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Northaven Resort

Brooklyn, MI

Clothing-Optional RV Resort

Northaven Resort describes itself as a “clothing-optional, adult-only RV resort” on nearly 50 acres of rolling hills, ponds and paved paths in Michigan's Irish Hills. Its About page says it was founded in 1994, and it fills its days with themed events and its evenings with socializing, bonfires and dancing in the lounge. Weekend themes include a medieval newbie weekend. The Hotel California Lounge is a 3,400-square-foot gathering place with a 24-foot bar, dance floor, pool table, shuffleboard, dart board, pinball and video games, with themed dances on Saturday nights. Around it are a heated in-ground pool, Buckles' Barbells Gym, two sand volleyball courts, two pickleball courts, the Sexy Sundries General Store, a fire pit at the gazebo and coin-operated showers. Overnight guests stay on lots or tent sites with hook-ups or in rental units. It is a couples resort: members and overnight guests are couples, while single people may visit on a day pass. Guests must be 21 or older with valid photo ID, and first-time visitors and new members are background-checked. Reservations are made by phone rather than online, drinks are BYOB, and bottoms must be covered when food is served. Photography is prohibited, public sexual activity is not allowed, and it offers free tours for couples.

NSFW (New Society for Wellness)

New York, NY

Private Members Club

NSFW (New Society for Wellness) describes itself as “a private members-club for the adventurous.” The New York group calls itself a sex-positive community and a “Bi+ community space” that is open to all interests, with a mission built around “mindful exploration and shared education.” It has held its events at several New York venues. Its calendar mixes PlayDate parties, a monthly SendNoobs night for new members, workshops and mixer events, and the club says guests can enjoy a DJ. PlayDates come as All Play nights for singles, couples and groups and as Couples Only nights. The club says its parties are “a sexy party,” that participation is always optional, and that many guests just come to meet and mingle; hired guardians it calls “nymphs” watch over guests. Attendance is for vetted members: the club says it accepts about 30% of membership applications, and an approved profile is needed to buy passes. Members can buy guest passes. Its event pages say BYOB is allowed with a bar serving mixers, and that dress is black. The Code of Conduct requires enthusiastic consent with new partners, bans sharing images without consent and bars getting overly intoxicated at live events, and breaches can lead to removal or suspension.

NYX Lounge

Oakville, Ontario

On-Premise Club

NYX Lounge describes itself as an “on premise adult lifestyle swingers nightclub/lounge” serving Oakville. It is a members-only club that opens Friday and Saturday nights and reserves the right to refuse entry; a 2015 news report said it became a lifestyle club in May 2014, after starting as a salsa club. The club has a large dance floor with six high-definition screens and three dance poles, plus a bar and bottle-service booths. Guests have two play areas: a back play room that can be open or as private as they like, and an upstairs loft with an open view of the dance floor. Themed nights run through the calendar, and the club can be rented privately on nights other than Friday and Saturday; capacity is 325. Couples, single women and single men are admitted, and membership is required. Single men may enter the play areas only with a single woman or a couple, no exceptions. Everyone signs a waiver and shows ID, and newcomers are usually introduced to a host couple for a short tour. Dress is “sexy, sophisticated”, theme encouraged, but flip flops, running shoes, work boots and sweat pants are not allowed. Alcohol and glassware stay out of the play areas, photos and videos need consent and management approval, and the club reserves the right to remove anyone who ignores a no.

Oasis Aqualounge

Toronto, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Oasis Aqualounge describes itself as “a water themed private members spa and lounge for those 19+.” It occupies a restored 19th-century mansion in downtown Toronto, and its About page says it was founded in 2010. Membership is signed up on the spot and included in each day's admission, and the club opens every day of the week. A year-round heated outdoor pool sits in a private courtyard, and the spa area has a hot tub and a sauna, with a poolside patio alongside. Two bars serve the patio and the play areas, which span four floors; the dungeon has a swing and a St. Andrew’s Cross, and a private room on the fourth floor can be reserved onsite for an hour at no extra charge. There is a co-ed locker room, a front-yard smoking area, and recurring nights such as Sapphic Aquatica, a monthly Monday event for women and trans guests. Everyone 19 and over is welcome Sunday through Thursday, except on Sapphic Aquatica Mondays, while Fridays and Saturdays are reserved for women and couples. First-timers register with an email address, show valid government photo ID, hear the rules from staff and can take a tour. Outside drinks are not allowed and glass is kept away from the pool and hot tub, clothing is optional at each guest's own comfort level, photography is prohibited, and the club says a “no” is a final answer.

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Our Place 4 Fun describes itself as an “Addictive Adult Fantasy Play-space.” It is a private members' swingers club in London's N22 postcode area that holds parties on Friday nights, themed Saturday nights and Tuesday Butterfly Club nights, and says newcomers are always welcome. The club lists a couples-only intro nook for shy guests, a dance pole, dark rooms, a grope area, a lockable play zone with two-way mirrors, play beds, two glory hole areas, and a dungeon with restraints, a sex swing and a St Andrews cross. There is also a dedicated soft drink bar, lockers with a changing area, a vented smoking area and a private lockable playroom. New guests join as members; membership is free, approval usually takes about 48 hours, and the club says no ticket means no entry. Guests must be 21 or over. Couples, single ladies and single gentlemen are admitted on Friday and Tuesday nights, while some themed Saturdays exclude single men and throuples. The address is given only to members. Alcohol is BYOB, limited to beer, cider, wine or pure spirits. Dress is extra smart casual, no phones or filming are allowed past reception, and the club is drug-free.

Our Secret Spot

Sydney, New South Wales

On-Premise Club

Our Secret Spot (OSS) occupies three floors of a venue on Parramatta Road in Annandale, roughly five kilometres west of the Sydney CBD. Co-founded by Jess and Lawrence, the club positions itself explicitly as female-focused and consent-first, drawing a crowd that typically clusters in the thirties and forties, with guests spanning the early twenties to early sixties. The stated ethos — Respectful, Safe, Sexy — shapes everything from the strict consent culture to the staff-guided walk offered to every first-time visitor. The social floor centres on a hand-crafted wooden BYO bar with free mixers (glass decanted to plastic at entry), Chesterfield lounge seating, a ruby-red pool table, and a disco-lit dance floor with a DJ deck. Play spaces spread across the upper levels: three private rooms, a one-way-mirror voyeur room, a large four-bedded open group room, a fully equipped dungeon, and an open shower space. A library-themed VIP room — lockable, with customisable music — rents by the hour. Lockers, condoms, dams, lube, and towels are included in the ticket price; all mobile phones are surrendered at reception on arrival. Parties run on Friday and Saturday nights from 20:30 until 03:00; Thursday Thirsty Thursday sessions and occasional Sunday afternoon matinees are advertised on the venue calendar but are not confirmed as standing hours. Entry is by advance ticket with tiered pricing for guest couples, members, and single women; single men are admitted in limited numbers by prior approved application only. The dress code is strictly enforced — cocktail attire or smart separates for women, collared shirt with trousers or chinos and dress shoes for men — and couples must arrive and depart together.

PaaRee Swingertreff

Castrop-Rauxel, North Rhine-Westphalia

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PaaRee Swingertreff is a couples and lifestyle club at Hernerstraße 110 in Castrop-Rauxel, in the heart of the Ruhr region in North Rhine-Westphalia, run by Mandy and Frank Kuhles. The club brands itself as "der tolerante, frivole & aktive Swingertreff mit Niveau und Klasse" — a tolerant, spirited, and active swinger venue with refinement and class — and positions itself as a considered alternative to the larger, more impersonal mega-clubs of the region. The guiding motto is "Alles kann – nichts muss" (everything is possible, nothing is mandatory). Women, couples, single men, and trans guests across a range of orientations and relationship configurations are all welcomed, with mandatory advance registration by phone or JOYclub profile required for everyone. The venue describes itself as "der kleine und feine Swingertreff" — small and refined — and features multiple themed play rooms of varying sizes, including spaces for BDSM scenes and group encounters alongside smaller couples-oriented rooms. A large outdoor terrace, screened from public view, extends the available space in milder weather. The communal shower room is stocked with hair dryers and toiletries; complimentary lockers are provided throughout. A bar with branded alcoholic and non-alcoholic beverages and a food spread — including a fresh Saturday buffet, cooked meals on weekdays and Sundays, and snacks at other sessions — are included in the all-in entry price, as are condoms and towels. Cash is the only accepted payment method on site. The club runs events across four days each week. Friday evenings (19:00–01:00) host themed Active Swinger Nights; Saturdays (20:00–02:00) run the main weekly Saturday Night Swinger party; Sundays (15:00–20:00) offer the Sxx-Active Sunday session; and the second Thursday of each month (12:00–18:00) hosts a bi-friendly FKK afternoon. Pricing is all-inclusive and varies by event: on Fridays, women pay €15, couples €45, and single men €45; Saturday rates are €20 for women, €50 for couples, and €50 for men; other sessions are priced slightly lower. JOYclub Premium members receive a €5 reduction on any session. Strict house rules apply throughout: no mobile phones, no cannabis, erotic attire required, and a zero-tolerance consent policy is enforced — any violation results in immediate removal and a permanent ban.

Pandora Swingers Club

Leeds, West Yorkshire

Pandora occupies a converted former shoe warehouse at Unit 2 Ledgard Way in the Armley district of Leeds, roughly two miles west of the city centre. The club bills itself as the largest swingers venue in Northern England and operates on a members-only basis. It shares the Ledgard Way building with Steam Complex, a gay sauna whose daytime hours precede Pandora’s evening sessions — a scheduling arrangement confirmed by Leeds City Council when it approved extended operating hours following a planning application that attracted objections from local councillors and the then-MP Rachel Reeves. The venue makes use of a multi-floor warehouse footprint. A heated swimming pool (30°C), a ten-person jacuzzi (35°C), a twelve-person sauna, and a sprung dance floor sit alongside a bar serving soft drinks and mixers, with a BYOB drop-off area where staff secure members’ own alcohol behind the bar (the venue holds no alcohol licence). Play spaces extend across a dungeon, dark rooms, UV rooms, an orgy room, private rooms equipped with suspension beds, bondage walls, sex swings, glory holes, and a massage area. The car park outside is floodlit and holds sixty spaces. The weekly schedule runs Thursday to Sunday. Thursday hosts Biphoria, a bisexual and bi-male session running 11am to midnight with split admission: before 7pm, couples pay £25 and single men £17 (single women and trans guests £8); after 7pm the rates drop to £15 for couples and single men, £5 for single women and trans guests. Friday and Saturday are general open nights (8pm–2am); Sunday is a lower-key Relaxed Sunday (8pm–midnight). A monthly fetish night is held on the first Wednesday of the month. Annual membership costs £5 for single women and trans members, £10 for couples, and £40 for single men.

Paradise Lakes Resort

Lutz, FL

Lifestyle Resort

Paradise Lakes Resort describes itself as “a private clothing-optional resort primarily for adult nudist couples in the lifestyle.” It is in Lutz, Florida, north of Tampa, is open all week, and its About page says it has been welcoming guests for 40 years. Guests can visit on a daily membership or stay overnight in the hotel rooms. The grounds have four heated pools and a hot tub open year-round, indoor and outdoor bars, and two restaurants: Water's Edge Bar and Grill and the poolside Key West sports bar, which hosts trivia and karaoke during the week. Club Reveal is the weekend dance club, open Fridays and Saturdays with DJs and VIP booths, and the resort also runs themed weekends. Daily activities include water volleyball, with separate pools for newcomers and veterans, plus pickleball courts and a gym. Hotel rooms each have a king-size bed, vanity and shower. Entry is by membership, daily or longer, with separate single and couple rates; couple memberships are reserved for two people in a committed relationship who stay together at the resort, and everyone else buys a single membership. Hotel guests pay the daily membership fee at check-in, and room reservations are for adults 21 and older. Clothing is optional. Outside alcohol, outside food deliveries and glass are not allowed on the grounds, though hotel guests may bring food and non-alcoholic drinks to their rooms.

On-Premise Club

Pärchenclub Namenlos sits in the hamlet of Schwandt within the municipality of Rosenow, a rural pocket of Mecklenburg-Western Pomerania roughly 25 kilometres southeast of Neubrandenburg. Owner Monika Peters, originally from Rostock, has run the venue since around 2000, building up a regular following drawn from across the Mecklenburgische Seenplatte lake district. The name — Namenlos, meaning nameless — belies its local standing: despite the remote address on Platz der Zukunft, the club has become a steady destination for couples from Demmin, Neubrandenburg, and the wider region. The venue spans roughly 200 square metres and runs on candles alone — no overhead lighting is used anywhere in the space. A bar and buffet form the social heart of the room, while a whirlpool and sauna offer a slower-paced alternative. Open communal play areas (Spielwiesen) share the floor with a number of private booths (Separees) for couples who prefer seclusion. The atmosphere is warm and unhurried rather than nightclub-like; Peters has described a typical evening as a mix of regulars, first-timers who often observe before engaging, and couples passing through the Seenplatte tourist corridor. Namenlos opens on Friday and Saturday evenings only, with an annual Women's Day event (Frauentag) among the regular fixtures on the calendar. No independently verified entry price is on record. The club's operating philosophy is captured in two stated maxims: Alles kann, nichts muss (everything is possible, nothing is mandatory) and Die weiblichen Gäste sind kein Freiwild (female guests are not fair game).

Pärchenclub Schiedel

Kamenz, Saxony

On-Premise Club

Club Schiedel sits on a former farmstead in the Schiedel district of Kamenz, a small Saxony town in eastern Germany roughly equidistant between Dresden and Bautzen. Operated since 2012 by Siro and Reinhard Bartels through Pärchenclub Schiedel & Hotel UG, it has grown into one of the larger lifestyle destinations in the region — a self-contained rural retreat combining a full-scale swingers club with hotel rooms, holiday rooms, and extensive grounds. Its approach along quiet roads threading through forest and farmland on the edge of the Upper Lusatian hills and lake landscape gives the property a secluded and unhurried character that sets it apart from urban venues of comparable scope. The interior club area is finished in natural stone, timber, and tropical planting — a design the venue describes as a blend of eroticism, tropical flair, and rustic warmth. The amenity list is substantial: a darkroom, a dedicated SM room, themed playrooms including mirrored and group-activity rooms, a small adult cinema, five indoor bars, and a wellness section with hot tub and sauna. A warm-and-cold buffet runs through the evening during events. The broader grounds encompass an outdoor swimming pool, an outdoor bar with lounge beds, and a spread of lakeside holiday cabins alongside hotel rooms in the main building. The club averages 4.4 stars across more than 130 visitor reviews, with consistent praise for staff friendliness and quality of service. Events are anchored to Friday and Saturday evenings, with doors opening at 20:00 on both nights. Wednesdays function primarily as a hotel check-in and accommodation day for overnight guests. The club maintains a Swinger-Paten scheme — a companion system in which staff or designated regulars walk first-time visitors through the space and help them find their footing at their own pace.

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Parenclub Devils & Angels, an all-inclusive lifestyle and swingers club at Maaseikerweg 24 in Susteren, Limburg, has been temporarily closed since approximately May 2026. As of September 2026 the club's website carries the notice 'Wegens omstandigheden is de club tijdelijk gesloten' (due to circumstances, the club is temporarily closed) with no reopening date given. Verify current status before visiting. The club operated on a single all-inclusive admission price covering entry, beverages, and full facility access — no separate bar tab. The venue featured a bar and buffet restaurant, dance floor, and discrete car parking with campervan bays for overnight stays. Inside, a series of themed play rooms included a disco room, a TV room, a Thai massage room, a room with a floating bed, a black room, and further group play spaces. Complimentary condoms were provided throughout, and guided tours of the space were available for first-time visitors. Regular programming ran Wednesday afternoons (15:00–21:00, MILF-themed format) and Friday and Saturday evenings (21:00–03:00), with occasional Thursday daytime sessions. Admission for couples was approximately €50–75; single men in the €85–130 range; single women at a lower rate or free depending on the night. On the last Friday of each month a drempelvrees avond (newcomers' evening) welcomed first-time visitors, with regular clothes permitted until 22:30 before the provocative dress code took effect. Advance reservation was recommended for Saturday evenings.

Parenclub Mystique

Rucphen, Noord-Brabant

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Parenclub Mystique has anchored the Noord-Brabant swinger scene since May 2001, when owner Frank van Loon opened this discreet venue on the Zundertseweg in Rucphen, a rural municipality several kilometres from Roosendaal. Over more than 25 years of operation, the club has built a large membership base and established itself among the more prominent lifestyle venues in the southern Netherlands, consistently described across Dutch directories as stylish and refined. It holds an SDC (Swingers Date Club) affiliation and markets itself as a sfeervol, stijlvol en luxe — convivial, stylish, and luxurious — evening out. The venue spans multiple levels, with a basement housing 150 lockers across four dressing rooms, and the main floor opening onto a spacious bar and dance area with a resident DJ, a champagne bar, a dedicated smoking lounge, and a 40-seat restaurant serving a hot-and-cold lava-grill buffet — all included in the entrance fee. An outdoor swimming pool, an XL whirlpool, and a luxury sauna round out the leisure facilities, while multiple themed play rooms occupy the upper floors alongside dedicated shower areas. The atmosphere is consistently described as welcoming and stylish, shaped by the easy sociability for which Brabant is known; free parking is available on site. The club opens six days a week, closed on Tuesdays. Mondays and Thursdays open at 14:00, Wednesdays at 18:00; Friday evenings at 20:00, Saturdays at 19:00, and Sundays at 16:00. Single men are admitted on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays only; Friday through Sunday is reserved for couples and single women. Entry for couples is €75 on weekday afternoons, rising to €110 on Fridays and Sundays and €130 on Saturdays; single women pay €20–€50 depending on the evening; single men pay around €100. All prices are all-inclusive, covering unlimited bar service and the buffet. Around six newcomer trial evenings are held each year, and the weekly calendar features bi evenings, transgender nights, BDSM sessions, and themed special events.

Parenclub Showboat

Zaandijk, Noord-Holland

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Showboat is a swingers club housed aboard a moored vessel on the Lagedijk waterway in Zaandijk, Noord-Holland, roughly fifteen kilometres north of Amsterdam. The boat setting is the venue's defining feature, attracting visitors from across the wider Amsterdam region on a seven-day schedule that spans both daytime and late-night sessions. It operates as an all-inclusive club on most days, with entry covering food and drink. The upper deck forms the social core of the venue, combining a bar, a buffet of warm and cold dishes, a dance floor, and lounge seating fitted out in polished wood, copper accents, and deep-red upholstery. The lower deck is devoted to play, housing a BDSM room, a jacuzzi, a sauna, a Turkish steam bath, and several erotically themed rooms. Dress code — tight boxer shorts for men, lingerie for women — applies throughout the venue; first-timers are permitted to start the evening in street clothes at the bar. Secure clothing lockers and shower facilities are available. Themed Friday evenings rotate across SM/Fetish Play parties, Gangbang nights, and Bi Fabulous events, the latter restricted to women and bisexual men with heterosexual single men excluded. The club is open daily. Weekday daytime sessions run Monday and Tuesday 12:00–17:30 (couples €40, women/T-girls €15, men €92.50) and Thursday 13:00–21:30 (couples €72.50, women/T-girls €35, men €120). Wednesday extends to 23:30 with tiered pricing: couples €92.50 full day, dropping to €60 after 19:00. Fridays run 13:00–02:30 at €110 per couple, or from 21:00 on the first Friday of each month. Saturdays are evening-only, 21:00–04:30, with couples at €92.50. Sunday afternoons (15:00–21:30) admit couples and women free of charge against a minimum bar spend of €35 and €20 respectively. Single men may attend every session but must hold a prior reservation; walk-ins are turned away without exception. No admittance is given after 02:00.

Parenclub Ultimate Dream

Beek en Donk, Noord-Brabant

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Parenclub Ultimate Dream occupies a venue at Willemstraat 9B in Beek en Donk, a small Noord-Brabant municipality positioned roughly midway between Helmond and Eindhoven. The club draws couples and single women from the broader Brabant region — Den Bosch, Eindhoven, and Helmond are all within easy reach — and operates both lifestyle and kink programming: regular swinger nights run alongside dedicated BDSM evenings and fetish events, including an occasional X-Treme Fetish party. Multiple independent listings describe an interior combining a lounge, dance floor, bar, and buffet-style restaurant with two whirlpools and private rooms for couples seeking seclusion. Entry is all-inclusive: drinks, food, condoms, towels, and locker use are covered by the door price, a model confirmed consistently across sources. Staff welcome first-time visitors with a personal introduction and tour before the evening begins, contributing to a reputation for approachability. Confirmed hours are Saturday 20:00–02:00; Friday 19:00–01:00 appears in several directory listings but has not been verified against primary sources — check the event calendar before visiting. Couple entry was listed at €110 and single-woman entry at €55 for a Saturday event in May 2025; earlier third-party listings show lower figures and current pricing should be confirmed directly with the club. A stamp card rewards repeat visitors with complimentary entry after ten paid visits. From 22:30 a dress code applies: lingerie for women, underwear or boxers for men, with standard evening attire accepted on arrival before that threshold. Standard nights admit couples and single women only; single men may attend exclusively on themed evenings that explicitly permit their entry.

Partners Swingers Club

Bury, Greater Manchester

On-Premise Club

Set on a residential backstreet roughly a mile from Bury town centre in Greater Manchester, Partners has built a reputation as one of the North West's most-visited adult lifestyle clubs. The venue pitches itself as 'the UK's Premier Swingers Club,' having claimed the number one spot in the North West in both 2018 and 2019, and draws visitors from well beyond the region. Management's stated aim is a warm, friendly environment — guests are encouraged to socialise at the bar first and explore at their own pace — and the tone skews inclusive and unhurried rather than nightclub-loud. The club is open six nights a week on a rotating event schedule. Thursday hosts an inclusive bisexual-friendly evening run in partnership with Biphoria; Sunday is the couples and single females night; and weekend themes change week to week. Once a month the dungeon and play spaces are handed over to Kage Club for a dedicated BDSM play event. Standard entry opens at 8pm and runs to 3am, with tiered pricing at the door: couples pay £30 (members £25), single females £10 (members £5), and single males £40 (members £35). The wet zone — a swimming pool, bubbling jacuzzi, traditional sauna, and cool plunge pool — is the headline draw, and the club claims these facilities are unmatched in the UK. Beyond the water, the floor plan runs to a bar lounge with a pool table, group rooms designed for shared enjoyment, private cabins, a couples-only room with an adjoining viewing area, and a fully equipped dungeon. Outside drinks are welcome in the bar and lounge area in a BYOB arrangement. House rules are strictly enforced: consent is the operating principle throughout ('NO means NO'), single males are reminded their attendance is a privilege, cameras and phones are banned in play areas, CCTV covers all public spaces, and smoking is restricted to an outdoor area.

Pineapples Lifestyle Bar

South Melbourne, Victoria

On-Premise Club

Pineapples Lifestyle Bar occupies a two-storey building at 427 City Rd in South Melbourne's Montague Precinct, between York and Ferrars streets. Opened in August 2025 after the City of Port Phillip approved the venue 5–3 in June 2024 following a VCAT challenge by local residents, it holds a sex-on-premises permit and accommodates up to 200 patrons. It operates as a licensed adult lifestyle bar welcoming couples, solo women, and a restricted cohort of vetted solo men, positioning itself as a consent-focused environment for adult social exploration within the swinger, queer, LGBTQ+, and kink communities. The ground floor contains a licensed full-service bar and a performance stage used for live music, DJ sets, comedy, cabaret, and burlesque, with the format rotating by night. The upper floor is reserved for intimate activity and houses open play areas, private lockable rooms, bathrooms, unisex showers, and a VIP section. Refresh stations supply towels, condoms, lubricant, massage oil, and sanitary items throughout. Guests receive colour-coded wristbands indicating couple, solo-female, solo-male, or prefer-not-to-be-approached status; a black wristband signals a wish to decline physical advances. Volunteer consent angels circulate the floor to support guests. Complimentary all-night parking is available in front of the venue from 6 pm, and lockers are provided on an AUD$20 security deposit or credit-card/ID-hold basis. The club operates three nights per week: Thursdays 7 pm–midnight, Fridays 8 pm–2 am, and Saturdays 8 pm–2 am. Tickets must be purchased online in advance — walk-ins are never admitted. All first-time visitors must submit a membership application and complete a phone vetting call before any ticket purchase; solo males face an additional written questionnaire and in-person interview, and operate under a one-strike permanent-removal policy. Standard nights begin at AUD$20. Valid government-issued photo ID is required at the door. Phones and cameras must be secured in on-site lockers before entering the upper floor. The arrival dress code is smart-casual; upper-floor access requires dressing to lingerie, underwear, a provided towel, or bare skin. No outside alcohol is permitted, and a zero-tolerance drugs policy applies.

Play Champagne (The Champagne Club)

Columbus, OH

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Play Champagne says “We host UPSCALE on premise lifestyle events all over the Midwest”. It is an event organizer running complete hotel takeovers, restaurant and bar included, as two-day weekend events. Everyone attending must be a member and at least 21 with a valid state ID. The host hotels offer over 200 all-suite guestrooms and 10,000 sq ft of convention space. The club lists a five-story atrium entertainment area, a large dance floor with lifestyle DJs, an indoor pool with a topless-optional pool party and a hot tub open around the clock. Play areas include group and semi-private playrooms, themed playrooms and an expanded impact room, alongside couples classes, BDSM demos and a daily complimentary hot breakfast buffet. Couples and single women are admitted; single men attend only as VIPs or as sponsored guests of a couple or single woman, who must arrive, stay and leave with them. Applicants are screened against the DOJ Sexual Offenders Registry. The whole hotel is BYOB, with drinks carried into party areas in a tumbler and bottles and cans kept in the room, plus a hotel cash bar. There is no enforced dress code, though dress to impress is preferred. Sex is not allowed in common areas, the pool or the hot tub, and recreational drugs are never permitted.

PLUR Productions / Studio PLUR

Vancouver, British Columbia

Event Organizer

PLUR Productions describes itself as “a SEX+/ SOP Event production company” with the mission “Peace, Love, Unity, Respect.” It runs sex-on-premise events in Vancouver at affiliated venues. It is a private club where the door fee makes each guest a member for the day, and yearly memberships are also available. Studio PLUR is a separate bookable studio and dungeon space. Events have clearly marked play areas, lounge areas for conversation where sex is not allowed, a co-ed personal area with free lockers, bar snacks, and towels, condoms and lubricant, with a full bar at nights such as Vantanior. Some nights add a dungeon. Studio PLUR holds up to 40 guests and has a corner bar with a fridge, a lounge, an aftercare space, a DJ sound stage, a floor cage, a St. Andrews cross, stylized benches and rope-suspension hard points. Single men are always welcome, and the club says it welcomes all orientations and gender identities at the same admission fee. Guests must be 19 or older. Cupids brief every guest on the Top Ten Rules of Consent at the door, and all activity must be consensual. Open photography and video, including cell phones, are not allowed. Newcomers can attend the iCandy meet-and-mingle night on the second Friday of each month, which includes a venue tour and a presentation on club etiquette and the lifestyle.

PolyUrban Studios

Carmichael, CA

PolyUrban Studios is a home-based adult lifestyle space on North Avenue in Carmichael, California, run by owner Rey and open to singles, couples, and polycules of all orientations. The venue operates as a donation-funded club with lockers, showers, a hot tub, beds, a sling, play benches, a massage table, a rimming chair, gloryholes, and an outdoor play area with a separate shower. Towels, condoms, and lube are provided, and fetish wear is welcomed. The weekly calendar runs seven days: Sunday through Thursday the doors open at 11:30 a.m. and close at 10 p.m., while Friday and Saturday sessions run from 2 p.m. to 2 a.m. Themed parties rotate through the week — Sunday gloryhole and gangbang sessions, Monday-through-Thursday afternoon playdates, a Wednesday evening afterparty, a Thursday couples night, Freaky Friday parties, and Saturday dance nights with a DJ and a full bar on select evenings. Membership contributions start at $25 per person, $40 for couples, and $60 for triads, with a $10 happy-hour rate between noon and 1 p.m. The atmosphere is explicitly pressure-free: no participation is required, and the posted house rules lead with No means no — ask for consent. Cameras and recording devices are banned, smoking is permitted outside only, and the doorman reserves the right to refuse entry. Guests must be 18 or older, and drugs and prostitution are strictly prohibited. Contact is by text or voicemail at (916) 410-6550.

Purple Mamba Club

West Bridgford, Nottinghamshire

On-Premise Club

Purple Mamba Club describes itself as a “Private Members Club for Liberated Adults”. It is a club at the rear of 3-5 Radcliffe Road in West Bridgford, Nottingham, and it opens Thursday to Sunday. The club says it is aimed primarily at couples, accepts single women and single men as members, and is managed by a female staff leader. The venue has a fully stocked licensed members bar, which also serves non-alcoholic drinks and coffees, and private rooms that run “from the romantic to kink focused”. Lockers and a reception security box hold phones and cameras, and condoms are free. The calendar mixes themed parties run by hosts with kink nights, plus workshops for newcomer couples, single women and single men. Membership is required for club events. Applications are made in person with photo ID, not online, and not everyone is accepted; new members serve a 48-hour probationary period. Single men face very limited places and an interview. Entry is for over-21s, large groups are refused, and singles are limited on Friday and Saturday nights. Management can refuse entry for work wear, dirty or casual clothing. House rules include consent at all times, no cameras or recording devices without permission, no smoking or vaping, and confidentiality.

Quest Swingers Club

Leeds, West Yorkshire

Private members' society

Quest Swingers Club is a private members' society on Low Road in the Hunslet district of south Leeds, founded by couple Jo and Dave — who began hosting lifestyle parties from home in 1999 — and formally opened in November 2001. Now in its third decade, the club accommodates up to 200 guests per session and welcomes open-minded couples and singles aged 21 and over. Its programme spans mainstream swinging nights, dedicated bisexual evenings, events for T-Girls, cross-dressers and their admirers, fetish and kink sessions, and a calendar of themed costume parties, making it one of the more programmatically diverse clubs in West Yorkshire. The venue is arranged around a main social lounge, a licensed bar, the Red Room, and a Jacuzzi Lounge. The wet area houses an eight-person hot tub, hot-and-cold showers, a sauna, and a steam room; sexual activity in the hot tub is explicitly prohibited. Dungeon equipment is available on site, and member reviews cite a cinema room as a popular feature. Separate spacious changing facilities serve all genders and lockers are provided. An on-site car park screened from the road offers convenient private access. The layout is largely wheelchair-navigable: corridors are wide and an accessible restroom is available. Staff walk new visitors through the venue before each session, and every night opens as a social gathering, with anything further governed entirely by individual consent. Sessions run six days a week. Daytime sessions — Wednesday Afternoon Fun (11:00–18:00), Friday Afternoon Fun (11:00–18:00), and Funday Sunday (13:00–22:00) — are open to non-members and priced at £15 per couple, £10 for single females, and £25 for single males. Bi Tuesdays (11:00–23:00) and Thursday Afternoon (T-Girls, CDs & Admirers, 11:00–18:00) are also open to non-members at equivalent rates. The members-only Midweek Chill Night (Wednesday evenings, 19:00–23:00) is £20 per couple, £10 for single females, and £30 for single males. Alternate-Saturday M&N Party Nights (20:30–02:00) are members-only at around £30 per couple and £30–35 for single males. Membership costs £10 for couples, £5 for ladies, and £25 for single males. All visitors must present valid physical photo ID; digital copies are not accepted. Mobile phones, cameras, and recording devices must be switched off and kept out of sight throughout a visit.

Ragazza Club

Rehlingen-Siersburg, Saarland

On-Premise Club

Ragazza Club occupies a 650-square-metre industrial unit on the quiet Dürrfeldslach estate on the edge of Rehlingen-Siersburg — reached from junction 7 of the A8, past the Aral station and the Aldi, then right into the street where the club takes the second-to-last building on the left. The interior spans two floors and ten play areas: a full-service bar and hot-and-cold buffet room sets a sociable, unhurried tone at ground level, with a cuddle corner, a dedicated couples' zone, a whirlpool, a sauna, a lockable private play room, a BDSM area, a darkroom, and three love swings fanning out across the two floors. Ample parking — including bays sized for campervans and motorhomes — reflects the fact that the Ragazza draws visitors from across the Saarland and has been described by Saarbrücker Zeitung as one of the largest swinger meeting points in the region. Owner Carina Kemmerling runs the club under a self-described 's3xpositive' philosophy: sex is treated as something natural and consensual, professional sex workers are explicitly prohibited, and the house tone leans firmly toward community rather than commerce. All entry is all-inclusive — drinks, the buffet, sauna and whirlpool access, hygiene supplies, condoms, and unlimited towels are folded into the admission price, and lockable lockers take care of valuables. First-time visitors are walked through a guided tour and orientation before the evening gets going; the team draws consistent praise in reviews for a family-like welcome, and the club offers private rental of the full venue for groups wanting the space to themselves. The club opens every day of the week. Monday-to-Thursday afternoon sessions (14:00–21:00) keep things quieter and are available for private hire, while the main weekend nights run Friday 16:00–02:00 and Saturday 16:00–03:00; Sunday follows the weekday pattern (14:00–21:00). Admission starts from €15 for women, €60 for men and couples, with LGBTQIA+ guests priced by their identified gender and same-sex couples at the couple rate. Pre-registration is recommended, though same-day entry is possible subject to capacity. The dress code runs smart-casual for men and erotic-leaning for women — lingerie, dresses, or heels; street shoes are not permitted inside the venue.

Red Room Nashville

Nashville, TN

Members-Only Event Host

Red Room Nashville describes itself as “an exclusive, members-only forum” that holds private in-person events. It hosts weekly themed events at a partner host venue, and its rules mention Saturday events and a Newbie Night on Fridays. The host venue offers “an amazing area to socialize, dance, have more private small group interactions, or lounge together in larger groups.” Features include a professional DJ and large LED dance floor, VIP and reserved tables with soft seating, a ladies-only dressing suite, lounge areas and private rooms. A designated Couples Play Area is two in, two out, and full nudity is limited to the back play areas; topless is allowed in the main bar and dance-floor area. Couples, single women and single men are admitted, but single men wear a wristband and stay in the bar-side area unless a couple or group invites them elsewhere. Everyone must be an approved member (24-hour approval wait) before buying a ticket, and there are no walk-ins. Guests bring their own drinks, with mixers provided. Dress should suit “an upscale restaurant, high-end nightclub, or special date night,” and management can refuse entry over attire. Rules include asking before touching, keeping activity above the waist in the main area and phones on the table or put away.