192 clubs
Fixed-location lifestyle clubs with private rooms, play areas, and themed spaces — the classic on-premise swinger club experience.
As of 2026, there are 192 on-premise clubs lifestyle clubs across the US, Canada, UK & Germany. They span 75 states and provinces, with the most in TX (10), CA (9), Ontario (9), London (8), Saxony (6). 192 are currently verified as active.

San Francisco, CA
On-Premise Club
Power Exchange is a pansexual adult nightclub in San Francisco that has operated since 1996, offering BDSM, kink, and alternative lifestyle events in a private setting. The venue is open Thursday through Sunday nights and emphasizes a safe, inclusive, and discreet environment. It accepts cash payment with an ATM available on-site.

Mississauga, Ontario
On-Premise Club
The X Club is a lifestyle nightclub in Mississauga, Ontario, operating Friday and Saturday nights from 9 PM to 3 AM. The venue offers a dance floor, VIP bottle service, and multiple themed areas, with Saturdays reserved exclusively for couples and single women. Members must be 21 or older; a Newbie Night runs on the first Friday of each month with no membership required.

Oakville, Ontario
On-Premise Club
NYX Lounge is an upscale on-premise lifestyle club in Oakville, Ontario, serving the Greater Toronto area. The venue features two play areas, a dance floor, and bottle service, open Friday and Saturday nights from 9 PM to 2 AM. Membership is required; couples, single women, and single men are welcome with varying entry fees.

Las Vegas, NV
On-Premise Club
Swingers Circle is a boutique hotel suite lifestyle party held weekly on Thursday nights in Las Vegas, operating on Las Vegas Boulevard near major Strip hotels. The event is restricted to couples and single women, with a maximum of 12 couples per session, making it one of the more intimate recurring play parties in the city. Guests are encouraged to arrive by 9:30 PM; BYOB is permitted and soft drinks, water, and snacks are provided.
Plauen, Saxony
On-Premise Club
Club Avantgarde is Saxony's largest swinger club — a sprawling 900-square-metre, two-floor venue in Plauen that has been welcoming guests since the 1990s. Reopened at Pentecost 2023 under the motto "anspruchsvoll anders" (sophisticated and different), the club is the passion project of owner Alfred Hollfelder, whose revival has earned coverage from MDR television and regional press. Twelve lovingly detailed themed rooms create the heart of the experience: Egyptian bath (whirlpool "like Cleopatra and Caesar"), Titanic cabin, Jungle, Pirate, SM dungeon, Prison cell with love swing, Indian, Oriental, Chinese, Exhibitionist, Dark & Feel, and a massage room. A winding "Kuschelbar" (snuggle bar) with glittering curtains anchors the social space, while a dedicated wellness area houses a sauna and the Pharaoh-themed whirlpool. A DJ and dance floor keep the energy up through Friday and Saturday evenings. Entry is all-inclusive — covering a generous buffet and drinks — making it a full evening without hidden costs. An attached boutique guesthouse offers themed overnight rooms with optional breakfast, turning the visit into a weekend retreat. With a 4.9 out of 5 rating on Google from 37 reviews, Club Avantgarde is consistently praised for its warm staff, the craftsmanship of its themed rooms, and its relaxed atmosphere. MDR ran a segment headlined "Saxony's largest swinger club reopens," and Freie Presse sent a reporter for a full-night visit in 2026. Free parking is available on-site, JoyClub member discounts apply, and cash is the accepted payment method.

Dartmouth, Nova Scotia
On-Premise Club
Society of Bastet is a private lifestyle club in Dartmouth, Nova Scotia welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

Tampa, FL
On-Premise Club
Eyz Wide Shut is an adult lifestyle nightclub and play venue located in Tampa, Florida, open Thursday through Sunday with a 21-and-older admission requirement. The club features a full bar, dance floor, and ten private themed rooms, with three group rooms reserved for couples and single women; single males may access group spaces only by female invitation. A dress code is enforced, and all rooms are stocked with fresh linens.

Phoenix, AZ
On-Premise Club
Club Encounters is an adult social club in Phoenix, Arizona, open to both couples and singles with no membership or reservation required. The venue includes a lighted dance floor with DJ, two video lounges, a jacuzzi room with showers and lockers, six private playrooms, and a juice and snack bar. Events run nightly from 8 PM, with special couple-focused promotions including free entry on Monday nights for couples through midnight.

Atlanta, GA
On-Premise Club
Tokyo Valentino Lifestyle Club is a 24-hour adult lifestyle and play venue on Cheshire Bridge Road in Atlanta, Georgia, closing only briefly on Wednesday mornings for cleaning. The facility spans three floors and includes eight Amsterdam-style booths, open and private playrooms, dark rooms, shower facilities, massage rooms, private bedrooms, and an LED dance floor. No membership is required; admission is pay-per-visit, and the venue operates on a BYOB basis.

Montreal, Quebec
On-Premise Club
Complexe Luxuria is a libertin (swingers) club in Montreal hosting themed events on Friday and Saturday nights. The venue features a dance floor, social areas, and regular themed costume parties. Events are ticketed and include seasonal celebrations and guest appearances.

Knoxville, TN
On-Premise Club
Eros Knoxville is a private members-only lifestyle club in Knoxville, Tennessee. The club operates on a BYOB policy with no alcohol sold on-site, and all new members are required to complete an orientation tour by 11 PM on their first visit. Regular themed events run Friday nights, with early-arrival discounts for couples and complimentary entry for women before 10 PM.

Gatlinburg, TN
On-Premise Club
Sensual Pleasures Lifestyle Club (SPLC) is a private members-only lifestyle club serving the East Tennessee and Smoky Mountains area. The venue hosts events on Friday and Saturday nights from 8 PM to 2 AM, offering a full dinner buffet, BYOB with complimentary mixers, themed parties, educational workshops, and live entertainment. Overnight bed and breakfast accommodations are available by reservation, and the club dedicates Friday evenings to a bisexual, singles, and crossdresser/trans-inclusive night.
Rochdale, Greater Manchester
On-Premise Club
A welcoming and well-managed swingers club in Rochdale near Manchester, offering a safe and friendly environment. Features include a BDSM dungeon, massage facilities, and regular themed nights, with many guests simply coming to socialise.

London, London
On-Premise Club
London's ultimate leather and fetish night, held monthly at Electrowerkz. Award-winning party concept featuring themed zones and dress codes celebrating alternative fashion and lifestyle expression within a passionate community.

Terryville, CT
On-Premise Club
Wicked Fun Club is a membership-based lifestyle club in Terryville, Connecticut spanning over 3,000 square feet with four playrooms, a social lounge, and amenities including a tantra chair and sex swing. The club operates on a BYOB basis with mixers provided, and complimentary lockers and towels are included. Saturday nights are exclusively for couples and single women; single men are welcome on Fridays only.

Houston, TX
On-Premise Club
Krewe of Swingtown is a Houston-based lifestyle social group founded in 2005 as the country's only swinger-oriented Mardi Gras krewe. The group hosts events across Texas year-round — from house parties and river trips to holiday celebrations — with some events drawing over 1,000 attendees. Open to couples and single women.

Berlin, Berlin
On-Premise Club
Avarus is widely regarded as one of the most beautiful swingers clubs in Berlin, hidden away on the 5th floor of an apartment building in the Wedding district. Step inside and you'll find an elegant world of premium wellness — Finnish sauna, Roman steam bath, a 36,000-litre love pool, and an experience shower — seamlessly blended with stylish play areas and intimate social spaces. Every visit is all-inclusive: entry covers all drinks and a hot & cold buffet, so there's nothing to think about but enjoying the evening. The event calendar keeps things fresh with couples-only Saturdays, Orgasm Nights, Bi-Parties, Darkroom Parties, and BDSM nights in the adjacent Menagerie venue. The signature "Chocolate Sunday" — featuring edible liquid chocolate in the steam bath — is an experience you won't find anywhere else. Staff speaks English and the club warmly welcomes international guests alongside its loyal local crowd. The house philosophy says it all: everything is allowed, nothing is mandatory. LGBTQ+ friendly. Couples and newbie friendly.
Schwetzingen, Baden-Württemberg
On-Premise Club
Swingerclub Blue Cat in Schwetzingen is an exclusive club that combines stylish ambiance with intimate, character-driven evenings for singles and couples in the Rhine-Neckar region. The venue deliberately keeps its size manageable to offer individual service and a carefully curated guest experience, with thoughtfully designed play areas, a sauna, lounge, and SM area. Attention to cleanliness and a high-quality buffet complement the welcoming atmosphere.

Tukwila, WA
On-Premise Club
Club Sapphire is a private swingers lifestyle club in Tukwila, Washington, offering approximately 10,000 square feet of party space with a dance floor and DJ, buffet appetizers, lockers, showers, and multiple playrooms. Annual membership is required, and the club enforces a couples-first policy with exceptions for singles after five attended events. Sexy or themed attire is required; casual wear is not permitted.

Phoenix, AZ
On-Premise Club
Hush Lounge AZ is a private members-only lifestyle club in Phoenix, Arizona, open Thursday through Saturday. The venue features over seven specialty rooms plus main floor lounge areas, a DJ on Saturdays, and complimentary condoms and fresh towels; no alcohol is sold or served, but members may bring their own. Couples are the primary clientele, with single men admitted selectively based on event attendance.

Houston, TX
On-Premise Club
Colette Houston is an on-premise private social club in Houston, Texas, operating as part of the Colette Clubs chain. The venue offers a European-style adult lifestyle experience for couples and is presented as an upscale alternative to other Houston area clubs. Membership is required for access.

Hamburg, Hamburg
On-Premise Club
As one of Hamburg's leading swinger clubs, Club Equinoxe welcomes guests to its exciting swinger and kinky parties held every weekend in a converted cinema spanning approximately 1,000 square meters. The venue features a dance floor, intimate lounges, an SM play zone, showers, lockers, and complimentary toiletries and condoms. The club is open to couples, single women, and single men (21+), and hosts regular themed events with DJs, performances, and a special series for guests up to age 39.
New York, NY
On-Premise Club
Checkmate NYC is one of Manhattan's longest-running lifestyle clubs — nearly three decades at 227 East 56th Street, a lower-level space in Midtown East that owner Danny C. (who previously ran Le Trapeze) has shaped into a velvet-rope experience since taking over in 2018. The venue features floor-to-ceiling mirrors, an LED and mirrored dance floor, a pole-dancing stage, plush lounge seating, and multiple themed playrooms — Cinema, Dark, Neon, Mirrored, private and open — where entry is in robes or nude only. Music runs Latin, hip-hop, and dance-pop through a live DJ. It's BYOB with a bartender on staff, complimentary mixers, and a robe-and-towel service included in admission. No alcohol is sold. The club is strictly couples and single women — single men are never admitted under any circumstances. Getting in requires an application with a full-body photo, G-rated headshot, and a description of your personality and interests; the club explicitly selects for "fit, young, attractive couples ages 23 to 40ish" and not everyone is approved. Once accepted, you still need an active membership and RSVP for every visit — no walk-ins. Thursday's After Work Party runs 9 pm to 2 am at a reduced rate, while Friday and Saturday go 10 pm to 4 am at $220 per couple. Single women enter free with approval. Dress code is non-negotiable: suits and ties for men, dresses and heels for women. No sneakers, t-shirts, shorts, hats, or flip-flops. Reviewers are polarised — Yelp sits at 3.5/5 with a split between five-star and one-star ratings, while Google averages 4.0/5 across 80 reviews. Fans praise the clean space, attractive crowd that delivers on the promise, friendly staff, and a dance floor more active than most lifestyle clubs. Critics call it overpriced, note that the smaller venue (roughly 20–50 couples on a given night) limits connections, and find the photo-vetting process elitist. Time Out described it as one of Midtown East's most exclusive haunts. A Miami expansion is planned for 2026. Phones must be put away at all times inside, and couples are required to arrive together and remain in the same room throughout the night.
Hamburg, Hamburg
On-Premise Club
Cheers is Hamburg's cosy alternative to the big swinger clubs — a 150 m² frivolous bar on Straßburger Straße in Dulsberg, one minute's walk from the U1 Straßburger Straße station, that has been drawing a loyal crowd of couples and singles since March 2008. Owners Gert and Janine turned a hobby into a profession and it shows: the space holds just 40 people across a stylish bar and lounge with sofas, a table-dance pole, a darkroom, a separate smoking room with play area, a Kuschelecke (cuddling corner), and shower facilities. There's no dress code on weekdays — come straight from work in whatever you're wearing — while weekends call for groomed or erotic attire. Ladies always enter free. The weekly highlight is Thursday's Erotic Dart Night, where the special rules guarantee almost everyone loses their clothes before the game is over — small prizes for winners, playful forfeits for losers, and a natural icebreaker that brings strangers together. Tuesday is Stammtisch (regulars' night with a higher single-male ratio), Friday and Saturday run late until 3 am as full party nights, and the first Saturday of each month is couples-only. Newcomer sampler evenings on the 1st, 3rd, and 5th Sundays give first-timers a pressure-free introduction with the owners personally making sure nobody is left standing alone. Admission is a €30 minimum spend at the bar (€25 with JOYclub discount); single men pay the same but entry is never guaranteed and depends on the ratio. With a 4.9/5 rating across 685+ JOYclub reviews, 1,600 fans, and over 627,000 recorded visitor check-ins, Cheers has the numbers to back up 18 years of word-of-mouth reputation. The motto — "Alles kann, nichts muss" (everything is possible, nothing is mandatory) — sets the tone, and 94% of reviewers rate the experience as good or very good. No prostitution, no cameras, and a crew described by regulars as "cultivated, nice, and funny." The bar can also be rented for private events on closed days.

Kearsley, Greater Manchester
On-Premise Club
A fully inclusive premier lifestyle club in Bolton, welcoming everybody regardless of age, ethnicity or sexual orientation. Award-winning for inclusivity, the club hosts Fetish Fridays, party nights and chill sessions in a no-pressure environment where you make all the choices.

Heathrow, London
On-Premise Club
Ignite Club is London's largest lifestyle club — a genuine dual-identity venue that runs as Kestrels Spa by day and Club Ignite by night, set on Bath Road in Longford right next to Heathrow's Terminal 5. The January 2025 rebrand of the former AbFab/Kestrels (and before that Kestrel Hydro Spa) keeps the same sprawling 422 Bath Road building but gives it a fresh identity under new operator Caroline Towers. The headline feature is a large heated nude swimming pool — reportedly the only one at any UK lifestyle club — alongside three hot tubs, a sauna and steam room, a porn cinema with comfy seating, what the operators call the largest dark room in London, a dungeon, grope boxes, nine play rooms (three private plus three with viewing windows downstairs, two two-way-mirror "sheds" and one private room upstairs, all lockable from the inside), a dedicated couples-only play room, plus a licensed bar and disco. There's off-road parking for around 30 cars with an ANPR system. Daytime Silks & Skins spa days run Mon/Wed/Thu/Fri/Sun 11am–6pm (Mon/Wed extend to 10pm as clothing-optional, Sunday runs to 8pm) with a strict naturist dress code in the wet areas — robes, towels, or nothing, and footwear required everywhere. Thursday and Sunday days allow lingerie as an alternative ("Silks & Skins"). Evening swingers parties run Friday and Saturday 9pm–2am (last entry 11:30pm) as "AbFabulous Fridays" and "Sensational Saturdays", with smart-casual enforced: collared shirts and smart shoes for men, sexy attire for women — no towels upstairs, no trainers, no leisurewear. Once a month one Saturday is exclusively couples and single ladies with no single men admitted at all. Themed nights rotate through Wicked Vixens, Asian Darkside, Latex & Leather, Mocha Nights, Half-Off Fridays, and an NYE 'Oscars' Ball. Pricing: Mon/Wed/Sun spa £40 couples / £17 ladies / £43 gents, Thu/Fri spa £35 / £15 / £40, Fri/Sat parties £35 / £15 / £50 (single gents must pre-book with £10 deposit, no walk-ins). Ignite is a private members' club — individual membership is £25 per person per year (no couples membership, everyone applies separately), or first-timers can buy a £10 day/night pass and upgrade for £15 extra. Two forms of ID are required at first visit (one photo, one proof of address — UK driving licence covers both) and you'll complete an online application in advance. Phones are collected at reception, bagged with a numbered tag, and stored under CCTV — no photography or filming anywhere in the venue. Consent is heavily emphasised: "don't touch anyone unless you're clearly invited to." Play is welcome throughout the building except in the pool, hot tubs, steam room, and outdoor smoking area. One complimentary towel per guest (extras £2.50). Worth knowing: despite the naturist spa format, this is NOT a British Naturism affiliated venue — play is permitted in playrooms throughout the day, which distinguishes it sharply from mainstream UK naturist spas like Clover Spa.

Dallas, TX
On-Premise Club
Wicked Manor — formerly PlayhouseDFW — is a members-only lifestyle venue tucked about ten miles southwest of downtown Dallas, where a discreet exterior opens into roughly 7,000 square feet of low-lit, modern playground. Event nights pulse with nightclub sound, candle-warm lighting, and the relaxed no-pressure energy the house treats as a hard rule. Inside you'll find a BYOB bar (free mixers and ice), a pool, a dance floor with live DJ, dedicated exhibitionism and voyeur rooms, a group room with stage, and a wing of private locking retreats. Free lockers handle the practical stuff, and the dress code is enforced: cocktail or sexier, no shorts, sandals, hats, or logo tees. Membership is photo-vetted and not everyone is accepted — couples and single women are always welcome, and a curated group of pre-approved single males attends Fridays only. Events run every Friday and Saturday: Friday is Hot Wife Friday (hotwife-themed, couples plus select singles), while Saturday evenings are couples and single females only. Advance tickets required; no walk-in entry at any time.

Montreal, Quebec
On-Premise Club
Club L is a lifestyle and swinging club in Montreal, Quebec, occupying over 7,200 square feet across multiple floors of a converted former credit union building. The venue includes a restaurant-lounge with chef-prepared meals, nine themed private bedrooms, and common play areas; a membership subscription is required for entry. Fridays and Saturdays are reserved for couples, single women, and accompanied men; Thursdays are open to all adults 18 and over.
Calgary, Alberta
On-Premise Lifestyle Club
Tucked away in Calgary's southeast industrial quarter, Adore Social Club is the city's premier on-premise lifestyle venue — a polished, members-only retreat where nightclub energy meets sensual freedom. Built on the bones of the former Moonlight Magic space (which it thoroughly renovated under new ownership), Adore has quickly become the most talked-about destination in the Alberta lifestyle community. Spread across 3,100 square feet on two levels, the club delivers a dual experience: downstairs, a full-scale nightclub complete with a starlit dance floor, professional DJ booth, stripper pole, and comfortable booth seating sets the social tone; upstairs, a lounge with pool table and darts transitions into a tastefully designed play area with four king beds, a sex swing, hand and ankle cuffs, semi-private alcoves, and a dedicated BDSM beginner area with a St. Andrew's Cross and spanking bench. Complimentary appetizers — cheese boards, charcuterie, fondue, and themed snacks — grace every event. The club operates BYOB with labeled lockers for storage, and supplies mixers, ice, water, and glassware at no charge. All first-time attendees receive a guided tour from hosts covering the layout, house rules, and etiquette — making it a genuinely welcoming environment for newcomers. The venue's health inspection rating of 98/100 reflects the ownership's commitment to cleanliness and care. Membership is by application only, with screening based on effort and presentation rather than demographics. Single males are welcome but must be vouched for by a member couple and attend their first event with that couple. Regular events run Friday and Saturday, with occasional Wednesday and Sunday specials. Dress code is "Dress to Impress", with themed nights rotating throughout the year.
Belfast, Northern Ireland
On-Premise Club
Northern Ireland's premier site for swingers, helping those wishing to live a consensual non-monogamist lifestyle meet others in a safe, no-pressure yet fun environment. With over 20 years of hosting experience, they deliver action-packed parties across Northern Ireland for open-minded adults of all genders and orientations.
Columbus, OH
On-Premise Club
Club Princeton is a private members' lifestyle club located at 425 South Princeton Avenue in Columbus, Ohio. The venue requires membership login for event details and access. Contact the club directly at 614-275-9861 for information.

Houston, TX
On-Premise Club
Desires Houston is an upscale lifestyle lounge located in northwest Houston, Texas, catering to open-minded adults in the swinger and alternative lifestyle communities. The venue hosts regular themed parties and draws members from across Texas, Louisiana, and surrounding states. Membership is required and the club also offers affiliated travel packages to adult resorts and cruises.

Stuhr, Lower Saxony
On-Premise Club
Club Passion in Stuhr, just outside Bremen near the A1 motorway, welcomes guests with the motto "come as a stranger and leave as a friend." The club describes itself as "a mid-sized club where you quickly connect with like-minded people," featuring multiple themed rooms, a bar, restaurant area, whirlpool, and sauna. High hygiene standards and a welcoming atmosphere for both first-time and experienced visitors are central to the club's identity.

Los Angeles, CA
On-Premise Club
Club Joi is a members-only on-premise swing club in downtown Los Angeles occupying 12,000 square feet with a nightclub atmosphere, themed playrooms, a dance floor, and shower facilities. The venue is open Friday and Saturday nights and welcomes couples and single women; single men are admitted only at select special events. Membership and an approved profile are required before purchasing tickets.

Lingen, Lower Saxony
On-Premise Club
Club Paradise Lingen invites guests to "imagine entering a world where the boundaries of fantasy no longer matter," spanning 800 square meters of themed rooms, a BDSM room, wellness areas, and a bar. The club's tagline promises that "you arrive as a guest and leave as a friend," emphasizing a warm, community-minded atmosphere. Mutual respect and consent are core values — photography and video recording are strictly prohibited throughout the premises.

Osternienburger Land, Saxony-Anhalt
On-Premise Club
Schloss Trebbichau describes itself as likely the most beautiful erotic oasis in the heart of Saxony-Anhalt — a high-end swinger and couples club set in a lovingly restored historic castle near Köthen. Officially opened in February 2023 after eight years of renovation, the venue features a grand main hall with 7.5-meter ceilings, a salon, buffet and dining room, smoking lounge, dance floor, and multiple themed playrooms across three floors. The vision was to create a special couples club where guests can pursue their desires and passions at the highest level.

Littleton, CO
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Scarlet Ranch is a large private lifestyle organization in the Denver, Colorado area, operating out of a 36,000 square foot facility called Squirrel Creek Lodge since 2003. The venue hosts over 100 themed events per year with attendance ranging from 200 to 2,200 guests, and a capacity of up to 2,500. Amenities include three bars (BYOB), a fine dining restaurant, dance stages, and an outdoor tipi with fire pit; events run Wednesday through Sunday.

Vancouver, British Columbia
On-Premise Club
Katrina Private Home is a members-only, on-premises lifestyle club centrally located in Vancouver, British Columbia, serving adults 21 and older. The club requires an application process for membership and admits couples and single women only. A strict consent policy is enforced, recording devices are prohibited, and condoms are required; no alcohol is permitted on the premises.

Atlanta, GA
On-Premise Club
Trapeze Club Atlanta is an on-premise adult lifestyle club located in Atlanta, Georgia, operating Wednesday through Sunday from 8 PM with a BYOB policy. The venue features playrooms, themed events, a cigar lounge, and upscale dining with rotating weekly menus and a carving station. Single males are welcome most nights; Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only.
Berlin, Berlin
On-Premise Club
KitKat Club is Berlin's legendary hedonistic nightclub, a cultural institution known for its radically free atmosphere and diverse weekly programming. From fetish nights to techno parties, the venue offers a space for self-expression where all orientations and lifestyles are welcome.

Richmond, VA
On-Premise Club
Fallout RVA is an alternative nightclub located at 117 N 18th Street in Richmond, Virginia, focused on goth, industrial, drag, and electronic music communities. The venue hosts a rotating calendar of events including drag shows, DJ nights, karaoke, movie nights, and community socials, with most events open to guests 18 or 21 and older. It operates Sunday through Thursday until midnight and Friday through Saturday until 2am.

Schkeuditz, Saxony
On-Premise Club
Club Saphir proudly describes itself as the longest-established swinger and couples club in Saxony, Saxony-Anhalt, and Thuringia, operating since 2002 from Leipzig-Schkeuditz. The venue offers over 900 square meters of space with themed rooms, wellness facilities, and lounges in an erotically stimulating atmosphere. Regular themed events are held, and admission includes all-inclusive food and beverages.

Fort Lauderdale, FL
On-Premise Club
Trapeze Fort Lauderdale is an on-premise adult lifestyle club located in Tamarac, Florida, operating Wednesday through Sunday from 8 PM with BYOB policy. The venue features playrooms, themed events, a cigar lounge, and an upscale dining experience with rotating weekly menus. Single males are welcome most nights; Saturday is reserved for couples and single women only.
Zwochau, Saxony
On-Premise Club
Swingerclub Savannah in Zwochau near Leipzig offers 850 m² of space for up to 200 guests with 20 private rooms, a voyeur room, darkroom, BDSM and SM section, cinema room, sauna, whirlpool, massage area, and a Jacuzzi-equipped outdoor area. The all-inclusive entry price covers the full buffet and an extensive bar including spirits, Prosecco, wines, cocktails, and whiskey selections. The operators describe it as "one of the most attractive and beautiful clubs in Germany," and the venue holds a perfect 5.0 rating on GoLocal.

San Francisco, CA
On-Premise Club
Twist is a private on-premise swingers party in San Francisco's North Beach neighborhood at 387 Bay Street. The BYOB venue features a dance floor with poles, lounge areas, and multiple play rooms, open Friday and Saturday from 10 PM to 4 AM. Saturdays are strictly couples-only; Fridays admit limited single men by application.

Las Vegas, NV
On-Premise Club
The Red Rooster is a Las Vegas adult lifestyle nightclub that has operated since 1982, making it one of the longest-running venues of its type in the city. The club is open to both couples and singles, operates on a BYOB policy, and runs Wednesday through Sunday nights. Live entertainment is featured regularly, and no reservations are required for general entry.

Leeds, West Yorkshire
On-Premise Club
Much more than just a swingers club in Leeds -- a place to meet friends and chill out in a relaxing atmosphere. A welcoming, non-judgmental space where you can be what you want to be, with varied weekly programming including themed and social nights.
Blackpool, Lancashire
On-Premise Club
An adults-only escape in Blackpool offering intimate accommodation, themed playrooms and curated events designed for adventurous couples and carefully selected singles. Stylish rooms with a discreet, sensual atmosphere and carefully curated play spaces with a focus on consent.
Omaha, NE
On-Premise Club
R-Place is a private lifestyle club in Omaha, NE welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

New York, NY
On-Premise Club
Club Labyrinth is a members-only swingers club with locations in Midtown Manhattan, Hollywood, and New Jersey. The venues feature group playrooms, semi-private areas, voyeur rooms, and BYOB bars with complimentary non-alcoholic beverages in an adventurous atmosphere.

Drummondville, Quebec
On-Premise Club
Auberge La Passion is a private swingers club (club libertin) in Drummondville, Quebec, founded in 2014 by Luc and Chantal. Rated 4.8/5 on Google with 36+ reviews, it is consistently praised for exceptional cleanliness, respectful atmosphere, and welcoming hosts. The venue features a nightclub with dance floor, billiard room, spa, themed playrooms with soft BDSM options, a mirror room, and a licensed bar. Fridays are meet-and-greet nights open to all including limited single men, while Saturdays are couples and single women only with themed events (lingerie, leather & latex, corset, fluo, masquerade, and more). Overnight suites available in the main building and adjacent Le Petit Hotel annex. First-timers receive a guided tour and full orientation.

Grand Rapids, MI
On-Premise Club
The Upper Level at The Diplomat Health Club is an alternative adult stay in Grand Rapids, Michigan, offering overnight rooms for all genders. Accommodations include a Master Suite, Retro Room, and Loft Room, with day-pass access included in room pricing. Guests must be 21 or older with valid ID and credit card.
Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire
On-Premise Club
A high-end swingers club for new and experienced swingers on the edge of Hull's city centre. Offering a safe and friendly night of fun in a premier North East venue designed to fulfil your wildest fantasies.

West Bridgford, Nottinghamshire
On-Premise Club
The Midlands' most intimate and exclusive club for liberated adults, located in West Bridgford, Nottingham. A luxurious boutique venue managed by a female staff leader, featuring a bar, hot tub, private playrooms, and cinema in a relaxed, pressure-free setting.

Mississauga, Ontario
On-Premise Club
Club M4 is an adult lifestyle and swingers club in Mississauga, Ontario, operating across over 10,000 square feet with a fully licensed bar, dance floor, lounge, and multiple private play areas. The club is open 365 days a year with afternoon and evening sessions daily, including themed parties and Young Swingers Society events. Membership is available alongside per-event ticketing; couples, single women, and young swingers are welcome.

Nashville, TN
On-Premise Club
Menages Club was a lifestyle club located in Nashville, Tennessee, operating at a fixed venue with tiered entry pricing. The club is currently listed as closed.

Calgary, Alberta
On-Premise Club
Club Rendezvous — known to members as Club R — has been Calgary's defining lifestyle destination since 1983, earning its reputation as Alberta's longest-running private members club. Now in its second chapter under new ownership since 2012, the club has evolved into a fully licensed, Safe Space Alliance-recognized venue that consistently earns a 4.7-star Google rating from hundreds of members who call it home. The two-floor venue in northeast Calgary delivers a complete night out: a dance floor with top-notch DJs and LED lighting downstairs, comfortable lounge booths, and a fully stocked licensed bar — then an open-concept upper play area with thoughtfully arranged private and semi-private spaces. Themed events run every Friday and Saturday from 9 PM to 3 AM, ranging from First Time Fridays and Lingerie Parties to Fetish Nights and the popular Little Black Dress event, with educational workshops and social events on weeknights too. Club R welcomes couples, single women, and a curated number of approved single men into a consent-first community where no-phones and no-pressure are non-negotiables. First-timers are treated with genuine warmth — the club runs dedicated newcomer nights and a step-by-step first-visit guide — while regulars keep coming back for the inclusive, upscale atmosphere that sets it apart from anything else in Alberta.

Sigmaringen, Baden-Württemberg
On-Premise Club
AlbSwing describes itself as "the swinger club of the Swabian Alb," positioned as a meeting place for open-minded adults seeking intimate encounters with style and discretion. The venue features seven themed rooms and outdoor areas, welcoming both newcomers and experienced visitors. The club emphasizes respect, consent, and safety, with all guests required to be 18 or older.
Rendsburg, Schleswig-Holstein
On-Premise Club
Infinity Swingerparadies in Rendsburg operates under the motto "swinging among friends," which forms the foundation of its personal, cozy, and well-maintained ambiance. The club features tastefully decorated themed rooms and is open Thursday through Sunday from 20:00, welcoming guests of all sexual orientations. Discretion and a strict "no means no" policy are central house rules, and every guest is greeted warmly upon arrival.
Hamburg, Hamburg
On-Premise Club
Swingertreff Why Not in Hamburg Bramfeld is a stylish 340 m² club offering generously designed themed play areas alongside a wellness suite with sauna, warm bench, massage area, and first-class showers. The club prides itself on a genuinely clean, intimate atmosphere without large anonymous parties, and features lockable private rooms, a spacious non-smoking bar, and freshly prepared food. Evenings are offered across multiple days per week, including a regular couples-only Saturday, with the inclusive entry price covering food, drinks, and hygiene items.
Columbia, SC
On-Premise Club
Club Dalliance is an on-premise lifestyle club located in Columbia, South Carolina, open on Saturday nights from 9pm to 2am.

Providence, RI
On-Premise Club
Choice Social Club is New England's flagship on-premise lifestyle club — 8,000 square feet behind a famous red door on Porter Street in Providence, with 14 themed playrooms spread across the building: a voyeur chamber with a one-way window, a schoolhouse room, a massage room, a blacklight room, a glory hole room, a group room with an L-shaped multi-bed layout, and a dedicated BDSM area with St. Andrew's crosses. The dance floor has a video wall and stripper pole, the lounge is done in leather furniture with warm tones and low lighting, and a backyard patio opens up for summer events. Staff actively change sheets between uses and keep the space clean throughout the night — a detail reviewers consistently call out. The club is BYOB with a clever system: you hand your bottles to staff at check-in, they label everything with your membership number, and the bartender mixes your drinks all night using the club's provided mixers and ice. Membership runs $45/year for couples ($250 premium), $40–65 for single women, and $100 introductory for single men with a 3–4 month waitlist. Event admission on top is $90 for couples, $100 for single men, and $5 for single women (sometimes free with early arrival). Your first visit includes a complimentary trial membership. Themed Saturday nights run 9 pm to 2 am — everything from costume parties to summer BBQ events. The crowd skews about 90% couples with an average age of 35–45, and the single-male ratio is tightly managed to keep it couples-focused. Playroom etiquette uses a signal system: a plastic chain on the door means open to observation or requests, an open door without a chain means ask politely, and closed curtains or doors mean full privacy. Cell phones and cameras are strictly prohibited inside. Operated by Jim Knaus through Red Door Operations, LLC since 2009, Choice holds a federal trademark and has weathered a full-year COVID closure — a 2021 GoFundMe raised over $5,000 from 56 donors to help reopen.
South Amboy, NJ
On-Premise Club
TNT's Playground is a private lifestyle club in South Amboy, NJ welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

Newport, Wales
On-Premise Club
Chameleons Newport is the only swingers club in South Wales — a Friday-night takeover of The Greenhouse health club building at 24 Church Street, where the 21-seater jacuzzi, dry sauna, steam room, and multi-level play areas transform into a lifestyle venue from 8 pm to 3:30 am every week. The building has operated for over 20 years and runs as a health and sauna club the rest of the week; on Fridays, Chameleons takes over with private cabins, dark rooms, glory holes, communal play rooms, and a cafe bar where you can buy soft drinks and snacks. Alcohol is strictly BYOB — bring your own bottles but don't overdo it, and no drinks are allowed near the jacuzzi. Membership is a one-off lifetime fee: £25 for couples, free for single ladies, and £80 for single men (though single male entry is never guaranteed and depends on the couple-to-single-lady ratio on the night). If you already hold a Darlaston membership, it's valid at Newport too. The club requires two forms of ID plus a recent utility bill — stricter than the Darlaston branch — and the minimum age is 21. Entrance fees apply on top of membership but aren't published online; call 01633 212 906 during Friday hours or 0121 568 6117 out of hours (routes to Darlaston). All emails go to chameleonsclub@gmail.com — specify that you're asking about Newport. Unlike its sister venue in Darlaston which runs six days a week with themed events, Newport keeps it simple: one Friday session, no rotating themes, open to couples and singles of all genders. The dress code is relaxed — towels (provided) or shorts for men, towels or "dress as sexy as you dare" for women. Towels and secure lockers are included, condoms are available from machines in the changing rooms, and smoking is outdoor-terrace only. With a 4.6/5 rating on CityMaps and reviewers consistently praising the welcoming atmosphere for first-timers, the club benefits from having no direct competition in the region — though some reviews note the building could use more investment.

Gaylord, MI
On-Premise Club
Club Iniquity is a lifestyle hotel takeover event organizer based in Gaylord, Michigan, established in 2017 and describing itself as the Great Lakes region's premier swinger's club. Events are all-inclusive weekend packages covering hotel accommodations, full party admission, workshops, and meet-and-greets, plus breakfast and late-night snacks. The club emphasizes consent, inclusivity for all experience levels, and a limited capacity to maintain a personal atmosphere.
Rehlingen-Siersburg, Saarland
On-Premise Club
Ragazza Club describes itself as "the meeting point for frivolous leisure entertainment," promising extraordinary moments far from everyday life. Fantasies and fetishes are not only welcome in thought but are meant to be lived out within a cultivated and private atmosphere. The club explicitly states it is not a red-light establishment and does not permit professional services on the premises.

London, London
On-Premise Club
An inclusive and luxurious private members club for the sensually intelligent, where deviancy is an art form. Crafting immersive events, decadent retreats and curated encounters for those who crave beauty, depth and uninhibited connection.

Gallipolis Ferry, WV
On-Premise Club
The Riverside Club is a private membership-based lifestyle club in Gallipolis Ferry, West Virginia, hosting monthly themed events. Events run from 8pm to 2am on Saturdays and include themes such as Leather and Lace, Safari Night, and Country and Western. Membership registration and RSVP are handled through the club website.
San Bernardino, CA
On-Premise Club
Club FA (Freedom Acres) is a private lifestyle club in San Bernardino, CA welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

Cleveland, OH
On-Premise Club
Club Eros is a private members-only lifestyle club in Cleveland, Ohio, describing itself as the largest and most established adult entertainment club in the Midwest with over 20 years of operation. The venue hosts themed Saturday night events running 9pm to 3am, with tickets available for select gatherings. Membership packages are available through the website.
Hartford, CT
On-Premise Club
Leisure Time Club is an on-premise lifestyle club located in Hartford, Connecticut, which identifies itself as the longest-running swingers club in the United States. The club operates a membership program and maintains a regular event calendar. The venue emphasizes a welcoming and health-conscious environment for its members.

Chorley, Lancashire
On-Premise Club
A luxurious swingers club in Chorley, Lancashire, in the heart of the North West. Welcoming people of all ages, shapes and sizes, the club offers a friendly atmosphere with stylish surroundings, a licensed bar, and regular themed nights including intro nights and swing nights.

Indianapolis, IN
On-Premise Club
ClubHouse 2050 is a members-only BYOB lifestyle club in Indianapolis, Indiana, with a sister venue, ClubHouse Pandora, near Anderson. The club operates Friday and Saturday nights from 8 PM to 2 AM and features a dance floor, sports bar, card room, game room, and private play areas. Saturday admission is a flat $50 fee; only paid members may attend on-premise events or access the online community.

Castrop-Rauxel, North Rhine-Westphalia
On-Premise Club
PaaRee is a swinger club in Castrop-Rauxel, Germany, that describes itself as a tolerant, uninhibited, and active swinger meeting place with sophistication and class. The venue features multiple themed rooms of varying sizes, communal showers, a large outdoor terrace, and hosts regular events with different themes throughout the week. Management emphasizes a welcoming environment for newcomers while maintaining strict codes of conduct based on mutual consent and respect.
Chemnitz, Saxony
On-Premise Club
Casa No.1 is a Mediterranean-styled villa tucked away on Blankenauer Strasse in Chemnitz — 500 square metres of indoor space spread across four levels plus a sprawling 5,000 m² outdoor area with a swimming pool, lounge seating for 150, and even yachts repurposed for open-air play. Owned and run by the Ranft family since at least 2011, the club has quietly built one of the strongest reputations in eastern Germany: 4.9 out of 5 stars across 831 reviews on JOYclub, with more than 458,000 recorded visitor check-ins and 1,816 fans on the platform. Everything is all-inclusive — admission covers the full bar, a gourmet buffet with themed dishes, sauna, towels, and parking (including RV spots). The club operates two regular nights: Wednesday's "Afterwork 2.0" from 5 pm to midnight (ladies free, couples from €60) and Saturday themed parties from 8 pm to 3 am (couples from €90, single men from €100). Each Saturday brings a different theme — from 80s retro nights and Schlagerparty XXL to Caribbean pool events and the annual Oktoberfest. Facilities span a dance floor with live DJs, a massage lounge, glory holes, a fully equipped BDSM area, private and group play rooms, and a cosy sauna for cooler evenings. Gentlemen who arrive without clubwear can rent suit pants and a shirt for €10 including professional cleaning. First-timers get a genuine welcome through the "First Time 4 Free" programme, and the club's motto — "Everything is possible, nothing is mandatory" — sets the tone for a consent-first atmosphere. JOYclub members receive a €10 discount on standard admission. Directions are simple: A4 Exit 70 Chemnitz-Glösa, then 2 km on the B107 toward Chemnitz — look for the colourful chimney. Large on-site parking means no circling the block, and Bus Line 22 (Hochhausfurt stop) covers the 3 km from the Hauptbahnhof if you'd rather not drive.

Leeds, West Yorkshire
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The original premier swingers club in Leeds, operating for over 30 years. A secure, members-only venue with spa-grade facilities including jacuzzi, sauna and steam room, championing inclusivity and accessibility for guests of all backgrounds.

Ottawa, Ontario
On-Premise Club
Lux Velvet hosts lifestyle-friendly parties and events across Ottawa, catering to adventurous and flirtatious adults. Events range from themed dance parties to social gatherings, held at various venues around the city. Open to solo guests, couples, and groups.
Hof an der Saale, Bavaria
On-Premise Club
DORO Club bills itself as "the event and swinger club for Bavaria, Saxony and Thuringia," with the motto "Enjoy with all your senses." In a clean, well-maintained setting, guests experience refined evenings and electric eroticism, including a club area with countless themed rooms and special overnight experience rooms. The club welcomes all curious and tolerant couples and singles, from beginners to experienced visitors.

Providence, RI
On-Premise Club
The Playground is a weekly lifestyle venue in Providence, Rhode Island, offering a safe, fun environment for open-minded adults. The space is operated by BBadd Entertainment and hosts regular events for couples and singles in the lifestyle.
Berlin, Berlin
On-Premise Club
Club Culture Houze has been running for over 25 years, and with experience and love for detail the team strives at every event to create a place where everyone can feel comfortable and let go. The club organizes sex parties for all orientations and genders across two floors, featuring multiple themed rooms, a bar, and a full range of equipment. A strong emphasis on a "Safer Space" ethos means the team actively fosters respectful, appreciative behavior among all guests, with free safer-sex supplies available at the bar.

Spring Grove, PA
On-Premise Club
The Korral is a members-only on-premise lifestyle club on a private property in Spring Grove, Pennsylvania, featuring a seasonal pool, hot tubs, playrooms with fresh linens, a dance floor, bar, and overnight private stay rooms. Monthly kink nights include educational demonstrations, and themed seasonal events run throughout the year. Single men must be sponsored by a current member couple and may only attend their first visit with their sponsor.

Philadelphia, PA
On-Premise Club
The Pleasure Garden Club is a members-only lifestyle nightclub in Philadelphia accommodating over 300 guests. The venue features themed private fantasy rooms, a main dance floor, group shower, two BYOB juice bars with complimentary mixers, and free gated parking. Fridays admit couples, single ladies, and single men; Saturdays are restricted to couples and single ladies. An upscale dress code is enforced and cell phones must be left in vehicles.

London, London
On-Premise Club
London's only queer rave blending techno, house and afrobeats, bringing together different LGBTQ+ communities under one roof. Also a sexual wellness brand and community platform with curated playspaces for all genders and sexualities.

Malsch, Baden-Württemberg
On-Premise Club
Club 2020 arrived on the Baden-Württemberg lifestyle scene in September 2020 with a single mission: to build a genuinely design-forward lifestyle club for the Karlsruhe region. Nestled in the discreet industrial outskirts of Malsch — just 20 km south of Karlsruhe — it quickly earned JoyClub's highest distinction award and a near-perfect 4.7-star Google rating. The two-floor venue is immediately striking, with an interior that is deliberately beautiful and thematically rich, creating what the owners describe as an "exclusive atmosphere with a feel-good factor." The crowd is active and image-conscious — young and young-at-heart, in the club's own words — and the professional, charming staff earn consistent five-star praise for making every guest feel genuinely at home. The ground floor is the social heart: a dance floor with resident DJ, a full cocktail bar, and a first-class buffet restaurant that reviewers routinely single out as uncommonly good for a venue of this kind. Upstairs, six distinctly themed Räume der Lust (Rooms of Desire) offer a range of experiences — from the baroque Versailles Room for elegant intimate encounters, to the lockable Maritime Room, a private Couples Room, the large Caligula Group Room featuring a Czech Wall and glory holes, the Marquis de Sade BDSM Room for alternative play, and an SM area. A sauna and full hygiene facilities round out the amenities. The club operates under a clear consent-first philosophy: everything is possible, nothing is mandatory. Club 2020 runs on an event-driven model — most nights are organised by promoters through JoyClub, Germany's leading lifestyle platform, where pre-registering earns a meaningful discount off door prices. Fridays and Saturdays are the core nights (8 PM to 2 or 3 AM); occasional Thursday and Sunday events broaden the calendar. Entry prices vary by event and guest type: couples pay roughly €79–€99 on core nights, single women €25–€35, and single men at a premium. The themed event calendar is richly varied — Couples & Ladies Nights, BDSM takeovers, Queer Balls, Vegas Nights, neon glow parties, and seasonal celebrations running approximately weekly from April through November. Dress code is strictly elegant to fetish-formal; sneakers and flip-flops are turned away at the door.

Nashville, TN
On-Premise Club
Red Room Nashville is a members-only lifestyle club in Nashville, Tennessee, hosting weekly themed parties for screened adult members. The venue operates on a BYOB policy with complimentary mixers provided, features a large LED dance floor with a professional DJ, private rooms, and VIP seating. Membership is tiered and requires a 24-hour approval process; walk-ins are not accepted.

Bruchsal, Baden-Württemberg
On-Premise Club
Swingerclub Feuer & Eis describes itself as a recreational space for Bruchsal, Karlsruhe, and the surrounding area for like-minded adults. The club features bars, a restaurant, music, and a party atmosphere, and hosts regular themed events with privacy protection for its members. With over 113,000 registered members, it operates as one of the more established lifestyle community hubs in the region.
Detroit, MI
On-Premise Club
Michigan Fun Times is a private lifestyle club in Detroit, MI welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

Berlin, Berlin
On-Premise Club
Insomnia is a hedonistic lifestyle nightclub in Berlin combining swinger, fetish, and BDSM elements across themed party nights. The venue welcomes free spirits of all orientations with international DJs, performance stages, and a consent-focused community atmosphere.

Chorley, Lancashire
On-Premise Club
A private members-only social club in Chorley, Lancashire, celebrating uniqueness and alternative lifestyles. A safe space where members are empowered and accepted for who they are, welcoming all identities to drink, dance and socialise with like-minded people.

Chudleigh, Devon
On-Premise Club
Club Utopia is the South West's premier alternative lifestyle events venue, dedicated to providing a safe, community-focused space for its guests. The club features a dance floor, bar area, private rooms, and requires all new members to undergo verification, positioning itself as a professionally managed venue that prioritises guest safety.

Toronto, Ontario
On-Premise Club
Oasis Aqualounge is a clothing-optional, water-themed private members club for adults 19 and over, located in a restored 19th-century mansion in downtown Toronto. The venue features a year-round heated outdoor pool, hot tub, sauna, two bars, and play areas spanning four floors. Solo men are admitted Sunday through Thursday; Fridays and Saturdays are reserved for women and couples only.

Cocoa, FL
On-Premise Club
Tucked into Cocoa Village since 2016, Club 3X has built its reputation as the Space Coast's only on-premise lifestyle venue — and wears that identity with real pride. The 2,245-square-foot, two-floor space blends proper nightclub energy (thumping music, dance floor with spinning pole, pool table, bar seating) with the warm ease of a house party where regulars already know each other by name. The vibe is intentionally low-pressure: no judgment, genuine consent culture, and staff who welcome first-timers with a personal tour before they decide to stay. Club 3X has also planted itself firmly as Brevard County's LGBTQ+ safe space — Thursday is dedicated Pride Night, and the community is explicitly bi-curious and queer-friendly every night of the week. Beyond the social floor, the club layers in an impressive range of play spaces for a venue this size. Downstairs sits a dedicated BDSM dungeon stocked with a St. Andrew's Cross, spanking bench, suspension points, and a Sybian — joined by a Motor Bunny on Saturdays — plus two semi-private playrooms. Upstairs, the loft opens into a lounge, a shower room, a private lockable room for couples, and a larger group room with beds. A Dungeon Master staff member oversees the fetish spaces every Saturday. The club is clothing-optional all four nights, with bar service on-site and food from the sister lounge next door. Four themed nights give the week a clear rhythm: Wednesday's Hump Day is intimate and low-key; Thursday becomes Pride Night, explicitly welcoming the LGBTQ+ community and bi-curious guests. Fantasy Friday opens to couples seeking singles of any gender, voyeurs, exhibitionists, and nudists — with free pizza making a regular appearance. Sexy Saturday is the flagship: biggest crowd, best music, full fetish room with a Dungeon Master on duty. Entry is donation-based for couples (roughly $40–$45 suggested) and single women (~$10); single men pay $60 on Fridays and $80 on Saturdays. Membership is 18+ and required — sign up online or at the door on your first visit.

London, London
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Europe's premier members-only ENM club hosting 150+ events per year in the City of London. A safe and regulated environment for likeminded professionals to flirt, tease and explore, welcoming both beginners and the more experienced.

Runcorn, Cheshire
On-Premise Club
A stylish, private members-only swingers club in Old Town, Runcorn, providing a safe, exciting and discreet environment. Designed for open-minded couples, bi-curious women, LGBTQ+ guests and vetted single men, combining vibrant energy with uncompromising privacy.

Leicester, Leicestershire
On-Premise Club
Leicester's only alternative sauna for entertainment and the more adventurous, also known as Bond Street Retreat. A welcoming venue where all are welcome, with friendly staff happy to give tours and help newcomers feel at ease.

Glasgow, Scotland
On-Premise Club
Tucked into a quiet corner of Kelvindale on Glasgow's leafy west side, CJ's at The Townhouse has built a reputation as one of Scotland's most welcoming swingers clubs. The venue spans two floors of a discreet townhouse on Ashburton Road, with a trio of stripper-pole-lined lounges, a self-service bar and a buffet downstairs, and a warren of eight themed playrooms upstairs. Owner CJ personally walks first-timers through the space, and the crowd — a friendly mix of regulars and newcomers, often spanning their late twenties to early sixties — sets a tone that's more living-room than nightclub. Parties run on a tight rhythm: Friday nights (8pm–midnight) are couples and single ladies only; Saturdays (9pm–2am) open the door to a limited number of single men; and once a month, a Wednesday afternoon party (noon–3pm) welcomes everyone. There are also dedicated gay and bi-male nights run under the @cjs4gay banner. Entry is by prior booking only — no walk-ins, no admittance after 11pm — and photo ID (passport, driving licence or utility bill) is required at the door. Dress code is strictly enforced: a sexy little number for the ladies, smart casual or sexy attire for the gents. The playrooms cover everything from a cinema lounge and an open group room to a fully equipped dungeon, a medical-themed private room, a voyeur room, and a couples-and-single-females-only room with a love swing. Phones are off in public areas and cameras are banned outright, which keeps the vibe relaxed and discreet. The "party contribution" at the door covers a buffet plus tea, coffee and soft drinks; alcohol is BYOB with no corkage. Towels and condoms are provided, there's a separate indoor smoking area, and an on-site wardrobe and makeover service is on hand for anyone who wants to dress up before they head in.

Country Club Hills, IL
On-Premise Club
CC House Party is the most talked-about lifestyle house party in metropolitan Chicago — an 8,000-square-foot private facility in Country Club Hills that fills with 60 to 100 couples every Saturday night. Two floors of play rooms, a dance floor with a pole and state-of-the-art sound and lighting, open and private party rooms, voyeur and exhibition spaces, massage table, bondage equipment, and a group shower give the space a genuinely upscale feel that earns its spotless 5-out-of-5 cleanliness rating on Kasidie. Eight co-ed bathrooms, towels, and a full dinner buffet are all included in admission — bring your own bottles and the mixers are on the house. Doors open at 8 pm and close hard at 11 pm — no late entry. The vibe tilts heavily toward couples and single women; single men are currently not being approved for membership. Getting in requires an online application through the Modern Lifestyle platform, a community profile with a posed couple photo, and ID verification at the door on your first visit. Membership runs $66.59 for six months (non-recurring), with event tickets purchased separately per party. Credit card charges appear discreetly as "ML Ticketing." Beyond the weekly Saturday parties, CC House Party organises travel events — lifestyle cruises, resort takeovers, and the annual Naughty N'awlins hotel takeover in New Orleans. The club's address stays private by design (you receive it after approval), and the whole operation leans into discretion: no public social media, no walk-ins, no exceptions. Listed on Kasidie (Club #2052), SLS, and Playdar (Club #502), with a phone line at (219) 689-8273 for questions.

Amherst, Nova Scotia
On-Premise Club
Club ESP (Extra Sensual People) is a swingers club located near the Nova Scotia and New Brunswick border, operating since 1991 and recognized as the oldest lifestyle club in the Maritimes. The 3,300-square-foot facility includes a dance area, conversation spaces, play areas, a sauna, an indoor Jacuzzi, and seasonal outdoor hot tubs. Membership is limited to couples and single women, with attendance twice monthly in summer and monthly during other seasons; social outings such as campouts and hotel suite parties supplement regular club nights.

München, Bavaria
On-Premise Club
Cats 2.0 is Munich's oldest swinger club — a legacy that stretches back through its earlier incarnations as Karibik and the original Cats before relaunching at Paul-Gerhardt-Allee 44 in March 2022 under owner Sven Drummer. The 500 m² space holds up to 150 guests across six separate rooms including lockable couples' suites, a fully equipped BDSM area, a whirlpool, massage room, dance floor with top DJs on weekends, and a bar serving branded drinks and cocktails. Admission is all-inclusive: cold and warm buffet, every drink on the menu, towels, condoms, shower products, and locker access are all covered in the door price. Cash only. The club runs six nights a week with a different flavour each evening — Monday's "Schnupper Montag" is designed for first-timers at the lowest price point (couples €50, ladies €15), Tuesday is "Hot & Active," Wednesday welcomes a higher single-male ratio with "Herrenüberschuss," Thursday adds massage sessions with Kim, Friday brings "Sway and Play" and college-themed nights, and Saturday peaks with "Dark Experience" parties and headline DJs. Standard weekend pricing sits at €75–80 for couples, €120 for single men, and €25 for ladies, with JOYclub members saving €10 across the board. The club closes Sundays. With 3,080 JOYclub fans, nearly a million recorded visitor check-ins, and a 4.5/5 rating across 905+ reviews, Cats 2.0 has the numbers to back up its self-proclaimed "Big City Club" status. House rules are firm but sensible: towels between bodies and mattresses, no food or drinks in play areas, no street shoes, and no towel-only dress — this isn't an FKK club. Security is on-site nightly, and the motto "Everything is possible, nothing is mandatory" sets a clear consent-first tone.
Darlaston, West Midlands
On-Premise Club
Chameleons in Darlaston is one of the UK's most established swingers clubs — over 25 years in the business, open 363 days a year (every day except Tuesday), across a three-floor sauna-based venue just off Junction 9 of the M6. The ground floor holds reception, a bar and lounge, a dance floor, two large jacuzzis, singles changing, and showers. Upstairs you'll find a TV lounge, couples changing, a steam room, main shower area, ladies' powder room, and a mix of private and communal play rooms including a couples-only section. The top floor adds a sauna box, more showers, extra play rooms, and lockable rooms for privacy. Ten on-site hotel rooms are available for overnight stays — five en-suites including one superior room with its own entrance. Each night has its own character: Monday is Bi-Night (strictly bisexual and bi-friendly, TVs welcome, 2 pm–midnight), Wednesday through Friday runs from 11 am, Thursday adds Nude Night from 6 pm (strictly no clothing or towels), Friday and Saturday stay open until 3 am, and Saturday switches to couples and single ladies only after 7:30 pm. The club is BYOB — bring your bottles and the bar will refrigerate and serve them back to you. Food is served during sessions and gets genuine praise (the lamb shank in particular). Lifetime membership is a one-off fee: £25 for couples, £10 for single ladies, £80 for single men, with entrance on top ranging from £12 to £40 depending on the night and gender. Single men can enquire Tuesday through Friday and Sunday, but membership isn't guaranteed and depends on the ratio of couples to single ladies. ID is mandatory — one form for couples and single ladies, two forms for single men. The club has an 8,900-strong Facebook following, 1,400+ Instagram followers, 200+ FabSwingers reviews rated "Fabulous," and runs a second venue in Newport (24 Church Street). Free on-site parking, a dedicated taxi service through Link Up Cabs (0121 568 8989), and bus links from Walsall, Wolverhampton, and Birmingham make getting there straightforward.

Bournemouth, Dorset
On-Premise Club
Bournemouth and Dorset's lifestyle club hosting parties, socials, and community events. A vibrant venue for open-minded adults looking to connect through a mix of social gatherings and themed party nights in the Dorset area.
Stoke-on-Trent, Staffordshire
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atlantisEVOLUTION is a nightclub-themed swingers and lifestyle club in Burslem, Stoke-on-Trent, voted the No. 1 nightclub-themed swingers club in the UK. Run by beloved hosts Cat and Tag for over 15 years, it spans two floors with dance areas, multiple play rooms, kasbahs, a cosy lounge, and an outside courtyard. The club operates as BYOB with a customer cooler fridge and sells soft drinks and mixers. Fridays are open to all including single males, while Saturdays are couples and single females only. Special events include PlaY Xtra (free 1st Wednesday), EVOLUTIONfetish (4th Sunday, non-swinging), Greedy Girls, Hot Wives, and newbie-friendly PoP My Cherry nights. Rated 4.7/5 across 40+ reviews, consistently praised for its welcoming, no-pressure atmosphere and attentive staff.

Ottawa, Ontario
On-Premise Club
The Phoenix is a private erotic social club in Ottawa offering weekly events including play nights on Mondays, BDSM/kink nights on Fridays, Swinger Saturdays, and inclusive bi/queer nights. The venue welcomes couples, singles, and all gender identities, and is also available for private party rentals.

Anderson, SC
On-Premise Club
The Foothills Club is a private membership-based lifestyle club in Anderson, South Carolina, catering to adults 21 and older. The venue hosts monthly themed events with ballroom dancing, an open bar, and finger food, and welcomes couples and singles in the lifestyle. A money-back guarantee is offered for first-time members, and lifetime membership is available.
Northwich, Cheshire
On-Premise Club
Club Alchemy is one of the UK's most ambitious lifestyle venues — a purpose-built adult club in Northwich, Cheshire, that hosts immersive themed events roughly two to three Saturdays a month. The venue features over 30 playrooms across multiple levels, including an Amsterdam Street section, a Live Porn Room, and a 1,500 square foot steam complex. Regular event nights span everything from Temptation and Fuckalicious to the upscale Dark Velvet and the exclusive Club Flesh, hosted in partnership with Torture Garden. The facilities are comprehensive: a full bar, dance floor, sauna, hot tub, dungeon, dark room, private rooms, and over 200 individual lockers. Entry is per-event with tickets purchased online — couples from £35, single ladies from £15. Single males are accepted in very limited numbers at £45, typically by prior email arrangement, and a VIP room is available for groups at an additional £30. Club Alchemy has earned a loyal following across the northwest England lifestyle scene for its production values and the breadth of its themed programming. The venue is 18+ and non-membership — each event is open to newcomers and regulars alike, with a strong emphasis on consent, inclusivity, and a welcoming atmosphere for couples and LGBTQ+ guests.

Houston, TX
On-Premise Club
Club Choices was a private members-only lifestyle nightclub in Houston, Texas, spanning over 9,000 square feet across three levels. The venue offered VIP suites, private play spaces, and a full nightclub atmosphere. The club is currently closed.

Newcastle upon Tyne, Tyne and Wear
On-Premise Club
The only venue of its kind in the heart of Newcastle upon Tyne, fully refurbished with jacuzzi, spacious changing rooms, lounge and bar, sauna, steam room and cinema. A welcoming club where you'll feel safe, secure and comfortable from the moment you arrive.

Houston, TX
On-Premise Club
The Pendulum Club South is a women-owned lifestyle venue in Houston with a contemporary mid-town vibe attracting a younger crowd. Like the other Pendulum locations, it features 10 play areas and is BYOB with complimentary ice, cups, and mixers. Open to couples, single women, and select single men on designated nights.

Flint, MI
On-Premise Club
Club Chameleon hosts swingers house parties in the Flint, Michigan area across a 3.5-floor venue with two bars, a dance floor, multiple playrooms, a hot tub, and a bonfire pit. Themed events include food, drinks, and prizes in a no-pressure BYOB environment welcoming to newcomers. Overnight accommodations are available.

Tempsford, Bedfordshire
On-Premise Club
The Vanilla Alternative is a private members lifestyle venue based at The Anchor Lodge Hotel in Tempsford, Bedfordshire. Featuring a classy nightclub feel with bar and dance floor areas, the venue hosts themed nights, festival weekends, and offers on-site hotel accommodation in a welcoming, non-judgmental environment.

Chicago, IL
On-Premise Club
Prestige Club Escapes is a couples-only membership club operating three luxury suite destinations in the Chicago area, located in Franklin Park, Midlothian, and Chicago proper. The club offers private suite accommodations with spa tubs and upscale furnishings, marketed as an adults-only escape for couples. Membership applications are reviewed within two hours, though approval is not guaranteed.

DeKalb, IL
On-Premise Club
Lifestyle Playtime is a private lifestyle club in DeKalb, IL welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

Near Crediton, Devon
On-Premise Club
Naked Occasions is a swingers venue situated between Crediton and Tiverton near Exeter, Devon, hosting parties for like-minded adults pursuing a liberated lifestyle. The relaxing venue features a dance floor, pool table, massage room, and hot tubs with a friendly, discreet atmosphere for both newcomers and experienced guests.

Derby, Derbyshire
On-Premise Club
A fully licensed, inclusive space in Derby created by swingers, for swingers, with over 40 themed rooms including a dungeon, disco room, and Harry Potter-themed space. A safe, judgment-free environment welcoming all orientations and experience levels.

Mansfield, Nottinghamshire
On-Premise Club
A boutique lifestyle club in Mansfield, Nottinghamshire, run by experienced hosts who pride themselves on creating a welcoming and inclusive atmosphere. Features a fully licensed bar with signature cocktails, playrooms, and a prejudice-free environment.

Swinton, Greater Manchester
On-Premise Club
Manchester's swingers playground, located on Sutherland Street. A full-service venue offering themed nights and events throughout the week for couples and singles, with a welcoming and safe environment open from afternoons through to the early hours.

Bury, Greater Manchester
On-Premise Club
A safe, discreet lifestyle club for couples and singles in Bury, Manchester, operating since 2002. Features include a traditional sauna, jacuzzi, plunge pool, group rooms and themed party nights in a welcoming environment for like-minded people.
Waltham, MA
On-Premise Club
The Sterling is an adult lifestyle party venue serving the greater Boston area, operating out of Waltham, Massachusetts and drawing members from across Massachusetts, Rhode Island, New Hampshire, and Maine. Events run Friday and Saturday evenings in a BYOB lounge setting, with admission limited to couples and single women; single men are admitted only at occasional Ladies' Choice events. Attendance requires being placed on an invite list, with both partners participating in a phone screening.

Leicester, Leicestershire
On-Premise Club
One of the smaller clubs in Leicester that's friendly, modern, classy, and above all very clean. Features a hot tub, regular themed events, and dedicated Newbie Day Thursdays for those new to the scene, with a welcoming LGBTQ-friendly community.

Decatur, MI
On-Premise Club
The Meeting Place is one of Michigan's oldest on-premise lifestyle clubs, located near Kalamazoo. The venue hosts parties on Saturdays and select third Fridays with a BYOB and 420-friendly policy. Couples must call together on the day of the event to receive the rules, fees, and address.
London, London
On-Premise Club
The Sublime Society is an exclusive hedonistic soiree and sensual salon based in London's West End, where fantasy and desire merge in an intimate, romantic setting draped in silk and secrecy. Founded by international burlesque artists, it celebrates sensuality as an art form through live performances, interactive installations, and curated cocktails in upscale Mayfair venues.

Edinburgh, Scotland
On-Premise Lifestyle Club
AfterDark is Edinburgh's premier private members swinging and kink club, originally known as "After Eight" before rebranding and moving to its current larger premises in October 2022. Located in a converted warehouse unit at Bankhead Workspace in Edinburgh's Sighthill area, the venue delivers an unexpectedly polished experience behind its industrial exterior. The spacious social lounge serves as the central hub, with atmospheric lighting setting the tone for the evening. Surrounding it are 9 dedicated play spaces of varying sizes — from intimate private rooms with doors to open play areas — plus a cinema room, dungeon/BDSM area, and a glory hole. Lockers are provided at the entrance (phones must be stored here), and changing rooms with showers and mirrors are available. Towels, condoms, and lubricant are provided throughout. AfterDark operates BYOB — bring your own alcohol and enjoy it in the lounge. Soft drinks are available for purchase via tokens bought at reception. The club runs a varied weekly schedule: Wednesday midweek sessions (8 PM–1 AM), Friday and Saturday main nights (9 PM–3 AM), and rotating Thursday events including TV/CD/Bi & Admirers nights, quiz nights, and rope classes. Themed events rotate regularly — lingerie nights, UV parties, wrestling themes, couples-only evenings, and seasonal celebrations. First-timers are welcomed with a guided tour from staff covering the layout, rules, and etiquette. Many guests attend simply to socialise without participating in play, and the club's 4.6-star Google rating (33 reviews) reflects the consistently welcoming atmosphere. Membership is £20/year (arranged on first visit), with entry fees of £35 for couples and £40 for single males on weekends. Dress code is smart casual — no sportswear, team clothing, joggers, or hats permitted.

London, London
On-Premise Club
London's friendliest members-only swingers club featuring multiple themed play spaces, a dungeon, lounge bar and a no-pressure atmosphere. Hosting weekly events like Frisky Fridays and Butterfly Club nights with real energy and sexy vibes for all experience levels.
Miami, FL
On-Premise Club
Miami Velvet is a private adult lifestyle nightclub in Miami, Florida, spanning 20,000 square feet and claiming the title of Florida's largest on-premise swingers club. The club hosts events on Friday and Saturday nights plus monthly themed parties, and draws a membership base from across South Florida and internationally. A couples membership is waived for first-time visitors, though entry fees still apply, and a dress code is enforced.

Bad Honnef, North Rhine-Westphalia
On-Premise Club
Chateau Royal is a couples-only club set in a historic 1903 villa deep in the forested Siebengebirge hills outside Bad Honnef — 870 square metres across three levels with capacity for 120 couples, making it one of the largest and highest-rated Pärchenclubs in North Rhine-Westphalia. Owner Stephan personally greets every guest at the door and gives first-timers a guided tour of the themed rooms, BDSM area with cage, waterbed room, cinema room, fireplace lounge, sauna, and covered outdoor terrace with its own cocktail bar. Two indoor bars serve drinks and cocktails all night, and the buffet — consistently described in reviews as restaurant-quality — is replenished late into the evening. Everything is included in admission: all food, all drinks, towels, and condoms. Cash only at the door, €10 key deposit for lockers. The club opens Fridays at 7 pm (until 3 am, couples €110, single women €40) and Saturdays at 7:30 pm (until 4 am, couples €120, single women €40), with JOYclub members saving roughly €10. Single men are not admitted — this is a strict couples-and-women-only policy, with the sole exception being Trio evenings on the last Friday of each month where one pre-vetted man may attend with a couple. Themed events rotate weekly: FKK naturist parties, Jung & Wild for younger guests, U50 nights, Ladies Night, Königinnen der Nacht, Schamloses Treiben, and masked Venetian galas, each with its own enforced dress code. Saturdays regularly hit waitlist status, so advance registration is strongly recommended. Dress code is strictly enforced — erotic clubwear, leather, latex, lingerie, and heels for women; fitted black clubwear, leather, mesh, or bondage pants for men. No jeans, street clothes, printed t-shirts, flip-flops, or dirty shoes under any circumstances. Phones and cameras are completely prohibited inside. The club holds a 4.9/5 rating across 3,509 JOYclub reviews with 7,909 fans and over a million profile visits, plus 4.7/5 on Google from 120 reviews — #1 of 7 clubs in Bad Honnef. Free parking with overflow shuttle and valet service, tucked into the valley near the colourful landmark chimney. The 10-year anniversary celebration runs May 23–25, 2026, including a Rhine boat cruise.

Beverly Hills, CA
On-Premise Club
SNCTM is an ultra-exclusive private members club founded in Beverly Hills in 2013 and now headquartered in New York, hosting events internationally. Evenings are structured as curated theatrical experiences — beginning as refined salons and progressing into immersive performances where guests may observe or participate. Membership is tiered (Aurum, Dominus, Deus), recording devices are strictly prohibited, and all attendees agree to confidentiality requirements.

Little Rock, AR
On-Premise Club
The 1836 Club is a private lifestyle club in Little Rock, AR welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

Gastonia, NC
On-Premise Club
Club Red Door is a private adult lifestyle club located in Gastonia, North Carolina, near Charlotte off I-85. The venue features five themed rooms including a theater and dungeon space, with BYOB beer and wine permitted and doors open Friday and Saturday nights. Couples and single women are welcome; single men require prior approval via message.
Colmworth, Bedfordshire
On-Premise Club
Jay-Dees is a purpose-built, stylish swingers club on a secluded property on the Bedfordshire/Cambridgeshire border, near the A1. Facilities include a disco with pole, cinema and playrooms, dungeon area with original beams, hot tub, and sauna in a safe, no-pressure environment where guests can meet and mingle.

Ottawa, Ontario
On-Premise Club
Obsession Swing Lounge is a private lifestyle club in Ottawa, Ontario welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

Portland, OR
On-Premise Club
Club Privata is a members-only lifestyle nightclub in Portland, Oregon, spanning 8,000 square feet across three levels with two full bars, a dining area, a VIP suite, and private and semi-private play spaces. A live DJ, dance floor with cage, and strictly enforced dress code contribute to the upscale atmosphere. Bottle service and VIP suite reservations are available, and membership is required for entry.

Las Vegas, NV
On-Premise Club
The Green Door is an adults-only social and lifestyle club in Las Vegas, Nevada. The venue operates Wednesday through Sunday from 8 PM, offers membership programs, and hosts regular events. Tours are available for prospective members.
Walsall, West Midlands
On-Premise Club
The UK's freshest adult entertainment venue in Walsall, described as a swingers club for the liberated generation. Features clean, spacious premises with themed play areas, a welcoming atmosphere, and a reputation for making guests feel safe and comfortable.
Stanley, County Durham
On-Premise Club
Voted the best swingers club in the North East and one of the best in the UK, located in Stanley, County Durham. Retained the title of friendliest club in the UK, known for themed nights, a welcoming community and a supportive environment to explore the lifestyle.
Erfurt, Thuringia
On-Premise Club
Laszivo Swingerclub is a lifestyle and adult entertainment venue in Erfurt, Thuringia, serving the wider Erfurt and Gotha region. The club offers cocktail bars, an erotic atmosphere, and regular events, and maintains a presence across both Erfurt and Gotha. It is an arts and entertainment establishment welcoming adults interested in the swinger lifestyle.

New Orleans, LA
On-Premise Club
Colette New Orleans is an on-premise erotic couples club offering a European swinging experience in New Orleans. The venue is primarily couples-focused, with single guests admitted on select evenings only. Colette is one of the few established on-premise lifestyle clubs in the New Orleans area.

Glasgow, Scotland
On-Premise Club
Based in the heart of Merchant City in Glasgow, The Ecclesia strives to build a safe kink environment which overlaps with swinging. Born from the closure of Glasgow's historic dungeon, they exist to fill the void left by clubs shutting down across Scotland, providing a fantastic space that offers something for everyone.
London, London
On-Premise Club
A night of tease, play and misbehaviour designed for sapphic pleasure and connection. Run by Mint Events, London's most popular lesbian and bisexual event brand since 2006, with three floors to flirt, explore, dance and discover.
Torquay, Devon
On-Premise Club
Within Temptation is a swingers and fetish club in Torquay, Devon, celebrating freedom and exploration as more than just a club but a community. Facilities include a licensed bar, heated indoor pool, sauna, dungeon, gloryholes, orgy bed, pole lounge, and private rooms, with full disabled access to the lower grounds.

Wickford, Essex
On-Premise Club
Monkey Business is a private members-only lifestyle party organisation in Wickford, Essex, inviting guests to step out of the vanilla and into a life full of erotic excitement. Events range from intimate gatherings to lavish parties with a bar, hot tub, heated pool, and newly refurbished social and play rooms.

Freilingen, Rhineland-Palatinate
On-Premise Club
Absinth Swingerclub in Freilingen offers an erotic and varied ambiance across approximately 750 square meters on two levels, including themed rooms, intimate nooks styled in beautiful decor, and large communal play areas. Guests are invited to enjoy the rich buffet, sauna, and lively bar in a relaxed atmosphere. The club emphasizes that there are no commercial arrangements — all interaction is natural and consensual.

Dallas, TX
On-Premise Club
colette Dallas is the chain's high-energy Texas flagship — a private, members-only on-premise lifestyle club spanning 8,000+ square feet across two floors in northwest Dallas, near Love Field. The aesthetic is modern warehouse meets nightclub: a dance floor anchored by stripper poles and a stage, high-tech lighting and sound, and a curated upscale crowd that takes the dress code seriously. The Dallas Observer ranked colette first in its "Best Swingers Clubs Dallas" feature, and SwingerLifestyle.com puts it at #2 across all of Texas — the most prominent on-premise lifestyle venue in Dallas–Fort Worth. Play spaces are tiered three ways: semi-private rooms with sheer curtains, fully private rooms with blackout curtains, and a centerpiece group play room with a round bed and spectator seating. There's also an in-club movie theater showing adult films, a quieter second-floor lounge, and a VIP room rentable for private parties of up to 30 ($500–$1,000) — a perk Texas reviewers consistently call best in the state. The bar is BYOB — no liquor license, but free mixers, ice, and setups are provided, plus a beverage cooler for member use. Newbie Night runs every Wednesday with the membership fee waived for first-timers; staff give every newcomer a guided tour on arrival. colette is a national chain founded by John and Jackie Melfi (who also run the OpenLove101 lifestyle blog and podcast). The Dallas location opened in 2012 and connects into a 250,000+ member network across five cities — Dallas, Austin, Houston, New Orleans, and San Antonio. One membership works at all of them. Single men are welcome Wednesday through Friday; Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only. Recurring themed nights include Pantiless Fridays, Thirty Dollar Thursday, and rotating fetish, lingerie, and costume parties — and i.Candy Parties hosts large monthly events at the venue throughout the year.

Sunbury-on-Thames, Surrey
On-Premise Club
The Hellfire Club is a well-established lifestyle club in Sunbury-on-Thames, London, hosting swingers, fetish, and BDSM parties for discerning couples and limited singles since 2008. Facilities include 9 lockable playrooms, one of London's largest dungeons, a schoolhouse, grope maze, and elegant wood-paneled lounge areas with Chesterfield seating.

Jacksonville, FL
On-Premise Club
Mitch's Place is a private house party venue in Jacksonville, Florida hosting weekly Saturday night swinger parties from 9 PM to 2 AM. The space includes a bar area, dance floor with a stripper pole, outdoor covered patio with a fire pit, and an enclosed hot tub maintained at 102 degrees. Entry is limited to couples and single women; BYOB is the format with setups, ice, and snacks provided.
Birmingham, AL
On-Premise Club
The Red Chair is a nonprofit BDSM and alternative lifestyle club and educational organization based in Birmingham, Alabama, serving the Central Alabama community. Established as Alabama's oldest organization of its kind, it operates as a 501(c) nonprofit and hosts educational seminars, classes, group discussions, and regular events. The club is inclusive of all sexual orientations and consensual relationship styles, and is a coalition partner of the National Coalition of Sexual Freedom.

Post Falls, ID
On-Premise Club
The Idaho White Rose is a house party-style swingers club located in Post Falls, Idaho, between Spokane and Coeur d'Alene. Monthly themed events run Saturday evenings from 8 PM to 1 AM, with past themes including Pajama Party, Leather and Lace, and Hawaiian Party. Membership is required for RSVP access, and the venue address is not published publicly — attendees must contact the club directly.

Hollywood, CA
On-Premise Club
Club Labyrinth LA is an on-premise swingers and kink club set in a private Hollywood building, welcoming couples, single women, and single men. The venue offers group playrooms, semi-private areas, lounge spaces, and a refreshment bar; condoms, lubricant, and towels are provided. The club operates BYOB with a one-bottle limit and, as of early 2025, is temporarily closed while relocating to a new location.

Dundee, Scotland
On-Premise Club
Licensed adult entertainment venue in the centre of Dundee catering to the swinging, BDSM, gay and LGBTQ+ communities. Club Bacchus features swinging parties, BDSM nights, professional domination services and sauna afternoons -- let your fantasies be your only limitation.
Birkenhead, Merseyside
On-Premise Club
An established lifestyle venue on the Wirral hosting events for the swinging, BDSM and LGBTQ+ community for over 20 years. Known for setting the bar high with quality events and a welcoming atmosphere for brief encounters and lasting connections.

Sheffield, South Yorkshire
On-Premise Club
A welcoming swingers venue in Sheffield offering much more than just a place to play -- a space where like-minded individuals can connect, unwind and enjoy an inclusive atmosphere. Features eight distinct playrooms including a BDSM area, with a BYOB policy.
Roth, Bavaria
On-Premise Lifestyle Club
Angel of Love in Roth, Bavaria, is one of Germany's largest and most established lifestyle clubs, operating since the early 2000s in a sprawling 1,000–2,000 sqm venue near Nuremberg. Under new ownership since Spring 2025 (Jasmin & Markus Herrmann), the club has been freshly renovated and continues to operate from its original address at Gildestraße 15 in Roth. The venue features 13 individually themed rooms — including African-inspired, Egyptian, mirror, and dark-room areas — plus a dedicated dungeon/BDSM zone with St. Andrew's crosses, slings, a gynecological chair, and a suspension frame (Galgen). Additional facilities include a sauna, solarium, adult cinema, glory hole area, massage area, and a large dance floor. The on-site bar and kitchen serve drinks and food throughout the evening. Events run Thursday through Saturday with varying atmospheres: Thursday is more relaxed and affordable, Friday is intermediate, and Saturday is the flagship night with the strictest dress code and highest admission. Special events include Dark Intimacy (gothic atmosphere), Die Nacht der O (D/s and BDSM-themed), and Herrenüberschuss nights. The club has a strong community presence on JoyClub with a 4.9/5 rating from over 1,860 reviews and more than 5,000 followers, making it one of the most highly rated clubs in the German lifestyle scene. A dedicated first-visit (Erstbesuch) page on their website helps newcomers understand what to expect — the house philosophy is "Alles ist möglich, nichts ist Pflicht" (Everything is possible, nothing is required). Dress code is strictly enforced on Fridays and Saturdays: lingerie, erotic wear, or evening attire required; jeans and sneakers are not permitted. Changing facilities are available on-site. Single women pay the lowest entry; couples pay a moderate fee; single men pay a premium. All adults 18+ are welcome.

Ottawa, Ontario
On-Premise Club
Probe is a private members' lifestyle club in Ottawa's Byward Market, welcoming individuals of all genders and orientations. The venue focuses on consensual exploration and community building in an inclusive, judgment-free environment. Weekly events and themed nights are featured throughout the year.

Kansas City, MO
On-Premise Club
The SPOTT Night Club is an after-hours nightclub in Kansas City, Missouri, operating at 2111 Television Place. The venue is open Saturday nights until 5 AM and positions itself as the only late-night after-hours party spot in the city. It offers a dance floor, DJ, and full bar service.
Marsberg, North Rhine-Westphalia
On-Premise Club
Das Parkschloss is one of the oldest and most established sauna clubs in Germany, proudly claiming to be the number-one club in the Sauerland region for over 30 years. The facility features multiple saunas including a 100°C Finnish sauna and a 65°C bio sauna, an outdoor pool, wood-heated outdoor whirlpool, large indoor whirlpool, and exclusive rooms with private bathtubs. Themed event days, a freshly prepared buffet, and soft drinks included with entry make it a well-rounded destination for adult leisure.

Brooklyn, NY
On-Premise Club
Hacienda is a members-only lifestyle community in Brooklyn, New York, hosting themed play parties and workshops across NYC. The venue emphasizes consent, community, and curated experiences at a private villa space. Membership includes access to exclusive events, workshop discounts, and a sex-positive social network.

Lutterworth, Leicestershire
On-Premise Club
An exclusive swingers and fetish private members club located on the A5 between Rugby and Nuneaton. Founded in 1999 with over 12,000 members, featuring a dance floor, bars, playrooms, dungeon, hot tub, and on-site hotel accommodation.
Dayton, OH
On-Premise Club
Club 101 has earned its place as Dayton's oldest on-premise lifestyle club through nearly three decades of building one of Ohio's warmest swinger communities. Step inside and you'll find a genuinely no-pressure atmosphere where couples, kinksters, BDSM enthusiasts, and alternative lifestylers are equally at home — whether it's your first visit or your hundredth. The club's DJ is a genuine point of pride, spinning what regulars call the best dance floor set of any lifestyle venue in the region, and the relaxed BYOB setup (cooler storage on-site, complimentary snacks and sodas) keeps the energy social and affordable. The layout is purpose-built for exploration at your own pace. Beyond the main room's dance floor, stripper pole, and pool table, Club 101 offers an impressive range of play spaces: five private rooms, two semi-private rooms with exhibitionist windows, a large group room, a mirrored group room, and a dedicated BDSM room with massage table. Showers, lockers, and on-site private parking round out the practical side — and first-time visitors are warmly invited to take a guided tour before committing to stay. Open Wednesday through Saturday (Saturdays run until 3am), the club requires a modest annual membership — $55 for couples, $65 for single men, $25 for single women — plus a variable door fee by night. The themed event calendar runs year-round: Leather & Lace nights, glow parties, fetish evenings, pole dancing nights, and more. Club 101 also partners with Shameless Care to give members free access to STI education, a sign that this community takes sexual health as seriously as the good times. Cash only; 21+ strictly enforced.
Hamburg, Hamburg
On-Premise Club
EyS Nightclub in Hamburg Barmbek is a frivolous adults-only nightclub decorated in a 1990s nightclub aesthetic, featuring a dance floor, pole, cozy lounge areas, a Red Lounge room, a mini boutique selling erotic clothing, and play spaces with designated changing and shower facilities. The venue enforces a creative dress code — wetlook, patent leather, leather, or latex are welcome, while everyday clothing is not — and entry is free. EyS holds a Google rating of 4.6 and is praised for its friendly, atmospheric character.

Neumünster, Schleswig-Holstein
On-Premise Club
Refugium in Neumünster presents itself as "a protected space for the free development of your sexuality," positioning the club as both a modern swinger venue and a safe place built on respect and a lived "no means no" culture. The club is BDSM-friendly and emphasizes being a stylish environment to celebrate, meet freely, and enjoy safely, holding a 4.8 out of 5 Google rating. It regularly hosts themed evenings and enforces a dress code requiring elegant attire from all guests.
Kranichfeld, Thuringia
On-Premise Club
Erotik Party Club Kranichfeld is a swinger club located in Kranichfeld, Thuringia, offering erotic club events and a welcoming setting for open-minded adults. The club serves guests from across the Erfurt and Weimar region and lists its offerings under erotic clubs and erotic massage categories.
Hamburg, Hamburg
On-Premise Club
PSP — Privates Pärchen und Single Paradies (Private Couples and Singles Paradise) — is one of northern Germany's largest and most established swinger clubs, having operated for over two decades in Hamburg Altona. Spanning around 900 square meters across two floors with 14 rooms and what is reputed to be Germany's largest club contact bar, the venue regularly welcomes between 30 and 80 guests. With 91% positive reviews, PSP has earned its title of "the swinger club with heart."
Country Club Hills, IL
On-Premise Club
Club Release is a private lifestyle club in Country Club Hills, IL welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

Euless, TX
On-Premise Club
Infliction Hall is a BDSM and adult lifestyle club in the Dallas-Fort Worth area of Texas, offering VIP and Platinum membership tiers. The venue hosts regular themed events including rope play nights, educational workshops in partnership with organizations such as the Texas Rope Group, and costume parties. Events typically run from 8 PM to 3 AM on weekends.

Regina, Saskatchewan
On-Premise Club
Club Triple XTC is a private adult lifestyle event organizer based in Regina, Saskatchewan, hosting sociable meet-and-greet nights, residential hot tub parties, and hotel penthouse theme events several times a year. Events welcome all gender identities and sexual orientations, with hot tub parties primarily catering to women and couples and hotel events accommodating 150 or more guests across multiple themed rooms. A free membership application with a screening process is required before attending any event.

Indio, CA
On-Premise Club
Sinners Den is an on-premise adult lifestyle club in Indio, California, featuring more than 15 play rooms, a fully equipped bondage dungeon, a heated saltwater pool, poolside cabanas, and a dance floor with pole dancing. The club is open Saturdays from 9 PM to 2 AM and welcomes adults 18 and over of all backgrounds and experience levels. On-site amenities include showers, towels, food, and drinks.
Schwandt, Mecklenburg-Vorpommern
On-Premise Club
Pärchenclub Namenlos — the "Nameless Couples Club" — is an intimate, independently run swinger club in the village of Schwandt, Mecklenburg-Vorpommern, operating on Friday and Saturday evenings for over 13 years under the care of its owner. The approximately 200 m² venue features a bar, sauna, whirlpool, and private rooms, all lit by candlelight to create a warm and discreet atmosphere with the guiding motto "everything is possible, nothing is required." Despite its rural location, the club draws guests from Demmin, Neubrandenburg, and visiting holidaymakers from the Baltic coast region.
Blackpool, Lancashire
On-Premise Club
Club Play is a lifestyle club based in Blackpool, Lancashire, hosting vibrant evening events that run from 8pm to 3am in partnership with Pineapple Lifestyle. The club operates on a membership basis, and tickets for events can be conveniently purchased through the Ticket Tailor platform. For those visiting the Blackpool area and looking for an exciting night out in the lifestyle scene, Club Play offers a lively and social atmosphere.

Philadelphia, PA
On-Premise Club
Saints & Sinners Philly is an on-premise lifestyle club with two locations in Philadelphia, offering playrooms, lounge areas, common areas, and a dance floor. Regular events include Fishnet Fridays, Newbie Nights, and Kinky Karaoke, typically running 9 PM to 3 AM on weekends. The club operates through the roleplayphilly.com platform and is affiliated with the Modern Lifestyle network.

San Diego, CA
On-Premise Club
Thad's is a private social club in San Diego that has operated since 1973, making it one of the longest-running lifestyle clubs in Southern California. The club hosts couples-focused events Thursday through Saturday and on select Sundays, with entry by invitation — prospective guests call a hostess to confirm availability. Themed events throughout the year include Ladies Night, Mardi Gras, and Valentine's Day gatherings.

Los Angeles, CA
On-Premise Club
Swinghearts is a Southern California-based lifestyle event organizing couple who host swinger parties and social gatherings for the local community. Events are couples-focused with select single attendance, and prospective guests must verify their identity before receiving event details. The organizers emphasize a drama-free, judgment-free environment under the motto "Play with the One you Love."

Hude, Lower Saxony
On-Premise Club
HS Lifestyle Club in Hude, between Bremen and Oldenburg, describes itself as "a different way to spend an evening," offering a unique experience across its disco, two bars, sauna, whirlpool, and multiple themed rooms for up to 500 guests. The club states it is "ideal for couples who want to fulfill their own erotic fantasies" in a discreet and welcoming environment. The venue has earned a DEHOGA gold award for sustainability and operates under the philosophy "be yourself as you are."
Augustusburg, Saxony
On-Premise Club
Swingerclub Waldhaus is hidden in a charming landscape at the foot of the Augustusburg near Chemnitz, offering couples with a modern outlook the opportunity to spend exciting hours in an exclusive and harmonious atmosphere. Guests are free to live out their erotic desires in their own way, with special emphasis placed on a refined and harmonious environment. The club hosts varied themed parties and opens its outdoor areas for sunbathing and swimming during summer months.

Kansas City, MO
On-Premise Club
KC Book Club is a lifestyle social group in Kansas City, Missouri, hosting events and gatherings for open-minded adults in the metro area.

London, Ontario
On-Premise Club
Samantha's Place is a long-running adults club in London, Ontario, serving couples, single women, and open-minded adults. Events are held monthly rather than weekly, with early-bird entry incentives and a dress-to-impress clientele. The venue describes itself as Southwestern Ontario's longest-running club of its kind.

Neumünster, Schleswig-Holstein
On-Premise Club
Asthoria Swingdreams is an intimate, family-style swingers club in Neumünster, Schleswig-Holstein, operating under the motto "familiar, uncomplicated, sophisticated." Organized as a registered non-profit association (e.V.), the club spans 300 square meters and hosts up to 50 guests in a relaxed, welcoming atmosphere. The venue features a bar with dance floor and pole dancing stage, comfortable lounge areas, a darkroom, SM studio with Andreaskreuz (St. Andrew's cross), themed rooms including a jungle room, a medical/examination room, sauna, massage area, and shower facilities. A buffet and self-service drinks are available. Open Tuesday through Saturday with extended weekend hours (Fri–Sat until 3 AM), plus the 2nd and 4th Sunday of each month. Entry ranges from €10 for single women to €30–50 for couples and €65–75 for single men, depending on the day. The dress code calls for frivolous and sexy attire — lingerie or erotic dresses for women, leather, latex, or erotic underwear for men. Known for its beginner-friendly environment, the club is consistently described by visitors as clean, cozy, and welcoming, making it a good starting point for newcomers to the lifestyle scene in northern Germany.

Hildesheim, Lower Saxony
On-Premise Club
Club Paradies Hildesheim describes itself as "Number 1" in Hildesheim and the surrounding area, welcoming all erotically interested guests under the motto "come as a stranger, leave as a friend." The club features a bar, sauna, whirlpool, and tastefully furnished love rooms where a variety of fantasies can be fulfilled. There is no entry fee — guests only pay for the time they enjoy themselves.
Naperville, IL
On-Premise Club
Couples Playhouse In Paradise is an on-premise lifestyle club in Naperville, Illinois, catering to couples in the greater Chicago area.

New York, NY
On-Premise Club
NSFW (New Society for Wellness) is a members-only lifestyle club and community organization founded in New York City, with additional clubhouses in Miami, Los Angeles, Chicago, Philadelphia, and Paris. Membership tiers range from basic access to full clubhouse privileges, and the organization hosts curated events, workshops, and publishes a lifestyle magazine. An active online community and Discord server complement the in-person programming.

Vancouver, British Columbia
On-Premise Club
The Pendulum Society is a members-only adult lifestyle and kink club based in the Vancouver, British Columbia area, open to adults 19 and older. The venue features themed parties, semi-private playrooms, a saltwater inground pool, and a dungeon space with equipment, and also offers private event rentals and photo or video shoot bookings. All events are consent-based and inclusive of all genders and sexual orientations; sexual activity is never guaranteed.
Kiel, Schleswig-Holstein
On-Premise Club
Erlebnisbar Eden Kiel describes itself as the "#1 destination for frivolous outings in Northern Germany" — not a brothel or club, but an experience bar for tolerant and open-minded people of all genders and orientations. The elegantly furnished discotheque features a large bar, dance floor, oversized red leather suites, a St. Andrew's Cross, a love swing, a whirlpool, and a large play area. Solo men are admitted only in the company of couples, and the venue hosts frivolous parties for couples, swingers, and all orientations.

Kamenz, Saxony
On-Premise Club
Club Schiedel is a lifestyle and entertainment venue spanning 1,000 square meters, offering Lifestyle, Erotik & Dance with elegantly designed spaces built from natural materials. The club offers themed rooms, relaxation areas including a hot tub and sauna, dining facilities, and accommodations, operating under the philosophy that everything is possible but nothing is mandatory. Regular events and a welcoming atmosphere make it a destination for couples and singles in the Kamenz area.
Nuneaton, Warwickshire
On-Premise Club
A premier private members adult club in Nuneaton, catering to swingers, kink, fetish, BDSM, and alternative lifestyles. Conveniently located for visitors across the Midlands, providing a welcoming and inclusive environment for all.
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Springfield, MO
On-Premise Club
The Slippery Pineapple is a lifestyle party club in Springfield, Missouri. The venue hosts regular events throughout the year and promotes itself as a social space for meeting other adults and dancing. It is a relatively new establishment with an active social media presence on Facebook, TikTok, and X.

Keller, TX
On-Premise Club
Group in Keller TX is a lifestyle event organization based in North Texas that describes itself as the longest continuously running lifestyle group in the region. The group hosts hotel floor takeover parties at all-suites properties in Dallas and Plano, featuring DJ music and dancing on Friday and Saturday nights from 9 PM to 2 AM. Events include themed and LGBTQ+-inclusive nights, and attendance requires a membership.

South Devon, Devon
On-Premise Club
A couples-only venue nestled in the South Devon countryside near Totnes, hosting monthly parties in a secluded country house. No memberships or formalities — just warmth, discretion, and genuine connection in a relaxed, sophisticated setting.
Weston-super-Mare, Somerset
On-Premise Club
Route 69 is the South West's friendliest adult club, a small and welcoming swingers venue in the heart of Weston-super-Mare with over ten years of history. The fully licensed venue features three lockable playrooms and a dungeon complete with swing, St Andrew's Cross, and stocks in a relaxed, no-pressure atmosphere.

Bristol, Bristol
On-Premise Club
Club Love is a truly unique queer-owned, sex-positive party for underground clubbers in the kink and fetish community, based in Bristol Temple Meads' historic Ash Pits. Featuring curated DJs playing house, disco, and tech house, it's an inclusive space where dancers, lovers, and artists come together for radical self-expression with a dedicated queer-led wellbeing team.

Hempstead, TX
On-Premise Club
The Pendulum Club's original Hempstead location is a women-owned lifestyle venue styled after a 19th-century brothel, featuring 10 play areas in an intimate setting. The non-smoking BYOB club caters to couples, single women, and select single men, with ice, cups, and mixers provided. Part of a three-location chain across Houston.

New Carlisle, OH
On-Premise Club
Ohio Swings is an adult lifestyle club located in New Carlisle, Ohio, hosting themed overnight events that typically run from 8pm to 10am. The event calendar includes recurring themes such as Fetish Friday, karaoke nights, LGBTQ-inclusive events, and cannabis-friendly gatherings. Online membership is available separately from event attendance.

Las Vegas, NV
On-Premise Club
Whispers Las Vegas is a private couples-only lifestyle venue operating near the Las Vegas Strip. The club runs Thursday through Saturday nights and requires all attendees to sign a non-disclosure agreement; single men are not admitted. The property features an outdoor pool area and hosts monthly themed events, with access available through online membership via platforms such as Kasidie and SDC.

Miami Beach, FL
On-Premise Club
VIP Bliss is a screened lifestyle event organization based in Florida, hosting private parties across Miami, Fort Lauderdale, West Palm Beach, Tampa, and Orlando. Attendance requires an application and vetting process, and events are accessible only to approved members through a private online portal. The organization emphasizes exclusivity and privacy in its event model.

Eisenberg, Thuringia
On-Premise Club
Club Ambassador is a well-established lifestyle destination in Eisenberg, Thuringia, conveniently situated near the A9/A4 Hermsdorf interchange — making it easily accessible from across Saxony, Saxony-Anhalt, and eastern Germany. The venue reopened in June 2025 as 'Ambassador 3.0' under new hosts Karin and Hans, following a renovation that added a separate annex building and a dedicated Folterkeller dungeon. The main building spans 500 square metres across three floors, with six distinctly themed rooms: the Roman Empire room, Black & White Atelier, Thai room, Baroque room, SM area, and a sauna with rain shower. Outdoor facilities include a swimming pool, hot tub, and sun loungers set on a generous 500 square metre wellness terrace. Inside, guests enjoy full bar service, a hearty buffet, and a dance floor with music. The club runs five days a week: a Wednesday breakfast party, a relaxed Thursday evening at accessible entry pricing, Friday and Saturday nights until 3 am, and a Sunday brunch. Saturday all-inclusive packages covering drinks, buffet, and toiletries are available for those who want the full experience. With a JoyClub rating of 4.8 out of 5 from 195 reviews and 4.5 on Google from 35 reviews, Club Ambassador is consistently praised for its friendly staff, clean facilities, and warm social atmosphere. A dress code is enforced — guests change from street clothes on arrival — and the club's philosophy of 'anything goes, nothing is required' ensures a respectful, consent-first environment. Parking including motorhome spaces is available on site.