Dominium Vita

Dominium Vita describes itself as “a private members' society.” Its events are held at a selection of private properties in London, with the address revealed to ticket holders 48 hours beforehand. Its About page says the name means “to own life.” Events can range from 50 to 180 guests. Spaces named at its events include a lobby and bar, an open courtyard, a fully equipped dungeon, a dining room with live performances, three private top-floor playrooms and, at residence gatherings, a social salon with large play rooms. Event formats include the Carpe Noctem nights, Hidden Deviance gatherings, monthly members' socials and Mandrake Salon sessions. Tickets are sold first come, first served to approved members; membership is by application with photos, approval is not guaranteed, and couples or shared memberships are not accepted. Single men are welcome under a one-strike consent policy. Dress follows the event, from cocktail attire to black tie, with entry refused and no refund when no effort is made. Phone cameras are covered with a sticker, smoking is banned in and outside play venues, and breaking a rule means being asked to leave and losing membership. Spectating is welcome, and security is present at every event.