Secrets for Sharing

Secrets for Sharing is a monthly lifestyle event held at a private country house set in the South Devon countryside near Littlehempston, on the outskirts of Totnes. Drawing couples and single women from across Devon, Cornwall and Somerset, it occupies a discreet rural setting whose exact address is released only to confirmed guests. The organisers' approach — no memberships, no sign-up formalities — positions it as an unusually low-barrier entry point into the South West's lifestyle scene, with an emphasis on warmth and genuine connection rather than club-night ceremony. The venue is well-equipped for a full evening and optional overnight stay. A wet area comprises a ten-seat sauna, six-seat hot tub, massage area and shower facilities with towels and lockers. Social spaces run to three chill-out lounges — one screening adult films — and a dance room with pole, while a heated covered outdoor deck provides a sheltered spot away from the main rooms. The play areas divide between a downstairs communal playroom and grope room fitted with a cage, and an upper level holding an XXX cinema room, a love-swing room and three privately lockable themed rooms, among them a 'Trailer Trash'-styled space. A licensed bar operates at below-pub prices throughout the evening, and a complimentary finger buffet is included in the entry price. Events run on the third Saturday of each month, doors opening at 20:00. Entry is £70 per couple and £35 for single women; single men are not admitted. No membership is required — guests reserve a place by phone or email and pay on arrival. An overnight stay at the property is available for those who wish to use it. The dress code calls for smart casual attire from the gentlemen and sexy, stylish dress from the ladies.