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Red Room Nashville

Nashville, TN

Members-Only Event Host

Red Room Nashville describes itself as “an exclusive, members-only forum” that holds private in-person events. It hosts weekly themed events at a partner host venue, and its rules mention Saturday events and a Newbie Night on Fridays. The host venue offers “an amazing area to socialize, dance, have more private small group interactions, or lounge together in larger groups.” Features include a professional DJ and large LED dance floor, VIP and reserved tables with soft seating, a ladies-only dressing suite, lounge areas and private rooms. A designated Couples Play Area is two in, two out, and full nudity is limited to the back play areas; topless is allowed in the main bar and dance-floor area. Couples, single women and single men are admitted, but single men wear a wristband and stay in the bar-side area unless a couple or group invites them elsewhere. Everyone must be an approved member (24-hour approval wait) before buying a ticket, and there are no walk-ins. Guests bring their own drinks, with mixers provided. Dress should suit “an upscale restaurant, high-end nightclub, or special date night,” and management can refuse entry over attire. Rules include asking before touching, keeping activity above the waist in the main area and phones on the table or put away.

Refugium Swingerclub

Neumünster, Schleswig-Holstein

On-Premise Club

Refugium Swing & Dance sits on Krokamp 64 in the commercial outskirts of Neumünster, Schleswig-Holstein — an unglamorous address that gives nothing away about the modern lounge-bar world behind the door. Owner Marco Marien designed the club as a deliberate departure from red-velvet clichés: the palette runs to deep green and anthracite, the lighting is considered, and the 500-capacity interior divides into distinct zones that read more like a design-conscious nightclub than a backroom. At its centre is a dance floor anchored by an actual ceiling swing and a DJ booth; off to one side, a well-stocked bar and a separate English-style smoking room keep the social energy moving; scattered throughout are sofa lounge areas where guests talk, watch, and warm up at their own pace. The play rooms — two discreetly positioned and thematically designed spaces — sit well removed from the social areas, alongside a Séparée that doubles as an erotic cinema. Hygiene is taken visibly seriously: towels, disinfectant, condoms, mouthwash, and disposable toothbrushes are stationed throughout, and the venue's barrier-free showers and toilets make it fully accessible to wheelchair users. In warmer months, a 1,000-square-metre outdoor terrace opens up, adding a pool, whirlpool, TikiBar, BBQ station, and a second play area to the mix. The club runs regular themed evenings, seasonal parties, and — every four to six weeks — a free newcomer orientation session at 18:00, before normal doors, with no registration required. Admission is structured around an all-in price covering entry, buffet, premium beverages, and the wardrobe service: €50 in advance, €60 on the door; women enter at €25 and couples at €50. Solo male pricing is set separately and higher as a deliberate tool to keep the gender ratio balanced. Dress code is enforced at the entrance — men in dark long trousers (blue jeans excluded), a plain solid-colour shirt, and proper shoes; women in stylish rather than everyday attire. Once inside, phones and cameras are banned in public areas, and explicit consent is required for all contact; staff are trained to recognise genuine distress. Drugs, solicitation, and any harassment carry an immediate house ban.

Richmond Rondezvouz

Richmond, VA

Adult Lifestyle Group

Richmond Rondezvouz for Swingers describes itself as “a local Richmond adult lifestyle group” that welcomes all people and does not discriminate. It holds swinger parties at least twice a month, along with bi parties and peep shows, at the hosts' own home. Parties use a large deck with couches and a fire pit, a large play area and a hot tub, plus a pool for pool parties held as naked or clothing-optional nights. Showers, towels, soap and wipes are provided for cleaning up, and the hosts supply food and non-alcoholic drinks. There is no indoor lodging, but a fenced backyard, outdoor shower and port-a-potty are available to guests who camp overnight. Attendance is by confirmed RSVP only: guests email the organizers the party date and each guest's first name, the address follows once attendance is confirmed, and nobody is admitted who is not on the list. Guests must be 21 or older. Couples, single men and single women are admitted; single men are not charged double but are asked to talk to the male half of a couple first. Alcohol is BYOB with no glass, and entry is cash only. Hats, hoodies, tank tops, jerseys and workout clothes are banned. Breaking house rules (no means no, photography only with consent, no illegal drugs or pay-for-play) means removal without refund.

Risque Vegas Estate

Las Vegas, NV

Risque Estate is a private, members-only lifestyle venue set within a residential property in the Paradise neighborhood of Las Vegas, just minutes from the Strip. Established in 2014, the estate operates as an on-premise swingers club hosting clothing-optional parties Wednesday through Sunday, welcoming couples, singles, and LGBTQ guests aged 21 and over in a BYOB format with snacks and mixers provided. The grounds center on a resort-style heated pool kept at 90 degrees year-round, surrounded by spacious poolside cabanas and block-walled areas for nude sunbathing. Inside, guests find multiple private playrooms, a large group room, a game room with a cheetah-felt pool table, a dance floor with a stripper pole, and a custom Harley-Davidson fitted with a built-in Sybian. Risque Estate emphasizes discretion with secure off-street parking and a membership structure included in the door donation. The estate provides lockers, clean showers, and ample cooler space, while guests are asked to bring their own towels, locks, and beverages. The venue regularly hosts themed events listed through its website and social channels.

Route 69

Weston-super-Mare, Somerset

On-Premise Club

Route 69 occupies a basement space on the High Street in central Weston-super-Mare, Somerset — a long-running licensed lifestyle venue that bills itself as the South West's Friendliest Adult Club. The venue operates on a deliberately compact model, non-pushy in its approach, with staff who personally walk first-time visitors around the space before the evening gets under way. It welcomes straight and LGBT+ guests alike and pitches its atmosphere firmly on the social side of the spectrum. The venue is arranged around a lounge with a fully licensed bar, three lockable playrooms — one of which incorporates a gloryhole with a coverable viewing window — and a dungeon equipped with a St Andrew's Cross, a play swing, and stocks. Lockers are available on a key-swap system, and a heated, covered outdoor smoking area sits at the rear of the building. Towels, lube, wipes and condoms are stocked in every playroom; cock rings and wax candles are available at the bar. CCTV covers the social areas, though there are no showers on site. Themed nights — Greedy Girls evenings, BDSM nights, bi nights and monthly special parties — run through the calendar alongside regular weekly sessions. The club operates sessions on Fridays and Saturdays from 20:00 to 02:00, and Sundays from 14:00 to 22:00; last entry is two hours before closing in all cases. All entry requires advance booking through Eventbrite; the venue no longer accepts walk-ins or phone bookings. The minimum age is 25. Single-male attendance is permitted but numbers are capped per session, and early booking is advised. Entry pricing on Fridays and Saturdays is £35 for single men, £25 for couples, £15 for TS/TV guests, and £10 for single women; Sunday rates are exactly half.

Saints & Sinners Philly

Philadelphia, PA

On-Premise Club

Saints & Sinners describes itself as “the adult playground for swingers.” The Philadelphia club is a members-only, on-premise venue in a 6,000-square-foot building on Emery Street, open Friday and Saturday nights, and welcomes veterans and newcomers whether they come as a couple or single. The building has two floors. The top floor is a lounge for mingling, with a bar, dance floor, pole, seating, flat-screen TVs and a food buffet area. The lower level holds private, semi-private, open and group play areas, a bar with all the mixers provided, lockers and showers, and an attendant who changes sheets and keeps order. A DJ plays through a sound and light system, and free parking is across the street. Guests must be 21 or older and a member. Couples and singles attend, except that single men are not admitted on Saturdays; couples must arrive, stay and leave together, and men may not wander the club alone. Entry, membership and merchandise are cash only. New members get a tour early in the evening and are asked to arrive by 11 p.m. Proper attire is required. Phones and cameras are not allowed and must be checked at the front desk, locked in a locker or left in the car; drugs and aggressive behavior are not tolerated, and members may not go behind the bar.

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Sauna Azzurra sits on Van Heemstraweg on the edge of Beuningen, a small Gelderland municipality a short drive west of Nijmegen. It operates as both a gay sauna and an erotic lifestyle venue, rotating between men-only days and days open to mixed-gender couples and singles. The building contains two Finnish saunas each sized for up to six people, a combined hammam and steam sauna, and a communal shower area with roughly eight hot tubs, two of which are bookable privately. Beyond the wet facilities there is a dedicated cruise circuit, dark rooms, open mattress areas, and lockable private cabins. A video lounge, a bar serving food, and an outdoor terrace with sun loungers complete the space, with free parking on site. Condoms are provided throughout; complimentary soup is offered on Sundays. Outside food and drink are not permitted. The programme divides the week by clientele type: Tuesdays, Fridays, and Sundays are men-only gay days; Mondays, Wednesdays, and Saturdays are open to mixed couples and singles; Thursdays are reserved for couples only. Exact opening and closing times should be confirmed directly with the venue before visiting, as third-party sources conflict. Admission prices, per a third-party source that may not reflect current tariffs, are €30 for a single man and €50 for a couple on gay days, and €46.50 for single visitors and €50 per couple on mixed days; a six-visit card is also available. Entry is strictly 18 and over; valid ID is required at the door.

Schlangenkeller

Bendestorf, Lower Saxony

Schlangenkeller has anchored northern Germany's lifestyle scene since 1998, operating as a discreet venue in Bendestorf — a small village roughly 30 kilometres south of Hamburg. Under the ownership of M.G. Schulz — known to guests as Gina — the venue has cultivated a reputation as one of the Hamburg region's most established lifestyle clubs, now in its 28th year. Parties run on a fixed weekly rhythm — Wednesday and Thursday evenings from 20:30 to 01:00, Friday and Saturday from 20:30 to 02:00 — with attendance managed via prior registration through the website's booking form. Hotel Meinsbur sits approximately 100 metres from the club's entrance and extends a 10% room-rate discount to Schlangenkeller visitors who use the keyword 'Paris' when booking.

Schloss Trebbichau

Trebbichau, Saxony-Anhalt

On-Premise Club

Schloss Trebbichau occupies a restored historic castle at Parkstrasse 10 in Trebbichau, a small village in Osternienburger Land, Saxony-Anhalt. Operated by Chateau du Soleil GmbH under managing director Carola Schwarz, who brings a background in television production and theatre, alongside Dutch co-founder Ronald, who supervised the multi-year hands-on renovation, the club reopened as a lifestyle venue in early 2023 and bills itself as die wohl schonste erotische Oase im Herzen von Sachsen-Anhalt. The interior unfolds across three levels. A soaring main hall, 7.5 metres high, anchors the ground floor with a bar, dance floor, and extensive seating, while a mezzanine gallery on the first floor looks down over the space below. Adjoining rooms include a salon, a buffet and dining room, a dedicated smoking lounge, and a games room. Play rooms of varying themes are distributed across the basement, ground floor, and upper floor. Come summer, the castle lake (SchlossSee) becomes the setting for FKK (naturist) outdoor weekend gatherings. Events run one to two times per month and vary considerably in character: burlesque and performance evenings, FKK lake weekends, decade-themed parties, and elegant evening parties. All events are listed and ticketed exclusively through JOYclub.de; pricing is not published on the club website. Regular parties fall on Saturdays, running from 19:30 to 02:00. The core guest profile is active couples; single women and single men are admitted selectively depending on the specific event. The dress-code shorthand is elegant black is never wrong, with full requirements published per event on JOYclub.

SOP Lifestyle Productions

Vancouver, British Columbia

Event Organizer

SOP Lifestyle Productions says it is “home of the Signature Takeovers and the Signature Experiences.” It is an event organizer: its Winter Lifestyle Takeover, which began in 2010 and became a hotel takeover in 2012, is held in November at a Whistler hotel, and a Spring Lifestyle Takeover started in 2015. It is also an official booking agent for lifestyle cruises and resorts. In the Winter takeover layout the sixth floor is the Play Floor, with theme rooms, sponsors rooms and playrooms open all night; the fifth is the Party Floor, the fourth the Noisy Floor, and the second and third are Quiet Floors. Open play rooms stay door-open, and private play rooms have a one-hour limit. Across its nights the takeover runs a Meet + Greet, a dance party and a cocktail party, plus daytime seminars and workshops. Singles, couples and more are welcome, and the club says there is “no pressure or mandatory participation.” It does not offer single-day passes, and hotel rooms cannot be booked by calling the hotel or through its website. Alcohol is BYOB in pool-safe containers (no glass) and is not allowed in play spaces. Guests must be dressed in the lobby and public areas, with clothing optional only on the party floors and pool deck. Verbal consent is required, photos need prior explicit permission, and illegal substances, excessive drinking, indoor smoking or vaping, fighting and solicitation are not allowed.

Swingerclub Bluecat

Unverified

Schwetzingen, Baden-Württemberg

On-Premise Club

Tucked at the edge of Schwetzingen Am Langen Sand light-industrial strip — a short drive from the A6 motorway Schwetzingen-Nord exit — Blue Cat draws a mixed, open-minded crowd from across the Rhine-Neckar corridor: Mannheim, Heidelberg, Karlsruhe and the Palatinate. Run by Andrea Dunkel as a deliberately family-scale operation, the club pitches itself explicitly against the anonymous superclubs of the region: 500 square metres, nine individually styled rooms and a house capacity of around a hundred guests. New visitors are invited to arrive early and tour the rooms and party space at their own pace before the evening gets going, giving first-timers an unhurried feel for the layout before they commit to staying. The club opens Tuesday through Saturday from 8 pm, with nights running until 1 am on weekday evenings, 2 am on Fridays and 3 am on Saturdays. Admission is all-inclusive — every price covers the buffet and drinks for the night, with no bar tab to run up afterwards. Women pay €10 on any night; couples follow a sliding scale of €30 on weeknight openings, €45 on Fridays and €50 on Saturdays; solo men pay €100 across the board. Registered JOYclub premium members receive an average €10 discount off the door price. The nine rooms range across a love swing, a cinema lounge, a massage area, a gynecological chair, a kuschelecke (cuddle corner) and a dedicated SM play area, supported by a sauna, a wet area and a terrace for outdoor moments. The central zone holds a bar and a rotating buffet. Parking is available directly around the building.

Swingerclub Passion

Stuhr, Lower Saxony

On-Premise Club

Club Passion sits in the Seckenhausen industrial estate on the southern fringe of Bremen, a short drive from the A1 autobahn at Industriestrasse 37. The club is owned and personally run by Jessica and Patrick Bosse, a couple with their own long-standing roots in the swinging community, and it shows in how the place operates: long-serving staff who are friends first and staff second set a tone the venue itself describes as a very special family-like atmosphere, one where even first-timers quickly find their footing rather than feeling lost in an anonymous crowd. More than 1.5 million visits, a JOYclub Recommendation badge, and a 4.8-star average across 3,288 reviews place it firmly among the most trusted venues in the Bremen catchment. The indoor footprint runs to roughly 270 square metres, maintained at a steady 22 degrees C year-round. The ground floor holds a well-stocked bar (Bacardi, Jim Beam, Malibu, Likor 43 among the brands), a comprehensive warm-and-cold buffet, and a dance floor with a pole and stage area. Playrooms cover the full range: a Caribbean-themed Blue Lagoon private room, a castle-themed Burgzimmer, a coded couples-only section, a sleeping area upstairs, and a dedicated BDSM corner fitted with a swing, spanking bench, and St. Andrew's cross. The wellness zone adds an eight-person whirlpool (water changed daily), a sauna, and shower stations stocked with toiletries throughout the venue. Come summer, a heated outdoor terrace opens with a pool, beach baskets, and a separate cocktail bar, an addition that sets the club apart from most urban indoor venues. Club Passion runs Fridays (19:00-02:00) and Saturdays (19:00-03:00) as its regular nights, with Tuesday afternoon sessions (15:00-23:00) and Sunday parties (14:00-21:00) rotating on alternating weeks. Door prices are all-inclusive - the fee covers the full buffet, alcoholic and soft drinks, condoms, and hygiene supplies, with nothing extra to spend inside. Friday admission runs EUR 20 for single women, EUR 60 for couples, and EUR 80 for single men; Saturday steps up to EUR 30, EUR 85, and EUR 90 respectively, with JOYclub members receiving a discount at every tier. Trans and cross-dressing guests are admitted at 50% of the solo male rate. Dress code is firmly enforced: sexy lingerie and heels for women, latex, leather, or dark underwear with quality sandals for men. First-time visitors can call ahead to arrange a complimentary 30-minute walk-through before doors open - no commitment required.

Swingers Oase

Ammerzoden, Gelderland

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Swingers Oase is a small, intimate parenclub on the Haarstraat in Ammerzoden, a village in Gelderland roughly midway between Zaltbommel and Den Bosch. In operation for over a decade, it positions itself as an approachable alternative to the larger commercial venues in the nearby cities — somewhere guests can make contact easily in a setting the club describes as gezellig (convivial and homely). Open to couples, single women, and single men, the guiding philosophy is niets moet, alles mag (nothing required, everything permitted) between consenting adults, with mutual respect as the founding house rule. The venue is fitted with an eight-person jacuzzi, a two-person sauna, a bar and buffet, a dance floor with DJ music, a lounge area, a terrace, and a range of private and group playrooms. Entry is all-inclusive, covering food, beverages, and full use of all facilities. Current pricing varies by day and event type and is published on the club own agenda — always confirm before attending. The club runs a varied programme across several evenings each week. Themed nights — including Blacklovers evenings, Bi-Curious parties, and Hollandse events — rotate through the schedule, with reservations required for weekend nights. Single men must reserve in advance on all open evenings. On the fifth Friday of the month the Parenavond is reserved exclusively for couples and single women; single men are not admitted that evening.

Spa and Sauna

Temptations Spa and Sauna calls itself a “venue for naturists swingers” and is at 172 Windham Road in Bournemouth, Dorset. Its website lists ground-floor facilities of a sauna, jacuzzi, steam room and showers, plus a lounge area to relax in, three private playrooms and a massage room where hostesses give massages, which the club says are for relaxation purposes only. Couples and singles are welcome seven days a week, with separate entry rates for couples, single women and single men, and the club says it can also cater to private parties subject to availability. It opens every day of the week, with a later close on Friday and Saturday.

Tennessee Temptations

Johnson City, TN

Private Party

Tennessee Temptations describes itself as “a Lifestyle MEMBERS Only Private party” in the Tri-Cities region of Tennessee. Guests apply for membership through the club's website, the club says it chooses its members and never advertises its events in the vanilla world, and it typically hosts a party about once a month. The private venue covers more than 3,000 square feet, where hosts greet guests and give a tour if needed. The club lists a large wooden dance floor with a DJ, professional audio equipment and lighting, seating for 100-plus, a stripper pole, an on-premise playroom with a swing and a Sybian, and a private playroom for guests who want to be left alone. It also offers discounted hotel rooms for its group and a shuttle to and from the hotel. Guests must be 21 or older, and couples arrive and leave together. Singles wear a visible glow band, may approach only couples wearing the same band color, and may enter the playroom only when a couple invites them. The party is BYOB with complimentary non-alcoholic mixers and snacks. Cameras, camera phones and voice recorders are banned, touching requires consent first, and breaking the rules can mean expulsion and membership cancellation without refund.

The Chilli Club

Unverified

Auckland, Auckland

On-Premise Club

The Chilli Club has operated from 3122 Great North Road in New Lynn, Auckland for over fifteen years, making it one of the city's longest-running adult lifestyle venues. The space functions under two linked identities: The Chilli Club hosts swinger parties and alternative lifestyle events, while CHOKE — the Chilli House of Kink Events — serves Auckland's kink and BDSM community with workshops, play parties, photography events and professional performances. Both arms share the same licensed premises, address and contact email. The play space spans approximately 200 square metres and is fitted accordingly: a fully licensed bar, multiple play areas with large-screen TVs, a stripper pole with full-length mirrors, a sex swing and a shower area. The space is also available for private hire — from intimate gatherings to BDSM workshops — with a non-refundable $100 deposit required to confirm a booking and the balance settled on the night. All attendees must be 18 or older and may be asked to present ID. Phones, cameras and all recording devices — including smart glasses such as Ray-Ban Meta — must be powered off and stored before entry. The venue's designated safe word is 'RED', and the consent framework explicitly endorses SSC, RACK and PRICK principles. Blood play, needles, breath play and scat are prohibited outright; violations may result in immediate removal and a permanent ban with no refund of entry fees.

The Pleasure Garden Club describes itself as a “Members Only Lifestyle Club”. It is at 6039 Passyunk Ave in Philadelphia and opens every Friday and Saturday night, with Fridays welcoming couples, single ladies and single men and Saturdays limited to couples and single ladies. Its ticket pages cite “over 20 years of unwavering success”. Its About Us section lists a main dance floor with sound and lights, a back bar with a professional dancer pole, two BYOB juice bars with mixers provided, a group shower with towel service, lockers and themed private fantasy rooms open on Fridays and Saturdays. Ticket listings add a single-level layout and a second Sybian room. Recurring nights include Fantasy Fridays, Newbie Nights and PLEASUREcation on the first Friday of each month. A current membership is required, and anyone without one must buy it before admission; members must be 21 or older with a state-issued ID, and admission can be refused without explanation. The club is BYOB and sells no alcohol. Its dress code points men to suits, sportscoats and dress shirts and does not allow sports attire, tank tops, hoodies or baseball-style hats. Cameras and recording devices are prohibited, phones stay in the car or at the front desk, and illegal drugs bring a ban and police notification.

The Red Rooster

Las Vegas, NV

On-Premise Club

The Red Rooster says it hosts “on-premise Las Vegas swinger lifestyle parties” in a private home about 7 miles east of the Strip. Its About page says the club was first conceived in 1983 and that the space has grown from 800 to over 12,000 square feet. It runs Wednesday through Sunday, with specialty parties for most holidays, a Wednesday karaoke night, a Thursday party called Southern Heat and a Sunday night called Vixsun, billed as a “Hotwife Haven”. The club lists a dance floor, private rooms, group rooms, an indoor pool and jacuzzi, a tournament-sized pool table, two serving bars and plenty of seating, plus an upstairs area for couples only that is open Fridays and Saturdays. The group room is a play and voyeur area open to everyone. Lockers are available behind the front bar and beside the pool, a heated patio serves as the smoking area, and parking is free. Couples and singles are welcome, and the club says it does not prescreen guests for attractiveness, wealth, youth or fitness. Everyone must be at least 25 and show ID, and entry is a cash donation at the door. The upstairs area counts a couple as a man and a woman arriving together. The club is strictly BYOB: guests check their own alcohol at one of the bars, and coffee, water and mixers are provided. Dress is whatever guests are comfortable in, as revealing as they like. Cellphones and cameras are banned, no drugs are allowed anywhere on the property, and guests who keep approaching someone after a no can be asked to leave.

The Sublime Society

London, London

Performance Night / Event Series

The Sublime Society is a monthly erotic performance event series staged at Dear Darling, a luxury bar and nightclub at 91 Jermyn Street in Mayfair's St. James's district, a short walk from Green Park station. Co-founded by burlesque artist Charlie Bouquett and House of Fatale founder Missy Fatale, it presents itself as an "exclusive hedonistic soirée" — a voyeur-forward sensual salon in which live burlesque, shibari suspension, fetish performance, and sapphic dominance play unfold in close proximity to a seated and standing audience. The project carries an explicitly FLINTA-centered artistic policy: all performers identify as femme, lesbian, intersex, non-binary, trans, or asexual, and the organisers have publicly committed to exclusively female-identifying performers for their London editions. Dear Darling occupies a double-level footprint. The main salon — called The Living Room — holds 50 seated and up to 160 standing guests among wood-panelled walls, plush sofas, velvet armchairs, green drapery, and low crystal-strung chandeliers. There is no raised stage: performers move through the room itself, and mirrored ceilings provide sightlines from multiple angles while a rigged shibari frame hosts rope suspension pieces. Below, reached only through what the venue calls Lady Darling's wardrobe — a concealed door — sits a basement nightclub with capacity for around 160, featuring avant-garde décor and a DJ booth; this space operates as the afterparty venue for Sublime Society ticket-holders from approximately 11pm. A curated cocktail menu runs throughout both levels. Events run roughly monthly on Friday evenings, with doors at 7:00–7:30pm and the performance programme concluding between 10:15pm and 11:30pm depending on format; the basement afterparty continues to 2:00am. A secondary format, The Sublime Society: SALON, runs shorter evenings (7:00–10:30pm) and layers a live podcast recording and a participatory BDSM impact-play workshop onto the shibari performance. Tickets are sold exclusively in advance via DesignMyNight; standard general admission sits between approximately £38 and £65 depending on the event, with couples packages at a 20% reduction and three-person packages at 30% off. A VIP tier adding reserved lounge seating and basement nightclub access runs £59–£80, and a Meet and Greet add-on (£20–£22) provides post-show access to the cast.

The Warehouse

Caldwell, ID

On-Premise Club

The Warehouse, known as TW, describes itself as a “lifestyle social club designed to host kink and swingers alike.” It is a members-only, BYOB club operated by AOK Collective Inc that opens three Saturdays a month for themed events and has operated from a Caldwell location since April 2026. Themed nights include Debauchery Nights, mixing kink and swinger play, and Pineapple Nights, aimed at swingers and others open to play outside BDSM. Its site lists a social area and kitchen with finger foods, a breezeway with couches, a dance floor, a live DJ and the Rendezvous Bar, two VIP cabana rooms, a stripper pole room, and open play queen bed rooms. The dungeon has double crosses, fire tables, impact benches and a massage table, and is closed on Pineapple Nights. Only vetted members are admitted: vetting and the per-person membership are one process, done online or in person at the club's socials, and the address comes in a confirmation email for each event. The club is 18-plus with government ID checked at the door and allows single men, capped at 10% of attendees on Pineapple Nights, where they must pre-pay. Alcohol is BYOB, and photos or video without consent can get a guest removed.

Treff 188 Eschborn

Eschborn, Hesse

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Treff 188 is an FKK sauna club and Pauschalclub (flat-rate timed-entry adult venue) located at Düsseldorfer Strasse 1 in Eschborn, a business-district municipality roughly 10 kilometres northwest of Frankfurt am Main, with access from the Eschborn Süd S-Bahn station. The Eschborn site is the smaller of two locations operated under the treff-188.de brand; a second, substantially larger venue runs in Wiesbaden-Schierstein. The Eschborn premises cover more than 500 square metres and are oriented towards individual male guests, who purchase timed entry packages that include facility access and a set number of service tokens redeemable with the club’s independent female contractors. The shared facilities include a Finnish sauna, a relaxation lounge, an adult cinema room with an adjacent live area, dedicated private rooms, shower rooms, changing rooms with lockable lockers, and a screened outdoor space. A licensed bar serves both soft drinks and alcoholic beverages; entry packages include complimentary towels, toiletries, condoms, and disinfected slippers. On-site free parking is available. Bathrobes are the one amenity with a separate charge, at €5 per rental. A recurring Thursday topless party is the venue’s sole advertised themed night. The venue is open every day of the week: Monday through Thursday from 12:00 to 02:00, Friday and Saturday from 14:00 to 04:00, and Sunday from 14:00 to 02:00. Entry is priced in timed tiers: €90 grants two hours with two service tokens; €110, three hours and three tokens; €130, four hours and four tokens; and €155 provides an all-day pass with five tokens. Additional tokens may be purchased separately at reception. A direct-service arrangement, bypassing facility entry, is available from €50.

VIP Bliss

Miami Beach, FL

Screened EDM lifestyle party organization

VIPBLISS describes itself as “a private and exclusive screened EDM lifestyle organization” for couples and singles, primarily millennials. It is an event organizer: its site names Miami, Fort Lauderdale, West Palm Beach, Tampa and Orlando as its areas, and says it was established in 2003 and is a monthly screened EDM lifestyle party organization. Its events are nightclub takeovers, pool parties and domestic and international group vacations, including erotic theme events for accepted members. The site also says “We do bangin EDM parties, in upscale venues, for hot people!” Venues vary by event. Membership is free to request but screened: applicants upload four to six photos, couples include at least one photo together, and legal names must match ID. Applications are reviewed daily, and hourly on event days; approved members get an email, while rejected applicants get no reply and are not welcome to attend. The site says it is not currently recruiting Boomers or Gen X, and has said single male tickets for a pool party were no longer available and new male applicants were paused. The club may deactivate any account at any time.

Vixxxins Lifestyle Club

Phoenix, AZ

Members-Only Private Club

Vixxxins Lifestyle Club, also styled Club VIXXXINS, describes itself as “a ‘Members Only’ Private Club” running themed lifestyle and kink events. It is based in Phoenix and holds most events in the valley, with warehouse gala events, house parties sometimes hosted by members, and, from time to time, mix and mingles, hotel staycations and private dinner parties. Locations are given only to members. The club says every event has open and private play spaces with security, and it lists a VIP lounge, a designated smoking area, and food that is often free. Most events are BYOB, with bartenders and free mixers. A strict dress code applies: fetish, goth, lingerie and formal wear are welcome, while jeans, plain T-shirts and athletic wear mean no entry, and its mix and mingles call for street-legal dress. Members must be 21 or older. Applicants are checked against the sex offender database and approved before they can register for events, and a couple needs one membership. Members may bring up to two guests, while mix and mingles are open to non-members. Cameras and recording devices are banned in play areas, phones are limited to designated areas, no means no, and anyone with illegal drugs is banned.

Weißes Haus Staßfurt

Staßfurt, Saxony-Anhalt

Weisses Haus is a couples and singles swinger club that has operated from Hauerstrasse 13 in Stassfurt, a small town in Saxony-Anhalt, since 1996. Run by a proprietor named Susen, the club markets itself under the tagline Erotik statt Disco and frames itself as a gathering place for like-minded singles and couples with a modern outlook — explicitly not a nightclub environment. Stassfurt sits roughly equidistant between Magdeburg and Halle, and the club draws visitors from as far as Berlin and Leipzig. The venue occupies a multi-floor building centred on a foam-bath indoor pool, a sauna, a ten-person bathtub (10-Mann-Badewanne), and a themed Dschungelzimmer (jungle room). Both pool and sauna are designated non-sexual zones, marked with prohibition signage; intimate activity is reserved for other parts of the building. The club carries a 4.7-star rating from over 100 Google reviews. The weekly schedule runs across four days: Tuesday and Thursday daytime (11:00-15:00), Tuesday evening (19:00-00:00), and Friday and Saturday late-night sessions (19:00-02:00). The venue is closed Sunday, Monday and Wednesday. Entry is priced at 75 EUR for couples, 20 EUR for single women, and 90 EUR for single men; TV/TS visitors pay the couple rate. All prices are stated to include everything. Hours are subject to variation — confirm directly before visiting.