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BYOB Lifestyle Clubs in California
12 clubs
As of 2026, California has 12 byob lifestyle clubs. They're spread across 9 cities, led by Los Angeles (3), San Francisco (2), Berkeley (1).
Dark Odyssey
Berkeley, CA
Event Organizer
Kink-friendlyLgbtq-friendlyInclusivePansexual+10
Closed
Club Labyrinth LA (Hollywood)
Hollywood, CA
On-Premise Club
Kink-friendlyByobOn-premiseMembers-only+2
Sinners Den
Indio, CA
On-Premise Club
Kink-friendlyDungeonNewbie-friendlyInclusive+7
Club Joi
Los Angeles, CA
On-Premise Club
Members-onlyCouples-focusedSingle-ladies-friendlyByob+11
Illuminaughty LA
Los Angeles, CA
Event Organizer
UpscaleCuratedConsent-forwardWelcoming+10
Tentaciones LA
Los Angeles, CA
On-Premise Club
LatinByobNo-phonesStrict-dress-code+10
Mission Control SF (Kinky Salon)
Oakland, CA
BDSM Club
Sex-positiveConsent-cultureThemed-partiesQueer-friendly+11
Closed
Club FA (Freedom Acres)
San Bernardino, CA
On-Premise Club
UpscaleDress-to-impressCouples-focusedMulti-room+9
Thad's
San Diego, CA
On-Premise Club
BYOBOn-premiseCouples-focusedSingle-friendly+9
Illuminaughty (San Francisco)
San Francisco, CA
Event Organizer
Twist SF
San Francisco, CA
On-Premise Club
Newbie-friendlyCouples-focusedByobDancefloor+10
Unverified
Swinghearts
Whittier, CA
Private Event Host
Couples-focusedSelect-singlesPoly-friendlyJudgment-free+6