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On-Premise Club

Secrets for Sharing describes itself as a “couples only party venue”, with parties held in the hosts' large country home, a location the club calls “discreet, secluded” and halfway between Exeter and Plymouth. No membership is required. Parties are held on Saturdays, start in the evening and run right through the night. The house has a wet area with a ten-seat sauna, a six-seat hot tub, a massage area, showers, towels and lockers, plus a decking area with a heated, covered smoking area. Social space includes three chill-out lounges (one showing adult films), a dance room with a pole and a licensed bar. Downstairs are an open playroom and a grope room with a cage; upstairs are three themed open playrooms, an XXX cinema room and orgy rooms, and a separate area holds three private playrooms with lockable doors. Couples attend, single women can come at a lower ticket price, and the club does not offer open invitations to single men. Guests reserve by phone or email, pay on the night and get the address when booking. A finger buffet is included and a free sleep-over is offered. Dress is sexy for women and smart casual for men, with scruffy dress refused entry. House rules: no drugs, no phones or cameras, smoking outside only, and always ask first.

Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa

Kissimmee, FL

Lifestyle Resort

Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa uses the tagline “Florida's Adults Only Destination”. It is a private members club and lifestyle resort in Kissimmee with its own on-site hotel. The playrooms open every day, and the nightclub opens Tuesday and Thursday through Saturday. The courtyard holds two twelve-person hot tubs, a conversation pool, a large commercial-size pool and an outdoor bar, and the club lists four full bars, poolside DJs, restaurant service and a kitchen serving food. Evenings offer a 3,000-square-foot nightclub, themed parties every weekend, 4,000 square feet of playrooms where an attendant supplies condoms, towels and sheets, and the Club Swinkster dungeon. Entry requires membership, with applications processed on premises only, and after approval a host gives a tour and explains the rules. Couples, single women and single men are admitted, but single men are limited to 10 per event from Wednesday to Monday and, except on Tuesday, must be invited into the playroom by a couple. Outside alcohol is not allowed in the club, play areas, courtyard or pool, and cameras, camera phones and recorders are barred from play areas. The courtyard is clothing optional and the playrooms are nude, with a towel or bathrobe allowed.

private members club

Shadows Private Club 2.0 describes itself as “a carefully curated experience for couples and singles”. It is a members-only lifestyle club at 2504 50th Ave in Hyattsville, Maryland, open Wednesday through Sunday nights. Its About page says it has run since February 2017. It hosts weekly themed parties including Shadow Play, Glow and Costume Parties, Queen of Spades events and Wet T-Shirt Competitions, with DJ Dolla and guest DJs playing Latin, R&B and Afrobeats. Mixers, ice, cups and water are free, with complimentary finger foods on Friday and Saturday nights. For birthday rentals, it cites “various social spaces throughout the venue” and a layout for conversation and dancing. Everyone must be a member, at least 21 and show a valid state-issued ID, and the club admits single ladies, single men and couples, with up to 10 single men on Saturdays. A five-minute application is typically reviewed the same day, and approved applicants can attend that night. Alcohol is BYOB, entry may be refused to anyone appearing intoxicated at the door, and Saturday dress asks men to avoid sports attire, tank tops, hats and sandals. Phones and recording devices are prohibited, and the membership agreement makes recording, illegal drugs and consent breaches grounds for expulsion or removal.

Shed 16

Seaford, Victoria

On-Premise Club

Shed 16 is an adults-only lifestyle and swinger venue occupying a purpose-built space at 2/16 Cumberland Drive in Seaford, a bayside suburb on Melbourne's south-eastern fringe roughly 40 kilometres from the CBD. The club operates as a sex-on-premises venue with an explicit commitment to LGBTIQA+ inclusion, framing its mission around a safe, sex-positive environment that welcomes people of all genders, backgrounds, and levels of experience. The ethos is deliberately no-pressure: attendance carries no expectation of participation, and first-timers are actively accommodated through a gradual introduction to the space. The venue spans two floors. The ground floor anchors each session with a fully licensed bar and café, two spas, a dry sauna, a steam room, large open shower facilities, secure lockers, and free internet stations. The upper level is dedicated to play, hosting private lockable rooms, open group areas, a bondage and kink dungeon, sling rooms, a suckatorium, voyeur rooms, and a porn lounge. An outdoor courtyard serves as the smoking and vaping area. Dress expectations shift between floors: the ground level permits casual attire for the first two hours, while upstairs requires towel, underwear, lingerie, or nude. Condoms are provided throughout. Four weekly sessions run Tuesday through Saturday. TABOO (Tuesday, 7 pm–1 am) prices couples at AUD $35, single ladies at $15, and pre-booked single men at $60. DESIRES (Thursday, noon–6:30 pm) carries the same couple and ladies rates, with single men at $60 (or $50 before 1 pm). SHARED SECRETS (Friday, 8 pm–2 am) admits couples at $70 and single ladies at $25; single men are not admitted. CLUB EROTIQUE (Saturday, 8 pm–2 am) prices couples at $60, single ladies at $20, and pre-booked single men at $150. Entry is cash only at the door, with an on-site ATM; EFTPOS is accepted at the bar. A $10 surcharge applies on public holidays.

Shhh Newcastle Swingers Club

Newcastle upon Tyne, Tyne and Wear

On-Premise Club

Shhh Newcastle Swingers Club occupies a multi-storey premises at 85-89 Blandford Street in Newcastle city centre, roughly five minutes' walk from both Newcastle Central rail station and the Tyne and Wear Metro. Operating since 2018 and formerly trading as Shhh... by Base, the club underwent a full refurbishment in 2021 — installing a new jacuzzi, updating the playrooms, and adding a discreet rear entrance — and bills itself as the only venue of its kind in Newcastle upon Tyne. With a stated capacity of 200, the club places a strong emphasis on inclusivity: the space is LGBTQ+-welcoming and explicitly trans-friendly, with reduced or complimentary entry for trans guests on most nights. The venue spans two floors. Downstairs sits a fully licensed bar, a lounge, a dance floor, and spacious changing rooms with secure lockers; upstairs are the playrooms — including a cinema room, private zones, and a dungeon — alongside a sauna, steam room, jacuzzi, an internet room, and an outdoor seating area. First-time visitors receive a guided tour before being issued a membership card and locker key. Reviews describe a clean, no-pressure atmosphere with staff consistently praised for attentiveness to safety and comfort. Complimentary condoms (standard, king-size, and latex-free), lubricant, and dental dams are provided at reception and throughout the bar; the first towel is free and additional towels are £1 each. Overnight stays are available on party and fetish nights, with private or shared rooms at £15 per person and morning refreshments served between 9am and 11am. The club runs Wednesday through Sunday. Wednesday afternoons host a mixed swingers session (couples £20, singles £10); Thursday is a Flip Flop bisex night (couples £10, singles £5, trans guests free); Friday's #FetishFriday admits couples at £10, single women at £5, and single men at £20; Saturday's Swingers Circus is the main weekly event (couples and single men £25, women £10); and Sunday is a men-only play day. On Friday fetish and Saturday nights, guests may supplement the licensed bar with their own alcohol for a £2.50 corkage fee. Membership requires completing an application form and presenting valid photo ID: a driving licence showing the current address is preferred and sufficient alone, while a passport must be accompanied by a utility bill, council tax bill, or bank statement. Before 11pm the dress code is smart and glamorous; after 11pm, access to upstairs play areas requires appropriate attire — lingerie, a wrap, robe, or towel — and trainers, sportswear, and hoodies are prohibited throughout.

SOP Lifestyle Productions

Vancouver, British Columbia

Event Organizer

SOP Lifestyle Productions says it is “home of the Signature Takeovers and the Signature Experiences.” It is an event organizer: its Winter Lifestyle Takeover, which began in 2010 and became a hotel takeover in 2012, is held in November at a Whistler hotel, and a Spring Lifestyle Takeover started in 2015. It is also an official booking agent for lifestyle cruises and resorts. In the Winter takeover layout the sixth floor is the Play Floor, with theme rooms, sponsors rooms and playrooms open all night; the fifth is the Party Floor, the fourth the Noisy Floor, and the second and third are Quiet Floors. Open play rooms stay door-open, and private play rooms have a one-hour limit. Across its nights the takeover runs a Meet + Greet, a dance party and a cocktail party, plus daytime seminars and workshops. Singles, couples and more are welcome, and the club says there is “no pressure or mandatory participation.” It does not offer single-day passes, and hotel rooms cannot be booked by calling the hotel or through its website. Alcohol is BYOB in pool-safe containers (no glass) and is not allowed in play spaces. Guests must be dressed in the lobby and public areas, with clothing optional only on the party floors and pool deck. Verbal consent is required, photos need prior explicit permission, and illegal substances, excessive drinking, indoor smoking or vaping, fighting and solicitation are not allowed.

Swingerclub AlbSwing

Sigmaringen, Baden-Württemberg

AlbSwing occupies a rural property on the Nollhof estate north of Sigmaringen, set in the rolling farmland of Baden-Württemberg’s Swabian Alb. The club brands itself as “Der Swingerclub der Schwäbischen Alb” — the lifestyle venue of the Alb region — and draws a clientele that reportedly travels from as far afield as Stuttgart and Lake Constance for its Saturday nights. It opened in its current form following a rebrand and partial renovation of the former Swingerclub Waldhaus, with married couple Emel and Torsten taking over operations on a five-year lease; both had previously worked as bartenders at the same venue before stepping up to run it themselves. The interior has been modernised and partly redesigned since the Waldhaus era, now comprising seven themed rooms arranged across the property. These include an Aladdin room, a mirrored room, a snuggle room, a lockable private room for couples who want complete seclusion, a lounge themed around a flying carpet, a BDSM/SM room equipped with a gynaecological chair, and a darkroom. A couples-only section accessible via a separate entrance adds an extra layer of privacy for pairs who prefer it. The social hub of the venue is a bar area fitted with sofas and high-top seating, where a buffet is laid out as part of the all-inclusive entry. Outside, an open play balcony extends the usable space in fine weather, while a heated smoking shelter handles the dedicated outdoor smoking area. The large car park accommodates motorhomes and caravans, and a number of guests reportedly make a night of it by overnighting on site. New visitors are offered an orientation walkthrough, and the atmosphere is shaped by the house principle of “alles erlaubt, nichts Pflicht” — everything permitted, nothing required. The regular programme runs every Saturday from 19:00 to 02:00; additional Friday and Sunday events are announced on short notice through JoyClub and the club’s WhatsApp channel. Advance registration by WhatsApp (+49 15259434935) or email (albswing@gmail.com) is recommended and earns a discounted rate: pre-registered couples pay €70, pre-registered solo women €15, and pre-registered solo men €100, against walk-in rates of €80, €20, and €110 respectively. All prices are all-inclusive — entry covers the buffet, drinks, and condoms. The dress code is erotic: women are expected to arrive in lingerie or a sexy dress; men in boxer or retro-style shorts paired with a shirt. Street shoes must be removed before entering the play areas, and mobile phones are not permitted anywhere in the venue — guests may leave their devices at the bar for emergency access. Cameras are banned entirely, drugs are prohibited, and entry is refused to anyone intoxicated or visibly unkempt. The minimum age is 18.

Swingerclub Bluecat

Unverified

Schwetzingen, Baden-Württemberg

On-Premise Club

Tucked at the edge of Schwetzingen Am Langen Sand light-industrial strip — a short drive from the A6 motorway Schwetzingen-Nord exit — Blue Cat draws a mixed, open-minded crowd from across the Rhine-Neckar corridor: Mannheim, Heidelberg, Karlsruhe and the Palatinate. Run by Andrea Dunkel as a deliberately family-scale operation, the club pitches itself explicitly against the anonymous superclubs of the region: 500 square metres, nine individually styled rooms and a house capacity of around a hundred guests. New visitors are invited to arrive early and tour the rooms and party space at their own pace before the evening gets going, giving first-timers an unhurried feel for the layout before they commit to staying. The club opens Tuesday through Saturday from 8 pm, with nights running until 1 am on weekday evenings, 2 am on Fridays and 3 am on Saturdays. Admission is all-inclusive — every price covers the buffet and drinks for the night, with no bar tab to run up afterwards. Women pay €10 on any night; couples follow a sliding scale of €30 on weeknight openings, €45 on Fridays and €50 on Saturdays; solo men pay €100 across the board. Registered JOYclub premium members receive an average €10 discount off the door price. The nine rooms range across a love swing, a cinema lounge, a massage area, a gynecological chair, a kuschelecke (cuddle corner) and a dedicated SM play area, supported by a sauna, a wet area and a terrace for outdoor moments. The central zone holds a bar and a rotating buffet. Parking is available directly around the building.

Swingerclub Feuer & Eis

Bruchsal, Baden-Württemberg

On-Premise Club

Feuer & Eis — Fire and Ice — occupies a discreet industrial-zone address on Industriestraße in Bruchsal, roughly midway between Karlsruhe and Heidelberg, and draws couples and singles from across Baden-Württemberg and beyond. The club operators describe it as "Spielwiesen" — playgrounds — for the wider Bruchsal and Karlsruhe region. Run by Sven Schirner, the venue spans 800 square metres across two fully air-conditioned floors and holds up to 250 guests. On JoyClub it carries a 4.8 out of 5 star rating from more than 3,100 reviews and counts over 10,000 followers — unusually strong social proof for a regional club. The ground floor centres on the signature Frivole Bar — a naughty bar lounge with a cage fixture at the counter — flanked by a dance floor and a large multi-person whirlpool. Up on the first floor, the play area fans out into a darkroom, a dedicated BDSM zone, a cinema room, lockable private rooms for couples, a couples-only area, and a glory-hole corner. Rounding out the offering is a sauna, an outdoor terrace with a pool, and full kitchen service: hot and cold meals are prepared fresh daily and included in the admission price, as are towels and condoms. DJ Rex handles in-house music on party nights, and shuttle service from the club and a partner hotel arrangement cater to guests travelling from further afield. The club weekly programme is dense and deliberately varied. Core party nights run Friday (20:00–02:00) and Saturday (20:00–04:00), but the club is open most evenings from Monday through Sunday. Entry prices scale by night and demographic: women pay €5–20, couples €18–75, and single men €28–115. Men typically require advance registration, while couples and women are admitted freely. Regular themed slots include Tropical Beach Parties, Wellness Sundays with massage, trans-friendly Sommernachtstraum evenings, Young People nights, Couples and Ladies glow-bracelet nights, and fortnightly Herrenüberschuss evenings that open extra capacity for solo male guests.

Swingerclub Passion

Stuhr, Lower Saxony

On-Premise Club

Club Passion sits in the Seckenhausen industrial estate on the southern fringe of Bremen, a short drive from the A1 autobahn at Industriestrasse 37. The club is owned and personally run by Jessica and Patrick Bosse, a couple with their own long-standing roots in the swinging community, and it shows in how the place operates: long-serving staff who are friends first and staff second set a tone the venue itself describes as a very special family-like atmosphere, one where even first-timers quickly find their footing rather than feeling lost in an anonymous crowd. More than 1.5 million visits, a JOYclub Recommendation badge, and a 4.8-star average across 3,288 reviews place it firmly among the most trusted venues in the Bremen catchment. The indoor footprint runs to roughly 270 square metres, maintained at a steady 22 degrees C year-round. The ground floor holds a well-stocked bar (Bacardi, Jim Beam, Malibu, Likor 43 among the brands), a comprehensive warm-and-cold buffet, and a dance floor with a pole and stage area. Playrooms cover the full range: a Caribbean-themed Blue Lagoon private room, a castle-themed Burgzimmer, a coded couples-only section, a sleeping area upstairs, and a dedicated BDSM corner fitted with a swing, spanking bench, and St. Andrew's cross. The wellness zone adds an eight-person whirlpool (water changed daily), a sauna, and shower stations stocked with toiletries throughout the venue. Come summer, a heated outdoor terrace opens with a pool, beach baskets, and a separate cocktail bar, an addition that sets the club apart from most urban indoor venues. Club Passion runs Fridays (19:00-02:00) and Saturdays (19:00-03:00) as its regular nights, with Tuesday afternoon sessions (15:00-23:00) and Sunday parties (14:00-21:00) rotating on alternating weeks. Door prices are all-inclusive - the fee covers the full buffet, alcoholic and soft drinks, condoms, and hygiene supplies, with nothing extra to spend inside. Friday admission runs EUR 20 for single women, EUR 60 for couples, and EUR 80 for single men; Saturday steps up to EUR 30, EUR 85, and EUR 90 respectively, with JOYclub members receiving a discount at every tier. Trans and cross-dressing guests are admitted at 50% of the solo male rate. Dress code is firmly enforced: sexy lingerie and heels for women, latex, leather, or dark underwear with quality sandals for men. First-time visitors can call ahead to arrange a complimentary 30-minute walk-through before doors open - no commitment required.

Swingerclub Savannah

Zwochau, Saxony

On-Premise Club

Swingerclub Savannah occupies a purpose-built venue in Zwochau, a small Saxon village roughly 20 kilometres north of Leipzig near Wiedemar, and operates under Savannah GmbH. The club has established a strong reputation across the eastern German lifestyle scene — regulars on review platforms describe it as 'der beste im Osten Deutschlands' — and draws up to 200 guests per night, with an average age squarely in the mid-to-late thirties. Free parking sits directly in front of the building, an on-site club hotel accommodates overnight stays, and the rural location lends the place the feel of a considered retreat rather than a city-centre nightclub. The 850 m² building is organised around a central bar and dance floor, flanked by self-service drink stations stocked with water, prosecco, and beer; cocktails and a broad selection of spirits are served from the bar, and the all-inclusive entry price covers everything except premium champagne and certain luxury labels. A buffet — spanning hot dishes, vegan options, and sweets — is continuously restocked until around 2 a.m. The wellness area adds a sauna, an indoor whirlpool, and an outdoor jacuzzi on a heated terrace, while a separate outdoor smoking area keeps the interior smoke-free throughout. Play spaces run to roughly twenty rooms in different configurations: lockable private rooms, a mirror room, a darkroom, a cinema room, a voyeur room, a massage area, an SM/BDSM zone fitted with a cage and a gynaecological chair, and open areas spread across large mattresses. Towels, lotions, and condoms are provided throughout. One golocal reviewer described the ambiance as 'betörendes Licht, leise Musik und angenehme Düfte' (enchanting light, soft music, pleasant scents), and staff run a rigorous cleaning rotation between uses. Regular party nights run Friday and Saturday, doors opening at 20:00 and running to 03:00. Entry is all-inclusive and priced accordingly: approximately €130–140 for couples, €120–130 for single men, and €49–55 for single women; JoyClub members receive a modest discount. Tickets are booked in advance through savannah-club.com, which also lists the schedule of themed evenings — including periodic Wellness Sunday sessions — held throughout the year. On arrival, the owners personally greet every first-time visitor and walk them through the full venue. The dress code is applied strictly at the door: men in black dress trousers, a dress shirt, and closed shoes; women in a little black dress, lingerie, or equivalently dressed-up attire.

Swingers Circle

Las Vegas, NV

Weekly Play Party

Swingers Circle describes itself as “The Party Where Everyone Meets Everyone!”, a weekly party in Las Vegas for couples and single women. It is held at a hotel on or near the Las Vegas Strip rather than at a fixed club venue. The club says it has no brick and mortar location and holds its parties in hotel suites. A social hour is followed by a sexual trivia “Game” between the genders in which a wrong answer costs an article of clothing; the club says taking part in the Game is required, but nobody is ever required to play with anyone. A play room and essentials are provided and the lights are kept very low. Parties are limited to the first 12 registered couples, and one only goes ahead with at least five couples. Entry is by online registration only. The hotel and suite are sent by text or call within a few hours of the start, and guests must arrive during the social hour because late arrivals are not admitted once the Game begins. Dress is club wear, drinks are BYOB, illegal drugs are not allowed, and single men are not admitted.

Swingers Oase

Ammerzoden, Gelderland

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Swingers Oase is a small, intimate parenclub on the Haarstraat in Ammerzoden, a village in Gelderland roughly midway between Zaltbommel and Den Bosch. In operation for over a decade, it positions itself as an approachable alternative to the larger commercial venues in the nearby cities — somewhere guests can make contact easily in a setting the club describes as gezellig (convivial and homely). Open to couples, single women, and single men, the guiding philosophy is niets moet, alles mag (nothing required, everything permitted) between consenting adults, with mutual respect as the founding house rule. The venue is fitted with an eight-person jacuzzi, a two-person sauna, a bar and buffet, a dance floor with DJ music, a lounge area, a terrace, and a range of private and group playrooms. Entry is all-inclusive, covering food, beverages, and full use of all facilities. Current pricing varies by day and event type and is published on the club own agenda — always confirm before attending. The club runs a varied programme across several evenings each week. Themed nights — including Blacklovers evenings, Bi-Curious parties, and Hollandse events — rotate through the schedule, with reservations required for weekend nights. Single men must reserve in advance on all open evenings. On the fifth Friday of the month the Parenavond is reserved exclusively for couples and single women; single men are not admitted that evening.

TABOTA Monster Bash

Niagara Falls, Ontario

Hotel Takeover Event

TABOTA Monster Bash describes itself as “a complete lifestyle hotel takeover” in Niagara Falls, Ontario. Hosted by TABOTA Events, it is an annual Halloween weekend each October in which the organizer books out a full hotel and waterpark complex for registered guests only. The site says it has run since 2007. The takeover includes an indoor water park, a Poolside VooDoo Lounge with bistro-style snacks, garden dining and courtyard rooms. The play spaces are the Penthouse Play Area, the Kinky Playroom and the Poolside Kink Garden, alongside a DJ dance floor and “an exclusive couples only area”. Clothing-optional pool parties run by day, with an early-arrival Thursday, a Friday meet and greet and theme dance, and a weekend gala night with a dinner murder mystery, plus a costume contest. The event admits couples and single women; single men are not admitted, and guests must be 19 or older. Reservations are booked directly through TabotaEvents.com, and everyone is expected to dress up in a Halloween costume. The site offers orientation sessions for first-timers and describes “a strict, zero-pressure environment”. House rules include asking before touching, no phones or photos in play areas, and no genital nudity or sexual activity in public areas.

Tease Party is a couples-and-single-ladies-only lifestyle event brand operating in Scottsdale, Arizona, rather than a fixed-address club — parties are held at rotating venues that change with each event''s theme. The group markets itself as a no-pressure, erotic social setting built for beautiful couples and single females to flaunt, flirt and connect without the presence or pressure of single men. Each event varies by venue and theme, but the operators describe a consistent steamy, respectful atmosphere designed to let guests be openly sexy. After the main party, many attendees continue into informal after-parties that run later into the evening, and discounted rooms at nearby hotels are offered depending on which venue is booked for that event. Access is strictly private and by referral only — there is no walk-in or open-door admission. Prospective guests must get on the guest list either by joining Tease Party''s affiliated lifestyle site or by contacting the organizers directly by email, and being on that list is the only way to be admitted to a party.

Spa and Sauna

Temptations Spa and Sauna calls itself a “venue for naturists swingers” and is at 172 Windham Road in Bournemouth, Dorset. Its website lists ground-floor facilities of a sauna, jacuzzi, steam room and showers, plus a lounge area to relax in, three private playrooms and a massage room where hostesses give massages, which the club says are for relaxation purposes only. Couples and singles are welcome seven days a week, with separate entry rates for couples, single women and single men, and the club says it can also cater to private parties subject to availability. It opens every day of the week, with a later close on Friday and Saturday.

The Chilli Club

Unverified

Auckland, Auckland

On-Premise Club

The Chilli Club has operated from 3122 Great North Road in New Lynn, Auckland for over fifteen years, making it one of the city's longest-running adult lifestyle venues. The space functions under two linked identities: The Chilli Club hosts swinger parties and alternative lifestyle events, while CHOKE — the Chilli House of Kink Events — serves Auckland's kink and BDSM community with workshops, play parties, photography events and professional performances. Both arms share the same licensed premises, address and contact email. The play space spans approximately 200 square metres and is fitted accordingly: a fully licensed bar, multiple play areas with large-screen TVs, a stripper pole with full-length mirrors, a sex swing and a shower area. The space is also available for private hire — from intimate gatherings to BDSM workshops — with a non-refundable $100 deposit required to confirm a booking and the balance settled on the night. All attendees must be 18 or older and may be asked to present ID. Phones, cameras and all recording devices — including smart glasses such as Ray-Ban Meta — must be powered off and stored before entry. The venue's designated safe word is 'RED', and the consent framework explicitly endorses SSC, RACK and PRICK principles. Blood play, needles, breath play and scat are prohibited outright; violations may result in immediate removal and a permanent ban with no refund of entry fees.

The Ecclesia

Glasgow, Scotland

On-Premise Club

The Ecclesia is a Glasgow city centre lifestyle and kink club combining swinging and BDSM/fetish communities under one roof. Founded in 2017 by event organisers with a background running alternative-lifestyle events across Scotland — including the Breaking Point annual event in Perth and club nights in Dundee — the venue opened in Glasgow in late 2019 following the closure of the city's long-running Sauchiehall Street dungeon. The club operates in the Hope Street and Merchant City area of the city centre on a near-community, non-profit basis. The venue spans nearly 3,000 sq ft across two connected spaces. A penthouse dungeon of around 500 sq ft across two rooms is equipped with a custom suspension murphy bed, suspension platforms, fetters wheels, bondage thrones, St Andrews crosses, cages, Sybian machines, fucking machines, and a rope tie platform. Social spaces are kept separate from the playrooms. Condoms, lubricant, and cleaning supplies are stocked throughout. A mandatory safety briefing precedes every event and a consent policy — with house safeword 'RED' — is enforced venue-wide. The event calendar includes Fun for All (FFA) mixed nights open to couples, singles, and groups (typically 8pm to midnight); Greedy Girls Gangbang nights; dedicated LGBT nights; ladies-only evenings; TV/CD admirer nights; kink workshops including rope education (typically 3pm to 8pm); and social speed-dating evenings with play-permitted afterparties. Private dungeon hire is available at £40 per hour or £200 for a full day. All tickets are sold in advance on a guestlist-only basis — the physical address is released only to confirmed attendees — and are non-refundable and non-transferable. Challenge 25 is enforced at the door.

The Foothills Club

Anderson, SC

Hotel Ballroom Party Club

The Foothills Club describes itself as a “private/membership only club, open to couples and singles in the lifestyle.” It holds its parties in a private hotel ballroom in Anderson, South Carolina, near I-85 Exit 19A, and says it is “not an on-premise club.” Its history page traces the club to 1985, when it began as house parties in Georgia. It hosts one or more events a month, a Friday karaoke meet and greet followed by a themed Saturday main event. The smoke-free ballroom is decorated for each Saturday theme. A DJ plays music and videos and takes requests, and the room has a lighted stripper pole and a St. Andrew's cross for guests who want “a hint of playful adventure.” Complimentary appetizers and finger food are served, and host-hotel rooms are offered at a member rate, though a room is never required. Everyone needs a lifetime membership, bought at the door with a photo ID matching the registration form; the club takes cash only. Anyone 21 or older who is interested in the lifestyle may join, including couples and single women. Single men are limited to 10% of attendance and must contact the club to be confirmed. Friday is BYOB; Saturday adds a complimentary open bar, plus BYOB. There is no specific dress code. Sex is not allowed in the ballroom or public hotel areas.

The Idaho White Rose

Post Falls, ID

On-Premise Club

The Idaho White Rose describes itself as “a House Party located in between Spokane, WA, and Coeur D'Alene, ID,” and its events page places a party in Post Falls. It requires guests to be 21, focuses on couples, and also admits single women and a very limited number of single men at each party. It holds at least two events and a Meet and Greet every month. The house has a dance floor with a pole-dancing stage, a sitting area, a changing area, showers and a big covered outdoor hot tub that the club says is drained and cleaned after every party. It lists six private rooms that can be closed or left open, plus a room with glass French doors for couples who enjoy exhibitionism, a large group room and a large couples-only room. There are no lockers, and free secluded parking is provided. The address is not posted online; guests RSVP or call for it. Photo ID is required. Newcomers can attend a free, no-obligation New Member Orientation and may leave without paying. Guests bring their own drinks, with secure refrigerators and soda and mixers provided but no alcohol. Events are themed, and men are asked for a collared shirt and slacks. Rules include no touching without permission, no cameras or phones in public places, and no illegal drugs.

The Loft Club

Ronkonkoma, NY

The Loft Club billed itself as Long Island's only premier upscale lifestyle club, operating out of an industrial-style space at 142-1 Remington Boulevard in Ronkonkoma. Operated under the umbrella of the Naughty Neighbors group — active on the Long Island lifestyle scene since 2015 — the club combined a social lounge experience with on-premise play, drawing couples and vetted single guests in roughly equal measure. The Naughty Neighbors' ethos of zero-pressure, no-expectation socialising carried directly into the club nights, where newcomers were actively welcomed and regulars kept the atmosphere more house-party than nightclub. The venue featured three lounge areas, a dedicated dance floor with a DJ, upgraded lighting, and six dedicated playrooms. A stripper pole anchored the main party room and the club ran a BYOB policy, supplying mixers, sodas and water at the bar. Admission was tiered: $30 for single ladies, $70 for couples, and $80 for single men, with single-male attendance capped and subject to pre-approval. Events were listed on the SwingLifeStyle (SLS) calendar. As of mid-2026, The Loft Club was actively relocating to a new and larger location, with the Naughty Neighbors group targeting its annual Halloween party as the opening milestone. The theloftclub2.com site was live but showing a Launching Soon holding page, directing all enquiries through email and text-only contact channels.

The Meeting Place

Decatur, MI

On-Premise Club

The Meeting Place says “the vibe is always relaxed and welcoming” at its own venue near Kalamazoo, Michigan, which operates on a membership basis. It opens every Saturday and on the third Friday of each month, calls itself Michigan's oldest sex club, and its About page says it has been in business for over 37 years. The venue covers more than 6,000 square feet, with a DJ and dance floor with a stripper pole, a large hot tub, and an outdoor firepit inside a 12-foot privacy fence. Inside are 12 play rooms with more than 35 beds, lockers, and a complimentary buffet. A private room can be rented for the night, and an “Orgy Room” for content creation can also be rented. Guests may stay over into the next day. Couples must attend and enter together, and single males must call each time they want to attend because space is limited. Guests must be 21, and new members call on the day of the party after noon to hear the rules and get the address, which is not published, and then get a tour from a host couple. The club is BYOB and cigarette and 420 friendly, with no hard drugs. Street clothes are not allowed in play and bedroom areas. Cell phones must stay in the car and BDSM is not allowed, and either can get a guest asked to leave or banned.

The No3 Club

Chorley, Lancashire

On-Premise Club

The No3 Club describes itself as a “luxurious new swingers club” that welcomes “Swingers old and new.” It is an over-21 venue in Chorley, Lancashire, with a fully licensed bar, and its regular programme covers a Greedy Girl Day on the first and third Wednesday of the month, an Intro Night on the second and fourth Friday, a Saturday evening swing night and a Super Sexy Sunday every other week. Inside, the club has open rooms and private rooms alongside the bar, towels available for men who dress down, and a buffet on Greedy Girl Days. A large car park outside is free every evening after 6pm, and the club says it is also available for hire. First-time visitors must call the club before turning up, leave a real name and planned date, and bring photo ID. Single women and single men are both admitted, with single men limited and pre-booking required on Saturdays, and membership required for couples and single men on Sundays. Dress is smart casual with no sportswear or trainers, with a dress-down to lingerie for women or boxers or a towel for men. The club says “No always means No,” and a polite “No” is meant to leave a guest alone.

The Playgrounds SLE

Burton upon Trent, Derbyshire

Lifestyle events at private venues

The Playgrounds SLE describes itself as “a community of like-minded individuals” and runs verified adult lifestyle parties at private venues. It says it was “Established in 2013”. It lists itself as LGBTQIA+ inclusive, runs dedicated bi/trans TABU parties, and says it is a non-profit group that raises money for charities. Parties are held at private venues, among them a site the club calls the Lifestyle Lodge. The club says it averages at least 40 to 50 guests and never runs an event with fewer than 30. Smoking is limited to designated outdoor areas. Every event has a “no pressure, no obligation, no expectation” policy on playing. Events are guest list only, with tickets booked and paid for in advance. Guests must be 25 or over and bring photo ID. Couples, transgender guests and verified single ladies and gents are admitted unless an event says otherwise, with a limited number of verified single men where stated. Guests need a profile on a lifestyle site with a minimum of two meeting verifications or, if new, supply full names and a face photo. The address goes only to confirmed guests. Dress is smart and sexy. Consent is required, drugs are not tolerated, and recording equipment, phones included, is banned.