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The Sanctuary (Tabu Swingers Sanctuary)

Lansing, MI

Alternative Lifestyle Lounge

Club Tabu, operating its social nights under the name "The Sanctuary," is an adults-only alternative lifestyle lounge located within Fantasies Unlimited, an adult retail store at 3208 S. Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd. in Lansing, Michigan. Despite carrying "swingers" in its social-media name, the venue's own site describes it as rooted in the LGBTQ+ community and states plainly that "the club is not structured as a traditional swingers venue," with its primary audience being gay, bi, trans, and gender-diverse guests, though it says it welcomes respectful guests of other identities. The space centers on a large, deliberately dark and winding maze of pathways and walls, along with private booths, a changing area with lockers, and common social areas. The atmosphere is described as sex-positive and kink-aware, with an emphasis on privacy, discretion, and guest-controlled pacing of interaction; a 2022 news investigation into the venue also referenced a glory-hole setup and a television area used for adult video viewing. Entry requires being 18+ with valid ID, and membership dues are collected per event night rather than as an ongoing membership. Patrons enter through the Fantasies Unlimited retail storefront and must tell the store clerk they are attending Club Tabu/The Sanctuary. House rules prohibit cameras and phone/recording devices inside the event space, restrict sexual activity to designated private areas, and ban loitering in parking lots or common areas; illegal drugs and disrespectful, non-consensual, or aggressive behavior result in immediate removal.

Club Labyrinth LA (Hollywood)

Closed

Hollywood, CA

On-Premise Club

Club Labyrinth LA, the Hollywood outpost of the multi-city Labyrinth swinger club brand (alongside locations in Midtown Manhattan and New Jersey), is currently closed. As of the club's own website, the Labyrinth LA events page reads "LABYRINTH LA IS CURRENTLY CLOSED — NEW LOCATION COMING SOON," directing inquiries to info@clublabyrinthla.com and inviting visitors to join a mailing list for updates. No reopening date or new address has been announced. Before closing, the club operated as a members-only, on-premise swinger and fetish venue out of an undisclosed, secluded building in Hollywood. The former space was spread across multiple levels and included group playrooms, semi-private play areas, lounge areas, individual play stations, and a dedicated BDSM play space, alongside a cigarette-smoking area and a complimentary refreshment bar serving soda, juice, water, cups, and ice. The club supplied lockers, condoms, lubricant, and towels, and described its atmosphere as dark, sexually charged, and sensual, welcoming both exhibitionists and voyeurs in a setting it billed as safe, non-judgmental, and low-pressure — guests were never required to participate. Before closing, entry required a paid Labyrinth membership (12-month for $40, 6-month for $30, or 1-week for $20), purchased online in advance, plus a nightly admission fee that varied by night and guest type. Single men needed photo verification or sponsorship by a member couple and paid a premium to help balance gender ratios, while couples were required to arrive and leave together. The club did not sell alcohol — events were BYOB with a one-bottle (or six-pack) limit per membership and a $20 surcharge — and photo ID (driver's license, government ID, or passport) was mandatory at the door.

Purple Mamba Club

West Bridgford, Nottinghamshire

On-Premise Club

Purple Mamba Club is a private members club for adults in West Bridgford, Nottingham, set behind 3-5 Radcliffe Road near Trent Bridge with a discreet rear entrance away from the main road. Operating under its own description as the Midlands' most intimate, exclusive club for liberated adults, it draws a membership predominantly of couples alongside a limited number of single ladies and gentlemen. New applicants are vetted in person with valid photo ID — membership cannot be obtained online — and a 48-hour probationary period follows before full membership is confirmed. The venue runs to a fully licensed members bar, multiple lounge areas fitted with plush furnishings and ambient lighting, a dancefloor, and a selection of private rooms ranging from a romantic bedroom and a boudoir-style space to a well-equipped dungeon. First-time visitors are met at the door by staff and taken on a guided tour before being free to explore. The club holds a 4.7-star average on Google from over 40 reviews, with visitors describing an intimate atmosphere, warm hosting, and a well-presented, respectful crowd. A broad events calendar runs alongside regular house party nights — Play Space sessions on Thursdays, lifestyle workshops for newcomer couples and single ladies, heavy play parties, and ticketed themed nights including Lace, Leather and Latex, Hotwife Soiree, and Sunday Sinners. The club opens Thursday through Sunday: Thursdays 20:00–00:00, Fridays 20:00–02:00, Saturdays 20:00–02:00, and Sundays 18:00–00:00. Annual membership is £40 per rolling year for couples and singles, with a reduced rate of £20 for students and MOD90 card holders. Entry tickets for specific event nights are purchased online and are non-refundable; advance booking is strongly advised on Fridays and Saturdays as capacity is capped. New members must apply in person; single-gent applications are currently limited and require a Sunday-evening interview. Dress code is enforced: plain shirts or suits for gents on Fridays and Saturdays, smart and sexy attire for ladies throughout. All guests must be 21 or older.

Complexe Luxuria

Montreal, Quebec

On-Premise Club

Complexe Luxuria is a members-only libertine club occupying two floors at 8820 Boulevard Saint-Laurent in Montreal's Ahuntsic-Cartierville district. Operating under a fully private club model — both a membership card and a per-night admission fee are required — it opened in 2021 and has established itself as one of Montreal's larger dedicated lifestyle venues. The typical crowd spans ages 21 to 55, with a noticeable lean toward locals in their twenties and thirties; the club positions itself as equally accessible to first-timers and regulars, welcoming couples, single women, and, under controlled conditions, single men. The ground floor functions as a nightclub: two full bars, a main dancefloor with a large disco ball, a small stage used for theatrical themed events (occasionally fitted with a hot tub), six VIP booths with the largest seating up to ten, three separate changing rooms with lockers, and LED ambient lighting throughout. An on-site kitchen serves dinner by advance reservation until 9 pm. The second-floor Luxure section holds more than 20 rooms: a couples room, fantasy rooms, a glass-walled stripper-pole room overlooking the dancefloor below, a swing room, a tantra chair, massage tables, glory holes, a BDSM area with a St. Andrews Cross, and three lockable themed private rooms available by paid reservation. A resident DJ plays every evening. The club opens Fridays from 9 pm to 3 am and Saturdays from 6 pm to 3 am, with occasional Thursday events. Couples pay 40 CAD on Thursdays and Fridays and 60 CAD on Saturdays; Saturday admission requires advance reservation. Single women enter free on all nights with a 25 CAD annual membership. Single men are admitted Thursdays and Fridays with a cap of ten per night on Fridays (75 CAD Thursdays, 100 CAD Fridays), and on Saturdays by chaperone arrangement or certified group membership at 100 CAD (maximum five). Couple memberships run from 40 CAD per month to 125 CAD per year. Photo ID is mandatory at every visit and mobile phones must be stored in a locker immediately after entry.

Event Organizer

New Paradise Club occupies Hathern House on Rempstone Road in Normanton on Soar, a quiet rural village in Leicestershire roughly equidistant between Loughborough and the A60. The club is a swingers and lifestyle venue that operates under an annual membership model and bills itself as a friendly, welcoming environment for couples and singles alike. The club runs regular themed party nights across a five-day weekly schedule: Wednesday and Thursday evenings (7pm–midnight), Friday and Saturday nights (7pm–3am), and Sunday afternoons (2pm–10pm). Dedicated bi nights and TV/admirers nights are among the event formats the club has advertised. The venue has also publicised the addition of a 20-person hot tub among its facilities. Prospective visitors are advised to contact the club directly via newparadiseclub.co.uk or on 07963 239838 for current entry prices, booking requirements, and house rules.

Members-only BDSM/lifestyle community center

Inversion MKE is a membership-based kink and BDSM community center operating at 615 S 89th St on Milwaukee's west side. The venue occupies the same commercial space as the former Club EASSEL, which operated for years as Milwaukee's BDSM and lifestyle community center. Inversion MKE, LLC obtained a three-year Special Use Permit from the Milwaukee Board of Zoning Appeals on 10 October 2024 (Case BZZA-24-00260, vote 5–0), classifying the space for zoning purposes as an indoor recreation facility. Permit conditions include a blanket prohibition on alcohol on premises at any time, adequate event staffing requirements, and no outdoor advertising beyond permitted signage. The club's community life is organized primarily through FetLife under the handle @InversionMKE, with a parallel Instagram presence at @inversionmke, reflecting its roots in established kink-community networks rather than mainstream nightlife promotion. The venue operates on a structured membership model, offering individual and couple/pair tiers. First-time guests must complete a paid orientation before attending regular events — a practice that emphasizes consent culture, community vetting, and safety briefing over open walk-in access. Memberships are non-refundable and auto-renew on monthly or annual cycles. The space positions itself as a community hub for Milwaukee's kink scene, carrying forward the regional network that had gathered around Club EASSEL at the same address, though the two operations are legally and organizationally distinct. Events run on a recurring weekly schedule: Friday and Saturday evenings are the primary play-party nights, with a shorter Tuesday slot reserved for members and sponsored guests. No alcohol is permitted on the premises at any time — a hard condition of the BOZA permit — making this a dry venue. Signage is limited by the zoning conditions, keeping the venue's street-level footprint deliberately low-key. New members are encouraged to connect through the club's FetLife and Instagram pages for current event listings and orientation scheduling.

Vancouver Velvet Club

Maple Ridge, British Columbia

On-Premise Club

Vancouver Velvet Club is a private, invitation-only lifestyle house party club operating in the greater Vancouver, British Columbia area. Serving experienced and novice couples as well as single women — and on select nights, a tightly vetted pool of single men — it operates deliberately under the radar, maintaining no social media presence of any kind and disclosing its address only after a guest secures a confirmed spot on the guest list. The club positions itself as a controlled environment for discreet adults who keep their lifestyle activities entirely separate from their everyday lives. The venue is a seven-bedroom luxury house with the entire property open for play. Large open play rooms are furnished with queen-size beds and massage tables; a dance floor doubles as an additional play area; and a connected bathroom suite includes a four-person hot tub and stand-up showers. A sex swing and a spanking bench are part of the fixtures on offer. A full buffet — hot food, fruit, and pastry — runs throughout every party, and complimentary massages are provided all evening for both men and women. A cloakroom with individually numbered cubicles handles clothing and valuables, and condoms, lube, and individual hand towels are supplied in all play areas and bathrooms. The house operates a strict open-door policy throughout; all play takes place with doors open, with rare exceptions at the host's personal discretion. Street clothes are not permitted past the registration desk — most women arrive in a coat over lingerie and change on entry. Phones must be left in individual locker cubicles; anyone circulating with a phone is escorted out by security, and all photography and video recording are banned everywhere in the venue. Parties run most Saturdays (8:30 pm to approximately 1 am) for couples, single women, and a small number of pre-selected single men, and most Fridays (8:30 pm to midnight) as Naughty Girl Fantasy nights centred on female-centric fantasy experiences with vetted single men; select Fridays are designated bisexual celebration nights open to bi couples and bi singles of all genders. There are no walk-ins: prospective guests reach out via the website contact page or directly at VancouverVelvet@gmail.com, receive a PDF email invitation with full party details, and secure their place on the guest list with an eTransfer donation, after which the house address is released. Guests check in at the registration desk by email address. Overnight bedrooms are available for a small additional donation after parties wind down at 1 am, with checkout by 11 am. Alcohol is not served; BYOB in labelled bottles is permitted. Cannabis use is welcome outdoors at the back of the house.

The Phoenix Ottawa

Ottawa, Ontario

On-Premise Club

The Phoenix Ottawa is a private members' erotic social club occupying a discreet industrial space near the Hunt Club Road and Prince of Wales Drive area in Ottawa, Ontario. The precise address is not made public and is shared only after a vetting process — prospective members email info@thephoenixottawa.com to begin. The club welcomes adults aged 18 and over regardless of gender, identity, or sexuality, and operates with an explicitly LGBTQ2A+ and kink-friendly ethos. Alongside weekly programming, the venue is available to rent for private parties. The space is built around two fully equipped BDSM dungeons, each fitted with a spanking bench, suspension point, X-cross, and sex chair, among other apparatus. Two social lounge rooms provide space for conversation and mingling, while the play areas extend to a private pink-decorated bedroom and a double-bedded open room designed for exhibitionists and voyeurs. Additional amenities include a milking table and a dedicated aftercare room. Members store belongings in on-site lockers, and the club supplies condoms, lubricant, water, and light snacks at every event. Free parking is available on-site. Alcohol and cannabis are not sold; members may bring their own, with the understanding that visible intoxication can result in removal and that all tobacco and cannabis must be consumed outdoors. Events run across five nights a week. Misbehave Monday (every Monday, 7pm–11pm) is open to all members at $30 for men and $15 for women, non-binary, and gender-non-conforming guests. Bound to Please, a BDSM and kink night, takes place every Friday (8pm–1am) at $30 per person, also open to the full membership. Swinger Saturday runs on the 1st and 3rd Saturdays (8pm–1am, $30 per person), limited to couples and single women. The 2nd and 4th Saturdays host Men'z & Friend'z — an inclusive evening for bi, gay, and queer men and those identifying as men, trans, non-binary, or fluid (8pm–1am; $25 members, $35 non-members). Fifth Saturdays bring Her Playground, a hotwife and cuckolding night (8pm–1am; $60 per couple, $50 single men, $25 single women). Membership is purchased in person after vetting: couples pay $80 per year; single men $100 per year; single women, non-binary, and GNC individuals $40 per year.

On-Premise Club

Sitting in the Victorian terraced streets of Burslem in Stoke-on-Trent's historic Potteries heartland, atlantisEVOLUTION has spent 15-plus years building its reputation as the Midlands' most recognised nightclub-themed swingers club. The venue occupies Evolution House on William Clowes Street on a private-membership basis, drawing couples and singles from across the North West and Midlands with a formula that layers nightclub production values - themed decor, resident DJs, and a multi-room layout - onto an adult lifestyle club format. Owners Cat and Tag are the constant faces behind the bar and at the door, backed by a small team whose warmth reviewers return to again and again; the venue holds a 4.6-star rating across more than 60 independent reviews. The weekly calendar divides sessions by attendance type. Fridays (9pm-2am) are open to all - couples, single males, and single females - while Saturdays (9pm-2am) are reserved for couples and single females only. Once a month on a Wednesday evening the club stages a special themed night, and the fourth Sunday of each month (3pm-8pm) becomes the dedicated EVOLUTIONfetish session. The club also runs Newbies Nights (branded Pop My Cherry), occasional orgy-party events, and sporadic hot-wife-themed evenings. Themed costume nights are a signature touch - past runs have included an all-white marquee party - but dressing up is always optional, never compulsory. Entry requires a one-off lifetime membership (20 GBP per couple or single female), taken out at the door on a first visit by presenting photo ID - a driving licence, utility bill, or bank statement. Nightly admission thereafter is 20 GBP per couple, 10 GBP for single females, and 30 GBP for single men. Soft drinks and mixers are available on-site for 2.50 GBP. The venue is compact but delivers what reviewers describe as a decent range of areas for people with different tastes - private areas and open - spread across two floors, with play spaces upstairs. Age minimum is 18 with no upper limit. The club holds a Food Standards Agency hygiene rating of Good and is partnered with Spice Lanzarote for lifestyle travel events.

Club M4 (Menage a Quatre)

Mississauga, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Club M4 — short for Ménage à Quatre — is an on-premise lifestyle and swingers club at 1989A Dundas Street East in Mississauga, Ontario, roughly twenty kilometres west of downtown Toronto. Founded in 2008, the venue operated for eleven years on Lakeshore Boulevard West before relocating in 2019 to its current ground-floor Mississauga location. It operates as a private members club — a requirement under Ontario law following the 2005 Supreme Court of Canada ruling that legalized consensual swinging in private club settings — and runs both afternoon and evening sessions seven days a week, 365 days a year. The 10,000-square-foot space is fully licensed by the Alcohol and Gaming Commission of Ontario (AGCO) and includes two bars, a large dance floor, a lounge area, and roughly 5,000 square feet of dedicated play space. A 196-locker changing facility with showers and vanity areas serves guests entering the back — condoms are distributed free throughout the play areas, and towels are provided by locker-room attendants. A rentable VIP Red Room (king-size bed, private play equipment, complimentary non-alcoholic drinks; $100 Mon–Thu, $150 Fri–Sun) adds a private option for members who want it. The club also runs a companion online social network, menageaquatre.com, where members can connect between visits. Door prices for couples are $50 CAD Sunday through Friday and Saturday afternoons, rising to $70 CAD on Saturday evenings; single women enter free at every session, while single men pay $110 CAD and are welcome all nights except Saturday evenings and New Year's Eve. A basic annual membership ($60 CAD per single or couple) is required of every guest and is purchased in person at the first visit; a VIP couples membership ($649 CAD/year, currently available at a promotional $349) covers unlimited admission including special events. A monthly Young Swingers Society (YSS) event on the last Saturday of each month offers a themed night aimed at couples in their 20s and 30s at $30 CAD per couple. Every first-time visitor receives a guided tour of the premises before being admitted to the main floor.

The Edmonton O Society (EOS) is an unincorporated, non-profit society serving Edmonton, Alberta’s erotic BDSM community. Members and guests gather twice monthly in a casual, non-judgmental setting to share company, conversation, and mutual learning about consensual erotic expression. Membership is open to adults of all genders, orientations, and relationship structures — singles and couples alike — who approach the community in good faith and with a genuine interest in BDSM. The organization anchors itself to the National Leather Association’s foundational credo: Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Beyond the regular social evenings, the EOS runs a programme of workshops covering safety and health practices, skill development, and hands-on sessions such as toy-building. Paying members also gain access to an in-house lending library stocked with books, DVDs, tapes, and other instructional materials spanning the full range of BDSM and alternative lifestyle topics, as well as discounted admission to workshop events. The EOS is explicit that it is not a swinger club, dating service, escort agency, or voyeuristic venue — its purpose is education and community-building within a consensual adult context. Events are held in private or semi-private settings rather than a fixed commercial space; venue details are shared with verified members, consistent with the privacy norms of community-run BDSM societies.

Birdhaus

Toronto, Ontario

Birdhaus is a BDSM, kink, and alternative arts event space tucked behind the big pink building at 1233R Queen Street West in Toronto's Parkdale neighbourhood. Co-owned by Miranda and Tifereth — veteran producers and performers in both the local and international alternative arts scenes — the venue opened in 2021 in the Entertainment District before relocating to Liberty Village and then expanding to its current home in 2024. The space carries roughly a century of building history and has been transformed into what the owners describe as an intimate venue for the city's avant-garde. The 2024 expansion brought a licensed bar and cocktail program alongside a significantly broader events calendar. The venue operates as a multi-use space: in-house produced events share the calendar with third-party producers including Sex Positive World, Bound Together, and BIPOC Babes. A dedicated rope education program — described on the site as inclusive, creative, comprehensive — is led by Tifereth and a team of resident educators, covering everything from beginner bondage to aerial partials and self-suspension. Weekly Tinker Tuesday sessions (Tuesdays, 19:00–23:00) serve as open rope practice jams, while structured classes and workshops run throughout the month. Private tuition is also available through individual instructors. Flagship evening events include Voyeur, a monthly cabaret and BDSM play party running 21:00–03:00 with per-person tickets priced at $50–$100 CAD, and Sweat, a leather and latex fetish party running roughly 21:30–02:30 at $30–$45 CAD per person. The calendar also features Smutty Storytelling open-mic nights, film screenings, community socials, and themed one-off events. All events are 19+ and ticketed in advance through the Birdhaus website — walk-ins are not accepted. Dress code for play parties requires fetish attire and prohibits street wear including T-shirts, jeans, and runners.

Club Safe Word is a members-only lifestyle club serving San Diego's swinging and non-monogamous community, welcoming individuals and couples of all genders and orientations. Rather than operating from a single standing venue, the club runs as an event-based membership community, holding its gatherings at rented spaces that change from event to event -- an approach reflected in a 2026 event listing tagged as a new location for the San Diego area. Programming is split into two tiers: non-play meet and greet socials designed to help newcomers get acquainted with the community, and separate, more explicit private events for members exploring further. New members are encouraged, though not required, to attend a meet-and-greet before a private event, regardless of prior experience. The club's ethos centers on consent and discretion, with members expected to remain respectful and civil and to report any consent violations to the event host or directly to club management. Site membership is optional and separate from event admission, with tiers priced from $11.49 per month (auto-renewing) up to $80.47 for a full year. Admission to individual events is ticketed per person and varies by event, with single women typically admitted free and couples and single men paying a door price that changes from gathering to gathering. Contact for the club is handled by email at info@clubsafeword.com; the club has not published a formal dress code or check-in procedure.

Le Trapeze

Closed

New York, NY

For more than three decades, Le Trapeze was New York City's most enduring couples-only sex club, occupying a distinctive space at 17 East 27th Street, between Madison and Fifth Avenues in Midtown Manhattan. The club was lodged inside the Prince George Hotel — a 1903 NYC landmark — specifically within what had been the hotel's Madison Pub, a Shakespearean English-style bar. That heritage gave the interior an incongruous warmth: stained glass windows, exposed brick, wood-beam ceilings, and wagon-wheel chandeliers imported from Europe, all of it radiating country-pub atmosphere. A nondescript exterior door carried only the name — nothing more — and a buzz-controlled entry led members into pleasantly dim, rose-tinted rooms. The layout spread across two floors. The ground level held a dance floor ringed by couches, a free soft-drink bar (alcohol BYOB, no corkage), and a buffet included with entry. A corridor off the bar led to four private rooms with locks, plus an attendant locker room with showers and towels. Beyond the lockers, a small flight of stairs opened into a mat room — a raised mezzanine-like platform with a wrought-iron barrier and wall-to-wall mattresses. At the base of the spiral staircase was the large orgy room, its mirrored ceiling amplifying everything. The second floor held roughly five open semi-private rooms for couples plus two enclosed rooms fitted with sex benches for voyeurs and exhibitionists. A manager gave first-timers a personal walkthrough of the entire space. Admission was open to couples and single women; single men were not permitted. Membership could be purchased at the door. The one explicit rule staff and regulars alike enforced was first-names only and no means no; couples who arrived together were required to leave together. The crowd spanned a wide range of ages, and the atmosphere was reliably described as more raw than glamorous — a place that survived vice squads, the AIDS epidemic, and multiple recessions before New York's real estate market finally shut it down in mid-2016.

Hedonism NI

Belfast, Northern Ireland

On-Premise Club

Hedonism NI is a touring swingers social run across Northern Ireland rather than from a single fixed address. In the club's own words it is "an action packed swingers' party with a lively social scene for adults who enjoy meeting fellow open minded men and women at parties through-out Northern Ireland," and the site pitches the region's "premier" home for those "wishing to live a consensual non monogamist lifestyle" in "a safe no pressure yet fun" environment. The hosts, who go by Hotlips & Superstar, come "from a swinging background and with experience at hosting parties stretching back over 20 years," and their socials rotate through venues around the country, with recent 2026 parties landing in Bangor. Events are ticketed in advance through Eventbrite, and the venue address is deliberately withheld: house rule two states "The location must never be given out," and it is released only to verified ticket holders. Pricing for a recent End of Summer Social ran £10 for single ladies, £20 for single gents and £25 for couples. Doors work to a tight window: "Attendees must arrive between 9:30pm and 11pm," couples "MUST arrive and LEAVE as a couple," and "Closing time is 1am." The dress code is "cool and sexy" (clean, un-ripped jeans tolerated, no baseball caps), and consent is paramount, with the rules stressing "'NO THANKS, MEANS NO'" and "NO one is obligated to participate in any activities." Unlike a BYOB club, Hedonism NI runs a bar: "Alcohol is sold on the premises and therefore no one entering will be allowed to bring their own." Privacy is enforced hard, with no cameras or recording equipment ("They will be confiscated"), phones permitted only to swap numbers, and "No Facebook check-ins." Drugs and prostitution are banned outright, drunken behaviour is not tolerated, smoking is limited to the front entrance, and there is free on-street parking with a taxi rank outside. Prospective guests connect and verify through the club's Telegram, FabSwingers profile and mailing list, and follow party announcements across Facebook, Instagram, TikTok and X.

Club 2020

Malsch, Baden-Württemberg

On-Premise Club

Club 2020 occupies a purpose-fitted venue on Daimlerstrasse in Malsch, a small industrial town just south of Karlsruhe in Baden-Wurttemberg. Opened in 2020 and operated by Stiefel GmbH, the club positions itself as the modern way to swing and has developed a following as one of the more design-conscious lifestyle destinations in the upper Rhine valley. Entry is by pre-registration only via JoyClub.de or WhatsApp. Admission is tiered: couples pay EUR69-99, single women EUR25-35, single men EUR75-119. The dress code is strictly enforced. House principle: Alles kann, nichts muss.

The Idaho White Rose

Post Falls, ID

On-Premise Club

The Idaho White Rose is a private, house-party-style swingers club operating between Coeur d'Alene, Idaho, and Spokane, Washington — about 14 minutes from Coeur d'Alene and 35 minutes from Spokane. It bills itself as "The Inland Northwest's Premier #1, Lifestyle Hot Spot" and, like most lifestyle clubs, centers on couples while also welcoming single females and a limited number of single males (referred to on-site as "Unicorns"). All attendees must be 21 or older, and the address is not published online — it is provided only after RSVP. The venue includes free secluded parking, a dance floor with a pole-dancing stage, a sitting area, a changing area with restroom (no lockers — guests are advised to bring their own lock), bathrooms with showers, and a large covered outdoor hot tub that is drained and cleaned after every party. Play space consists of six private rooms that can be closed for privacy or left open, one private room with glass French doors for couples who enjoy exhibitionism, one large group room, and one large couples-only room, along with TVs playing erotic video throughout. Secured refrigerators are available for storing personal drinks, and soda and mixers are supplied, though the club does not provide alcohol. The club runs at least two parties plus a Meet and Greet each month, with events starting at 8:00 PM; first-timers can attend a free, no-obligation New Member Orientation at the same start time and are free to leave without paying if it isn't for them. Entry is cash only at the door, with tiered pricing by membership status — for example, Gold Member couples pay $50 versus $85 for non-member couples, and Gold Member single women pay $25 versus $95 for a Gold Member single man. Photo ID is required for admission, and dress code calls for a collared shirt and slacks for men (no rips or tears) and the sexiest outfit guests have for women, with a suggestion to bring a second outfit to change into partway through the night.

Young Couples Party (YCP)

Chicago, IL

Event Organizer

Young Couples Party (YCP) is a members-only lifestyle club serving the Chicago suburbs, built specifically around a younger demographic: membership and event attendance are capped to ages 21-42, with the founders explicitly designing the club so that couples in their twenties aren't the only young faces in a room of much older swingers. Membership is open to couples and single women - no single men are admitted under any circumstances - and organizers say attendees run roughly 95% couples to 5% single females, with racial demographics that broadly mirror the Chicagoland area. The club runs two main venues: a recurring twice-monthly party at a private country estate in Chicago's western suburbs featuring 16 beds across 8 bedrooms, an indoor pool, a hot tub, and a dance floor (8pm-2am), plus outdoor pool parties in summer; and an annual (sometimes twice-yearly) full hotel takeover. In total, YCP runs over 30 in-person events and roughly 150 virtual events per year, including HIIT and yoga classes, trivia nights, and quarterly educator-led seminars. A signature feature is a structured speed-dating segment at each in-person event, where couples and single women rotate through 3-minute conversations at numbered stations to break the ice.

Rio's Naturist Spa

London, London

Nudist Resort

Rio's bills itself as "London's Leading Naturist Health Spa," a purpose-built basement retreat on Kentish Town Road that its own site says has been "established for over 20 years." The pitch is unambiguous: it is a spa "for liberated people aged 21+ where you can enjoy the company of likeminded adults," open seven days and six nights a week. The venue sits a one-minute walk from Kentish Town Underground (Northern line) — "two doors past the Abbey National building" — and represents what the operators describe as a "multi million pound investment." Behind the discreet frontage is a warren of wet and dry heat. The spa lists two steam rooms (three in total), two sauna cabins, three large Jacuzzis and a plunge pool. Around the heat, guests get a relaxation area with tea, coffee and soft drinks, a television lounge, "a host of relaxation rooms," and an outdoor garden the site advertises as being "for that all over tan." The underground complex was refurbished after a 2016 fire and is widely cited as around 20,000 sq ft of facilities. Rio's runs on a "pay as you use" basis — as the site puts it, "You don't have to be a member... or even be a regular visitor." Single admission is £34 and mixed couples £40. It opens daily at noon; Monday to Wednesday and Sunday it closes the same evening (last entry 8–10pm), while Thursday, Friday and Saturday it stays open all night until 7am. One firm house rule stands out: on Saturdays, admission between 6pm and midnight is strictly mixed couples only. Pay-and-display parking is available on weekdays, with free parking to the front and back of the building at weekends.

Club Giggity

Philadelphia, PA

Club Giggity is a traveling lifestyle-events company — a subsidiary of The Forever Young Experience — rather than a fixed-address club, producing 'upscale events for sexy sophisticated couples & singles' across the Northeast. Its own site describes a roster that runs the gamut from 'small intimate house parties, on premise clubs, lifestyle meet & greets, hotel & resort takeovers and private affairs,' with events deliberately built for 'every alternative lifestyle including swingers, LGBT, the BDSM/Fetish community and anyone interested in an adult party experience like no other.' The operators tout 'over 20 years of professional DJ, promotion, marketing, graphic design, site procurement and event planning in NY, Miami, Philly & Atlantic City,' and the company promotes, hosts and DJs events throughout PA, NJ, NY, MD, DE and CT. The crowd is pitched as broad and unpretentious: 'From Doctors to lawyers, nurses to teachers and everyone in between,' spanning 'different races, heights and weights,' with parties framed as 'no pressure affairs open to all ages over 21' that 'do not discriminate based on age, race, religion, physical appearance, or lifestyle level of play.' Newcomers are eased in via low-pressure meet & greets 'designed for socializing without pressure,' and the site stresses going 'at your own flow' — whether that means observing or full partner exchanges — with open communication between partners encouraged throughout. Swinging is described as 'a lifestyle open to couples and singles alike'; single women are welcomed, while single men are admitted to 'certain nights at clubs and certain parties.' Because Club Giggity is an event producer, the experience changes with the venue — from a club night to a multi-day resort takeover — and it offers an all-inclusive production service (planning, DJ & lighting, web graphics & promotion, social-media promotion, personalized favors, clothing & posters), plus optional add-ons such as massage therapists, photographers, adult toy & lingerie vendors, body painters and BDSM/fetish services. The site maintains a live Takeover Schedule and an Events calendar, and has run flagship trips such as a Hedonism resort 'Hedo Invasion,' confirming the operation is active and booking forward-dated events.

The New Gatehouse

Kearsley, Greater Manchester

On-Premise Club

The New Gatehouse — operating under the banner of GH Events — occupies a converted former pub on the A666 Bolton Road in Kearsley, a short distance from Bolton in Greater Manchester. The venue trades on its identity as an explicitly inclusive lifestyle and fetish club, describing itself as an LGBTQ+ safe space where guests are welcome regardless of age, ethnicity, sexual orientation, or body size. There are no membership fees, and the fully licensed bar means drink is available on-site throughout all sessions. The programming at The New Gatehouse is unusually broad for a venue of its type. Rather than a single weekly party format, the club runs distinct themed sessions every day from Monday through Saturday, catering to overlapping communities across the fetish, trans, bisexual, and BDSM scenes. The building's conversion from a pub gives it a relaxed social atmosphere — the club itself emphasises that first-timers should arrive prepared to sit, chat, and observe before anything else, and that experienced staff are available to answer questions. Staff walk new visitors around the venue on arrival and go through the rules in person. The weekly schedule runs as follows: Monday is Bonkers Bingo (noon–6pm); Tuesday is a Tgirls and Men Only day (10am–4pm); Wednesday is Tgirls and Admirers (11am–midnight, with Tgirls admitted from 10am); Thursday splits into a Bisexual Day (10am–4pm) followed by a BDSM Event (4pm–midnight); Friday is Fetish Fridays (noon–1am); Saturday opens with Tgirls and Admirers (noon–7pm) before transitioning into the Seductive Party Night (7pm–1am); Sundays are closed to the public and reserved for private hire. The venue is also available for private bookings on request.

Club de Rencontre La Rumeur

Quebec City, Quebec

Members Club

Club de Rencontre La Rumeur has been Quebec City's primary address for the lifestyle scene for more than three decades — its annual signature event, the Bar en Blanc gala, reached its 33rd edition in March 2026. The venue occupies a commercial unit in a light-industrial pocket of the western suburbs at 600 Rue des Canetons, a short drive from the city centre but well removed from the old-city tourist corridor. It describes itself as a club for "gens libérés" and draws couples and singles who come to socialize, dance or explore within a framework that places mutual respect at the centre of its stated rules. The space is divided into two functionally distinct sections. The front half is a licensed discotheque with a full cash bar, a dance floor and a rotating calendar of themed nights — decade evenings, candaulism nights, déshabillé parties and seasonal galas among them — that give regulars a consistent reason to return. Beyond it lies La Cachette ("the hiding place"), an alcohol-free zone housing the club's intimate facilities: a coat check, showers, bathroom, towels, a mirrored dance floor with a podium and pole flanked by high-top tables for spectators, couches, four private rooms (one fitted with four beds) and a lounge with a wall-mounted screen. Lockers with provided locks are available. Staff members escort first-time visitors through both sections before the evening gets under way. The club runs Thursday through Saturday. Thursdays (9 pm–1 am) are open-door nights requiring no membership, and La Cachette is accessible to all guests. Fridays (9 pm–3 am) welcome couples alongside singles of all genders; Saturdays (9 pm–3 am) restrict entry to couples and unaccompanied women, with single men excluded. Annual membership costs $90 for a couple or a single man; single women join at no charge. Per-event pricing starts at $20 per couple, $40 for single men, and ranges from free to $10 for single women depending on the night. A membership card is mandatory for special events, including the Bar en Blanc.

SOP Lifestyle Productions

Vancouver, British Columbia

Event Organizer

SOP Lifestyle Productions — where the acronym stands for Swinger, Open, Poly — is a Vancouver, British Columbia-based event production company founded and run by Ying Ying Lee. Rather than operating a fixed venue, SOP produces lifestyle-oriented hotel takeovers, cruises, resort trips, and curated travel experiences for the open-minded adult community. The organisation welcomes singles, couples, and people of all genders, ages, and backgrounds; its attendee demographic typically spans the mid-20s to mid-60s, with the majority in their 30s to 50s, and draws participants from across Canada and the United States. SOP's flagship offering is the Winter Lifestyle Takeover (WLT), which began in 2010 and shifted to its current full-hotel-takeover format in 2012. It now runs annually in November at the 4-star Delta Whistler Village Suites in Whistler, BC, drawing around 350 attendees across a Friday-to-Monday weekend. The hotel pool deck, indoor and outdoor hot tubs, and a dedicated top-floor Play Floor stocked with theme rooms and playrooms form the centrepiece. A Spring Lifestyle Takeover (SLT) serves as a companion event, most recently held at the Mount Royal Hotel in Banff, AB. SOP also organises a Europe Lifestyle Takeover, a Tropical Lifestyle Takeover, group cruises on Virgin Voyages, and pop-up travel adventures. All takeovers are BYOB and follow a structured weekend rhythm: a Meet + Greet on the first evening, a dance party on the second night, and a cocktail party on the final night, alongside daytime seminars, workshops, and demonstrations. Ticketing operates via a tiered pricing structure with hotel packages bundling accommodation and a weekend pass. Payment may be made by e-transfer (Canada), Zelle (US), cheque, or credit card (5% service fee); weekend-pass-only options are available for local attendees. Hotel rooms must be booked through SOP directly rather than via the hotel. Advance booking is strongly advised, as events routinely sell out.

Cinema L'Amour

Montreal, Quebec

Adult Cinema

Cinema L'Amour is a family-owned adult movie theatre on Boulevard Saint-Laurent in Montreal's Plateau-Mont-Royal neighbourhood — and one of North America's last continuously operating adult cinemas. The building opened in 1914 as Le Globe, a Beaux-Arts neighbourhood house that screened Yiddish films and hosted vaudeville for Montreal's then-thriving Jewish community along The Main. After operating as The Hollywood from 1932, it turned erotic in 1969 as The Pussycat, and took its current name on July 31, 1981, when distributor Ivan Koltai purchased it and applied the Cinema L'Amour brand from his Hull, Quebec operation. Now in its third generation under Devyn Koltai, the cinema has preserved the original horseshoe balcony, ornate plasterwork, Ionic columns, and classical ornamentation largely intact from its first century — making it not only one of the oldest continuously operating adult venues in Canada but one of the most architecturally notable. The main hall runs a rotating programme of adult films continuously from open to close, projected on a single large screen across an orchestra-level seating area of approximately 375 active seats. The lobby is lined with vintage pornographic poster art from a personal archive spanning the venue's entire run, many available for purchase. On the upper balcony, a couples-only VIP lounge — installed to mark the cinema's 20th anniversary under its current name — spans three viewing levels with two private booths, comfortable sofas, and ambient lighting looking out over the main screen below. Beyond adult programming, the cinema has hosted POP Montreal performances, fashion shows, film festivals, and music video shoots, including Charlotte Cardin's Daddy, cementing its dual role as both an adult venue and a genuine Montreal cultural institution. The venue is open every day from 11am to 11pm, with no advance booking required. General admission is CAD $17.00 for visitors 18 and over, or CAD $16.00 for seniors 65 and over; the VIP couples balcony is an additional CAD $55 per couple. Weekly promotions give couples free entry on Mondays and Tuesdays all day and Thursdays after 6pm. Wednesdays bring two new film presentations alongside a standing Trans Night welcoming the transgender and LGBTQ+ community every week. Fridays are dedicated to voyeurs, exhibitionists, and swingers; Saturdays carry a general party-night billing. An in-venue and online shop sells branded merchandise, vintage posters, and DVDs.

Club Triple XTC

Regina, Saskatchewan

Event Organiser

Founded in 2012 by a Regina couple who had searched for lifestyle clubs across Saskatchewan and found none, Club Triple XTC began as a hot-tub party of around thirty guests in their home. Those gatherings grew steadily to over a hundred attendees and eventually became a formally incorporated Saskatchewan company. Today the club draws members from Regina, Saskatoon, and across the province, positioning itself as Saskatchewan's only registered lifestyle club for consenting adults of all gender identities and sexual orientations. Rather than a fixed venue, the club runs three distinct event formats. Sociables Drink Nights are social-only evenings at a local public lounge — low-key and non-sexual, designed for members to meet and mingle. Private Hot Tub Parties echo the club's origins, gathering a smaller crowd for an intimate evening with BYOB drinks and snacks. The flagship Hotel Theme Parties book entire floors of one of Regina's hotels: themed play rooms coexist with a designated social area, exotic dance performances (with tip-based lap dances after the main show), a staffed BYOB bar area where guests label their own bottles, and communal food. Condoms and disinfectant wipes are freely available in all play areas, and security personnel are present throughout. Attendance at hotel events regularly exceeds 150. All events require pre-approved membership and advance ticket purchase — no walk-ins. A hostess checks government-issued photo ID against a printed ticket list at the door, where all guests sign a Conditions of Attendance document and receive individually numbered wristbands. Phones must be surrendered to secure storage on arrival and will be confiscated if carried inside; cameras and recording devices are banned outright. Single men are admitted only on a restricted basis — applicants must already be known in the Saskatchewan lifestyle community or formally sponsored by an existing member. Light BDSM play is permitted; extreme kink is explicitly prohibited. The minimum age is 19.

The Hellfire Club

Sunbury-on-Thames, Surrey

On-Premise Club

The Hellfire Club has hosted alternative-lifestyle parties from a discreet address on Harris Way in Sunbury-on-Thames since 2008, roughly ten miles west of central London with, in the club's words, 'excellent travel links and secure free parking' — a lit, CCTV-covered lot for around 60 cars directly outside. Owner Peter Crosby hosts personally, and the crowd is described on the club's own listing as 'an eclectic mix of intelligent, cultured and fun individuals with an average age in the mid thirties.' The venue spreads over two floors that regulars nickname the 'heavenly upper floor and the devilish lower floor': a wood-panelled lounge with Chesterfield chairs, a fireplace and a large orangery over a natural-wood dance floor with a pole, opening onto 'numerous exotically themed playrooms and a dungeon, combined with an excellent DJ booth, audio and lighting system.' Programming covers the full breadth of the scene — swingers and couples nights through fetish, BDSM and shibari — under a rotating banner of themed parties. Two run weekly: Secret Sunday every Sunday and the midweek Brief Encounter every Wednesday. Friday and Saturday nights carry the bigger events, among them Ladies Night, Bad Girls, The Dungeon, SWISH, and AllBarNone (an 'every genre' night on the fourth Saturday), alongside periodic couples-only weekenders and seasonal specials such as the Naughty 90's Weekend and the Xmas Ball. Entry is 21-plus with photo ID requested from anyone who looks under 25, single men are admitted in limited numbers, and booking is done in advance through each party's Eventbrite ticket-and-deposit page rather than on the door — early-bird couples entry starts from around £10. The facilities lean theatrical: a DJ booth with a full audio and lighting rig, a cinema/live-streaming room, glory holes, a 'classroom,' a terrace garden and a courtyard garden, and — a house signature — a full-size vehicle tucked into the dogging leg of the dungeon. Unlike BYOB clubs, Hellfire runs its own bar, with a happy hour taking 50% off all drinks for the first hour of every party; Skyn condoms are sold on site and safe sex is encouraged. Mobile phones are barred from all public areas except reception, the Terrace Garden and the Courtyard Garden, which keeps the mood relaxed and discreet. The building is multi-floor with ramps but no lift between levels, though staff will help visitors who need assistance between the upstairs and downstairs spaces.

The Swinger's Grotto has been a fixture of South Jersey's lifestyle scene since its founding in 1999, operating out of Burlington, NJ under the stewardship of a trio of hosts — Scott, Tom, and Tony. The club runs on a monthly party format open to ladies and couples, in a relaxed, no-pressure atmosphere suited to both first-timers and experienced lifestyle participants alike. What has set the Grotto apart over the years is a deliberately personal touch: the hosts know their guests by name and treat everyone as part of a community rather than a paying crowd. Each party includes a spread of food, entertainment, and adult novelties — a consistent detail that regulars reference as part of the club's character. The club operates on a private-party model with no publicly listed street address or website, reachable only via phone (609-636-1756) or its PO Box — a setup typical of smaller lifestyle events in the South Jersey corridor.

Club ESP (Extra Sensual People)

Amherst, Nova Scotia

On-Premise Club

Club ESP — Extra Sensual People — holds the distinction of being the oldest swingers club in the Maritimes, having operated continuously since 1991 near the Nova Scotia–New Brunswick border outside Amherst, NS. Current director Dana took ownership in 2006, steering the club away from its early dance-hall format toward an intimate, pre-screened members clubhouse model. Membership is open to couples and single ladies only; every applicant speaks with Dana by phone before gaining access to events or the private members community — a screening process that keeps the guest list verified and the atmosphere pressure-free. The private 3,300-square-foot clubhouse includes a disco dance floor, comfortable conversation lounges, dedicated play areas, a sauna, an indoor Jacuzzi, and a seasonal outdoor hot tub. Dana guiding philosophy is roughly 80 percent social, 20 percent sexual — parties feature themes, icebreakers, mixer games, and name tags, and host couples are on hand to welcome newcomers. The membership demographic spans roughly ages 25 to 55, drawing couples from across Atlantic Canada, with some reportedly driving five or six hours to attend. Parties run twice monthly through summer and once monthly the rest of the year. Attendance requires advance registration via the website or by calling 1-888-732-0330; events are paid at check-in, with regular club parties priced at $129.95 CAD per couple ($64.95 CAD for single ladies) and social events at $29.95 CAD per couple. The club is BYOB, with HST added at checkout. Beyond the clubhouse, Club ESP organises ancillary social outings — campouts, hotel suite parties, and lifestyle travel cruises — and founded MASCA (Maritime Atlantic Swingers Club Association), a regional network of Atlantic Canadian lifestyle clubs.

Hacienda

Brooklyn, NY

On-Premise Club

Rooted in Bushwick since 2009, Hacienda operates across multiple townhouses in Brooklyn's most creative neighborhood, functioning as both a members-only sex-positive club and an intentional living community. The flagship venue features multiple floors with distinct play areas, social lounges, a hot tub, indoor and outdoor spaces, and room for DJs and live performances. The crowd skews late twenties and thirties, draws a notably gender-balanced mix of couples, singles, and non-monogamous folk, and sets a tone that members describe as intimate rather than nightclub-loud. Access runs entirely through a referral-based membership system. Applicants must be vouched for by an existing member, watch a mandatory consent-policy video, and pay $40/quarter or $120/year; individual event tickets run $45–$85. Three event tiers exist: public themed nights, private members-only play parties, and educational workshops. First-time guests must complete an in-person orientation before their first play party. Play parties feature multiple socializing and play zones, themed decor, DJ sets, and a full meal served around 2am. Trained volunteers called Guardians — identifiable by light-up armbands — circulate throughout every event and do not participate in play. The consent policy is opt-in: all touch requires explicit verbal agreement. Phones and recording devices are not permitted in play areas.

Friction Parties

Unverified

Washington, DC

Event Organizer

Friction Parties is a women-owned and operated event company founded more than 22 years ago by Lisa Friction, billed as the only nationally recognized hotel party brand in the United States. Operating across the East Coast — with events regularly held in the Washington DC/Maryland area, Philadelphia, New Jersey, North Carolina, and Ohio — Friction takes over entire hotels for the duration of each event, meaning every guest and room belongs exclusively to the lifestyle community. The organizing ethos is welcoming but selective: the crowd skews toward what organizers describe as attractive, well-groomed couples and single women, and all attendees are pre-screened before admission. Events run in two formats. Single-day events are typically held on Saturdays around themed holidays — Halloween, New Year’s Eve, Valentine’s Day, St. Patrick’s Day — with check-in from 2 PM and a ballroom dance party running from 9 PM to around 1:30 AM. Weekend two-day events add clothing-optional pool parties and afternoon activities. Ticket prices range from approximately $75–$150 per person; no refunds, only future-event credits. Membership on the platform lets members browse event attendee lists and connect with couples and single females year-round. Once the main dance party ends, the format shifts to an informal hall crawl on a designated party floor where room doors are propped open and guests host themed mini-parties until the early morning. The ballroom features a DJ, dance poles, cages, and themed décor matched to the night’s costume theme. Alcohol is available via full cash bar operated by the hotel; guests may not bring drinks from rooms to the party floor.

Swingers Circle

Las Vegas, NV

On-Premise Club

Swingers Circle is Las Vegas's longest-running weekly lifestyle party, operating since 2010. Rather than a fixed venue, every Thursday night the hosts book a full hotel suite or penthouse at a major Strip property — guests receive the specific hotel name and suite number by text or call within a few hours of the 9 pm start. Capacity is strictly capped at 12 couples (plus unpartnered women), and a party minimum of five couples is required before the event proceeds. The crowd spans ages 21 to 65, mixing visiting tourists with locals and newcomers with veterans. The evening centres on an interactive ice-breaker called the Game: after a social hour, hosts run a sex-trivia challenge pitting the genders against each other — wrong answers cost an article of clothing. Lighting is kept very low throughout, candlelit in the play areas, keeping the atmosphere relaxed even for first-timers. Participation in the Game is not optional, though playing with any other guest always is. Once the Game wraps, play moves to the designated playroom where essentials are provided. Admission is ticketed online only via Eventbrite, with sales closing at 8:30 pm or once the 12-couple cap is reached — whichever comes first. The event is BYOB; the hosts supply soft drinks, bottled water and light snacks at no extra charge. Dress code is club wear (no sneakers, T-shirts or tank tops). Single men are never permitted; the party is exclusively for couples and unpartnered women. Valet and self-parking are available at the host hotel.

FuseX Social Club

Atlanta, GA

Social Club

FuseX Social Club is an application-gated, members-only lifestyle organization founded in Beverly Hills, California, in 2016. Rather than operating a fixed clubhouse, it runs a rotating calendar of private events across a network it describes as spanning more than twenty U.S. metro areas, including Atlanta, Georgia, plus additional chapters abroad. It caters to swingers, hotwife and cuckold couples, kink and BDSM practitioners, and polyamorous singles and couples. Because FuseX has no permanent venue, its Atlanta-area gatherings take the form of hotel takeovers, private-residence parties, and rented mansion events; addresses are disclosed only to approved members, typically shortly before each event. The club describes evenings built around socializing and dancing before any sexual activity, treats participation - including for voyeurs who attend only to observe - as optional, and enforces an explicit consent standard and a no-photography rule. Events are BYOB, with lidded cups required at house and mansion parties. Entry requires a formal application, an interview, and a criminal background check; the club states it excludes applicants with convictions for domestic violence, intimate partner violence, or sexual offenses. Minimum annual income thresholds apply for prospective members (combined income of $225,000 for couples, $115,828 for single men, and $45,630 for single women, waived for enrolled students), alongside several paid membership tiers with dues that vary by level; single women can qualify for a complimentary top-tier membership.

Illuminaughty Denver

Denver, CO

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Denver launched in early 2025, selling out its first play party in the Mile High City, and now runs as a curated, application-only private members club for ethically non-monogamous couples and singles in their 20s, 30s, and 40s. Part of a national network spanning dozens of U.S. cities, it hosts a mix of Tease Cocktail Mixers at restaurants and bars alongside private play parties held at rented residences - anything from single-family houses to executive high-rises and country estates, each staffed with private security and dressed with intentional lighting, music, and decor. Membership is free but vetted: applicants are screened for fitness, self-awareness, and respectfulness, and once approved gain access to buy tickets and receive invites via the mobile app. Most private parties draw 40 to 80 members and run 8pm to 2am (or 2pm to midnight for All Day Soirees), with a strict arrival window, a consent-and-safety briefing before play begins, and a formal or themed dress code - cocktail attire or lingerie for women, suits for men, though some nights go casual (Neon, Pajama). No models, performers, or influencers are booked; every attendee is a vetted member.

The Loft Club

Ronkonkoma, NY

The Loft Club billed itself as Long Island's only premier upscale lifestyle club, operating out of an industrial-style space at 142-1 Remington Boulevard in Ronkonkoma. Operated under the umbrella of the Naughty Neighbors group — active on the Long Island lifestyle scene since 2015 — the club combined a social lounge experience with on-premise play, drawing couples and vetted single guests in roughly equal measure. The Naughty Neighbors' ethos of zero-pressure, no-expectation socialising carried directly into the club nights, where newcomers were actively welcomed and regulars kept the atmosphere more house-party than nightclub. The venue featured three lounge areas, a dedicated dance floor with a DJ, upgraded lighting, and six dedicated playrooms. A stripper pole anchored the main party room and the club ran a BYOB policy, supplying mixers, sodas and water at the bar. Admission was tiered: $30 for single ladies, $70 for couples, and $80 for single men, with single-male attendance capped and subject to pre-approval. Events were listed on the SwingLifeStyle (SLS) calendar. As of mid-2026, The Loft Club was actively relocating to a new and larger location, with the Naughty Neighbors group targeting its annual Halloween party as the opening milestone. The theloftclub2.com site was live but showing a Launching Soon holding page, directing all enquiries through email and text-only contact channels.

Zwanglos III

Closed

Berlin, Berlin

Zwanglos III is a couples-and-swingers club (Pärchen- und Swingerclub) in the heart of Berlin-Kreuzberg, on Gneisenaustraße 10 at the corner of Nostitzstraße, a couple of minutes from the U7 Gneisenaustraße U-Bahn. Run by Zwanglos Gastronomie GmbH (managing director Nadine Hoffmann), it billed itself as 'der gemütliche Swingerclub im Herzen von Berlin Kreuzberg' and 'Berlins ältester Swingerclub' — a cosy, long-established venue with many rooms and rotating themed evenings, a place to slip away from everyday life in a clean, refined (gepflegt, niveauvoll) atmosphere. The club's guiding line is 'Alles kann, nichts muss' — anything goes, nothing is required — so each guest decides how far they want to go, and the staff make a point of putting newcomers at ease. The layout spreads across many playrooms plus a sauna, a pool and a whirlpool for relaxing between encounters, and a bar where drinks are effectively all-inclusive. By the club's own Öffnungszeiten it ran as a near-continuous session from Tuesday 14:00 through to Sunday 14:00 (its homepage slogan is simply '24 h täglich geöffnet'), closing only from Sunday afternoon until Tuesday afternoon. Sundays had a relaxed daytime rhythm: sensual massages from 13:00 to 18:00 with the sauna and whirlpool open, and a 'Schnuppertag' for the curious — newcomers were shown into the swinger world for three hours from 14:00 for 25 euro including three drinks. Pricing followed the classic German swingers structure: single women entered free, couples paid 50 euro, and single men 65–125 euro depending on the day (men only paid the difference if they overstayed their session); all prices included drinks apart from champagne and cocktails plus the theme-night entertainment, with a 5 euro surcharge on certain special nights. The events calendar was dense and playful — FKK (nudist) nights, White-Room and Neon parties, sauna-wellness nights, dark-room and gang-bang parties, Adam-und-Eva and Herrenüberschuss ('more men than women') evenings, Oktoberfest, Karneval der Kulturen and the full run of seasonal parties (Halloween, Silvester, Valentine's, Easter, Christmas). Cleanliness and a respectful, level-headed manner toward other guests were treated as a given.

Shrine Austin

Austin, TX

Event Organizer

Shrine is a monthly BDSM, fetish, and alternative-lifestyle party held on a Sunday evening at colette Austin, a 7,000–9,000 sq ft swingers club at 13800 Dragline Dr. Run by a coalition of Austin-area kink organizations, Shrine bills itself as a sex-positive space that blends a dungeon and nightclub atmosphere, welcoming swingers, kinksters, voyeurs, LGBTQIA+ attendees, and polyamorous folks alike. The venue supplies multiple beds, St. Andrew's crosses, spanking benches, hard points, wrestling mats, stripper poles, a non-alcoholic beverage bar, small lockers, and a smoking-permitted outdoor social area, plus a massage table set aside for fire and medical play. Doors run 6:30pm to 1am (2am on Memorial Day and Labor Day weekends), with check-in closing an hour before close. Entry requires a valid state or federal ID (18+), a free temporary colette-club membership, and a signed waiver; cover is $25 at the door or discounted online. There's no fixed dress code — fetish wear and leather are encouraged, and nudity is fine once inside — but attendees must be street-legal en route, and new attendees take a walkthrough with a Front of House Tour Guide before diving in. House rules lean heavily toward consent and safety: the event safe word is RED, all scenes require enthusiastic consent, and Dungeon Monitors in colored vests patrol to enforce boundaries. The party is explicitly dry — no alcohol or drugs are permitted anywhere on the premises — and phones, cameras, and recording devices are banned inside the club except in designated photography areas.

Club Princeton

Columbus, OH

On-Premise Club

Club Princeton occupies a sprawling 21,000-square-foot converted warehouse in the Franklinton area of Columbus, Ohio — an industrial exterior that gives little away before you step inside. Open since the early 2000s, it has grown into what regular visitors call the most upscale lifestyle club in the Midwest. The ground floor centres on a 2,500-square-foot dance area with live DJs, a stage, and dance cages; there is also VIP table seating, a full bar setup serving free mixers, soft drinks, and snacks nightly. BYOB is the policy — no alcohol is sold on site — and lockers are available for storing your own bottles. Upstairs, the play floors open into a warren of themed spaces: a VIP lounge with a fireplace, the Stairway to Heaven lounge, a doctor's examination room, a jail-cell playroom, a room with a Sybian massage table, two open group rooms, and twelve private rooms — each made up with clean white sheets and white towels, with staff cycling through to change linens between uses. Thursday nights carry a bi and fetish theme starting at 10 PM; Friday and Saturday nights are open to the broader lifestyle crowd. Single men are restricted to public areas and require female accompaniment to access play spaces. Membership is mandatory before entry — required by Ohio licensing law — though short-term single-event passes are available at the door alongside paid-up couples memberships. Door fees are separate from membership. The club is consistently praised for its professional, welcoming staff, thorough first-timer tours, and strict no-photography policy throughout the venue. Free fenced parking and on-site security round out the offering.

Lacey's PlayHouse is a swinger lifestyle venue operating near Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, hosted by Johnny and Lacey. The club runs out of a dedicated 1,300-square-foot space that the owners say comfortably accommodates up to 50 people, and it is also available to book privately for lifestyle group parties or more intimate couples' retreats. The site markets itself to both locals and vacationers, positioning the venue as a safe, judgment-free space for people already in the lifestyle as well as those just beginning to explore it. Inside, the layout centers on a party room used for socializing, dancing, games and refreshments, along with a hot tub and pool area. Parties are built around rotating themes, with a dress-to-the-theme or dress-to-impress expectation for attendees. Reviewers on the club's own testimonials page consistently describe the venue as clean and describe Johnny and Lacey as welcoming hosts who keep the atmosphere low-pressure, with guests noting a friendly crowd that includes both lifestyle newcomers and experienced regulars. Parties start at 8pm with no entry after 11pm. Attendance is by advance registration only: prospective guests text their names and desired party date to the club, wait for confirmation that space is available, and then submit a party donation via Venmo or Cash App. The club states it is a couples-and-single-females venue, parties are limited to adults 30 and over, couples must arrive and depart together, and there are no refunds for day-of cancellations. Parties are noted as often selling out in advance.

Katrina Private Home (KPH)

Vancouver, British Columbia

On-Premise Club

Katrina Private Home — also known as Katrina Bon, or KPH — is a legal, not-for-profit on-premises swingers social sex club operating on private property in Vancouver, British Columbia. The club is centrally located within short walking distance of a SkyTrain station and has ample street parking. Run entirely by volunteers, it describes itself as a boutique alternative to larger commercial venues, welcoming both curious beginners and experienced lifestyle participants under the motto 'Be Smart · Play Safe · We Do!' The space occupies a single floor with a residential layout: a kitchen, two bathrooms (one with a shower), a cosy lounge for socialising, and three open playrooms each fitted with multiple beds; one room includes a massage table. There are no doors between playrooms, creating an open communal atmosphere. No bar service or dance floor is provided — the focus is social and sexual interaction. Condoms are available throughout. Cell phone use is restricted to designated areas and cameras of any kind are strictly prohibited. Parties run every weekend, with biweekly Wednesday sessions also confirmed on the club's calendar for 2026–2027. All attendance is by advance reservation only via email; walk-ins are not accommodated. The club does not post pricing publicly and does not accept credit cards — a cash donation to cover operating costs is requested at the door. Membership is open to committed couples and single women; single men are not accepted. No alcohol is sold, served, or handled on the premises — guests may bring their own. The address is withheld from public listings and disclosed only to confirmed members.

Checkmate NYC

New York, NY

On-Premise Club

Tucked into the lower level of a Midtown East building just off Third Avenue, Checkmate has been New York City's premier couples lifestyle club since opening its doors in 1995. Under the ownership of Venezuelan-American nightlife entrepreneur Danny C. since 2018 — who previously ran Le Trapeze NYC and has partnered with SNCTM New York and Les Chandelles Paris — the club bills itself as the velvet rope of lifestyle clubs in America. The space blends classic elegance with moody modern design, housing an LED and video dance floor, a live DJ, a foreplay lounge, cinema playrooms, a dark room, a neon blue-lit playroom, and mirrored open-play rooms with distinct musical ambiances in each. The crowd is prescreened by design: Checkmate targets fit, attractive couples and single women who dress to impress. Every applicant must submit a full-body photo with their membership application and be approved before receiving an invitation — the only key in the door. Thursday nights run 21:00-02:00 as a relaxed after-work party with reduced entry for members and free admission for single women; Fridays and Saturdays run 22:00-04:00 with full weekend energy and themed nights. Single men are categorically not admitted, ever. The club is BYOB — no alcohol is sold, but staff tag and serve your bottle from the attended bar with complimentary mixers. Towel and robe service, attended private lockers, and private security are standard on every night. The dress code is strict: suits and dress shirts for men; high heels and formal or sexy attire for women — no sneakers, t-shirts, shorts, hats, or sandals. Cellphones must be stowed in lockers at all times, keeping the atmosphere discreet and intimate.

Trapeze Fort Lauderdale

Tamarac, FL

On-Premise Club

Trapeze Fort Lauderdale sits in an unremarkable strip mall on State Road 7 in Tamarac — about 10 miles northwest of downtown Fort Lauderdale — sharing a parking lot with a liquor store and a check-cashing shop. The club is South Florida's longest-running on-premise lifestyle venue, open since the mid-1990s, and celebrated its 30th anniversary in May 2026. Its 9,000 square feet split between a dimly lit main lounge with a sunken dance floor, a central stripper pole, bar-top seating, and three full-service BYOB bars; the resident DJ leans heavily Latin, and the music levels stay just low enough for conversation at the edges. A rotating weekly dinner buffet — carving station, mains like Tuscan-style pork roast or grilled grouper, desserts including creme brulee — gives way to a breakfast spread in the early hours. The playroom area sits behind wooden doors at the back and is clothing-free; street attire is checked in attended lockers with towels provided at no charge. Inside is a maze of vinyl-covered platforms and leather couches, a dividing window room visible from both sides, six private rooms, and an open group area. Couples and single women may attend all five operating nights (Wed–Sun, 8pm to 3–4am); single men are welcome Wed–Fri and Sun but barred on Saturdays. The crowd skews 40s–60s with a strong Latin representation from across South Florida. Themed events rotate weekly — Unicorn Night, Wet Looks, Linen & Lace — with costume contests and seasonal parties. Pricing requires both a membership and a nightly user fee. A Discord community allows members to coordinate before arriving and unlock a $20 discount per event. New members complete registration at self-service kiosks on arrival and may join a guided facility tour any evening before 9pm.

616

Grand Rapids, MI

Rotating hotel takeover event organizer - no fixed venue

Club 616 is a members-only lifestyle club serving West Michigan, running themed hotel-takeover events in Kalamazoo, Grand Rapids, and Newaygo. Current hosts took over in January 2012, building on a group dating to the 1990s. Membership welcomes couples, single ladies, and sponsored single gentlemen; the club calls itself BDSM, kink, and LGBTQ+ friendly. Joining requires an application, photo ID, and signed consent forms. Signature parties - Red Carpet NYE, Halloween, and a spring weekend - bring a dance floor, DJ, dance pole, light show, a pool party, and a VIP room with bench swings, a St. Andrew's cross, and a ladies-only bed. A recent Halloween filled a 182-room hotel, dress shifting by zone: lobby street clothes, g-strings/pasties minimum poolside, none in the VIP room. Entry is 21-and-up, reservation-only, ID checked at registration. Consent policy bars unwanted touching; cameras banned at events.

Wicked Fun Club

Terryville, CT

On-Premise Club

Wicked Fun Club is Connecticut's only dedicated on-premise swinger destination, a private members-only lifestyle club that owners Steve and Jodi Gagne designed to feel nothing like a nightclub — no dance floor, no bar, just sultry lighting and a spacious lounge where couples and singles can actually hear each other talk. Spanning over 3,000 square feet, the venue hosts 16 to 40 guests per event and includes a social lounge, an open play area, and four dedicated playrooms outfitted with a Tantra chair, a sex swing, and ample group space. Complimentary towels and lockers are provided; the club is strictly BYOB with mixers, chilled storage, snacks, and bottled water supplied by the house. Events run Friday and Saturday nights: Fridays welcome couples, single ladies, and vetted single men, while Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only. Themed nights — murder mystery parties, Western dress-up evenings, Newbie Nights — give the 200-strong membership fresh reasons to return. Membership is tiered by category and required before attending; event entry donations run $80 per couple, $20 per single lady, and $100 per single man. Hosts Steve and Jodi are on hand at every event, personally welcoming newcomers, leading venue walkthroughs, and keeping the atmosphere pressure-free. Reviewers compare the vibe to an open-minded house party rather than a late-night club — warm, clean, and less cliquey than larger regional venues. The original Terryville location was ordered closed by Plymouth zoning authorities in spring 2025; the club has since relocated to a new undisclosed Central Connecticut venue and continues to operate.

Naughty Revival

Minneapolis, MN

Lifestyle Resort

Naughty Revival is a 21-and-over lifestyle and kink event based in the Minneapolis–St. Paul metro area that operates as a periodic hotel takeover rather than a fixed venue: organizers reserve an entire hotel for a private, ticketed weekend roughly once a year. The event traces back to Kinque Social Society, founded in June 2018, which reorganized under the Naughty Revival name for its first event at the Sheraton Bloomington in November 2021, followed by two-night hotel takeovers at the Sheraton Minneapolis West in Minnetonka in subsequent years. Its next takeover is scheduled for December 4–6, 2026, at a hotel disclosed only by email to ticket and room holders. Each takeover converts the reserved hotel into a self-contained event space, with a ballroom dungeon and a pool dungeon outfitted with more than 60 pieces of equipment, four performance stages, classroom space for educational programming, a vendor marketplace, dining areas, and a dedicated swingers' suite, alongside the hotel's own pool, hot tub, sauna and racquetball courts. Outside the on-site bar, restaurants and VIP dining area, clothing is optional throughout the event space, with kink and fetish wear encouraged but street clothes also welcome. Attendance runs upward of 900 guests per event, and both couples and singles of any gender are explicitly welcomed. Doors open at 3:00 PM Friday (1:00 PM for VIP ticket holders), with the event and hotel checkout running through 1:00 PM Sunday. Entry requires a pre-purchased ticket and photo ID for mandatory 21+ verification; general admission runs $165 and VIP $525 per person, with an Ultra VIP two-person suite package at $3,450, and hotel rooms booked and priced separately from admission. House rules ban phones, cameras and recording devices anywhere outside private rooms or a designated phone room, enforce a consent-based stoplight safe-word system, and prohibit illegal drugs and firearms; alcohol is sold at the hotel and venue bars rather than brought in, and smoking is restricted to an area at least 25 feet from any entrance.

Club Eden is a roaming private-members lifestyle club based in Greater Vancouver, British Columbia, operating since 2006. Female-owned and operated, the club holds events at pre-approved venues throughout the Lower Mainland rather than at a fixed premises — the exact address for each event is disclosed only to approved members via their e-ticket after booking. The club caters to single women, couples, and their guests, emphasising a no-pressure environment in which attendance carries no obligation to participate beyond whatever each member personally chooses. Because Eden rotates between venues, the physical layout shifts by event, though the format for on-premise dance parties is consistent: a main-floor nightclub zone with a resident DJ spinning top 40 and house music, themed decor, and a social area for dancing and mingling. Larger on-premise events additionally feature dedicated play floors above the main room, encompassing private playrooms with closing doors and room-status signs, semi-private curtained rooms, a dungeon playroom, a large open group-play area on the top floor, and open play benches throughout. Complimentary safety supplies and medical-grade cleanser are stocked in each play space. A staff concierge — designated the Queen of Consent — is stationed at play-area entrances from approximately 10 pm onward. The event calendar covers several formats: social Meet and Greets, Pre-Party Potlucks preceding dance nights, regular On-Premise Dance Parties (typically 100–250 attendees), five annual Famous Five signature events tied to Valentine's Day, a summer beach party, Halloween, Christmas, and New Year's Eve (each drawing around 400 members), multi-day Edenstock camp-outs (50–120 attendees over 2–3 days), adult travel events, and Sexy Seminars. A free membership application — reviewed within 48 hours — is required before any tickets can be purchased; a $5 membership fee is bundled into each event's ticket price. Advance registration is mandatory; no walk-ins are accepted. First-time attendees must present government-issued photo ID at the door and sign hard copies of the membership agreement, privacy waiver, and liability waiver.

AfterDark Events

San Francisco, CA

Event Organizer (Pop-Up Play Parties)

AfterDark is a POC, femme, queer, neurodivergent, and disabled led org producing curated kink and alt-sex events across the SF Bay Area. Founded 2021 with 10+ years of ethical organizing, running signature parties like SPANK! Pop-ups at Stopgap in SoMa, 100-200 attendees. Each party has zones for socializing, dancing, kink play, and aftercare. Safer-sex supplies, food (vegan/GF/DF), and non-alcoholic drinks provided. Drug/alcohol-free, no phones, no photography, ID required. Consent-centered: dungeon monitors, house safeword, no breath play or open flame.

KC Book Club

Liberty, MO

On-Premise Club

KC Book Club is a by-invitation-only lifestyle house party set on five acres of secluded land just north of Liberty, Missouri — a quiet, rural setting that ensures complete privacy for its guests. Owned and personally run by Eddie, the venue is a custom-built entertaining space that has earned a reputation as one of the Midwest most recognized lifestyle destinations, drawing regulars and curious newcomers alike from as far as Nebraska, Iowa, Oklahoma, and Arkansas. The club has been featured on national lifestyle podcasts, and its welcoming, consent-forward atmosphere keeps the crowd firmly in living-room-party territory rather than nightclub territory. Saturday nights are the club's exclusive rhythm, and the format is BYOE — guests bring their own drinks and snacks, while the house provides soft drinks, hors d'oeuvres, ice, soda mixers, and bottled water. Inside, a large social area and a dance floor (complete with stripper pole) set the tone for mingling before the evening deepens. Private play rooms and dedicated kink and lifestyle spaces are available on site, and the venue also features a pool, hot tub, and showers. When the weather cooperates, the five acres open up for clothing-optional volleyball, swimming, and sunbathing. The club is kink-friendly, swinger-friendly, and welcoming to the genuinely curious — but it is strictly couples and single women only; single men are not admitted. Access is by invitation only, and the BYOE policy keeps the vibe communal and intimate. The location near Liberty Triangle puts guests within easy reach of hotels, restaurants, and retail for before or after the party.

Asthoria Swingdreams

Neumünster, Schleswig-Holstein

On-Premise Club

on-premise swingers club

Sitting along the busy commercial strip of Admiral Wilson Boulevard in Pennsauken, New Jersey — just across the Delaware River from Philadelphia — Venus operates under the banner of SwingersUSA/CouplesClubUSA and has built a following as one of South Jersey's most established on-premise lifestyle clubs. The venue draws a crowd of both newcomers and regulars, billing itself as a no-pressure environment that is welcoming to couples and single ladies exploring the swinger lifestyle. The club runs parties every Friday and Saturday night from 9pm to 4am. Saturday evenings include a pre-party Tantra workshop from 8 to 9pm before the main event begins. The club provides an appetizer buffet as part of the evening, and operates on a BYOB basis with mixers supplied by the venue. A DJ provides entertainment throughout the night. Attendance is typically strong, with the club reporting averages of 105 to 130 couples per party. Venus describes itself as South Jersey's most popular on-premise lifestyle club. Its location on Admiral Wilson Boulevard places it convenient to major highway routes connecting the Philadelphia metro region and southern New Jersey.

The Pendulum Club (Hempstead Location)

Houston, TX

On-Premise Club

Sitting inside a strip center on Hempstead Road in northwest Houston, The Pendulum Club's original location transports visitors into what the owners describe as a replica of a mid-19th-century luxurious brothel — warm, plush, and immediately enveloping. The club is women-owned and operated, founded in 2015 by Josie and Shannon, and has grown into the anchor of a three-venue Houston-area chain. Despite a deliberately compact footprint, the space packs in 10 play areas, a figure the owners note exceeds most venues twice its size, and has earned a reputation as the busiest lifestyle club in Houston. The play layout moves from a main dance floor and self-serve BYOB bar area — the club provides ice, cups, juices, and sodas at no charge — into a select lounge with a separate dance stage, then deeper into private rooms, veiled beds, a group bed area ringed by couches, and a couples-only front section with two private rooms and two semi-private veiled beds. On arrival, guests receive a color-coded wristband that signals their interests, the club's own system for easing the social dynamic. Tours are offered to first-timers who arrive before 10:30 p.m., and the crowd on most nights is reportedly more than a third newcomers. The club opens Wednesday through Thursday from 9 p.m. to 2 a.m. (doors close at 1 a.m.) and Friday through Saturday from 9 p.m. to 3 a.m. (doors close at 2 a.m.). Single men are welcome Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday nights at this location only; on Fridays, single men are restricted to the back area unless invited by a couple. It is strictly 21-and-over, entirely non-smoking and non-vapor, and BYOB — no alcohol is sold or served on premises.

XCLUSIV Lifestyle (XL)

Houston, TX

On-premise Club

Tucked into north Houston near the 77088 zip code, XCLUSIV Lifestyle (XL) is the area's upscale, members-only lifestyle event centre for open-minded adults — swingers, couples, approved singles, kinksters, LGBTQ+ guests, and the polyamorous and ethically non-monogamous community — drawn from across Texas and Louisiana. The venue runs Friday through Sunday with Friday and Saturday nights going until 5AM and Sunday wrapping at 3AM, pulling in regulars from Houston, Dallas, Austin, San Antonio, Beaumont, and New Orleans. Membership is required but can be obtained at the door with a valid government-issued photo ID; all guests must be 21 or older. XL is fully cashless and BYOB with on-site mixers available. A live DJ, VIP sections, a dance floor, intimate lounge, showers, and eight themed playrooms fill out the space. Dress code is upscale and sexy, with a strict prohibited-items list covering shorts, sneakers, tank tops, and caps. Saturday single-gent entry is limited and requires advance RSVP. The club offers private event hire, affiliate travel packages to Desire and Temptation resorts, and maintains a FetLife community presence. Security cameras cover all public spaces while private areas are excluded. Photography and video require express written approval from management. Consent is core to the culture — non-consensual behaviour results in immediate removal without refund.

Allures Lifestyle

Sacramento, CA

Event Organizer (Hotel Takeover Parties)

Allures Lifestyle is Sacramento's longest-running lifestyle event organizer — a pop-up operation that descends on the DoubleTree by Hilton Sacramento's grand ballroom and transforms it into what the group bills as Northern California's premier swinger dance-play party. Operating under the tagline "the force of irresistible attraction," Allures has run monthly hotel parties for over a decade and draws couples from across the greater Sacramento area and beyond. The setup reads more nightclub than back-room affair: romantic candlelight, fog machines, sensual mood lighting, and two large projector screens broadcasting music videos accompany a state-of-the-art DJ spinning Old School, R&B, Hip Hop, Latin, Pop, EDM, and Classic Rock. The main ballroom floor centers on a full dance floor with a stripper pole and go-go stage, flanked by reserved VIP round tables (seating eight each) and 10-by-7-foot draped VIP cabanas — each fitted with a sofa, loveseat, and coffee table — right on the dance floor. Adjacent to the ballroom, the "Boom Boom Room" play suite provides multiple beds, a double-sided St. Andrew's Cross, a multi-positional sex horse, and a sex swing, staffed by Allures personnel throughout the evening. Guests in the play suite are asked to be in lingerie or less; voyeurs are welcome but may be asked to vacate if space is needed. Overnight sleeping rooms — standard rooms through two-bedroom suites — can be reserved in the Allures hotel block, placing guests on dedicated Allures floors and including a goodie bag at check-in. The event calendar runs to monthly themed hotel dances plus more intimate "Fantasy Fridays" at rotating venues, casual Meet & Greets at nightclubs and lifestyle bars, and an ambitious roster of destination programming: a clothing-optional takeover in Jaco, Costa Rica, Hedonism II Jamaica dates, Bliss and Desire cruise ship charters, Vegas weekends, Gold Country motorcycle runs, boating flotillas, and camping trips. The signature event is the annual New Year's Eve "SEXabration Ball," which drew national news coverage in January 2020 after nearly 1,000 guests filled the DoubleTree. All hotel events are 21+; a full cash bar is on-site.

Friends Night Out (FNO)

Aurora, IL

Event Organizer

Friends Night Out (FNO) runs its parties out of a rented two-level space in Aurora, Illinois known to members as "The Barn" — 2,030 square feet on Jericho Road near I-88 and Orchard Road, styled like a warm pub with conversation couches, chairs and cocktail tables rather than a purpose-built club. It's a licensed, zoned business the group leases for select gatherings, with swinger activity upstairs treated much like private activity in a hotel room; the venue owner supports the lifestyle community and welcomes guests of all orientations and identities. The space holds up to 100 guests, with parking for roughly 50 cars, two restrooms, exterior security cameras and intruder-alert systems. FNO bills itself less as a sex club and more as a friendship club — "we believe in fostering friendships in and out of the bedroom" — and leadership runs games and activities designed to get couples talking rather than just pairing off. Regular parties are capped at 75–100 people to keep the house-party feel intact, with occasional hotel takeovers scaling up to around 300. All events are BYOB with mixers supplied, appetizers are provided, and themed dress is encouraged but optional — guests not in costume are simply asked to "dress to impress." Access runs through paid membership: attending is a donation that doubles as an FNO membership fee, entry requires a prior ticket order number, and the street address isn't released until checkout. New members are marked with a green wristband so regulars can welcome them. FNO does not supply condoms or lubricant for health and liability reasons, so guests bring their own; wipes are provided in the play area, and neither of the two bathrooms has a shower.

Twist SF

San Francisco, CA

On-Premise Club

Tucked behind an unmarked door on Bay Street in San Francisco's storied North Beach neighborhood, Twist occupies a purpose-built lifestyle space that sets itself apart from the residence-party circuit. Guests enter through a sultry red-lit staircase into a coat check and sign-in area, then move through a compact BYOB bar — stocked with mixers, soft drinks, and light snacks — and into two front lounge areas furnished with couches, bar-top tables, and a small playroom anchored by a circular bed. Steps up from the bar sits the dedicated dance floor, ringed by low seating and outfitted with multiple dance poles and a VIP booth, giving the room an intimate nightclub feel in moody red and purple neon. Past a beaded curtain and a locker room with roughly 90 lockers (two towels per locker), a staff member marks the transition into the play areas, where full clothing is not permitted. Two open mat-covered rooms branch off left and right — one with a long couch and a tucked-away private alcove, the other a longer serpentine layout — plus a third private VIP room with a closable door. Additional bathrooms and a remodeled shower serve the back of the venue. Friday and Saturday nights run 10 PM to 4 AM; a Wednesday couples-only erotic yoga session (7:30–9:30 PM) offers a no-pressure introduction to the space. Saturdays are strictly couples and single ladies — no advance notice needed for either. Fridays follow the same rule for walk-ins, but Twist invites a limited number of single men by email application only. Single men are also welcome during Her Fantasy Party (HFP), held one to two Sundays per month (10 PM–3 AM), where couples set the tone and men attend by invitation-style selection. The crowd spans a wide age range and is notably diverse, and reviewers consistently single out the venue's culture of explicit verbal consent as one of its most distinguishing qualities.

Silk Lifestyle

Miami, FL

Social Club

Silk Lifestyle is an invite-only lifestyle events group based in Miami that throws themed play parties in rented private mansions rather than a fixed clubhouse. Past nights include a cyberpunk party at a Hollywood, Florida mansion headlined by DJ Markus Schulz, a Celtic-occult "Emerald Covenant," and an annual New Year's Eve mansion takeover in Fort Lauderdale. Entry runs through an online application, not walk-up admission: event pages state attendance is "by application approval" with "no door sales, no outsiders," and every applicant is vetted. Tickets are priced separately by category -- couples, throuples, single women, and a capped number of single men. Nights lean all-inclusive: open bar, chef-prepared bites, DJ sets, photo booths, massage therapists, and themed play rooms, with some adding fire dancers or a heated pool. Phones stay in designated areas, and photography is barred inside play spaces.

Scarlet Ranch

Littleton, CO

On-Premise Club

Set on five acres of park-like grounds in Littleton's south Denver suburbs, Scarlet Ranch has operated since 2003 as an upscale lifestyle club, occupying a roughly 24,000-square-foot modern mountain lodge known as Squirrel Creek Lodge. Soaring split-log ceilings, river-rock bars and rustic touches lend a Swiss-chalet warmth; the main floor holds two bars, high-top tables, leather lounges, a billiard room and shuffleboard, opening onto a large dance floor with a raised DJ booth and a stage. Downstairs are the play spaces: a group area of four queen beds, six curtained private alcoves and voyeuristic showers. Open Wednesday through Sunday with themed events nearly every night and major weekly parties, the Ranch draws a well-dressed, upscale crowd averaging about 37, spanning late-20s to 60s. It welcomes couples and single women, with select single men admitted. Amenities include hot tubs, the on-site Oreads steakhouse, a praised Sunday brunch, BYOB bar service, and outdoor cabanas, a fire-pit teepee and seasonal pool-style parties.

TABOTA Monster Bash

Niagara Falls, Ontario

Event Organizer

TABOTA Monster Bash is an annual Halloween-themed swinger lifestyle hotel takeover event held each October in Niagara Falls, Ontario, produced by TABOTA Events — a Canadian lifestyle company that has been running adult events since 2007. The Bash traces its lineage from a Northbound Leather Friday-night pre-party in downtown Toronto, through a club-format O Zone event, before expanding into a full-weekend hotel takeover. For the duration of the event, TABOTA books the entire property of an upscale hotel and indoor waterpark complex located minutes from the Falls — the venue name is not published, consistent with the organizers' discretion-first approach — ensuring the property is accessible to registered guests only. The event is open to couples and single women; single men are not admitted, and attendance is restricted to guests aged 19 and over. The venue is a tropical-themed resort with a clothing-optional indoor waterpark, heated pools and hot tubs, a Poolside VooDoo Lounge serving bistro-style snacks, and award-winning gourmet dining in an enclosed courtyard garden. Dedicated lifestyle spaces include a Penthouse Play Area, a Kinky Playroom, and an outdoor Kink Garden; on the main Saturday night the DJ runs until 2am, playrooms stay open until 4am, and the pools and hot tubs operate clothing-optional until 3am. Programming begins Thursday with an Interactive Escape Room and themed dance for early-arrival guests. Friday brings a Meet and Greet, a theme dance, and access to the play areas. Saturday is the anchor day: a daytime pool party with a live band, XXX-rated pumpkin carving, a Pirates and Wenches treasure hunt, sexual tarot readings, professional body painting, wax play and shibari rope-bondage demos, a pole dance workshop, a Lick or Trick room crawl, and the Carnival of Sinz — a carnivalesque set of risque games including Cock Toss, Naked Axe Throwing, and X-Rated Beer Pong. The evening builds through a Dinner Murder Mystery on Bourbon Street and Black Tape Body Artistry before culminating in the Halloween Gala, the main costume-contest dance party. The 2026 event runs October 23-25, with a Thursday early-arrival upgrade available. All bookings are made in advance through TabotaEvents.com; the event consistently sells out. A pass-only package (full weekend event access, no room) is $169 per person plus 13% HST; a pass-and-room package covering two nights of accommodation plus all event access is $439 per person plus 13% HST. A courtyard pool-view room upgrade adds $69 per person per night, and the Thursday early-arrival night adds $99 per person per night. Guests in accommodation packages are required to pay a mandatory $100 per person weekend party credit in cash at check-in, redeemable anywhere in the hotel for food and drinks. Photography and camera use are prohibited throughout the event.

Caliente Club & Resorts

Land O' Lakes, FL

Lifestyle Resort

Set on a gated, palm-fringed property in Land O' Lakes just north of Tampa, Caliente Club & Resorts bills itself as the most luxurious, adults-only, clothing-optional experience around, welcoming both newcomers curious about going nude and seasoned regulars alike. The grounds center on five pools, including a quarter-acre lagoon pool with a waterfall and two islands, plus a hot tub, sports and fitness facilities, and the on-site Retreat Spa offering wraps, facials, manicures, pedicures, and hydrotherapy. Guests stay in condominiums, casitas, or hotel rooms and can dine at a full-service restaurant with an executive chef or go casual at the sports bar. The resort runs on a members-only model: because it operates clothing-optional in the U.S., visitors must hold a Daily or Annual/Vacation Club membership to enter, and everyone 21 and older must present valid government ID at the gate. Attire is optional almost everywhere except the gym, and cameras are barred for unauthorized guests - photos require a security staff member present. A private security team is on-site 24/7, cash is not accepted for purchases (credit cards or a prepaid Cash Card only), and free Wi-Fi covers the main clubhouse and poolside areas. Entertainment runs nightly, with a full nightclub, piano bar, and DJ sets, and Saturday nights built around a rotating theme, from body paint to leather and lace. Single males may attend but only via in-person day passes purchased at the gate (available 8am-11pm, capacity-limited), while couples and single females can book online in advance; day passes are open-dated and do not expire.

Michigan Swing Place

Lansing, MI

Lifestyle Resort

Michigan Swing Place is a Lansing, Michigan lifestyle group built around recurring hotel takeover weekends rather than a fixed clubhouse: instead of running a standing venue, the group rents out a hotel for each event and turns it into a private party space for a few days at a time. It describes itself as having been started to give the Lansing swing community a second home, says it works alongside the area's other established clubs rather than competing with them, and draws members from across the United States rather than purely locally. Each takeover includes standard hotel rooms and suites along with a limited number of jacuzzi suites, plus access to the hotel's pool, and the group frames the atmosphere as comfortable and welcoming for both regulars and newcomers. An organizing crew is on-site from Friday through Sunday during event weekends to run the party and handle check-in. Recurring themed nights, including a jersey-themed meet-and-greet, a pajama-themed bar party, and a Little Red Dress mixer, run alongside free, lower-key meet-and-greet socials. Entry is oriented toward couples and single women: admission runs $25 for single women, $60 for couples, and $70 for single men, though single men are admitted only after being vetted directly by the organizers in advance, with no walk-up entry for unvetted single men. Meet-and-greet socials are free, with guests covering their own bar tab. First-time attendees complete a check-in form, and the specific hotel location for each event is disclosed only to ticket-holders after purchase, with guests asked not to share it publicly.

Monde Osé

Unverified

Montreal, Quebec

Event Organizer

Monde Osé is a Montreal-based lifestyle brand and event organizer founded on August 5, 2005, by a Montrealer known publicly as Frank, whose search with his wife for upscale, open-minded sensual entertainment in the city found nothing that met their expectations. The name derives from the French "osé," meaning "daring" — a word the brand treats as both identity and mandate, pledging to challenge social norms around sexuality and self-expression. The first gathering drew 110 invited guests to Joy Nightspot, a small Montreal nightclub, structured as a private couples-and-ladies-only party. Monthly events followed, growing by word of mouth into an erotic performance-arts brand whose stated philosophy rests on three words: Respect, Acceptance, and Love. Monde Osé's principal events have been two annual balls. The Bal Érotique, launched in 2006 as a first-anniversary celebration, ran for thirteen editions through 2018: the inaugural edition drew 450 guests and numbers climbed to more than 1,500 by the peak years. The final edition — Moonlight Masquerade — was held on August 25, 2018, at Bain Mathieu, 2915 Ontario Street East, and was deliberately retired by founder Frank, who announced in August 2018 that he was moving on to other pursuits. The continuing flagship is the Bal Burlesque, a spring event led by performer and artistic director Lexxi Brown (also known as Foxy Lexxi); its most recent confirmed edition took place on March 4, 2023, at Cabaret Lion d'Or, 1676 rue Ontario est, in Montreal's Le Village neighbourhood. Events run from 9 pm to 3 am and combine live burlesque headliners, pole dancers, contortionists, and aerial artists with a soundtrack of deep house, techno, soul, and funk curated by guest DJs. Each event is built around a distinct theme deployed through décor, lighting, performance, and dress code. Access to Monde Osé events is membership-first: prospective attendees are encouraged to apply for pre-approval through the website's membership section, where applications are reviewed against unstated criteria. Non-members who arrive without prior approval are screened on-site, with entry based on what the brand describes as "attractiveness, style and sophistication," and a slight ticket premium at the door. For the 2023 Bal Burlesque, pre-sale tickets started at $55 CAD (until December 22, 2022), rising through early-bird ($65), regular ($80), and day-of ($95) tiers; VIP packages at $400 included a reserved table for the evening, bottle service, and line skip — all VIP guests were still required to hold a separate event ticket. Dress code is strictly enforced: no athletic wear, running shoes, or baseball caps; the expected standard is sexy or daring, with themed costuming actively encouraged. Guests must be at least 18 years old.

On-Premise Club

Permanently closed. Menages Club operated as a private, membership-based lifestyle venue in downtown Nashville from 2000 until 2020, when the building was sold and converted into Drexel House, a homeless shelter run by the nonprofit Room in the Inn. There is no successor lifestyle club at the former address, and no evidence the club relocated or reopened under a different name. While active, the club ran parties Wednesday through Saturday from 8pm and operated BYOB, with mixers, ice, and setups provided at the bar; smoking was not permitted indoors. This listing is kept for historical reference only — the former address is now a residential shelter serving a vulnerable population, so do not attempt to visit.

Dark Odyssey

Berkeley, CA

Event Organizer

Dark Odyssey is a roving event organization founded in 2003 by Greg, a former Black Rose board chairman, to fuse sexuality, spirituality, education, and play under one roof. Rather than operating a fixed venue, it commandeers hotels and private rural retreats for four distinct annual events: Winter Fire, a luxury hotel takeover in Baltimore running a full President's Day weekend; Fusion, a six-day summer camp in Northern Maryland on a 200-acre private facility with 40 cabins and 400 beds; Summer Camp, a Labor Day week-long gathering at the same Northern Maryland retreat; and Surrender, a pre-Halloween hotel convention in the San Jose Bay Area. Sold-out attendance at Winter Fire has reached 1,400 people. Each event follows the same architecture: days packed with 80-plus workshops spanning BDSM technique, polyamory, Tantra, sacred sexuality, and spiritual practice, taught by national educators; nights given over to fully equipped dungeons, the Sex-O-Rama open playspace (supplied with beds, lube, condoms, and gloves around the clock), and themed parties running until 2–3am. The rural camp events add outdoor suspension rigs, a tennis-court playspace with weather-resistant equipment, a Pavilion for mixers and open play, and a Temple space for ritual and sacred play. Fire spin jams, drumming circles, a Kinky State Fair, and a Saturday night show round out the program. The community self-describes as a melting pot of kinksters, queers, swingers, spiritualists, Pagans, polyamorists, and cross-dressers — pansexual, omnisexual, and explicitly welcoming to all gender identities. Attendee-created ION events let the community add its own workshops and parties to each schedule. A dedicated Incident Response Team (IRT) staffs a help desk at every event to handle consent matters in private.

Club 3X

Cocoa, FL

On-Premise Club

Club3X bills itself as Brevard County's only lifestyle-friendly nightlife venue, tucked into a storefront unit on King Street in Cocoa where the door sits off Florida Avenue near Willard Street. It's a members-only, clothing-optional, on-premise club with a nightclub-meets-house-party feel. The main level centers on a spinning dance pole and bar seating, a free pool table, and a fetish-themed fun area, plus semi-private nooks, two locking private rooms downstairs and two more upstairs, and a loft with beds, seating and a shower room overlooking the main floor — about 2,245 square feet of party space in total. A recently updated dungeon and kink area adds a suspension point, spanking benches, a wax table, a Saint Andrew's Cross and an aftercare corner, with a rope/dungeon master on site some Saturdays. The crowd skews casual and averages older than the big-city Florida clubs, drawn mostly from the Space Coast, and regulars are known for pulling newcomers into conversation.

Club Rendezvous (Club R)

Calgary, Alberta

On-Premise Club

Club Rendezvous — known to members simply as Club R — is Alberta's longest-running lifestyle club, welcoming Calgary's open-minded community since 1983. Under Ryan and Alicia Goeseels' ownership since 2012, it has grown into a fully licensed, AGLC-compliant venue that holds a 4.7-star Google rating across more than 180 reviews. The club spans two floors in a northeast Calgary building with a free parking lot right out front. Downstairs is the social heart of the night: a large dance floor with a stripper pole, a DJ booth spinning dance and house sets, a well-stocked licensed bar with a kitchen area for mixing your own drinks, plus a long community table and lounge booths lining the room for easy mingling between sets. Upstairs opens into the play area — an airy, open-concept space furnished with mattresses, beds, couches and a sex swing, where curtains pull closed around the beds whenever you want a more private, semi-secluded moment. The space is known for being spotlessly clean and is wheelchair accessible, with accessible seating, a lift and an accessible restroom. Club R is open every Friday and Saturday from 9 PM to 3 AM, with workshops and social events on select weeknights (roughly 7–11 PM). Rather than generic theme nights, it runs curated Club R Signature Events™, each built around a distinct energy and flow. Long-running favourites include First Time Friday for newcomers (meet, play, explore); Unicorn Friday, where single ladies get in free all night with a paid membership; the Saturday Lingerie Dance Party; the always-popular Little Black Dress "Midnight Seduction"; Taboo Friday; and dedicated Newbie & Member Appreciation nights. Entry is membership-based and capacity-controlled to protect the room's quality and balance: memberships start at $9.95 for a week and scale to $100 for the year (CAD), with event admission around $60 per couple and $30 per single. Couples and single women are the priority crowd, while single men are admitted in limited, screened numbers each event. The "dress to impress" code is genuinely enforced — upscale, sexy and theme-appropriate, with no tank tops, sideways hats, workout wear or sweatpants, work boots, exposed chains or man bags. Just as importantly, Club R runs on a consent-first culture where respect, privacy and enthusiastic consent are non-negotiable, backed by clear house rules and etiquette that underpin its Safe Space Alliance recognition. The team is famously warm with first-timers, and the club welcomes all bodies, genders, orientations and experience levels (18+) — part of why a community of roughly 5,100 keeps coming back. Members can also visit Club R's sister location in Edmonton, extending the same vetted, inclusive lifestyle experience across Alberta.

Desires Houston

Closed

Houston, TX

On-Premise Club

Desires Houston sat along State Highway 249 in north Houston, tucked into a commercial suite at 14207 SH-249 S, Unit 23. The club positioned itself as a private members-only lifestyle venue catering to open-minded adults, drawing couples and singles from across Texas, Louisiana, and beyond. Reviewers noted a thorough renovation under new management that redid every room, lifting the space into what regulars described as an upscale atmosphere without losing a social, welcoming feel. The club opened Fridays and Saturdays from 10 PM to 5 AM and Sundays from 9 PM to 3 AM, with the rest of the week dark. Entry required membership, purchasable online in advance; walk-in membership was not advertised. The crowd was consistently described as diverse, with the venue operating under an explicit No Means No consent policy emphasising comfort for newcomers and regulars alike. Amenities included a dance floor, private playrooms, live DJ, hookah service, and BYOB arrangements. The venue accepted credit cards and cryptocurrency and was listed as wheelchair accessible. A July 2025 Yelp reviewer reported the owner confirmed permanent closure; prospective visitors should verify current status before travelling.

CKJ Studio (Club Kink Jax)

Jacksonville, FL

BDSM Club

CKJ Studio, also known as Club Kink Jax, occupies a 5,300-square-foot space at 6221 Samuel Wells Drive, Suite 1500, in Jacksonville, Florida. Billed as "Northeast Florida's Premier Membership Lifestyle Club," it welcomes couples, singles, and polyamorous guests across the kink, BDSM, swinger, nudist, and LGBT communities, with a stated ethos of "Safe, Sane, and Consensual." The building holds lounges, themed play rooms, dungeon spaces, a VIP area called La Intima, showers and locker rooms, an outdoor smoking patio, and free on-site parking. The club runs on a fixed weekly rhythm: Wednesday (7pm-12am), Friday (7pm-2am), and Saturday (7pm-2am), each opening with a 7-9pm social hour before shifting into members-only hours. Newcomers must complete a paid, appointment-only orientation, capped at 12 people per session, before applying for membership; walk-ins are not accepted. Membership tiers include a per-person Trial ($69, not available to single men), Annual ($149 plus $25 per visit), and Annual VIP ($599, unlimited visits and events). Dress code runs from street-legal attire outside to business-casual, dressy, or fetish wear inside, loosening toward lingerie or optional clothing after 9pm.

Krewe of Swingtown (KOS)

Houston, TX

On-Premise Club

Founded in 2005 as the only lifestyle-oriented Mardi Gras Krewe in the country, the Krewe of Swingtown has grown into one of Texas's most-attended adult social organizations over its 20-year history. Based in Houston, the KOS operates as a roaming event collective rather than a fixed venue, taking over campgrounds, ranch venues, and private spaces across Texas for weekend-long parties that blend festival energy with an inclusive swinger ethos. Flagship events like the annual Guadalupe River Trip draw 1,000-plus attendees to New Braunfels, complete with theme nights, naughty contests, adult games, and a weekend lineup that never formally stops. What sets KOS apart is its low-pressure culture. The group welcomes full-swap and soft-swap couples, single women, and bi and straight attendees alike; single men may attend only when accompanied by a female date or sponsored by a participating couple. Membership unlocks the private booking portal and priority registration windows, though events can also be purchased individually. The KOS calendar spans the full year: Mardi Gras house parties in Galveston (January-February), the Summer Vibes Party at Linnett Ranch in Henderson TX (June), the Guadalupe River Trip near New Braunfels (June), the Texas Renaissance Festival Conquest with Clan SOB (October-December), and New Year's Eve and Christmas parties to bookend the calendar. The group stays active on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, and X year-round.

The Suite Life Platinum

Sacramento, CA

Lifestyle Resort

The Suite Life Platinum bills itself as Northern California's ultra-private lifestyle sanctuary, serving the Sacramento area from a location shared only with vetted members. The club traces its roots back roughly thirteen years, when it launched under the name Massage and Play Socials before evolving into its current form. Today it occupies a private venue designed to deliver the buzz of a nightclub alongside the intimacy of a house party — a balance the organizers lean into deliberately, with professional sound, club lighting, laser effects, and a Bluetooth-compatible system that lets members add their own tracks to the mix. The space divides into two distinct zones. The lounge and dance hall handle the social side, giving members room to mingle and move before anything else happens. The play zone runs separately and includes a voyeur/exhibitionist room, a private room, and a couples-only group room. On busier nights the team brings in a live DJ. Outside, a dedicated smoking area and ample free parking round out the practical side of the operation. Membership is by application and pre-screening only, with no walk-ins and no public admittance. Events maintain a roughly even male-to-female ratio, and a limited number of pre-screened single men are permitted at certain events. For those who want to go deeper into the lifestyle travel circuit, the site also curates partner events — from resort takeovers in Cancun and Hedonism II in Jamaica to adults-only cruises — all bookable through the member portal at thesuitelifeplatinum.com.

Club Sapphire

Tukwila, WA

On-Premise Club

Club Sapphire is a private, membership-based lifestyle club at 14220 Interurban Ave S Suite A-110 in Tukwila, Washington, positioned centrally between Seattle, Bellevue and SeaTac Airport. Established for well over a decade, it caters to consensual, non-monogamous couples exploring the swinging lifestyle while also welcoming single women, a limited number of single men, and LGBTQ+ members. The club positions itself as a social space first rather than a straightforward sex club, with a membership base of adults 21 and up, ranging from their twenties to their seventies. The venue spans roughly 10,000 square feet, with a dance floor and resident DJ, social lounges, and a range of playrooms from larger group spaces to more private two-person rooms, including a dedicated voyeur room. A light buffet of appetizers runs throughout the evening alongside free soda, coffee, tea and water, and guests have access to a co-ed locker room, co-ed showers with four shower heads, and fresh towels; parking is free on site. The dress code favors dressed-up, sexy attire — designer jeans, dresses, lingerie or costumes for themed nights — while baggy sweats, dirty clothing, casual wear and baseball hats are turned away at the door. Parties run Wednesday and Thursday from 7pm to midnight and Friday and Saturday from 8pm to 2am. Entry requires both a current membership (from $30 for a one-week pass) and a separate per-event fee that varies by night and by couples/male/female category; all new members complete a brief, free orientation on party nights. Single men must secure a confirmed ticket in advance, cannot attend as walk-ins, and must complete a dedicated New Single Male Orientation before their first visit. House rules require verbal consent before any touching, ban illegal drugs, weapons and intoxicated entry, require condom use (condoms provided), and prohibit photography or cell phone use in social areas and playrooms.

NSFW (New Society for Wellness)

New York, NY

On-Premise Club

Founded in 2018 by Daniel Saynt — the self-described 'Chief Conspirator' — NSFW (New Society for Wellness) began as an intimate gathering in lower Manhattan and grew into one of New York's most talked-about members-only sex clubs. The current clubhouse, a 4,000 sq ft space in Chelsea near Penn Station, replaced earlier venues in Brooklyn and lower Manhattan and opened in August 2025. Entry is past a velvet rope and front-desk check-in, with arrivals capped at 60 members per event. The crowd — drawn heavily from entertainment, fashion, and media, averaging around 28 years old and running roughly 60 percent female — sets a tone one attendee described as 'civilized debauchery.' All guests dress in all-black to put everyone on an equal playing field. The weekly rhythm runs to PlayDates every Saturday (21:00–02:00) and Netflix & Chill Sundays (18:00–22:00), with workshops Tuesdays and Thursdays (18:00–21:00) covering pleasure education, rope play, and BDSM. A monthly Send Noobs introductory session walks prospective members through the community's consent framework before they set foot in the Clubhouse. The space features plush communal areas, a sex swing, shibari play zones, walls of floggers and paddles, and private by-reservation rooms. Membership requires a vetted profile granted at roughly a 30% acceptance rate, evaluated across 14 criteria. Tiers range from Pay-Per-Play ($29/month or $169/year plus per-event passes) to Unlimited Solo ($250/month) and Unlimited Couples ($350/month) plans. An online community of 7,500+ member profiles, an NSFW Magazine, and sex-education resources extend the experience beyond the physical Clubhouse.

Illuminaughty Austin

Austin, TX

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Austin is the Texas capital's chapter of Illuminaughty, a multi-city lifestyle event brand that hosted its first private Austin party in 2024. Rather than operating a fixed clubhouse, the chapter runs invitation-only cocktail mixers and play parties for a curated community of couples, single women, non-binary members, and a limited number of vetted single men, generally in their 20s to 40s. Membership is free but application-based: prospective members submit photos and a bio for staff review, and approval is required before anyone can purchase tickets or receive event invitations. Events take over rented private residences around the Austin area rather than a single dedicated venue — past parties have used a multi-play-room house in the heart of Austin and a six-bedroom, three-story home in Central East Austin, each redressed with theme-specific music, lighting, and decor. Every party includes multiple designated play spaces, massage tables, and a coat storage area, with private security checking IDs and monitoring the event. Parties are BYOB, with mixers, champagne flutes, cups, and non-alcoholic drinks supplied by the organizers. Austin parties typically run Saturday nights from 8pm to 2am, with a fixed arrival window (usually 8:00–9:30pm) after which doors close for a mandatory opening talk on rules and consent; latecomers are not admitted without prior arrangement. Dress codes are theme-specific and enforced (examples include masquerade formalwear and 1960s Summer of Love attire). For privacy and security, the venue address is not published in advance — it is emailed only to confirmed ticket holders on the morning of the event. Ticket refunds have historically been offered up to 5 days before an event, minus a non-refundable credit-card processing fee of about 5%.

on-premise

DB Socials holds a singular distinction in New England: it is the region's longest-running on-premise lifestyle party, operating continuously since June 1999 — first out of Bridgewater, then quietly relocating to its current private location in Grafton, a suburb in Worcester County about an hour west of Boston. Host Barry has run every event since inception, and the format has stayed deliberately unchanged across more than two decades: small, intimate gatherings for full-swap couples and single women, designed to feel nothing like a commercial nightclub. Events run bi-monthly, opening at 7PM with a floating close around 11PM-midnight. There is no door charge; in lieu of a fee, guests are asked to bring food or snacks to share, along with their own beverage — alcohol is welcome, though intoxication is not. Music plays throughout and adult movies provide ambient backdrop, but the atmosphere is casual and relaxed. The emphasis is on a small, intimate group setting rather than a large-scale venue experience. First-timers are welcome, but entry requires a brief phone call first — Barry needs to hear a woman's voice before directions to the private address are given out. That one rule says a great deal about DB Socials: a community built on trust and continuity, self-selecting for people who take the courtesy call seriously. Events are fully non-smoking throughout.

The Velvet Rope

Portland, OR

The Velvet Rope (TVR) is Portland's longest-running on-premises social and lifestyle club, tucked away in a quiet, unassuming building on SE Cesar E. Chavez Boulevard. Spanning roughly 10,000 square feet across two floors, the 21-and-over venue bills itself as a sex-positive, judgment-free space where individuals, couples and polycules of all identities and experience levels can connect, play or simply soak up the vibe. New guests are walked through the club on a guided tour and signed in at the front desk; the crowd is a mix of long-time regulars and lifestyle newcomers, and the staff lean heavily on a consent-first culture backed by clear house rules. The club runs Friday and Saturday nights from 8 p.m. to 3 a.m. and Sundays from 8 p.m. to 2 a.m., with a rotating calendar of themed parties — Newbie Night, Savage Saturdays, Sex in the Sundae, plus kink nights, rope demos, speed dating and glow parties. Entry is members-first: a couples membership runs $70 for six months or $110 for a year, single ladies $40/$60, and single men $95/$135, with reduced door fees, special member-only events and a fast-track member line as perks. Non-members can buy a one-night pass at the door (couples $50–$80, single ladies $10–$20, single men $55–$90 depending on the night), and a government-issued ID is required at every visit. Two full bars operate inside, so guests must be 21+; per OLCC rules, no marijuana in any form is allowed on the property. Inside, the space is built for both play and comfort: a large dance floor with a live DJ, pole stations and a dance cage; social lounges with pool tables and stage performances; multiple open and private play areas including a couples-only room and a caged sex swing; hardpoints for rope suspension and other kink exploration; indoor and outdoor hot tubs with adjacent showers stocked with free towels, body wash and shampoo; and lockers on both levels (BYO lock or buy one at the desk). Dress code is enforced — clubwear or business-casual on regular nights, theme-appropriate attire on kink, glow and formal events — with no sweats, flip-flops or gym wear. Knives, needles, tasers, guns (real or replica), candles and unapproved electro gear are barred from the playrooms, and the venue maintains hard limits on scat, watersports, fire, blood, breath and wax play. Three free parking lots sit nearby, credit and debit cards are accepted at the desk, and an ATM is right next door.

Club NV

Muncie, IN

Off-Premise Club

Club NV is an on-premise lifestyle club in Muncie, Indiana, owned and operated by a lifestyle couple. The club is located at 400 S. Lincoln St., about 35 miles northeast of Indianapolis, and membership is open to anyone 21 or older who is in, or interested in, the lifestyle. The venue occupies 10,000 square feet with a DJ, dance floor, video screens and lockers, plus a fountain machine stocked with soda, cups, ice, coolers and snacks — all included with the entry fee. Outdoors there is a large fenced and partially covered patio with a fire pit for smoking, an outdoor pool table, and well-lit fenced parking. Club NV is open Saturday nights only, from 7pm, with no entry after midnight; the club closes at 3am, with no overnight stays permitted under state fire code. Annual membership costs $1 and is arranged on a member's first visit with photo ID and a signed membership agreement. Entry fees vary by event: regular Saturdays run $50 for couples, $70 for single men and $5 for single women, dropping to $30/$60/free at discounted meet-and-greet parties. The club is BYOB and does not sell alcohol.

Eros Knoxville

Knoxville, TN

On-Premise Club

Eros Knoxville is a private, members-only lifestyle club tucked into a bottom-floor space reached through a courtyard at 815 South Central Street in downtown Knoxville, Tennessee — look for the upside-down pineapple in the window. Billed on its own site as East Tennessee's most upscale and diverse lifestyle club, it operates as a BYOB venue that does not sell alcohol, welcoming guests to bring their own drinks in a cup with a lid. The club runs as a live-DJ nightclub with a dance floor, drawing an open-minded, mixed crowd of couples and singles. Membership is required for entry and is verified against the Tennessee Sexual Offender and Violent Offender Registry; all guests must be 21 or older. Lockers are available on a first-come, first-served basis for each event (members supply their own locks), and private rental spaces are offered, including the Ruby Room (10-15 people), a private booth seating up to six, and reserved lounge seating for four. Smoking is permitted outside only, and the venue enforces a strict, staff-adjudicated dress code — sexy-but-classy attire for women, with men barred from shorts, tank tops, flip-flops, sunglasses, cargo pants, sweatpants, and printed t-shirts (dress jeans permitted). Event fees run higher on Saturdays than Fridays: couples pay $40 on Fridays and $60 on Saturdays, single females $20/$25, and single men $50/$70. Fridays are designated Ladies Night, with all single women admitted free and couples at half price before 10pm. New members must complete a mandatory orientation tour by 11pm on their first visit. House rules prohibit cameras or recording devices anywhere on the premises, enforce a strict no-means-no consent standard, and carry a zero-tolerance policy on drugs and prostitution; single women are afforded particular protection, with harassment or stalking grounds for suspension of a member couple's account.

Illuminaughty Phoenix

Phoenix, AZ

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Phoenix is the local chapter of a multi-city private membership brand that has hosted curated swinger parties and cocktail mixers in the Phoenix and Scottsdale area since 2023. Rather than operating from a fixed clubhouse, it runs as an event organizer: each party is held at a different private venue, such as a member's home, a rented high-rise apartment, or an occasional mansion, with the address released only to approved ticket holders on the day of the event. Private parties typically draw 40 to 80 members, with occasional mansion takeovers hosting 150 or more. Rooms are set up for a range of experiences, from massage tables to group-play spaces and some light kink equipment, though the atmosphere leans social rather than kink-focused. Events are BYOB, with mixers, non-alcoholic drinks, towels, condoms and lube supplied by the organizers, and private security is present at every party. Membership is free but requires a photo application reviewed and approved by staff before tickets can be purchased. Night parties generally run 8pm to 2am with an 8-9:30pm arrival window; All Day Soirees run 2pm to midnight with a 2-3:30pm window, and late arrivals are turned away. Couples and single women attend freely, while single men need a capped "Single Man" ticket. Every event opens with a consent and safety briefing, and dress follows a themed code.

Carolina Friends

Charlotte, NC

Event Organizer

One of the longest-running lifestyle organizations in the Southeast, Carolina Friends traces its roots to 1991, when eight Charlotte-area couples pooled resources to throw a discreet monthly hotel party for roughly thirty pairs. Three decades and more than 40,000 couples on the roster later, the club now operates as a full hotel-takeover outfit, booking entire hotels exclusively for members in both the Charlotte metro and the Triad region around Greensboro and Winston-Salem. Charlotte events regularly draw 400-plus couples; Triad nights typically pull 150 or more. Each takeover follows a familiar rhythm: a live DJ and dance floor anchor the social side, while a full buffet, BYOB bar with provided mixers and bartender service, co-ed showers, towels, and lockers keep the logistics covered. Private activity areas, group rooms, and a voyeur/exhibition space make up the play options, and a late-night breakfast gathering caps the evening. During warmer months, pool parties are added to the rotation. Events run Friday and Saturday nights, generally 8 pm to 2 am, and most carry themed dress codes -- upscale and sexy for women, smart casual for men. Admission is couples-focused: single females are always welcome, single males are accepted at most events but capped to maintain balance. A free online profile with your legal name is required before you can purchase event tickets or the optional membership ($13.68/month), which unlocks private chat, passkey photos, and the AutoDate matchmaking feature on the member platform. The club has no public social-media presence; communication flows through the member site and listings on SLS, SDC, and Kasidie.

Fusion Parties

Manchester, NH

Mobile/roving — various NH venues; no fixed premises

Fusion Parties Social Club is a private members community based in Manchester, New Hampshire, built around connection, exploration, and upscale adult experiences for open-minded couples and individuals. Rather than operating a fixed venue, the organizers rent out different locations for each event, favouring mansions, penthouses, and pool-equipped estates across New Hampshire. Events typically run monthly or bi-monthly, with tickets sold through SimpleTix; the exact address is shared with ticket holders only in the week of the event. A Fusion Parties night centres on a distinct theme — past editions have included Masquerade Penthouse, Glitz & Glam, Glow Hard, and Cupid’s NightCap — with a DJ, live performances (LED displays, fire acts, or themed dance routines), and complimentary appetisers. The club runs BYOB with bartenders on site mixing cocktails from house-provided mixers; no alcohol is sold. Playrooms and a dance pole feature at house-party events, while the Eden resort-takeover format switches to a full cash bar and multi-night itinerary. Fusion Parties collaborates closely with Mindbender Parties and H&H Social Club, forming a New England lifestyle network. Listed on SDC, events draw hundreds of guests, making Fusion one of the largest lifestyle event operations in New Hampshire.

Wicked Manor

Duncanville, TX

On-Premise Club

Operating under the new name Wicked Manor since rebranding from PlayhouseDFW, this members-only lifestyle club sits roughly 10 miles southwest of downtown Dallas, with the exact address disclosed only after membership approval. The venue is a boutique, 7,000-square-foot space designed for intimate parties capped at around 100-125 members, featuring modern decor, seductive lighting, a BYOB bar, and a nightclub area with pulsating music. Members can explore dedicated exhibitionism and voyeurism rooms or retreat to secluded private rooms, with additional amenities including a locker room, ample on-site parking, and a secluded pool. Access is strictly by pre-approved membership — a members' board reviews every application, including a required photo, and not everyone is accepted. Parties run Friday and Saturday nights from 9pm to 2am, with doors open for arrivals during the first two hours only and ticket sales cutting off at 10pm; walk-ins are not permitted under any circumstances. New members receive a personal tour upon their first check-in, and the club has hosted more than 500 past events for a member base described as exceeding 30,000. A strict, no-exceptions dress code applies: men may not wear shorts, hats, sandals, work boots, flip flops, or logoed T-shirts, while women are barred from hats, work boots, slippers, flip flops, and logoed T-shirts. Themed events waive these dress rules. Photo ID is required at check-in to match the approved membership application.

Playful Friends

Unverified

Deptford, NJ

off-premise meet & greet (bar/restaurant venue)

Playful Friends is a lifestyle meet-and-greet social group serving the South Jersey and Philadelphia area, billing itself as home to the area's largest meet and greets in Deptford, NJ held once a month. Operating strictly off-premise, the group gathers at local venues rather than maintaining a dedicated club space, giving events a relaxed, bar-night feel rather than a nightclub atmosphere. Single men and single women are always welcome alongside couples, and the venue provides a full cash bar and dance floor, with smoking permitted outside only. For its monthly Deptford meetups, Playful Friends brings its own bartenders and provides free appetizers in a reserved private area, accessible via a banquet entrance, until 9:30 pm — after which the event opens into the wider venue. Beyond the regular monthly gathering, the group has partnered with other New Jersey lifestyle organizations for hotel and club takeovers, and organizes group attendance at lifestyle cruises, giving members a broader calendar of events throughout the year. The group's website is playfulfriends.net, and it is also listed on SwingLifestyle (SLS) for event RSVPs and member communication. The atmosphere is described as a casual environment for meeting new and familiar faces in the lifestyle, with no on-site playrooms — the focus is social mixing rather than on-premise activity.

The Crucible

Washington, DC

BDSM Club

Tucked into a residential stretch of Northeast DC near the Rhode Island Avenue Metro, The Crucible has operated as Washington's only private kink and alternate-lifestyles club since founder Frazier Botsford — known to regulars as Uncle Frazier — began building it in 1997. Organised as a 501(c)(7) non-profit private social club, the venue at 412 V Street NE holds a full dungeon fitted with bondage crosses, spanking benches, ropes, whips and handcuffs along the walls, plus a dedicated medical play area for piercing, needle and blood play, and a smaller private room for more intimate scenes. Dungeon Monitors trained by the Black Rose are on the floor at all events, and the crowd — spanning kinksters, lifestylers and curious newcomers of all orientations and genders — consistently draws praise for its warm, family-like atmosphere. The event calendar runs most Friday and Saturday nights, with 18-and-over play nights on Fridays (no alcohol) and 21-and-over nights with a full bar on Saturdays. Recurring themed nights include Black & Kinky (second Friday, POC-focused), QINK (third Friday), Sinfully Naughty (first Saturday), and Risqué EDM dance party (second Saturday). Black Rose holds weekly education at the venue every Tuesday and its monthly Gateway meeting on the first Thursday. The first Friday of every month is Dungeon 101 — doors open at 7:30pm and the structured presentation begins at 8pm, followed by an open exploratorium. No membership required for this event. Members may bring up to three guests. Annual membership is $40/person, purchased online; all applicants are screened against the DOJ sex-offender registry.

CONFLICT — Option A (conf 82, agent 1): Nestled in Downtown LA Arts District, Den of Iniquity is a West Coast BDSM institution founded 1993. Led by Cybill Troy. 1,850 sq ft loft with themed rooms, femdom education, film shoots, and rentals. Option B (conf 72, agent 8): Historical origin narrative: founded 1994 in NYC by Tara Indiana, LA outpost now under Cybill Troy. Both agents note venue is primarily a BDSM dungeon and studio, not a traditional swinger club.

Trapeze Club Atlanta

Atlanta, GA

On-Premise Club

Trapeze Club Atlanta is an on-premise lifestyle club set in an industrial stretch of southwest Atlanta near Six Flags, at 4470 Commerce Dr SW. Open five nights a week, it bills itself as the area's longest-running and most established club of its kind, drawing a crowd described as friendly, racially diverse, and largely in their late twenties to late forties. The roughly 15,000-square-foot venue centers on a large front room with a dance floor, a stripper pole, a full-service buffet, and multiple bars, all run on a BYOB model where members' bottles are tagged with ID numbers at the door. Behind the main room, a code-access "Diamond" section offers its own bar, while a separate general play area includes a pool table, an open group space, and smaller private rooms; free lockers, showers, and towels are provided throughout. The five-star dining program rotates weekly menus with a carving station, a dessert bar, and an early-morning breakfast buffet on select nights. Parties run Wednesday through Sunday from 8pm, with Friday and Saturday closing at 4am and other nights at 3am; couples and single women may attend any night, while single men are limited to Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, and Sunday and barred from Saturdays entirely. Entry requires membership plus a nightly user fee, 21+ photo ID, and a strictly enforced dress code — collared shirts and dress shoes for men, sexy club wear for women, with pajamas, beachwear, t-shirts, shorts, and sneakers all turned away. Phones, cameras, and recording devices are banned throughout the club, and guests must be in lingerie, a towel, or nude to enter the back playrooms.

Fallout RVA

Richmond, VA

alternative nightclub / fetish & kink club

Fallout has anchored Richmond's Shockoe Bottom since November 2007, earning its place as the city's longest-running goth, industrial, and fetish nightclub. Owner Jackie Bishop describes it as 'queer, a little bit kinky — basically a space for everybody that's just trying to find a place to belong.' The result is part nightclub, part community centre, part sanctuary at 117 N. 18th Street. The calendar runs seven nights a week: vinyl goth/EBM nights (Metal Beat), leather-and-latex fetish dance parties, drag showcases, rope-bondage socials, burlesque, goth karaoke, queer dance-therapy classes, and polyamory munches all coexist under one roof. Fridays and Saturdays extend to 2am. Some nights are members-only; others require a one-night pass via DM or Fetlife. A formal membership programme underlies the club's identity. Applications are in-person only — 21+, valid ID, dress code, and a member sponsor required; committee reviews take roughly two weeks. Members get free or discounted entry and may bring two guests. Non-members attend open events (18+) at cover charges typically $5–$15. Photography is banned outright; Virginia ABC law prohibits full nudity.

Risque Vegas Estate

Las Vegas, NV

Risque Estate is a private, members-only lifestyle venue set within a residential property in the Paradise neighborhood of Las Vegas, just minutes from the Strip. Established in 2014, the estate operates as an on-premise swingers club hosting clothing-optional parties Wednesday through Sunday, welcoming couples, singles, and LGBTQ guests aged 21 and over in a BYOB format with snacks and mixers provided. The grounds center on a resort-style heated pool kept at 90 degrees year-round, surrounded by spacious poolside cabanas and block-walled areas for nude sunbathing. Inside, guests find multiple private playrooms, a large group room, a game room with a cheetah-felt pool table, a dance floor with a stripper pole, and a custom Harley-Davidson fitted with a built-in Sybian. Risque Estate emphasizes discretion with secure off-street parking and a membership structure included in the door donation. The estate provides lockers, clean showers, and ample cooler space, while guests are asked to bring their own towels, locks, and beverages. The venue regularly hosts themed events listed through its website and social channels.

Saints & Sinners AC

Closed

Atlantic City, NJ

Event Organizer

Saints & Sinners AC anchors the Diving Horse entertainment complex at 18 S. Dr. Martin Luther King Blvd, a sprawling 55,000-square-foot multi-use building in Atlantic City. Guests enter discreetly from the back of the Diving Horse complex rather than the main boulevard-facing door — a deliberate design choice that sets the tone for the whole experience. Inside, four floors hold an impressive inventory of spaces: 15 open, air-conditioned play rooms, additional private and semi-private rooms, 11 showers, 2 BYOB bars stocked with mixers, 2 dance floors fitted with stripper poles, an outdoor heated pool, an outdoor deck, and a food buffet that runs through the night. Erotic movies play throughout the venue to set the mood. The club pitches itself as a new-age, modern lifestyle destination rather than a classic swinger haunt, and the crowd — primarily couples in their late twenties to late forties — dresses to match. Women tend toward fitted dresses; men wear button-up shirts and jeans. Saturday theme nights are a recurring feature, with prizes and costumed dress codes announced in advance. The adjacent Diving Horse Inn (30 rooms, many with jacuzzi tubs and balconies overlooking the deck and pool) lets members extend the evening without leaving the building, while the neighboring Diving Horse Cabaret and Luxx Lounge nightclub round out the complex. Doors open Fridays and Saturdays from 9 pm, with Fridays running to 3 am and Saturdays to 4-5 am. The club is closed Sunday through Thursday.

On-Premise Club

Sitting on Q Street in the heart of South Omaha, R-Place built its reputation as Nebraska's only dedicated on-premise lifestyle club - a privately owned, 4,000-square-foot, three-level building converted into what owners called an elegant upscale classy venue. The main floor centres on a full dance floor with professional DJ booth, state-of-the-art lighting and a sound system, ringed by lounge-style seating and five TVs (including a 60-inch screen). Three leather-furnished living-room social areas give couples and groups a place to mix before venturing further, and the club runs as a strict BYOB bottle club with mixers and soft drinks provided at no charge. The play spaces span two additional levels. Four private bedrooms and four bathrooms (three with showers) handle couples seeking privacy, while the basement Dungeon - billed as The Playroom - offers group beds, two electric-hoist sex swings, restraints, a glory hole wall, and a professional massage table, plus a Sybian machine. Outside, a large patio enclosed by a six-foot privacy fence leads to a covered 20-by-19-foot sky room with a twelve-foot propane fire pit, seating around thirty people through the colder Nebraska months. The door policy is guest-list only: prospective attendees email in advance to be added, and walk-ins are not accepted. Hours run Friday and Saturday, 8 pm to 2 am. Saturday nights are theme-party nights. Admission is $40 per couple per night, $25 for a single woman, and $45 for a single man. Towels, lockers, and condom supplies are on hand; smoking is allowed in a designated indoor area. Single males and single females are both welcome alongside couples.

Baltimore Playhouse

Baltimore, MD

BDSM Club

Occupying a sprawling 12,000-square-foot industrial space off Washington Boulevard in South Baltimore, Baltimore Playhouse has been Charm City's premier kink destination since 1997. The current location — opened in October 2014 after a fire ended the community's previous home — is self-described as the largest known BDSM play space in the United States, a claim that lands credibly the moment you step past the coat check and through the black curtain into the main floor. A capped attendance of 250 per event keeps the energy intimate despite the scale, and Dungeon Monitors patrol throughout, making it as safe as it is sprawling. Organized as a 501(c)(7) non-profit social club, the Playhouse runs on a contributorship model: a $30 annual fee unlocks access to a calendar that fills roughly a year in advance with play parties, educational sessions, and specialty nights hosted by outside groups. For those new to public dungeons, the monthly Kink: First Contact open house — held on the first Friday of most months — requires no contributorship, just an RSVP, and walks newcomers through SSC and RACK basics before opening stations for hands-on exploration until around 11pm. The Playhouse is an NCSF Coalition Partner, and its consent-first culture shows: a formal Consent Incident Report form lives on the website, and safe words (Yellow/Red) are posted and enforced. The space itself accommodates everything from medical and needle play (confined to designated medical areas) to impact, bondage, and group scenes, with cleaning stations and Chux pads distributed throughout. There is no bar — the Playhouse is completely alcohol-free and drug-free, with permanent bans for violations — and there is no walk-in option; names must be on the RSVP list. Regular event entry runs $20-$25, with snacks and soft drinks available from an on-site snack bar.

Reel One Indy

Indianapolis, IN

Lifestyle Resort

Reel One sits on the western edge of downtown Indianapolis at 3428 W. Washington St., a members-only on-premise lifestyle club that describes itself as the only female-owned swingers club in the Indianapolis and Central Indiana area. According to the club's own site, it has operated legally at the same location since 1992, making it the longest-running club of its kind in Indiana, and spans three floors and more than 16,000 square feet. The venue includes a bar area (BYOB, no alcohol sold or served), a dance floor with a stripper pole and DJ, a lounge with balconies for public play, a themed "doctor's office" playroom, showers and locker rooms, a pool room, and a large movie/theater room downstairs. Upstairs holds a maze of hallways and roughly a dozen additional playrooms, including one with mirrored ceilings and walls and another furnished with a swing. Entry requires membership or guest status (guests are permitted for their first two visits before membership is required), and all attendees must be 21 or older with valid, non-expired photo ID. The club is open Friday and Saturday nights only, and Saturday overnight stays are offered at no additional cost, with couples and single females given priority for rooms; single men are not permitted overnight rooms on the top floor. No cell phones, smart watches, or recording devices of any kind are allowed inside — phones must go in a locker or be left in a vehicle. A single male member may bring a couple or one guest, but not more than one single male friend. Illegal drugs, weapons, and prostitution are strictly prohibited, and management reserves the right to deny entry or eject anyone at its discretion.

Lifeinstyle STL

St. Louis, MO

Event Organizer

Lifeinstyle STL is a St. Louis-based swinger and open-minded couples community founded in February 2016 by a couple who identify as Em and Lu. The group has no permanent clubhouse; it runs a rotating calendar of private parties at bars, restaurants and hotels around St. Louis, with larger takeover weekends staged farther afield at Lake of the Ozarks and other Midwest destinations. Membership is restricted to verified, approved accounts -- the group states that safety is its top priority and that it "carefully verifies all new members" and "never accepts fake profiles." Programming spans low-key monthly meet-and-greets at rotating St. Louis venues -- recent examples include a western-themed night at Shamrock's Pub downtown and a swimsuit party at Chapter 3 in Soulard -- up to full hotel takeovers built around themes such as a UV-lit Neon Glow party, Halloween, Valentine's and New Year's Eve. Its flagship event is National Swingers Weekend (NSW), a multi-night lakefront resort takeover at Lake of the Ozarks now in its seventh year, with daily pool parties, themed nights and DJs. The community also runs a blog, a "Swingz" podcast, a members' forum and chat, and its own branded lingerie and party-apparel shop. Attendance skews toward couples and single women; single men can attend only through a separate, more selective single-male account tied to specific events, and organizers note that first-timers typically make up 20-30% of guests at meet-and-greets. Entry to any party requires a pre-approved Lifeinstyle account, with approvals generally taking one to four days and granted at the administrator's discretion; door sales and on-site approvals are not permitted. Dress code defaults to cocktail attire unless a party carries its own theme. Some hotel takeovers, including the Neon Glow Party, are advertised as BYOB, and recent per-couple pricing has run from roughly $24.99-$28 for bar meet-and-greets (with single ladies often admitted free) up to about $79 per couple for hotel takeovers; tickets are non-refundable within 15 days of an event.

Karizma Social Club

Glen Gardner, NJ

Social Club

Tucked into the rolling countryside of Hunterdon County, Karizma Social Club has established itself as New Jersey's premier on-premise lifestyle destination. The facility spans 7,800 square feet of interior space — part of an 11,500 sq ft building set on 4 acres — housing a full-service BYOB bar (mixers provided, barkeepers on hand), a DJ-driven dance floor active on Saturday nights, a game area with pool table, air hockey, darts, and arcade games, plus several lounge areas and a mix of open, semi-private, and private play rooms. A covered outdoor area handles smokers, and a free paved parking lot serves the property. Hotel discounts and a paid shuttle service to and from the Hampton Inn — within 5 miles — round out the practical amenities. The schedule runs on a consistent rhythm: Saturdays year-round (8pm–5am, bar until 3am) and the 1st and 3rd Fridays of each month (9pm–3am). Approved single gentlemen are permitted on the 3rd Saturday only, and in limited numbers. New members receive a mandatory orientation tour of the club before their first event. In over four and a half years of operation, the club reports having closed unexpectedly only a handful of times. Karizma draws members from across New Jersey, New York, and Pennsylvania, positioning itself as an upscale nightclub-style experience rather than a casual house party. The minimum age is 24. Membership is for couples (male/female) or singles, with annual and monthly dues options; all fees are paid in person — no online payments accepted. The exact address is released only after membership approval.

Richmond Rondezvouz

Richmond, VA

Event Organizer

Richmond Rondezvouz for Swingers is a Richmond, Virginia-based adult lifestyle group that organizes private parties rather than operating out of a fixed clubhouse. Run by a host couple and cross-listed on the SwingLifestyle platform under the handle swingcouple96, the group holds swinger parties at rotating private residences at least twice a month, along with occasional bi-oriented gatherings and peep-show style events. The group describes itself as welcoming to all attendees. Host locations typically include a private home with a heated pool, hot tub, large deck and covered patio, and a dedicated play area; one recurring venue also has a fenced backyard, an outdoor shower and a port-a-potty for guests who wish to camp overnight. Food and non-alcoholic drinks are supplied by the hosts, while alcohol is strictly BYOB; showers, towels, soap and wipes are provided on site for cleanup after play. Attendance is by confirmed RSVP only — prospective guests email the organizers with the names of everyone attending, and the party address is released only after confirmation; no one is admitted who is not on the guest list, and all attendees must be 21 or older. Admission is cash-only ($50 for couples and single men, $10 for single women), with a $20 late-registration fee for RSVPs submitted after the same-day cutoff. A dress code bars hats, hoodies, tank tops, sportswear and work boots at regular parties (dedicated pool parties are clothing-optional), and house rules ban photography without consent, prohibit illegal drugs and any pay-for-play activity, and require single men to approach the male half of a couple first rather than the female half alone.

Choice Social Club

Providence, RI

On-Premise Club

Choice Social Club is New England's flagship on-premise lifestyle club, occupying 8,000 square feet behind a red door in a Providence industrial neighborhood on Porter Street. Inside the contrast is sharp: warm-toned lounges furnished in leather, a dance floor with a video wall and stripper pole, a BYOB bar, and a backyard patio that opens for summer events. The building's 14 themed playrooms include a voyeur chamber with a one-way window, a schoolhouse room, a massage room, a blacklight room, a glory hole room, and a group room with an L-shaped multi-bed layout. A dedicated BDSM corner houses St. Andrew's crosses and sawhorse equipment. Staff change sheets between uses throughout the night. Membership and pricing have two layers. Annual memberships run $45 for couples ($250 premium), $40-65 for single women, and a $100 introductory rate for single men, who face a 3-4 month waitlist given strict ratio management. Per-event admission adds $90 for couples, $100 for single men, and $5 for single women. First-timers receive a complimentary trial membership. Events run Saturdays 9 pm to 2 am with themed nights rotating through the calendar; a Ropes class runs on the third Thursday at 7 pm. The BYOB system works by handing bottles to staff at check-in labelled with your membership number and requesting drinks at the bar all night with the club supplying mixers and ice. Playroom etiquette follows a plastic-chain signal system: chain on the door means open to observation or polite requests to join; door open and unchained means people may ask; curtain or door closed means full privacy. The crowd runs approximately 90% couples with an average age of 35-45, and the single-male quota is actively controlled to keep the balance couples-focused. The club has operated under Red Door Operations, LLC since 2009; a COVID closure prompted a 2021 GoFundMe by owner Jim Knaus that raised over $5,000 before reopening.

Electricity Social Club

Providence, RI

On-premise lifestyle / swinger club

Electricity Social Club occupies a loft-style space inside Atlantic Mill, a historic industrial complex in the Olneyville neighborhood of Providence, at 122 Manton Avenue — Right Tower, 2nd Floor. From the outside the building reads as a plain old factory, with no signage pointing to what's inside. The interior opens into a spacious loft-fitted club with a dance floor, a stripper pole, a full sound and light system, a BYOB bar stocked with mixers, lockers, and a dedicated smoking lounge. It is an on-premise, members-only lifestyle venue and one of the most talked-about lifestyle clubs in New England. The club runs Friday and Saturday nights from 9 pm to 2 am, with specialty events — including a bi- and pansexual-friendly Bi Voltage night — on the calendar. All guests must hold an annual membership (available at the door) and pay a per-party entry fee; valid photo ID is required at every visit. The crowd skews toward couples and single men, with reviewers placing the typical age range in the forties to fifties, though visitors span their twenties to late sixties. The atmosphere is described as laid-back and friendly, with action picking up after 11 pm. The play areas cover a wide range of preferences: a large main group room with couches ringing a dance floor and stripper pole; a small dungeon stocked with a rack, sawhorse, and floggers; a side room with beds and fresh linens; exhibitionist beds in a hallway where a velvet rope signals openness to company; and approximately ten fully private, attendant-managed playrooms. The club is BYOB — bring your own alcohol, free mixers provided — and is cash-only at the door. ESC describes itself as on-premise and welcoming to LGBTQ, pansexual, and bi-friendly guests.

The Riverside Club

Gallipolis Ferry, WV

On-Premise Club

Set along Huntington Road in the small Mason County community of Gallipolis Ferry, The Riverside Club bills itself as West Virginia's #1 lifestyle club — a members-only, on-premise venue open to couples, single women, and a select number of single men. The space includes a dance floor, a stripper cage, a BYOB self-serve bar, multiple private playrooms, lockers (bring your own lock), and a hot tub. Complimentary soft drinks and food are included with entry, keeping the vibe more house-party than nightclub. Parties run every Saturday night from 9pm to 3am, with recurring themed nights — Blacklight Party, Red Dress Night, and Fishnet Night among them — plus annual events like the Christmas Party and New Year's Eve celebration. Membership costs $50 per year for couples, single men, and single ladies alike. New members register and verify online, then confirm their ID and pay on the first visit. All guests must be 21 or older. The crowd spans a wide range of ages and backgrounds, and first-timers consistently describe the owners, staff, and regulars as exceptionally welcoming. Single ladies are treated as honored guests; the rules explicitly flag that stalking or harassment of single women can result in permanent membership suspension. Smoking is permitted outside only, and the club asks all guests to keep voices down outdoors out of respect for the neighborhood.

Club FA (Freedom Acres)

Closed

San Bernardino, CA

On-Premise Club

Club FA, also known as Freedom Acres, was one of Southern California's largest on-premise swinger clubs — roughly 13,000 square feet on Devore Road in San Bernardino, at the north edge of the Inland Empire. The main floor paired a dance area and raised pole stage with a second, more intimate lounge floor, plus a pool table, scattered tables for eating and mingling, and TVs throughout playing adult films. A buffet was set out nightly, with coffee and donuts on Sunday mornings. About 6,000 square feet was given to play: a maze of cubbies, themed rooms, lofts and group areas ranging from semi-private to fully open. Club FA was a private membership association closed to the public — entry required an accepted membership plus the door fee each visit, and couples had to attend together. Members were 21-plus. Single men were admitted only on Wednesday and Sunday parties, never Friday or Saturday; single women could attend any night. Nights ran late and themed: Friday to 4am, Saturday to 6am, Sunday to 10pm with a DJ and dancing, typically drawing 120-160+ couples and 250-300+ for marquee events like New Year's, Halloween and the Freedom Acres Anniversary. Drinks were BYOB across two bars (beer/wine and mixed drinks). Dress leaned upscale-casual — collared shirts for men, with t-shirts, flip-flops, sweats and thug attire turned away.

Club Eros

Unverified

Cleveland, OH

On-Premise Club

Club Eros occupies a sprawling 15,000-square-foot industrial-chic space tucked behind gated access on E. 33rd Street in Cleveland's St. Clair–Hamilton corridor — the only female-owned adult lifestyle club in the Midwest, run by owner Jenny, who has been hosting events for over 15 years. The main floor delivers a full nightclub experience: a DJ booth with professional sound and light show, a full-service BYOA bar with complimentary juices, sodas, and premium energy drinks, a pool table, intimate lounge seating, and a complimentary buffet on Saturday nights. A couples-only lounge with its own play area provides a quieter retreat, and a movie theater area rounds out the social zones before guests head deeper into the club. The play wing spans 20 rooms: voyeur and exhibition rooms, a kink and bondage room, a dedicated pleasure-swing room, couples glory-hole rooms, private rooms, and a first-timers tour led by staff on arrival. Membership is required — one-night passes run $20 for couples; quarterly memberships are $35 for couples or single males and $25 for single ladies. Standard Saturday door fees are $69 for couples and $20 for single ladies; single males must qualify through CockFest or Club Cougar intake events, or attend daytime Tryst sessions. Eros stands apart on scale, polish, and inclusivity: its member base spans couples and singles across straight, gay, bi, and queer identities; attendance on a typical Saturday runs 60–100 with themed nights drawing up to 250. The all-inclusive door fee covers linens, wipes, condoms, buffet, and soft-drink mixers. Doors open at 9 PM on Saturdays with events running to 3 AM, and the large gated lot with on-site security makes parking straightforward.

Richmond Sauna

Richmond, ME

Bath House

Tucked into the woods off Dingley Road in Richmond, Maine, the Richmond Sauna has been welcoming a diverse mix of guests since 1976. Founded by Richard Jarvi — a Finnish-heritage engineer who built the concrete block bathhouse by hand, crafting his own wood stoves from scrap metal — the property has evolved from a pure Finnish sauna tradition into a clothing-optional retreat that pairs authentic wood-fired heat with a heated indoor pool, a large outdoor hot tub, and a sunning lawn available seasonally from May through November. Management has passed to founder's son Donald in recent years, and a 2025 TripAdvisor reviewer noted the new ownership has made "dramatic changes, all for the better," with updated rooms and a noticeably cleaner property. The schedule runs Wednesday through Sunday, with evening sauna and hot tub access from 6pm to 10pm year-round, and daytime pool and lawn access Tuesday through Sunday from 10am to 4pm during the warmer season. Guests choose between a community sauna at $40 per person or a semi-private sauna at $50; advance reservations are recommended for semi-private rooms. The 1800s colonial house on the property offers six guest rooms — including an efficiency apartment with a private entrance and kitchenette — with sauna access included in the overnight rate. Rooms are equipped with A/C and WiFi. The vibe is firmly clothing-optional rather than nudist in the traditional sense: reviewers describe it as laid-back and welcoming, with a loyal crowd of regulars alongside curious newcomers. The property functions as a neutral meeting ground for open-minded couples visiting the area, with the atmosphere more rustic Maine retreat than polished resort. Its location just over 20 minutes from Augusta and 40 minutes from Portland makes it one of the most accessible clothing-optional destinations in New England.

Entourage Vegas Spa and Health Club

Las Vegas, NV

Bath House

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Tease Party is a couples-and-single-ladies-only lifestyle event brand operating in Scottsdale, Arizona, rather than a fixed-address club — parties are held at rotating venues that change with each event''s theme. The group markets itself as a no-pressure, erotic social setting built for beautiful couples and single females to flaunt, flirt and connect without the presence or pressure of single men. Each event varies by venue and theme, but the operators describe a consistent steamy, respectful atmosphere designed to let guests be openly sexy. After the main party, many attendees continue into informal after-parties that run later into the evening, and discounted rooms at nearby hotels are offered depending on which venue is booked for that event. Access is strictly private and by referral only — there is no walk-in or open-door admission. Prospective guests must get on the guest list either by joining Tease Party''s affiliated lifestyle site or by contacting the organizers directly by email, and being on that list is the only way to be admitted to a party.

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Colorado Springs is a pre-launch chapter of the Illuminaughty lifestyle network, a members-only community for couples and singles in their 20s-40s. As of mid-2026, no events have yet been held in Colorado Springs — the brand's own site states it is still building its local membership base and will schedule its first party once enough members have signed up. There is no fixed venue: consistent with Illuminaughty's model elsewhere, future events would be hosted at private residences rather than a dedicated clubhouse. Once launched, programming is expected to follow the format used in other Illuminaughty cities: Tease Cocktail Mixers at bars with a reserved private area, and private house parties with themed decor and on-site security, typically drawing 40-80 attendees. Membership is free but requires an application and photo-based approval; approved members get event access through the Illuminaughty mobile app. Because no parties have been scheduled in Colorado Springs, prospective members should apply and RSVP through the official site to be notified once the first event is announced.

Thad's

San Diego, CA

On-Premise Club

Thad's is a long-running, invitation-only swingers club operating from a private residence at 3517 E St in San Diego's Mount Hope neighborhood. The club has operated since 1973, making it one of the longest-running lifestyle clubs in Southern California. There is no online booking or email sign-up — prospective guests call ahead the same evening to speak with a hostess and receive a same-night invitation. The venue operates as an on-premise facility rather than a purpose-built nightclub; one visitor account describes an unassuming, ranch-style house with an old-school, no-frills atmosphere and an active outdoor area. Inside, the layout includes private rooms, group play rooms, a couples-only area upstairs, a dance floor with two poles, a pool table, a swimming pool, a jacuzzi, fire pits, and free lockers. The club provides a self-service bar with cups and ice, but alcohol itself is BYOB. Parties run Wednesday through Saturday evenings, with guests calling ahead to reserve a same-night invitation. The dress code is strict: men must be completely nude and women may wear lingerie or revealing attire, but no street clothes, dresses, or T-shirts. Entry pricing is quoted only by phone and varies with recurring promotions, including an early-bird discount and periodic half-off specials. The upstairs area is reserved for couples and single women — single men are not permitted there under any circumstance — and the club asks single guests to be respectful rather than pushy toward couples or single women.

VIP Bliss

Miami Beach, FL

On-Premise Club

VIP Bliss (also listed as bLiSS Club, VIPBLISS.com) is a screened electronic dance music lifestyle organization based in Miami Beach, Florida, running events across South Florida including Fort Lauderdale, West Palm Beach, Tampa, and Orlando. Founded in 2003, it describes itself as the longest-running monthly screened EDM lifestyle party organization in the country, built around a membership of fit, adventurous couples and singles who enjoy upscale nightlife paired with dance music. Rather than operating a fixed clubhouse, VIP Bliss functions as a traveling event brand, taking over nightclubs and hotel pool decks across the region for its parties. Membership is free to request but fully screened before any event access is granted: applicants submit a legal name, a public screen name, their city and state, a description of what they're looking for, and four to six photos, with couples asked to include at least one photo together. Applications are reviewed daily, and hourly on event days, with silence treated as non-acceptance; VIP Bliss reserves the right to select its members and deactivate accounts at any time. The organization markets itself to a younger, millennial-skewing crowd and states it is not currently recruiting Baby Boomer or Gen X applicants. Once approved, members get access to themed erotic parties, pool parties, and domestic and international group vacations, with tickets sold through an affiliated ticketing platform. Membership categories include Couple, Female, FF Couple, Male, and Throuple/FMF, but single-male attendance is the most restricted: the organization has, at times, paused new male applications and pulled single-male tickets from specific events while keeping registration open for single women and couples. Chargebacks on event tickets are treated as a policy violation, triggering account deactivation until the fee and a processing charge are repaid.

The O Zone

Closed

Toronto, Ontario

Club

The O Zone, also marketed as O Couples Club (ocouplesclub.com), operated as one of the largest on-premise lifestyle clubs in North America from a 10,000-square-foot space at 36 Stoffel Drive in Etobicoke, a light-industrial pocket of northwest Toronto a short drive from Pearson International Airport. The club drew couples from across the Greater Toronto Area and regularly ran sellout themed events. The physical venue is now permanently closed; ocouplesclub.com redirects to takeabiteoftheapple.com, the events platform run under the TABOTA brand by the same operators. The space was built as a full-service nightclub as much as a play venue. A large central dance floor was ringed by poles, dance cages, go-go platforms, and a laser-and-light show, with a fully stocked licensed bar and food service on party nights. Intimate lounge areas offered seating for couples who preferred to watch or socialise, while a back section housed themed rooms, private play rooms, and locker rooms with showers. Nudity and intimate contact were not permitted in the bar or dance areas — play was restricted to the dedicated back rooms. Large themed events were a signature of the operation, most notably the annual TABOTA Mardi Pardi, a recurring sellout. When operating, the club ran Thursday through Saturday from 9 pm to 3 am on a members-only basis; annual membership was bundled into a guest's first-night charge, with a Platinum tier for recurring access. Fridays were mix-and-mingle nights open to couples and singles of all genders; Saturdays admitted couples and single women only, with unaccompanied men turned away. Minimum age was 21. Dress code barred athletic shoes, baggy jeans, ball caps, beach shorts, and sportswear.

Clubhouse 2050

Indianapolis, IN

On-Premise Club

Sitting just east of downtown Indianapolis on E Michigan Street — about two miles from city center — ClubHouse 2050 is Indiana's longest-running lifestyle members-only club, housed in a building with an eclectic past (members note it was once a funeral home, which only adds to its mystique). The ground floor is laid out like a social club: a sports bar, dance floor, card room, and game room all feed into a play area with curtained semi-private spaces. Upstairs, private and semi-private rooms are available for couples and groups, outfitted with fresh linens and stocked with convenience baskets. What sets ClubHouse 2050 apart is the breadth of its membership. Less than half of the crowd are full swingers; the rest are voyeurs, exhibitionists, BDSM and FetLife regulars, and vanilla couples who enjoy a flirtatious, no-judgment atmosphere. The club runs weekly events every Friday and Saturday (8pm–2am), leaning into themed nights that vary by the interests of those who show up. It is BYOB with no bar tab, and the flat $50 Saturday entry and roughly $30 Friday fee make it one of the most affordable on-premise clubs in the region. Paid members also unlock a full online community: photo sharing, direct messaging, and live video chat. The club partners with a sister venue, ClubhousePandora.com near Anderson Casino, and curates a calendar of lifestyle travel events for members seeking experiences beyond Indianapolis.

Sandy Bottoms Resort

Barrie, Ontario

Lifestyle Resort

Sandy Bottoms Resort is a clothing-optional couples retreat and lifestyle swingers destination set on over ten acres of private forested land in Central Ontario, approximately 230 kilometres from both Toronto and Ottawa. The property sits on its own private spring-fed lake bordered entirely by crown land, leaving no neighbouring cottages with sightlines to the grounds. The resort operates seasonally from late May through mid-October and is affiliated with TABOTA Events, a lifestyle events network. The sandy lakeside beach features lounge chairs, a floating daybed, and a covered dock; non-motorized watercraft — kayaks, canoes, paddleboards, a pedal boat, and a rowboat — are free for guest use. Inland amenities include a heated conversation pool, multiple hot tubs, a trampoline and diving platform, and The Dome, a 1,500-square-foot covered pavilion with a dance floor and stage hosting nightly DJ parties. A BYOB lounge with fireplace, self-catering communal kitchens, a Tiki Bar, beach campfire pit, on-site massage therapy, bikes, and hiking trails complete the property. Accommodation runs from deluxe en-suite rooms with an optional Jacuzzi upgrade and cedar villas with private wooded patios and BBQs, to a Garden Villa with a personal hot tub and outdoor shower, a two-bedroom Casita cabin with a full kitchenette and personal hot tub, cozy cabins with shared washrooms, and tent or RV camping sites. Themed weeks run from late May through mid-October, including Newbies and Nature, Full Moon Beach Bash, Kink Garden week, Oktoberfest, and Halloween Haunt. Regular nightly rates are $229 CAD (Cozy Cabins) and $369 CAD (Deluxe Rooms and Cedar Villas); promotional deals start from $119 CAD per night with a two-night minimum. Booking requires a free access code obtained by emailing the resort; only pre-registered guests are admitted. The resort is strictly couples and single women only — single men are not permitted.

Valentines in Niagara (VIN)

Niagara Falls, Ontario

Event Organizer

Valentines in Niagara (VIN) is an annual lifestyle convention staged in Niagara Falls, Ontario every February, organized by Tabota Events and running continuously since 2007. It operates as a complete hotel takeover of a luxury resort with an enclosed indoor tropical waterpark — the entire property reserved exclusively for attendees — drawing more than 200 couples per year from across Canada and the United States. The event bills itself as Canada's largest swingers lifestyle convention and sells out every year without exception. The host venue is an upscale resort minutes from the falls, with an indoor waterpark featuring a pool, two hot tubs, and poolside lounging, plus award-winning gourmet dining and bistro-style snacks served in a courtyard setting. The weekend runs to more than 20 programmed activities: 60- to 90-minute seminars and workshops — some informational, some with demonstrations, some fully hands-on — on topics including tantric sex, erotic photography, and intimacy skills. Afternoon events include body painting, pole dancing, and a couples speed dating session. Evening entertainment in the Oak Room has featured comedians, burlesque performers, and a hypnotist. Two themed dances anchor the nights: Friday's Red & White Your Hearts Delight party unfolds inside the waterpark itself, and Saturday's Mardi Gras night is the weekend's wildest evening. A vendor marketplace runs throughout, and two dedicated play spaces operate both nights — the Penthouse Playroom for open couples' exploration, and a Kinky Play Area equipped for bondage and sensation play. Pool parties are clothing-optional throughout. The core weekend runs Friday through Saturday, with an optional Thursday night pre-party available as an add-on. Pricing for 2027 in Canadian dollars, excluding HST: an event pass for a couple is CAD $398; pass with two nights in a standard room is CAD $968; poolside or wing-room upgrades add CAD $298; the Thursday pre-party is an additional CAD $229. A mandatory cash-only party credit of $100 per person is collected at check-in and is redeemable for food and drink anywhere in the hotel. Credit card payments carry a 6% surcharge. The event is open to couples and unaccompanied women only — single men are not admitted. Minimum age is 19. Advance booking through tabotaevents.com is required; event-only passes are available for guests staying off-site.

CJ's at The Townhouse

Glasgow, Scotland

On-Premise Club

Tucked into a quiet corner of Kelvindale on Glasgow's leafy west side, CJ's at The Townhouse has built a reputation as one of Scotland's most welcoming swingers clubs. The venue spans two floors of a discreet townhouse on Ashburton Road, with a trio of stripper-pole-lined lounges, a self-service bar and a buffet downstairs, and a warren of eight themed playrooms upstairs. Owner CJ personally walks first-timers through the space, and the crowd — a friendly mix of regulars and newcomers, often spanning their late twenties to early sixties — sets a tone that's more living-room than nightclub. Parties run on a tight rhythm: Friday nights (8pm–midnight) are couples and single ladies only; Saturdays (9pm–2am) open the door to a limited number of single men; and once a month, a Wednesday afternoon party (noon–3pm) welcomes everyone. There are also dedicated gay and bi-male nights run under the @cjs4gay banner. Entry is by prior booking only — no walk-ins, no admittance after 11pm — and photo ID (passport, driving licence or utility bill) is required at the door. Dress code is strictly enforced: a sexy little number for the ladies, smart casual or sexy attire for the gents. The playrooms cover everything from a cinema lounge and an open group room to a fully equipped dungeon, a medical-themed private room, a voyeur room, and a couples-and-single-females-only room with a love swing. Phones are off in public areas and cameras are banned outright, which keeps the vibe relaxed and discreet. The "party contribution" at the door covers a buffet plus tea, coffee and soft drinks; alcohol is BYOB with no corkage. Towels and condoms are provided, there's a separate indoor smoking area, and an on-site wardrobe and makeover service is on hand for anyone who wants to dress up before they head in.

BiZarre Events

London, Greater London

BDSM Club

BiZarre Events is a London production company that has run some of the capital's most distinctive alternative play parties, in its own words 'proudly and passionately since 2012.' Founded by Nina and Aidan, it operates as a private members' club rather than a single fixed venue, staging a rotating family of themed nights built around 'Diversity and Inclusion for LGBTQ+ and our Allies.' The flagship BiKINK is pitched as a night 'explicitly for bisexual / LGBTQ+ males and females as well as Trans* or gender-fluid' players; alongside it run PisSoir (an 'ULTIMATE WATERSPORTS' night), Club Labrys (a sex- and body-positive night for women) and Savage Dreams (an alt club for couples). The crowd is described as 'unpretentious, friendly, non-judgemental, respectful and colourful,' welcoming singles, couples 'of any configuration' and poly-groups, and 'seasoned players as well as newbies to the scene.' Parties are held at a 'well-established, internationally famous, purpose-fitted and very luxurious play-space' in North East London, kept discreet and disclosed to members on booking. The organisers describe it as 'extremely well connected' by various bus stops and 'a nearby 24-hour tube / underground line running to and from Central London,' with 'ample available and free parking.' Downstairs holds an elegant reception, a free staffed cloakroom, a bar and an indoor smoking area; upstairs opens onto 'a large, furnished play space, fully equipped with many bespoke pieces.' Unisex shower facilities, toiletries and fresh towels are provided free, and once you are inside the organisers stress that 'EVERYTHING is COMPLETELY FREE.' Security is handled by 'SIA licenced door supervisors' with both female and male crew, in what the club frames explicitly as a 'FEMALE EMPOWERED SAFE-SPACE.' Entry is by prior booking through the club's ticketing system, with booking opening roughly a month before each party. A paid annual membership (£40 per person, valid twelve months) is required at first attendance 'because we are a PRIVATE MEMBERS CLUB,' and admission is charged per event — singles around £70, couples and poly-groups about £50 per person (M/F couples £25 each on a summer promo), paid 'AT THE DOOR in CASH or by CARD,' with student, couples and limited low-income concessions available. Drinks are unusually generous: the club provides 'a very generous amount of alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks for FREE (beer & wine as well as soft drinks),' and members may also BYOB, with glasses and a fridge provided. House rules are firm and consent-led — 'Always! Ask! First!,' never interrupt a scene, ''No' means 'No',' a '100% no-illegal-drugs policy,' and 'absolutely DO NOT allow photography or audio / visual recording of any kind,' with mobile phones banned inside and checked into the cloakroom. Dress code is creative rather than prescriptive: 'leave the everyday street clothes look outside' and be 'APPROPRIATELY DRESSED for the occasion.'

Escapades New England

Providence, RI

Event Organizer

Escapades New England is a Providence-based lifestyle event group that has built a loyal following across Rhode Island and Massachusetts since its founding. Rather than operating a fixed club, the organizers take over Platforms Dance Club — a nightclub at 165 Poe St in Providence — for recurring themed parties, blending a nightclub energy with on-site play spaces including an open play area and a dungeon setup within the venue. The calendar runs on two tiers: regular takeover parties throughout the year, priced at $60–80 per couple (never more), and two flagship annual events that draw attendees from across New England. The Annual Midsummer Nights’ Wet Dream Foam Party, held at the end of July, is billed as the largest summer lifestyle event in New England and described by the organizers as a ‘Hedo-style’ party. The Erotic Masquerade Ball follows every September or October. Events are listed and ticketed through the SLS, SDC, and SwingTowns platforms. The organizers emphasize a newcomer-friendly atmosphere, noting they actively work to make first-timers feel at ease — a philosophy shaped by their own experience attending their first party. The ethos is summed up on their site as ‘confidence, class, and respect.’ Payment is accepted as cash or Venmo at the door, and attendees must present a verified screen name from one of the partner lifestyle platforms.

Mint Tease

London, London

Pop-Up Event Series

Mint Tease is the play-party arm of Mint Events London, a queer women's events brand founded in 2006 by Nicola Chubb. Known as the promiscuous wing of the long-running Mint brand, it operates as a roving East London pop-up rather than at a fixed address: a series of periodic erotic events staged in private, unlisted venues and designed exclusively for queer women, femmes, thems, non-binary guests, and bi and curious women. The format sits at a studied remove from the conventional sex-club aesthetic — events are curated around comfort, consent, and community as much as play, drawing a crowd spanning ages and experience levels, from first-timers to Mint regulars. Recent editions have taken over The Old Dispensary at 19a Leman Street, East London (E1 8EN), a multi-floor space a short walk from Aldgate East and Liverpool Street stations. Three floors carry a cocktail bar with DJ sets, a ground-floor social and performance area, private playrooms, an open playroom with antique furnishings and fireplaces, and a fully equipped BDSM dungeon with suspension apparatus. On-site dominatrices facilitate activities and offer orientations for newcomers; the atmosphere is described as relaxed and consent-centred. Mint Tease events run periodically through the year — there is no fixed weekly cadence. A daytime variant, Twilight Tease, holds afternoon sessions (typically 3 pm–8 pm) in smaller private venues. Standard events run roughly 8 pm–1 am. Tickets are sold in advance only through a verification process: prospective attendees complete an application form before purchase; returning verified guests receive access codes by email. Recent ticket prices have sat at £55 (early bird) to £60 (final release) plus booking fees. Entry closes strictly at 10 pm, with organisers recommending arrival before 9 pm. Government-issued photo ID is mandatory. The dress code enforces self-expression: leather, lace, lingerie, harnesses, corsets, and heels are the expectation; streetwear and light denim are turned away at the door.

Illuminaughty Albuquerque

Unverified

Albuquerque, NM

Event Organizer

Illuminaughty Albuquerque is the local New Mexico chapter of Illuminaughty, a membership-based lifestyle events network with chapters in more than 40 U.S. cities. As of mid-2026, the Albuquerque chapter is still in a pre-launch, member-recruitment phase: its own site states the group "is preparing to launch exclusive lifestyle cocktail mixers and private swinger parties" and that organizers "just need a few more members signed up" before scheduling a first local event. There is no fixed clubhouse -- as in other Illuminaughty markets, parties would be held at private venues disclosed only to ticket holders once a schedule exists. Network-wide, Illuminaughty runs two event formats: Tease Cocktail Mixers held in reserved sections of bars and restaurants, and private parties hosted in rented or member-owned homes, apartments, or estates that are decorated and staffed for the night. Standard parties feature a themed dress code, a private security team, a set arrival window followed by a group consent-and-rules talk, and multiple play spaces that can include a group room and light bondage or kink equipment, though advanced BDSM such as heavy impact, breath, fire, or blood play is not permitted. These are documented network practices published on Illuminaughty's national site; Albuquerque-specific venues and setups are not yet public, since no local party has been announced or hosted. Membership is free but requires an application with photos, and approval isn't guaranteed; once approved, members receive event invitations for whichever region they follow, including Albuquerque. Network events are typically open to couples, single women, and a small, gender-balanced number of vetted single men -- roughly two to four per event -- with solo men lacking a Single Man ticket turned away by security. Parties are BYOB, with mixers and non-alcoholic drinks provided; phones and cameras are banned once the consent talk begins, and late arrivals outside the posted window aren't admitted.

Oasis Aqualounge

Toronto, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Oasis Aqualounge is a water-themed, clothing-optional adult spa and social club occupying a 9,000-square-foot restored 19th-century mansion at 231 Mutual Street in downtown Toronto. Open since 2010 to all guests aged 19 and over, the club does not describe itself as a swinger club — it positions as a body-positive, consent-forward venue drawing a broad community: monogamous couples, polyamorous individuals, kink enthusiasts, and guests who want spa facilities in a sex-positive setting without expectation of partner activity. Admission covers a day membership, locker access, and towel service; no separate ongoing membership is required. The crowd typically spans the mid-thirties to mid-fifties, and the venue has been recognised four times as one of Canada's fastest-growing businesses (2019, 2020, 2024, and 2025). The centrepiece is a year-round outdoor heated pool — maintained near 100°F in winter — set within a private courtyard flanked by a hot tub and a dry sauna. Two licensed bars serve alcohol and soft drinks across the property, with poolside patio seating for guests moving between the spa and social areas. Play areas span four floors and include a dungeon equipped with a swing and a St. Andrew's Cross, plus a private room on the fourth floor that any guest can reserve in one-hour increments at no extra charge. Staff known as Aquaflirt hosts circulate throughout, offering tours for first-time visitors and facilitating introductions. A colour-coded silicone wristband system near the entrance lets guests signal their openness to interaction. Oasis is open 1pm to 3am, 362 days a year (last admission 2am; closed Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, and one Monday in December for maintenance). Fridays and Saturdays are reserved for women and couples only; solo men may attend Sunday through Thursday. Approximately once a month — typically the fourth Monday — the club runs Sapphic Aquatica, an event exclusively for women and trans guests. Door prices include HST: solo women pay CAD $15 (Sun–Thu) or $25 (Fri–Sat); couples pay $100 or $115 respectively; solo men pay $100 on eligible weekdays. No outside drinks are permitted. Walk-ins are welcome most nights, though high-demand events may require advance booking via the online ticket calendar.

Sea Mountain Spa Las Vegas

Las Vegas, NV

Bath House

Sea Mountain Spa Las Vegas is a members-only, clothing-optional lifestyles day-and-night club minutes from the Strip, operating out of a private compound on South Eastern Avenue. The property centres on heated nude pools and an oversized whirlpool surrounded by designer daybeds, floating cabanas, and sun-drenched tanning gardens. Indoors, the Dharma Club — an on-premises lifestyles lounge with a dance pole, DJ booth, and lingerie-and-less dress code — runs around the clock, making it Las Vegas's only 24-hour on-premises couples lifestyle venue. Admission is restricted to couples and single women; single men are never permitted. A six-month membership ($20 per person) must be purchased on the first visit, and all guests must be 21-plus. Day retreats run 10 a.m.–5 p.m.; evening packages extend from 2 p.m. to 1–3 a.m. depending on the night, with late-night add-ons available. All-day passes include complimentary soft drinks, snacks, and lunch. The venue is BYOB for alcohol — none is sold on-site — and 420-cannabis-friendly. The all-female staff cultivates a no-attitude, non-body-shaming atmosphere, and reviewers consistently note a relaxed, pressure-free vibe with a friendly crowd spanning twenties through sixties. Pool and whirlpool areas are clothes-free year-round (towels, sarongs, and robes are provided), while evenings shift to a provocative lingerie-and-less code inside the Dharma Club.

Club Bacchus

Dundee, Scotland

On-Premise Club

Club Bacchus occupies a discreet address on Princes Street in Dundee — about five minutes from the bus station and fifteen minutes on foot from Dundee Station — billing itself as Tayside's most stylish and discreet adult lifestyle venue.

X Club Winnipeg

Closed

Winnipeg, Manitoba

Sex Club

X Club Winnipeg was one of Canada's largest lifestyle and sex-positive social clubs, occupying a converted three-storey building at 457 Notre Dame Ave in downtown Winnipeg, Manitoba. The venue operated as an all-inclusive, body-positive space welcoming couples, singles, and LGBTQ2S+ guests of all orientations and gender identities. The club permanently closed on May 24, 2026, after repeated unsuccessful applications for a liquor license from Manitoba's Liquor, Gaming and Cannabis Authority left the business financially unviable. Spanning over 10,000 square feet across three floors, X Club offered 35 lockable private rooms — from single lockers to themed fantasy suites and a private hot tub suite — alongside a dry sauna, large steam room, communal showers, and a sex-free social lounge. A basement dungeon housed sex swings, a kink cage, glory holes, and a gay and bi-oriented porn lounge. The venue hosted themed event nights including Seductive Saturdays and fantasy-themed Fridays, and operated on a continuous schedule from Wednesday at 9 AM through Monday at 3 AM, closing only on Tuesdays. Entry was structured as a room or locker rental rather than a traditional door charge, and no alcohol was ever sold on the premises.

Stopgap

San Francisco, CA

Event Organizer

Opened in April 2024 inside the SoMa building that once housed the SF Citadel, Stopgap is a turnkey kink venue that bridges San Francisco's leather history with its present-day scene. The fully accessible ground floor holds social areas, lockers, two bathrooms, and open play spaces fitted with hardpoints, while a staircase descends to a 3,100-square-foot basement dungeon stocked with equipment recovered from the Citadel's collection alongside newer pieces -- crosses, benches, tables, bondage chairs, cages, and at least 20 suspension hardpoints with floor mats for rope work. The venue is run by the AfterDark Events team, a POC, femme, queer, neurodivergent, and disabled-led organisation, and doubles as a rental space for third-party producers. Stopgap's own flagship is House Party, an inclusive open-play night held on the first Friday of every month, alongside weekly open-dungeon sessions, the Wrapt rope jam on fourth Mondays, Society of Janus play parties on second Saturdays, and rotating themed events such as Board Games & Bondage.

Syracuse Social Club

Unverified

Syracuse, NY

Syracuse Social Club is a private, invitation-only lifestyle social group serving the greater Syracuse area out of Liverpool, NY. Operating as an off-premise club, it offers couples and single women a low-pressure way to meet like-minded people — think social dancing and mingling rather than on-site play. Events run twice a month at a rotating private, discreet location kept off public records. Because the club does not maintain a fixed venue, the atmosphere is more intimate social gathering than nightclub: attendance is by invitation only, and prospective members are directed to contact the club to receive an invite to an upcoming dance. The club is strictly couples and single women only — single men are never admitted. New members must contact the club for an invitation before they can attend their first event. The recurring format of dancing as the social anchor keeps the vibe sociable and approachable, making it a natural entry point for couples newer to the lifestyle who want to meet others without the immediacy of an on-premise venue. Details beyond the core format — pricing, exact scheduling, dress code, and specific house rules — are communicated directly to invited guests. Prospective attendees are directed to the club website at syracusesocialclub.com to submit a session request.

The Badd Kitty Club operated out of a large private venue at 3491 Route 20 in the town of Sheridan, Chautauqua County — about 45 miles southwest of Buffalo near the Fredonia/Dunkirk exit. Billing itself as western New York's premier women-run, on-premise lifestyle club, it catered exclusively to couples and single women; membership was free to apply for, with event access and website login granted only after vetting. The club described itself as a private, members-only setting for couples and singles to explore their passions without inhibition. At its peak the club hosted several events per month, drawing gatherings of around 50 people at a time. Owner Raquel Spears argued it was a legitimate private business and a responsible neighbour; reports noted guests paying approximately $150 per head, with the club estimating close to $300,000 in annual economic impact. The venue shared its building with a daytime pawn shop, operated evenings with no exterior signage, and admitted only pre-screened members — BYOB throughout, with no bar licence. The physical venue was destroyed in a fire on July 11, 2022. As of late 2024 the burned-out shell remained standing, with the Town of Sheridan filing a state Supreme Court lawsuit against the property owner seeking demolition and site remediation. The club website (baddkittyclub.com) remains reachable but returns sparse content; no verified evidence of a new operating location has been found.

Club Tempted

Louisville, KY

Lifestyle Resort

Club Tempted is a members-only private lifestyle club serving Louisville, Kentucky, run on the Modern Lifestyle club platform used by swinger and lifestyle venues across North America. The club does not publish a street address; location details are shared only with applicants who complete Tempted's online membership screening and registration process at clubtempted.com. The venue occupies more than 9,000 square feet across two floors, with a large dance floor, nine themed play rooms, dressing rooms, and lockers (locks provided) for members' belongings. Ticket holders can access a first-floor VIP lounge and second-floor VIP rooms, and the space seats roughly 325 guests. The bar is BYOB and self-serve, with mixers provided by the club at no charge, and smoking is permitted in an outdoor area only. Events run on Friday and Saturday nights, plus periodic special events, with access tiered across four membership levels — Onyx, Crystal, Ruby, and Diamond — priced from $250/year ($25/month) up to $1,000/year ($100/month); higher tiers carry lower ticket prices and larger special-event and VIP discounts. A $20 one-weekend pass and a $20 online-only annual membership (community access only, no event entry) are also available. Because the club is members-only, prospective guests must apply and pass Tempted's screening process before attending.

On-premise lifestyle club

Kat's Fantasies is a long-running adult lifestyle club operating out of an upscale venue in South Surrey, British Columbia, self-described as Vancouver's hardcore swingclub. The club has been active since approximately 2007 and operates by screened membership only — no walk-ins — with free membership granted after a short application process including a photo submission. The guest mix trends toward couples and single women in the 35–50 age range and screened single men aged 19–55, with attendance ranging from roughly 20 to 75 per event depending on the night. The venue features a dance floor, DJ booth, pool table, two private rooms, and a large open orgy room equipped with a sex swing and a signature wall of porn. Two no-play socializing lounges allow guests to meet and mix without pressure. Massage tables and oils are available, and overnight accommodation is offered on-site: private queen rooms at CAD $60 per couple and open beds at CAD $40 per couple. The club operates on a BYOB basis; complimentary coffee, tea, filtered water, and light snacks are provided along with condoms and lube. The events calendar runs across several formats: Greedy Girl (one to two Saturdays monthly, 8PM–1AM); Fuck Me Friday (one to two Fridays monthly, 8PM–midnight); Bi Night (monthly Friday or Saturday, 8PM–midnight or 1AM); Cougars & Cubs (monthly Friday, 8PM–midnight); Hump Day Happy Hour (Wednesday, 7–11PM, October–May); and Sunday Afternoon Delight (Sunday, 2–6PM, October–May). Donation pricing varies by event — for flagship nights, couples pay CAD $50 advance or $70 at door; single men pay $60 advance or $80 at door; single ladies pay $20. Midweek and Sunday events are lower. Guests must arrive within a set check-in window and may not re-enter after leaving.

Leisure with Pleasure

Unverified

Leicester, Leicestershire

On-Premise Club

Leisure with Pleasure — also traded as Club 29, Club 29 Swing Club, and Bond Street Retreat — occupies a discreet address at 29 New Bond Street in Leicester city centre. It bills itself as Leicester's only alternative sauna for the lifestyle-curious and the more adventurous, and has operated under various names at the same location for many years. The NHS has formally recognised the address as a sexual health outreach venue, with Leicester Sexual Health services running a monthly drop-in clinic there offering free condoms, STI testing, and advice. The venue spreads across three floors. Upper floors contain spa facilities — a hot tub, sauna, and steam room — alongside a cinema room, a dark fetish room equipped with a swing and cross, showers, and private rooms. Reviewers also describe playrooms, a dungeon area, and a disco-and-party room. The club maintains a strict drug-free policy, and multiple guests note that staff are approachable and willing to walk newcomers through the space. Reviewers are divided on atmosphere: several praise the clean, friendly environment, while others have criticised cramped conditions and dated décor. Google-listed hours indicate daytime sessions on Wednesday, Friday, and Sunday, though schedules and current entry fees could not be independently verified — the club's official website is not currently accessible.

CC House Party

Country Club Hills, IL

On-Premise Club

CC House Party has built a reputation as the most talked-about lifestyle house party in metropolitan Chicago, running an 8,000-square-foot on-premises club in the south suburb of Country Club Hills every Saturday night. The single-story private facility draws 60 to 100 couples per party. The layout spans open and private play rooms, a dance floor anchored by a stripper pole with club-grade lighting and sound, voyeur and exhibition spaces, a massage table and bondage equipment, and a group shower — giving the venue a genuinely upscale, well-maintained feel rather than a makeshift house-party vibe. A complimentary buffet dinner is served alongside a BYOB setup with mixers, and the crowd mixes and mingles on the open lounge floor before drifting toward the private rooms as the night goes on. Doors open at 7:30 PM, with a hard 11:00 PM arrival cutoff for new admission, and first-time guests complete a membership application and ID check before entry.

TJ's Lasting Impressions

Newport, PA

on-premise lifestyle club

Billed as the largest and most luxurious lifestyle club in Central Pennsylvania, TJ's Lasting Impressions sits on 2620 Susquehanna Trail in Newport, about 25 miles northwest of Harrisburg. The 16,000-square-foot venue reads more upscale supper club than dungeon: a soaring dance floor anchored by a mirrored stage and 10-foot brass pole, a full BYOB bar where bartenders pour from your labeled bottle with free mixers, and a proper sit-down restaurant serving Angus steak, grilled chicken, Chicken Parmesan, and Shrimp & Chips — all included in the door price. Late-night desserts and finger food run until 3 am. Pennsylvania's largest Roman-style hot tub, seating 80, is the social centrepiece. The playspace runs to 12 themed party rooms and a large open group room, plus an observation room. For those who want to extend the stay, nine hotel-standard VIP rooms check in at 3 pm ($110/night) and check out at 11 am; party rooms can also be held for overnight use from $70 after the club closes at 3 am. Events are Saturday-only, 8 pm–3 am, and advance reservation through the club's website is required. Membership is mandatory but easy: a one-time trial runs $15, and the annual rate is $50 for couples, $25 for single ladies, and $50 for single men. Event fees mirror that structure. A cash discount is available. First-timers can download the membership form online to speed up check-in; valid photo ID is required at the door for all guests 21 and up.

Tabu Social Club

Catonsville, MD

on-premise lifestyle club

Tucked into a commercial strip in Catonsville just west of Baltimore, Tabu Social Club has operated since 2004 as the region's flagship on-premise lifestyle venue — Black-owned and women-owned, drawing couples and single ladies from across the Baltimore-DC corridor. The space splits cleanly into two distinct zones: upstairs, a nightclub-style lounge with a raised dance floor, plush sunken seating, two dance poles, an elevated dance cage, and a dedicated ladies-only dance stage, all driven by resident DJ Kutt on Saturdays and rotating DJs on Fridays. The tone reads more upscale martini bar than basement party — well-lit, clean, and deliberately social before it's anything else. Descend to the lower level and the energy shifts: Vicki's VIP Lounge houses 11 sexually themed private suites — a doctor room, a love-voodoo room with a waterfall, a floating-bed mirrored room, a BDSM room, an oriental room, a gang-bang room, and two glass-window voyeur rooms — plus one open group area. Suite assignments are managed by a lounge attendant, and time limits apply when demand is high. Showers, towels, lockers, and five refrigerated coolers for BYOB beverages round out the amenities. The weekly rhythm is Fridays 9 pm–2 am and Saturdays 9 pm–3 am, with themed nights cycling through the calendar — newbie nights, pride parties, blackout events, and passport parties. Membership is open to couples and single females only; single males require a six-month-active-member sponsor. The crowd skews mature and dressed-up, with regular and new faces finding the no-pressure ethos — staff walk first-timers through the layout and etiquette on arrival — the club's most consistently praised quality.

Angel of Love

Roth, Bavaria

On-Premise Lifestyle Club

Set in an industrial quarter on the southern edge of Roth bei Nürnberg — just off the B2 with direct access to the A9 and A6 motorways — Angel of Love has established itself as one of Bavaria’s most prominent lifestyle destinations. The freshly renovated venue covers more than 2,000 square metres wrapped behind a discreet exterior, fitted out to a contemporary standard with premium audio, modern lighting, and a warmly styled interior that reads as upscale private event rather than nightclub. Jasmin and Markus Herrmann, who took over operations in early 2025 and draw on years of personal experience in the swinger community, describe the house philosophy as openness and tolerance without pressure — a space to explore freely among like-minded people, whether for a seasoned regular or a curious first-timer.

The Passion Palace

Closed

San Diego, CA

Tucked into a gated residential estate roughly ten to fifteen minutes east of Downtown San Diego off the I-8, Passion Palace pitched itself as Southern California's premier on-premise lifestyle venue for couples and single women. The property stretched across 5,800 square feet of landscaped grounds and included a pool, spa, and tennis court alongside a large covered patio — a setting that read more like a private party at a well-heeled friend's home than a commercial club. Inside, a DJ-anchored dance floor with club lighting and a stripper pole anchored the social space, while a buffet dinner and desserts kept the vibe convivial. Six dedicated playrooms offered varied configurations, and the space also featured a swing, Liberator furniture, and a Sybian. Parking assistance was provided for most events. The crowd was drawn from the club's membership, with host couples and staff present to welcome guests. Entry was strictly pre-registered and prepaid through SanDiegoPartyPlanner.net — no walk-ins. Single men were not admitted; the venue catered exclusively to couples and single women. Three membership tiers were available: 3-month, 12-month, and a Lifetime Founders Club.

Untamed Nights

Bournemouth, Dorset

Events Organiser

Established in 2022, Untamed Nights is Bournemouth's principal adult lifestyle events organiser, serving the local swinging and kink-positive community along the Dorset coast. The operation runs parties, socials, and community events under a single guiding ethos of 'Be yourself' — with an explicit commitment to inclusivity that extends to singles, couples, and trans and non-binary guests alike. After holding a fixed Bournemouth residency through 2024, the organisation relinquished that permanent venue in early 2025 and pivoted to a touring model, hand-picking venues across the UK for each event while keeping its home base in the BH2 postcode area of Bournemouth. The regular midweek anchor is The Social at UN, held each Wednesday evening (7:30pm–midnight) at 45 Poole Hill, Bournemouth BH2 5PW — a free-to-attend community gathering designed for newcomers and regulars alike, with the Loft Bar reserved as a social-only space. For party events, Untamed Nights uses private venues whose exact addresses are shared only after ticket purchase, with stated capacities ranging from 50 to 400 guests depending on the event. Programming stretches well beyond standard swing parties: the 2026 calendar includes the nine-part House of Hades series — an immersive sequence of gate events blending kink education, rope workshops, erotic storytelling, and a ticketed Halloween main event — as well as a women-only swing evening (Scissor Sisters) at The Alchemy in Bournemouth, and online educational workshops. A separate brand, Vunilla, handles mainstream DJ and live-act nights under the same umbrella. Social events are free to attend; paid party events run on a flat per-person tariff regardless of how a guest identifies — single men, single women, couples, and CD/TV/TS guests all pay the same rate. Recent party tickets have been priced at £25 for early release, rising to £28–£30 closer to the door. An optional annual membership costs £15 per person and delivers £5 off each subsequent event ticket, plus affiliate discounts and a VIP card; membership requires a verified profile on a swinging platform such as SpicyMatch. Photo ID is required for entry at every event without exception. Dress code is enforced across all events: smart presentation is expected and trainers, tracksuits, and baseball caps are explicitly prohibited. Venue locations for parties in the BH2 area are disclosed to ticket holders only after purchase.

The Foothills Club

Anderson, SC

On-Premise Club

The Foothills Club is a private, membership-only lifestyle club based in Anderson, South Carolina, near Exit 19A on I-85 (Clemson Boulevard). Founded in 1985 as informal house parties in Georgia, it moved through a string of hotel ballrooms in Spartanburg and Greenville before adding a second location in Clinton, SC in August 2011. That Clinton venue closed for good in May 2013 when its host hotel was sold for redevelopment, and the club's own history page still records it as "Clinton (RIP)." Since 2014 the club has operated exclusively out of Anderson, hosting a two-night party each month. Parties are held in a private hotel ballroom rather than a dedicated venue -- the club has changed host hotels several times over the decades and has occupied its current Anderson property since December 2021. Each ballroom is decorated to match a monthly theme, with a DJ, dance floor, lighted stripper pole and lounge area. The club frames itself as a nightclub-style meet-and-mingle rather than an on-site play space: sex and nudity are not permitted in the ballroom or any public area of the hotel, with couples expected to take things back to a private hotel room instead. Membership is open to couples and singles of any age, race, size or orientation, though single men are capped in number at each event. The typical two-night format pairs a Friday-night Meet and Greet karaoke party (around 8:30pm-1:30am) -- open to non-members on a BYOB basis with no cover charge -- with a members-only Saturday main event (from about 8pm) that includes a complimentary open bar (cut off around 11:45pm) plus the option to BYOB. Attending the main event requires a one-time lifetime membership purchased at the door; the club accepts cash only, with no credit cards, debit cards or checks. New members must be 21 or older, show a valid photo ID matching their registration form, and complete a short information sheet. Registration typically closes around 9:30pm. There is no strict dress code, though attendees are encouraged to dress to each month's theme.

Club Choices

Closed

Houston, TX

On-Premise Club

Club Choices — branded interchangeably as Club Choices Houston and Choices Swingers Club — operated for years out of an unmarked warehouse on Star Lane, a quiet industrial side street tucked just north of the Galleria. The building itself is a roughly 9,000-square-foot, three-level Class C industrial shell with no street signage; the kind of place you could drive past a hundred times without noticing. Inside, the club ran a hard split between the floors: ground level was full nightclub — dance floor, stripper poles, stages, chains hanging from the ceiling, a live DJ rotating between Top 40 and classics, and a BYOB setup bar pouring free sodas, water and mixers. The upper floor flipped the script entirely — hot tub, showers, a swing, lockers, a massage table, a small video room, fetish toys, and a row of VIP suites for couples and groups. A small on-site adult boutique stocked by SoftTouchSecrets.com sold lingerie, condoms and the usual range of toys for anyone who wanted to take a piece of the night home. The club ran Thursday through Saturday, with the occasional Wednesday daytime RSVP play session and rare Sunday slots. Thursdays opened the door at 9pm and pushed to 2am; Fridays and Saturdays ran until 5am with last entry at 1:30. Door pricing was tiered the standard on-premise way — single men paid the most ($40 Thursday, $60 weekend), couples sat in the middle ($30/$40), single women paid the least and got in free before 11pm. Membership was a $10 one-time fee bought on arrival. Dress code was enforced firmly enough that it appeared on every page of the site: "Dress to Impress" — sexy for women, nice shirt, shoes and pants for men, never sportswear and never shorts. The crowd, by all accounts, skewed older and quieter than a typical Houston nightclub. One Yelp review captured the tone: "Not what you think — it's not a strip bar and there's not sex everywhere. It is very classy and refined. Women are very respected." The club closed at 5/5 stars across 12 Yelp reviews. By March 2026 the doors were shut. There was no announcement — no press release, no closure post on Instagram, no farewell event. The clubchoiceshouston.com domain went dark first (Hostinger suspended the hosting account, the standard sign of unpaid bills), Yelp updated the listing to CLOSED in March, and the building re-tenanted to Lane 58, a hookah bar that took its Yelp listing live in May 2026. The Star Lane address has a long history of running through nightlife tenants — StarLane Industry Afterhours, Club 5806 / Rendevu, VIA After Hours (closed November 2025), and Richmond Studios (a daytime photography/event tenant from 2018) all cycled through the same building. None of the two dormant Instagram accounts (@clubchoiceshouston, @clubchoicess) have posted since well before closure, and the @bacchusnightclub_ confusion that occasionally surfaces online is a different venue in Bishop's Stortford, England. The legacy Wix site at choiceslifestyle.wixsite.com/choices is the only piece of the operation still publicly readable — a frozen snapshot of pricing, hours and rules from when the lights were on.

The Pendulum Club South

Houston, TX

On-Premise Club

Sitting just off Airport Boulevard near Hobby Airport, The Pendulum Club South opened in 2018 as one of Houston's only women-owned and operated lifestyle venues. Billed as the 'hip and young at heart' sibling in TPC's three-location network, it trades the original Hempstead brothel-replica aesthetic for a mid-town contemporary vibe — a compact, deliberately intimate space that caps capacity to guarantee a lively atmosphere even on quieter nights. Tours are offered to first-timers who arrive before 10:30 PM, and the staff-led walkthrough is a signature touch from the women who run all three clubs. The layout unfolds from a main dance floor with a full bar setup (BYOB — cups, ice, and mixers provided free) into a separate select-area lounge ringed by booth seating and a private dance stage, where exhibitionists can perform for their partners. Beyond that lies the back area: four private rooms, a veiled bed, a group bed surrounded by couches, and an adjacent room with its own private space. Admission is couples, single women, and a limited number of single men on Friday nights only; single men must exit by 2 AM and access to the front playrooms is restricted. A $10 nightly membership fee is collected at the door on top of the cover charge. The club runs Friday and Saturday nights from 9 PM to 3 AM, with doors closing at 2 AM — no admittance after that. Membership registration is required before your first visit and a government-issued photo ID must be presented at entry. A colour-coded wristband system lets guests signal their interests and comfort levels without a word being exchanged. Dress code is enforced: smart-casual or better for men (collared shirt, dress slacks, clean footwear), sexy and classy for women. No cameras, phones, or recording devices anywhere inside the venue.

Xtasia

West Bromwich, West Midlands

mixed

Established in the 1980s, Xtasia describes itself as the UK's longest-running swingers club, sitting behind an ironwork fence on High Street in West Bromwich. The complex has grown into a dual-venue operation: the main Xtasia Nightclub on one side and the adjacent Flirts Bar, Hotel and Cinema on the other, sharing the same gated grounds. A staff member walks first-timers around the entire site on arrival, and on a busy night the club draws well over 100 couples, with major events topping 300 guests. The Xtasia side centres on a large ground-floor dance arena with a fully licensed bar and themed playrooms and a dungeon spread across multiple levels. Flirts adds a cinema, bar, further playrooms, a boutique, a naturist sun deck, and hotel accommodation in double, dormitory, and quadruple rooms. The Flirts Spa is the newest addition — a swim spa with current-resistance jets, an eight-seat infrared sauna, an eight-seat steam room, a small gym, and communal locker facilities. In 2014 the club was voted the number-one swingers venue in the UK by the authors of Sex in the Cities. The main nightclub runs Friday and Saturday from 8pm to 3am (last entry 1am); the Flirts bar is open Monday to Thursday noon to midnight and noon to 8pm on Fridays and Saturdays. Membership is required for all events and must be arranged in advance online: couples pay a one-off lifetime fee of £20, single females £10 lifetime, and single males £40 per year. Single males must receive a written acceptance email before attending. Entry prices vary by event and are published in the online diary.

Club Medusa

San Diego, CA

Club Medusa is a private lifestyle club in San Diego, CA welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

The Attic Experience

Derby, Derbyshire

On-Premise Club

The Attic Experience is a lifestyle and swingers club occupying Carrington House on Ascot Drive in the Allenton district of Derby, owned and operated by Ron Rothwell through Attic Media (Midlands) Limited. Built from the ground up by swingers, for swingers — in the club’s own words — it describes itself explicitly as a social and play space, not a nightclub, strip club, or brothel. No membership is required, the venue welcomes all orientations and experience levels, and newcomers are offered a guided tour of the premises by a staff member on arrival. Entry is cash only throughout, and guests must be 21 or over. The venue is notably large, encompassing a cinema lounge, a fully equipped dungeon with an enforced safe-word system (red/amber/green), a hot tub available on Friday and Saturday evenings, showers, separate locker rooms for single males and for couples and TV guests, a tea bar, a jail cell room, a turret, dark rooms, a glory-hole area, and a range of lockable private rooms. The club operates a BYOB policy throughout — no alcohol is sold on the premises. Mobile phones are banned in all public areas without exception, cameras are prohibited site-wide, and CCTV covers communal areas only, with toilets, showers, changing rooms, and private rooms explicitly excluded. The club runs daytime sessions Monday through Saturday (10am–5pm) alongside evening sessions on Wednesdays through Saturdays. Monday is reserved for TV and Admirers events. Evening sessions run Wednesday and Thursday until midnight, Friday until 1am, and Saturday until 2am, with smart casual dress required at all times and formal footwear for men on Friday and Saturday evenings. Daytime entry is free for couples and single ladies; single males pay £15. Evening entry is £20 for couples and TVs, £15 for single females, and £35 for single males. On Fridays and Saturdays, single males are admitted from 8pm only, last entry 11pm, and entry is not guaranteed. Themed party nights are held on the mid and late Saturdays of each month.

The Sterling

Newton, MA

On-Premise Club

Sterling bills itself as a BYOB neighborhood lounge in Boston Metro-West corridor — a low-key, residential-scale club where couples can meet, socialize, and play on-premise without the noise of a larger nightclub. Holding the distinction of being New England's second-oldest swing club and a NASCA International member, Sterling has built a reputation for discretion and longevity over flash. The venue has no dance floor, no pool, no hot tub, and no private rooms — the emphasis is firmly on the social side, with self-serve BYOB and no smoking inside. The schedule centers on Saturday evenings with parties most weeks; the space is also available most other afternoons and evenings for members' use, giving it the feel of a private club. Admission is by membership only — prospective members must complete an interview before attending — and out-of-area NASCA-I affiliate cards are honored for visitors from other regions. Membership is restricted to couples and single women; single men are not invited to club events. The club serves Greater Boston, northern Rhode Island, southern New Hampshire, and southern Maine.

Xchange is a private, membership-only lifestyle club at 2172 Venture Drive in Memphis, Tennessee, serving couples, single women, and single men aged 21 and over. It operates as a members-only social venue rather than a public bar or nightclub, with membership required for entry. The venue occupies more than 3,500 square feet and includes private lounges, a dressing room, and lockers available from the door staff. A large dance floor is paired with a live DJ who takes song requests, and a 102-inch projector screen plays music videos throughout the night. The bar is BYOB only, Xchange does not sell alcohol on site but supplies complimentary mixers and snacks. Parties run every Saturday night from 8pm to 2am; the club is closed the rest of the week. Attendance requires an active membership and photo ID at the door.

Bristol Gardens Health Spa

Brighton, East Sussex

Bath House

Bristol Gardens Health Spa has been running since April 1985 from a pair of adjoining Regency-era lodges on Bristol Gardens, one mile east of Brighton city centre and a short walk from the marina.

Swingers Club

CAPC — the Calgary Adult Playground Club — operates out of a discreet, unmarked building tucked into a secluded corner of northeast Calgary. The venue, known to members as The Studio, offers no outward hints of what lies inside: no music bleeds through the walls, no signage marks the entrance.

Hanke Panke Lifestyle Club

Unverified

San Diego, CA

Hankie Pankie Lifestyle Club — also marketed as Embrace Lifestyle Events — has been one of San Diego's most approachable entries into the Southern California lifestyle scene since at least 2012. Rather than operating a fixed brick-and-mortar venue, the club brings its parties to a rotating roster of venues across Southern California, dressing each location with a distinct theme to keep the calendar feeling fresh. Each event layers food and mixers, curated music, and live entertainment into the mix, giving the night a social-club warmth rather than the anonymous feel of a conventional adult venue. The club has built a particular reputation for drawing in newcomers — hosting dedicated introductory events designed to walk first-timers through what to expect and help them find their feet before diving in. The crowd skews toward couples and single women, and the overall tone is described consistently as classy, elegant yet sexy: a setting where guests are expected to mingle and connect rather than arrive with a fixed agenda. The club is reachable via Facebook @hankiepankielifestyle and X @HankiePankieCA. A mailing address at 9528 Miramar Rd #1137 in San Diego is listed in lifestyle directories, consistent with the rotating-venue model.

DJ's Island

Beaver Falls, PA

DJ's Island has anchored the Pittsburgh-area lifestyle scene since 2002, drawing couples from across the tri-state region to its 8,500-square-foot venue on Big Beaver Boulevard in Beaver Falls, PA. Owned and operated by Jim and Debbie, who scoured the region's best clubs before building their own, the venue greets members at a reservation desk before a host couple walks first-timers through the space — a pattern that sets a no-pressure, consent-forward tone from the moment you arrive. The main room pairs a five-sided open bar with a full-size dance floor fitted with two poles and a dance cage, surrounded by posh leather seating and backlit walls that keep the atmosphere somewhere between upscale nightclub and comfortable living room. The play facilities span an open room with two king-size beds, ten private rooms each with a complete private bath, and a 20-person hot tub with an open shower area. Every Friday and Saturday night entry covers a full dinner buffet: hors d'oeuvres and the salad bar appear at 7:30 pm, a sit-down dinner runs from 8 pm to 11:30 pm, and late-night finger sandwiches carry the crowd through to close at 2 am. The club seats 200-plus in the dining area, and the kitchen turns out a rotating menu of appetizers, grilled entrees, and nightly specials. DJ's Island runs as a private membership association — annual membership is $50, and no one enters without a reservation and a valid membership card. Doors open at 7 pm and lock at 11 pm; new members are encouraged to arrive between 7 and 8 pm for their exclusive tour. The BYOB bar is fully staffed with a professional bartender and a complete mixer selection, and a full crew — doorman, waitresses, cleaning staff, and DJ — keeps the evening running smoothly.

Miami Velvet

Miami, FL

On-Premise Club

Set in a hulking commercial warehouse just off the Palmetto Expressway near Miami International Airport, Miami Velvet bills itself as Florida’s largest private adult lifestyle nightclub — and with 20,000 square feet of dance floors, lounges, and play corridors spread across a single industrial level, the footprint earns the claim. The main room greets guests with red velvet booths, erotic art lining the walls, stripper poles rising from the dance floor, and a Vegas-grade LED and sound rig that keeps the Latin heat constant well past 2 am. The crowd skews younger than most lifestyle clubs in the country, averaging around 33 years old, with a bilingual, conspicuously good-looking mix of Miamians and international visitors from across Latin America, Europe, and beyond. The club opens Friday and Saturday nights only: doors at 22:00, closing at 04:00 Fridays and 05:00 Saturdays. Fridays admit couples, single ladies, and single men; Saturdays are restricted to couples and single women only. Membership is mandatory — no exceptions — and must be arranged before or on arrival; first-time tourist couples from out of state have the membership fee waived on standard nights. Entry fees run $110 per couple on Fridays and $135 on Saturdays; single ladies enter free Fridays or at $25 Saturdays; single men pay a substantial premium and are barred entirely on Saturdays. Dress code is enforced at the door: sexy and upscale for women, smart club wear for men — no shorts, tank tops, sandals, or caps. The club is fully BYOB — no liquor is sold on-premise — with bottles checked in via a numbered wristband system and standard mixers provided at no charge. Lockers and towels are included in the entry price. Two distinct play zones branch off the main corridor: a clothing-permitted area lined with 15+ private locking rooms and a multi-bed group playroom, and a clothing-optional zone accessible from the locker room with steam-room-adjacent open lounges designed for exhibitionistic encounters. Stripper poles, a pool room, and a rotating calendar of themed party nights round out the programming.

Club Z

Unverified

Columbus, OH

private residential home

Billed as the Ultimate Interracial Lifestyle Club in Central Ohio, Club Z has carved out a singular niche in Columbus's lifestyle scene by centering racial diversity and interracial connection at its core. Operated by Angela and Edwin from a private residential location in the greater Columbus area, the club deliberately keeps its address off public listings — members receive it only after their application clears a mandatory telephone interview. That screening process sets the tone: this is not a walk-in venue. The atmosphere is described consistently as sensual, inviting, and intimate, closer in feel to an upscale house party than a commercial nightclub. Membership is open to couples, single females, and select single males sponsored as guests of member couples — a policy that keeps the guest list curated and the ratio balanced. The club operates on a BYOB basis and runs monthly Saturday-night parties capped at 35 to 40 guests, a deliberately small number that reinforces the private-party atmosphere. Prospective members must be 21 or older and present a valid photo ID. The club carries a NASCA International affiliation. Club Z's identity is built around discretion and a no-pressure philosophy: members socialise and play at their own level of comfort. The intimate scale — unlike the large commercial clubs in Columbus — is a deliberate differentiator. Contact runs through 614-361-5900 and ClubZZebra@aol.com; the club's website at clubzzebra.com does not currently resolve.

MW Euphoria (Midwest Euphoria)

Shakopee, MN

Event Organizer / Rotating Hotel & Venue Takeovers

MW Euphoria, also known as Midwest Euphoria, is a Shakopee, Minnesota–based lifestyle event organizer and membership community that bills itself on its own site as "The Midwest's Leading Lifestyle Party." Rather than operating a single fixed clubhouse, it runs as an adult social-networking and ticketing platform on the Modern Lifestyle network, organizing recurring hotel-takeover parties for its membership alongside affiliated cruises and resort getaways for couples and singles in the swinging/lifestyle community. Because the model is built around renting entire hotel properties rather than keeping one venue, the specific hotel changes from event to event; past parties have taken over properties such as the Baymont by Wyndham in Shakopee. Street addresses for individual events are withheld from the public and shown only to logged-in, vetted members. On-premise play is permitted, and the structure functions more like a private membership network than a walk-in nightclub. Joining requires a free profile with photos and a short write-up; membership categories include Couple, Female, FF Couple, Male, MM Couple, and Other/GNC. House rules call for enthusiastic consent before touching, require couples to arrive and depart together, ban cameras and recording devices outright, and enforce a zero-tolerance policy on drugs and prostitution. Single ladies are described as highly respected, with harassment or stalking grounds for suspension. Pricing and schedule are event-specific rather than fixed weekly hours.

Obsession Swing Lounge

Unverified

Ottawa, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Obsession Swing Lounge is a members-only adult lifestyle and swinger club at 1575 St. Laurent Boulevard in Ottawa, Ontario. Billing itself as the city's premier on-premise swinger venue, it holds a provincial liquor licence and requires couples and select singles to register as annual members before attending their first event. The interior centres on an upscale lounge with a resident DJ — guests are encouraged to make requests — designed for dancing and socialising before moving to the dedicated play areas. A full kitchen delivers appetizers, main courses, and desserts until 1:30am, and drinks are served from the licensed bar. The main lounge and patio are strictly social zones; all sexual contact is confined to the separate designated play areas. The venue is entirely smoke-free, and the dress code holds women to a seductive standard and men to a dapper, club-appropriate appearance. The weekly schedule divides along membership type: Friday nights open the doors to all categories — couples, single men, and single women; Saturdays are restricted to couples and single women, with the limited exception that a single male member may attend only if accompanied by and remaining with a host couple all evening. Annual membership is CAD $50 for couples and single men, and CAD $30 for single women; nightly entry is CAD $40 per couple or single man, while single women enter free. Advance registration is mandatory — no walk-in admission is indicated. House rules ban photos and video during regular hours without explicit management consent and subject approval, prohibit drugs outright, and run a three-complaint escalation system for single men.

Pulse Lounge

Memphis, TN

Pulse Lounge Memphis is a private, members-only lifestyle venue in Memphis, Tennessee, catering to open-minded couples and singles aged 21 and over. The club operates on an application-and-approval model rather than public walk-in access, with membership tiers set at $55 for couples, $20 for single women, and $75 for single men, alongside optional six- or twelve-month upgrades that add extended event access. The operator frames the venue around discretion, safety, and a curated, upscale social environment rather than a conventional nightclub feel. The space includes lounge areas and private rooms and is BYOB, with the venue supplying ice, mixers, and non-alcoholic beverages at no additional charge. Rather than a fixed weekly night, the club runs a rotating calendar of themed events — from casual mixers to more elaborate seasonal parties such as a Father's Day weekend gathering — with dress expectations that shift by occasion. Members reference an upside-down pineapple as a discreet, insider signal of lifestyle interest that is meaningless to outsiders. Entry requires signing a membership and non-disclosure agreement covering confidentiality (which survives termination of membership for at least five years), a strict no-photography and no-recording policy across all member spaces, and a consent-first code of conduct — violations of either result in immediate revocation of membership without refund. Dress code is enforced: women are expected in sexy club wear such as corsets, thigh-high boots, or mini-skirts (pajamas and beachwear are barred), while men must wear collared shirts and dress shoes, with t-shirts, shorts, sneakers, and sportswear all prohibited. Membership fees are collected discreetly at the door in cash or major credit/debit cards once an application has been reviewed and approved, typically within 48 hours; the venue's exact address is disclosed only to approved members.

Club Privata

Portland, OR

On-Premise Club

Club Privata occupies a discreet, unmarked storefront at 824 SW 1st Ave in downtown Portland, Oregon — easy to walk past without noticing. Billing itself as an upscale "lifestyle club" rather than a sex club, it emphasizes community alongside play, and draws a crowd that skews toward an older demographic, roughly mid-30s to 40s, with plenty of members who come just to dance. The club is run by owners Holly R. and her husband Charles. The venue spans three floors and roughly 8,000 square feet, anchored by a hardwood dance floor lit in blues and magentas with a central go-go cage on a raised platform. The first floor holds the main bar, a locker area, and a room dedicated to flogging and impact play. The second floor adds another bar, a VIP room, private bedrooms, and a balcony overlooking the dance floor. The third floor houses a further bar and a spread of beds framed by drapes and antique mirrors. A late-night buffet is set up near the lockers and coat check, and the club runs two full-service bars rather than allowing outside alcohol. Club Privata is a members-only, 21-and-over venue open Thursday through Saturday nights (Thursday 8pm–2am with the third floor closed; Friday and Saturday 8pm–3am), with last entry roughly 90 minutes before close. Entry requires valid photo ID, a signed waiver, an active membership, and payment of a nightly door fee that varies by event and guest category; a strictly enforced upscale dress code applies club-wide. Single men are welcome but pay noticeably higher membership and door fees than couples or single women, and some theme nights offer discounted or free entry for single women. VIP bottle service areas and a private penthouse suite can be reserved separately.

FuseX Social Club - North Dakota Chapter

Fargo, ND

Social Club

FuseX Social Club's North Dakota Chapter serves the Fargo and Bismarck markets as part of a national private members' organization founded in Beverly Hills in 2016 and now operating across 23 states. The chapter has no permanent brick-and-mortar venue — consistent with FuseX's model nationwide — instead hosting events at rotating private locations including hotel takeovers, luxury house parties, and Level 1 and Level 2 mansion parties in the Fargo area and, for larger gatherings, in nearby Minneapolis. Larger signature events lean toward themed masquerade parties and curated cocktail dinners with choreographed erotic theatre performed by professional hosts who mingle with members during the evening. The club positions itself as an upscale, approval-only alternative to public lifestyle apps and open swingers venues. Membership is selective — only 1 in 4 applications is accepted — and every prospective member passes a criminal background check, a personal interview, and signs a lifetime confidentiality agreement. Events are BYOB, and event locations are disclosed to confirmed members roughly 30 days in advance via private inbox and phone. Fargo is explicitly listed as a host city on the application event-locations roster alongside Minneapolis. The lifestyle interests catered to span swinging, BDSM and kink, cuckolding, hotwifing, voyeurism and exhibitionism, polyamory, and interracial play. Membership tiers range from a Platinum tier ($3,500/year, couples and single men) through a Circle tier ($18,000/year) and an All Access Elite tier ($25,000/year); single women receive complimentary Platinum membership. Per-event costs are separately priced. Consent is strictly enforced: no means no, always ask before touching, only yes means yes.

Chateau Royal

Bad Honnef, North Rhine-Westphalia

On-Premise Club

Chateau Royal sits in the forested Siebengebirge hills above the Rhine, tucked into the edge of Bad Honnef roughly halfway between Bonn and Cologne. The club presents itself as the largest and most popular pure couples club in North Rhine-Westphalia — a claim supported by the numbers: 870 square metres spread across three levels, capacity for 120 couples, and a packed calendar of themed nights running back-to-back year-round.

The Green Door

Las Vegas, NV

On-Premise Club

Occupying 18,000 square feet inside the Commercial Center strip mall on East Sahara Avenue, The Green Door has been a Las Vegas fixture since owner Joey Cavaretta opened the doors in 1998. The two-storey venue sits beneath an emerald-green sign about ten minutes from the Strip and operates as an adults-only sex club rather than a traditional swingers club, drawing a broad, international mix of couples and singles from all walks of life. The ground floor and upper level hold a maze of open play areas and themed rooms -- a dungeon, a doctors office, a jacuzzi room, a shadow-box room, a blue room and a voyeur room among them -- many fitted with glass walls or chain-link doors that invite watching but limit access. A couples-only section upstairs contains five small doorless rooms bounded by roughly six-foot walls, plus a two-way mirror viewing area; a separate couples-plus-one zone requires an escort invitation from the hosting couple. Multiple non-alcoholic bars are scattered across both floors, a game room and a chill lounge offer decompression space, and the dimly black-lit interior keeps the atmosphere more anonymous than performative. No cameras or recording devices are permitted inside, towels are freely available, and an all-male staff patrols the premises to enforce consent and house rules.

Alaska Club Kink (ACK)

Anchorage, AK

BDSM/Kink Community Club

Alaska Club Kink (ACK) is Anchorage's one-of-a-kind kink and comedy community club — the rare venue that pairs BDSM education with open-mic nights, karaoke, and stand-up comedy under one roof. Founded by Surge Kulikov after the closure of ACAL in 2019, ACK operates out of subSpace, a 2,000+ sq ft LGBTQIA2S+-friendly, veteran-owned event space at 2217 E. Tudor Road, Suite 3. The club is built around an education-first philosophy. Monthly Kink 101 classes welcome complete beginners, a companion educational website (alaskakinkeducation.com) provides a public library of kink resources, and Dungeon Monitors are present at all events to ensure safe, consensual play. The weekly schedule is packed: Mystery Munches every Thursday (7:30–9:30 PM at The Raven Bar, open to the public), Tuesday Rope Jams and board game nights at subSpace, Friday Open Dungeon (7–10 PM, $20 drop-in), and monthly themed play parties on Saturdays (7 PM–1 AM, $40 general / free for All Access members). Play parties are potluck-style — the club provides finger foods, desserts, and non-alcoholic drinks, and attendees can bring dishes to share. The venue is fully dry: no alcohol is served or permitted, which removes consent complications and makes the space accessible to those in recovery. The 1,000 sq ft open dungeon floor is equipped with a large suspension frame, St. Andrew's crosses, bondage horse, massage tables, and more — all available for member use. Membership is free to join online (processed within a few days), with a paid "All Access Pass" tier that waives event fees, eliminates equipment rental deposits, and grants 50% off play parties. Comedy, theater, and public events are also hosted at subSpace separately from the kink programming, normalizing the space within the broader Anchorage community. In a state where alternative lifestyle spaces are rare, ACK is the community hub.

Club Hedonism

Closed

Pompano Beach, FL

Club Hedonism was, for decades, the oldest and longest-running swingers club in South Florida — a private, members-only, BYOB on-premise lifestyle nightclub tucked into a low-slung commercial strip at 1000 E Sample Rd in Pompano Beach. It kept a deliberately discreet, no-smoking, members-only door and ran Wednesday through Saturday from the evening into the early-morning hours, drawing a couples-and-singles crowd to its bar, lounge, dancefloor, locker room, and on-premise playrooms. During the COVID pandemic the venue was rebranded and remodeled under new management, reopening as Defy Lifestyle Club ("Club Defy"). The club's own Facebook announced it had "taken this opportunity during the Covid Pandemic to Rebrand and make some upgrades to one of South Florida's most historic lifestyle clubs," and the original clubhedonism.com address now greets visitors with "The oldest Swingers Club in South Florida has a NEW LOOK!" before forwarding them to the Defy site. As Defy, the same address still operates as South Florida's premier lifestyle club: a bar/lounge/dancefloor up front, a locker room, and a large open group playroom with beds plus several private playrooms off the main floor — including a multi-person shower in the play area. It remains BYOB (bartenders mix your own alcohol with provided mixers; tip the bartender), open Wednesday–Saturday roughly 9pm–4am, with couples, single women, and (on select nights) single men admitted. The Club Hedonism name is effectively retired; anyone searching for it today is pointed to Defy Lifestyle Club at the identical Pompano Beach location.

Entre Nous 2

Closed

Montreal-Nord, Quebec

Entre Nous 2 — later rebranded as Le Complexe Libertin Obsession — was a lifestyle and libertine complex that operated at 6500 Boulevard Henri-Bourassa Est in Montreal-Nord, Quebec, from February 2017 until it permanently closed in June 2020 after the COVID-19 lockdown forced the business into bankruptcy. The club opened as the successor to Entre 2 Plaisirs, which had operated for 14 years at 3333 rue Belanger in Villeray-Saint-Michel-Parc-Extension, and relocated to a new building near the Autoroute 25 interchange whose frosted-glass exterior and minimal signage gave no indication of the 24,600-square-foot venue within. Its promoters billed it at opening as the largest swinger club in the world. The venue was organized around a wet social circuit — indoor heated pool, spa, dry sauna, and communal showers — designed to ease introductions before members moved into the main complex. A billiard room, dining room, and discotheque sat alongside a dark room, glory holes, a fantasy room, a dedicated couples room, and 26 private rooms rentable in three-hour or twelve-hour blocks; massage suites came in standard, mirrored, and suite configurations. In 2019 the owners annexed an adjacent commercial unit as a full nightclub, pushing the total footprint past 40,000 square feet; monthly themed events sometimes drew between 500 and 1,000 attendees. Annual membership was required of all guests. Per-visit admission was free for women; men paid $40 on weekdays and $60 on weekends; couples paid $20 on weekdays and $50 on weekends (all CAD, as of 2017-2020 operation). The club ran around the clock, seven days a week, with a Tuesday bi night and a Wednesday couples night open to unaccompanied men and women. Public areas were dry; BYOB was restricted to private rooms under the original 2017 operating rules. The venue declared bankruptcy within three weeks of the March 2020 lockdown and vacated the premises in early June 2020. Visitors should not attempt to visit this address.

Club Ambassador

Eisenberg, Thuringia

On-Premise Club

Club Ambassador sits just off the A9 autobahn near the Hermsdorfer Kreuz interchange, where Thuringia, Saxony, and Saxony-Anhalt converge. Owned by Marcus Schuetze, the club occupies a three-storey property spanning roughly 600 square metres with six themed rooms. The house motto: everything is possible, nothing is mandatory. The club holds a 4.9 out of 5 rating on JoyClub. Five distinct event formats cycle across the week. Wednesday Breakfast Party (10:00-18:00) and Sunday Brunch (13:00-18:00) offer relaxed daytime entry. Thursday Come in and Find Out evening (17:00-22:00) charges just 10 EUR across all guest categories. Friday Hot Friday (19:00-03:00) and Saturday Swinger Evening (19:00-03:00); Saturday all-inclusive packages at 99 EUR for couples, 33 EUR for women, and 119 EUR for single men, with JoyClub-member discounts. The three floors house six themed rooms including a Thai room, an atelier, and a fully equipped SM area, alongside a lounge with bar and dance floor, a separate smoking room, a sauna, and an outdoor pool and whirlpool. A buffet provides in-house dining, and overnight accommodation with breakfast is available.

Fantasies Lifestyle Club

Unverified

Branch, LA

Fantasies Lifestyle Club sits along Branch Highway in the rural Mowata and Branch communities of Acadia Parish, a stretch of farmland southwest of Crowley where a swingers venue is about the last thing neighbors expected to see rise from the cane fields. Co-owned by Crowley residents Jasen Bourque and Jessica Boullion, the club is pitched as an upscale, invite-only social space for couples, polyamorous groups, single women, and select single men aged 21 and up, with private and open play areas, a dance floor, and showers stocked with towels and toiletries. Its own house style leans dressy rather than club-casual: patrons are asked to arrive "dressed to impress," with no basketball shorts or work clothes, and to stay fully covered on the way in and out. The club's arrival triggered one of the most contentious local government fights Acadia Parish has seen in years. Construction was vandalized in October, with plumbing torn out at a cost owners put in the tens of thousands of dollars, and packed police jury meetings followed as Branch and Mowata residents voiced fears about the effect on their quiet farming community. The parish police jury responded in January 2025 with a 7-0 ordinance vote (one member absent) that licenses and heavily restricts "sexually oriented businesses," banning alcohol, public nudity, and sexual intercourse on premises, requiring lights-on monitoring of guests, and keeping semi-nude staff at least six feet from patrons. The club's attorney, Douglas Brown, has said the ordinance is designed to run Fantasies out of the parish and that a lawsuit will follow once it is enforced.

Private-home party series (off-premise, presumed defunct)

Club E'Lan was a members-only lifestyle club that ran out of a private home about twenty minutes north of Boston, keeping its exact address off the internet and revealing the venue only to confirmed RSVPs. Founded in 1994 with the stated aim of giving adults a discreet place to explore the swinging lifestyle, it built a following over subsequent years and positioned itself as one of the Northeast's premier swing clubs — intimate enough to feel like a house party, organised enough to run a reliable calendar of themed evenings. Each gathering was built around a specific theme intended to ease newcomers into the scene while giving regulars a fresh reason to return. Attendance was deliberately capped at forty couples per event, keeping the crowd manageable and the atmosphere personal. Single women were always welcome; single men could attend in limited numbers — up to five per party — but only after passing a screening process. No one under twenty-five was admitted. The private-home setting meant Club E'Lan operated outside the commercial nightclub mould entirely: no door staff, no bar licence, no DJ booth — just a host-run gathering for a vetted community of adults in a residential space north of Boston. The club had no public website and relied on directory listings and word of mouth to maintain its membership.

Club Saphir

Schkeuditz, Saxony

On-Premise Club

Club Saphir has held its place as the longest-running swinger and couples club across Saxony, Saxony-Anhalt and Thuringia since it opened in 2002. The venue sits in Dolzig, a quiet village in the Schkeuditz municipality just west of Leipzig, at Westringstrasse 200. Inside, more than 900 square metres spread across two floors, with three bars, 15 individually designed rooms. The room list covers: Raum Amor for couples wanting a lockable retreat, the Ampelzimmer where a traffic-light system signals openness, a dedicated SM space, and the Lustoase open 80-square-metre play area. Communal infrastructure includes a sauna with whirlpool, a Wellness 4 Two zone, indoor smoking lounges. Entry is fully all-inclusive covering hot-and-cold buffet and complete drinks menu. Three nights anchor the calendar: first Wednesday of month Afterwork 2.0 17:00-00:00, Fridays 20:00-03:00, Saturdays 20:00-04:00. Solo men must register in advance. The house motto alles kann nichts muss sets the tone: participation is never assumed.

Club Utopia

Closed

Chudleigh, Devon

On-Premise Club

Club Utopia traces its roots to 2020, when owner Jamie Venner launched a biker-bar night called Bikers and Babes on the outskirts of Yelverton, Devon. A fire at a neighbouring property prompted a move, and the club spent time in Airbnbs and hired social-club halls before settling at Graeden Park — a discreet private property on Ball Hill off the Old Exeter Road outside Chudleigh. From those modest beginnings it grew into what the club describes as 'arguably the largest and most vibrant club in the southwest of England,' running a calendar of extravagantly themed events — UtopiaFest, Heroes and Villains, Halloween couples nights, Oktoberfest, Coyote Ugly, and a Greedy Girls women-forward evening — to a membership of couples, single women, and vetted single men from across the South West. The venue houses 11 immersive play spaces, a dancefloor with mirrored walls, a side hall, and social lounge zones, all served by a fully licensed bar trading until 3am. Event nights open at 7pm with dress codes pitched to the theme — festival glitter, costumes, Bavarian regalia — and a 360° photo booth available for those who want a memento. Entry follows a mandatory four-step pre-registration process: create a Single or Couple account, upload identity documents, pass staff review, then buy tickets. Couples are always welcome; single females are encouraged; single men are admitted in limited, pre-vetted numbers only. No walk-ins are accepted. Annual membership is available at a fee listed on the registration page, giving members ticket discounts and access to future event perks; individual event tickets were priced at £50 for the 2025 UtopiaFest festival night. The club also sells a companion book — 'A Real-Life Guide to Swinging with Style' — through the website, and maintains social media on Instagram and TikTok. As of July 2026 the operating company, Club Utopia Ltd (Companies House no. 15768206), was formally dissolved, and the website listed no upcoming events.

EyS Nightclub

Unverified

Hamburg, Hamburg

On-Premise Club

EyS occupies the first floor of an unremarkable building on Bramfelder Strasse in Hamburg Barmbek-Nord. Owners Caiti and Chris have leaned hard into 1990s nightclub aesthetics: a non-smoking main bar room of around 60 square metres packed with sofas, seating nooks, and a bar, plus a larger smoking lounge of approximately 80 square metres. A mini-boutique near the entrance sells frivolous clothing, jewellery, and adult toys. The overall feel is of a neighbourhood bar that happens to have playrooms tucked behind it, rather than a sex venue that happens to have a bar.

Orlando Swingers Club

Orlando, FL

Event Organizer

Orlando Swingers Club has been running lifestyle parties since April 20, 2000, and now operates as a mobile event host rather than a single fixed venue, staging its gatherings at rented clubs, resorts, and hotels around the Orlando area — most recently based out of 727 Conley St, with a move to the 32801 zip underway (unconfirmed). Party themes rotate through swingers nights, gang bangs, meet-and-greets, orgy and group-sex events, and BDSM sessions, alongside recurring BBC/BWC/BCC theme parties, giving the calendar a broader spread than a typical single-room club. The operation doubles as a lifestyle travel agency and promoter, cross-promoting other hosts' parties for free in exchange for an invite, and runs an affiliated adult store alongside the event side of the business.

Golden Lions

Markgröningen, Baden-Württemberg

Golden Lions is a long-running lifestyle club in Markgröningen, a quiet Swabian town roughly 20 kilometres northwest of Stuttgart. The club has been operating since 1999 and underwent a comprehensive renovation in October 2023, relaunching — as the site puts it — as a modern venue for "Erotik mit Niveau und Stil" (eroticism with sophistication and style). A mixed crowd of couples and singles from the Stuttgart–Ludwigsburg conurbation makes the drive out, drawn by an atmosphere the club positions as an oasis for erotic moments away from daily life, with a clientele that reviewers consistently describe as friendly and the staff as welcoming. The space includes a bar, a dance floor, a buffet, multiple themed playrooms, three whirlpools (indoor and outdoor), a sauna, massage facilities, a garden area, and secured locker rooms, with ample parking front and rear — including space for campervans. Every entry ticket is all-inclusive: the door price covers full club access, the buffet, and all drinks at the bar. The event calendar runs the full week: Thursday mornings bring a "Fantastic Breakfast" brunch party (10:00–14:00); Wednesdays host BANG my Hotwife evenings (18:00–23:00); Fridays and Saturdays run standard couple-and-singles nights alongside dedicated couples-only evenings (20:00 to 02:00 or 03:00); and Sundays offer afternoon sessions (14:00–21:00). Themed events — White Night, Oktoberfest, foam parties, a Silvester Gala, CFNM nights, and explicit-format gangbang evenings — fill out the annual programme. Access is clearly tiered by guest type. Couples and solo women may arrive on the night without a reservation; solo men must pre-register on JOYclub and receive guest confirmation before being admitted, with JOYclub members also receiving a discount off the standard door price. Entry pricing is steeply differentiated by gender and event type, ranging from €5–40 for solo women to €45–130 for solo men, and €20–110 for couples. A complete ban on mobile phones and cameras is enforced throughout the premises, keeping the atmosphere relaxed and discreet. The dress code is erotic and frivolous for women — lingerie, latex, and minimal clothing are all encouraged — while men are expected in formal black-and-white attire or clubwear. Safe sex is described on the site as "selbstverständlich" (self-evident), and the no-means-no rule is taken seriously: any guest who ignores a refusal faces immediate expulsion.

Mitch's Place

Jacksonville, FL

On-Premise Club

Mitch's Place is a long-running on-premises house party tucked into a residential pocket of Jacksonville's Southside, identified only by its 32207 zip code until a caller books in. It's run personally by its owner, Mitch, who fields every inquiry himself by phone between 8am and 8pm. The venue occupies a 3-bedroom, 2-bathroom home converted for the lifestyle: a dedicated video room, a bar room, indoor lounge and sitting areas, and a dance floor with a stripper pole set the tone indoors, while an outdoor covered patio with a gas fire pit and a 102-degree enclosed hot tub extend the party outside. On the Fourth of July the party even doubles as a fireworks-viewing spot, visible right from the property. Parties run weekly on Saturdays from 9pm to 2am, with occasional extended hours for holidays. Attendance is restricted to couples and single females 21 and over — the site does not advertise open admission for single men — and new couples and singles are required to call ahead before their first visit, since the address itself is only shared over the phone. The party is BYOB, with a bartender on-site providing cups, ice, mixers, and snacks; towels are supplied for the hot tub, and no drugs are permitted.

On-Premise Club (closed)

Club Discretions ran for nearly a quarter of a century behind an unmarked door at 3304 North 27th Avenue, sandwiched between Thomas and Osborn in the industrial flats of west Phoenix. The club had no street signage — "look for the BLUE lights on the west side of 27th Ave," the website used to read, and that was the only landmark you got. Founded around 2000 by John "Dutch" Van Brunschot and formally incorporated in Arizona in 2003 as Discretions Adult Social Club, the venue was one of a small group of Phoenix lifestyle clubs that survived the city's landmark 1998 anti-swingers ordinance — the one that declared sex clubs "inimical to the health, safety, general welfare and morals of the inhabitants of the city of Phoenix" and was later copied as a template by Las Vegas and Indianapolis. Discretions fought it in federal court alongside Club Chameleon, Guys & Dolls and Encounters, kept its doors open by boarding up its open viewing windows and converting public play areas (including the famously-named "Mass Hysteria" theme room) into private ones, and weathered a 2002 Phoenix PD raid in which staff and managers were briefly arrested. After all of it, the club just kept opening. For the next twenty-plus years it was Phoenix's busiest swingers social club, open seven nights a week — Sun–Thu 8pm to 3am, Fri–Sat to 5am, "363 days a year" by the club's own count. The vibe was unpretentious and a touch retro. A mirrored main stage with a brass stripper pole sat in the centre of the floor, with a separate stripper cage holding two more poles off to the side. Adult films played in the background throughout the building. A non-alcoholic juice-and-soda bar served free snacks and cheap drinks (Arizona state law banned alcohol sales on lifestyle premises, so guests poured their own from a house-issued red cup). Pool table, video games, a resident DJ taking requests, free condoms in every room. Upstairs sat the club's real anchor — nine private, semi-private and voyeur bedrooms, two B&D love swings, a "hideaway loft bed with a view," and what Discretions self-billed as the "LARGEST orgy room" in Arizona. It was a fully on-premises, full-swap club, marketed to all ages from 18 to 80, with a published etiquette guide ("Look Presentable, Ask Questions, Introduce Yourself…") and no formal dress code. By 2023 membership ran $25 per person per year, with a flat door fee of $10 Sun–Thu and $35 Fri–Sat; single women came free once they paid the yearly dues. Discretions did not so much close as go on hiatus. Sometime in 2023 the homepage gained a quiet banner — "Here's to many years of fun and memories, thank you for your loyal patronage. While there are currently priorities to deal with, if it is feasible Club Discretions may return in a bigger, better and more grand fashion than ever." The "Club Discretions 2.0" return never came. The clubdiscretions.com domain expired around December 2024 and now points to a parking page; the Yelp listing was flagged CLOSED at its April 2026 update. The building at 3304 N 27th Ave was taken over in 2024 by Hush Lounge AZ, a newer-generation private members-only lifestyle club that continues the address's long history as a Phoenix lifestyle venue. Of the original 1990s clubs that fought the Phoenix ordinance alongside Discretions, only Club Encounters — one block south on West Clarendon Avenue, opened 1996 — remains in continuous operation.

The Cottage Social Club

Orrtanna, PA

Social Club

Tucked into the rural Adams County countryside near Orrtanna, Pennsylvania — just a short drive from Historic Gettysburg — The Cottage has been running as an on-premise lifestyle club since 1981, making it one of the longest-established members-only swinger venues in the mid-Atlantic. The property at 1534 Old Route 30 has grown into a sprawling multi-room complex with a live-DJ dance floor, mirrored stage with stripper pole, two pool tables, a full BYOB bar with mixers provided, and a large hot tub area with towels supplied. The club runs themed parties including Cottage Invasion and DIVA Rouge events, with finger foods and soups on Fridays and a full hot-food and salad bar on Saturdays. The playspace includes a large group room, observation room, six single-play rooms, a BDSM room, and twelve private party rooms. Overnight stays span multiple VIP room categories, from a VIP Suite with king bed, private bathroom, balcony, and kitchen access, down through standard Club Rooms assigned after the party ends. Showers are on site; checkout is 11 AM. Membership tiers run from a $10 one-night temporary pass through annual rates to Gold ($450 couples, $600 single men) and Platinum ($900/$1,200, two years). Friday door fees are $51 for couples; Saturdays $71. Single women pay $15 both nights. The average member age is 30-55.

The SPOTT Night Club

Unverified

Kansas City, MO

On-Premise Club

Tucked just off Interstate 70 at 2111 Television Place, The SPOTT Night Club has held its ground as Kansas City's flagship lifestyle and swingers venue for over fifteen years. The facility spans more than 8,000 square feet of indoor and outdoor party and play space. Inside, a 625-square-foot dance floor anchors the main hall, flanked by five dance poles, ten Las Vegas-style VIP booths, LED-lit glass bar-height tables, and an upper balcony that overlooks the action below. A 15x25-foot HD projection screen and Peavey surround sound fill the room, while a live DJ/VJ spins requests. On an average Saturday the crowd tops 300 guests — couples, single females, and a capped number of single men — and reviewers consistently describe the vibe as warm, polite, and pressure-free. The SPOTT runs every Saturday from 8:30 pm to 5:00 am with a different theme each week. The venue is strictly 21+ with no exceptions. Admission is tiered: couples pay $30 in advance or $40 at the door; single females $15/$20; single males $40 in advance, $50 at the door before 10:30 pm or $75 after. No printed ticket required — a valid ID at check-in suffices. No re-entry after 12:30 am. Play spaces include three private colour-themed lounges (Red, Blue, Green), a small open lounge, and a large group lounge with a voyeur viewing area. Outdoors, the WETTSPOTT area offers a 16x32-foot heated pool, an eight-person hot tub, five cushioned gazebos, and fire tables — open from St Patrick's Day to Halloween. Fully BYOB; complimentary Coke and Pepsi products provided, coolers welcome.

Probe Ottawa

Ottawa, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Probe Ottawa is a queer-owned and operated private members club occupying the 3rd and 4th floors of 41 York St in Ottawa's Byward Market district. Founded through the vision of Miel Nannini, the club describes its core values as "exploration, community, inclusivity and accessibility," positioning itself as a multi-purpose community hub for consensual kink and adult connection rather than a conventional lifestyle venue. It operates as a private members-only space under Ontario law and maintains an active presence on Facebook, FetLife, and Instagram. The venue spans approximately 3,200 square feet across two floors with distinct characters. The 4th floor holds an open dungeon space with a custom suspension frame, a loft, and a kitchen, and serves as the main check-in point reached via an in-building elevator. The 3rd floor offers a series of more intimate rooms suited to smaller groups and private play. Showers, cleaning supplies, and fresh linens are provided throughout; members are responsible for changing sheets after each use. Probe works alongside an on-site accessibility coordinator and the entire venue is elevator-accessible and wheelchair accessible. The space is scent-free, and the programming reflects that commitment to access: a recurring "Soft and Low Play Party" format is designed specifically for attendees with sensory processing disorders or chemical sensitivities, featuring whisper-only guidelines, dim lighting, no music, and complimentary ear plugs. Probe operates only when events are scheduled — any day of the week between 8am and 2am — rather than on a fixed weekly calendar. Programming is broad: regular offerings include play parties, rope hangouts, impact labs, kink workshops, educational classes, community socials (including aromantic/asexual and queer-specific groups), trivia nights, and kinky life drawing. Most play parties require a current Probe membership; memberships run CAD $40 for three months or $120 for a year, with a $10 temporary 24-hour membership available at the door. Event tickets are typically offered on a sliding scale — Supported ($15), Sustain ($20), Standard ($25), Generous ($30), and Benevolent ($35) — so that pricing is not a barrier. The entry door locks by midnight at the latest, and new members attending their first play party must arrive within the first two hours of the event. No alcohol is sold on site and BYOB is not permitted; non-alcoholic drinks and snacks are provided at play parties.

My Secret House Party Club

Mesa, AZ

Off-Premise Club

My Secret House Party Club is a members-only lifestyle gathering run out of a private residence in Mesa, Arizona, serving the greater Phoenix Metropolitan area. Founded in 2006 by host Tanya, the club states it has run more than 600 events for over 25,000 guests, and markets itself as an "elite, invitation-only" scene for couples and single women, with select nights opened to single men. The venue is a private home rather than a commercial club: guests circulate between the kitchen, patio and pool rather than dedicated club rooms, and the property includes a game room (pool table, air hockey, arcade basketball), a resort-style pool with a slide and jacuzzi, a built-in gas barbecue, multiple lounge and entertainment areas, large-screen TVs, and a crossdresser's closet stocked with clothing from extra-small to XXL. Tanya hosts personally, and the club's own materials describe the setting as a "clean, upscale private home" with a "respectful, mature community," clear boundaries and a consent culture, summed up as "no pressure, no judgment, no drama." There is no walk-in ticketing: prospective guests join a private email list to receive event invitations and early notice of upcoming parties rather than booking directly online. Outside of scheduled parties, the same house is separately offered as a private rental by the hour ($100 for the first hour for up to two guests, $50 per additional guest, each further hour at half the initial rate), with a discreet on-site host present but not involved in guest activities.

Set in a standalone two-story building on Atlantic Avenue — away from the casino corridor but squarely in the thick of Atlantic City's off-Strip scene — RolePlay Lounge billed itself as New Jersey's number-one erotic couples playground and, for much of the 2010s, was one of only two venues in the city openly offering on-premise lifestyle experiences. The building spanned over 5,000 square feet across two distinct floors. Downstairs was the nightclub: dance music, rotating spotlights, pole dancing, and a full social scene oriented around drinking and mingling. The upper floor was the play space — a collection of modern playrooms and open stages, stocked with a constant supply of dry-cleaned linen and towels, where the tone shifted from nightclub to something considerably more uninhibited. The crowd, per the club's own manager, ran roughly 22 to 52 years old — a mix that read, on a Saturday night, like any upscale small club except for the video screens and the open-door rooms on the second floor. The venue positioned itself deliberately against the 'grimy swingers club' image, marketing an upscale experience and describing itself as zero-pressure. Couples dominated the guest list; single women were admitted free, and a limited number of single men were permitted on Fridays only. Membership was required for entry, and the fee was $100 per couple, covering that membership along with entry for the night. RolePlay operated Fridays (10 pm–3 am) and Saturdays (9 pm–4 am), with parking between Boston and Providence Avenues. It was BYOB — the bar brought no alcohol license — and guests were expected to bring their own bottle. The club accepted Discover, Mastercard, and Visa at the door.

Club 101

Dayton, OH

On-Premise Club

Club 101 has been Dayton's oldest on-premise members-only lifestyle club for roughly 25 years, anchored at 101 Avondale Drive in a discreet building with private parking. The layout centres on a large open main room with a dance floor, DJ booth, pool table, and adult movie lounge with couches — the club takes evident pride in its DJ show, billing it as the best of any area lifestyle venue. Off the social floor, the space branches into five private rooms sized for one or two couples, two semi-private rooms with windows designed for optional exhibitionism, one large open group room, a slightly smaller group room with a mirrored wall, and a massage table room with BDSM possibilities. Showers, lockers, and a cooler for BYOB drinks round out the practical amenities, with free snacks and soda on hand throughout the night. The crowd skews toward mature, consenting adults — beginners and veterans alike — and the no-pressure ethos is reinforced at every level, from signage to staff. The club is active on Swingtowns, SDC, SLS, SZC, and Fetlife, and maintains a lively theme-party calendar (past events include a Denim & Diamonds Glowy Party and Pasties & Panties nights). In a public-health gesture, management partners with Shameless Care to offer members a free STI education course and supplies.

Entre Nous DC

Closed

Washington, DC

Entre Nous has been Washington DC's premier members-only lifestyle event since 2000 — a roving off-premise social club for couples and single women. Rather than occupying a fixed address, events rotate through discreet DC nightclub venues, typically running 9 or 10PM to 3AM. The crowd leans young, with the average guest in the 30–35 range and single women making up roughly 20 percent of attendees on any given night. Events are nightclub in format: live DJs spinning 80s remixes, Euro-dance, R&B, and drum and bass anchor a proper dance floor, while a fully stocked bar and lounge fill the space. Themed parties and seasonal specials keep regulars returning; new guests are encouraged to arrive early to meet the hosts and get oriented. As a strictly off-premise event — no sex, no illegal nudity, full DC ABRA compliance — Entre Nous operates openly inside licensed nightclub venues. That structural choice defines the atmosphere: guests dress up, dance, drink, and connect. Single men are not admitted under any circumstances, no exceptions, ever.

Described as Denver's finest lifestyle club, Sugar Lounge is an open-minded venue hosting a wide range of events in a safe, clean, and friendly environment.

Sea Mountain Inn Nude Resort & Spa

Desert Hot Springs, CA

Lifestyle Resort

Sea Mountain Inn Nude Resort & Spa sits on San Marcus Road in Desert Hot Springs, in the Coachella Valley near Palm Springs, and operates as a couples-and-single-women lifestyles resort and clothing-optional day spa. Also marketed online as Sea Mountain Lifestyles Resort, the property is an adults-only, 24-hour nude pool and lifestyles club with 15 private guest suites for overnight stays, plus separate day-visit and evening-spa access for guests not staying overnight. The grounds center on a 24-hour heated mineral-water pool and whirlpool, a nude cedar sauna, and the Taboo Gardens lounge, an alcohol-free 24-hour social and dance space stocked with complimentary soft drinks, coffee, tea and snacks. Guest suites include mineral-water waterfall showers, flat-screen TVs and a complimentary breakfast, and the resort also rents rooms and pool areas for private parties, group spa days and weddings. Regular guests skew couples and single women in their twenties through sixties, and the operators describe a deliberately low-pressure, body-positive culture aimed at both first-time nudists and longtime lifestylers. Day spas run late morning to early evening, and evening spas extend later on weekends and during special events, though exact times vary by season - check directly with the resort before visiting. Entry requires proof of age 21 or older and a paid annual membership signed on the first visit; the resort admits couples and single women only, with no unaccompanied single men. The resort also runs a recurring calendar of themed lifestyles and swingers parties throughout the year, several featuring outside vendors and multi-day programming on site.

Mon Chalet

Aurora, CO

Lifestyle Resort

Sitting behind an iron gate on East Colfax Avenue in Aurora — fifteen minutes from Denver International Airport — Mon Chalet is a 22-room adults-only fantasy motel that has been catering to lifestyle couples since the 1960s. Every suite wraps a king-sized bed in floor-to-ceiling mirrors and pipes twelve exclusive adult channels through a 4K TV; tiers run from Basic rooms with fireplaces and bubble lights up to Deluxe suites outfitted with in-room whirlpools, steam showers, the ceiling-hung 'Swing,' and the resort's signature sculptured 'Love Machine.' The decor leans unabashedly retro — think mirrored canopies, holographic glass panels etched with nudes, and moody LED lighting — but the rooms are well-maintained and unapologetically over the top. The main social hub is a heated, fully enclosed clothing-optional pool area housing a medium-sized pool, two hot tubs, and poolside lounging. Guests who book a suite have all-hours access; couples and single women can also purchase a standalone pool pass (daytime 11 am-4 pm for all; evenings 5 pm-5 am for couples and single women only — single men need a room at night). A colour-coded wristband system signals each guest's interests at a glance, keeping approaches low-pressure and consent front and centre. Reservations are made by phone only — no online booking engine — and a valid photo ID (driver's licence, passport, or state-issued ID) is required at check-in. Matinee stays run noon to 4 pm; overnight check-in is 6 pm with an 11 am check-out. Alcohol is permitted in the pool area in cans or plastic only — no glass. Cameras and phones are banned from the pool, and the gated property keeps the vibe secure and discreet despite the gritty stretch of Colfax outside.

Shadows Private Club 2.0

Hyattsville, MD

private members club

Tucked into a light-industrial pocket of Hyattsville just minutes from the DC line, Shadows Private Club has built its reputation as the DMV go-to lifestyle destination for couples and singles who want something more curated than a bar and more honest than a hook-up app. Since opening in February 2017, the club has grown to a membership base of over 20,000 and anchors its identity on three pillars: a no-pressure atmosphere, a genuinely selective admission process, and a party schedule that gives members something to come back for every week. The vibe leans sophisticated rather than seedy — think masquerade masks, purple lighting, a resident DJ spinning R&B, Hip-Hop, Latin and Afrobeats, and a crowd that owner William Lorenzo describes as 21-and-up adults who value discretion and a good time in equal measure. The weekly programme runs Wednesday through Sunday. Wednesday, Thursday, and Sunday are general-admission nights running 9 pm to 3 am, while Friday and Saturday stretch to 5 am — an hour or two later than most competitors in the metro area. Saturday is the headline night: couples and single ladies are welcome on all nights, but single men are capped at ten admissions on Saturdays, with a correspondingly higher door price. Themed events rotate through the calendar and include Shadow Play parties, Glow Parties, Costume Nights, Queen of Spades evenings, and Wet T-Shirt Competitions. Entry is members-only — same-day applications are accepted online or at the door. Everyone must be 21-plus with a valid government-issued ID; no ID means no entry, no exceptions. The club is BYOB, with complimentary mixers provided free of charge; complimentary finger food is served every Friday and Saturday night. Phones and recording devices of any kind are prohibited inside — strictly enforced to protect member privacy.

Saints & Sinners Philly

Philadelphia, PA

On-Premise Club

Saints & Sinners Philly operates two locations across the city - the original spot tucked behind an unmarked building on Emery Street in Port Richmond, entered through a back door and sitting in the shadow of I-95, and a second venue on Frankford Avenue in Northeast Philadelphia. The Emery Street location spans 6,000 sq ft across three floors: upstairs is the nightclub proper with a bar, dance floor, stripper pole, flat-screen TVs, and a food buffet; downstairs is a warren of private, semi-private, open, and group play areas with a full bar, lockers, and showers. The Frankford Avenue outpost has a 45-foot main bar, multiple bottle bars, a dance floor, pool tables, and VIP seating. The weekly calendar runs Friday and Saturday 9pm-3am, last entry 1am. Fridays go under the Fishnet Fridays banner. Monthly Newbie Nights welcome first-timers and regulars, and Kinky Karaoke Nights invite guests to bring their own bottles. Wed-Fri the door is open to couples, single ladies, and screened single men; Saturdays are couples and single women only. The crowd is diverse in age and experience with a vibe that leans more party-house than clinical sex club. Free parking sits across the street at Emery and right out front at Frankford.

Club SINZ

Salisbury, MA

Event Organizer

Perched on the second and third floors of Ten's Show Club on the North Shore of Massachusetts, Club SINZ has carved out a reputation as New England's premier couples lifestyle destination since its founding in 2004. The windowless, 4,000-plus square-foot ultra-lounge on Salisbury's North End Boulevard sits about an hour north of Boston, drawing a membership base that now numbers over 15,000 couples from across the region. The club's motto — La Passion Avant Tout, Passion Above All — is backed by multiple top-shelf bars, luxurious lounge seating, video screens, dance poles, a dance cage, and a pocket billiards table. Events run on a bi-weekly Saturday schedule, doors opening at 8:30 PM through 1:00 AM, with larger holiday parties drawing 300 to 500 guests. The club is strictly off-premise: no sexual activity is permitted on-site, keeping the atmosphere in meet-and-greet territory. Membership begins with a free Basic Membership application; Gold Members receive discounted cover charges and may bring a guest couple or single female for free. A members-only inner sanctum called SINZ Black — a custom-built invitation-only lounge with an eight-person circular bar and 300-year-old Chinese door decor — exists for the most loyal regulars. SINZ.NET, the club's private social network, allows prospective members to connect with thousands of New England couples before committing to their first visit.

Liberty Elite

Lutterworth, Leicestershire

On-Premise Club

Set on two private acres of Midlands countryside alongside the A5 near Lutterworth, Liberty Elite has operated as an "upmarket private members club" since 1999, serving both the swinging and fetish communities. Over £1.5 million has been invested in the purpose-built venue, which holds a licence for more than 300 guests and staff and a car park for over a hundred vehicles — scale that is offset by an interior designed to feel "cosy and intimate at all times." The A5 position, close to Junction 20 of the M1 and Junction 1 of the M6, makes it a natural hub for members arriving from across the Midlands. The property trades under the name Liberty's Hotel, signalling that on-site accommodation is part of the offer: en-suite, air-conditioned double rooms with king-size beds are bookable by phone at £75 on Sundays and £90 Monday through Saturday. Events run primarily on Fridays and Saturdays, with a calendar that spans in-house party brands — Dark Desires, Embargo, Secret House, The Hot Wife Club — alongside visiting promoter nights, over-40s swing parties, seasonal BBQs, and dedicated dungeon sessions for the fetish community. Single gentlemen are welcome on Fridays only; couples and single ladies attend across the broader programme. On a first visit, guests complete a short membership application form and present a driving licence at reception — no ID, no entry. Annual couples membership is £45; memberships run from 1 July to 30 June and are non-transferable. Existing members may bring guests once on a guest basis before those guests must take out their own membership. Entry prices vary per event and are published individually on the online calendar. The interior spans multiple bars, lounge areas, a snug, a dance floor with professional DJs, and a buffet, alongside six lockable playrooms and a custom-built Dungeon for fetish play. Outside, a sun-lounger terrace, private lawns, and a covered heated smoking area sit within the fully enclosed grounds. A heated Jacuzzi, changing rooms, and secure lockers — available for a refundable £20 deposit, each stocked with a fresh bath sheet — complete the amenities. The bar tab runs off the locker key and is settled on departure; no outside alcohol is permitted under the venue's liquor licence. Mobile phones must be switched off and stored in lockers at reception, cameras are banned throughout, and plastic glasses replace glass in all play areas. The club's stated commitment is a "clean, secure, non-judgemental, no pressure environment" for all members.

Couples Playhouse In Paradise

Naperville, IL

On-Premise Club

Set on three wooded acres in Chicago's western suburbs, Max and Eva's Couples Playhouse in Paradise has been a cornerstone of the Midwest lifestyle scene for over thirty years. The lodge-style private residence trades neon for cathedral ceilings and bonfire pits, with nine play rooms spread across multiple floors, a dance floor with a pole, two bar areas (strictly BYOB -- the hosts supply soda and a full buffet), and an outdoor spread that includes two pools, a hot tub, a sand volleyball court, and a large sun deck. Saturday nights are the marquee event: themed costume parties that draw couples and single women from across the region, with gates opening at eight and locking at ten-thirty sharp. Summer adds daytime Sunday sessions built around the pools and volleyball court. First-timers phone ahead for a joint screening call with both partners present, and the exact address is shared only after approval -- a layer of discretion the club has maintained since its founding in 1996. The vibe leans social-first: a big living room under the vaulted ceiling doubles as a decompression zone, and house rules emphasize consent, sobriety, and arriving-and-leaving-as-a-couple. Phones are banned on the play-room floor, no glass is allowed near the pool, and the hosts are quick to enforce boundaries -- creating a space that feels more backyard gathering among friends than anonymous nightclub.

Virginia Friends

Richmond, VA

Virginia Friends is a couples-and-single-ladies-only lifestyle club that has run monthly hotel-takeover socials in the Richmond area of central Virginia since 1993. Events rotate among Richmond-area hotels rather than sitting at one fixed address, with the specific property announced on each event page ahead of time; the club positions itself as roughly 2 to 3 hours from Washington DC, Maryland and North Carolina, drawing a regional rather than strictly local crowd. Each social opens with a newcomer's seminar in the hotel lounge that is mandatory for every first-time attendee, even experienced lifestyle couples, before the main dance gets underway. Dances typically draw 65 or more couples ranging from their mid-twenties to mid-sixties, with most between 30 and 50. Once the dance winds down, the party shifts to a reserved club floor open only to members and patrolled by headset-wearing security, where a hospitality suite, an adjoining group-play room known for its Sybian, and private member rooms take over; a separate "party floor" (commonly the hotel's fourth floor) hosts member-booked theme rooms for couples who purchase that ticket tier in advance. Entry requires an online membership and event ticket, typically released about four weeks before each social with a same-night cutoff around 9pm, plus a valid driver's license and each partner's real name on file — the club states it cannot admit anyone unwilling to register under their legal name, citing its private-club status. Wristbands and name tags issued at check-in must be worn to access the club floor. Dress runs from casual streetwear at early registration to costume or theme wear at the dance and lingerie-or-less upstairs, with "street legal" coverage required in hotel hallways and elevators. Drinks bought in the lounge must stay in the lounge under Virginia ABC rules, while the club floor itself is BYOB with mixers and snacks supplied by the club; hotel guest rooms, including a limited discounted block, are booked separately and directly with the property.

The Pendulum Society

Langley, British Columbia

On-Premise Club

The Pendulum Society is a members-only lifestyle and kink club operating out of a private 5,600-square-foot mansion in the Milner area of Langley, British Columbia — roughly 49 kilometres southeast of downtown Vancouver in Metro Vancouver's Fraser Valley fringe. The club describes itself as 19+ all inclusive and welcomes people of all genders and sexual orientations across a range of relationship structures, from couples to singles. Events span two categories: larger themed lifestyle parties and kink-focused nights, alongside lower-key social evenings such as a recurring Cuddle Puddle Movie Night. The venue — referred to in club communications as the Langley Mansion — accommodates a substantial guest capacity across multiple spaces. Confirmed amenities include a saltwater inground pool (opened for seasonal use in 2025), a dungeon described by attendees as well-equipped with a fantastic variety of gear, and semi-private playrooms. The club also rents the space for photo and video shoots and private play dates between scheduled events. Dress codes lean themed rather than strict: attire matching the night's theme is encouraged but not mandatory, with business casual or club wear cited as acceptable alternatives. Heels are permitted though stairs are noted. Events run most Fridays and Saturdays, with occasional Thursday orientations. Per-event RSVP pricing ranges from $15 for low-key evenings such as movie nights and New Member Orientations to $35-$45 for main lifestyle and kink events. New single male members must attend a New Member Orientation before accessing the larger events; all other members may RSVP directly. Contact is via thependulumsociety@gmail.com or phone at 1-604-375-4309.

Club4Play

Chicopee, MA

Club4Play launched on February 26, 2011, out of a conversation over drinks between a group of friends in the New England lifestyle community. Their very first event was held in a small but lively bungalow club, and within months they had graduated to hotel-attached venues, starting with a club takeover in Chicopee, Massachusetts. The road since then has been anything but straight — venue closures, a hotel turned family water park, and a stretch of difficulties that ended only when a couple with an 85-acre ranch in upstate New York invited them north for a camping weekend. That first outdoor event drew 186 people in the rain, and the annual RWS Campout became the group's signature offering. Today Club4Play operates out of Connecticut (with a registered base in Meriden), hosts events across Connecticut and Massachusetts and occasionally into upstate New York and Vermont, and is regarded as one of New England's largest and most upscale couples' lifestyle groups. The event format is built around hotel takeovers rather than a fixed venue. Club4Play books out private floors and ballroom space at full-service hotels, brings in DJs spinning dance and Latin music, and lays on late-night catered food for members at around 1 AM. Events are structured around a main ballroom party — the social hub where guests dance, mingle, and socialize — with private hotel floors reserved for members who want a more intimate environment. The group also affiliates with major lifestyle travel operators, listing partner events such as destination resort weeks and cruises alongside their own New England calendar. Club4Play describes its atmosphere as pressure- and stress-free, with a crowd drawn from across Massachusetts, Rhode Island, Connecticut, and the broader New England region. Hosts Steve and Ann have built the group on the principle of treating every guest the way they would want to be treated themselves. Themed parties are taken seriously, late-night bites are included, and the production value runs well above what most regional groups deliver. Single males are not permitted; events are open to couples and single ladies only.

Curious Club

Barwell, Leicestershire

On-Premise Club

Curious Club is a private members' lifestyle venue occupying a discreet address at 3 Chapel Street in Barwell, Leicestershire — a small market town on the edge of the National Forest, roughly equidistant between Leicester and Coventry. Originally established in Nuneaton, the club relocated to its current Barwell premises in February 2026. It operates as a fully inclusive social space for adults interested in swinging, kink, BDSM, fetish, and alternative lifestyles, drawing members who identify across the full spectrum of gender and orientation: straight, bi, gay, lesbian, trans, CD/TV, poly, exhibitionists, voyeurs, and kinksters. Membership is required for entry, and all attendees must be 21 or over. The venue runs a fully licensed bar — no BYOB — with drinks served in standard measures up to doubles. Facilities include a hot tub, dedicated play spaces, intimate rooms, a fetish den, showers, and secure lockers. On arrival, members deposit a locker key that serves as a running tab for bar purchases, settled on departure; card payments are accepted for transactions over £5. First-time visitors are offered a guided tour by the team. The atmosphere is explicitly zero-judgement: participation in any activity is always optional, and members are equally welcome to socialise, observe, or simply relax. Special events and themed evenings — including nights such as Greedy Girls, which may carry adjusted entry ratios — are listed on the club calendar. The club opens Friday and Saturday evenings, 7:30pm to 2am. Door charges (separate from membership fees) are: couples £20, single ladies £15, single gents £35, CD/TV £20. Annual membership costs couples £20, single ladies £10, single gents £40, and CD/TV £20. Entry is subject to capacity, ratio management, and management discretion — it is never guaranteed. Persons appearing intoxicated or under the influence of drugs will be refused entry regardless of membership status.

Summer's Home for Wayward Swingers

Dallas, TX

Summer's Home for Wayward Swingers is a Dallas-based lifestyle events organization for couples, single women, and a limited, vetted number of single men interested in consensual non-monogamy. It is run by a couple who describe themselves as active in the lifestyle since 2018 and pairs an events calendar with a members website and ancillary offerings such as boudoir photography; a satellite presence also exists in Austin. Parties take place at two venue types: a private, on-premise space in Dallas Design District, offering more than 2,500 square feet of play area along with a saltwater pool, cabanas, and a lounge; and interconnected suites booked at upscale hotels in downtown Dallas, reached via keycard-controlled elevators. Both formats run as invitation-only, RSVP parties rather than open club nights, with staff screening attendees at a pre-party meet-and-greet. Entry requires an online RSVP and a paid donation, with pricing varying by event. A general dress code applies, and costumes for theme nights are encouraged but optional. Single men are admitted only after in-person vetting and are capped relative to the number of couples and single women present. House rules prohibit photography or recording anywhere except the pre-party mixer with consent, ask attendees to be current on STI screening, and note that on-premise sexual activity may occur, which guests are not required to join. Parties are BYOB, with light food and mixers typically supplied by the organizers.

Whispers Las Vegas

Las Vegas, NV

On-Premise Club

Whispers Las Vegas bills itself as Nevada's largest on-premise lifestyle party, operating from a classic 1970s Rat Pack-era entertainment property at 7455 S. Valley View Boulevard, roughly five minutes from the Strip. Originally built as a private party venue for casino owners and Vegas celebrities, the property was purchased in 2017, gutted, and extensively renovated into a purpose-built couples-and-solo-ladies-only swinger venue. Whispers runs a packed year-round calendar. During the summer season there are afternoon clothing-optional pool parties every Saturday and Sunday from noon to 6 PM, plus themed evening events Thursday through Saturday. Saturdays carry the biggest draw with rotating costume themes. The club is strictly couples and solo ladies; single men may attend only as a sponsored guest. Membership is free but every guest must sign a binding NDA and present valid photo ID (21+). Phones, cameras, and all recording devices are forbidden. Whispers is 100% volunteer-run, BYOB, and provides a buffet at select events.

Loft54

Unverified

Rheinstetten, Baden-Württemberg

Set in an industrial building on the southern outskirts of Rheinstetten, Loft54 opened in February 2023 as an Erolifestyle Club built around two pillars: upscale gastronomy and a well-equipped private play environment. Operated by Loft54 Gastronomie Betriebs GmbH under managing director Andreas Vater, the club describes itself as a space for couples and women of all ages, with openness and tolerance as its founding ethos. The venue divides into a social front-of-house and a purpose-built play wing. Private rooms include two areas reserved exclusively for couples, a dedicated SM suite, and an extravagant darkroom fitted with two glory holes and two Czech walls. Outdoors, a shared sauna and whirlpool extend the offering. Floor heating, full air conditioning, and a ventilation system run in every room; twelve showers and more than two hundred lockers handle throughput. Consent is a stated house rule.

Planet Swing sits in the small town of Tribsees in Mecklenburg-Vorpommern, positioned almost directly off the A20 coastal motorway that connects the Baltic Sea resorts — making it a natural stop for couples and singles holidaying on the coast or the islands. The club occupies around 700 square metres across nine distinct spaces and can hold up to 180 guests, which by north-east German standards puts it firmly among the largest swinger venues in the region. The house philosophy is summed up by its motto 'Alles kann, nichts muss' — everything is possible, nothing is mandatory — and the club bills itself as a private venue for singles and tolerant couples of all ages. The interior takes its cues from a tour of escapist themes: guests move between rooms styled as 1001 Nights, a jungle space, a romance room, a mirrored lounge and a starlit chamber. Alongside the themed areas there is a changing room with lockable lockers, a bar and buffet with dining seating, a fireplace lounge and a dance floor. The wellness wing runs to a sauna, steam bath, whirlpool and massage bench. An SM studio with specialist equipment rounds out the offer, alongside several open play areas, the largest of which accommodates up to 40 people at once. Friday and Saturday evenings are the core party nights, running from 20:00 to 03:00, with prices occasionally adjusted for special events. Standard entry is €20 for single women, €60 for couples and €80 for single men. Dress code is explicitly sexy-erotic — lingerie is specifically encouraged. The rural setting near the A20 draws a mix of regulars from across Mecklenburg-Vorpommern and Baltic coast tourists looking to extend a holiday night.

Ragazza Club

Rehlingen-Siersburg, Saarland

On-Premise Club

Ragazza Club occupies a 650-square-metre industrial unit on the quiet Dürrfeldslach estate on the edge of Rehlingen-Siersburg — reached from junction 7 of the A8, past the Aral station and the Aldi, then right into the street where the club takes the second-to-last building on the left. The interior spans two floors and ten play areas: a full-service bar and hot-and-cold buffet room sets a sociable, unhurried tone at ground level, with a cuddle corner, a dedicated couples' zone, a whirlpool, a sauna, a lockable private play room, a BDSM area, a darkroom, and three love swings fanning out across the two floors. Ample parking — including bays sized for campervans and motorhomes — reflects the fact that the Ragazza draws visitors from across the Saarland and has been described by Saarbrücker Zeitung as one of the largest swinger meeting points in the region. Owner Carina Kemmerling runs the club under a self-described 's3xpositive' philosophy: sex is treated as something natural and consensual, professional sex workers are explicitly prohibited, and the house tone leans firmly toward community rather than commerce. All entry is all-inclusive — drinks, the buffet, sauna and whirlpool access, hygiene supplies, condoms, and unlimited towels are folded into the admission price, and lockable lockers take care of valuables. First-time visitors are walked through a guided tour and orientation before the evening gets going; the team draws consistent praise in reviews for a family-like welcome, and the club offers private rental of the full venue for groups wanting the space to themselves. The club opens every day of the week. Monday-to-Thursday afternoon sessions (14:00–21:00) keep things quieter and are available for private hire, while the main weekend nights run Friday 16:00–02:00 and Saturday 16:00–03:00; Sunday follows the weekday pattern (14:00–21:00). Admission starts from €15 for women, €60 for men and couples, with LGBTQIA+ guests priced by their identified gender and same-sex couples at the couple rate. Pre-registration is recommended, though same-day entry is possible subject to capacity. The dress code runs smart-casual for men and erotic-leaning for women — lingerie, dresses, or heels; street shoes are not permitted inside the venue.

Refugium Swingerclub

Neumünster, Schleswig-Holstein

On-Premise Club

Refugium Swing & Dance sits on Krokamp 64 in the commercial outskirts of Neumünster, Schleswig-Holstein — an unglamorous address that gives nothing away about the modern lounge-bar world behind the door. Owner Marco Marien designed the club as a deliberate departure from red-velvet clichés: the palette runs to deep green and anthracite, the lighting is considered, and the 500-capacity interior divides into distinct zones that read more like a design-conscious nightclub than a backroom. At its centre is a dance floor anchored by an actual ceiling swing and a DJ booth; off to one side, a well-stocked bar and a separate English-style smoking room keep the social energy moving; scattered throughout are sofa lounge areas where guests talk, watch, and warm up at their own pace. The play rooms — two discreetly positioned and thematically designed spaces — sit well removed from the social areas, alongside a Séparée that doubles as an erotic cinema. Hygiene is taken visibly seriously: towels, disinfectant, condoms, mouthwash, and disposable toothbrushes are stationed throughout, and the venue's barrier-free showers and toilets make it fully accessible to wheelchair users. In warmer months, a 1,000-square-metre outdoor terrace opens up, adding a pool, whirlpool, TikiBar, BBQ station, and a second play area to the mix. The club runs regular themed evenings, seasonal parties, and — every four to six weeks — a free newcomer orientation session at 18:00, before normal doors, with no registration required. Admission is structured around an all-in price covering entry, buffet, premium beverages, and the wardrobe service: €50 in advance, €60 on the door; women enter at €25 and couples at €50. Solo male pricing is set separately and higher as a deliberate tool to keep the gender ratio balanced. Dress code is enforced at the entrance — men in dark long trousers (blue jeans excluded), a plain solid-colour shirt, and proper shoes; women in stylish rather than everyday attire. Once inside, phones and cameras are banned in public areas, and explicit consent is required for all contact; staff are trained to recognise genuine distress. Drugs, solicitation, and any harassment carry an immediate house ban.

Schlangenkeller

Bendestorf, Lower Saxony

Schlangenkeller has anchored northern Germany's lifestyle scene since 1998, operating as a discreet venue in Bendestorf — a small village roughly 30 kilometres south of Hamburg. Under the ownership of M.G. Schulz — known to guests as Gina — the venue has cultivated a reputation as one of the Hamburg region's most established lifestyle clubs, now in its 28th year. Parties run on a fixed weekly rhythm — Wednesday and Thursday evenings from 20:30 to 01:00, Friday and Saturday from 20:30 to 02:00. Attendance is managed via prior registration through the website's booking form. Hotel Meinsbur sits approximately 100 metres from the club's entrance and extends a 10% room-rate discount to Schlangenkeller visitors using the keyword 'Paris'.

Secrets at Flamingos

Unverified

Mansfield, Nottinghamshire

On-Premise Club

Secrets at Flamingos is a boutique lifestyle club occupying a purpose-fitted licensed venue on Broxtowe Drive in Mansfield, Nottinghamshire. Founded and run by a team with years of personal experience in the lifestyle scene — and a track record of visiting clubs across the country before opening their own — the club sets out to be something more considered than the average venue. Their premises licence covers a broad range of events, from swing parties with a fully open play area to social-only gatherings, with all adult events running on a ticket-only basis as required by the licence. The venue is centred on a fully licensed bar stocked with draught beers, wines, soft drinks, teas, coffees and the house-signature Flamingos Cocktails. Alongside the bar is a large, open playroom fitted with beds of varying sizes and dedicated private spaces for more discreet encounters. Practical amenities are covered as standard: separate male and female bathrooms, a changing room with lockable lockers, and towels provided to every guest. The events programme includes regular couples-and-single-ladies nights and party nights with the play area open; naturist events have also been hosted under the same roof. First-timers are met at the door by one of the club's hosts, who will walk them through the space and make introductions — an explicit part of the welcome process. Management is firm about maintaining an inclusive environment: cliquish behaviour is not tolerated, and the stated goal is a community built on respect and freedom from prejudice. Private hire is available seven days a week and can be configured with or without the play area, making the venue available for adult birthday parties and lifestyle events alike.

Swingerclub Bluecat

Unverified

Schwetzingen, Baden-Württemberg

On-Premise Club

Tucked at the edge of Schwetzingen Am Langen Sand light-industrial strip — a short drive from the A6 motorway Schwetzingen-Nord exit — Blue Cat draws a mixed, open-minded crowd from across the Rhine-Neckar corridor: Mannheim, Heidelberg, Karlsruhe and the Palatinate. Run by Andrea Dunkel as a deliberately family-scale operation, the club pitches itself explicitly against the anonymous superclubs of the region: 500 square metres, nine individually styled rooms and a house capacity of around a hundred guests. New visitors are invited to arrive early and tour the rooms and party space at their own pace before the evening gets going, giving first-timers an unhurried feel for the layout before they commit to staying. The club opens Tuesday through Saturday from 8 pm, with nights running until 1 am on weekday evenings, 2 am on Fridays and 3 am on Saturdays. Admission is all-inclusive — every price covers the buffet and drinks for the night, with no bar tab to run up afterwards. Women pay €10 on any night; couples follow a sliding scale of €30 on weeknight openings, €45 on Fridays and €50 on Saturdays; solo men pay €100 across the board. Registered JOYclub premium members receive an average €10 discount off the door price. The nine rooms range across a love swing, a cinema lounge, a massage area, a gynecological chair, a kuschelecke (cuddle corner) and a dedicated SM play area, supported by a sauna, a wet area and a terrace for outdoor moments. The central zone holds a bar and a rotating buffet. Parking is available directly around the building.

Swingerclub Feuer & Eis

Bruchsal, Baden-Württemberg

On-Premise Club

Feuer & Eis — Fire and Ice — occupies a discreet industrial-zone address on Industriestraße in Bruchsal, roughly midway between Karlsruhe and Heidelberg, and draws couples and singles from across Baden-Württemberg and beyond. The club operators describe it as "Spielwiesen" — playgrounds — for the wider Bruchsal and Karlsruhe region. Run by Sven Schirner, the venue spans 800 square metres across two fully air-conditioned floors and holds up to 250 guests. On JoyClub it carries a 4.8 out of 5 star rating from more than 3,100 reviews and counts over 10,000 followers — unusually strong social proof for a regional club. The ground floor centres on the signature Frivole Bar — a naughty bar lounge with a cage fixture at the counter — flanked by a dance floor and a large multi-person whirlpool. Up on the first floor, the play area fans out into a darkroom, a dedicated BDSM zone, a cinema room, lockable private rooms for couples, a couples-only area, and a glory-hole corner. Rounding out the offering is a sauna, an outdoor terrace with a pool, and full kitchen service: hot and cold meals are prepared fresh daily and included in the admission price, as are towels and condoms. DJ Rex handles in-house music on party nights, and shuttle service from the club and a partner hotel arrangement cater to guests travelling from further afield. The club weekly programme is dense and deliberately varied. Core party nights run Friday (20:00–02:00) and Saturday (20:00–04:00), but the club is open most evenings from Monday through Sunday. Entry prices scale by night and demographic: women pay €5–20, couples €18–75, and single men €28–115. Men typically require advance registration, while couples and women are admitted freely. Regular themed slots include Tropical Beach Parties, Wellness Sundays with massage, trans-friendly Sommernachtstraum evenings, Young People nights, Couples and Ladies glow-bracelet nights, and fortnightly Herrenüberschuss evenings that open extra capacity for solo male guests.

Bournemouth Swingers Club

Bournemouth, Dorset

Club

Bournemouth Swingers Club operates at 140 Commercial Road in Bournemouth, Dorset, positioning itself as the hub of the town's swinging community. The club is fully licensed, requires no membership, and runs a weekly Wednesday social alongside a structured Saturday night programme under three recurring event brands: XQUISITE, XCHANGE, and XPLORE. A sister venue, Pride Bar, sits directly opposite and serves as an unofficial pre-drinks spot from 6pm on Saturdays. The venue features a bar and social lounge, a dance floor, a sauna, a jacuzzi, a spa area, and multiple playrooms stocked with condoms, lube, blue roll, and antibacterial spray. Towels are available on request. Showers, a changing room with hair dryer, and a locker system tied to the bar tab round out the facilities. Wednesdays (8pm–midnight) are open to all: £10 per couple, free for single women and trans guests, £20 for single men. The first Saturday is XQUISITE (couples and single ladies only). The second Saturday is XCHANGE (couples plus a limited quota of single men who must book online). The fourth Saturday is XPLORE (open to all genders and orientations with no ratio cap). Saturday nights run 8pm–2am with last entry at 10pm; door prices are £40 per couple, £35 single male, £10 single female or trans. Online tickets are cheaper. The first Friday hosts Spectrum, a monthly trans and admirers night.

Swingerclub Passion

Stuhr, Lower Saxony

On-Premise Club

Club Passion sits in the Seckenhausen industrial estate on the southern fringe of Bremen, a short drive from the A1 autobahn at Industriestrasse 37. The club is owned and personally run by Jessica and Patrick Bosse, a couple with their own long-standing roots in the swinging community, and it shows in how the place operates: long-serving staff who are friends first and staff second set a tone the venue itself describes as a very special family-like atmosphere, one where even first-timers quickly find their footing rather than feeling lost in an anonymous crowd. More than 1.5 million visits, a JOYclub Recommendation badge, and a 4.8-star average across 3,288 reviews place it firmly among the most trusted venues in the Bremen catchment. The indoor footprint runs to roughly 270 square metres, maintained at a steady 22 degrees C year-round. The ground floor holds a well-stocked bar (Bacardi, Jim Beam, Malibu, Likor 43 among the brands), a comprehensive warm-and-cold buffet, and a dance floor with a pole and stage area. Playrooms cover the full range: a Caribbean-themed Blue Lagoon private room, a castle-themed Burgzimmer, a coded couples-only section, a sleeping area upstairs, and a dedicated BDSM corner fitted with a swing, spanking bench, and St. Andrew's cross. The wellness zone adds an eight-person whirlpool (water changed daily), a sauna, and shower stations stocked with toiletries throughout the venue. Come summer, a heated outdoor terrace opens with a pool, beach baskets, and a separate cocktail bar, an addition that sets the club apart from most urban indoor venues. Club Passion runs Fridays (19:00-02:00) and Saturdays (19:00-03:00) as its regular nights, with Tuesday afternoon sessions (15:00-23:00) and Sunday parties (14:00-21:00) rotating on alternating weeks. Door prices are all-inclusive - the fee covers the full buffet, alcoholic and soft drinks, condoms, and hygiene supplies, with nothing extra to spend inside. Friday admission runs EUR 20 for single women, EUR 60 for couples, and EUR 80 for single men; Saturday steps up to EUR 30, EUR 85, and EUR 90 respectively, with JOYclub members receiving a discount at every tier. Trans and cross-dressing guests are admitted at 50% of the solo male rate. Dress code is firmly enforced: sexy lingerie and heels for women, latex, leather, or dark underwear with quality sandals for men. First-time visitors can call ahead to arrange a complimentary 30-minute walk-through before doors open - no commitment required.

Joyride

Unverified

London, London

Event Organizer

Joyride is a London-based queer, sex-positive event series operating at the intersection of rave culture, art, and sexual expression. Founded in early 2023 by Irish sex educator MJ Fox and experiential event producer Lydia Fikan, the party draws together DJs, performers, sexuality practitioners, and artists around a shared ethos of joy, playfulness, and consent. Pitched at adults aged 21 and over, Joyride sold out its earliest events through word of mouth alone before securing a bi-weekly Sunday residency at Corsica Studios in Elephant and Castle — one of London's most established underground club spaces. The format centred on two spaces at Corsica Studios: a main dancefloor delivering a genre-fluid programme spanning house, techno, and everything in between, with a focus on queer and femme artists; and two purpose-built playrooms fitted with bespoke kink furniture and sex machines, one of them designed by interior designer Domhnall Nolan. A welfare team, identifiable by yellow bandanas and flashing armbands, circulated throughout every event. Phones and cameras were barred from the dancefloor and playrooms, with stickers placed over camera lenses on entry. Tickets were sold exclusively through Dice and only available in advance, with community and unwaged tickets available on request. Joyride's Corsica Studios residency came to an end in February 2026 when the venue announced its permanent closure; the final party, on 15 February 2026, marked the event's third birthday. As of mid-2026, no successor venue has been confirmed. The dress code required fetish or kink attire — latex, leather, PVC, mesh, lingerie, harnesses — and streetwear was refused entry. The entry age was strictly 21 and over. Prospective attendees should check joyriderave.com and the Dice promoter page for current event information.

The No3 Club

Chorley, Lancashire

On-Premise Club

The No3 Club occupies a discreet address at 3 Friday Street in the heart of Chorley, Lancashire, a short walk from the town's mainline railway station and five minutes from junction 8 of the M61. Billing itself as a 'luxurious swingers club' that welcomes both newcomers and experienced members alike, it has built a following across the North West with a weekly programme that spans lunchtime socials through to late-night swing nights, making it one of the more consistently active venues in the region. The fully licensed, over-21s venue sits alongside a large free car park, with hotel options from Premier Inn to Hartwood Hall available nearby for those travelling from further afield. The schedule is the club's most distinctive feature. Wednesdays alternate between Greedy Girl Days on the 1st and 3rd of the month — a noon-to-10pm session free for member couples and single ladies, with single men admitted at £30 — and a Midweek Madness Social on off-Wednesdays (7:30pm to midnight). Thursdays bring a dedicated Bi Night (7:30pm–midnight), while Fridays begin with a free daytime Coffee & Munch (1–5pm) the club describes as the 'safest and easiest way to meet like-minded people', before evening themed nights from 8pm to 2am: Motown on the first Friday, a Traffic Light Party on the second (red wristbands for single ladies, amber for couples, green for bi guests), and the Black Man's Fan Club on the fourth. Saturdays run a straight swing night from 9pm to 2:30am, and Sundays close the week with a Super Sexy Sunday from 4pm to 10pm, buffet included. Entry is generally £20 for couples, £10–£20 for single ladies, and £30–£40 for single men, who must pre-book given limited availability. Inside, a fully licensed bar runs alongside private and open rooms, with buffet service laid on for select nights. The daytime Coffee & Munch on Fridays provides a deliberate low-stakes entry point — come as you are, meet the regulars, and decide from there. Dress code across evening events is smart casual; trainers and sportswear are not admitted. Photo ID is required for first-time visitors, and consent sits at the centre of the club's stated ethos with a clear 'No always means No' policy. The venue is also available for private hire upon request.

On-Premise Club

Avarus Swingerclub

Berlin, Berlin

On-Premise Club

Avarus is widely regarded as one of the most beautiful swingers clubs in Berlin, hidden away on the 5th floor of an apartment building in the Wedding district. Step inside and you'll find an elegant world of premium wellness — Finnish sauna, Roman steam bath, a 36,000-litre love pool, and an experience shower — seamlessly blended with stylish play areas and intimate social spaces. Every visit is all-inclusive: entry covers all drinks and a hot & cold buffet, so there's nothing to think about but enjoying the evening. The event calendar keeps things fresh with couples-only Saturdays, Orgasm Nights, Bi-Parties, Darkroom Parties, and BDSM nights in the adjacent Menagerie venue. The signature "Chocolate Sunday" — featuring edible liquid chocolate in the steam bath — is an experience you won't find anywhere else. Staff speaks English and the club warmly welcomes international guests alongside its loyal local crowd. The house philosophy says it all: everything is allowed, nothing is mandatory. LGBTQ+ friendly. Couples and newbie friendly.

On-Premise Club

Ignite Club

Heathrow, London

On-Premise Club