Event Organizers — Page 4

Private House Party

The Playground RI describes itself as “a place where like-minded adults get together for a safe fun-filled night.” Its FAQ says it has no memberships and is “not a club just a private house party,” and its hosts page says Eddy and Viv have hosted for over 20 years. It is in Providence, RI. It has 9 private play rooms and 3 open rooms, including a couples-only room. The first floor has the Wild West room, the Pirate room and the 50 Shades of Grey Red Room of Pain; the second has a dance floor with a stripper pole plus the Jungle and Gothic rooms; and the towel-and-robe-only third has an open group play area and a Glory Hole. It also has a dungeon, two sex swings, a massage table, a Sybian and a doctor's office with two exam tables. It holds Fusion Friday, Fantasy Friday, Full Figure Friday and Saturday nights. Guests RSVP through the night's host with a name, couple or single status and a face picture, and the host then sends the address; walk-ins are not allowed and all parties are 21+. Parties are BYOB, themes are never mandatory, and there is no nudity outdoors. House rules say no means no, touching requires verbal consent, phones are banned on the third floor and in the basement, and anyone who breaks a rule is removed without a refund and possibly banned.

The Playgrounds SLE

Burton upon Trent, Derbyshire

Lifestyle events at private venues

The Playgrounds SLE describes itself as “a community of like-minded individuals” and runs verified adult lifestyle parties at private venues. It says it was “Established in 2013”. It lists itself as LGBTQIA+ inclusive, runs dedicated bi/trans TABU parties, and says it is a non-profit group that raises money for charities. Parties are held at private venues, among them a site the club calls the Lifestyle Lodge. The club says it averages at least 40 to 50 guests and never runs an event with fewer than 30. Smoking is limited to designated outdoor areas. Every event has a “no pressure, no obligation, no expectation” policy on playing. Events are guest list only, with tickets booked and paid for in advance. Guests must be 25 or over and bring photo ID. Couples, transgender guests and verified single ladies and gents are admitted unless an event says otherwise, with a limited number of verified single men where stated. Guests need a profile on a lifestyle site with a minimum of two meeting verifications or, if new, supply full names and a face photo. The address goes only to confirmed guests. Dress is smart and sexy. Consent is required, drugs are not tolerated, and recording equipment, phones included, is banned.

The Slippery Pineapple

Springfield, MO

Lifestyle Party Club

The Slippery Pineapple describes itself as “a new lifestyle party club here in Springfield”. It says it rents a private location in downtown Springfield and emails the address and directions after an RSVP, and it points visitors to its Facebook page for its events. It describes its members as generally 18 to 60-plus and from “all races, sizes and demographics”. The club says the venue is set up with “an upscale nightclub feel with professional sound and lighting and a live DJ”. It is a smoke-free facility with an outdoor patio for smokers, and it says there is parking all around the venue. Getting in starts with an RSVP form that asks for names, an email address and a C4P, SwingLifestyle or FetLife handle, plus confirmation that guests have read the club’s rules and two notices. The club has a prepaid ticket system for paying before the event, with limited space on a first-come basis. Couples are welcome, including those who come only for the atmosphere, and the club allows “attractive, well groomed, stylishly dressed, courteous” single men while monitoring their numbers. It has no ice-breaker games, contests or initiations, and asks guests to say so if they feel pressured. It is BYOB with setups provided while supplies last, the dress is dress to impress with costumes welcome, and no weapons are allowed at any event.

The Sublime Society

London, London

Performance Night / Event Series

The Sublime Society is a monthly erotic performance event series staged at Dear Darling, a luxury bar and nightclub at 91 Jermyn Street in Mayfair's St. James's district, a short walk from Green Park station. Co-founded by burlesque artist Charlie Bouquett and House of Fatale founder Missy Fatale, it presents itself as an "exclusive hedonistic soirée" — a voyeur-forward sensual salon in which live burlesque, shibari suspension, fetish performance, and sapphic dominance play unfold in close proximity to a seated and standing audience. The project carries an explicitly FLINTA-centered artistic policy: all performers identify as femme, lesbian, intersex, non-binary, trans, or asexual, and the organisers have publicly committed to exclusively female-identifying performers for their London editions. Dear Darling occupies a double-level footprint. The main salon — called The Living Room — holds 50 seated and up to 160 standing guests among wood-panelled walls, plush sofas, velvet armchairs, green drapery, and low crystal-strung chandeliers. There is no raised stage: performers move through the room itself, and mirrored ceilings provide sightlines from multiple angles while a rigged shibari frame hosts rope suspension pieces. Below, reached only through what the venue calls Lady Darling's wardrobe — a concealed door — sits a basement nightclub with capacity for around 160, featuring avant-garde décor and a DJ booth; this space operates as the afterparty venue for Sublime Society ticket-holders from approximately 11pm. A curated cocktail menu runs throughout both levels. Events run roughly monthly on Friday evenings, with doors at 7:00–7:30pm and the performance programme concluding between 10:15pm and 11:30pm depending on format; the basement afterparty continues to 2:00am. A secondary format, The Sublime Society: SALON, runs shorter evenings (7:00–10:30pm) and layers a live podcast recording and a participatory BDSM impact-play workshop onto the shibari performance. Tickets are sold exclusively in advance via DesignMyNight; standard general admission sits between approximately £38 and £65 depending on the event, with couples packages at a 20% reduction and three-person packages at 30% off. A VIP tier adding reserved lounge seating and basement nightclub access runs £59–£80, and a Meet and Greet add-on (£20–£22) provides post-show access to the cast.

The Swirl Events

Seattle, WA

Event Organizer

The Swirl Events is a lifestyle and swingers events group serving the greater Seattle, Washington area, founded in 2021. A 2022 community profile described it as one of the Seattle area's first lifestyle groups owned and operated by people of color and allies, positioning itself as a culturally diverse, inclusive space within the regional non-monogamy and swinger scene. That same account placed the group's members-only venue in Kent, WA, describing a compact space with nine designated play spaces and a sex swing, alongside in-house programming such as karaoke nights, an erotic poetry open-mic, and kink-themed nights. Guests were encouraged to dress to impress rather than dress down, giving the space a glammed-up, party-first atmosphere alongside its play areas. Historically, parties ran on a biweekly Friday/Saturday schedule: Friday nights mixed members and non-members at a themed social before shifting to a members-only afterparty after midnight, while Saturdays ran as a members-only dance-and-play night. Membership was listed at $10 per month or $90 per year in a December 2025 snapshot of the group's own site. As of mid-2026 that site is no longer serving its normal content, so current hours, address, and pricing should be treated as historical until independently re-verified.

Play Party Community

Top Floor Club describes itself as “a private, high-integrity erotic community” and runs consent-forward play parties in New York City. Events take place in hotel penthouse suites, with a signature party across three suites as the main event, alongside members-only workshops and social outings. Guests enter through a hotel lobby with a password and are escorted to the elevator. The club lists connection lounges, phone-free dance floors and hosted play suites stocked with linens, gloves, condoms, dental dams and lube, plus a no-play Serenity Room for rest and guardians on duty all night. Play can happen almost anywhere in the suites, and another format centers bi and bi-curious guests. Entry is by application with a 30-minute vibe-check Zoom, and a complimentary 30-day trial follows acceptance; parties and workshops are members only, with tickets or reservations possibly separate depending on the event. The minimum age is 21, couples apply together, and solo and first-time guests are welcome if they show readiness. Verified STI results from the past three months are required, condoms are required for internal penetration unless partners are fluid bonded, phones stay out of view, and sexual participation is never required.

Torture Garden

London, London

Club Night / Event Brand

Torture Garden describes itself as “a community, a family” for anyone who wants to explore their fetish alter ego. It is a London fetish and body art club night rather than a venue: the club says it has no permanent space and moves between London venues such as Electrowerkz, Ministry of Sound and Scala, and holds parties only on listed dates. It began in October 1990, and its monthly London events draw between 1,000 and 2,500 people. Events are multi-roomed, and the club says it currently runs three to six rooms. Named spaces include a Club Arena for dance music, a Ballroom, a Dungeon playroom and a couples room; facilities vary by venue. Fully licensed bars and a coat and bag cloakroom are provided. Tickets are bought in advance through the club’s website and shown in the Dice app, and the club says 95% of parties sell out. The club welcomes all genders and sexualities, and the couples room admits only couples, with no groups. A head-to-toe fetish dress code applies to everyone and is checked at the door and again inside; guests out of dress code are asked to leave without a refund. Guests complete a consent form before attending, photography including selfies is banned, and touching anyone without permission means removal and a ban.

Untamed Nights

Bournemouth, Dorset

Events Organiser

Untamed Nights describes itself as “Bournemouth and Dorset's swingers club” for parties, socials and community events. It is an events organiser that says it was established in 2022, gave up its Bournemouth residency in early 2025 and will hold its events at hand-picked venues. Its Wednesday social, The Social at UN, runs on listed dates at Canvas on Poole Hill in Bournemouth. The Social is a relaxed evening for newcomers and regulars, with the Loft Bar kept as a social-only area. Party nights range from swing parties to BDSM play parties. At play rooms with locks, an open door invites guests to watch or ask to join, while a shut door means do not knock or enter. Entry to ticketed events is a per-person tariff regardless of how a guest identifies, and the social issues tickets to single men, single women, couples and CD/TV/TS guests, with single men ratio-numbered against couples and ladies. Membership is optional and open to established swingers with a meet-verified profile on a platform such as SpicyMatch. Photo ID is requested at every event, and the social admits no one without it. Dress to impress is the rule, with trainers, tracksuits, dirty clothes and baseball caps refused. Consent must be spoken aloud, and the club can cancel memberships or invitations after a breach.

VIP Bliss

Miami Beach, FL

Screened EDM lifestyle party organization

VIPBLISS describes itself as “a private and exclusive screened EDM lifestyle organization” for couples and singles, primarily millennials. It is an event organizer: its site names Miami, Fort Lauderdale, West Palm Beach, Tampa and Orlando as its areas, and says it was established in 2003 and is a monthly screened EDM lifestyle party organization. Its events are nightclub takeovers, pool parties and domestic and international group vacations, including erotic theme events for accepted members. The site also says “We do bangin EDM parties, in upscale venues, for hot people!” Venues vary by event. Membership is free to request but screened: applicants upload four to six photos, couples include at least one photo together, and legal names must match ID. Applications are reviewed daily, and hourly on event days; approved members get an email, while rejected applicants get no reply and are not welcome to attend. The site says it is not currently recruiting Boomers or Gen X, and has said single male tickets for a pool party were no longer available and new male applicants were paused. The club may deactivate any account at any time.

Young Couples Party (YCP)

Chicago, IL

Event Organizer

Young Couples Party describes itself as “a lifestyle club built for you,” an event organizer in the Chicago suburbs that limits its parties to ages 21 to 42. Attending requires a membership, and the club says it holds live events every month, plus virtual events most nights, including yoga, HIIT classes, trivia and quarterly education seminars. The club's western-suburbs venue is a private country estate with 16 beds in 8 bedrooms, an indoor heated pool, an indoor hot tub, a dance floor and free parking, hosting night parties twice a month. Summer adds outdoor parties with two swimming pools, sand volleyball and clothing-optional sunbathing, and the club runs a hotel takeover each year. Each event includes speed dating, with three-minute conversations at numbered stations. Couples and single women are admitted; single men are not. Applicants sign an NDA and complete ID verification before choosing a membership level, and only paid members get event dates, with the address released to ticketed members. New guests bring ID showing they are 21 to 42, watch a seven-minute video on the party rules, get videos on consent and a private tour. Some events are BYOB and others have a paid bar. Dress is business casual or better unless matching the theme; illegal drugs are banned and smoking is outdoors only.