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Tentaciones LA

Los Angeles, CA

Members-Only Lifestyle Club

Tentaciones LA describes itself as “a private, members-only, 21+ adult lifestyle community” in Los Angeles. It is aimed at Latin couples and singles aged 21 and over, with a Latin focus in its music and community, and says members come from across Southern California. Its main nights are Fridays and Saturdays, with occasional midweek openings for special occasions. The club lists a large dance floor with curated Latin music, lounge zones with light-up furniture, private velvet-covered lounge areas, lockers for changing outfits, and restrooms with bidets. Fresh towels and wipes are provided, staff clean during each party, and a full buffet is served alongside frozen mojitos, juices, water and snacks. Some gatherings also offer VIP cabanas or reserved lounge sections and themed experiences. Guests must be 21 or older, approved and verified online before entry, with both partners of a couple verifying separately; couples, single women and approved single men are named as members, and the exact location goes only to approved members. The club is BYOB where permitted for a gathering and sells no alcohol. Men wear button-down shirts or upscale clubwear, with athletic wear, shorts, sandals, ripped jeans and ballcaps refused, while women have no limits. Its About page says phones are not allowed inside, and staff enforce a zero-tolerance policy and may revoke access at any time.

Thad's

San Diego, CA

Private Social Club

Thad's describes itself as a “Private Social Club” in San Diego, California, at 3517 E Street. Its home page says the club has been going since 1973, while its About page gives 1974, and says members are invited every Friday and Saturday and select Sundays. Recurring nights include a Friday “Singles Spotlight” with a DJ, where the club's flyer lists half-price and free offers for single men and ladies earlier in the evening, and the club also advertises a couples-only “Early Bird Special” in the early evening. Guests phone the hostess after 4 pm on the day they want to attend to get an invitation for that evening, and the club suggests arriving early. Its flyers list the dress as nude or lingerie and show BYOB.

The Attic Experience

Derby, Derbyshire

On-Premise Club

The Attic Experience describes itself as “inclusive space created by swingers, for swingers”. It is an on-premise swingers’ club at Carrington House in Allenton, Derby, with no membership required. It runs daytime sessions Monday to Saturday (Monday is for TVs and admirers), evening sessions Wednesday to Saturday, and themed party nights on the mid and last Saturday of each month. The club calls the venue “massive”. Its pages name the Attic Cinema, a dungeon with its own safe-word system, a hot tub open on Friday and Saturday nights, showers, private rooms, rooms with viewing windows or open doors, glory holes, a bar and a DJ. Coin-operated lockers sit in a “pink” room for TVs, couples and single ladies and a separate room for single men, towels are free for the showers and hot tub, and parking is free during opening hours. Couples and single ladies are not admitted on Mondays. On Fridays and Saturdays single men are let in later in the evening, entry is capped and not guaranteed, and groups of two or more single men may be refused. There is no booking or guest list, and first-time guests get a staff tour. No alcohol is sold, but guests may bring their own. Guests must be 21 or over and pay in cash; phones or cameras in hand, or drugs, mean being asked to leave.

The Cottage Social Club

Orrtanna, PA

On-Premise Club

The Cottage Social Club describes itself as “a private membership club for couples and singles interested in the lifestyle”. It is an on-premise club in Orrtanna, PA, open to members on Friday and Saturday nights, and its About page says it was established in 1981. It has a live DJ and dance floor, a bar with smoking and non-smoking areas, two pool tables, a hot tub area, showers and a Saturday hot food bar. Nudity is allowed throughout the club, with more risqué behavior usually in the designated playrooms. Its rooms include single play rooms, group rooms, BDSM rooms, a VIP Suite, couples-only VIP House rooms and Club rooms assigned after the party. The About page mentions themed parties and educational workshops. Admission is members only: guests must be 21 or older with a state-issued ID, complete the membership application and reserve ahead. New single men must attend a Friday party first, or a Saturday with a member's sponsorship and a full membership. The club is BYOB, with alcohol checked in at the bar. The dress code bars athletic shorts, sweatshirts, sweatpants and cuts or colors, with exceptions for theme nights. Touching without verbal permission, photos outside the picture area, drugs, weapons and outing a member can bring removal or a ban.

The Ecclesia

Glasgow, Scotland

On-Premise Club

The Ecclesia is a Glasgow city centre lifestyle and kink club combining swinging and BDSM/fetish communities under one roof. Founded in 2017 by event organisers with a background running alternative-lifestyle events across Scotland — including the Breaking Point annual event in Perth and club nights in Dundee — the venue opened in Glasgow in late 2019 following the closure of the city's long-running Sauchiehall Street dungeon. The club operates in the Hope Street and Merchant City area of the city centre on a near-community, non-profit basis. The venue spans nearly 3,000 sq ft across two connected spaces. A penthouse dungeon of around 500 sq ft across two rooms is equipped with a custom suspension murphy bed, suspension platforms, fetters wheels, bondage thrones, St Andrews crosses, cages, Sybian machines, fucking machines, and a rope tie platform. Social spaces are kept separate from the playrooms. Condoms, lubricant, and cleaning supplies are stocked throughout. A mandatory safety briefing precedes every event and a consent policy — with house safeword 'RED' — is enforced venue-wide. The event calendar includes Fun for All (FFA) mixed nights open to couples, singles, and groups (typically 8pm to midnight); Greedy Girls Gangbang nights; dedicated LGBT nights; ladies-only evenings; TV/CD admirer nights; kink workshops including rope education (typically 3pm to 8pm); and social speed-dating evenings with play-permitted afterparties. Private dungeon hire is available at £40 per hour or £200 for a full day. All tickets are sold in advance on a guestlist-only basis — the physical address is released only to confirmed attendees — and are non-refundable and non-transferable. Challenge 25 is enforced at the door.

The Fantasy Lounge

Kansas City, MO

On-Premise Club

Fantasy Lounge describes itself as “a private members social club in Kansas City” that hosts themed nightlife events for vetted adult members. Its site says it was founded in 2009. Events run on the 1st and 3rd Fridays and the 2nd and 4th Saturdays of each month, and the themed nights include a Newbie Night. The club lists a dance floor with LED club lighting, 4K HDTVs that support the DJ and VJ experience, modern lounge seating and nine private themed rooms for members, with an in-house DJ playing a mix of genres, styles and eras. Every guest must complete its membership vetting process and be approved before attending. Approved guests become nightly members who can RSVP and buy tickets. The club describes its typical members as couples, single women and single men, and it can refuse entry at its discretion. Venue location and entry details are released only after approval, through RSVP and ticket confirmation emails or the member login. Fantasy Lounge is BYOB: it sells no alcohol but provides ice, mixers and bar setups, and only personal-sized coolers are allowed. The dress code is “upscale club attire”; the rules prohibit illegal drugs, require consent before any physical contact, and allow photos or video only with the consent of everyone visible.

The Foothills Club

Anderson, SC

Hotel Ballroom Party Club

The Foothills Club describes itself as a “private/membership only club, open to couples and singles in the lifestyle.” It holds its parties in a private hotel ballroom in Anderson, South Carolina, near I-85 Exit 19A, and says it is “not an on-premise club.” Its history page traces the club to 1985, when it began as house parties in Georgia. It hosts one or more events a month, a Friday karaoke meet and greet followed by a themed Saturday main event. The smoke-free ballroom is decorated for each Saturday theme. A DJ plays music and videos and takes requests, and the room has a lighted stripper pole and a St. Andrew's cross for guests who want “a hint of playful adventure.” Complimentary appetizers and finger food are served, and host-hotel rooms are offered at a member rate, though a room is never required. Everyone needs a lifetime membership, bought at the door with a photo ID matching the registration form; the club takes cash only. Anyone 21 or older who is interested in the lifestyle may join, including couples and single women. Single men are limited to 10% of attendance and must contact the club to be confirmed. Friday is BYOB; Saturday adds a complimentary open bar, plus BYOB. There is no specific dress code. Sex is not allowed in the ballroom or public hotel areas.

The Idaho White Rose

Post Falls, ID

On-Premise Club

The Idaho White Rose describes itself as “a House Party located in between Spokane, WA, and Coeur D'Alene, ID,” and its events page places a party in Post Falls. It requires guests to be 21, focuses on couples, and also admits single women and a very limited number of single men at each party. It holds at least two events and a Meet and Greet every month. The house has a dance floor with a pole-dancing stage, a sitting area, a changing area, showers and a big covered outdoor hot tub that the club says is drained and cleaned after every party. It lists six private rooms that can be closed or left open, plus a room with glass French doors for couples who enjoy exhibitionism, a large group room and a large couples-only room. There are no lockers, and free secluded parking is provided. The address is not posted online; guests RSVP or call for it. Photo ID is required. Newcomers can attend a free, no-obligation New Member Orientation and may leave without paying. Guests bring their own drinks, with secure refrigerators and soda and mixers provided but no alcohol. Events are themed, and men are asked for a collared shirt and slacks. Rules include no touching without permission, no cameras or phones in public places, and no illegal drugs.

On-Premise Club

The Korral describes itself as “private members only on premise club for sexy upscale adults.” It is a membership club for couples and singles in Spring Grove, Pennsylvania, whose parties run on Friday and Saturday nights. The venue has a dance floor with a stage and pole, a bar, a dining room, pool tables, two hot tubs, a heated saltwater pool with a Tiki Hut, 18 themed rooms, a BDSM hallway and a glory hole, and its photo gallery names the Black Light, Under the Sea and Arabian Nights rooms. Overnight guests can book one of 8 Private Stay rooms or an after party room. A monthly Friday Kink Night adds equipment to the dance floor, and theme nights do not require dressing for the theme. Guests must be members aged 21 or over with a state-issued ID, an approved application and a reservation. New single men must be sponsored by a current couple or single female member who attends with them, and their numbers are limited each night. The club is BYOB, with alcohol checked in at the bar. The dress code is “dress to impress,” without cuts or colors, slogan shirts or sweatpants unless the theme allows. Phones are allowed only in the selfie room and main office, and guests can be removed or banned for phone use in the club, opening a closed door, drugs, weapons or outing a member.

The Lifestyle Lounge

Unverified

Eccles, Greater Manchester

BDSM Club

The Lifestyle Lounge sits on Liverpool Road in Eccles, a short distance from the Manchester city boundary, in a building that has housed one of Greater Manchester's most tenacious adult social clubs for over four decades. Originally trading as Adam and Eve's — widely described as one of the UK's oldest swingers bars — the venue was taken over by owner Kerry, who oversaw a full rebrand and renovation programme completed in April 2025. The result is a members-only club that explicitly courts couples, single women, LGBTQ+ guests, and those with an interest in kink, fetish, and BDSM, while retaining the community-social-club atmosphere that the site has carried since the 1980s. The club gained national attention when it featured in the Channel 5 documentary Adults: 24 Hour Sex, Up All Night. The venue occupies four themed floors fitted out for both social and play use. Amenities include a hot tub, jacuzzi, sauna, swing room, a dungeon, a bondage table, private rooms, a pool table, and individual lockers. Capacity is capped at approximately 80 members. The atmosphere is deliberately low-key and sober: the venue holds no alcohol licence, so guests bring their own within strict limits — up to four cans or a half-bottle per person. Phones are surrendered at the reception desk on arrival to protect members' identities, and are not permitted in any public area of the club. The club opens Wednesday and Thursday from 21:00 to 02:00, and Friday and Saturday from 20:00 to 03:00. Membership is required to attend, and the dress code is described as bright, kinky, and as bold as guests dare. A zero-tolerance drugs policy is in force, and the club is a participant in the Code Red safety network — a shared-exclusion arrangement spanning multiple venues across the North of England under which a ban at one member club applies automatically to all others.

The Loft Club

Ronkonkoma, NY

The Loft Club billed itself as Long Island's only premier upscale lifestyle club, operating out of an industrial-style space at 142-1 Remington Boulevard in Ronkonkoma. Operated under the umbrella of the Naughty Neighbors group — active on the Long Island lifestyle scene since 2015 — the club combined a social lounge experience with on-premise play, drawing couples and vetted single guests in roughly equal measure. The Naughty Neighbors' ethos of zero-pressure, no-expectation socialising carried directly into the club nights, where newcomers were actively welcomed and regulars kept the atmosphere more house-party than nightclub. The venue featured three lounge areas, a dedicated dance floor with a DJ, upgraded lighting, and six dedicated playrooms. A stripper pole anchored the main party room and the club ran a BYOB policy, supplying mixers, sodas and water at the bar. Admission was tiered: $30 for single ladies, $70 for couples, and $80 for single men, with single-male attendance capped and subject to pre-approval. Events were listed on the SwingLifeStyle (SLS) calendar. As of mid-2026, The Loft Club was actively relocating to a new and larger location, with the Naughty Neighbors group targeting its annual Halloween party as the opening milestone. The theloftclub2.com site was live but showing a Launching Soon holding page, directing all enquiries through email and text-only contact channels.

The Meeting Place

Decatur, MI

On-Premise Club

The Meeting Place says “the vibe is always relaxed and welcoming” at its own venue near Kalamazoo, Michigan, which operates on a membership basis. It opens every Saturday and on the third Friday of each month, calls itself Michigan's oldest sex club, and its About page says it has been in business for over 37 years. The venue covers more than 6,000 square feet, with a DJ and dance floor with a stripper pole, a large hot tub, and an outdoor firepit inside a 12-foot privacy fence. Inside are 12 play rooms with more than 35 beds, lockers, and a complimentary buffet. A private room can be rented for the night, and an “Orgy Room” for content creation can also be rented. Guests may stay over into the next day. Couples must attend and enter together, and single males must call each time they want to attend because space is limited. Guests must be 21, and new members call on the day of the party after noon to hear the rules and get the address, which is not published, and then get a tour from a host couple. The club is BYOB and cigarette and 420 friendly, with no hard drugs. Street clothes are not allowed in play and bedroom areas. Cell phones must stay in the car and BDSM is not allowed, and either can get a guest asked to leave or banned.

The Naughty Pineapple

Leicester, Leicestershire

On-Premise Club

The Naughty Pineapple describes itself as “a welcoming and friendly club” and is a swingers club on Bedford Street South, near Leicester town centre. It says it is “LGBTQ friendly”, opens Thursday to Sunday with Thursday as a Newbie Day for people new to the scene, and holds themed parties each month along with various events and bi takeover nights. It calls itself “one of the smaller clubs”. The club lists a hot tub (no play in it), a four-tier cinema room that also has room for play, showers, a changing room with free lockers, playrooms with condoms and lube, a sex swing, female glory holes, a grope box, a fetish dungeon and a BDSM cross, plus various demonstration evenings for learning new skills. A small cafe serves cooked food and drinks, and a small outside area is for smoking and vaping. Entry categories cover couples, single men, TV/TS guests and single women. Membership is free and needs only a name and a face photo. The club is not licensed, so guests bring their own drinks and pay corkage; soft drinks are sold. Dress runs from smart or casual to a towel or nudity. The club is 18+ and can ask for identification. Phones and cameras must stay out of the play areas. Drugs or violence mean a lifetime ban, and ignoring two requests to stop means removal.

The Night Game

Houston, TX

on-premise nightclub

The Night Game describes itself as an “upscale, on-premise nightclub with a blended feel of high class & cozy.” Its About page calls it a “Private Member Lifestyle club” in Houston that caters to all types of alternative lifestyles, including swinging, BDSM, polyamory and LGBTQ+. It opens on Friday and Saturday nights, and visitors can become members on a first visit. Its About page lists private playrooms with security and cleaning staff, a 1200 sqft dance floor with a dance cage, two dance poles and a shadow box for silhouette shows, a covered patio, DJs, complimentary drink set-ups with a full waitstaff and complimentary refreshments. Its events include a Freaky Friday every third Friday, where ladies in lingerie get a door discount, and a Date Night every fifth Friday. Guests must be 21 or older, and new and renewing members must show valid photo identification. The club is strictly BYOB and does not sell, serve or handle alcohol. Its dress code requires “Date Night/Cocktail” attire, and single men may not enter the playrooms, including the voyeur room, unless accompanied by a couple or partner. Consent is required before touching anyone, drugs are not tolerated, cameras are barred from private rooms, and rule-breakers may be escorted out without refunds.

The Pendulum Club (Hempstead Location)

Houston, TX

The Pendulum Club (Hempstead Location) describes itself as “a non smoking, non-vapor, BYOB private membership social venue”, and its About page calls it a “woman owned and operated” lifestyle club. It is at 14448 Hempstead Rd. in Houston, opens Wednesday to Saturday nights, and its site gives 2015 as its year of establishment. The club lists a main dance floor area with a bar and tables, a select area where booths surround a separate dance stage, and a back area with a private room, veiled beds and a group bed area surrounded by several couches. A couples-only area near the main exit door has 2 private rooms and 2 semi private veiled beds. Wrist bands can carry color buttons showing a guest's interests. Admission is for consenting adults over 21: couples, single women and select single men, the men on Wednesday, Thursday and Friday nights only, and its home page adds “CISGENDER ONLY”. Tickets require a member profile, and a first visit is as a temporary member until approval. Alcohol is BYOB, with ice, cups and mixers free. Men are asked to wear a pressed collared shirt and dress slacks or dressed jeans, never work jeans, sweat pants or shorts. Cameras, recording gear and phone use inside are banned, and illegal drugs or soliciting prostitution get a guest asked to leave.

The Pendulum Club South

Houston, TX

Private Social Dance Club

The Pendulum Club South describes itself as “one of Houston's only woman owned and operated lifestyle clubs”. Its page lists it as a non-smoking, non-vapor, BYOB private membership social venue at 8101 Airport Blvd., open on Friday and Saturday nights and established in 2018. The main dance floor has a bar and tables, and a “select area” with its own private room has booths around a separate dance stage. The back area has 4 private rooms and a veiled bed and group bed area surrounded by several couches, and wrist bands with color buttons let guests signal their interests. Its ticket page lists a recurring Friday dress night and named parties on Saturdays. Entry is for consenting adults 21 or older: couples, single women and, on Friday nights only, a few select single men. A membership profile with a picture is required to buy tickets online or at the door, and a pre-purchased ticket does not reserve a seat. The club does not serve or sell alcohol, so guests bring their own, with ice, cups and mixers supplied free. Its dress code prefers men in collared shirts with dress slacks or dressed jeans. Cameras need management's written permission, cell phones are barred inside, and illegal drugs or soliciting prostitution mean removal and a report to law enforcement.

The Pendulum Society

Langley, British Columbia

On-Premise Club

The Pendulum Society describes itself as “a 19+ all inclusive, members only adult club” that hosts parties and catered private events for people of all genders and sexual orientations. It holds lifestyle and kink events and themed parties at private properties in Langley and South Surrey, British Columbia, and rents its space for photo and video shoots and private play dates. The club calls its Langley venue the Langley Mansion, and its event pages describe a 5,600-square-foot mansion. Facilities it names include semi-private playrooms where curtains can be closed or left open for guests who enjoy being watched, shared public playrooms and a saltwater inground pool. There are stairs, so heels call for caution. Joining is by membership application, and exact addresses are emailed only after registration, an RSVP and payment of the entry donation. New single men must attend a new member orientation before the larger sex-on-premises events. The club is BYOB: it sells no alcohol, and a server stores and serves guests' drinks. Themed attire is encouraged but optional, business casual or club wear otherwise. Consent is required, pay-for-play is banned, illicit drugs are prohibited, and cameras and recording devices are not allowed unless authorized.

The Phoenix Ottawa

Ottawa, Ontario

On-Premise Club

The Phoenix Ottawa describes itself as a “private members’ venue”, an erotic social club near Hunt Club and Prince of Wales Drive that welcomes curious, open-minded couples and singles aged 18 and over of any gender, identity or sexuality. It is LGBTQ2A+ and kink-friendly, opens Mondays, Fridays and Saturdays, and can be rented for private parties. The club has two dungeons with a spanking bench, suspension point, X-cross and sex chair, plus a milking table, an aftercare room, a pink room, a double-bedded open room for exhibitionists and voyeurs, and two lounge rooms. It offers lockers, free on-site parking, condoms, lubricant, water and light snacks. Recurring nights include a Monday night, a Friday BDSM night, Saturday swinger nights, a Saturday men's night and a hotwife and cuckolding night. Attendance requires a membership bought in person after email vetting, which is also how the address is released. Single men may attend Monday, Friday and men's nights, and Swinger Saturday and Her Playground are by invitation only for them. The club sells no alcohol; members may bring their own, but intoxication can lead to removal. Cameras and phones are prohibited, and non-consensual touching and harassment are met with zero tolerance.

Private House Party

The Playground RI describes itself as “a place where like-minded adults get together for a safe fun-filled night.” Its FAQ says it has no memberships and is “not a club just a private house party,” and its hosts page says Eddy and Viv have hosted for over 20 years. It is in Providence, RI. It has 9 private play rooms and 3 open rooms, including a couples-only room. The first floor has the Wild West room, the Pirate room and the 50 Shades of Grey Red Room of Pain; the second has a dance floor with a stripper pole plus the Jungle and Gothic rooms; and the towel-and-robe-only third has an open group play area and a Glory Hole. It also has a dungeon, two sex swings, a massage table, a Sybian and a doctor's office with two exam tables. It holds Fusion Friday, Fantasy Friday, Full Figure Friday and Saturday nights. Guests RSVP through the night's host with a name, couple or single status and a face picture, and the host then sends the address; walk-ins are not allowed and all parties are 21+. Parties are BYOB, themes are never mandatory, and there is no nudity outdoors. House rules say no means no, touching requires verbal consent, phones are banned on the third floor and in the basement, and anyone who breaks a rule is removed without a refund and possibly banned.

The Pleasure Garden Club describes itself as a “Members Only Lifestyle Club”. It is at 6039 Passyunk Ave in Philadelphia and opens every Friday and Saturday night, with Fridays welcoming couples, single ladies and single men and Saturdays limited to couples and single ladies. Its ticket pages cite “over 20 years of unwavering success”. Its About Us section lists a main dance floor with sound and lights, a back bar with a professional dancer pole, two BYOB juice bars with mixers provided, a group shower with towel service, lockers and themed private fantasy rooms open on Fridays and Saturdays. Ticket listings add a single-level layout and a second Sybian room. Recurring nights include Fantasy Fridays, Newbie Nights and PLEASUREcation on the first Friday of each month. A current membership is required, and anyone without one must buy it before admission; members must be 21 or older with a state-issued ID, and admission can be refused without explanation. The club is BYOB and sells no alcohol. Its dress code points men to suits, sportscoats and dress shirts and does not allow sports attire, tank tops, hoodies or baseball-style hats. Cameras and recording devices are prohibited, phones stay in the car or at the front desk, and illegal drugs bring a ban and police notification.

The Rabbit Hole Adelaide

Adelaide, South Australia

On-Premise Club

The Rabbit Hole Adelaide is a private members lifestyle club set in a converted private residence roughly ten minutes north-east of the Adelaide CBD. Catering to open-minded adults interested in consensual non-monogamy, swinging, and alternative relationship dynamics, the club is built around a philosophy of consent, safety, and sophistication. Run by a couple known as Wendee and Andrew, the venue is deliberately curated and selective: prospective members must submit an application questionnaire and a recent full-body photograph before gaining access, and membership, though free, is granted entirely at the hosts' discretion. The venue is spread across two floors. Downstairs is the social zone — a lounge equipped with a pool table and pole-dance poles where guests mingle and settle in. Upstairs holds the play floor, comprising an open dungeon, an open room, two closed private rooms, and a curtained room. Every play space is stocked with condoms (regular, large and X-large), dams, lubricant, wipes, and clean sheets and towels; a one-hour limit is suggested for closed rooms to keep access moving. Soft drinks, water, tea, coffee, and nibbles are provided; guests bring their own alcohol, stored in a large commercial refrigerator on site. A change room is available for those who prefer to arrive in street clothes and transition into lingerie or fetish attire on site. Phones are surrendered to lockers at arrival and are not permitted back in the venue — cameras and any form of recording are prohibited throughout. The calendar spans a varied programme of themed nights, primarily on Saturdays, with doors opening at 8:30 pm and closing at 9:30 pm — late admission is not offered. Regular open parties run through to around 2:00 am; Newbie Nights, restricted to couples and plus-ones with soft-swinging guidelines in the shared spaces, are the recommended entry point for first-timers. The programme also includes Meet and Greet social evenings with no play, Girls Nights for female-identifying guests, LGBTQI+ Rainbow Parties, and kink and fetish events. Membership is free and non-transferable but is a prerequisite for all events; single men must first attend a mandatory Information Night — a 2.5-hour facility tour and orientation session — before their application is reviewed, and even after approval are restricted to designated events.

The Red Rooster

Las Vegas, NV

On-Premise Club

The Red Rooster says it hosts “on-premise Las Vegas swinger lifestyle parties” in a private home about 7 miles east of the Strip. Its About page says the club was first conceived in 1983 and that the space has grown from 800 to over 12,000 square feet. It runs Wednesday through Sunday, with specialty parties for most holidays, a Wednesday karaoke night, a Thursday party called Southern Heat and a Sunday night called Vixsun, billed as a “Hotwife Haven”. The club lists a dance floor, private rooms, group rooms, an indoor pool and jacuzzi, a tournament-sized pool table, two serving bars and plenty of seating, plus an upstairs area for couples only that is open Fridays and Saturdays. The group room is a play and voyeur area open to everyone. Lockers are available behind the front bar and beside the pool, a heated patio serves as the smoking area, and parking is free. Couples and singles are welcome, and the club says it does not prescreen guests for attractiveness, wealth, youth or fitness. Everyone must be at least 25 and show ID, and entry is a cash donation at the door. The upstairs area counts a couple as a man and a woman arriving together. The club is strictly BYOB: guests check their own alcohol at one of the bars, and coffee, water and mixers are provided. Dress is whatever guests are comfortable in, as revealing as they like. Cellphones and cameras are banned, no drugs are allowed anywhere on the property, and guests who keep approaching someone after a no can be asked to leave.

The Slippery Pineapple

Springfield, MO

Lifestyle Party Club

The Slippery Pineapple describes itself as “a new lifestyle party club here in Springfield”. It says it rents a private location in downtown Springfield and emails the address and directions after an RSVP, and it points visitors to its Facebook page for its events. It describes its members as generally 18 to 60-plus and from “all races, sizes and demographics”. The club says the venue is set up with “an upscale nightclub feel with professional sound and lighting and a live DJ”. It is a smoke-free facility with an outdoor patio for smokers, and it says there is parking all around the venue. Getting in starts with an RSVP form that asks for names, an email address and a C4P, SwingLifestyle or FetLife handle, plus confirmation that guests have read the club’s rules and two notices. The club has a prepaid ticket system for paying before the event, with limited space on a first-come basis. Couples are welcome, including those who come only for the atmosphere, and the club allows “attractive, well groomed, stylishly dressed, courteous” single men while monitoring their numbers. It has no ice-breaker games, contests or initiations, and asks guests to say so if they feel pressured. It is BYOB with setups provided while supplies last, the dress is dress to impress with costumes welcome, and no weapons are allowed at any event.

The SPOTT Night Club

Unverified

Kansas City, MO

On-Premise Club

Tucked just off Interstate 70 at 2111 Television Place, The SPOTT Night Club has held its ground as Kansas City's flagship lifestyle and swingers venue for over fifteen years. The facility spans more than 8,000 square feet of indoor and outdoor party and play space. Inside, a 625-square-foot dance floor anchors the main hall, flanked by five dance poles, ten Las Vegas-style VIP booths, LED-lit glass bar-height tables, and an upper balcony that overlooks the action below. A 15x25-foot HD projection screen and Peavey surround sound fill the room, while a live DJ/VJ spins requests. On an average Saturday the crowd tops 300 guests — couples, single females, and a capped number of single men — and reviewers consistently describe the vibe as warm, polite, and pressure-free. The SPOTT runs every Saturday from 8:30 pm to 5:00 am with a different theme each week. The venue is strictly 21+ with no exceptions. Admission is tiered: couples pay $30 in advance or $40 at the door; single females $15/$20; single males $40 in advance, $50 at the door before 10:30 pm or $75 after. No printed ticket required — a valid ID at check-in suffices. No re-entry after 12:30 am. Play spaces include three private colour-themed lounges (Red, Blue, Green), a small open lounge, and a large group lounge with a voyeur viewing area. Outdoors, the WETTSPOTT area offers a 16x32-foot heated pool, an eight-person hot tub, five cushioned gazebos, and fire tables — open from St Patrick's Day to Halloween. Fully BYOB; complimentary Coke and Pepsi products provided, coolers welcome.