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Club Le Baron

Heerewaarden, Gelderland

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Club Le Baron, also trading as Parenclub Le Baron and Le Baron A2, occupies a stand-alone building at Heerewaardensestraat 40 in the small riverside village of Heerewaarden, on the Gelderland-Noord-Brabant border, immediately accessible from the A2 motorway. The location places it roughly twenty kilometres north of Den Bosch and within an hour of Utrecht, Eindhoven, and Arnhem. Free on-site parking is available. The club admits couples, single women, and single men, and frames its guiding principle as geen nonsens: no obligations to participate, no requirement to undress. It is open every day of the week, a schedule the owners present as a deliberate distinction from venues that operate weekends only. The social area contains a bar, a restaurant serving a complimentary hot and cold buffet, an outdoor terrace, a dance floor with a pole, a separate adult film room, and a dedicated smoking area. All visitors have free use of a jacuzzi, sauna, and multiple shower facilities. Lockers are provided for personal belongings, and condoms and towels are supplied. The play section consists of several lockable private rooms fitted with large beds, mirrored walls and ceilings, and viewing windows described on the venue site as gluuropeningen, allowing observation from the corridor outside. Staff are consistently described in visitor accounts as approachable and welcoming. The weekly schedule runs Monday through Thursday 11:00-01:00, Friday 11:00-03:00, Saturday 20:00-03:00, and Sunday 14:00-21:00. Entry for women and mixed couples is free, subject to a per-person minimum bar spend of 21 EUR; single men pay a flat 75 EUR entry fee with no consumption minimum attached. Under the published pricing policy, two men arriving together are not classified as a couple. The buffet, sauna, jacuzzi, and parking are included for every visitor. Themed special events are held periodically with separate pricing; reservations may be required for those nights. The venue currently requests cash payment, citing intermittent card-terminal failures.

Club M4 (Menage a Quatre)

Mississauga, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Club M4 (Ménage à Quatre) describes itself as “an on-premise swingers club” in Mississauga, Ontario. It is a private club that requires a membership of every guest, opens seven days a week with afternoon and evening sessions, and says it opened in 2008. The venue covers about 10,000 square feet, which the club lists as a licensed bar, a lounge, a dance floor and play areas, with about 5,000 square feet of play space. The locker room has 196 lockers, showers and vanity areas, and attendants hand out towels. A VIP Red Room with a king-size bed and private play equipment can be rented, and themed parties run through the year, including a monthly Young Swingers Society night for couples in their 20s and 30s. Single women are welcome at every session, and single men are admitted except on Saturday evenings and New Year's Eve, when a couple may bring a single male guest who stays with them in the play areas. Membership is sold only in person at a first visit, and every attendee is given a tour. Drinks are bought at the club's two bars. The club recommends business casual for men and sexy club wear for women, with a towel or lingerie required in the play areas. Consent is monitored and enforced, and phones in the play areas can cost a member their membership.

On-Premise Club

Club Nine is an invite-only adult lifestyle venue operating in Melbourne's inner east, near Kew, positioning itself as an intimate alternative to the city's larger clubs. Attendance at each event is capped at around 20 guests and limited to adults aged 20–45 who have cleared a personal application process — recent photographs and a short written introduction — before receiving an invitation. Couples and single women are considered on a rolling basis; single men face a more selective review. The venue address is disclosed to confirmed bookings only. The venue occupies a multi-level residential property. A ground-floor lounge serves as the social space and the only area where food and drinks are consumed; upstairs rooms include a Master Suite, the Midnight Chamber, and a fully equipped BDSM Play Room. All phones and recording devices are surrendered at the door and held securely for the duration of the event. Alcohol is BYO — no glassware is permitted anywhere in the venue, and only light-coloured drinks are allowed. The house supplies condoms, lubricants, single-use disposable towels, complimentary soft drinks, and bottled water. Events run on an almost-weekly schedule across several formats: Exclusive Circles for couples and single ladies only, MFM Evenings with vetted single men admitted at a 1:1 ratio against attending ladies, and a rotating calendar of themed and kink-oriented nights. Full event details and dates are distributed by email to approved members only — no public calendar exists. Entry prices vary by event: AUD $100–$150 per couple, free to $50 for single women, and $250–$300 for single men. Pre-booking is mandatory; no walk-ins or door sales are accepted. Cancellations made at least three days in advance receive a refund minus a 10% processing fee, or a six-month event credit in lieu; cancellations within three days are non-refundable.

Club NV

Muncie, IN

On-Premise Club

Club NV describes itself as “a private Lifestyle club owned and operated by a lifestyle couple”. It hosts its nights at 400 S. Lincoln St. in Muncie, Indiana, open Saturday nights only, and membership is available to anyone 21 or older who is in or interested in the lifestyle and has no record of violent or sexual crimes. The club says about 95% of its members are married couples. The venue covers about 10,000 square feet with a DJ, dance floor, video screens and lockers (guests bring a padlock), plus a fountain machine with Coke products, ice, cups, coolers and snacks that the entry fee includes. Downstairs play areas are part of the venue, and a large fenced, partially covered patio with a fire pit is the smoking area. Fenced parking is available on site. A monthly meet-and-greet discount party runs alongside the regular Saturdays. New members show photo ID and sign a membership agreement on their first visit, which also includes a tour; management can revoke membership at any time. Event entry is priced separately for couples, single men and single ladies. The club is BYOB and serves no alcohol, has no strict dress code, and allows no smoking indoors, no entry after midnight and no overnight stays under state fire code. It also says “NO always means NO”.

Club Paradise

Amsterdam, North Holland

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Club Paradise occupies an intentionally inconspicuous address on Schaafstraat in Amsterdam-Noord — an industrial pocket north of the IJ waterway — and operates as one of the city's established lifestyle clubs for couples and singles. The venue markets itself as 'de mooiste parenclub van Amsterdam' (Amsterdam's finest couples club) and has built its reputation on upscale facilities, a rotating programme of themed events, and an atmosphere that positions itself as sensual rather than hectic. First-time visitors are offered a guided walkthrough of the space on arrival. The interior is spacious and atmospheric, anchored by a dance floor, a full bar serving cocktails and snacks, and large U-shaped sofas that allow groups to gather comfortably. Dedicated facilities include a heated swimming pool, sauna and Turkish steam bath, a darkroom, a kinky cage, multiple private lockable rooms, open erotic areas and relaxation spaces. A rooftop smoking area is reached by three flights of stairs. Secure lockers hold street clothes and valuables, and condoms are distributed throughout the erotic areas. The crowd tends to dress deliberately — lingerie and provocative attire for women, boxers or similarly revealing clothing for men — and the overall aesthetic is high-effort. Makeup artists and massage services appear at select special events. The venue runs Friday through Sunday. Friday brings the recurring After Three afternoon party, opening at 15:00 and running to 03:00. Saturday nights (20:00–03:00) host themed Couples Paradise events, restricted to couples and single women; entry is €100 per couple and €50 for a single woman, with single men barred from Saturday admission. Sundays (15:00–23:00) run Afterglow in Paradise sessions — open to couples, single women and single men — with the third Sunday of each month reserved for a dedicated BDSM edition. Entry on Saturdays includes a hot and cold buffet; Fridays and Sundays include finger food. Prices may vary on special-event nights as noted on event flyers. Payment is by debit card or cash only; credit cards are not accepted.

Club Paradise Lingen

Lingen, Lower Saxony

On-Premise Club

Club Paradise is a lifestyle swinger club occupying roughly 800 square metres at Friedrich-Ebert-Straße 115a in Lingen, a town in the Emsland district of Lower Saxony near the Dutch border. The club presents itself as the only swinger club in the Emsland region — a claim repeated in local press coverage — and its stated ethos, ‘you arrive as a guest and leave as a friend,’ anchors an atmosphere oriented toward sociability as much as play. A Dutch-language companion site (club-paradise-lingen.nl) runs alongside the primary German domain, reflecting cross-border clientele from the Netherlands. The venue is arranged across multiple levels and a basement. A bar and lounge area serves as the social centrepiece; a dedicated couples’ floor holds private lockable rooms alongside themed shared spaces; a basement BDSM room is described as equipped for kink in a ‘safe and stylish environment.’ A buffet dining area is kept structurally separate from play spaces by house rule. Changing rooms with secure lockers, disinfection stations throughout the facility, and a designated outdoor smoking terrace handle the practical side. On certain event nights a DJ, dance floor, and a foam area feature in the programme; the site also references a summer garden. The club operates on an event calendar rather than fixed nightly hours. Fridays run 20:00–02:00, Saturdays 20:00–03:00. Monthly additions include a BDSM Sunday (first Sunday, 14:00–21:00), a wellness afternoon (second Sunday, 13:00–19:00), a Hotwife evening on the second Wednesday (18:00–23:00), and a Frivolous Wednesday with sauna on the fourth Wednesday (18:00–23:00). Pricing is tiered by gender and event type: on a standard Friday women pay €20, couples €45, and single men €55; Saturday rates rise to €45 for women and €110 for both couples and single men. Hotwife nights admit women free, with men at €80 and couples at €35. The admission price covers all drinks and the full buffet. Cash only — no card payments are accepted.

On-Premise Club

Club Play describes itself as “a private members swinger club in Blackpool”, hosting parties and themed events at its Blackpool premises on Friday and Saturday nights, with Sunday openings only on selected Bank Holiday and special-event dates. Membership is free and required for entry, and members also get an online community with profiles, forums and chat. The venue has a mixed locker room with showers, a four-person Jacuzzi and a sauna, a private changing room for T-girls, and play areas including The Stage, a Couples Orgy Room, a Burlesque Gangbang Room, a Bi Orgy Room, a Voyeur Room with a two-way window, a Massage Spa Play Room, a Neon UV Room, a Cinema Room, The Snug and glory holes. The Dungeon is built in an original cellar, with a Kink Room for the softer side of BDSM. The club admits couples, single women, single men and T-girls, with single men capped to a “healthy ratio” as the club monitors the guest list, and new members are shown around by a tour guide. It says it is licensed to sell alcohol on Friday and Saturday nights. The Dungeon, Wet room and Darkroom are dress-down areas, and cameras and phones for photos are banned. “NO MEANS NO” is the main rule, and breaking it or the zero-tolerance drug rule means removal and a lifetime ban.

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Club Princeton describes itself as “a private members only LifeStyle Club” and hosts on-premises parties in Columbus, Ohio, on Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights; its About page says it opened in September 2002. The first-floor dance area has a live DJ, a stage, VIP seating, dance cages and a bar, and the second floor has a large VIP room with a bar and fireplace and a BDSM Dungeon Room. Play areas include a 45 degree Stairway to Heaven, a Doctor's exam table, a small jail cell and the Players Club Room with multi-tiered loungers; its FAQ adds a pool table, two 6 person Jacuzzi/spas and a shower area. Thursdays are Social Swinger nights, with themed parties on Fridays and Saturdays. Members must be 25 or older, apply online and be approved before a first visit, which includes photo ID, a short interview and a tour. Single men are not admitted on Saturdays unless accompanied by a couple with an existing, long term membership. The club does not sell liquor; members bring their own, check it in at the bar and drink inside or on the patio. Its dress code is “Dress to Impress with sexy club wear,” with athletic shoes and ball caps barred. Touching without permission and bringing phones, cameras or weapons can end memberships; intoxicated members are asked to leave.

Club Privata

Portland, OR

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Club Privata says it provides “an Adult experience in a non-judgemental setting.” It is an on-premise, members-only, 21-and-over lifestyle nightclub in Portland, open Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights. The venue covers 8,000 square feet over three levels, with two full bars, a dining area, a live DJ, a dance floor with a cage and a VIP suite on the third floor. More than 20 beds are spread across a couples-only lounge on the first floor, rooms with doors that close on the second, and a second couples-only lounge with three private rooms on the third, which stays closed on Thursdays. Lockers on all three floors and a coat check come at no cost, showers with towels are on the first floor, and recurring nights include a monthly couples and single women event and a twice-monthly Newbie's Night. Most events require an active membership, a signed waiver, valid ID at every visit and a nightly door fee; members' guests may attend once before joining. Single men and single women are welcome, though single men pay higher fees and the monthly couples and single women night excludes them. Outside liquor is not allowed because the bars sell beer, wine and spirits. The club's dress code will be strictly enforced, and it bans cell phones, photography, vapes, marijuana and weapons; rule breakers are removed without refund.

Club Rendezvous (Club R)

Calgary, Alberta

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Club Rendezvous — known to members simply as Club R — is Alberta's longest-running lifestyle club, welcoming Calgary's open-minded community since 1983. Under Ryan and Alicia's ownership since 2012, it has grown into a fully licensed, AGLC-compliant venue that holds a 4.7-star Google rating across more than 180 reviews. The club spans two floors in a northeast Calgary building with a free parking lot right out front. Downstairs is the social heart of the night: a large dance floor with a stripper pole, a DJ booth spinning dance and house sets, a well-stocked licensed bar with a kitchen area for mixing your own drinks, plus a long community table and lounge booths lining the room for easy mingling between sets. Upstairs opens into the play area — an airy, open-concept space furnished with mattresses, beds, couches and a sex swing, where curtains pull closed around the beds whenever you want a more private, semi-secluded moment. The space is known for being spotlessly clean and is wheelchair accessible, with accessible seating, a lift and an accessible restroom. Club R is open every Friday and Saturday from 9 PM to 3 AM, with workshops and social events on select weeknights (roughly 7–11 PM). Rather than generic theme nights, it runs curated Club R Signature Events™, each built around a distinct energy and flow. Long-running favourites include First Time Friday for newcomers (meet, play, explore); Unicorn Friday, where single ladies get in free all night with a paid membership; the Saturday Lingerie Dance Party; the always-popular Little Black Dress "Midnight Seduction"; Taboo Friday; and dedicated Newbie & Member Appreciation nights. Entry is membership-based and capacity-controlled to protect the room's quality and balance: memberships start at $9.95 for a week and scale to $100 for the year (CAD), with event admission around $60 per couple and $30 per single. Couples and single women are the priority crowd, while single men are admitted in limited, screened numbers each event. The "dress to impress" code is genuinely enforced — upscale, sexy and theme-appropriate, with no tank tops, sideways hats, workout wear or sweatpants, work boots, exposed chains or man bags. Just as importantly, Club R runs on a consent-first culture where respect, privacy and enthusiastic consent are non-negotiable, backed by clear house rules and etiquette that underpin its Safe Space Alliance recognition. The team is famously warm with first-timers, and the club welcomes all bodies, genders, orientations and experience levels (18+) — part of why a community of roughly 5,100 keeps coming back. Members can also visit Club R's sister location in Edmonton, extending the same vetted, inclusive lifestyle experience across Alberta.

Club Risqué

Dunedin, Otago

On-Premise Club

Club Risqué occupies the top floor of 1 Liverpool Street in central Dunedin, operating as an on-premise adult lifestyle venue for swinging, kink, and BDSM interests. Per its own about page, the club welcomes couples, single women, single men (by approved RSVP), and trans and non-binary individuals exploring open-relationship dynamics or power exchange. The venue is arranged into a licensed cocktail lounge with a tab-based bar system, multiple private play areas, a BDSM dungeon, and secure numbered lockers issued on a bracelet-key system. Safe sex supplies — condoms in multiple sizes, dental dams, gloves, and lube — are provided and distributed throughout. Third-party listings additionally reference an orgy room, a grope cage, and on-site showers; these have not been confirmed from the club's own published content. Mobile phones are collected at the door on arrival and held by staff for retrieval on request; cameras and all recording devices are banned outright. The club runs a named-event programme rather than fixed nightly hours. Regular fixtures include Risqué Saturday, Frisky Friday, Dunedin Sex Party nights, and the age-capped Young Swingers (18–35); the kink-focused Sub Space events carry a mandatory leather/latex/all-black dress code. All events run 21:00–03:00. Advance tickets are priced at NZD $100 per couple, $50 for single women, and $100 for single men; door prices rise to $125, $75, and $125 respectively. Single men require an approved RSVP before purchasing a ticket. Event bookings and RSVP coordination are handled via the club website, Fetlife, and Kiwi Swingers.

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Club Safe Word describes itself as “a members-only community for adult lifestyle minded individuals” of all genders and orientations, and calls itself San Diego’s private lifestyle club. It hosts meet and greets and private events, and its San Diego calendar lists karaoke and comedy evenings, costume parties and rope practice sessions, some of them co-hosted or run by other community groups. The club publishes no street address. The club says its meet and greets, which are non-play events, help validate new members, and it recommends that members attend at least one before joining private events, whatever their experience. Joining starts with a free profile and an approval process that asks for photos, one of which must clearly show the face and may be kept private. A paid membership adds site features and event discounts but does not include event admission. Its rules ask for an enthusiastic yes and treat any gray area as a no, and they bar drugs and prostitution and, unless an event says otherwise, cameras and recording devices. Overly intoxicated guests are asked to leave or denied entry, couples are asked to arrive and depart together, and breaking club or event rules can mean removal from an event or from the club.

Club Sapphire

Tukwila, WA

On-Premise Club

Club Sapphire describes itself as “a private club for consensual, non-monogamous members.” It hosts parties at its Tukwila, Washington venue, between Seattle, Bellevue and SeaTac Airport, is primarily a couples' club that also welcomes singles, and requires a membership to attend. Parties run Wednesday through Saturday. It has about 10,000 square feet of party space, with a dance floor, a DJ and playrooms, from multi-bed group rooms to one- or two-bed rooms, plus a room for voyeurs. There is a co-ed locker room, a co-ed shower, towels, free parking, a light buffet and free sodas, coffee, tea and water. The Side Piece Lounge, a speakeasy inside the club, has a bar and three rooms with seating for 8, 10 and 12. Guests must be 21 or older with photo ID, and new members complete a brief orientation at their first event. Singles are welcome, though approved single men may attend only in limited numbers when single female attendance allows, with a confirmed ticket after a mandatory orientation. Dress is for a night on the town: baggy sweats, dirty clothing, casual wear and baseball hats are not allowed. House rules require permission before touching, ban illegal drugs and weapons, deny entry to anyone who arrives intoxicated, and prohibit photography or phone use in social areas and playrooms.

Club Triple XTC

Regina, Saskatchewan

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Club Triple XTC says it provides “a fun safe environment for people to explore fantasies & pleasure” at private events it hosts several times a year for guests from across Saskatchewan and beyond. It runs three kinds of events at a local lounge, private houses and hotel suites; its About page says it began with a hot tub party at the organizers' home in 2012. Sociables meet-and-greet nights are held at a local lounge for anyone new and curious. Private hot tub parties are house parties that cater mostly to women and couples. Hotel theme events fill entire hotel floors with themed rooms, plus exotic dance performances. Its FAQ describes a designated social area where sexual activity does not occur, several play rooms, a pole, a bar area with a hired bartender, and security staff. Attending requires a free membership application that is screened for suitability, and the location is emailed once a guest is approved. Couples, triads and single women of any gender identity or orientation are welcome; only a few select single men are admitted, if known in the lifestyle community or sponsored by a member. Guests must be over 19, with photo ID checked at the door. Drinks are bring-your-own, phones and cameras are banned, and illegal drugs and extreme BDSM are not allowed.

Club Z

Unverified

Columbus, OH

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Billed as the Ultimate Interracial Lifestyle Club in Central Ohio, Club Z has carved out a singular niche in Columbus's lifestyle scene by centering racial diversity and interracial connection at its core. Operated by Angela and Edwin from a private residential location in the greater Columbus area, the club deliberately keeps its address off public listings — members receive it only after their application clears a mandatory telephone interview. That screening process sets the tone: this is not a walk-in venue. The atmosphere is described consistently as sensual, inviting, and intimate, closer in feel to an upscale house party than a commercial nightclub. Membership is open to couples, single females, and select single males sponsored as guests of member couples — a policy that keeps the guest list curated and the ratio balanced. The club operates on a BYOB basis and runs monthly Saturday-night parties capped at 35 to 40 guests, a deliberately small number that reinforces the private-party atmosphere. Prospective members must be 21 or older and present a valid photo ID. The club carries a NASCA International affiliation. Club Z's identity is built around discretion and a no-pressure philosophy: members socialise and play at their own level of comfort. The intimate scale — unlike the large commercial clubs in Columbus — is a deliberate differentiator. Contact runs through 614-361-5900 and ClubZZebra@aol.com; the club's website at clubzzebra.com does not currently resolve.

colette Austin

Austin, TX

On-Premise Club

colette Austin describes itself as “a private membership only on-premise social club” for couples, single men and women who are active in or curious about the swinging, polyamorous or open-relationship lifestyles. It is a 21-and-over club that opens Wednesday through Saturday nights, with special nights posted on its events list. The club's feature list names a dance floor with high-tech lighting, a DJ mixing dance music and party favorites, a lounge, a second-floor lounge with a “sexy vibe,” lockers and valet parking, and the venue is non-smoking. Birthday and special-occasion parties get a reserved area with balloons and mixers. Couples, single men and single women are admitted, but single men come Wednesday through Friday only; Saturday is for couples and single women. Membership is applied for in person with ID and reviewed by staff. No alcohol is sold, but guests may bring their own, with set-ups and ice available. Guests are asked to dress “as though you were going out to an upscale restaurant or nightclub,” with fetish, leather and gothic wear welcome, and a strict dress policy for single men. Photos are limited to designated photo-op areas, and anyone behaving inappropriately is asked to leave.

colette Dallas

Dallas, TX

On-Premise Club

colette Dallas describes itself as “a private membership only on-premise social club” for couples, single men and women who are active in or curious about the swinging, polyamorous or open relationship lifestyles. The Dallas, Texas club opens Wednesday through Saturday nights and says it offers a “safe, friendly and upscale atmosphere.” The venue has a dance floor with a DJ, high-tech lighting, lockers, a lounge, a second-floor lounge, bar staff and security staff. A private VIP room for parties of up to 30, with couch seating, a bar area and a music system, can be rented. Recurring nights include a Wednesday Newbie Night, Thirty Dollar Thursday and Pantiless Fridays, alongside themed parties. Couples, single women and single men are admitted, but single men only Wednesday through Friday; Saturday is for couples and single women. Guests must be 21 or older and have a membership, which they can apply for online or in person at the club with ID. The club does not sell alcohol; guests may bring their own, and set-ups, ice and free mixers are provided. Attire should suit an upscale restaurant or nightclub, and single men must wear a collared shirt or full button-down, slacks or nice jeans and dress shoes. Anyone behaving inappropriately is asked to leave.

colette New Orleans

New Orleans, LA

On-Premise Club

colette New Orleans describes itself as “a private membership only on-premise social club” for couples, single men and single women who are active in or curious about the swinging, polyamorous or open-relationship lifestyles. It is at 822 Gravier Street in New Orleans and opens Wednesday through Saturday nights, with a calendar of themed nights that includes a newbie night and Pantiless Fridays. Its site calls the club a place to meet in a “safe, friendly and upscale atmosphere.” The venue has a dance floor with a DJ, a lounge and a second-floor lounge, lockers and a beverage cooler, with staff and security on site. It is non-smoking, and free mixers and set-ups are provided. Entry is for guests 21 and older and requires a membership, which can be taken as a one-night trial, a three-month plan or a one-year plan. Single men are admitted Wednesday through Friday but not on Saturdays, which are for couples and single women. Alcohol is not sold, so guests bring their own; plastic and styrofoam coolers are not allowed. Dress is upscale restaurant or nightclub attire, with fetish, leather and gothic wear welcome and a strictly enforced code for single men. Photos are only allowed in designated photo areas, and groups of three or more must all know each other.

colette San Antonio

San Antonio, TX

On-Premise Social Club

colette San Antonio describes itself as “a private membership only on-premise social club” for couples, single men and women who are active in or curious about the swinging, polyamorous or open relationship lifestyles. It is at 11431 Perrin Beitel Rd. in San Antonio, Texas, and opens Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights. The venue is a non-smoking space with a dance floor, high-tech lighting and a DJ who mixes dance music and party favorites. It also lists lockers, a bar with staff, set-ups and ice for guests' own drinks, and staff and security it calls “friendly.” Recurring nights include Newbie Nights for new couples on some Thursdays, with special event nights posted on its calendar. Entry requires membership, and patrons must be 21 or older with photo ID. Single men are admitted Thursday and Friday but not Saturday, which is for couples and single women only. The club is BYOB: it neither sells nor serves alcohol, provides free mixers and set-ups (premium mixers cost extra), and bans plastic and styrofoam coolers. It asks guests to dress “as though you were going out to an upscale restaurant or nightclub,” says it is “very strict” about its dress requirements for single men, and allows photos only in designated photo areas.

Cupids Swingers Club

Swinton, Greater Manchester

On-Premise Club

Cupids Swingers Club uses the tagline “Where open minded adults meet”. It is an adults-only, on-premise club in Swinton, Greater Manchester, open evenings seven days a week with daytime sessions Tuesday to Saturday, and its pages say it has been established for over 30 years. Guests must be 21 or older with photo ID. The venue has private, lockable themed playrooms with mirrored ceilings, an XL couples' room, a dungeon, an open-play bed and a glory-hole area, plus a licensed UV bar, pool table, dance floor with a spinning pole, sauna, showers and separate couples' and singles' changing rooms. A small heated courtyard serves smokers. Each guest gets a locker and towel, and the locker key works as a bar tab. The club's pages also list a Wednesday couples and single females night, themed parties and live DJs. Entry to advertised events is by guestlist booking. Couples and single females register free for 12 months, and single men join as paid members or enter as guests, though the club says guestlist does not guarantee them entry because it manages the ratio of men to women. No outside drinks are allowed, phones and cameras stay in lockers, and dress is underwear, lingerie or a towel, with fancy dress only at themed events. Consent must be given verbally, no means no and offenders are barred, there is zero tolerance for illegal drugs, and new guests are not expected to join in.

Curious Club

Barwell, Leicestershire

On-Premise Club

Curious Club describes itself as “a private members-only social club” in Barwell, Leicestershire, housed in a converted former pub. It opens on Friday and Saturday nights, with special and themed event nights listed on its calendar. The venue has a licensed bar, lounge areas, a light-snacks menu served in the bar and lounge only, showers, numbered lockers issued at reception, dedicated play spaces and a covered outdoor smoking area, with cleaning supplies and bins provided throughout. On some special nights the club opens to the public as a social area and bar. Couples, single women, single men and CD/TV guests are all admitted at their own rates, but entry runs on a ratio system that never guarantees a place and may be adjusted for themed events. Members must be 21 or over, apply in advance and show valid photo ID on a first visit, when the team offers a guided tour. The bar is the only source of alcohol, as no other alcohol is allowed on the premises, and anyone who appears intoxicated or on drugs is refused entry. Phones stay in the secure lockers, cameras and recording devices are banned, and no activity takes place in the bar, reception or outside area.

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DB Socials holds a singular distinction in New England: it is the region's longest-running on-premise lifestyle party, operating continuously since June 1999 — first out of Bridgewater, then quietly relocating to its current private location in Grafton, a suburb in Worcester County about an hour west of Boston. Host Barry has run every event since inception, and the format has stayed deliberately unchanged across more than two decades: small, intimate gatherings for full-swap couples and single women, designed to feel nothing like a commercial nightclub. Events run bi-monthly, opening at 7PM with a floating close around 11PM-midnight. There is no door charge; in lieu of a fee, guests are asked to bring food or snacks to share, along with their own beverage — alcohol is welcome, though intoxication is not. Music plays throughout and adult movies provide ambient backdrop, but the atmosphere is casual and relaxed. The emphasis is on a small, intimate group setting rather than a large-scale venue experience. First-timers are welcome, but entry requires a brief phone call first — Barry needs to hear a woman's voice before directions to the private address are given out. That one rule says a great deal about DB Socials: a community built on trust and continuity, self-selecting for people who take the courtesy call seriously. Events are fully non-smoking throughout.

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Decadance is a three-floor swingers club at 122 Durham Street in Rochdale, Greater Manchester, that has been operating for over a decade — its fourteenth birthday falls in September 2026. The club runs on a no-membership, no-guestlist model and opens four nights a week. Self-described as female-run, it centres its ethos on consent, safety, and a relaxed social atmosphere. The venue spans three floors of a converted building. The ground floor holds a fully licensed bar, a pool table, toilets, and sauna; the first floor, reached by a steep staircase, contains the playrooms, shower facilities, and an outdoor balcony — the designated smoking area and the only space where mobile phones may be used. The basement is reached via a very steep curved staircase and houses the BDSM dungeon. Towels, lockers, and condoms are included in the entry price, as is pool-table use. Photography and recording are banned throughout the venue. The weekly schedule runs Monday Funday (13:00–18:00), Friday Night Madness (20:00–02:00), SeXXXy Saturday (20:00–02:00), and Spicy Sunday (15:00–22:00). The first Friday of each month hosts a dedicated newcomer night called Cherry Popper. No membership is required. Entry is £25 for single men (£20 on Sundays and Mondays), £15 for couples (£10 on Sundays and Mondays), £10 for trans guests, and always free for single women. A Challenge 25 ID policy is in operation; only passports and driving licences are accepted. Casual dress is permitted in the bar and social areas, but playroom access requires changing into underwear, a towel, fetish wear, or nudity — street clothes are not allowed upstairs. A zero-tolerance drugs policy results in a lifetime ban and referral to police.

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Devious Adelaide is a quarterly BDSM and kink event series in Adelaide, South Australia, run by Nick (he/him) and Pixie-Sky (they/them), who describe themselves as "lovers, teachers, performers and Adelaide event creators." Events are held at a hired boutique venue at 57 Manton St in Hindmarsh, immediately west of the city centre, and are positioned explicitly as kink parties rather than sex parties. The organisers describe the space as safe and deliberately inclusive — queer-friendly by stated design, open under the tagline "18+. Queer AF!" — with a welcoming stance toward both newcomers and experienced kinksters. The Hindmarsh venue is fitted out with a curated range of play equipment including suspension frames, a wax play area, a medical zone, and a dedicated pup play space, alongside a dance floor serviced by resident DJ Kev. Free parking is available on surrounding streets. All tickets are sold in advance through the Devious Adelaide Humanitix host page — no door sales are offered — and doors close at 10pm. Refunds are available up to seven days before each event. Parties run on Saturday nights from 8pm to 1am ACST/ACDT and follow a consistent "D" naming pattern: past editions include DESIRE, DEBAUCHERY, DEVOUR and DEPRAVITY. Ticket prices are tiered by release window. Each party is preceded by a complimentary one-hour skills workshop from 7pm to 8pm — covering topics such as consent negotiation and scene planning — for which a separate free ticket must be reserved in advance as spots are limited.