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Single Women Welcome Lifestyle Clubs in New York
5 clubs
As of 2026, New York has 5 single women welcome lifestyle clubs. They're spread across 4 cities, led by New York (2), Brooklyn (1), Ronkonkoma (1).
Hacienda
Brooklyn, NY
On-Premise Club
Consent-focusedMembers-onlyLgbtq-friendlyBipoc-friendly+10
Checkmate NYC
New York, NY
On-Premise Club
Couples-onlyVelvet-ropeUpscaleSelective+9
NSFW (New Society for Wellness)
New York, NY
On-Premise Club
Members-onlySex-positiveLgbtq-friendlyBi-friendly+10
The Loft Club
Ronkonkoma, NY
Newbie-friendlyZero-pressureCouples-focusedSingle-ladies-welcome+9
Syracuse Social Club / Syracuse Speak Easy
Syracuse, NY
Couples-welcomeSingle-women-welcomeOff-premiseApplication-only+6
Closed venues
2No longer operating — kept for reference and venue history.
