Thursday from 7pm to midnight and Friday and Saturday from 8pm to 2am. Entry requires both a current membership (from $30 for a one-week pass) and a separate per-event fee that varies by night and by couples/male/female category; all new members complete a brief, free orientation on party nights. Single men must secure a confirmed ticket in advance, cannot attend as walk-ins, and must complete a dedicated New Single Male Orientation before their first visit. House rules require verbal consent before any touching, ban illegal drugs, weapons and intoxicated entry, require condom use (condoms provided), and prohibit photography or cell phone use in social areas and playrooms.

Swingers-clubCouples-focusedLgbtq-friendly

NSFW (New Society for Wellness)

New York, NY

On-Premise Club

Founded in 2018 by Daniel Saynt — the self-described 'Chief Conspirator' — NSFW (New Society for Wellness) began as an intimate gathering in lower Manhattan and grew into one of New York's most talked-about members-only sex clubs. The current clubhouse, a 4,000 sq ft space in Chelsea near Penn Station, replaced earlier venues in Brooklyn and lower Manhattan and opened in August 2025. Entry is past a velvet rope and front-desk check-in, with arrivals capped at 60 members per event. The crowd — drawn heavily from entertainment, fashion, and media, averaging around 28 years old and running roughly 60 percent female — sets a tone one attendee described as 'civilized debauchery.' All guests dress in all-black to put everyone on an equal playing field. The weekly rhythm runs to PlayDates every Saturday (21:00–02:00) and Netflix & Chill Sundays (18:00–22:00), with workshops Tuesdays and Thursdays (18:00–21:00) covering pleasure education, rope play, and BDSM. A monthly Send Noobs introductory session walks prospective members through the community's consent framework before they set foot in the Clubhouse. The space features plush communal areas, a sex swing, shibari play zones, walls of floggers and paddles, and private by-reservation rooms. Membership requires a vetted profile granted at roughly a 30% acceptance rate, evaluated across 14 criteria. Tiers range from Pay-Per-Play ($29/month or $169/year plus per-event passes) to Unlimited Solo ($250/month) and Unlimited Couples ($350/month) plans. An online community of 7,500+ member profiles, an NSFW Magazine, and sex-education resources extend the experience beyond the physical Clubhouse.

Members-onlySex-positiveLgbtq-friendly

DB Socials

Unverified

Providence, RI

On-Premise Club

Choice Social Club is New England's flagship on-premise lifestyle club, occupying 8,000 square feet behind a red door in a Providence industrial neighborhood on Porter Street. Inside the contrast is sharp: warm-toned lounges furnished in leather, a dance floor with a video wall and stripper pole, a BYOB bar, and a backyard patio that opens for summer events. The building's 14 themed playrooms include a voyeur chamber with a one-way window, a schoolhouse room, a massage room, a blacklight room, a glory hole room, and a group room with an L-shaped multi-bed layout. A dedicated BDSM corner houses St. Andrew's crosses and sawhorse equipment. Staff change sheets between uses throughout the night. Membership and pricing have two layers. Annual memberships run $45 for couples ($250 premium), $40-65 for single women, and a $100 introductory rate for single men, who face a 3-4 month waitlist given strict ratio management. Per-event admission adds $90 for couples, $100 for single men, and $5 for single women. First-timers receive a complimentary trial membership. Events run Saturdays 9 pm to 2 am with themed nights rotating through the calendar; a Ropes class runs on the third Thursday at 7 pm. The BYOB system works by handing bottles to staff at check-in labelled with your membership number and requesting drinks at the bar all night with the club supplying mixers and ice. Playroom etiquette follows a plastic-chain signal system: chain on the door means open to observation or polite requests to join; door open and unchained means people may ask; curtain or door closed means full privacy. The crowd runs approximately 90% couples with an average age of 35-45, and the single-male quota is actively controlled to keep the balance couples-focused. The club has operated under Red Door Operations, LLC since 2009; a COVID closure prompted a 2021 GoFundMe by owner Jim Knaus that raised over $5,000 before reopening.

Couples-focusedUpscaleNew-england-premier

TNT's Playground

Unverified

South Amboy, NJ

On-Premise Club

TNT's Playground is a members-only lifestyle party venue in South Amboy, New Jersey, drawing couples and singles from across the tri-state area for high-energy parties in what regulars call the friendliest environment in the region. The club markets itself equally to first-timers and experienced participants, making inclusivity its primary calling card. Directory listings dating to 2019 describe a reliably packed house with strong post-event word of mouth. The venue operates under the domain tatstitsnsmoke.com — a tongue-in-cheek name that regulars associate with the irreverent, no-pressure vibe rather than any other business. Verified structural details — street address, party schedule, pricing, playroom layout, and entry requirements — are not documented in publicly accessible sources at time of research. The website was inaccessible and the club does not appear in major lifestyle directories such as SDC, SLS, or Kasidie.

Newbie-friendlyHigh-energyTri-state

Club Iniquity

Houghton Lake, MI

On-Premise Club

Club Iniquity bills itself as "The Great Lake's Premier Swinger's Club," though it isn't a fixed venue in the traditional sense — it's a Michigan-based lifestyle community that takes over an entire lakefront resort in Houghton Lake for two-day "Complete Hotel Takeover" parties several times a year. Founded in 2017 as an alternative to the long drive downstate, the club has grown from a local meetup into what it calls one of the most respected lifestyle communities in the Midwest, pulling guests from Michigan, Wisconsin, Indiana, Illinois, Ohio and beyond. Each takeover includes beachside rooms, a clothing-optional pool and hot tub area, and a full slate of themed playrooms — recent events have featured a Group Fantasy Playroom, a Kink Fantasy Playroom, and "Steve's Den of Iniquity," a dedicated BDSM space. Weekends follow a set rhythm: a Friday welcome reception and potluck family feast, an orientation-style welcome presentation from hosts Jeff and Jenn, and a clothing-optional pool party running late into the night. Saturdays bring "Exploring the Lifestyle" discussion sessions (on topics like communication, consent, rope safety, and the emotional side of non-monogamy), a group dinner at the hotel restaurant, a themed room-decorating contest and room crawl, and a dance party with DJ Sexy Jeff running to midnight. Packages are all-inclusive — accommodations, party admission, workshops, breakfast and late-night snacks are bundled into one price, with no add-on fees. The club markets itself as drama-free and judgment-free, welcoming newcomers and seasoned swingers alike, with a strict "no means no" policy and rules against photography in shared party spaces. Single men are admitted only by prior approval, capped at roughly a 1:20 ratio against couples, and must hold a paid SLS (SwingLifestyle) profile at least a year old. All events are designated official SLS events, and all hotel bookings must go through the Club Iniquity website rather than the hotel directly, keeping the guest list within its vetted community.

Newbie-friendlyLgbtq-friendlyKink-friendly

Electricity Social Club

Providence, RI

On-premise lifestyle / swinger club

Electricity Social Club occupies a loft-style space inside Atlantic Mill, a historic industrial complex in the Olneyville neighborhood of Providence, at 122 Manton Avenue — Right Tower, 2nd Floor. From the outside the building reads as a plain old factory, with no signage pointing to what's inside. The interior opens into a spacious loft-fitted club with a dance floor, a stripper pole, a full sound and light system, a BYOB bar stocked with mixers, lockers, and a dedicated smoking lounge. It is an on-premise, members-only lifestyle venue and one of the most talked-about lifestyle clubs in New England. The club runs Friday and Saturday nights from 9 pm to 2 am, with specialty events — including a bi- and pansexual-friendly Bi Voltage night — on the calendar. All guests must hold an annual membership (available at the door) and pay a per-party entry fee; valid photo ID is required at every visit. The crowd skews toward couples and single men, with reviewers placing the typical age range in the forties to fifties, though visitors span their twenties to late sixties. The atmosphere is described as laid-back and friendly, with action picking up after 11 pm. The play areas cover a wide range of preferences: a large main group room with couches ringing a dance floor and stripper pole; a small dungeon stocked with a rack, sawhorse, and floggers; a side room with beds and fresh linens; exhibitionist beds in a hallway where a velvet rope signals openness to company; and approximately ten fully private, attendant-managed playrooms. The club is BYOB — bring your own alcohol, free mixers provided — and is cash-only at the door. ESC describes itself as on-premise and welcoming to LGBTQ, pansexual, and bi-friendly guests.

Lgbtq-friendlyBi-friendlyPansexual

The Riverside Club

Gallipolis Ferry, WV

On-Premise Club

Set along Huntington Road in the small Mason County community of Gallipolis Ferry, The Riverside Club bills itself as West Virginia's #1 lifestyle club — a members-only, on-premise venue open to couples, single women, and a select number of single men. The space includes a dance floor, a stripper cage, a BYOB self-serve bar, multiple private playrooms, lockers (bring your own lock), and a hot tub. Complimentary soft drinks and food are included with entry, keeping the vibe more house-party than nightclub. Parties run every Saturday night from 9pm to 3am, with recurring themed nights — Blacklight Party, Red Dress Night, and Fishnet Night among them — plus annual events like the Christmas Party and New Year's Eve celebration. Membership costs $50 per year for couples, single men, and single ladies alike. New members register and verify online, then confirm their ID and pay on the first visit. All guests must be 21 or older. The crowd spans a wide range of ages and backgrounds, and first-timers consistently describe the owners, staff, and regulars as exceptionally welcoming. Single ladies are treated as honored guests; the rules explicitly flag that stalking or harassment of single women can result in permanent membership suspension. Smoking is permitted outside only, and the club asks all guests to keep voices down outdoors out of respect for the neighborhood.

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Club Eros

Unverified

Cleveland, OH

On-Premise Club

Club Eros occupies a sprawling 15,000-square-foot industrial-chic space tucked behind gated access on E. 33rd Street in Cleveland's St. Clair–Hamilton corridor — the only female-owned adult lifestyle club in the Midwest, run by owner Jenny, who has been hosting events for over 15 years. The main floor delivers a full nightclub experience: a DJ booth with professional sound and light show, a full-service BYOA bar with complimentary juices, sodas, and premium energy drinks, a pool table, intimate lounge seating, and a complimentary buffet on Saturday nights. A couples-only lounge with its own play area provides a quieter retreat, and a movie theater area rounds out the social zones before guests head deeper into the club. The play wing spans 20 rooms: voyeur and exhibition rooms, a kink and bondage room, a dedicated pleasure-swing room, couples glory-hole rooms, private rooms, and a first-timers tour led by staff on arrival. Membership is required — one-night passes run $20 for couples; quarterly memberships are $35 for couples or single males and $25 for single ladies. Standard Saturday door fees are $69 for couples and $20 for single ladies; single males must qualify through CockFest or Club Cougar intake events, or attend daytime Tryst sessions. Eros stands apart on scale, polish, and inclusivity: its member base spans couples and singles across straight, gay, bi, and queer identities; attendance on a typical Saturday runs 60–100 with themed nights drawing up to 250. The all-inclusive door fee covers linens, wipes, condoms, buffet, and soft-drink mixers. Doors open at 9 PM on Saturdays with events running to 3 AM, and the large gated lot with on-site security makes parking straightforward.

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Club Escape

On-Premise Club

Sitting just east of downtown Indianapolis on E Michigan Street — about two miles from city center — ClubHouse 2050 is Indiana's longest-running lifestyle members-only club, housed in a building with an eclectic past (members note it was once a funeral home, which only adds to its mystique). The ground floor is laid out like a social club: a sports bar, dance floor, card room, and game room all feed into a play area with curtained semi-private spaces. Upstairs, private and semi-private rooms are available for couples and groups, outfitted with fresh linens and stocked with convenience baskets. What sets ClubHouse 2050 apart is the breadth of its membership. Less than half of the crowd are full swingers; the rest are voyeurs, exhibitionists, BDSM and FetLife regulars, and vanilla couples who enjoy a flirtatious, no-judgment atmosphere. The club runs weekly events every Friday and Saturday (8pm–2am), leaning into themed nights that vary by the interests of those who show up. It is BYOB with no bar tab, and the flat $50 Saturday entry and roughly $30 Friday fee make it one of the most affordable on-premise clubs in the region. Paid members also unlock a full online community: photo sharing, direct messaging, and live video chat. The club partners with a sister venue, ClubhousePandora.com near Anderson Casino, and curates a calendar of lifestyle travel events for members seeking experiences beyond Indianapolis.

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Club Pulsations

Unverified

Mississauga, Ontario

On-premises lifestyle / swinger club

Club Pulsations is a private lifestyle club in Mississauga, Ontario welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

CJ's at The Townhouse

Glasgow, Scotland

On-Premise Club

Tucked into a quiet corner of Kelvindale on Glasgow's leafy west side, CJ's at The Townhouse has built a reputation as one of Scotland's most welcoming swingers clubs. The venue spans two floors of a discreet townhouse on Ashburton Road, with a trio of stripper-pole-lined lounges, a self-service bar and a buffet downstairs, and a warren of eight themed playrooms upstairs. Owner CJ personally walks first-timers through the space, and the crowd — a friendly mix of regulars and newcomers, often spanning their late twenties to early sixties — sets a tone that's more living-room than nightclub. Parties run on a tight rhythm: Friday nights (8pm–midnight) are couples and single ladies only; Saturdays (9pm–2am) open the door to a limited number of single men; and once a month, a Wednesday afternoon party (noon–3pm) welcomes everyone. There are also dedicated gay and bi-male nights run under the @cjs4gay banner. Entry is by prior booking only — no walk-ins, no admittance after 11pm — and photo ID (passport, driving licence or utility bill) is required at the door. Dress code is strictly enforced: a sexy little number for the ladies, smart casual or sexy attire for the gents. The playrooms cover everything from a cinema lounge and an open group room to a fully equipped dungeon, a medical-themed private room, a voyeur room, and a couples-and-single-females-only room with a love swing. Phones are off in public areas and cameras are banned outright, which keeps the vibe relaxed and discreet. The "party contribution" at the door covers a buffet plus tea, coffee and soft drinks; alcohol is BYOB with no corkage. Towels and condoms are provided, there's a separate indoor smoking area, and an on-site wardrobe and makeover service is on hand for anyone who wants to dress up before they head in.

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The Pleasure Garden Club

Philadelphia, PA

On-Premise Club

Tucked behind The Purple Orchid at the far end of a Passyunk Avenue strip mall in Philadelphia's Elmwood/Eastwick neighborhood, The Pleasure Garden Club has been one of the city's premier on-premise lifestyle destinations since opening in September 2006. The venue sits behind a gated private parking lot — well-lit and hidden from street view — and a pat-down security check at the door ensures no phones make it inside. With capacity for roughly 300 guests, the space centers on a large dance floor anchored by a stripper pole on a raised platform, flanked by two BYOB juice bars with complimentary mixers, a group shower with towel service, and a bank of lockers (bring your own padlock). Membership is bundled with entry via TicketLeap. Playrooms range from curtained private rooms and an open play pit to a dedicated gangbang room and two Sybian rooms (available for a $20 deposit). A side room off the main dance floor houses a permanent BDSM setup — St. Andrew's cross, a cage, a spiked wood throne with manacles, and suspension rigs — making it a genuine dual-use swinger/kink space. Overflow back rooms unlock on busier nights when the main areas fill up. Fridays (9 pm–2 am) welcome couples, single ladies, and single men; the first Friday of each month is PLEASUREcation, a kink-forward mixed party with dark/rock/EDM music and programming such as rope bondage demos. Saturdays (9 pm–3 am) are couples and single ladies only, with themed nights running the gamut from Mardi Gras to glow and sheer-wear parties.

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Le Boudoir Club

London, London

On-Premise Club

Le Boudoir is a members-only lifestyle and ENM (ethically non-monogamous) club operating on Old Castle Street in London’s E1, within walking distance of Aldgate East tube station and a short journey from Liverpool Street. Running since 2015 and hosting over 150 ticketed events a year, the venue requires advance online registration — applicants submit photographs for review, approval is not automatic, and no walk-ins are accepted under any circumstances. The minimum age is 21, with photo ID verified at the door on every night. The club occupies three floors. The ground level holds a fully licensed bar, a DJ booth, a dance pole, and a mezzanine terrace well-suited for socialising and people-watching. The upper floor runs a collection of private lockable rooms — including a mirrored cubby hole, a dark-academia-themed study room, and a large open group room — while the basement functions as a fully fitted dungeon equipped with a St Andrew’s Cross, cage, sex swings, glory holes, and curtained alcove beds. Bathrooms are available on every floor and lockers are provided. Phones are surrendered at check-in and held until the end of the evening; reviewers consistently credit this policy with maintaining a crowd — predominantly working professionals in their mid-thirties — that is polite, unhurried, and non-pushy. Events run on Thursdays and most Fridays and Saturdays. Thursday sessions typically run 19:00–23:30 and are themed around hotwife and couples events, with a limited number of single men admitted; Friday and Saturday parties run 21:30–03:00, with Saturdays reserved for couples and single women only. Entry is by pre-purchased ticket only, sold through the club’s website and Eventbrite; tickets are non-refundable and carry a £30 transfer fee. The bar is fully licensed — outside alcohol is not permitted — with cocktails priced around £15 and bottled water around £3. A £20 refundable cash deposit is collected at the door for locker use. Dress code is strictly enforced: smart-sexy attire is required, with formal dark trousers, collared shirts, and dress shoes for men, and lingerie or quality dresses with appropriate footwear for women; multiple categories of casualwear are explicitly prohibited at the door.

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Red Room Nashville

Nashville, TN

On-Premise Club

Red Room Nashville is a members-only lifestyle club operating out of a discreet suburban venue near the city, reachable only after a screened membership application and a 24-hour approval wait. The main room centers on a professional-DJ dance floor with LED lighting, VIP and reserved seating with soft seating, a ladies-only dressing suite, and a BYOB bar stocked with complimentary mixers; from there, hallways lead back to communal play lounges and a run of private playrooms, some fitted with sex swings and BDSM equipment, that members can leave open for onlookers or close off for privacy. Events run on a weekly schedule with different nights themed for couples, single ladies, and limited single-male attendance, each requiring advance ticket purchase on top of membership; walk-ins are not accepted, and identification is checked at the door. Nudity is handled zone by zone: topless is allowed on the main dancefloor, but members must stay covered from the waist down there, while the back playroom areas are clothing-optional for anyone who wants to go further. Staff run a tight, consent-first floor: touching requires permission, sexual play in the main room must stay above the belt with anything further moved to a playroom, and single men are confined to designated bar seating unless invited elsewhere by a couple or group. The club supplies towels and cleanup wipes in the playrooms, and members describe the vibe as welcoming and judgment-free, with staff giving personal walkthroughs and mixed-age, mixed-body-type crowds turning out for the weekly parties.

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Happy Hedonist

Unverified

Mississauga, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Happy Hedonist is a lifestyle club that has catered to swingers, voyeurs, and exhibitionists in the Greater Toronto Area since the early 1990s. Operating as an upscale on-premise swinger club, it built a following as one of the largest lifestyle venues in southern Ontario, welcoming couples and select single players through a community that blended online engagement — chat rooms, contact ads, and message boards — with weekly on-site parties. The club's home was Jeanie's, a licensed venue at 5977 Dixie Road in Mississauga, where it occupied more than 10,000 square feet across two levels. The space featured two bars, a licensed smoking patio, and a seasonal outdoor play area included in general admission at no extra charge. Staff were noted for welcoming newcomers with guided walk-throughs, and the club consistently emphasised making first-timers feel comfortable alongside experienced regulars. Weekly parties ran on Fridays (doors at 9:30 pm) and Saturdays (doors at 9:00 pm). The club announced a move to an undisclosed larger location, but no confirmed new address has been publicly identified. As of August 2026, the original Dixie Road premises have been taken over by unrelated businesses, and the club's website is non-functional.

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Michigan Fun Times

Unverified

Detroit, MI

On-Premise Club

Michigan Fun Times (MFT) is a couples-oriented lifestyle social club serving the Detroit metro area, run by two operators as a small hotel-based group rather than from a fixed venue. The club does not publish a street address; its most recent recurring events (early-to-mid 2025) were held at a hotel in Southfield, MI, a Detroit suburb, with the specific location disclosed only after ticket purchase. Parties are structured as themed "Hotel Takeovers" (past editions have included Naughty Cupid, 24K Gold Magic St. Patty's, and Party Like a Playmate nights). The club is BYOB, with hotel common areas remaining clothed/"vanilla" while dedicated playrooms — stocked with a DJ, snacks, mixers, and kink equipment such as a Sybian and St. Andrew's Cross — host the after-hours activity, alongside an outdoor smoke tent. Membership is free but requires an approved online application (couple, single male, or single female) with photo verification before attending any event. A typical event runs Saturday 3:00 PM–2:00 AM, with entry pricing in 2025 consistently listed at $90 per couple, $35 per single female, and $110 per single male.

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Oasis Aqualounge

Toronto, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Oasis Aqualounge is a water-themed, clothing-optional adult spa and social club occupying a 9,000-square-foot restored 19th-century mansion at 231 Mutual Street in downtown Toronto. Open since 2010 to all guests aged 19 and over, the club does not describe itself as a swinger club — it positions as a body-positive, consent-forward venue drawing a broad community: monogamous couples, polyamorous individuals, kink enthusiasts, and guests who want spa facilities in a sex-positive setting without expectation of partner activity. Admission covers a day membership, locker access, and towel service; no separate ongoing membership is required. The crowd typically spans the mid-thirties to mid-fifties, and the venue has been recognised four times as one of Canada's fastest-growing businesses (2019, 2020, 2024, and 2025). The centrepiece is a year-round outdoor heated pool — maintained near 100°F in winter — set within a private courtyard flanked by a hot tub and a dry sauna. Two licensed bars serve alcohol and soft drinks across the property, with poolside patio seating for guests moving between the spa and social areas. Play areas span four floors and include a dungeon equipped with a swing and a St. Andrew's Cross, plus a private room on the fourth floor that any guest can reserve in one-hour increments at no extra charge. Staff known as Aquaflirt hosts circulate throughout, offering tours for first-time visitors and facilitating introductions. A colour-coded silicone wristband system near the entrance lets guests signal their openness to interaction. Oasis is open 1pm to 3am, 362 days a year (last admission 2am; closed Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, and one Monday in December for maintenance). Fridays and Saturdays are reserved for women and couples only; solo men may attend Sunday through Thursday. Approximately once a month — typically the fourth Monday — the club runs Sapphic Aquatica, an event exclusively for women and trans guests. Door prices include HST: solo women pay CAD $15 (Sun–Thu) or $25 (Fri–Sat); couples pay $100 or $115 respectively; solo men pay $100 on eligible weekdays. No outside drinks are permitted. Walk-ins are welcome most nights, though high-demand events may require advance booking via the online ticket calendar.

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Club Bacchus

Dundee, Scotland

On-Premise Club

Club Bacchus occupies a discreet address on Princes Street in Dundee — about five minutes from the bus station and fifteen minutes on foot from Dundee Station — billing itself as Tayside's most stylish and discreet adult lifestyle venue.

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Partners Swingers Club

Bury, Greater Manchester

On-Premise Club

Set on a residential backstreet roughly a mile from Bury town centre in Greater Manchester, Partners has built a reputation as one of the North West's most-visited adult lifestyle clubs. The venue pitches itself as 'the UK's Premier Swingers Club,' having claimed the number one spot in the North West in both 2018 and 2019, and draws visitors from well beyond the region. Management's stated aim is a warm, friendly environment — guests are encouraged to socialise at the bar first and explore at their own pace — and the tone skews inclusive and unhurried rather than nightclub-loud. The club is open six nights a week on a rotating event schedule. Thursday hosts an inclusive bisexual-friendly evening run in partnership with Biphoria; Sunday is the couples and single females night; and weekend themes change week to week. Once a month the dungeon and play spaces are handed over to Kage Club for a dedicated BDSM play event. Standard entry opens at 8pm and runs to 3am, with tiered pricing at the door: couples pay £30 (members £25), single females £10 (members £5), and single males £40 (members £35). The wet zone — a swimming pool, bubbling jacuzzi, traditional sauna, and cool plunge pool — is the headline draw, and the club claims these facilities are unmatched in the UK. Beyond the water, the floor plan runs to a bar lounge with a pool table, group rooms designed for shared enjoyment, private cabins, a couples-only room with an adjoining viewing area, and a fully equipped dungeon. Outside drinks are welcome in the bar and lounge area in a BYOB arrangement. House rules are strictly enforced: consent is the operating principle throughout ('NO means NO'), single males are reminded their attendance is a privilege, cameras and phones are banned in play areas, CCTV covers all public spaces, and smoking is restricted to an outdoor area.

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Kat's Fantasies

South Surrey, British Columbia

On-premise lifestyle club

Kat's Fantasies is a long-running adult lifestyle club operating out of an upscale venue in South Surrey, British Columbia, self-described as Vancouver's hardcore swingclub. The club has been active since approximately 2007 and operates by screened membership only — no walk-ins — with free membership granted after a short application process including a photo submission. The guest mix trends toward couples and single women in the 35–50 age range and screened single men aged 19–55, with attendance ranging from roughly 20 to 75 per event depending on the night. The venue features a dance floor, DJ booth, pool table, two private rooms, and a large open orgy room equipped with a sex swing and a signature wall of porn. Two no-play socializing lounges allow guests to meet and mix without pressure. Massage tables and oils are available, and overnight accommodation is offered on-site: private queen rooms at CAD $60 per couple and open beds at CAD $40 per couple. The club operates on a BYOB basis; complimentary coffee, tea, filtered water, and light snacks are provided along with condoms and lube. The events calendar runs across several formats: Greedy Girl (one to two Saturdays monthly, 8PM–1AM); Fuck Me Friday (one to two Fridays monthly, 8PM–midnight); Bi Night (monthly Friday or Saturday, 8PM–midnight or 1AM); Cougars & Cubs (monthly Friday, 8PM–midnight); Hump Day Happy Hour (Wednesday, 7–11PM, October–May); and Sunday Afternoon Delight (Sunday, 2–6PM, October–May). Donation pricing varies by event — for flagship nights, couples pay CAD $50 advance or $70 at door; single men pay $60 advance or $80 at door; single ladies pay $20. Midweek and Sunday events are lower. Guests must arrive within a set check-in window and may not re-enter after leaving.

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Leisure with Pleasure

Unverified

Unverified

Dallas, TX

On-Premise Club

colette Dallas is the chain's high-energy Texas flagship — a private, members-only on-premise lifestyle club spanning 8,000+ square feet across two floors in northwest Dallas, near Love Field. The aesthetic is modern warehouse meets nightclub: a dance floor anchored by stripper poles and a stage, high-tech lighting and sound, and a curated upscale crowd that takes the dress code seriously. The Dallas Observer ranked colette first in its "Best Swingers Clubs Dallas" feature, and SwingerLifestyle.com puts it at #2 across all of Texas — the most prominent on-premise lifestyle venue in Dallas–Fort Worth. Play spaces are tiered three ways: semi-private rooms with sheer curtains, fully private rooms with blackout curtains, and a centerpiece group play room with a round bed and spectator seating. There's also an in-club movie theater showing adult films, a quieter second-floor lounge, and a VIP room rentable for private parties of up to 30 ($500–$1,000) — a perk Texas reviewers consistently call best in the state. The bar is BYOB — no liquor license, but free mixers, ice, and setups are provided, plus a beverage cooler for member use. Newbie Night runs every Wednesday with the membership fee waived for first-timers; staff give every newcomer a guided tour on arrival. colette is a national chain founded by John and Jackie Melfi (who also run the OpenLove101 lifestyle blog and podcast). The Dallas location opened in 2012 and connects into a 250,000+ member network across five cities — Dallas, Austin, Houston, New Orleans, and San Antonio. One membership works at all of them. Single men are welcome Wednesday through Friday; Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only. Recurring themed nights include Pantiless Fridays, Thirty Dollar Thursday, and rotating fetish, lingerie, and costume parties — and i.Candy Parties hosts large monthly events at the venue throughout the year.

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EyS Nightclub

Unverified

Hamburg, Hamburg

On-Premise Club

EyS occupies the first floor of an unremarkable building on Bramfelder Strasse in Hamburg Barmbek-Nord. Owners Caiti and Chris have leaned hard into 1990s nightclub aesthetics: a non-smoking main bar room of around 60 square metres packed with sofas, seating nooks, and a bar, plus a larger smoking lounge of approximately 80 square metres. A mini-boutique near the entrance sells frivolous clothing, jewellery, and adult toys. The overall feel is of a neighbourhood bar that happens to have playrooms tucked behind it, rather than a sex venue that happens to have a bar. There is no formal entry fee — just a drink minimum (first drink €10–15, gender-priced) — and single men are admitted subject to gender balance on the night, with groups of more than two men not admitted.

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Mitch's Place

Jacksonville, FL

On-Premise Club

Mitch's Place is a long-running on-premises house party tucked into a residential pocket of Jacksonville's Southside, identified only by its 32207 zip code until a caller books in. It's run personally by its owner, Mitch, who fields every inquiry himself by phone between 8am and 8pm. The venue occupies a 3-bedroom, 2-bathroom home converted for the lifestyle: a dedicated video room, a bar room, indoor lounge and sitting areas, and a dance floor with a stripper pole set the tone indoors, while an outdoor covered patio with a gas fire pit and a 102-degree enclosed hot tub extend the party outside. On the Fourth of July the party even doubles as a fireworks-viewing spot, visible right from the property. Parties run weekly on Saturdays from 9pm to 2am, with occasional extended hours for holidays. Attendance is restricted to couples and single females 21 and over — the site does not advertise open admission for single men — and new couples and singles are required to call ahead before their first visit, since the address itself is only shared over the phone. The party is BYOB, with a bartender on-site providing cups, ice, mixers, and snacks; towels are supplied for the hot tub, and no drugs are permitted.

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The Red Chair

Birmingham, AL

On-Premise Club

The Red Chair (TRC) is a BDSM and alternative-lifestyle education, social, and advocacy organization serving Central Alabama, based in Birmingham. Founded in November 1997, it describes itself as Alabama's oldest organization of its kind and operates as a 501(c) nonprofit and Coalition Partner of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF). TRC welcomes all sexual orientations and consensual relationship styles, with a mission centered on education, discussion groups, and social events for the BDSM and kink community rather than nightly on-premise play parties. The organization is run by an elected Board of Directors and maintains a dedicated Consent Team, established in 2019, to field concerns and recommend membership action when needed. TRC operated its own roughly 3,500-square-foot clubhouse and dungeon from 2001 to 2005, giving it up after the landlord raised the rent sharply; since then it has held gatherings at rented spaces and members homes rather than a fixed public address. Members in good standing can privately book TRC's current playspace for parties or play sessions, with a Manager on Duty required on-site to oversee any dungeon activity. A long-running subgroup, ALAFF, runs a low-key newcomer-friendly social a couple of times a month. Membership is by invitation: prospective members attend a public munch, open to anyone 19 or older, and complete an orientation before being invited to private, members-only events. Private space rentals cost $200 for a four-hour block, with a fifth hour split between setup and cleanup, and can be canceled up to 48 hours ahead for a full refund. A house safeword, Red, lets attendees end a scene at any time, with dungeon monitors and the Manager on Duty responsible for enforcing it.

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The SPOTT Night Club

Unverified

Kansas City, MO

On-Premise Club

Tucked just off Interstate 70 at 2111 Television Place, The SPOTT Night Club has held its ground as Kansas City's flagship lifestyle and swingers venue for over fifteen years. The facility spans more than 8,000 square feet of indoor and outdoor party and play space. Inside, a 625-square-foot dance floor anchors the main hall, flanked by five dance poles, ten Las Vegas-style VIP booths, LED-lit glass bar-height tables, and an upper balcony that overlooks the action below. A 15x25-foot HD projection screen and Peavey surround sound fill the room, while a live DJ/VJ spins requests. On an average Saturday the crowd tops 300 guests — couples, single females, and a capped number of single men — and reviewers consistently describe the vibe as warm, polite, and pressure-free. The SPOTT runs every Saturday from 8:30 pm to 5:00 am with a different theme each week. The venue is strictly 21+ with no exceptions. Admission is tiered: couples pay $30 in advance or $40 at the door; single females $15/$20; single males $40 in advance, $50 at the door before 10:30 pm or $75 after. No printed ticket required — a valid ID at check-in suffices. No re-entry after 12:30 am. Play spaces include three private colour-themed lounges (Red, Blue, Green), a small open lounge, and a large group lounge with a voyeur viewing area. Outdoors, the WETTSPOTT area offers a 16x32-foot heated pool, an eight-person hot tub, five cushioned gazebos, and fire tables — open from St Patrick's Day to Halloween. Fully BYOB; complimentary Coke and Pepsi products provided, coolers welcome.

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Probe Ottawa

Ottawa, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Probe Ottawa is a queer-owned and operated private members club occupying the 3rd and 4th floors of 41 York St in Ottawa's Byward Market district. Founded through the vision of Miel Nannini, the club describes its core values as "exploration, community, inclusivity and accessibility," positioning itself as a multi-purpose community hub for consensual kink and adult connection rather than a conventional lifestyle venue. It operates as a private members-only space under Ontario law and maintains an active presence on Facebook, FetLife, and Instagram. The venue spans approximately 3,200 square feet across two floors with distinct characters. The 4th floor holds an open dungeon space with a custom suspension frame, a loft, and a kitchen, and serves as the main check-in point reached via an in-building elevator. The 3rd floor offers a series of more intimate rooms suited to smaller groups and private play. Showers, cleaning supplies, and fresh linens are provided throughout; members are responsible for changing sheets after each use. Probe works alongside an on-site accessibility coordinator and the entire venue is elevator-accessible and wheelchair accessible. The space is scent-free, and the programming reflects that commitment to access: a recurring "Soft and Low Play Party" format is designed specifically for attendees with sensory processing disorders or chemical sensitivities, featuring whisper-only guidelines, dim lighting, no music, and complimentary ear plugs. Probe operates only when events are scheduled — any day of the week between 8am and 2am — rather than on a fixed weekly calendar. Programming is broad: regular offerings include play parties, rope hangouts, impact labs, kink workshops, educational classes, community socials (including aromantic/asexual and queer-specific groups), trivia nights, and kinky life drawing. Most play parties require a current Probe membership; memberships run CAD $40 for three months or $120 for a year, with a $10 temporary 24-hour membership available at the door. Event tickets are typically offered on a sliding scale — Supported ($15), Sustain ($20), Standard ($25), Generous ($30), and Benevolent ($35) — so that pricing is not a barrier. The entry door locks by midnight at the latest, and new members attending their first play party must arrive within the first two hours of the event. No alcohol is sold on site and BYOB is not permitted; non-alcoholic drinks and snacks are provided at play parties.

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Club 101

Dayton, OH

On-Premise Club

Club 101 has been Dayton's oldest on-premise members-only lifestyle club for roughly 25 years, anchored at 101 Avondale Drive in a discreet building with private parking. The layout centres on a large open main room with a dance floor, DJ booth, pool table, and adult movie lounge with couches — the club takes evident pride in its DJ show, billing it as the best of any area lifestyle venue. Off the social floor, the space branches into five private rooms sized for one or two couples, two semi-private rooms with windows designed for optional exhibitionism, one large open group room, a slightly smaller group room with a mirrored wall, and a massage table room with BDSM possibilities. Showers, lockers, and a cooler for BYOB drinks round out the practical amenities, with free snacks and soda on hand throughout the night. The crowd skews toward mature, consenting adults — beginners and veterans alike — and the no-pressure ethos is reinforced at every level, from signage to staff. The club is active on Swingtowns, SDC, SLS, SZC, and Fetlife, and maintains a lively theme-party calendar (past events include a Denim & Diamonds Glowy Party and Pasties & Panties nights). In a public-health gesture, management partners with Shameless Care to offer members a free STI education course and supplies.

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Sinners Den

Indio, CA

On-Premise Club

Sinners Den is an on-premise adult lifestyle club in Indio, California, operating as a private, membership-based venue for the swinger and kink community. It welcomes adults 18 and older regardless of body type, ethnicity, or experience level. The street address is not published; confirmed members are sent the location directly before each event. The venue has 17 private bedrooms — five indoors and twelve poolside cabanas — arranged around an enclosed, heated saltwater pool with an adjoining fire pit and smoking area. A separate dungeon room holds a king-size bed, a spreader bar, four tie-down benches, and suspension pulleys, and a dance floor features a stripper pole and stage. The main area includes an all-glass shower with five showerheads, male and female glory holes, and two bars — one indoor, one poolside — serving only mixers, since the club does not sell or supply alcohol. Parties run Saturdays from 9 p.m. to 2 a.m., the only schedule currently published. Entry requires an approved membership application, filed online in advance (including a photo) or completed at an in-person sign-in table before entry. Minimum age is 18, or 21 to bring personal alcohol under the club's BYOB policy. Admission covers food, water, soda, mixers, towels, two sizes of condoms, lubricant, and on-site hostess and security staff; no membership fee or cover charge is published.

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Club Play

Blackpool, Lancashire

On-Premise Club

Club Play is a private members swingers club deliberately concealed off Back of Ribble Road in central Blackpool, Lancashire. To find it, look for Adams market on the corner of Ribble Road and Central Drive, follow the alleyway past the back of the Tesco Express, and watch for the lit Club Play sign halfway along — a wooden gate beneath it marks the entrance. Free lifetime membership is offered to all with no joining or ongoing fees, and the club positions itself as broadly inclusive, welcoming couples, single women, single men, and trans, crossdressing, and non-binary members. The online community counts over eleven thousand registered members. The venue is divided into two distinct zones. The play area includes The Stage, a Couples Orgy Room, a Burlesque Room, a Bi Orgy Room, a Voyeur Room, a Massage Spa Play Room, a Neon UV Room, a Cinema Room, a BDSM and Kink Room, The Dungeon, The Kink Room, and male and female glory holes, with The Snug serving as a quieter lounge space. The wet and social zone adds a pool and hot tub room, sauna, showers, and a dedicated TGirl changing room. Free condoms are provided throughout the club. The age range of attendees is wide — the club's own Q&A notes guests from their twenties into their seventies — and the atmosphere is explicitly non-pressured: no one is obliged to participate in anything, and newcomers are offered a guided tour of the building before 11pm. Regular sessions run Friday and Saturday nights, 8pm to 3am, with last entry at 1am. Selected Bank Holiday Sundays open from 2pm to 2am; specific dates are listed in the club's events section. Club Play is a BYOB venue — guests bring their own alcohol, which staff will serve back to them, while soft drinks are available to purchase at the bar (outside soft drinks are not permitted). Payment is cash only; no card payments are accepted. ID is not required unless a guest appears under 21. Lockers are available for clothing and valuables at the guest's own risk. BDSM and kink events operate under RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) and SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual) principles.

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Saints & Sinners Philly

Philadelphia, PA

On-Premise Club

Saints & Sinners Philly operates two locations across the city - the original spot tucked behind an unmarked building on Emery Street in Port Richmond, entered through a back door and sitting in the shadow of I-95, and a second venue on Frankford Avenue in Northeast Philadelphia. The Emery Street location spans 6,000 sq ft across three floors: upstairs is the nightclub proper with a bar, dance floor, stripper pole, flat-screen TVs, and a food buffet; downstairs is a warren of private, semi-private, open, and group play areas with a full bar, lockers, and showers. The Frankford Avenue outpost has a 45-foot main bar, multiple bottle bars, a dance floor, pool tables, and VIP seating. The weekly calendar runs Friday and Saturday 9pm-3am, last entry 1am. Fridays go under the Fishnet Fridays banner. Monthly Newbie Nights welcome first-timers and regulars, and Kinky Karaoke Nights invite guests to bring their own bottles. Wed-Fri the door is open to couples, single ladies, and screened single men; Saturdays are couples and single women only. The crowd is diverse in age and experience with a vibe that leans more party-house than clinical sex club. Free parking sits across the street at Emery and right out front at Frankford.

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Samantha's Place

Unverified

Unverified

Hamburg, Hamburg

On-Premise Club

PSP — Privates Pärchen und Single Paradies (Private Couples and Singles Paradise) — is a long-running swinger club in Hamburg's Altona-Nord district, set on Stresemannstrasse roughly two kilometres west of the St. Pauli entertainment quarter. Owner Monika Panßner has operated the venue for more than eighteen years under the tagline "Der Swingerclub mit Herz" (the swinger club with heart), deliberately positioning it as an intimate, unhurried alternative in a city with a busy erotic-club scene. The club occupies approximately 920 square metres and enforces a ceiling of around 100 guests, keeping the space consistently uncrowded. The layout includes multiple individually decorated themed rooms — among them a St. Pauli-inspired area, a red room (Rotes Zimmer), and a four-poster bed — alongside open play areas, a sauna, a bistro, an Erotik Lounge, massage facilities, a wellness area, a stage, and changing rooms. Third-party listings and the club's own archived materials describe the clientele as "niveauvolles Publikum" — a mix of couples and singles who set a discreet, convivial tone. The club opens Wednesday through Sunday; Friday and Saturday nights run from 20:00 to 04:00, and Sundays from 16:00 to 23:00. Wednesday and Thursday evenings open at 19:00, closing at 01:00. Admission is €40 per couple, €10 for single women, and €80 for single men. Payment by cash or debit card is accepted at the door.

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Das Parkschloss

Marsberg, North Rhine-Westphalia

On-Premise Club

Das Parkschloss is one of the oldest and most established sauna clubs in Germany, proudly claiming to be the number-one club in the Sauerland region for over 30 years. The facility features multiple saunas including a 100°C Finnish sauna and a 65°C bio sauna, an outdoor pool, a wood-heated outdoor whirlpool, a large indoor whirlpool, and exclusive rooms with private bathtubs. Themed event days, a freshly prepared buffet, and soft drinks included with entry make it a well-rounded destination for adult leisure.

Schloss Trebbichau

On-Premise Club

Avarus is widely regarded as one of the most beautiful swingers clubs in Berlin, hidden away on the 5th floor of an apartment building in the Wedding district. Step inside and you'll find an elegant world of premium wellness — Finnish sauna, Roman steam bath, a love pool serviced by a 36,000-litre-per-hour filtration system, and an experience shower — seamlessly blended with stylish play areas and intimate social spaces. Every visit is all-inclusive: entry covers all drinks and a hot & cold buffet, so there's nothing to think about but enjoying the evening. The event calendar keeps things fresh with couples-only Saturdays, Orgasm Nights, Bi-Parties, Darkroom Parties, and BDSM nights in the adjacent Menagerie venue. The signature "Chocolate Sunday" — featuring edible liquid chocolate in the steam bath — is an experience you won't find anywhere else. Staff speaks English and the club warmly welcomes international guests alongside its loyal local crowd. The house philosophy says it all: everything is allowed, nothing is mandatory. LGBTQ+ friendly. Couples and newbie friendly.

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Club Equinoxe

Hamburg, Hamburg

On-Premise Club

Club Equinoxe occupies a converted former cinema on Eiffestrasse 584 in Hamburg's Hamm district, billing itself as northern Germany's largest swinger club. The venue spans roughly 1,000 square metres across three distinct areas, running parties every Friday and Saturday for couples, single women, and a managed quota of single men, set to weekly DJ sets and a rotating calendar of themed nights. The main room is a large discotheque with an elevated mezzanine lounge and dedicated dance floor, centred on a fully licensed cocktail bar. Beyond the dance floor the space extends into lockable changing rooms with individual lockers, shower facilities stocked with complimentary hygiene products, an SM play area, and a series of private separees. Towels and condoms are provided throughout. The dress code is applied without compromise at the entrance - sexy or formal-elegant attire is the baseline - and entry staff assess footwear as part of the check, with no negotiation on the door. All payments are cash only, at the door and at the bar. Doors open at 21:00 on both nights, closing at 03:00 on Fridays and 04:00 on Saturdays. The event calendar rotates through recurring formats including Never Bi Alone (a bi-inclusive Friday), cocktail-and-Latin evenings, dance-and-erotic parties, and the age-capped Young & Selected gatherings for guests up to 39. The minimum age throughout is 21. Single men must register online in advance, but a confirmed booking is not a guaranteed entry pass - final admission is decided at the door based on the prevailing gender balance - and no-shows are permanently banned from the booking system. Unsolicited touching is prohibited without exception, with violations resulting in immediate and permanent exclusion.

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Cheers Hamburg

Hamburg, Hamburg

On-Premise Club

Pärchenclub Namenlos

Unverified

Rosenow, Mecklenburg-Western Pomerania

On-Premise Club

Pärchenclub Namenlos sits in the hamlet of Schwandt within the municipality of Rosenow, a rural pocket of Mecklenburg-Western Pomerania roughly 25 kilometres southeast of Neubrandenburg. Owner Monika Peters, originally from Rostock, has run the venue since around 2000, building up a regular following drawn from across the Mecklenburgische Seenplatte lake district. The name — Namenlos, meaning nameless — belies its local standing: despite the remote address on Platz der Zukunft, the club has become a steady destination for couples from Demmin, Neubrandenburg, and the wider region. The venue spans roughly 200 square metres and runs on candles alone — no overhead lighting is used anywhere in the space. A bar and buffet form the social heart of the room, while a whirlpool and sauna offer a slower-paced alternative. Open communal play areas (Spielwiesen) share the floor with a number of private booths (Separees) for couples who prefer seclusion. The atmosphere is warm and unhurried rather than nightclub-like; Peters has described a typical evening as a mix of regulars, first-timers who often observe before engaging, and couples passing through the Seenplatte tourist corridor. Namenlos opens on Friday and Saturday evenings only, with an annual Women's Day event (Frauentag) among the regular fixtures on the calendar. No independently verified entry price is on record. The club's operating philosophy is captured in two stated maxims: Alles kann, nichts muss (everything is possible, nothing is mandatory) and Die weiblichen Gäste sind kein Freiwild (female guests are not fair game).

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Swingerclub Savannah

Zwochau, Saxony

On-Premise Club

Swingerclub Savannah occupies a purpose-built venue in Zwochau, a small Saxon village roughly 20 kilometres north of Leipzig near Wiedemar, and operates under Savannah GmbH. The club has established a strong reputation across the eastern German lifestyle scene — regulars on review platforms describe it as 'der beste im Osten Deutschlands' — and draws up to 200 guests per night, with an average age squarely in the mid-to-late thirties. Free parking sits directly in front of the building, an on-site club hotel accommodates overnight stays, and the rural location lends the place the feel of a considered retreat rather than a city-centre nightclub. The 850 m² building is organised around a central bar and dance floor, flanked by self-service drink stations stocked with water, prosecco, and beer; cocktails and a broad selection of spirits are served from the bar, and the all-inclusive entry price covers everything except premium champagne and certain luxury labels. A buffet — spanning hot dishes, vegan options, and sweets — is continuously restocked until around 2 a.m. The wellness area adds a sauna, an indoor whirlpool, and an outdoor jacuzzi on a heated terrace, while a separate outdoor smoking area keeps the interior smoke-free throughout. Play spaces run to roughly twenty rooms in different configurations: lockable private rooms, a mirror room, a darkroom, a cinema room, a voyeur room, a massage area, an SM/BDSM zone fitted with a cage and a gynaecological chair, and open areas spread across large mattresses. Towels, lotions, and condoms are provided throughout. One golocal reviewer described the ambiance as 'betörendes Licht, leise Musik und angenehme Düfte' (enchanting light, soft music, pleasant scents), and staff run a rigorous cleaning rotation between uses. Regular party nights run Friday and Saturday, doors opening at 20:00 and running to 03:00. Entry is all-inclusive and priced accordingly: approximately €130–140 for couples, €120–130 for single men, and €49–55 for single women; JoyClub members receive a modest discount. Tickets are booked in advance through savannah-club.com, which also lists the schedule of themed evenings — including periodic Wellness Sunday sessions — held throughout the year. On arrival, the owners personally greet every first-time visitor and walk them through the full venue. The dress code is applied strictly at the door: men in black dress trousers, a dress shirt, and closed shoes; women in a little black dress, lingerie, or equivalently dressed-up attire.

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Club Love Ltd

Bristol, Bristol

On-Premise Club

Club Love Ltd is a queer-owned, sex-positive members club rooted in Bristol's underground kink and fetish scene. Founded and run by a queer team, it describes itself as a space where underground clubbing, queer liberation, and uninhibited self-expression collide. Events are held at The Loco Klub, a venue occupying the Victorian former Ash Pits beneath Bristol Temple Meads at Clock Tower Yard, BS1 6QH — a network of sprawling brick tunnels and raw industrial architecture that gives the nights a distinctly immersive, subterranean character. Annual membership is mandatory for main events and is subject to a safeguarding screening process; the team evaluates each application to confirm that prospective members understand the club's guidelines and ethos before approving access. Membership costs £38 plus VAT, paid in person at an event. The club operates three recurring event strands. The flagship Club Love nights run roughly monthly on Fridays or Saturdays, from 22:00 to 04:00, and are open to all approved members and their guests. The venue is configured with a main dance floor — music is curated by DJs spanning house, disco, tech house and breaks, with an emphasis on LGBTQI+ artists — alongside dedicated play spaces that include a fully rigged dungeon. Climax Clique is a separate strand for FLINTA attendees (Femme, Lesbian, Intersex, Non-binary, Trans, Agender), running quarterly. Cottage, the third strand, is a cruising space and play party for cis and trans men and non-binary people aligned with gay male culture. A queer-led wellbeing team, trained by Bristol Drugs Project and Bristol Nights, staffs every event, and a traffic light safeword system (green, amber, red) operates across all shared play spaces. Condoms, dams, lube and safer-sex supplies are provided; solo entry into play spaces is not permitted, and staff assess sobriety and consent at the entrance to those areas. Dress code is strictly enforced: leather, PVC, latex, rubber, mesh, harnesses, drag, and fetish or kink-coded attire are the standard; everyday streetwear, denim, tracksuits and plain T-shirts are not admitted. A no-phones policy is absolute — devices must remain out of sight at all times, with immediate ejection and a permanent ban the consequence of any photography or recording. All events are 20-plus with valid photographic ID required. Tickets for each event are purchased separately via Headfirst Bristol; membership applications close at 5 pm the day before each event, and each member may bring one guest who must enter alongside them.

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Secrets for Sharing

Totnes, Devon

On-Premise Club

Secrets for Sharing is a monthly lifestyle event held at a private country house set in the South Devon countryside near Littlehempston, on the outskirts of Totnes. Drawing couples and single women from across Devon, Cornwall and Somerset, it occupies a discreet rural setting whose exact address is released only to confirmed guests. The organisers' approach — no memberships, no sign-up formalities — positions it as an unusually low-barrier entry point into the South West's lifestyle scene, with an emphasis on warmth and genuine connection rather than club-night ceremony. The venue is well-equipped for a full evening and optional overnight stay. A wet area comprises a ten-seat sauna, six-seat hot tub, massage area and shower facilities with towels and lockers. Social spaces run to three chill-out lounges — one screening adult films — and a dance room with pole, while a heated covered outdoor deck provides a sheltered spot away from the main rooms. The play areas divide between a downstairs communal playroom and grope room fitted with a cage, and an upper level holding an XXX cinema room, a love-swing room and three privately lockable themed rooms, among them a 'Trailer Trash'-styled space. A licensed bar operates at below-pub prices throughout the evening, and a complimentary finger buffet is included in the entry price. Events run on the third Saturday of each month, doors opening at 20:00. Entry is £70 per couple and £35 for single women; single men are not admitted. No membership is required — guests reserve a place by phone or email and pay on arrival. An overnight stay at the property is available for those who wish to use it. The dress code calls for smart casual attire from the gentlemen and sexy, stylish dress from the ladies.

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Ignite Club

West Drayton, London

On-Premise Club

Ignite Club occupies a converted commercial building at 422 Bath Road in Longford, immediately next door to the T5 Premier Inn on the edge of Heathrow Airport's perimeter — a location that draws a mixed clientele of international travellers and local regulars alike. Formerly operating under the name AbFab (and, earlier, Kestrels), the venue now runs as a private members' club with two distinct identities: a naturist day spa open most days of the week and a programmed swinger and lifestyle events venue on Friday and Saturday evenings. The social areas include a licensed bar, a lounge, and a dance floor. Wet facilities centre on a large heated pool alongside hot tubs, a sauna, a steam room, and showers, with lockers and on-site parking available. Play spaces encompass private cabin rooms, a couples-and-ladies-only room, a dark room, and a kink-equipped dungeon. The club presents itself as body-positive and consent-driven. LGBTQ+ programming is a regular fixture: Monday evenings host a clothing-optional bi-night and Wednesday evenings run clothing-optional sessions open to all members. Themed weekend parties — Flirt and Fling nights, Asian Darkside events, and seasonal BBQ evenings — supplement the standard Friday and Saturday schedule. The naturist spa operates Monday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, and Sunday from 11am. Evening parties run Fridays and Saturdays from 9pm to 2am, with last entry at 11:30pm. Standard evening admission is £40 per couple and £17 for solo women; solo men pay £50 plus a compulsory £10 deposit and must pre-book via a guest list that opens each Monday at 9am. Some Saturday nights are reserved for couples and single ladies only at £50 per couple, from which single men are excluded entirely. Annual membership costs £25 per person; new members must present two forms of ID on first visit. The club defines couples as male and female only.

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Our Place 4 Fun

London, London

On-Premise Club

Our Place 4 Fun — known to regulars as OP4F — is a members-only lifestyle and swingers club in London's N22 postcode, situated within easy reach of Alexandra Palace and Wood Green. Operating continuously for at least two decades, the venue bills itself as one of London's friendliest lifestyle clubs and welcomes couples, single women, and a limited number of single men aged 21 and over. All new attendees must register online before their first visit; membership is free, and entry on the night requires a separately purchased ticket. The playspace is compact and intimate — capacity sits at roughly 30 to 60 guests — and is laid out across multiple themed areas entered through a discreet buzzer-entry door. Inside there is a chill-out lounge, a pole-dance zone, a grope room, a dedicated dark room, a BDSM dungeon equipped with a St. Andrew's cross, large communal play beds, and glory holes. Practical amenities include a soft-drink bar, lockers, changing facilities, air conditioning, and a designated outdoor smoking space. Alcohol is strictly BYOB — spirits, wine, beer, and cider are permitted; pre-mixed drinks are not allowed and soft drinks must be purchased at the bar. Themed nights run across four evenings per week: Fridays host Frisky Friday Frolics (22:00–05:00), Saturdays run the Cloud 9 Sexy Saturday party (22:00–05:00), Tuesdays host the Greedy Girls Night (22:00–03:00), and Sundays hold Sunday Kinks (22:00–03:00); a monthly BDSM session takes place on select Thursdays. No walk-ins are permitted — entry requires a pre-booked ticket and prior online registration. Dress code is smart casual at minimum; lingerie, corsets, and fetish wear are strongly encouraged in play areas, and sportswear of any kind is prohibited.

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Within Temptation

Torquay, Devon

On-Premise Club

Within Temptation is a licensed swingers and kink club on Lower Union Lane, a side street in central Torquay, Devon. Holding a Sex Entertainment Venue Licence granted by Torbay Council in May 2024, the venue has operated at this site since 2021. It caters to couples, single women, and — on most events — single men in a consent-focused adult social environment that mixes swinging and BDSM/fetish interests under one roof. The space runs across two floors. Ground level holds a fully licensed bar with a VIP section and table service, a dance floor, a pole lounge, a beer garden, a heated indoor pool (10–14 person capacity), a sauna (6–8 person capacity), and a dungeon fitted with a St Andrews Cross, Tau Chair, O Tower, and play benches; a disabled toilet and full wheelchair access serve this level. The upstairs play floor holds six gloryholes, two private playrooms (one en-suite), an open group bed, a first-floor stage area, and a 12-person communal shower. Microfibre towels are complimentary, robes and fluffy towels are available for £1 each, lockers operate on a key-exchange basis, and condoms and lubricant are provided throughout. The main programme runs Friday and Saturday, 20:00 to 02:00, with last entry at 23:30 (midnight by arrangement). The calendar rotates weekly-themed nights: Newbie Night, Bi-Gasm (couples and women; single men by invitation only), Bare Bones kink parties (no single men), and Hotwife's Hunger (free entry for women verified via FabSwingers). Private hire is available on weekdays. From September 2026 membership is compulsory: annual passes cost £30 (women), £50 (couples), or £60 (single men); four-month passes cost £15, £25, or £30 respectively. Day passes, which include membership and entry, are £15 for women and £40 for couples or single men. Single men are admitted subject to a strict gender-ratio cap and are advised to arrive promptly at opening.

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Route 69

Weston-super-Mare, Somerset

On-Premise Club

Route 69 occupies a basement space on the High Street in central Weston-super-Mare, Somerset — a long-running licensed lifestyle venue that bills itself as the South West's Friendliest Adult Club. The venue operates on a deliberately compact model, non-pushy in its approach, with staff who personally walk first-time visitors around the space before the evening gets under way. It welcomes straight and LGBT+ guests alike and pitches its atmosphere firmly on the social side of the spectrum. The venue is arranged around a lounge with a fully licensed bar, three lockable playrooms — one of which incorporates a gloryhole with a coverable viewing window — and a dungeon equipped with a St Andrew's Cross, a play swing, and stocks. Lockers are available on a key-swap system, and a heated, covered outdoor smoking area sits at the rear of the building. Towels, lube, wipes and condoms are stocked in every playroom; cock rings and wax candles are available at the bar. CCTV covers the social areas, though there are no showers on site. Themed nights — Greedy Girls evenings, BDSM nights, bi nights and monthly special parties — run through the calendar alongside regular weekly sessions. The club operates sessions on Fridays and Saturdays from 20:00 to 02:00, and Sundays from 14:00 to 22:00; last entry is two hours before closing in all cases. All entry requires advance booking through Eventbrite; the venue no longer accepts walk-ins or phone bookings. The minimum age is 25. Single-male attendance is permitted but numbers are capped per session, and early booking is advised. Entry pricing on Fridays and Saturdays is £35 for single men, £25 for couples, £15 for TS/TV guests, and £10 for single women; Sunday rates are exactly half.

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The Ecclesia

Glasgow, Scotland

On-Premise Club

The Ecclesia is a Glasgow city centre lifestyle and kink club combining swinging and BDSM/fetish communities under one roof. Founded in 2017 by event organisers with a background running alternative-lifestyle events across Scotland — including the Breaking Point annual event in Perth and club nights in Dundee — the venue opened in Glasgow in late 2019 following the closure of the city's long-running Sauchiehall Street dungeon. The club operates in the Hope Street and Merchant City area of the city centre on a near-community, non-profit basis. The venue spans nearly 3,000 sq ft across two connected spaces. A penthouse dungeon of around 500 sq ft across two rooms is equipped with a custom suspension murphy bed, suspension platforms, fetters wheels, bondage thrones, St Andrews crosses, cages, Sybian machines, fucking machines, and a rope tie platform. Social spaces are kept separate from the playrooms. Condoms, lubricant, and cleaning supplies are stocked throughout. A mandatory safety briefing precedes every event and a consent policy — with house safeword 'RED' — is enforced venue-wide. The event calendar includes Fun for All (FFA) mixed nights open to couples, singles, and groups (typically 8pm to midnight); Greedy Girls Gangbang nights; dedicated LGBT nights; ladies-only evenings; TV/CD admirer nights; kink workshops including rope education (typically 3pm to 8pm); and social speed-dating evenings with play-permitted afterparties. Private dungeon hire is available at £40 per hour or £200 for a full day. All tickets are sold in advance on a guestlist-only basis — the physical address is released only to confirmed attendees — and are non-refundable and non-transferable. Challenge 25 is enforced at the door.

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Decadance

Rochdale, Greater Manchester

On-Premise Club

Decadance is a three-floor swingers club at 122 Durham Street in Rochdale, Greater Manchester, that has been operating for over a decade — its fourteenth birthday falls in September 2026. The club runs on a no-membership, no-guestlist model and opens four nights a week. Self-described as female-run, it centres its ethos on consent, safety, and a relaxed social atmosphere. The venue spans three floors of a converted building. The ground floor holds a fully licensed bar, a pool table, toilets, and sauna; the first floor, reached by a steep staircase, contains the playrooms, shower facilities, and an outdoor balcony — the designated smoking area and the only space where mobile phones may be used. The basement is reached via a very steep curved staircase and houses the BDSM dungeon. Towels, lockers, and condoms are included in the entry price, as is pool-table use. Photography and recording are banned throughout the venue. The weekly schedule runs Monday Funday (13:00–18:00), Friday Night Madness (20:00–02:00), SeXXXy Saturday (20:00–02:00), and Spicy Sunday (15:00–22:00). The first Friday of each month hosts a dedicated newcomer night called Cherry Popper. No membership is required. Entry is £25 for single men (£20 on Sundays and Mondays), £15 for couples (£10 on Sundays and Mondays), £10 for trans guests, and always free for single women. A Challenge 25 ID policy is in operation; only passports and driving licences are accepted. Casual dress is permitted in the bar and social areas, but playroom access requires changing into underwear, a towel, fetish wear, or nudity — street clothes are not allowed upstairs. A zero-tolerance drugs policy results in a lifetime ban and referral to police.

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Maxwell Manor

Chorley, Lancashire

On-Premise Club

Maxwell Manor occupies the converted shell of the former Potters Arms pub on Brooke Street in Chorley, Lancashire, a community local that served the town for more than thirty-five years before closing in September 2024. Opened in 2025 by Liana Rainford and Patrick Wolff, the venue operates as a members-only adult social club with an explicitly inclusive ethos — describing itself as a safe space open to straight, gay, bi, trans, queer, pansexual, kinky, asexual, and curious members alike. The original pub frontage has been bricked up; guests arrive discreetly through a rear entrance. The interior has been refurbished with themed sets and bespoke furnishings, and the venue holds a full premises licence for alcohol and entertainment. A licensed bar operates at every event, and on-site lockers store members belongings — phones must be deposited for the entire visit. The space doubles as a professional photography and videography studio available for separate hire. On-site parking is limited; paid car parks are available nearby, and several hotels are within easy reach for travelling members. The programme runs to 2am and covers ticketed club nights, play parties, and workshops. Recurring formats include singles nights, couples-only gatherings, all-female club nights, kink and fetish play parties, FemDom evenings, and dominance workshops. Attendance requires annual membership: £20 for single women, £25 for single men, and £35 for couples, with an additional charge for specialist event nights. Event tickets are non-refundable, must match the members name exactly, and dress codes vary per event as detailed on individual tickets.

Newcastle upon Tyne, Tyne and Wear

On-Premise Club

Shhh Newcastle Swingers Club occupies a multi-storey premises at 85-89 Blandford Street in Newcastle city centre, roughly five minutes' walk from both Newcastle Central rail station and the Tyne and Wear Metro. Operating since 2018 and formerly trading as Shhh... by Base, the club underwent a full refurbishment in 2021 — installing a new jacuzzi, updating the playrooms, and adding a discreet rear entrance — and bills itself as the only venue of its kind in Newcastle upon Tyne. With a stated capacity of 200, the club places a strong emphasis on inclusivity: the space is LGBTQ+-welcoming and explicitly trans-friendly, with reduced or complimentary entry for trans guests on most nights. The venue spans two floors. Downstairs sits a fully licensed bar, a lounge, a dance floor, and spacious changing rooms with secure lockers; upstairs are the playrooms — including a cinema room, private zones, and a dungeon — alongside a sauna, steam room, jacuzzi, an internet room, and an outdoor seating area. First-time visitors receive a guided tour before being issued a membership card and locker key. Reviews describe a clean, no-pressure atmosphere with staff consistently praised for attentiveness to safety and comfort. Complimentary condoms (standard, king-size, and latex-free), lubricant, and dental dams are provided at reception and throughout the bar; the first towel is free and additional towels are £1 each. Overnight stays are available on party and fetish nights, with private or shared rooms at £15 per person and morning refreshments served between 9am and 11am. The club runs Wednesday through Sunday. Wednesday afternoons host a mixed swingers session (couples £20, singles £10); Thursday is a Flip Flop bisex night (couples £10, singles £5, trans guests free); Friday's #FetishFriday admits couples at £10, single women at £5, and single men at £20; Saturday's Swingers Circus is the main weekly event (couples and single men £25, women £10); and Sunday is a men-only play day. On Friday fetish and Saturday nights, guests may supplement the licensed bar with their own alcohol for a £2.50 corkage fee. Membership requires completing an application form and presenting valid photo ID: a driving licence showing the current address is preferred and sufficient alone, while a passport must be accompanied by a utility bill, council tax bill, or bank statement. Before 11pm the dress code is smart and glamorous; after 11pm, access to upstairs play areas requires appropriate attire — lingerie, a wrap, robe, or towel — and trainers, sportswear, and hoodies are prohibited throughout.

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Club F

Stanley, County Durham

On-Premise Club

Club F is a members-only swinger club at 6 High Street in Stanley, County Durham (DH9 0DQ), which bills itself as the best swingers club in the North East and has been described in local press as the closest venue of its kind to Teesside. Operated as a private membership club rather than a licensed premises, it handles all booking and enquiries by text message only; new members are expected to make contact before their first visit, and annual membership is £30 for couples, single men, and single women alike. The venue includes a bar area alongside on-site hotel accommodation and a set of play spaces that include a dungeon and themed rooms. Because Club F holds no alcohol licence, guests bring their own drinks — a policy the club explicitly cites as keeping prices well below those of a conventional nightclub. Accommodation is available on the night in three tiers: private hotel rooms at £35, shared rooms with two double beds at £30 per couple, and crash accommodation at £15 per person. The atmosphere shifts across the weekend: Friday nights run livelier and attract a higher proportion of singles, while Saturdays are described by management as more relaxed and weighted toward couples. Regular sessions run Friday and Saturday from 8pm to 1:30am. On the first Tuesday of each month, the club hosts Tease Tuesdays, a daytime event from 10am to 2pm with reduced entry — £15 for single men and couples, and complimentary for single women. Additional themed events including a Curvy Club night are promoted through Fab Swingers. Door entry on regular nights is £10 for single women, £25 for single men on Fridays (rising to £35 on Saturdays), and £25 for couples on both nights. Single-male places on Saturday nights are limited and require advance booking.

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Club Labyrinth LA (Hollywood)

Closed

Hollywood, CA

On-Premise Club

Club Labyrinth LA, the Hollywood outpost of the multi-city Labyrinth swinger club brand (alongside locations in Midtown Manhattan and New Jersey), is currently closed. As of the club's own website, the Labyrinth LA events page reads "LABYRINTH LA IS CURRENTLY CLOSED — NEW LOCATION COMING SOON," directing inquiries to info@clublabyrinthla.com and inviting visitors to join a mailing list for updates. No reopening date or new address has been announced. Before closing, the club operated as a members-only, on-premise swinger and fetish venue out of an undisclosed, secluded building in Hollywood. The former space was spread across multiple levels and included group playrooms, semi-private play areas, lounge areas, individual play stations, and a dedicated BDSM play space, alongside a cigarette-smoking area and a complimentary refreshment bar serving soda, juice, water, cups, and ice. The club supplied lockers, condoms, lubricant, and towels, and described its atmosphere as dark, sexually charged, and sensual, welcoming both exhibitionists and voyeurs in a setting it billed as safe, non-judgmental, and low-pressure — guests were never required to participate. Before closing, entry required a paid Labyrinth membership (12-month for $40, 6-month for $30, or 1-week for $20), purchased online in advance, plus a nightly admission fee that varied by night and guest type. Single men needed photo verification or sponsorship by a member couple and paid a premium to help balance gender ratios, while couples were required to arrive and leave together. The club did not sell alcohol — events were BYOB with a one-bottle (or six-pack) limit per membership and a $20 surcharge — and photo ID (driver's license, government ID, or passport) was mandatory at the door.

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Adore Social Club

Closed

Calgary, Alberta

On-Premise Lifestyle Club

Adore Social Club permanently closed, with its address now occupied by KNetic Club South. The club operated at Unit 103, 4116 64 Avenue SE in Calgary's southeast industrial quarter — a screened, members-only lifestyle venue that opened on the thoroughly renovated bones of the former Moonlight Magic space under new ownership. Attracting a crowd that typically spanned their twenties through their fifties, it built a reputation as one of Calgary's more polished on-premise lifestyle destinations before ceasing operations circa 2022. The venue ran to approximately 3,100 square feet across two levels. The main floor set a nightclub tone with large booth seating, a starlit dance floor, a professional DJ booth, and a stripper pole, plus a service bar area stocked with mixers, ice, water, and glassware for the BYOB crowd. Complimentary appetizers — cheese boards, charcuterie, fondue, and themed snacks — were laid out at every event. Upstairs, a lounge with a pool table, darts, and corner booths led into the play area: four king beds (one fitted with wrist and ankle cuffs), a sex swing, semi-private alcoves, a St. Andrew's Cross, and a spanking bench. Towels and condoms were provided throughout; labelled bottle lockers were available at the entrance. Entry required an approved membership: applicants submitted a profile with at least three photographs and were screened on effort and presentation rather than demographics. Single males needed to name a vouching member couple and attend their first event alongside that couple before gaining independent access. Regular events ran every Friday and Saturday, with occasional Wednesday and Sunday specials. The dress code was Dress to Impress. The address is now operated by KNetic Club South (kneticcalgary.club) — verify with that club before visiting.

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Couples Club

Closed

Sydney, New South Wales

On-Premise Club

The Couples Club, which occupied Levels 2 and 3 of a commercial building at 226 Commonwealth Street in Surry Hills, is now permanently closed; Foursquare carries an explicit Now Closed designation and the Cylex-Australia directory independently confirms the closure. The venue had operated as one of Sydney's longest-running lifestyle establishments, trading under the billing of Australia's original and most famous swingers club since the early 1990s and accumulating an estimated 100,000 or more visitor couples over roughly three decades. It drew wider public attention when ABC Radio National's Street Stories programme broadcast a documentary feature about the club, in which the presenter reported finding the clientele frighteningly normal — open, friendly, and indistinguishable from anyone you might encounter on the street. The building's two floors served distinct social functions. The upper level operated as a conventional nightclub-style space: a full-service bar with lounge seating, a pool room, and an outdoor courtyard gave arriving guests a relaxed social setting before they chose to venture further. The lower floor — marketed internally as the Fantasy Level — contained the play spaces: two large open rooms each capable of holding more than twenty people, four smaller private rooms for which a refundable key deposit was collected at the door, a communal spa accommodating up to 25 people, and a dedicated bondage area. Clientele typically spanned the 20s to 50s age range, with Friday and Saturday nights drawing roughly 20 to 30 couples per session.

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Chateau Vino

Closed

Gold Coast, Queensland

On-Premise Club

Long-running Gold Coast swingers club established in 2011, the first council-approved venue of its kind in the area, with nine playrooms including a bondage/fetish room.

Closed

Nashville, TN

On-Premise Club

Permanently closed. Menages Club operated as a private, membership-based lifestyle venue in downtown Nashville from 2000 until 2020, when the building was sold and converted into Drexel House, a homeless shelter run by the nonprofit Room in the Inn. There is no successor lifestyle club at the former address, and no evidence the club relocated or reopened under a different name. While active, the club ran parties Wednesday through Saturday from 8pm and operated BYOB, with mixers, ice, and setups provided at the bar; smoking was not permitted indoors. This listing is kept for historical reference only — the former address is now a residential shelter serving a vulnerable population, so do not attempt to visit.

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Desires Houston

Closed

Houston, TX

On-Premise Club

Desires Houston sat along State Highway 249 in north Houston, tucked into a commercial suite at 14207 SH-249 S, Unit 23. The club positioned itself as a private members-only lifestyle venue catering to open-minded adults, drawing couples and singles from across Texas, Louisiana, and beyond. Reviewers noted a thorough renovation under new management that redid every room, lifting the space into what regulars described as an upscale atmosphere without losing a social, welcoming feel. The club opened Fridays and Saturdays from 10 PM to 5 AM and Sundays from 9 PM to 3 AM, with the rest of the week dark. Entry required membership, purchasable online in advance; walk-in membership was not advertised. The crowd was consistently described as diverse, with the venue operating under an explicit No Means No consent policy emphasising comfort for newcomers and regulars alike. Amenities included a dance floor, private playrooms, live DJ, hookah service, and BYOB arrangements. The venue accepted credit cards and cryptocurrency and was listed as wheelchair accessible. A July 2025 Yelp reviewer reported the owner confirmed permanent closure; prospective visitors should verify current status before travelling.

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R-Place

Closed

Omaha, NE

On-Premise Club

Sitting on Q Street in the heart of South Omaha, R-Place built its reputation as Nebraska's only dedicated on-premise lifestyle club - a privately owned, 4,000-square-foot, three-level building converted into what owners called an elegant upscale classy venue. The main floor centres on a full dance floor with professional DJ booth, state-of-the-art lighting and a sound system, ringed by lounge-style seating and five TVs (including a 60-inch screen). Three leather-furnished living-room social areas give couples and groups a place to mix before venturing further, and the club runs as a strict BYOB bottle club with mixers and soft drinks provided at no charge. The play spaces span two additional levels. Four private bedrooms and four bathrooms (three with showers) handle couples seeking privacy, while the basement Dungeon - billed as The Playroom - offers group beds, two electric-hoist sex swings, restraints, a glory hole wall, and a professional massage table, plus a Sybian machine. Outside, a large patio enclosed by a six-foot privacy fence leads to a covered 20-by-19-foot sky room with a twelve-foot propane fire pit, seating around thirty people through the colder Nebraska months. The door policy is guest-list only: prospective attendees email in advance to be added, and walk-ins are not accepted. Hours run Friday and Saturday, 8 pm to 2 am. Saturday nights are theme-party nights. Admission is $40 per couple per night, $25 for a single woman, and $45 for a single man. Towels, lockers, and condom supplies are on hand; smoking is allowed in a designated indoor area. Single males and single females are both welcome alongside couples.

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Club FA (Freedom Acres)

Closed

San Bernardino, CA

On-Premise Club

Club FA, also known as Freedom Acres, was one of Southern California's largest on-premise swinger clubs — roughly 13,000 square feet on Devore Road in San Bernardino, at the north edge of the Inland Empire. The main floor paired a dance area and raised pole stage with a second, more intimate lounge floor, plus a pool table, scattered tables for eating and mingling, and TVs throughout playing adult films. A buffet was set out nightly, with coffee and donuts on Sunday mornings. About 6,000 square feet was given to play: a maze of cubbies, themed rooms, lofts and group areas ranging from semi-private to fully open. Club FA was a private membership association closed to the public — entry required an accepted membership plus the door fee each visit, and couples had to attend together. Members were 21-plus. Single men were admitted only on Wednesday and Sunday parties, never Friday or Saturday; single women could attend any night. Nights ran late and themed: Friday to 4am, Saturday to 6am, Sunday to 10pm with a DJ and dancing, typically drawing 120-160+ couples and 250-300+ for marquee events like New Year's, Halloween and the Freedom Acres Anniversary. Drinks were BYOB across two bars (beer/wine and mixed drinks). Dress leaned upscale-casual — collared shirts for men, with t-shirts, flip-flops, sweats and thug attire turned away.

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Club Choices

Closed

Houston, TX

On-Premise Club

Club Choices — branded interchangeably as Club Choices Houston and Choices Swingers Club — operated for years out of an unmarked warehouse on Star Lane, a quiet industrial side street tucked just north of the Galleria. The building itself is a roughly 9,000-square-foot, three-level Class C industrial shell with no street signage; the kind of place you could drive past a hundred times without noticing. Inside, the club ran a hard split between the floors: ground level was full nightclub — dance floor, stripper poles, stages, chains hanging from the ceiling, a live DJ rotating between Top 40 and classics, and a BYOB setup bar pouring free sodas, water and mixers. The upper floor flipped the script entirely — hot tub, showers, a swing, lockers, a massage table, a small video room, fetish toys, and a row of VIP suites for couples and groups. A small on-site adult boutique stocked by SoftTouchSecrets.com sold lingerie, condoms and the usual range of toys for anyone who wanted to take a piece of the night home. The club ran Thursday through Saturday, with the occasional Wednesday daytime RSVP play session and rare Sunday slots. Thursdays opened the door at 9pm and pushed to 2am; Fridays and Saturdays ran until 5am with last entry at 1:30. Door pricing was tiered the standard on-premise way — single men paid the most ($40 Thursday, $60 weekend), couples sat in the middle ($30/$40), single women paid the least and got in free before 11pm. Membership was a $10 one-time fee bought on arrival. Dress code was enforced firmly enough that it appeared on every page of the site: "Dress to Impress" — sexy for women, nice shirt, shoes and pants for men, never sportswear and never shorts. The crowd, by all accounts, skewed older and quieter than a typical Houston nightclub. One Yelp review captured the tone: "Not what you think — it's not a strip bar and there's not sex everywhere. It is very classy and refined. Women are very respected." The club closed at 5/5 stars across 12 Yelp reviews. By March 2026 the doors were shut. There was no announcement — no press release, no closure post on Instagram, no farewell event. The clubchoiceshouston.com domain went dark first (Hostinger suspended the hosting account, the standard sign of unpaid bills), Yelp updated the listing to CLOSED in March, and the building re-tenanted to Lane 58, a hookah bar that took its Yelp listing live in May 2026. The Star Lane address has a long history of running through nightlife tenants — StarLane Industry Afterhours, Club 5806 / Rendevu, VIA After Hours (closed November 2025), and Richmond Studios (a daytime photography/event tenant from 2018) all cycled through the same building. None of the two dormant Instagram accounts (@clubchoiceshouston, @clubchoicess) have posted since well before closure, and the @bacchusnightclub_ confusion that occasionally surfaces online is a different venue in Bishop's Stortford, England. The legacy Wix site at choiceslifestyle.wixsite.com/choices is the only piece of the operation still publicly readable — a frozen snapshot of pricing, hours and rules from when the lights were on.

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Club Utopia

Closed

Chudleigh, Devon

On-Premise Club

Club Utopia traces its roots to 2020, when owner Jamie Venner launched a biker-bar night called Bikers and Babes on the outskirts of Yelverton, Devon. A fire at a neighbouring property prompted a move, and the club spent time in Airbnbs and hired social-club halls before settling at Graeden Park — a discreet private property on Ball Hill off the Old Exeter Road outside Chudleigh. From those modest beginnings it grew into what the club describes as 'arguably the largest and most vibrant club in the southwest of England,' running a calendar of extravagantly themed events — UtopiaFest, Heroes and Villains, Halloween couples nights, Oktoberfest, Coyote Ugly, and a Greedy Girls women-forward evening — to a membership of couples, single women, and vetted single men from across the South West. The venue houses 11 immersive play spaces, a dancefloor with mirrored walls, a side hall, and social lounge zones, all served by a fully licensed bar trading until 3am. Event nights open at 7pm with dress codes pitched to the theme — festival glitter, costumes, Bavarian regalia — and a 360° photo booth available for those who want a memento. Entry follows a mandatory four-step pre-registration process: create a Single or Couple account, upload identity documents, pass staff review, then buy tickets. Couples are always welcome; single females are encouraged; single men are admitted in limited, pre-vetted numbers only. No walk-ins are accepted. Annual membership is available at a fee listed on the registration page, giving members ticket discounts and access to future event perks; individual event tickets were priced at £50 for the 2025 UtopiaFest festival night. The club also sells a companion book — 'A Real-Life Guide to Swinging with Style' — through the website, and maintains social media on Instagram and TikTok. As of July 2026 the operating company, Club Utopia Ltd (Companies House no. 15768206), was formally dissolved, and the website listed no upcoming events.

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Club Discretions

Closed

Phoenix, AZ

On-Premise Club (closed)

Club Discretions ran for nearly a quarter of a century behind an unmarked door at 3304 North 27th Avenue, sandwiched between Thomas and Osborn in the industrial flats of west Phoenix. The club had no street signage — "look for the BLUE lights on the west side of 27th Ave," the website used to read, and that was the only landmark you got. Founded around 2000 by John "Dutch" Van Brunschot and formally incorporated in Arizona in 2003 as Discretions Adult Social Club, the venue was one of a small group of Phoenix lifestyle clubs that survived the city's landmark 1998 anti-swingers ordinance — the one that declared sex clubs "inimical to the health, safety, general welfare and morals of the inhabitants of the city of Phoenix" and was later copied as a template by Las Vegas and Indianapolis. Discretions fought it in federal court alongside Club Chameleon, Guys & Dolls and Encounters, kept its doors open by boarding up its open viewing windows and converting public play areas (including the famously-named "Mass Hysteria" theme room) into private ones, and weathered a 2002 Phoenix PD raid in which staff and managers were briefly arrested. After all of it, the club just kept opening. For the next twenty-plus years it was Phoenix's busiest swingers social club, open seven nights a week — Sun–Thu 8pm to 3am, Fri–Sat to 5am, "363 days a year" by the club's own count. The vibe was unpretentious and a touch retro. A mirrored main stage with a brass stripper pole sat in the centre of the floor, with a separate stripper cage holding two more poles off to the side. Adult films played in the background throughout the building. A non-alcoholic juice-and-soda bar served free snacks and cheap drinks (Arizona state law banned alcohol sales on lifestyle premises, so guests poured their own from a house-issued red cup). Pool table, video games, a resident DJ taking requests, free condoms in every room. Upstairs sat the club's real anchor — nine private, semi-private and voyeur bedrooms, two B&D love swings, a "hideaway loft bed with a view," and what Discretions self-billed as the "LARGEST orgy room" in Arizona. It was a fully on-premises, full-swap club, marketed to all ages from 18 to 80, with a published etiquette guide ("Look Presentable, Ask Questions, Introduce Yourself…") and no formal dress code. By 2023 membership ran $25 per person per year, with a flat door fee of $10 Sun–Thu and $35 Fri–Sat; single women came free once they paid the yearly dues. Discretions did not so much close as go on hiatus. Sometime in 2023 the homepage gained a quiet banner — "Here's to many years of fun and memories, thank you for your loyal patronage. While there are currently priorities to deal with, if it is feasible Club Discretions may return in a bigger, better and more grand fashion than ever." The "Club Discretions 2.0" return never came. The clubdiscretions.com domain expired around December 2024 and now points to a parking page; the Yelp listing was flagged CLOSED at its April 2026 update. The building at 3304 N 27th Ave was taken over in 2024 by Hush Lounge AZ, a newer-generation private members-only lifestyle club that continues the address's long history as a Phoenix lifestyle venue. Of the original 1990s clubs that fought the Phoenix ordinance alongside Discretions, only Club Encounters — one block south on West Clarendon Avenue, opened 1996 — remains in continuous operation.

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Laszivo Swingerclub

Closed

Erfurt, Thuringia

On-Premise Club

Laszivo Swingerclub is a lifestyle and adult entertainment venue in Erfurt, Thuringia, serving the wider Erfurt and Gotha region. The club offers cocktail bars, an erotic atmosphere, and regular events, and maintains a presence across both Erfurt and Gotha. It is an arts and entertainment establishment welcoming adults interested in the swinger lifestyle.

Swingerclub Absinth

Closed

Freilingen, Rhineland-Palatinate

On-Premise Club