Does Virginia Friends require membership?

Yes, Virginia Friends requires membership. Membership costs $12 (1-month recurring) · $25 (3-month) · $45 (6-month) · $60 (1-year).

Is Virginia Friends BYOB?

Yes, Virginia Friends allows guests to bring their own beverages.

Virginia Friends

Name: Virginia Friends
Address: Richmond, VA, USA
Telephone: (757) 389-8269

Richmond, VA, USA

Updated Oct 15, 2026

Richmond, VA

Location

(757) 389-8269

Phone

vafriendsonline.com

Website

Membership Required

from $12

21+

Age Requirement

Dress Code

Street legal in public hotel areas; no nudity in the lounge; upstairs anything goes, no dirty, rude or ripped clothes

Who Can Attend

Couples and single women only
Single men not admitted

Membership

1-Month Recurring$12

3-Month$25

6-Month$45

1-Year$60

Before you go

Joining: Membership is required and does not include event admission; each couple must have a signed club agreement on file.; Source · checked Oct 2026 for Joining (opens in a new tab)
First visit: A newcomer's seminar in the hotel lounge is mandatory for all first-time members, even if they have been in the lifestyle for many years.; Source · checked Oct 2026 for First visit (opens in a new tab)
Who can attend: Couples and single females only; single men are not admitted. Each couple must be 21 or older.; Source · checked Oct 2026 for Who can attend (opens in a new tab)
ID: Both partners must each show a valid driver's license as proof of age; the club may check IDs.; Source · checked Oct 2026 for ID (opens in a new tab)
Alcohol: Club floor is BYOB with mixers and munchies provided. Drinks bought in the hotel lounge must be consumed in the lounge.; Source · checked Oct 2026 for Alcohol (opens in a new tab)
Phones & photos: No cameras, cell phone cameras or recording devices are permitted.; Source · checked Oct 2026 for Phones & photos (opens in a new tab)
House rules: No-tolerance policy for drugs or prostitution; ask for consent before touching; couples should arrive and depart together; overly intoxicated guests may be denied entrance.; Source · checked Oct 2026 for House rules (opens in a new tab)
Getting there: Socials are held near Richmond; the party location is posted on the Event Page for each date.; Source · checked Oct 2026 for Getting there (opens in a new tab)

Reviews

Averages 2.5 out of 5 across 2 review platforms (4 reviews total): 2.0 on SDC (3 reviews) and 4.0 on Kasidie (1 review).

SDC(3)Kasidie(1)

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About

Virginia Friends uses the tagline “Virginia Friends since 1993!” It is an adult lifestyle club for couples and, currently, single women that holds its socials at a hotel near Richmond in central Virginia, with the location posted on each event's page. Membership is required, and the club says its website is not a dating site. Socials include a casual meet and greet, early registration and a newcomer's seminar in the hotel lounge, and a dance with live entertainment and a full-service cash bar run by the hotel. The party then moves to a reserved club floor open only to members, with security at the entrances, a hospitality suite and an adjoining room for group-oriented couples; theme rooms are allowed only on the party floor, for guests who buy that ticket in advance. Couples and single women are admitted; single men are not. Each couple must be 21 or older, with both partners showing a valid driver's license, and club-issued wristbands are required. First-time members must attend the newcomer's seminar, even if experienced. On the club floor the club supplies mixers and snacks and guests bring their own alcohol, while drinks bought in the lounge must stay there. Cameras and recording devices are not permitted, there is a no-tolerance policy for drugs and prostitution, and guests are asked for consent before touching.