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On-Premise Club

DJ's Island describes itself as “A private club for adventurous adults”, a members-only, on-premise lifestyle club in Beaver Falls, PA. Its home page says it has been a lifestyle club since 2002, open every Saturday night and on select Fridays for special events. The club covers 8500 square feet of nightclub space with lounges, a year-round outdoor patio, leather sofa seating and a dance floor with two poles and a dance cage. Its private play rooms offer different bed configurations and furniture such as a sex swing and a black light frame bed, and first-floor rooms have bathrooms with showers. The VIP Room, reservable for any club night, has an 8 person hot tub and a two-way mirror to the dance floor. Couples and singles need a membership and a reservation, new members must be sponsored by an existing member, and single men by a couple who attend with them on a first visit. The club does not sell alcohol, so guests bring their own, and the bartender decides whether a member has had too much. Saturday dress is “DRESS TO IMPRESS”, with blue jeans allowed for men only with a collared shirt and no tennis shoes or ball caps. Cameras and video equipment are banned, drugs of any kind mean permanent loss of membership, and pursuing someone after a refusal gets a member asked to leave.

DORO Event- und Swingerclub

Hof an der Saale, Bavaria

On-Premise Club

DORO Event- und Swingerclub is a dedicated lifestyle club at St.-Lukas-Weg 29 in Hof an der Saale, a Bavarian city in the Upper Franconia district near the Czech and Thuringian borders. The venue operates under the tagline “Mit allen Sinnen genießen” (enjoy with all senses) and is run by Dorota. It holds a 4.6-out-of-5 aggregate rating across 88 visitor reviews. The venue offers a range of purpose-built facilities including a heated outdoor pool, a whirlpool, a landscaped garden, a bar, a buffet, changing rooms, and multiple themed playrooms. Two named VIP spaces — the Oase and the Tortuga — provide more private settings, and a cinema room fitted with black padded leather armchairs adds a distinctive touch. A connecting hallway decorated in colourful curved lines, described in a 2020 press account as the Lustgasse, links the spaces throughout the club. Towel service is provided, and on-site parking is available. Reviewers praise the cleanliness and food quality, with one describing the experience as “einer der schöneren Clubs, die wir besucht haben — alles sehr sauber, und das Essen auch sehr lecker” (one of the nicer clubs we have visited — everything very clean, and the food also very tasty). Regular party nights run on Fridays from 20:30 and Saturdays from 20:00; the club is dark Sunday through Thursday. Special themed events have historically required advance registration. Entry pricing, dress code, and single-male admission terms are published at doro.club; prospective visitors are advised to check the site or call +49 9281 1441905 ahead of their visit.

Eden After Dark

Las Vegas, NV

Event Organizer

Eden After Dark describes itself as a “members-only swing lifestyle club headquartered in Las Vegas, NV.” It stages thematic parties mostly in Las Vegas and Southern California, with some events elsewhere in the country. Events are for approved members, whom it calls Keyholders, and are not open to the general public unless noted. Venues vary by event: hotels and hotel suites, partnerships with local lifestyle clubs that have a physical location, pool events, and public “vanilla” meetups or munches. The club also hosts ladies-only nights with no men on the premises. Anyone can apply to become a Keyholder, but approval is not guaranteed, and the minimum age is 21. Members are mainly male-female couples, and the club says it is committed to an alliance with the LGBTQ community. Invitations state the start time and when doors close, and there is no entry or re-entry after that. The club never sells alcohol; it provides packaged mixers, water and non-alcoholic drinks. Guests are expected to dress to impress unless the event is themed. Cameras, recording devices and cell phones are not allowed at events without written permission, new members receive an email on the basic rules of the lifestyle, and nobody is pressured to take part in adult activities.

BDSM Education Society

Edmonton O Society says “we are primarily an Educational Group.” It is an unincorporated BDSM society in Edmonton whose members are unpaid volunteers, and its own pages call it Edmonton’s oldest BDSM group. Members and visitors meet twice monthly in a casual social setting, and it states it is not a dating service, escort agency or swingers’ club. Munches are social meet-and-greets normally held in a public restaurant or lounge where only adults are allowed, and workshops cover safety and health practices, new skills and toy-building sessions. It has historically not put on play parties itself. Members have access to a library of BDSM books, DVDs and tapes. Membership is open to adults of good character with a genuine interest in erotic BDSM, whether single or partnered and of any sexual orientation. Applicants should attend at least two munches and complete an orientation before the Board considers them. At munches, street clothes are the dress, real names are optional, and attendees must keep who was there and what was said private. It follows the credo “Safe, Sane & Consensual.”

Eros Events

Redmond, WA

On-Premise Club

Eros Events describes itself as “an adult, on-premise, lifestyle group” and as a private membership group based in Redmond, Washington. Formerly Redmond Ranch, it started in early 2003, and its home page marks a 23rd anniversary of hosting parties. Sunday afternoon swim parties run about twice a month, Saturday evening parties about once a month, with occasional Friday nights. Parties take place at a home-like retreat center. The facility has a heated indoor clothing-optional pool and hot tub, a DJ and dance floor with a brass pole, a voyeur room it calls its largest open playroom, and semi-private and open group play areas. Two outbuilding cabins add a semi-private space with a loft and king beds and a larger one for groups and light BDSM, and a covered patio serves as the smoking area. Everyone attending must be a member. First-timers reserve, attend an orientation and tour before their first party, and show valid state ID; the address comes with the reservation confirmation. Singles of any gender are welcome, though new single men must attend a swim party before their first evening party. Alcohol, marijuana, illegal drugs, weapons, pets and photography are not allowed, minimal dress is required outside the play and pool areas, and impaired members may be asked to leave.

Eros Knoxville

Knoxville, TN

On-Premise Club

Eros Knoxville describes itself as “an upscale, private, members only social club” in downtown Knoxville, reached through a courtyard on the bottom floor, where it says to look for the upside-down pineapple in the window. It is a BYOB club that does not sell alcohol, and it says guests may bring a favorite cup with a lid. Its events run on Friday and Saturday nights and carry new themes, with bartenders supplying mixers. Lockers are provided first come, first served, and members supply their own locks. The club also lists a Ruby Room for 10 to 15 people, a private booth for up to six and reserved lounge seating for four, and its rules ask guests who enter a play area without playing to whisper or stay quiet. Everyone who enters must be an approved member, and membership can be submitted and approved at the door. Guests must be 21 or older, show a valid ID such as a passport or driver’s license, and not be on the Tennessee Sexual Offender and Violent Offender Register, and new members complete a mandatory tour on their first visit. The club says its dress code is strictly enforced, sexy but classy, and that cameras and recording devices, drugs and prostitution are not permitted. It asks guests to respect no and to ask consent before touching, and it turns away or removes guests who are overly intoxicated.

Eureka Naturist Club

Fawkham, Kent

Naturist Club

Eureka Naturist Club describes itself as “a private members club” set in 23 acres of landscaped lawns, fields and woodland at Fawkham in Kent, including the ancient Pennis Woods. It opens every day of the year except Christmas Day, with later opening on Wednesdays and Thursdays and the latest on Fridays and Saturdays, and it can close for private bookings. The clubhouse has a large dance floor and a licensed bar, with seating for 180 people and a smokers' area outside. A wet area with jacuzzis, a sauna and a steam room is in use at all times, and a heated outdoor pool opens in the summer. The grounds also have an outdoor bar and BBQ area, sunbathing lawns, woodland trails and cabin accommodation, and there are showers, lockers, free parking, a café and a massage service. Entry is for members aged 21 or over, who apply online with ID; a three-month trial period applies to all new members, and non-members pay a temporary-membership fee. All events are open to single men, but groups of single men are not allowed. Bringing your own drinks is not permitted. Clothing is optional, with smart jeans or trousers and no baseball caps or hoodies at evening events. Mobile phones and photography are not allowed on site, and breaking house rules can lead to membership being revoked.

Goth/Industrial/Fetish nightclub

Fallout labels itself “Goth/Industrial/Fetish” on its website and says “Fallout is not an average nightclub that allows foolish behavior.” It is a nightclub in Richmond, Virginia, that pairs a membership program with events open to non-members, and it opens daily. The calendar mixes themed club nights, such as masquerades, vampire balls and dance nights, with concerts, movie nights, comedy open mics, goth karaoke and watch parties, and several listings state no membership is required. Kink and polyamory community groups also hold munches and meetups at the venue. Memberships are filled out at the club and cannot be applied for online. Applicants need a valid ID, must be 21 or older, must be in dress code and need a current member as a sponsor, and a committee reviews each application. Members may bring two guests who act and dress appropriately, and the club says it has limited-entry nights, such as weekdays, to meet other members for sponsorship. On some nights non-members must DM for a one-night pass. The dress code applies to members-only events, open events have no official code, and entry can be refused to anyone not dressed appropriately. Guests must behave respectfully and consensually at all times, and the club asks anyone planning to get intoxicated not to attend.

Fata-Morgana

Muiden, Noord-Holland

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Fata-Morgana is a couples-oriented lifestyle club set inside a three-storey converted farmhouse at Rijksweg 15 in Muiden, Noord-Holland, roughly ten minutes by car from Amsterdam along the A1 motorway — take junction 3 toward Muiden and Weesp. Free parking is available on site. The club operates on an all-inclusive model with no membership requirement: a single entry fee covers food, A-brand drinks including alcohol, towels, and condoms for the duration of the evening. The three floors of the farmhouse hold a wide spread of social and erotic spaces. The main level accommodates a dance floor with resident DJs, a restaurant serving an extended buffet, and a full bar; a sauna complex, whirlpool, and both indoor and outdoor swimming pools round out the leisure areas, with a VIP lounge with fireplace, covered terrace, sun lawn, and gardens providing quieter spaces for socialising. Upper floors house an open group loft, a darkroom, an SM room with equipment, massage rooms, and private lockable chambers. The club opens on Fridays from 21:00 to 03:00 at €150 per couple, and on Saturdays from 21:00 to 04:00 at €180 per couple. Solo women are admitted at half the couple rate. Single men are not permitted under any circumstances. Dress code is strictly enforced on entry and throughout: erotic, provocative, or club-wear is required; men are expected in boxers with an optional shirt; regular street clothing, swimwear, and sportswear are not permitted inside the building. Advance booking is recommended, particularly for Saturday evenings. Payment is accepted by cash, PIN, Visa, Mastercard, American Express, UnionPay, JCB, and Bancontact.

Forbidden Omaha

Omaha, NE

On-Premise Club

Forbidden Omaha describes itself as “a theme-centric establishment with an emphasis towards an openminded lifestyle.” It is an on-premise lifestyle club in Omaha, Nebraska, that opens on Saturday nights and runs meet and greets and special events. Its About page calls it “a community” and says it has been under new ownership as of December 2021. Its Rules page sets a 45-minute play time for every room, and the FAQ says play on the main floor is allowed on couches, benches and seating areas. An open-door and window-curtain approach caters to guests who like to watch or perform. Special events, such as entertainment nights and dinners, are ticketed separately from the regular pass or membership. The club is not open to the general public. First-timers create an account and give links to social profiles such as Facebook, Instagram or FetLife for approval, then buy a membership, and are asked to request a tour on a first visit. Single men and single women are welcome if they follow the club's rules and etiquette, and BDSM interests are welcome provided guests respect those who are not into it. There is no liquor license, so the club is BYOB, with ice available. Rules include no photography on the open floor, consent above all, and cleaning up after yourself.

Friction Carolina

Durham, NC

Hotel Party Organizer

Friction Parties, a women-owned brand that says it was started by Lisa Friction over 20 years ago, describes its events as “complete hotel takeovers”. Its public calendar lists events in Durham/Raleigh and Greensboro, North Carolina, alongside other markets, and it does not publish exact locations: hotel names and event details appear only to registered members. The main party is in a hotel ballroom and is billed as an off-premise event with no sexual activity in the ballroom, with a private party floor of guest rooms for those who stay. The organizer lists area DJs, stripper poles, a dance cage, professional security, pre-meets for new members and late-night pizza at most events. Hotels hold liquor licenses, and outside alcohol is not allowed where drinks are sold unless an event is announced as BYOB. Registration is free, with no walk-ins, and the parties are for attractive couples and adventurous single females who meet the organizer’s HWP requirements; new single-female profiles are currently accepted only if sponsored or recommended by an established couple. Check-in closes at midnight, a wristband is required, couples must arrive and stay together, and guests wear a cover-up between their rooms and the ballroom. Dress is very sexy, well groomed and modern, with sneakers, t-shirts, sweats and baseball or knit hats refused. Cameras and recording devices are banned in the ballroom, and drugs, smoking, vaping, candles and fog machines are prohibited.

Friction Parties

Unverified

Washington, DC

Event Organizer

Friction Parties is a women-owned and operated event company founded more than 22 years ago by Lisa Friction, billed as the only nationally recognized hotel party brand in the United States. Operating across the East Coast — with events regularly held in the Washington DC/Maryland area, Philadelphia, New Jersey, North Carolina, and Ohio — Friction takes over entire hotels for the duration of each event, meaning every guest and room belongs exclusively to the lifestyle community. The organizing ethos is welcoming but selective: the crowd skews toward what organizers describe as attractive, well-groomed couples and single women, and all attendees are pre-screened before admission. Events run in two formats. Single-day events are typically held on Saturdays around themed holidays — Halloween, New Year’s Eve, Valentine’s Day, St. Patrick’s Day — with check-in from 2 PM and a ballroom dance party running from 9 PM to around 1:30 AM. Weekend two-day events add clothing-optional pool parties and afternoon activities. Ticket prices range from approximately $75–$150 per person; no refunds, only future-event credits. Membership on the platform lets members browse event attendee lists and connect with couples and single females year-round. Once the main dance party ends, the format shifts to an informal hall crawl on a designated party floor where room doors are propped open and guests host themed mini-parties until the early morning. The ballroom features a DJ, dance poles, cages, and themed décor matched to the night’s costume theme. Alcohol is available via full cash bar operated by the hotel; guests may not bring drinks from rooms to the party floor.

Fun4Two

Moordrecht, South Holland

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Fun4Two is a long-established lifestyle club housed in a protected 1851 Dutch farmhouse at Middelweg 18 in Moordrecht, South Holland, roughly 25 minutes by car from Rotterdam and within easy reach of The Hague, Utrecht, and Amsterdam. Operating continuously since January 1996, it runs as an all-inclusive venue — one entry price covers unlimited food from the buffet restaurant, unlimited drinks including beer, wine, and spirits, use of all wellness facilities, towels, and lockers — a model that sets it apart from most comparable venues across the Netherlands. The converted farmhouse spreads across several connected sections. A self-service buffet restaurant, a main dance floor with a resident DJ, and a lounge bar anchor the social areas. A wellness wing contains a heated indoor pool, sauna, jacuzzi, and bubble bath. The play spaces include a tantra temple, an orgy loft, a group playroom, a Dutch Village area fitted with BDSM-equipped themed cottages, a glory hole room, and a dedicated BDSM dungeon suite. On-site accommodation — apartments, small cottages, and a traditional Dutch caravan known as a pipowagen — is available at additional cost for those who want to stay after the party ends. The venue opens Friday evenings from 21:00 to 03:00, Saturdays from 21:00 to 04:00, and on selected Sundays from 16:00 to 23:00. Member pricing for a couple runs €124 on Fridays, €159 on Saturdays, and €109 on Sundays; first-time visitors pay an additional €20 one-time registration fee that grants full member rates on all future visits. Single women are welcome at all sessions at reduced rates (€62–€80); single men are excluded from regular events except at dedicated Hardcore Night events (approximately four per year, capped at 75 tickets) and on the third Friday of each month, when a couple may bring one additional guest. Saturday visits require advance reservation via the website. Guests arrive in smart or stylish clothing and must change into lingerie or sexy attire by 23:30 on Fridays and Saturdays, or by 19:00 on Sundays. Mobile phones are prohibited in all public areas, and free enclosed private parking is available on-site.

Fun4Two

Rydalmere, New South Wales

On-Premise Club

Fun4Two is a licensed swingers club at 5 Clyde Street in Rydalmere, an industrial pocket of western Sydney roughly five minutes from Parramatta and about 25 kilometres from the CBD. In operation since 2000 and run under the legal name Ma Property Developments Pty Ltd, the venue has built a long-running presence in the Sydney lifestyle scene. Admission is restricted to male-female couples and single women aged 18 and over; single men are not permitted under any circumstances. The premises houses multiple lounge rooms, a dance floor, pool tables, a bar, and a mix of private and communal play rooms. Dedicated change rooms with secure lockers are on-site; a refundable A$20 deposit secures a locker key at arrival, and mobile phones must be stored in that locker throughout the visit. On-site security includes uniformed guards and 24-hour CCTV coverage of common areas, and private and street parking are available. Entry includes complimentary canapés and soft drinks, and BYO alcohol is permitted. Condoms and lubricant are supplied throughout the venue. Events run every Saturday from 9 pm to 3 am, with entry by pre-purchased ticket only. Advance online pricing is A$150 per couple and A$50 for single women; door pricing is A$180 and A$80 respectively, with a A$20 refundable locker deposit added on arrival. A signed waiver is required for entry. Dress code on arrival is smart nightlife attire; after 11 pm and in play areas, lingerie is expected for women and underwear for men. Each Saturday has a distinct themed night — including recurring Newbie Nights designed for first-timers, and special events with named performers — with upcoming events listed on the club's website. A minor surcharge applies to card and EFTPOS payments.

FuseX Social Club - South Dakota Chapter

Unverified

Sioux Falls, SD

Social Club

FuseX Social Club is a private, approval-only lifestyle organization operating its South Dakota chapter from Sioux Falls with no fixed address — events rotate among confidential venues including hotel takeovers, luxury house parties, and invitation-only mansion events. The SD chapter runs approximately three hosted events per year locally; many Sioux Falls members also attend the larger Minneapolis chapter. Every applicant undergoes a formal interview, a national criminal background check, and must sign binding NDA and non-liability agreements before event details are shared. The membership skews toward working professionals — lawyers, physicians, executives — with income requirements (couples: $225,000+ combined; single males: $115,828+). Lifestyle interests span swinging, cuckolding, hotwifing, BDSM, polyamory, and voyeurism. In a conservative-state context, the club positions itself as the discreet alternative; members frequently travel to Minneapolis for higher-attendance events. At events, the format is social first: couples mingle and dance before play areas open, and participation is always voluntary. Dress code is enforced. Membership tiers range from $2,900 to $25,000/year plus per-event costs; single women receive free Platinum membership. Approximately one in four applications is approved.

GG's Lounge

Runcorn, Cheshire

On-Premise Club

GG's Lounge is an adult lifestyle club at 68 Church Street in Runcorn, Cheshire, in the northwest of England. No prior membership is required and walk-in guests are welcome on standard nights. The crowd spans a wide age range — the 25-to-70-plus bracket, with the bulk of regulars typically in their thirties to sixties — and the venue presents itself as a social as much as a sexual space, with consent culture foregrounded in its published house rules. Every guest receives a personal locker and towel on arrival; the locker key functions as a bar tab throughout the evening. Facilities include a jacuzzi, showers, hairdryers, and straighteners. The venue is not licensed for alcohol; guests bring their own, labelled with their locker number, and the club sells mixers, soft drinks, and condoms on-site. A heated enclosed smoking area is provided with robes. Free parking is available across the road, and Hotel Campanile Runcorn is a short walk away. The weekly programme runs Wednesday through Saturday. Sexy Midweek Fun takes place every Wednesday from 7 pm to midnight, open to all. The 3rd Friday of each month (7 pm–2 am) is restricted to couples and single ladies only; other Fridays and Saturdays run 7 pm–2 am and are open to all. SOS Social Sundays are held on the 3rd Sunday of each month from 7 pm to midnight. Entry requires valid photo ID; the minimum age is 25.

Golden Lions

Markgröningen, Baden-Württemberg

Golden Lions is a long-running lifestyle club in Markgröningen, a quiet Swabian town roughly 20 kilometres northwest of Stuttgart. The club has been operating since 1999 and underwent a comprehensive renovation in October 2023, relaunching — as the site puts it — as a modern venue for "Erotik mit Niveau und Stil" (eroticism with sophistication and style). A mixed crowd of couples and singles from the Stuttgart–Ludwigsburg conurbation makes the drive out, drawn by an atmosphere the club positions as an oasis for erotic moments away from daily life, with a clientele that reviewers consistently describe as friendly and the staff as welcoming. The space includes a bar, a dance floor, a buffet, multiple themed playrooms, three whirlpools (indoor and outdoor), a sauna, massage facilities, a garden area, and secured locker rooms, with ample parking front and rear — including space for campervans. Every entry ticket is all-inclusive: the door price covers full club access, the buffet, and all drinks at the bar. The event calendar runs the full week: Thursday mornings bring a "Fantastic Breakfast" brunch party (10:00–14:00); Wednesdays host BANG my Hotwife evenings (18:00–23:00); Fridays and Saturdays run standard couple-and-singles nights alongside dedicated couples-only evenings (20:00 to 02:00 or 03:00); and Sundays offer afternoon sessions (14:00–21:00). Themed events — White Night, Oktoberfest, foam parties, a Silvester Gala, CFNM nights, and explicit-format gangbang evenings — fill out the annual programme. Access is clearly tiered by guest type. Couples and solo women may arrive on the night without a reservation; solo men must pre-register on JOYclub and receive guest confirmation before being admitted, with JOYclub members also receiving a discount off the standard door price. Entry pricing is steeply differentiated by gender and event type, ranging from €5–40 for solo women to €45–130 for solo men, and €20–110 for couples. A complete ban on mobile phones and cameras is enforced throughout the premises, keeping the atmosphere relaxed and discreet. The dress code is erotic and frivolous for women — lingerie, latex, and minimal clothing are all encouraged — while men are expected in formal black-and-white attire or clubwear. Safe sex is described on the site as "selbstverständlich" (self-evident), and the no-means-no rule is taken seriously: any guest who ignores a refusal faces immediate expulsion.

Group in Keller TX

Keller, TX

Hotel Floor Takeover Parties

Group in Keller TX uses the tagline “HOUSE PARTY STYLE WITH A TWIST” for its private hotel floor takeover parties, held year round with multiple events a month at hotels in Dallas, Las Colinas and Plano, Texas. The group describes itself as “the longest continuous running lifestyle group in north Texas.” Each party takes over a secured private floor where, past a curtain, guests can wear as much or as little as they like. Guests may book a room on the floor and set up a theme room with the door open, or move from theme room to theme room; an open group play room is always provided, and private play is for guests who reserve a room. Dallas and Las Colinas parties add a DJ and dancing, and the calendar includes LGBTQ+-encouraged nights and themed parties. RSVP is required for every event, and the group emails a detailed invite with FAQs. Premium membership discounts tickets; females are admitted, and some nights exclude solo men. Events are BYOB, with parking, setups, cups, ice and snacks provided. Guests dress to impress on arrival, with clothing optional inside. The main rule is zero pressure: anyone who keeps pushing after hearing no is asked to leave and not invited back.

Hacienda

Brooklyn, NY

Sex Club

Hacienda describes itself as “a vibrant community where sexuality is celebrated, curiosity is ignited” and its About page calls it a Brooklyn sex club and community running play parties, socials and workshops. The page says it was founded in 2009 and names a sister venue, The House. Its FAQ separates public events, where sex is not allowed, from private play parties for members and their guests. The Villa, which its rental page says has hosted parties since 2015, has a hot tub, three bedrooms with en-suite bathrooms, an outdoor fire pit table with a lounge area, a kitchen, a bar and an event space with adult amenities. The FAQ says the front entrance, basement, fireplace area and hot tub are reachable only by stairs, and a Guardian is always present in the studio play space. Membership is by referral: applicants submit a form with a current member's reference, or apply with a friend or partner, and watch a consent video. Members and guests check in together, first-time play party guests attend an orientation, and every event is for people 21 and older. Drinks are bring-your-own with mixers at the bar, and guests are expected to dress nicely or creatively. Touching requires verbal permission, and breaches can bring a warning, a temporary pause or a permanent ban.

Hanke Panke Lifestyle Club

Unverified

San Diego, CA

Hankie Pankie Lifestyle Club — also marketed as Embrace Lifestyle Events — has been one of San Diego's most approachable entries into the Southern California lifestyle scene since at least 2012. Rather than operating a fixed brick-and-mortar venue, the club brings its parties to a rotating roster of venues across Southern California, dressing each location with a distinct theme to keep the calendar feeling fresh. Each event layers food and mixers, curated music, and live entertainment into the mix, giving the night a social-club warmth rather than the anonymous feel of a conventional adult venue. The club has built a particular reputation for drawing in newcomers — hosting dedicated introductory events designed to walk first-timers through what to expect and help them find their feet before diving in. The crowd skews toward couples and single women, and the overall tone is described consistently as classy, elegant yet sexy: a setting where guests are expected to mingle and connect rather than arrive with a fixed agenda. The club is reachable via Facebook @hankiepankielifestyle and X @HankiePankieCA. A mailing address at 9528 Miramar Rd #1137 in San Diego is listed in lifestyle directories, consistent with the rotating-venue model.

On-Premise Club

Happy Hedonist is a lifestyle club that has catered to swingers, voyeurs, and exhibitionists in the Greater Toronto Area since the early 1990s. Operating as an upscale on-premise swinger club, it built a following as one of the largest lifestyle venues in southern Ontario, welcoming couples and select single players through a community that blended online engagement — chat rooms, contact ads, and message boards — with weekly on-site parties. The club's home was Jeanie's, a licensed venue at 5977 Dixie Road in Mississauga, where it occupied more than 10,000 square feet across two levels. The space featured two bars, a licensed smoking patio, and a seasonal outdoor play area included in general admission at no extra charge. Staff were noted for welcoming newcomers with guided walk-throughs, and the club consistently emphasised making first-timers feel comfortable alongside experienced regulars. Weekly parties ran on Fridays (doors at 9:30 pm) and Saturdays (doors at 9:00 pm). The club announced a move to an undisclosed larger location, but no confirmed new address has been publicly identified. As of August 2026, the original Dixie Road premises have been taken over by unrelated businesses, and the club's website is non-functional.

Hedonism NI

Belfast, Northern Ireland

On-Premise Club

Hedonism NI is a touring swingers social run across Northern Ireland rather than from a single fixed address. In the club's own words it is "an action packed swingers' party with a lively social scene for adults who enjoy meeting fellow open minded men and women at parties through-out Northern Ireland," and the site pitches the region's "premier" home for those "wishing to live a consensual non monogamist lifestyle" in "a safe no pressure yet fun" environment. The hosts, who go by Hotlips & Superstar, come "from a swinging background and with experience at hosting parties stretching back over 20 years," and their socials rotate through venues around the country, with recent 2026 parties landing in Bangor. Events are ticketed in advance through Eventbrite, and the venue address is deliberately withheld: house rule two states "The location must never be given out," and it is released only to verified ticket holders. Pricing for a recent End of Summer Social ran £10 for single ladies, £20 for single gents and £25 for couples. Doors work to a tight window: "Attendees must arrive between 9:30pm and 11pm," couples "MUST arrive and LEAVE as a couple," and "Closing time is 1am." The dress code is "cool and sexy" (clean, un-ripped jeans tolerated, no baseball caps), and consent is paramount, with the rules stressing "'NO THANKS, MEANS NO'" and "NO one is obligated to participate in any activities." Unlike a BYOB club, Hedonism NI runs a bar: "Alcohol is sold on the premises and therefore no one entering will be allowed to bring their own." Privacy is enforced hard, with no cameras or recording equipment ("They will be confiscated"), phones permitted only to swap numbers, and "No Facebook check-ins." Drugs and prostitution are banned outright, drunken behaviour is not tolerated, smoking is limited to the front entrance, and there is free on-street parking with a taxi rank outside. Prospective guests connect and verify through the club's Telegram, FabSwingers profile and mailing list, and follow party announcements across Facebook, Instagram, TikTok and X.

House of K

Wellington, Wellington

On-Premise Club

House of K is an adults-only lifestyle venue in Whitby, Porirua, on the northern fringe of the Wellington region. Running since approximately late 2023, it offers two distinct event formats from a private residential property: exclusive sex and swinging parties — where swinging is the main draw, with designated kink zones — and dedicated kink events where rope play, wax play, and BDSM scenes are central. The organizers describe the venue as an adult playground oriented around consent and community rather than volume. All prospective guests must complete a pre-event vetting process, submitting face photos and a written introduction before gaining approval; the crowd typically spans couples, single women, and a strictly capped number of single men, with most attendees in their mid-thirties. The house is configured with seven designated play areas, while the kitchen, dining room, and lounge are kept as play-free social spaces throughout every event. The kink infrastructure is substantial: three St Andrews Crosses, a caged BDSM dungeon occupying a discreet section of the building, rope suspension points, a stripper pole, massage tables, male and female glory holes, an expanding shared toy collection, and on-site showers and lockers. A private room is available for more intimate encounters, and an outdoor fire pit provides a social anchor between sessions. Themed events — including UV glow nights, a birthday extravaganza, and a Christmas party — rotate through the calendar, with each party capped at 65 paid guests on a monthly Saturday evening schedule. Entry for sex and swinging events is NZ$50 for single women and NZ$100 for couples or single men; single male spots are capped at seven per swinging event, reserved for experienced players already known to the community. Swinging events carry an age range of 21 to 50; kink events are open without a stated upper age limit, though no unknown single males are admitted. Ticket prices cover non-latex condoms, lubricant, snacks, and non-alcoholic beverages; alcohol is bring-your-own and the venue operates without a licence. The dress code rules out shorts and plain t-shirts except as part of a costume, and drugs and body paint are not permitted. A traffic-light safe-word system governs consent throughout, couples must arrive and depart together, and the venue does not offer refunds, transfers, or deferrals.

HS Lifestyle Club

Hude, Lower Saxony

On-Premise Club

HS Lifestyle Club sits at Bremer Str. 24 in Hude/Sandersfeld, a small municipality between Bremen and Oldenburg in Lower Saxony. Known historically as Haus Sandersfeld, the venue has been in operation for more than seventeen years and is among the larger lifestyle clubs in northern Germany, accommodating up to 500 guests across roughly 2,000 square metres of indoor club space, a 4,000-square-metre garden, and a 1,000-square-metre beer garden. The club reports a five-heart quality rating from JOYclub per its own homepage, and states it is the first lifestyle venue in Germany to receive the DEHOGA environmental gold award, reflecting a commitment to regional food sourcing, fair wages for staff, and energy-efficient heating systems. The house motto — "Be exactly as you are" — frames a philosophy of discretion and atmosphere free of social expectation. The indoor layout guides guests from a changing area fitted with large mirrors and hair dryers through a disco dance floor and a 1970s-styled bar to a bistro serving a substantial buffet. Wellness facilities include a sauna and a heated whirlpool with pulsating massage jets. Deeper into the venue are a nudist area with a social fumble bar, voyeur rooms, a BDSM-equipped backroom, and additional themed playrooms. The scale and variety of spaces are substantial enough that the club warns first-time visitors they can easily lose their bearings while exploring. Events are scheduled individually rather than on a fixed weekly calendar; most start at 20:00 and run into the early morning hours, with occasional afternoon parties also programmed. Entry prices vary by event type, solo or couple attendance, and whether tickets are purchased in advance via JOYclub or at the door. Advance booking and pre-registration are strongly encouraged, and a prepayment policy is in place to reduce no-shows, with vouchers available for cancellations due to illness. Most admission packages cover the buffet, alcoholic and non-alcoholic beverages, sauna and whirlpool access, towels, shower gel, and condoms. The dress code is strict: jeans, sweaters, and plain underwear are not accepted; women are expected in lingerie, short dresses, or erotic attire, while men are directed toward a dress shirt with black trousers or leather, latex, or lace alternatives.