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Rainbow Group Hawaii is a swingers group based in Honolulu, Hawaii, on the island of Oahu, described in third-party directory listings as the largest, most active swingers group in the state. The group does not operate from a fixed venue or maintain a public website; it runs through rotating private locations, and prospective members contact organizers directly by phone or email rather than through an open web presence. Events are structured in two parts: an afternoon session limited to women only, followed by an evening mixed session open to women and couples — a format designed to ease newcomers into the group before the mixed portion begins. Interested parties should contact the group directly by phone or email for venue location, screening, and entry requirements, as these are communicated privately to members rather than published.

Refugium Swingerclub

Neumünster, Schleswig-Holstein

On-Premise Club

Refugium Swing & Dance sits on Krokamp 64 in the commercial outskirts of Neumünster, Schleswig-Holstein — an unglamorous address that gives nothing away about the modern lounge-bar world behind the door. Owner Marco Marien designed the club as a deliberate departure from red-velvet clichés: the palette runs to deep green and anthracite, the lighting is considered, and the 500-capacity interior divides into distinct zones that read more like a design-conscious nightclub than a backroom. At its centre is a dance floor anchored by an actual ceiling swing and a DJ booth; off to one side, a well-stocked bar and a separate English-style smoking room keep the social energy moving; scattered throughout are sofa lounge areas where guests talk, watch, and warm up at their own pace. The play rooms — two discreetly positioned and thematically designed spaces — sit well removed from the social areas, alongside a Séparée that doubles as an erotic cinema. Hygiene is taken visibly seriously: towels, disinfectant, condoms, mouthwash, and disposable toothbrushes are stationed throughout, and the venue's barrier-free showers and toilets make it fully accessible to wheelchair users. In warmer months, a 1,000-square-metre outdoor terrace opens up, adding a pool, whirlpool, TikiBar, BBQ station, and a second play area to the mix. The club runs regular themed evenings, seasonal parties, and — every four to six weeks — a free newcomer orientation session at 18:00, before normal doors, with no registration required. Admission is structured around an all-in price covering entry, buffet, premium beverages, and the wardrobe service: €50 in advance, €60 on the door; women enter at €25 and couples at €50. Solo male pricing is set separately and higher as a deliberate tool to keep the gender ratio balanced. Dress code is enforced at the entrance — men in dark long trousers (blue jeans excluded), a plain solid-colour shirt, and proper shoes; women in stylish rather than everyday attire. Once inside, phones and cameras are banned in public areas, and explicit consent is required for all contact; staff are trained to recognise genuine distress. Drugs, solicitation, and any harassment carry an immediate house ban.

Route 69

Weston-super-Mare, Somerset

On-Premise Club

Route 69 occupies a basement space on the High Street in central Weston-super-Mare, Somerset — a long-running licensed lifestyle venue that bills itself as the South West's Friendliest Adult Club. The venue operates on a deliberately compact model, non-pushy in its approach, with staff who personally walk first-time visitors around the space before the evening gets under way. It welcomes straight and LGBT+ guests alike and pitches its atmosphere firmly on the social side of the spectrum. The venue is arranged around a lounge with a fully licensed bar, three lockable playrooms — one of which incorporates a gloryhole with a coverable viewing window — and a dungeon equipped with a St Andrew's Cross, a play swing, and stocks. Lockers are available on a key-swap system, and a heated, covered outdoor smoking area sits at the rear of the building. Towels, lube, wipes and condoms are stocked in every playroom; cock rings and wax candles are available at the bar. CCTV covers the social areas, though there are no showers on site. Themed nights — Greedy Girls evenings, BDSM nights, bi nights and monthly special parties — run through the calendar alongside regular weekly sessions. The club operates sessions on Fridays and Saturdays from 20:00 to 02:00, and Sundays from 14:00 to 22:00; last entry is two hours before closing in all cases. All entry requires advance booking through Eventbrite; the venue no longer accepts walk-ins or phone bookings. The minimum age is 25. Single-male attendance is permitted but numbers are capped per session, and early booking is advised. Entry pricing on Fridays and Saturdays is £35 for single men, £25 for couples, £15 for TS/TV guests, and £10 for single women; Sunday rates are exactly half.

Sameplace

Amsterdam, Noord-Holland

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Sameplace is an erotic café and adult lifestyle venue at Nassaukade 120 on the western fringe of Amsterdam's Westerpark neighbourhood, a short tram ride from the city centre. Open since the mid-1990s, it markets itself as Amsterdam's premier female-friendly erotic café and draws a genuinely mixed crowd — straight couples, gay men, single women, and on most nights single men as well. The premises run across two floors plus a basement. A U-shaped bar with booth seating anchors the ground floor; upstairs, a dance floor operates with a resident DJ on busier evenings. The basement holds the harder-edged spaces: a dungeon fitted with a sex swing and a sex chair, BDSM equipment, and a dark room. A changing room with lockers and towels is available. The programme of themed nights is central to the club's identity: regular rotation includes BDSM Pure evenings, fetish-dress nights with enforced dress code, a Shamelessly Naked party, a T&T night, bisexual and trans nights, costume parties, and a monthly fistfuck event on the fourth Sunday. One evening each week is reserved for gay men only. Staff meet guests at the door and walk newcomers through the space; a strict consent policy is actively enforced — visitors report that a firm refusal from any patron is respected without negotiation. The venue is open Tuesday through Thursday from 21:00 to 02:00, Friday and Saturday from 21:00 to 03:00, and Sunday in two sessions: 15:00–21:00 (couples only) and 22:00–03:00; the club is closed on Mondays. Entry is via a doorbell; there is no street queue. Entry fees vary by event and themed night. The venue is cash-only — no card payments are accepted. Dress codes are enforced on fetish and specialist nights; casual attire is acceptable on standard evenings. Nudity is permitted throughout the venue.

Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa

Kissimmee, FL

Lifestyle Resort

Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa uses the tagline “Florida's Adults Only Destination”. It is a private members club and lifestyle resort in Kissimmee with its own on-site hotel. The playrooms open every day, and the nightclub opens Tuesday and Thursday through Saturday. The courtyard holds two twelve-person hot tubs, a conversation pool, a large commercial-size pool and an outdoor bar, and the club lists four full bars, poolside DJs, restaurant service and a kitchen serving food. Evenings offer a 3,000-square-foot nightclub, themed parties every weekend, 4,000 square feet of playrooms where an attendant supplies condoms, towels and sheets, and the Club Swinkster dungeon. Entry requires membership, with applications processed on premises only, and after approval a host gives a tour and explains the rules. Couples, single women and single men are admitted, but single men are limited to 10 per event from Wednesday to Monday and, except on Tuesday, must be invited into the playroom by a couple. Outside alcohol is not allowed in the club, play areas, courtyard or pool, and cameras, camera phones and recorders are barred from play areas. The courtyard is clothing optional and the playrooms are nude, with a towel or bathrobe allowed.

Shed 16

Seaford, Victoria

On-Premise Club

Shed 16 is an adults-only lifestyle and swinger venue occupying a purpose-built space at 2/16 Cumberland Drive in Seaford, a bayside suburb on Melbourne's south-eastern fringe roughly 40 kilometres from the CBD. The club operates as a sex-on-premises venue with an explicit commitment to LGBTIQA+ inclusion, framing its mission around a safe, sex-positive environment that welcomes people of all genders, backgrounds, and levels of experience. The ethos is deliberately no-pressure: attendance carries no expectation of participation, and first-timers are actively accommodated through a gradual introduction to the space. The venue spans two floors. The ground floor anchors each session with a fully licensed bar and café, two spas, a dry sauna, a steam room, large open shower facilities, secure lockers, and free internet stations. The upper level is dedicated to play, hosting private lockable rooms, open group areas, a bondage and kink dungeon, sling rooms, a suckatorium, voyeur rooms, and a porn lounge. An outdoor courtyard serves as the smoking and vaping area. Dress expectations shift between floors: the ground level permits casual attire for the first two hours, while upstairs requires towel, underwear, lingerie, or nude. Condoms are provided throughout. Four weekly sessions run Tuesday through Saturday. TABOO (Tuesday, 7 pm–1 am) prices couples at AUD $35, single ladies at $15, and pre-booked single men at $60. DESIRES (Thursday, noon–6:30 pm) carries the same couple and ladies rates, with single men at $60 (or $50 before 1 pm). SHARED SECRETS (Friday, 8 pm–2 am) admits couples at $70 and single ladies at $25; single men are not admitted. CLUB EROTIQUE (Saturday, 8 pm–2 am) prices couples at $60, single ladies at $20, and pre-booked single men at $150. Entry is cash only at the door, with an on-site ATM; EFTPOS is accepted at the bar. A $10 surcharge applies on public holidays.

Shhh Newcastle Swingers Club

Newcastle upon Tyne, Tyne and Wear

On-Premise Club

Shhh Newcastle Swingers Club occupies a multi-storey premises at 85-89 Blandford Street in Newcastle city centre, roughly five minutes' walk from both Newcastle Central rail station and the Tyne and Wear Metro. Operating since 2018 and formerly trading as Shhh... by Base, the club underwent a full refurbishment in 2021 — installing a new jacuzzi, updating the playrooms, and adding a discreet rear entrance — and bills itself as the only venue of its kind in Newcastle upon Tyne. With a stated capacity of 200, the club places a strong emphasis on inclusivity: the space is LGBTQ+-welcoming and explicitly trans-friendly, with reduced or complimentary entry for trans guests on most nights. The venue spans two floors. Downstairs sits a fully licensed bar, a lounge, a dance floor, and spacious changing rooms with secure lockers; upstairs are the playrooms — including a cinema room, private zones, and a dungeon — alongside a sauna, steam room, jacuzzi, an internet room, and an outdoor seating area. First-time visitors receive a guided tour before being issued a membership card and locker key. Reviews describe a clean, no-pressure atmosphere with staff consistently praised for attentiveness to safety and comfort. Complimentary condoms (standard, king-size, and latex-free), lubricant, and dental dams are provided at reception and throughout the bar; the first towel is free and additional towels are £1 each. Overnight stays are available on party and fetish nights, with private or shared rooms at £15 per person and morning refreshments served between 9am and 11am. The club runs Wednesday through Sunday. Wednesday afternoons host a mixed swingers session (couples £20, singles £10); Thursday is a Flip Flop bisex night (couples £10, singles £5, trans guests free); Friday's #FetishFriday admits couples at £10, single women at £5, and single men at £20; Saturday's Swingers Circus is the main weekly event (couples and single men £25, women £10); and Sunday is a men-only play day. On Friday fetish and Saturday nights, guests may supplement the licensed bar with their own alcohol for a £2.50 corkage fee. Membership requires completing an application form and presenting valid photo ID: a driving licence showing the current address is preferred and sufficient alone, while a passport must be accompanied by a utility bill, council tax bill, or bank statement. Before 11pm the dress code is smart and glamorous; after 11pm, access to upstairs play areas requires appropriate attire — lingerie, a wrap, robe, or towel — and trainers, sportswear, and hoodies are prohibited throughout.

Shrine Austin

Austin, TX

Event Organizer

Shrine describes itself as “a sex positive, fetish, and kink oriented space” that blends a dungeon and club like atmosphere. It is a monthly event series rather than a standing club, held on a Sunday at colette Austin, with a casual munch typically the Wednesday before. The venue offers ten beds, a large social area, mats for primal and rough body play, and allocated spaces for fire play, long-distance impact and blood/needle play. Shrine's rules page also lists St. Andrew's crosses, spanking benches, hard points, wrestling mats, stripper poles, a DJ booth, a non-alcoholic beverage bar, small lockers, balconies for voyeurism and an outdoor smoking area. Entry is for anyone 18 or older with a valid state or federal ID who agrees to the waivers and a temporary, event-only membership included in the cover; tickets are sold at the door or online. The organizers welcome all sexual orientations, gender identities and expressions. It is a dry event: alcohol and illegal substances, including cannabis, are prohibited, and phones and cameras are banned inside except in approved areas. There is no dress code inside, but guests come in streetwear to the door. Consent is required for all contact, the safe word is RED, and Dungeon Monitors in colored vests or with radios are on hand.

Sinners Den

Indio, CA

On-Premise Club

Sinners Den is an on-premise adult lifestyle club in Indio, California, operating as a private, membership-based venue for the swinger and kink community. It welcomes adults 18 and older regardless of body type, ethnicity, or experience level. The street address is not published; confirmed members are sent the location directly before each event. The venue has 17 private bedrooms — five indoors and twelve poolside cabanas — arranged around an enclosed, heated saltwater pool with an adjoining fire pit and smoking area. A separate dungeon room holds a king-size bed, a spreader bar, four tie-down benches, and suspension pulleys, and a dance floor features a stripper pole and stage. The main area includes an all-glass shower with five showerheads, male and female glory holes, and two bars — one indoor, one poolside — serving only mixers, since the club does not sell or supply alcohol. Parties run Saturdays from 9 p.m. to 2 a.m., the only schedule currently published. Entry requires an approved membership application, filed online in advance (including a photo) or completed at an in-person sign-in table before entry. Minimum age is 18, or 21 to bring personal alcohol under the club's BYOB policy. Admission covers food, water, soda, mixers, towels, two sizes of condoms, lubricant, and on-site hostess and security staff; no membership fee or cover charge is published.

Splash Takeovers

Fort Lauderdale, FL

Hotel Takeover

Splash Takeovers describes itself as “a lifestyle convention and complete hotel takeover.” Each event buys out a convention hotel in full, with only registered guests allowed on the property, for a Thursday-to-Sunday weekend aimed at couples in the swing, ENM and kink lifestyle. Its Fort Lauderdale event is CouplesXcape. Days center on a clothing-optional pool party with bars in the event areas, and nights bring themed dance parties with DJs. The club lists ballrooms, a dungeon, themed fantasy rooms, seminars, workshops and a vendor expo, and the host hotel has a restaurant on site and designated outdoor smoking areas. The event is couples only, 21 and older with ID at check-in; a single person can attend only as an add-on to a couple's package, at that couple's request. Packages bundle a hotel room with admission and are paid in advance, with no tickets at the door. The hotel is named by email after purchase. Outside drinks are not allowed in public areas while the bars are open, clothing is optional only at the pool and convention center, and illegal drugs, balcony nudity and sex acts beyond light touching outside guest rooms and fantasy rooms are not tolerated.

Steel Cliffe

Sheffield, South Yorkshire

On-Premise Club

Steel Cliffe sits on Attercliffe Road in Sheffield's east end, five minutes from the city centre, and bills itself as Sheffield's only swingers venue. The purpose-fitted premises spans eight distinct playrooms — several of which can be locked for complete privacy — alongside a fully equipped BDSM play area, dedicated couples' rooms, group play spaces, and a spacious outdoor terrace used for socialising and smoking. The venue is within easy reach of the city centre with parking available in the surrounding area. Rather than fixed weekly nights, Steel Cliffe runs a rotating calendar of themed events — recent examples include Circus After Dark (marking the venue's first anniversary), Kink Nights, Fueled Up Fantasies, and Rum & Reggae nights — with doors typically opening at 8pm and closing anywhere between 1:30am and 3am depending on the event. Entry is tiered: single males pay £30, couples pay £25, and single women are admitted free of charge. A £5 locker deposit is collected at the door, refundable on departure or redeemable against soft drink purchases. The bar is BYOB for alcohol; soft drinks, tea, and coffee are available to purchase on site, though guests are asked not to bring their own non-alcoholic drinks. Consent sits at the centre of the house rules: the club's stated position is 'No means no,' and men are explicitly instructed never to touch a woman who is not their partner without clear, prior permission being requested and granted. A strict no-drugs policy is enforced — prescribed medications such as Viagra or Cialis are the noted exception — and anyone visibly intoxicated may be refused entry or cut off from further service. The dress code is deliberately open-ended, encouraging guests to 'wear whatever makes you feel comfortable and confident,' and the venue also takes bookings for private hire and custom events.

Stopgap

San Francisco, CA

Kink Venue

Stopgap describes itself as “A Turnkey Venue for the San Francisco Kink Community.” It is a kink venue in San Francisco's South of Market area, open to adults aged 18 and over. The ground floor has social areas, lockers and two bathrooms, while the basement holds the play areas, with equipment such as crosses, benches, bondage tables, bondage chairs and cages. The venue also has a cuddle room for aftercare and spaces for sensual play, and its spaces are open, with no private rooms. Its recurring nights include a monthly First Friday house party, a Third Tuesday queer leather dungeon night and a board games and kink night. First-time guests must buy a presale ticket, while returning guests may buy a ticket at the door. The exact address is given only to ticket buyers. Single men may attend without a date. Guests sign a waiver and follow each event's dress code; by default phones and recording are not allowed, and alcohol and drugs are not permitted.

Sweet Desires Club is an off-premise, invitation-only lifestyle club serving the Birmingham, Alabama area, founded in 2010 and run by owners Donna and Drew. Rather than operating out of a fixed venue, the club arranges space for its gatherings and shares the exact location only with confirmed members ahead of each event, a common model among Alabama's off-premise swinger clubs. The club caters to couples, single women, and a limited number of single men, and admits only adults 21 and older. Events run BYOB, with the club supplying drink mixers and a snack buffet, and a DJ providing music for socializing and dancing. Visitors who toured the space with owners Donna and Drew described a quaint, low-key setting geared toward conversation and mingling rather than a high-energy nightclub atmosphere, with hotel accommodations noted as being close by for out-of-town guests. New attendees join by requesting to be added to the club's mailing list; approved contacts then receive the event location and details by email ahead of each gathering. Entry is by invitation only, with no walk-in access, and events are generally held on a monthly basis.

Swingerclub AlbSwing

Sigmaringen, Baden-Württemberg

AlbSwing occupies a rural property on the Nollhof estate north of Sigmaringen, set in the rolling farmland of Baden-Württemberg’s Swabian Alb. The club brands itself as “Der Swingerclub der Schwäbischen Alb” — the lifestyle venue of the Alb region — and draws a clientele that reportedly travels from as far afield as Stuttgart and Lake Constance for its Saturday nights. It opened in its current form following a rebrand and partial renovation of the former Swingerclub Waldhaus, with married couple Emel and Torsten taking over operations on a five-year lease; both had previously worked as bartenders at the same venue before stepping up to run it themselves. The interior has been modernised and partly redesigned since the Waldhaus era, now comprising seven themed rooms arranged across the property. These include an Aladdin room, a mirrored room, a snuggle room, a lockable private room for couples who want complete seclusion, a lounge themed around a flying carpet, a BDSM/SM room equipped with a gynaecological chair, and a darkroom. A couples-only section accessible via a separate entrance adds an extra layer of privacy for pairs who prefer it. The social hub of the venue is a bar area fitted with sofas and high-top seating, where a buffet is laid out as part of the all-inclusive entry. Outside, an open play balcony extends the usable space in fine weather, while a heated smoking shelter handles the dedicated outdoor smoking area. The large car park accommodates motorhomes and caravans, and a number of guests reportedly make a night of it by overnighting on site. New visitors are offered an orientation walkthrough, and the atmosphere is shaped by the house principle of “alles erlaubt, nichts Pflicht” — everything permitted, nothing required. The regular programme runs every Saturday from 19:00 to 02:00; additional Friday and Sunday events are announced on short notice through JoyClub and the club’s WhatsApp channel. Advance registration by WhatsApp (+49 15259434935) or email (albswing@gmail.com) is recommended and earns a discounted rate: pre-registered couples pay €70, pre-registered solo women €15, and pre-registered solo men €100, against walk-in rates of €80, €20, and €110 respectively. All prices are all-inclusive — entry covers the buffet, drinks, and condoms. The dress code is erotic: women are expected to arrive in lingerie or a sexy dress; men in boxer or retro-style shorts paired with a shirt. Street shoes must be removed before entering the play areas, and mobile phones are not permitted anywhere in the venue — guests may leave their devices at the bar for emergency access. Cameras are banned entirely, drugs are prohibited, and entry is refused to anyone intoxicated or visibly unkempt. The minimum age is 18.

Swingerclub Feuer & Eis

Bruchsal, Baden-Württemberg

On-Premise Club

Feuer & Eis — Fire and Ice — occupies a discreet industrial-zone address on Industriestraße in Bruchsal, roughly midway between Karlsruhe and Heidelberg, and draws couples and singles from across Baden-Württemberg and beyond. The club operators describe it as "Spielwiesen" — playgrounds — for the wider Bruchsal and Karlsruhe region. Run by Sven Schirner, the venue spans 800 square metres across two fully air-conditioned floors and holds up to 250 guests. On JoyClub it carries a 4.8 out of 5 star rating from more than 3,100 reviews and counts over 10,000 followers — unusually strong social proof for a regional club. The ground floor centres on the signature Frivole Bar — a naughty bar lounge with a cage fixture at the counter — flanked by a dance floor and a large multi-person whirlpool. Up on the first floor, the play area fans out into a darkroom, a dedicated BDSM zone, a cinema room, lockable private rooms for couples, a couples-only area, and a glory-hole corner. Rounding out the offering is a sauna, an outdoor terrace with a pool, and full kitchen service: hot and cold meals are prepared fresh daily and included in the admission price, as are towels and condoms. DJ Rex handles in-house music on party nights, and shuttle service from the club and a partner hotel arrangement cater to guests travelling from further afield. The club weekly programme is dense and deliberately varied. Core party nights run Friday (20:00–02:00) and Saturday (20:00–04:00), but the club is open most evenings from Monday through Sunday. Entry prices scale by night and demographic: women pay €5–20, couples €18–75, and single men €28–115. Men typically require advance registration, while couples and women are admitted freely. Regular themed slots include Tropical Beach Parties, Wellness Sundays with massage, trans-friendly Sommernachtstraum evenings, Young People nights, Couples and Ladies glow-bracelet nights, and fortnightly Herrenüberschuss evenings that open extra capacity for solo male guests.

Swingerclub Passion

Stuhr, Lower Saxony

On-Premise Club

Club Passion sits in the Seckenhausen industrial estate on the southern fringe of Bremen, a short drive from the A1 autobahn at Industriestrasse 37. The club is owned and personally run by Jessica and Patrick Bosse, a couple with their own long-standing roots in the swinging community, and it shows in how the place operates: long-serving staff who are friends first and staff second set a tone the venue itself describes as a very special family-like atmosphere, one where even first-timers quickly find their footing rather than feeling lost in an anonymous crowd. More than 1.5 million visits, a JOYclub Recommendation badge, and a 4.8-star average across 3,288 reviews place it firmly among the most trusted venues in the Bremen catchment. The indoor footprint runs to roughly 270 square metres, maintained at a steady 22 degrees C year-round. The ground floor holds a well-stocked bar (Bacardi, Jim Beam, Malibu, Likor 43 among the brands), a comprehensive warm-and-cold buffet, and a dance floor with a pole and stage area. Playrooms cover the full range: a Caribbean-themed Blue Lagoon private room, a castle-themed Burgzimmer, a coded couples-only section, a sleeping area upstairs, and a dedicated BDSM corner fitted with a swing, spanking bench, and St. Andrew's cross. The wellness zone adds an eight-person whirlpool (water changed daily), a sauna, and shower stations stocked with toiletries throughout the venue. Come summer, a heated outdoor terrace opens with a pool, beach baskets, and a separate cocktail bar, an addition that sets the club apart from most urban indoor venues. Club Passion runs Fridays (19:00-02:00) and Saturdays (19:00-03:00) as its regular nights, with Tuesday afternoon sessions (15:00-23:00) and Sunday parties (14:00-21:00) rotating on alternating weeks. Door prices are all-inclusive - the fee covers the full buffet, alcoholic and soft drinks, condoms, and hygiene supplies, with nothing extra to spend inside. Friday admission runs EUR 20 for single women, EUR 60 for couples, and EUR 80 for single men; Saturday steps up to EUR 30, EUR 85, and EUR 90 respectively, with JOYclub members receiving a discount at every tier. Trans and cross-dressing guests are admitted at 50% of the solo male rate. Dress code is firmly enforced: sexy lingerie and heels for women, latex, leather, or dark underwear with quality sandals for men. First-time visitors can call ahead to arrange a complimentary 30-minute walk-through before doors open - no commitment required.

Swingerclub Savannah

Zwochau, Saxony

On-Premise Club

Swingerclub Savannah occupies a purpose-built venue in Zwochau, a small Saxon village roughly 20 kilometres north of Leipzig near Wiedemar, and operates under Savannah GmbH. The club has established a strong reputation across the eastern German lifestyle scene — regulars on review platforms describe it as 'der beste im Osten Deutschlands' — and draws up to 200 guests per night, with an average age squarely in the mid-to-late thirties. Free parking sits directly in front of the building, an on-site club hotel accommodates overnight stays, and the rural location lends the place the feel of a considered retreat rather than a city-centre nightclub. The 850 m² building is organised around a central bar and dance floor, flanked by self-service drink stations stocked with water, prosecco, and beer; cocktails and a broad selection of spirits are served from the bar, and the all-inclusive entry price covers everything except premium champagne and certain luxury labels. A buffet — spanning hot dishes, vegan options, and sweets — is continuously restocked until around 2 a.m. The wellness area adds a sauna, an indoor whirlpool, and an outdoor jacuzzi on a heated terrace, while a separate outdoor smoking area keeps the interior smoke-free throughout. Play spaces run to roughly twenty rooms in different configurations: lockable private rooms, a mirror room, a darkroom, a cinema room, a voyeur room, a massage area, an SM/BDSM zone fitted with a cage and a gynaecological chair, and open areas spread across large mattresses. Towels, lotions, and condoms are provided throughout. One golocal reviewer described the ambiance as 'betörendes Licht, leise Musik und angenehme Düfte' (enchanting light, soft music, pleasant scents), and staff run a rigorous cleaning rotation between uses. Regular party nights run Friday and Saturday, doors opening at 20:00 and running to 03:00. Entry is all-inclusive and priced accordingly: approximately €130–140 for couples, €120–130 for single men, and €49–55 for single women; JoyClub members receive a modest discount. Tickets are booked in advance through savannah-club.com, which also lists the schedule of themed evenings — including periodic Wellness Sunday sessions — held throughout the year. On arrival, the owners personally greet every first-time visitor and walk them through the full venue. The dress code is applied strictly at the door: men in black dress trousers, a dress shirt, and closed shoes; women in a little black dress, lingerie, or equivalently dressed-up attire.

Syn in Tulsa

Unverified

Tulsa, OK

Syn in Tulsa is a female-focused lifestyle club founded in 2014 by Troy and Christy Hamilton and operates from a discreet suite at 5553 S Peoria Ave with the deliberate look of a regular office building. The entrance opens into a social area with bar-style seating, couches, a dance floor, a kitchen stocked with complimentary soda and water, unisex bathrooms, a selfie wall, cubby storage, and an outdoor smoking area. Behind that sits the main playroom with four beds, several couches, and a St Andrews cross, plus the Brat Realignment Center equipped with an obedience chair and spanking bench. Parties run Saturday nights only, doors at 8 pm and the party in full swing by 9 pm until 2 am. The venue operates a full-service bar and is not BYOL. Cover is $20 per couple, $40 for single males, and free for single women. All attendees must be 21+ and receive a bracelet at check-in. The club averages 100-200 guests per party with a wide range of ages, body types, and orientations. Owner Troy Hamilton built Syn around a safe place for women to fulfil their fantasies philosophy. Single males cannot enter the playrooms unless escorted by a couple or solo woman. A dedicated floor manager circulates the play areas. Solo women can arrange a staff escort from the parking lot. The club encourages regular STD testing and offers a $20 cover discount on presentation of a recent test receipt.

Taboo22

Loganholme, Queensland

On-Premise Club

Taboo22 occupies a low-profile commercial unit at 5/6 Cairns Street in Loganholme, roughly 25 kilometres south of Brisbane's CBD, and bills itself as Queensland's friendliest swingers club. The venue is fully council-approved and operates with a structured consent framework displayed prominently throughout. The floorplan is more generously fitted out than the exterior suggests: eight or more individually themed bedrooms, two pole-dance floors, a four-person spa, a massage room, a BYO bar with mixers provided by the house, and lounge areas. The club runs regular BDSM-themed nights alongside its standard programming, giving it a kink-inclusive appeal beyond vanilla lifestyle events. Doors open Friday and Saturday nights from 7:30 pm to 2:00 am. Standard entry is $80 for couples, $90 for single males, and $35 for single ladies — who attend free on their first visit. BDSM nights carry a $5 premium across all categories. Bookings are essential; single males must call ahead to reserve. Smart casual is enforced at the door.

TABOTA Monster Bash

Niagara Falls, Ontario

Hotel Takeover Event

TABOTA Monster Bash describes itself as “a complete lifestyle hotel takeover” in Niagara Falls, Ontario. Hosted by TABOTA Events, it is an annual Halloween weekend each October in which the organizer books out a full hotel and waterpark complex for registered guests only. The site says it has run since 2007. The takeover includes an indoor water park, a Poolside VooDoo Lounge with bistro-style snacks, garden dining and courtyard rooms. The play spaces are the Penthouse Play Area, the Kinky Playroom and the Poolside Kink Garden, alongside a DJ dance floor and “an exclusive couples only area”. Clothing-optional pool parties run by day, with an early-arrival Thursday, a Friday meet and greet and theme dance, and a weekend gala night with a dinner murder mystery, plus a costume contest. The event admits couples and single women; single men are not admitted, and guests must be 19 or older. Reservations are booked directly through TabotaEvents.com, and everyone is expected to dress up in a Halloween costume. The site offers orientation sessions for first-timers and describes “a strict, zero-pressure environment”. House rules include asking before touching, no phones or photos in play areas, and no genital nudity or sexual activity in public areas.

The Attic Experience

Derby, Derbyshire

On-Premise Club

The Attic Experience describes itself as “inclusive space created by swingers, for swingers”. It is an on-premise swingers’ club at Carrington House in Allenton, Derby, with no membership required. It runs daytime sessions Monday to Saturday (Monday is for TVs and admirers), evening sessions Wednesday to Saturday, and themed party nights on the mid and last Saturday of each month. The club calls the venue “massive”. Its pages name the Attic Cinema, a dungeon with its own safe-word system, a hot tub open on Friday and Saturday nights, showers, private rooms, rooms with viewing windows or open doors, glory holes, a bar and a DJ. Coin-operated lockers sit in a “pink” room for TVs, couples and single ladies and a separate room for single men, towels are free for the showers and hot tub, and parking is free during opening hours. Couples and single ladies are not admitted on Mondays. On Fridays and Saturdays single men are let in later in the evening, entry is capped and not guaranteed, and groups of two or more single men may be refused. There is no booking or guest list, and first-time guests get a staff tour. No alcohol is sold, but guests may bring their own. Guests must be 21 or over and pay in cash; phones or cameras in hand, or drugs, mean being asked to leave.

The Chilli Club

Unverified

Auckland, Auckland

On-Premise Club

The Chilli Club has operated from 3122 Great North Road in New Lynn, Auckland for over fifteen years, making it one of the city's longest-running adult lifestyle venues. The space functions under two linked identities: The Chilli Club hosts swinger parties and alternative lifestyle events, while CHOKE — the Chilli House of Kink Events — serves Auckland's kink and BDSM community with workshops, play parties, photography events and professional performances. Both arms share the same licensed premises, address and contact email. The play space spans approximately 200 square metres and is fitted accordingly: a fully licensed bar, multiple play areas with large-screen TVs, a stripper pole with full-length mirrors, a sex swing and a shower area. The space is also available for private hire — from intimate gatherings to BDSM workshops — with a non-refundable $100 deposit required to confirm a booking and the balance settled on the night. All attendees must be 18 or older and may be asked to present ID. Phones, cameras and all recording devices — including smart glasses such as Ray-Ban Meta — must be powered off and stored before entry. The venue's designated safe word is 'RED', and the consent framework explicitly endorses SSC, RACK and PRICK principles. Blood play, needles, breath play and scat are prohibited outright; violations may result in immediate removal and a permanent ban with no refund of entry fees.

The Cottage Social Club

Orrtanna, PA

On-Premise Club

The Cottage Social Club describes itself as “a private membership club for couples and singles interested in the lifestyle”. It is an on-premise club in Orrtanna, PA, open to members on Friday and Saturday nights, and its About page says it was established in 1981. It has a live DJ and dance floor, a bar with smoking and non-smoking areas, two pool tables, a hot tub area, showers and a Saturday hot food bar. Nudity is allowed throughout the club, with more risqué behavior usually in the designated playrooms. Its rooms include single play rooms, group rooms, BDSM rooms, a VIP Suite, couples-only VIP House rooms and Club rooms assigned after the party. The About page mentions themed parties and educational workshops. Admission is members only: guests must be 21 or older with a state-issued ID, complete the membership application and reserve ahead. New single men must attend a Friday party first, or a Saturday with a member's sponsorship and a full membership. The club is BYOB, with alcohol checked in at the bar. The dress code bars athletic shorts, sweatshirts, sweatpants and cuts or colors, with exceptions for theme nights. Touching without verbal permission, photos outside the picture area, drugs, weapons and outing a member can bring removal or a ban.

BDSM Club

The Crucible describes itself as “a volunteer-run, private, members-only club” for the BDSM, Swingers, and other alternative sexuality communities in Washington, DC. The non-profit opens only when events are scheduled, most Friday and Saturday nights, and its FAQ says it reopened in Eckington in April 2017 after being closed since 2014, with over a decade in southwest DC before 2011. A calendar listing cites 6,000 square feet of play space and says the club has a dance floor, seating area, lounge, 2 private rooms, a semi private space and a dungeon space packed with furniture. It also has a bar, a social area by the pool table, lockers and a medical play area. Regular nights include Dungeon 101 for newcomers, RISQUÉ play parties with EDM DJs, Rope Share, Black Rose Tuesday classes and monthly board game days. Admission is for members and one guest each, except Dungeon 101, an outreach night open to non-members aged 18 or older before late-night open play. Members apply online in advance and everyone shows government photo ID. Alcohol is sold only at 21+ events, outside alcohol is banned and there is no general dress code. Phones and cameras are barred from the main club, high-risk scenes need staff approval, and rule-breakers can be removed without refund.