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IntimatePartiesGroup (IPG)

New York, NY

Event Organizer

IntimatePartiesGroup (IPG) describes itself as a group “composed of Experienced Event Hosts, Club DJs, Comics, Venue Owners, and Entertainers.” It holds its events at hotels, from two-day entire-hotel takeovers that its FAQ says average 150–200 couples to pajama, topless or dessert house parties averaging 30–40 couples. The FAQ names the NY, NJ, PA, CT and MA area when describing its DJs. Takeovers run all day. The club describes a heated indoor pool it calls “completely private” and clothing optional, theme and play rooms, a dance floor with DJs who take requests, and light hot and cold finger food at most events, sometimes with a late-night dessert by the pool. The club hosts couples and unescorted women, and guests must be 21 or older. Spots are confirmed after a donation, when the club sends the hotel info and a reservation code if needed. Drinking is BYOB, with beer in cans, not glass, and a mixers station supplied; the club never sells or supplies liquor, though a venue may run a cash bar at some events. Dress is club style or neat casual unless a theme is set, and unauthorized photography is not permitted.

Karizma Social Club

Glen Gardner, NJ

On-Premise Club

Karizma Social Club describes itself as “an on-premise, members-only facility located in the scenic Hunterdon County.” It calls itself a private membership club for couples and singles seeking “a social, no-pressure setting”, and opens every Saturday and on the first and third Friday of each month. The 7,800-square-foot facility lists open, semi-private, private and group playrooms, named lounges including the 42nd lounge and Adam's Lounge, a dance floor with a DJ on Saturday nights, a BYOB bar with mixers provided, a game area with pool table, air hockey, darts and arcade games, lockers and a covered outdoor smoking area. Its calendar lists themed party nights. Every attendee must be an approved, paid member, with no guests; the address is emailed after approval and new members take a mandatory tour. For membership a couple is a man and a woman, two women each join as singles, and interviewed single men usually attend only on the third Saturday. The minimum age is 24, with ID checked at every visit. Alcohol is BYOB, checked in with bar staff, the dress code is enforced with denied entry for non-compliance, and phones and cameras are restricted.

On-premise lifestyle club

Kat's Fantasies is a long-running adult lifestyle club operating out of an upscale venue in South Surrey, British Columbia, self-described as Vancouver's hardcore swingclub. The club has been active since approximately 2007 and operates by screened membership only — no walk-ins — with free membership granted after a short application process including a photo submission. The guest mix trends toward couples and single women in the 35–50 age range and screened single men aged 19–55, with attendance ranging from roughly 20 to 75 per event depending on the night. The venue features a dance floor, DJ booth, pool table, two private rooms, and a large open orgy room equipped with a sex swing and a signature wall of porn. Two no-play socializing lounges allow guests to meet and mix without pressure. Massage tables and oils are available, and overnight accommodation is offered on-site: private queen rooms at CAD $60 per couple and open beds at CAD $40 per couple. The club operates on a BYOB basis; complimentary coffee, tea, filtered water, and light snacks are provided along with condoms and lube. The events calendar runs across several formats: Greedy Girl (one to two Saturdays monthly, 8PM–1AM); Fuck Me Friday (one to two Fridays monthly, 8PM–midnight); Bi Night (monthly Friday or Saturday, 8PM–midnight or 1AM); Cougars & Cubs (monthly Friday, 8PM–midnight); Hump Day Happy Hour (Wednesday, 7–11PM, October–May); and Sunday Afternoon Delight (Sunday, 2–6PM, October–May). Donation pricing varies by event — for flagship nights, couples pay CAD $50 advance or $70 at door; single men pay $60 advance or $80 at door; single ladies pay $20. Midweek and Sunday events are lower. Guests must arrive within a set check-in window and may not re-enter after leaving.

KC Book Club

Liberty, MO

On-Premise Club

KC Book Club is a by-invitation-only lifestyle house party set on five acres of secluded land just north of Liberty, Missouri — a quiet, rural setting that ensures complete privacy for its guests. Owned and personally run by Eddie, the venue is a custom-built entertaining space that has earned a reputation as one of the Midwest most recognized lifestyle destinations, drawing regulars and curious newcomers alike from as far as Nebraska, Iowa, Oklahoma, and Arkansas. The club has been featured on national lifestyle podcasts, and its welcoming, consent-forward atmosphere keeps the crowd firmly in living-room-party territory rather than nightclub territory. Saturday nights are the club's exclusive rhythm, and the format is BYOE — guests bring their own drinks and snacks, while the house provides soft drinks, hors d'oeuvres, ice, soda mixers, and bottled water. Inside, a large social area and a dance floor (complete with stripper pole) set the tone for mingling before the evening deepens. Private play rooms and dedicated kink and lifestyle spaces are available on site, and the venue also features a pool, hot tub, and showers. When the weather cooperates, the five acres open up for clothing-optional volleyball, swimming, and sunbathing. The club is kink-friendly, swinger-friendly, and welcoming to the genuinely curious — but it is strictly couples and single women only; single men are not admitted. Access is by invitation only, and the BYOE policy keeps the vibe communal and intimate. The location near Liberty Triangle puts guests within easy reach of hotels, restaurants, and retail for before or after the party.

KinkZone

Canberra, Australian Capital Territory

On-Premise Club

KinkZone describes itself as Canberra's only purpose-built alternative lifestyle studio, operating from a discreet unit in the light-industrial suburb of Fyshwick, roughly 2–3 km east-southeast of the city centre. The venue serves both the kink and swinging communities under one roof, running separate event formats to accommodate different experience levels and identities — from beginner-friendly introductory nights through to invitation-only BDSM parties. After a hiatus that ran from 2020 to 2024, the club returned under new management and has since built a calendar of more than a dozen recurring event formats. The custom-designed interior centres on a large open-plan area with substantial seating and space for dancing, along with intimate nooks and dedicated playrooms for private or group activity. All tickets include entry, use of the cloakroom, light refreshments, non-alcoholic beverages (soft drinks, tea, coffee), condoms, lubricant, and access to shower facilities. Alcohol is not provided or sold; BYO is permitted. The first floor is reached only by stairs — there is no lift — though a ground-floor accessible toilet is available, the main event spaces have 96 cm-wide doors at their narrowest, accessible showers are on-site, and no fluorescent lighting is used during events. Smoking and vaping are confined to a designated outdoor courtyard. All attendance requires completing a vetting process before a first event; new contacts are added to the system each Monday, with an initial reply typically within five days. From July 2026, standard event tickets are priced at A$69; KZ Swing is A$120 per couple, A$100 for single men, and A$60 for single women; specialty nights including Rainbow Haven, Rope, and FemDomme are A$60; and the Under 30s event is A$45. Booking fees apply on top of all ticket prices. Optional memberships — Silver at A$250 per year or Gold at A$525 per year — provide reserved spaces, free events, booking-fee waivers, and discounted tickets, though membership is not required to attend.

KNetic Club

Calgary, Alberta

On-Premise Club

KNetic Club describes itself as “a fully licensed private social club” for on-premise consensual sexual play and socializing, and its About page calls it a members-only lifestyle club for adults 18 and over, including singles, couples and throuples. It holds scheduled events at two Calgary venues, KNetic South and KNetic North, including themed Friday and Saturday parties, a Unicorn Night for single women, an all-gender bi and pan night, a group-play event at North and a monthly Real Talk conversation series. The About page describes a 3,400 square foot venue with a main floor of booths, a dance floor, a stripper pole and DJs, and an upstairs with a pool table, dart board, St. Andrews Cross, spanking bench and a playroom with semi-private areas, a center bed and a leather sling. It lists four gender-neutral washrooms and a FLEX bar, and event pages mention a KNetic Kitchen serving hot food. Guests need a free profile approved before attending; Premium membership is a paid add-on that does not include admission. Government photo ID is required on a first visit. Drinks can be bought at the bar or brought in as BYOL, within limits the club may set. Dress is “Dress to impress,” clothing optional, and phones and cameras stay out of the club. Consent violations carry zero tolerance and illegal drugs mean removal.

Lacey's PlayHouse

Myrtle Beach, SC

Lifestyle Party Venue

Lacey's PlayHouse describes itself as “A venue to party with your Lifestyle friends”, hosting theme parties near Myrtle Beach; its flyers give Loris, SC as the location. It welcomes experienced lifestylers and those just exploring, whether local or on vacation, and says its 1,300-square-foot space holds up to 50 people comfortably. The venue can also be booked for a lifestyle group party or a couples retreat. Its photos page shows a party room for socializing, dancing, games and refreshments, plus a hot tub and pool. Guests are asked to dress to the theme or dress to impress, and the flyers advertise BYOB parties. Parties are exclusively for adults 30 and over, and registration is required: guests text their names and the party date, wait for a reply confirming space, and then make a party donation by Venmo or Cash App. Some flyers say couples and single females are welcome, and they vary on single males, with some parties admitting select single males or all singles. Couples must arrive and depart together, parties often sell out, and there are no refunds for cancellations on party day.

On-Premise Club

Leisure Time Club describes itself as “Your On-Premise Lifestyle Club”. It is a private, members-only, BYOB alternative lifestyle club at 355 Zion Street in Hartford, open every Saturday night. Its About page says it is in its 49th year, and its home page calls it “the longest running swingers club in the US”. The club spreads over three floors. The main floor has the entrance, a fully attended BYOB bar, a live-DJ dance floor with a brass pole and a soft-lit lounge. Downstairs are a large play room, a soft play area and Roman showers. Upstairs are a private play room, a large play room, a voyeur room, another lounge, showers and lockers. Of its five recreation rooms, one is set aside for beginners, and the equipment includes a sling, a Tantra chair, Taiwan love chairs and BDSM apparatus. The venue is smoke-free, with security, towels and lockers. The club also hosts Ladies Socials, nights designed for women who want to meet other women. No alcohol is sold. Members bring their own, check it in at the bar on arrival and can leave it labelled for later visits; coolers are not allowed, beer is limited to a 12-pack, and mixers and set-ups are free. The club says excessive drinking, drug use and obnoxious behaviour lead to removal, loss of membership and forfeited fees.

Miami Velvet

Miami, FL

On-Premise Club

Miami Velvet describes itself as “an upscale private nightclub.” It is an on-premise lifestyle club in Miami, Florida, where membership is required of everyone who enters. It opens Friday and Saturday nights, with themed events on its calendar. The club says its 20,000 square feet hold two main dance areas, two lounges, four multi-bed group playrooms and nearly 20 private rooms, plus a back party complex called the “Luvnasium” with mattresses and a viewing window. A couples-only area in the back play area is off-limits to single men. Lockers, towels and mixers are included, and the club advertises DJs on its open nights. Couples and single women are admitted both nights; select single men, meaning clean, polite, well dressed and well mannered, are admitted Fridays only. Guests must be 21 with a government photo ID, and no sponsor is needed to join: the application is completed on arrival, and first-time tourist couples have the membership fee waived but still pay entry. The club is BYOB and sells no liquor; bottles are labeled and kept at the bar, and drunkenness is not tolerated. A dress code is enforced at the door, phones and cameras are not allowed inside, drugs and bad behavior carry zero tolerance, and opening a closed door gets a guest escorted out.

On-Premise Club

Michigan Fun Times (MFT) is a couples-oriented lifestyle social club serving the Detroit metro area, run by two operators as a small hotel-based group rather than from a fixed venue. The club does not publish a street address; its most recent recurring events (early-to-mid 2025) were held at a hotel in Southfield, MI, a Detroit suburb, with the specific location disclosed only after ticket purchase. Parties are structured as themed "Hotel Takeovers" (past editions have included Naughty Cupid, 24K Gold Magic St. Patty's, and Party Like a Playmate nights). The club is BYOB, with hotel common areas remaining clothed/"vanilla" while dedicated playrooms — stocked with a DJ, snacks, mixers, and kink equipment such as a Sybian and St. Andrew's Cross — host the after-hours activity, alongside an outdoor smoke tent. Membership is free but requires an approved online application (couple, single male, or single female) with photo verification before attending any event. A typical event runs Saturday 3:00 PM–2:00 AM, with entry pricing in 2025 consistently listed at $90 per couple, $35 per single female, and $110 per single male.

On-Premise Club

Mike's Place is a licensed lifestyle club occupying a commercial unit at the Platinum Business Park on Maunder Street in Slacks Creek, roughly 20 kilometres south of Brisbane's CBD. Hosted by Ian and Lyn, the club has been recognised by RedHotPie — Australia's largest lifestyle platform — as the top swingers club in Queensland, and positions itself as an upmarket, inclusive venue for broad-minded couples and singles from across southeast Queensland. The atmosphere is described by management as warm and sociable rather than nightclub-loud, with no pressure to participate. The venue is fitted out with a bar, a lounge, multiple private playrooms, change rooms with individual lockers, and a large outdoor spa. Entry for couples covers all facilities, live entertainment, big-screen movies, hot and cold finger food served throughout the night, and complimentary tea, coffee, and soft-drink mixers. Alcohol is strictly bring-your-own: guests hand their bottles to bar staff on arrival and are served throughout the evening. Towels are provided and a condom and lubricant vending machine is available on site. According to the club's FAQ, Friday nights typically attract 50 to 90 attendees; Saturday nights run smaller, with around 20 to 40 couples. Doors open every Friday and Saturday from 8:00pm to 2:00am. Couples pay $80 and single women $30 on either night. Single men may attend Fridays only at $80, subject to a cap of no more than 50% of the night's total attendance; advance booking is required and a one-off annual membership of $100 must be arranged before a first visit. Saturday nights are reserved strictly for couples and single ladies. All guests must be 18 or over with photo ID; those who appear under 21 are expected to present it. A neat and smart-casual dress standard applies and shoes are mandatory. The phone line — 0431 846 883 — takes calls after 10:00am on Fridays and Saturdays.

Minglers Social Club

Daytona Beach, FL

On-Premise Club

Minglers Social Club uses the tagline “Members only Social Club.” It is an on-premise adult lifestyle club in Daytona Beach with about 8,500 square feet of space, open Friday and Saturday nights to guests 21 and up, and says it accommodates all levels of experience in a “non-pressure” atmosphere. The main floor has a bar area, a large dance floor with a sound system and laser lighting, lounge seating, a pool table and a juice bar stocked with mixers. Play spaces include private and themed rooms, several play rooms with custom furniture, public and private play areas and a fetish room. Lockers, outdoor smoking areas and a lounge outside the play areas complete the venue. Everyone must be a registered member with photo ID; no sponsor is needed and the application can be completed on arrival. The club calls itself primarily a couples establishment with limited admission for singles, and single gentlemen are held to under 10% through couple sponsorship on most nights. Guests bring their own drinks, with mixers provided. The dress code is “Dress to Impress” with no athletic or gym wear, and entry can be refused for inappropriate dress. Phones, cameras, recording devices and weapons are banned, drugs or prostitution mean removal, and “NO means NO.”

Off-Premises Club

Missouri Lifestyles Club describes itself as “a byob off premises club” and holds its events in the private ballroom of a resort on Lake of the Ozarks. It is predominantly a couples club, with limited escorted singles admitted once the owners have verified them, and its themed parties run on the second Saturday of the month with door prizes, raffles and contests. Parties feature a large dance floor with a stripper pole, a live DJ playing from a large music library, and professional sound and lighting. The club puts out hot and cold snacks, finger foods and sweets, and supplies mixers including sodas, bottled water and juices. The club's hotel page lists a lake-view restaurant, outdoor pool, indoor hot tub and fitness room. Singles of either sex must arrive with a date or sponsoring couple, except at events promoted as singles friendly, and singles and non-validated couples must contact the club for verification before attending. Guests must be 21 with ID, sign an attendance agreement before a first event and bring their own drinks. Weapons, illegal drugs and cameras or recording devices without the owners' consent are banned, there is no sex or nudity inside the premises, and violations can mean removal without refund or a permanent ban.

Mitch's Place

Jacksonville, FL

On-Premises House Party

Mitch's Place describes itself as “a long running on Premises House party” hosted by Mitch at a house in Jacksonville, Florida. It runs every Saturday night, and the site says to check it each week for theme information. The host lists a three-bedroom, two-bath house with a video room, a bar room, sitting and lounge areas, and a dance floor with a stripper pole and “plenty of music.” Outside, there is a covered patio with chairs and a gas fire pit, plus an enclosed hot tub, and the host supplies towels. Couples and single women are welcome, and the site says there are no new single males. The address is given by phone: guests call Mitch for it and for party details, which he says are too much to text. The party is BYOB, with a bartender who provides setups, cups, ice and snacks and works for tips. The house rule is that no means no, and the site says guests who are offended by open nudity or open sexual activity should not attend.

Northaven Resort

Brooklyn, MI

Clothing-Optional RV Resort

Northaven Resort describes itself as a “clothing-optional, adult-only RV resort” on nearly 50 acres of rolling hills, ponds and paved paths in Michigan's Irish Hills. Its About page says it was founded in 1994, and it fills its days with themed events and its evenings with socializing, bonfires and dancing in the lounge. Weekend themes include a medieval newbie weekend. The Hotel California Lounge is a 3,400-square-foot gathering place with a 24-foot bar, dance floor, pool table, shuffleboard, dart board, pinball and video games, with themed dances on Saturday nights. Around it are a heated in-ground pool, Buckles' Barbells Gym, two sand volleyball courts, two pickleball courts, the Sexy Sundries General Store, a fire pit at the gazebo and coin-operated showers. Overnight guests stay on lots or tent sites with hook-ups or in rental units. It is a couples resort: members and overnight guests are couples, while single people may visit on a day pass. Guests must be 21 or older with valid photo ID, and first-time visitors and new members are background-checked. Reservations are made by phone rather than online, drinks are BYOB, and bottoms must be covered when food is served. Photography is prohibited, public sexual activity is not allowed, and it offers free tours for couples.

NSFW (New Society for Wellness)

New York, NY

Private Members Club

NSFW (New Society for Wellness) describes itself as “a private members-club for the adventurous.” The New York group calls itself a sex-positive community and a “Bi+ community space” that is open to all interests, with a mission built around “mindful exploration and shared education.” It has held its events at several New York venues. Its calendar mixes PlayDate parties, a monthly SendNoobs night for new members, workshops and mixer events, and the club says guests can enjoy a DJ. PlayDates come as All Play nights for singles, couples and groups and as Couples Only nights. The club says its parties are “a sexy party,” that participation is always optional, and that many guests just come to meet and mingle; hired guardians it calls “nymphs” watch over guests. Attendance is for vetted members: the club says it accepts about 30% of membership applications, and an approved profile is needed to buy passes. Members can buy guest passes. Its event pages say BYOB is allowed with a bar serving mixers, and that dress is black. The Code of Conduct requires enthusiastic consent with new partners, bans sharing images without consent and bars getting overly intoxicated at live events, and breaches can lead to removal or suspension.

Ohana's Social Club

Columbus, OH

Members-only lifestyle club

Ohana's Social Club describes itself as “a fun, casual, and relaxed, members-only lifestyle club” in Columbus, Ohio. Its events calendar lists Wednesday, Friday and Saturday nights, from game night, karaoke and trivia midweek to parties such as FET Night, The Bullpen and Anything But Clothes. The club says it is “situated in a multi level building” with an open bar area with pool table, dance floor, kitchen area, a lounge area including a stripper pole, and an open loft with play space, sofas and a swing. Upstairs it lists five private rooms, one semi-private room and the Kink Korner, plus an on-site shower and lockers. Entry requires a paid membership, age 21 or older and photo ID at check-in, and applicants wait for an approval email before arriving. Applicants face a background screening, and its application page says single males are accepted only when sponsored by an established long-term couple or single female. The club is BYOB, supplying soda, mixers, ice, cups and light snacks with no glass outside the kitchen, and dress is jeans, shorts or collared shirts, not clothing that is dirty, stained or has holes. Consent violations, recording, illegal drugs, fighting and solicitation can lead to removal, and unescorted men are barred from the third floor.

Ohio Swings

New Carlisle, OH

On-Premise Club

Ohio Swings describes itself as “a house party that caters to couples and singles 21 and over,” hosted at a private home on a 16-acre country property in New Carlisle, Ohio. Its About page calls them “no pressure laid back parties,” and on-premise play is allowed. Doors open every Wednesday, Friday and Saturday evening, and the events calendar also lists Sunday afternoon meet-and-greet socials. The house has eight private rooms, two showers (one single, one for four people), about 32 lockers, condoms and plenty of parking. Rooms to sleep in are first come, first served and not before 3 am. It also runs themed parties, where dressing to the theme is optional, and special events such as camp-outs. Couples, single men and single women are admitted, with no membership: guests give a cash donation at the door and may stay until morning at no extra charge. It is BYOB because no alcohol is sold, though setups for drinks are supplied. Dress is neat and clean, with no work attire, dirty clothes or sweat pants. Cell phones stay in the car, cameras and recording devices are banned, couples arrive and leave together, consent is required before touching, and drugs and prostitution are not tolerated.

On-Premise Club

Our Place 4 Fun describes itself as an “Addictive Adult Fantasy Play-space.” It is a private members' swingers club in London's N22 postcode area that holds parties on Friday nights, themed Saturday nights and Tuesday Butterfly Club nights, and says newcomers are always welcome. The club lists a couples-only intro nook for shy guests, a dance pole, dark rooms, a grope area, a lockable play zone with two-way mirrors, play beds, two glory hole areas, and a dungeon with restraints, a sex swing and a St Andrews cross. There is also a dedicated soft drink bar, lockers with a changing area, a vented smoking area and a private lockable playroom. New guests join as members; membership is free, approval usually takes about 48 hours, and the club says no ticket means no entry. Guests must be 21 or over. Couples, single ladies and single gentlemen are admitted on Friday and Tuesday nights, while some themed Saturdays exclude single men and throuples. The address is given only to members. Alcohol is BYOB, limited to beer, cider, wine or pure spirits. Dress is extra smart casual, no phones or filming are allowed past reception, and the club is drug-free.

Our Secret Spot

Sydney, New South Wales

On-Premise Club

Our Secret Spot (OSS) occupies three floors of a venue on Parramatta Road in Annandale, roughly five kilometres west of the Sydney CBD. Co-founded by Jess and Lawrence, the club positions itself explicitly as female-focused and consent-first, drawing a crowd that typically clusters in the thirties and forties, with guests spanning the early twenties to early sixties. The stated ethos — Respectful, Safe, Sexy — shapes everything from the strict consent culture to the staff-guided walk offered to every first-time visitor. The social floor centres on a hand-crafted wooden BYO bar with free mixers (glass decanted to plastic at entry), Chesterfield lounge seating, a ruby-red pool table, and a disco-lit dance floor with a DJ deck. Play spaces spread across the upper levels: three private rooms, a one-way-mirror voyeur room, a large four-bedded open group room, a fully equipped dungeon, and an open shower space. A library-themed VIP room — lockable, with customisable music — rents by the hour. Lockers, condoms, dams, lube, and towels are included in the ticket price; all mobile phones are surrendered at reception on arrival. Parties run on Friday and Saturday nights from 20:30 until 03:00; Thursday Thirsty Thursday sessions and occasional Sunday afternoon matinees are advertised on the venue calendar but are not confirmed as standing hours. Entry is by advance ticket with tiered pricing for guest couples, members, and single women; single men are admitted in limited numbers by prior approved application only. The dress code is strictly enforced — cocktail attire or smart separates for women, collared shirt with trousers or chinos and dress shoes for men — and couples must arrive and depart together.

Pandora Swingers Club

Leeds, West Yorkshire

Pandora occupies a converted former shoe warehouse at Unit 2 Ledgard Way in the Armley district of Leeds, roughly two miles west of the city centre. The club bills itself as the largest swingers venue in Northern England and operates on a members-only basis. It shares the Ledgard Way building with Steam Complex, a gay sauna whose daytime hours precede Pandora’s evening sessions — a scheduling arrangement confirmed by Leeds City Council when it approved extended operating hours following a planning application that attracted objections from local councillors and the then-MP Rachel Reeves. The venue makes use of a multi-floor warehouse footprint. A heated swimming pool (30°C), a ten-person jacuzzi (35°C), a twelve-person sauna, and a sprung dance floor sit alongside a bar serving soft drinks and mixers, with a BYOB drop-off area where staff secure members’ own alcohol behind the bar (the venue holds no alcohol licence). Play spaces extend across a dungeon, dark rooms, UV rooms, an orgy room, private rooms equipped with suspension beds, bondage walls, sex swings, glory holes, and a massage area. The car park outside is floodlit and holds sixty spaces. The weekly schedule runs Thursday to Sunday. Thursday hosts Biphoria, a bisexual and bi-male session running 11am to midnight with split admission: before 7pm, couples pay £25 and single men £17 (single women and trans guests £8); after 7pm the rates drop to £15 for couples and single men, £5 for single women and trans guests. Friday and Saturday are general open nights (8pm–2am); Sunday is a lower-key Relaxed Sunday (8pm–midnight). A monthly fetish night is held on the first Wednesday of the month. Annual membership costs £5 for single women and trans members, £10 for couples, and £40 for single men.

Pandora's Resort

Crossville, TN

Lifestyle Resort

Pandora's Resort describes itself as an “on-premise clothing optional lifestyle resort” in Crossville, Tennessee, and says it is under new ownership and fully transformed from Pandora's Forest. It says all amenities are open around the clock and that it hosts themed parties every weekend, and its calendar also lists Thursday and Sunday evening events. The grounds include a heated seasonal pool, a hot tub open year round, a sun deck, a seasonal poolside cafe and a new tiki bar, along with a new on-premise Red Room play space with a male and female gloryhole. Guests can reserve cabins, chalets, RV sites, RV rentals or tents, and the resort also lists a renovated bathhouse and outdoor showers. The resort says it is private and that every member is vetted by a background check; single men must submit two referrals, and everyone registers online with a valid photo ID and a signed acknowledgment of the rules and checks in at the office. It is a BYOB establishment, and guests may also bring their own food and drink. Photos need the permission of everyone shown, sexual activity is kept out of the pool, hot tub and pool-deck area, and drugs and weapons are not allowed.

Play Champagne (The Champagne Club)

Columbus, OH

Event Organizer

Play Champagne says “We host UPSCALE on premise lifestyle events all over the Midwest”. It is an event organizer running complete hotel takeovers, restaurant and bar included, as two-day weekend events. Everyone attending must be a member and at least 21 with a valid state ID. The host hotels offer over 200 all-suite guestrooms and 10,000 sq ft of convention space. The club lists a five-story atrium entertainment area, a large dance floor with lifestyle DJs, an indoor pool with a topless-optional pool party and a hot tub open around the clock. Play areas include group and semi-private playrooms, themed playrooms and an expanded impact room, alongside couples classes, BDSM demos and a daily complimentary hot breakfast buffet. Couples and single women are admitted; single men attend only as VIPs or as sponsored guests of a couple or single woman, who must arrive, stay and leave with them. Applicants are screened against the DOJ Sexual Offenders Registry. The whole hotel is BYOB, with drinks carried into party areas in a tumbler and bottles and cans kept in the room, plus a hotel cash bar. There is no enforced dress code, though dress to impress is preferred. Sex is not allowed in common areas, the pool or the hot tub, and recreational drugs are never permitted.

Pulse Lounge

Memphis, TN

Private Membership Nightclub

Pulse Lounge describes itself as “a private, upscale lifestyle venue for open-minded couples and singles” in Memphis, by membership only, and calls itself an upscale private membership nightclub. The club says it is not open to the public, and the exact address is shared with approved members only. Every event is themed, from casual mixers to elaborate celebrations, with music and conversation, and some events may be couples-only or have ratio rules disclosed in advance. The club lists lounge areas and private rooms and is BYOB, with ice, mixers and non-alcoholic beverages provided at no additional cost. Members must be 21 or older; the club verifies age and identity and reviews each profile, with most decisions returned within 48 hours, and payment is collected at the door on arrival. Its NDA page sets confidentiality terms, phones are not allowed on the floor, photography is prohibited in all member spaces, and the club says consent is absolute. Women are shown thigh-high boots, corsets and mini-skirts, and men must wear collared shirts and dress shoes, with t-shirts, shorts, sneakers and sportswear refused.