Lifeinstyle STL

Lifeinstyle STL describes itself as “an exclusive community” for verified couples aged 21 and over. It is an events organizer that runs rotating events: its pages list full hotel takeovers, meet-and-greets at local bars and a National Swingers Weekend at Lake of the Ozarks, with parties in St. Louis and across the Midwest. Large parties are hotel takeovers with DJs and live music, with hotel room packages sold for guests. The FAQ describes themed rooms as “cozy spaces” where couples can lounge and explore, says the parties are “not sex focused or sex based,” and says games and activities are optional. Smaller meet-and-greets run at bars such as Chapter 3 in Soulard, including newbie meet-and-greets, and events range from about 50 to 400 guests. Every guest needs an approved Lifeinstyle account; the club says it vets each profile, approval can take one to four days, and there are no door sales. Events are for couples and single women; single men can apply for select single-male accounts for groups, chat and more. The location is emailed the night before. Dress is cocktail attire unless an event is themed. Consent is mandatory, guests should control their alcohol intake, photos are suggested only in designated areas, and the club reserves the right to admit or deny anyone.