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Parenclub Devils & Angels, an all-inclusive lifestyle and swingers club at Maaseikerweg 24 in Susteren, Limburg, has been temporarily closed since approximately May 2026. As of September 2026 the club's website carries the notice 'Wegens omstandigheden is de club tijdelijk gesloten' (due to circumstances, the club is temporarily closed) with no reopening date given. Verify current status before visiting. The club operated on a single all-inclusive admission price covering entry, beverages, and full facility access — no separate bar tab. The venue featured a bar and buffet restaurant, dance floor, and discrete car parking with campervan bays for overnight stays. Inside, a series of themed play rooms included a disco room, a TV room, a Thai massage room, a room with a floating bed, a black room, and further group play spaces. Complimentary condoms were provided throughout, and guided tours of the space were available for first-time visitors. Regular programming ran Wednesday afternoons (15:00–21:00, MILF-themed format) and Friday and Saturday evenings (21:00–03:00), with occasional Thursday daytime sessions. Admission for couples was approximately €50–75; single men in the €85–130 range; single women at a lower rate or free depending on the night. On the last Friday of each month a drempelvrees avond (newcomers' evening) welcomed first-time visitors, with regular clothes permitted until 22:30 before the provocative dress code took effect. Advance reservation was recommended for Saturday evenings.

Parenclub Mystique

Rucphen, Noord-Brabant

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Parenclub Mystique has anchored the Noord-Brabant swinger scene since May 2001, when owner Frank van Loon opened this discreet venue on the Zundertseweg in Rucphen, a rural municipality several kilometres from Roosendaal. Over more than 25 years of operation, the club has built a large membership base and established itself among the more prominent lifestyle venues in the southern Netherlands, consistently described across Dutch directories as stylish and refined. It holds an SDC (Swingers Date Club) affiliation and markets itself as a sfeervol, stijlvol en luxe — convivial, stylish, and luxurious — evening out. The venue spans multiple levels, with a basement housing 150 lockers across four dressing rooms, and the main floor opening onto a spacious bar and dance area with a resident DJ, a champagne bar, a dedicated smoking lounge, and a 40-seat restaurant serving a hot-and-cold lava-grill buffet — all included in the entrance fee. An outdoor swimming pool, an XL whirlpool, and a luxury sauna round out the leisure facilities, while multiple themed play rooms occupy the upper floors alongside dedicated shower areas. The atmosphere is consistently described as welcoming and stylish, shaped by the easy sociability for which Brabant is known; free parking is available on site. The club opens six days a week, closed on Tuesdays. Mondays and Thursdays open at 14:00, Wednesdays at 18:00; Friday evenings at 20:00, Saturdays at 19:00, and Sundays at 16:00. Single men are admitted on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays only; Friday through Sunday is reserved for couples and single women. Entry for couples is €75 on weekday afternoons, rising to €110 on Fridays and Sundays and €130 on Saturdays; single women pay €20–€50 depending on the evening; single men pay around €100. All prices are all-inclusive, covering unlimited bar service and the buffet. Around six newcomer trial evenings are held each year, and the weekly calendar features bi evenings, transgender nights, BDSM sessions, and themed special events.

Parenclub Showboat

Zaandijk, Noord-Holland

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Showboat is a swingers club housed aboard a moored vessel on the Lagedijk waterway in Zaandijk, Noord-Holland, roughly fifteen kilometres north of Amsterdam. The boat setting is the venue's defining feature, attracting visitors from across the wider Amsterdam region on a seven-day schedule that spans both daytime and late-night sessions. It operates as an all-inclusive club on most days, with entry covering food and drink. The upper deck forms the social core of the venue, combining a bar, a buffet of warm and cold dishes, a dance floor, and lounge seating fitted out in polished wood, copper accents, and deep-red upholstery. The lower deck is devoted to play, housing a BDSM room, a jacuzzi, a sauna, a Turkish steam bath, and several erotically themed rooms. Dress code — tight boxer shorts for men, lingerie for women — applies throughout the venue; first-timers are permitted to start the evening in street clothes at the bar. Secure clothing lockers and shower facilities are available. Themed Friday evenings rotate across SM/Fetish Play parties, Gangbang nights, and Bi Fabulous events, the latter restricted to women and bisexual men with heterosexual single men excluded. The club is open daily. Weekday daytime sessions run Monday and Tuesday 12:00–17:30 (couples €40, women/T-girls €15, men €92.50) and Thursday 13:00–21:30 (couples €72.50, women/T-girls €35, men €120). Wednesday extends to 23:30 with tiered pricing: couples €92.50 full day, dropping to €60 after 19:00. Fridays run 13:00–02:30 at €110 per couple, or from 21:00 on the first Friday of each month. Saturdays are evening-only, 21:00–04:30, with couples at €92.50. Sunday afternoons (15:00–21:30) admit couples and women free of charge against a minimum bar spend of €35 and €20 respectively. Single men may attend every session but must hold a prior reservation; walk-ins are turned away without exception. No admittance is given after 02:00.

Parenclub Ultimate Dream

Beek en Donk, Noord-Brabant

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Parenclub Ultimate Dream occupies a venue at Willemstraat 9B in Beek en Donk, a small Noord-Brabant municipality positioned roughly midway between Helmond and Eindhoven. The club draws couples and single women from the broader Brabant region — Den Bosch, Eindhoven, and Helmond are all within easy reach — and operates both lifestyle and kink programming: regular swinger nights run alongside dedicated BDSM evenings and fetish events, including an occasional X-Treme Fetish party. Multiple independent listings describe an interior combining a lounge, dance floor, bar, and buffet-style restaurant with two whirlpools and private rooms for couples seeking seclusion. Entry is all-inclusive: drinks, food, condoms, towels, and locker use are covered by the door price, a model confirmed consistently across sources. Staff welcome first-time visitors with a personal introduction and tour before the evening begins, contributing to a reputation for approachability. Confirmed hours are Saturday 20:00–02:00; Friday 19:00–01:00 appears in several directory listings but has not been verified against primary sources — check the event calendar before visiting. Couple entry was listed at €110 and single-woman entry at €55 for a Saturday event in May 2025; earlier third-party listings show lower figures and current pricing should be confirmed directly with the club. A stamp card rewards repeat visitors with complimentary entry after ten paid visits. From 22:30 a dress code applies: lingerie for women, underwear or boxers for men, with standard evening attire accepted on arrival before that threshold. Standard nights admit couples and single women only; single men may attend exclusively on themed evenings that explicitly permit their entry.

Pineapples Lifestyle Bar

South Melbourne, Victoria

On-Premise Club

Pineapples Lifestyle Bar occupies a two-storey building at 427 City Rd in South Melbourne's Montague Precinct, between York and Ferrars streets. Opened in August 2025 after the City of Port Phillip approved the venue 5–3 in June 2024 following a VCAT challenge by local residents, it holds a sex-on-premises permit and accommodates up to 200 patrons. It operates as a licensed adult lifestyle bar welcoming couples, solo women, and a restricted cohort of vetted solo men, positioning itself as a consent-focused environment for adult social exploration within the swinger, queer, LGBTQ+, and kink communities. The ground floor contains a licensed full-service bar and a performance stage used for live music, DJ sets, comedy, cabaret, and burlesque, with the format rotating by night. The upper floor is reserved for intimate activity and houses open play areas, private lockable rooms, bathrooms, unisex showers, and a VIP section. Refresh stations supply towels, condoms, lubricant, massage oil, and sanitary items throughout. Guests receive colour-coded wristbands indicating couple, solo-female, solo-male, or prefer-not-to-be-approached status; a black wristband signals a wish to decline physical advances. Volunteer consent angels circulate the floor to support guests. Complimentary all-night parking is available in front of the venue from 6 pm, and lockers are provided on an AUD$20 security deposit or credit-card/ID-hold basis. The club operates three nights per week: Thursdays 7 pm–midnight, Fridays 8 pm–2 am, and Saturdays 8 pm–2 am. Tickets must be purchased online in advance — walk-ins are never admitted. All first-time visitors must submit a membership application and complete a phone vetting call before any ticket purchase; solo males face an additional written questionnaire and in-person interview, and operate under a one-strike permanent-removal policy. Standard nights begin at AUD$20. Valid government-issued photo ID is required at the door. Phones and cameras must be secured in on-site lockers before entering the upper floor. The arrival dress code is smart-casual; upper-floor access requires dressing to lingerie, underwear, a provided towel, or bare skin. No outside alcohol is permitted, and a zero-tolerance drugs policy applies.

Planet Swing sits in the small town of Tribsees in Mecklenburg-Vorpommern, positioned almost directly off the A20 coastal motorway that connects the Baltic Sea resorts — making it a natural stop for couples and singles holidaying on the coast or the islands. The club occupies around 700 square metres across nine distinct spaces and can hold up to 180 guests, which by north-east German standards puts it firmly among the largest swinger venues in the region. The house philosophy is summed up by its motto 'Alles kann, nichts muss' — everything is possible, nothing is mandatory — and the club bills itself as a private venue for singles and tolerant couples of all ages. The interior takes its cues from a tour of escapist themes: guests move between rooms styled as 1001 Nights, a jungle space, a romance room, a mirrored lounge and a starlit chamber. Alongside the themed areas there is a changing room with lockable lockers, a bar and buffet with dining seating, a fireplace lounge and a dance floor. The wellness wing runs to a sauna, steam bath, whirlpool and massage bench. An SM studio with specialist equipment rounds out the offer, alongside several open play areas, the largest of which accommodates up to 40 people at once. Friday and Saturday evenings are the core party nights, running from 20:00 to 03:00, with prices occasionally adjusted for special events. Standard entry is €20 for single women, €60 for couples and €80 for single men. Dress code is explicitly sexy-erotic — lingerie is specifically encouraged. The rural setting near the A20 draws a mix of regulars from across Mecklenburg-Vorpommern and Baltic coast tourists looking to extend a holiday night.

Play Champagne (The Champagne Club)

Columbus, OH

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Play Champagne says “We host UPSCALE on premise lifestyle events all over the Midwest”. It is an event organizer running complete hotel takeovers, restaurant and bar included, as two-day weekend events. Everyone attending must be a member and at least 21 with a valid state ID. The host hotels offer over 200 all-suite guestrooms and 10,000 sq ft of convention space. The club lists a five-story atrium entertainment area, a large dance floor with lifestyle DJs, an indoor pool with a topless-optional pool party and a hot tub open around the clock. Play areas include group and semi-private playrooms, themed playrooms and an expanded impact room, alongside couples classes, BDSM demos and a daily complimentary hot breakfast buffet. Couples and single women are admitted; single men attend only as VIPs or as sponsored guests of a couple or single woman, who must arrive, stay and leave with them. Applicants are screened against the DOJ Sexual Offenders Registry. The whole hotel is BYOB, with drinks carried into party areas in a tumbler and bottles and cans kept in the room, plus a hotel cash bar. There is no enforced dress code, though dress to impress is preferred. Sex is not allowed in common areas, the pool or the hot tub, and recreational drugs are never permitted.

Playful Friends

Unverified

Deptford, NJ

off-premise meet & greet (bar/restaurant venue)

Playful Friends is a lifestyle meet-and-greet social group serving the South Jersey and Philadelphia area, billing itself as home to the area's largest meet and greets in Deptford, NJ held once a month. Operating strictly off-premise, the group gathers at local venues rather than maintaining a dedicated club space, giving events a relaxed, bar-night feel rather than a nightclub atmosphere. Single men and single women are always welcome alongside couples, and the venue provides a full cash bar and dance floor, with smoking permitted outside only. For its monthly Deptford meetups, Playful Friends brings its own bartenders and provides free appetizers in a reserved private area, accessible via a banquet entrance, until 9:30 pm — after which the event opens into the wider venue. Beyond the regular monthly gathering, the group has partnered with other New Jersey lifestyle organizations for hotel and club takeovers, and organizes group attendance at lifestyle cruises, giving members a broader calendar of events throughout the year. The group's website is playfulfriends.net, and it is also listed on SwingLifestyle (SLS) for event RSVPs and member communication. The atmosphere is described as a casual environment for meeting new and familiar faces in the lifestyle, with no on-site playrooms — the focus is social mixing rather than on-premise activity.

Pleasure2gether

Sittard, Limburg

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Pleasure2gether sits on Leyenbroekerweg in Sittard, in the southern Dutch province of Limburg, and bills itself as ‘Limburgs sfeervolste parenclub’ — Limburg’s most atmospheric couples club. Run by Hans and Hester, the venue welcomes couples (heterosexual and bisexual alike), single men, and single women, with a minimum entry age of 21. Ample parking is available on site. The facilities lean toward comfort rather than clinical club décor: a bar stocked with beverages and running current music, large relaxation areas, a dedicated smoking room, an infrared sauna, a hot tub (bubbelbad), and massage services offered with a range of oils including body-to-body options. A varied buffet accompanies Friday and Saturday evening parties. The tone is intentionally homey — more lounge than nightclub — and the crowd spans a broad mix of regulars and newcomers. Programming follows a rotating schedule published weekly on the club’s own website. Regular fixtures include erotic parties on Friday and Saturday evenings (20:00–01:00), massage and themed evenings on Wednesdays (18:00–22:00), and men’s afternoon parties on Mondays (13:00–17:00). Periodic fixtures include a dedicated MILF evening on the second Friday of the month and a BDSM evening on the third Tuesday (20:00–01:00). Entry is all-inclusive, covering access to all facilities; payment is cash only.

PLUR Productions / Studio PLUR

Vancouver, British Columbia

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PLUR Productions describes itself as “a SEX+/ SOP Event production company” with the mission “Peace, Love, Unity, Respect.” It runs sex-on-premise events in Vancouver at affiliated venues. It is a private club where the door fee makes each guest a member for the day, and yearly memberships are also available. Studio PLUR is a separate bookable studio and dungeon space. Events have clearly marked play areas, lounge areas for conversation where sex is not allowed, a co-ed personal area with free lockers, bar snacks, and towels, condoms and lubricant, with a full bar at nights such as Vantanior. Some nights add a dungeon. Studio PLUR holds up to 40 guests and has a corner bar with a fridge, a lounge, an aftercare space, a DJ sound stage, a floor cage, a St. Andrews cross, stylized benches and rope-suspension hard points. Single men are always welcome, and the club says it welcomes all orientations and gender identities at the same admission fee. Guests must be 19 or older. Cupids brief every guest on the Top Ten Rules of Consent at the door, and all activity must be consensual. Open photography and video, including cell phones, are not allowed. Newcomers can attend the iCandy meet-and-mingle night on the second Friday of each month, which includes a venue tour and a presentation on club etiquette and the lifestyle.

PolyUrban Studios

Carmichael, CA

PolyUrban Studios is a home-based adult lifestyle space on North Avenue in Carmichael, California, run by owner Rey and open to singles, couples, and polycules of all orientations. The venue operates as a donation-funded club with lockers, showers, a hot tub, beds, a sling, play benches, a massage table, a rimming chair, gloryholes, and an outdoor play area with a separate shower. Towels, condoms, and lube are provided, and fetish wear is welcomed. The weekly calendar runs seven days: Sunday through Thursday the doors open at 11:30 a.m. and close at 10 p.m., while Friday and Saturday sessions run from 2 p.m. to 2 a.m. Themed parties rotate through the week — Sunday gloryhole and gangbang sessions, Monday-through-Thursday afternoon playdates, a Wednesday evening afterparty, a Thursday couples night, Freaky Friday parties, and Saturday dance nights with a DJ and a full bar on select evenings. Membership contributions start at $25 per person, $40 for couples, and $60 for triads, with a $10 happy-hour rate between noon and 1 p.m. The atmosphere is explicitly pressure-free: no participation is required, and the posted house rules lead with No means no — ask for consent. Cameras and recording devices are banned, smoking is permitted outside only, and the doorman reserves the right to refuse entry. Guests must be 18 or older, and drugs and prostitution are strictly prohibited. Contact is by text or voicemail at (916) 410-6550.

PSP Swingertreff

Unverified

Hamburg, Hamburg

On-Premise Club

PSP — Privates Pärchen und Single Paradies (Private Couples and Singles Paradise) — is a long-running swinger club in Hamburg's Altona-Nord district, set on Stresemannstrasse roughly two kilometres west of the St. Pauli entertainment quarter. Owner Monika Panßner has operated the venue for more than eighteen years under the tagline "Der Swingerclub mit Herz" (the swinger club with heart), deliberately positioning it as an intimate, unhurried alternative in a city with a busy erotic-club scene. The club occupies approximately 920 square metres and enforces a ceiling of around 100 guests, keeping the space consistently uncrowded. The layout includes multiple individually decorated themed rooms — among them a St. Pauli-inspired area, a red room (Rotes Zimmer), and a four-poster bed — alongside open play areas, a sauna, a bistro, an Erotik Lounge, massage facilities, a wellness area, a stage, and changing rooms. Third-party listings and the club's own archived materials describe the clientele as "niveauvolles Publikum" — a mix of couples and singles who set a discreet, convivial tone. The club opens Wednesday through Sunday; Friday and Saturday nights run from 20:00 to 04:00, and Sundays from 16:00 to 23:00. Wednesday and Thursday evenings open at 19:00, closing at 01:00. Admission is €40 per couple, €10 for single women, and €80 for single men. Payment by cash or debit card is accepted at the door.

Purple Mamba Club

West Bridgford, Nottinghamshire

On-Premise Club

Purple Mamba Club describes itself as a “Private Members Club for Liberated Adults”. It is a club at the rear of 3-5 Radcliffe Road in West Bridgford, Nottingham, and it opens Thursday to Sunday. The club says it is aimed primarily at couples, accepts single women and single men as members, and is managed by a female staff leader. The venue has a fully stocked licensed members bar, which also serves non-alcoholic drinks and coffees, and private rooms that run “from the romantic to kink focused”. Lockers and a reception security box hold phones and cameras, and condoms are free. The calendar mixes themed parties run by hosts with kink nights, plus workshops for newcomer couples, single women and single men. Membership is required for club events. Applications are made in person with photo ID, not online, and not everyone is accepted; new members serve a 48-hour probationary period. Single men face very limited places and an interview. Entry is for over-21s, large groups are refused, and singles are limited on Friday and Saturday nights. Management can refuse entry for work wear, dirty or casual clothing. House rules include consent at all times, no cameras or recording devices without permission, no smoking or vaping, and confidentiality.

Quest Swingers Club

Leeds, West Yorkshire

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Quest Swingers Club is a private members' society on Low Road in the Hunslet district of south Leeds, founded by couple Jo and Dave — who began hosting lifestyle parties from home in 1999 — and formally opened in November 2001. Now in its third decade, the club accommodates up to 200 guests per session and welcomes open-minded couples and singles aged 21 and over. Its programme spans mainstream swinging nights, dedicated bisexual evenings, events for T-Girls, cross-dressers and their admirers, fetish and kink sessions, and a calendar of themed costume parties, making it one of the more programmatically diverse clubs in West Yorkshire. The venue is arranged around a main social lounge, a licensed bar, the Red Room, and a Jacuzzi Lounge. The wet area houses an eight-person hot tub, hot-and-cold showers, a sauna, and a steam room; sexual activity in the hot tub is explicitly prohibited. Dungeon equipment is available on site, and member reviews cite a cinema room as a popular feature. Separate spacious changing facilities serve all genders and lockers are provided. An on-site car park screened from the road offers convenient private access. The layout is largely wheelchair-navigable: corridors are wide and an accessible restroom is available. Staff walk new visitors through the venue before each session, and every night opens as a social gathering, with anything further governed entirely by individual consent. Sessions run six days a week. Daytime sessions — Wednesday Afternoon Fun (11:00–18:00), Friday Afternoon Fun (11:00–18:00), and Funday Sunday (13:00–22:00) — are open to non-members and priced at £15 per couple, £10 for single females, and £25 for single males. Bi Tuesdays (11:00–23:00) and Thursday Afternoon (T-Girls, CDs & Admirers, 11:00–18:00) are also open to non-members at equivalent rates. The members-only Midweek Chill Night (Wednesday evenings, 19:00–23:00) is £20 per couple, £10 for single females, and £30 for single males. Alternate-Saturday M&N Party Nights (20:30–02:00) are members-only at around £30 per couple and £30–35 for single males. Membership costs £10 for couples, £5 for ladies, and £25 for single males. All visitors must present valid physical photo ID; digital copies are not accepted. Mobile phones, cameras, and recording devices must be switched off and kept out of sight throughout a visit.

Ragazza Club

Rehlingen-Siersburg, Saarland

On-Premise Club

Ragazza Club occupies a 650-square-metre industrial unit on the quiet Dürrfeldslach estate on the edge of Rehlingen-Siersburg — reached from junction 7 of the A8, past the Aral station and the Aldi, then right into the street where the club takes the second-to-last building on the left. The interior spans two floors and ten play areas: a full-service bar and hot-and-cold buffet room sets a sociable, unhurried tone at ground level, with a cuddle corner, a dedicated couples' zone, a whirlpool, a sauna, a lockable private play room, a BDSM area, a darkroom, and three love swings fanning out across the two floors. Ample parking — including bays sized for campervans and motorhomes — reflects the fact that the Ragazza draws visitors from across the Saarland and has been described by Saarbrücker Zeitung as one of the largest swinger meeting points in the region. Owner Carina Kemmerling runs the club under a self-described 's3xpositive' philosophy: sex is treated as something natural and consensual, professional sex workers are explicitly prohibited, and the house tone leans firmly toward community rather than commerce. All entry is all-inclusive — drinks, the buffet, sauna and whirlpool access, hygiene supplies, condoms, and unlimited towels are folded into the admission price, and lockable lockers take care of valuables. First-time visitors are walked through a guided tour and orientation before the evening gets going; the team draws consistent praise in reviews for a family-like welcome, and the club offers private rental of the full venue for groups wanting the space to themselves. The club opens every day of the week. Monday-to-Thursday afternoon sessions (14:00–21:00) keep things quieter and are available for private hire, while the main weekend nights run Friday 16:00–02:00 and Saturday 16:00–03:00; Sunday follows the weekday pattern (14:00–21:00). Admission starts from €15 for women, €60 for men and couples, with LGBTQIA+ guests priced by their identified gender and same-sex couples at the couple rate. Pre-registration is recommended, though same-day entry is possible subject to capacity. The dress code runs smart-casual for men and erotic-leaning for women — lingerie, dresses, or heels; street shoes are not permitted inside the venue.

Refugium Swingerclub

Neumünster, Schleswig-Holstein

On-Premise Club

Refugium Swing & Dance sits on Krokamp 64 in the commercial outskirts of Neumünster, Schleswig-Holstein — an unglamorous address that gives nothing away about the modern lounge-bar world behind the door. Owner Marco Marien designed the club as a deliberate departure from red-velvet clichés: the palette runs to deep green and anthracite, the lighting is considered, and the 500-capacity interior divides into distinct zones that read more like a design-conscious nightclub than a backroom. At its centre is a dance floor anchored by an actual ceiling swing and a DJ booth; off to one side, a well-stocked bar and a separate English-style smoking room keep the social energy moving; scattered throughout are sofa lounge areas where guests talk, watch, and warm up at their own pace. The play rooms — two discreetly positioned and thematically designed spaces — sit well removed from the social areas, alongside a Séparée that doubles as an erotic cinema. Hygiene is taken visibly seriously: towels, disinfectant, condoms, mouthwash, and disposable toothbrushes are stationed throughout, and the venue's barrier-free showers and toilets make it fully accessible to wheelchair users. In warmer months, a 1,000-square-metre outdoor terrace opens up, adding a pool, whirlpool, TikiBar, BBQ station, and a second play area to the mix. The club runs regular themed evenings, seasonal parties, and — every four to six weeks — a free newcomer orientation session at 18:00, before normal doors, with no registration required. Admission is structured around an all-in price covering entry, buffet, premium beverages, and the wardrobe service: €50 in advance, €60 on the door; women enter at €25 and couples at €50. Solo male pricing is set separately and higher as a deliberate tool to keep the gender ratio balanced. Dress code is enforced at the entrance — men in dark long trousers (blue jeans excluded), a plain solid-colour shirt, and proper shoes; women in stylish rather than everyday attire. Once inside, phones and cameras are banned in public areas, and explicit consent is required for all contact; staff are trained to recognise genuine distress. Drugs, solicitation, and any harassment carry an immediate house ban.

Route 69

Weston-super-Mare, Somerset

On-Premise Club

Route 69 occupies a basement space on the High Street in central Weston-super-Mare, Somerset — a long-running licensed lifestyle venue that bills itself as the South West's Friendliest Adult Club. The venue operates on a deliberately compact model, non-pushy in its approach, with staff who personally walk first-time visitors around the space before the evening gets under way. It welcomes straight and LGBT+ guests alike and pitches its atmosphere firmly on the social side of the spectrum. The venue is arranged around a lounge with a fully licensed bar, three lockable playrooms — one of which incorporates a gloryhole with a coverable viewing window — and a dungeon equipped with a St Andrew's Cross, a play swing, and stocks. Lockers are available on a key-swap system, and a heated, covered outdoor smoking area sits at the rear of the building. Towels, lube, wipes and condoms are stocked in every playroom; cock rings and wax candles are available at the bar. CCTV covers the social areas, though there are no showers on site. Themed nights — Greedy Girls evenings, BDSM nights, bi nights and monthly special parties — run through the calendar alongside regular weekly sessions. The club operates sessions on Fridays and Saturdays from 20:00 to 02:00, and Sundays from 14:00 to 22:00; last entry is two hours before closing in all cases. All entry requires advance booking through Eventbrite; the venue no longer accepts walk-ins or phone bookings. The minimum age is 25. Single-male attendance is permitted but numbers are capped per session, and early booking is advised. Entry pricing on Fridays and Saturdays is £35 for single men, £25 for couples, £15 for TS/TV guests, and £10 for single women; Sunday rates are exactly half.

Samantha's Place

Unverified

London, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Samantha's Place appears to have permanently closed, most likely in late 2016 or early 2017. The club's website has not been updated since November 2016, its last posted event was November 12, 2016, and a structured audit by swingersontario.com in April 2021 listed it among clubs presumed closed. Founded in 2000 by a London-area couple known to members as Samantha and Greg, it billed itself as Southwestern Ontario's longest-running lifestyle club and for most of its life the only such club west of the GTA. The founders sold to Skye and Todd, a younger London couple who had been regular attendees, with the handover taking place around 2016. Both ownerships maintained the same format and pricing structure through to the final events. Samantha's Place ran as a strictly off-premise club, meaning no sexual activity or genital nudity was permitted at events — a policy stated prominently on the site and central to its identity as a venue for meeting, dancing, and flirting rather than a play space. Monthly themed Saturday nights were held at a private licensed venue in east London, just east of the Highbury and Dundas intersection; the specific address was disclosed to registered guests by email only, never listed publicly. Doors opened at 9:30 pm with an early-bird discount window until 9:45 pm, and guests were asked to arrive by 11 pm. The crowd spanned the late twenties to early fifties, with a core demographic in the 30–45 range, and first-timers made up at least a quarter of any given evening. Themes were encouraged but not required — Halloween drew near-total compliance, other themes considerably less so — and the general dress expectation was smart-casual to sexy. Music was top-40 with a seasoning of eighties and nineties tracks. A licensed bar operated at upscale-bar prices, door prizes sponsored by adult retailers including the Stag Shop and Love Shop were drawn around 11:30 pm, and occasional sponsored demonstrations — rope work, wax play, lap dancing — added variety to certain events.

Sameplace

Amsterdam, Noord-Holland

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Sameplace is an erotic café and adult lifestyle venue at Nassaukade 120 on the western fringe of Amsterdam's Westerpark neighbourhood, a short tram ride from the city centre. Open since the mid-1990s, it markets itself as Amsterdam's premier female-friendly erotic café and draws a genuinely mixed crowd — straight couples, gay men, single women, and on most nights single men as well. The premises run across two floors plus a basement. A U-shaped bar with booth seating anchors the ground floor; upstairs, a dance floor operates with a resident DJ on busier evenings. The basement holds the harder-edged spaces: a dungeon fitted with a sex swing and a sex chair, BDSM equipment, and a dark room. A changing room with lockers and towels is available. The programme of themed nights is central to the club's identity: regular rotation includes BDSM Pure evenings, fetish-dress nights with enforced dress code, a Shamelessly Naked party, a T&T night, bisexual and trans nights, costume parties, and a monthly fistfuck event on the fourth Sunday. One evening each week is reserved for gay men only. Staff meet guests at the door and walk newcomers through the space; a strict consent policy is actively enforced — visitors report that a firm refusal from any patron is respected without negotiation. The venue is open Tuesday through Thursday from 21:00 to 02:00, Friday and Saturday from 21:00 to 03:00, and Sunday in two sessions: 15:00–21:00 (couples only) and 22:00–03:00; the club is closed on Mondays. Entry is via a doorbell; there is no street queue. Entry fees vary by event and themed night. The venue is cash-only — no card payments are accepted. Dress codes are enforced on fetish and specialist nights; casual attire is acceptable on standard evenings. Nudity is permitted throughout the venue.

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Sauna Azzurra sits on Van Heemstraweg on the edge of Beuningen, a small Gelderland municipality a short drive west of Nijmegen. It operates as both a gay sauna and an erotic lifestyle venue, rotating between men-only days and days open to mixed-gender couples and singles. The building contains two Finnish saunas each sized for up to six people, a combined hammam and steam sauna, and a communal shower area with roughly eight hot tubs, two of which are bookable privately. Beyond the wet facilities there is a dedicated cruise circuit, dark rooms, open mattress areas, and lockable private cabins. A video lounge, a bar serving food, and an outdoor terrace with sun loungers complete the space, with free parking on site. Condoms are provided throughout; complimentary soup is offered on Sundays. Outside food and drink are not permitted. The programme divides the week by clientele type: Tuesdays, Fridays, and Sundays are men-only gay days; Mondays, Wednesdays, and Saturdays are open to mixed couples and singles; Thursdays are reserved for couples only. Exact opening and closing times should be confirmed directly with the venue before visiting, as third-party sources conflict. Admission prices, per a third-party source that may not reflect current tariffs, are €30 for a single man and €50 for a couple on gay days, and €46.50 for single visitors and €50 per couple on mixed days; a six-visit card is also available. Entry is strictly 18 and over; valid ID is required at the door.

Saunabar Bournemouth

Bournemouth, Dorset

Gay Sauna

Saunabar Bournemouth describes itself as “a traditional gay male sauna” and sits “in the heart of the Triangle” at 140 Commercial Road, open seven days a week. Its events page says the venue has been running swingers nights for over 10 years under various party names and that it is launching its own Bournemouth Swingers Club, alongside other themed evening parties. The daytime venue has spa facilities with a sauna, steam room, jacuzzi and showers, private rest areas, a “cosy lounge” with sofas and free Wi-Fi, and a fully licensed bar serving food, alcoholic and soft drinks. Massage from an on-site masseur is offered daily, and free condoms and sachet lube are available at the bar. Recurring touches include towel-free Wednesdays and a Sunday offer for under-30s (ID required), and selected Friday and Saturday nights bring themed parties such as a monthly trans and admirers night, a monthly leather and fetish-gear night and kink-friendly socials. Most guests wear a towel or less, and swimwear is welcome. The day sauna is for men, while the weekly Wednesday-evening swingers social needs no booking and is paid for at the door, and the monthly Xplore night on the fourth Saturday says all are welcome, whatever sex, gender or orientation. Evening events are ticketed separately and mostly run by outside promoters, so staying on from the day sauna means paying for both. Smoking is outside the side entrance (dressing gowns at reception), with vaping allowed in the lounge.

Schlangenkeller

Bendestorf, Lower Saxony

Schlangenkeller has anchored northern Germany's lifestyle scene since 1998, operating as a discreet venue in Bendestorf — a small village roughly 30 kilometres south of Hamburg. Under the ownership of M.G. Schulz — known to guests as Gina — the venue has cultivated a reputation as one of the Hamburg region's most established lifestyle clubs, now in its 28th year. Parties run on a fixed weekly rhythm — Wednesday and Thursday evenings from 20:30 to 01:00, Friday and Saturday from 20:30 to 02:00 — with attendance managed via prior registration through the website's booking form. Hotel Meinsbur sits approximately 100 metres from the club's entrance and extends a 10% room-rate discount to Schlangenkeller visitors who use the keyword 'Paris' when booking.

Schloss Trebbichau

Trebbichau, Saxony-Anhalt

On-Premise Club

Schloss Trebbichau occupies a restored historic castle at Parkstrasse 10 in Trebbichau, a small village in Osternienburger Land, Saxony-Anhalt. Operated by Chateau du Soleil GmbH under managing director Carola Schwarz, who brings a background in television production and theatre, alongside Dutch co-founder Ronald, who supervised the multi-year hands-on renovation, the club reopened as a lifestyle venue in early 2023 and bills itself as die wohl schonste erotische Oase im Herzen von Sachsen-Anhalt. The interior unfolds across three levels. A soaring main hall, 7.5 metres high, anchors the ground floor with a bar, dance floor, and extensive seating, while a mezzanine gallery on the first floor looks down over the space below. Adjoining rooms include a salon, a buffet and dining room, a dedicated smoking lounge, and a games room. Play rooms of varying themes are distributed across the basement, ground floor, and upper floor. Come summer, the castle lake (SchlossSee) becomes the setting for FKK (naturist) outdoor weekend gatherings. Events run one to two times per month and vary considerably in character: burlesque and performance evenings, FKK lake weekends, decade-themed parties, and elegant evening parties. All events are listed and ticketed exclusively through JOYclub.de; pricing is not published on the club website. Regular parties fall on Saturdays, running from 19:30 to 02:00. The core guest profile is active couples; single women and single men are admitted selectively depending on the specific event. The dress-code shorthand is elegant black is never wrong, with full requirements published per event on JOYclub.

Secrets at Flamingos

Unverified

Mansfield, Nottinghamshire

On-Premise Club

Secrets at Flamingos is a boutique lifestyle club occupying a purpose-fitted licensed venue on Broxtowe Drive in Mansfield, Nottinghamshire. Founded and run by a team with years of personal experience in the lifestyle scene — and a track record of visiting clubs across the country before opening their own — the club sets out to be something more considered than the average venue. Their premises licence covers a broad range of events, from swing parties with a fully open play area to social-only gatherings, with all adult events running on a ticket-only basis as required by the licence. The venue is centred on a fully licensed bar stocked with draught beers, wines, soft drinks, teas, coffees and the house-signature Flamingos Cocktails. Alongside the bar is a large, open playroom fitted with beds of varying sizes and dedicated private spaces for more discreet encounters. Practical amenities are covered as standard: separate male and female bathrooms, a changing room with lockable lockers, and towels provided to every guest. The events programme includes regular couples-and-single-ladies nights and party nights with the play area open; naturist events have also been hosted under the same roof. First-timers are met at the door by one of the club's hosts, who will walk them through the space and make introductions — an explicit part of the welcome process. Management is firm about maintaining an inclusive environment: cliquish behaviour is not tolerated, and the stated goal is a community built on respect and freedom from prejudice. Private hire is available seven days a week and can be configured with or without the play area, making the venue available for adult birthday parties and lifestyle events alike.