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Philadelphia, PA
The Pleasure Garden Club describes itself as a “Members Only Lifestyle Club”. It is at 6039 Passyunk Ave in Philadelphia and opens every Friday and Saturday night, with Fridays welcoming couples, single ladies and single men and Saturdays limited to couples and single ladies. Its ticket pages cite “over 20 years of unwavering success”. Its About Us section lists a main dance floor with sound and lights, a back bar with a professional dancer pole, two BYOB juice bars with mixers provided, a group shower with towel service, lockers and themed private fantasy rooms open on Fridays and Saturdays. Ticket listings add a single-level layout and a second Sybian room. Recurring nights include Fantasy Fridays, Newbie Nights and PLEASUREcation on the first Friday of each month. A current membership is required, and anyone without one must buy it before admission; members must be 21 or older with a state-issued ID, and admission can be refused without explanation. The club is BYOB and sells no alcohol. Its dress code points men to suits, sportscoats and dress shirts and does not allow sports attire, tank tops, hoodies or baseball-style hats. Cameras and recording devices are prohibited, phones stay in the car or at the front desk, and illegal drugs bring a ban and police notification.

Las Vegas, NV
On-Premise Club
The Red Rooster says it hosts “on-premise Las Vegas swinger lifestyle parties” in a private home about 7 miles east of the Strip. Its About page says the club was first conceived in 1983 and that the space has grown from 800 to over 12,000 square feet. It runs Wednesday through Sunday, with specialty parties for most holidays, a Wednesday karaoke night, a Thursday party called Southern Heat and a Sunday night called Vixsun, billed as a “Hotwife Haven”. The club lists a dance floor, private rooms, group rooms, an indoor pool and jacuzzi, a tournament-sized pool table, two serving bars and plenty of seating, plus an upstairs area for couples only that is open Fridays and Saturdays. The group room is a play and voyeur area open to everyone. Lockers are available behind the front bar and beside the pool, a heated patio serves as the smoking area, and parking is free. Couples and singles are welcome, and the club says it does not prescreen guests for attractiveness, wealth, youth or fitness. Everyone must be at least 25 and show ID, and entry is a cash donation at the door. The upstairs area counts a couple as a man and a woman arriving together. The club is strictly BYOB: guests check their own alcohol at one of the bars, and coffee, water and mixers are provided. Dress is whatever guests are comfortable in, as revealing as they like. Cellphones and cameras are banned, no drugs are allowed anywhere on the property, and guests who keep approaching someone after a no can be asked to leave.

Kansas City, MO
On-Premise Club
Tucked just off Interstate 70 at 2111 Television Place, The SPOTT Night Club has held its ground as Kansas City's flagship lifestyle and swingers venue for over fifteen years. The facility spans more than 8,000 square feet of indoor and outdoor party and play space. Inside, a 625-square-foot dance floor anchors the main hall, flanked by five dance poles, ten Las Vegas-style VIP booths, LED-lit glass bar-height tables, and an upper balcony that overlooks the action below. A 15x25-foot HD projection screen and Peavey surround sound fill the room, while a live DJ/VJ spins requests. On an average Saturday the crowd tops 300 guests — couples, single females, and a capped number of single men — and reviewers consistently describe the vibe as warm, polite, and pressure-free. The SPOTT runs every Saturday from 8:30 pm to 5:00 am with a different theme each week. The venue is strictly 21+ with no exceptions. Admission is tiered: couples pay $30 in advance or $40 at the door; single females $15/$20; single males $40 in advance, $50 at the door before 10:30 pm or $75 after. No printed ticket required — a valid ID at check-in suffices. No re-entry after 12:30 am. Play spaces include three private colour-themed lounges (Red, Blue, Green), a small open lounge, and a large group lounge with a voyeur viewing area. Outdoors, the WETTSPOTT area offers a 16x32-foot heated pool, an eight-person hot tub, five cushioned gazebos, and fire tables — open from St Patrick's Day to Halloween. Fully BYOB; complimentary Coke and Pepsi products provided, coolers welcome.
Newton, MA
Sterling is a swingers' club whose site invites couples and single women in the Boston, Massachusetts area, northern Rhode Island, southern New Hampshire and southern Maine to contact it, and its schedule describes a “BYOB Lounge/Pub atmosphere” at a location in the Waltham area. It lists Saturday parties, and offers Friday and Saturday “House and Lounge Parties” as a “no pressure” way for people who are unsure about swinging to give it a try. Parties are for couples and women unless otherwise indicated, and an occasional Ladies' Choice party is also open to vetted single men. Single men are invited to host in their own homes. To attend, couples and single women call to be placed on the invite list; both partners of a couple should be on the call, where the club confirms that callers are a couple or a woman and over 18.

London, London
Performance Night / Event Series
The Sublime Society is a monthly erotic performance event series staged at Dear Darling, a luxury bar and nightclub at 91 Jermyn Street in Mayfair's St. James's district, a short walk from Green Park station. Co-founded by burlesque artist Charlie Bouquett and House of Fatale founder Missy Fatale, it presents itself as an "exclusive hedonistic soirée" — a voyeur-forward sensual salon in which live burlesque, shibari suspension, fetish performance, and sapphic dominance play unfold in close proximity to a seated and standing audience. The project carries an explicitly FLINTA-centered artistic policy: all performers identify as femme, lesbian, intersex, non-binary, trans, or asexual, and the organisers have publicly committed to exclusively female-identifying performers for their London editions. Dear Darling occupies a double-level footprint. The main salon — called The Living Room — holds 50 seated and up to 160 standing guests among wood-panelled walls, plush sofas, velvet armchairs, green drapery, and low crystal-strung chandeliers. There is no raised stage: performers move through the room itself, and mirrored ceilings provide sightlines from multiple angles while a rigged shibari frame hosts rope suspension pieces. Below, reached only through what the venue calls Lady Darling's wardrobe — a concealed door — sits a basement nightclub with capacity for around 160, featuring avant-garde décor and a DJ booth; this space operates as the afterparty venue for Sublime Society ticket-holders from approximately 11pm. A curated cocktail menu runs throughout both levels. Events run roughly monthly on Friday evenings, with doors at 7:00–7:30pm and the performance programme concluding between 10:15pm and 11:30pm depending on format; the basement afterparty continues to 2:00am. A secondary format, The Sublime Society: SALON, runs shorter evenings (7:00–10:30pm) and layers a live podcast recording and a participatory BDSM impact-play workshop onto the shibari performance. Tickets are sold exclusively in advance via DesignMyNight; standard general admission sits between approximately £38 and £65 depending on the event, with couples packages at a 20% reduction and three-person packages at 30% off. A VIP tier adding reserved lounge seating and basement nightclub access runs £59–£80, and a Meet and Greet add-on (£20–£22) provides post-show access to the cast.

Sacramento, CA
Lifestyle Resort
The Suite Life Platinum bills itself as Northern California's ultra-private lifestyle sanctuary, serving the Sacramento area from a location shared only with vetted members. The club traces its roots back roughly thirteen years, when it launched under the name Massage and Play Socials before evolving into its current form. Today it occupies a private venue designed to deliver the buzz of a nightclub alongside the intimacy of a house party — a balance the organizers lean into deliberately, with professional sound, club lighting, laser effects, and a Bluetooth-compatible system that lets members add their own tracks to the mix. The space divides into two distinct zones. The lounge and dance hall handle the social side, giving members room to mingle and move before anything else happens. The play zone runs separately and includes a voyeur/exhibitionist room, a private room, and a couples-only group room. On busier nights the team brings in a live DJ. Outside, a dedicated smoking area and ample free parking round out the practical side of the operation. Membership is by application and pre-screening only, with no walk-ins and no public admittance. Events maintain a roughly even male-to-female ratio, and a limited number of pre-screened single men are permitted at certain events. For those who want to go deeper into the lifestyle travel circuit, the site also curates partner events — from resort takeovers in Cancun and Hedonism II in Jamaica to adults-only cruises — all bookable through the member portal at thesuitelifeplatinum.com.
Burlington, NJ
The Swinger's Grotto has been a fixture of South Jersey's lifestyle scene since its founding in 1999, operating out of Burlington, NJ under the stewardship of a trio of hosts — Scott, Tom, and Tony. The club runs on a monthly party format open to ladies and couples, in a relaxed, no-pressure atmosphere suited to both first-timers and experienced lifestyle participants alike. What has set the Grotto apart over the years is a deliberately personal touch: the hosts know their guests by name and treat everyone as part of a community rather than a paying crowd. Each party includes a spread of food, entertainment, and adult novelties — a consistent detail that regulars reference as part of the club's character. The club operates on a private-party model with no publicly listed street address or website, reachable only via phone (609-636-1756) or its PO Box — a setup typical of smaller lifestyle events in the South Jersey corridor.

Atlanta, GA
On-Premise Club
Trapeze Club Atlanta describes itself as “an upscale, BYOB sex club” where the dress code is strictly enforced. It is an on-premise lifestyle club open Wednesday through Sunday that requires a membership of every guest, singles included, and its About page calls it “the area’s longest maintained and most well-known on-premise lifestyle club.” The club tour lists about 15,000 square feet of amenities: a central dance floor with an in-house DJ and a dance pole, four full-sized bars, and a community dining area with a full-service buffet, plus a breakfast buffet on select nights. Beyond wooden doors, the back playroom has an open play area and private rooms for couples and singles. Guests get lockers, public showers and free towels, and each night has its own theme. Couples and single women may attend any night the club is open, from 8 p.m.; single men are admitted Wednesday through Friday and Sunday only. Guests must be 21 or older, and new members show photo ID. The club sells no alcohol: members bring their own, bottles are marked with member ID numbers, and mixers are free. Men wear collared shirts and dress shoes; in the back room guests wear lingerie, a towel or nothing. Cameras, phones and recording devices are prohibited, drugs and prostitution are not tolerated, and visibly intoxicated guests may be refused entry or alcohol.

Niagara Falls, Ontario
Hotel Takeover Convention
Valentines in Niagara (VIN) describes itself as “a COMPLETE hotel takeover swingers lifestyle convention.” Hosted by Tabota Events, it is held each February in Niagara Falls, Ontario, and its site says the convention has grown since 2007. It takes over a hotel with an indoor tropical waterpark, closed to outsiders on Friday and Saturday, with an optional Thursday pre-party. The weekend combines 60 to 90 minute seminars with workshops, theme dances, a couples speed dating session, pool parties around the pool and two hot tubs, vendors and evening entertainment such as burlesque and comedy. Play spaces include a Penthouse Playroom and a separate Kinky Play Area, and the hotel has garden-setting dining and bistro-style snacks served poolside. Guests book through TabotaEvents.com, as an event-only pass or with a hotel room. The event is for couples and single women, single men are not admitted, and guests must be 19 or older. The organizer says couples of all experience levels attend. Nudity and sexual behavior are not permitted in public areas such as hallways and the pool area.
Pennsauken, NJ
on-premise swingers club
Sitting along the busy commercial strip of Admiral Wilson Boulevard in Pennsauken, New Jersey — just across the Delaware River from Philadelphia — Venus operates under the banner of SwingersUSA/CouplesClubUSA and has built a following as one of South Jersey's most established on-premise lifestyle clubs. The venue draws a crowd of both newcomers and regulars, billing itself as a no-pressure environment that is welcoming to couples and single ladies exploring the swinger lifestyle. The club runs parties every Friday and Saturday night from 9pm to 4am. Saturday evenings include a pre-party Tantra workshop from 8 to 9pm before the main event begins. The club provides an appetizer buffet as part of the evening, and operates on a BYOB basis with mixers supplied by the venue. A DJ provides entertainment throughout the night. Attendance is typically strong, with the club reporting averages of 105 to 130 couples per party. Venus describes itself as South Jersey's most popular on-premise lifestyle club. Its location on Admiral Wilson Boulevard places it convenient to major highway routes connecting the Philadelphia metro region and southern New Jersey.

Miami Beach, FL
Screened EDM lifestyle party organization
VIPBLISS describes itself as “a private and exclusive screened EDM lifestyle organization” for couples and singles, primarily millennials. It is an event organizer: its site names Miami, Fort Lauderdale, West Palm Beach, Tampa and Orlando as its areas, and says it was established in 2003 and is a monthly screened EDM lifestyle party organization. Its events are nightclub takeovers, pool parties and domestic and international group vacations, including erotic theme events for accepted members. The site also says “We do bangin EDM parties, in upscale venues, for hot people!” Venues vary by event. Membership is free to request but screened: applicants upload four to six photos, couples include at least one photo together, and legal names must match ID. Applications are reviewed daily, and hourly on event days; approved members get an email, while rejected applicants get no reply and are not welcome to attend. The site says it is not currently recruiting Boomers or Gen X, and has said single male tickets for a pool party were no longer available and new male applicants were paused. The club may deactivate any account at any time.

Richmond, VA
Virginia Friends uses the tagline “Virginia Friends since 1993!” It is an adult lifestyle club for couples and, currently, single women that holds its socials at a hotel near Richmond in central Virginia, with the location posted on each event's page. Membership is required, and the club says its website is not a dating site. Socials include a casual meet and greet, early registration and a newcomer's seminar in the hotel lounge, and a dance with live entertainment and a full-service cash bar run by the hotel. The party then moves to a reserved club floor open only to members, with security at the entrances, a hospitality suite and an adjoining room for group-oriented couples; theme rooms are allowed only on the party floor, for guests who buy that ticket in advance. Couples and single women are admitted; single men are not. Each couple must be 21 or older, with both partners showing a valid driver's license, and club-issued wristbands are required. First-time members must attend the newcomer's seminar, even if experienced. On the club floor the club supplies mixers and snacks and guests bring their own alcohol, while drinks bought in the lounge must stay there. Cameras and recording devices are not permitted, there is a no-tolerance policy for drugs and prostitution, and guests are asked for consent before touching.

Phoenix, AZ
Members-Only Private Club
Vixxxins Lifestyle Club, also styled Club VIXXXINS, describes itself as “a ‘Members Only’ Private Club” running themed lifestyle and kink events. It is based in Phoenix and holds most events in the valley, with warehouse gala events, house parties sometimes hosted by members, and, from time to time, mix and mingles, hotel staycations and private dinner parties. Locations are given only to members. The club says every event has open and private play spaces with security, and it lists a VIP lounge, a designated smoking area, and food that is often free. Most events are BYOB, with bartenders and free mixers. A strict dress code applies: fetish, goth, lingerie and formal wear are welcome, while jeans, plain T-shirts and athletic wear mean no entry, and its mix and mingles call for street-legal dress. Members must be 21 or older. Applicants are checked against the sex offender database and approved before they can register for events, and a couple needs one membership. Members may bring up to two guests, while mix and mingles are open to non-members. Cameras and recording devices are banned in play areas, phones are limited to designated areas, no means no, and anyone with illegal drugs is banned.

Staßfurt, Saxony-Anhalt
Weisses Haus is a couples and singles swinger club that has operated from Hauerstrasse 13 in Stassfurt, a small town in Saxony-Anhalt, since 1996. Run by a proprietor named Susen, the club markets itself under the tagline Erotik statt Disco and frames itself as a gathering place for like-minded singles and couples with a modern outlook — explicitly not a nightclub environment. Stassfurt sits roughly equidistant between Magdeburg and Halle, and the club draws visitors from as far as Berlin and Leipzig. The venue occupies a multi-floor building centred on a foam-bath indoor pool, a sauna, a ten-person bathtub (10-Mann-Badewanne), and a themed Dschungelzimmer (jungle room). Both pool and sauna are designated non-sexual zones, marked with prohibition signage; intimate activity is reserved for other parts of the building. The club carries a 4.7-star rating from over 100 Google reviews. The weekly schedule runs across four days: Tuesday and Thursday daytime (11:00-15:00), Tuesday evening (19:00-00:00), and Friday and Saturday late-night sessions (19:00-02:00). The venue is closed Sunday, Monday and Wednesday. Entry is priced at 75 EUR for couples, 20 EUR for single women, and 90 EUR for single men; TV/TS visitors pay the couple rate. All prices are stated to include everything. Hours are subject to variation — confirm directly before visiting.
Hamburg, Hamburg
On-Premise Club
Swingertreff Why Not e.V. is a registered lifestyle club operating out of a two-storey house in Hamburg's Bramfeld district. Located on Bramfelder Chaussee in the city's northeast, the venue spans roughly 340 square metres and accommodates up to 120 guests per session, with parking available on site. It is structured as a non-profit registered association (eingetragener Verein), a less common arrangement among German lifestyle venues. Across its two floors, the club offers a wellness area with sauna and massage space, an SM/BDSM section, and a shared social area where an all-inclusive buffet and drinks service are covered by the entry fee. The club has positioned itself as accessible to first-timers, running dedicated beginner evenings alongside its regular programme. It holds a 4.8 out of 5 rating on JOYclub, where it appears among Hamburg's top-listed venues of its kind.

Torquay, Devon
On-Premise Club
Within Temptation is a licensed swingers and kink club on Lower Union Lane, a side street in central Torquay, Devon. Holding a Sex Entertainment Venue Licence granted by Torbay Council in May 2024, the venue has operated at this site since 2021. It caters to couples, single women, and — on most events — single men in a consent-focused adult social environment that mixes swinging and BDSM/fetish interests under one roof. The space runs across two floors. Ground level holds a fully licensed bar with a VIP section and table service, a dance floor, a pole lounge, a beer garden, a heated indoor pool (10–14 person capacity), a sauna (6–8 person capacity), and a dungeon fitted with a St Andrews Cross, Tau Chair, O Tower, and play benches; a disabled toilet and full wheelchair access serve this level. The upstairs play floor holds six gloryholes, two private playrooms (one en-suite), an open group bed, a first-floor stage area, and a 12-person communal shower. Microfibre towels are complimentary, robes and fluffy towels are available for £1 each, lockers operate on a key-exchange basis, and condoms and lubricant are provided throughout. The main programme runs Friday and Saturday, 20:00 to 02:00, with last entry at 23:30 (midnight by arrangement). The calendar rotates weekly-themed nights: Newbie Night, Bi-Gasm (couples and women; single men by invitation only), Bare Bones kink parties (no single men), and Hotwife's Hunger (free entry for women verified via FabSwingers). Private hire is available on weekdays. From September 2026 membership is compulsory: annual passes cost £30 (women), £50 (couples), or £60 (single men); four-month passes cost £15, £25, or £30 respectively. Day passes, which include membership and entry, are £15 for women and £40 for couples or single men. Single men are admitted subject to a strict gender-ratio cap and are advised to arrive promptly at opening.
Memphis, TN
Xchange is a private, membership-only lifestyle club at 2172 Venture Drive in Memphis, Tennessee, serving couples, single women, and single men aged 21 and over. It operates as a members-only social venue rather than a public bar or nightclub, with membership required for entry. The venue occupies more than 3,500 square feet and includes private lounges, a dressing room, and lockers available from the door staff. A large dance floor is paired with a live DJ who takes song requests, and a 102-inch projector screen plays music videos throughout the night. The bar is BYOB only, Xchange does not sell alcohol on site but supplies complimentary mixers and snacks. Parties run every Saturday night from 8pm to 2am; the club is closed the rest of the week. Attendance requires an active membership and photo ID at the door.

Houston, TX
On-premise Club
Tucked into north Houston near the 77088 zip code, XCLUSIV Lifestyle (XL) is the area's upscale, members-only lifestyle event centre for open-minded adults — swingers, couples, approved singles, kinksters, LGBTQ+ guests, and the polyamorous and ethically non-monogamous community — drawn from across Texas and Louisiana. The venue runs Friday through Sunday with Friday and Saturday nights going until 5AM and Sunday wrapping at 3AM, pulling in regulars from Houston, Dallas, Austin, San Antonio, Beaumont, and New Orleans. Membership is required but can be obtained at the door with a valid government-issued photo ID; all guests must be 21 or older. XL is fully cashless and BYOB with on-site mixers available. A live DJ, VIP sections, a dance floor, intimate lounge, showers, and eight themed playrooms fill out the space. Dress code is upscale and sexy, with a strict prohibited-items list covering shorts, sneakers, tank tops, and caps. Saturday single-gent entry is limited and requires advance RSVP. The club offers private event hire, affiliate travel packages to Desire and Temptation resorts, and maintains a FetLife community presence. Security cameras cover all public spaces while private areas are excluded. Photography and video require express written approval from management. Consent is core to the culture — non-consensual behaviour results in immediate removal without refund.

Chicago, IL
Event Organizer
Young Couples Party describes itself as “a lifestyle club built for you,” an event organizer in the Chicago suburbs that limits its parties to ages 21 to 42. Attending requires a membership, and the club says it holds live events every month, plus virtual events most nights, including yoga, HIIT classes, trivia and quarterly education seminars. The club's western-suburbs venue is a private country estate with 16 beds in 8 bedrooms, an indoor heated pool, an indoor hot tub, a dance floor and free parking, hosting night parties twice a month. Summer adds outdoor parties with two swimming pools, sand volleyball and clothing-optional sunbathing, and the club runs a hotel takeover each year. Each event includes speed dating, with three-minute conversations at numbered stations. Couples and single women are admitted; single men are not. Applicants sign an NDA and complete ID verification before choosing a membership level, and only paid members get event dates, with the address released to ticketed members. New guests bring ID showing they are 21 to 42, watch a seven-minute video on the party rules, get videos on consent and a private tour. Some events are BYOB and others have a paid bar. Dress is business casual or better unless matching the theme; illegal drugs are banned and smoking is outdoors only.
No longer operating — kept for reference and venue history.

Houston, TX
On-Premise Club
Club Choices — branded interchangeably as Club Choices Houston and Choices Swingers Club — operated for years out of an unmarked warehouse on Star Lane, a quiet industrial side street tucked just north of the Galleria. The building itself is a roughly 9,000-square-foot, three-level Class C industrial shell with no street signage; the kind of place you could drive past a hundred times without noticing. Inside, the club ran a hard split between the floors: ground level was full nightclub — dance floor, stripper poles, stages, chains hanging from the ceiling, a live DJ rotating between Top 40 and classics, and a BYOB setup bar pouring free sodas, water and mixers. The upper floor flipped the script entirely — hot tub, showers, a swing, lockers, a massage table, a small video room, fetish toys, and a row of VIP suites for couples and groups. A small on-site adult boutique stocked by SoftTouchSecrets.com sold lingerie, condoms and the usual range of toys for anyone who wanted to take a piece of the night home. The club ran Thursday through Saturday, with the occasional Wednesday daytime RSVP play session and rare Sunday slots. Thursdays opened the door at 9pm and pushed to 2am; Fridays and Saturdays ran until 5am with last entry at 1:30. Door pricing was tiered the standard on-premise way — single men paid the most ($40 Thursday, $60 weekend), couples sat in the middle ($30/$40), single women paid the least and got in free before 11pm. Membership was a $10 one-time fee bought on arrival. Dress code was enforced firmly enough that it appeared on every page of the site: "Dress to Impress" — sexy for women, nice shirt, shoes and pants for men, never sportswear and never shorts. The crowd, by all accounts, skewed older and quieter than a typical Houston nightclub. One Yelp review captured the tone: "Not what you think — it's not a strip bar and there's not sex everywhere. It is very classy and refined. Women are very respected." The club closed at 5/5 stars across 12 Yelp reviews. By March 2026 the doors were shut. There was no announcement — no press release, no closure post on Instagram, no farewell event. The clubchoiceshouston.com domain went dark first (Hostinger suspended the hosting account, the standard sign of unpaid bills), Yelp updated the listing to CLOSED in March, and the building re-tenanted to Lane 58, a hookah bar that took its Yelp listing live in May 2026. The Star Lane address has a long history of running through nightlife tenants — StarLane Industry Afterhours, Club 5806 / Rendevu, VIA After Hours (closed November 2025), and Richmond Studios (a daytime photography/event tenant from 2018) all cycled through the same building. None of the two dormant Instagram accounts (@clubchoiceshouston, @clubchoicess) have posted since well before closure, and the @bacchusnightclub_ confusion that occasionally surfaces online is a different venue in Bishop's Stortford, England. The legacy Wix site at choiceslifestyle.wixsite.com/choices is the only piece of the operation still publicly readable — a frozen snapshot of pricing, hours and rules from when the lights were on.
Phoenix, AZ
On-Premise Club (closed)
Club Discretions ran for nearly a quarter of a century behind an unmarked door at 3304 North 27th Avenue, sandwiched between Thomas and Osborn in the industrial flats of west Phoenix. The club had no street signage — "look for the BLUE lights on the west side of 27th Ave," the website used to read, and that was the only landmark you got. Founded around 2000 by John "Dutch" Van Brunschot and formally incorporated in Arizona in 2003 as Discretions Adult Social Club, the venue was one of a small group of Phoenix lifestyle clubs that survived the city's landmark 1998 anti-swingers ordinance — the one that declared sex clubs "inimical to the health, safety, general welfare and morals of the inhabitants of the city of Phoenix" and was later copied as a template by Las Vegas and Indianapolis. Discretions fought it in federal court alongside Club Chameleon, Guys & Dolls and Encounters, kept its doors open by boarding up its open viewing windows and converting public play areas (including the famously-named "Mass Hysteria" theme room) into private ones, and weathered a 2002 Phoenix PD raid in which staff and managers were briefly arrested. After all of it, the club just kept opening. For the next twenty-plus years it was Phoenix's busiest swingers social club, open seven nights a week — Sun–Thu 8pm to 3am, Fri–Sat to 5am, "363 days a year" by the club's own count. The vibe was unpretentious and a touch retro. A mirrored main stage with a brass stripper pole sat in the centre of the floor, with a separate stripper cage holding two more poles off to the side. Adult films played in the background throughout the building. A non-alcoholic juice-and-soda bar served free snacks and cheap drinks (Arizona state law banned alcohol sales on lifestyle premises, so guests poured their own from a house-issued red cup). Pool table, video games, a resident DJ taking requests, free condoms in every room. Upstairs sat the club's real anchor — nine private, semi-private and voyeur bedrooms, two B&D love swings, a "hideaway loft bed with a view," and what Discretions self-billed as the "LARGEST orgy room" in Arizona. It was a fully on-premises, full-swap club, marketed to all ages from 18 to 80, with a published etiquette guide ("Look Presentable, Ask Questions, Introduce Yourself…") and no formal dress code. By 2023 membership ran $25 per person per year, with a flat door fee of $10 Sun–Thu and $35 Fri–Sat; single women came free once they paid the yearly dues. Discretions did not so much close as go on hiatus. Sometime in 2023 the homepage gained a quiet banner — "Here's to many years of fun and memories, thank you for your loyal patronage. While there are currently priorities to deal with, if it is feasible Club Discretions may return in a bigger, better and more grand fashion than ever." The "Club Discretions 2.0" return never came. The clubdiscretions.com domain expired around December 2024 and now points to a parking page; the Yelp listing was flagged CLOSED at its April 2026 update. The building at 3304 N 27th Ave was taken over in 2024 by Hush Lounge AZ, a newer-generation private members-only lifestyle club that continues the address's long history as a Phoenix lifestyle venue. Of the original 1990s clubs that fought the Phoenix ordinance alongside Discretions, only Club Encounters — one block south on West Clarendon Avenue, opened 1996 — remains in continuous operation.
Wakefield, MA
Private-home party series (off-premise, presumed defunct)
Club E'Lan was a members-only lifestyle club that ran out of a private home about twenty minutes north of Boston, keeping its exact address off the internet and revealing the venue only to confirmed RSVPs. Founded in 1994 with the stated aim of giving adults a discreet place to explore the swinging lifestyle, it built a following over subsequent years and positioned itself as one of the Northeast's premier swing clubs — intimate enough to feel like a house party, organised enough to run a reliable calendar of themed evenings. Each gathering was built around a specific theme intended to ease newcomers into the scene while giving regulars a fresh reason to return. Attendance was deliberately capped at forty couples per event, keeping the crowd manageable and the atmosphere personal. Single women were always welcome; single men could attend in limited numbers — up to five per party — but only after passing a screening process. No one under twenty-five was admitted. The private-home setting meant Club E'Lan operated outside the commercial nightclub mould entirely: no door staff, no bar licence, no DJ booth — just a host-run gathering for a vetted community of adults in a residential space north of Boston. The club had no public website and relied on directory listings and word of mouth to maintain its membership.
San Bernardino, CA
On-Premise Club
Club FA, also known as Freedom Acres, was one of Southern California's largest on-premise swinger clubs — roughly 13,000 square feet on Devore Road in San Bernardino, at the north edge of the Inland Empire. The main floor paired a dance area and raised pole stage with a second, more intimate lounge floor, plus a pool table, scattered tables for eating and mingling, and TVs throughout playing adult films. A buffet was set out nightly, with coffee and donuts on Sunday mornings. About 6,000 square feet was given to play: a maze of cubbies, themed rooms, lofts and group areas ranging from semi-private to fully open. Club FA was a private membership association closed to the public — entry required an accepted membership plus the door fee each visit, and couples had to attend together. Members were 21-plus. Single men were admitted only on Wednesday and Sunday parties, never Friday or Saturday; single women could attend any night. Nights ran late and themed: Friday to 4am, Saturday to 6am, Sunday to 10pm with a DJ and dancing, typically drawing 120-160+ couples and 250-300+ for marquee events like New Year's, Halloween and the Freedom Acres Anniversary. Drinks were BYOB across two bars (beer/wine and mixed drinks). Dress leaned upscale-casual — collared shirts for men, with t-shirts, flip-flops, sweats and thug attire turned away.

Pompano Beach, FL
Club Hedonism was, for decades, the oldest and longest-running swingers club in South Florida — a private, members-only, BYOB on-premise lifestyle nightclub tucked into a low-slung commercial strip at 1000 E Sample Rd in Pompano Beach. It kept a deliberately discreet, no-smoking, members-only door and ran Wednesday through Saturday from the evening into the early-morning hours, drawing a couples-and-singles crowd to its bar, lounge, dancefloor, locker room, and on-premise playrooms. During the COVID pandemic the venue was rebranded and remodeled under new management, reopening as Defy Lifestyle Club ("Club Defy"). The club's own Facebook announced it had "taken this opportunity during the Covid Pandemic to Rebrand and make some upgrades to one of South Florida's most historic lifestyle clubs," and the original clubhedonism.com address now greets visitors with "The oldest Swingers Club in South Florida has a NEW LOOK!" before forwarding them to the Defy site. As Defy, the same address still operates as South Florida's premier lifestyle club: a bar/lounge/dancefloor up front, a locker room, and a large open group playroom with beds plus several private playrooms off the main floor — including a multi-person shower in the play area. It remains BYOB (bartenders mix your own alcohol with provided mixers; tip the bartender), open Wednesday–Saturday roughly 9pm–4am, with couples, single women, and (on select nights) single men admitted. The Club Hedonism name is effectively retired; anyone searching for it today is pointed to Defy Lifestyle Club at the identical Pompano Beach location.

Hollywood, CA
On-Premise Club
Club Labyrinth LA, the Hollywood outpost of the multi-city Labyrinth swinger club brand (alongside locations in Midtown Manhattan and New Jersey), is currently closed. As of the club's own website, the Labyrinth LA events page reads "LABYRINTH LA IS CURRENTLY CLOSED — NEW LOCATION COMING SOON," directing inquiries to info@clublabyrinthla.com and inviting visitors to join a mailing list for updates. No reopening date or new address has been announced. Before closing, the club operated as a members-only, on-premise swinger and fetish venue out of an undisclosed, secluded building in Hollywood. The former space was spread across multiple levels and included group playrooms, semi-private play areas, lounge areas, individual play stations, and a dedicated BDSM play space, alongside a cigarette-smoking area and a complimentary refreshment bar serving soda, juice, water, cups, and ice. The club supplied lockers, condoms, lubricant, and towels, and described its atmosphere as dark, sexually charged, and sensual, welcoming both exhibitionists and voyeurs in a setting it billed as safe, non-judgmental, and low-pressure — guests were never required to participate. Before closing, entry required a paid Labyrinth membership (12-month for $40, 6-month for $30, or 1-week for $20), purchased online in advance, plus a nightly admission fee that varied by night and guest type. Single men needed photo verification or sponsorship by a member couple and paid a premium to help balance gender ratios, while couples were required to arrive and leave together. The club did not sell alcohol — events were BYOB with a one-bottle (or six-pack) limit per membership and a $20 surcharge — and photo ID (driver's license, government ID, or passport) was mandatory at the door.

Chudleigh, Devon
On-Premise Club
Club Utopia traces its roots to 2020, when owner Jamie launched a biker-bar night called Bikers and Babes on the outskirts of Yelverton, Devon. A fire at a neighbouring property prompted a move, and the club spent time in Airbnbs and hired social-club halls before settling at Graeden Park — a discreet private property on Ball Hill off the Old Exeter Road outside Chudleigh. From those modest beginnings it grew into what the club describes as 'arguably the largest and most vibrant club in the southwest of England,' running a calendar of extravagantly themed events — UtopiaFest, Heroes and Villains, Halloween couples nights, Oktoberfest, Coyote Ugly, and a Greedy Girls women-forward evening — to a membership of couples, single women, and vetted single men from across the South West. The venue houses 11 immersive play spaces, a dancefloor with mirrored walls, a side hall, and social lounge zones, all served by a fully licensed bar trading until 3am. Event nights open at 7pm with dress codes pitched to the theme — festival glitter, costumes, Bavarian regalia — and a 360° photo booth available for those who want a memento. Entry follows a mandatory four-step pre-registration process: create a Single or Couple account, upload identity documents, pass staff review, then buy tickets. Couples are always welcome; single females are encouraged; single men are admitted in limited, pre-vetted numbers only. No walk-ins are accepted. Annual membership is available at a fee listed on the registration page, giving members ticket discounts and access to future event perks; individual event tickets were priced at £50 for the 2025 UtopiaFest festival night. The club also sells a companion book — 'A Real-Life Guide to Swinging with Style' — through the website, and maintains social media on Instagram and TikTok. As of July 2026 the operating company, Club Utopia Ltd (Companies House no. 15768206), was formally dissolved, and the website listed no upcoming events.
Los Angeles, CA
CONFLICT — Option A (conf 82, agent 1): Nestled in Downtown LA Arts District, Den of Iniquity is a West Coast BDSM institution founded 1993. Led by Cybill Troy. 1,850 sq ft loft with themed rooms, femdom education, film shoots, and rentals. Option B (conf 72, agent 8): Historical origin narrative: founded 1994 in NYC by Tara Indiana, LA outpost now under Cybill Troy. Both agents note venue is primarily a BDSM dungeon and studio, not a traditional swinger club.

Houston, TX
On-Premise Club
Desires Houston sat along State Highway 249 in north Houston, tucked into a commercial suite at 14207 SH-249 S, Unit 23. The club positioned itself as a private members-only lifestyle venue catering to open-minded adults, drawing couples and singles from across Texas, Louisiana, and beyond. Reviewers noted a thorough renovation under new management that redid every room, lifting the space into what regulars described as an upscale atmosphere without losing a social, welcoming feel. The club opened Fridays and Saturdays from 10 PM to 5 AM and Sundays from 9 PM to 3 AM, with the rest of the week dark. Entry required membership, purchasable online in advance; walk-in membership was not advertised. The crowd was consistently described as diverse, with the venue operating under an explicit No Means No consent policy emphasising comfort for newcomers and regulars alike. Amenities included a dance floor, private playrooms, live DJ, hookah service, and BYOB arrangements. The venue accepted credit cards and cryptocurrency and was listed as wheelchair accessible. A July 2025 Yelp reviewer reported the owner confirmed permanent closure; prospective visitors should verify current status before travelling.

Montreal-Nord, Quebec
Entre Nous 2 — later rebranded as Le Complexe Libertin Obsession — was a lifestyle and libertine complex that operated at 6500 Boulevard Henri-Bourassa Est in Montreal-Nord, Quebec, from February 2017 until it permanently closed in June 2020 after the COVID-19 lockdown forced the business into bankruptcy. The club opened as the successor to Entre 2 Plaisirs, which had operated for 14 years at 3333 rue Belanger in Villeray-Saint-Michel-Parc-Extension, and relocated to a new building near the Autoroute 25 interchange whose frosted-glass exterior and minimal signage gave no indication of the 24,600-square-foot venue within. Its promoters billed it at opening as the largest swinger club in the world. The venue was organized around a wet social circuit — indoor heated pool, spa, dry sauna, and communal showers — designed to ease introductions before members moved into the main complex. A billiard room, dining room, and discotheque sat alongside a dark room, glory holes, a fantasy room, a dedicated couples room, and 26 private rooms rentable in three-hour or twelve-hour blocks; massage suites came in standard, mirrored, and suite configurations. In 2019 the owners annexed an adjacent commercial unit as a full nightclub, pushing the total footprint past 40,000 square feet; monthly themed events sometimes drew between 500 and 1,000 attendees. Annual membership was required of all guests. Per-visit admission was free for women; men paid $40 on weekdays and $60 on weekends; couples paid $20 on weekdays and $50 on weekends (all CAD, as of 2017-2020 operation). The club ran around the clock, seven days a week, with a Tuesday bi night and a Wednesday couples night open to unaccompanied men and women. Public areas were dry; BYOB was restricted to private rooms under the original 2017 operating rules. The venue declared bankruptcy within three weeks of the March 2020 lockdown and vacated the premises in early June 2020. Visitors should not attempt to visit this address.

Washington, DC
Entre Nous has been Washington DC's premier members-only lifestyle event since 2000 — a roving off-premise social club for couples and single women. Rather than occupying a fixed address, events rotate through discreet DC nightclub venues, typically running 9 or 10PM to 3AM. The crowd leans young, with the average guest in the 30–35 range and single women making up roughly 20 percent of attendees on any given night. Events are nightclub in format: live DJs spinning 80s remixes, Euro-dance, R&B, and drum and bass anchor a proper dance floor, while a fully stocked bar and lounge fill the space. Themed parties and seasonal specials keep regulars returning; new guests are encouraged to arrive early to meet the hosts and get oriented. As a strictly off-premise event — no sex, no illegal nudity, full DC ABRA compliance — Entre Nous operates openly inside licensed nightclub venues. That structural choice defines the atmosphere: guests dress up, dance, drink, and connect. Single men are not admitted under any circumstances, no exceptions, ever.
Leeuwarden, Friesland
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Permanently closed. La Robina was an erotic café and relaxation lounge at Heerestraat 21 in central Leeuwarden, Friesland, open from November 2017 until an undetermined closing date. Founded by owner Robina — who had previously opened a sister venue at Vismarktplein in Sneek — the premises occupied a space formerly trading as Club Kimberly. The Dutch Chamber of Commerce listing (KVK 60173076) marks the business as no longer active; the domain larobina.nl has since been hijacked by an unrelated gambling site, and the Heerestraat 21 address is now associated with successor venue Club Adam & Eva. The format was a licensed café rather than a ticket- or membership-based club: entry was free with a compulsory single-drink purchase at the bar, while room hire and individual worker services were charged separately. More than ten independent workers operated on site, offering massage, striptease, escort, and BDSM sessions. Shower facilities were available, and the venue accommodated guests with disabilities. Private rooms could be hired by individuals or couples alike. House rules centred on consent and hygiene: guests were required to shower before sexual contact, condom use was mandatory throughout, and photography and video recording were banned outright across the premises. Unsolicited touching, breath-play, drug use, and aggressive behaviour were all grounds for immediate removal. No personal customer data was retained digitally; CCTV footage was held only temporarily and not stored externally.

New York, NY
For more than three decades, Le Trapeze was New York City's most enduring couples-only sex club, occupying a distinctive space at 17 East 27th Street, between Madison and Fifth Avenues in Midtown Manhattan. The club was lodged inside the Prince George Hotel — a 1903 NYC landmark — specifically within what had been the hotel's Madison Pub, a Shakespearean English-style bar. That heritage gave the interior an incongruous warmth: stained glass windows, exposed brick, wood-beam ceilings, and wagon-wheel chandeliers imported from Europe, all of it radiating country-pub atmosphere. A nondescript exterior door carried only the name — nothing more — and a buzz-controlled entry led members into pleasantly dim, rose-tinted rooms. The layout spread across two floors. The ground level held a dance floor ringed by couches, a free soft-drink bar (alcohol BYOB, no corkage), and a buffet included with entry. A corridor off the bar led to four private rooms with locks, plus an attendant locker room with showers and towels. Beyond the lockers, a small flight of stairs opened into a mat room — a raised mezzanine-like platform with a wrought-iron barrier and wall-to-wall mattresses. At the base of the spiral staircase was the large orgy room, its mirrored ceiling amplifying everything. The second floor held roughly five open semi-private rooms for couples plus two enclosed rooms fitted with sex benches for voyeurs and exhibitionists. A manager gave first-timers a personal walkthrough of the entire space. Admission was open to couples and single women; single men were not permitted. Membership could be purchased at the door. The one explicit rule staff and regulars alike enforced was first-names only and no means no; couples who arrived together were required to leave together. The crowd spanned a wide range of ages, and the atmosphere was reliably described as more raw than glamorous — a place that survived vice squads, the AIDS epidemic, and multiple recessions before New York's real estate market finally shut it down in mid-2016.
Nashville, TN
On-Premise Club
Permanently closed. Menages Club operated as a private, membership-based lifestyle venue in downtown Nashville from 2000 until 2020, when the building was sold and converted into Drexel House, a homeless shelter run by the nonprofit Room in the Inn. There is no successor lifestyle club at the former address, and no evidence the club relocated or reopened under a different name. While active, the club ran parties Wednesday through Saturday from 8pm and operated BYOB, with mixers, ice, and setups provided at the bar; smoking was not permitted indoors. This listing is kept for historical reference only — the former address is now a residential shelter serving a vulnerable population, so do not attempt to visit.
Lelystad, Flevoland
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Permanently closed as of 1 June 2026, Party Players operated from a purpose-built complex at Kofschip 14 on the outskirts of Lelystad, Flevoland, drawing couples and singles from across the central Netherlands — including the Randstad cities and the provinces of Gelderland, Overijssel, and Friesland. The building was destroyed by fire on 11 June 2026, ten days after operations ceased. The municipality of Lelystad had purchased the property for approximately €4 million to clear the site for a planned housing development. The venue occupied an extensive single-storey complex. Facilities included a heated indoor swimming pool with waterfall feature and jetstream, a jacuzzi, a sauna, a tantra lounge, a BDSM dungeon, a darkroom, and multiple private and themed playrooms. A full-service restaurant offered buffet meals throughout the day alongside a manned bar. Beer, wine, and soft drinks were included in the admission price on all open days; spirits were added to the all-inclusive package on Fridays, Saturdays, and Sundays. Free parking was available on site; lockers required a €10 refundable key deposit. Condoms and towels were provided. Wednesday through Friday and Sundays ran general sessions open to couples, solo women, and — by prior email reservation — single men. Saturday evenings (20:00–04:00) were reserved exclusively for couples and trios; single men were not admitted. Regular themed events included KinkyParadise nights, a monthly Try and Play session for newcomers and regulars, and X-Treme Fetish party nights. A dress code applied: erotic or club attire for women; fitted boxer shorts or club clothing for men.
Omaha, NE
On-Premise Club
Sitting on Q Street in the heart of South Omaha, R-Place built its reputation as Nebraska's only dedicated on-premise lifestyle club - a privately owned, 4,000-square-foot, three-level building converted into what owners called an elegant upscale classy venue. The main floor centres on a full dance floor with professional DJ booth, state-of-the-art lighting and a sound system, ringed by lounge-style seating and five TVs (including a 60-inch screen). Three leather-furnished living-room social areas give couples and groups a place to mix before venturing further, and the club runs as a strict BYOB bottle club with mixers and soft drinks provided at no charge. The play spaces span two additional levels. Four private bedrooms and four bathrooms (three with showers) handle couples seeking privacy, while the basement Dungeon - billed as The Playroom - offers group beds, two electric-hoist sex swings, restraints, a glory hole wall, and a professional massage table, plus a Sybian machine. Outside, a large patio enclosed by a six-foot privacy fence leads to a covered 20-by-19-foot sky room with a twelve-foot propane fire pit, seating around thirty people through the colder Nebraska months. The door policy is guest-list only: prospective attendees email in advance to be added, and walk-ins are not accepted. Hours run Friday and Saturday, 8 pm to 2 am. Saturday nights are theme-party nights. Admission is $40 per couple per night, $25 for a single woman, and $45 for a single man. Towels, lockers, and condom supplies are on hand; smoking is allowed in a designated indoor area. Single males and single females are both welcome alongside couples.
Atlantic City, NJ
Set in a standalone two-story building on Atlantic Avenue — away from the casino corridor but squarely in the thick of Atlantic City's off-Strip scene — RolePlay Lounge billed itself as New Jersey's number-one erotic couples playground and, for much of the 2010s, was one of only two venues in the city openly offering on-premise lifestyle experiences. The building spanned over 5,000 square feet across two distinct floors. Downstairs was the nightclub: dance music, rotating spotlights, pole dancing, and a full social scene oriented around drinking and mingling. The upper floor was the play space — a collection of modern playrooms and open stages, stocked with a constant supply of dry-cleaned linen and towels, where the tone shifted from nightclub to something considerably more uninhibited. The crowd, per the club's own manager, ran roughly 22 to 52 years old — a mix that read, on a Saturday night, like any upscale small club except for the video screens and the open-door rooms on the second floor. The venue positioned itself deliberately against the 'grimy swingers club' image, marketing an upscale experience and describing itself as zero-pressure. Couples dominated the guest list; single women were admitted free, and a limited number of single men were permitted on Fridays only. Membership was required for entry, and the fee was $100 per couple, covering that membership along with entry for the night. RolePlay operated Fridays (10 pm–3 am) and Saturdays (9 pm–4 am), with parking between Boston and Providence Avenues. It was BYOB — the bar brought no alcohol license — and guests were expected to bring their own bottle. The club accepted Discover, Mastercard, and Visa at the door.

Atlantic City, NJ
Event Organizer
Saints & Sinners AC anchors the Diving Horse entertainment complex at 18 S. Dr. Martin Luther King Blvd, a sprawling 55,000-square-foot multi-use building in Atlantic City. Guests enter discreetly from the back of the Diving Horse complex rather than the main boulevard-facing door — a deliberate design choice that sets the tone for the whole experience. Inside, four floors hold an impressive inventory of spaces: 15 open, air-conditioned play rooms, additional private and semi-private rooms, 11 showers, 2 BYOB bars stocked with mixers, 2 dance floors fitted with stripper poles, an outdoor heated pool, an outdoor deck, and a food buffet that runs through the night. Erotic movies play throughout the venue to set the mood. The club pitches itself as a new-age, modern lifestyle destination rather than a classic swinger haunt, and the crowd — primarily couples in their late twenties to late forties — dresses to match. Women tend toward fitted dresses; men wear button-up shirts and jeans. Saturday theme nights are a recurring feature, with prizes and costumed dress codes announced in advance. The adjacent Diving Horse Inn (30 rooms, many with jacuzzi tubs and balconies overlooking the deck and pool) lets members extend the evening without leaving the building, while the neighboring Diving Horse Cabaret and Luxx Lounge nightclub round out the complex. Doors open Fridays and Saturdays from 9 pm, with Fridays running to 3 am and Saturdays to 4-5 am. The club is closed Sunday through Thursday.
Fredonia, NY
The Badd Kitty Club operated out of a large private venue at 3491 Route 20 in the town of Sheridan, Chautauqua County — about 45 miles southwest of Buffalo near the Fredonia/Dunkirk exit. Billing itself as western New York's premier women-run, on-premise lifestyle club, it catered exclusively to couples and single women; membership was free to apply for, with event access and website login granted only after vetting. The club described itself as a private, members-only setting for couples and singles to explore their passions without inhibition. At its peak the club hosted several events per month, drawing gatherings of around 50 people at a time. Owner Raquel Spears argued it was a legitimate private business and a responsible neighbour; reports noted guests paying approximately $150 per head, with the club estimating close to $300,000 in annual economic impact. The venue shared its building with a daytime pawn shop, operated evenings with no exterior signage, and admitted only pre-screened members — BYOB throughout, with no bar licence. The physical venue was destroyed in a fire on July 11, 2022. As of late 2024 the burned-out shell remained standing, with the Town of Sheridan filing a state Supreme Court lawsuit against the property owner seeking demolition and site remediation. The club website (baddkittyclub.com) remains reachable but returns sparse content; no verified evidence of a new operating location has been found.

Toronto, Ontario
Club
The O Zone, also marketed as O Couples Club (ocouplesclub.com), operated as one of the largest on-premise lifestyle clubs in North America from a 10,000-square-foot space at 36 Stoffel Drive in Etobicoke, a light-industrial pocket of northwest Toronto a short drive from Pearson International Airport. The club drew couples from across the Greater Toronto Area and regularly ran sellout themed events. The physical venue is now permanently closed; ocouplesclub.com redirects to takeabiteoftheapple.com, the events platform run under the TABOTA brand by the same operators. The space was built as a full-service nightclub as much as a play venue. A large central dance floor was ringed by poles, dance cages, go-go platforms, and a laser-and-light show, with a fully stocked licensed bar and food service on party nights. Intimate lounge areas offered seating for couples who preferred to watch or socialise, while a back section housed themed rooms, private play rooms, and locker rooms with showers. Nudity and intimate contact were not permitted in the bar or dance areas — play was restricted to the dedicated back rooms. Large themed events were a signature of the operation, most notably the annual TABOTA Mardi Pardi, a recurring sellout. When operating, the club ran Thursday through Saturday from 9 pm to 3 am on a members-only basis; annual membership was bundled into a guest's first-night charge, with a Platinum tier for recurring access. Fridays were mix-and-mingle nights open to couples and singles of all genders; Saturdays admitted couples and single women only, with unaccompanied men turned away. Minimum age was 21. Dress code barred athletic shoes, baggy jeans, ball caps, beach shorts, and sportswear.

San Diego, CA
Tucked into a gated residential estate roughly ten to fifteen minutes east of Downtown San Diego off the I-8, Passion Palace pitched itself as Southern California's premier on-premise lifestyle venue for couples and single women. The property stretched across 5,800 square feet of landscaped grounds and included a pool, spa, and tennis court alongside a large covered patio — a setting that read more like a private party at a well-heeled friend's home than a commercial club. Inside, a DJ-anchored dance floor with club lighting and a stripper pole anchored the social space, while a buffet dinner and desserts kept the vibe convivial. Six dedicated playrooms offered varied configurations, and the space also featured a swing, Liberator furniture, and a Sybian. Parking assistance was provided for most events. The crowd was drawn from the club's membership, with host couples and staff present to welcome guests. Entry was strictly pre-registered and prepaid through SanDiegoPartyPlanner.net — no walk-ins. Single men were not admitted; the venue catered exclusively to couples and single women. Three membership tiers were available: 3-month, 12-month, and a Lifetime Founders Club.

Winnipeg, Manitoba
Sex Club
X Club Winnipeg was one of Canada's largest lifestyle and sex-positive social clubs, occupying a converted three-storey building at 457 Notre Dame Ave in downtown Winnipeg, Manitoba. The venue operated as an all-inclusive, body-positive space welcoming couples, singles, and LGBTQ2S+ guests of all orientations and gender identities. The club permanently closed on May 24, 2026, after repeated unsuccessful applications for a liquor license from Manitoba's Liquor, Gaming and Cannabis Authority left the business financially unviable. Spanning over 10,000 square feet across three floors, X Club offered 35 lockable private rooms — from single lockers to themed fantasy suites and a private hot tub suite — alongside a dry sauna, large steam room, communal showers, and a sex-free social lounge. A basement dungeon housed sex swings, a kink cage, glory holes, and a gay and bi-oriented porn lounge. The venue hosted themed event nights including Seductive Saturdays and fantasy-themed Fridays, and operated on a continuous schedule from Wednesday at 9 AM through Monday at 3 AM, closing only on Tuesdays. Entry was structured as a room or locker rental rather than a traditional door charge, and no alcohol was ever sold on the premises.

Berlin, Berlin
Zwanglos III is a couples-and-swingers club (Pärchen- und Swingerclub) in the heart of Berlin-Kreuzberg, on Gneisenaustraße 10 at the corner of Nostitzstraße, a couple of minutes from the U7 Gneisenaustraße U-Bahn. Run by Zwanglos Gastronomie GmbH (managing director Nadine Hoffmann), it billed itself as 'der gemütliche Swingerclub im Herzen von Berlin Kreuzberg' and 'Berlins ältester Swingerclub' — a cosy, long-established venue with many rooms and rotating themed evenings, a place to slip away from everyday life in a clean, refined (gepflegt, niveauvoll) atmosphere. The club's guiding line is 'Alles kann, nichts muss' — anything goes, nothing is required — so each guest decides how far they want to go, and the staff make a point of putting newcomers at ease. The layout spreads across many playrooms plus a sauna, a pool and a whirlpool for relaxing between encounters, and a bar where drinks are effectively all-inclusive. By the club's own Öffnungszeiten it ran as a near-continuous session from Tuesday 14:00 through to Sunday 14:00 (its homepage slogan is simply '24 h täglich geöffnet'), closing only from Sunday afternoon until Tuesday afternoon. Sundays had a relaxed daytime rhythm: sensual massages from 13:00 to 18:00 with the sauna and whirlpool open, and a 'Schnuppertag' for the curious — newcomers were shown into the swinger world for three hours from 14:00 for 25 euro including three drinks. Pricing followed the classic German swingers structure: single women entered free, couples paid 50 euro, and single men 65–125 euro depending on the day (men only paid the difference if they overstayed their session); all prices included drinks apart from champagne and cocktails plus the theme-night entertainment, with a 5 euro surcharge on certain special nights. The events calendar was dense and playful — FKK (nudist) nights, White-Room and Neon parties, sauna-wellness nights, dark-room and gang-bang parties, Adam-und-Eva and Herrenüberschuss ('more men than women') evenings, Oktoberfest, Karneval der Kulturen and the full run of seasonal parties (Halloween, Silvester, Valentine's, Easter, Christmas). Cleanliness and a respectful, level-headed manner toward other guests were treated as a given.