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Shed 16

Seaford, Victoria

On-Premise Club

Shed 16 is an adults-only lifestyle and swinger venue occupying a purpose-built space at 2/16 Cumberland Drive in Seaford, a bayside suburb on Melbourne's south-eastern fringe roughly 40 kilometres from the CBD. The club operates as a sex-on-premises venue with an explicit commitment to LGBTIQA+ inclusion, framing its mission around a safe, sex-positive environment that welcomes people of all genders, backgrounds, and levels of experience. The ethos is deliberately no-pressure: attendance carries no expectation of participation, and first-timers are actively accommodated through a gradual introduction to the space. The venue spans two floors. The ground floor anchors each session with a fully licensed bar and café, two spas, a dry sauna, a steam room, large open shower facilities, secure lockers, and free internet stations. The upper level is dedicated to play, hosting private lockable rooms, open group areas, a bondage and kink dungeon, sling rooms, a suckatorium, voyeur rooms, and a porn lounge. An outdoor courtyard serves as the smoking and vaping area. Dress expectations shift between floors: the ground level permits casual attire for the first two hours, while upstairs requires towel, underwear, lingerie, or nude. Condoms are provided throughout. Four weekly sessions run Tuesday through Saturday. TABOO (Tuesday, 7 pm–1 am) prices couples at AUD $35, single ladies at $15, and pre-booked single men at $60. DESIRES (Thursday, noon–6:30 pm) carries the same couple and ladies rates, with single men at $60 (or $50 before 1 pm). SHARED SECRETS (Friday, 8 pm–2 am) admits couples at $70 and single ladies at $25; single men are not admitted. CLUB EROTIQUE (Saturday, 8 pm–2 am) prices couples at $60, single ladies at $20, and pre-booked single men at $150. Entry is cash only at the door, with an on-site ATM; EFTPOS is accepted at the bar. A $10 surcharge applies on public holidays.

Shhh Newcastle Swingers Club

Newcastle upon Tyne, Tyne and Wear

On-Premise Club

Shhh Newcastle Swingers Club occupies a multi-storey premises at 85-89 Blandford Street in Newcastle city centre, roughly five minutes' walk from both Newcastle Central rail station and the Tyne and Wear Metro. Operating since 2018 and formerly trading as Shhh... by Base, the club underwent a full refurbishment in 2021 — installing a new jacuzzi, updating the playrooms, and adding a discreet rear entrance — and bills itself as the only venue of its kind in Newcastle upon Tyne. With a stated capacity of 200, the club places a strong emphasis on inclusivity: the space is LGBTQ+-welcoming and explicitly trans-friendly, with reduced or complimentary entry for trans guests on most nights. The venue spans two floors. Downstairs sits a fully licensed bar, a lounge, a dance floor, and spacious changing rooms with secure lockers; upstairs are the playrooms — including a cinema room, private zones, and a dungeon — alongside a sauna, steam room, jacuzzi, an internet room, and an outdoor seating area. First-time visitors receive a guided tour before being issued a membership card and locker key. Reviews describe a clean, no-pressure atmosphere with staff consistently praised for attentiveness to safety and comfort. Complimentary condoms (standard, king-size, and latex-free), lubricant, and dental dams are provided at reception and throughout the bar; the first towel is free and additional towels are £1 each. Overnight stays are available on party and fetish nights, with private or shared rooms at £15 per person and morning refreshments served between 9am and 11am. The club runs Wednesday through Sunday. Wednesday afternoons host a mixed swingers session (couples £20, singles £10); Thursday is a Flip Flop bisex night (couples £10, singles £5, trans guests free); Friday's #FetishFriday admits couples at £10, single women at £5, and single men at £20; Saturday's Swingers Circus is the main weekly event (couples and single men £25, women £10); and Sunday is a men-only play day. On Friday fetish and Saturday nights, guests may supplement the licensed bar with their own alcohol for a £2.50 corkage fee. Membership requires completing an application form and presenting valid photo ID: a driving licence showing the current address is preferred and sufficient alone, while a passport must be accompanied by a utility bill, council tax bill, or bank statement. Before 11pm the dress code is smart and glamorous; after 11pm, access to upstairs play areas requires appropriate attire — lingerie, a wrap, robe, or towel — and trainers, sportswear, and hoodies are prohibited throughout.

Shrine Austin

Austin, TX

Event Organizer

Shrine describes itself as “a sex positive, fetish, and kink oriented space” that blends a dungeon and club like atmosphere. It is a monthly event series rather than a standing club, held on a Sunday at colette Austin, with a casual munch typically the Wednesday before. The venue offers ten beds, a large social area, mats for primal and rough body play, and allocated spaces for fire play, long-distance impact and blood/needle play. Shrine's rules page also lists St. Andrew's crosses, spanking benches, hard points, wrestling mats, stripper poles, a DJ booth, a non-alcoholic beverage bar, small lockers, balconies for voyeurism and an outdoor smoking area. Entry is for anyone 18 or older with a valid state or federal ID who agrees to the waivers and a temporary, event-only membership included in the cover; tickets are sold at the door or online. The organizers welcome all sexual orientations, gender identities and expressions. It is a dry event: alcohol and illegal substances, including cannabis, are prohibited, and phones and cameras are banned inside except in approved areas. There is no dress code inside, but guests come in streetwear to the door. Consent is required for all contact, the safe word is RED, and Dungeon Monitors in colored vests or with radios are on hand.

Stopgap

San Francisco, CA

Kink Venue

Stopgap describes itself as “A Turnkey Venue for the San Francisco Kink Community.” It is a kink venue in San Francisco's South of Market area, open to adults aged 18 and over. The ground floor has social areas, lockers and two bathrooms, while the basement holds the play areas, with equipment such as crosses, benches, bondage tables, bondage chairs and cages. The venue also has a cuddle room for aftercare and spaces for sensual play, and its spaces are open, with no private rooms. Its recurring nights include a monthly First Friday house party, a Third Tuesday queer leather dungeon night and a board games and kink night. First-time guests must buy a presale ticket, while returning guests may buy a ticket at the door. The exact address is given only to ticket buyers. Single men may attend without a date. Guests sign a waiver and follow each event's dress code; by default phones and recording are not allowed, and alcohol and drugs are not permitted.

Sultry Sarah's Social Club

St. Louis, MO

Social Club

Sultry Sarah's Social Club describes itself as “an exclusive, member-only community in the St. Louis area for adventurous adults”. It says it has run since 2017 and is now a 501(c)(7) non-profit social club, and its Sultry Soirées are held on Saturday nights at a downtown St. Louis venue on North Broadway that has its own private parking lot. Alongside them it runs Sultry Sinema movie nights and social evenings such as karaoke and game nights. The club’s rules refer to play areas and social areas, with room doors required to stay open. Guests signal their consent level with colored wristbands, and phones are forbidden in play areas. Complimentary beverages, light snacks and protection are provided, and gatherings are strictly BYOB. Attending takes a paid membership and an approved application; all attendees must be 21 or older and show ID at entry. Singles and couples are both welcome, and tours and ambassadors are offered to newcomers. Dress is street-legal attire on arrival, with lingerie, formalwear or nudity allowed inside. The rules require explicit, verbal, sober consent and let the club remove members who break them.

Swingers Oase

Ammerzoden, Gelderland

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Swingers Oase is a small, intimate parenclub on the Haarstraat in Ammerzoden, a village in Gelderland roughly midway between Zaltbommel and Den Bosch. In operation for over a decade, it positions itself as an approachable alternative to the larger commercial venues in the nearby cities — somewhere guests can make contact easily in a setting the club describes as gezellig (convivial and homely). Open to couples, single women, and single men, the guiding philosophy is niets moet, alles mag (nothing required, everything permitted) between consenting adults, with mutual respect as the founding house rule. The venue is fitted with an eight-person jacuzzi, a two-person sauna, a bar and buffet, a dance floor with DJ music, a lounge area, a terrace, and a range of private and group playrooms. Entry is all-inclusive, covering food, beverages, and full use of all facilities. Current pricing varies by day and event type and is published on the club own agenda — always confirm before attending. The club runs a varied programme across several evenings each week. Themed nights — including Blacklovers evenings, Bi-Curious parties, and Hollandse events — rotate through the schedule, with reservations required for weekend nights. Single men must reserve in advance on all open evenings. On the fifth Friday of the month the Parenavond is reserved exclusively for couples and single women; single men are not admitted that evening.

Taboo22

Loganholme, Queensland

On-Premise Club

Taboo22 occupies a low-profile commercial unit at 5/6 Cairns Street in Loganholme, roughly 25 kilometres south of Brisbane's CBD, and bills itself as Queensland's friendliest swingers club. The venue is fully council-approved and operates with a structured consent framework displayed prominently throughout. The floorplan is more generously fitted out than the exterior suggests: eight or more individually themed bedrooms, two pole-dance floors, a four-person spa, a massage room, a BYO bar with mixers provided by the house, and lounge areas. The club runs regular BDSM-themed nights alongside its standard programming, giving it a kink-inclusive appeal beyond vanilla lifestyle events. Doors open Friday and Saturday nights from 7:30 pm to 2:00 am. Standard entry is $80 for couples, $90 for single males, and $35 for single ladies — who attend free on their first visit. BDSM nights carry a $5 premium across all categories. Bookings are essential; single males must call ahead to reserve. Smart casual is enforced at the door.

The Art Cinema

Hartford, CT

Adult Theater

The Art Cinema describes itself as “one of North America's last remaining Art Deco adult theaters” at 255 Franklin Avenue in Hartford. Its History page says the Rialto Theatre was built in 1919 and took the name Art Cinema after showing art films in the 1950s. It presents adult features in what that page calls “a classic movie palace environment that is couples friendly,” and it is closed Tuesdays, with Friday and Saturday running until midnight. The auditorium seats 601, with 350 seats on the main level and 251 on the balcony. Two adult features run daily from DVD and Blu-Ray, with new lighting on the main floor and in the balcony. The theater calls its Couples Exclusive VIP Balcony “a secure and intimate space to enjoy our features,” and it hosts adult theater theme parties, with details on its Events page, plus specials such as a Monday couples special and Trans Thursday. The theater describes itself as an adult theater for couples and singles, with an age requirement of 18 and over. It says single men are not permitted in any of the designated couples' seating areas, including the VIP Couples Balcony, and that the rule is closely monitored and enforced. It also retains outside security to maintain order and safety for customers.

The Attic Experience

Derby, Derbyshire

On-Premise Club

The Attic Experience describes itself as “inclusive space created by swingers, for swingers”. It is an on-premise swingers’ club at Carrington House in Allenton, Derby, with no membership required. It runs daytime sessions Monday to Saturday (Monday is for TVs and admirers), evening sessions Wednesday to Saturday, and themed party nights on the mid and last Saturday of each month. The club calls the venue “massive”. Its pages name the Attic Cinema, a dungeon with its own safe-word system, a hot tub open on Friday and Saturday nights, showers, private rooms, rooms with viewing windows or open doors, glory holes, a bar and a DJ. Coin-operated lockers sit in a “pink” room for TVs, couples and single ladies and a separate room for single men, towels are free for the showers and hot tub, and parking is free during opening hours. Couples and single ladies are not admitted on Mondays. On Fridays and Saturdays single men are let in later in the evening, entry is capped and not guaranteed, and groups of two or more single men may be refused. There is no booking or guest list, and first-time guests get a staff tour. No alcohol is sold, but guests may bring their own. Guests must be 21 or over and pay in cash; phones or cameras in hand, or drugs, mean being asked to leave.

The Ecclesia

Glasgow, Scotland

On-Premise Club

The Ecclesia is a Glasgow city centre lifestyle and kink club combining swinging and BDSM/fetish communities under one roof. Founded in 2017 by event organisers with a background running alternative-lifestyle events across Scotland — including the Breaking Point annual event in Perth and club nights in Dundee — the venue opened in Glasgow in late 2019 following the closure of the city's long-running Sauchiehall Street dungeon. The club operates in the Hope Street and Merchant City area of the city centre on a near-community, non-profit basis. The venue spans nearly 3,000 sq ft across two connected spaces. A penthouse dungeon of around 500 sq ft across two rooms is equipped with a custom suspension murphy bed, suspension platforms, fetters wheels, bondage thrones, St Andrews crosses, cages, Sybian machines, fucking machines, and a rope tie platform. Social spaces are kept separate from the playrooms. Condoms, lubricant, and cleaning supplies are stocked throughout. A mandatory safety briefing precedes every event and a consent policy — with house safeword 'RED' — is enforced venue-wide. The event calendar includes Fun for All (FFA) mixed nights open to couples, singles, and groups (typically 8pm to midnight); Greedy Girls Gangbang nights; dedicated LGBT nights; ladies-only evenings; TV/CD admirer nights; kink workshops including rope education (typically 3pm to 8pm); and social speed-dating evenings with play-permitted afterparties. Private dungeon hire is available at £40 per hour or £200 for a full day. All tickets are sold in advance on a guestlist-only basis — the physical address is released only to confirmed attendees — and are non-refundable and non-transferable. Challenge 25 is enforced at the door.

The Freaky Rock

Geesthacht, Schleswig-Holstein

The Freaky Rock is a swinger lounge beside the Schleusenkanal in Geesthacht, a small Elbe-side town roughly 35 kilometres southeast of Hamburg. Operated by Tanja and Matthias Ullrich — who together bring more than twenty years of experience in the lifestyle sector — the venue has occupied its current address for over twelve years, making it one of the more long-established clubs in Schleswig-Holstein. The owners describe it as the 'somewhat different swinger club', with a strict no-professional-workers policy and a focus on an amateur, community-driven atmosphere. The interior spans approximately 400 square metres and can accommodate up to around 150 guests. Facilities include a bar and buffet, a dance floor fitted with a pole, dedicated changing rooms and showers, lockable couple rooms, open play areas, a wellness section with sauna and hot tub, BDSM equipment including a St. Andrew's cross, and an outdoor area with a separate enclosed smoking section. The club is explicitly LGBTQ+ inclusive and designated a transgender safe space, with gender-neutral restrooms on site. The entrance and car park are wheelchair-accessible. The Freaky Rock runs an event-driven weekly programme rather than fixed nightly hours, with times published ahead of each event via its JOYclub listing. A typical week covers a Tuesday evening party, a Friday Croque Night, a Saturday rock-themed evening centred on Rammstein and Onkelz, and a Sunday Genießer Brunch. Gay and bi-male nights also appear in the regular calendar. First-time visitors are offered an optional guided tour of the venue. Advance registration is mandatory — walk-ins are not accepted. The preferred booking route is via the club's JOYclub profile; guests without a profile may contact the venue by phone, WhatsApp, or email. All door payments are cash only.

The Lifestyle Lounge

Unverified

Eccles, Greater Manchester

BDSM Club

The Lifestyle Lounge sits on Liverpool Road in Eccles, a short distance from the Manchester city boundary, in a building that has housed one of Greater Manchester's most tenacious adult social clubs for over four decades. Originally trading as Adam and Eve's — widely described as one of the UK's oldest swingers bars — the venue was taken over by owner Kerry, who oversaw a full rebrand and renovation programme completed in April 2025. The result is a members-only club that explicitly courts couples, single women, LGBTQ+ guests, and those with an interest in kink, fetish, and BDSM, while retaining the community-social-club atmosphere that the site has carried since the 1980s. The club gained national attention when it featured in the Channel 5 documentary Adults: 24 Hour Sex, Up All Night. The venue occupies four themed floors fitted out for both social and play use. Amenities include a hot tub, jacuzzi, sauna, swing room, a dungeon, a bondage table, private rooms, a pool table, and individual lockers. Capacity is capped at approximately 80 members. The atmosphere is deliberately low-key and sober: the venue holds no alcohol licence, so guests bring their own within strict limits — up to four cans or a half-bottle per person. Phones are surrendered at the reception desk on arrival to protect members' identities, and are not permitted in any public area of the club. The club opens Wednesday and Thursday from 21:00 to 02:00, and Friday and Saturday from 20:00 to 03:00. Membership is required to attend, and the dress code is described as bright, kinky, and as bold as guests dare. A zero-tolerance drugs policy is in force, and the club is a participant in the Code Red safety network — a shared-exclusion arrangement spanning multiple venues across the North of England under which a ban at one member club applies automatically to all others.

The Loft Club

Ronkonkoma, NY

The Loft Club billed itself as Long Island's only premier upscale lifestyle club, operating out of an industrial-style space at 142-1 Remington Boulevard in Ronkonkoma. Operated under the umbrella of the Naughty Neighbors group — active on the Long Island lifestyle scene since 2015 — the club combined a social lounge experience with on-premise play, drawing couples and vetted single guests in roughly equal measure. The Naughty Neighbors' ethos of zero-pressure, no-expectation socialising carried directly into the club nights, where newcomers were actively welcomed and regulars kept the atmosphere more house-party than nightclub. The venue featured three lounge areas, a dedicated dance floor with a DJ, upgraded lighting, and six dedicated playrooms. A stripper pole anchored the main party room and the club ran a BYOB policy, supplying mixers, sodas and water at the bar. Admission was tiered: $30 for single ladies, $70 for couples, and $80 for single men, with single-male attendance capped and subject to pre-approval. Events were listed on the SwingLifeStyle (SLS) calendar. As of mid-2026, The Loft Club was actively relocating to a new and larger location, with the Naughty Neighbors group targeting its annual Halloween party as the opening milestone. The theloftclub2.com site was live but showing a Launching Soon holding page, directing all enquiries through email and text-only contact channels.

The Menagerie Brighton

Brighton, East Sussex

Event Organizer

The Menagerie is a Brighton-based event series for the sex-positive and ethically non-monogamous (ENM) community, operating as a roving collective rather than a fixed-premises club. Its tagline — Desire, Consent, Pleasure — signals the organising philosophy: events are explicitly framed not as a sex club but as 'an intimate event for people who want to explore giving and receiving pleasure,' with connection and safety placed alongside appetite. The series runs two distinct formats: open social mixers held monthly at rotating licensed venues across Brighton, and private play parties held at a vetted, undisclosed central Brighton location. The social mixers — held at queer-owned and queer-friendly bars including The Archives and The Greenhouse — are capped at between 50 and 65 guests depending on the venue. The atmosphere is deliberately low-key: cosy lighting, soft music, and a pub-appropriate dress code ('express yourself and feel comfortable, but keep it pub-appropriate — explicit kink wear and lingerie might be best left for other occasions'). No sexual activity takes place at the socials; they function as a community meet-and-greet as well as an in-person vetting step. The play parties draw a smaller, fully vetted crowd of around 40 guests at the undisclosed address. The community skews poly, queer, and LGBTQ+-inclusive throughout. Socials run monthly — most commonly on Thursdays or Wednesdays — from 20:00 to midnight, with a minimum age of 21. Attendance at a social is a prerequisite for play party admission: prospective attendees must be vetted in person before a play party invitation is extended, and attending a social carries no automatic guarantee of future event access. The Menagerie website and its Skiddle listings are the primary booking channels.

The Naughty Pineapple

Leicester, Leicestershire

On-Premise Club

The Naughty Pineapple describes itself as “a welcoming and friendly club” and is a swingers club on Bedford Street South, near Leicester town centre. It says it is “LGBTQ friendly”, opens Thursday to Sunday with Thursday as a Newbie Day for people new to the scene, and holds themed parties each month along with various events and bi takeover nights. It calls itself “one of the smaller clubs”. The club lists a hot tub (no play in it), a four-tier cinema room that also has room for play, showers, a changing room with free lockers, playrooms with condoms and lube, a sex swing, female glory holes, a grope box, a fetish dungeon and a BDSM cross, plus various demonstration evenings for learning new skills. A small cafe serves cooked food and drinks, and a small outside area is for smoking and vaping. Entry categories cover couples, single men, TV/TS guests and single women. Membership is free and needs only a name and a face photo. The club is not licensed, so guests bring their own drinks and pay corkage; soft drinks are sold. Dress runs from smart or casual to a towel or nudity. The club is 18+ and can ask for identification. Phones and cameras must stay out of the play areas. Drugs or violence mean a lifetime ban, and ignoring two requests to stop means removal.

The New Gatehouse

Kearsley, Greater Manchester

Events Venue

The New Gatehouse describes itself as a “Fully licensed events venue, available for private hire” and trades as GH Events from a former pub on Bolton Road in Kearsley, Bolton. It calls itself an “LGBTQ+ safe space” for guests aged 21 and over, with no membership fees, and runs a weekly program of themed days; Sundays are closed for private events, and the club says events may vary weekly depending on hosts and private hire bookings. The program includes T-Girls and Admirers days, a T-Girl and men only day, a Bi-day, a kink evening, Fetish Fridays and a hosted Saturday-evening social with food and music. The venue has a licensed bar, a free pool table and jukebox, social areas, and open and closed photo rooms. Entry is for adults 21 and over, and guests may be asked to prove their age. Women, T-Girls and men can attend individually, couples are also welcome, and all-male groups are not admitted. On arrival visitors are shown around and given the rules, and first-timers are advised to look around and chat. Its primary rule is “no means no”; recording or taking photos is not allowed in social areas or open photo rooms, and the club reserves the right to refuse admission for behaviors such as intoxication, illegal drugs and sex working, while discrimination or abuse results in removal and a ban. The club states there is no dress-down policy.

The Night Game

Houston, TX

on-premise nightclub

The Night Game describes itself as an “upscale, on-premise nightclub with a blended feel of high class & cozy.” Its About page calls it a “Private Member Lifestyle club” in Houston that caters to all types of alternative lifestyles, including swinging, BDSM, polyamory and LGBTQ+. It opens on Friday and Saturday nights, and visitors can become members on a first visit. Its About page lists private playrooms with security and cleaning staff, a 1200 sqft dance floor with a dance cage, two dance poles and a shadow box for silhouette shows, a covered patio, DJs, complimentary drink set-ups with a full waitstaff and complimentary refreshments. Its events include a Freaky Friday every third Friday, where ladies in lingerie get a door discount, and a Date Night every fifth Friday. Guests must be 21 or older, and new and renewing members must show valid photo identification. The club is strictly BYOB and does not sell, serve or handle alcohol. Its dress code requires “Date Night/Cocktail” attire, and single men may not enter the playrooms, including the voyeur room, unless accompanied by a couple or partner. Consent is required before touching anyone, drugs are not tolerated, cameras are barred from private rooms, and rule-breakers may be escorted out without refunds.

The Phoenix Ottawa

Ottawa, Ontario

On-Premise Club

The Phoenix Ottawa describes itself as a “private members’ venue”, an erotic social club near Hunt Club and Prince of Wales Drive that welcomes curious, open-minded couples and singles aged 18 and over of any gender, identity or sexuality. It is LGBTQ2A+ and kink-friendly, opens Mondays, Fridays and Saturdays, and can be rented for private parties. The club has two dungeons with a spanking bench, suspension point, X-cross and sex chair, plus a milking table, an aftercare room, a pink room, a double-bedded open room for exhibitionists and voyeurs, and two lounge rooms. It offers lockers, free on-site parking, condoms, lubricant, water and light snacks. Recurring nights include a Monday night, a Friday BDSM night, Saturday swinger nights, a Saturday men's night and a hotwife and cuckolding night. Attendance requires a membership bought in person after email vetting, which is also how the address is released. Single men may attend Monday, Friday and men's nights, and Swinger Saturday and Her Playground are by invitation only for them. The club sells no alcohol; members may bring their own, but intoxication can lead to removal. Cameras and phones are prohibited, and non-consensual touching and harassment are met with zero tolerance.

The Playgrounds SLE

Burton upon Trent, Derbyshire

Lifestyle events at private venues

The Playgrounds SLE describes itself as “a community of like-minded individuals” and runs verified adult lifestyle parties at private venues. It says it was “Established in 2013”. It lists itself as LGBTQIA+ inclusive, runs dedicated bi/trans TABU parties, and says it is a non-profit group that raises money for charities. Parties are held at private venues, among them a site the club calls the Lifestyle Lodge. The club says it averages at least 40 to 50 guests and never runs an event with fewer than 30. Smoking is limited to designated outdoor areas. Every event has a “no pressure, no obligation, no expectation” policy on playing. Events are guest list only, with tickets booked and paid for in advance. Guests must be 25 or over and bring photo ID. Couples, transgender guests and verified single ladies and gents are admitted unless an event says otherwise, with a limited number of verified single men where stated. Guests need a profile on a lifestyle site with a minimum of two meeting verifications or, if new, supply full names and a face photo. The address goes only to confirmed guests. Dress is smart and sexy. Consent is required, drugs are not tolerated, and recording equipment, phones included, is banned.

The Rabbit Hole Adelaide

Adelaide, South Australia

On-Premise Club

The Rabbit Hole Adelaide is a private members lifestyle club set in a converted private residence roughly ten minutes north-east of the Adelaide CBD. Catering to open-minded adults interested in consensual non-monogamy, swinging, and alternative relationship dynamics, the club is built around a philosophy of consent, safety, and sophistication. Run by a couple known as Wendee and Andrew, the venue is deliberately curated and selective: prospective members must submit an application questionnaire and a recent full-body photograph before gaining access, and membership, though free, is granted entirely at the hosts' discretion. The venue is spread across two floors. Downstairs is the social zone — a lounge equipped with a pool table and pole-dance poles where guests mingle and settle in. Upstairs holds the play floor, comprising an open dungeon, an open room, two closed private rooms, and a curtained room. Every play space is stocked with condoms (regular, large and X-large), dams, lubricant, wipes, and clean sheets and towels; a one-hour limit is suggested for closed rooms to keep access moving. Soft drinks, water, tea, coffee, and nibbles are provided; guests bring their own alcohol, stored in a large commercial refrigerator on site. A change room is available for those who prefer to arrive in street clothes and transition into lingerie or fetish attire on site. Phones are surrendered to lockers at arrival and are not permitted back in the venue — cameras and any form of recording are prohibited throughout. The calendar spans a varied programme of themed nights, primarily on Saturdays, with doors opening at 8:30 pm and closing at 9:30 pm — late admission is not offered. Regular open parties run through to around 2:00 am; Newbie Nights, restricted to couples and plus-ones with soft-swinging guidelines in the shared spaces, are the recommended entry point for first-timers. The programme also includes Meet and Greet social evenings with no play, Girls Nights for female-identifying guests, LGBTQI+ Rainbow Parties, and kink and fetish events. Membership is free and non-transferable but is a prerequisite for all events; single men must first attend a mandatory Information Night — a 2.5-hour facility tour and orientation session — before their application is reviewed, and even after approval are restricted to designated events.

The Sanctuary (Tabu Swingers Sanctuary)

Lansing, MI

Alternative Lifestyle Lounge

Club Tabu describes itself as “a sex-positive, kink-aware space rooted in the LGBTQ+ community”. The adults-only lounge sits at the back of the Fantasies Unlimited store in Lansing, and its swinger nights are branded The Sanctuary. Its FAQ adds that the club is not structured as a traditional swingers venue and primarily serves gay, bi, trans and gender-diverse guests, while welcoming “respectful guests of all identities”. It says it is open and active whenever its website is live, and that it currently has no nights reserved for particular groups. The space includes a large maze of darkened, low-lit paths and walls, private booths, changing areas with lockers, and common spaces, and the layout lets guests take part or not on their own terms. The club says it is not a bathhouse at present, though it has plans to expand. Sexual activity is limited to designated private accommodations. Guests must be 18 or older and show ID if asked. They enter through the store and tell the clerk they are there for the club, and on-site parking is available. Membership dues are collected on the night of each event. No cameras, recording devices or phone use are allowed inside the event area, and no means no. Illegal drugs are strictly prohibited, and harassment or aggression leads to removal and possibly a permanent ban. Members are asked to keep information about the club within the lifestyle community and not to linger in parking lots or hallways.

The SPOTT Night Club

Unverified

Kansas City, MO

On-Premise Club

Tucked just off Interstate 70 at 2111 Television Place, The SPOTT Night Club has held its ground as Kansas City's flagship lifestyle and swingers venue for over fifteen years. The facility spans more than 8,000 square feet of indoor and outdoor party and play space. Inside, a 625-square-foot dance floor anchors the main hall, flanked by five dance poles, ten Las Vegas-style VIP booths, LED-lit glass bar-height tables, and an upper balcony that overlooks the action below. A 15x25-foot HD projection screen and Peavey surround sound fill the room, while a live DJ/VJ spins requests. On an average Saturday the crowd tops 300 guests — couples, single females, and a capped number of single men — and reviewers consistently describe the vibe as warm, polite, and pressure-free. The SPOTT runs every Saturday from 8:30 pm to 5:00 am with a different theme each week. The venue is strictly 21+ with no exceptions. Admission is tiered: couples pay $30 in advance or $40 at the door; single females $15/$20; single males $40 in advance, $50 at the door before 10:30 pm or $75 after. No printed ticket required — a valid ID at check-in suffices. No re-entry after 12:30 am. Play spaces include three private colour-themed lounges (Red, Blue, Green), a small open lounge, and a large group lounge with a voyeur viewing area. Outdoors, the WETTSPOTT area offers a 16x32-foot heated pool, an eight-person hot tub, five cushioned gazebos, and fire tables — open from St Patrick's Day to Halloween. Fully BYOB; complimentary Coke and Pepsi products provided, coolers welcome.

The Sublime Society

London, London

Performance Night / Event Series

The Sublime Society is a monthly erotic performance event series staged at Dear Darling, a luxury bar and nightclub at 91 Jermyn Street in Mayfair's St. James's district, a short walk from Green Park station. Co-founded by burlesque artist Charlie Bouquett and House of Fatale founder Missy Fatale, it presents itself as an "exclusive hedonistic soirée" — a voyeur-forward sensual salon in which live burlesque, shibari suspension, fetish performance, and sapphic dominance play unfold in close proximity to a seated and standing audience. The project carries an explicitly FLINTA-centered artistic policy: all performers identify as femme, lesbian, intersex, non-binary, trans, or asexual, and the organisers have publicly committed to exclusively female-identifying performers for their London editions. Dear Darling occupies a double-level footprint. The main salon — called The Living Room — holds 50 seated and up to 160 standing guests among wood-panelled walls, plush sofas, velvet armchairs, green drapery, and low crystal-strung chandeliers. There is no raised stage: performers move through the room itself, and mirrored ceilings provide sightlines from multiple angles while a rigged shibari frame hosts rope suspension pieces. Below, reached only through what the venue calls Lady Darling's wardrobe — a concealed door — sits a basement nightclub with capacity for around 160, featuring avant-garde décor and a DJ booth; this space operates as the afterparty venue for Sublime Society ticket-holders from approximately 11pm. A curated cocktail menu runs throughout both levels. Events run roughly monthly on Friday evenings, with doors at 7:00–7:30pm and the performance programme concluding between 10:15pm and 11:30pm depending on format; the basement afterparty continues to 2:00am. A secondary format, The Sublime Society: SALON, runs shorter evenings (7:00–10:30pm) and layers a live podcast recording and a participatory BDSM impact-play workshop onto the shibari performance. Tickets are sold exclusively in advance via DesignMyNight; standard general admission sits between approximately £38 and £65 depending on the event, with couples packages at a 20% reduction and three-person packages at 30% off. A VIP tier adding reserved lounge seating and basement nightclub access runs £59–£80, and a Meet and Greet add-on (£20–£22) provides post-show access to the cast.

The Suite Life Platinum

Sacramento, CA

Lifestyle Resort

The Suite Life Platinum bills itself as Northern California's ultra-private lifestyle sanctuary, serving the Sacramento area from a location shared only with vetted members. The club traces its roots back roughly thirteen years, when it launched under the name Massage and Play Socials before evolving into its current form. Today it occupies a private venue designed to deliver the buzz of a nightclub alongside the intimacy of a house party — a balance the organizers lean into deliberately, with professional sound, club lighting, laser effects, and a Bluetooth-compatible system that lets members add their own tracks to the mix. The space divides into two distinct zones. The lounge and dance hall handle the social side, giving members room to mingle and move before anything else happens. The play zone runs separately and includes a voyeur/exhibitionist room, a private room, and a couples-only group room. On busier nights the team brings in a live DJ. Outside, a dedicated smoking area and ample free parking round out the practical side of the operation. Membership is by application and pre-screening only, with no walk-ins and no public admittance. Events maintain a roughly even male-to-female ratio, and a limited number of pre-screened single men are permitted at certain events. For those who want to go deeper into the lifestyle travel circuit, the site also curates partner events — from resort takeovers in Cancun and Hedonism II in Jamaica to adults-only cruises — all bookable through the member portal at thesuitelifeplatinum.com.