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KC Book Club

Liberty, MO

On-Premise Club

KC Book Club is a by-invitation-only lifestyle house party set on five acres of secluded land just north of Liberty, Missouri — a quiet, rural setting that ensures complete privacy for its guests. Owned and personally run by Eddie, the venue is a custom-built entertaining space that has earned a reputation as one of the Midwest most recognized lifestyle destinations, drawing regulars and curious newcomers alike from as far as Nebraska, Iowa, Oklahoma, and Arkansas. The club has been featured on national lifestyle podcasts, and its welcoming, consent-forward atmosphere keeps the crowd firmly in living-room-party territory rather than nightclub territory. Saturday nights are the club's exclusive rhythm, and the format is BYOE — guests bring their own drinks and snacks, while the house provides soft drinks, hors d'oeuvres, ice, soda mixers, and bottled water. Inside, a large social area and a dance floor (complete with stripper pole) set the tone for mingling before the evening deepens. Private play rooms and dedicated kink and lifestyle spaces are available on site, and the venue also features a pool, hot tub, and showers. When the weather cooperates, the five acres open up for clothing-optional volleyball, swimming, and sunbathing. The club is kink-friendly, swinger-friendly, and welcoming to the genuinely curious — but it is strictly couples and single women only; single men are not admitted. Access is by invitation only, and the BYOE policy keeps the vibe communal and intimate. The location near Liberty Triangle puts guests within easy reach of hotels, restaurants, and retail for before or after the party.

KinkZone

Canberra, Australian Capital Territory

On-Premise Club

KinkZone describes itself as Canberra's only purpose-built alternative lifestyle studio, operating from a discreet unit in the light-industrial suburb of Fyshwick, roughly 2–3 km east-southeast of the city centre. The venue serves both the kink and swinging communities under one roof, running separate event formats to accommodate different experience levels and identities — from beginner-friendly introductory nights through to invitation-only BDSM parties. After a hiatus that ran from 2020 to 2024, the club returned under new management and has since built a calendar of more than a dozen recurring event formats. The custom-designed interior centres on a large open-plan area with substantial seating and space for dancing, along with intimate nooks and dedicated playrooms for private or group activity. All tickets include entry, use of the cloakroom, light refreshments, non-alcoholic beverages (soft drinks, tea, coffee), condoms, lubricant, and access to shower facilities. Alcohol is not provided or sold; BYO is permitted. The first floor is reached only by stairs — there is no lift — though a ground-floor accessible toilet is available, the main event spaces have 96 cm-wide doors at their narrowest, accessible showers are on-site, and no fluorescent lighting is used during events. Smoking and vaping are confined to a designated outdoor courtyard. All attendance requires completing a vetting process before a first event; new contacts are added to the system each Monday, with an initial reply typically within five days. From July 2026, standard event tickets are priced at A$69; KZ Swing is A$120 per couple, A$100 for single men, and A$60 for single women; specialty nights including Rainbow Haven, Rope, and FemDomme are A$60; and the Under 30s event is A$45. Booking fees apply on top of all ticket prices. Optional memberships — Silver at A$250 per year or Gold at A$525 per year — provide reserved spaces, free events, booking-fee waivers, and discounted tickets, though membership is not required to attend.

KitKat Club

Berlin, Berlin

On-Premise Club

Founded in March 1994 by Austrian filmmaker Simon Thaur and his partner Kirsten Krueger, KitKatClub is one of Berlin's most internationally recognised sex-positive nightclubs. Operating since 2007 from an industrial building in Berlin-Mitte at Koepenicker Strasse 76, the club takes its name from the fictional venue in the musical Cabaret, a deliberate reference to the erotic freedoms of Weimar-era Berlin the founders set out to revive. Its founding principle, do what you want but stay in communication, underpins a sex-positive, queer-inclusive culture that has attracted a cosmopolitan international crowd over three decades. The multi-level venue centres on three dancefloors -- the Main Floor, the Dragon Floor, and the lower Prisma Bar -- supported by seven bars, a candy counter, and a salon chill-out area. A dedicated BDSM space and private rooms occupy the lower floors; outside, a semi-covered terrace holds a swimming pool and sauna. Ultraviolet lighting throughout illuminates fluorescent murals by Berlin artist Vigor Calma. Free cloakroom and changing facilities allow guests to arrive in street clothes and transform on site. The weekly flagship is CarneBall Bizarre on Saturdays, with a Come Together pre-party from 20:00 opening the pool and sauna before main doors at 23:00, running into Sunday morning. Fridays rotate among Fourplay, GEGEN, Mystic Rose, and PIEPSHOW; Wednesdays host Symbiotikka; Mondays run Electric Monday with the most relaxed dress code of the week. Sunday mornings bring the Nachspiel afterparty from 08:00. Entry is EUR15-25 by event, cash only; an ATM stands immediately outside. Photo ID proving age 18 or over is required. A fetish-forward dress code -- latex, leather, PVC, lingerie, elaborate costume -- is enforced across all nights; jeans, plain t-shirts, and standard streetwear are refused.

KOW2

Hamburg, Hamburg

erotic bar / lifestyle bar

KOW2 — self-billed as "die älteste frivole Bar Hamburgs" (Hamburg's oldest frivolous bar) — occupies Luisenweg 119 in the Hamm district, a short distance east of Hamburg's city centre. Operated by Kay Lederer Unterhaltungsgastronomie, it runs as an erotic lifestyle bar for singles and couples of all genders and sexual orientations, with the stated aim of providing a welcoming atmosphere rather than the scale and anonymity of a large club. The house rules position consent as non-negotiable and make explicit that all guests are to be treated with equal respect regardless of gender or sexual orientation. The venue combines a bar and small dance floor with two dedicated playrooms equipped for BDSM and SM play — fittings include a glory hole and a gynaecological chair. Changing rooms and showers are located in the basement level. Hygiene supplies, towels, and complimentary snacks are provided free of charge, and free surface parking is available on-site. Payment is accepted by EC/debit card or cash. Regular opening nights run Thursday (20:00–03:00) and Friday and Saturday (20:00–04:00), with two monthly specials: the first Wednesday of each month (18:00–01:00, a mixed all-welcome event) and the last Sunday of each month (19:00–01:00, a dedicated BDSM Playnight). There is no admission charge, but minimum spend rules apply — €15 for women, €25 for couples, and a €30 mandatory first-drink purchase for solo men. The dress code specifies erotic or smart attire; printed T-shirts, shorts, sweatpants, and open-toed shoes on men are refused at the door. Photography and phone use are prohibited throughout the entire venue.

Krewe of Swingtown (KOS)

Houston, TX

Event Organizer

Krewe of Swingtown (KOS) describes itself as “a very laid back group” and is an adult lifestyle event organizer and social group based in the Houston, TX area hosting events across Texas. Its home page says it was founded in 2005, primarily as a “Lifestyle” oriented Mardi Gras krewe. Its home page lists events including Naughty Is Nice, Mardi Gras Galveston weekend house parties, a pre-river-trip party and a Guadalupe River trip. Its Texas Lifestyle Festival page describes a weekend-long party at Linnett Ranch in Henderson, TX, with an indoor nightly event space, two pools, indoor and outdoor hot tubs, rental rooms, RV sites and tent camping, plus demos, vendors, contests and games, and theme nights. Its home page says events are open to all couples and single females in the lifestyle, with limited admittance for single males at some; at the festival a single male needs a female date or sponsoring couple, and a sponsoring couple answers for its guest. To join, people apply for a free profile with photos and an “About us” essay and are emailed if accepted; premium membership does not include event admission. Rules require a KOS wristband, consent before touching and permission before photography; overly intoxicated guests are asked to leave the party area or denied entrance.

Lacey's PlayHouse

Myrtle Beach, SC

Lifestyle Party Venue

Lacey's PlayHouse describes itself as “A venue to party with your Lifestyle friends”, hosting theme parties near Myrtle Beach; its flyers give Loris, SC as the location. It welcomes experienced lifestylers and those just exploring, whether local or on vacation, and says its 1,300-square-foot space holds up to 50 people comfortably. The venue can also be booked for a lifestyle group party or a couples retreat. Its photos page shows a party room for socializing, dancing, games and refreshments, plus a hot tub and pool. Guests are asked to dress to the theme or dress to impress, and the flyers advertise BYOB parties. Parties are exclusively for adults 30 and over, and registration is required: guests text their names and the party date, wait for a reply confirming space, and then make a party donation by Venmo or Cash App. Some flyers say couples and single females are welcome, and they vary on single males, with some parties admitting select single males or all singles. Couples must arrive and depart together, parties often sell out, and there are no refunds for cancellations on party day.

Landgoed De Zaar

Venlo, Limburg

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Landgoed De Zaar is a lifestyle club set on an eight-hectare wooded estate near Grubbenvorst, a short drive from the A73 motorway just north of Venlo in Dutch Limburg. The estate's name — landgoed means manor estate — reflects what distinguishes it from urban alternatives: private grounds, surrounding woodland, a secured perimeter with an automated gate, and a location near the Belgian and German borders that draws a cross-border clientele from the Meuse-Rhine region. The club operates under the motto 'discretie, elegantie en verlangen' (discretion, elegance and desire) and carries SDC affiliation. The interior is organised around a bar and lounge area, a dance floor, restaurant facilities, and relaxation seating. Play areas include mirrored rooms, adult video rooms, private suites, a massage salon, and a sauna with shower facilities. Complimentary towels and condoms are provided throughout. The grounds also accommodate camper and caravan guests, who may park overnight within the secured estate at no charge. On regular evenings the dress code requires lingerie or similarly revealing attire for women and briefs or intimate underwear for men; on dedicated FKK nights full nudity is mandatory. The club opens on Mondays and Saturdays. Monday runs as a double session: an afternoon Sex Marathon from 13:00 priced at €10 per couple (single women free, single men €95), followed by an evening FKK nudist party at €50 per couple (€20 for solo women, €100 for solo men). Saturday's Sexy Lingerie Evening runs 20:00–03:00 at €80 per couple, €20 for solo women, and €100 for solo men. Single men are admitted at all events but pay rates substantially above those for couples or unaccompanied women.

Lavish Lifestyle Events

Hauppauge, NY

Event Organizer

Lavish Lifestyle Events describes itself as “Upscale lifestyle events, private venues, and RSVP-only experiences.” Its owners, Cynthia and Ron, say they are rebranding Club Manor, the off-premise swingers club on Long Island they owned for the past 17 years, and expanding to South Florida. The site names Long Island and South Florida as the places it runs events. The parties are themed soirées, which the organizer describes with “crafted cocktails, sultry beats” and bills as a dance party for like-minded adults. Its pages also mention private venues. Events are RSVP-only. Guests fill in an online form with their names, email and phone number, including a partner's name for couples. The events page is addressed to couples and singles.

Leisure with Pleasure

Unverified

Leicester, Leicestershire

On-Premise Club

Leisure with Pleasure — also traded as Club 29, Club 29 Swing Club, and Bond Street Retreat — occupies a discreet address at 29 New Bond Street in Leicester city centre. It bills itself as Leicester's only alternative sauna for the lifestyle-curious and the more adventurous, and has operated under various names at the same location for many years. The NHS has formally recognised the address as a sexual health outreach venue, with Leicester Sexual Health services running a monthly drop-in clinic there offering free condoms, STI testing, and advice. The venue spreads across three floors. Upper floors contain spa facilities — a hot tub, sauna, and steam room — alongside a cinema room, a dark fetish room equipped with a swing and cross, showers, and private rooms. Reviewers also describe playrooms, a dungeon area, and a disco-and-party room. The club maintains a strict drug-free policy, and multiple guests note that staff are approachable and willing to walk newcomers through the space. Reviewers are divided on atmosphere: several praise the clean, friendly environment, while others have criticised cramped conditions and dated décor. Google-listed hours indicate daytime sessions on Wednesday, Friday, and Sunday, though schedules and current entry fees could not be independently verified — the club's official website is not currently accessible.

Liberty Elite

Lutterworth, Leicestershire

On-Premise Club

Liberty Elite describes itself as a “private members club for those pursuing a liberated lifestyle” on the swingers and fetish scenes, and its site says it has been established since 1999. It is an on-premise venue on the A5 at Lutterworth, in two acres of countryside, with parties on Friday and Saturday evenings, including themed nights and fetish events. The club says it has separate social and play areas, with playrooms, a dungeon with equipment built for the club, a fully licensed bar, DJs, a spa area with towels, changing rooms, lockers and a buffet. Outside are a terrace, private lawns and a heated smoking area, and overnight rooms can be booked by phone. Membership is required: newcomers show photo ID and complete a form at reception, and members' guests may attend only once before joining. Couples and single women are welcome, and single men are admitted on Fridays and at events that say so. Staff are on hand to settle newcomers' nerves and there is no obligation to take part. Guests are told not to bring their own drinks, phones and recording devices are prohibited, and illegal drugs or ignoring a refusal mean removal.

Liberty Rose

Bildstock, Saarland

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Liberty Rose is a private swingers club in Friedrichsthal-Bildstock, a small town in the Saarland region of southwestern Germany, reached via Neunkircher Strasse 10. Run by owner Tanja, the club describes itself as a privater Erotiktreff — a private erotic meeting place — and is one of the longer-running venues of its kind in the region. The space covers roughly 200 square metres across two climate-controlled floors and holds up to 100 guests. Five distinct play areas include a gang-bang room, a darkroom, a cuddle nook, a couples-only section with a Czech wall feature, and a mirror room. Supporting facilities run to a licensed bar, sauna, shower area, massage bench, and a changing room with lockable lockers. First-time visitors are offered a guided walkthrough before settling in. Liberty Rose opens four days a week: Tuesdays (10:00–18:00, last entry 16:00) follow a relaxed daytime format; Wednesdays (09:00–midnight, last entry 22:00) are branded Naked Bi Day — towels are tolerated until 16:00, after which complete nudity is compulsory and all clothing, including mesh or transparent items, is forbidden; Fridays (18:00–02:00, last entry midnight) rotate through themed nights including wellness evenings; Saturdays (20:00–03:00, last entry midnight) host cocktail parties and seasonal events. Couple admission is €15–€20 midweek and €25–€30 at weekends, the lower figure applying when a visit is registered in advance by phone, email, or JoyClub. Single men pay €50–€55 midweek or €60–€65 at weekends; single women enter free on most sessions, or €5 on Friday–Saturday without advance registration. Multi-visit VIP cards are available at reduced per-entry rates, with the eleventh visit complimentary.

Lifeinstyle STL

St. Louis, MO

Event Organizer

Lifeinstyle STL describes itself as “an exclusive community” for verified couples aged 21 and over. It is an events organizer that runs rotating events: its pages list full hotel takeovers, meet-and-greets at local bars and a National Swingers Weekend at Lake of the Ozarks, with parties in St. Louis and across the Midwest. Large parties are hotel takeovers with DJs and live music, with hotel room packages sold for guests. The FAQ describes themed rooms as “cozy spaces” where couples can lounge and explore, says the parties are “not sex focused or sex based,” and says games and activities are optional. Smaller meet-and-greets run at bars such as Chapter 3 in Soulard, including newbie meet-and-greets, and events range from about 50 to 400 guests. Every guest needs an approved Lifeinstyle account; the club says it vets each profile, approval can take one to four days, and there are no door sales. Events are for couples and single women; single men can apply for select single-male accounts for groups, chat and more. The location is emailed the night before. Dress is cocktail attire unless an event is themed. Consent is mandatory, guests should control their alcohol intake, photos are suggested only in designated areas, and the club reserves the right to admit or deny anyone.

Lifestyle & Swingers Club Eroroma

Zwinderen, Drenthe

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Eroroma is a lifestyle and swingers club set on a rural property in Zwinderen, a small village in the province of Drenthe roughly midway between Hoogeveen and Emmen. Founded in 2006 by Jan van Duyvenbode as an erotic massage salon, the venue expanded into couples events as regional demand grew, and in 2026 marks its twentieth year of operation. The club has built a loyal following across the northern Netherlands and describes itself as the number one lifestyle and swingers club of the north. Its clientele spans the 40–60 age bracket and ranges from seasoned regulars to first-timers, with floor staff on hand to orient newcomers to the space. The venue's centrepiece is a Roman bathhouse — widely noted as unique among northern Netherlands swinger clubs — built around a large indoor pool and an indoor jacuzzi accommodating around twenty people. The outdoor grounds add a second jacuzzi, loungers, and lounge seating, plus a heated terrace with fire pit and garden. Inside, the club spans two areas: a ground-floor bar with an extensive selection of drinks, a restaurant-style space serving a hot and cold buffet, and a dance floor where resident DJs play house and electronic sets on event nights. A dedicated play wing houses multiple massage rooms, private bed alcoves with curtains, an SM/BDSM room with suspension facilities, a darkroom, and lounge areas. Towels, condoms, and water are included; secure lockers are provided. Free on-site parking accommodates both cars and campervans. Eroroma operates on an event-based calendar rather than fixed nightly hours. Zwoele Woensdag (Sultry Wednesday) afternoon sessions run 14:00–22:00, open to couples, single women, and T-girls at €100 per couple and €30 for single women. Saturday evening events run 21:00–03:00 across a rotating roster of themed nights — Pleasure 4 All, Ero Kinky Party, XO BDSM Party, SeXfactor, and standard couple evenings — with couples entry ranging from €100 to €130 depending on format. All tickets are all-inclusive: drinks, the hot and cold buffet, towels, and condoms are covered in the entry price. A sexy outfit is mandatory and enforced at the door; on themed nights latex, leather, or PVC is required. Changing facilities are available on arrival. Single men are admitted only on designated nights by advance reservation; capacity is strictly limited. Most standard couple evenings and Secret Pleasure nights do not admit unaccompanied men.

Loft54

Unverified

Rheinstetten, Baden-Württemberg

Set in an industrial building on the southern outskirts of Rheinstetten, Loft54 opened in February 2023 as an Erolifestyle Club built around two pillars: upscale gastronomy and a well-equipped private play environment. Operated by Loft54 Gastronomie Betriebs GmbH under managing director Andreas Vater, the club describes itself as a space for couples and women of all ages, with openness and tolerance as its founding ethos. The venue divides into a social front-of-house and a purpose-built play wing. Private rooms include two areas reserved exclusively for couples, a dedicated SM suite, and an extravagant darkroom fitted with two glory holes and two Czech walls. Outdoors, a shared sauna and whirlpool extend the offering. Floor heating, full air conditioning, and a ventilation system run in every room; twelve showers and more than two hundred lockers handle throughput. Entry is by prior registration only, and consent is a stated house rule.

Miami Velvet

Miami, FL

On-Premise Club

Miami Velvet describes itself as “an upscale private nightclub.” It is an on-premise lifestyle club in Miami, Florida, where membership is required of everyone who enters. It opens Friday and Saturday nights, with themed events on its calendar. The club says its 20,000 square feet hold two main dance areas, two lounges, four multi-bed group playrooms and nearly 20 private rooms, plus a back party complex called the “Luvnasium” with mattresses and a viewing window. A couples-only area in the back play area is off-limits to single men. Lockers, towels and mixers are included, and the club advertises DJs on its open nights. Couples and single women are admitted both nights; select single men, meaning clean, polite, well dressed and well mannered, are admitted Fridays only. Guests must be 21 with a government photo ID, and no sponsor is needed to join: the application is completed on arrival, and first-time tourist couples have the membership fee waived but still pay entry. The club is BYOB and sells no liquor; bottles are labeled and kept at the bar, and drunkenness is not tolerated. A dress code is enforced at the door, phones and cameras are not allowed inside, drugs and bad behavior carry zero tolerance, and opening a closed door gets a guest escorted out.

Michigan Swing Place

Lansing, MI

Lifestyle Resort

Michigan Swing Place is a Lansing, Michigan lifestyle group built around recurring hotel takeover weekends rather than a fixed clubhouse: instead of running a standing venue, the group rents out a hotel for each event and turns it into a private party space for a few days at a time. It describes itself as having been started to give the Lansing swing community a second home, says it works alongside the area's other established clubs rather than competing with them, and draws members from across the United States rather than purely locally. Each takeover includes standard hotel rooms and suites along with a limited number of jacuzzi suites, plus access to the hotel's pool, and the group frames the atmosphere as comfortable and welcoming for both regulars and newcomers. An organizing crew is on-site from Friday through Sunday during event weekends to run the party and handle check-in. Recurring themed nights, including a jersey-themed meet-and-greet, a pajama-themed bar party, and a Little Red Dress mixer, run alongside free, lower-key meet-and-greet socials. Entry is oriented toward couples and single women: admission runs $25 for single women, $60 for couples, and $70 for single men, though single men are admitted only after being vetted directly by the organizers in advance, with no walk-up entry for unvetted single men. Meet-and-greet socials are free, with guests covering their own bar tab. First-time attendees complete a check-in form, and the specific hotel location for each event is disclosed only to ticket-holders after purchase, with guests asked not to share it publicly.

Mitch's Place

Jacksonville, FL

On-Premises House Party

Mitch's Place describes itself as “a long running on Premises House party” hosted by Mitch at a house in Jacksonville, Florida. It runs every Saturday night, and the site says to check it each week for theme information. The host lists a three-bedroom, two-bath house with a video room, a bar room, sitting and lounge areas, and a dance floor with a stripper pole and “plenty of music.” Outside, there is a covered patio with chairs and a gas fire pit, plus an enclosed hot tub, and the host supplies towels. Couples and single women are welcome, and the site says there are no new single males. The address is given by phone: guests call Mitch for it and for party details, which he says are too much to text. The party is BYOB, with a bartender who provides setups, cups, ice and snacks and works for tips. The house rule is that no means no, and the site says guests who are offended by open nudity or open sexual activity should not attend.

Monde Osé

Unverified

Montreal, Quebec

Event Organizer

Monde Osé is a Montreal-based lifestyle brand and event organizer founded on August 5, 2005, by a Montrealer known publicly as Frank, whose search with his wife for upscale, open-minded sensual entertainment in the city found nothing that met their expectations. The name derives from the French "osé," meaning "daring" — a word the brand treats as both identity and mandate, pledging to challenge social norms around sexuality and self-expression. The first gathering drew 110 invited guests to Joy Nightspot, a small Montreal nightclub, structured as a private couples-and-ladies-only party. Monthly events followed, growing by word of mouth into an erotic performance-arts brand whose stated philosophy rests on three words: Respect, Acceptance, and Love. Monde Osé's principal events have been two annual balls. The Bal Érotique, launched in 2006 as a first-anniversary celebration, ran for thirteen editions through 2018: the inaugural edition drew 450 guests and numbers climbed to more than 1,500 by the peak years. The final edition — Moonlight Masquerade — was held on August 25, 2018, at Bain Mathieu, 2915 Ontario Street East, and was deliberately retired by founder Frank, who announced in August 2018 that he was moving on to other pursuits. The continuing flagship is the Bal Burlesque, a spring event led by performer and artistic director Lexxi Brown (also known as Foxy Lexxi); its most recent confirmed edition took place on March 4, 2023, at Cabaret Lion d'Or, 1676 rue Ontario est, in Montreal's Le Village neighbourhood. Events run from 9 pm to 3 am and combine live burlesque headliners, pole dancers, contortionists, and aerial artists with a soundtrack of deep house, techno, soul, and funk curated by guest DJs. Each event is built around a distinct theme deployed through décor, lighting, performance, and dress code. Access to Monde Osé events is membership-first: prospective attendees are encouraged to apply for pre-approval through the website's membership section, where applications are reviewed against unstated criteria. Non-members who arrive without prior approval are screened on-site, with entry based on what the brand describes as "attractiveness, style and sophistication," and a slight ticket premium at the door. For the 2023 Bal Burlesque, pre-sale tickets started at $55 CAD (until December 22, 2022), rising through early-bird ($65), regular ($80), and day-of ($95) tiers; VIP packages at $400 included a reserved table for the evening, bottle service, and line skip — all VIP guests were still required to hold a separate event ticket. Dress code is strictly enforced: no athletic wear, running shoes, or baseball caps; the expected standard is sexy or daring, with themed costuming actively encouraged. Guests must be at least 18 years old.

Monkey Business

Wickford, Essex

Members Club (Roaming Events)

Monkey Business is a private lifestyle members club based in Wickford, Essex, operating since 2019 under the pillars of luxury, discretion, and community. Founded and run as a curated invitation-only operation, it is open to those aged 25 and over. Its home venue is a private villa in Essex whose address is never publicly listed — ticketed members receive the location approximately two hours before each event begins. The villa is equipped with a heated swimming pool, hot tub, sun loungers, and a BBQ for outdoor socialising, alongside a cocktail lounge and multiple dedicated play spaces: a dungeon and red room, a dark room, a cinema room, a glory hole and dark orgy room, and a range of private and social areas. The event calendar carries a strong themed character — leather-and-lingerie nights, 80s neon socials, Tantric Dine evenings with a private chef and four-course meal, Hotwife parties, and Ladies Only Days sit alongside lunchtime afternoon sessions. The club periodically stages events at external venues in Essex and Kent in addition to its home villa. Events are ticketed individually with no fixed weekly timetable; evening parties typically run 20:30 to 02:00, while daytime sessions run from around midday. Annual membership costs £50, is restricted to those aged 25 and over, and entitles holders to reduced entry. A first visit is permitted without membership at selected newbie and daytime events. Single males must hold registered membership and pre-book directly with the organisers before each event — walk-ins are not accepted. Dress code is event-specific and published alongside each listing.

My Secret House Party Club

Mesa, AZ

Private Home Parties

My Secret House Party Club uses the tagline “Elite, Invitation-Only Events for Like-Minded Adults.” It is a house-party club run by founder and host Tanya in a private home in the Mesa, Arizona area, and its site says it has been established since 2006, with more than 600 events and over 25,000 people hosted. The club calls the setting a “clean, upscale private home,” where guests move between the kitchen, the patio and the pool. The house has a game room (pool table, air hockey, arcade basketball), a resort-style pool with a slide, a jacuzzi, a built-in gas barbecue, several lounge and entertainment areas, eight massage tables, and a crossdresser closet with clothing from extra small to XXL, wigs and a small selection of shoes. Couples and single women are welcome, and some events are open to single men. Guests request invitations by joining the club's private notification list, and the club says their information is kept confidential. It describes a “Respectful, mature community” with clear boundaries and a consent culture. Outside hosted events, the house can also be booked for private rental by the hour, with a host on site who does not take part in guest activities.

Naughty Revival

Minneapolis, MN

Hotel Takeover Event

Naughty Revival describes itself as “a 21+ 2-Night, immersive experience of kink.” It is an annual hotel takeover in a suburb of the Minneapolis–St. Paul area rather than a fixed club: the organizers rent a whole hotel, opening Friday afternoon and running through Sunday midday. Its About page says the organizer began in 2018 as Kinque Social Society and reorganized in 2021 for the first Naughty Revival event. The event space has a ballroom dungeon, a pool dungeon, a swingers' suite and four stages for demonstrations and performances, plus classes, vendors, an on-site restaurant and bar, and access to a pool, hot tub, sauna and racquetball courts. Sex is allowed only in private rooms or the swingers' suite, and a marked aftercare area is reserved for aftercare. Anyone interested in an alternative lifestyle may attend, singles are explicitly welcome, and guests must be 21 or older. Admission is by two-day ticket through the Naughty Revival Eventbrite store, and the hotel name is released only by email or after buying tickets or rooms. Alcohol is sold at the hotel and venue bars, illegal drugs and poppers are banned, and phones and cameras are barred outside private rooms and a designated phone room, with a lifetime ban for violators. An optional orientation is offered to first-timers.

Event Organizer

New Paradise Club occupies Hathern House on Rempstone Road in Normanton on Soar, a quiet rural village in Leicestershire roughly equidistant between Loughborough and the A60. The club is a swingers and lifestyle venue that operates under an annual membership model and bills itself as a friendly, welcoming environment for couples and singles alike. The club runs regular themed party nights across a five-day weekly schedule: Wednesday and Thursday evenings (7pm–midnight), Friday and Saturday nights (7pm–3am), and Sunday afternoons (2pm–10pm). Dedicated bi nights and TV/admirers nights are among the event formats the club has advertised. The venue has also publicised the addition of a 20-person hot tub among its facilities. Prospective visitors are advised to contact the club directly via newparadiseclub.co.uk or on 07963 239838 for current entry prices, booking requirements, and house rules.

Obsession Swing Lounge

Unverified

Ottawa, Ontario

On-Premise Club

Obsession Swing Lounge is a members-only adult lifestyle and swinger club at 1575 St. Laurent Boulevard in Ottawa, Ontario. Billing itself as the city's premier on-premise swinger venue, it holds a provincial liquor licence and requires couples and select singles to register as annual members before attending their first event. The interior centres on an upscale lounge with a resident DJ — guests are encouraged to make requests — designed for dancing and socialising before moving to the dedicated play areas. A full kitchen delivers appetizers, main courses, and desserts until 1:30am, and drinks are served from the licensed bar. The main lounge and patio are strictly social zones; all sexual contact is confined to the separate designated play areas. The venue is entirely smoke-free, and the dress code holds women to a seductive standard and men to a dapper, club-appropriate appearance. The weekly schedule divides along membership type: Friday nights open the doors to all categories — couples, single men, and single women; Saturdays are restricted to couples and single women, with the limited exception that a single male member may attend only if accompanied by and remaining with a host couple all evening. Annual membership is CAD $50 for couples and single men, and CAD $30 for single women; nightly entry is CAD $40 per couple or single man, while single women enter free. Advance registration is mandatory — no walk-in admission is indicated. House rules ban photos and video during regular hours without explicit management consent and subject approval, prohibit drugs outright, and run a three-complaint escalation system for single men.

Ohio Swings

New Carlisle, OH

On-Premise Club

Ohio Swings describes itself as “a house party that caters to couples and singles 21 and over,” hosted at a private home on a 16-acre country property in New Carlisle, Ohio. Its About page calls them “no pressure laid back parties,” and on-premise play is allowed. Doors open every Wednesday, Friday and Saturday evening, and the events calendar also lists Sunday afternoon meet-and-greet socials. The house has eight private rooms, two showers (one single, one for four people), about 32 lockers, condoms and plenty of parking. Rooms to sleep in are first come, first served and not before 3 am. It also runs themed parties, where dressing to the theme is optional, and special events such as camp-outs. Couples, single men and single women are admitted, with no membership: guests give a cash donation at the door and may stay until morning at no extra charge. It is BYOB because no alcohol is sold, though setups for drinks are supplied. Dress is neat and clean, with no work attire, dirty clothes or sweat pants. Cell phones stay in the car, cameras and recording devices are banned, couples arrive and leave together, consent is required before touching, and drugs and prostitution are not tolerated.