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LGBTQ+ Friendly Lifestyle Clubs in California
13 clubs
As of 2026, California has 13 lgbtq+ friendly lifestyle clubs. They're spread across 7 cities, led by San Francisco (6), Los Angeles (2), Berkeley (1).
Dark Odyssey
Berkeley, CA
Event Organizer
Kink-friendlyLgbtq-friendlyInclusivePansexual+10
PolyUrban Studios
Carmichael, CA
PolyamoryNon-monogamyKink-friendlyLgbtq-inclusive+9
Hoochies Swingers Lounge DTLA
Los Angeles, CA
Lgbtq-friendlyInclusiveAll-orientationsWeekly-events+7
Illuminaughty LA
Los Angeles, CA
Event Organizer
UpscaleCuratedConsent-forwardWelcoming+10
Mission Control SF (Kinky Salon)
Oakland, CA
BDSM Club
Sex-positiveConsent-cultureThemed-partiesQueer-friendly+11
The Suite Life Platinum
Sacramento, CA
Lifestyle Resort
Members-onlyUltra-privateInvitation-onlyIntimate+10
Club Safe Word
San Diego, CA
Newbie-friendlyLgbtq-friendlyInclusiveJudgment-free+4
AfterDark Events
San Francisco, CA
Event Organizer (Pop-Up Play Parties)
KinkBdsmInclusiveQueer-friendly+10
Illuminaughty (San Francisco)
San Francisco, CA
Event Organizer
Power Exchange
San Francisco, CA
On-Premise Club
PansexualLgbtq-friendlyBdsmKink-friendly+10
Stopgap
San Francisco, CA
Event Organizer
BdsmKinkDungeonRope+11
Twist SF
San Francisco, CA
On-Premise Club
Newbie-friendlyCouples-focusedByobDancefloor+10
Closed
Wicked Grounds
San Francisco, CA
BDSM Club
Kink-educationLgbtq-friendlyQueer-ownedCommunity-driven+4