Shameless Grounds - ENM Night

Shameless Grounds is a sex-positive cafe in the Benton Park neighborhood of south St. Louis, Missouri, operating since 2011. On the fourth Friday of most months it hosts ENM Night, a ticketed social mixer for people practicing or curious about Ethical Non-Monogamy -- swingers, polyamorous folks, and those in open marriages are all welcome. The regular coffeeshop space converts into an evening social scene with a full bar, drink specials, food, curated music, and icebreaker games to help guests mingle; most months the crowd spreads onto the patio. Because the cafe holds a City of St. Louis liquor license, no nudity or sexual activity is permitted on-site -- this is a flirtatious meet-and-greet, not a play party. ENM Night runs 6-10pm, with $10-per-person tickets sold in advance via the cafe's Square site. Dress code is upscale casual or sexy. House rules emphasize consent -- "no means no" -- and guests who become visibly intoxicated are cut off and asked to leave.