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Club Culture Houze

Berlin, Berlin

On-Premise Club

Club Culture Houze is a long-running sex-party venue on Görlitzer Straße in Berlin's Kreuzberg district, a short walk from the U1 Görlitzer Bahnhof and U Schlesisches Tor stops. Operating since 1996 and currently managed by Veronika, it has built its identity around radical sexual inclusivity — hosting themed nights across the full spectrum of orientation and gender: gay men, trans and non-binary guests, bisexual and pansexual crowds, femdom circles, fetish communities, and mixed-orientation couples alike. The venue describes itself explicitly as a "Safer Space" and takes a firm stance against exclusionary or demeaning behaviour at every event. The club occupies two floors. The upper level holds a cosy loft fitted with comfortable couches, pillows, a massage table, and a long bar; the lower floor opens onto a larger play space with leather furniture, slings, cages, a darkroom, and a video room. Free condoms, lubricant, and gloves are available at the bar alongside mouthwash; paper towels and sanitising sprays are positioned throughout the play areas. A snack buffet is on offer during events, and a cloakroom handles clothing and valuables storage. The atmosphere is notably smaller and more intimate than typical Berlin mega-clubs — visitors regularly describe the staff as friendly and personally attentive. Private venue hire is available for parties, photoshoots, film productions, and group meetings. Events run every night of the week, with programming shifting nightly. Recurring highlights include Naked SEX on Mondays — a gay men's night with mandatory nudity, running 19:00–23:45 — and Friday Fist / Fist Factory on most Fridays (20:00–03:00), with a dress code of rubber, leather, or fetish attire. Midweek slots rotate through Trans & Friends, Poly/Pan Experience (Bi Plus Night), QueerBeet (FTM/MTF BDSM and sex party), FAKT! (femdom evening), and bear-focused, masked, and BDSM-for-beginners nights. Entry fees vary by event: a third-party visitor account reported approximately €13 admission plus a €7 mandatory drink spend on a standard night; the masked Fuck with Unknown event is priced at €20 including a first drink; Folsom-weekend specials reach €35 and above. All payments are cash only — card payments are not accepted.

Club Eden DFW

Euless, TX

On-Premise Club

Club Eden DFW describes itself as “a place sexy couples in open relationships can meet and mingle,” and calls itself a private social lounge for guests 21 and over. It is an on-premise lifestyle club in Euless, Texas, open Wednesday through Saturday nights, and entry requires a membership that is also valid at its San Antonio and Oklahoma City locations. The 14,000-square-foot venue has a large dance floor with a sound and light system, pool tables, a photo booth, a VIP couch lounge, four semi-private and four private play rooms, a smoking patio, lockers and a full kitchen. A VIP Party Area for groups of 20 or more sits near the dance floor and the Garden of Eden patio. Nights include a Wednesday Play More Party, rotating Thursday themes and themed Friday and Saturday parties. Infliction Hall, a BDSM space, shares the premises. The club says it is mainly a couples club and welcomes lesbian, gay, bi, transgender and queer guests. Single women and single men are admitted, with single men paying a higher door price to keep the couple-to-single-male ratio, and a single man with a VIP couple stays with them all evening. The Texas locations are BYOB: guests keep their own beer, wine or liquor with them, and a set-up bar is available. Dress is nice casual, and the club may refuse entry for any reason. Consent is required before touching, and cameras, drugs and prostitution are banned.

Club Eden OKC

Oklahoma City, OK

On-Premise Club

Club Eden OKC is the Oklahoma City location of Club Eden, alongside two Texas locations, and the club describes itself as “a private social lounge/night club” for couples and singles over 21. It says it is mainly a couples club that welcomes every lifestyle, does not provide adult entertainment, and honors memberships at all of its locations. It is open Friday and Saturday nights, with themed parties, and Thursdays are available for private parties. The Oklahoma City club lists 9,000 square feet with a large dance floor, a sound and light system, music videos, a concession stand, play rooms with BDSM furniture, a smoking patio, lockers and a free parking lot. Couples-only suites sit right next to the club. A membership form is required, either in person or online, and the club offers no tours before you pay. First-time visitors are told to arrive early, bring a driver’s license and pay the daily member fee. Single men pay a higher door price to keep the couple-to-single-male ratio, and single men brought by a VIP couple must stay with them all evening. This location is not BYOB and allows no alcohol containers inside. Dress is nice casual, with women free to dress as sexy as they like, and the club reserves the right as a private club to refuse entry for any reason.

Club Equinoxe

Hamburg, Hamburg

On-Premise Club

Club Equinoxe occupies a converted former cinema on Eiffestrasse 584 in Hamburg's Hamm district, billing itself as northern Germany's largest swinger club. The venue spans roughly 1,000 square metres across three distinct areas, running parties every Friday and Saturday for couples, single women, and a managed quota of single men, set to weekly DJ sets and a rotating calendar of themed nights. The main room is a large discotheque with an elevated mezzanine lounge and dedicated dance floor, centred on a fully licensed cocktail bar. Beyond the dance floor the space extends into lockable changing rooms with individual lockers, shower facilities stocked with complimentary hygiene products, an SM play area, and a series of private separees. Towels and condoms are provided throughout. The dress code is applied without compromise at the entrance - sexy or formal-elegant attire is the baseline - and entry staff assess footwear as part of the check, with no negotiation on the door. All payments are cash only, at the door and at the bar. Doors open at 21:00 on both nights, closing at 03:00 on Fridays and 04:00 on Saturdays. The event calendar rotates through recurring formats including Never Bi Alone (a bi-inclusive Friday), cocktail-and-Latin evenings, dance-and-erotic parties, and the age-capped Young & Selected gatherings for guests up to 39. The minimum age throughout is 21. Single men must register online in advance, but a confirmed booking is not a guaranteed entry pass - final admission is decided at the door based on the prevailing gender balance - and no-shows are permanently banned from the booking system. Unsolicited touching is prohibited without exception, with violations resulting in immediate and permanent exclusion.

Club Eros

Unverified

Cleveland, OH

On-Premise Club

Club Eros occupies a sprawling 15,000-square-foot industrial-chic space tucked behind gated access on E. 33rd Street in Cleveland's St. Clair–Hamilton corridor — the only female-owned adult lifestyle club in the Midwest, run by owner Jenny, who has been hosting events for over 15 years. The main floor delivers a full nightclub experience: a DJ booth with professional sound and light show, a full-service BYOA bar with complimentary juices, sodas, and premium energy drinks, a pool table, intimate lounge seating, and a complimentary buffet on Saturday nights. A couples-only lounge with its own play area provides a quieter retreat, and a movie theater area rounds out the social zones before guests head deeper into the club. The play wing spans 20 rooms: voyeur and exhibition rooms, a kink and bondage room, a dedicated pleasure-swing room, couples glory-hole rooms, private rooms, and a first-timers tour led by staff on arrival. Membership is required — one-night passes run $20 for couples; quarterly memberships are $35 for couples or single males and $25 for single ladies. Standard Saturday door fees are $69 for couples and $20 for single ladies; single males must qualify through CockFest or Club Cougar intake events, or attend daytime Tryst sessions. Eros stands apart on scale, polish, and inclusivity: its member base spans couples and singles across straight, gay, bi, and queer identities; attendance on a typical Saturday runs 60–100 with themed nights drawing up to 250. The all-inclusive door fee covers linens, wipes, condoms, buffet, and soft-drink mixers. Doors open at 9 PM on Saturdays with events running to 3 AM, and the large gated lot with on-site security makes parking straightforward.

Club Giggity

Philadelphia, PA

Lifestyle Event Planner

Club Giggity uses the tagline “It's not just an event....It's an experience.” It is a lifestyle event planner, a subsidiary of The Forever Young Experience, whose pages list no fixed venue. Its owner/operators say they have over 20 years of DJ, promotion and event planning experience in New York, Miami, Philadelphia and Atlantic City. Events range from house parties and on-premise clubs to lifestyle meet and greets, private affairs and hotel and resort takeovers. Meet and greets are mostly held at hotel bars where guests can book a room, while a takeover uses an entire hotel for a themed weekend. A resident DJ provides music and lighting, and optional extras include massage therapists, photographers, vendors, body painters and BDSM/fetish services. Events are open to guests over 21, and the club says it does not discriminate based on age, race, religion, physical appearance or level of play. It welcomes swingers, LGBT guests and the BDSM/fetish community. Most parties are geared towards couples and single women, with single men welcome only on certain nights and at certain parties. Meet and greets are pitched at first timers, play at on-premise clubs is BYOB, and a paid membership program discounts takeover passes.

Club Indianapolis

Indianapolis, IN

Private Men's Club

Club Indianapolis describes itself as a “Private Men's Club,” a bathhouse and sauna in downtown Indianapolis, part of the Club Saunas network. Entry is by membership, and the club says it is open 24 hours a day, every day, to guests 18 and older. Its gym page says its mission is to provide a unique environment “where anyone can feel comfortable, free of judgment.” The facility has a circuit gym with cardio and strength equipment, a dry cedar sauna, a steam room, a seasonal heated outdoor pool, showers, lockers, private dressing rooms with video, public “chill” video lounges, free Wi-Fi and parking, and towels supplied by the club. Recurring offerings include a free catered lunch on Sundays and free STD and HIV testing from the Marion County Health Department on Wednesdays, Fridays and Sundays. Each visitor buys a membership with a valid photo ID, as anonymous visits are not allowed, and rents a locker or private dressing room for each visit, with no in-and-out privileges. Alcohol and drugs are banned under a zero-tolerance policy, anyone under the influence is denied entry, only small drawstring or toiletry bags are allowed and are inspected, camera phones may not be used inside, and a towel or sportswear is worn in public areas. Smoking is limited to the patio.

Club Love Ltd

Bristol, Bristol

On-Premise Club

Club Love Ltd is a queer-owned, sex-positive members club rooted in Bristol's underground kink and fetish scene. Founded and run by a queer team, it describes itself as a space where underground clubbing, queer liberation, and uninhibited self-expression collide. Events are held at The Loco Klub, a venue occupying the Victorian former Ash Pits beneath Bristol Temple Meads at Clock Tower Yard, BS1 6QH — a network of sprawling brick tunnels and raw industrial architecture that gives the nights a distinctly immersive, subterranean character. Annual membership is mandatory for main events and is subject to a safeguarding screening process; the team evaluates each application to confirm that prospective members understand the club's guidelines and ethos before approving access. Membership costs £38 plus VAT, paid in person at an event. The club operates three recurring event strands. The flagship Club Love nights run roughly monthly on Fridays or Saturdays, from 22:00 to 04:00, and are open to all approved members and their guests. The venue is configured with a main dance floor — music is curated by DJs spanning house, disco, tech house and breaks, with an emphasis on LGBTQI+ artists — alongside dedicated play spaces that include a fully rigged dungeon. Climax Clique is a separate strand for FLINTA attendees (Femme, Lesbian, Intersex, Non-binary, Trans, Agender), running quarterly. Cottage, the third strand, is a cruising space and play party for cis and trans men and non-binary people aligned with gay male culture. A queer-led wellbeing team, trained by Bristol Drugs Project and Bristol Nights, staffs every event, and a traffic light safeword system (green, amber, red) operates across all shared play spaces. Condoms, dams, lube and safer-sex supplies are provided; solo entry into play spaces is not permitted, and staff assess sobriety and consent at the entrance to those areas. Dress code is strictly enforced: leather, PVC, latex, rubber, mesh, harnesses, drag, and fetish or kink-coded attire are the standard; everyday streetwear, denim, tracksuits and plain T-shirts are not admitted. A no-phones policy is absolute — devices must remain out of sight at all times, with immediate ejection and a permanent ban the consequence of any photography or recording. All events are 20-plus with valid photographic ID required. Tickets for each event are purchased separately via Headfirst Bristol; membership applications close at 5 pm the day before each event, and each member may bring one guest who must enter alongside them.

Club Luxoria

Wagenborgen, Groningen

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Club Luxoria is a swingers club that opened in October 2024 on the rural outskirts of Wagenborgen, a small village in the Groningen province of the northeastern Netherlands. The venue occupies a property built in the style of a rustic farmhouse, and is operated entirely by women — owner Ivonne and her daughter manage day-to-day operations without paid entertainment staff. The emphasis is on unhurried social contact and genuine hospitality rather than performance or spectacle. The interior spans multiple floors and an outdoor area, with eleven themed rooms that include a darkroom, a BDSM space, a water room, a sling room, and a massage room, alongside a sauna and several jacuzzis. Outside, there is additional seating, a bed, and a sling on a terrace. Toilets and showers are available on every floor. Admission is all-inclusive: a running buffet covers soup, warm snacks, fruit and desserts, and the bar serves both alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks. Condoms, lubricant, wipes, and disinfectant are stocked in every room; towels are distributed throughout. Lockers are issued at entry with a refundable ten-euro deposit. Campervan overnight stays can be arranged with advance notice. The club runs on a fixed schedule: Fridays and Saturdays from 19:00 to 02:00, the second and fourth Sundays of each month from 14:00 to 21:00, and the first Thursday of each month from 14:00 to 21:00. Additional themed evenings and men-only nights appear on the club’s online calendar. Entry is all-inclusive and priced at €90 per couple, €80 for single men, and €30 for women and T-girls, plus a refundable ten-euro locker deposit. Solo men must register in advance through the online event calendar and receive a confirmation code; places are limited and two unexcused absences may result in access restrictions. The minimum age is 18; ID may be requested. Phone use is not permitted inside the club, and photography and filming are strictly forbidden throughout.

Club Rendezvous (Club R)

Calgary, Alberta

On-Premise Club

Club Rendezvous — known to members simply as Club R — is Alberta's longest-running lifestyle club, welcoming Calgary's open-minded community since 1983. Under Ryan and Alicia's ownership since 2012, it has grown into a fully licensed, AGLC-compliant venue that holds a 4.7-star Google rating across more than 180 reviews. The club spans two floors in a northeast Calgary building with a free parking lot right out front. Downstairs is the social heart of the night: a large dance floor with a stripper pole, a DJ booth spinning dance and house sets, a well-stocked licensed bar with a kitchen area for mixing your own drinks, plus a long community table and lounge booths lining the room for easy mingling between sets. Upstairs opens into the play area — an airy, open-concept space furnished with mattresses, beds, couches and a sex swing, where curtains pull closed around the beds whenever you want a more private, semi-secluded moment. The space is known for being spotlessly clean and is wheelchair accessible, with accessible seating, a lift and an accessible restroom. Club R is open every Friday and Saturday from 9 PM to 3 AM, with workshops and social events on select weeknights (roughly 7–11 PM). Rather than generic theme nights, it runs curated Club R Signature Events™, each built around a distinct energy and flow. Long-running favourites include First Time Friday for newcomers (meet, play, explore); Unicorn Friday, where single ladies get in free all night with a paid membership; the Saturday Lingerie Dance Party; the always-popular Little Black Dress "Midnight Seduction"; Taboo Friday; and dedicated Newbie & Member Appreciation nights. Entry is membership-based and capacity-controlled to protect the room's quality and balance: memberships start at $9.95 for a week and scale to $100 for the year (CAD), with event admission around $60 per couple and $30 per single. Couples and single women are the priority crowd, while single men are admitted in limited, screened numbers each event. The "dress to impress" code is genuinely enforced — upscale, sexy and theme-appropriate, with no tank tops, sideways hats, workout wear or sweatpants, work boots, exposed chains or man bags. Just as importantly, Club R runs on a consent-first culture where respect, privacy and enthusiastic consent are non-negotiable, backed by clear house rules and etiquette that underpin its Safe Space Alliance recognition. The team is famously warm with first-timers, and the club welcomes all bodies, genders, orientations and experience levels (18+) — part of why a community of roughly 5,100 keeps coming back. Members can also visit Club R's sister location in Edmonton, extending the same vetted, inclusive lifestyle experience across Alberta.

Private Lifestyle Club

Club Safe Word describes itself as “a members-only community for adult lifestyle minded individuals” of all genders and orientations, and calls itself San Diego’s private lifestyle club. It hosts meet and greets and private events, and its San Diego calendar lists karaoke and comedy evenings, costume parties and rope practice sessions, some of them co-hosted or run by other community groups. The club publishes no street address. The club says its meet and greets, which are non-play events, help validate new members, and it recommends that members attend at least one before joining private events, whatever their experience. Joining starts with a free profile and an approval process that asks for photos, one of which must clearly show the face and may be kept private. A paid membership adds site features and event discounts but does not include event admission. Its rules ask for an enthusiastic yes and treat any gray area as a no, and they bar drugs and prostitution and, unless an event says otherwise, cameras and recording devices. Overly intoxicated guests are asked to leave or denied entry, couples are asked to arrive and depart together, and breaking club or event rules can mean removal from an event or from the club.

Club Saphir

Schkeuditz, Saxony

On-Premise Club

Club Saphir has held its place as the longest-running swinger and couples club across Saxony, Saxony-Anhalt and Thuringia since it opened in 2002. The venue sits in Dolzig, a quiet village in the Schkeuditz municipality just west of Leipzig, at Westringstrasse 200. Inside, more than 900 square metres spread across two floors, with three bars and 15 individually designed rooms. The room list covers Raum Amor for couples wanting a lockable retreat, the Ampelzimmer where a traffic-light system signals openness, a dedicated SM space, and the Lustoase — an 80-square-metre open play area. Communal infrastructure includes a sauna with whirlpool, a Wellness 4 Two zone, and indoor smoking lounges. Entry is fully all-inclusive, covering a hot-and-cold buffet and the complete drinks menu. Three nights anchor the calendar: an Afterwork 2.0 session on the first Wednesday of the month (17:00–00:00), Fridays (20:00–03:00), and Saturdays (20:00–04:00). Solo men must register in advance to maintain gender balance, and the house motto alles kann, nichts muss sets the tone — participation is never assumed.

Club Sapphire

Tukwila, WA

On-Premise Club

Club Sapphire describes itself as “a private club for consensual, non-monogamous members.” It hosts parties at its Tukwila, Washington venue, between Seattle, Bellevue and SeaTac Airport, is primarily a couples' club that also welcomes singles, and requires a membership to attend. Parties run Wednesday through Saturday. It has about 10,000 square feet of party space, with a dance floor, a DJ and playrooms, from multi-bed group rooms to one- or two-bed rooms, plus a room for voyeurs. There is a co-ed locker room, a co-ed shower, towels, free parking, a light buffet and free sodas, coffee, tea and water. The Side Piece Lounge, a speakeasy inside the club, has a bar and three rooms with seating for 8, 10 and 12. Guests must be 21 or older with photo ID, and new members complete a brief orientation at their first event. Singles are welcome, though approved single men may attend only in limited numbers when single female attendance allows, with a confirmed ticket after a mandatory orientation. Dress is for a night on the town: baggy sweats, dirty clothing, casual wear and baseball hats are not allowed. House rules require permission before touching, ban illegal drugs and weapons, deny entry to anyone who arrives intoxicated, and prohibit photography or phone use in social areas and playrooms.

monthly fetish event (not a fixed-address club)

Club Sin is Montreal's longest-running monthly fetish event, held on the first Friday of each month in the second-floor cabaret of Café Cléopâtre at 1230 boulevard Saint-Laurent, at the edge of the Quartier des Spectacles. The event is organized by Eric Paradis, who has been active in Montreal's fetish scene for more than 35 years and who also produces the annual Montreal Fetish Weekend each Labour Day weekend. Café Cléopâtre — the last surviving show bar from the Main's most notorious era, operating since at least 1976 — provides the venue and a large part of its historical charge as a space that has hosted vaudeville, burlesque, drag, and trans cabaret for well over a century. Club Sin occupies the upstairs cabaret, a room built around a performance stage and a cash-only bar. The event is billed as a night of shows, dance, and play. Paradis has described the crowd as people from different backgrounds and professions who arrive in costume to express their identities as sexual beings; vibe reporting from 2010 documents an audience in black leather and latex alongside staged fetish performances, and a 2024 Concordian piece situates Club Sin as a pillar of Montreal's kink community, which it notes increasingly intersects with queer culture. The median age reported in early coverage was around 30. Café Cléopâtre has long been recognized as a welcoming space for Montreal's LGBTQ+ and trans communities, a character that carries through to Club Sin's programming. The upstairs bar is cash only; an ATM is available on the ground floor, which continues to operate as a strip club on event nights. No published dress code rules are independently accessible, though fetish and kink attire is consistent with the event's established character and organizer framing. Club Sin is distinct in format and scale from the annual Montreal Fetish Weekend, though both share the same producer and have used the same venue.

Club Triple XTC

Regina, Saskatchewan

Event Organiser

Club Triple XTC says it provides “a fun safe environment for people to explore fantasies & pleasure” at private events it hosts several times a year for guests from across Saskatchewan and beyond. It runs three kinds of events at a local lounge, private houses and hotel suites; its About page says it began with a hot tub party at the organizers' home in 2012. Sociables meet-and-greet nights are held at a local lounge for anyone new and curious. Private hot tub parties are house parties that cater mostly to women and couples. Hotel theme events fill entire hotel floors with themed rooms, plus exotic dance performances. Its FAQ describes a designated social area where sexual activity does not occur, several play rooms, a pole, a bar area with a hired bartender, and security staff. Attending requires a free membership application that is screened for suitability, and the location is emailed once a guest is approved. Couples, triads and single women of any gender identity or orientation are welcome; only a few select single men are admitted, if known in the lifestyle community or sponsored by a member. Guests must be over 19, with photo ID checked at the door. Drinks are bring-your-own, phones and cameras are banned, and illegal drugs and extreme BDSM are not allowed.

Bath House

Clubsauna Outside is Chemnitz's principal gay sauna and cruising venue, occupying 500 square metres across two floors at Reineckerstraße 64 in Chemnitz, Saxony. The ground floor anchors around a central bar — described by the venue itself as the contact point for hunger, thirst and any problems — alongside reception, changing rooms with lockers, and a compact shop selling towels, accessories, DVDs and underwear. Upstairs, the sauna area comprises a Finnish dry sauna, a steam bath, a whirlpool, rest cabins, private rental cabins, and a labyrinth-style darkroom with dedicated cruising zones throughout. The weekly calendar rotates through a series of themed sessions. Thursday is the long-standing Open Day, when gay, lesbian, bisexual and women visitors are explicitly welcomed alongside the regular gay-male clientele. Fridays carry discounted pricing for guests under 27; Mondays run as Happy Day at a promotional flat rate; Sundays operate on a two-for-one basis. Tuesdays are dark. Travel Gay named the venue a 4-Star Audience Award winner in both 2023 and 2024. Standard day-pass admission is €24.00 and includes a towel. A youth rate of €14.00 applies to guests under 27 on presentation of valid ID, and private cabin hire carries a supplement of €7.50. Bathing shoes are mandatory across the sauna floor and can be rented at the door for €1.50. Card payments are accepted. Prostitution is strictly prohibited.

Curious Club

Barwell, Leicestershire

On-Premise Club

Curious Club describes itself as “a private members-only social club” in Barwell, Leicestershire, housed in a converted former pub. It opens on Friday and Saturday nights, with special and themed event nights listed on its calendar. The venue has a licensed bar, lounge areas, a light-snacks menu served in the bar and lounge only, showers, numbered lockers issued at reception, dedicated play spaces and a covered outdoor smoking area, with cleaning supplies and bins provided throughout. On some special nights the club opens to the public as a social area and bar. Couples, single women, single men and CD/TV guests are all admitted at their own rates, but entry runs on a ratio system that never guarantees a place and may be adjusted for themed events. Members must be 21 or over, apply in advance and show valid photo ID on a first visit, when the team offers a guided tour. The bar is the only source of alcohol, as no other alcohol is allowed on the premises, and anyone who appears intoxicated or on drugs is refused entry. Phones stay in the secure lockers, cameras and recording devices are banned, and no activity takes place in the bar, reception or outside area.

Dark Odyssey describes itself as an experience “built to bring together sexuality, spirituality, education, and play”, and its About page says it was created in 2003. It holds four large events a year: Winter Fire in a Baltimore hotel, Fusion and Summer Camp at a camp retreat in Northern Maryland, and Surrender in a San Jose hotel. Surrender pairs daytime workshops with fully equipped dungeons and a Sex-O-Rama play space that are open Friday, Saturday and Sunday nights. Fusion and Summer Camp list a 200-acre private retreat with 40 cabins and a gym turned main dungeon with horses, crosses, beams, tables and truss forms. Fusion’s Sex-O-Rama complex adds The Lounge, Liberation, The Chamber and The Barn. Guests register for each event; a weekend pass covers the workshops, special events and playspaces. The About page welcomes people of all genders, sexual orientations and erotic persuasions, singles included, and Fusion’s FAQ allows children only if they are over 19. Surrender asks everyone to attend a short Dark Odyssey 101 etiquette class. Hotel events require street-legal dress in public areas, the camps say there is no dress code, and cameras stay home. The Code of Conduct says consent violations, harassment and breaches of the photography policy can lead to removal or a ban.

On-Premise Club

Decadance is a three-floor swingers club at 122 Durham Street in Rochdale, Greater Manchester, that has been operating for over a decade — its fourteenth birthday falls in September 2026. The club runs on a no-membership, no-guestlist model and opens four nights a week. Self-described as female-run, it centres its ethos on consent, safety, and a relaxed social atmosphere. The venue spans three floors of a converted building. The ground floor holds a fully licensed bar, a pool table, toilets, and sauna; the first floor, reached by a steep staircase, contains the playrooms, shower facilities, and an outdoor balcony — the designated smoking area and the only space where mobile phones may be used. The basement is reached via a very steep curved staircase and houses the BDSM dungeon. Towels, lockers, and condoms are included in the entry price, as is pool-table use. Photography and recording are banned throughout the venue. The weekly schedule runs Monday Funday (13:00–18:00), Friday Night Madness (20:00–02:00), SeXXXy Saturday (20:00–02:00), and Spicy Sunday (15:00–22:00). The first Friday of each month hosts a dedicated newcomer night called Cherry Popper. No membership is required. Entry is £25 for single men (£20 on Sundays and Mondays), £15 for couples (£10 on Sundays and Mondays), £10 for trans guests, and always free for single women. A Challenge 25 ID policy is in operation; only passports and driving licences are accepted. Casual dress is permitted in the bar and social areas, but playroom access requires changing into underwear, a towel, fetish wear, or nudity — street clothes are not allowed upstairs. A zero-tolerance drugs policy results in a lifetime ban and referral to police.

On-Premise Club

Devious Adelaide is a quarterly BDSM and kink event series in Adelaide, South Australia, run by Nick (he/him) and Pixie-Sky (they/them), who describe themselves as "lovers, teachers, performers and Adelaide event creators." Events are held at a hired boutique venue at 57 Manton St in Hindmarsh, immediately west of the city centre, and are positioned explicitly as kink parties rather than sex parties. The organisers describe the space as safe and deliberately inclusive — queer-friendly by stated design, open under the tagline "18+. Queer AF!" — with a welcoming stance toward both newcomers and experienced kinksters. The Hindmarsh venue is fitted out with a curated range of play equipment including suspension frames, a wax play area, a medical zone, and a dedicated pup play space, alongside a dance floor serviced by resident DJ Kev. Free parking is available on surrounding streets. All tickets are sold in advance through the Devious Adelaide Humanitix host page — no door sales are offered — and doors close at 10pm. Refunds are available up to seven days before each event. Parties run on Saturday nights from 8pm to 1am ACST/ACDT and follow a consistent "D" naming pattern: past editions include DESIRE, DEBAUCHERY, DEVOUR and DEPRAVITY. Ticket prices are tiered by release window. Each party is preceded by a complimentary one-hour skills workshop from 7pm to 8pm — covering topics such as consent negotiation and scene planning — for which a separate free ticket must be reserved in advance as spots are limited.

Dominium Vita

London, London

Private Members Club

Dominium Vita describes itself as “a private members' society.” Its events are held at a selection of private properties in London, with the address revealed to ticket holders 48 hours beforehand. Its About page says the name means “to own life.” Events can range from 50 to 180 guests. Spaces named at its events include a lobby and bar, an open courtyard, a fully equipped dungeon, a dining room with live performances, three private top-floor playrooms and, at residence gatherings, a social salon with large play rooms. Event formats include the Carpe Noctem nights, Hidden Deviance gatherings, monthly members' socials and Mandrake Salon sessions. Tickets are sold first come, first served to approved members; membership is by application with photos, approval is not guaranteed, and couples or shared memberships are not accepted. Single men are welcome under a one-strike consent policy. Dress follows the event, from cocktail attire to black tie, with entry refused and no refund when no effort is made. Phone cameras are covered with a sticker, smoking is banned in and outside play venues, and breaking a rule means being asked to leave and losing membership. Spectating is welcome, and security is present at every event.

Eden After Dark

Las Vegas, NV

Event Organizer

Eden After Dark describes itself as a “members-only swing lifestyle club headquartered in Las Vegas, NV.” It stages thematic parties mostly in Las Vegas and Southern California, with some events elsewhere in the country. Events are for approved members, whom it calls Keyholders, and are not open to the general public unless noted. Venues vary by event: hotels and hotel suites, partnerships with local lifestyle clubs that have a physical location, pool events, and public “vanilla” meetups or munches. The club also hosts ladies-only nights with no men on the premises. Anyone can apply to become a Keyholder, but approval is not guaranteed, and the minimum age is 21. Members are mainly male-female couples, and the club says it is committed to an alliance with the LGBTQ community. Invitations state the start time and when doors close, and there is no entry or re-entry after that. The club never sells alcohol; it provides packaged mixers, water and non-alcoholic drinks. Guests are expected to dress to impress unless the event is themed. Cameras, recording devices and cell phones are not allowed at events without written permission, new members receive an email on the basic rules of the lifestyle, and nobody is pressured to take part in adult activities.

Entourage Vegas Spa and Health Club

Las Vegas, NV

Gay Bathhouse

Entourage Las Vegas describes itself as “gay owned and operated” and runs a male-only gay bathhouse and spa for gay, bi, or curious men. The club is open around the clock every day of the year, says it was formerly The Apollo Spa, and says it has served the local gay community since the 1990s. Prices include membership. The building holds a heated indoor pool, a jacuzzi, a sauna, a steam room and a gym, along with a play room, a dark room, a large-screen viewing room, 50 private dressing rooms, two locker rooms, group and private showers and a smoking room. A snack cafe and a store of male-geared products and accessories are on site, towels are free to use, and Wi-Fi and filtered water are complimentary. The club also lists a party room with a swing. The club describes itself as “a club for men and those who identify as men,” with ID-supported gender identity required. It calls itself “a welcoming and safe environment” for men to enjoy the company of other men, regardless of sexual preference. Lockers, rooms and the party room are booked for four or eight hours, with membership included in the price.

Erlebnisbar Eden

Kiel, Schleswig-Holstein

On-Premise Club

Erlebnisbar Eden occupies a central address on Flämische Straße in Kiel's city core. The venue bills itself as "the number one for frivolous nightlife in Northern Germany" and operates under the tagline "Frivol – Erotisch – Anders" (Frivolous – Erotic – Different). It positions itself explicitly as neither a brothel nor a traditional nightclub, but as an erotic experience bar and disco open to couples, singles, and LGBTQ+ guests — lesbian, gay, and trans visitors are expressly welcomed. It is one of two locations run under the Eden brand, the other being in Hamburg's Jenfeld district. The space is arranged across two levels. The main floor carries a dance floor, a large bar, and three oversized red leather seating areas, along with a smaller lounge adjacent to the restrooms. The lower level holds a couples lounge with seating and a whirlpool. Amenities include shower facilities and a games and entertainment area. The venue describes its atmosphere as cosy and elegantly furnished, with a social and open-minded tone throughout. Opening hours and entry prices are not currently listed online; prospective visitors should contact the venue directly before attending. Payment by cash and EC-card is accepted. Solo men are admitted only by invitation or when accompanying a couple, and may access designated areas only. Dress code across the Eden brand calls for sexy or frivolous attire. The building is not wheelchair accessible and has no on-site parking.