XCLUSIV Lifestyle (XL)
Houston, TX, USA
Lifestyle Resort
Updated Aug 4, 2026
9635 North Houston Rosslyn Rd., Houston, TX 77088
Houston, TX
+18328457194
Phone
xclusivlifestyle.com
Website
Membership Required
Couples: $10/night, $20/mo, $60/3mo; Single Ladies: $30/yr; Single Gents: $40/mo, $120/3mo
21+
Age Requirement
Hours
Fri21:00–05:00
Sat21:00–05:00
Sun21:00–03:00
Event Pricing
Couples$60 Fri / $80 Sat / $40 Sun
Single woman$20 Fri / $25 Sat / $20 Sun
Single man$80 Fri / $120 Sat / $60 Sun
Single ladies welcome
Reviews
Rated 5.0 out of 5 on Google from 7 reviews.
What reviewers say
Public review coverage for XCLUSIV Lifestyle is thin and currently limited to Google, where a small handful of reviewers (7, averaging 5.0) describe an upscale, clean, well-run lifestyle venue. Visitors mention a friendly, non-judgmental crowd spanning beginners to experienced players, a BYOB policy, distinct room areas (including an upstairs space and outdoor setting), accommodating staff, and a DJ/music setup they enjoyed.
Because the review base is still so small and confined to one platform, these should be read as early, uniformly positive impressions rather than an established consensus — there isn't yet enough volume to identify a recurring complaint or friction point.
Summarized by Find Lifestyle Clubs from public reviews. Ratings and counts are each platform's own — read the original reviews via the links above.
About
Tucked into north Houston near the 77073 zip code, XCLUSIV Lifestyle (XL) is the area's upscale, members-only lifestyle event centre for open-minded adults drawn from across Texas and Louisiana. The venue runs Thursday through Sunday with Friday and Saturday nights going until 5AM and Sunday wrapping at 3AM, pulling in regulars from Houston, Dallas, Austin, San Antonio, Beaumont, and New Orleans. Membership is required but can be obtained at the door with a valid government-issued photo ID; all guests must be 21 or older. XL is fully cashless and BYOB with on-site mixers available. A live DJ, VIP sections, a dance floor, intimate lounge, showers, and a suite of themed playrooms fill out the space. Dress code is upscale and sexy, with a strict prohibited-items list covering shorts, sneakers, tank tops, and caps. Saturday single-gent entry is limited and requires advance RSVP. The club offers private event hire, affiliate travel packages to Desire and Temptation resorts, and maintains a FetLife community presence. Security cameras cover all public spaces while private areas are excluded. Photography and video require express written approval from management. Consent is core to the culture — non-consensual behaviour results in immediate removal without refund.
Amenities & Features
Highlights
BYOBLGBTQ+ FriendlyNewbie Friendly
Facilities
LoungeDJSmoking Area
Vibe & Atmosphere
Members-onlyUpscaleCashlessDress-code-enforcedCouples-friendlySingle-ladies-welcomeLimited-single-gents21-plusNo-photographyConsent-culturePrivate-eventsThemed-eventsOpen-mindedHouston
Languages
en
Location
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