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On-Premise Club

Encounterz is a fully council-approved adult lifestyle venue set inside a heritage building at 86 Brisbane Street in the heart of Ipswich's CBD, Queensland. The club describes itself as a welcoming space for open-minded adults — including those interested in the swinging lifestyle and those who simply want to socialise in a relaxed setting — and makes clear from the outset that attendance carries no guarantee of interaction with other guests. The venue occupies a heritage building whose interior is divided into a bar room, a pool room, and multiple playrooms. Access to playrooms follows a door-and-blind convention: a closed door with blinds drawn signals full privacy; a closed door with open blinds invites watching from outside; and an open door indicates that guests may request entry. The club operates on a BYO policy — mixers, ice, and cups are supplied — with alcohol service stopping at 10 PM. Towels, condoms, and lubricant are provided throughout; shower facilities and a smoking area are on site; and lockers can be rented by the night ($5), month ($20), or year ($60). Themed events, which have included rope bondage, wax play, and electroplay demonstrations run in partnership with Open Door QLD, appear regularly on the calendar alongside standard social sessions. Doors open every Friday and Saturday from 6:30 PM to midnight. Entry is priced by membership status and guest type: couples pay $85 (non-member) or $75 (member), single males $90 (non-member) or $75 (member), and single females $40 (non-member) or $30 (member). Annual membership is $40 per couple, $50 for single males, and $30 for single females, and includes a loyalty card granting every fifth visit at half price. Single men must book in advance — reservations are used to manage gender ratios, and pre-purchased tickets take priority over walk-ins. Card payments attract a $1 surcharge. The dress code is enforced at the door: men must wear a collared shirt and closed shoes (no sneakers), and women must arrive in evening wear; the venue's stated policy is 'NO EFFORT NO ENTRY.'

Erlebnisbar Eden

Kiel, Schleswig-Holstein

On-Premise Club

Erlebnisbar Eden occupies a central address on Flämische Straße in Kiel's city core. The venue bills itself as "the number one for frivolous nightlife in Northern Germany" and operates under the tagline "Frivol – Erotisch – Anders" (Frivolous – Erotic – Different). It positions itself explicitly as neither a brothel nor a traditional nightclub, but as an erotic experience bar and disco open to couples, singles, and LGBTQ+ guests — lesbian, gay, and trans visitors are expressly welcomed. It is one of two locations run under the Eden brand, the other being in Hamburg's Jenfeld district. The space is arranged across two levels. The main floor carries a dance floor, a large bar, and three oversized red leather seating areas, along with a smaller lounge adjacent to the restrooms. The lower level holds a couples lounge with seating and a whirlpool. Amenities include shower facilities and a games and entertainment area. The venue describes its atmosphere as cosy and elegantly furnished, with a social and open-minded tone throughout. Opening hours and entry prices are not currently listed online; prospective visitors should contact the venue directly before attending. Payment by cash and EC-card is accepted. Solo men are admitted only by invitation or when accompanying a couple, and may access designated areas only. Dress code across the Eden brand calls for sexy or frivolous attire. The building is not wheelchair accessible and has no on-site parking.

Eros Events

Redmond, WA

On-Premise Club

Eros Events describes itself as “an adult, on-premise, lifestyle group” and as a private membership group based in Redmond, Washington. Formerly Redmond Ranch, it started in early 2003, and its home page marks a 23rd anniversary of hosting parties. Sunday afternoon swim parties run about twice a month, Saturday evening parties about once a month, with occasional Friday nights. Parties take place at a home-like retreat center. The facility has a heated indoor clothing-optional pool and hot tub, a DJ and dance floor with a brass pole, a voyeur room it calls its largest open playroom, and semi-private and open group play areas. Two outbuilding cabins add a semi-private space with a loft and king beds and a larger one for groups and light BDSM, and a covered patio serves as the smoking area. Everyone attending must be a member. First-timers reserve, attend an orientation and tour before their first party, and show valid state ID; the address comes with the reservation confirmation. Singles of any gender are welcome, though new single men must attend a swim party before their first evening party. Alcohol, marijuana, illegal drugs, weapons, pets and photography are not allowed, minimal dress is required outside the play and pool areas, and impaired members may be asked to leave.

Eros Knoxville

Knoxville, TN

On-Premise Club

Eros Knoxville describes itself as “an upscale, private, members only social club” in downtown Knoxville, reached through a courtyard on the bottom floor, where it says to look for the upside-down pineapple in the window. It is a BYOB club that does not sell alcohol, and it says guests may bring a favorite cup with a lid. Its events run on Friday and Saturday nights and carry new themes, with bartenders supplying mixers. Lockers are provided first come, first served, and members supply their own locks. The club also lists a Ruby Room for 10 to 15 people, a private booth for up to six and reserved lounge seating for four, and its rules ask guests who enter a play area without playing to whisper or stay quiet. Everyone who enters must be an approved member, and membership can be submitted and approved at the door. Guests must be 21 or older, show a valid ID such as a passport or driver’s license, and not be on the Tennessee Sexual Offender and Violent Offender Register, and new members complete a mandatory tour on their first visit. The club says its dress code is strictly enforced, sexy but classy, and that cameras and recording devices, drugs and prostitution are not permitted. It asks guests to respect no and to ask consent before touching, and it turns away or removes guests who are overly intoxicated.

EyS Nightclub

Unverified

Hamburg, Hamburg

On-Premise Club

EyS occupies the first floor of an unremarkable building on Bramfelder Strasse in Hamburg Barmbek-Nord. Owners Caiti and Chris have leaned hard into 1990s nightclub aesthetics: a non-smoking main bar room of around 60 square metres packed with sofas, seating nooks, and a bar, plus a larger smoking lounge of approximately 80 square metres. A mini-boutique near the entrance sells frivolous clothing, jewellery, and adult toys. The overall feel is of a neighbourhood bar that happens to have playrooms tucked behind it, rather than a sex venue that happens to have a bar. There is no formal entry fee — just a drink minimum (first drink €10–15, gender-priced) — and single men are admitted subject to gender balance on the night, with groups of more than two men not admitted.

Fantasies Lifestyle Club

Unverified

Branch, LA

Fantasies Lifestyle Club sits along Branch Highway in the rural Mowata and Branch communities of Acadia Parish, a stretch of farmland southwest of Crowley where a swingers venue is about the last thing neighbors expected to see rise from the cane fields. Co-owned by Crowley residents Jasen Bourque and Jessica Boullion, the club is pitched as an upscale, invite-only social space for couples, polyamorous groups, single women, and select single men aged 21 and up, with private and open play areas, a dance floor, and showers stocked with towels and toiletries. Its own house style leans dressy rather than club-casual: patrons are asked to arrive "dressed to impress," with no basketball shorts or work clothes, and to stay fully covered on the way in and out. The club's arrival triggered one of the most contentious local government fights Acadia Parish has seen in years. Construction was vandalized in October, with plumbing torn out at a cost owners put in the tens of thousands of dollars, and packed police jury meetings followed as Branch and Mowata residents voiced fears about the effect on their quiet farming community. The parish police jury responded in January 2025 with a 7-0 ordinance vote (one member absent) that licenses and heavily restricts "sexually oriented businesses," banning alcohol, public nudity, and sexual intercourse on premises, requiring lights-on monitoring of guests, and keeping semi-nude staff at least six feet from patrons. The club's attorney, Douglas Brown, has said the ordinance is designed to run Fantasies out of the parish and that a lawsuit will follow once it is enforced.

Fata-Morgana

Muiden, Noord-Holland

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Fata-Morgana is a couples-oriented lifestyle club set inside a three-storey converted farmhouse at Rijksweg 15 in Muiden, Noord-Holland, roughly ten minutes by car from Amsterdam along the A1 motorway — take junction 3 toward Muiden and Weesp. Free parking is available on site. The club operates on an all-inclusive model with no membership requirement: a single entry fee covers food, A-brand drinks including alcohol, towels, and condoms for the duration of the evening. The three floors of the farmhouse hold a wide spread of social and erotic spaces. The main level accommodates a dance floor with resident DJs, a restaurant serving an extended buffet, and a full bar; a sauna complex, whirlpool, and both indoor and outdoor swimming pools round out the leisure areas, with a VIP lounge with fireplace, covered terrace, sun lawn, and gardens providing quieter spaces for socialising. Upper floors house an open group loft, a darkroom, an SM room with equipment, massage rooms, and private lockable chambers. The club opens on Fridays from 21:00 to 03:00 at €150 per couple, and on Saturdays from 21:00 to 04:00 at €180 per couple. Solo women are admitted at half the couple rate. Single men are not permitted under any circumstances. Dress code is strictly enforced on entry and throughout: erotic, provocative, or club-wear is required; men are expected in boxers with an optional shirt; regular street clothing, swimwear, and sportswear are not permitted inside the building. Advance booking is recommended, particularly for Saturday evenings. Payment is accepted by cash, PIN, Visa, Mastercard, American Express, UnionPay, JCB, and Bancontact.

Forbidden Omaha

Omaha, NE

On-Premise Club

Forbidden Omaha describes itself as “a theme-centric establishment with an emphasis towards an openminded lifestyle.” It is an on-premise lifestyle club in Omaha, Nebraska, that opens on Saturday nights and runs meet and greets and special events. Its About page calls it “a community” and says it has been under new ownership as of December 2021. Its Rules page sets a 45-minute play time for every room, and the FAQ says play on the main floor is allowed on couches, benches and seating areas. An open-door and window-curtain approach caters to guests who like to watch or perform. Special events, such as entertainment nights and dinners, are ticketed separately from the regular pass or membership. The club is not open to the general public. First-timers create an account and give links to social profiles such as Facebook, Instagram or FetLife for approval, then buy a membership, and are asked to request a tour on a first visit. Single men and single women are welcome if they follow the club's rules and etiquette, and BDSM interests are welcome provided guests respect those who are not into it. There is no liquor license, so the club is BYOB, with ice available. Rules include no photography on the open floor, consent above all, and cleaning up after yourself.

Friction Parties

Unverified

Washington, DC

Event Organizer

Friction Parties is a women-owned and operated event company founded more than 22 years ago by Lisa Friction, billed as the only nationally recognized hotel party brand in the United States. Operating across the East Coast — with events regularly held in the Washington DC/Maryland area, Philadelphia, New Jersey, North Carolina, and Ohio — Friction takes over entire hotels for the duration of each event, meaning every guest and room belongs exclusively to the lifestyle community. The organizing ethos is welcoming but selective: the crowd skews toward what organizers describe as attractive, well-groomed couples and single women, and all attendees are pre-screened before admission. Events run in two formats. Single-day events are typically held on Saturdays around themed holidays — Halloween, New Year’s Eve, Valentine’s Day, St. Patrick’s Day — with check-in from 2 PM and a ballroom dance party running from 9 PM to around 1:30 AM. Weekend two-day events add clothing-optional pool parties and afternoon activities. Ticket prices range from approximately $75–$150 per person; no refunds, only future-event credits. Membership on the platform lets members browse event attendee lists and connect with couples and single females year-round. Once the main dance party ends, the format shifts to an informal hall crawl on a designated party floor where room doors are propped open and guests host themed mini-parties until the early morning. The ballroom features a DJ, dance poles, cages, and themed décor matched to the night’s costume theme. Alcohol is available via full cash bar operated by the hotel; guests may not bring drinks from rooms to the party floor.

Fun4Two

Moordrecht, South Holland

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Fun4Two is a long-established lifestyle club housed in a protected 1851 Dutch farmhouse at Middelweg 18 in Moordrecht, South Holland, roughly 25 minutes by car from Rotterdam and within easy reach of The Hague, Utrecht, and Amsterdam. Operating continuously since January 1996, it runs as an all-inclusive venue — one entry price covers unlimited food from the buffet restaurant, unlimited drinks including beer, wine, and spirits, use of all wellness facilities, towels, and lockers — a model that sets it apart from most comparable venues across the Netherlands. The converted farmhouse spreads across several connected sections. A self-service buffet restaurant, a main dance floor with a resident DJ, and a lounge bar anchor the social areas. A wellness wing contains a heated indoor pool, sauna, jacuzzi, and bubble bath. The play spaces include a tantra temple, an orgy loft, a group playroom, a Dutch Village area fitted with BDSM-equipped themed cottages, a glory hole room, and a dedicated BDSM dungeon suite. On-site accommodation — apartments, small cottages, and a traditional Dutch caravan known as a pipowagen — is available at additional cost for those who want to stay after the party ends. The venue opens Friday evenings from 21:00 to 03:00, Saturdays from 21:00 to 04:00, and on selected Sundays from 16:00 to 23:00. Member pricing for a couple runs €124 on Fridays, €159 on Saturdays, and €109 on Sundays; first-time visitors pay an additional €20 one-time registration fee that grants full member rates on all future visits. Single women are welcome at all sessions at reduced rates (€62–€80); single men are excluded from regular events except at dedicated Hardcore Night events (approximately four per year, capped at 75 tickets) and on the third Friday of each month, when a couple may bring one additional guest. Saturday visits require advance reservation via the website. Guests arrive in smart or stylish clothing and must change into lingerie or sexy attire by 23:30 on Fridays and Saturdays, or by 19:00 on Sundays. Mobile phones are prohibited in all public areas, and free enclosed private parking is available on-site.

Fun4Two

Rydalmere, New South Wales

On-Premise Club

Fun4Two is a licensed swingers club at 5 Clyde Street in Rydalmere, an industrial pocket of western Sydney roughly five minutes from Parramatta and about 25 kilometres from the CBD. In operation since 2000 and run under the legal name Ma Property Developments Pty Ltd, the venue has built a long-running presence in the Sydney lifestyle scene. Admission is restricted to male-female couples and single women aged 18 and over; single men are not permitted under any circumstances. The premises houses multiple lounge rooms, a dance floor, pool tables, a bar, and a mix of private and communal play rooms. Dedicated change rooms with secure lockers are on-site; a refundable A$20 deposit secures a locker key at arrival, and mobile phones must be stored in that locker throughout the visit. On-site security includes uniformed guards and 24-hour CCTV coverage of common areas, and private and street parking are available. Entry includes complimentary canapés and soft drinks, and BYO alcohol is permitted. Condoms and lubricant are supplied throughout the venue. Events run every Saturday from 9 pm to 3 am, with entry by pre-purchased ticket only. Advance online pricing is A$150 per couple and A$50 for single women; door pricing is A$180 and A$80 respectively, with a A$20 refundable locker deposit added on arrival. A signed waiver is required for entry. Dress code on arrival is smart nightlife attire; after 11 pm and in play areas, lingerie is expected for women and underwear for men. Each Saturday has a distinct themed night — including recurring Newbie Nights designed for first-timers, and special events with named performers — with upcoming events listed on the club's website. A minor surcharge applies to card and EFTPOS payments.

Golden Lions

Markgröningen, Baden-Württemberg

Golden Lions is a long-running lifestyle club in Markgröningen, a quiet Swabian town roughly 20 kilometres northwest of Stuttgart. The club has been operating since 1999 and underwent a comprehensive renovation in October 2023, relaunching — as the site puts it — as a modern venue for "Erotik mit Niveau und Stil" (eroticism with sophistication and style). A mixed crowd of couples and singles from the Stuttgart–Ludwigsburg conurbation makes the drive out, drawn by an atmosphere the club positions as an oasis for erotic moments away from daily life, with a clientele that reviewers consistently describe as friendly and the staff as welcoming. The space includes a bar, a dance floor, a buffet, multiple themed playrooms, three whirlpools (indoor and outdoor), a sauna, massage facilities, a garden area, and secured locker rooms, with ample parking front and rear — including space for campervans. Every entry ticket is all-inclusive: the door price covers full club access, the buffet, and all drinks at the bar. The event calendar runs the full week: Thursday mornings bring a "Fantastic Breakfast" brunch party (10:00–14:00); Wednesdays host BANG my Hotwife evenings (18:00–23:00); Fridays and Saturdays run standard couple-and-singles nights alongside dedicated couples-only evenings (20:00 to 02:00 or 03:00); and Sundays offer afternoon sessions (14:00–21:00). Themed events — White Night, Oktoberfest, foam parties, a Silvester Gala, CFNM nights, and explicit-format gangbang evenings — fill out the annual programme. Access is clearly tiered by guest type. Couples and solo women may arrive on the night without a reservation; solo men must pre-register on JOYclub and receive guest confirmation before being admitted, with JOYclub members also receiving a discount off the standard door price. Entry pricing is steeply differentiated by gender and event type, ranging from €5–40 for solo women to €45–130 for solo men, and €20–110 for couples. A complete ban on mobile phones and cameras is enforced throughout the premises, keeping the atmosphere relaxed and discreet. The dress code is erotic and frivolous for women — lingerie, latex, and minimal clothing are all encouraged — while men are expected in formal black-and-white attire or clubwear. Safe sex is described on the site as "selbstverständlich" (self-evident), and the no-means-no rule is taken seriously: any guest who ignores a refusal faces immediate expulsion.

Hanke Panke Lifestyle Club

Unverified

San Diego, CA

Hankie Pankie Lifestyle Club — also marketed as Embrace Lifestyle Events — has been one of San Diego's most approachable entries into the Southern California lifestyle scene since at least 2012. Rather than operating a fixed brick-and-mortar venue, the club brings its parties to a rotating roster of venues across Southern California, dressing each location with a distinct theme to keep the calendar feeling fresh. Each event layers food and mixers, curated music, and live entertainment into the mix, giving the night a social-club warmth rather than the anonymous feel of a conventional adult venue. The club has built a particular reputation for drawing in newcomers — hosting dedicated introductory events designed to walk first-timers through what to expect and help them find their feet before diving in. The crowd skews toward couples and single women, and the overall tone is described consistently as classy, elegant yet sexy: a setting where guests are expected to mingle and connect rather than arrive with a fixed agenda. The club is reachable via Facebook @hankiepankielifestyle and X @HankiePankieCA. A mailing address at 9528 Miramar Rd #1137 in San Diego is listed in lifestyle directories, consistent with the rotating-venue model.

Hedonism NI

Belfast, Northern Ireland

On-Premise Club

Hedonism NI is a touring swingers social run across Northern Ireland rather than from a single fixed address. In the club's own words it is "an action packed swingers' party with a lively social scene for adults who enjoy meeting fellow open minded men and women at parties through-out Northern Ireland," and the site pitches the region's "premier" home for those "wishing to live a consensual non monogamist lifestyle" in "a safe no pressure yet fun" environment. The hosts, who go by Hotlips & Superstar, come "from a swinging background and with experience at hosting parties stretching back over 20 years," and their socials rotate through venues around the country, with recent 2026 parties landing in Bangor. Events are ticketed in advance through Eventbrite, and the venue address is deliberately withheld: house rule two states "The location must never be given out," and it is released only to verified ticket holders. Pricing for a recent End of Summer Social ran £10 for single ladies, £20 for single gents and £25 for couples. Doors work to a tight window: "Attendees must arrive between 9:30pm and 11pm," couples "MUST arrive and LEAVE as a couple," and "Closing time is 1am." The dress code is "cool and sexy" (clean, un-ripped jeans tolerated, no baseball caps), and consent is paramount, with the rules stressing "'NO THANKS, MEANS NO'" and "NO one is obligated to participate in any activities." Unlike a BYOB club, Hedonism NI runs a bar: "Alcohol is sold on the premises and therefore no one entering will be allowed to bring their own." Privacy is enforced hard, with no cameras or recording equipment ("They will be confiscated"), phones permitted only to swap numbers, and "No Facebook check-ins." Drugs and prostitution are banned outright, drunken behaviour is not tolerated, smoking is limited to the front entrance, and there is free on-street parking with a taxi rank outside. Prospective guests connect and verify through the club's Telegram, FabSwingers profile and mailing list, and follow party announcements across Facebook, Instagram, TikTok and X.

House of K

Wellington, Wellington

On-Premise Club

House of K is an adults-only lifestyle venue in Whitby, Porirua, on the northern fringe of the Wellington region. Running since approximately late 2023, it offers two distinct event formats from a private residential property: exclusive sex and swinging parties — where swinging is the main draw, with designated kink zones — and dedicated kink events where rope play, wax play, and BDSM scenes are central. The organizers describe the venue as an adult playground oriented around consent and community rather than volume. All prospective guests must complete a pre-event vetting process, submitting face photos and a written introduction before gaining approval; the crowd typically spans couples, single women, and a strictly capped number of single men, with most attendees in their mid-thirties. The house is configured with seven designated play areas, while the kitchen, dining room, and lounge are kept as play-free social spaces throughout every event. The kink infrastructure is substantial: three St Andrews Crosses, a caged BDSM dungeon occupying a discreet section of the building, rope suspension points, a stripper pole, massage tables, male and female glory holes, an expanding shared toy collection, and on-site showers and lockers. A private room is available for more intimate encounters, and an outdoor fire pit provides a social anchor between sessions. Themed events — including UV glow nights, a birthday extravaganza, and a Christmas party — rotate through the calendar, with each party capped at 65 paid guests on a monthly Saturday evening schedule. Entry for sex and swinging events is NZ$50 for single women and NZ$100 for couples or single men; single male spots are capped at seven per swinging event, reserved for experienced players already known to the community. Swinging events carry an age range of 21 to 50; kink events are open without a stated upper age limit, though no unknown single males are admitted. Ticket prices cover non-latex condoms, lubricant, snacks, and non-alcoholic beverages; alcohol is bring-your-own and the venue operates without a licence. The dress code rules out shorts and plain t-shirts except as part of a costume, and drugs and body paint are not permitted. A traffic-light safe-word system governs consent throughout, couples must arrive and depart together, and the venue does not offer refunds, transfers, or deferrals.

HU9 Swingers Club

Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire

On-Premise Club

HU9 Swingers Club describes itself as “a large two-story swingers club”. It is an on-premise club on Witham, on the edge of Hull's city centre, open Thursday to Saturday nights and on bank-holiday Sundays, with themed nights on its event calendar such as a fetish night, a hot tub party, Kink and Swing and a Bi Night. A membership card is required for entry. The ground floor has a large bar area, a pool table and dance pole, locker and changing rooms, a large hot tub, a sauna room and a partly covered outdoor area for smoking. The second floor has shower and wet room facilities, open and private play areas, and a “Fully Functioning Dungeon” with play equipment. A free car park sits at the rear, where the entrance is. The club says “COUPLES, SINGLES & TV/TS WELCOME”. Single men must be over 21, a couples account must come as a male and female couple, and male groups larger than two are refused. Photographic ID is required, and payment is cash only. Alcohol is not sold: guests bring their own, which staff keep behind the bar and serve. The dress code is enforced, cameras and camera phones stay in lockers, and drugs of any kind or abusive behavior can cost a guest their membership.

Illuminaughty Albuquerque

Unverified

Albuquerque, NM

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Illuminaughty Albuquerque is the local New Mexico chapter of Illuminaughty, a membership-based lifestyle events network with chapters in more than 40 U.S. cities. As of mid-2026, the Albuquerque chapter is still in a pre-launch, member-recruitment phase: its own site states the group "is preparing to launch exclusive lifestyle cocktail mixers and private swinger parties" and that organizers "just need a few more members signed up" before scheduling a first local event. There is no fixed clubhouse -- as in other Illuminaughty markets, parties would be held at private venues disclosed only to ticket holders once a schedule exists. Network-wide, Illuminaughty runs two event formats: Tease Cocktail Mixers held in reserved sections of bars and restaurants, and private parties hosted in rented or member-owned homes, apartments, or estates that are decorated and staffed for the night. Standard parties feature a themed dress code, a private security team, a set arrival window followed by a group consent-and-rules talk, and multiple play spaces that can include a group room and light bondage or kink equipment, though advanced BDSM such as heavy impact, breath, fire, or blood play is not permitted. These are documented network practices published on Illuminaughty's national site; Albuquerque-specific venues and setups are not yet public, since no local party has been announced or hosted. Membership is free but requires an application with photos, and approval isn't guaranteed; once approved, members receive event invitations for whichever region they follow, including Albuquerque. Network events are typically open to couples, single women, and a small, gender-balanced number of vetted single men -- roughly two to four per event -- with solo men lacking a Single Man ticket turned away by security. Parties are BYOB, with mixers and non-alcoholic drinks provided; phones and cameras are banned once the consent talk begins, and late arrivals outside the posted window aren't admitted.

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Illuminaughty Colorado Springs is a pre-launch chapter of the Illuminaughty lifestyle network, a members-only community for couples and singles in their 20s-40s. As of mid-2026, no events have yet been held in Colorado Springs — the brand's own site states it is still building its local membership base and will schedule its first party once enough members have signed up. There is no fixed venue: consistent with Illuminaughty's model elsewhere, future events would be hosted at private residences rather than a dedicated clubhouse. Once launched, programming is expected to follow the format used in other Illuminaughty cities: Tease Cocktail Mixers at bars with a reserved private area, and private house parties with themed decor and on-site security, typically drawing 40-80 attendees. Membership is free but requires an application and photo-based approval; approved members get event access through the Illuminaughty mobile app. Because no parties have been scheduled in Colorado Springs, prospective members should apply and RSVP through the official site to be notified once the first event is announced.

Insomnia Hedonistic Nightclub

Berlin, Berlin

On-Premise Club

Insomnia occupies a Gründerzeit ballroom built in 1911–12 on Alt Tempelhof in southern Berlin — a listed historic venue that has hosted the club's hedonistic party series since its founding in 1996, and permanently since 17 February 2006. The interior spans two dance floors, dedicated BDSM playrooms, a voyeur zone with performance stage, communal jacuzzi and showers, designer lounge furniture, and a cash bar; an awareness team is present at all events. Party nights run Tuesday through Saturday, with themed programming across swinger, fetish, BDSM, and queer-inclusive formats. International DJs anchor sets in techno, dark-wave, and gothic electronic genres. An on-site adult boutique offers last-minute essentials. The club markets explicitly to couples, singles of all genders, trios, and polyamorous communities, and operates a dedicated 'My First Time' page guiding newcomers through its etiquette and layout. Entry requires sexy, fetish, or elegant evening wear — erotic lingerie, BDSM attire, themed costumes, and daring outfits are encouraged; casual streetwear and trainers are refused at the door. The venue is cash-only and photo-prohibition-enforced: mobile phones must be checked to the cloakroom on entry, and photography is prohibited throughout. Age minimum is 18 with photo ID.

Intimate Times Lifestyle Club

Edmonton, Alberta

On-Premise Club

Intimate Times Lifestyle Club describes itself as a “PRIVATE PARTY Adult Social Club”. It is an on-premise club in Edmonton, Alberta that opens every Friday and Saturday night, asks for membership after one non-member visit and requires an invitation for all first-time visitors. Its lifestyle page says it is “LGBTQIA+ supportive”. The club says it is set up like a nightclub with the feel of a house party: a dance floor, a DJ booth, a free pool table, a “fireplace” lounge and a cash bar, with complimentary snacks. Tours run early in the evening; the play area opens later. Themed nights include Kink and Fetish Night, Girls' Night Out and a Newbie Night. Newcomers request an invitation through the online application, which takes several days to review. Guests must be 21 or older, show physical government photo ID on their first two visits and sign a waiver and confidentiality agreement. Single women are welcome any night; single men may attend Fridays with a valid invitation, or Saturdays with a couple, a mixed group or a female date. Alcohol is sold at the cash bar and bringing your own is not permitted. Dress is to impress; athletic wear is not allowed. Groping is never acceptable, harassment after a refusal gets a guest removed, and camera-equipped glasses are banned.

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Inversion MKE is a membership-based kink and BDSM community center operating at 615 S 89th St on Milwaukee's west side. The venue occupies the same commercial space as the former Club EASSEL, which operated for years as Milwaukee's BDSM and lifestyle community center. Inversion MKE, LLC obtained a three-year Special Use Permit from the Milwaukee Board of Zoning Appeals on 10 October 2024 (Case BZZA-24-00260, vote 5–0), classifying the space for zoning purposes as an indoor recreation facility. Permit conditions include a blanket prohibition on alcohol on premises at any time, adequate event staffing requirements, and no outdoor advertising beyond permitted signage. The club's community life is organized primarily through FetLife under the handle @InversionMKE, with a parallel Instagram presence at @inversionmke, reflecting its roots in established kink-community networks rather than mainstream nightlife promotion. The venue operates on a structured membership model, offering individual and couple/pair tiers. First-time guests must complete a paid orientation before attending regular events — a practice that emphasizes consent culture, community vetting, and safety briefing over open walk-in access. Memberships are non-refundable and auto-renew on monthly or annual cycles. The space positions itself as a community hub for Milwaukee's kink scene, carrying forward the regional network that had gathered around Club EASSEL at the same address, though the two operations are legally and organizationally distinct. Events run on a recurring weekly schedule: Friday and Saturday evenings are the primary play-party nights, with a shorter Tuesday slot reserved for members and sponsored guests. No alcohol is permitted on the premises at any time — a hard condition of the BOZA permit — making this a dry venue. Signage is limited by the zoning conditions, keeping the venue's street-level footprint deliberately low-key. New members are encouraged to connect through the club's FetLife and Instagram pages for current event listings and orientation scheduling.

Joyride

Unverified

London, London

Event Organizer

Joyride is a London-based queer, sex-positive event series operating at the intersection of rave culture, art, and sexual expression. Founded in early 2023 by Irish sex educator MJ Fox and experiential event producer Lydia Fikan, the party draws together DJs, performers, sexuality practitioners, and artists around a shared ethos of joy, playfulness, and consent. Pitched at adults aged 21 and over, Joyride sold out its earliest events through word of mouth alone before securing a bi-weekly Sunday residency at Corsica Studios in Elephant and Castle — one of London's most established underground club spaces. The format centred on two spaces at Corsica Studios: a main dancefloor delivering a genre-fluid programme spanning house, techno, and everything in between, with a focus on queer and femme artists; and two purpose-built playrooms fitted with bespoke kink furniture and sex machines, one of them designed by interior designer Domhnall Nolan. A welfare team, identifiable by yellow bandanas and flashing armbands, circulated throughout every event. Phones and cameras were barred from the dancefloor and playrooms, with stickers placed over camera lenses on entry. Tickets were sold exclusively through Dice and only available in advance, with community and unwaged tickets available on request. Joyride's Corsica Studios residency came to an end in February 2026 when the venue announced its permanent closure; the final party, on 15 February 2026, marked the event's third birthday. As of mid-2026, no successor venue has been confirmed. The dress code required fetish or kink attire — latex, leather, PVC, mesh, lingerie, harnesses — and streetwear was refused entry. The entry age was strictly 21 and over. Prospective attendees should check joyriderave.com and the Dice promoter page for current event information.

Kasteel Waterloo

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Beesel, Limburg

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Kasteel Waterloo is a long-established lifestyle and swingers club set within a 1922 art-nouveau villa on the edge of Beesel, a small municipality in the Dutch province of Limburg positioned roughly midway between Venlo and Roermond. The estate's history stretches back to the eighteenth century, and the club has operated on the grounds since the early 1980s, attracting a regular crowd that draws noticeably from across the Dutch–German–Belgian border region, with visitors typically ranging from their mid-twenties to their early fifties. The villa's ground floor holds a bar, a dance floor fitted with a pole, a cold-buffet dining area, and a covered outdoor terrace with a separate smoking section. The upper floor is given over to the play spaces: a sauna, a BDSM room, a film room, and several themed erotic rooms, all stocked with complimentary towels and condoms. Personal lockers and free on-site parking are included. A DJ performs on selected evenings, with the music generally oriented toward 1970s–1990s hits, keeping the atmosphere sociable rather than club-loud. The venue opens on Friday evenings and on a rotating selection of Saturdays, with Fridays running roughly 20:00–03:00 and Saturdays 21:00–04:00 (exact times vary by event; the online agenda is the authoritative source). Pricing follows an all-inclusive model — unlimited drinks, the buffet, condoms, towels, and locker access are all covered by the door price. Couples typically pay €40–€110 depending on the theme night; single women pay €20–€55; single men pay €105 on nights when they are admitted. Friday is the nude-party night, open to all categories; Saturdays cycle through themed events — Couples & Bi-Ladies nights (single men excluded), Nymf Parties, Erotic Stars evenings, and Black & Leather parties — each with its own dress requirements. Advance reservations are required for all events.

On-premise lifestyle club

Kat's Fantasies is a long-running adult lifestyle club operating out of an upscale venue in South Surrey, British Columbia, self-described as Vancouver's hardcore swingclub. The club has been active since approximately 2007 and operates by screened membership only — no walk-ins — with free membership granted after a short application process including a photo submission. The guest mix trends toward couples and single women in the 35–50 age range and screened single men aged 19–55, with attendance ranging from roughly 20 to 75 per event depending on the night. The venue features a dance floor, DJ booth, pool table, two private rooms, and a large open orgy room equipped with a sex swing and a signature wall of porn. Two no-play socializing lounges allow guests to meet and mix without pressure. Massage tables and oils are available, and overnight accommodation is offered on-site: private queen rooms at CAD $60 per couple and open beds at CAD $40 per couple. The club operates on a BYOB basis; complimentary coffee, tea, filtered water, and light snacks are provided along with condoms and lube. The events calendar runs across several formats: Greedy Girl (one to two Saturdays monthly, 8PM–1AM); Fuck Me Friday (one to two Fridays monthly, 8PM–midnight); Bi Night (monthly Friday or Saturday, 8PM–midnight or 1AM); Cougars & Cubs (monthly Friday, 8PM–midnight); Hump Day Happy Hour (Wednesday, 7–11PM, October–May); and Sunday Afternoon Delight (Sunday, 2–6PM, October–May). Donation pricing varies by event — for flagship nights, couples pay CAD $50 advance or $70 at door; single men pay $60 advance or $80 at door; single ladies pay $20. Midweek and Sunday events are lower. Guests must arrive within a set check-in window and may not re-enter after leaving.