PaaRee Swingertreff

PaaRee Swingertreff is a couples and lifestyle club at Hernerstraße 110 in Castrop-Rauxel, in the heart of the Ruhr region in North Rhine-Westphalia, run by Mandy and Frank Kuhles. The club brands itself as "der tolerante, frivole & aktive Swingertreff mit Niveau und Klasse" — a tolerant, spirited, and active swinger venue with refinement and class — and positions itself as a considered alternative to the larger, more impersonal mega-clubs of the region. The guiding motto is "Alles kann – nichts muss" (everything is possible, nothing is mandatory). Women, couples, single men, and trans guests across a range of orientations and relationship configurations are all welcomed, with mandatory advance registration by phone or JOYclub profile required for everyone. The venue describes itself as "der kleine und feine Swingertreff" — small and refined — and features multiple themed play rooms of varying sizes, including spaces for BDSM scenes and group encounters alongside smaller couples-oriented rooms. A large outdoor terrace, screened from public view, extends the available space in milder weather. The communal shower room is stocked with hair dryers and toiletries; complimentary lockers are provided throughout. A bar with branded alcoholic and non-alcoholic beverages and a food spread — including a fresh Saturday buffet, cooked meals on weekdays and Sundays, and snacks at other sessions — are included in the all-in entry price, as are condoms and towels. Cash is the only accepted payment method on site. The club runs events across four days each week. Friday evenings (19:00–01:00) host themed Active Swinger Nights; Saturdays (20:00–02:00) run the main weekly Saturday Night Swinger party; Sundays (15:00–20:00) offer the Sxx-Active Sunday session; and the second Thursday of each month (12:00–18:00) hosts a bi-friendly FKK afternoon. Pricing is all-inclusive and varies by event: on Fridays, women pay €15, couples €45, and single men €45; Saturday rates are €20 for women, €50 for couples, and €50 for men; other sessions are priced slightly lower. JOYclub Premium members receive a €5 reduction on any session. Strict house rules apply throughout: no mobile phones, no cannabis, erotic attire required, and a zero-tolerance consent policy is enforced — any violation results in immediate removal and a permanent ban.