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BYOB Lifestyle Clubs in California
9 clubs
As of 2026, California has 9 byob lifestyle clubs. They're spread across 6 cities, led by Los Angeles (3), San Francisco (2), Indio (1).
Sinners Den
Indio, CA
On-Premise Club
Kink-friendlyDungeonNewbie-friendlyInclusive+7
Club Joi
Los Angeles, CA
On-Premise Club
On-premiseMulti-roomMembers-onlyCouples-focused+3
Illuminaughty LA
Los Angeles, CA
Private Members Club
Private-residenceMembers-onlyApplication-based21-plus+1
Tentaciones LA
Los Angeles, CA
Members-Only Lifestyle Club
Members-onlyApplication-basedAddress-on-request21-plus+2
Allures Lifestyle
Sacramento, CA
On-premiseCouples-focusedHotel-parties21-plus+1
Thad's
San Diego, CA
Private Social Club
Illuminaughty (San Francisco)
San Francisco, CA
Event Organizer
Private-residenceHouse-partyMembers-onlyApplication-based+5
Twist SF
San Francisco, CA
On-Premise Club
On-premiseCouples-focusedScreened-singlesLate-night
Unverified
Swinghearts
Whittier, CA
Private Event Host
Couples-focusedSelect-singlesPoly-friendlyJudgment-free+6
Closed venues
2No longer operating — kept for reference and venue history.
