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Minneapolis, MN
Hotel Takeover Event
Naughty Revival describes itself as “a 21+ 2-Night, immersive experience of kink.” It is an annual hotel takeover in a suburb of the Minneapolis–St. Paul area rather than a fixed club: the organizers rent a whole hotel, opening Friday afternoon and running through Sunday midday. Its About page says the organizer began in 2018 as Kinque Social Society and reorganized in 2021 for the first Naughty Revival event. The event space has a ballroom dungeon, a pool dungeon, a swingers' suite and four stages for demonstrations and performances, plus classes, vendors, an on-site restaurant and bar, and access to a pool, hot tub, sauna and racquetball courts. Sex is allowed only in private rooms or the swingers' suite, and a marked aftercare area is reserved for aftercare. Anyone interested in an alternative lifestyle may attend, singles are explicitly welcome, and guests must be 21 or older. Admission is by two-day ticket through the Naughty Revival Eventbrite store, and the hotel name is released only by email or after buying tickets or rooms. Alcohol is sold at the hotel and venue bars, illegal drugs and poppers are banned, and phones and cameras are barred outside private rooms and a designated phone room, with a lifetime ban for violators. An optional orientation is offered to first-timers.
Normanton on Soar, Leicestershire
Event Organizer
New Paradise Club occupies Hathern House on Rempstone Road in Normanton on Soar, a quiet rural village in Leicestershire roughly equidistant between Loughborough and the A60. The club is a swingers and lifestyle venue that operates under an annual membership model and bills itself as a friendly, welcoming environment for couples and singles alike. The club runs regular themed party nights across a five-day weekly schedule: Wednesday and Thursday evenings (7pm–midnight), Friday and Saturday nights (7pm–3am), and Sunday afternoons (2pm–10pm). Dedicated bi nights and TV/admirers nights are among the event formats the club has advertised. The venue has also publicised the addition of a 20-person hot tub among its facilities. Prospective visitors are advised to contact the club directly via newparadiseclub.co.uk or on 07963 239838 for current entry prices, booking requirements, and house rules.

Halifax, Nova Scotia
Event Organizer
Nightshade Halifax describes itself as “a series of kinky themed costume parties” that happen periodically in Halifax, Nova Scotia, for people who want to “learn, explore and meet other open minded people.” The club says it has thrown parties since a launch party in February 2013. Current parties take over a third-floor ballroom at the Best Western Plus Chocolate Lake Hotel. A dungeon corner holds heavy-duty bondage furniture, with Dungeon Masters and Monitors who can instruct or lend a hand and keep everyone safe. DJs run the sound system for the dance floor, and a cash-only bar and a coat check are on hand. Event themes include Kinky Colours (with a body painting station), Kinky Halloween, Wasteland and a New Year's Eve party. Guests must be 19 or older with valid government identification, and tickets are sold online in advance, with limited door tickets if any remain. There is no dress code, but costumes or alternative wear are strongly suggested, with black clothing as the fallback, and public decency rules apply. A no-camera rule applies apart from event photographers, and complaints against a guest may lead to a ban from future events.
Portsmouth, Hampshire
Event Organizer
Daytime lifestyle parties for couples and select singles, held in upscale hotel suites. Parties typically run from afternoon into early evening with intimate guest lists of 20 or fewer, offering a relaxed and sociable alternative to late-night events. Current operating status is unconfirmed — the club's website (noonersclub.com) has since been taken over by an unrelated platform, and no active social media presence, reviews, or listings could be found as of August 2026; verify directly before planning a visit.

Columbus, OH
Event Organizer
Play Champagne says “We host UPSCALE on premise lifestyle events all over the Midwest”. It is an event organizer running complete hotel takeovers, restaurant and bar included, as two-day weekend events. Everyone attending must be a member and at least 21 with a valid state ID. The host hotels offer over 200 all-suite guestrooms and 10,000 sq ft of convention space. The club lists a five-story atrium entertainment area, a large dance floor with lifestyle DJs, an indoor pool with a topless-optional pool party and a hot tub open around the clock. Play areas include group and semi-private playrooms, themed playrooms and an expanded impact room, alongside couples classes, BDSM demos and a daily complimentary hot breakfast buffet. Couples and single women are admitted; single men attend only as VIPs or as sponsored guests of a couple or single woman, who must arrive, stay and leave with them. Applicants are screened against the DOJ Sexual Offenders Registry. The whole hotel is BYOB, with drinks carried into party areas in a tumbler and bottles and cans kept in the room, plus a hotel cash bar. There is no enforced dress code, though dress to impress is preferred. Sex is not allowed in common areas, the pool or the hot tub, and recreational drugs are never permitted.

Vancouver, British Columbia
Event Organizer
PLUR Productions describes itself as “a SEX+/ SOP Event production company” with the mission “Peace, Love, Unity, Respect.” It runs sex-on-premise events in Vancouver at affiliated venues. It is a private club where the door fee makes each guest a member for the day, and yearly memberships are also available. Studio PLUR is a separate bookable studio and dungeon space. Events have clearly marked play areas, lounge areas for conversation where sex is not allowed, a co-ed personal area with free lockers, bar snacks, and towels, condoms and lubricant, with a full bar at nights such as Vantanior. Some nights add a dungeon. Studio PLUR holds up to 40 guests and has a corner bar with a fridge, a lounge, an aftercare space, a DJ sound stage, a floor cage, a St. Andrews cross, stylized benches and rope-suspension hard points. Single men are always welcome, and the club says it welcomes all orientations and gender identities at the same admission fee. Guests must be 19 or older. Cupids brief every guest on the Top Ten Rules of Consent at the door, and all activity must be consensual. Open photography and video, including cell phones, are not allowed. Newcomers can attend the iCandy meet-and-mingle night on the second Friday of each month, which includes a venue tour and a presentation on club etiquette and the lifestyle.

Nashville, TN
Members-Only Event Host
Red Room Nashville describes itself as “an exclusive, members-only forum” that holds private in-person events. It hosts weekly themed events at a partner host venue, and its rules mention Saturday events and a Newbie Night on Fridays. The host venue offers “an amazing area to socialize, dance, have more private small group interactions, or lounge together in larger groups.” Features include a professional DJ and large LED dance floor, VIP and reserved tables with soft seating, a ladies-only dressing suite, lounge areas and private rooms. A designated Couples Play Area is two in, two out, and full nudity is limited to the back play areas; topless is allowed in the main bar and dance-floor area. Couples, single women and single men are admitted, but single men wear a wristband and stay in the bar-side area unless a couple or group invites them elsewhere. Everyone must be an approved member (24-hour approval wait) before buying a ticket, and there are no walk-ins. Guests bring their own drinks, with mixers provided. Dress should suit “an upscale restaurant, high-end nightclub, or special date night,” and management can refuse entry over attire. Rules include asking before touching, keeping activity above the waist in the main area and phones on the table or put away.

London, London
Event Organizer
Riot Party UK describes itself as “a multi-genre, queer, sex-positive rave with activism at its core.” It is an event series led by people of color and sex workers, with parties in London, Manchester and Bristol; the London dates on its events page are at Electrowerkz and fall on Sundays. Beyond the dance floor, the events feature “fully equipped and monitored play spaces”, workshops, exhibitions, performances and places to socialize, with line-ups blending Dancehall, Afrobeats, House, UKG and Strip Hop. Every party venue has a changing room and cloakroom, and a trained safeguarding team in LED armbands is on hand. Guests are encouraged to bring their own toys, as none are provided; play is welcome, including shibari, but scat, watersports, blood play and fire play are not allowed. People of all gender and sexual identities who follow the rules are welcome, and the club says it centers “people of colour, sex workers and the LGBTQ+ community”. Entry is 18+ with physical ID, every guest completes a consent form, and fetishwear or expressive alternative fashion is required. Photography and video are banned, phones are not allowed in play areas, and play needs an enthusiastic yes.
London, London
Event Organizer
Riposte uses the tagline “Queer ~ Art ~ Techno” and describes its events as “Art-Raves showcasing artists part of the LGBTQIA+ community (and sometimes allies)”. It is a London event organizer: its raves take over existing venues, Electrowerkz in Islington and The Cause, and are ticketed through Resident Advisor. Its listed nights fall on Fridays, and the next listed one runs from late evening into the early morning. According to its Resident Advisor page, its events are multi-room: multiple dance floors with more than 10 DJs, a dedicated performance room with roaming performances and avant-garde acts, installations and workshops by artists, market stalls, and what it calls “a sex-positive play space”. Some editions carry a theme, and the club says the dance floor is kept for music, so art installations are generally not hosted there. Entry is 18 and over, with tickets sold through Resident Advisor. The club's open-call document describes the night as “Made by queers, with queers, for queers”, says it has “dedicated sex-positive spaces with a strong culture of consent and respect”, and says sober guests are welcome: “You can have fun sober if you choose to.” The same document lists a welfare coordinator among its curators and expects around 800 people at an event.
Calgary, Alberta
Event Organizer
Share Lifestyle Club is a Calgary-based event organizer that hosts themed parties and social gatherings for adults. The club does not maintain a permanent public venue; events are held at private locations disclosed only to registered members. The club website (sharelifestyleclub.com) is fully gated and returns no publicly accessible content. No street address, phone number, or social media presence has been identified. All enquiries are directed to sharelifestyleclub@gmail.com. Current operational status is unverified — no event activity or community mentions have been found for 2025-2026.

Austin, TX
Event Organizer
Shrine describes itself as “a sex positive, fetish, and kink oriented space” that blends a dungeon and club like atmosphere. It is a monthly event series rather than a standing club, held on a Sunday at colette Austin, with a casual munch typically the Wednesday before. The venue offers ten beds, a large social area, mats for primal and rough body play, and allocated spaces for fire play, long-distance impact and blood/needle play. Shrine's rules page also lists St. Andrew's crosses, spanking benches, hard points, wrestling mats, stripper poles, a DJ booth, a non-alcoholic beverage bar, small lockers, balconies for voyeurism and an outdoor smoking area. Entry is for anyone 18 or older with a valid state or federal ID who agrees to the waivers and a temporary, event-only membership included in the cover; tickets are sold at the door or online. The organizers welcome all sexual orientations, gender identities and expressions. It is a dry event: alcohol and illegal substances, including cannabis, are prohibited, and phones and cameras are banned inside except in approved areas. There is no dress code inside, but guests come in streetwear to the door. Consent is required for all contact, the safe word is RED, and Dungeon Monitors in colored vests or with radios are on hand.

Miami, FL
Invitation-Only Events Community
Silk Lifestyle describes itself as “a private, invitation-only community for curated nights and aligned people.” It is an app-based events group: its About page says the beta is live on iOS and Android, starting in Miami, Fort Lauderdale and West Palm Beach, and its parties are held at private mansions in South Florida, with no permanent venue named. The events turn a mansion into a one-night setting. Listings mention a pool and jacuzzi, a dance floor with a DJ and performances, private bedroom suites that can be reserved, and at some events a guest house with multiple play areas. Nights follow a theme, with dress codes set per event, and some events sell VIP tables that include a bottle with mixers and ice. Entry is by RSVP or ticket in the Silk app, with a QR pass checked at the door. Access is invitation-only and approval-based, attendance is limited, and ticket categories include couples, single women, single men and throuples. The site is for adults 18+, though at least one event is listed as 21+. Members are expected to honor stated boundaries ("No" means no) and to follow door policies, ID checks, guest-list rules and staff instructions; any photography or recording rules are announced by Silk or the venue.

Washington, DC
Event Organizer
Sinn-Ergy Events says it puts on “members-only events for select, classy, sexy, fun couples.” It is an event organizer that hosts parties at venues across the District of Columbia, Virginia and Maryland, and its About page says it was founded in 2008. The club lists Sip & Sinn Meet & Greets, “fantasy” themed events and vacations among its events, and says the larger share of its guests are in their mid-20s and 30s. The club says its venues feature extensive decorations and custom lounge areas and play spaces where couples can get to know each other. Its pages describe custom decor and music by national and international DJs at its events, and, depending on the venue, events may draw anywhere from 50 to 500+ guests. The club also runs interactive educational seminars and workshops, and offers VIP tables at many events. Admission is by membership: prospective members apply, and the club says not all applications are approved. Members receive an Eventbrite invitation with a one-time-use link to buy tickets. The events are for couples, select single women may attend, and single men are not accepted. The club’s pages encourage guests to get dressed up and picture men in tuxedos and women in gowns. Some events allow guests to bring their own beverage. Its events page currently lists upcoming events as “TBD”.

Vancouver, British Columbia
Event Organizer
SOP Lifestyle Productions says it is “home of the Signature Takeovers and the Signature Experiences.” It is an event organizer: its Winter Lifestyle Takeover, which began in 2010 and became a hotel takeover in 2012, is held in November at a Whistler hotel, and a Spring Lifestyle Takeover started in 2015. It is also an official booking agent for lifestyle cruises and resorts. In the Winter takeover layout the sixth floor is the Play Floor, with theme rooms, sponsors rooms and playrooms open all night; the fifth is the Party Floor, the fourth the Noisy Floor, and the second and third are Quiet Floors. Open play rooms stay door-open, and private play rooms have a one-hour limit. Across its nights the takeover runs a Meet + Greet, a dance party and a cocktail party, plus daytime seminars and workshops. Singles, couples and more are welcome, and the club says there is “no pressure or mandatory participation.” It does not offer single-day passes, and hotel rooms cannot be booked by calling the hotel or through its website. Alcohol is BYOB in pool-safe containers (no glass) and is not allowed in play spaces. Guests must be dressed in the lobby and public areas, with clothing optional only on the party floors and pool deck. Verbal consent is required, photos need prior explicit permission, and illegal substances, excessive drinking, indoor smoking or vaping, fighting and solicitation are not allowed.
Denver, CO
Event Venue and Lounge
Sugar Lounge describes itself as “an open-minded venue that hosts a wide range of events” and presents itself as an event venue and lounge in Denver, Colorado. Its posted schedule runs Tuesday through Saturday evenings, and the club says it opens only during scheduled event hours. The venue has two separate event spaces with color-changing lights and smart TVs, a fully equipped kitchen, a large privacy-fenced patio with grills and open-air seating, private parking and lockers, and holds up to 250 guests. Couples have two areas: one in the main building next to the bartender, open to couples and single women, and The Underground Lounge, a separate couples-only space. Guests must be 21 or older. Couples, single women and single men are all admitted, but single men may enter the main-building couples area only by invitation from a couple or single woman. The club does not sell alcohol; it is BYOB, and a bartender at weekend events holds and pours drinks and provides ice, cups and mixers. Dress is casual at the door. Phones and recording devices, including recording smart glasses, stay out beyond the entry curtains, consent must be clear, and breaking the rules can mean ejection or a permanent ban. First-timers are offered a tour.

Dallas, TX
Event Organization
Summer's Home for Wayward Swingers describes itself as “an exclusive online community and event organization” for the swinger lifestyle. It is run by Summer and her husband Mike and holds its Dallas parties at a private venue in the Design District. Most are on-premise events, which the organizers say means sexual activity may be occurring. The venue is described as private, with over 2,500 square feet of on-premise play space, a large social and play area with a fireplace and hot tub, two bedrooms with three queen beds, and landscaped grounds with three outdoor cabanas that can be reserved for private play. A saltwater pool is promoted for its Pool Party, and a common room and patio host a mixer. The venue has a security fence, on-site security and access control. Couples and single women are welcome, along with a select few single men who go through a vetting process, capped at about five at standard events but not at Sausage Parties. The exact location is revealed only after booking, and a Newbie Night is designed for first-timers. Events are BYOB and BYOC, with light bites and limited mixers provided. Guests are asked to dress well, with themes optional. Photography is prohibited outside the consensual pre-party mixer, and rule violations can mean removal and a ban.

Las Vegas, NV
Weekly Play Party
Swingers Circle describes itself as “The Party Where Everyone Meets Everyone!”, a weekly party in Las Vegas for couples and single women. It is held at a hotel on or near the Las Vegas Strip rather than at a fixed club venue. The club says it has no brick and mortar location and holds its parties in hotel suites. A social hour is followed by a sexual trivia “Game” between the genders in which a wrong answer costs an article of clothing; the club says taking part in the Game is required, but nobody is ever required to play with anyone. A play room and essentials are provided and the lights are kept very low. Parties are limited to the first 12 registered couples, and one only goes ahead with at least five couples. Entry is by online registration only. The hotel and suite are sent by text or call within a few hours of the start, and guests must arrive during the social hour because late arrivals are not admitted once the Game begins. Dress is club wear, drinks are BYOB, illegal drugs are not allowed, and single men are not admitted.

Whittier, CA
Private Event Host
Swinghearts is a Southern California lifestyle couple — Chris (Swinghearts) and Tonia (MsSwinghearts) — who host swinger and lifestyle parties for couples and select singles in the greater Los Angeles area. The operation rotates through private locations, with addresses disclosed only to pre-screened attendees. The hosts describe their philosophy as drama-free and judgment-free under the motto "Play with the One you Love." Parties are oriented toward couples and select singles; single women have historically been welcomed and comped, while single men are admitted by pre-approval only. Past gatherings have featured themed formats, and confirmed amenities at the last documented event (May 2022, Whittier, CA) include a live DJ, BYOB with mixers provided, food and snacks, lockers, and multiple playrooms. Event announcements are made through the hosts' profiles on Kasidie, SDC, SLS, and Lifestyle Lounge (all under 'Swinghearts') and on Instagram at @swinghearts.cpl and @swinghearts.socal. All attendance is invitation-only with prior contact required. Prospective guests must text 562.230.3195 or email Swingheartz@yahoo.com and include a profile name and a photo to receive a response. The site carries a 'Former Party Host!' label; the last independently confirmed event dates to May 2022, and a June 2024 podcast interview is the most recent indication of continued engagement.

Toronto, Ontario
Event Organizer
TABOTA Events is a Toronto-based lifestyle event organizer that has run couples-focused takeovers and getaways across Canada since 2007. Rather than operating a single venue, TABOTA produces a rotating slate of ticketed events, including the Halloween-themed Monster Bash hotel takeover in Niagara Falls, the outdoor Teddy Bare Picnic clothing-optional camping weekend, the Valentines in Niagara convention, and the seasonal Sandy Bottoms Resort in Central Ontario. The company is run by the same team behind The O Zone, an established Toronto swingers club. Each TABOTA event takes over its venue entirely, whether a hotel, campground, or resort, creating an adults-only space with DJ-driven dance floors, themed lounges, clothing-optional pool areas, and dedicated play rooms staffed by event hosts. Photography and phone use are banned in event spaces, and organizers emphasize enthusiastic consent, on-site security, and guest privacy, with pseudonym use common among attendees. Events are couples-only (male-female or female-female pairs); single men are not admitted, though single women may attend select dates. Entry is 19+ and ticketed in advance. Monster Bash pricing, for example, runs from roughly $169 per person for weekend access up to $439 per person for a two-night hotel package, plus tax, with a mandatory per-person credit for food and drinks due at check-in. Tickets are sold through tabotaevents.com and its event-specific sites, and organizers note that events routinely sell out weeks in advance.

Niagara Falls, Ontario
Hotel Takeover Event
TABOTA Monster Bash describes itself as “a complete lifestyle hotel takeover” in Niagara Falls, Ontario. Hosted by TABOTA Events, it is an annual Halloween weekend each October in which the organizer books out a full hotel and waterpark complex for registered guests only. The site says it has run since 2007. The takeover includes an indoor water park, a Poolside VooDoo Lounge with bistro-style snacks, garden dining and courtyard rooms. The play spaces are the Penthouse Play Area, the Kinky Playroom and the Poolside Kink Garden, alongside a DJ dance floor and “an exclusive couples only area”. Clothing-optional pool parties run by day, with an early-arrival Thursday, a Friday meet and greet and theme dance, and a weekend gala night with a dinner murder mystery, plus a costume contest. The event admits couples and single women; single men are not admitted, and guests must be 19 or older. Reservations are booked directly through TabotaEvents.com, and everyone is expected to dress up in a Halloween costume. The site offers orientation sessions for first-timers and describes “a strict, zero-pressure environment”. House rules include asking before touching, no phones or photos in play areas, and no genital nudity or sexual activity in public areas.

Johnson City, TN
Private Party
Tennessee Temptations describes itself as “a Lifestyle MEMBERS Only Private party” in the Tri-Cities region of Tennessee. Guests apply for membership through the club's website, the club says it chooses its members and never advertises its events in the vanilla world, and it typically hosts a party about once a month. The private venue covers more than 3,000 square feet, where hosts greet guests and give a tour if needed. The club lists a large wooden dance floor with a DJ, professional audio equipment and lighting, seating for 100-plus, a stripper pole, an on-premise playroom with a swing and a Sybian, and a private playroom for guests who want to be left alone. It also offers discounted hotel rooms for its group and a shuttle to and from the hotel. Guests must be 21 or older, and couples arrive and leave together. Singles wear a visible glow band, may approach only couples wearing the same band color, and may enter the playroom only when a couple invites them. The party is BYOB with complimentary non-alcoholic mixers and snacks. Cameras, camera phones and voice recorders are banned, touching requires consent first, and breaking the rules can mean expulsion and membership cancellation without refund.

Anderson, SC
Hotel Ballroom Party Club
The Foothills Club describes itself as a “private/membership only club, open to couples and singles in the lifestyle.” It holds its parties in a private hotel ballroom in Anderson, South Carolina, near I-85 Exit 19A, and says it is “not an on-premise club.” Its history page traces the club to 1985, when it began as house parties in Georgia. It hosts one or more events a month, a Friday karaoke meet and greet followed by a themed Saturday main event. The smoke-free ballroom is decorated for each Saturday theme. A DJ plays music and videos and takes requests, and the room has a lighted stripper pole and a St. Andrew's cross for guests who want “a hint of playful adventure.” Complimentary appetizers and finger food are served, and host-hotel rooms are offered at a member rate, though a room is never required. Everyone needs a lifetime membership, bought at the door with a photo ID matching the registration form; the club takes cash only. Anyone 21 or older who is interested in the lifestyle may join, including couples and single women. Single men are limited to 10% of attendance and must contact the club to be confirmed. Friday is BYOB; Saturday adds a complimentary open bar, plus BYOB. There is no specific dress code. Sex is not allowed in the ballroom or public hotel areas.

Brighton, East Sussex
Event Organizer
The Menagerie is a Brighton-based event series for the sex-positive and ethically non-monogamous (ENM) community, operating as a roving collective rather than a fixed-premises club. Its tagline — Desire, Consent, Pleasure — signals the organising philosophy: events are explicitly framed not as a sex club but as 'an intimate event for people who want to explore giving and receiving pleasure,' with connection and safety placed alongside appetite. The series runs two distinct formats: open social mixers held monthly at rotating licensed venues across Brighton, and private play parties held at a vetted, undisclosed central Brighton location. The social mixers — held at queer-owned and queer-friendly bars including The Archives and The Greenhouse — are capped at between 50 and 65 guests depending on the venue. The atmosphere is deliberately low-key: cosy lighting, soft music, and a pub-appropriate dress code ('express yourself and feel comfortable, but keep it pub-appropriate — explicit kink wear and lingerie might be best left for other occasions'). No sexual activity takes place at the socials; they function as a community meet-and-greet as well as an in-person vetting step. The play parties draw a smaller, fully vetted crowd of around 40 guests at the undisclosed address. The community skews poly, queer, and LGBTQ+-inclusive throughout. Socials run monthly — most commonly on Thursdays or Wednesdays — from 20:00 to midnight, with a minimum age of 21. Attendance at a social is a prerequisite for play party admission: prospective attendees must be vetted in person before a play party invitation is extended, and attending a social carries no automatic guarantee of future event access. The Menagerie website and its Skiddle listings are the primary booking channels.

Kearsley, Greater Manchester
Events Venue
The New Gatehouse describes itself as a “Fully licensed events venue, available for private hire” and trades as GH Events from a former pub on Bolton Road in Kearsley, Bolton. It calls itself an “LGBTQ+ safe space” for guests aged 21 and over, with no membership fees, and runs a weekly program of themed days; Sundays are closed for private events, and the club says events may vary weekly depending on hosts and private hire bookings. The program includes T-Girls and Admirers days, a T-Girl and men only day, a Bi-day, a kink evening, Fetish Fridays and a hosted Saturday-evening social with food and music. The venue has a licensed bar, a free pool table and jukebox, social areas, and open and closed photo rooms. Entry is for adults 21 and over, and guests may be asked to prove their age. Women, T-Girls and men can attend individually, couples are also welcome, and all-male groups are not admitted. On arrival visitors are shown around and given the rules, and first-timers are advised to look around and chat. Its primary rule is “no means no”; recording or taking photos is not allowed in social areas or open photo rooms, and the club reserves the right to refuse admission for behaviors such as intoxication, illegal drugs and sex working, while discrimination or abuse results in removal and a ban. The club states there is no dress-down policy.