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Club AntiChrist

London, London

Alternative Club Night

Club AntiChrist describes itself as “a huge London club night for Alternative people” and says it is “queer friendly.” It moves between venues, most recently Scala in King's Cross, and says it runs roughly every three months. Its About page says it was founded in 2004 and relaunched in 2007. At Scala the night runs on several floors. Multiple dancefloors cover metal, 80s, goth, post-punk, dark electro and industrial, a Theatre stages fire, aerial, comedy and gorelesque shows plus a live band, and the dungeon has Benchmarxxx equipment such as St Andrew's Crosses, spanking benches and a swing, with Dungeon Monitors who help newcomers. A dark playroom for couples and groups has a monitored door and free condoms, and there is a shibari corner, a cloakroom and a private outdoor smoking area. Entry is 18+ with physical photo ID that the venue scans. An alternative dress code is enforced, with no refund if guests are refused for it, and outside food and drink is not allowed. Cameras need a club photopass, the club has a strict no-drugs policy, and guests must ask before touching anyone: breaking that rule means ejection and a lifetime ban.

Club Bacchus

Dundee, Scotland

On-Premise Club

Club Bacchus occupies a discreet address on Princes Street in Dundee — about five minutes from the bus station and fifteen minutes on foot from Dundee Station — billing itself as Tayside's most stylish and discreet adult lifestyle venue.

Club Chameleon

Flint, MI

House Party

Club Chameleon describes itself as “a Swinger Club located in Flint, Michigan” that holds lifestyle house parties. Its site says the hosts have been in the lifestyle for 25 years and run a “fairly new club.” The club tries to hold a theme party at least once a month, and its Friday “Reverse Harem” nights are for women who like more men and men who don’t mind sharing. The house is described as having 3 1/2 floors, with two bars, a dance floor with a stripper pole, three private playrooms, a “Peekaboo” room whose fourth wall is a sheer curtain, a billiards room and a separate TV area. One playroom holds a St. Andrew’s cross with paddles and floggers. An enclosed, heated patio has an eight-person hot tub open all year, a theme bar and a bonfire area, and the club serves buffet-style appetizers and runs icebreaker activities. Newcomers text the club for vetting and the address, which is not posted online, and signing up on the website does not put anyone on the door list. Single male places are limited under a strict Single Male Expectations policy shared on request. Parties are BYOB and BYOC, with water, ice, sodas and juice provided; smoking and 420 are allowed, illegal drugs are not. Costumes at theme parties are optional, and guests can ask about overnight accommodations.

Club Culture Houze

Berlin, Berlin

On-Premise Club

Club Culture Houze is a long-running sex-party venue on Görlitzer Straße in Berlin's Kreuzberg district, a short walk from the U1 Görlitzer Bahnhof and U Schlesisches Tor stops. Operating since 1996 and currently managed by Veronika, it has built its identity around radical sexual inclusivity — hosting themed nights across the full spectrum of orientation and gender: gay men, trans and non-binary guests, bisexual and pansexual crowds, femdom circles, fetish communities, and mixed-orientation couples alike. The venue describes itself explicitly as a "Safer Space" and takes a firm stance against exclusionary or demeaning behaviour at every event. The club occupies two floors. The upper level holds a cosy loft fitted with comfortable couches, pillows, a massage table, and a long bar; the lower floor opens onto a larger play space with leather furniture, slings, cages, a darkroom, and a video room. Free condoms, lubricant, and gloves are available at the bar alongside mouthwash; paper towels and sanitising sprays are positioned throughout the play areas. A snack buffet is on offer during events, and a cloakroom handles clothing and valuables storage. The atmosphere is notably smaller and more intimate than typical Berlin mega-clubs — visitors regularly describe the staff as friendly and personally attentive. Private venue hire is available for parties, photoshoots, film productions, and group meetings. Events run every night of the week, with programming shifting nightly. Recurring highlights include Naked SEX on Mondays — a gay men's night with mandatory nudity, running 19:00–23:45 — and Friday Fist / Fist Factory on most Fridays (20:00–03:00), with a dress code of rubber, leather, or fetish attire. Midweek slots rotate through Trans & Friends, Poly/Pan Experience (Bi Plus Night), QueerBeet (FTM/MTF BDSM and sex party), FAKT! (femdom evening), and bear-focused, masked, and BDSM-for-beginners nights. Entry fees vary by event: a third-party visitor account reported approximately €13 admission plus a €7 mandatory drink spend on a standard night; the masked Fuck with Unknown event is priced at €20 including a first drink; Folsom-weekend specials reach €35 and above. All payments are cash only — card payments are not accepted.

Club Eden

Vancouver, British Columbia

Private Members' Community

Club Eden describes itself as “a little taste of paradise with a sexy twist.” It is a private members' community for women and the men who love them, based in Vancouver, British Columbia, that holds ticketed parties at pre-approved venues throughout the Lower Mainland and beyond. Its pages say it opened in 2006 and is female owned and operated. At its dance parties the main floor is a nightclub with a resident DJ, while the play floors offer private playrooms with closing doors, semi-private playrooms with curtains, a dungeon playroom with a couple of pieces of dungeon equipment, a large open group play area on the top floor and open play benches. The calendar mixes meet and greets, pre-party potlucks, themed dance parties, Darq fetish parties and Famous 5 parties. Everyone attends as an approved member with a ticket; applying is free, entry is denied without an approved membership and ticket, and approved members see the exact address after logging in. Unless an event says otherwise, men attend only with a female date or a member couple and stay with a female member in the play zones. Outside drinks are not permitted. First-time guests show government ID and sign a membership agreement and waivers, and cameras and phones used for photography are prohibited inside events.

Club Eden OKC

Oklahoma City, OK

On-Premise Club

Club Eden OKC is the Oklahoma City location of Club Eden, alongside two Texas locations, and the club describes itself as “a private social lounge/night club” for couples and singles over 21. It says it is mainly a couples club that welcomes every lifestyle, does not provide adult entertainment, and honors memberships at all of its locations. It is open Friday and Saturday nights, with themed parties, and Thursdays are available for private parties. The Oklahoma City club lists 9,000 square feet with a large dance floor, a sound and light system, music videos, a concession stand, play rooms with BDSM furniture, a smoking patio, lockers and a free parking lot. Couples-only suites sit right next to the club. A membership form is required, either in person or online, and the club offers no tours before you pay. First-time visitors are told to arrive early, bring a driver’s license and pay the daily member fee. Single men pay a higher door price to keep the couple-to-single-male ratio, and single men brought by a VIP couple must stay with them all evening. This location is not BYOB and allows no alcohol containers inside. Dress is nice casual, with women free to dress as sexy as they like, and the club reserves the right as a private club to refuse entry for any reason.

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Club Enigma describes itself as “a PRIVATE PARTY Adult Couples to Couples/Singles Social Club” based in Red Deer, Alberta. It holds social events every Friday and Saturday night, which its About page calls “no pressure” evenings for couples and singles in the lifestyle to meet each other; it adds that many guests are not swingers or lifestyle participants. The club has a dance floor with bars along both sides for chatting or sitting down, a pool table, and a bar area with a 16-foot table plus tables and chairs. Upstairs is a play area that includes a swing, and the club also has a Dungeon. Lockers can be rented at the office. Recurring nights include themed Saturdays, where dressing for the theme is optional, and a Friday mixer. Guests get on the guest list by emailing the club before paying, and the club says it partners with the NU Lifestyle platform for memberships, ticketing and vetting new members; the street address is given on request. The club is a licensed BYOB venue: guests bring their own alcohol, bartenders serve it, and the club supplies pop, ice, water, coffee and snacks. Excessive drinking, drugs, non-consensual touching and cameras or video equipment are not allowed, discretion is expected, and only people of the age of majority or older are admitted.

Club Equinoxe

Hamburg, Hamburg

On-Premise Club

Club Equinoxe occupies a converted former cinema on Eiffestrasse 584 in Hamburg's Hamm district, billing itself as northern Germany's largest swinger club. The venue spans roughly 1,000 square metres across three distinct areas, running parties every Friday and Saturday for couples, single women, and a managed quota of single men, set to weekly DJ sets and a rotating calendar of themed nights. The main room is a large discotheque with an elevated mezzanine lounge and dedicated dance floor, centred on a fully licensed cocktail bar. Beyond the dance floor the space extends into lockable changing rooms with individual lockers, shower facilities stocked with complimentary hygiene products, an SM play area, and a series of private separees. Towels and condoms are provided throughout. The dress code is applied without compromise at the entrance - sexy or formal-elegant attire is the baseline - and entry staff assess footwear as part of the check, with no negotiation on the door. All payments are cash only, at the door and at the bar. Doors open at 21:00 on both nights, closing at 03:00 on Fridays and 04:00 on Saturdays. The event calendar rotates through recurring formats including Never Bi Alone (a bi-inclusive Friday), cocktail-and-Latin evenings, dance-and-erotic parties, and the age-capped Young & Selected gatherings for guests up to 39. The minimum age throughout is 21. Single men must register online in advance, but a confirmed booking is not a guaranteed entry pass - final admission is decided at the door based on the prevailing gender balance - and no-shows are permanently banned from the booking system. Unsolicited touching is prohibited without exception, with violations resulting in immediate and permanent exclusion.

Club Eros

Unverified

Cleveland, OH

On-Premise Club

Club Eros occupies a sprawling 15,000-square-foot industrial-chic space tucked behind gated access on E. 33rd Street in Cleveland's St. Clair–Hamilton corridor — the only female-owned adult lifestyle club in the Midwest, run by owner Jenny, who has been hosting events for over 15 years. The main floor delivers a full nightclub experience: a DJ booth with professional sound and light show, a full-service BYOA bar with complimentary juices, sodas, and premium energy drinks, a pool table, intimate lounge seating, and a complimentary buffet on Saturday nights. A couples-only lounge with its own play area provides a quieter retreat, and a movie theater area rounds out the social zones before guests head deeper into the club. The play wing spans 20 rooms: voyeur and exhibition rooms, a kink and bondage room, a dedicated pleasure-swing room, couples glory-hole rooms, private rooms, and a first-timers tour led by staff on arrival. Membership is required — one-night passes run $20 for couples; quarterly memberships are $35 for couples or single males and $25 for single ladies. Standard Saturday door fees are $69 for couples and $20 for single ladies; single males must qualify through CockFest or Club Cougar intake events, or attend daytime Tryst sessions. Eros stands apart on scale, polish, and inclusivity: its member base spans couples and singles across straight, gay, bi, and queer identities; attendance on a typical Saturday runs 60–100 with themed nights drawing up to 250. The all-inclusive door fee covers linens, wipes, condoms, buffet, and soft-drink mixers. Doors open at 9 PM on Saturdays with events running to 3 AM, and the large gated lot with on-site security makes parking straightforward.

Club Iniquity

Houghton Lake, MI

Hotel Takeover Events

Club Iniquity says “We host regular parties for people of all levels of the lifestyle.” It holds two-day “COMPLETE” hotel takeovers at a lakefront resort in Houghton Lake, Michigan, all billed as official SLS events, and its home page says it was founded in 2017. The takeover covers beachside rooms, a waterpark and hot tub with a clothing-optional pool party, a dance floor with a DJ, Fantasy Rooms for group play and voyeurism, Steve's Den of Iniquity with St. Andrew's Crosses and spanking benches, the Velvet Lounge with massage tables, and a social lounge. Events include a welcome presentation, discussion sessions, a room-decorating contest with a room crawl, and a ladies-only pajama party aimed at newcomers. Guests book hotel rooms through the club's website only, with a two-night stay required. Couples sign a behavior and discretion waiver; single men need approval, at 1 per 20 couples, and a paid SLS profile at least a year old. Events are clothing optional in party areas, with appropriate dress expected in public hotel areas. Photography and video are not allowed in takeover areas, and any consent violation means removal and a permanent ban.

Club L (Le Club L)

Montreal, Quebec

On-Premise Club

Club L uses the tagline “Bien plus qu’un resto-lounge” and is a members-only, on-premise libertine club in a converted Caisse Populaire Desjardins building in Montreal, run by owners Matéo and Andrée, who put couples first. It opens Fridays and Saturdays, plus some Thursday social evenings. The ground floor is a restaurant-lounge with a bar and DJs, where a chef's meal comes with entry and guests meet before the play floor opens. Sexual activity is confined to the second floor: nine rooms plus a large common room with sinks, adjustable lighting, a shower area, suspension anchor points and BDSM furniture, used first come, first served. Evenings are classic, themed or kinky-BDSM. Friday and Saturday are for couples, single women and invited accompanying men aged 18 and over; single men are not admitted on their own. Thursday socials, with the second floor closed, are open to all adults. Membership is required and new members take a guided tour of the second floor. Dress is elegant city wear or sexy/kinky. No outside food or drink is allowed, and phones are banned beyond the coat check, with a lifetime ban for photos or video.

Club Love Ltd

Bristol, Bristol

On-Premise Club

Club Love Ltd is a queer-owned, sex-positive members club rooted in Bristol's underground kink and fetish scene. Founded and run by a queer team, it describes itself as a space where underground clubbing, queer liberation, and uninhibited self-expression collide. Events are held at The Loco Klub, a venue occupying the Victorian former Ash Pits beneath Bristol Temple Meads at Clock Tower Yard, BS1 6QH — a network of sprawling brick tunnels and raw industrial architecture that gives the nights a distinctly immersive, subterranean character. Annual membership is mandatory for main events and is subject to a safeguarding screening process; the team evaluates each application to confirm that prospective members understand the club's guidelines and ethos before approving access. Membership costs £38 plus VAT, paid in person at an event. The club operates three recurring event strands. The flagship Club Love nights run roughly monthly on Fridays or Saturdays, from 22:00 to 04:00, and are open to all approved members and their guests. The venue is configured with a main dance floor — music is curated by DJs spanning house, disco, tech house and breaks, with an emphasis on LGBTQI+ artists — alongside dedicated play spaces that include a fully rigged dungeon. Climax Clique is a separate strand for FLINTA attendees (Femme, Lesbian, Intersex, Non-binary, Trans, Agender), running quarterly. Cottage, the third strand, is a cruising space and play party for cis and trans men and non-binary people aligned with gay male culture. A queer-led wellbeing team, trained by Bristol Drugs Project and Bristol Nights, staffs every event, and a traffic light safeword system (green, amber, red) operates across all shared play spaces. Condoms, dams, lube and safer-sex supplies are provided; solo entry into play spaces is not permitted, and staff assess sobriety and consent at the entrance to those areas. Dress code is strictly enforced: leather, PVC, latex, rubber, mesh, harnesses, drag, and fetish or kink-coded attire are the standard; everyday streetwear, denim, tracksuits and plain T-shirts are not admitted. A no-phones policy is absolute — devices must remain out of sight at all times, with immediate ejection and a permanent ban the consequence of any photography or recording. All events are 20-plus with valid photographic ID required. Tickets for each event are purchased separately via Headfirst Bristol; membership applications close at 5 pm the day before each event, and each member may bring one guest who must enter alongside them.

Club Luxoria

Wagenborgen, Groningen

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Club Luxoria is a swingers club that opened in October 2024 on the rural outskirts of Wagenborgen, a small village in the Groningen province of the northeastern Netherlands. The venue occupies a property built in the style of a rustic farmhouse, and is operated entirely by women — owner Ivonne and her daughter manage day-to-day operations without paid entertainment staff. The emphasis is on unhurried social contact and genuine hospitality rather than performance or spectacle. The interior spans multiple floors and an outdoor area, with eleven themed rooms that include a darkroom, a BDSM space, a water room, a sling room, and a massage room, alongside a sauna and several jacuzzis. Outside, there is additional seating, a bed, and a sling on a terrace. Toilets and showers are available on every floor. Admission is all-inclusive: a running buffet covers soup, warm snacks, fruit and desserts, and the bar serves both alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks. Condoms, lubricant, wipes, and disinfectant are stocked in every room; towels are distributed throughout. Lockers are issued at entry with a refundable ten-euro deposit. Campervan overnight stays can be arranged with advance notice. The club runs on a fixed schedule: Fridays and Saturdays from 19:00 to 02:00, the second and fourth Sundays of each month from 14:00 to 21:00, and the first Thursday of each month from 14:00 to 21:00. Additional themed evenings and men-only nights appear on the club’s online calendar. Entry is all-inclusive and priced at €90 per couple, €80 for single men, and €30 for women and T-girls, plus a refundable ten-euro locker deposit. Solo men must register in advance through the online event calendar and receive a confirmation code; places are limited and two unexcused absences may result in access restrictions. The minimum age is 18; ID may be requested. Phone use is not permitted inside the club, and photography and filming are strictly forbidden throughout.

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Club Nine is an invite-only adult lifestyle venue operating in Melbourne's inner east, near Kew, positioning itself as an intimate alternative to the city's larger clubs. Attendance at each event is capped at around 20 guests and limited to adults aged 20–45 who have cleared a personal application process — recent photographs and a short written introduction — before receiving an invitation. Couples and single women are considered on a rolling basis; single men face a more selective review. The venue address is disclosed to confirmed bookings only. The venue occupies a multi-level residential property. A ground-floor lounge serves as the social space and the only area where food and drinks are consumed; upstairs rooms include a Master Suite, the Midnight Chamber, and a fully equipped BDSM Play Room. All phones and recording devices are surrendered at the door and held securely for the duration of the event. Alcohol is BYO — no glassware is permitted anywhere in the venue, and only light-coloured drinks are allowed. The house supplies condoms, lubricants, single-use disposable towels, complimentary soft drinks, and bottled water. Events run on an almost-weekly schedule across several formats: Exclusive Circles for couples and single ladies only, MFM Evenings with vetted single men admitted at a 1:1 ratio against attending ladies, and a rotating calendar of themed and kink-oriented nights. Full event details and dates are distributed by email to approved members only — no public calendar exists. Entry prices vary by event: AUD $100–$150 per couple, free to $50 for single women, and $250–$300 for single men. Pre-booking is mandatory; no walk-ins or door sales are accepted. Cancellations made at least three days in advance receive a refund minus a 10% processing fee, or a six-month event credit in lieu; cancellations within three days are non-refundable.

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Club Organza occupies a standalone venue at Laan van Duuring 1 on the edge of Breukelen, a small town in Utrecht province roughly midway between Amsterdam and Utrecht. Operating as an erotic discotheque rather than a conventional parenclub, it has built a following across the Netherlands as both a lifestyle destination and an after-party club — a dual identity that makes it unusual in the Dutch swinger scene. The venue is spacious, easily reached by car, offers free on-site parking, and carries wheelchair-accessible entrances and facilities. Inside, a large main dance floor anchored by resident and guest DJs — working across club, trance, and hard trance — sits alongside multiple erotic rooms that give the venue its lifestyle character. Earplugs are available for purchase at the bar, and all drinks run through a reusable paycard; any balance is refundable when the card is returned, and cards remain valid for two years after the last visit. Metal detectors are standard at the door. Parties run on Fridays and Saturdays, with a programme that mixes in-house events and third-party nights under names such as Kinky Paradise, I Love Kinky, and Secret Underground Sensual Fetish. The club's signature event is the Morning Mission, held every Sunday from 06:00 — an after-party that draws visitors from across the country. Entry starts at €15; tickets are required for most events and should be booked in advance. Dress codes are strict and vary per event — specifics are published in the club's online agenda. Solo male visitors are refused entry to the Morning Mission without exception; that event is restricted to couples and single women. Guests celebrating a birthday within the preceding week receive complimentary Morning Mission entry on presentation of ID.

Club Paradise

Amsterdam, North Holland

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Club Paradise occupies an intentionally inconspicuous address on Schaafstraat in Amsterdam-Noord — an industrial pocket north of the IJ waterway — and operates as one of the city's established lifestyle clubs for couples and singles. The venue markets itself as 'de mooiste parenclub van Amsterdam' (Amsterdam's finest couples club) and has built its reputation on upscale facilities, a rotating programme of themed events, and an atmosphere that positions itself as sensual rather than hectic. First-time visitors are offered a guided walkthrough of the space on arrival. The interior is spacious and atmospheric, anchored by a dance floor, a full bar serving cocktails and snacks, and large U-shaped sofas that allow groups to gather comfortably. Dedicated facilities include a heated swimming pool, sauna and Turkish steam bath, a darkroom, a kinky cage, multiple private lockable rooms, open erotic areas and relaxation spaces. A rooftop smoking area is reached by three flights of stairs. Secure lockers hold street clothes and valuables, and condoms are distributed throughout the erotic areas. The crowd tends to dress deliberately — lingerie and provocative attire for women, boxers or similarly revealing clothing for men — and the overall aesthetic is high-effort. Makeup artists and massage services appear at select special events. The venue runs Friday through Sunday. Friday brings the recurring After Three afternoon party, opening at 15:00 and running to 03:00. Saturday nights (20:00–03:00) host themed Couples Paradise events, restricted to couples and single women; entry is €100 per couple and €50 for a single woman, with single men barred from Saturday admission. Sundays (15:00–23:00) run Afterglow in Paradise sessions — open to couples, single women and single men — with the third Sunday of each month reserved for a dedicated BDSM edition. Entry on Saturdays includes a hot and cold buffet; Fridays and Sundays include finger food. Prices may vary on special-event nights as noted on event flyers. Payment is by debit card or cash only; credit cards are not accepted.

Club Paradise Lingen

Lingen, Lower Saxony

On-Premise Club

Club Paradise is a lifestyle swinger club occupying roughly 800 square metres at Friedrich-Ebert-Straße 115a in Lingen, a town in the Emsland district of Lower Saxony near the Dutch border. The club presents itself as the only swinger club in the Emsland region — a claim repeated in local press coverage — and its stated ethos, ‘you arrive as a guest and leave as a friend,’ anchors an atmosphere oriented toward sociability as much as play. A Dutch-language companion site (club-paradise-lingen.nl) runs alongside the primary German domain, reflecting cross-border clientele from the Netherlands. The venue is arranged across multiple levels and a basement. A bar and lounge area serves as the social centrepiece; a dedicated couples’ floor holds private lockable rooms alongside themed shared spaces; a basement BDSM room is described as equipped for kink in a ‘safe and stylish environment.’ A buffet dining area is kept structurally separate from play spaces by house rule. Changing rooms with secure lockers, disinfection stations throughout the facility, and a designated outdoor smoking terrace handle the practical side. On certain event nights a DJ, dance floor, and a foam area feature in the programme; the site also references a summer garden. The club operates on an event calendar rather than fixed nightly hours. Fridays run 20:00–02:00, Saturdays 20:00–03:00. Monthly additions include a BDSM Sunday (first Sunday, 14:00–21:00), a wellness afternoon (second Sunday, 13:00–19:00), a Hotwife evening on the second Wednesday (18:00–23:00), and a Frivolous Wednesday with sauna on the fourth Wednesday (18:00–23:00). Pricing is tiered by gender and event type: on a standard Friday women pay €20, couples €45, and single men €55; Saturday rates rise to €45 for women and €110 for both couples and single men. Hotwife nights admit women free, with men at €80 and couples at €35. The admission price covers all drinks and the full buffet. Cash only — no card payments are accepted.

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Club Play describes itself as “a private members swinger club in Blackpool”, hosting parties and themed events at its Blackpool premises on Friday and Saturday nights, with Sunday openings only on selected Bank Holiday and special-event dates. Membership is free and required for entry, and members also get an online community with profiles, forums and chat. The venue has a mixed locker room with showers, a four-person Jacuzzi and a sauna, a private changing room for T-girls, and play areas including The Stage, a Couples Orgy Room, a Burlesque Gangbang Room, a Bi Orgy Room, a Voyeur Room with a two-way window, a Massage Spa Play Room, a Neon UV Room, a Cinema Room, The Snug and glory holes. The Dungeon is built in an original cellar, with a Kink Room for the softer side of BDSM. The club admits couples, single women, single men and T-girls, with single men capped to a “healthy ratio” as the club monitors the guest list, and new members are shown around by a tour guide. It says it is licensed to sell alcohol on Friday and Saturday nights. The Dungeon, Wet room and Darkroom are dress-down areas, and cameras and phones for photos are banned. “NO MEANS NO” is the main rule, and breaking it or the zero-tolerance drug rule means removal and a lifetime ban.

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Club Princeton describes itself as “a private members only LifeStyle Club” and hosts on-premises parties in Columbus, Ohio, on Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights; its About page says it opened in September 2002. The first-floor dance area has a live DJ, a stage, VIP seating, dance cages and a bar, and the second floor has a large VIP room with a bar and fireplace and a BDSM Dungeon Room. Play areas include a 45 degree Stairway to Heaven, a Doctor's exam table, a small jail cell and the Players Club Room with multi-tiered loungers; its FAQ adds a pool table, two 6 person Jacuzzi/spas and a shower area. Thursdays are Social Swinger nights, with themed parties on Fridays and Saturdays. Members must be 25 or older, apply online and be approved before a first visit, which includes photo ID, a short interview and a tour. Single men are not admitted on Saturdays unless accompanied by a couple with an existing, long term membership. The club does not sell liquor; members bring their own, check it in at the bar and drink inside or on the patio. Its dress code is “Dress to Impress with sexy club wear,” with athletic shoes and ball caps barred. Touching without permission and bringing phones, cameras or weapons can end memberships; intoxicated members are asked to leave.

Club Red Door

Gastonia, NC

On-Premise Club

Club Red Door describes itself as “a private 21 and older club” offering “a fun relaxed adult environment.” It is an on-premise club in Gastonia, North Carolina, just off I-85 outside Charlotte, requires membership, and opens Friday and Saturday nights, with meet-and-greet nights and themed parties on its calendar. The club lists five private rooms plus a theater room and a dungeon room, with the dance floor upstairs and free lockers and locks. It is smoke free inside with an outside smoking area, has light snacks and water, and does not allow eating downstairs. Parking is on site, with two overflow lots and an attendant. Couples and single women are welcome without approval, while single men must be approved by email with a photo beforehand, send a message before each visit, and attend a Friday before their first Saturday. Membership can be bought at the door; a photo ID, a valid email and a signed liability waiver are required. The club is BYOB with no hard liquor and checks coolers, with soft drinks, water and ice for drinks provided. Dress is to impress, no photos or video are allowed in open areas, and illegal drugs, gambling and weapons are banned.

Club Risqué

Dunedin, Otago

On-Premise Club

Club Risqué occupies the top floor of 1 Liverpool Street in central Dunedin, operating as an on-premise adult lifestyle venue for swinging, kink, and BDSM interests. Per its own about page, the club welcomes couples, single women, single men (by approved RSVP), and trans and non-binary individuals exploring open-relationship dynamics or power exchange. The venue is arranged into a licensed cocktail lounge with a tab-based bar system, multiple private play areas, a BDSM dungeon, and secure numbered lockers issued on a bracelet-key system. Safe sex supplies — condoms in multiple sizes, dental dams, gloves, and lube — are provided and distributed throughout. Third-party listings additionally reference an orgy room, a grope cage, and on-site showers; these have not been confirmed from the club's own published content. Mobile phones are collected at the door on arrival and held by staff for retrieval on request; cameras and all recording devices are banned outright. The club runs a named-event programme rather than fixed nightly hours. Regular fixtures include Risqué Saturday, Frisky Friday, Dunedin Sex Party nights, and the age-capped Young Swingers (18–35); the kink-focused Sub Space events carry a mandatory leather/latex/all-black dress code. All events run 21:00–03:00. Advance tickets are priced at NZD $100 per couple, $50 for single women, and $100 for single men; door prices rise to $125, $75, and $125 respectively. Single men require an approved RSVP before purchasing a ticket. Event bookings and RSVP coordination are handled via the club website, Fetlife, and Kiwi Swingers.

Club Saphir

Schkeuditz, Saxony

On-Premise Club

Club Saphir has held its place as the longest-running swinger and couples club across Saxony, Saxony-Anhalt and Thuringia since it opened in 2002. The venue sits in Dolzig, a quiet village in the Schkeuditz municipality just west of Leipzig, at Westringstrasse 200. Inside, more than 900 square metres spread across two floors, with three bars and 15 individually designed rooms. The room list covers Raum Amor for couples wanting a lockable retreat, the Ampelzimmer where a traffic-light system signals openness, a dedicated SM space, and the Lustoase — an 80-square-metre open play area. Communal infrastructure includes a sauna with whirlpool, a Wellness 4 Two zone, and indoor smoking lounges. Entry is fully all-inclusive, covering a hot-and-cold buffet and the complete drinks menu. Three nights anchor the calendar: an Afterwork 2.0 session on the first Wednesday of the month (17:00–00:00), Fridays (20:00–03:00), and Saturdays (20:00–04:00). Solo men must register in advance to maintain gender balance, and the house motto alles kann, nichts muss sets the tone — participation is never assumed.

monthly fetish event (not a fixed-address club)

Club Sin is Montreal's longest-running monthly fetish event, held on the first Friday of each month in the second-floor cabaret of Café Cléopâtre at 1230 boulevard Saint-Laurent, at the edge of the Quartier des Spectacles. The event is organized by Eric Paradis, who has been active in Montreal's fetish scene for more than 35 years and who also produces the annual Montreal Fetish Weekend each Labour Day weekend. Café Cléopâtre — the last surviving show bar from the Main's most notorious era, operating since at least 1976 — provides the venue and a large part of its historical charge as a space that has hosted vaudeville, burlesque, drag, and trans cabaret for well over a century. Club Sin occupies the upstairs cabaret, a room built around a performance stage and a cash-only bar. The event is billed as a night of shows, dance, and play. Paradis has described the crowd as people from different backgrounds and professions who arrive in costume to express their identities as sexual beings; vibe reporting from 2010 documents an audience in black leather and latex alongside staged fetish performances, and a 2024 Concordian piece situates Club Sin as a pillar of Montreal's kink community, which it notes increasingly intersects with queer culture. The median age reported in early coverage was around 30. Café Cléopâtre has long been recognized as a welcoming space for Montreal's LGBTQ+ and trans communities, a character that carries through to Club Sin's programming. The upstairs bar is cash only; an ATM is available on the ground floor, which continues to operate as a strip club on event nights. No published dress code rules are independently accessible, though fetish and kink attire is consistent with the event's established character and organizer framing. Club Sin is distinct in format and scale from the annual Montreal Fetish Weekend, though both share the same producer and have used the same venue.

Club Tempted

Louisville, KY

On-Premise Club

Club Tempted describes itself as “Louisville's Members-Only Private Lifestyle Friendly Night Club.” Its rules page says the club is primarily oriented to the traditional swinger community and also welcomes the BDSM and other kink communities. It holds parties on Friday and Saturday nights plus special events, and its public pages do not list a street address. The venue has an upstairs area and play areas where guests not playing are asked to whisper or stay quiet. Its rules cover BDSM play at stations, with no monitor on duty and sessions limited to 60 minutes when other guests are waiting. VIP rooms and VIP seats are offered, Fridays are casual, and Saturdays are dress-to-impress or themed. A current membership is required even with an event ticket. Single women, single men and couples may apply on the club's registration page, where staff verify ID, photos are required, and the club reserves the right to choose its members; singles are not permitted upstairs unless accompanied by a couple. The club is BYOB, supplying ice, cups and mixers, and overly intoxicated guests are refused or removed. Guests must be 21 or older, photos and videos are not allowed inside, and affirmative consent is required before touching or watching.