🍾
BYOB Lifestyle Clubs in New York
7 clubs
As of 2026, New York has 7 byob lifestyle clubs. They're spread across 5 cities, led by New York (3), Astoria (1), Brooklyn (1).
Caligula New York
Astoria, NY
Swingers Club
Swinger-clubOn-premiseCouples-friendlyByob+11
Hacienda
Brooklyn, NY
On-Premise Club
Consent-focusedMembers-onlyLgbtq-friendlyBipoc-friendly+10
Lavish Lifestyle Events
Hauppauge, NY
Event Organizer
UpscaleCouplesSingles-welcomeThemed-events+8
Checkmate NYC
New York, NY
On-Premise Club
Couples-onlyVelvet-ropeUpscaleSelective+9
Club Labyrinth NYC
New York, NY
On-Premise Club
Members-onlyKink-friendlySwingerCouples+10
IntimatePartiesGroup (IPG)
New York, NY
Event Organizer
Hotel-takeoverCouples-onlyByobIndoor-pool+10
The Loft Club
Ronkonkoma, NY
Newbie-friendlyZero-pressureCouples-focusedSingle-ladies-welcome+9
Closed venues
2No longer operating — kept for reference and venue history.
