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Members-only BDSM/lifestyle community center

Inversion MKE is a membership-based kink and BDSM community center operating at 615 S 89th St on Milwaukee's west side. The venue occupies the same commercial space as the former Club EASSEL, which operated for years as Milwaukee's BDSM and lifestyle community center. Inversion MKE, LLC obtained a three-year Special Use Permit from the Milwaukee Board of Zoning Appeals on 10 October 2024 (Case BZZA-24-00260, vote 5–0), classifying the space for zoning purposes as an indoor recreation facility. Permit conditions include a blanket prohibition on alcohol on premises at any time, adequate event staffing requirements, and no outdoor advertising beyond permitted signage. The club's community life is organized primarily through FetLife under the handle @InversionMKE, with a parallel Instagram presence at @inversionmke, reflecting its roots in established kink-community networks rather than mainstream nightlife promotion. The venue operates on a structured membership model, offering individual and couple/pair tiers. First-time guests must complete a paid orientation before attending regular events — a practice that emphasizes consent culture, community vetting, and safety briefing over open walk-in access. Memberships are non-refundable and auto-renew on monthly or annual cycles. The space positions itself as a community hub for Milwaukee's kink scene, carrying forward the regional network that had gathered around Club EASSEL at the same address, though the two operations are legally and organizationally distinct. Events run on a recurring weekly schedule: Friday and Saturday evenings are the primary play-party nights, with a shorter Tuesday slot reserved for members and sponsored guests. No alcohol is permitted on the premises at any time — a hard condition of the BOZA permit — making this a dry venue. Signage is limited by the zoning conditions, keeping the venue's street-level footprint deliberately low-key. New members are encouraged to connect through the club's FetLife and Instagram pages for current event listings and orientation scheduling.

Joyride

Unverified

London, London

Event Organizer

Joyride is a London-based queer, sex-positive event series operating at the intersection of rave culture, art, and sexual expression. Founded in early 2023 by Irish sex educator MJ Fox and experiential event producer Lydia Fikan, the party draws together DJs, performers, sexuality practitioners, and artists around a shared ethos of joy, playfulness, and consent. Pitched at adults aged 21 and over, Joyride sold out its earliest events through word of mouth alone before securing a bi-weekly Sunday residency at Corsica Studios in Elephant and Castle — one of London's most established underground club spaces. The format centred on two spaces at Corsica Studios: a main dancefloor delivering a genre-fluid programme spanning house, techno, and everything in between, with a focus on queer and femme artists; and two purpose-built playrooms fitted with bespoke kink furniture and sex machines, one of them designed by interior designer Domhnall Nolan. A welfare team, identifiable by yellow bandanas and flashing armbands, circulated throughout every event. Phones and cameras were barred from the dancefloor and playrooms, with stickers placed over camera lenses on entry. Tickets were sold exclusively through Dice and only available in advance, with community and unwaged tickets available on request. Joyride's Corsica Studios residency came to an end in February 2026 when the venue announced its permanent closure; the final party, on 15 February 2026, marked the event's third birthday. As of mid-2026, no successor venue has been confirmed. The dress code required fetish or kink attire — latex, leather, PVC, mesh, lingerie, harnesses — and streetwear was refused entry. The entry age was strictly 21 and over. Prospective attendees should check joyriderave.com and the Dice promoter page for current event information.

Kasteel Waterloo

Unverified

Beesel, Limburg

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Kasteel Waterloo is a long-established lifestyle and swingers club set within a 1922 art-nouveau villa on the edge of Beesel, a small municipality in the Dutch province of Limburg positioned roughly midway between Venlo and Roermond. The estate's history stretches back to the eighteenth century, and the club has operated on the grounds since the early 1980s, attracting a regular crowd that draws noticeably from across the Dutch–German–Belgian border region, with visitors typically ranging from their mid-twenties to their early fifties. The villa's ground floor holds a bar, a dance floor fitted with a pole, a cold-buffet dining area, and a covered outdoor terrace with a separate smoking section. The upper floor is given over to the play spaces: a sauna, a BDSM room, a film room, and several themed erotic rooms, all stocked with complimentary towels and condoms. Personal lockers and free on-site parking are included. A DJ performs on selected evenings, with the music generally oriented toward 1970s–1990s hits, keeping the atmosphere sociable rather than club-loud. The venue opens on Friday evenings and on a rotating selection of Saturdays, with Fridays running roughly 20:00–03:00 and Saturdays 21:00–04:00 (exact times vary by event; the online agenda is the authoritative source). Pricing follows an all-inclusive model — unlimited drinks, the buffet, condoms, towels, and locker access are all covered by the door price. Couples typically pay €40–€110 depending on the theme night; single women pay €20–€55; single men pay €105 on nights when they are admitted. Friday is the nude-party night, open to all categories; Saturdays cycle through themed events — Couples & Bi-Ladies nights (single men excluded), Nymf Parties, Erotic Stars evenings, and Black & Leather parties — each with its own dress requirements. Advance reservations are required for all events.

KC Book Club

Liberty, MO

On-Premise Club

KC Book Club is a by-invitation-only lifestyle house party set on five acres of secluded land just north of Liberty, Missouri — a quiet, rural setting that ensures complete privacy for its guests. Owned and personally run by Eddie, the venue is a custom-built entertaining space that has earned a reputation as one of the Midwest most recognized lifestyle destinations, drawing regulars and curious newcomers alike from as far as Nebraska, Iowa, Oklahoma, and Arkansas. The club has been featured on national lifestyle podcasts, and its welcoming, consent-forward atmosphere keeps the crowd firmly in living-room-party territory rather than nightclub territory. Saturday nights are the club's exclusive rhythm, and the format is BYOE — guests bring their own drinks and snacks, while the house provides soft drinks, hors d'oeuvres, ice, soda mixers, and bottled water. Inside, a large social area and a dance floor (complete with stripper pole) set the tone for mingling before the evening deepens. Private play rooms and dedicated kink and lifestyle spaces are available on site, and the venue also features a pool, hot tub, and showers. When the weather cooperates, the five acres open up for clothing-optional volleyball, swimming, and sunbathing. The club is kink-friendly, swinger-friendly, and welcoming to the genuinely curious — but it is strictly couples and single women only; single men are not admitted. Access is by invitation only, and the BYOE policy keeps the vibe communal and intimate. The location near Liberty Triangle puts guests within easy reach of hotels, restaurants, and retail for before or after the party.

KinkZone

Canberra, Australian Capital Territory

On-Premise Club

KinkZone describes itself as Canberra's only purpose-built alternative lifestyle studio, operating from a discreet unit in the light-industrial suburb of Fyshwick, roughly 2–3 km east-southeast of the city centre. The venue serves both the kink and swinging communities under one roof, running separate event formats to accommodate different experience levels and identities — from beginner-friendly introductory nights through to invitation-only BDSM parties. After a hiatus that ran from 2020 to 2024, the club returned under new management and has since built a calendar of more than a dozen recurring event formats. The custom-designed interior centres on a large open-plan area with substantial seating and space for dancing, along with intimate nooks and dedicated playrooms for private or group activity. All tickets include entry, use of the cloakroom, light refreshments, non-alcoholic beverages (soft drinks, tea, coffee), condoms, lubricant, and access to shower facilities. Alcohol is not provided or sold; BYO is permitted. The first floor is reached only by stairs — there is no lift — though a ground-floor accessible toilet is available, the main event spaces have 96 cm-wide doors at their narrowest, accessible showers are on-site, and no fluorescent lighting is used during events. Smoking and vaping are confined to a designated outdoor courtyard. All attendance requires completing a vetting process before a first event; new contacts are added to the system each Monday, with an initial reply typically within five days. From July 2026, standard event tickets are priced at A$69; KZ Swing is A$120 per couple, A$100 for single men, and A$60 for single women; specialty nights including Rainbow Haven, Rope, and FemDomme are A$60; and the Under 30s event is A$45. Booking fees apply on top of all ticket prices. Optional memberships — Silver at A$250 per year or Gold at A$525 per year — provide reserved spaces, free events, booking-fee waivers, and discounted tickets, though membership is not required to attend.

KitKat Club

Berlin, Berlin

On-Premise Club

Founded in March 1994 by Austrian filmmaker Simon Thaur and his partner Kirsten Krueger, KitKatClub is one of Berlin's most internationally recognised sex-positive nightclubs. Operating since 2007 from an industrial building in Berlin-Mitte at Koepenicker Strasse 76, the club takes its name from the fictional venue in the musical Cabaret, a deliberate reference to the erotic freedoms of Weimar-era Berlin the founders set out to revive. Its founding principle, do what you want but stay in communication, underpins a sex-positive, queer-inclusive culture that has attracted a cosmopolitan international crowd over three decades. The multi-level venue centres on three dancefloors -- the Main Floor, the Dragon Floor, and the lower Prisma Bar -- supported by seven bars, a candy counter, and a salon chill-out area. A dedicated BDSM space and private rooms occupy the lower floors; outside, a semi-covered terrace holds a swimming pool and sauna. Ultraviolet lighting throughout illuminates fluorescent murals by Berlin artist Vigor Calma. Free cloakroom and changing facilities allow guests to arrive in street clothes and transform on site. The weekly flagship is CarneBall Bizarre on Saturdays, with a Come Together pre-party from 20:00 opening the pool and sauna before main doors at 23:00, running into Sunday morning. Fridays rotate among Fourplay, GEGEN, Mystic Rose, and PIEPSHOW; Wednesdays host Symbiotikka; Mondays run Electric Monday with the most relaxed dress code of the week. Sunday mornings bring the Nachspiel afterparty from 08:00. Entry is EUR15-25 by event, cash only; an ATM stands immediately outside. Photo ID proving age 18 or over is required. A fetish-forward dress code -- latex, leather, PVC, lingerie, elaborate costume -- is enforced across all nights; jeans, plain t-shirts, and standard streetwear are refused.

KNetic Club

Calgary, Alberta

On-Premise Club

KNetic Club describes itself as “a fully licensed private social club” for on-premise consensual sexual play and socializing, and its About page calls it a members-only lifestyle club for adults 18 and over, including singles, couples and throuples. It holds scheduled events at two Calgary venues, KNetic South and KNetic North, including themed Friday and Saturday parties, a Unicorn Night for single women, an all-gender bi and pan night, a group-play event at North and a monthly Real Talk conversation series. The About page describes a 3,400 square foot venue with a main floor of booths, a dance floor, a stripper pole and DJs, and an upstairs with a pool table, dart board, St. Andrews Cross, spanking bench and a playroom with semi-private areas, a center bed and a leather sling. It lists four gender-neutral washrooms and a FLEX bar, and event pages mention a KNetic Kitchen serving hot food. Guests need a free profile approved before attending; Premium membership is a paid add-on that does not include admission. Government photo ID is required on a first visit. Drinks can be bought at the bar or brought in as BYOL, within limits the club may set. Dress is “Dress to impress,” clothing optional, and phones and cameras stay out of the club. Consent violations carry zero tolerance and illegal drugs mean removal.

KOW2

Hamburg, Hamburg

erotic bar / lifestyle bar

KOW2 — self-billed as "die älteste frivole Bar Hamburgs" (Hamburg's oldest frivolous bar) — occupies Luisenweg 119 in the Hamm district, a short distance east of Hamburg's city centre. Operated by Kay Lederer Unterhaltungsgastronomie, it runs as an erotic lifestyle bar for singles and couples of all genders and sexual orientations, with the stated aim of providing a welcoming atmosphere rather than the scale and anonymity of a large club. The house rules position consent as non-negotiable and make explicit that all guests are to be treated with equal respect regardless of gender or sexual orientation. The venue combines a bar and small dance floor with two dedicated playrooms equipped for BDSM and SM play — fittings include a glory hole and a gynaecological chair. Changing rooms and showers are located in the basement level. Hygiene supplies, towels, and complimentary snacks are provided free of charge, and free surface parking is available on-site. Payment is accepted by EC/debit card or cash. Regular opening nights run Thursday (20:00–03:00) and Friday and Saturday (20:00–04:00), with two monthly specials: the first Wednesday of each month (18:00–01:00, a mixed all-welcome event) and the last Sunday of each month (19:00–01:00, a dedicated BDSM Playnight). There is no admission charge, but minimum spend rules apply — €15 for women, €25 for couples, and a €30 mandatory first-drink purchase for solo men. The dress code specifies erotic or smart attire; printed T-shirts, shorts, sweatpants, and open-toed shoes on men are refused at the door. Photography and phone use are prohibited throughout the entire venue.

Le Boudoir Club

London, London

On-Premise Club

Le Boudoir describes itself as “a 21 years and up, ENM members only club”, an adult lifestyle social club in London for the lifestyle and LGBTQ+ communities. Its events run on Thursdays, Fridays and Saturdays, including themed nights and a hosted newbie hour on the first Saturday of each month. The club uses a number of venues, the most used within a few minutes of Liverpool Street and Tower Bridge. Its event pages for the Le Boudoir venue describe three floors: a licensed cocktail bar, a vaulted fetish room with play cubicles, a swing, a spanking bench, a St Andrew’s Cross and restraints, three large private rooms, a loft play space and an open-plan group room. Lockers and a cloakroom are usually available, and private lockable playrooms suit guests who prefer not to be engaged by others. Everyone must be pre-registered and approved, which is free but not guaranteed, and nobody can join at the club. Tickets are bought through the site, and the address is included in the ticket confirmation email. Photo ID is checked at the front desk. Thursday and Friday nights include single men, with numbers capped on Fridays, while Saturdays are predominantly for couples and single women. Outside alcohol and drugs are not allowed, recording devices are banned, and the club may refuse entry to anyone who looks unkempt or ignores the dress code.

Leisure with Pleasure

Unverified

Leicester, Leicestershire

On-Premise Club

Leisure with Pleasure — also traded as Club 29, Club 29 Swing Club, and Bond Street Retreat — occupies a discreet address at 29 New Bond Street in Leicester city centre. It bills itself as Leicester's only alternative sauna for the lifestyle-curious and the more adventurous, and has operated under various names at the same location for many years. The NHS has formally recognised the address as a sexual health outreach venue, with Leicester Sexual Health services running a monthly drop-in clinic there offering free condoms, STI testing, and advice. The venue spreads across three floors. Upper floors contain spa facilities — a hot tub, sauna, and steam room — alongside a cinema room, a dark fetish room equipped with a swing and cross, showers, and private rooms. Reviewers also describe playrooms, a dungeon area, and a disco-and-party room. The club maintains a strict drug-free policy, and multiple guests note that staff are approachable and willing to walk newcomers through the space. Reviewers are divided on atmosphere: several praise the clean, friendly environment, while others have criticised cramped conditions and dated décor. Google-listed hours indicate daytime sessions on Wednesday, Friday, and Sunday, though schedules and current entry fees could not be independently verified — the club's official website is not currently accessible.

Liberty Elite

Lutterworth, Leicestershire

On-Premise Club

Liberty Elite describes itself as a “private members club for those pursuing a liberated lifestyle” on the swingers and fetish scenes, and its site says it has been established since 1999. It is an on-premise venue on the A5 at Lutterworth, in two acres of countryside, with parties on Friday and Saturday evenings, including themed nights and fetish events. The club says it has separate social and play areas, with playrooms, a dungeon with equipment built for the club, a fully licensed bar, DJs, a spa area with towels, changing rooms, lockers and a buffet. Outside are a terrace, private lawns and a heated smoking area, and overnight rooms can be booked by phone. Membership is required: newcomers show photo ID and complete a form at reception, and members' guests may attend only once before joining. Couples and single women are welcome, and single men are admitted on Fridays and at events that say so. Staff are on hand to settle newcomers' nerves and there is no obligation to take part. Guests are told not to bring their own drinks, phones and recording devices are prohibited, and illegal drugs or ignoring a refusal mean removal.

Lifestyle & Swingers Club Eroroma

Zwinderen, Drenthe

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Eroroma is a lifestyle and swingers club set on a rural property in Zwinderen, a small village in the province of Drenthe roughly midway between Hoogeveen and Emmen. Founded in 2006 by Jan van Duyvenbode as an erotic massage salon, the venue expanded into couples events as regional demand grew, and in 2026 marks its twentieth year of operation. The club has built a loyal following across the northern Netherlands and describes itself as the number one lifestyle and swingers club of the north. Its clientele spans the 40–60 age bracket and ranges from seasoned regulars to first-timers, with floor staff on hand to orient newcomers to the space. The venue's centrepiece is a Roman bathhouse — widely noted as unique among northern Netherlands swinger clubs — built around a large indoor pool and an indoor jacuzzi accommodating around twenty people. The outdoor grounds add a second jacuzzi, loungers, and lounge seating, plus a heated terrace with fire pit and garden. Inside, the club spans two areas: a ground-floor bar with an extensive selection of drinks, a restaurant-style space serving a hot and cold buffet, and a dance floor where resident DJs play house and electronic sets on event nights. A dedicated play wing houses multiple massage rooms, private bed alcoves with curtains, an SM/BDSM room with suspension facilities, a darkroom, and lounge areas. Towels, condoms, and water are included; secure lockers are provided. Free on-site parking accommodates both cars and campervans. Eroroma operates on an event-based calendar rather than fixed nightly hours. Zwoele Woensdag (Sultry Wednesday) afternoon sessions run 14:00–22:00, open to couples, single women, and T-girls at €100 per couple and €30 for single women. Saturday evening events run 21:00–03:00 across a rotating roster of themed nights — Pleasure 4 All, Ero Kinky Party, XO BDSM Party, SeXfactor, and standard couple evenings — with couples entry ranging from €100 to €130 depending on format. All tickets are all-inclusive: drinks, the hot and cold buffet, towels, and condoms are covered in the entry price. A sexy outfit is mandatory and enforced at the door; on themed nights latex, leather, or PVC is required. Changing facilities are available on arrival. Single men are admitted only on designated nights by advance reservation; capacity is strictly limited. Most standard couple evenings and Secret Pleasure nights do not admit unaccompanied men.

Lifestyle Playtime

Unverified

DeKalb, IL

Event Group / Hotel Takeover Organizer (no fixed venue)

Lifestyle Playtime is a Chicago-area lifestyle group based in DeKalb, IL that runs low-pressure monthly meet-and-greets alongside larger hotel takeover parties, rather than operating out of a single fixed venue. The format keeps overhead low and lets the group rotate between DeKalb and the wider Chicago suburbs depending on the event. Entry is vetted: single men must apply through the group's "Distinguished Gentlemen" screening process before attending, and all guests sign a liability waiver and show photo ID at check-in. Attendees wear an event wristband, and couples are expected to arrive and leave together, with house rules enforced by volunteer hosts rather than paid staff.

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Location One is a couples and swinger club (Pärchenclub) in Menden, a town in the Märkisches Sauerland region of North Rhine-Westphalia, located at Werler Straße 37 within approximately 10 kilometres of the nearest motorway. Operating under the slogan 'Swingen mit Charme und Stil' — swinging with charm and style — the club positions itself at the premium end of the regional scene, with particular emphasis on cuisine, interior design, and attentive hosting. First-time visitors are welcomed with an optional guided tour of the venue. The premises span more than 900 square metres across three floors, organised around nine individually styled rooms that include two private séparées, a fully equipped SM/BDSM room, and two love swings. Social spaces include a full bar stocked with branded spirits, a cocktail bar operating on Saturday evenings, and a champagne bar open from 23:00 to 01:00. A hot-and-cold buffet — freshly prepared meats, seafood, salads, and house-made sauces — is included with admission. A whirlpool, sauna, massage area, pole dance stage, and a heated covered outdoor smoking terrace complete the facilities. Fresh towels and toiletries are provided on every floor. Video-monitored parking sits discreetly behind the building, with three dedicated pitches with electrical hookups available for campervans. The club opens Friday and Saturday from 20:00 to 04:00, with admission beginning at 19:00. Friday evenings run as an open swinger night with couples, single women, and a limited number of single men admitted; Saturday evenings are oriented toward couples and trios. Pre-registration is required before each visit and can be made by phone, WhatsApp, or the club's contact form. Entry prices vary by event and are posted on the events page; cash is the only accepted payment method. A loyalty stamp card rewards regulars: nine stamps earn free entry on any subsequent standard evening, New Year's Eve excluded.

Loft54

Unverified

Rheinstetten, Baden-Württemberg

Set in an industrial building on the southern outskirts of Rheinstetten, Loft54 opened in February 2023 as an Erolifestyle Club built around two pillars: upscale gastronomy and a well-equipped private play environment. Operated by Loft54 Gastronomie Betriebs GmbH under managing director Andreas Vater, the club describes itself as a space for couples and women of all ages, with openness and tolerance as its founding ethos. The venue divides into a social front-of-house and a purpose-built play wing. Private rooms include two areas reserved exclusively for couples, a dedicated SM suite, and an extravagant darkroom fitted with two glory holes and two Czech walls. Outdoors, a shared sauna and whirlpool extend the offering. Floor heating, full air conditioning, and a ventilation system run in every room; twelve showers and more than two hundred lockers handle throughput. Entry is by prior registration only, and consent is a stated house rule.

Maxwell Manor

Chorley, Lancashire

On-Premise Club

Maxwell Manor occupies the converted shell of the former Potters Arms pub on Brooke Street in Chorley, Lancashire, a community local that served the town for more than thirty-five years before closing in September 2024. Opened in 2025 by Liana Rainford and Patrick Wolff, the venue operates as a members-only adult social club with an explicitly inclusive ethos — describing itself as a safe space open to straight, gay, bi, trans, queer, pansexual, kinky, asexual, and curious members alike. The original pub frontage has been bricked up; guests arrive discreetly through a rear entrance. The interior has been refurbished with themed sets and bespoke furnishings, and the venue holds a full premises licence for alcohol and entertainment. A licensed bar operates at every event, and on-site lockers store members belongings — phones must be deposited for the entire visit. The space doubles as a professional photography and videography studio available for separate hire. On-site parking is limited; paid car parks are available nearby, and several hotels are within easy reach for travelling members. The programme runs to 2am and covers ticketed club nights, play parties, and workshops. Recurring formats include singles nights, couples-only gatherings, all-female club nights, kink and fetish play parties, FemDom evenings, and dominance workshops. Attendance requires annual membership: £20 for single women, £25 for single men, and £35 for couples, with an additional charge for specialist event nights. Event tickets are non-refundable, must match the members name exactly, and dress codes vary per event as detailed on individual tickets.

On-Premise Club

Michigan Fun Times (MFT) is a couples-oriented lifestyle social club serving the Detroit metro area, run by two operators as a small hotel-based group rather than from a fixed venue. The club does not publish a street address; its most recent recurring events (early-to-mid 2025) were held at a hotel in Southfield, MI, a Detroit suburb, with the specific location disclosed only after ticket purchase. Parties are structured as themed "Hotel Takeovers" (past editions have included Naughty Cupid, 24K Gold Magic St. Patty's, and Party Like a Playmate nights). The club is BYOB, with hotel common areas remaining clothed/"vanilla" while dedicated playrooms — stocked with a DJ, snacks, mixers, and kink equipment such as a Sybian and St. Andrew's Cross — host the after-hours activity, alongside an outdoor smoke tent. Membership is free but requires an approved online application (couple, single male, or single female) with photo verification before attending any event. A typical event runs Saturday 3:00 PM–2:00 AM, with entry pricing in 2025 consistently listed at $90 per couple, $35 per single female, and $110 per single male.

Event Organizer

Mindbender Parties uses the tagline “where life is anything but the ordinary!” It hosts swingers lifestyle events, and its blog calls it a private club takeover. Its About page says Mizzy Bender still travels the East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events. Its current listings are Saturday-night parties in Providence, Rhode Island. Its home page lists a DJ, a pole, a swing and a play area, and its blog adds dance floors, cocktail lounges, icebreaker games and optional play areas. Its Providence listings add a dungeon for onsite play with private and open play space and on-site vending from Mizzy's Boutique. Its themed nights include leather and lace, glow parties and costume contests. Its blog says it welcomes couples of all dynamics, throuples, solo adventurers and curious friends, and Providence listings price couples, single women and single men separately. Guests RSVP through each event listing and are greeted on arrival by event security staff. Its etiquette checklist asks guests to ask before touching, treat a no as final and respect red wristbands, and it cites “a zero-tolerance policy for creepy behavior.” Providence listings describe a cash or card bar, and the blog suggests lingerie, leather or costumes.

Mint Tease

London, London

Play Party

Mint Tease uses the tagline “3-Floor Private Play Paradise” for its sapphic play parties, held at a secret venue in East London near Aldgate East. The site describes a night “designed entirely for sapphic pleasure and connection,” and the guest list is limited to LGBTQ+ women, with no men admitted. Each event has its own color theme. The three-floor venue has a ground-floor cocktail bar and dance area where play pauses, open and more private play spaces upstairs, and a fully equipped dungeon, with hosts on hand all night, plus lockers and a cloakroom. Guests can socialize, observe or play, and the club says everything is optional and newcomers are welcome. Entry is by short application approval; approved guests receive a ticket link by email, and past attendees are verified automatically. Guests bring physical government photo ID, check phones into lockers at the entrance (they can use them at reception), and dress up, as casual wear such as light jeans or sportswear is refused. The address is revealed 48 hours before each event. House rules center on enthusiastic consent, not interrupting scenes, and wiping down any equipment used; hosts and security can remove a guest immediately.

Monkey Business

Wickford, Essex

Members Club (Roaming Events)

Monkey Business is a private lifestyle members club based in Wickford, Essex, operating since 2019 under the pillars of luxury, discretion, and community. Founded and run as a curated invitation-only operation, it is open to those aged 25 and over. Its home venue is a private villa in Essex whose address is never publicly listed — ticketed members receive the location approximately two hours before each event begins. The villa is equipped with a heated swimming pool, hot tub, sun loungers, and a BBQ for outdoor socialising, alongside a cocktail lounge and multiple dedicated play spaces: a dungeon and red room, a dark room, a cinema room, a glory hole and dark orgy room, and a range of private and social areas. The event calendar carries a strong themed character — leather-and-lingerie nights, 80s neon socials, Tantric Dine evenings with a private chef and four-course meal, Hotwife parties, and Ladies Only Days sit alongside lunchtime afternoon sessions. The club periodically stages events at external venues in Essex and Kent in addition to its home villa. Events are ticketed individually with no fixed weekly timetable; evening parties typically run 20:30 to 02:00, while daytime sessions run from around midday. Annual membership costs £50, is restricted to those aged 25 and over, and entitles holders to reduced entry. A first visit is permitted without membership at selected newbie and daytime events. Single males must hold registered membership and pre-book directly with the organisers before each event — walk-ins are not accepted. Dress code is event-specific and published alongside each listing.

Naughty Revival

Minneapolis, MN

Hotel Takeover Event

Naughty Revival describes itself as “a 21+ 2-Night, immersive experience of kink.” It is an annual hotel takeover in a suburb of the Minneapolis–St. Paul area rather than a fixed club: the organizers rent a whole hotel, opening Friday afternoon and running through Sunday midday. Its About page says the organizer began in 2018 as Kinque Social Society and reorganized in 2021 for the first Naughty Revival event. The event space has a ballroom dungeon, a pool dungeon, a swingers' suite and four stages for demonstrations and performances, plus classes, vendors, an on-site restaurant and bar, and access to a pool, hot tub, sauna and racquetball courts. Sex is allowed only in private rooms or the swingers' suite, and a marked aftercare area is reserved for aftercare. Anyone interested in an alternative lifestyle may attend, singles are explicitly welcome, and guests must be 21 or older. Admission is by two-day ticket through the Naughty Revival Eventbrite store, and the hotel name is released only by email or after buying tickets or rooms. Alcohol is sold at the hotel and venue bars, illegal drugs and poppers are banned, and phones and cameras are barred outside private rooms and a designated phone room, with a lifetime ban for violators. An optional orientation is offered to first-timers.

Night Pleasures is a Chicago-area lifestyle club run by hosts Lloyd and Sharon out of a Lombard, IL mailing address, though the parties themselves are held off-premise at rotating partner venues rather than a fixed clubhouse. According to the club's own listing, events have been hosted at two locations: Couples Choice in Chicago and Private Affairs in Dekalb, giving members access to established on-premise spaces -- Private Affairs alone offers roughly 5,000 square feet with a bar, DJ and dance floor, social area, shower rooms, themed back playrooms and a jacuzzi. Night Pleasures bills itself as a club "of true lifestylers" catering to couples who want to be at "the very pinnacle of this lifestyle," and it is strictly couples-only, with no single men or single women admitted under its own banner. The schedule runs on a two-tier rhythm: Saturday parties are described as charged, high-energy affairs for more experienced lifestylers, while Sunday parties are pitched as more relaxed and better suited to couples new to the scene. Entry is by interview -- prospective members are asked to call ahead to be screened before attending -- which keeps the group curated rather than open to walk-ins.

Night Spa Halifax

Halifax, Nova Scotia

On-Premise Club

Night Spa Halifax describes itself as “Halifax's only mixed gender, private members, clothing optional venue” and says it is queer owned and operated. The club says the location opened as a traditional bathhouse in 2003 and was men-only until 2022, when it re-opened as Night Spa, and it still holds nights for its masculine members. It opens for members on Tuesdays, Fridays, Saturdays and Sundays. The club lists a hot tub (four-person limit, no play), a dry sauna, showers, social areas, play areas and 15 private rooms, plus a glory-hole setup it calls the Portal. Recurring nights include a Tuesday Rockband game night, themed mixed-gender parties on Fridays and Saturdays, Sunday's Masc-i-nee, and monthly or quarterly specials such as The Next Generation (ages 19-35), Femmes and Themmes, Couple's Only Swingers Night and Night's Paw for pups, furs and handlers. Most events are members only, open to approved members and guests of existing members. Applying is free, and the club says its vetted application is “not just a formality”; it typically takes five to seven days, with no same-day applications. The club says it is not advised for people new to the lifestyle. Dress is clothing optional, and it has zero tolerance for consent violations.

Nightshade Halifax

Halifax, Nova Scotia

Event Organizer

Nightshade Halifax describes itself as “a series of kinky themed costume parties” that happen periodically in Halifax, Nova Scotia, for people who want to “learn, explore and meet other open minded people.” The club says it has thrown parties since a launch party in February 2013. Current parties take over a third-floor ballroom at the Best Western Plus Chocolate Lake Hotel. A dungeon corner holds heavy-duty bondage furniture, with Dungeon Masters and Monitors who can instruct or lend a hand and keep everyone safe. DJs run the sound system for the dance floor, and a cash-only bar and a coat check are on hand. Event themes include Kinky Colours (with a body painting station), Kinky Halloween, Wasteland and a New Year's Eve party. Guests must be 19 or older with valid government identification, and tickets are sold online in advance, with limited door tickets if any remain. There is no dress code, but costumes or alternative wear are strongly suggested, with black clothing as the fallback, and public decency rules apply. A no-camera rule applies apart from event photographers, and complaints against a guest may lead to a ban from future events.