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Club Eden OKC

Oklahoma City, OK

On-Premise Club

Club Eden OKC is the Oklahoma City location of Club Eden, alongside two Texas locations, and the club describes itself as “a private social lounge/night club” for couples and singles over 21. It says it is mainly a couples club that welcomes every lifestyle, does not provide adult entertainment, and honors memberships at all of its locations. It is open Friday and Saturday nights, with themed parties, and Thursdays are available for private parties. The Oklahoma City club lists 9,000 square feet with a large dance floor, a sound and light system, music videos, a concession stand, play rooms with BDSM furniture, a smoking patio, lockers and a free parking lot. Couples-only suites sit right next to the club. A membership form is required, either in person or online, and the club offers no tours before you pay. First-time visitors are told to arrive early, bring a driver’s license and pay the daily member fee. Single men pay a higher door price to keep the couple-to-single-male ratio, and single men brought by a VIP couple must stay with them all evening. This location is not BYOB and allows no alcohol containers inside. Dress is nice casual, with women free to dress as sexy as they like, and the club reserves the right as a private club to refuse entry for any reason.

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Club Enigma describes itself as “a PRIVATE PARTY Adult Couples to Couples/Singles Social Club” based in Red Deer, Alberta. It holds social events every Friday and Saturday night, which its About page calls “no pressure” evenings for couples and singles in the lifestyle to meet each other; it adds that many guests are not swingers or lifestyle participants. The club has a dance floor with bars along both sides for chatting or sitting down, a pool table, and a bar area with a 16-foot table plus tables and chairs. Upstairs is a play area that includes a swing, and the club also has a Dungeon. Lockers can be rented at the office. Recurring nights include themed Saturdays, where dressing for the theme is optional, and a Friday mixer. Guests get on the guest list by emailing the club before paying, and the club says it partners with the NU Lifestyle platform for memberships, ticketing and vetting new members; the street address is given on request. The club is a licensed BYOB venue: guests bring their own alcohol, bartenders serve it, and the club supplies pop, ice, water, coffee and snacks. Excessive drinking, drugs, non-consensual touching and cameras or video equipment are not allowed, discretion is expected, and only people of the age of majority or older are admitted.

Club Eros

Unverified

Cleveland, OH

On-Premise Club

Club Eros occupies a sprawling 15,000-square-foot industrial-chic space tucked behind gated access on E. 33rd Street in Cleveland's St. Clair–Hamilton corridor — the only female-owned adult lifestyle club in the Midwest, run by owner Jenny, who has been hosting events for over 15 years. The main floor delivers a full nightclub experience: a DJ booth with professional sound and light show, a full-service BYOA bar with complimentary juices, sodas, and premium energy drinks, a pool table, intimate lounge seating, and a complimentary buffet on Saturday nights. A couples-only lounge with its own play area provides a quieter retreat, and a movie theater area rounds out the social zones before guests head deeper into the club. The play wing spans 20 rooms: voyeur and exhibition rooms, a kink and bondage room, a dedicated pleasure-swing room, couples glory-hole rooms, private rooms, and a first-timers tour led by staff on arrival. Membership is required — one-night passes run $20 for couples; quarterly memberships are $35 for couples or single males and $25 for single ladies. Standard Saturday door fees are $69 for couples and $20 for single ladies; single males must qualify through CockFest or Club Cougar intake events, or attend daytime Tryst sessions. Eros stands apart on scale, polish, and inclusivity: its member base spans couples and singles across straight, gay, bi, and queer identities; attendance on a typical Saturday runs 60–100 with themed nights drawing up to 250. The all-inclusive door fee covers linens, wipes, condoms, buffet, and soft-drink mixers. Doors open at 9 PM on Saturdays with events running to 3 AM, and the large gated lot with on-site security makes parking straightforward.

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Club F is a members-only swinger club at 6 High Street in Stanley, County Durham (DH9 0DQ), which bills itself as the best swingers club in the North East and has been described in local press as the closest venue of its kind to Teesside. Operated as a private membership club rather than a licensed premises, it handles all booking and enquiries by text message only; new members are expected to make contact before their first visit, and annual membership is £30 for couples, single men, and single women alike. The venue includes a bar area alongside on-site hotel accommodation and a set of play spaces that include a dungeon and themed rooms. Because Club F holds no alcohol licence, guests bring their own drinks — a policy the club explicitly cites as keeping prices well below those of a conventional nightclub. Accommodation is available on the night in three tiers: private hotel rooms at £35, shared rooms with two double beds at £30 per couple, and crash accommodation at £15 per person. The atmosphere shifts across the weekend: Friday nights run livelier and attract a higher proportion of singles, while Saturdays are described by management as more relaxed and weighted toward couples. Regular sessions run Friday and Saturday from 8pm to 1:30am. On the first Tuesday of each month, the club hosts Tease Tuesdays, a daytime event from 10am to 2pm with reduced entry — £15 for single men and couples, and complimentary for single women. Additional themed events including a Curvy Club night are promoted through Fab Swingers. Door entry on regular nights is £10 for single women, £25 for single men on Fridays (rising to £35 on Saturdays), and £25 for couples on both nights. Single-male places on Saturday nights are limited and require advance booking.

Club M4 (Menage a Quatre)

Mississauga, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Club M4 (Ménage à Quatre) describes itself as “an on-premise swingers club” in Mississauga, Ontario. It is a private club that requires a membership of every guest, opens seven days a week with afternoon and evening sessions, and says it opened in 2008. The venue covers about 10,000 square feet, which the club lists as a licensed bar, a lounge, a dance floor and play areas, with about 5,000 square feet of play space. The locker room has 196 lockers, showers and vanity areas, and attendants hand out towels. A VIP Red Room with a king-size bed and private play equipment can be rented, and themed parties run through the year, including a monthly Young Swingers Society night for couples in their 20s and 30s. Single women are welcome at every session, and single men are admitted except on Saturday evenings and New Year's Eve, when a couple may bring a single male guest who stays with them in the play areas. Membership is sold only in person at a first visit, and every attendee is given a tour. Drinks are bought at the club's two bars. The club recommends business casual for men and sexy club wear for women, with a towel or lingerie required in the play areas. Consent is monitored and enforced, and phones in the play areas can cost a member their membership.

Club Medusa

San Diego, CA

Club Medusa is a private lifestyle club in San Diego, CA welcoming couples and open-minded adults. The venue provides a comfortable, discreet setting for socializing and intimate encounters.

Club NV

Muncie, IN

On-Premise Club

Club NV describes itself as “a private Lifestyle club owned and operated by a lifestyle couple”. It hosts its nights at 400 S. Lincoln St. in Muncie, Indiana, open Saturday nights only, and membership is available to anyone 21 or older who is in or interested in the lifestyle and has no record of violent or sexual crimes. The club says about 95% of its members are married couples. The venue covers about 10,000 square feet with a DJ, dance floor, video screens and lockers (guests bring a padlock), plus a fountain machine with Coke products, ice, cups, coolers and snacks that the entry fee includes. Downstairs play areas are part of the venue, and a large fenced, partially covered patio with a fire pit is the smoking area. Fenced parking is available on site. A monthly meet-and-greet discount party runs alongside the regular Saturdays. New members show photo ID and sign a membership agreement on their first visit, which also includes a tour; management can revoke membership at any time. Event entry is priced separately for couples, single men and single ladies. The club is BYOB and serves no alcohol, has no strict dress code, and allows no smoking indoors, no entry after midnight and no overnight stays under state fire code. It also says “NO always means NO”.

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Club Organza occupies a standalone venue at Laan van Duuring 1 on the edge of Breukelen, a small town in Utrecht province roughly midway between Amsterdam and Utrecht. Operating as an erotic discotheque rather than a conventional parenclub, it has built a following across the Netherlands as both a lifestyle destination and an after-party club — a dual identity that makes it unusual in the Dutch swinger scene. The venue is spacious, easily reached by car, offers free on-site parking, and carries wheelchair-accessible entrances and facilities. Inside, a large main dance floor anchored by resident and guest DJs — working across club, trance, and hard trance — sits alongside multiple erotic rooms that give the venue its lifestyle character. Earplugs are available for purchase at the bar, and all drinks run through a reusable paycard; any balance is refundable when the card is returned, and cards remain valid for two years after the last visit. Metal detectors are standard at the door. Parties run on Fridays and Saturdays, with a programme that mixes in-house events and third-party nights under names such as Kinky Paradise, I Love Kinky, and Secret Underground Sensual Fetish. The club's signature event is the Morning Mission, held every Sunday from 06:00 — an after-party that draws visitors from across the country. Entry starts at €15; tickets are required for most events and should be booked in advance. Dress codes are strict and vary per event — specifics are published in the club's online agenda. Solo male visitors are refused entry to the Morning Mission without exception; that event is restricted to couples and single women. Guests celebrating a birthday within the preceding week receive complimentary Morning Mission entry on presentation of ID.

Club Paradise

Amsterdam, North Holland

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Club Paradise occupies an intentionally inconspicuous address on Schaafstraat in Amsterdam-Noord — an industrial pocket north of the IJ waterway — and operates as one of the city's established lifestyle clubs for couples and singles. The venue markets itself as 'de mooiste parenclub van Amsterdam' (Amsterdam's finest couples club) and has built its reputation on upscale facilities, a rotating programme of themed events, and an atmosphere that positions itself as sensual rather than hectic. First-time visitors are offered a guided walkthrough of the space on arrival. The interior is spacious and atmospheric, anchored by a dance floor, a full bar serving cocktails and snacks, and large U-shaped sofas that allow groups to gather comfortably. Dedicated facilities include a heated swimming pool, sauna and Turkish steam bath, a darkroom, a kinky cage, multiple private lockable rooms, open erotic areas and relaxation spaces. A rooftop smoking area is reached by three flights of stairs. Secure lockers hold street clothes and valuables, and condoms are distributed throughout the erotic areas. The crowd tends to dress deliberately — lingerie and provocative attire for women, boxers or similarly revealing clothing for men — and the overall aesthetic is high-effort. Makeup artists and massage services appear at select special events. The venue runs Friday through Sunday. Friday brings the recurring After Three afternoon party, opening at 15:00 and running to 03:00. Saturday nights (20:00–03:00) host themed Couples Paradise events, restricted to couples and single women; entry is €100 per couple and €50 for a single woman, with single men barred from Saturday admission. Sundays (15:00–23:00) run Afterglow in Paradise sessions — open to couples, single women and single men — with the third Sunday of each month reserved for a dedicated BDSM edition. Entry on Saturdays includes a hot and cold buffet; Fridays and Sundays include finger food. Prices may vary on special-event nights as noted on event flyers. Payment is by debit card or cash only; credit cards are not accepted.

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Club Play describes itself as “a private members swinger club in Blackpool”, hosting parties and themed events at its Blackpool premises on Friday and Saturday nights, with Sunday openings only on selected Bank Holiday and special-event dates. Membership is free and required for entry, and members also get an online community with profiles, forums and chat. The venue has a mixed locker room with showers, a four-person Jacuzzi and a sauna, a private changing room for T-girls, and play areas including The Stage, a Couples Orgy Room, a Burlesque Gangbang Room, a Bi Orgy Room, a Voyeur Room with a two-way window, a Massage Spa Play Room, a Neon UV Room, a Cinema Room, The Snug and glory holes. The Dungeon is built in an original cellar, with a Kink Room for the softer side of BDSM. The club admits couples, single women, single men and T-girls, with single men capped to a “healthy ratio” as the club monitors the guest list, and new members are shown around by a tour guide. It says it is licensed to sell alcohol on Friday and Saturday nights. The Dungeon, Wet room and Darkroom are dress-down areas, and cameras and phones for photos are banned. “NO MEANS NO” is the main rule, and breaking it or the zero-tolerance drug rule means removal and a lifetime ban.

Club Rendezvous (Club R)

Calgary, Alberta

On-Premise Club

Club Rendezvous — known to members simply as Club R — is Alberta's longest-running lifestyle club, welcoming Calgary's open-minded community since 1983. Under Ryan and Alicia's ownership since 2012, it has grown into a fully licensed, AGLC-compliant venue that holds a 4.7-star Google rating across more than 180 reviews. The club spans two floors in a northeast Calgary building with a free parking lot right out front. Downstairs is the social heart of the night: a large dance floor with a stripper pole, a DJ booth spinning dance and house sets, a well-stocked licensed bar with a kitchen area for mixing your own drinks, plus a long community table and lounge booths lining the room for easy mingling between sets. Upstairs opens into the play area — an airy, open-concept space furnished with mattresses, beds, couches and a sex swing, where curtains pull closed around the beds whenever you want a more private, semi-secluded moment. The space is known for being spotlessly clean and is wheelchair accessible, with accessible seating, a lift and an accessible restroom. Club R is open every Friday and Saturday from 9 PM to 3 AM, with workshops and social events on select weeknights (roughly 7–11 PM). Rather than generic theme nights, it runs curated Club R Signature Events™, each built around a distinct energy and flow. Long-running favourites include First Time Friday for newcomers (meet, play, explore); Unicorn Friday, where single ladies get in free all night with a paid membership; the Saturday Lingerie Dance Party; the always-popular Little Black Dress "Midnight Seduction"; Taboo Friday; and dedicated Newbie & Member Appreciation nights. Entry is membership-based and capacity-controlled to protect the room's quality and balance: memberships start at $9.95 for a week and scale to $100 for the year (CAD), with event admission around $60 per couple and $30 per single. Couples and single women are the priority crowd, while single men are admitted in limited, screened numbers each event. The "dress to impress" code is genuinely enforced — upscale, sexy and theme-appropriate, with no tank tops, sideways hats, workout wear or sweatpants, work boots, exposed chains or man bags. Just as importantly, Club R runs on a consent-first culture where respect, privacy and enthusiastic consent are non-negotiable, backed by clear house rules and etiquette that underpin its Safe Space Alliance recognition. The team is famously warm with first-timers, and the club welcomes all bodies, genders, orientations and experience levels (18+) — part of why a community of roughly 5,100 keeps coming back. Members can also visit Club R's sister location in Edmonton, extending the same vetted, inclusive lifestyle experience across Alberta.

Club Saphir

Schkeuditz, Saxony

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Club Saphir has held its place as the longest-running swinger and couples club across Saxony, Saxony-Anhalt and Thuringia since it opened in 2002. The venue sits in Dolzig, a quiet village in the Schkeuditz municipality just west of Leipzig, at Westringstrasse 200. Inside, more than 900 square metres spread across two floors, with three bars and 15 individually designed rooms. The room list covers Raum Amor for couples wanting a lockable retreat, the Ampelzimmer where a traffic-light system signals openness, a dedicated SM space, and the Lustoase — an 80-square-metre open play area. Communal infrastructure includes a sauna with whirlpool, a Wellness 4 Two zone, and indoor smoking lounges. Entry is fully all-inclusive, covering a hot-and-cold buffet and the complete drinks menu. Three nights anchor the calendar: an Afterwork 2.0 session on the first Wednesday of the month (17:00–00:00), Fridays (20:00–03:00), and Saturdays (20:00–04:00). Solo men must register in advance to maintain gender balance, and the house motto alles kann, nichts muss sets the tone — participation is never assumed.

Club Sapphire

Tukwila, WA

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Club Sapphire describes itself as “a private club for consensual, non-monogamous members.” It hosts parties at its Tukwila, Washington venue, between Seattle, Bellevue and SeaTac Airport, is primarily a couples' club that also welcomes singles, and requires a membership to attend. Parties run Wednesday through Saturday. It has about 10,000 square feet of party space, with a dance floor, a DJ and playrooms, from multi-bed group rooms to one- or two-bed rooms, plus a room for voyeurs. There is a co-ed locker room, a co-ed shower, towels, free parking, a light buffet and free sodas, coffee, tea and water. The Side Piece Lounge, a speakeasy inside the club, has a bar and three rooms with seating for 8, 10 and 12. Guests must be 21 or older with photo ID, and new members complete a brief orientation at their first event. Singles are welcome, though approved single men may attend only in limited numbers when single female attendance allows, with a confirmed ticket after a mandatory orientation. Dress is for a night on the town: baggy sweats, dirty clothing, casual wear and baseball hats are not allowed. House rules require permission before touching, ban illegal drugs and weapons, deny entry to anyone who arrives intoxicated, and prohibit photography or phone use in social areas and playrooms.

Club Triple XTC

Regina, Saskatchewan

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Club Triple XTC says it provides “a fun safe environment for people to explore fantasies & pleasure” at private events it hosts several times a year for guests from across Saskatchewan and beyond. It runs three kinds of events at a local lounge, private houses and hotel suites; its About page says it began with a hot tub party at the organizers' home in 2012. Sociables meet-and-greet nights are held at a local lounge for anyone new and curious. Private hot tub parties are house parties that cater mostly to women and couples. Hotel theme events fill entire hotel floors with themed rooms, plus exotic dance performances. Its FAQ describes a designated social area where sexual activity does not occur, several play rooms, a pole, a bar area with a hired bartender, and security staff. Attending requires a free membership application that is screened for suitability, and the location is emailed once a guest is approved. Couples, triads and single women of any gender identity or orientation are welcome; only a few select single men are admitted, if known in the lifestyle community or sponsored by a member. Guests must be over 19, with photo ID checked at the door. Drinks are bring-your-own, phones and cameras are banned, and illegal drugs and extreme BDSM are not allowed.

Club Vegas (formerly Whispers Las Vegas)

Las Vegas, NV

On-Premise Club

Club Vegas — formerly Whispers Las Vegas — is a private on-premise ethical-non-monogamy and lifestyle club in Las Vegas for couples and single women, at the same 7455 S Valley View Blvd address. The venue has operated under several names over the years (earlier as Couples Oasis and, briefly, Las Vegas Playroom) and rebranded from Whispers to Club Vegas in 2026; returning Whispers guests are welcome and complete the new membership paperwork. Parties run Thursday, Friday and Saturday evenings (nighttime only). Everyone signs a Membership Agreement with a non-disclosure clause before entering — no exceptions — and the club says it never discloses who attends. Guests are 21+ with valid government-issued ID; newcomers are welcome and tours are offered on arrival. BYOB with mixers and bartenders supplied; bring cash for suggested donations and a lock for the first-come lockers (or borrow one for a $5 refundable deposit). RSVPs are encouraged (optional for most regular parties) through the Club Vegas website. Dress to impress; party themes and costumes are optional. Photography, video and recording are prohibited, and consent can be withdrawn at any time.

Club Z

Unverified

Columbus, OH

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Billed as the Ultimate Interracial Lifestyle Club in Central Ohio, Club Z has carved out a singular niche in Columbus's lifestyle scene by centering racial diversity and interracial connection at its core. Operated by Angela and Edwin from a private residential location in the greater Columbus area, the club deliberately keeps its address off public listings — members receive it only after their application clears a mandatory telephone interview. That screening process sets the tone: this is not a walk-in venue. The atmosphere is described consistently as sensual, inviting, and intimate, closer in feel to an upscale house party than a commercial nightclub. Membership is open to couples, single females, and select single males sponsored as guests of member couples — a policy that keeps the guest list curated and the ratio balanced. The club operates on a BYOB basis and runs monthly Saturday-night parties capped at 35 to 40 guests, a deliberately small number that reinforces the private-party atmosphere. Prospective members must be 21 or older and present a valid photo ID. The club carries a NASCA International affiliation. Club Z's identity is built around discretion and a no-pressure philosophy: members socialise and play at their own level of comfort. The intimate scale — unlike the large commercial clubs in Columbus — is a deliberate differentiator. Contact runs through 614-361-5900 and ClubZZebra@aol.com; the club's website at clubzzebra.com does not currently resolve.

Club4Play

Chicopee, MA

Club4Play uses the tagline “Where the Fun Starts” and is an adult lifestyle party group in New England run by hosts Steve and Ann. Its About page says the group started over drinks with a few friends, held its first event in a small bungalow club, then ran a hotel takeover in Chicopee, Massachusetts, and says it hosts both indoor and outdoor events, including the RWS Campout. Its current parties are held at a hotel in Meriden, Connecticut, and attending requires a Club4Play membership. The events are built around a main party with a DJ, with late-night bites at most events and fun rooms that open late in the evening. A hotel room is optional; guests who book one must attend the main party and wear an event wristband, and extra security checks the private floors for wristbands. Events are for couples and single women only; single men are not allowed, even to visit before or after an event. Couples must arrive and stay together, and everyone must be on the guest list and checked in by midnight, when the check-in desk closes. Events at the Meriden hotel are currently BYOB. Guests wear a wrap or cover-up in public areas. Cameras and phone cameras are prohibited, drugs are strictly prohibited, and there is no nudity or sex in public areas; breaking these rules can get a guest removed or banned. Guests must be over 21.

Clubhotel Ollywood

Radebeul, Saxony

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Clubhotel Ollywood occupies a secluded hillside address on Sonnenleite in Radebeul, a wine-growing town that sits directly west of Dresden on the slopes above the Elbe valley in Saxony. One of eastern Germany's most established lifestyle venues, it has been in operation for around 26 years, and it positions itself as something more than a conventional swinger club: the property combines hotel accommodation, a restaurant, a wellness suite, and a disco under a single roof, describing its offer as 'comfortable hotel, super party, wellness, restauration and eroticism, paired with entertainment' — exclusivity and party in a setting removed from standard nightlife. The amenity spread is broad for a venue of this type. A large indoor swimming pool, a whirlpool, sauna, solarium, and massage facilities form a dedicated wellness wing. A licensed bar and kitchen underpin the social areas, with a rotating buffet served at every event and occasional outdoor barbecues in warmer weather. A disco with a dance floor handles the entertainment core, and play facilities range from a temple garden and screened outdoor areas to multiple indoor playrooms — some open, some privately lockable. Guest rooms intended for overnight stays operate on a traffic-light system, allowing occupants to signal availability to other guests. The venue holds a 4.8-out-of-5 rating across roughly 78 Google reviews, with visitors consistently highlighting attentive staff, cleanliness, the quality of the food, themed events with DJs, and an atmosphere described as family-like and free of pressure. The club is open seven days a week: Monday 2–11pm, Tuesday 11am–11pm, Wednesday 2–11pm, Thursday 6–11pm, Friday 7pm–2am, and Saturday 8pm–3am. Themed late-night parties with DJs run primarily on Friday and Saturday. Entry is priced at €100 per couple, €110 for solo men, and €40 for solo women; the buffet is included in the entry fee. Payment is cash only. An erotic or dress-up dress code is in effect for all events. The entrance is not step-free and the venue is not wheelchair accessible. A sister adults-only property, Ollymar Resort on Mallorca, is operated under the same umbrella.

Complexe Luxuria

Montreal, Quebec

On-Premise Club

Complexe Luxuria describes itself as a “swinger lifestyle club complex located in Montreal,” spread over two floors at 8820 Boulevard Saint-Laurent. It is a private club that says guests must be members, with packages running from a single evening to a year. It opens Fridays and Saturdays, with Thursdays and Sundays only on occasion, and says it welcomes people who come alone or accompanied, whether new, beginner or experienced. The club floor works like a conventional nightclub, with two bars, a DJ every evening playing styles from Top 40 to house, reggae and dancehall, and six reservable VIP booths. Kitchen service is available by reservation. Upstairs, the “Luxure” floor lists a shower, couples' room, fantasy rooms, a mirror room, massage tables, glory holes and a swing room, plus three themed private rooms (BDSM, Mirror and Luxuria). Couples and single women are always admitted, and Saturday entry for them is by reservation. Single men are admitted in limited numbers; on Saturdays they need an invitation, a couple to accompany, or certified membership in a recognized group, and must email ahead. Men wear dark jeans or trousers with a shirt, jacket or sweater, and sport shoes, sandals, shorts and caps are refused, though themed nights vary. Phones and cameras are banned, and breaking rules can mean expulsion.

Couples Playhouse In Paradise

Naperville, IL

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Couples Playhouse in Paradise describes itself as “an established private party house” in a “lodge type setting” on three acres in the western suburbs of Chicago, and its site says it has been hosting parties since 1996. It holds themed private parties every Saturday, with theme participation optional, and adds Sunday day parties during the summer months. The house lists nine private and open rooms, a vaulted-ceiling living room, a dance floor with a dance pole, two bar areas, and five bathrooms. Outside are two pools (one all-season, one outdoor), a hot tub, a carpeted sundeck, a sand volleyball court and a bonfire pit with outdoor seating, and a buffet meal and dessert are among its listed features. The third floor and playrooms are phone-free. Saturday parties admit couples and single ladies, and couples must arrive and leave together. Everyone must RSVP and be on the list, new couples are asked to phone together first, and only the hosts release the party location. Alcohol is BYOB: guests should bring a proper amount, not use anyone else's, and keep glass out of the dance floor and pool areas. Dress is business casual or better, or the party theme. Using or having drugs means a permanent ban, and anyone intrusive is removed from the party rooms.

Cupids Swingers Club

Swinton, Greater Manchester

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Cupids Swingers Club uses the tagline “Where open minded adults meet”. It is an adults-only, on-premise club in Swinton, Greater Manchester, open evenings seven days a week with daytime sessions Tuesday to Saturday, and its pages say it has been established for over 30 years. Guests must be 21 or older with photo ID. The venue has private, lockable themed playrooms with mirrored ceilings, an XL couples' room, a dungeon, an open-play bed and a glory-hole area, plus a licensed UV bar, pool table, dance floor with a spinning pole, sauna, showers and separate couples' and singles' changing rooms. A small heated courtyard serves smokers. Each guest gets a locker and towel, and the locker key works as a bar tab. The club's pages also list a Wednesday couples and single females night, themed parties and live DJs. Entry to advertised events is by guestlist booking. Couples and single females register free for 12 months, and single men join as paid members or enter as guests, though the club says guestlist does not guarantee them entry because it manages the ratio of men to women. No outside drinks are allowed, phones and cameras stay in lockers, and dress is underwear, lingerie or a towel, with fancy dress only at themed events. Consent must be given verbally, no means no and offenders are barred, there is zero tolerance for illegal drugs, and new guests are not expected to join in.

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DB Socials holds a singular distinction in New England: it is the region's longest-running on-premise lifestyle party, operating continuously since June 1999 — first out of Bridgewater, then quietly relocating to its current private location in Grafton, a suburb in Worcester County about an hour west of Boston. Host Barry has run every event since inception, and the format has stayed deliberately unchanged across more than two decades: small, intimate gatherings for full-swap couples and single women, designed to feel nothing like a commercial nightclub. Events run bi-monthly, opening at 7PM with a floating close around 11PM-midnight. There is no door charge; in lieu of a fee, guests are asked to bring food or snacks to share, along with their own beverage — alcohol is welcome, though intoxication is not. Music plays throughout and adult movies provide ambient backdrop, but the atmosphere is casual and relaxed. The emphasis is on a small, intimate group setting rather than a large-scale venue experience. First-timers are welcome, but entry requires a brief phone call first — Barry needs to hear a woman's voice before directions to the private address are given out. That one rule says a great deal about DB Socials: a community built on trust and continuity, self-selecting for people who take the courtesy call seriously. Events are fully non-smoking throughout.

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Decadance is a three-floor swingers club at 122 Durham Street in Rochdale, Greater Manchester, that has been operating for over a decade — its fourteenth birthday falls in September 2026. The club runs on a no-membership, no-guestlist model and opens four nights a week. Self-described as female-run, it centres its ethos on consent, safety, and a relaxed social atmosphere. The venue spans three floors of a converted building. The ground floor holds a fully licensed bar, a pool table, toilets, and sauna; the first floor, reached by a steep staircase, contains the playrooms, shower facilities, and an outdoor balcony — the designated smoking area and the only space where mobile phones may be used. The basement is reached via a very steep curved staircase and houses the BDSM dungeon. Towels, lockers, and condoms are included in the entry price, as is pool-table use. Photography and recording are banned throughout the venue. The weekly schedule runs Monday Funday (13:00–18:00), Friday Night Madness (20:00–02:00), SeXXXy Saturday (20:00–02:00), and Spicy Sunday (15:00–22:00). The first Friday of each month hosts a dedicated newcomer night called Cherry Popper. No membership is required. Entry is £25 for single men (£20 on Sundays and Mondays), £15 for couples (£10 on Sundays and Mondays), £10 for trans guests, and always free for single women. A Challenge 25 ID policy is in operation; only passports and driving licences are accepted. Casual dress is permitted in the bar and social areas, but playroom access requires changing into underwear, a towel, fetish wear, or nudity — street clothes are not allowed upstairs. A zero-tolerance drugs policy results in a lifetime ban and referral to police.

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Devious Adelaide is a quarterly BDSM and kink event series in Adelaide, South Australia, run by Nick (he/him) and Pixie-Sky (they/them), who describe themselves as "lovers, teachers, performers and Adelaide event creators." Events are held at a hired boutique venue at 57 Manton St in Hindmarsh, immediately west of the city centre, and are positioned explicitly as kink parties rather than sex parties. The organisers describe the space as safe and deliberately inclusive — queer-friendly by stated design, open under the tagline "18+. Queer AF!" — with a welcoming stance toward both newcomers and experienced kinksters. The Hindmarsh venue is fitted out with a curated range of play equipment including suspension frames, a wax play area, a medical zone, and a dedicated pup play space, alongside a dance floor serviced by resident DJ Kev. Free parking is available on surrounding streets. All tickets are sold in advance through the Devious Adelaide Humanitix host page — no door sales are offered — and doors close at 10pm. Refunds are available up to seven days before each event. Parties run on Saturday nights from 8pm to 1am ACST/ACDT and follow a consistent "D" naming pattern: past editions include DESIRE, DEBAUCHERY, DEVOUR and DEPRAVITY. Ticket prices are tiered by release window. Each party is preceded by a complimentary one-hour skills workshop from 7pm to 8pm — covering topics such as consent negotiation and scene planning — for which a separate free ticket must be reserved in advance as spots are limited.