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Schloss Trebbichau

Trebbichau, Saxony-Anhalt

On-Premise Club

Schloss Trebbichau occupies a restored historic castle at Parkstrasse 10 in Trebbichau, a small village in Osternienburger Land, Saxony-Anhalt. Operated by Chateau du Soleil GmbH under managing director Carola Schwarz, who brings a background in television production and theatre, alongside Dutch co-founder Ronald, who supervised the multi-year hands-on renovation, the club reopened as a lifestyle venue in early 2023 and bills itself as die wohl schonste erotische Oase im Herzen von Sachsen-Anhalt. The interior unfolds across three levels. A soaring main hall, 7.5 metres high, anchors the ground floor with a bar, dance floor, and extensive seating, while a mezzanine gallery on the first floor looks down over the space below. Adjoining rooms include a salon, a buffet and dining room, a dedicated smoking lounge, and a games room. Play rooms of varying themes are distributed across the basement, ground floor, and upper floor. Come summer, the castle lake (SchlossSee) becomes the setting for FKK (naturist) outdoor weekend gatherings. Events run one to two times per month and vary considerably in character: burlesque and performance evenings, FKK lake weekends, decade-themed parties, and elegant evening parties. All events are listed and ticketed exclusively through JOYclub.de; pricing is not published on the club website. Regular parties fall on Saturdays, running from 19:30 to 02:00. The core guest profile is active couples; single women and single men are admitted selectively depending on the specific event. The dress-code shorthand is elegant black is never wrong, with full requirements published per event on JOYclub.

Tease Party is a couples-and-single-ladies-only lifestyle event brand operating in Scottsdale, Arizona, rather than a fixed-address club — parties are held at rotating venues that change with each event''s theme. The group markets itself as a no-pressure, erotic social setting built for beautiful couples and single females to flaunt, flirt and connect without the presence or pressure of single men. Each event varies by venue and theme, but the operators describe a consistent steamy, respectful atmosphere designed to let guests be openly sexy. After the main party, many attendees continue into informal after-parties that run later into the evening, and discounted rooms at nearby hotels are offered depending on which venue is booked for that event. Access is strictly private and by referral only — there is no walk-in or open-door admission. Prospective guests must get on the guest list either by joining Tease Party''s affiliated lifestyle site or by contacting the organizers directly by email, and being on that list is the only way to be admitted to a party.

The Fantasy Lounge

Kansas City, MO

On-Premise Club

Fantasy Lounge describes itself as “a private members social club in Kansas City” that hosts themed nightlife events for vetted adult members. Its site says it was founded in 2009. Events run on the 1st and 3rd Fridays and the 2nd and 4th Saturdays of each month, and the themed nights include a Newbie Night. The club lists a dance floor with LED club lighting, 4K HDTVs that support the DJ and VJ experience, modern lounge seating and nine private themed rooms for members, with an in-house DJ playing a mix of genres, styles and eras. Every guest must complete its membership vetting process and be approved before attending. Approved guests become nightly members who can RSVP and buy tickets. The club describes its typical members as couples, single women and single men, and it can refuse entry at its discretion. Venue location and entry details are released only after approval, through RSVP and ticket confirmation emails or the member login. Fantasy Lounge is BYOB: it sells no alcohol but provides ice, mixers and bar setups, and only personal-sized coolers are allowed. The dress code is “upscale club attire”; the rules prohibit illegal drugs, require consent before any physical contact, and allow photos or video only with the consent of everyone visible.

The Loft Club

Ronkonkoma, NY

The Loft Club billed itself as Long Island's only premier upscale lifestyle club, operating out of an industrial-style space at 142-1 Remington Boulevard in Ronkonkoma. Operated under the umbrella of the Naughty Neighbors group — active on the Long Island lifestyle scene since 2015 — the club combined a social lounge experience with on-premise play, drawing couples and vetted single guests in roughly equal measure. The Naughty Neighbors' ethos of zero-pressure, no-expectation socialising carried directly into the club nights, where newcomers were actively welcomed and regulars kept the atmosphere more house-party than nightclub. The venue featured three lounge areas, a dedicated dance floor with a DJ, upgraded lighting, and six dedicated playrooms. A stripper pole anchored the main party room and the club ran a BYOB policy, supplying mixers, sodas and water at the bar. Admission was tiered: $30 for single ladies, $70 for couples, and $80 for single men, with single-male attendance capped and subject to pre-approval. Events were listed on the SwingLifeStyle (SLS) calendar. As of mid-2026, The Loft Club was actively relocating to a new and larger location, with the Naughty Neighbors group targeting its annual Halloween party as the opening milestone. The theloftclub2.com site was live but showing a Launching Soon holding page, directing all enquiries through email and text-only contact channels.

The Rabbit Hole Adelaide

Adelaide, South Australia

On-Premise Club

The Rabbit Hole Adelaide is a private members lifestyle club set in a converted private residence roughly ten minutes north-east of the Adelaide CBD. Catering to open-minded adults interested in consensual non-monogamy, swinging, and alternative relationship dynamics, the club is built around a philosophy of consent, safety, and sophistication. Run by a couple known as Wendee and Andrew, the venue is deliberately curated and selective: prospective members must submit an application questionnaire and a recent full-body photograph before gaining access, and membership, though free, is granted entirely at the hosts' discretion. The venue is spread across two floors. Downstairs is the social zone — a lounge equipped with a pool table and pole-dance poles where guests mingle and settle in. Upstairs holds the play floor, comprising an open dungeon, an open room, two closed private rooms, and a curtained room. Every play space is stocked with condoms (regular, large and X-large), dams, lubricant, wipes, and clean sheets and towels; a one-hour limit is suggested for closed rooms to keep access moving. Soft drinks, water, tea, coffee, and nibbles are provided; guests bring their own alcohol, stored in a large commercial refrigerator on site. A change room is available for those who prefer to arrive in street clothes and transition into lingerie or fetish attire on site. Phones are surrendered to lockers at arrival and are not permitted back in the venue — cameras and any form of recording are prohibited throughout. The calendar spans a varied programme of themed nights, primarily on Saturdays, with doors opening at 8:30 pm and closing at 9:30 pm — late admission is not offered. Regular open parties run through to around 2:00 am; Newbie Nights, restricted to couples and plus-ones with soft-swinging guidelines in the shared spaces, are the recommended entry point for first-timers. The programme also includes Meet and Greet social evenings with no play, Girls Nights for female-identifying guests, LGBTQI+ Rainbow Parties, and kink and fetish events. Membership is free and non-transferable but is a prerequisite for all events; single men must first attend a mandatory Information Night — a 2.5-hour facility tour and orientation session — before their application is reviewed, and even after approval are restricted to designated events.

The Sublime Society

London, London

Performance Night / Event Series

The Sublime Society is a monthly erotic performance event series staged at Dear Darling, a luxury bar and nightclub at 91 Jermyn Street in Mayfair's St. James's district, a short walk from Green Park station. Co-founded by burlesque artist Charlie Bouquett and House of Fatale founder Missy Fatale, it presents itself as an "exclusive hedonistic soirée" — a voyeur-forward sensual salon in which live burlesque, shibari suspension, fetish performance, and sapphic dominance play unfold in close proximity to a seated and standing audience. The project carries an explicitly FLINTA-centered artistic policy: all performers identify as femme, lesbian, intersex, non-binary, trans, or asexual, and the organisers have publicly committed to exclusively female-identifying performers for their London editions. Dear Darling occupies a double-level footprint. The main salon — called The Living Room — holds 50 seated and up to 160 standing guests among wood-panelled walls, plush sofas, velvet armchairs, green drapery, and low crystal-strung chandeliers. There is no raised stage: performers move through the room itself, and mirrored ceilings provide sightlines from multiple angles while a rigged shibari frame hosts rope suspension pieces. Below, reached only through what the venue calls Lady Darling's wardrobe — a concealed door — sits a basement nightclub with capacity for around 160, featuring avant-garde décor and a DJ booth; this space operates as the afterparty venue for Sublime Society ticket-holders from approximately 11pm. A curated cocktail menu runs throughout both levels. Events run roughly monthly on Friday evenings, with doors at 7:00–7:30pm and the performance programme concluding between 10:15pm and 11:30pm depending on format; the basement afterparty continues to 2:00am. A secondary format, The Sublime Society: SALON, runs shorter evenings (7:00–10:30pm) and layers a live podcast recording and a participatory BDSM impact-play workshop onto the shibari performance. Tickets are sold exclusively in advance via DesignMyNight; standard general admission sits between approximately £38 and £65 depending on the event, with couples packages at a 20% reduction and three-person packages at 30% off. A VIP tier adding reserved lounge seating and basement nightclub access runs £59–£80, and a Meet and Greet add-on (£20–£22) provides post-show access to the cast.

The X Club

Mississauga, Ontario

On-Premise Club

The X Club describes itself as “a haven for curious individuals seeking an unforgettable experience.” It is a membership-based, on-premise lifestyle nightclub in Mississauga open Friday and Saturday nights and, per its website, founded 19 years ago. The main floor has resident DJs playing Top 40, house and techno, a bar and bottle service. Under the same roof, the Mermaid Lounge has “a luxurious spa-inspired environment” with a cocktail bar, a Himalayan dry sauna, a steam room, a group shower and a clothing-optional four-season pool. The play space has seven private rooms and a kink room, where clothing is optional, plus an open play area with beds, couches and an orgy room where guests dress down to underwear, lingerie, towels or nothing. Lockers, showers and towel service come with membership. Everyone needs a valid membership, which starts with an online profile the club approves; first-time visitors can enter without one until 10 PM on Newbie Night, the first Friday of each month. Saturdays are for couples and single women only, and single men are welcome on Fridays but kept out of the open play area except on Freaky Friday. Guests must be 21 or older, dress is smart-casual and sexy, consent is mandatory, and photography (outside the photo booth) and smoking are not allowed.

Velvet FTL

Unverified

Pompano Beach, FL

Lifestyle Resort

Velvet FTL is a membership-based private lifestyle (swingers) club serving the Broward, Miami, and Palm Beach communities in South Florida. The club does not publish its street address publicly; the exact venue location is released only to verified guests after registration. Membership is required for entry to the club's private online social network, and is handled separately from event-specific admission. The dress code is strictly enforced on regular club nights: an upscale "dress to impress" standard applies, with a sexier standard expected of women and classy attire for men. Tank tops, shorts, sandals, du-rags, caps, hats, and jerseys are turned away at the door. House rules prohibit cameras, cell-phone cameras, and any recording device anywhere on the premises, and the club enforces a strict no-tolerance policy toward drugs and prostitution. Couples are expected to arrive and depart together, and explicit consent is required before touching another guest; the club states it does not share or sell members' contact information. Membership is sold in tiers ranging from a recurring monthly plan to a one-year option, with separate short-term tiers offered for single men and single women. Beyond the home venue, the operator also markets a running slate of affiliated lifestyle travel packages -- clothing-optional cruises and resort takeovers -- through the same membership portal.

Villa Weizigt

Dordrecht, Zuid-Holland

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Villa Weizigt is a licensed seksclub and sauna club in Dordrecht, Zuid-Holland, operating as a gentlemen's club built around the principles of luxury, discretion, and relaxation. The venue has traded under its current licensing and ownership since approximately 2014, following renovation of the premises including installation of a new thatched roof. Staff communicate in Dutch and English. The communal facilities centre on a large heated indoor swimming pool enclosed by glass panels, flanked by shower facilities and a Finnish sauna. On arrival, guests receive complimentary bathrobes, slippers, and swimwear. The room inventory comprises 14 standard rooms, each with a double bed and private bathroom fitted with either a shower or a two-person jacuzzi, plus four VIP suites offering oversized three-to-four-person jacuzzis, flat-screen televisions, and separate seating areas. An outdoor garden terrace with multiple lounge sections, a designated smoking area, and seasonal BBQ facilities rounds out the premises. The club opens seven days a week: Monday through Thursday 14:00–02:00, Friday 14:00–03:00, Saturday 16:00–03:00, and Sunday 16:00–02:00. General entry is €60 per person, covering all-day access to communal facilities, an evening dinner, and unlimited non-alcoholic beverages plus beer and wine. Private room hire with an on-site companion is charged separately. Payment is accepted by cash, PIN, credit card, and VISA.

Vixxxins Lifestyle Club

Phoenix, AZ

Members-Only Private Club

Vixxxins Lifestyle Club, also styled Club VIXXXINS, describes itself as “a ‘Members Only’ Private Club” running themed lifestyle and kink events. It is based in Phoenix and holds most events in the valley, with warehouse gala events, house parties sometimes hosted by members, and, from time to time, mix and mingles, hotel staycations and private dinner parties. Locations are given only to members. The club says every event has open and private play spaces with security, and it lists a VIP lounge, a designated smoking area, and food that is often free. Most events are BYOB, with bartenders and free mixers. A strict dress code applies: fetish, goth, lingerie and formal wear are welcome, while jeans, plain T-shirts and athletic wear mean no entry, and its mix and mingles call for street-legal dress. Members must be 21 or older. Applicants are checked against the sex offender database and approved before they can register for events, and a couple needs one membership. Members may bring up to two guests, while mix and mingles are open to non-members. Cameras and recording devices are banned in play areas, phones are limited to designated areas, no means no, and anyone with illegal drugs is banned.

XCLUSIV Lifestyle (XL)

Houston, TX

On-premise Club

Tucked into north Houston near the 77088 zip code, XCLUSIV Lifestyle (XL) is the area's upscale, members-only lifestyle event centre for open-minded adults — swingers, couples, approved singles, kinksters, LGBTQ+ guests, and the polyamorous and ethically non-monogamous community — drawn from across Texas and Louisiana. The venue runs Friday through Sunday with Friday and Saturday nights going until 5AM and Sunday wrapping at 3AM, pulling in regulars from Houston, Dallas, Austin, San Antonio, Beaumont, and New Orleans. Membership is required but can be obtained at the door with a valid government-issued photo ID; all guests must be 21 or older. XL is fully cashless and BYOB with on-site mixers available. A live DJ, VIP sections, a dance floor, intimate lounge, showers, and eight themed playrooms fill out the space. Dress code is upscale and sexy, with a strict prohibited-items list covering shorts, sneakers, tank tops, and caps. Saturday single-gent entry is limited and requires advance RSVP. The club offers private event hire, affiliate travel packages to Desire and Temptation resorts, and maintains a FetLife community presence. Security cameras cover all public spaces while private areas are excluded. Photography and video require express written approval from management. Consent is core to the culture — non-consensual behaviour results in immediate removal without refund.