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Single Men Welcome Lifestyle Clubs in California
4 clubs
As of 2026, California has 4 single men welcome lifestyle clubs. They're spread across 3 cities, led by San Francisco (2), Berkeley (1), San Diego (1).
Dark Odyssey
Berkeley, CA
Event Organizer
Kink-friendlyLgbtq-friendlyInclusivePansexual+10
Club Safe Word
San Diego, CA
Newbie-friendlyLgbtq-friendlyInclusiveJudgment-free+4
AfterDark Events
San Francisco, CA
Event Organizer (Pop-Up Play Parties)
KinkBdsmInclusiveQueer-friendly+10
Stopgap
San Francisco, CA
Event Organizer
BdsmKinkDungeonRope+11
Closed venues
2No longer operating — kept for reference and venue history.
