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LGBTQ+ Friendly Lifestyle Clubs in California
9 clubs
As of 2026, California has 9 lgbtq+ friendly lifestyle clubs. They're spread across 7 cities, led by Los Angeles (2), San Francisco (2), Berkeley (1).
Dark Odyssey
Berkeley, CA
Singles-welcomingTrans-friendly
PolyUrban Studios
Carmichael, CA
PolyamoryNon-monogamyKink-friendlyLgbtq-inclusive+9
Hoochies Swingers Lounge DTLA
Los Angeles, CA
Lgbtq-friendlyInclusiveAll-orientationsWeekly-events+7
Illuminaughty LA
Los Angeles, CA
Private Members Club
Private-residenceMembers-onlyApplication-based21-plus+1
Mission Control SF (Kinky Salon)
Oakland, CA
Members-Only Social Club
Members-onlyApplication-basedTrans-friendly
The Suite Life Platinum
Sacramento, CA
Lifestyle Resort
Members-onlyUltra-privateInvitation-onlyIntimate+10
Club Safe Word
San Diego, CA
Private Lifestyle Club
Members-onlyThemed-parties
AfterDark Events
San Francisco, CA
Event Organizer (Pop-Up Play Parties)
18-plusSingles-welcomingThemed-partiesTrans-friendly+1
Stopgap
San Francisco, CA
Kink Venue
18-plusMonthly-eventsNo-phonesSingles-welcoming+1
Closed venues
1No longer operating — kept for reference and venue history.
Frequently Asked Questions
There are 9 lgbtq+ friendly lifestyle clubs in California across 7 cities.
LGBTQ+ Friendly Lifestyle Clubs in California can be found in Berkeley, Carmichael, Los Angeles, Oakland, Sacramento, San Diego, San Francisco.