Licensed Bar

monthly fetish event (not a fixed-address club)

Club Sin is Montreal's longest-running monthly fetish event, held on the first Friday of each month in the second-floor cabaret of Café Cléopâtre at 1230 boulevard Saint-Laurent, at the edge of the Quartier des Spectacles. The event is organized by Eric Paradis, who has been active in Montreal's fetish scene for more than 35 years and who also produces the annual Montreal Fetish Weekend each Labour Day weekend. Café Cléopâtre — the last surviving show bar from the Main's most notorious era, operating since at least 1976 — provides the venue and a large part of its historical charge as a space that has hosted vaudeville, burlesque, drag, and trans cabaret for well over a century. Club Sin occupies the upstairs cabaret, a room built around a performance stage and a cash-only bar. The event is billed as a night of shows, dance, and play. Paradis has described the crowd as people from different backgrounds and professions who arrive in costume to express their identities as sexual beings; vibe reporting from 2010 documents an audience in black leather and latex alongside staged fetish performances, and a 2024 Concordian piece situates Club Sin as a pillar of Montreal's kink community, which it notes increasingly intersects with queer culture. The median age reported in early coverage was around 30. Café Cléopâtre has long been recognized as a welcoming space for Montreal's LGBTQ+ and trans communities, a character that carries through to Club Sin's programming. The upstairs bar is cash only; an ATM is available on the ground floor, which continues to operate as a strip club on event nights. No published dress code rules are independently accessible, though fetish and kink attire is consistent with the event's established character and organizer framing. Club Sin is distinct in format and scale from the annual Montreal Fetish Weekend, though both share the same producer and have used the same venue.

Liberty Rose

Bildstock, Saarland

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Liberty Rose is a private swingers club in Friedrichsthal-Bildstock, a small town in the Saarland region of southwestern Germany, reached via Neunkircher Strasse 10. Run by owner Tanja Neuberger, the club describes itself as a privater Erotiktreff — a private erotic meeting place — and is one of the longer-running venues of its kind in the region. The space covers roughly 200 square metres across two climate-controlled floors and holds up to 100 guests. Five distinct play areas include a gang-bang room, a darkroom, a cuddle nook, a couples-only section with a Czech wall feature, and a mirror room. Supporting facilities run to a licensed bar, sauna, shower area, massage bench, and a changing room with lockable lockers. First-time visitors are offered a guided walkthrough before settling in. Liberty Rose opens four days a week: Tuesdays (10:00–18:00, last entry 16:00) follow a relaxed daytime format; Wednesdays (09:00–midnight, last entry 22:00) are branded Naked Bi Day — towels are tolerated until 16:00, after which complete nudity is compulsory and all clothing, including mesh or transparent items, is forbidden; Fridays (18:00–02:00, last entry midnight) rotate through themed nights including wellness evenings; Saturdays (20:00–03:00, last entry midnight) host cocktail parties and seasonal events. Couple admission is €15–€20 midweek and €25–€30 at weekends, the lower figure applying when a visit is registered in advance by phone, email, or JoyClub. Single men pay €50–€55 midweek or €60–€65 at weekends; single women enter free on most sessions, or €5 on Friday–Saturday without advance registration. Multi-visit VIP cards are available at reduced per-entry rates, with the eleventh visit complimentary.

Purple Mamba Club

West Bridgford, Nottinghamshire

On-Premise Club

Purple Mamba Club is a private members club for adults in West Bridgford, Nottingham, set behind 3-5 Radcliffe Road near Trent Bridge with a discreet rear entrance away from the main road. Operating under its own description as the Midlands' most intimate, exclusive club for liberated adults, it draws a membership predominantly of couples alongside a limited number of single ladies and gentlemen. New applicants are vetted in person with valid photo ID — membership cannot be obtained online — and a 48-hour probationary period follows before full membership is confirmed. The venue runs to a fully licensed members bar, multiple lounge areas fitted with plush furnishings and ambient lighting, a dancefloor, and a selection of private rooms ranging from a romantic bedroom and a boudoir-style space to a well-equipped dungeon. First-time visitors are met at the door by staff and taken on a guided tour before being free to explore. The club holds a 4.7-star average on Google from over 40 reviews, with visitors describing an intimate atmosphere, warm hosting, and a well-presented, respectful crowd. A broad events calendar runs alongside regular house party nights — Play Space sessions on Thursdays, lifestyle workshops for newcomer couples and single ladies, heavy play parties, and ticketed themed nights including Lace, Leather and Latex, Hotwife Soiree, and Sunday Sinners. The club opens Thursday through Sunday: Thursdays 20:00–00:00, Fridays 20:00–02:00, Saturdays 20:00–02:00, and Sundays 18:00–00:00. Annual membership is £40 per rolling year for couples and singles, with a reduced rate of £20 for students and MOD90 card holders. Entry tickets for specific event nights are purchased online and are non-refundable; advance booking is strongly advised on Fridays and Saturdays as capacity is capped. New members must apply in person; single-gent applications are currently limited and require a Sunday-evening interview. Dress code is enforced: plain shirts or suits for gents on Fridays and Saturdays, smart and sexy attire for ladies throughout. All guests must be 21 or older.

HUNTER

London, London

On-Premise Club

HUNTER is a monthly gay leather and fetish night established in 2023, held at Electrowerkz — a nineteenth-century warehouse at 7 Torrens Street in Angel, Islington (EC1V 1NQ). Founded by LeatherDaddy Brew Hunter and co-promoter DJ Scott Steele, the event was named Best Party Concept at the X-Awards 2026 (Darklands, Antwerp) and maintains an uncompromisingly male-to-male and hardcore-play focus. The venue is divided into a progression of dedicated zones. The Foreplay Bar serves as the main DJ stage and hosts the opening Foreplay Happy Hour from 20:00; the Cigar Yard, an outdoor smoking area, opens with the doors. Brew's Bar offers a premium drinks selection on a card-only basis. The Dark Zone and Rawhide Cruising Alley form the play core, supplemented by Cottaging Toilets and a Masters Circle centre-stage platform where Doms and Daddies present and work with their submissives in full view. A Punish.Men.T Corner rounds out the dungeon architecture. The KinXX Gallery rotates monthly fetish art installations and doubles as the venue for Fetish Academy workshops. A Berlin Porno Kino screens across the night, and a professional bootblack service is on hand for boot and gear shining. Full changing facilities and bag storage are provided. The night runs on the third Friday of each month, 20:00 to 03:00, with last entry at 01:30. Brew Hunter hosts a Meat & Greet from 20:30; DJ Steele takes the decks at 21:00; Fetish Academy workshop sessions begin at 21:15; and the hardcore zones formally open at 22:00. The event is strictly 18+ and male-focused. Dress code is enforced at the cloakroom exit and covers leather (boots, harnesses, vests, chaps, motorcycle jackets), rubber, neoprene, and skin or scally-themed fetish wear, as well as K9 gear presented with a handler. Police and military uniforms — real or replica — all sportswear, streetwear, denim, and near-naked appearances are prohibited. Advance tickets are available but do not guarantee entry: the dress code check at the cloakroom gate is final.

Complexe Luxuria

Montreal, Quebec

On-Premise Club

Complexe Luxuria is a members-only libertine club occupying two floors at 8820 Boulevard Saint-Laurent in Montreal's Ahuntsic-Cartierville district. Operating under a fully private club model — both a membership card and a per-night admission fee are required — it opened in 2021 and has established itself as one of Montreal's larger dedicated lifestyle venues. The typical crowd spans ages 21 to 55, with a noticeable lean toward locals in their twenties and thirties; the club positions itself as equally accessible to first-timers and regulars, welcoming couples, single women, and, under controlled conditions, single men. The ground floor functions as a nightclub: two full bars, a main dancefloor with a large disco ball, a small stage used for theatrical themed events (occasionally fitted with a hot tub), six VIP booths with the largest seating up to ten, three separate changing rooms with lockers, and LED ambient lighting throughout. An on-site kitchen serves dinner by advance reservation until 9 pm. The second-floor Luxure section holds more than 20 rooms: a couples room, fantasy rooms, a glass-walled stripper-pole room overlooking the dancefloor below, a swing room, a tantra chair, massage tables, glory holes, a BDSM area with a St. Andrews Cross, and three lockable themed private rooms available by paid reservation. A resident DJ plays every evening. The club opens Fridays from 9 pm to 3 am and Saturdays from 6 pm to 3 am, with occasional Thursday events. Couples pay 40 CAD on Thursdays and Fridays and 60 CAD on Saturdays; Saturday admission requires advance reservation. Single women enter free on all nights with a 25 CAD annual membership. Single men are admitted Thursdays and Fridays with a cap of ten per night on Fridays (75 CAD Thursdays, 100 CAD Fridays), and on Saturdays by chaperone arrangement or certified group membership at 100 CAD (maximum five). Couple memberships run from 40 CAD per month to 125 CAD per year. Photo ID is mandatory at every visit and mobile phones must be stored in a locker immediately after entry.

Club Paradise

Amsterdam, North Holland

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Club Paradise occupies an intentionally inconspicuous address on Schaafstraat in Amsterdam-Noord — an industrial pocket north of the IJ waterway — and operates as one of the city's established lifestyle clubs for couples and singles. The venue markets itself as 'de mooiste parenclub van Amsterdam' (Amsterdam's finest couples club) and has built its reputation on upscale facilities, a rotating programme of themed events, and an atmosphere that positions itself as sensual rather than hectic. First-time visitors are offered a guided walkthrough of the space on arrival. The interior is spacious and atmospheric, anchored by a dance floor, a full bar serving cocktails and snacks, and large U-shaped sofas that allow groups to gather comfortably. Dedicated facilities include a heated swimming pool, sauna and Turkish steam bath, a darkroom, a kinky cage, multiple private lockable rooms, open erotic areas and relaxation spaces. A rooftop smoking area is reached by three flights of stairs. Secure lockers hold street clothes and valuables, and condoms are distributed throughout the erotic areas. The crowd tends to dress deliberately — lingerie and provocative attire for women, boxers or similarly revealing clothing for men — and the overall aesthetic is high-effort. Makeup artists and massage services appear at select special events. The venue runs Friday through Sunday. Friday brings the recurring After Three afternoon party, opening at 15:00 and running to 03:00. Saturday nights (20:00–03:00) host themed Couples Paradise events, restricted to couples and single women; entry is €100 per couple and €50 for a single woman, with single men barred from Saturday admission. Sundays (15:00–23:00) run Afterglow in Paradise sessions — open to couples, single women and single men — with the third Sunday of each month reserved for a dedicated BDSM edition. Entry on Saturdays includes a hot and cold buffet; Fridays and Sundays include finger food. Prices may vary on special-event nights as noted on event flyers. Payment is by debit card or cash only; credit cards are not accepted.

Parenclub Showboat

Zaandijk, Noord-Holland

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Showboat is a swingers club housed aboard a moored vessel on the Lagedijk waterway in Zaandijk, Noord-Holland, roughly fifteen kilometres north of Amsterdam. The boat setting is the venue's defining feature, attracting visitors from across the wider Amsterdam region on a seven-day schedule that spans both daytime and late-night sessions. It operates as an all-inclusive club on most days, with entry covering food and drink. The upper deck forms the social core of the venue, combining a bar, a buffet of warm and cold dishes, a dance floor, and lounge seating fitted out in polished wood, copper accents, and deep-red upholstery. The lower deck is devoted to play, housing a BDSM room, a jacuzzi, a sauna, a Turkish steam bath, and several erotically themed rooms. Dress code — tight boxer shorts for men, lingerie for women — applies throughout the venue; first-timers are permitted to start the evening in street clothes at the bar. Secure clothing lockers and shower facilities are available. Themed Friday evenings rotate across SM/Fetish Play parties, Gangbang nights, and Bi Fabulous events, the latter restricted to women and bisexual men with heterosexual single men excluded. The club is open daily. Weekday daytime sessions run Monday and Tuesday 12:00–17:30 (couples €40, women/T-girls €15, men €92.50) and Thursday 13:00–21:30 (couples €72.50, women/T-girls €35, men €120). Wednesday extends to 23:30 with tiered pricing: couples €92.50 full day, dropping to €60 after 19:00. Fridays run 13:00–02:30 at €110 per couple, or from 21:00 on the first Friday of each month. Saturdays are evening-only, 21:00–04:30, with couples at €92.50. Sunday afternoons (15:00–21:30) admit couples and women free of charge against a minimum bar spend of €35 and €20 respectively. Single men may attend every session but must hold a prior reservation; walk-ins are turned away without exception. No admittance is given after 02:00.

Club Elite

Alkmaar, Noord-Holland

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Club Elite is a licensed parenclub and seksbedrijf at Bergerweg 26 in Alkmaar’s Spoorbuurt district, a short walk from Alkmaar central station. The venue — which previously traded as Club 26 — has held a municipal sex-business exploitation permit since January 2018 and has operated under its current name since registering with the Dutch Chamber of Commerce in October 2017. The building dates from 1905 and covers approximately 130 square metres, giving the space a compact, intimate character rather than the scale of a large commercial club. Private room rental is registered alongside bar and hospitality services as a core business activity, indicating a mix of communal areas and private play spaces. In November 2023 the venue commissioned a professional photo and video shoot that included an FPV drone walkthrough of the interior, suggesting a well-maintained space. The municipal permit authorises operation daily between 20:00 and 04:00, though at least one Dutch business directory advertises the opening time as 21:00 — prospective visitors should verify the current door time before attending. Admission pricing, dress code, and the policy on single visitors are not publicly documented; contact the venue at +31 6 15306789 or via Instagram (@clubelitealkmaar) before visiting.

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Club Organza occupies a standalone venue at Laan van Duuring 1 on the edge of Breukelen, a small town in Utrecht province roughly midway between Amsterdam and Utrecht. Operating as an erotic discotheque rather than a conventional parenclub, it has built a following across the Netherlands as both a lifestyle destination and an after-party club — a dual identity that makes it unusual in the Dutch swinger scene. The venue is spacious, easily reached by car, offers free on-site parking, and carries wheelchair-accessible entrances and facilities. Inside, a large main dance floor anchored by resident and guest DJs — working across club, trance, and hard trance — sits alongside multiple erotic rooms that give the venue its lifestyle character. Earplugs are available for purchase at the bar, and all drinks run through a reusable paycard; any balance is refundable when the card is returned, and cards remain valid for two years after the last visit. Metal detectors are standard at the door. Parties run on Fridays and Saturdays, with a programme that mixes in-house events and third-party nights under names such as Kinky Paradise, I Love Kinky, and Secret Underground Sensual Fetish. The club's signature event is the Morning Mission, held every Sunday from 06:00 — an after-party that draws visitors from across the country. Entry starts at €15; tickets are required for most events and should be booked in advance. Dress codes are strict and vary per event — specifics are published in the club's online agenda. Solo male visitors are refused entry to the Morning Mission without exception; that event is restricted to couples and single women. Guests celebrating a birthday within the preceding week receive complimentary Morning Mission entry on presentation of ID.

Villa Weizigt

Dordrecht, Zuid-Holland

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Villa Weizigt is a licensed seksclub and sauna club in Dordrecht, Zuid-Holland, operating as a gentlemen's club built around the principles of luxury, discretion, and relaxation. The venue has traded under its current licensing and ownership since approximately 2014, following renovation of the premises including installation of a new thatched roof. Staff communicate in Dutch and English. The communal facilities centre on a large heated indoor swimming pool enclosed by glass panels, flanked by shower facilities and a Finnish sauna. On arrival, guests receive complimentary bathrobes, slippers, and swimwear. The room inventory comprises 14 standard rooms, each with a double bed and private bathroom fitted with either a shower or a two-person jacuzzi, plus four VIP suites offering oversized three-to-four-person jacuzzis, flat-screen televisions, and separate seating areas. An outdoor garden terrace with multiple lounge sections, a designated smoking area, and seasonal BBQ facilities rounds out the premises. The club opens seven days a week: Monday through Thursday 14:00–02:00, Friday 14:00–03:00, Saturday 16:00–03:00, and Sunday 16:00–02:00. General entry is €60 per person, covering all-day access to communal facilities, an evening dinner, and unlimited non-alcoholic beverages plus beer and wine. Private room hire with an on-site companion is charged separately. Payment is accepted by cash, PIN, credit card, and VISA.

On-Premise Club

Sitting in the Victorian terraced streets of Burslem in Stoke-on-Trent's historic Potteries heartland, atlantisEVOLUTION has spent 15-plus years building its reputation as the Midlands' most recognised nightclub-themed swingers club. The venue occupies Evolution House on William Clowes Street on a private-membership basis, drawing couples and singles from across the North West and Midlands with a formula that layers nightclub production values - themed decor, resident DJs, and a multi-room layout - onto an adult lifestyle club format. Owners Cat and Tag are the constant faces behind the bar and at the door, backed by a small team whose warmth reviewers return to again and again; the venue holds a 4.6-star rating across more than 60 independent reviews. The weekly calendar divides sessions by attendance type. Fridays (9pm-2am) are open to all - couples, single males, and single females - while Saturdays (9pm-2am) are reserved for couples and single females only. Once a month on a Wednesday evening the club stages a special themed night, and the fourth Sunday of each month (3pm-8pm) becomes the dedicated EVOLUTIONfetish session. The club also runs Newbies Nights (branded Pop My Cherry), occasional orgy-party events, and sporadic hot-wife-themed evenings. Themed costume nights are a signature touch - past runs have included an all-white marquee party - but dressing up is always optional, never compulsory. Entry requires a one-off lifetime membership (20 GBP per couple or single female), taken out at the door on a first visit by presenting photo ID - a driving licence, utility bill, or bank statement. Nightly admission thereafter is 20 GBP per couple, 10 GBP for single females, and 30 GBP for single men. Soft drinks and mixers are available on-site for 2.50 GBP. The venue is compact but delivers what reviewers describe as a decent range of areas for people with different tastes - private areas and open - spread across two floors, with play spaces upstairs. Age minimum is 18 with no upper limit. The club holds a Food Standards Agency hygiene rating of Good and is partnered with Spice Lanzarote for lifestyle travel events.

Swingers Oase

Ammerzoden, Gelderland

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Swingers Oase is a small, intimate parenclub on the Haarstraat in Ammerzoden, a village in Gelderland roughly midway between Zaltbommel and Den Bosch. In operation for over a decade, it positions itself as an approachable alternative to the larger commercial venues in the nearby cities — somewhere guests can make contact easily in a setting the club describes as gezellig (convivial and homely). Open to couples, single women, and single men, the guiding philosophy is niets moet, alles mag (nothing required, everything permitted) between consenting adults, with mutual respect as the founding house rule. The venue is fitted with an eight-person jacuzzi, a two-person sauna, a bar and buffet, a dance floor with DJ music, a lounge area, a terrace, and a range of private and group playrooms. Entry is all-inclusive, covering food, beverages, and full use of all facilities. Current pricing varies by day and event type and is published on the club own agenda — always confirm before attending. The club runs a varied programme across several evenings each week. Themed nights — including Blacklovers evenings, Bi-Curious parties, and Hollandse events — rotate through the schedule, with reservations required for weekend nights. Single men must reserve in advance on all open evenings. On the fifth Friday of the month the Parenavond is reserved exclusively for couples and single women; single men are not admitted that evening.

Club M4 (Menage a Quatre)

Mississauga, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Club M4 — short for Ménage à Quatre — is an on-premise lifestyle and swingers club at 1989A Dundas Street East in Mississauga, Ontario, roughly twenty kilometres west of downtown Toronto. Founded in 2008, the venue operated for eleven years on Lakeshore Boulevard West before relocating in 2019 to its current ground-floor Mississauga location. It operates as a private members club — a requirement under Ontario law following the 2005 Supreme Court of Canada ruling that legalized consensual swinging in private club settings — and runs both afternoon and evening sessions seven days a week, 365 days a year. The 10,000-square-foot space is fully licensed by the Alcohol and Gaming Commission of Ontario (AGCO) and includes two bars, a large dance floor, a lounge area, and roughly 5,000 square feet of dedicated play space. A 196-locker changing facility with showers and vanity areas serves guests entering the back — condoms are distributed free throughout the play areas, and towels are provided by locker-room attendants. A rentable VIP Red Room (king-size bed, private play equipment, complimentary non-alcoholic drinks; $100 Mon–Thu, $150 Fri–Sun) adds a private option for members who want it. The club also runs a companion online social network, menageaquatre.com, where members can connect between visits. Door prices for couples are $50 CAD Sunday through Friday and Saturday afternoons, rising to $70 CAD on Saturday evenings; single women enter free at every session, while single men pay $110 CAD and are welcome all nights except Saturday evenings and New Year's Eve. A basic annual membership ($60 CAD per single or couple) is required of every guest and is purchased in person at the first visit; a VIP couples membership ($649 CAD/year, currently available at a promotional $349) covers unlimited admission including special events. A monthly Young Swingers Society (YSS) event on the last Saturday of each month offers a themed night aimed at couples in their 20s and 30s at $30 CAD per couple. Every first-time visitor receives a guided tour of the premises before being admitted to the main floor.

The Playpen

Los Angeles, CA

gentlemens club / strip club

The Playpen is a private lifestyle club in Los Angeles, CA welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

Birdhaus

Toronto, Ontario

Birdhaus is a BDSM, kink, and alternative arts event space tucked behind the big pink building at 1233R Queen Street West in Toronto's Parkdale neighbourhood. Co-owned by Miranda and Tifereth — veteran producers and performers in both the local and international alternative arts scenes — the venue opened in 2021 in the Entertainment District before relocating to Liberty Village and then expanding to its current home in 2024. The space carries roughly a century of building history and has been transformed into what the owners describe as an intimate venue for the city's avant-garde. The 2024 expansion brought a licensed bar and cocktail program alongside a significantly broader events calendar. The venue operates as a multi-use space: in-house produced events share the calendar with third-party producers including Sex Positive World, Bound Together, and BIPOC Babes. A dedicated rope education program — described on the site as inclusive, creative, comprehensive — is led by Tifereth and a team of resident educators, covering everything from beginner bondage to aerial partials and self-suspension. Weekly Tinker Tuesday sessions (Tuesdays, 19:00–23:00) serve as open rope practice jams, while structured classes and workshops run throughout the month. Private tuition is also available through individual instructors. Flagship evening events include Voyeur, a monthly cabaret and BDSM play party running 21:00–03:00 with per-person tickets priced at $50–$100 CAD, and Sweat, a leather and latex fetish party running roughly 21:30–02:30 at $30–$45 CAD per person. The calendar also features Smutty Storytelling open-mic nights, film screenings, community socials, and themed one-off events. All events are 19+ and ticketed in advance through the Birdhaus website — walk-ins are not accepted. Dress code for play parties requires fetish attire and prohibits street wear including T-shirts, jeans, and runners.

Killing Kittens

London, Greater London

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Founded in London in 2005 by Emma Sayle, Killing Kittens has spent two decades building what it bills as the world's most exclusive and hedonistic parties — a female-empowerment brand "fully focused on the pursuit of female pleasure for girls in control who know what they want." From those London beginnings it has grown into a global movement spanning more than 22 cities across 10 countries, with over 250,000 people having attended its events, yet London remains its home turf. Parties there are staged in a rotating cast of "exclusive and luxurious venues in London, with stunning decor, state-of-the-art sound systems, and a carefully curated atmosphere." Locations are kept secret and revealed only to confirmed guests, part of the discretion the brand stakes its reputation on. The KK model is strictly members-and-invitation-only: "The only way to gain exclusive access to KK parties is by becoming a KK member or receiving an invite from one." Full "Kitten" membership is reserved for women, trans and non-binary people, who lead the room; Guest membership lets others attend alongside a Full member or buy tickets to designated Singles events, and solo men are otherwise excluded. The brand's long-standing golden rule puts women firmly in charge — the women make the first move, and men may never approach a woman they don't know. Consent sits at the centre of everything, with guidelines emailed before every event covering "greetings through aftercare" and trained staff on hand throughout; masks are traditionally kept on until 11pm, when play begins. Beyond the flagship nights, KK runs a calendar of themed events — Masquerade Balls, Kinky Cabaret, Hedonism nights and seasonal Halloween parties among them — plus workshops and a members' community that continues online through the WAX app. Tickets are priced by who's attending, roughly from around £50–£75 for single women up to £200-plus for couples, keeping the crowd skewed toward women and couples. The brand leans hard on stated values of gender equity, body positivity, consent and inclusivity, welcoming "all genders and sexualities to come and play" while pledging zero tolerance for racism, ableism, sexism, fatphobia or transphobia. Confidentiality is absolute — guest information and event details are never shared — and the whole experience is designed to feel luxurious, safe and free of judgement.

Saunabar Bournemouth

Bournemouth, Dorset

Bath House

Saunabar sits at 140 Commercial Road in the Triangle, Bournemouth's LGBTQ+ quarter, and bills itself as the busiest gay sauna on the south-west coast. By day it runs as a men's spa: a dry sauna, steam room and jacuzzi, hot showers and private rest areas, plus a cosy lounge with a pool table and a fully licensed bar serving drinks alongside tea and coffee. On-site massage is available by appointment, and a single all-day admission covers the run of the place until closing. The same address takes on a second life after hours. On selected Friday and Saturday evenings Saunabar stays open for themed programming that broadens well beyond the daytime men-only door, and it doubles as the home of Bournemouth Swingers Club, whose couples-and-singles nights and inclusive socials run from the same rooms. Across the two identities the calendar covers trans nights, fetish evenings, naked sessions and all-welcome mixers, so depending on the day the venue reads as a quiet gay sauna or a full LGBTQ+ and swingers events space.

Club Luxoria

Wagenborgen, Groningen

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Club Luxoria is a swingers club that opened in October 2024 on the rural outskirts of Wagenborgen, a small village in the Groningen province of the northeastern Netherlands. The venue occupies a property built in the style of a rustic farmhouse, and is operated entirely by women — owner Ivonne and her daughter manage day-to-day operations without paid entertainment staff. The emphasis is on unhurried social contact and genuine hospitality rather than performance or spectacle. The interior spans multiple floors and an outdoor area, with eleven themed rooms that include a darkroom, a BDSM space, a water room, a sling room, and a massage room, alongside a sauna and several jacuzzis. Outside, there is additional seating, a bed, and a sling on a terrace. Toilets and showers are available on every floor. Admission is all-inclusive: a running buffet covers soup, warm snacks, fruit and desserts, and the bar serves both alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks. Condoms, lubricant, wipes, and disinfectant are stocked in every room; towels are distributed throughout. Lockers are issued at entry with a refundable ten-euro deposit. Campervan overnight stays can be arranged with advance notice. The club runs on a fixed schedule: Fridays and Saturdays from 19:00 to 02:00, the second and fourth Sundays of each month from 14:00 to 21:00, and the first Thursday of each month from 14:00 to 21:00. Additional themed evenings and men-only nights appear on the club’s online calendar. Entry is all-inclusive and priced at €90 per couple, €80 for single men, and €30 for women and T-girls, plus a refundable ten-euro locker deposit. Solo men must register in advance through the online event calendar and receive a confirmation code; places are limited and two unexcused absences may result in access restrictions. The minimum age is 18; ID may be requested. Phone use is not permitted inside the club, and photography and filming are strictly forbidden throughout.

Lifestyle & Swingers Club Eroroma

Zwinderen, Drenthe

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Eroroma is a lifestyle and swingers club set on a rural property in Zwinderen, a small village in the province of Drenthe roughly midway between Hoogeveen and Emmen. Founded in 2006 by Jan van Duyvenbode as an erotic massage salon, the venue expanded into couples events as regional demand grew, and in 2026 marks its twentieth year of operation. The club has built a loyal following across the northern Netherlands and describes itself as the number one lifestyle and swingers club of the north. Its clientele spans the 40–60 age bracket and ranges from seasoned regulars to first-timers, with floor staff on hand to orient newcomers to the space. The venue's centrepiece is a Roman bathhouse — widely noted as unique among northern Netherlands swinger clubs — built around a large indoor pool and an indoor jacuzzi accommodating around twenty people. The outdoor grounds add a second jacuzzi, loungers, and lounge seating, plus a heated terrace with fire pit and garden. Inside, the club spans two areas: a ground-floor bar with an extensive selection of drinks, a restaurant-style space serving a hot and cold buffet, and a dance floor where resident DJs play house and electronic sets on event nights. A dedicated play wing houses multiple massage rooms, private bed alcoves with curtains, an SM/BDSM room with suspension facilities, a darkroom, and lounge areas. Towels, condoms, and water are included; secure lockers are provided. Free on-site parking accommodates both cars and campervans. Eroroma operates on an event-based calendar rather than fixed nightly hours. Zwoele Woensdag (Sultry Wednesday) afternoon sessions run 14:00–22:00, open to couples, single women, and T-girls at €100 per couple and €30 for single women. Saturday evening events run 21:00–03:00 across a rotating roster of themed nights — Pleasure 4 All, Ero Kinky Party, XO BDSM Party, SeXfactor, and standard couple evenings — with couples entry ranging from €100 to €130 depending on format. All tickets are all-inclusive: drinks, the hot and cold buffet, towels, and condoms are covered in the entry price. A sexy outfit is mandatory and enforced at the door; on themed nights latex, leather, or PVC is required. Changing facilities are available on arrival. Single men are admitted only on designated nights by advance reservation; capacity is strictly limited. Most standard couple evenings and Secret Pleasure nights do not admit unaccompanied men.

Hedonism NI

Belfast, Northern Ireland

On-Premise Club

Hedonism NI is a touring swingers social run across Northern Ireland rather than from a single fixed address. In the club's own words it is "an action packed swingers' party with a lively social scene for adults who enjoy meeting fellow open minded men and women at parties through-out Northern Ireland," and the site pitches the region's "premier" home for those "wishing to live a consensual non monogamist lifestyle" in "a safe no pressure yet fun" environment. The hosts, who go by Hotlips & Superstar, come "from a swinging background and with experience at hosting parties stretching back over 20 years," and their socials rotate through venues around the country, with recent 2026 parties landing in Bangor. Events are ticketed in advance through Eventbrite, and the venue address is deliberately withheld: house rule two states "The location must never be given out," and it is released only to verified ticket holders. Pricing for a recent End of Summer Social ran £10 for single ladies, £20 for single gents and £25 for couples. Doors work to a tight window: "Attendees must arrive between 9:30pm and 11pm," couples "MUST arrive and LEAVE as a couple," and "Closing time is 1am." The dress code is "cool and sexy" (clean, un-ripped jeans tolerated, no baseball caps), and consent is paramount, with the rules stressing "'NO THANKS, MEANS NO'" and "NO one is obligated to participate in any activities." Unlike a BYOB club, Hedonism NI runs a bar: "Alcohol is sold on the premises and therefore no one entering will be allowed to bring their own." Privacy is enforced hard, with no cameras or recording equipment ("They will be confiscated"), phones permitted only to swap numbers, and "No Facebook check-ins." Drugs and prostitution are banned outright, drunken behaviour is not tolerated, smoking is limited to the front entrance, and there is free on-street parking with a taxi rank outside. Prospective guests connect and verify through the club's Telegram, FabSwingers profile and mailing list, and follow party announcements across Facebook, Instagram, TikTok and X.

Intimate Times Lifestyle Club

Edmonton, Alberta

On-Premise Club

Intimate Times Lifestyle Club bills itself as Edmonton's premier private adult social club, operating from a standalone venue in the city's west end at 17207 107 Ave NW. The club runs as an on-premise couples lifestyle space with an explicit consent-first philosophy — visitors sign a confidentiality waiver on entry, and management frames the environment as one built around respect, trust, and open communication. The club is openly LGBTQIA+ supportive and kink/BDSM friendly, with dedicated theme nights including Kink and Fetish Night alongside Sundress Saturday, Bare as You Dare, and Girls' Night Out evenings. The main floor is set up in the style of a nightclub with the feel of a house party: a dance floor, a staffed DJ booth with music starting around 22:00, a free pool table, a quieter fireplace lounge, and a fully licensed cash bar. BYOB is not permitted under Alberta's liquor licence. Complimentary snacks — chips, nuts, pretzels, and desserts — are included with cover, and an on-site ATM is available. Staff-led tours of the venue run from 21:00 to 23:00; the communal open play area opens at 23:00 and remains available until 02:45. There are no private rooms — all play occurs in the open communal space. The club runs every Friday and Saturday, 21:00 to 03:00, with last admission at 01:00. Cover is tiered: during the earlybird window (21:00-22:00), member couples pay CAD $40 and non-member couples $50; singles pay $20 (member) or $25 (non-member). After 22:00, rates rise to $50/$60 for couples and $25/$30 for singles. Annual membership — mandatory from the second visit — costs $130 for couples and $65 for singles; a one-night weekend couple membership is available at $40 plus the member cover rate. Memberships expire after one year and are non-transferable. A prior invitation is required for all first-time visitors. Government-issued photo ID is mandatory at the door; minimum age is 21.

Nobby's Treff

Bremen, Bremen

Club

Nobby's Treff has held its address at Doventorsteinweg 55 in Bremen's Bahnhofsvorstadt district since opening on 12 October 2001, making it one of the city's longest-running lifestyle venues and, by its own account, the first of its kind in Bremen. The club sits a short walk from Bremen Hauptbahnhof, occupying an unassuming commercial block in this mixed inner-city neighbourhood. Its guiding ethos is distilled in the German tagline printed across all its communications — 'alles kann, nichts muß' (everything is possible, nothing is required) — and regulars credit that philosophy with sustaining the relaxed, non-pressured atmosphere that has kept people coming back for more than two decades. The interior is divided across three distinct areas. A bar forms the social core of the venue, providing a comfortable starting point for the evening. An adjoining lounge contains a sex swing and a lockable, enclosed play hut — a semi-private space-within-a-space that suits couples who want a degree of separation from the open areas. The main playroom is furnished and equipped for group play. A sealed, separate smoking section keeps the main rooms clear. Complimentary towels and hygiene products are provided to all guests, and condoms are available on site at reasonable prices. The management actively maintains a balanced ratio of couples to single men, and the crowd at any given session tends to span a wide age range, drawn together by the venue's reputation for a measured, sociable mood. The club runs on Fridays and Saturdays from 21:00 to 04:00, and adds midweek sessions on the first and third Wednesday of each month from 20:00 to 01:00. Once a month, on the first Friday, a dedicated darkroom evening is held. Entry for couples is €20 and includes the first round of drinks; single men pay €25 with one drink included; single women pay bar prices only with no door charge. All payments are cash only — no card transactions. The dress code is a firm requirement: smart-casual through to overtly sexy attire is welcomed, but sportswear, joggers and baggy sweatshirts are turned away at the door. Men are expected in a shirt and dress trousers or equivalent. The venue can also be privately hired on its regular closed days.

Club Risqué

Dunedin, Otago

On-Premise Club

Club Risqué occupies the top floor of 1 Liverpool Street in central Dunedin, operating as an on-premise adult lifestyle venue for swinging, kink, and BDSM interests. Per its own about page, the club welcomes couples, single women, single men (by approved RSVP), and trans and non-binary individuals exploring open-relationship dynamics or power exchange. The venue is arranged into a licensed cocktail lounge with a tab-based bar system, multiple private play areas, a BDSM dungeon, and secure numbered lockers issued on a bracelet-key system. Safe sex supplies — condoms in multiple sizes, dental dams, gloves, and lube — are provided and distributed throughout. Third-party listings additionally reference an orgy room, a grope cage, and on-site showers; these have not been confirmed from the club's own published content. Mobile phones are collected at the door on arrival and held by staff for retrieval on request; cameras and all recording devices are banned outright. The club runs a named-event programme rather than fixed nightly hours. Regular fixtures include Risqué Saturday, Frisky Friday, Dunedin Sex Party nights, and the age-capped Young Swingers (18–35); the kink-focused Sub Space events carry a mandatory leather/latex/all-black dress code. All events run 21:00–03:00. Advance tickets are priced at NZD $100 per couple, $50 for single women, and $100 for single men; door prices rise to $125, $75, and $125 respectively. Single men require an approved RSVP before purchasing a ticket. Event bookings and RSVP coordination are handled via the club website, Fetlife, and Kiwi Swingers.

The New Gatehouse

Kearsley, Greater Manchester

On-Premise Club

The New Gatehouse — operating under the banner of GH Events — occupies a converted former pub on the A666 Bolton Road in Kearsley, a short distance from Bolton in Greater Manchester. The venue trades on its identity as an explicitly inclusive lifestyle and fetish club, describing itself as an LGBTQ+ safe space where guests are welcome regardless of age, ethnicity, sexual orientation, or body size. There are no membership fees, and the fully licensed bar means drink is available on-site throughout all sessions. The programming at The New Gatehouse is unusually broad for a venue of its type. Rather than a single weekly party format, the club runs distinct themed sessions every day from Monday through Saturday, catering to overlapping communities across the fetish, trans, bisexual, and BDSM scenes. The building's conversion from a pub gives it a relaxed social atmosphere — the club itself emphasises that first-timers should arrive prepared to sit, chat, and observe before anything else, and that experienced staff are available to answer questions. Staff walk new visitors around the venue on arrival and go through the rules in person. The weekly schedule runs as follows: Monday is Bonkers Bingo (noon–6pm); Tuesday is a Tgirls and Men Only day (10am–4pm); Wednesday is Tgirls and Admirers (11am–midnight, with Tgirls admitted from 10am); Thursday splits into a Bisexual Day (10am–4pm) followed by a BDSM Event (4pm–midnight); Friday is Fetish Fridays (noon–1am); Saturday opens with Tgirls and Admirers (noon–7pm) before transitioning into the Seductive Party Night (7pm–1am); Sundays are closed to the public and reserved for private hire. The venue is also available for private bookings on request.

Auberge La Passion

Drummondville, Quebec

On-Premise Club

Auberge La Passion is a licensed private club échangiste at 2655 rue St-Pierre in Drummondville, Quebec, roughly 100 kilometres east of Montreal. Founded by Luc and Chantal, the club opened on 5 April 2014 after its owners navigated municipal and court processes to obtain what they describe as the region's first official club échangiste permit. The venue holds all required operating licences. The property divides between the main club building and an adjacent annex, Le Petit Hôtel, which together offer 13 overnight suites available to members from C$80/night. Inside the main building, the social floor runs through a dance floor, a billiard lounge, and a licensed bar; a keypad-controlled interior door separates this area from the play section, which comprises themed rooms with large beds configured for private or group use, a soft BDSM space, a mirrored room, and individual rooms with doors or privacy chains. Showers, towels, and condoms are provided throughout. Suites within the main club building prohibit alcohol; those in Le Petit Hôtel permit it. First-time visitors receive a guided walk-through on arrival. Parties run every Friday and Saturday from 20:00 to 03:00. Friday evenings admit couples alongside a limited number of pre-screened single men (reservation required); bar access on Fridays is free for members, with playroom access at C$50/couple. Saturday nights are reserved for couples and single women — single men are not admitted on Saturdays. Saturday admission is C$70/couple. Single women enter free at all times. Annual membership is mandatory for all attendees at C$90 per unit (couple, single woman, or single man) and the card must be presented at every visit. Dress code is strictly enforced: business-casual or city wear for men (sportswear, cargo pants, caps, and athletic footwear refused), and dressed-up or sexy attire encouraged for women.

Club de Rencontre La Rumeur

Quebec City, Quebec

Members Club

Club de Rencontre La Rumeur has been Quebec City's primary address for the lifestyle scene for more than three decades — its annual signature event, the Bar en Blanc gala, reached its 33rd edition in March 2026. The venue occupies a commercial unit in a light-industrial pocket of the western suburbs at 600 Rue des Canetons, a short drive from the city centre but well removed from the old-city tourist corridor. It describes itself as a club for "gens libérés" and draws couples and singles who come to socialize, dance or explore within a framework that places mutual respect at the centre of its stated rules. The space is divided into two functionally distinct sections. The front half is a licensed discotheque with a full cash bar, a dance floor and a rotating calendar of themed nights — decade evenings, candaulism nights, déshabillé parties and seasonal galas among them — that give regulars a consistent reason to return. Beyond it lies La Cachette ("the hiding place"), an alcohol-free zone housing the club's intimate facilities: a coat check, showers, bathroom, towels, a mirrored dance floor with a podium and pole flanked by high-top tables for spectators, couches, four private rooms (one fitted with four beds) and a lounge with a wall-mounted screen. Lockers with provided locks are available. Staff members escort first-time visitors through both sections before the evening gets under way. The club runs Thursday through Saturday. Thursdays (9 pm–1 am) are open-door nights requiring no membership, and La Cachette is accessible to all guests. Fridays (9 pm–3 am) welcome couples alongside singles of all genders; Saturdays (9 pm–3 am) restrict entry to couples and unaccompanied women, with single men excluded. Annual membership costs $90 for a couple or a single man; single women join at no charge. Per-event pricing starts at $20 per couple, $40 for single men, and ranges from free to $10 for single women depending on the night. A membership card is mandatory for special events, including the Bar en Blanc.

The Chilli Club

Unverified

Auckland, Auckland

On-Premise Club

The Chilli Club has operated from 3122 Great North Road in New Lynn, Auckland for over fifteen years, making it one of the city's longest-running adult lifestyle venues. The space functions under two linked identities: The Chilli Club hosts swinger parties and alternative lifestyle events, while CHOKE — the Chilli House of Kink Events — serves Auckland's kink and BDSM community with workshops, play parties, photography events and professional performances. Both arms share the same licensed premises, address and contact email. The play space spans approximately 200 square metres and is fitted accordingly: a fully licensed bar, multiple play areas with large-screen TVs, a stripper pole with full-length mirrors, a sex swing and a shower area. The space is also available for private hire — from intimate gatherings to BDSM workshops — with a non-refundable $100 deposit required to confirm a booking and the balance settled on the night. All attendees must be 18 or older and may be asked to present ID. Phones, cameras and all recording devices — including smart glasses such as Ray-Ban Meta — must be powered off and stored before entry. The venue's designated safe word is 'RED', and the consent framework explicitly endorses SSC, RACK and PRICK principles. Blood play, needles, breath play and scat are prohibited outright; violations may result in immediate removal and a permanent ban with no refund of entry fees.

H&H Social Club (Heaven & Hell)

Manchester, NH

Social Club

H&H Social Club — Heaven & Hell — is a New Hampshire-based lifestyle event organization and luxury adult travel community that has built a loyal following across the Granite State and beyond. Unlike a brick-and-mortar club, H&H operates as a roving collective: its events take place at rented nightlife venues, hotel ballrooms, chartered boats, and all-inclusive resort takeovers rather than a fixed address, which keeps the vibe fresh and the crowd — drawn from New Hampshire, Massachusetts, and the broader New England lifestyle scene — pleasantly varied. The format ranges from low-key bar Meet & Greets where newcomers can size things up in a no-pressure, clothed environment, to large-scale, on-premise hotel takeovers that run full weekends with DJs, themed nightly parties, and dedicated play spaces. The event calendar spans several recurring signatures. Luminescence is a private sunset booze cruise on Boston Harbor — an electric-jungle-themed adults-only boat party with a full bar and live DJ; the adjacent Freaky Friday Meet & Greet the night before gives attendees a chance to connect before boarding. The annual Bacchanalia series is a full resort takeover at a clothing-optional property in Mexico (Hidden Beach Resort Au Naturel, Riviera Maya for 2026), running five nights of themed evenings — Burlesque, Luau, All That Glitters Is Gold, Down the Rabbit Hole, and an Intergalactic Glow night — with gourmet dining and premium drinks. A Winter Wonderland hotel-floor takeover rounds out the domestic calendar, while Virgin Alaska Cruise group trips and a Barcelona–Ibiza experience extend the travel programme internationally. Membership is optional — most events sell tickets to the public — but the paid membership site unlocks early booking, a full event calendar, and H&H Rewards points. All events are primarily open to couples and single women; a limited number of single men are accepted at select events. Attendees must be 21 or older. Event locations are disclosed only on tickets and the members site, preserving discretion. Reach the club by call, text, or WhatsApp at 603-550-9676, or follow @heavenandhellsocialclub on Instagram.

Club L (Le Club L)

Montreal, Quebec

On-Premise Club

Club L is a members-only lifestyle and swinging club occupying more than 7,200 square feet across two floors of a converted Caisse Populaire Desjardins building on Rue Jean-Talon Est in Montreal's Rosemont-La Petite-Patrie neighbourhood. Founded by the couple Mateo Lapointe and Andree, who have practised open relationships since 2003, the venue positions itself as one of Quebec's premier couple-centred libertine spaces — high-end, consent-focused, and deliberately discreet from the street. The ground floor operates as a full restaurant-lounge with small round tables, a central bar, and a chef preparing plated meals that are included in the entry price. A DJ plays on Friday and Saturday nights, and all sexual activity is confined to the second floor — keeping the main floor comfortable for socialising, dining, and meeting at any pace. The second floor opens around 22:30 and holds nine themed private rooms plus a large open communal play area. Rooms are equipped with individual sinks, adjustable mood lighting, and personalised sound controls; there are showers, towels, and full bathroom toiletries on the same floor. Suspension anchors for Shibari and swing chairs are available in the communal space, and on-floor security monitors (vigiles) are present throughout the playroom level at all times. Friday and Saturday nights run 19:00-03:00 and are reserved for couples, single women (femmes libres), and pre-sponsored male escorts (hommes accompagnateurs) whose sponsors must register them in advance — unaccompanied men are not admitted. Select Thursday evenings run 19:00-23:00 as social-only events open to all adults 18 and over, with the second floor closed and no membership required. A valid membership is mandatory for all Friday and Saturday visits: CAD $35 per person for one month, or CAD $75 per person annually. Entry fees vary by event from CAD $45 to $80 per person (plus tax), covering one meal per person. First-time visitors must arrive by 23:00 to complete a mandatory guided tour of the second floor. Payment is accepted in cash or physical debit card only; online reservations carry a non-refundable CAD $5 per person deposit credited at the door.

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Paradise Lakes Resort is a private, clothing-optional lifestyle resort in Lutz, Florida, on the Pasco County line north of Tampa — an area it bills as the "nudist capital" of the United States. Open for roughly four decades, it caters primarily to adult nudist couples in the lifestyle, pairing a full clothing-optional resort with an on-premise lifestyle (swinger) scene. Guests can come for the day or stay overnight in on-site hotel rooms. The grounds center on pools and a hot tub, with two dining spots and licensed bars — the Waters Edge Bar and the Key West restaurant — and Club Reveal, the resort's late-night nightclub. Themed weekends run roughly monthly, from leather-and-lace to costume and holiday parties, with indoor and outdoor DJs and indoor/outdoor play areas. It stays clothing-optional throughout, from the pools by day to the club after dark. Outside alcohol and food are not permitted, since the on-site bars are licensed. Entry works through a "daily membership" (day pass) or a longer membership; overnight guests also pay the daily fee at check-in. Day rates run about $40–$90 for couples and $15–$25 for single women, while single men pay a flat $175, and couple passes are reserved for committed couples who stay together. Annual and shorter memberships are available, from about $300 a month up to $2,000 a year for couples. Overnight booking is 21+. Reach the resort at (813) 949-9327 or reservations@paradiselakes.com.

Club 2020

Malsch, Baden-Württemberg

On-Premise Club

Club 2020 occupies a purpose-fitted venue on Daimlerstrasse in Malsch, a small industrial town just south of Karlsruhe in Baden-Württemberg. Opened in 2020 and operated by Stiefel GmbH, the club positions itself as the modern way to swing and has developed a following as one of the more design-conscious lifestyle destinations in the upper Rhine valley. Entry is by pre-registration only via JoyClub.de or WhatsApp, with no walk-ins accepted. Admission is tiered: couples pay €69–99, single women €25–35, and single men €75–119, and the dress code is strictly enforced at the door. The house principle — Alles kann, nichts muss (anything goes, nothing is required) — sets the tone: free condoms and towels are provided, smoking and illegal drugs are prohibited, and prostitution is strictly forbidden. JoyClub members receive a €10 discount, and the venue is also available for private rental.

Friction Parties

Unverified

Washington, DC

Event Organizer

Friction Parties is a women-owned and operated event company founded more than 22 years ago by Lisa Friction, billed as the only nationally recognized hotel party brand in the United States. Operating across the East Coast — with events regularly held in the Washington DC/Maryland area, Philadelphia, New Jersey, North Carolina, and Ohio — Friction takes over entire hotels for the duration of each event, meaning every guest and room belongs exclusively to the lifestyle community. The organizing ethos is welcoming but selective: the crowd skews toward what organizers describe as attractive, well-groomed couples and single women, and all attendees are pre-screened before admission. Events run in two formats. Single-day events are typically held on Saturdays around themed holidays — Halloween, New Year’s Eve, Valentine’s Day, St. Patrick’s Day — with check-in from 2 PM and a ballroom dance party running from 9 PM to around 1:30 AM. Weekend two-day events add clothing-optional pool parties and afternoon activities. Ticket prices range from approximately $75–$150 per person; no refunds, only future-event credits. Membership on the platform lets members browse event attendee lists and connect with couples and single females year-round. Once the main dance party ends, the format shifts to an informal hall crawl on a designated party floor where room doors are propped open and guests host themed mini-parties until the early morning. The ballroom features a DJ, dance poles, cages, and themed décor matched to the night’s costume theme. Alcohol is available via full cash bar operated by the hotel; guests may not bring drinks from rooms to the party floor.

Kasteel Waterloo

Unverified

Beesel, Limburg

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Kasteel Waterloo is a long-established lifestyle and swingers club set within a 1922 art-nouveau villa on the edge of Beesel, a small municipality in the Dutch province of Limburg positioned roughly midway between Venlo and Roermond. The estate's history stretches back to the eighteenth century, and the club has operated on the grounds since the early 1980s, attracting a regular crowd that draws noticeably from across the Dutch–German–Belgian border region, with visitors typically ranging from their mid-twenties to their early fifties. The villa's ground floor holds a bar, a dance floor fitted with a pole, a cold-buffet dining area, and a covered outdoor terrace with a separate smoking section. The upper floor is given over to the play spaces: a sauna, a BDSM room, a film room, and several themed erotic rooms, all stocked with complimentary towels and condoms. Personal lockers and free on-site parking are included. A DJ performs on selected evenings, with the music generally oriented toward 1970s–1990s hits, keeping the atmosphere sociable rather than club-loud. The venue opens on Friday evenings and on a rotating selection of Saturdays, with Fridays running roughly 20:00–03:00 and Saturdays 21:00–04:00 (exact times vary by event; the online agenda is the authoritative source). Pricing follows an all-inclusive model — unlimited drinks, the buffet, condoms, towels, and locker access are all covered by the door price. Couples typically pay €40–€110 depending on the theme night; single women pay €20–€55; single men pay €105 on nights when they are admitted. Friday is the nude-party night, open to all categories; Saturdays cycle through themed events — Couples & Bi-Ladies nights (single men excluded), Nymf Parties, Erotic Stars evenings, and Black & Leather parties — each with its own dress requirements. Advance reservations are required for all events.

Landgoed De Zaar

Venlo, Limburg

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Landgoed De Zaar is a lifestyle club set on an eight-hectare wooded estate near Grubbenvorst, a short drive from the A73 motorway just north of Venlo in Dutch Limburg. The estate's name — landgoed means manor estate — reflects what distinguishes it from urban alternatives: private grounds, surrounding woodland, a secured perimeter with an automated gate, and a location near the Belgian and German borders that draws a cross-border clientele from the Meuse-Rhine region. The club operates under the motto 'discretie, elegantie en verlangen' (discretion, elegance and desire) and carries SDC affiliation. The interior is organised around a bar and lounge area, a dance floor, restaurant facilities, and relaxation seating. Play areas include mirrored rooms, adult video rooms, private suites, a massage salon, and a sauna with shower facilities. Complimentary towels and condoms are provided throughout. The grounds also accommodate camper and caravan guests, who may park overnight within the secured estate at no charge. On regular evenings the dress code requires lingerie or similarly revealing attire for women and briefs or intimate underwear for men; on dedicated FKK nights full nudity is mandatory. The club opens on Mondays and Saturdays. Monday runs as a double session: an afternoon Sex Marathon from 13:00 priced at €10 per couple (single women free, single men €95), followed by an evening FKK nudist party at €50 per couple (€20 for solo women, €100 for solo men). Saturday's Sexy Lingerie Evening runs 20:00–03:00 at €80 per couple, €20 for solo women, and €100 for solo men. Single men are admitted at all events but pay rates substantially above those for couples or unaccompanied women.

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Parenclub Devils & Angels, an all-inclusive lifestyle and swingers club at Maaseikerweg 24 in Susteren, Limburg, has been temporarily closed since approximately May 2026. As of September 2026 the club's website carries the notice 'Wegens omstandigheden is de club tijdelijk gesloten' (due to circumstances, the club is temporarily closed) with no reopening date given. Verify current status before visiting. The club operated on a single all-inclusive admission price covering entry, beverages, and full facility access — no separate bar tab. The venue featured a bar and buffet restaurant, dance floor, and discrete car parking with campervan bays for overnight stays. Inside, a series of themed play rooms included a disco room, a TV room, a Thai massage room, a room with a floating bed, a black room, and further group play spaces. Complimentary condoms were provided throughout, and guided tours of the space were available for first-time visitors. Regular programming ran Wednesday afternoons (15:00–21:00, MILF-themed format) and Friday and Saturday evenings (21:00–03:00), with occasional Thursday daytime sessions. Admission for couples was approximately €50–75; single men in the €85–130 range; single women at a lower rate or free depending on the night. On the last Friday of each month a drempelvrees avond (newcomers' evening) welcomed first-time visitors, with regular clothes permitted until 22:30 before the provocative dress code took effect. Advance reservation was recommended for Saturday evenings.

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Club Adam & Eva is an adults-only erotic café and gentlemen's club on Prins Hendrikkade in the centre of Sneek, a compact Frisian water city in the north of the Netherlands. The venue was built on foundations laid by owner Robina Klaassen, who originally traded here under the name La Robina — a brand she described as "a cross between an erotic café and a relaxation club," aimed at lifting the concept out of what she called "that murky atmosphere of prejudices and hypocrisy." The club underwent a full refurbishment and relaunched under its current name in April 2023. In January 2025, Klaassen announced a partnership with Benny Draijer of the Multi-Massage network, which brought rotating staff from Draijer's network across the western Netherlands and a refreshed interior to the Sneek premises. The club presents as a bar-fronted private club with female staff on hand daily and private rooms available at a separate charge. Bar staff mediate introductions: guests wishing to spend time with a particular staff member inform the bartender, who makes the arrangement. The house ethos is consent-forward and deliberately understated — positioned not as a nightclub but as a relaxed, open-minded space for adult leisure. Single men, couples, and solo women are all explicitly welcome; an 18+ policy is strictly enforced. Entry is by walk-in; aggregator listings suggest the venue is open daily from the afternoon into the early hours. House rules include mandatory condom use, required showering before sexual contact, and a strict no-photography policy — phones must be deposited at the coat check on arrival, and cameras are prohibited throughout the venue. Consent is non-negotiable: the founding ruleset states "nee is in dit café ook echt nee" (no means no in this café too). There is no formal dress code for regular evenings, though guests are expected to arrive clean and well-groomed.

Parenclub Ultimate Dream

Beek en Donk, Noord-Brabant

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Parenclub Ultimate Dream occupies a venue at Willemstraat 9B in Beek en Donk, a small Noord-Brabant municipality positioned roughly midway between Helmond and Eindhoven. The club draws couples and single women from the broader Brabant region — Den Bosch, Eindhoven, and Helmond are all within easy reach — and operates both lifestyle and kink programming: regular swinger nights run alongside dedicated BDSM evenings and fetish events, including an occasional X-Treme Fetish party. Multiple independent listings describe an interior combining a lounge, dance floor, bar, and buffet-style restaurant with two whirlpools and private rooms for couples seeking seclusion. Entry is all-inclusive: drinks, food, condoms, towels, and locker use are covered by the door price, a model confirmed consistently across sources. Staff welcome first-time visitors with a personal introduction and tour before the evening begins, contributing to a reputation for approachability. Confirmed hours are Saturday 20:00–02:00; Friday 19:00–01:00 appears in several directory listings but has not been verified against primary sources — check the event calendar before visiting. Couple entry was listed at €110 and single-woman entry at €55 for a Saturday event in May 2025; earlier third-party listings show lower figures and current pricing should be confirmed directly with the club. A stamp card rewards repeat visitors with complimentary entry after ten paid visits. From 22:30 a dress code applies: lingerie for women, underwear or boxers for men, with standard evening attire accepted on arrival before that threshold. Standard nights admit couples and single women only; single men may attend exclusively on themed evenings that explicitly permit their entry.

Sameplace

Amsterdam, Noord-Holland

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Sameplace is an erotic café and adult lifestyle venue at Nassaukade 120 on the western fringe of Amsterdam's Westerpark neighbourhood, a short tram ride from the city centre. Open since the mid-1990s, it markets itself as Amsterdam's premier female-friendly erotic café and draws a genuinely mixed crowd — straight couples, gay men, single women, and on most nights single men as well. The premises run across two floors plus a basement. A U-shaped bar with booth seating anchors the ground floor; upstairs, a dance floor operates with a resident DJ on busier evenings. The basement holds the harder-edged spaces: a dungeon fitted with a sex swing and a sex chair, BDSM equipment, and a dark room. A changing room with lockers and towels is available. The programme of themed nights is central to the club's identity: regular rotation includes BDSM Pure evenings, fetish-dress nights with enforced dress code, a Shamelessly Naked party, a T&T night, bisexual and trans nights, costume parties, and a monthly fistfuck event on the fourth Sunday. One evening each week is reserved for gay men only. Staff meet guests at the door and walk newcomers through the space; a strict consent policy is actively enforced — visitors report that a firm refusal from any patron is respected without negotiation. The venue is open Tuesday through Thursday from 21:00 to 02:00, Friday and Saturday from 21:00 to 03:00, and Sunday in two sessions: 15:00–21:00 (couples only) and 22:00–03:00; the club is closed on Mondays. Entry is via a doorbell; there is no street queue. Entry fees vary by event and themed night. The venue is cash-only — no card payments are accepted. Dress codes are enforced on fetish and specialist nights; casual attire is acceptable on standard evenings. Nudity is permitted throughout the venue.

Fun4Two

Moordrecht, South Holland

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Fun4Two is a long-established lifestyle club housed in a protected 1851 Dutch farmhouse at Middelweg 18 in Moordrecht, South Holland, roughly 25 minutes by car from Rotterdam and within easy reach of The Hague, Utrecht, and Amsterdam. Operating continuously since January 1996, it runs as an all-inclusive venue — one entry price covers unlimited food from the buffet restaurant, unlimited drinks including beer, wine, and spirits, use of all wellness facilities, towels, and lockers — a model that sets it apart from most comparable venues across the Netherlands. The converted farmhouse spreads across several connected sections. A self-service buffet restaurant, a main dance floor with a resident DJ, and a lounge bar anchor the social areas. A wellness wing contains a heated indoor pool, sauna, jacuzzi, and bubble bath. The play spaces include a tantra temple, an orgy loft, a group playroom, a Dutch Village area fitted with BDSM-equipped themed cottages, a glory hole room, and a dedicated BDSM dungeon suite. On-site accommodation — apartments, small cottages, and a traditional Dutch caravan known as a pipowagen — is available at additional cost for those who want to stay after the party ends. The venue opens Friday evenings from 21:00 to 03:00, Saturdays from 21:00 to 04:00, and on selected Sundays from 16:00 to 23:00. Member pricing for a couple runs €124 on Fridays, €159 on Saturdays, and €109 on Sundays; first-time visitors pay an additional €20 one-time registration fee that grants full member rates on all future visits. Single women are welcome at all sessions at reduced rates (€62–€80); single men are excluded from regular events except at dedicated Hardcore Night events (approximately four per year, capped at 75 tickets) and on the third Friday of each month, when a couple may bring one additional guest. Saturday visits require advance reservation via the website. Guests arrive in smart or stylish clothing and must change into lingerie or sexy attire by 23:30 on Fridays and Saturdays, or by 19:00 on Sundays. Mobile phones are prohibited in all public areas, and free enclosed private parking is available on-site.

Club Le Baron

Heerewaarden, Gelderland

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Club Le Baron, also trading as Parenclub Le Baron and Le Baron A2, occupies a stand-alone building at Heerewaardensestraat 40 in the small riverside village of Heerewaarden, on the Gelderland-Noord-Brabant border, immediately accessible from the A2 motorway. The location places it roughly twenty kilometres north of Den Bosch and within an hour of Utrecht, Eindhoven, and Arnhem. Free on-site parking is available. The club admits couples, single women, and single men, and frames its guiding principle as geen nonsens: no obligations to participate, no requirement to undress. It is open every day of the week, a schedule the owners present as a deliberate distinction from venues that operate weekends only. The social area contains a bar, a restaurant serving a complimentary hot and cold buffet, an outdoor terrace, a dance floor with a pole, a separate adult film room, and a dedicated smoking area. All visitors have free use of a jacuzzi, sauna, and multiple shower facilities. Lockers are provided for personal belongings, and condoms and towels are supplied. The play section consists of several lockable private rooms fitted with large beds, mirrored walls and ceilings, and viewing windows described on the venue site as gluuropeningen, allowing observation from the corridor outside. Staff are consistently described in visitor accounts as approachable and welcoming. The weekly schedule runs Monday through Thursday 11:00-01:00, Friday 11:00-03:00, Saturday 20:00-03:00, and Sunday 14:00-21:00. Entry for women and mixed couples is free, subject to a per-person minimum bar spend of 21 EUR; single men pay a flat 75 EUR entry fee with no consumption minimum attached. Under the published pricing policy, two men arriving together are not classified as a couple. The buffet, sauna, jacuzzi, and parking are included for every visitor. Themed special events are held periodically with separate pricing; reservations may be required for those nights. The venue currently requests cash payment, citing intermittent card-terminal failures.

Friction Carolina

Durham, NC

Event Organizer

Friction Carolina is the Raleigh-Durham chapter of Friction Parties, a hotel-takeover swingers event brand founded by Lisa Friction more than two decades ago and run as a women-owned and -operated business. Rather than operating a single fixed venue, Friction stages full hotel buyouts at upscale, mainstream hotel properties across North Carolina, alongside sister markets in the Philadelphia/New Jersey area, the Washington DC region, and Ohio. The company describes its events as complete hotel takeovers rather than floor or ballroom rentals, and positions itself as a nationally recognized hotel-party brand in the lifestyle scene. Because host properties are conventional hotels with their own liquor licenses, the ballroom runs on a cash bar and outside alcohol is barred from any area where the hotel sells drinks, unless a specific date is advertised as BYOB. Parties are built around a rented ballroom for the main event and a private party floor of guest rooms, with area DJs, a stripper pole and dance cage, a step-and-repeat photo backdrop, and security posted at check-in and on the private floors overnight. A late-night pizza run and after-parties on the guest-room floor extend the evening once the ballroom event winds down. Guests are asked to wear a robe or cover-up in hallways and other public hotel areas, and fog machines, candles, vaping, and smoking are all prohibited indoors under hotel fire code. Admission is screening-based and limited to couples and single women who meet the group's appearance standards; the site's own registration form offers only "Couple" and "Female" account types, and unaccompanied single men are not admitted under any circumstance. Site membership is free, and an event ticket purchase includes a temporary premium membership, with a paid "Platinum" membership sold separately for year-round profile browsing and messaging. Check-in cutoff varies by event — stated as 11pm on one official page and midnight on another — with no late entry, and purchases are non-refundable; cancellations and no-shows receive a 12-month event credit instead.

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Sauna Azzurra sits on Van Heemstraweg on the edge of Beuningen, a small Gelderland municipality a short drive west of Nijmegen. It operates as both a gay sauna and an erotic lifestyle venue, rotating between men-only days and days open to mixed-gender couples and singles. The building contains two Finnish saunas each sized for up to six people, a combined hammam and steam sauna, and a communal shower area with roughly eight hot tubs, two of which are bookable privately. Beyond the wet facilities there is a dedicated cruise circuit, dark rooms, open mattress areas, and lockable private cabins. A video lounge, a bar serving food, and an outdoor terrace with sun loungers complete the space, with free parking on site. Condoms are provided throughout; complimentary soup is offered on Sundays. Outside food and drink are not permitted. The programme divides the week by clientele type: Tuesdays, Fridays, and Sundays are men-only gay days; Mondays, Wednesdays, and Saturdays are open to mixed couples and singles; Thursdays are reserved for couples only. Exact opening and closing times should be confirmed directly with the venue before visiting, as third-party sources conflict. Admission prices, per a third-party source that may not reflect current tariffs, are €30 for a single man and €50 for a couple on gay days, and €46.50 for single visitors and €50 per couple on mixed days; a six-visit card is also available. Entry is strictly 18 and over; valid ID is required at the door.

Parenclub Mystique

Rucphen, Noord-Brabant

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Parenclub Mystique has anchored the Noord-Brabant swinger scene since May 2001, when owner Frank van Loon opened this discreet venue on the Zundertseweg in Rucphen, a rural municipality several kilometres from Roosendaal. Over more than 25 years of operation, the club has built a large membership base and established itself among the more prominent lifestyle venues in the southern Netherlands, consistently described across Dutch directories as stylish and refined. It holds an SDC (Swingers Date Club) affiliation and markets itself as a sfeervol, stijlvol en luxe — convivial, stylish, and luxurious — evening out. The venue spans multiple levels, with a basement housing 150 lockers across four dressing rooms, and the main floor opening onto a spacious bar and dance area with a resident DJ, a champagne bar, a dedicated smoking lounge, and a 40-seat restaurant serving a hot-and-cold lava-grill buffet — all included in the entrance fee. An outdoor swimming pool, an XL whirlpool, and a luxury sauna round out the leisure facilities, while multiple themed play rooms occupy the upper floors alongside dedicated shower areas. The atmosphere is consistently described as welcoming and stylish, shaped by the easy sociability for which Brabant is known; free parking is available on site. The club opens six days a week, closed on Tuesdays. Mondays and Thursdays open at 14:00, Wednesdays at 18:00; Friday evenings at 20:00, Saturdays at 19:00, and Sundays at 16:00. Single men are admitted on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays only; Friday through Sunday is reserved for couples and single women. Entry for couples is €75 on weekday afternoons, rising to €110 on Fridays and Sundays and €130 on Saturdays; single women pay €20–€50 depending on the evening; single men pay around €100. All prices are all-inclusive, covering unlimited bar service and the buffet. Around six newcomer trial evenings are held each year, and the weekly calendar features bi evenings, transgender nights, BDSM sessions, and themed special events.

Fun4Two

Rydalmere, New South Wales

On-Premise Club

Fun4Two is a licensed swingers club at 5 Clyde Street in Rydalmere, an industrial pocket of western Sydney roughly five minutes from Parramatta and about 25 kilometres from the CBD. In operation since 2000 and run under the legal name Ma Property Developments Pty Ltd, the venue has built a long-running presence in the Sydney lifestyle scene. Admission is restricted to male-female couples and single women aged 18 and over; single men are not permitted under any circumstances. The premises houses multiple lounge rooms, a dance floor, pool tables, a bar, and a mix of private and communal play rooms. Dedicated change rooms with secure lockers are on-site; a refundable A$20 deposit secures a locker key at arrival, and mobile phones must be stored in that locker throughout the visit. On-site security includes uniformed guards and 24-hour CCTV coverage of common areas, and private and street parking are available. Entry includes complimentary canapés and soft drinks, and BYO alcohol is permitted. Condoms and lubricant are supplied throughout the venue. Events run every Saturday from 9 pm to 3 am, with entry by pre-purchased ticket only. Advance online pricing is A$150 per couple and A$50 for single women; door pricing is A$180 and A$80 respectively, with a A$20 refundable locker deposit added on arrival. A signed waiver is required for entry. Dress code on arrival is smart nightlife attire; after 11 pm and in play areas, lingerie is expected for women and underwear for men. Each Saturday has a distinct themed night — including recurring Newbie Nights designed for first-timers, and special events with named performers — with upcoming events listed on the club's website. A minor surcharge applies to card and EFTPOS payments.

Pleasure2gether

Sittard, Limburg

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Pleasure2gether sits on Leyenbroekerweg in Sittard, in the southern Dutch province of Limburg, and bills itself as ‘Limburgs sfeervolste parenclub’ — Limburg’s most atmospheric couples club. Run by Hans and Hester, the venue welcomes couples (heterosexual and bisexual alike), single men, and single women, with a minimum entry age of 21. Ample parking is available on site. The facilities lean toward comfort rather than clinical club décor: a bar stocked with beverages and running current music, large relaxation areas, a dedicated smoking room, an infrared sauna, a hot tub (bubbelbad), and massage services offered with a range of oils including body-to-body options. A varied buffet accompanies Friday and Saturday evening parties. The tone is intentionally homey — more lounge than nightclub — and the crowd spans a broad mix of regulars and newcomers. Programming follows a rotating schedule published weekly on the club’s own website. Regular fixtures include erotic parties on Friday and Saturday evenings (20:00–01:00), massage and themed evenings on Wednesdays (18:00–22:00), and men’s afternoon parties on Mondays (13:00–17:00). Periodic fixtures include a dedicated MILF evening on the second Friday of the month and a BDSM evening on the third Tuesday (20:00–01:00). Entry is all-inclusive, covering access to all facilities; payment is cash only.

Fetish Week London

London, Greater London

BDSM Club

Fetish Week London (FWL) is the UK's largest annual gathering for gay, bi, queer, trans and curious men into gear and fetish, presented by Recon — the London fetish dating brand operated by T101 Ltd. Rather than a single fixed club, it is an eight-day, city-wide festival that in its own words returns 'to the UK's capital... with another fun-packed schedule of events over 8 full days.' The 2026 edition, running 5-12 July, marked the milestone 15th Anniversary and again made Electrowerkz — a warehouse venue at 7 Torrens Street, behind Angel tube in Islington (EC1V 1NQ) — its 'exclusive and kinky home base for the week.' The programme is built around a spine of official events alongside dozens of external parties hosted by London's fetish retailers and kink-friendly bars. Recurring headline nights include the invite-only Recon Members' Party, a film Screening, Fetish Cabaret, a Masterclass evening of educational demos, the Sports Cruise, Rubber Gear, the FWL Sunday Social, and the main event, Full Fetish, which 'takes over the entire underground warehouse-style venue' with a dedicated BDSM space, watersports and cruising maze, a fisting area, House/Pop/Techno dancefloors, a VIP room, and a newer quieter zone for neurodivergent kinksters. From Wednesday to Saturday a daytime FWL Hub and Gear Market runs at Electrowerkz, pairing fetish retailers and a second-hand gear swap-and-shop with DJs, extended educational demos, discussion panels and daily Sober Recovery meet-ups. Entry is strictly over-18 and photo ID is required at the door. Most events enforce a dress code, with the site's guide spanning leather, rubber, sports, skinhead, uniform/military and pup gear (suit and tie also counts) under two firm rules: 'naked is not gear,' and no nazi, far-right, fascist or extremist symbolism, on pain of refused entry. Tickets are sold in advance through DICE — Full Fetish, for example, is GBP 30 general / GBP 60 VIP — and a photographer or videographer records the events, with attendees free to opt out on the night without being denied entry. The week is community-minded rather than gamified, with sober support built into the schedule.

Shed 16

Seaford, Victoria

On-Premise Club

Shed 16 is an adults-only lifestyle and swinger venue occupying a purpose-built space at 2/16 Cumberland Drive in Seaford, a bayside suburb on Melbourne's south-eastern fringe roughly 40 kilometres from the CBD. The club operates as a sex-on-premises venue with an explicit commitment to LGBTIQA+ inclusion, framing its mission around a safe, sex-positive environment that welcomes people of all genders, backgrounds, and levels of experience. The ethos is deliberately no-pressure: attendance carries no expectation of participation, and first-timers are actively accommodated through a gradual introduction to the space. The venue spans two floors. The ground floor anchors each session with a fully licensed bar and café, two spas, a dry sauna, a steam room, large open shower facilities, secure lockers, and free internet stations. The upper level is dedicated to play, hosting private lockable rooms, open group areas, a bondage and kink dungeon, sling rooms, a suckatorium, voyeur rooms, and a porn lounge. An outdoor courtyard serves as the smoking and vaping area. Dress expectations shift between floors: the ground level permits casual attire for the first two hours, while upstairs requires towel, underwear, lingerie, or nude. Condoms are provided throughout. Four weekly sessions run Tuesday through Saturday. TABOO (Tuesday, 7 pm–1 am) prices couples at AUD $35, single ladies at $15, and pre-booked single men at $60. DESIRES (Thursday, noon–6:30 pm) carries the same couple and ladies rates, with single men at $60 (or $50 before 1 pm). SHARED SECRETS (Friday, 8 pm–2 am) admits couples at $70 and single ladies at $25; single men are not admitted. CLUB EROTIQUE (Saturday, 8 pm–2 am) prices couples at $60, single ladies at $20, and pre-booked single men at $150. Entry is cash only at the door, with an on-site ATM; EFTPOS is accepted at the bar. A $10 surcharge applies on public holidays.

Pineapples Lifestyle Bar

South Melbourne, Victoria

On-Premise Club

Pineapples Lifestyle Bar occupies a two-storey building at 427 City Rd in South Melbourne's Montague Precinct, between York and Ferrars streets. Opened in August 2025 after the City of Port Phillip approved the venue 5–3 in June 2024 following a VCAT challenge by local residents, it holds a sex-on-premises permit and accommodates up to 200 patrons. It operates as a licensed adult lifestyle bar welcoming couples, solo women, and a restricted cohort of vetted solo men, positioning itself as a consent-focused environment for adult social exploration within the swinger, queer, LGBTQ+, and kink communities. The ground floor contains a licensed full-service bar and a performance stage used for live music, DJ sets, comedy, cabaret, and burlesque, with the format rotating by night. The upper floor is reserved for intimate activity and houses open play areas, private lockable rooms, bathrooms, unisex showers, and a VIP section. Refresh stations supply towels, condoms, lubricant, massage oil, and sanitary items throughout. Guests receive colour-coded wristbands indicating couple, solo-female, solo-male, or prefer-not-to-be-approached status; a black wristband signals a wish to decline physical advances. Volunteer consent angels circulate the floor to support guests. Complimentary all-night parking is available in front of the venue from 6 pm, and lockers are provided on an AUD$20 security deposit or credit-card/ID-hold basis. The club operates three nights per week: Thursdays 7 pm–midnight, Fridays 8 pm–2 am, and Saturdays 8 pm–2 am. Tickets must be purchased online in advance — walk-ins are never admitted. All first-time visitors must submit a membership application and complete a phone vetting call before any ticket purchase; solo males face an additional written questionnaire and in-person interview, and operate under a one-strike permanent-removal policy. Standard nights begin at AUD$20. Valid government-issued photo ID is required at the door. Phones and cameras must be secured in on-site lockers before entering the upper floor. The arrival dress code is smart-casual; upper-floor access requires dressing to lingerie, underwear, a provided towel, or bare skin. No outside alcohol is permitted, and a zero-tolerance drugs policy applies.

616

Grand Rapids, MI

Rotating hotel takeover event organizer - no fixed venue

Club 616 is a members-only lifestyle club serving West Michigan, running themed hotel-takeover events in Kalamazoo, Grand Rapids, and Newaygo. Current hosts took over in January 2012, building on a group dating to the 1990s. Membership welcomes couples, single ladies, and sponsored single gentlemen; the club calls itself BDSM, kink, and LGBTQ+ friendly, and joining requires an application, photo ID, and signed consent forms. Signature parties — Red Carpet NYE, Halloween, and a spring weekend — bring a dance floor, DJ, dance pole, light show, a pool party, and a VIP room with bench swings, a St. Andrew's cross, and a ladies-only bed. A recent Halloween filled a 182-room hotel, with dress shifting by zone: street clothes in the lobby, g-strings/pasties minimum poolside, and no dress code in the VIP room. Entry is 21-and-up, reservation-only, with ID checked at registration; a strict consent policy bars unwanted touching, and cameras are banned at events.

CCK

Unverified

Auckland, Auckland

On-Premise Club

CCK occupies a discreet, unmarked address at 246C Hobson Street in Auckland's CBD and markets itself as the city's first upscale adult lounge bar and lifestyle venue, with an emphasis on sophistication, consent, and an international aesthetic. The venue operates four nights a week — Wednesday through Saturday — with doors opening at 8:30pm and last entry accepted until 1am. The social and play spaces centre on a full-service licensed bar and dance floor set to Euro house music, with five designated play areas equipped with a St Andrew's cross, a lover's swing, an erotic dancing cage, a grope tent, a dark room, and a static pole. Complimentary condoms, lubricant, towels, and body lotion are provided; locker and shower facilities are on site; and a five-stage Aura Air UV purification system reflects a stated emphasis on cleanliness. Gated courtyard parking is complimentary during visits. Couples and single women are admitted Wednesday through Saturday. Single men are admitted on Wednesdays and at designated specialty events only, with advance booking compulsory. Earlybird online pricing starts at NZD $70 per couple on Wednesdays and NZD $100 on Thursday through Saturday, with regular online rates at NZD $100 and NZD $130 respectively; after-midnight walk-in pricing rises to NZD $160. Single women pay NZD $35-$85 depending on night and booking timing. No membership is required. A rotating calendar of specialty nights includes Pendulum (bi-couples and singles), Young NZ Swingers (ages 18-35), 45 Plus Roast Club, CCK Hotwifing, and SKIRTS ladies-only events. Dress standards are strictly enforced — T-shirts, shorts, jandals, and trainers are prohibited — and first-time visitors receive a guided tour of the venue.

Cats 2.0 Swingerclub

München, Bavaria

On-Premise Club

Cats 2.0 Swingerclub occupies a venue at Paul-Gerhardt-Allee 44 in Munich's Pasing-Obermenzing district, roughly eight kilometres west of the city centre. The club bills itself as the largest swingers venue in Munich, welcoming couples, solo women, and solo men under the tagline 'Erotik stilvoll genießen' — erotic enjoyment done stylishly. It operates at an address previously occupied by the Karibik Swingerclub. The venue spans approximately 500 m² with a capacity of around 150 guests, including 60 in the dedicated play area, and features six private rooms alongside a bar, a food buffet, a dancefloor, and multiple playrooms. Changing facilities are provided on site and towels and condoms are available. Independent reviewers describe the space as clean and well-maintained; the atmosphere is characterised as relaxed rather than formal, with staff noted for being approachable and house rules across all events emphasising respectful conduct. Entry prices vary by day and guest type: couples pay from €50 on Mondays up to €80 on Saturdays; solo men from €100 to €120; and solo women from €15 to €25. The club is cash-only and JOYclub members receive a €10 discount. A Schnupper-Montag (newcomer Monday) is the recommended first visit for those new to the scene, with a dedicated first-visit guide at cats20.de. A dress code applies, with separate guidance published for couples, solo women, and solo men.

Naughty Revival

Minneapolis, MN

Lifestyle Resort

Naughty Revival is a 21-and-over lifestyle and kink event based in the Minneapolis–St. Paul metro area that operates as a periodic hotel takeover rather than a fixed venue: organizers reserve an entire hotel for a private, ticketed weekend roughly once a year. The event traces back to Kinque Social Society, founded in June 2018, which reorganized under the Naughty Revival name for its first event at the Sheraton Bloomington in November 2021, followed by two-night hotel takeovers at the Sheraton Minneapolis West in Minnetonka in subsequent years. Its next takeover is scheduled for December 4–6, 2026, at a hotel disclosed only by email to ticket and room holders. Each takeover converts the reserved hotel into a self-contained event space, with a ballroom dungeon and a pool dungeon outfitted with more than 60 pieces of equipment, four performance stages, classroom space for educational programming, a vendor marketplace, dining areas, and a dedicated swingers' suite, alongside the hotel's own pool, hot tub, sauna and racquetball courts. Outside the on-site bar, restaurants and VIP dining area, clothing is optional throughout the event space, with kink and fetish wear encouraged but street clothes also welcome. Attendance runs upward of 900 guests per event, and both couples and singles of any gender are explicitly welcomed. Doors open at 3:00 PM Friday (1:00 PM for VIP ticket holders), with the event and hotel checkout running through 1:00 PM Sunday. Entry requires a pre-purchased ticket and photo ID for mandatory 21+ verification; general admission runs $165 and VIP $525 per person, with an Ultra VIP two-person suite package at $3,450, and hotel rooms booked and priced separately from admission. House rules ban phones, cameras and recording devices anywhere outside private rooms or a designated phone room, enforce a consent-based stoplight safe-word system, and prohibit illegal drugs and firearms; alcohol is sold at the hotel and venue bars rather than brought in, and smoking is restricted to an area at least 25 feet from any entrance.

Asthoria Swingdreams

Neumünster, Schleswig-Holstein

On-Premise Club

Asthoria Swingdreams occupies the corner of Fehmarnstraße and Wrangelstraße in the Wittorf district of Neumünster, roughly midway between Hamburg and Kiel in Schleswig-Holstein. The club is legally structured as a registered association — Verein zur Förderung kommunikativer Freizeitgestaltung e.V. — rather than a commercial venue, and its stated motto, „familiär, unkompliziert, niveauvoll“ (intimate, uncomplicated, refined), reflects that orientation: the emphasis is on a sociable, close-knit atmosphere within a deliberately modest capacity of around 50 guests across approximately 300 square metres. The floor plan divides the space into clearly distinct zones: a bar with a dance floor and pole-dancing apparatus, lounge seating, a buffet area, shower facilities, a wellness area with sauna and massage space, a darkroom, a jungle-themed play room, and a purpose-fitted SM/BDSM studio equipped with a St. Andrew’s Cross. The event calendar has featured recurring themed nights including the Rubensparty, a body-positive evening, and the Dark Night. The club opens on Tuesdays and Wednesdays from 15:00 to 23:00, on Fridays and Saturdays from 19:00 to 03:00, and on the second and fourth Sunday of each month from 15:00 to 22:00. Entry pricing is tiered by gender and day: single women pay €10 on all open nights; couples pay €30 on Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Sundays, and €50 on Fridays and Saturdays; single men pay €65 on Sundays, €70 on Tuesdays and Wednesdays, and €75 on Fridays and Saturdays. A dress code is enforced at entry.

Pärchenclub Schiedel

Kamenz, Saxony

On-Premise Club

Club Schiedel sits on a former farmstead in the Schiedel district of Kamenz, a small Saxony town in eastern Germany roughly equidistant between Dresden and Bautzen. Operated since 2012 by Siro and Reinhard Bartels through Pärchenclub Schiedel & Hotel UG, it has grown into one of the larger lifestyle destinations in the region — a self-contained rural retreat combining a full-scale swingers club with hotel rooms, holiday rooms, and extensive grounds. Its approach along quiet roads threading through forest and farmland on the edge of the Upper Lusatian hills and lake landscape gives the property a secluded and unhurried character that sets it apart from urban venues of comparable scope. The interior club area is finished in natural stone, timber, and tropical planting — a design the venue describes as a blend of eroticism, tropical flair, and rustic warmth. The amenity list is substantial: a darkroom, a dedicated SM room, themed playrooms including mirrored and group-activity rooms, a small adult cinema, five indoor bars, and a wellness section with hot tub and sauna. A warm-and-cold buffet runs through the evening during events. The broader grounds encompass an outdoor swimming pool, an outdoor bar with lounge beds, and a spread of lakeside holiday cabins alongside hotel rooms in the main building. The club averages 4.4 stars across more than 130 visitor reviews, with consistent praise for staff friendliness and quality of service. Events are anchored to Friday and Saturday evenings, with doors opening at 20:00 on both nights. Wednesdays function primarily as a hotel check-in and accommodation day for overnight guests. The club maintains a Swinger-Paten scheme — a companion system in which staff or designated regulars walk first-time visitors through the space and help them find their footing at their own pace.

KNetic Club

Calgary, Alberta

On-Premise Club

KNetic Club bills itself as "Calgary's largest fully licensed Lifestyle Swingers Club" — LGBTQ-owned and pitched as ultra-inclusive, welcoming singles, couples, and throuples across two Calgary venues (KNetic South and KNetic North). It runs as an event-driven private club rather than a daily-open venue: a free member profile must be created and approved before attending, and the calendar mixes high-energy themed parties (Unicorn Night, Spicy Stampede Social, Cowboy Boots & Daisy Dukes), play-focused nights, a "Real Talk" relationships discussion series, partner workshops, and a regular Newbie Night for first-timers. Single men can't attend couples nights alone — the classic couples-protective convention — while single women are welcomed and discounted on select nights. The roughly 3,400 sq ft South venue pairs a main dance floor (DJ, stripper pole) with an upstairs lounge of pool and darts, a furnished playroom, gender-neutral washrooms, and a "FLEX" bar where members can buy drinks or bring their own. The KNetic name spans a small multi-brand network: alongside the couples-and-singles flagship, it operates KNetic Men (a gay/bi/queer men's cruise club) and KNetic Women (a queer women's club), each with its own community, plus it rents the venue to third-party kink organizer K-E-A-N for shibari and BDSM education nights. Founded on a "Love Always Wins" ethos and described as Calgary's only fully LGBTQ-owned lifestyle club, that breadth is why some visitors read it as "a queer club" — but the flagship's own marketing is explicit: "a safe space for 18+ singles, couples, and more." Entry is event-ticketed and varies by night (commonly from ~$10–$15 CAD, with Premium-member and single-women discounts on select events), and an optional paid Premium membership ($10/mo–$95/yr) unlocks door discounts and social features but not admission. Fully licensed (City of Calgary, Alberta Health Services, Calgary Fire, AGLC), the club is well regarded — reportedly around 4.7★ on one review aggregator — and was active as of mid-2026.

Why Not Swingerclub

Hamburg, Hamburg

On-Premise Club

Swingertreff Why Not e.V. is a registered lifestyle club operating out of a two-storey house in Hamburg's Bramfeld district. Located on Bramfelder Chaussee in the city's northeast, the venue spans roughly 340 square metres and accommodates up to 120 guests per session, with parking available on site. It is structured as a non-profit registered association (eingetragener Verein), a less common arrangement among German lifestyle venues. Across its two floors, the club offers a wellness area with sauna and massage space, an SM/BDSM section, and a shared social area where an all-inclusive buffet and drinks service are covered by the entry fee. The club has positioned itself as accessible to first-timers, running dedicated beginner evenings alongside its regular programme. It holds a 4.8 out of 5 rating on JOYclub, where it appears among Hamburg's top-listed venues of its kind.

On-Premise Club

Nestled in the south suburbs of Chicago, Club Release has carved out a reputation as one of the region's most distinctive lifestyle venues and one of the few that genuinely rolls out the welcome mat for select single men alongside couples. The club operates under the motto Putting the life into your Lifestyle, a phrase that captures its mission of creating a social, pressure-light environment where curious newcomers and seasoned regulars can mingle, dance, and connect. The venue's approach to singles is unusually structured and deliberately gentlemanly. Single men must prepay in advance, no walk-ins, no exceptions, no refunds, and must arrive before the 9:00 pm cut-off to be admitted. Once inside, unescorted access to any play area is a zero-tolerance violation: singles must move through those spaces with a couple or alongside a single woman. The etiquette guidelines on the website read less like a list of rules and more like a lesson in social intelligence, introducing yourself to both partners, reading non-verbal cues, and accepting any no without negotiation. Dress code is firmly enforced in the spirit of a nice nightclub: think sexy and stylish, not casual or confrontational. Backwards caps, sweatpants, sagging jeans, and any biker or gang-affiliated attire are explicitly barred. Events are ticketed in advance, with schedules announced via the website and Facebook page.

Allures Lifestyle

Sacramento, CA

Event Organizer (Hotel Takeover Parties)

Allures Lifestyle is Sacramento's longest-running lifestyle event organizer — a pop-up operation that descends on the DoubleTree by Hilton Sacramento's grand ballroom and transforms it into what the group bills as Northern California's premier swinger dance-play party. Operating under the tagline "the force of irresistible attraction," Allures has run monthly hotel parties for over a decade and draws couples from across the greater Sacramento area and beyond. The setup reads more nightclub than back-room affair: romantic candlelight, fog machines, sensual mood lighting, and two large projector screens broadcasting music videos accompany a state-of-the-art DJ spinning Old School, R&B, Hip Hop, Latin, Pop, EDM, and Classic Rock. The main ballroom floor centers on a full dance floor with a stripper pole and go-go stage, flanked by reserved VIP round tables (seating eight each) and 10-by-7-foot draped VIP cabanas — each fitted with a sofa, loveseat, and coffee table — right on the dance floor. Adjacent to the ballroom, the "Boom Boom Room" play suite provides multiple beds, a double-sided St. Andrew's Cross, a multi-positional sex horse, and a sex swing, staffed by Allures personnel throughout the evening. Guests in the play suite are asked to be in lingerie or less; voyeurs are welcome but may be asked to vacate if space is needed. Overnight sleeping rooms — standard rooms through two-bedroom suites — can be reserved in the Allures hotel block, placing guests on dedicated Allures floors and including a goodie bag at check-in. The event calendar runs to monthly themed hotel dances plus more intimate "Fantasy Fridays" at rotating venues, casual Meet & Greets at nightclubs and lifestyle bars, and an ambitious roster of destination programming: a clothing-optional takeover in Jaco, Costa Rica, Hedonism II Jamaica dates, Bliss and Desire cruise ship charters, Vegas weekends, Gold Country motorcycle runs, boating flotillas, and camping trips. The signature event is the annual New Year's Eve "SEXabration Ball," which drew national news coverage in January 2020 after nearly 1,000 guests filled the DoubleTree. All hotel events are 21+; a full cash bar is on-site.

Silk Lifestyle

Miami, FL

Social Club

Silk Lifestyle is an invite-only lifestyle events group based in Miami that throws themed play parties in rented private mansions rather than a fixed clubhouse. Past nights include a cyberpunk party at a Hollywood, Florida mansion headlined by DJ Markus Schulz, a Celtic-occult "Emerald Covenant," and an annual New Year's Eve mansion takeover in Fort Lauderdale. Entry runs through an online application, not walk-up admission: event pages state attendance is "by application approval" with "no door sales, no outsiders," and every applicant is vetted. Tickets are priced separately by category -- couples, throuples, single women, and a capped number of single men. Nights lean all-inclusive: open bar, chef-prepared bites, DJ sets, photo booths, massage therapists, and themed play rooms, with some adding fire dancers or a heated pool. Phones stay in designated areas, and photography is barred inside play spaces.

Eyz Wide Shut

Tampa, FL

On-Premise Club

Spread across more than 12,000 square feet in two adjoining buildings on East Adamo Drive, Eyz Wide Shut is Tampa's only dedicated on-premise lifestyle nightclub. Eyz Wide Shut II houses the nightclub proper — a full liquor bar (cash only), a nightly complimentary buffet, a dance floor with a brass pole, a game room with pool and air hockey, a covered outdoor smoking patio, and an erotic-art museum stocked with imported pieces. Next door, Eyz Wide Shut I holds ten themed private suites — Dungeon, Cleopatra, Seaside, Harem, Wild West among them — plus three group rooms (including a large dungeon, a Hedonism room, and Lovers Lane) and a one-way-glass voyeur room. The club opens Thursday through Sunday; Fridays and Saturdays run 7 pm to 3 am with playrooms unlocking at 11 pm and staying open until 5 am. Thursdays and Sundays keep shorter hours. Membership is required for playroom access and can be purchased at the door alongside a valid, scannable government-issued photo ID — no digital copies accepted. A dress code is enforced on Fridays and Saturdays: sexy clubwear or business casual, no hats, no athletic wear, no open-toe shoes for men. Security is thorough: every guest passes through a metal detector, pockets are emptied, and bags are searched. Phones are permitted in the nightclub but must be surrendered before entering the playroom building — no cameras, smart watches, or recording devices of any kind are allowed on the play side, with violations resulting in a lifetime ban. Group rooms are reserved for couples and single females; single males may enter only by invitation to a private suite, with the exception of Pride nights and the group dungeon.

TABOTA Monster Bash

Niagara Falls, Ontario

Event Organizer

TABOTA Monster Bash is an annual Halloween-themed swinger lifestyle hotel takeover event held each October in Niagara Falls, Ontario, produced by TABOTA Events — a Canadian lifestyle company that has been running adult events since 2007. The Bash traces its lineage from a Northbound Leather Friday-night pre-party in downtown Toronto, through a club-format O Zone event, before expanding into a full-weekend hotel takeover. For the duration of the event, TABOTA books the entire property of an upscale hotel and indoor waterpark complex located minutes from the Falls — the venue name is not published, consistent with the organizers' discretion-first approach — ensuring the property is accessible to registered guests only. The event is open to couples and single women; single men are not admitted, and attendance is restricted to guests aged 19 and over. The venue is a tropical-themed resort with a clothing-optional indoor waterpark, heated pools and hot tubs, a Poolside VooDoo Lounge serving bistro-style snacks, and award-winning gourmet dining in an enclosed courtyard garden. Dedicated lifestyle spaces include a Penthouse Play Area, a Kinky Playroom, and an outdoor Kink Garden; on the main Saturday night the DJ runs until 2am, playrooms stay open until 4am, and the pools and hot tubs operate clothing-optional until 3am. Programming begins Thursday with an Interactive Escape Room and themed dance for early-arrival guests. Friday brings a Meet and Greet, a theme dance, and access to the play areas. Saturday is the anchor day: a daytime pool party with a live band, XXX-rated pumpkin carving, a Pirates and Wenches treasure hunt, sexual tarot readings, professional body painting, wax play and shibari rope-bondage demos, a pole dance workshop, a Lick or Trick room crawl, and the Carnival of Sinz — a carnivalesque set of risque games including Cock Toss, Naked Axe Throwing, and X-Rated Beer Pong. The evening builds through a Dinner Murder Mystery on Bourbon Street and Black Tape Body Artistry before culminating in the Halloween Gala, the main costume-contest dance party. The 2026 event runs October 23-25, with a Thursday early-arrival upgrade available. All bookings are made in advance through TabotaEvents.com; the event consistently sells out. A pass-only package (full weekend event access, no room) is $169 per person plus 13% HST; a pass-and-room package covering two nights of accommodation plus all event access is $439 per person plus 13% HST. A courtyard pool-view room upgrade adds $69 per person per night, and the Thursday early-arrival night adds $99 per person per night. Guests in accommodation packages are required to pay a mandatory $100 per person weekend party credit in cash at check-in, redeemable anywhere in the hotel for food and drinks. Photography and camera use are prohibited throughout the event.

Caliente Club & Resorts

Land O' Lakes, FL

Lifestyle Resort

Set on a gated, palm-fringed property in Land O' Lakes just north of Tampa, Caliente Club & Resorts bills itself as the most luxurious, adults-only, clothing-optional experience around, welcoming both newcomers curious about going nude and seasoned regulars alike. The grounds center on five pools, including a quarter-acre lagoon pool with a waterfall and two islands, plus a hot tub, sports and fitness facilities, and the on-site Retreat Spa offering wraps, facials, manicures, pedicures, and hydrotherapy. Guests stay in condominiums, casitas, or hotel rooms and can dine at a full-service restaurant with an executive chef or go casual at the sports bar. The resort runs on a members-only model: because it operates clothing-optional in the U.S., visitors must hold a Daily or Annual/Vacation Club membership to enter, and everyone 21 and older must present valid government ID at the gate. Attire is optional almost everywhere except the gym, and cameras are barred for unauthorized guests - photos require a security staff member present. A private security team is on-site 24/7, cash is not accepted for purchases (credit cards or a prepaid Cash Card only), and free Wi-Fi covers the main clubhouse and poolside areas. Entertainment runs nightly, with a full nightclub, piano bar, and DJ sets, and Saturday nights built around a rotating theme, from body paint to leather and lace. Single males may attend but only via in-person day passes purchased at the gate (available 8am-11pm, capacity-limited), while couples and single females can book online in advance; day passes are open-dated and do not expire.

Monde Osé

Unverified

Montreal, Quebec

Event Organizer

Monde Osé is a Montreal-based lifestyle brand and event organizer founded on August 5, 2005, by a Montrealer known publicly as Frank, whose search with his wife for upscale, open-minded sensual entertainment in the city found nothing that met their expectations. The name derives from the French "osé," meaning "daring" — a word the brand treats as both identity and mandate, pledging to challenge social norms around sexuality and self-expression. The first gathering drew 110 invited guests to Joy Nightspot, a small Montreal nightclub, structured as a private couples-and-ladies-only party. Monthly events followed, growing by word of mouth into an erotic performance-arts brand whose stated philosophy rests on three words: Respect, Acceptance, and Love. Monde Osé's principal events have been two annual balls. The Bal Érotique, launched in 2006 as a first-anniversary celebration, ran for thirteen editions through 2018: the inaugural edition drew 450 guests and numbers climbed to more than 1,500 by the peak years. The final edition — Moonlight Masquerade — was held on August 25, 2018, at Bain Mathieu, 2915 Ontario Street East, and was deliberately retired by founder Frank, who announced in August 2018 that he was moving on to other pursuits. The continuing flagship is the Bal Burlesque, a spring event led by performer and artistic director Lexxi Brown (also known as Foxy Lexxi); its most recent confirmed edition took place on March 4, 2023, at Cabaret Lion d'Or, 1676 rue Ontario est, in Montreal's Le Village neighbourhood. Events run from 9 pm to 3 am and combine live burlesque headliners, pole dancers, contortionists, and aerial artists with a soundtrack of deep house, techno, soul, and funk curated by guest DJs. Each event is built around a distinct theme deployed through décor, lighting, performance, and dress code. Access to Monde Osé events is membership-first: prospective attendees are encouraged to apply for pre-approval through the website's membership section, where applications are reviewed against unstated criteria. Non-members who arrive without prior approval are screened on-site, with entry based on what the brand describes as "attractiveness, style and sophistication," and a slight ticket premium at the door. For the 2023 Bal Burlesque, pre-sale tickets started at $55 CAD (until December 22, 2022), rising through early-bird ($65), regular ($80), and day-of ($95) tiers; VIP packages at $400 included a reserved table for the evening, bottle service, and line skip — all VIP guests were still required to hold a separate event ticket. Dress code is strictly enforced: no athletic wear, running shoes, or baseball caps; the expected standard is sexy or daring, with themed costuming actively encouraged. Guests must be at least 18 years old.

Lifestyle Playtime

Unverified

DeKalb, IL

Event Group / Hotel Takeover Organizer (no fixed venue)

Lifestyle Playtime is a Chicago-area lifestyle group based in DeKalb, IL that runs low-pressure monthly meet-and-greets alongside larger hotel takeover parties, rather than operating out of a single fixed venue. The format keeps overhead low and lets the group rotate between DeKalb and the wider Chicago suburbs depending on the event. Entry is vetted: single men must apply through the group's "Distinguished Gentlemen" screening process before attending, and all guests sign a liability waiver and show photo ID at check-in. Attendees wear an event wristband, and couples are expected to arrive and leave together, with house rules enforced by volunteer hosts rather than paid staff.

Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa

Kissimmee, FL

Lifestyle Resort

Sprawled across five acres of converted motel buildings on East Irlo Bronson Memorial Highway — minutes from Disney World — Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa is central Florida's flagship lifestyle destination. The members-only, clothing-optional property holds around 148 individually owned condo-hotel units arranged around a courtyard pool, two hot tubs, a poolside tiki bar and the Club Secret nightclub, which pumps EDM across a two-bar dance floor with a full light-and-sound rig most nights of the week. The main draw is an 8,000-square-foot playroom complex: five windowed private rooms with beds and couches, a large central group-play area, a curtained section with a screening lounge, and a staffed dungeon (Club Swinkster) equipped with spanking benches, bondage gear and intro classes for the curious. Playrooms are nude-or-towel only; phones and smartwatches are banned inside. Lockers ($8–$10/night, towels included) sit at the entrance beside a communal shower area. Daytime life revolves around the clothing-optional pool, where DJs spin from late morning onward. A complimentary dinner buffet runs nightly (7:30–10:30 pm), followed by a late-night omelet bar (11:30 pm–3 am) and a breakfast buffet each morning. The crowd spans twenties to sixties, skewing around 40 on weekends, with a mix of couples, single women and single men. Nightly entry fees apply on top of membership — even for hotel guests — and the property is secured by 24-hour on-site security.

Dark Odyssey

Berkeley, CA

Event Organizer

Dark Odyssey is a roving event organization founded in 2003 by Greg, a former Black Rose board chairman, to fuse sexuality, spirituality, education, and play under one roof. Rather than operating a fixed venue, it commandeers hotels and private rural retreats for four distinct annual events: Winter Fire, a luxury hotel takeover in Baltimore running a full President's Day weekend; Fusion, a six-day summer camp in Northern Maryland on a 200-acre private facility with 40 cabins and 400 beds; Summer Camp, a Labor Day week-long gathering at the same Northern Maryland retreat; and Surrender, a pre-Halloween hotel convention in the San Jose Bay Area. Sold-out attendance at Winter Fire has reached 1,400 people. Each event follows the same architecture: days packed with 80-plus workshops spanning BDSM technique, polyamory, Tantra, sacred sexuality, and spiritual practice, taught by national educators; nights given over to fully equipped dungeons, the Sex-O-Rama open playspace (supplied with beds, lube, condoms, and gloves around the clock), and themed parties running until 2–3am. The rural camp events add outdoor suspension rigs, a tennis-court playspace with weather-resistant equipment, a Pavilion for mixers and open play, and a Temple space for ritual and sacred play. Fire spin jams, drumming circles, a Kinky State Fair, and a Saturday night show round out the program. The community self-describes as a melting pot of kinksters, queers, swingers, spiritualists, Pagans, polyamorists, and cross-dressers — pansexual, omnisexual, and explicitly welcoming to all gender identities. Attendee-created ION events let the community add its own workshops and parties to each schedule. A dedicated Incident Response Team (IRT) staffs a help desk at every event to handle consent matters in private.

LUXX Parties (Arizona Events)

Scottsdale, AZ

Lifestyle Resort

LUXX Parties is a Scottsdale, Arizona-based lifestyle event company that produces recurring multi-day parties for open-minded couples and single women rather than operating one fixed venue. Events rotate across partner hotels and resorts — including Hotel Adeline and The Monarch in Scottsdale and the Nautical Beachfront Resort in Lake Havasu City — and, through an affiliated brand called TRYST, extend to full resort takeovers at Temptation Resort in Cancún, Mexico. Each takeover pairs daytime pool parties with nighttime themed events and DJ sets over several days. Host venues supply VIP cabanas and daybeds with bottle service, on-site licensed bars and restaurants, and, at the Lake Havasu event, boat rentals. Nightly themes come with suggested attire, from 1920s speakeasy looks to glow-rave and candy-colored styles. Attendance requires a paid annual LUXX membership — $39.99 for Standard or $69.99 for Elite, capped at 2,500 members and 100 Elite slots a year — bought separately from event tickets and hotel rooms; couples memberships were discontinued in 2023, so partners now register individually. Entry is restricted to those 21 and older with valid photo ID, subject to a security search, and tickets are non-refundable. Host resorts bill their own daily resort fee, roughly $15–29, separately at check-in. No single-male ticket tier is currently advertised.

Club Rendezvous (Club R)

Calgary, Alberta

On-Premise Club

Club Rendezvous — known to members simply as Club R — is Alberta's longest-running lifestyle club, welcoming Calgary's open-minded community since 1983. Under Ryan and Alicia's ownership since 2012, it has grown into a fully licensed, AGLC-compliant venue that holds a 4.7-star Google rating across more than 180 reviews. The club spans two floors in a northeast Calgary building with a free parking lot right out front. Downstairs is the social heart of the night: a large dance floor with a stripper pole, a DJ booth spinning dance and house sets, a well-stocked licensed bar with a kitchen area for mixing your own drinks, plus a long community table and lounge booths lining the room for easy mingling between sets. Upstairs opens into the play area — an airy, open-concept space furnished with mattresses, beds, couches and a sex swing, where curtains pull closed around the beds whenever you want a more private, semi-secluded moment. The space is known for being spotlessly clean and is wheelchair accessible, with accessible seating, a lift and an accessible restroom. Club R is open every Friday and Saturday from 9 PM to 3 AM, with workshops and social events on select weeknights (roughly 7–11 PM). Rather than generic theme nights, it runs curated Club R Signature Events™, each built around a distinct energy and flow. Long-running favourites include First Time Friday for newcomers (meet, play, explore); Unicorn Friday, where single ladies get in free all night with a paid membership; the Saturday Lingerie Dance Party; the always-popular Little Black Dress "Midnight Seduction"; Taboo Friday; and dedicated Newbie & Member Appreciation nights. Entry is membership-based and capacity-controlled to protect the room's quality and balance: memberships start at $9.95 for a week and scale to $100 for the year (CAD), with event admission around $60 per couple and $30 per single. Couples and single women are the priority crowd, while single men are admitted in limited, screened numbers each event. The "dress to impress" code is genuinely enforced — upscale, sexy and theme-appropriate, with no tank tops, sideways hats, workout wear or sweatpants, work boots, exposed chains or man bags. Just as importantly, Club R runs on a consent-first culture where respect, privacy and enthusiastic consent are non-negotiable, backed by clear house rules and etiquette that underpin its Safe Space Alliance recognition. The team is famously warm with first-timers, and the club welcomes all bodies, genders, orientations and experience levels (18+) — part of why a community of roughly 5,100 keeps coming back. Members can also visit Club R's sister location in Edmonton, extending the same vetted, inclusive lifestyle experience across Alberta.

The Velvet Rope

Portland, OR

The Velvet Rope (TVR) is Portland's longest-running on-premises social and lifestyle club, tucked away in a quiet, unassuming building on SE Cesar E. Chavez Boulevard. Spanning roughly 10,000 square feet across two floors, the 21-and-over venue bills itself as a sex-positive, judgment-free space where individuals, couples and polycules of all identities and experience levels can connect, play or simply soak up the vibe. New guests are walked through the club on a guided tour and signed in at the front desk; the crowd is a mix of long-time regulars and lifestyle newcomers, and the staff lean heavily on a consent-first culture backed by clear house rules. The club runs Friday and Saturday nights from 8 p.m. to 3 a.m. and Sundays from 8 p.m. to 2 a.m., with a rotating calendar of themed parties — Newbie Night, Savage Saturdays, Sex in the Sundae, plus kink nights, rope demos, speed dating and glow parties. Entry is members-first: a couples membership runs $70 for six months or $110 for a year, single ladies $40/$60, and single men $95/$135, with reduced door fees, special member-only events and a fast-track member line as perks. Non-members can buy a one-night pass at the door (couples $50–$80, single ladies $10–$20, single men $55–$90 depending on the night), and a government-issued ID is required at every visit. Two full bars operate inside, so guests must be 21+; per OLCC rules, no marijuana in any form is allowed on the property. Inside, the space is built for both play and comfort: a large dance floor with a live DJ, pole stations and a dance cage; social lounges with pool tables and stage performances; multiple open and private play areas including a couples-only room and a caged sex swing; hardpoints for rope suspension and other kink exploration; indoor and outdoor hot tubs with adjacent showers stocked with free towels, body wash and shampoo; and lockers on both levels (BYO lock or buy one at the desk). Dress code is enforced — clubwear or business-casual on regular nights, theme-appropriate attire on kink, glow and formal events — with no sweats, flip-flops or gym wear. Knives, needles, tasers, guns (real or replica), candles and unapproved electro gear are barred from the playrooms, and the venue maintains hard limits on scat, watersports, fire, blood, breath and wax play. Three free parking lots sit nearby, credit and debit cards are accepted at the desk, and an ATM is right next door.

Shameless Grounds - ENM Night

St. Louis, MO

Off-Premise Club

Shameless Grounds is a sex-positive cafe in the Benton Park neighborhood of south St. Louis, Missouri, operating since 2011. On the fourth Friday of most months it hosts ENM Night, a ticketed social mixer for people practicing or curious about Ethical Non-Monogamy -- swingers, polyamorous folks, and those in open marriages are all welcome. The regular coffeeshop space converts into an evening social scene with a full bar, drink specials, food, curated music, and icebreaker games to help guests mingle; most months the crowd spreads onto the patio. Because the cafe holds a City of St. Louis liquor license, no nudity or sexual activity is permitted on-site -- this is a flirtatious meet-and-greet, not a play party. ENM Night runs 6-10pm, with $10-per-person tickets sold in advance via the cafe's Square site. Dress code is upscale casual or sexy. House rules emphasize consent -- "no means no" -- and guests who become visibly intoxicated are cut off and asked to leave.

Bliss Cruise

Fort Lauderdale, FL

Cruise

Celebrating a decade on the water, Bliss Cruise is a full-ship charter lifestyle experience that charters some of the world's largest vessels including Royal Caribbean's Wonder of the Seas and Celebrity Reflection out of Fort Lauderdale and Miami for week-long voyages to Caribbean ports such as Cozumel, Aruba, Curacao, and Grand Turk. Founded around 2015 and operating under Bliss Mgt, LLC, it has grown into what the company describes as the world's largest lifestyle cruise event, with sailings carrying upwards of 6,000 guests on the biggest charters. Every sailing is strictly couples-only and reserved for adults 21 and older, with an atmosphere deliberately built around curiosity without pressure. Onboard, the experience is layered across multiple venues running more than 400 events per charter. Clothing-optional pools and hot tubs open up when the ship is at sea, while after dark the schedule shifts to daily themed parties fueled by international DJs and burlesque and erotic performances. Multiple dedicated play areas cover different energies: a couples-only playroom, a fetish dungeon, an all-passengers open room, and an outdoor space. Days fill out with meet-and-greet mixers, immersive seminars, and clothing-optional signature excursions in port. The crowd spans newcomers to seasoned regulars, and reviewers consistently note that friendliness aboard runs high. Consent culture is baked into the program: every guest must sign an Acceptable Behavior Policy at the dock before boarding, and photography is banned in clothing-optional areas, playrooms, and during theme nights. A dedicated Bliss App handles event scheduling, couple-to-couple messaging, and preference matching, making it the only lifestyle charter with its own purpose-built mobile platform.

Playful Friends

Unverified

Deptford, NJ

off-premise meet & greet (bar/restaurant venue)

Playful Friends is a lifestyle meet-and-greet social group serving the South Jersey and Philadelphia area, billing itself as home to the area's largest meet and greets in Deptford, NJ held once a month. Operating strictly off-premise, the group gathers at local venues rather than maintaining a dedicated club space, giving events a relaxed, bar-night feel rather than a nightclub atmosphere. Single men and single women are always welcome alongside couples, and the venue provides a full cash bar and dance floor, with smoking permitted outside only. For its monthly Deptford meetups, Playful Friends brings its own bartenders and provides free appetizers in a reserved private area, accessible via a banquet entrance, until 9:30 pm — after which the event opens into the wider venue. Beyond the regular monthly gathering, the group has partnered with other New Jersey lifestyle organizations for hotel and club takeovers, and organizes group attendance at lifestyle cruises, giving members a broader calendar of events throughout the year. The group's website is playfulfriends.net, and it is also listed on SwingLifestyle (SLS) for event RSVPs and member communication. The atmosphere is described as a casual environment for meeting new and familiar faces in the lifestyle, with no on-site playrooms — the focus is social mixing rather than on-premise activity.

The Crucible

Washington, DC

BDSM Club

Tucked into a residential stretch of Northeast DC near the Rhode Island Avenue Metro, The Crucible has operated as Washington's only private kink and alternate-lifestyles club since founder Frazier Botsford — known to regulars as Uncle Frazier — began building it in 1997. Organised as a 501(c)(7) non-profit private social club, the venue at 412 V Street NE holds a full dungeon fitted with bondage crosses, spanking benches, ropes, whips and handcuffs along the walls, plus a dedicated medical play area for piercing, needle and blood play, and a smaller private room for more intimate scenes. Dungeon Monitors trained by the Black Rose are on the floor at all events, and the crowd — spanning kinksters, lifestylers and curious newcomers of all orientations and genders — consistently draws praise for its warm, family-like atmosphere. The event calendar runs most Friday and Saturday nights, with 18-and-over play nights on Fridays (no alcohol) and 21-and-over nights with a full bar on Saturdays. Recurring themed nights include Black & Kinky (second Friday, POC-focused), QINK (third Friday), Sinfully Naughty (first Saturday), and Risqué EDM dance party (second Saturday). Black Rose holds weekly education at the venue every Tuesday and its monthly Gateway meeting on the first Thursday. The first Friday of every month is Dungeon 101 — doors open at 7:30pm and the structured presentation begins at 8pm, followed by an open exploratorium. No membership required for this event. Members may bring up to three guests. Annual membership is $40/person, purchased online; all applicants are screened against the DOJ sex-offender registry.

Splash Takeovers

Fort Lauderdale, FL

Hotel Takeover

Splash Takeovers is a traveling, couples-only lifestyle convention brand based in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, operating as Splash Takeovers Florida LLC. Rather than running a fixed clubhouse, it produces weekend-long hotel takeovers in three cities, each under its own banner: CouplesXcape in Fort Lauderdale — the brand's original September flagship — EROTICON in Atlanta, and Xcapades in the Houston area. The brand is owned by Richard and Danielle, a couple with more than twenty years of lifestyle-event experience who ran an on-premise weekend club and bed-and-breakfast for over a decade before acquiring Splash Takeovers, and event listings report attendance consistently topping 1,000 guests. Each event is a complete buyout of a four-star convention hotel: every room is purchased, only registered guests are allowed on property, and the hotel's name is disclosed only after a paid reservation. Days center on clothing-optional pool parties with DJs, games, and giveaways — the pool and convention areas are the only clothing-optional zones — while nights shift to themed dance parties in the Studio 69 Ballroom, fantasy-themed playrooms furnished through a partnership with Liberator, a dedicated dungeon for kink and BDSM play, and late-night hospitality suites. Seminars, meet-and-greets, and an adult vendor marketplace run throughout the weekend, and the host hotels are full-service properties with on-site restaurants and licensed bars; outside drinks are not permitted in public areas. Events run Thursday through Sunday, with arrival from 1:30 pm Thursday and checkout at 11 am Sunday. Packages are priced per couple and bundle the room with admission to everything; at the September 2025 Fort Lauderdale event, three-night packages ranged from $1,050 for a standard queen room to $2,200 for a one-bedroom king suite, with extra nights at $195 and payment plans available. Day passes, also priced per couple, go on sale 30 days before each event, and nothing is sold at the door. The optional Deep Divers premium membership ($149.99 for one year) adds online community access but not event admission. Upcoming dates include EROTICON in Atlanta August 6–9, 2026, CouplesXcape in Florida September 10–13, 2026, and Xcapades in Texas June 3–6, 2027.

Fallout RVA

Richmond, VA

alternative nightclub / fetish & kink club

Fallout has anchored Richmond's Shockoe Bottom since November 2007, earning its place as the city's longest-running goth, industrial, and fetish nightclub. Owner Jackie Bishop describes it as 'queer, a little bit kinky — basically a space for everybody that's just trying to find a place to belong.' The result is part nightclub, part community centre, part sanctuary at 117 N. 18th Street. The calendar runs seven nights a week: vinyl goth/EBM nights (Metal Beat), leather-and-latex fetish dance parties, drag showcases, rope-bondage socials, burlesque, goth karaoke, queer dance-therapy classes, and polyamory munches all coexist under one roof. Fridays and Saturdays extend to 2am. Some nights are members-only; others require a one-night pass via DM or Fetlife. A formal membership programme underlies the club's identity. Applications are in-person only — 21+, valid ID, dress code, and a member sponsor required; committee reviews take roughly two weeks. Members get free or discounted entry and may bring two guests. Non-members attend open events (18+) at cover charges typically $5–$15. Photography is banned outright; Virginia ABC law prohibits full nudity.

Dominium Vita

London, London

Members Club (Roaming)

Dominium Vita is a London-based private members society founded by Em Carter and Richard Burton, who built a community modelled on the culture of Ancient Rome — the club's name evoking complete ownership of one's life, its events referencing the opulent feasts and uninhibited pleasures of Roman society. The club has no fixed play premises: its registered address is a third-floor office on Paul Street in Shoreditch, but all events rotate across undisclosed private properties and hotels in London, with exact locations disclosed only to confirmed ticket-holders. Occasional events are also staged in Ibiza. The event calendar runs across several formats. Domus Luxuria nights are the main recurring play events. Carpe Noctem is the club's most theatrical production — described by the organisers as a night of dark theatrics and hedonism spread across five immersive spaces. Hidden Deviance gatherings convene in luxury private residences, opening with a social salon before dedicated playrooms. Monthly members socials at bars keep the wider community connected between play events, and a workshop strand has included sessions at the Mandrake Salon in Fitzrovia. BDSM apparatus is available at play events, with professional dominants on hand to guide unfamiliar guests. Entry is by membership only: applications are assessed personally by the founders against undisclosed criteria, and acceptance is not guaranteed. Tickets to events are sold on a first-come, first-served basis to approved members. The club welcomes singles, couples, and all genders; LGBTQ+ inclusive. Spectating is explicitly welcomed and participation is never required. A strict one-strike policy on consent violations applies — any breach results in immediate removal and permanent membership revocation.

The X Club

Mississauga, Ontario

On-Premise Club

The X Club is a membership-based lifestyle nightclub at 1625 Sismet Road in Mississauga's industrial west end, billing itself as Canada's largest and most elegant venue of its kind. The club has operated for over nineteen years, drawing couples, single women, and pre-screened single men from across the Greater Toronto Area. All guests must be 21 or older; the club describes its typical crowd as ranging from 25 to 60, with the majority in their mid-thirties. A host team greets and tours first-timers, and a Newbie Night runs on the first Friday of each month — no annual membership required that night — offering a guided walkthrough and meet-and-greet with other newcomers. The venue houses two distinct environments under one roof. The main X Club floor is a full-production nightclub with resident DJs spinning Top 40, house, and techno, a full bar, lounge seating, and bottle service spanning Grey Goose to Dom Pérignon. The Mermaid Lounge — which operates under the @xclubmermaid social media brand — offers a spa-styled counterpart with plush seating, a specialty cocktail bar, a Himalayan dry sauna, a steam room, a glass group shower, and a year-round clothing-optional indoor pool. The play space divides into two sections: seven private themed rooms and a kink room (clothing optional, open to all), and an open play area with beds, couches, and an orgy room requiring guests to change into underwear, lingerie, towels, or go nude. Lockers with locks, showers, and towel service are included with all memberships. Regular hours are Friday and Saturday, 9 PM to 3 AM, with the front door closing at 2 AM. Saturdays are reserved exclusively for couples and single women. Single men are welcome on Fridays only, capped at fifteen per night, and are barred from the open play area on standard Fridays; this restriction is lifted on Freaky Friday (last Friday of each month). The calendar also includes weekday and Sunday events, sold-out themed Super Parties for New Year's Eve, Halloween, and St. Patrick's Day, and dedicated LGBTQIA2S+ programming including Pride nights and T-girl events. A monthly off-site social called The X Munch is held the last Thursday of each month at Capone's Cocktail Lounge. Photography, videography, and recording are prohibited throughout the venue except in a designated photo booth area; consent is mandatory throughout.

NYX Lounge

Oakville, Ontario

On-Premise Club

NYX Lounge is a members-only adult lifestyle and swinger club occupying a commercial unit at 407 Speers Road in Oakville, Ontario — a three-minute drive from the QEW and within easy reach of the GTA’s western corridor, drawing couples and singles from Mississauga, Burlington, Hamilton, and Toronto. The club positions itself as Ontario’s most upscale on-premise lifestyle venue, combining a full licensed nightclub floor with dedicated play spaces under one roof. The main floor centres on a large dance floor ringed by six high-definition screens, three dance poles, professional lighting, and a full club sound system. A staffed bar operates all night, with reserved bottle-service booths available in advance. An upstairs loft overlooks the dance floor below, doubling as a lounge and open-concept play space, while a back playroom off the main floor can run as an open group environment or a more private arrangement. Capacity is 325. Newcomers are paired with a host couple on arrival and given a guided tour. Weekly themed nights — recent examples include Flirty Friday, Latin Night, and Fantasy Friday — rotate through the calendar; the venue is also available for private weeknight rental. NYX runs every Friday and Saturday from 21:00 to 02:00. Membership is required: a Basic annual membership costs C$100 for couples or single men and C$40 for single ladies, with a C$80 one-night guest-pass option for couples. Nightly door fees apply on top — C$40 per couple, free for single ladies on standard nights (Halloween and New Year’s Eve excluded), and C$60 for single men with a valid Basic membership. Elite couples memberships bundle unlimited Friday and Saturday admission for C$500 (six months) or C$800 (one year), with New Year’s Eve and select themed Fridays partially excluded. A signed waiver and valid photo ID are required at entry; waivers can be completed in advance at nyxlounge.com/waiver.

TABOTA Events

Toronto, Ontario

Event Organizer

TABOTA Events is a Toronto-based lifestyle event organizer that has run couples-focused takeovers and getaways across Canada since 2007. Rather than operating a single venue, TABOTA produces a rotating slate of ticketed events, including the Halloween-themed Monster Bash hotel takeover in Niagara Falls, the outdoor Teddy Bare Picnic clothing-optional camping weekend, the Valentines in Niagara convention, and the seasonal Sandy Bottoms Resort in Central Ontario. The company is run by the same team behind The O Zone, an established Toronto swingers club. Each TABOTA event takes over its venue entirely, whether a hotel, campground, or resort, creating an adults-only space with DJ-driven dance floors, themed lounges, clothing-optional pool areas, and dedicated play rooms staffed by event hosts. Photography and phone use are banned in event spaces, and organizers emphasize enthusiastic consent, on-site security, and guest privacy, with pseudonym use common among attendees. Events are couples-only (male-female or female-female pairs); single men are not admitted, though single women may attend select dates. Entry is 19+ and ticketed in advance. Monster Bash pricing, for example, runs from roughly $169 per person for weekend access up to $439 per person for a two-night hotel package, plus tax, with a mandatory per-person credit for food and drinks due at check-in. Tickets are sold through tabotaevents.com and its event-specific sites, and organizers note that events routinely sell out weeks in advance.

Lux Velvet

Ottawa, Ontario

Roving Events / Pop-Up

Lux Velvet is an Ottawa-based sex-positive party collective founded in December 2018 by Nicole Murphy and Alexandria Nuttal — two queer women who set out to build a non-monogamous community where women, LGBTQ+ people, and those new to open relationships could gather without the unsafe or exclusionary atmospheres they had encountered at established adult venues. Female-owned and operated, the collective welcomes swingers, polyamorous individuals and couples, people in open relationships, and the broadly curious, organized around consent, vetting, and discretion. Rather than occupying a fixed club space, Lux Velvet rotates through hotels, private bars, breweries, and private venues across Ottawa; the membership skews toward the 25–45 age range, though all adults 19+ are eligible to attend. The collective runs two distinct event formats. Public Mixers and themed Dance Parties — held approximately every other month at rotating Ottawa venues — are open to anyone 19+ and deliberately social in tone: music is kept at conversational volume and past editions have included art nights with professional nude models, game nights, and themed dance parties, as well as collaborations with other Ottawa sex-positive venues. Members-only play parties are a separate, invite-only tier hosted at vetted private venues, with location details shared only with ticketed members. Founders Nicole and Alexandria are present at every event and are available to members throughout the evening. The collective has partnered with adult wellness brands including Lelo, Liberator, and ScreamingO. Mixer tickets are priced at approximately C$15–C$20 in advance and C$20–C$25 at the door, with a discounted member rate; members-only play-party tickets are priced separately, typically C$45–C$65+ per event. Annual membership costs C$65 plus tax and requires attending a Mixer first, then completing a no-cost 30-minute video vetting call with one of the founders. Members sign a legally binding consent-and-confidentiality waiver, photography and recording devices are prohibited at all events, and a one-strike policy applies to all rule violations. Accessibility varies by host venue and is disclosed on each individual event listing.

Escapades New England

Providence, RI

Event Organizer

Escapades New England is a Providence-based lifestyle event group that has built a loyal following across Rhode Island and Massachusetts since its founding. Rather than operating a fixed club, the organizers take over Platforms Dance Club — a nightclub at 165 Poe St in Providence — for recurring themed parties, blending a nightclub energy with on-site play spaces including an open play area and a dungeon setup within the venue. The calendar runs on two tiers: regular takeover parties throughout the year, priced at $60–80 per couple (never more), and two flagship annual events that draw attendees from across New England. The Annual Midsummer Nights’ Wet Dream Foam Party, held at the end of July, is billed as the largest summer lifestyle event in New England and described by the organizers as a ‘Hedo-style’ party. The Erotic Masquerade Ball follows every September or October. Events are listed and ticketed through the SLS, SDC, and SwingTowns platforms. The organizers emphasize a newcomer-friendly atmosphere, noting they actively work to make first-timers feel at ease — a philosophy shaped by their own experience attending their first party. The ethos is summed up on their site as ‘confidence, class, and respect.’ Payment is accepted as cash or Venmo at the door, and attendees must present a verified screen name from one of the partner lifestyle platforms.

Le Boudoir Club

London, London

On-Premise Club

Le Boudoir is a members-only lifestyle and ENM (ethically non-monogamous) club operating on Old Castle Street in London’s E1, within walking distance of Aldgate East tube station and a short journey from Liverpool Street. Running since 2015 and hosting over 150 ticketed events a year, the venue requires advance online registration — applicants submit photographs for review, approval is not automatic, and no walk-ins are accepted under any circumstances. The minimum age is 21, with photo ID verified at the door on every night. The club occupies three floors. The ground level holds a fully licensed bar, a DJ booth, a dance pole, and a mezzanine terrace well-suited for socialising and people-watching. The upper floor runs a collection of private lockable rooms — including a mirrored cubby hole, a dark-academia-themed study room, and a large open group room — while the basement functions as a fully fitted dungeon equipped with a St Andrew’s Cross, cage, sex swings, glory holes, and curtained alcove beds. Bathrooms are available on every floor and lockers are provided. Phones are surrendered at check-in and held until the end of the evening; reviewers consistently credit this policy with maintaining a crowd — predominantly working professionals in their mid-thirties — that is polite, unhurried, and non-pushy. Events run on Thursdays and most Fridays and Saturdays. Thursday sessions typically run 19:00–23:30 and are themed around hotwife and couples events, with a limited number of single men admitted; Friday and Saturday parties run 21:30–03:00, with Saturdays reserved for couples and single women only. Entry is by pre-purchased ticket only, sold through the club’s website and Eventbrite; tickets are non-refundable and carry a £30 transfer fee. The bar is fully licensed — outside alcohol is not permitted — with cocktails priced around £15 and bottled water around £3. A £20 refundable cash deposit is collected at the door for locker use. Dress code is strictly enforced: smart-sexy attire is required, with formal dark trousers, collared shirts, and dress shoes for men, and lingerie or quality dresses with appropriate footwear for women; multiple categories of casualwear are explicitly prohibited at the door.

Club AntiChrist

London, London

Fetish Club Night

Club AntiChrist launched in 2004 under promoter d.Void at Camden's Electric Ballroom, before being relaunched in 2007 by Missy with a full multi-room format that included five live bands and several dancefloors. Over the following years it moved through a string of London venues — Colosseum, Electrowerkz, Fire, and others — before settling at Scala, the 1920s-built former cinema at 275 Pentonville Road in King's Cross. Self-billed as ‘Goth Fetish Industrial Metal Mayhem,’ the night draws from overlapping worlds of metal, goth, industrial music, performance art, and fetish subculture. Queer-friendly and inclusive by design, it marked its 21st year in 2025 and is one of London's longest-running alternative events. Scala's multi-floor layout accommodates five distinct zones. Three dancefloors cover different sonic territories: The Hole runs metal, the Hellfire Room handles goth, post-punk, and dark electro, and The Foyer covers 80s and new romantic sounds and hosts a shibari corner. The Theatre of Sin stages live bands and continuous performances — fire acts, aerial work, burlesque, comedy, and cabaret — throughout the night. The Dungeon is a purpose-fitted BDSM play space equipped by Benchmarxxx with a St Andrew's Cross, spanking benches, a gynae chair, and a swing; experienced Dungeon Monitors wearing flashing lanyards supervise throughout and may halt unsafe play. A separate dark playroom offers more privacy for couples and groups. An outdoor garden provides a retreat, hot food is served on-site, and the building has gender-neutral toilets, a cloakroom, and ATMs. Events run roughly five to six times per year at Scala, typically themed — a birthday party each June, vampire balls in September, a ‘Not NYE’ party in early January, and occasional themed specials. Doors open at 9pm; last entry is at 2am and the venue runs until 6am. Advance tickets are sold via Dice.fm at approximately £36.50 per person (prices vary by tier and event); door entry is £40 cash. All attendees must be 18 or over and present original physical photo ID — driving licence, passport, or PASS hologram card; digital copies are refused. An enforced alternative dress code requires goth, punk, fetishwear, PVC, rubber, lace, cosplay, or similar; the stated minimum is ‘Alt-Comfortable: combats, band tee, boots.’ Street clothes, regular denim, white trainers, and standard suits are refused at the door.

On-Premise Club

Happy Hedonist is a lifestyle club that has catered to swingers, voyeurs, and exhibitionists in the Greater Toronto Area since the early 1990s. Operating as an upscale on-premise swinger club, it built a following as one of the largest lifestyle venues in southern Ontario, welcoming couples and select single players through a community that blended online engagement — chat rooms, contact ads, and message boards — with weekly on-site parties. The club's home was Jeanie's, a licensed venue at 5977 Dixie Road in Mississauga, where it occupied more than 10,000 square feet across two levels. The space featured two bars, a licensed smoking patio, and a seasonal outdoor play area included in general admission at no extra charge. Staff were noted for welcoming newcomers with guided walk-throughs, and the club consistently emphasised making first-timers feel comfortable alongside experienced regulars. Weekly parties ran on Fridays (doors at 9:30 pm) and Saturdays (doors at 9:00 pm). The club announced a move to an undisclosed larger location, but no confirmed new address has been publicly identified. As of August 2026, the original Dixie Road premises have been taken over by unrelated businesses, and the club's website is non-functional.

Mint Tease

London, London

Pop-Up Event Series

Mint Tease is the play-party arm of Mint Events London, a queer women's events brand founded in 2006 by Nicola Chubb. Known as the promiscuous wing of the long-running Mint brand, it operates as a roving East London pop-up rather than at a fixed address: a series of periodic erotic events staged in private, unlisted venues and designed exclusively for queer women, femmes, thems, non-binary guests, and bi and curious women. The format sits at a studied remove from the conventional sex-club aesthetic — events are curated around comfort, consent, and community as much as play, drawing a crowd spanning ages and experience levels, from first-timers to Mint regulars. Recent editions have taken over The Old Dispensary at 19a Leman Street, East London (E1 8EN), a multi-floor space a short walk from Aldgate East and Liverpool Street stations. Three floors carry a cocktail bar with DJ sets, a ground-floor social and performance area, private playrooms, an open playroom with antique furnishings and fireplaces, and a fully equipped BDSM dungeon with suspension apparatus. On-site dominatrices facilitate activities and offer orientations for newcomers; the atmosphere is described as relaxed and consent-centred. Mint Tease events run periodically through the year — there is no fixed weekly cadence. A daytime variant, Twilight Tease, holds afternoon sessions (typically 3 pm–8 pm) in smaller private venues. Standard events run roughly 8 pm–1 am. Tickets are sold in advance only through a verification process: prospective attendees complete an application form before purchase; returning verified guests receive access codes by email. Recent ticket prices have sat at £55 (early bird) to £60 (final release) plus booking fees. Entry closes strictly at 10 pm, with organisers recommending arrival before 9 pm. Government-issued photo ID is mandatory. The dress code enforces self-expression: leather, lace, lingerie, harnesses, corsets, and heels are the expectation; streetwear and light denim are turned away at the door.

The Sublime Society

London, London

Performance Night / Event Series

The Sublime Society is a monthly erotic performance event series staged at Dear Darling, a luxury bar and nightclub at 91 Jermyn Street in Mayfair's St. James's district, a short walk from Green Park station. Co-founded by burlesque artist Charlie Bouquett and House of Fatale founder Missy Fatale, it presents itself as an "exclusive hedonistic soirée" — a voyeur-forward sensual salon in which live burlesque, shibari suspension, fetish performance, and sapphic dominance play unfold in close proximity to a seated and standing audience. The project carries an explicitly FLINTA-centered artistic policy: all performers identify as femme, lesbian, intersex, non-binary, trans, or asexual, and the organisers have publicly committed to exclusively female-identifying performers for their London editions. Dear Darling occupies a double-level footprint. The main salon — called The Living Room — holds 50 seated and up to 160 standing guests among wood-panelled walls, plush sofas, velvet armchairs, green drapery, and low crystal-strung chandeliers. There is no raised stage: performers move through the room itself, and mirrored ceilings provide sightlines from multiple angles while a rigged shibari frame hosts rope suspension pieces. Below, reached only through what the venue calls Lady Darling's wardrobe — a concealed door — sits a basement nightclub with capacity for around 160, featuring avant-garde décor and a DJ booth; this space operates as the afterparty venue for Sublime Society ticket-holders from approximately 11pm. A curated cocktail menu runs throughout both levels. Events run roughly monthly on Friday evenings, with doors at 7:00–7:30pm and the performance programme concluding between 10:15pm and 11:30pm depending on format; the basement afterparty continues to 2:00am. A secondary format, The Sublime Society: SALON, runs shorter evenings (7:00–10:30pm) and layers a live podcast recording and a participatory BDSM impact-play workshop onto the shibari performance. Tickets are sold exclusively in advance via DesignMyNight; standard general admission sits between approximately £38 and £65 depending on the event, with couples packages at a 20% reduction and three-person packages at 30% off. A VIP tier adding reserved lounge seating and basement nightclub access runs £59–£80, and a Meet and Greet add-on (£20–£22) provides post-show access to the cast.

Oasis Aqualounge

Toronto, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Oasis Aqualounge is a water-themed, clothing-optional adult spa and social club occupying a 9,000-square-foot restored 19th-century mansion at 231 Mutual Street in downtown Toronto. Open since 2010 to all guests aged 19 and over, the club does not describe itself as a swinger club — it positions as a body-positive, consent-forward venue drawing a broad community: monogamous couples, polyamorous individuals, kink enthusiasts, and guests who want spa facilities in a sex-positive setting without expectation of partner activity. Admission covers a day membership, locker access, and towel service; no separate ongoing membership is required. The crowd typically spans the mid-thirties to mid-fifties, and the venue has been recognised four times as one of Canada's fastest-growing businesses (2019, 2020, 2024, and 2025). The centrepiece is a year-round outdoor heated pool — maintained near 100°F in winter — set within a private courtyard flanked by a hot tub and a dry sauna. Two licensed bars serve alcohol and soft drinks across the property, with poolside patio seating for guests moving between the spa and social areas. Play areas span four floors and include a dungeon equipped with a swing and a St. Andrew's Cross, plus a private room on the fourth floor that any guest can reserve in one-hour increments at no extra charge. Staff known as Aquaflirt hosts circulate throughout, offering tours for first-time visitors and facilitating introductions. A colour-coded silicone wristband system near the entrance lets guests signal their openness to interaction. Oasis is open 1pm to 3am, 362 days a year (last admission 2am; closed Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, and one Monday in December for maintenance). Fridays and Saturdays are reserved for women and couples only; solo men may attend Sunday through Thursday. Approximately once a month — typically the fourth Monday — the club runs Sapphic Aquatica, an event exclusively for women and trans guests. Door prices include HST: solo women pay CAD $15 (Sun–Thu) or $25 (Fri–Sat); couples pay $100 or $115 respectively; solo men pay $100 on eligible weekdays. No outside drinks are permitted. Walk-ins are welcome most nights, though high-demand events may require advance booking via the online ticket calendar.

Leisure with Pleasure

Unverified

Leicester, Leicestershire

On-Premise Club

Leisure with Pleasure — also traded as Club 29, Club 29 Swing Club, and Bond Street Retreat — occupies a discreet address at 29 New Bond Street in Leicester city centre. It bills itself as Leicester's only alternative sauna for the lifestyle-curious and the more adventurous, and has operated under various names at the same location for many years. The NHS has formally recognised the address as a sexual health outreach venue, with Leicester Sexual Health services running a monthly drop-in clinic there offering free condoms, STI testing, and advice. The venue spreads across three floors. Upper floors contain spa facilities — a hot tub, sauna, and steam room — alongside a cinema room, a dark fetish room equipped with a swing and cross, showers, and private rooms. Reviewers also describe playrooms, a dungeon area, and a disco-and-party room. The club maintains a strict drug-free policy, and multiple guests note that staff are approachable and willing to walk newcomers through the space. Reviewers are divided on atmosphere: several praise the clean, friendly environment, while others have criticised cramped conditions and dated décor. Google-listed hours indicate daytime sessions on Wednesday, Friday, and Sunday, though schedules and current entry fees could not be independently verified — the club's official website is not currently accessible.

Cedar Creek Resort

Leesville, SC

Lifestyle Resort

Cedar Creek Resort has been South Carolina's go-to clothing-optional getaway since 1989 — 43 wooded acres along Black Creek, about ten minutes south of I-20 between Columbia and Augusta. The property packs in an indoor pool (heated for major event weekends), an outdoor pool, indoor and outdoor hot tubs, nearly half a mile of natural lazy-river creek for tubing, a sand volleyball court, corn hole, petanque, horseshoes, hiking trails through the woods, and a creek-side dock for sunbathing. The clubhouse has a full bar, a pool table, dart board, and hosts DJ dances every Saturday night and karaoke most Fridays year-round. Overnight options run from a cabin with queen bed and full bath to five huts with AC, primitive tent sites near the clubhouse, powered tent sites, and full-hookup RV lots that handle rigs up to 85 feet on 20/30/50 amp service — Passport America and Escapees members get 50% off RV sites outside festival weeks. Day visitors pay $35 off-season or $67 in prime season (April–September plus holiday weekends), and a $25 provisional annual membership is required for all non-members. Single women receive 50% off across the board; student and military couples under 26 get 20% off. Anyone staying past 1 am pays a $21 night fee. The vibe is relaxed and clothing-optional — nudity is welcome but never mandatory, and house rules keep it community-pool appropriate in public areas. Themed parties rotate weekly (Naughty Nautical, Bunny Party, Body Jewelry & Boots, Shakespeare Night) with Nudestock as the big annual summer festival and prime holiday weekends for New Year's, Halloween, Valentine's, and St. Patrick's. The crowd is genuinely diverse in age, shape, and background, and repeat visitors consistently praise the welcoming atmosphere even if the rustic setting won't be mistaken for a luxury resort. Dogs are allowed, the grounds have free WiFi and laundry, and the front office closes at 6 pm (8 pm on event nights).

Eureka Naturist Club

Fawkham, Kent

Nudist Resort

Eureka Naturist Club occupies 23 acres of landscaped grounds — including approximately six acres of historic Pennis Woods — near the village of Fawkham in the Kent North Downs, roughly 25 miles south-east of central London. Self-styled as ‘the UK’s premier naturist club’, it operates as a private members venue open 364 days a year (closed Christmas Day only), welcoming members and guests aged 21-plus whether nude, partially clothed, or fully dressed. The site is reached via Manor Lane; the club recommends the What Three Words reference guess.vine.scores over the postcode for locating the gate, and free parking for up to 75 vehicles is available on site. The seasonal centrepiece is a heated outdoor pool measuring 60 by 30 feet, complemented year-round by a wet area with two 8-person jacuzzis, a sauna, and a steam room. An outdoor bar and BBQ terrace, a balcony, and woodland and garden walks fill out the daytime offer. Evenings turn on a large licensed bar and a dance floor with seated capacity for 180; no outside drinks are permitted. On-site cabin accommodation is bookable through the website, and resident massage therapists operate on multiple days each week. Regular hours are Sunday to Wednesday 10am–10pm, Thursday 10am–11pm (Social Night from 6pm, free entry for members), Friday 10am–2am, and Saturday 10am–3am, with extended hours possible on hot evenings. The themed Friday and Saturday night calendar includes Traffic Light parties, fetish and leather-and-lace nights, and Cougars N Cubs evenings. Entry is tiered by membership grade, day, and arrival time: Silver members pay £15–£30 depending on gender and session; Gold membership (£1,100 per year for gents and couples, £400 for single ladies) covers unlimited free entry to all events. Non-members may visit with a £15 surcharge on top of the standard rate. A three-month trial period applies before full membership is confirmed.

Angel of Love

Roth, Bavaria

On-Premise Lifestyle Club

Set in an industrial quarter on the southern edge of Roth bei Nürnberg — just off the B2 with direct access to the A9 and A6 motorways — Angel of Love has established itself as one of Bavaria's most prominent lifestyle destinations. The freshly renovated venue covers more than 2,000 square metres wrapped behind a discreet exterior, fitted out to a contemporary standard with premium audio, modern lighting, and a warmly styled interior that reads as upscale private event rather than nightclub. Jasmin and Markus Herrmann, who took over operations in early 2025 and draw on years of personal experience in the swinger community, describe the house philosophy as openness and tolerance without pressure — a space to explore freely among like-minded people, whether for a seasoned regular or a curious first-timer. Most events are booked through JoyClub, where the venue carries verified status.

L'Orage Club

Montreal, Quebec

On-Premise Club

L'Orage Club is a private, members-only on-premise swingers club located at 7700 12e Avenue in Montreal, Quebec. Founded in 1996 by Jean-Paul Labaye, it operates as an open-concept venue featuring a bar lounge, a discotheque with resident DJs, and two floors of open-plan play areas. The club holds a Quebec liquor licence and describes its format as European in style, with an emphasis on exhibitionism and voyeurism; there are no private or closed rooms. The club gained national legal significance after a 1998 police raid triggered criminal proceedings against founder Jean-Paul Labaye. The case proceeded through the courts for seven years, culminating in December 2005 when the Supreme Court of Canada ruled in Labaye's favour in R. v. Labaye, [2005] 3 SCR 728. The ruling established the legal standard — the harm-based test — by which consensual adult sexual activity in a semi-public venue is assessed under the Criminal Code of Canada, effectively providing a legal framework for the operation of such clubs across the country. L'Orage Club continues to operate as of 2026, running events Thursday through Sunday. It describes an international clientele drawn from Canada, the United States, and Europe, and describes itself as one of Canada's longest-continuously-operating clubs of its type. The website and all public communications are exclusively in French.

DORO Event- und Swingerclub

Hof an der Saale, Bavaria

On-Premise Club

DORO Event- und Swingerclub is a dedicated lifestyle club at St.-Lukas-Weg 29 in Hof an der Saale, a Bavarian city in the Upper Franconia district near the Czech and Thuringian borders. The venue operates under the tagline “Mit allen Sinnen genießen” (enjoy with all senses) and is run by Dorota Martin. It holds a 4.6-out-of-5 aggregate rating across 88 visitor reviews. The venue offers a range of purpose-built facilities including a heated outdoor pool, a whirlpool, a landscaped garden, a bar, a buffet, changing rooms, and multiple themed playrooms. Two named VIP spaces — the Oase and the Tortuga — provide more private settings, and a cinema room fitted with black padded leather armchairs adds a distinctive touch. A connecting hallway decorated in colourful curved lines, described in a 2020 press account as the Lustgasse, links the spaces throughout the club. Towel service is provided, and on-site parking is available. Reviewers praise the cleanliness and food quality, with one describing the experience as “einer der schöneren Clubs, die wir besucht haben — alles sehr sauber, und das Essen auch sehr lecker” (one of the nicer clubs we have visited — everything very clean, and the food also very tasty). Regular party nights run on Fridays from 20:30 and Saturdays from 20:00; the club is dark Sunday through Thursday. Special themed events have historically required advance registration. Entry pricing, dress code, and single-male admission terms are published at doro.club; prospective visitors are advised to check the site or call +49 9281 1441905 ahead of their visit.

Xtasia

West Bromwich, West Midlands

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Established in the 1980s, Xtasia describes itself as the UK's longest-running swingers club, sitting behind an ironwork fence on High Street in West Bromwich. The complex has grown into a dual-venue operation: the main Xtasia Nightclub on one side and the adjacent Flirts Bar, Hotel and Cinema on the other, sharing the same gated grounds. A staff member walks first-timers around the entire site on arrival, and on a busy night the club draws well over 100 couples, with major events topping 300 guests. The Xtasia side centres on a large ground-floor dance arena with a fully licensed bar and themed playrooms and a dungeon spread across multiple levels. Flirts adds a cinema, bar, further playrooms, a boutique, a naturist sun deck, and hotel accommodation in double, dormitory, and quadruple rooms. The Flirts Spa is the newest addition — a swim spa with current-resistance jets, an eight-seat infrared sauna, an eight-seat steam room, a small gym, and communal locker facilities. In 2014 the club was voted the number-one swingers venue in the UK by the authors of Sex in the Cities. The main nightclub runs Friday and Saturday from 8pm to 3am (last entry 1am); the Flirts bar is open Monday to Thursday noon to midnight and noon to 8pm on Fridays and Saturdays. Membership is required for all events and must be arranged in advance online: couples pay a one-off lifetime fee of £20, single females £10 lifetime, and single males £40 per year. Single males must receive a written acceptance email before attending. Entry prices vary by event and are published in the online diary.

The Vanilla Alternative

Tempsford, Bedfordshire

On-Premise Club

The Vanilla Alternative is a private members' lifestyle venue set within The Anchor Lodge Hotel on the A1 Great North Road in Tempsford, Bedfordshire, roughly midway between Bedford and St Neots. Operated by The Anchor Inn Tempsford Limited, the club draws members from across England, with free on-site parking for up to 200 vehicles and on-site hotel accommodation available for event attendees. Membership is required before attending; applications are reviewed within 72 hours and carry an annual fee of £25. All guests must be aged 21 or over. The venue features a fully licensed bar and dance floor, multiple playrooms, a dungeon with a swing, and a large hot tub that member reviews consistently describe as the social centrepiece of each evening. More than 150 lockers and showers are available on-site, and condoms are provided throughout. The on-site hotel at The Anchor Lodge is bookable through the club's website, with check-in from 5pm and check-out by 11:30am; a shuttle bus service runs to and from nearby Premier Inn locations for those staying off-site. Staff offer welcome tours for first-timers and a consent culture is maintained throughout. The weekly programme runs on Fridays (Freedom Friday, 20:00–02:30) and Saturdays (Saturday Seduction, 20:00–03:00). Freedom Friday admits couples, single females, and — in a capped allocation to preserve gender ratios — single males who must pre-book; advance tickets are £35 per couple, £10 per single female, and £40 for single males. Saturday Seduction is couples and ladies only, with advance tickets at £45 per couple and £15 per single female; single males are not admitted on Saturdays. The calendar also includes a monthly Bi Night, Milf Club sessions, the Onyx interracial night, and an annual Festival of Fun weekender. The venue is fully licensed — no outside alcohol is permitted — and mobile phones and recording devices are not allowed inside. A smart-dress code applies on arrival; guests entering any play space must dress down to lingerie, underwear, robes, or less.

Club Medusa

San Diego, CA

Club Medusa is a private lifestyle club in San Diego, CA welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

HU9 Swingers Club

Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire

On-Premise Club

HU9 Swingers Club sits on Witham, a road on the eastern edge of Hull city centre, taking its name from the HU9 postcode of its address at number 142. The venue operates as a private members-only club with a licensed capacity of around 600, and carries a 4.9-out-of-5 Google rating across 65 reviews — consistent with accounts of a regional following that extends beyond Hull to surrounding Yorkshire towns. The club has attracted local press coverage since at least 2020, including a YorkshireLive photo gallery inside the space. The building houses a licensed bar, multiple playrooms, a dungeon, a hot tub, and a sauna as its core amenities. Visitors consistently describe the atmosphere as welcoming and safe, with staff noted for attending to guests throughout sessions; the premises are wheelchair-accessible throughout, including parking, entrance, and restrooms. Once a year, on the August Bank Holiday Sunday, the venue hosts Swingfest — a 13-hour ticketed adult festival featuring a main stage with live tribute acts and DJ sets, inflatables, stilt walkers, fire breathers, food vendors, and a 360-photo booth alongside the indoor club facilities. Regular club nights run Thursday through Saturday — Thursday 20:00 to 01:00, Friday and Saturday 21:00 to 03:00. Admission on regular nights is restricted to members, with phones and cameras to be stored in lockers on entry; the annual Swingfest explicitly drops the membership requirement and is open to all adults. Entry pricing is not publicly listed; advance tickets for Swingfest 2026 were sold through Skiddle at £30–60 per person.

Nightshade Halifax

Halifax, Nova Scotia

Event Organizer

Nightshade is a series of kinky themed costume parties held periodically in Halifax, Nova Scotia, drawing on more than a decade of history since its launch in February 2013. Run by organiser Chris Awesome, the events sit deliberately at the threshold between mainstream nightlife and the alternative lifestyle scene — approachable enough for curious first-timers, while incorporating genuine BDSM and fetish elements. Thousands of attendees spanning newcomers, lifestyle veterans, and the simply curious have passed through its doors, and the series has become a fixture of Halifax's alternative community calendar. Nightshade is not a fixed-venue club but a roving event series that takes over the 3rd-floor ballroom of the Best Western Plus Chocolate Lake Hotel (250 St Margarets Bay Rd, Halifax NS) for the night. Each party carries a distinct theme — past and upcoming events include Wasteland, Kinky Colours, Dark Masquerade, and Kinky Halloween — with resident DJs Gyrrrl on Decks and DJ Mike G spinning pop, rock, and top-40 sets across the dance floor. A dungeon corner is a consistent feature: heavy-duty bondage furniture staffed by Dungeon Masters and Monitors who can instruct guests and maintain safety. Body painting stations appear at select events. The hotel bar is cash-only and hotel-operated, with domestic beer and well shots at $7 CAD, premium spirits and imported beers at $8, and soft drinks at $4. Events run roughly 9pm-1am on Saturday nights (approximately four to six times a year), and advance tickets are $25 plus tax — many events sell out weeks ahead. At-the-door tickets, when available, are $32 plus tax. Valid government-issued photo ID confirming age 19+ is required at the door. Personal cameras and recording devices are prohibited; credentialed event photographers may attend by prior arrangement. Coat check is $3. The Kinky Colours event is part of the Halifax Pride Festival calendar, and hotel room blocks at negotiated group rates are offered for each event. A volunteer program is available for those who want to attend but need help covering the cost.

Club Paradies Hildesheim

Hildesheim, Lower Saxony

On-Premise Club

Club Paradies Hildesheim is a licensed adult entertainment venue (Nachtlokal) at Frankenstraße 43 in Hildesheim, Lower Saxony. Operating under the motto 'Der Club mit Herz' (the club with heart), the establishment markets itself as a welcoming, sociable environment where guests are invited to arrive as strangers and leave as friends. The venue's Impressum lists the operator of record under the Dinkela family name. The venue's amenities include a licensed bar, a sauna, a whirlpool, and a number of private loverooms. Interior photography on the club's own website conveys a lounge-style atmosphere across multiple spaces. All women on the premises are self-employed independent contractors ('selbständige Unternehmerinnen') operating entirely on their own account. Services, pricing, and any terms are negotiated exclusively between the individual contractor and the guest; the venue explicitly states that it is not party to those arrangements, does not guarantee or provide intimate services, and bears no responsibility for disputes arising from them. The club is open Monday through Thursday from 19:00 to 03:00, Friday and Saturday from 19:00 to 05:00, and Sunday from 20:00 to 03:00. There is no entry charge. The venue accepts Visa, Mastercard, American Express, V PAY, Maestro, Google Pay, and Apple Pay. Entry is restricted to adults aged 18 and over.

Obsession Swing Lounge

Unverified

Ottawa, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Obsession Swing Lounge is a members-only adult lifestyle and swinger club at 1575 St. Laurent Boulevard in Ottawa, Ontario. Billing itself as the city's premier on-premise swinger venue, it holds a provincial liquor licence and requires couples and select singles to register as annual members before attending their first event. The interior centres on an upscale lounge with a resident DJ — guests are encouraged to make requests — designed for dancing and socialising before moving to the dedicated play areas. A full kitchen delivers appetizers, main courses, and desserts until 1:30am, and drinks are served from the licensed bar. The main lounge and patio are strictly social zones; all sexual contact is confined to the separate designated play areas. The venue is entirely smoke-free, and the dress code holds women to a seductive standard and men to a dapper, club-appropriate appearance. The weekly schedule divides along membership type: Friday nights open the doors to all categories — couples, single men, and single women; Saturdays are restricted to couples and single women, with the limited exception that a single male member may attend only if accompanied by and remaining with a host couple all evening. Annual membership is CAD $50 for couples and single men, and CAD $30 for single women; nightly entry is CAD $40 per couple or single man, while single women enter free. Advance registration is mandatory — no walk-in admission is indicated. House rules ban photos and video during regular hours without explicit management consent and subject approval, prohibit drugs outright, and run a three-complaint escalation system for single men.

Bath House

Clubsauna Outside is Chemnitz's principal gay sauna and cruising venue, occupying 500 square metres across two floors at Reineckerstraße 64 in Chemnitz, Saxony. The ground floor anchors around a central bar — described by the venue itself as the contact point for hunger, thirst and any problems — alongside reception, changing rooms with lockers, and a compact shop selling towels, accessories, DVDs and underwear. Upstairs, the sauna area comprises a Finnish dry sauna, a steam bath, a whirlpool, rest cabins, private rental cabins, and a labyrinth-style darkroom with dedicated cruising zones throughout. The weekly calendar rotates through a series of themed sessions. Thursday is the long-standing Open Day, when gay, lesbian, bisexual and women visitors are explicitly welcomed alongside the regular gay-male clientele. Fridays carry discounted pricing for guests under 27; Mondays run as Happy Day at a promotional flat rate; Sundays operate on a two-for-one basis. Tuesdays are dark. Travel Gay named the venue a 4-Star Audience Award winner in both 2023 and 2024. Standard day-pass admission is €24.00 and includes a towel. A youth rate of €14.00 applies to guests under 27 on presentation of valid ID, and private cabin hire carries a supplement of €7.50. Bathing shoes are mandatory across the sauna floor and can be rented at the door for €1.50. Card payments are accepted. Prostitution is strictly prohibited.

Club Privata

Portland, OR

On-Premise Club

Club Privata occupies a discreet, unmarked storefront at 824 SW 1st Ave in downtown Portland, Oregon — easy to walk past without noticing. Billing itself as an upscale "lifestyle club" rather than a sex club, it emphasizes community alongside play, and draws a crowd that skews toward an older demographic, roughly mid-30s to 40s, with plenty of members who come just to dance. The club is run by owners Holly R. and her husband Charles. The venue spans three floors and roughly 8,000 square feet, anchored by a hardwood dance floor lit in blues and magentas with a central go-go cage on a raised platform. The first floor holds the main bar, a locker area, and a room dedicated to flogging and impact play. The second floor adds another bar, a VIP room, private bedrooms, and a balcony overlooking the dance floor. The third floor houses a further bar and a spread of beds framed by drapes and antique mirrors. A late-night buffet is set up near the lockers and coat check, and the club runs two full-service bars rather than allowing outside alcohol. Club Privata is a members-only, 21-and-over venue open Thursday through Saturday nights (Thursday 8pm–2am with the third floor closed; Friday and Saturday 8pm–3am), with last entry roughly 90 minutes before close. Entry requires valid photo ID, a signed waiver, an active membership, and payment of a nightly door fee that varies by event and guest category; a strictly enforced upscale dress code applies club-wide. Single men are welcome but pay noticeably higher membership and door fees than couples or single women, and some theme nights offer discounted or free entry for single women. VIP bottle service areas and a private penthouse suite can be reserved separately.

Chateau Royal

Bad Honnef, North Rhine-Westphalia

On-Premise Club

Chateau Royal sits in the forested Siebengebirge hills above the Rhine, tucked into the edge of Bad Honnef roughly halfway between Bonn and Cologne. The club presents itself as the largest and most popular pure couples club in North Rhine-Westphalia — a claim supported by the numbers: 870 square metres spread across three levels, capacity for 120 couples, and a packed calendar of themed nights running back-to-back year-round. The club admits couples and single women only — single men are welcome exclusively on specifically promoted trio evenings — with cash-only admission and a refundable €10 key deposit for locker access; phones, cameras and other recording devices are barred throughout. Around 100 free parking spaces are available, split between an on-site lot and a nearby forest overflow lot served by a shuttle.

PolyUrban Studios

Carmichael, CA

PolyUrban Studios is a home-based adult lifestyle space on North Avenue in Carmichael, California, run by owner Rey Bonilla and open to singles, couples, and polycules of all orientations. The venue operates as a donation-funded club with lockers, showers, a hot tub, beds, a sling, play benches, a massage table, a rimming chair, gloryholes, and an outdoor play area with a separate shower. Towels, condoms, and lube are provided, and fetish wear is welcomed. The weekly calendar runs seven days: Sunday through Thursday the doors open at 11:30 a.m. and close at 10 p.m., while Friday and Saturday sessions run from 2 p.m. to 2 a.m. Themed parties rotate through the week — Sunday gloryhole and gangbang sessions, Monday-through-Thursday afternoon playdates, a Wednesday evening afterparty, a Thursday couples night, Freaky Friday parties, and Saturday dance nights with a DJ and a full bar on select evenings. Membership contributions start at $25 per person, $40 for couples, and $60 for triads, with a $10 happy-hour rate between noon and 1 p.m. The atmosphere is explicitly pressure-free: no participation is required, and the posted house rules lead with No means no — ask for consent. Cameras and recording devices are banned, smoking is permitted outside only, and the doorman reserves the right to refuse entry. Guests must be 18 or older, and drugs and prostitution are strictly prohibited. Contact is by text or voicemail at (916) 410-6550.

Club Avantgarde Plauen

Plauen, Saxony

Swinger Club / Sauna Club / Hotel

Club Avantgarde occupies a brick Hinterhaus — a back-courtyard building — on Joßnitzer Straße in the Preißelpöhl district of Plauen, Saxony. The club operates under the motto “anspruchsvoll und anders” (sophisticated and different), presenting itself as a creative lifestyle venue. Locally it has long been what the Freie Presse called “ein offenes Geheimnis” — an open secret — among residents of the surrounding neighbourhood. The interior centres on a suite of elaborately themed activity rooms, among them Indian, Pharaoh, Pirate, SM, Chinese, Oriental, Jungle, Prison, and Exhibitionist settings, together with a dedicated dark room. A lounge bar known as the Kuschelbar serves as the social hub, and a wellness area provides both a sauna and a whirlpool. Hotel-style overnight rooms with thematic décor are available for guests who wish to stay, with breakfast offered on request and reservations confirmed by email. The Freie Presse reported that guests work through roughly 500 towels on a single busy evening, giving a sense of the venue’s scale. The club opens on Friday evenings from 20:00 to 02:00 and on Saturdays from 20:00 to 03:00, remaining closed Sunday through Thursday. Entry pricing is not publicly listed; visitors should contact the club directly for current rates.

Syn in Tulsa

Unverified

Tulsa, OK

Syn in Tulsa is a female-focused lifestyle club founded in 2014 by Troy and Christy Hamilton and operates from a discreet suite at 5553 S Peoria Ave with the deliberate look of a regular office building. The entrance opens into a social area with bar-style seating, couches, a dance floor, a kitchen stocked with complimentary soda and water, unisex bathrooms, a selfie wall, cubby storage, and an outdoor smoking area. Behind that sits the main playroom with four beds, several couches, and a St Andrews cross, plus the Brat Realignment Center equipped with an obedience chair and spanking bench. Parties run Saturday nights only, doors at 8 pm and the party in full swing by 9 pm until 2 am. The venue operates a full-service bar and is not BYOL. Cover is $20 per couple, $40 for single males, and free for single women. All attendees must be 21+ and receive a bracelet at check-in. The club averages 100-200 guests per party with a wide range of ages, body types, and orientations. Owner Troy Hamilton built Syn around a safe place for women to fulfil their fantasies philosophy. Single males cannot enter the playrooms unless escorted by a couple or solo woman. A dedicated floor manager circulates the play areas. Solo women can arrange a staff escort from the parking lot. The club encourages regular STD testing and offers a $20 cover discount on presentation of a recent test receipt.

Erotik Party Club Kranichfeld

Unverified

Kranichfeld, Thuringia

Erotik Party Club Kranichfeld is a swinger club and adult entertainment venue in Kranichfeld, a small town in the Ilm valley of Thuringia roughly 20 kilometres southeast of Weimar. The club operates at Ilmenauer Strasse 23 in postal district 99448, and is categorised in German business directories as a Swingerclub, Erotik-Betrieb und Bar — a combination indicating an adult lifestyle venue with a licensed on-site bar. Located within reach of the Erfurt and Weimar corridor, the club attracts guests from across central Thuringia. Some directories also list the same address under the trading name Das Palina — visitors should confirm the current operating name and hours directly with the venue before travelling.

PLUR Productions / Studio PLUR

Vancouver, British Columbia

Event Organizer

PLUR Productions is Vancouver's longest-running sex-positive and alternative-fetish event production company, operating under the guiding philosophy of Peace, Love, Unity, and Respect. Founded by ScottyHotty (Scott BreitKreuz) and tracing its roots to Club8X6 — formerly Vancouver's only privately licensed members-only sex venue — PLUR has grown into an independent producer serving the city's fetish, kink, BDSM, swinger, burner, rave, and LGBTQ+ communities. The company celebrated its 12th annual Mad Hatter's Player Ball in May 2026 and operates as a private membership club in which the door fee for any event constitutes a day membership, consistent with the Supreme Court of Canada's recognition of consensual adult activity in private clubs. Events take place across rotating venues: large-format ticketed parties at licensed nightclubs including The Penthouse, warehouse-style PLURHAUS nights at private locations, the VANTANIOR techno series at a Railtown venue equipped with a Funktion-One sound system, and seasonal PLUR Mansion house parties. All events feature clearly marked sex-on-premise (SOP) play areas alongside social lounge zones, DJ music, stage performances, and a licensed full bar at ticketed venues. Complimentary towels, condoms, lubricants, and lockers are provided with entry. Running parallel to these events is Studio PLUR, a privately bookable dungeon and social space with a 40-guest maximum — outfitted with a St. Andrew's cross, three styled benches, a rope-suspension rig, a floor cage, a corner bar with fridge, pro-audio sound, and a walk-in rainfall shower. Tickets for public events are sold in advance via Eventbrite; per-person pricing ranges from $35 to $40 CAD with no differential between genders or attendance types. Site memberships are available at $30 CAD for six months or $40 CAD for one year, though the door fee alone grants day membership. All guests must be 19 or older. Before entry, PLUR's Cupid consent hosts walk each guest through the club's Top Ten Rules of Consent and issue a consent stamp. Open photography and video recording — including mobile phone use — are prohibited throughout all venues. The recurring iCandy Meet and Mingle, held every second Friday, provides first-timers with a venue tour, a lifestyle presentation, and conversation with experienced PLUR attendees.

Club Ambassador

Eisenberg, Thuringia

On-Premise Club

Club Ambassador sits just off the A9 autobahn near the Hermsdorfer Kreuz interchange, where Thuringia, Saxony, and Saxony-Anhalt converge. Owned by Marcus Schuetze, the club occupies a three-storey property spanning roughly 600 square metres with six themed rooms. The house motto: everything is possible, nothing is mandatory. The club holds a 4.9 out of 5 rating on JoyClub. Five distinct event formats cycle across the week. Wednesday Breakfast Party (10:00-18:00) and Sunday Brunch (13:00-18:00) offer relaxed daytime entry. Thursday Come in and Find Out evening (17:00-22:00) charges just 10 EUR across all guest categories. Friday Hot Friday (19:00-03:00) and Saturday Swinger Evening (19:00-03:00); Saturday all-inclusive packages at 99 EUR for couples, 33 EUR for women, and 119 EUR for single men, with JoyClub-member discounts. The three floors house six themed rooms including a Thai room, an atelier, and a fully equipped SM area, alongside a lounge with bar and dance floor, a separate smoking room, a sauna, and an outdoor pool and whirlpool. A buffet provides in-house dining, and overnight accommodation with breakfast is available.

Club Saphir

Schkeuditz, Saxony

On-Premise Club

Club Saphir has held its place as the longest-running swinger and couples club across Saxony, Saxony-Anhalt and Thuringia since it opened in 2002. The venue sits in Dolzig, a quiet village in the Schkeuditz municipality just west of Leipzig, at Westringstrasse 200. Inside, more than 900 square metres spread across two floors, with three bars and 15 individually designed rooms. The room list covers Raum Amor for couples wanting a lockable retreat, the Ampelzimmer where a traffic-light system signals openness, a dedicated SM space, and the Lustoase — an 80-square-metre open play area. Communal infrastructure includes a sauna with whirlpool, a Wellness 4 Two zone, and indoor smoking lounges. Entry is fully all-inclusive, covering a hot-and-cold buffet and the complete drinks menu. Three nights anchor the calendar: an Afterwork 2.0 session on the first Wednesday of the month (17:00–00:00), Fridays (20:00–03:00), and Saturdays (20:00–04:00). Solo men must register in advance to maintain gender balance, and the house motto alles kann, nichts muss sets the tone — participation is never assumed.

EyS Nightclub

Unverified

Hamburg, Hamburg

On-Premise Club

EyS occupies the first floor of an unremarkable building on Bramfelder Strasse in Hamburg Barmbek-Nord. Owners Caiti and Chris have leaned hard into 1990s nightclub aesthetics: a non-smoking main bar room of around 60 square metres packed with sofas, seating nooks, and a bar, plus a larger smoking lounge of approximately 80 square metres. A mini-boutique near the entrance sells frivolous clothing, jewellery, and adult toys. The overall feel is of a neighbourhood bar that happens to have playrooms tucked behind it, rather than a sex venue that happens to have a bar. There is no formal entry fee — just a drink minimum (first drink €10–15, gender-priced) — and single men are admitted subject to gender balance on the night, with groups of more than two men not admitted.

Golden Lions

Markgröningen, Baden-Württemberg

Golden Lions is a long-running lifestyle club in Markgröningen, a quiet Swabian town roughly 20 kilometres northwest of Stuttgart. The club has been operating since 1999 and underwent a comprehensive renovation in October 2023, relaunching — as the site puts it — as a modern venue for "Erotik mit Niveau und Stil" (eroticism with sophistication and style). A mixed crowd of couples and singles from the Stuttgart–Ludwigsburg conurbation makes the drive out, drawn by an atmosphere the club positions as an oasis for erotic moments away from daily life, with a clientele that reviewers consistently describe as friendly and the staff as welcoming. The space includes a bar, a dance floor, a buffet, multiple themed playrooms, three whirlpools (indoor and outdoor), a sauna, massage facilities, a garden area, and secured locker rooms, with ample parking front and rear — including space for campervans. Every entry ticket is all-inclusive: the door price covers full club access, the buffet, and all drinks at the bar. The event calendar runs the full week: Thursday mornings bring a "Fantastic Breakfast" brunch party (10:00–14:00); Wednesdays host BANG my Hotwife evenings (18:00–23:00); Fridays and Saturdays run standard couple-and-singles nights alongside dedicated couples-only evenings (20:00 to 02:00 or 03:00); and Sundays offer afternoon sessions (14:00–21:00). Themed events — White Night, Oktoberfest, foam parties, a Silvester Gala, CFNM nights, and explicit-format gangbang evenings — fill out the annual programme. Access is clearly tiered by guest type. Couples and solo women may arrive on the night without a reservation; solo men must pre-register on JOYclub and receive guest confirmation before being admitted, with JOYclub members also receiving a discount off the standard door price. Entry pricing is steeply differentiated by gender and event type, ranging from €5–40 for solo women to €45–130 for solo men, and €20–110 for couples. A complete ban on mobile phones and cameras is enforced throughout the premises, keeping the atmosphere relaxed and discreet. The dress code is erotic and frivolous for women — lingerie, latex, and minimal clothing are all encouraged — while men are expected in formal black-and-white attire or clubwear. Safe sex is described on the site as "selbstverständlich" (self-evident), and the no-means-no rule is taken seriously: any guest who ignores a refusal faces immediate expulsion.

Club SINZ

Salisbury, MA

Event Organizer

Perched on the second and third floors of Ten's Show Club on the North Shore of Massachusetts, Club SINZ has carved out a reputation as New England's premier couples lifestyle destination since its founding in 2004. The windowless, 4,000-plus square-foot ultra-lounge on Salisbury's North End Boulevard sits about an hour north of Boston, drawing a membership base that now numbers over 15,000 couples from across the region. The club's motto — La Passion Avant Tout, Passion Above All — is backed by multiple top-shelf bars, luxurious lounge seating, video screens, dance poles, a dance cage, and a pocket billiards table. Events run on a bi-weekly Saturday schedule, doors opening at 8:30 PM through 1:00 AM, with larger holiday parties drawing 300 to 500 guests. The club is strictly off-premise: no sexual activity is permitted on-site, keeping the atmosphere in meet-and-greet territory. Membership begins with a free Basic Membership application; Gold Members receive discounted cover charges and may bring a guest couple or single female for free. A members-only inner sanctum called SINZ Black — a custom-built invitation-only lounge with an eight-person circular bar and 300-year-old Chinese door decor — exists for the most loyal regulars. SINZ.NET, the club's private social network, allows prospective members to connect with thousands of New England couples before committing to their first visit.

Samantha's Place

Unverified

London, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Samantha's Place appears to have permanently closed, most likely in late 2016 or early 2017. The club's website has not been updated since November 2016, its last posted event was November 12, 2016, and a structured audit by swingersontario.com in April 2021 listed it among clubs presumed closed. Founded in 2000 by a London-area couple known to members as Samantha and Greg, it billed itself as Southwestern Ontario's longest-running lifestyle club and for most of its life the only such club west of the GTA. The founders sold to Skye and Todd, a younger London couple who had been regular attendees, with the handover taking place around 2016. Both ownerships maintained the same format and pricing structure through to the final events. Samantha's Place ran as a strictly off-premise club, meaning no sexual activity or genital nudity was permitted at events — a policy stated prominently on the site and central to its identity as a venue for meeting, dancing, and flirting rather than a play space. Monthly themed Saturday nights were held at a private licensed venue in east London, just east of the Highbury and Dundas intersection; the specific address was disclosed to registered guests by email only, never listed publicly. Doors opened at 9:30 pm with an early-bird discount window until 9:45 pm, and guests were asked to arrive by 11 pm. The crowd spanned the late twenties to early fifties, with a core demographic in the 30–45 range, and first-timers made up at least a quarter of any given evening. Themes were encouraged but not required — Halloween drew near-total compliance, other themes considerably less so — and the general dress expectation was smart-casual to sexy. Music was top-40 with a seasoning of eighties and nineties tracks. A licensed bar operated at upscale-bar prices, door prizes sponsored by adult retailers including the Stag Shop and Love Shop were drawn around 11:30 pm, and occasional sponsored demonstrations — rope work, wax play, lap dancing — added variety to certain events.

Liberty Elite

Lutterworth, Leicestershire

On-Premise Club

Set on two private acres of Midlands countryside alongside the A5 near Lutterworth, Liberty Elite has operated as an "upmarket private members club" since 1999, serving both the swinging and fetish communities. Over £1.5 million has been invested in the purpose-built venue, which holds a licence for more than 300 guests and staff and a car park for over a hundred vehicles — scale that is offset by an interior designed to feel "cosy and intimate at all times." The A5 position, close to Junction 20 of the M1 and Junction 1 of the M6, makes it a natural hub for members arriving from across the Midlands. The property trades under the name Liberty's Hotel, signalling that on-site accommodation is part of the offer: en-suite, air-conditioned double rooms with king-size beds are bookable by phone at £75 on Sundays and £90 Monday through Saturday. Events run primarily on Fridays and Saturdays, with a calendar that spans in-house party brands — Dark Desires, Embargo, Secret House, The Hot Wife Club — alongside visiting promoter nights, over-40s swing parties, seasonal BBQs, and dedicated dungeon sessions for the fetish community. Single gentlemen are welcome on Fridays only; couples and single ladies attend across the broader programme. On a first visit, guests complete a short membership application form and present a driving licence at reception — no ID, no entry. Annual couples membership is £45; memberships run from 1 July to 30 June and are non-transferable. Existing members may bring guests once on a guest basis before those guests must take out their own membership. Entry prices vary per event and are published individually on the online calendar. The interior spans multiple bars, lounge areas, a snug, a dance floor with professional DJs, and a buffet, alongside six lockable playrooms and a custom-built Dungeon for fetish play. Outside, a sun-lounger terrace, private lawns, and a covered heated smoking area sit within the fully enclosed grounds. A heated Jacuzzi, changing rooms, and secure lockers — available for a refundable £20 deposit, each stocked with a fresh bath sheet — complete the amenities. The bar tab runs off the locker key and is settled on departure; no outside alcohol is permitted under the venue's liquor licence. Mobile phones must be switched off and stored in lockers at reception, cameras are banned throughout, and plastic glasses replace glass in all play areas. The club's stated commitment is a "clean, secure, non-judgemental, no pressure environment" for all members.

Virginia Friends

Richmond, VA

Virginia Friends is a couples-and-single-ladies-only lifestyle club that has run monthly hotel-takeover socials in the Richmond area of central Virginia since 1993. Events rotate among Richmond-area hotels rather than sitting at one fixed address, with the specific property announced on each event page ahead of time; the club positions itself as roughly 2 to 3 hours from Washington DC, Maryland and North Carolina, drawing a regional rather than strictly local crowd. Each social opens with a newcomer's seminar in the hotel lounge that is mandatory for every first-time attendee, even experienced lifestyle couples, before the main dance gets underway. Dances typically draw 65 or more couples ranging from their mid-twenties to mid-sixties, with most between 30 and 50. Once the dance winds down, the party shifts to a reserved club floor open only to members and patrolled by headset-wearing security, where a hospitality suite, an adjoining group-play room known for its Sybian, and private member rooms take over; a separate "party floor" (commonly the hotel's fourth floor) hosts member-booked theme rooms for couples who purchase that ticket tier in advance. Entry requires an online membership and event ticket, typically released about four weeks before each social with a same-night cutoff around 9pm, plus a valid driver's license and each partner's real name on file — the club states it cannot admit anyone unwilling to register under their legal name, citing its private-club status. Wristbands and name tags issued at check-in must be worn to access the club floor. Dress runs from casual streetwear at early registration to costume or theme wear at the dance and lingerie-or-less upstairs, with "street legal" coverage required in hotel hallways and elevators. Drinks bought in the lounge must stay in the lounge under Virginia ABC rules, while the club floor itself is BYOB with mixers and snacks supplied by the club; hotel guest rooms, including a limited discounted block, are booked separately and directly with the property.

Freude 39

Bochum, North Rhine-Westphalia

FKK Saunaclub

Freude 39, also marketed as Freude 39 Men’s Spa and operated by Prime Spa GmbH, is an FKK (naturist) sauna and leisure club aimed primarily at men, with women admitted free of charge. It occupies a standalone property at Freudenbergstraße 39 in the Hamme quarter of Bochum, a post-industrial city at the core of the Ruhr region in North Rhine-Westphalia, within easy reach of Herne, Gelsenkirchen, Essen, and Dortmund. The venue has undergone a refurbishment, resulting in a contemporary interior; private rooms carry a hotel-style finish with solid-wall partitions and dimmable LED lighting. The wellness provision centres on a Finnish sauna, steam bath, and hamam (Turkish bath), complemented by professional massage services bookable on site. Beyond the wellness zone there are 16 private rooms and a VIP suite with its own hot tub. Common areas include a bar and lounge, a TV lounge, and restaurant seating served with a complimentary buffet; a rooftop terrace functions as the designated smoking area. Free parking is available on site. The social programme extends to themed events — among them Après-Ski nights and live broadcasts of major football tournaments — and on weekend evenings a DJ entertains. The venue opens daily at 10:00, closing at 03:00 Sunday through Thursday and at 05:00 on Friday, Saturday, and the eve of public holidays. Entry prices, revised from November 2025, are €30 on Monday and Tuesday, €35 from Wednesday to Sunday, and €40 on Friday and Saturday evenings from 19:00 as well as on pre-holiday eves. Women are admitted free at all times; the main contact is +49 234 497 005 30 or primespa@web.de.

Curious Club

Barwell, Leicestershire

On-Premise Club

Curious Club is a private members' lifestyle venue occupying a discreet address at 3 Chapel Street in Barwell, Leicestershire — a small market town on the edge of the National Forest, roughly equidistant between Leicester and Coventry. Originally established in Nuneaton, the club relocated to its current Barwell premises in February 2026. It operates as a fully inclusive social space for adults interested in swinging, kink, BDSM, fetish, and alternative lifestyles, drawing members who identify across the full spectrum of gender and orientation: straight, bi, gay, lesbian, trans, CD/TV, poly, exhibitionists, voyeurs, and kinksters. Membership is required for entry, and all attendees must be 21 or over. The venue runs a fully licensed bar — no BYOB — with drinks served in standard measures up to doubles. Facilities include a hot tub, dedicated play spaces, intimate rooms, a fetish den, showers, and secure lockers. On arrival, members deposit a locker key that serves as a running tab for bar purchases, settled on departure; card payments are accepted for transactions over £5. First-time visitors are offered a guided tour by the team. The atmosphere is explicitly zero-judgement: participation in any activity is always optional, and members are equally welcome to socialise, observe, or simply relax. Special events and themed evenings — including nights such as Greedy Girls, which may carry adjusted entry ratios — are listed on the club calendar. The club opens Friday and Saturday evenings, 7:30pm to 2am. Door charges (separate from membership fees) are: couples £20, single ladies £15, single gents £35, CD/TV £20. Annual membership costs couples £20, single ladies £10, single gents £40, and CD/TV £20. Entry is subject to capacity, ratio management, and management discretion — it is never guaranteed. Persons appearing intoxicated or under the influence of drugs will be refused entry regardless of membership status.

Play Champagne (The Champagne Club)

Columbus, OH

Event Organizer

Play Champagne is one of the Midwest’s largest lifestyle event organizers, operating as a traveling party producer rather than a fixed-address club. Founded and still run by owners Melissa and Eric, the operation specializes in complete hotel takeovers — booking every guestroom, the convention space, restaurant, and bar — at full-service Hilton-brand hotels across Ohio, Michigan, Indiana, and Illinois, with regular Las Vegas editions and annual trips to Hedonism II in Jamaica. Flagship venues have included the Embassy Suites in Blue Ash (Cincinnati), Livonia MI, Indianapolis, Glenview IL, and Las Vegas. Typical weekends draw 1,200–1,600 attendees and span two nights, with a Friday check-in at 3 pm and checkout Monday morning. The programming is unusually dense for a hotel event: a five-story atrium main stage with award-winning lifestyle DJs, professional sound, lighting, and laser rigs; a 24-hour indoor pool (topless optional); a vendor showcase; meet-and-greet karaoke; drag shows; live bands; and a 360-degree video photo booth. Educational content includes couples sensory, Kama Sutra, and NURU massage classes, plus BDSM demonstrations, all with separate sign-up slots. Play areas include group and semi-private themed playrooms (typically in dedicated ballrooms), a Porn Play Escape group room, and an expanded Impact room for impact play opening nightly from around 11 pm. The famous top-floor afterparty runs from 1 am to dawn. Complimentary drinks are served nightly during a comp-bar window, and a full hot breakfast buffet with omelet station is included each morning. The crowd skews inclusive and body-positive, spanning roughly ages 28–55, and Play Champagne explicitly welcomes all body types and demographics. The vibe is upscale nightclub rather than underground party: VIP table service with reserved front-and-center seating is available, and off-duty police officers are stationed throughout the hotel. Dress code is dress-to-impress rather than enforced, though themed costume participation is strongly encouraged. The whole-hotel BYOB policy means guests bring their own alcohol to guest rooms and carry it in a covered tumbler into event spaces; a hotel cash bar is also on site.

Loft54

Unverified

Rheinstetten, Baden-Württemberg

Set in an industrial building on the southern outskirts of Rheinstetten, Loft54 opened in February 2023 as an Erolifestyle Club built around two pillars: upscale gastronomy and a well-equipped private play environment. Operated by Loft54 Gastronomie Betriebs GmbH under managing director Andreas Vater, the club describes itself as a space for couples and women of all ages, with openness and tolerance as its founding ethos. The venue divides into a social front-of-house and a purpose-built play wing. Private rooms include two areas reserved exclusively for couples, a dedicated SM suite, and an extravagant darkroom fitted with two glory holes and two Czech walls. Outdoors, a shared sauna and whirlpool extend the offering. Floor heating, full air conditioning, and a ventilation system run in every room; twelve showers and more than two hundred lockers handle throughput. Entry is by prior registration only, and consent is a stated house rule.

Planet Swing sits in the small town of Tribsees in Mecklenburg-Vorpommern, positioned almost directly off the A20 coastal motorway that connects the Baltic Sea resorts — making it a natural stop for couples and singles holidaying on the coast or the islands. The club occupies around 700 square metres across nine distinct spaces and can hold up to 180 guests, which by north-east German standards puts it firmly among the largest swinger venues in the region. The house philosophy is summed up by its motto 'Alles kann, nichts muss' — everything is possible, nothing is mandatory — and the club bills itself as a private venue for singles and tolerant couples of all ages. The interior takes its cues from a tour of escapist themes: guests move between rooms styled as 1001 Nights, a jungle space, a romance room, a mirrored lounge and a starlit chamber. Alongside the themed areas there is a changing room with lockable lockers, a bar and buffet with dining seating, a fireplace lounge and a dance floor. The wellness wing runs to a sauna, steam bath, whirlpool and massage bench. An SM studio with specialist equipment rounds out the offer, alongside several open play areas, the largest of which accommodates up to 40 people at once. Friday and Saturday evenings are the core party nights, running from 20:00 to 03:00, with prices occasionally adjusted for special events. Standard entry is €20 for single women, €60 for couples and €80 for single men. Dress code is explicitly sexy-erotic — lingerie is specifically encouraged. The rural setting near the A20 draws a mix of regulars from across Mecklenburg-Vorpommern and Baltic coast tourists looking to extend a holiday night.

Ragazza Club

Rehlingen-Siersburg, Saarland

On-Premise Club

Ragazza Club occupies a 650-square-metre industrial unit on the quiet Dürrfeldslach estate on the edge of Rehlingen-Siersburg — reached from junction 7 of the A8, past the Aral station and the Aldi, then right into the street where the club takes the second-to-last building on the left. The interior spans two floors and ten play areas: a full-service bar and hot-and-cold buffet room sets a sociable, unhurried tone at ground level, with a cuddle corner, a dedicated couples' zone, a whirlpool, a sauna, a lockable private play room, a BDSM area, a darkroom, and three love swings fanning out across the two floors. Ample parking — including bays sized for campervans and motorhomes — reflects the fact that the Ragazza draws visitors from across the Saarland and has been described by Saarbrücker Zeitung as one of the largest swinger meeting points in the region. Owner Carina Kemmerling runs the club under a self-described 's3xpositive' philosophy: sex is treated as something natural and consensual, professional sex workers are explicitly prohibited, and the house tone leans firmly toward community rather than commerce. All entry is all-inclusive — drinks, the buffet, sauna and whirlpool access, hygiene supplies, condoms, and unlimited towels are folded into the admission price, and lockable lockers take care of valuables. First-time visitors are walked through a guided tour and orientation before the evening gets going; the team draws consistent praise in reviews for a family-like welcome, and the club offers private rental of the full venue for groups wanting the space to themselves. The club opens every day of the week. Monday-to-Thursday afternoon sessions (14:00–21:00) keep things quieter and are available for private hire, while the main weekend nights run Friday 16:00–02:00 and Saturday 16:00–03:00; Sunday follows the weekday pattern (14:00–21:00). Admission starts from €15 for women, €60 for men and couples, with LGBTQIA+ guests priced by their identified gender and same-sex couples at the couple rate. Pre-registration is recommended, though same-day entry is possible subject to capacity. The dress code runs smart-casual for men and erotic-leaning for women — lingerie, dresses, or heels; street shoes are not permitted inside the venue.

Refugium Swingerclub

Neumünster, Schleswig-Holstein

On-Premise Club

Refugium Swing & Dance sits on Krokamp 64 in the commercial outskirts of Neumünster, Schleswig-Holstein — an unglamorous address that gives nothing away about the modern lounge-bar world behind the door. Owner Marco Marien designed the club as a deliberate departure from red-velvet clichés: the palette runs to deep green and anthracite, the lighting is considered, and the 500-capacity interior divides into distinct zones that read more like a design-conscious nightclub than a backroom. At its centre is a dance floor anchored by an actual ceiling swing and a DJ booth; off to one side, a well-stocked bar and a separate English-style smoking room keep the social energy moving; scattered throughout are sofa lounge areas where guests talk, watch, and warm up at their own pace. The play rooms — two discreetly positioned and thematically designed spaces — sit well removed from the social areas, alongside a Séparée that doubles as an erotic cinema. Hygiene is taken visibly seriously: towels, disinfectant, condoms, mouthwash, and disposable toothbrushes are stationed throughout, and the venue's barrier-free showers and toilets make it fully accessible to wheelchair users. In warmer months, a 1,000-square-metre outdoor terrace opens up, adding a pool, whirlpool, TikiBar, BBQ station, and a second play area to the mix. The club runs regular themed evenings, seasonal parties, and — every four to six weeks — a free newcomer orientation session at 18:00, before normal doors, with no registration required. Admission is structured around an all-in price covering entry, buffet, premium beverages, and the wardrobe service: €50 in advance, €60 on the door; women enter at €25 and couples at €50. Solo male pricing is set separately and higher as a deliberate tool to keep the gender ratio balanced. Dress code is enforced at the entrance — men in dark long trousers (blue jeans excluded), a plain solid-colour shirt, and proper shoes; women in stylish rather than everyday attire. Once inside, phones and cameras are banned in public areas, and explicit consent is required for all contact; staff are trained to recognise genuine distress. Drugs, solicitation, and any harassment carry an immediate house ban.

Schlangenkeller

Bendestorf, Lower Saxony

Schlangenkeller has anchored northern Germany's lifestyle scene since 1998, operating as a discreet venue in Bendestorf — a small village roughly 30 kilometres south of Hamburg. Under the ownership of M.G. Schulz — known to guests as Gina — the venue has cultivated a reputation as one of the Hamburg region's most established lifestyle clubs, now in its 28th year. Parties run on a fixed weekly rhythm — Wednesday and Thursday evenings from 20:30 to 01:00, Friday and Saturday from 20:30 to 02:00 — with attendance managed via prior registration through the website's booking form. Hotel Meinsbur sits approximately 100 metres from the club's entrance and extends a 10% room-rate discount to Schlangenkeller visitors who use the keyword 'Paris' when booking.

Secrets at Flamingos

Unverified

Mansfield, Nottinghamshire

On-Premise Club

Secrets at Flamingos is a boutique lifestyle club occupying a purpose-fitted licensed venue on Broxtowe Drive in Mansfield, Nottinghamshire. Founded and run by a team with years of personal experience in the lifestyle scene — and a track record of visiting clubs across the country before opening their own — the club sets out to be something more considered than the average venue. Their premises licence covers a broad range of events, from swing parties with a fully open play area to social-only gatherings, with all adult events running on a ticket-only basis as required by the licence. The venue is centred on a fully licensed bar stocked with draught beers, wines, soft drinks, teas, coffees and the house-signature Flamingos Cocktails. Alongside the bar is a large, open playroom fitted with beds of varying sizes and dedicated private spaces for more discreet encounters. Practical amenities are covered as standard: separate male and female bathrooms, a changing room with lockable lockers, and towels provided to every guest. The events programme includes regular couples-and-single-ladies nights and party nights with the play area open; naturist events have also been hosted under the same roof. First-timers are met at the door by one of the club's hosts, who will walk them through the space and make introductions — an explicit part of the welcome process. Management is firm about maintaining an inclusive environment: cliquish behaviour is not tolerated, and the stated goal is a community built on respect and freedom from prejudice. Private hire is available seven days a week and can be configured with or without the play area, making the venue available for adult birthday parties and lifestyle events alike.

Swingerclub Bluecat

Unverified

Schwetzingen, Baden-Württemberg

On-Premise Club

Tucked at the edge of Schwetzingen Am Langen Sand light-industrial strip — a short drive from the A6 motorway Schwetzingen-Nord exit — Blue Cat draws a mixed, open-minded crowd from across the Rhine-Neckar corridor: Mannheim, Heidelberg, Karlsruhe and the Palatinate. Run by Andrea Dunkel as a deliberately family-scale operation, the club pitches itself explicitly against the anonymous superclubs of the region: 500 square metres, nine individually styled rooms and a house capacity of around a hundred guests. New visitors are invited to arrive early and tour the rooms and party space at their own pace before the evening gets going, giving first-timers an unhurried feel for the layout before they commit to staying. The club opens Tuesday through Saturday from 8 pm, with nights running until 1 am on weekday evenings, 2 am on Fridays and 3 am on Saturdays. Admission is all-inclusive — every price covers the buffet and drinks for the night, with no bar tab to run up afterwards. Women pay €10 on any night; couples follow a sliding scale of €30 on weeknight openings, €45 on Fridays and €50 on Saturdays; solo men pay €100 across the board. Registered JOYclub premium members receive an average €10 discount off the door price. The nine rooms range across a love swing, a cinema lounge, a massage area, a gynecological chair, a kuschelecke (cuddle corner) and a dedicated SM play area, supported by a sauna, a wet area and a terrace for outdoor moments. The central zone holds a bar and a rotating buffet. Parking is available directly around the building.

Swingerclub Feuer & Eis

Bruchsal, Baden-Württemberg

On-Premise Club

Feuer & Eis — Fire and Ice — occupies a discreet industrial-zone address on Industriestraße in Bruchsal, roughly midway between Karlsruhe and Heidelberg, and draws couples and singles from across Baden-Württemberg and beyond. The club operators describe it as "Spielwiesen" — playgrounds — for the wider Bruchsal and Karlsruhe region. Run by Sven Schirner, the venue spans 800 square metres across two fully air-conditioned floors and holds up to 250 guests. On JoyClub it carries a 4.8 out of 5 star rating from more than 3,100 reviews and counts over 10,000 followers — unusually strong social proof for a regional club. The ground floor centres on the signature Frivole Bar — a naughty bar lounge with a cage fixture at the counter — flanked by a dance floor and a large multi-person whirlpool. Up on the first floor, the play area fans out into a darkroom, a dedicated BDSM zone, a cinema room, lockable private rooms for couples, a couples-only area, and a glory-hole corner. Rounding out the offering is a sauna, an outdoor terrace with a pool, and full kitchen service: hot and cold meals are prepared fresh daily and included in the admission price, as are towels and condoms. DJ Rex handles in-house music on party nights, and shuttle service from the club and a partner hotel arrangement cater to guests travelling from further afield. The club weekly programme is dense and deliberately varied. Core party nights run Friday (20:00–02:00) and Saturday (20:00–04:00), but the club is open most evenings from Monday through Sunday. Entry prices scale by night and demographic: women pay €5–20, couples €18–75, and single men €28–115. Men typically require advance registration, while couples and women are admitted freely. Regular themed slots include Tropical Beach Parties, Wellness Sundays with massage, trans-friendly Sommernachtstraum evenings, Young People nights, Couples and Ladies glow-bracelet nights, and fortnightly Herrenüberschuss evenings that open extra capacity for solo male guests.

Cupids Swingers Club

Swinton, Greater Manchester

On-Premise Club

Cupids Swingers Club sits on Sutherland Street in Swinton, a short drive northwest of Manchester city centre, and has been operating for over 30 years under the registered entity Cupids Health Club Limited. With a self-reported membership base of more than 25,000, it is among the longest-running lifestyle venues in the north of England. The club is members-only in structure — everyone must be 21 or older with valid photo ID and registered on the club's system — though non-member guests may attend at higher entry fees. On arrival, each guest is issued a locker and a towel; the locker key doubles as a bar tab, allowing drinks to be charged throughout the evening and settled on departure. The fully licensed UV bar sells a range of spirits, wines, beers, cocktails, and soft drinks. Changing rooms come equipped with showers, shower gel, shampoo, and a hairdryer. A small heated courtyard at the rear serves as a smoking area, with dressing gowns provided for warmth. A pool table sits in the lounge area, and reviewers reference a cage-play area alongside it. Phones and cameras are strictly prohibited and must remain locked in lockers at all times. Events run on a packed weekly schedule: Tuesday daytime sessions (M.O.T.D.) run 11:00-18:00; Wednesday evenings (18:00-01:00) are couples and single females only, a format running continuously for over 30 years; Thursday through Saturday offer mixed evening events until 01:00 or 03:00; Sunday evenings run from 18:00. The calendar includes recurring Bi Nights, Newbie Nights, and themed weekends. Couples pay £20-35; single males £20-50 depending on membership and event; single females enter free. Single male entry is not guaranteed even with a guestlist reservation — the club actively manages gender ratios. Advance booking is strongly recommended for weekend evenings.

Bournemouth Swingers Club

Bournemouth, Dorset

Club

Bournemouth Swingers Club operates at 140 Commercial Road in Bournemouth, Dorset, positioning itself as the hub of the town's swinging community. The club is fully licensed, requires no membership, and runs a weekly Wednesday social alongside a structured Saturday night programme under three recurring event brands: XQUISITE, XCHANGE, and XPLORE. A sister venue, Pride Bar, sits directly opposite and serves as an unofficial pre-drinks spot from 6pm on Saturdays. The venue features a bar and social lounge, a dance floor, a sauna, a jacuzzi, a spa area, and multiple playrooms stocked with condoms, lube, blue roll, and antibacterial spray. Towels are available on request. Showers, a changing room with hair dryer, and a locker system tied to the bar tab round out the facilities. Wednesdays (8pm–midnight) are open to all: £10 per couple, free for single women and trans guests, £20 for single men. The first Saturday is XQUISITE (couples and single ladies only). The second Saturday is XCHANGE (couples plus a limited quota of single men who must book online). The fourth Saturday is XPLORE (open to all genders and orientations with no ratio cap). Saturday nights run 8pm–2am with last entry at 10pm; door prices are £40 per couple, £35 single male, £10 single female or trans. Online tickets are cheaper. The first Friday hosts Spectrum, a monthly trans and admirers night.

Swingerclub Passion

Stuhr, Lower Saxony

On-Premise Club

Club Passion sits in the Seckenhausen industrial estate on the southern fringe of Bremen, a short drive from the A1 autobahn at Industriestrasse 37. The club is owned and personally run by Jessica and Patrick Bosse, a couple with their own long-standing roots in the swinging community, and it shows in how the place operates: long-serving staff who are friends first and staff second set a tone the venue itself describes as a very special family-like atmosphere, one where even first-timers quickly find their footing rather than feeling lost in an anonymous crowd. More than 1.5 million visits, a JOYclub Recommendation badge, and a 4.8-star average across 3,288 reviews place it firmly among the most trusted venues in the Bremen catchment. The indoor footprint runs to roughly 270 square metres, maintained at a steady 22 degrees C year-round. The ground floor holds a well-stocked bar (Bacardi, Jim Beam, Malibu, Likor 43 among the brands), a comprehensive warm-and-cold buffet, and a dance floor with a pole and stage area. Playrooms cover the full range: a Caribbean-themed Blue Lagoon private room, a castle-themed Burgzimmer, a coded couples-only section, a sleeping area upstairs, and a dedicated BDSM corner fitted with a swing, spanking bench, and St. Andrew's cross. The wellness zone adds an eight-person whirlpool (water changed daily), a sauna, and shower stations stocked with toiletries throughout the venue. Come summer, a heated outdoor terrace opens with a pool, beach baskets, and a separate cocktail bar, an addition that sets the club apart from most urban indoor venues. Club Passion runs Fridays (19:00-02:00) and Saturdays (19:00-03:00) as its regular nights, with Tuesday afternoon sessions (15:00-23:00) and Sunday parties (14:00-21:00) rotating on alternating weeks. Door prices are all-inclusive - the fee covers the full buffet, alcoholic and soft drinks, condoms, and hygiene supplies, with nothing extra to spend inside. Friday admission runs EUR 20 for single women, EUR 60 for couples, and EUR 80 for single men; Saturday steps up to EUR 30, EUR 85, and EUR 90 respectively, with JOYclub members receiving a discount at every tier. Trans and cross-dressing guests are admitted at 50% of the solo male rate. Dress code is firmly enforced: sexy lingerie and heels for women, latex, leather, or dark underwear with quality sandals for men. First-time visitors can call ahead to arrange a complimentary 30-minute walk-through before doors open - no commitment required.

Joyride

Unverified

London, London

Event Organizer

Joyride is a London-based queer, sex-positive event series operating at the intersection of rave culture, art, and sexual expression. Founded in early 2023 by Irish sex educator MJ Fox and experiential event producer Lydia Fikan, the party draws together DJs, performers, sexuality practitioners, and artists around a shared ethos of joy, playfulness, and consent. Pitched at adults aged 21 and over, Joyride sold out its earliest events through word of mouth alone before securing a bi-weekly Sunday residency at Corsica Studios in Elephant and Castle — one of London's most established underground club spaces. The format centred on two spaces at Corsica Studios: a main dancefloor delivering a genre-fluid programme spanning house, techno, and everything in between, with a focus on queer and femme artists; and two purpose-built playrooms fitted with bespoke kink furniture and sex machines, one of them designed by interior designer Domhnall Nolan. A welfare team, identifiable by yellow bandanas and flashing armbands, circulated throughout every event. Phones and cameras were barred from the dancefloor and playrooms, with stickers placed over camera lenses on entry. Tickets were sold exclusively through Dice and only available in advance, with community and unwaged tickets available on request. Joyride's Corsica Studios residency came to an end in February 2026 when the venue announced its permanent closure; the final party, on 15 February 2026, marked the event's third birthday. As of mid-2026, no successor venue has been confirmed. The dress code required fetish or kink attire — latex, leather, PVC, mesh, lingerie, harnesses — and streetwear was refused entry. The entry age was strictly 21 and over. Prospective attendees should check joyriderave.com and the Dice promoter page for current event information.

The No3 Club

Chorley, Lancashire

On-Premise Club

The No3 Club occupies a discreet address at 3 Friday Street in the heart of Chorley, Lancashire, a short walk from the town's mainline railway station and five minutes from junction 8 of the M61. Billing itself as a 'luxurious swingers club' that welcomes both newcomers and experienced members alike, it has built a following across the North West with a weekly programme that spans lunchtime socials through to late-night swing nights, making it one of the more consistently active venues in the region. The fully licensed, over-21s venue sits alongside a large free car park, with hotel options from Premier Inn to Hartwood Hall available nearby for those travelling from further afield. The schedule is the club's most distinctive feature. Wednesdays alternate between Greedy Girl Days on the 1st and 3rd of the month — a noon-to-10pm session free for member couples and single ladies, with single men admitted at £30 — and a Midweek Madness Social on off-Wednesdays (7:30pm to midnight). Thursdays bring a dedicated Bi Night (7:30pm–midnight), while Fridays begin with a free daytime Coffee & Munch (1–5pm) the club describes as the 'safest and easiest way to meet like-minded people', before evening themed nights from 8pm to 2am: Motown on the first Friday, a Traffic Light Party on the second (red wristbands for single ladies, amber for couples, green for bi guests), and the Black Man's Fan Club on the fourth. Saturdays run a straight swing night from 9pm to 2:30am, and Sundays close the week with a Super Sexy Sunday from 4pm to 10pm, buffet included. Entry is generally £20 for couples, £10–£20 for single ladies, and £30–£40 for single men, who must pre-book given limited availability. Inside, a fully licensed bar runs alongside private and open rooms, with buffet service laid on for select nights. The daytime Coffee & Munch on Fridays provides a deliberate low-stakes entry point — come as you are, meet the regulars, and decide from there. Dress code across evening events is smart casual; trainers and sportswear are not admitted. Photo ID is required for first-time visitors, and consent sits at the centre of the club's stated ethos with a clear 'No always means No' policy. The venue is also available for private hire upon request.

Torture Garden

London, Greater London

Club Night / Event Brand

Torture Garden — known universally as TG — is Europe's largest fetish club night, founded in London in October 1990 by promoter and DJ Allen Pelling and art-and-film graduate David Wood. What began in a Shepherd's Bush pub has grown into what is widely described as the world's biggest fetish event network, with Time Out London calling it "legendary" and "a capital institution." The night has attracted figures ranging from Jean Paul Gaultier and Boy George to Dita Von Teese (who made her UK debut at TG) and Marilyn Manson, and it runs a fetish fashion label alongside the club events. TG's London home base is Scala, a converted former theatre on Pentonville Road in King's Cross. The venue spans several floors connected by multiple staircases — there is no lift — and is configured around a main Club Arena, an Eclectic Ballroom playing a rotating mix of burlesque, goth, electro swing, and post-punk sounds, and a dungeon playroom equipped by Benchmarxxx. Larger events also incorporate boudoir-style play rooms. The crowd is a genuinely mixed cross-section: show-offs, goths, industrial punks, burlesque performers, drag artists, and first-timers, drawn together by what journalists have consistently described as a "welcoming, liberating" atmosphere. Events are ticketed in advance only, with tiered entry-time slots (Early: 9pm–10:15pm; Peak: 10:15pm–2:30am; Late: 12am–2:30am) and last entry typically at 2:30am; doors open at 9pm and events run until 6am. Tickets typically range from approximately £33–£37, with a limited allocation of discounted tickets at £25 per event for those on lower incomes. ID is mandatory for all attendees regardless of age: physical, original photo ID only — passport, driving licence, national ID card, or a Validate/citizen card — no digital copies or phone screenshots accepted. The dress code is strict and non-negotiable: Fantasy Fetish, SM, Body Art, Drag, Rubber, Leather, and PVC are all welcome; street clothes, cotton t-shirts, and regular clubwear will result in refusal with no refund.

Vault 139

London, London

Cruise Bar

Vault 139 is a gay cruise bar occupying a basement space at 139–143 Whitfield Street in Fitzrovia, central London W1T 5EN, a short walk from Warren Street and Goodge Street tube stations. Billing itself as London's sexiest cruise bar, it operates seven days a week from 1pm to 1am and caters exclusively to men aged 18 and over, drawing a loyal clientele in what the venue describes as a no-frills, welcoming underground environment. The venue sits 20 steps below street level, giving it a genuinely subterranean character. Inside, facilities include a large dark room equipped with a sling, beds, and two barrels; several smaller private rooms each fitted with a bed; four gloryholes; a second smaller dark room; and a free changing room and cloakroom. Large bags and suitcases can be stored for £2. A fully licensed bar serves a range of alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks until 12:30am Monday to Saturday and midnight on Sundays; chilled tap water is free throughout. Free Wi-Fi is available, with login details at the bar. Mobile phones are restricted to the bar area, and photography is banned outright in all cruising spaces. Sessions run in two daily blocks — an afternoon cruise (1pm–7pm) and an evening session (7pm–1am) — with the evening theme rotating across the week: NKD (strictly naked, footwear permitted, harnesses allowed) on Mondays and Thursdays; standard Cruise (fully clothed) on Tuesdays and Fridays; Underwear (boxers, speedos, jockstraps, G-strings, harnesses — no shirts or trousers) on Wednesdays and Sundays; and All or Nothing (any dress code) on Saturday evenings and Sunday nights. General admission is £14 for non-members and £13 for members; admission includes a free first drink, free coat check, and free same-day re-entry. Discounted £5 entry is available to students and Blue Light or CAC card holders on Tuesdays, and to under-25s on Wednesdays and Sundays. Membership is free via the venue's app (iOS and Android), which provides a digital loyalty card offering one complimentary entry for every five paid visits.

HS Lifestyle Club

Hude, Lower Saxony

On-Premise Club

HS Lifestyle Club sits at Bremer Str. 24 in Hude/Sandersfeld, a small municipality between Bremen and Oldenburg in Lower Saxony. Known historically as Haus Sandersfeld, the venue has been in operation for more than seventeen years and is among the larger lifestyle clubs in northern Germany, accommodating up to 500 guests across roughly 2,000 square metres of indoor club space, a 4,000-square-metre garden, and a 1,000-square-metre beer garden. The club reports a five-heart quality rating from JOYclub per its own homepage, and states it is the first lifestyle venue in Germany to receive the DEHOGA environmental gold award, reflecting a commitment to regional food sourcing, fair wages for staff, and energy-efficient heating systems. The house motto — "Be exactly as you are" — frames a philosophy of discretion and atmosphere free of social expectation. The indoor layout guides guests from a changing area fitted with large mirrors and hair dryers through a disco dance floor and a 1970s-styled bar to a bistro serving a substantial buffet. Wellness facilities include a sauna and a heated whirlpool with pulsating massage jets. Deeper into the venue are a nudist area with a social fumble bar, voyeur rooms, a BDSM-equipped backroom, and additional themed playrooms. The scale and variety of spaces are substantial enough that the club warns first-time visitors they can easily lose their bearings while exploring. Events are scheduled individually rather than on a fixed weekly calendar; most start at 20:00 and run into the early morning hours, with occasional afternoon parties also programmed. Entry prices vary by event type, solo or couple attendance, and whether tickets are purchased in advance via JOYclub or at the door. Advance booking and pre-registration are strongly encouraged, and a prepayment policy is in place to reduce no-shows, with vouchers available for cancellations due to illness. Most admission packages cover the buffet, alcoholic and non-alcoholic beverages, sauna and whirlpool access, towels, shower gel, and condoms. The dress code is strict: jeans, sweaters, and plain underwear are not accepted; women are expected in lingerie, short dresses, or erotic attire, while men are directed toward a dress shirt with black trousers or leather, latex, or lace alternatives.

Vault72

Plymouth, Devon

Off-Premise Club

Vault72 occupies 72 Mutley Plain in Plymouth's Mutley neighbourhood, operating as the city's self-described premier alternative and LGBTQ+-friendly bar. The licensed venue accommodates up to 49 guests and pairs a fully stocked bar with a kink dungeon, giving it a dual identity that sets it apart from both a straight-social bar and a dedicated play venue. The crowd is Plymouth's alternative community — swingers, kink enthusiasts, LGBTQ+ regulars, and curious newcomers — who treat the space as a regular social base rather than an occasional destination. The doors are open Tuesday to Saturday from 7pm, with Thursday through Saturday running until 3am. Events rotate across the week: the Friday Swingers Social is a recurring fixture, and the calendar extends to leather socials, fetish nights, bi and gay evenings, pub nights with drink specials, and LGBTQ+-centred party series such as Pridemonium. Private hire is available on any day subject to prior arrangement, with packages starting from £5 per person and options for catering, decorations, and a Bluetooth surround-sound system. Because Vault72 holds a full on-licence, alcohol is served at the bar — no BYOB arrangement applies. The kink dungeon is the play-space anchor, while the bar and social areas keep things relaxed in the early part of the evening, allowing new arrivals to meet the regulars before things move further into the night. The team frames the venue explicitly as a safe, comfortable environment built around community, and the private-hire programme keeps the space active with one-off themed events throughout the week.

Club Culture Houze

Berlin, Berlin

On-Premise Club

Club Culture Houze is a long-running sex-party venue on Görlitzer Straße in Berlin's Kreuzberg district, a short walk from the U1 Görlitzer Bahnhof and U Schlesisches Tor stops. Operating since 1996 and currently managed by Veronika, it has built its identity around radical sexual inclusivity — hosting themed nights across the full spectrum of orientation and gender: gay men, trans and non-binary guests, bisexual and pansexual crowds, femdom circles, fetish communities, and mixed-orientation couples alike. The venue describes itself explicitly as a "Safer Space" and takes a firm stance against exclusionary or demeaning behaviour at every event. The club occupies two floors. The upper level holds a cosy loft fitted with comfortable couches, pillows, a massage table, and a long bar; the lower floor opens onto a larger play space with leather furniture, slings, cages, a darkroom, and a video room. Free condoms, lubricant, and gloves are available at the bar alongside mouthwash; paper towels and sanitising sprays are positioned throughout the play areas. A snack buffet is on offer during events, and a cloakroom handles clothing and valuables storage. The atmosphere is notably smaller and more intimate than typical Berlin mega-clubs — visitors regularly describe the staff as friendly and personally attentive. Private venue hire is available for parties, photoshoots, film productions, and group meetings. Events run every night of the week, with programming shifting nightly. Recurring highlights include Naked SEX on Mondays — a gay men's night with mandatory nudity, running 19:00–23:45 — and Friday Fist / Fist Factory on most Fridays (20:00–03:00), with a dress code of rubber, leather, or fetish attire. Midweek slots rotate through Trans & Friends, Poly/Pan Experience (Bi Plus Night), QueerBeet (FTM/MTF BDSM and sex party), FAKT! (femdom evening), and bear-focused, masked, and BDSM-for-beginners nights. Entry fees vary by event: a third-party visitor account reported approximately €13 admission plus a €7 mandatory drink spend on a standard night; the masked Fuck with Unknown event is priced at €20 including a first drink; Folsom-weekend specials reach €35 and above. All payments are cash only — card payments are not accepted.

PSP Swingertreff

Unverified

Hamburg, Hamburg

On-Premise Club

PSP — Privates Pärchen und Single Paradies (Private Couples and Singles Paradise) — is a long-running swinger club in Hamburg's Altona-Nord district, set on Stresemannstrasse roughly two kilometres west of the St. Pauli entertainment quarter. Owner Monika Panßner has operated the venue for more than eighteen years under the tagline "Der Swingerclub mit Herz" (the swinger club with heart), deliberately positioning it as an intimate, unhurried alternative in a city with a busy erotic-club scene. The club occupies approximately 920 square metres and enforces a ceiling of around 100 guests, keeping the space consistently uncrowded. The layout includes multiple individually decorated themed rooms — among them a St. Pauli-inspired area, a red room (Rotes Zimmer), and a four-poster bed — alongside open play areas, a sauna, a bistro, an Erotik Lounge, massage facilities, a wellness area, a stage, and changing rooms. Third-party listings and the club's own archived materials describe the clientele as "niveauvolles Publikum" — a mix of couples and singles who set a discreet, convivial tone. The club opens Wednesday through Sunday; Friday and Saturday nights run from 20:00 to 04:00, and Sundays from 16:00 to 23:00. Wednesday and Thursday evenings open at 19:00, closing at 01:00. Admission is €40 per couple, €10 for single women, and €80 for single men. Payment by cash or debit card is accepted at the door.

The Freaky Rock

Geesthacht, Schleswig-Holstein

The Freaky Rock is a swinger lounge beside the Schleusenkanal in Geesthacht, a small Elbe-side town roughly 35 kilometres southeast of Hamburg. Operated by Tanja and Matthias Ullrich — who together bring more than twenty years of experience in the lifestyle sector — the venue has occupied its current address for over twelve years, making it one of the more long-established clubs in Schleswig-Holstein. The owners describe it as the 'somewhat different swinger club', with a strict no-professional-workers policy and a focus on an amateur, community-driven atmosphere. The interior spans approximately 400 square metres and can accommodate up to around 150 guests. Facilities include a bar and buffet, a dance floor fitted with a pole, dedicated changing rooms and showers, lockable couple rooms, open play areas, a wellness section with sauna and hot tub, BDSM equipment including a St. Andrew's cross, and an outdoor area with a separate enclosed smoking section. The club is explicitly LGBTQ+ inclusive and designated a transgender safe space, with gender-neutral restrooms on site. The entrance and car park are wheelchair-accessible. The Freaky Rock runs an event-driven weekly programme rather than fixed nightly hours, with times published ahead of each event via its JOYclub listing. A typical week covers a Tuesday evening party, a Friday Croque Night, a Saturday rock-themed evening centred on Rammstein and Onkelz, and a Sunday Genießer Brunch. Gay and bi-male nights also appear in the regular calendar. First-time visitors are offered an optional guided tour of the venue. Advance registration is mandatory — walk-ins are not accepted. The preferred booking route is via the club's JOYclub profile; guests without a profile may contact the venue by phone, WhatsApp, or email. All door payments are cash only.

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Location One is a couples and swinger club (Pärchenclub) in Menden, a town in the Märkisches Sauerland region of North Rhine-Westphalia, located at Werler Straße 37 within approximately 10 kilometres of the nearest motorway. Operating under the slogan 'Swingen mit Charme und Stil' — swinging with charm and style — the club positions itself at the premium end of the regional scene, with particular emphasis on cuisine, interior design, and attentive hosting. First-time visitors are welcomed with an optional guided tour of the venue. The premises span more than 900 square metres across three floors, organised around nine individually styled rooms that include two private séparées, a fully equipped SM/BDSM room, and two love swings. Social spaces include a full bar stocked with branded spirits, a cocktail bar operating on Saturday evenings, and a champagne bar open from 23:00 to 01:00. A hot-and-cold buffet — freshly prepared meats, seafood, salads, and house-made sauces — is included with admission. A whirlpool, sauna, massage area, pole dance stage, and a heated covered outdoor smoking terrace complete the facilities. Fresh towels and toiletries are provided on every floor. Video-monitored parking sits discreetly behind the building, with three dedicated pitches with electrical hookups available for campervans. The club opens Friday and Saturday from 20:00 to 04:00, with admission beginning at 19:00. Friday evenings run as an open swinger night with couples, single women, and a limited number of single men admitted; Saturday evenings are oriented toward couples and trios. Pre-registration is required before each visit and can be made by phone, WhatsApp, or the club's contact form. Entry prices vary by event and are posted on the events page; cash is the only accepted payment method. A loyalty stamp card rewards regulars: nine stamps earn free entry on any subsequent standard evening, New Year's Eve excluded.

Schloss Trebbichau

Trebbichau, Saxony-Anhalt

On-Premise Club

Schloss Trebbichau occupies a restored historic castle at Parkstrasse 10 in Trebbichau, a small village in Osternienburger Land, Saxony-Anhalt. Operated by Chateau du Soleil GmbH under managing director Carola Schwarz, who brings a background in television production and theatre, alongside Dutch co-founder Ronald, who supervised the multi-year hands-on renovation, the club reopened as a lifestyle venue in early 2023 and bills itself as die wohl schonste erotische Oase im Herzen von Sachsen-Anhalt. The interior unfolds across three levels. A soaring main hall, 7.5 metres high, anchors the ground floor with a bar, dance floor, and extensive seating, while a mezzanine gallery on the first floor looks down over the space below. Adjoining rooms include a salon, a buffet and dining room, a dedicated smoking lounge, and a games room. Play rooms of varying themes are distributed across the basement, ground floor, and upper floor. Come summer, the castle lake (SchlossSee) becomes the setting for FKK (naturist) outdoor weekend gatherings. Events run one to two times per month and vary considerably in character: burlesque and performance evenings, FKK lake weekends, decade-themed parties, and elegant evening parties. All events are listed and ticketed exclusively through JOYclub.de; pricing is not published on the club website. Regular parties fall on Saturdays, running from 19:30 to 02:00. The core guest profile is active couples; single women and single men are admitted selectively depending on the specific event. The dress-code shorthand is elegant black is never wrong, with full requirements published per event on JOYclub.

PaaRee Swingertreff

Castrop-Rauxel, North Rhine-Westphalia

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PaaRee Swingertreff is a couples and lifestyle club at Hernerstraße 110 in Castrop-Rauxel, in the heart of the Ruhr region in North Rhine-Westphalia, run by Mandy and Frank Kuhles. The club brands itself as "der tolerante, frivole & aktive Swingertreff mit Niveau und Klasse" — a tolerant, spirited, and active swinger venue with refinement and class — and positions itself as a considered alternative to the larger, more impersonal mega-clubs of the region. The guiding motto is "Alles kann – nichts muss" (everything is possible, nothing is mandatory). Women, couples, single men, and trans guests across a range of orientations and relationship configurations are all welcomed, with mandatory advance registration by phone or JOYclub profile required for everyone. The venue describes itself as "der kleine und feine Swingertreff" — small and refined — and features multiple themed play rooms of varying sizes, including spaces for BDSM scenes and group encounters alongside smaller couples-oriented rooms. A large outdoor terrace, screened from public view, extends the available space in milder weather. The communal shower room is stocked with hair dryers and toiletries; complimentary lockers are provided throughout. A bar with branded alcoholic and non-alcoholic beverages and a food spread — including a fresh Saturday buffet, cooked meals on weekdays and Sundays, and snacks at other sessions — are included in the all-in entry price, as are condoms and towels. Cash is the only accepted payment method on site. The club runs events across four days each week. Friday evenings (19:00–01:00) host themed Active Swinger Nights; Saturdays (20:00–02:00) run the main weekly Saturday Night Swinger party; Sundays (15:00–20:00) offer the Sxx-Active Sunday session; and the second Thursday of each month (12:00–18:00) hosts a bi-friendly FKK afternoon. Pricing is all-inclusive and varies by event: on Fridays, women pay €15, couples €45, and single men €45; Saturday rates are €20 for women, €50 for couples, and €50 for men; other sessions are priced slightly lower. JOYclub Premium members receive a €5 reduction on any session. Strict house rules apply throughout: no mobile phones, no cannabis, erotic attire required, and a zero-tolerance consent policy is enforced — any violation results in immediate removal and a permanent ban.

Swingerclub AlbSwing

Sigmaringen, Baden-Württemberg

AlbSwing occupies a rural property on the Nollhof estate north of Sigmaringen, set in the rolling farmland of Baden-Württemberg’s Swabian Alb. The club brands itself as “Der Swingerclub der Schwäbischen Alb” — the lifestyle venue of the Alb region — and draws a clientele that reportedly travels from as far afield as Stuttgart and Lake Constance for its Saturday nights. It opened in its current form following a rebrand and partial renovation of the former Swingerclub Waldhaus, with married couple Emel and Torsten taking over operations on a five-year lease; both had previously worked as bartenders at the same venue before stepping up to run it themselves. The interior has been modernised and partly redesigned since the Waldhaus era, now comprising seven themed rooms arranged across the property. These include an Aladdin room, a mirrored room, a snuggle room, a lockable private room for couples who want complete seclusion, a lounge themed around a flying carpet, a BDSM/SM room equipped with a gynaecological chair, and a darkroom. A couples-only section accessible via a separate entrance adds an extra layer of privacy for pairs who prefer it. The social hub of the venue is a bar area fitted with sofas and high-top seating, where a buffet is laid out as part of the all-inclusive entry. Outside, an open play balcony extends the usable space in fine weather, while a heated smoking shelter handles the dedicated outdoor smoking area. The large car park accommodates motorhomes and caravans, and a number of guests reportedly make a night of it by overnighting on site. New visitors are offered an orientation walkthrough, and the atmosphere is shaped by the house principle of “alles erlaubt, nichts Pflicht” — everything permitted, nothing required. The regular programme runs every Saturday from 19:00 to 02:00; additional Friday and Sunday events are announced on short notice through JoyClub and the club’s WhatsApp channel. Advance registration by WhatsApp (+49 15259434935) or email (albswing@gmail.com) is recommended and earns a discounted rate: pre-registered couples pay €70, pre-registered solo women €15, and pre-registered solo men €100, against walk-in rates of €80, €20, and €110 respectively. All prices are all-inclusive — entry covers the buffet, drinks, and condoms. The dress code is erotic: women are expected to arrive in lingerie or a sexy dress; men in boxer or retro-style shorts paired with a shirt. Street shoes must be removed before entering the play areas, and mobile phones are not permitted anywhere in the venue — guests may leave their devices at the bar for emergency access. Cameras are banned entirely, drugs are prohibited, and entry is refused to anyone intoxicated or visibly unkempt. The minimum age is 18.

OASE Dresden

Dresden, Saxony

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Clubhotel Ollywood

Radebeul, Saxony

Lifestyle Resort

Clubhotel Ollywood occupies a secluded hillside address on Sonnenleite in Radebeul, a wine-growing town that sits directly west of Dresden on the slopes above the Elbe valley in Saxony. One of eastern Germany's most established lifestyle venues, it has been in operation for around 26 years, and it positions itself as something more than a conventional swinger club: the property combines hotel accommodation, a restaurant, a wellness suite, and a disco under a single roof, describing its offer as 'comfortable hotel, super party, wellness, restauration and eroticism, paired with entertainment' — exclusivity and party in a setting removed from standard nightlife. The amenity spread is broad for a venue of this type. A large indoor swimming pool, a whirlpool, sauna, solarium, and massage facilities form a dedicated wellness wing. A licensed bar and kitchen underpin the social areas, with a rotating buffet served at every event and occasional outdoor barbecues in warmer weather. A disco with a dance floor handles the entertainment core, and play facilities range from a temple garden and screened outdoor areas to multiple indoor playrooms — some open, some privately lockable. Guest rooms intended for overnight stays operate on a traffic-light system, allowing occupants to signal availability to other guests. The venue holds a 4.8-out-of-5 rating across roughly 78 Google reviews, with visitors consistently highlighting attentive staff, cleanliness, the quality of the food, themed events with DJs, and an atmosphere described as family-like and free of pressure. The club is open seven days a week: Monday 2–11pm, Tuesday 11am–11pm, Wednesday 2–11pm, Thursday 6–11pm, Friday 7pm–2am, and Saturday 8pm–3am. Themed late-night parties with DJs run primarily on Friday and Saturday. Entry is priced at €100 per couple, €110 for solo men, and €40 for solo women; the buffet is included in the entry fee. Payment is cash only. An erotic or dress-up dress code is in effect for all events. The entrance is not step-free and the venue is not wheelchair accessible. A sister adults-only property, Ollymar Resort on Mallorca, is operated under the same umbrella.

On-Premise Club

Casa No.1 sits on Blankenauer Strasse in the Furth district of Chemnitz, Saxony, and operates on two nights a week — Wednesdays and Saturdays — a purposefully compact schedule that has helped it accumulate one of the strongest reputations in the region. Run by S. and B. Ranft, the club positions itself on “Stil, Qualität und erotisches Ambiente” and describes its own atmosphere as “familär, gepflegt & unanständig” — homely, well-kept, and uninhibited in equal measure. It holds a 4.9 out of 5 rating on JOYclub, where around 1,800 members have listed it as a favourite and more than 472,000 visits have been recorded. The property divides into 500 m² of indoor space spread across two floors and 5,000 m² of outdoor grounds styled with a Mediterranean theme. Inside, a bar stocked with branded drinks anchors a dance floor and lounge; a themed buffet of snacks and home-cooked dishes is available throughout the evening. Further in, a sauna, massage lounge, glory hole, and a dedicated BDSM section feed into multiple themed playrooms spread across both floors. The outdoor area includes a pool, seating for up to 150 guests, and overnight parking with spaces for motorhomes — all covered by the all-inclusive admission. Wednesday evenings run 17:00 to midnight; Saturday sessions open at 20:00 and close at 03:00. All entry is fully all-inclusive — drinks, buffet, sauna, parking, and hygiene supplies are covered in the cover charge. JOYclub members receive €10 off every ticket. A €10 refundable deposit secures a locker; men arriving without formal attire can hire trousers and a shirt on-site for €10. The themed-party calendar rotates through Discofox and soft FKK evenings, a DDR retro night, a Casa Oktoberfest, and a 1990s nostalgia party. The venue observes an annual summer closure, typically running mid-August to mid-September.

Big Mamas Haus

Crimmitschau, Saxony

BDSM & Fetish Event Venue

Big Mamas Haus — trading publicly as BMH Event Club — occupies a purpose-built property at Harthauer Weg 6 on the fringe of Crimmitschau, a small industrial town in the Westsachsen district of Saxony. The club has been in operation for roughly two decades, celebrating its 20th anniversary in September 2026, and in that time has built a regional reputation as one of Saxony's more established adult event venues, drawing guests from across Germany and neighbouring European countries. The house tagline, 'Der feine Unterschied' — the fine difference — signals a self-conscious positioning above the generic party venue, with a programme that spans BDSM, fetish, swinging, and mixed erotic events rather than a single discipline. The property combines a generous outdoor area of approximately 6,000 square metres with dedicated indoor facilities that include a cinema room, sauna, lounge areas, an SM and fetish play zone covering more than 300 square metres, and overnight accommodation for guests who wish to stay. Hygiene infrastructure is thorough: condoms are stocked throughout the venue, and designated disposal points for used items are provided across the play areas. The club is affiliated with JOYclub, the German adult community platform, and maintains active listings on specialist fetish event directories. Admission for most events includes the bulk of drinks — hard spirits and cocktails are excluded — alongside a buffet that ranges from finger food to a full hot-and-cold spread depending on the occasion. Parking is plentiful and suited to larger vehicles. The club operates no fixed weekly schedule, opening exclusively for ticketed events published in its online calendar. Evening start times typically fall between 18:00 and 20:00, and the programme includes occasional afternoon sessions. Recurring formats encompass open play parties, female-dominance evenings, medical-fetish themed nights, intensive BDSM events billed as Hardliner nights, and smaller exclusive gatherings with capped attendance. All admission is event-specific and priced per occasion; the venue accepts cash only and does not process card payments. Entry is restricted to guests aged 18 and over.

Club Paradise Lingen

Lingen, Lower Saxony

On-Premise Club

Club Paradise is a lifestyle swinger club occupying roughly 800 square metres at Friedrich-Ebert-Straße 115a in Lingen, a town in the Emsland district of Lower Saxony near the Dutch border. The club presents itself as the only swinger club in the Emsland region — a claim repeated in local press coverage — and its stated ethos, ‘you arrive as a guest and leave as a friend,’ anchors an atmosphere oriented toward sociability as much as play. A Dutch-language companion site (club-paradise-lingen.nl) runs alongside the primary German domain, reflecting cross-border clientele from the Netherlands. The venue is arranged across multiple levels and a basement. A bar and lounge area serves as the social centrepiece; a dedicated couples’ floor holds private lockable rooms alongside themed shared spaces; a basement BDSM room is described as equipped for kink in a ‘safe and stylish environment.’ A buffet dining area is kept structurally separate from play spaces by house rule. Changing rooms with secure lockers, disinfection stations throughout the facility, and a designated outdoor smoking terrace handle the practical side. On certain event nights a DJ, dance floor, and a foam area feature in the programme; the site also references a summer garden. The club operates on an event calendar rather than fixed nightly hours. Fridays run 20:00–02:00, Saturdays 20:00–03:00. Monthly additions include a BDSM Sunday (first Sunday, 14:00–21:00), a wellness afternoon (second Sunday, 13:00–19:00), a Hotwife evening on the second Wednesday (18:00–23:00), and a Frivolous Wednesday with sauna on the fourth Wednesday (18:00–23:00). Pricing is tiered by gender and event type: on a standard Friday women pay €20, couples €45, and single men €55; Saturday rates rise to €45 for women and €110 for both couples and single men. Hotwife nights admit women free, with men at €80 and couples at €35. The admission price covers all drinks and the full buffet. Cash only — no card payments are accepted.

Treff 188 Eschborn

Eschborn, Hesse

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Treff 188 is an FKK sauna club and Pauschalclub (flat-rate timed-entry adult venue) located at Düsseldorfer Strasse 1 in Eschborn, a business-district municipality roughly 10 kilometres northwest of Frankfurt am Main, with access from the Eschborn Süd S-Bahn station. The Eschborn site is the smaller of two locations operated under the treff-188.de brand; a second, substantially larger venue runs in Wiesbaden-Schierstein. The Eschborn premises cover more than 500 square metres and are oriented towards individual male guests, who purchase timed entry packages that include facility access and a set number of service tokens redeemable with the club’s independent female contractors. The shared facilities include a Finnish sauna, a relaxation lounge, an adult cinema room with an adjacent live area, dedicated private rooms, shower rooms, changing rooms with lockable lockers, and a screened outdoor space. A licensed bar serves both soft drinks and alcoholic beverages; entry packages include complimentary towels, toiletries, condoms, and disinfected slippers. On-site free parking is available. Bathrobes are the one amenity with a separate charge, at €5 per rental. A recurring Thursday topless party is the venue’s sole advertised themed night. The venue is open every day of the week: Monday through Thursday from 12:00 to 02:00, Friday and Saturday from 14:00 to 04:00, and Sunday from 14:00 to 02:00. Entry is priced in timed tiers: €90 grants two hours with two service tokens; €110, three hours and three tokens; €130, four hours and four tokens; and €155 provides an all-day pass with five tokens. Additional tokens may be purchased separately at reception. A direct-service arrangement, bypassing facility entry, is available from €50.

Treff 188 Wiesbaden

Wiesbaden, Hesse

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Treff 188 Wiesbaden occupies a dedicated premises in the Schierstein district — a Rhine-side suburb of Wiesbaden in Hesse — at Schoßbergstraße 16. The venue operates as a flat-rate FKK and sauna club (Pauschalclub), one of two locations run under the Treff-188 brand alongside a sister site in Eschborn near Frankfurt. The establishment describes itself as offering 'Erotik, Unterhaltung und Wellness im edlen Ambiente' (erotic entertainment and wellness in an elegant setting) across more than 1,000 square metres — the larger of the two sites. The interior encompasses a Finnish sauna, a bar stocked with soft drinks and alcoholic beverages, an adult cinema with a live entertainment area, private rooms (Separees), and a private outdoor area screened from outside view. Changing rooms, showers, and lockable lockers are provided; free on-site parking is available. Reviewers describe the house as 'sehr gepflegtes Haus und freundlicher Empfang' — a well-maintained venue with a welcoming reception. Entry follows a tiered flat-rate Pauschal model in which a single all-inclusive fee covers facility access and includes a set number of Jetons (tokens) redeemable for private services with on-site female staff — a legally operating structure in Germany. Tiers listed on the main website run from 90 EUR for a two-hour visit with two tokens to 155 EUR for a full-day ticket with five tokens, with a three-hour package at 110 EUR. A September 2026 promotion offered a three-hour package at 99 EUR on Monday through Thursday. Opening hours and current pricing are best confirmed directly on the Wiesbaden line.

Erlebnisbar Eden

Kiel, Schleswig-Holstein

On-Premise Club

Erlebnisbar Eden occupies a central address on Flämische Straße in Kiel's city core. The venue bills itself as "the number one for frivolous nightlife in Northern Germany" and operates under the tagline "Frivol – Erotisch – Anders" (Frivolous – Erotic – Different). It positions itself explicitly as neither a brothel nor a traditional nightclub, but as an erotic experience bar and disco open to couples, singles, and LGBTQ+ guests — lesbian, gay, and trans visitors are expressly welcomed. It is one of two locations run under the Eden brand, the other being in Hamburg's Jenfeld district. The space is arranged across two levels. The main floor carries a dance floor, a large bar, and three oversized red leather seating areas, along with a smaller lounge adjacent to the restrooms. The lower level holds a couples lounge with seating and a whirlpool. Amenities include shower facilities and a games and entertainment area. The venue describes its atmosphere as cosy and elegantly furnished, with a social and open-minded tone throughout. Opening hours and entry prices are not currently listed online; prospective visitors should contact the venue directly before attending. Payment by cash and EC-card is accepted. Solo men are admitted only by invitation or when accompanying a couple, and may access designated areas only. Dress code across the Eden brand calls for sexy or frivolous attire. The building is not wheelchair accessible and has no on-site parking.

KitKat Club

Berlin, Berlin

On-Premise Club

Founded in March 1994 by Austrian filmmaker Simon Thaur and his partner Kirsten Krueger, KitKatClub is one of Berlin's most internationally recognised sex-positive nightclubs. Operating since 2007 from an industrial building in Berlin-Mitte at Koepenicker Strasse 76, the club takes its name from the fictional venue in the musical Cabaret, a deliberate reference to the erotic freedoms of Weimar-era Berlin the founders set out to revive. Its founding principle, do what you want but stay in communication, underpins a sex-positive, queer-inclusive culture that has attracted a cosmopolitan international crowd over three decades. The multi-level venue centres on three dancefloors -- the Main Floor, the Dragon Floor, and the lower Prisma Bar -- supported by seven bars, a candy counter, and a salon chill-out area. A dedicated BDSM space and private rooms occupy the lower floors; outside, a semi-covered terrace holds a swimming pool and sauna. Ultraviolet lighting throughout illuminates fluorescent murals by Berlin artist Vigor Calma. Free cloakroom and changing facilities allow guests to arrive in street clothes and transform on site. The weekly flagship is CarneBall Bizarre on Saturdays, with a Come Together pre-party from 20:00 opening the pool and sauna before main doors at 23:00, running into Sunday morning. Fridays rotate among Fourplay, GEGEN, Mystic Rose, and PIEPSHOW; Wednesdays host Symbiotikka; Mondays run Electric Monday with the most relaxed dress code of the week. Sunday mornings bring the Nachspiel afterparty from 08:00. Entry is EUR15-25 by event, cash only; an ATM stands immediately outside. Photo ID proving age 18 or over is required. A fetish-forward dress code -- latex, leather, PVC, lingerie, elaborate costume -- is enforced across all nights; jeans, plain t-shirts, and standard streetwear are refused.

Insomnia Hedonistic Nightclub

Berlin, Berlin

On-Premise Club

Insomnia occupies a Gründerzeit ballroom built in 1911–12 on Alt Tempelhof in southern Berlin — a listed historic venue that has hosted the club's hedonistic party series since its founding in 1996, and permanently since 17 February 2006. The interior spans two dance floors, dedicated BDSM playrooms, a voyeur zone with performance stage, communal jacuzzi and showers, designer lounge furniture, and a cash bar; an awareness team is present at all events. Party nights run Tuesday through Saturday, with themed programming across swinger, fetish, BDSM, and queer-inclusive formats. International DJs anchor sets in techno, dark-wave, and gothic electronic genres. An on-site adult boutique offers last-minute essentials. The club markets explicitly to couples, singles of all genders, trios, and polyamorous communities, and operates a dedicated 'My First Time' page guiding newcomers through its etiquette and layout. Entry requires sexy, fetish, or elegant evening wear — erotic lingerie, BDSM attire, themed costumes, and daring outfits are encouraged; casual streetwear and trainers are refused at the door. The venue is cash-only and photo-prohibition-enforced: mobile phones must be checked to the cloakroom on entry, and photography is prohibited throughout. Age minimum is 18 with photo ID.

Avarus Swingerclub

Berlin, Berlin

On-Premise Club

Avarus is widely regarded as one of the most beautiful swingers clubs in Berlin, hidden away on the 5th floor of an apartment building in the Wedding district. Step inside and you'll find an elegant world of premium wellness — Finnish sauna, Roman steam bath, a love pool serviced by a 36,000-litre-per-hour filtration system, and an experience shower — seamlessly blended with stylish play areas and intimate social spaces. Every visit is all-inclusive: entry covers all drinks and a hot & cold buffet, so there's nothing to think about but enjoying the evening. The event calendar keeps things fresh with couples-only Saturdays, Orgasm Nights, Bi-Parties, Darkroom Parties, and BDSM nights in the adjacent Menagerie venue. The signature "Chocolate Sunday" — featuring edible liquid chocolate in the steam bath — is an experience you won't find anywhere else. Staff speaks English and the club warmly welcomes international guests alongside its loyal local crowd. The house philosophy says it all: everything is allowed, nothing is mandatory. LGBTQ+ friendly. Couples and newbie friendly.

Club Equinoxe

Hamburg, Hamburg

On-Premise Club

Club Equinoxe occupies a converted former cinema on Eiffestrasse 584 in Hamburg's Hamm district, billing itself as northern Germany's largest swinger club. The venue spans roughly 1,000 square metres across three distinct areas, running parties every Friday and Saturday for couples, single women, and a managed quota of single men, set to weekly DJ sets and a rotating calendar of themed nights. The main room is a large discotheque with an elevated mezzanine lounge and dedicated dance floor, centred on a fully licensed cocktail bar. Beyond the dance floor the space extends into lockable changing rooms with individual lockers, shower facilities stocked with complimentary hygiene products, an SM play area, and a series of private separees. Towels and condoms are provided throughout. The dress code is applied without compromise at the entrance - sexy or formal-elegant attire is the baseline - and entry staff assess footwear as part of the check, with no negotiation on the door. All payments are cash only, at the door and at the bar. Doors open at 21:00 on both nights, closing at 03:00 on Fridays and 04:00 on Saturdays. The event calendar rotates through recurring formats including Never Bi Alone (a bi-inclusive Friday), cocktail-and-Latin evenings, dance-and-erotic parties, and the age-capped Young & Selected gatherings for guests up to 39. The minimum age throughout is 21. Single men must register online in advance, but a confirmed booking is not a guaranteed entry pass - final admission is decided at the door based on the prevailing gender balance - and no-shows are permanently banned from the booking system. Unsolicited touching is prohibited without exception, with violations resulting in immediate and permanent exclusion.

On-Premise Club

KOW2

Hamburg, Hamburg

erotic bar / lifestyle bar

KOW2 — self-billed as "die älteste frivole Bar Hamburgs" (Hamburg's oldest frivolous bar) — occupies Luisenweg 119 in the Hamm district, a short distance east of Hamburg's city centre. Operated by Kay Lederer Unterhaltungsgastronomie, it runs as an erotic lifestyle bar for singles and couples of all genders and sexual orientations, with the stated aim of providing a welcoming atmosphere rather than the scale and anonymity of a large club. The house rules position consent as non-negotiable and make explicit that all guests are to be treated with equal respect regardless of gender or sexual orientation. The venue combines a bar and small dance floor with two dedicated playrooms equipped for BDSM and SM play — fittings include a glory hole and a gynaecological chair. Changing rooms and showers are located in the basement level. Hygiene supplies, towels, and complimentary snacks are provided free of charge, and free surface parking is available on-site. Payment is accepted by EC/debit card or cash. Regular opening nights run Thursday (20:00–03:00) and Friday and Saturday (20:00–04:00), with two monthly specials: the first Wednesday of each month (18:00–01:00, a mixed all-welcome event) and the last Sunday of each month (19:00–01:00, a dedicated BDSM Playnight). There is no admission charge, but minimum spend rules apply — €15 for women, €25 for couples, and a €30 mandatory first-drink purchase for solo men. The dress code specifies erotic or smart attire; printed T-shirts, shorts, sweatpants, and open-toed shoes on men are refused at the door. Photography and phone use are prohibited throughout the entire venue.

Claudia's Dreamlight

Nürnberg, Bavaria

Swinger Club

Claudia’s Dreamlight is a long-established swinger club in the Ziegelstein district of northern Nürnberg, Bavaria, operated by Claudia Schneider through her company Dreamlight GmbH. Schneider, who first opened a lifestyle venue in Amberg roughly three decades ago, has run the Nürnberg location for approximately twenty years, making it one of the city’s most enduring lifestyle venues. The club operates on an all-inclusive erotic party model — open to couples, single women, and single men — underpinned by a consent-first house philosophy: a no is a no, and courtesy between guests is enforced. The venue spans approximately 1,000 square metres across two floors. The ground level holds a fully staffed bar, lounge seating areas, a buffet counter, a dance floor with a pole, sauna, and showers. An upper floor of themed playrooms — including a mirror room, jungle room, Egyptian suite, baroque room, blue room, cuddle room, and an 80-square-metre BDSM area — opens on Friday and Saturday evenings once a threshold of roughly seventy advance Joyclub registrations is reached. All entry prices cover unlimited drinks (including alcohol and spirits), a hot-and-cold buffet, towels, bathrobes, condoms, and hygiene supplies. A seasonal outdoor garden with a smoking terrace rounds out the facilities. The club operates three sessions per week: Wednesday afternoons (10:00–17:00), Friday evenings (18:00–01:00), and Saturday nights (20:00–03:00). Door prices, quoted from the club’s own site, are €60/€90/€100 for couples, €20/€25/€30 for single women, and €110/€120/€130 for single men (Wednesday/Friday/Saturday). A €10 refundable locker-key deposit applies; payment is cash only. Joyclub members who pre-register for events receive a discounted rate. The dress code is strictly enforced: women in lingerie, clubwear, or fetish attire; men in fitted clubwear or fetish clothing — jeans and street clothes are refused at the door. Mobile phones and photography are prohibited throughout the premises.

Swingerclub Savannah

Zwochau, Saxony

On-Premise Club

Swingerclub Savannah occupies a purpose-built venue in Zwochau, a small Saxon village roughly 20 kilometres north of Leipzig near Wiedemar, and operates under Savannah GmbH. The club has established a strong reputation across the eastern German lifestyle scene — regulars on review platforms describe it as 'der beste im Osten Deutschlands' — and draws up to 200 guests per night, with an average age squarely in the mid-to-late thirties. Free parking sits directly in front of the building, an on-site club hotel accommodates overnight stays, and the rural location lends the place the feel of a considered retreat rather than a city-centre nightclub. The 850 m² building is organised around a central bar and dance floor, flanked by self-service drink stations stocked with water, prosecco, and beer; cocktails and a broad selection of spirits are served from the bar, and the all-inclusive entry price covers everything except premium champagne and certain luxury labels. A buffet — spanning hot dishes, vegan options, and sweets — is continuously restocked until around 2 a.m. The wellness area adds a sauna, an indoor whirlpool, and an outdoor jacuzzi on a heated terrace, while a separate outdoor smoking area keeps the interior smoke-free throughout. Play spaces run to roughly twenty rooms in different configurations: lockable private rooms, a mirror room, a darkroom, a cinema room, a voyeur room, a massage area, an SM/BDSM zone fitted with a cage and a gynaecological chair, and open areas spread across large mattresses. Towels, lotions, and condoms are provided throughout. One golocal reviewer described the ambiance as 'betörendes Licht, leise Musik und angenehme Düfte' (enchanting light, soft music, pleasant scents), and staff run a rigorous cleaning rotation between uses. Regular party nights run Friday and Saturday, doors opening at 20:00 and running to 03:00. Entry is all-inclusive and priced accordingly: approximately €130–140 for couples, €120–130 for single men, and €49–55 for single women; JoyClub members receive a modest discount. Tickets are booked in advance through savannah-club.com, which also lists the schedule of themed evenings — including periodic Wellness Sunday sessions — held throughout the year. On arrival, the owners personally greet every first-time visitor and walk them through the full venue. The dress code is applied strictly at the door: men in black dress trousers, a dress shirt, and closed shoes; women in a little black dress, lingerie, or equivalently dressed-up attire.

Weißes Haus Staßfurt

Staßfurt, Saxony-Anhalt

Weisses Haus is a couples and singles swinger club that has operated from Hauerstrasse 13 in Stassfurt, a small town in Saxony-Anhalt, since 1996. Run by a proprietor named Susen, the club markets itself under the tagline Erotik statt Disco and frames itself as a gathering place for like-minded singles and couples with a modern outlook — explicitly not a nightclub environment. Stassfurt sits roughly equidistant between Magdeburg and Halle, and the club draws visitors from as far as Berlin and Leipzig. The venue occupies a multi-floor building centred on a foam-bath indoor pool, a sauna, a ten-person bathtub (10-Mann-Badewanne), and a themed Dschungelzimmer (jungle room). Both pool and sauna are designated non-sexual zones, marked with prohibition signage; intimate activity is reserved for other parts of the building. The club carries a 4.7-star rating from over 100 Google reviews. The weekly schedule runs across four days: Tuesday and Thursday daytime (11:00-15:00), Tuesday evening (19:00-00:00), and Friday and Saturday late-night sessions (19:00-02:00). The venue is closed Sunday, Monday and Wednesday. Entry is priced at 75 EUR for couples, 20 EUR for single women, and 90 EUR for single men; TV/TS visitors pay the couple rate. All prices are stated to include everything. Hours are subject to variation — confirm directly before visiting.

Temptations Spa

Bournemouth, Dorset

Bath House

Temptations Spa occupies a premises at 172 Windham Road in the Boscombe area of Bournemouth, roughly a five-minute walk from Pokesdown railway station. The club bills itself as one of the south coast's established venues for naturists and swingers, operating seven days a week in a spa-format setting rather than as a nightclub. It welcomes couples, single women, and single men every day. The venue is built around a wet-spa core: sauna, jacuzzi, and steam room, with showers and changing facilities. A lounge area stocks complimentary beverages and snacks, and a massage room offers full-body (£25) and head/neck/back (£20) treatments — explicitly relaxation-only per the venue’s own pricing page. Three private playrooms are available for guests. The atmosphere across visitor accounts skews toward intimate and unhurried — more sauna-house than club-night — with staff described as friendly and the spaces as clean. Card payments are accepted. The club opens seven days a week: Monday and Tuesday from 4 pm to midnight, Wednesday through Thursday and Sunday from noon to midnight, and Friday and Saturday from noon to around 4 am (call ahead to confirm). Entry is priced by day and visitor category: Monday through Thursday, couples pay £10, single women £10, and single men £30; Fridays and Saturdays bring couples to £20 and single men £40; Sundays run at half-price, with couples at £15, single women at £5, and single men at £20. A loyalty scheme gives couples a free sixth visit after five paid entries, excluding Fridays and Saturdays. The venue closes on 25–26 December and 1 January, and may close earlier than advertised on quieter nights.

Secrets for Sharing

Totnes, Devon

On-Premise Club

Secrets for Sharing is a monthly lifestyle event held at a private country house set in the South Devon countryside near Littlehempston, on the outskirts of Totnes. Drawing couples and single women from across Devon, Cornwall and Somerset, it occupies a discreet rural setting whose exact address is released only to confirmed guests. The organisers' approach — no memberships, no sign-up formalities — positions it as an unusually low-barrier entry point into the South West's lifestyle scene, with an emphasis on warmth and genuine connection rather than club-night ceremony. The venue is well-equipped for a full evening and optional overnight stay. A wet area comprises a ten-seat sauna, six-seat hot tub, massage area and shower facilities with towels and lockers. Social spaces run to three chill-out lounges — one screening adult films — and a dance room with pole, while a heated covered outdoor deck provides a sheltered spot away from the main rooms. The play areas divide between a downstairs communal playroom and grope room fitted with a cage, and an upper level holding an XXX cinema room, a love-swing room and three privately lockable themed rooms, among them a 'Trailer Trash'-styled space. A licensed bar operates at below-pub prices throughout the evening, and a complimentary finger buffet is included in the entry price. Events run on the third Saturday of each month, doors opening at 20:00. Entry is £70 per couple and £35 for single women; single men are not admitted. No membership is required — guests reserve a place by phone or email and pay on arrival. An overnight stay at the property is available for those who wish to use it. The dress code calls for smart casual attire from the gentlemen and sexy, stylish dress from the ladies.

Ignite Club

West Drayton, London

On-Premise Club

Ignite Club occupies a converted commercial building at 422 Bath Road in Longford, immediately next door to the T5 Premier Inn on the edge of Heathrow Airport's perimeter — a location that draws a mixed clientele of international travellers and local regulars alike. Formerly operating under the name AbFab (and, earlier, Kestrels), the venue now runs as a private members' club with two distinct identities: a naturist day spa open most days of the week and a programmed swinger and lifestyle events venue on Friday and Saturday evenings. The social areas include a licensed bar, a lounge, and a dance floor. Wet facilities centre on a large heated pool alongside hot tubs, a sauna, a steam room, and showers, with lockers and on-site parking available. Play spaces encompass private cabin rooms, a couples-and-ladies-only room, a dark room, and a kink-equipped dungeon. The club presents itself as body-positive and consent-driven. LGBTQ+ programming is a regular fixture: Monday evenings host a clothing-optional bi-night and Wednesday evenings run clothing-optional sessions open to all members. Themed weekend parties — Flirt and Fling nights, Asian Darkside events, and seasonal BBQ evenings — supplement the standard Friday and Saturday schedule. The naturist spa operates Monday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, and Sunday from 11am. Evening parties run Fridays and Saturdays from 9pm to 2am, with last entry at 11:30pm. Standard evening admission is £40 per couple and £17 for solo women; solo men pay £50 plus a compulsory £10 deposit and must pre-book via a guest list that opens each Monday at 9am. Some Saturday nights are reserved for couples and single ladies only at £50 per couple, from which single men are excluded entirely. Annual membership costs £25 per person; new members must present two forms of ID on first visit. The club defines couples as male and female only.

Within Temptation

Torquay, Devon

On-Premise Club

Within Temptation is a licensed swingers and kink club on Lower Union Lane, a side street in central Torquay, Devon. Holding a Sex Entertainment Venue Licence granted by Torbay Council in May 2024, the venue has operated at this site since 2021. It caters to couples, single women, and — on most events — single men in a consent-focused adult social environment that mixes swinging and BDSM/fetish interests under one roof. The space runs across two floors. Ground level holds a fully licensed bar with a VIP section and table service, a dance floor, a pole lounge, a beer garden, a heated indoor pool (10–14 person capacity), a sauna (6–8 person capacity), and a dungeon fitted with a St Andrews Cross, Tau Chair, O Tower, and play benches; a disabled toilet and full wheelchair access serve this level. The upstairs play floor holds six gloryholes, two private playrooms (one en-suite), an open group bed, a first-floor stage area, and a 12-person communal shower. Microfibre towels are complimentary, robes and fluffy towels are available for £1 each, lockers operate on a key-exchange basis, and condoms and lubricant are provided throughout. The main programme runs Friday and Saturday, 20:00 to 02:00, with last entry at 23:30 (midnight by arrangement). The calendar rotates weekly-themed nights: Newbie Night, Bi-Gasm (couples and women; single men by invitation only), Bare Bones kink parties (no single men), and Hotwife's Hunger (free entry for women verified via FabSwingers). Private hire is available on weekdays. From September 2026 membership is compulsory: annual passes cost £30 (women), £50 (couples), or £60 (single men); four-month passes cost £15, £25, or £30 respectively. Day passes, which include membership and entry, are £15 for women and £40 for couples or single men. Single men are admitted subject to a strict gender-ratio cap and are advised to arrive promptly at opening.

The Menagerie Brighton

Brighton, East Sussex

Event Organizer

The Menagerie is a Brighton-based event series for the sex-positive and ethically non-monogamous (ENM) community, operating as a roving collective rather than a fixed-premises club. Its tagline — Desire, Consent, Pleasure — signals the organising philosophy: events are explicitly framed not as a sex club but as 'an intimate event for people who want to explore giving and receiving pleasure,' with connection and safety placed alongside appetite. The series runs two distinct formats: open social mixers held monthly at rotating licensed venues across Brighton, and private play parties held at a vetted, undisclosed central Brighton location. The social mixers — held at queer-owned and queer-friendly bars including The Archives and The Greenhouse — are capped at between 50 and 65 guests depending on the venue. The atmosphere is deliberately low-key: cosy lighting, soft music, and a pub-appropriate dress code ('express yourself and feel comfortable, but keep it pub-appropriate — explicit kink wear and lingerie might be best left for other occasions'). No sexual activity takes place at the socials; they function as a community meet-and-greet as well as an in-person vetting step. The play parties draw a smaller, fully vetted crowd of around 40 guests at the undisclosed address. The community skews poly, queer, and LGBTQ+-inclusive throughout. Socials run monthly — most commonly on Thursdays or Wednesdays — from 20:00 to midnight, with a minimum age of 21. Attendance at a social is a prerequisite for play party admission: prospective attendees must be vetted in person before a play party invitation is extended, and attending a social carries no automatic guarantee of future event access. The Menagerie website and its Skiddle listings are the primary booking channels.

Route 69

Weston-super-Mare, Somerset

On-Premise Club

Route 69 occupies a basement space on the High Street in central Weston-super-Mare, Somerset — a long-running licensed lifestyle venue that bills itself as the South West's Friendliest Adult Club. The venue operates on a deliberately compact model, non-pushy in its approach, with staff who personally walk first-time visitors around the space before the evening gets under way. It welcomes straight and LGBT+ guests alike and pitches its atmosphere firmly on the social side of the spectrum. The venue is arranged around a lounge with a fully licensed bar, three lockable playrooms — one of which incorporates a gloryhole with a coverable viewing window — and a dungeon equipped with a St Andrew's Cross, a play swing, and stocks. Lockers are available on a key-swap system, and a heated, covered outdoor smoking area sits at the rear of the building. Towels, lube, wipes and condoms are stocked in every playroom; cock rings and wax candles are available at the bar. CCTV covers the social areas, though there are no showers on site. Themed nights — Greedy Girls evenings, BDSM nights, bi nights and monthly special parties — run through the calendar alongside regular weekly sessions. The club operates sessions on Fridays and Saturdays from 20:00 to 02:00, and Sundays from 14:00 to 22:00; last entry is two hours before closing in all cases. All entry requires advance booking through Eventbrite; the venue no longer accepts walk-ins or phone bookings. The minimum age is 25. Single-male attendance is permitted but numbers are capped per session, and early booking is advised. Entry pricing on Fridays and Saturdays is £35 for single men, £25 for couples, £15 for TS/TV guests, and £10 for single women; Sunday rates are exactly half.

On-Premise Club

Decadance is a three-floor swingers club at 122 Durham Street in Rochdale, Greater Manchester, that has been operating for over a decade — its fourteenth birthday falls in September 2026. The club runs on a no-membership, no-guestlist model and opens four nights a week. Self-described as female-run, it centres its ethos on consent, safety, and a relaxed social atmosphere. The venue spans three floors of a converted building. The ground floor holds a fully licensed bar, a pool table, toilets, and sauna; the first floor, reached by a steep staircase, contains the playrooms, shower facilities, and an outdoor balcony — the designated smoking area and the only space where mobile phones may be used. The basement is reached via a very steep curved staircase and houses the BDSM dungeon. Towels, lockers, and condoms are included in the entry price, as is pool-table use. Photography and recording are banned throughout the venue. The weekly schedule runs Monday Funday (13:00–18:00), Friday Night Madness (20:00–02:00), SeXXXy Saturday (20:00–02:00), and Spicy Sunday (15:00–22:00). The first Friday of each month hosts a dedicated newcomer night called Cherry Popper. No membership is required. Entry is £25 for single men (£20 on Sundays and Mondays), £15 for couples (£10 on Sundays and Mondays), £10 for trans guests, and always free for single women. A Challenge 25 ID policy is in operation; only passports and driving licences are accepted. Casual dress is permitted in the bar and social areas, but playroom access requires changing into underwear, a towel, fetish wear, or nudity — street clothes are not allowed upstairs. A zero-tolerance drugs policy results in a lifetime ban and referral to police.

Maxwell Manor

Chorley, Lancashire

On-Premise Club

Maxwell Manor occupies the converted shell of the former Potters Arms pub on Brooke Street in Chorley, Lancashire, a community local that served the town for more than thirty-five years before closing in September 2024. Opened in 2025 by Liana Rainford and Patrick Wolff, the venue operates as a members-only adult social club with an explicitly inclusive ethos — describing itself as a safe space open to straight, gay, bi, trans, queer, pansexual, kinky, asexual, and curious members alike. The original pub frontage has been bricked up; guests arrive discreetly through a rear entrance. The interior has been refurbished with themed sets and bespoke furnishings, and the venue holds a full premises licence for alcohol and entertainment. A licensed bar operates at every event, and on-site lockers store members belongings — phones must be deposited for the entire visit. The space doubles as a professional photography and videography studio available for separate hire. On-site parking is limited; paid car parks are available nearby, and several hotels are within easy reach for travelling members. The programme runs to 2am and covers ticketed club nights, play parties, and workshops. Recurring formats include singles nights, couples-only gatherings, all-female club nights, kink and fetish play parties, FemDom evenings, and dominance workshops. Attendance requires annual membership: £20 for single women, £25 for single men, and £35 for couples, with an additional charge for specialist event nights. Event tickets are non-refundable, must match the members name exactly, and dress codes vary per event as detailed on individual tickets.

Club Alchemy

Northwich, Cheshire

On-Premise Club

Club Alchemy is an adult lifestyle venue occupying Mallingham House on Winnington Lane, a discreet site on the outskirts of Northwich in Cheshire. It operates exclusively on an event-based model — no nightly trading — running a calendar of themed parties for couples, single ladies, and, on selected nights, a limited number of single men. The building encompasses multiple designated play spaces alongside a dungeon, a spa area with saunas and a jacuzzi, and an outdoor deck; wet areas are consistently cited as a highlight by attendees. A licensed bar operates on a fully cashless basis, with drinks frequently described by guests as well-priced. Reviewers characterise the overall feel as ‘huge but still intimate,’ crediting thoughtful layout and attentive floor staff. The club carries a strong LGBTQ+-inclusive identity, hosting dedicated Bi-Day and Bi Friday events alongside a rotating programme of specialist nights including Dark Velvet (an interracial night, trans-inclusive), Curve Nation (body-positive), U2-4-US2 (couples and single ladies only), and seasonal Temptations parties. Phones and cameras are prohibited throughout the venue, lockers are mandatory, and arrival is via a CCTV-monitored private car park. Events typically open at 8:30–9pm and run until 2:30–3am. Tickets are sold in advance online; pricing varies by event — single ladies from £15, couples from £35, and single men from approximately £45. Single male attendance is capped per event to maintain balance, and certain events exclude single men entirely. A zero-tolerance consent policy is enforced by visible on-site security and active floor staff throughout the night.

Quest Swingers Club

Leeds, West Yorkshire

Private members' society

Quest Swingers Club is a private members' society on Low Road in the Hunslet district of south Leeds, founded by couple Jo and Dave — who began hosting lifestyle parties from home in 1999 — and formally opened in November 2001. Now in its third decade, the club accommodates up to 200 guests per session and welcomes open-minded couples and singles aged 21 and over. Its programme spans mainstream swinging nights, dedicated bisexual evenings, events for T-Girls, cross-dressers and their admirers, fetish and kink sessions, and a calendar of themed costume parties, making it one of the more programmatically diverse clubs in West Yorkshire. The venue is arranged around a main social lounge, a licensed bar, the Red Room, and a Jacuzzi Lounge. The wet area houses an eight-person hot tub, hot-and-cold showers, a sauna, and a steam room; sexual activity in the hot tub is explicitly prohibited. Dungeon equipment is available on site, and member reviews cite a cinema room as a popular feature. Separate spacious changing facilities serve all genders and lockers are provided. An on-site car park screened from the road offers convenient private access. The layout is largely wheelchair-navigable: corridors are wide and an accessible restroom is available. Staff walk new visitors through the venue before each session, and every night opens as a social gathering, with anything further governed entirely by individual consent. Sessions run six days a week. Daytime sessions — Wednesday Afternoon Fun (11:00–18:00), Friday Afternoon Fun (11:00–18:00), and Funday Sunday (13:00–22:00) — are open to non-members and priced at £15 per couple, £10 for single females, and £25 for single males. Bi Tuesdays (11:00–23:00) and Thursday Afternoon (T-Girls, CDs & Admirers, 11:00–18:00) are also open to non-members at equivalent rates. The members-only Midweek Chill Night (Wednesday evenings, 19:00–23:00) is £20 per couple, £10 for single females, and £30 for single males. Alternate-Saturday M&N Party Nights (20:30–02:00) are members-only at around £30 per couple and £30–35 for single males. Membership costs £10 for couples, £5 for ladies, and £25 for single males. All visitors must present valid physical photo ID; digital copies are not accepted. Mobile phones, cameras, and recording devices must be switched off and kept out of sight throughout a visit.

Townhouse

Birkenhead, Merseyside

Swinger / Lifestyle Club

Townhouse is a licensed lifestyle venue at 9 Union Street in Tranmere, Birkenhead, on the Wirral peninsula across the Mersey from Liverpool. Founded in 2005 and taken over by co-owners Vicky and Jim in 2012, it operates under a Sexual Entertainment Venue licence granted by Wirral Council and serves the swinging, BDSM/fetish, and LGBTQ+ communities. With over 25,000 registered members and a staff of more than 60, it is one of the largest lifestyle venues in the North West of England, drawing regulars from across the UK, Ireland, and mainland Europe. The venue spans four floors: a ground-floor bar and dance floor with a pole sets a sociable tone before guests venture upstairs to eight playrooms. These include a dungeon fitted with a St Andrews cross, suspension points, bondage beds, cages, and rope; a medical-fantasy Klinik with an inspection chair and leg stirrups; a wet room housing a hot tub, steam room, and waterfall showers; two private rooms; and a group play area. Free condoms — including latex-free options — are provided throughout; towels can be hired at the door for £1. The venue partners with Sahir House for on-site HIV and STI testing. No CCTV operates in playrooms or changing rooms, and mobile phones are banned throughout the building except at reception under manager supervision. Events run from a calendar of more than 35 named formats: daytime MILF Monday sessions, midweek evening parties on Tuesdays and Thursdays, and main nights on Fridays and Saturdays with doors at 8pm and close at 2am. Specialist programming includes all-female Ruby Slippers parties, BDSM and rope nights, FemDom afternoons, pet-play events, and a monthly Queer Space Social for LGBTQ+ guests. Annual membership is £10 per person; all events are advance-ticket only with no walk-in entry. Photo ID is checked at the door alongside a biometric fingerprint scan. Dress code requires smart casual before 10:30pm; club attire upstairs is mandatory after that.

Shhh Newcastle Swingers Club

Newcastle upon Tyne, Tyne and Wear

On-Premise Club

Shhh Newcastle Swingers Club occupies a multi-storey premises at 85-89 Blandford Street in Newcastle city centre, roughly five minutes' walk from both Newcastle Central rail station and the Tyne and Wear Metro. Operating since 2018 and formerly trading as Shhh... by Base, the club underwent a full refurbishment in 2021 — installing a new jacuzzi, updating the playrooms, and adding a discreet rear entrance — and bills itself as the only venue of its kind in Newcastle upon Tyne. With a stated capacity of 200, the club places a strong emphasis on inclusivity: the space is LGBTQ+-welcoming and explicitly trans-friendly, with reduced or complimentary entry for trans guests on most nights. The venue spans two floors. Downstairs sits a fully licensed bar, a lounge, a dance floor, and spacious changing rooms with secure lockers; upstairs are the playrooms — including a cinema room, private zones, and a dungeon — alongside a sauna, steam room, jacuzzi, an internet room, and an outdoor seating area. First-time visitors receive a guided tour before being issued a membership card and locker key. Reviews describe a clean, no-pressure atmosphere with staff consistently praised for attentiveness to safety and comfort. Complimentary condoms (standard, king-size, and latex-free), lubricant, and dental dams are provided at reception and throughout the bar; the first towel is free and additional towels are £1 each. Overnight stays are available on party and fetish nights, with private or shared rooms at £15 per person and morning refreshments served between 9am and 11am. The club runs Wednesday through Sunday. Wednesday afternoons host a mixed swingers session (couples £20, singles £10); Thursday is a Flip Flop bisex night (couples £10, singles £5, trans guests free); Friday's #FetishFriday admits couples at £10, single women at £5, and single men at £20; Saturday's Swingers Circus is the main weekly event (couples and single men £25, women £10); and Sunday is a men-only play day. On Friday fetish and Saturday nights, guests may supplement the licensed bar with their own alcohol for a £2.50 corkage fee. Membership requires completing an application form and presenting valid photo ID: a driving licence showing the current address is preferred and sufficient alone, while a passport must be accompanied by a utility bill, council tax bill, or bank statement. Before 11pm the dress code is smart and glamorous; after 11pm, access to upstairs play areas requires appropriate attire — lingerie, a wrap, robe, or towel — and trainers, sportswear, and hoodies are prohibited throughout.

Fata-Morgana

Muiden, Noord-Holland

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Fata-Morgana is a couples-oriented lifestyle club set inside a three-storey converted farmhouse at Rijksweg 15 in Muiden, Noord-Holland, roughly ten minutes by car from Amsterdam along the A1 motorway — take junction 3 toward Muiden and Weesp. Free parking is available on site. The club operates on an all-inclusive model with no membership requirement: a single entry fee covers food, A-brand drinks including alcohol, towels, and condoms for the duration of the evening. The three floors of the farmhouse hold a wide spread of social and erotic spaces. The main level accommodates a dance floor with resident DJs, a restaurant serving an extended buffet, and a full bar; a sauna complex, whirlpool, and both indoor and outdoor swimming pools round out the leisure areas, with a VIP lounge with fireplace, covered terrace, sun lawn, and gardens providing quieter spaces for socialising. Upper floors house an open group loft, a darkroom, an SM room with equipment, massage rooms, and private lockable chambers. The club opens on Fridays from 21:00 to 03:00 at €150 per couple, and on Saturdays from 21:00 to 04:00 at €180 per couple. Solo women are admitted at half the couple rate. Single men are not permitted under any circumstances. Dress code is strictly enforced on entry and throughout: erotic, provocative, or club-wear is required; men are expected in boxers with an optional shirt; regular street clothing, swimwear, and sportswear are not permitted inside the building. Advance booking is recommended, particularly for Saturday evenings. Payment is accepted by cash, PIN, Visa, Mastercard, American Express, UnionPay, JCB, and Bancontact.